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- 0:00Speaker 1: So ready to set go Eddie right now? How many
- 0:03Speaker 1: hours of screen.
- 0:04Speaker 2: Time do you have per day?
- 0:05Speaker 3: Oh? Fuck? Okay.
- 0:12Speaker 1: Welcome to MMHC, your go to mental health podcast.
- 0:16Speaker 3: I'm Eddie Koreo, a licensed professional counselor.
- 0:19Speaker 1: And I'm Justin Romano, a Board certified child and Adolescent psychiatrist.
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- 0:55Speaker 3: I heartma It's gotten better research recently. I was pretty thrilled.
- 1:07Speaker 3: I had one that was like in the five hour range,
- 1:10Speaker 3: like that, you know, not bad. I've definitely seen some
- 1:13Speaker 3: where it's eight. I just hit it. We just started
- 1:17Speaker 3: Summer break two days ago, so that that is something
- 1:21Speaker 3: that worries me a little bit. I'm gonna need to
- 1:24Speaker 3: figure something out. But yeah, I would like to say
- 1:27Speaker 3: I think I've gotten a lot better with it at work.
- 1:29Speaker 3: And actually I can bring this up again later. But
- 1:32Speaker 3: we're moving to a door to door policy at my
- 1:35Speaker 3: school next year, so we're actually gonna do as soon
- 1:38Speaker 3: as kids get into the building until they walk out,
- 1:41Speaker 3: no cell phones anywhere. That means during passing period, during lunch,
- 1:46Speaker 3: if they're a teacher's assistant or an office aid and
- 1:48Speaker 3: they're sitting there and just kind of hanging out, they
- 1:51Speaker 3: just gotta hang out no phones. So the expectation is
- 1:55Speaker 3: that staff and teachers do that too. So I think
- 1:58Speaker 3: that'll help me a ton. I'm just gonna leave it
- 2:00Speaker 3: at my desk and you know, kind of going from there.
- 2:02Speaker 3: But yeah, I feel better about it. Yeah, thanks for
- 2:06Speaker 3: putting me on the spot. What are you at? Like
- 2:07Speaker 3: an hour and a half?
- 2:09Speaker 1: About three mother on average? I mean, not trying to
- 2:13Speaker 1: be like, oh lower than you. But and it went
- 2:17Speaker 1: down after I had a child because he just you know,
- 2:20Speaker 1: he takes a lot of attention and focus.
- 2:23Speaker 3: Yeah, that makes sense.
- 2:24Speaker 1: I got a really funny story too, where the other
- 2:27Speaker 1: day I had let out a flatulence.
- 2:31Speaker 2: I had tooted.
- 2:34Speaker 1: Hard to say that I'm trying to be the doctor
- 2:36Speaker 1: persona here on the show. Here hard to say that
- 2:38Speaker 1: I farted in doctor speak. But he actually like came
- 2:41Speaker 1: around and like checked my pants and looked at me
- 2:43Speaker 1: and went poopoos. And I was like, I was like, no,
- 2:49Speaker 1: no poopoos. And then he puts his hand on my shoulder,
- 2:52Speaker 1: it looks me dead in the eye, and goes, let's
- 2:54Speaker 1: change your diaper. I could not believe that he said
- 2:58Speaker 1: that he's two years.
- 2:59Speaker 3: Ago, that he's been wearing a diaper for a week.
- 3:03Speaker 2: I have to at his recommendation.
- 3:06Speaker 3: Yeah, no choice, doctor's orders.
- 3:10Speaker 1: So today we are talking smartphones and tech addiction. One
- 3:15Speaker 1: of the reasons why we wanted to talk about this
- 3:16Speaker 1: is because the tech talk that I did back.
- 3:19Speaker 2: In twenty twenty two.
- 3:21Speaker 1: Man, it's already been a long time now, twenty twenty Yeah,
- 3:23Speaker 1: November twenty twenty two, it's almost is at half a
- 3:27Speaker 1: million views, so it's I know.
- 3:29Speaker 2: It's been. It's been totally wild.
