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Episode 598: How To Make Your Ex Regret Breaking Up With You · The Art of Love With Lucia

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  Hi. This is Luke here with the art
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  of love. I'm a dating and relationship.
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  Experts specializing in helping you get your ex back or to get
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  over your ex this week. I want to talk about how to make
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  your ex regret breaking up with you.
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  Yes, that's what we all want. When we've been broken up with
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  even if by some chance we don't want her ex back.
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  We at least want them to regret. The fact they broke up with us
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  which is different than Revenge Revenge.
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  You may or may not want your ex back but If you want to regret
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  it, it's because you want them back.
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  So how do we do that? Well, stay tuned and you'll find
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  out. But first, I want to welcome
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  back my beautiful, no contact Army.
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  As I've mentioned before, I am almost at 100,000 followers.
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  Thanks to you guys. So I've decided how I'm going to
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  give away the free 30 minute coaching sessions with me.
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  I'm actually going to do a separate video when I reach
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  100,000, which is very soon in less than 100 subscribers away.
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  And then you will comment Under that video briefly, tell me your
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  story about your breakup and then why I should choose you.
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  And I will pick five winners, put comment under that video,
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  and I'm not going to make it a premier.
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  So you need to have the notifications on for my channel
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  so that you will know when that video is up.
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  Because I will pick five people who comment in the first 24
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  hours. So if you miss the Video going
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  up after 24 hours. Unfortunately, you won't have a
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  chance to win a session with me. Alright.
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  So make sure you have your notifications on for my channel
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  and if you are new to this Channel and you would like to
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  find out more, I suggest you check out my book, no contact
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  Secrets available at no contact secrets.com, where you can read
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  to feature Afters before purchasing the book.
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  Alright, so regret So when someone breaks up with you they
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  think that they can do better and they think your life is
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  going to be better without you so the way to make them regret
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  it is to show them that they can't do better than you and
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  their life isn't better without you.
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  So I'm going to use a sports analogy.
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  I didn't think I would be talking about sports on this
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  channel but okay, but Sports if you think about it is where you
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  see regret all the time because one team win wins one team
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  loses. So if we're talking about the
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  finals, you know the Super Bowl the World Cup, the NBA Finals,
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  all that one team is going to win the prize and one team is
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  going to be very upset and They're going to regret that
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  they didn't win the prize right there experiencing regret at not
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  winning the prize. So what does that mean?
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  It means that you must become the prize otherwise why were
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  they regret losing you? Right.
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  They won't and the prize or uprise.
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  It doesn't try to convince one of the teams to win.
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  It it doesn't walk the word. The Stanley Cup doesn't walk
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  over to one of the teams and say hey I really want you guys to
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  win, okay? So please win me.
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  I don't want the other team to win me.
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  You guys got to win me, okay? Please win me.
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  That would be funny. So a prize knows it, surprise,
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  and it just sits and waits for somebody to reach the finish
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  line. Or for the end of the game and
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  whoever has the most points wins, right?
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  They don't go chasing anyone. And that is the first step in
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  making sure that you make your ex regret it.
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  You're not going to do it by trying to tell them you're not
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  going to it with words. So shut up.
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  You're going to do it with your actions.
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  So how do you become the prize? A prize you fall in love with
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  yourself? Everyone is a reflection of you.
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  So when you change yourself, when you love yourself, everyone
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  else will mirror how you feel about yourself.
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  It's like, speaking of mirrors, looking into a mirror and you
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  want that mirror to smile at you or the reflection in the mirror,
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  not the mirror, however, that reflection is not going to
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  smile, unless you smile first. So first, you smile and then the
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  reflection in the mirror will smile, it will change.
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  Therefore, you must first thing that you're the prize.
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  You must love yourself and think, hey, I'm the best.
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  Why wouldn't someone want to be with me?
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  And years ago, just before Madonna, hit it really big.
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  She was in Italy filming her video for Like a Virgin.
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  It was set in Venice and she'd had some minor hits before that
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  with borderline and holiday but she didn't really hit it big
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  until like a virgin so she wasn't at least shooting her
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  video and a friend of mine someone who later became a
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  friend of mine met her and she signed an album for him which
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  said I'm the best, forget the rest.
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  Anna. And she was not the big star
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  that she later became, but in her mind she already was and she
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  made it happen. She manifested it.
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  So how can you see yourself as the prize?
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  Well, one way to do this, is through affirmations and my
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  absolon, co the link is underneath every single video
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  and podcast hasn't space where you can record three
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  affirmations. And if my clients ask for them,
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  I give them affirmations, they can use.
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  And in fact, one of my clients when I first spoke with him he
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  looked like a prisoner of war. He was on video, he had his head
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  down. The camera angle was up, he
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  looked so sad. I felt so bad for him and so I
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  gave him some affirmations. And two weeks later we talked
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  again, it was like a new guy, I was like, what?