- 3:31Speaker 1: I've had people reach out to me from all over
- 3:34Speaker 1: the country wanting to talk about cell phone and tech
- 3:37Speaker 1: addiction stuff. So it's been such a cool thing, a
- 3:39Speaker 1: great way to meet people, a great way to talk
- 3:41Speaker 1: to people, great way to connect. So we wanted to
- 3:43Speaker 1: give a little update on the situation in these past
- 3:46Speaker 1: couple of years and see if there's been any big
- 3:49Speaker 1: changes and updates. So that's why we were doing this today.
- 3:52Speaker 3: Justin talked about a lot has happened. There was the
- 3:55Speaker 3: there's a bunch of states led by Colorado suing Meta.
- 4:00Speaker 3: There haven't really been any updates since twenty twenty three,
- 4:02Speaker 3: but I think one of our previous episodes we talked
- 4:04Speaker 3: about how there's a quote unquote whistleblower in Meta that
- 4:08Speaker 3: basically was like, hey, we're kind of doing some sketchy
- 4:11Speaker 3: stuff here, like we need to stop. And I think
- 4:14Speaker 3: they even helped to stop the release of a was
- 4:17Speaker 3: it an Instagram for like children or for preteen something
- 4:20Speaker 3: like that. Meta was working on something and right around
- 4:23Speaker 3: the same time the plans got squashed because all the
- 4:26Speaker 3: stuff came out. Some other updates include Australia they banned
- 4:31Speaker 3: social media for children under sixteen. This actually places a
- 4:34Speaker 3: burden of responsibility on tech companies, which is something that
- 4:37Speaker 3: Justin has talked about for a long time and that
- 4:38Speaker 3: we've kind of advocated for tech companies face a fine
- 4:42Speaker 3: of thirty two million dollars if they do not stop
- 4:44Speaker 3: children from logging in. So there's been some changes. What
- 4:47Speaker 3: else have we seen, justin in the last couple of years.
- 4:49Speaker 1: In the state of Florida, they are the process of
- 4:52Speaker 1: banning social media accounts for anyone under the age of fourteen,
- 4:55Speaker 1: So go Florida.
- 4:57Speaker 2: That's pretty cool.
- 4:58Speaker 1: South Korea banned video games for children under sixteen during
- 5:02Speaker 1: the timeframe of midnight to six am, which that would
- 5:07Speaker 1: have affected me when I was younger if I had
- 5:10Speaker 1: lived in South Korea.
- 5:12Speaker 3: That's prime gaming time.
- 5:14Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I remember playing games until the sun came
- 5:18Speaker 1: up over the summer, especially like I remember like getting
- 5:22Speaker 1: to bed and looking at my window and being like,
- 5:24Speaker 1: oh the sun is coming up now, maybe I should
- 5:26Speaker 1: maybe we should sleep more.
- 5:29Speaker 3: The Netherlands has banned mobile devices in the classroom, which
- 5:32Speaker 3: is kind of what we're trying to do. And then
- 5:34Speaker 3: many European countries require parental consent if teens are to
- 5:38Speaker 3: use social media, so kind of a big deal. It's
- 5:42Speaker 3: it's nice to see some changes. I don't know what
- 5:45Speaker 3: made what's going to be best, but I mean, you
- 5:48Speaker 3: got to try something different. This is an ever changing beast.
- 5:51Speaker 3: We've talked about it for years, We're going to talk
- 5:53Speaker 3: about it for years, probably until we retire, and it's
- 5:56Speaker 3: something that changes all the time. But we've got to
- 5:57Speaker 3: try different things because if we don't, then you can
- 6:00Speaker 3: never expect anything to change.
- 6:01Speaker 1: So it seems like the needle is finally turning right.