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  What happened to the other guy? You're like a totally different
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  guy and it was because of the affirmations and one of the
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  affirmations I gave him specifically, was, I'm the king
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  of the world. Hey, it worked.
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  Okay, whatever works. And he said women were coming up
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  to him. He was happier and he said that
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  now, he didn't even want his ex back.
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  Okay, so if you do do a session with me, I will give you what
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  affirmations you need to use for yourself.
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  Now another way to become a prize is to level up on all
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  levels and I'm going to speak to just the women for now.
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  But guys, you can listen to into.
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  So most women after a breakup when they've been broken up with
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  or they had to break up with a guy because he wasn't treating
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  them, right. They start posting these thirst
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  traps and that's just not the way to do it.
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  That's basic your ex knows. What you're doing.
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  So it's not going to have an effect.
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  So, you need to actually show that you are moving on with your
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  life that you're having fun. And also leveling up your looks
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  because men are visually oriented and they will regret
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  losing you. If you level up and you look
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  better, they won't regret losing you.
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  If you start to look worse, I'll tell you that much.
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  So you want to constantly be Rolling up, I'm still leveling
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  up. I look at photos from a year ago
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  and I go. All right all right we're making
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  some improvement here and in a year from now I expect to be
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  even more leveled up. You can keep doing it forever
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  and ever why not? So for guess the forget the
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  thirst traps if just level up and then post your new photos
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  And something else that you can do.
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  I actually talked about in the video titled.
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  I got my, I did everything wrong, but I got my avoidant ex
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  back and it was actually the guy who was broken up with a girl,
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  but the girl triggered him even though she broke up with him
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  because two weeks after she broke up with him, she posted
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  video no photo arose and then her out to dinner, but she
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  didn't. I remember she showed the guy or
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  not so that's another great way to make your Regret breaking up
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  with you because they'll think what is she moving on already
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  that she even care what is going on.
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  And in that video, the guy showed up at her house and he
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  was outside begging and pleading for her to come out.
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  And of course she didn't. So that's our new tool.
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  Our new trick we have the, to drink trick.
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  So, this is another trick where you can even do it just a couple
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  weeks after the break up. You don't even have to wait till
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  usual 30 days. I say to wait.
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  And so you post a photo of one rose Next to your dish at dinner
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  and then you have poor. Sure.
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  There's a dish across from you. So you're not eating alone, you
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  and your rose and it's going to imply that.
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  Hey, you're out to dinner with a guy and he gave you a rose And
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  people say, oh, the jealousy card doesn't work.
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  Well, what have you got to lose? You've already lost him.
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  Can you lose him again, right? And for the guys, You Can level
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  up to obviously, that always helps but women crave Financial
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  Security because it means that their offspring will be taken
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  care of. We as women were biologically
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  wired to want the best mate and often that means someone who's a
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  financially well-off. And so you want to work at
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  becoming successful and I have the best story ever.
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  I am telling you it is the best story ever.
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  A guy becoming super successful after a breakup.
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  Basically he was working somewhere and he met this girl
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  and they started dating and then they lived together for a year
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  and then she broke up with him and she moved out.
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  Then she started dating another guy at the workplace and the
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  first guy was, of course upset because he had to see his ex now
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  with the new guy. And the boss preferred him.
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  So he said, listen, I'll fire him, I don't care.
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  He's like you know it's okay I'll just quit I don't know if
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  he said it like that, that's my interpretation.
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  Okay so he quits he gets an idea for an app and by the way, I
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  know this story because someone who worked there told me the
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  story, most people don't know the story, so he gets an idea
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  for an app. He finds some investors who also
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  believed in the idea and they put together this app which
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  everyone listening probably has used it one time or another and
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  the name of that little app is Tinder.
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  Yes. Tender began as a result of
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  someone being broken up with see not all breakups are bad.
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  In fact, I'm sure he's very, very happy right now that she
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  broke up with him because because of that, he's not worth
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  hundreds of millions of dollars. I don't know if he ever got her
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  back or if you didn't want her back who Was but if he didn't
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  you can bet that she regrets ever breaking up with him.
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  So before I end I just want to say that nothing is going to
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  work to make someone to regret losing you if they are
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  absolutely 100% done with you. Like I said previously about a
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  certain ex of mine even if he won the lottery and had a
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  billion dollars, I would still never get back with him but
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  that's usually not the case. That there were 100 done with
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  you. There's always a little glimmer
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  of hope. So now I want to hear from you.
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  What have you done in the past to make your ex regret breaking
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  up with you and which one of my suggestions are you going to
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  try? Please comment below and in the
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  meantime if you would like my help to get your ex back, you
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  can contact me at the art of love dotnet.
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