- 6:05Speaker 1: People are starting to understand that tech and screen addiction
- 6:09Speaker 1: is a real thing and we need to start making
- 6:11Speaker 1: big societal changes to try and combat it. One of
- 6:16Speaker 1: the biggest studies that the United States has going right
- 6:19Speaker 1: now on screen addiction is the ABCD study, the Adolescent
- 6:23Speaker 1: Brain Cognitive Development Study, which is the most comprehensive study
- 6:27Speaker 1: in the US going on right now on brain development
- 6:29Speaker 1: kids with screens, and they're starting to show some pretty
- 6:32Speaker 1: important findings. From the Dandelion Training and Development website which
- 6:36Speaker 1: kind of summarized some of the recent findings, they found
- 6:39Speaker 1: that screen uses causes children to score lower on tests
- 6:43Speaker 1: of language, literacy, critical thinking, and reasoning. The study found
- 6:47Speaker 1: that screen times correlated to a higher number of depression symptoms,
- 6:51Speaker 1: specifically video chats, texting videos, video games. These were the
- 6:56Speaker 1: screen types with the greatest association for depression symptoms. They
- 7:00Speaker 1: also found that screen exposure mediated the rewards system development
- 7:06Speaker 1: and the inhibitory control system of the brain, like over
- 7:09Speaker 1: a two year period of studying this. So these studies
- 7:13Speaker 1: are showing that there is brain development changes because of
- 7:17Speaker 1: how much our kids are consuming screens.
- 7:19Speaker 3: Did I ever tell you that we have an AP
- 7:22Speaker 3: psych at my school as a class and I asked
- 7:25Speaker 3: the teacher if I could do a like a AP
- 7:29Speaker 3: question for fun, just to see how we do. I
- 7:33Speaker 3: tell you, I don't think this is like a month ago. Yeah, yeah,
- 7:36Speaker 3: so it just clicked right now. I've totally forgot to
- 7:39Speaker 3: tell you. But the so what it's called the evidence
- 7:42Speaker 3: based question, So if there's anyone out there that's taken
- 7:45Speaker 3: an AP test recently or that's going to take one whatever,
- 7:48Speaker 3: And basically what it was is that I had a
- 7:49Speaker 3: prompt and the prompt was using the articles below, like
- 7:54Speaker 3: the short snippets create a hypothesis and like talk about
- 7:59Speaker 3: why or related to a psychological theory that helps support
- 8:07Speaker 3: it or whatever and over yeah, something like that. So
- 8:10Speaker 3: my overall hypothesis was that the excessive use of social
- 8:14Speaker 3: media and screens negatively impacts the overall well being of
- 8:17Speaker 3: teens and young adults, and so I must now, yeah,
- 8:21Speaker 3: thank you, I'm looking at it now. And one of them,
- 8:24Speaker 3: one of the sources said that, and these are real sources,
- 8:27Speaker 3: so this is not just pulling shit out of my ass,
- 8:29Speaker 3: this is like legit. One of them was that researchers
- 8:31Speaker 3: found a positive association between loneliness and longer screen time,
- 8:35Speaker 3: and the other sources found that researchers found a negative
- 8:38Speaker 3: association with social well being and social media use. So
- 8:41Speaker 3: I just used that along with what was it, Erickson's
- 8:45Speaker 3: theory of psychosocial development and then social learning theory to
- 8:49Speaker 3: like support my argument. And so, yeah, I just made
- 8:52Speaker 3: me think about that.
- 8:54Speaker 1: What was your score, he said, I would.
- 8:56Speaker 3: Have got a five. Yeah, at least on that one,
- 8:59Speaker 3: he said, I would scored well.
- 9:01Speaker 1: Which is the highest score at Yeah.
- 9:04Speaker 3: I did tell him. I was like, I couldn't remember
- 9:06Speaker 3: the exact names of social learning theory or eric'son psychosocial development,
- 9:10Speaker 3: but I think about that stuff all the time when
- 9:11Speaker 3: I'm talking to parents and kids, so I did have
- 9:14Speaker 3: to look that up. So I'm fine with moving my
- 9:16Speaker 3: score down a little bit. But I thought that was
- 9:18Speaker 3: pretty good, not being in school for a while.
- 9:21Speaker 2: And how much chat do youpt?
- 9:23Speaker 1: Did you use on.
- 9:24Speaker 3: Zero off the dome? Yeah? Old school? Yeah, tablet and
- 9:29Speaker 3: fucking chiseling' yep.
- 9:32Speaker 2: That's oh yeah, that's what we had to do growing up, right,
- 9:38Speaker 2: that's right.
- 9:39Speaker 3: Well along the lines of my quick research with the
- 9:43Speaker 3: ap psychology Test practice questions, we have some stats in facts.
- 9:47Speaker 3: So from the cdc UH they said that about half
- 9:51Speaker 3: of teenagers get four plus hours of screen time per day.
- 9:54Speaker 3: I'd be willing to bet we can probably do half
- 9:57Speaker 3: get more than we can start the bottom like higher,
- 10:00Speaker 3: but maybe I'm just being an ass They also found
- 10:04Speaker 3: that sixty percent of black teens had over four hours
- 10:06Speaker 3: per day and that overall this disproportionately impacts impacts black people.
- 10:12Speaker 3: Kids with four plus hours of screen time have a
- 10:14Speaker 3: twenty five point nine percent chance of also being depressed,
- 10:18Speaker 3: which makes sense along with rates of anxiety. So if
- 10:21Speaker 3: you look at the numbers, children teens who get over
- 10:24Speaker 3: four hours have about a twenty seven point one percent
- 10:27Speaker 3: rate of anxiety, while those that get under four hours
- 10:30Speaker 3: are at twelve point three percent. It's a pretty big
- 10:32Speaker 3: junk over over double. Another association they found was that
- 10:37Speaker 3: lower parental education was associated with higher screen times than kids,
- 10:41Speaker 3: and these were based off of self reports of screen time.
- 10:45Speaker 3: So one thing to think about is that they might
- 10:47Speaker 3: be under reporting, which I might have done right at
- 10:49Speaker 3: the start of this episode. I don't think I did,
- 10:51Speaker 3: but just things to take into account from the CDC stats.
- 10:55Speaker 1: One thing I've noticed in I talked to kids about
- 10:57Speaker 1: the screen time quite often is that they do under
- 11:00Speaker 1: report it. They'll tell be like, oh, yeah, it's totally
- 11:02Speaker 1: like two three hours a day, and it'll be like,
- 11:04Speaker 1: pull out your phone, show me your screen time app.
- 11:07Speaker 1: It's always higher than what they say because there isn't
- 11:10Speaker 1: an amount of shame that goes with it, an amount
- 11:12Speaker 1: of trying to underreport, because especially with parents, there's also
- 11:17Speaker 1: there's always this like transactional relationship where it's like they
- 11:20Speaker 1: don't want parents to know how much they are on
- 11:22Speaker 1: their phone because they don't want screen time limits enforced.
- 11:25Speaker 1: So there's reasons why that they're doing this, but I
- 11:28Speaker 1: think it's really important to understand why.
- 11:31Speaker 3: You know, what else typically gets underreported by teens when
- 11:35Speaker 3: you ask them.
- 11:36Speaker 2: Drug use, drug use, yeah, bingo.
- 11:41Speaker 3: It's like, I don't know if I've ever heard it
- 11:43Speaker 3: in a training or maybe it's just like a trick
- 11:45Speaker 3: of the trade. But when I was doing drug and
- 11:48Speaker 3: alcohol assessments, when I do like the what do we
- 11:51Speaker 3: used to call them integrated assessments or his mental health
- 11:53Speaker 3: and drug and alcohol, the advice I was given was
- 11:56Speaker 3: that anytime you ask specifically about a number of drinks
- 11:59Speaker 3: or time smoking and all that, you can kind of
- 12:02Speaker 3: assume it's a little higher because teams just tend to
- 12:04Speaker 3: under report, and honestly, we can go back. Adults tend
- 12:07Speaker 3: to under report too. I don't think it's just a
- 12:08Speaker 3: teenager thing.
- 12:10Speaker 1: Totally, especially in a healthcare setting where you're like, I
- 12:12Speaker 1: don't really want to tell my dentist how much I'm
- 12:15Speaker 1: smoking right now?
- 12:16Speaker 3: Right? Yeahah, yeah, that's fair.
- 12:19Speaker 1: So one thing I've heard a lot people speculating is like,
- 12:24Speaker 1: it seems like this younger generation just isn't driving as much,
- 12:28Speaker 1: they're not getting their licenses as much. So I wanted
- 12:31Speaker 1: to look into it, and I found an article from
- 12:34Speaker 1: USA Today which analyzed data from the US Department of Transportation,
- 12:37Speaker 1: which I have no reason to doubt at this point,
- 12:40Speaker 1: but between nineteen eighty three and twenty twenty two, the
- 12:42Speaker 1: number of sixteen year old driver's licenses is declining from
- 12:47Speaker 1: about one half to a quarter, so that's like a
- 12:50Speaker 1: lot less people driving at sixteen. In the rate of
- 12:54Speaker 1: eighteen year olds with driver license driver's licenses has dropped
- 12:57Speaker 1: from eighty percent to about sixty percent.
- 13:00Speaker 3: As someone in the schools, I feel like I can
- 13:03Speaker 3: anecdotally agree with this. Yeah, I think a lot less
- 13:08Speaker 3: of our older sophomores and then junior seniors are driving
- 13:12Speaker 3: or getting parking permits like people were. Just yeah, that's interesting.
- 13:16Speaker 3: Along with the article, they also mentioned that since the
- 13:18Speaker 3: year two thousand, the number of sixteen year olds old
- 13:21Speaker 3: sixteen year olds with driver's license has decreased nearly twenty
- 13:25Speaker 3: seven percent, so a quarter. The article mentions that the
- 13:28Speaker 3: increase in technology is a big reason why people are
- 13:30Speaker 3: opting out of driving. They get their community online and
- 13:33Speaker 3: not in person, and there's also more writes share options
- 13:36Speaker 3: that there were in the past. I think that's a
- 13:38Speaker 3: I feel like that's an interesting point. The community online,
- 13:42Speaker 3: same thing with it and not even like people who
- 13:44Speaker 3: aren't in your general vicinity. I think even your friends,
- 13:49Speaker 3: everyone's snapchatting and FaceTime each other and like talking virtually
- 13:53Speaker 3: instead of like needing to be right next to each other.
- 13:56Speaker 1: The screens have completely changed the young person experience in
- 14:01Speaker 1: the world to where for hundreds of thousands of years
- 14:05Speaker 1: you had to leave your house or at least bring
- 14:08Speaker 1: your friends to your house. You had to meet your
- 14:09Speaker 1: friends in person if you wanted to interact with them,
- 14:12Speaker 1: And now there are so many different ways to interact
- 14:14Speaker 1: with your friends outside of the house or sorry, in
- 14:17Speaker 1: your house with screens. Plus, young people also gravitate more
- 14:21Speaker 1: towards public transportation and biking, which is a good.
- 14:25Speaker 2: Thing in my opinion.
- 14:26Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, So one thing I'll add is I feel
- 14:29Speaker 3: like there's also been not that it was ever a
- 14:31Speaker 3: negative thing or should have been a negative thing, but
- 14:34Speaker 3: the normalization of online friends and people like saying like, oh,
- 14:38Speaker 3: I have an online friend. I met this friend online.
- 14:41Speaker 3: I feel like that was like stigmatized before, but now
- 14:44Speaker 3: it seems like less and less stigmatized, Like it's it
- 14:47Speaker 3: feels more accepted. I remember seeing or hearing of like
- 14:50Speaker 3: kids or even adults who met their like gaming friend
- 14:54Speaker 3: for the first time in like six years, like they
- 14:56Speaker 3: met online and they just started gaming together all the time,
- 14:59Speaker 3: and that being kind of like, oh, that's kind of
- 15:01Speaker 3: like weird or you know, people kind of like talking
- 15:04Speaker 3: down on it. But now it feels like pretty normalized
- 15:06Speaker 3: for people to make friends online and them having them
- 15:10Speaker 3: at the same value as like people that they know
- 15:12Speaker 3: in person. It's something I've thought about totally.
- 15:15Speaker 1: And if you're spending hours talking to these people, you
- 15:20Speaker 1: really can't build a solid relationship with them. So I
- 15:23Speaker 1: know sometimes people look down on those types of relationships.
- 15:26Speaker 1: But I even remember being in junior high and one
- 15:29Speaker 1: of my best friends had a video game buddy that
- 15:31Speaker 1: we would play with that we had never met in
- 15:33Speaker 1: real life, and he like lived in Missouri or something,
- 15:37Speaker 1: and we would play with him like all the time,
- 15:38Speaker 1: and I got to know him a little bit too,
- 15:40Speaker 1: and it was just it felt a little weird at
- 15:41Speaker 1: the time, like being like, I know this guy, but
- 15:43Speaker 1: I've never actually.
- 15:44Speaker 2: Met this guy.
- 15:45Speaker 1: Yeah, but now it's become commonplace.
- 15:48Speaker 3: Yeah. In the state of Oregon right now, it's a
- 15:51Speaker 3: long session right legislatively, so people were trying to get
- 15:53Speaker 3: a bunch of bills passing all that. There's actually a
- 15:56Speaker 3: bill that was moving through and went through the House
- 15:59Speaker 3: and then it ends of dying in the Senate that
- 16:01Speaker 3: was going to ban cell phones from schools that they
- 16:05Speaker 3: were going to basically require every school district to do
- 16:09Speaker 3: a bell to bell rule ultimately didn't pass and it
- 16:13Speaker 3: died there. But it sounds like what they ended up at,
- 16:17Speaker 3: or what we're going to move forward with, is there
- 16:20Speaker 3: is going to be like a quote unquote cell phone ruling,
- 16:24Speaker 3: but it's basically up to every school district in the
- 16:26Speaker 3: state to have their own. Basically, every school district is
- 16:29Speaker 3: required to have a rule. Every school district is allowed
- 16:31Speaker 3: to choose what their rule is. So even more I
- 16:36Speaker 3: would be willing to bet that it's not just an
- 16:38Speaker 3: Oregon thing that's passing, right, the other states are probably
- 16:41Speaker 3: doing very similar things.
- 16:43Speaker 1: Yeah, it seems like it, and we'll dive more into
- 16:46Speaker 1: those and keep giving you updates as they come, especially
- 16:49Speaker 1: once they are confirmed by states senates and get put
- 16:54Speaker 1: into place. So some of the recommendations, because we always
- 16:58Speaker 1: like giving you recommendations on the show to how to
- 17:00Speaker 1: live the healthiest life possible. So for screen time, and
- 17:05Speaker 1: I'm talking kids, I'm talking parents, I'm talking everyone, create
- 17:10Speaker 1: screen free times and places, family dinners, family game nights,
- 17:15Speaker 1: times where we say, hey, everyone's putting their phone away. No,
- 17:19Speaker 1: one's using their phones right now. Let's take a break
- 17:21Speaker 1: and let's be together in person, no distractions. Another thing
- 17:26Speaker 1: that people like to do are tech detoxes, like plan
- 17:30Speaker 1: a trip with no phones or no tech. I think
- 17:33Speaker 1: that's why so many young people are really getting into camping,
- 17:36Speaker 1: is because it's kind of a natural way to say, like, Okay,
- 17:39Speaker 1: I'm not gonna have my phone. There's no service out there,
- 17:41Speaker 1: so I'm going to leave it. Plus, one of the
- 17:44Speaker 1: things that I try and advocate for is like leaving
- 17:47Speaker 1: your phone in a place where you can't access it
- 17:50Speaker 1: and just like giving yourself a whole day, like if
- 17:53Speaker 1: you just like leave it on your nightstand with the
- 17:55Speaker 1: ringer on so that if anyone's really trying to get
- 17:57Speaker 1: a hold of you or get in touch with you,
- 17:59Speaker 1: you'll know what it is. But not having it in
- 18:02Speaker 1: your pocket, not having it with you and on your
- 18:04Speaker 1: person all the time to check because I notice if
- 18:07Speaker 1: I don't have my phone on me, I feel myself
- 18:10Speaker 1: reaching for my phone constantly, and that feels like addiction
- 18:14Speaker 1: to me, and I don't like that. So little tips.
- 18:18Speaker 3: Some other ones could be things like no phone phones
- 18:20Speaker 3: or video games in the room during bedtime, just trying
- 18:23Speaker 3: to especially if you have all the just like the
- 18:26Speaker 3: it's not letting you fall asleep when you have a
- 18:28Speaker 3: especially because I have my brightness up a lot. But
- 18:30Speaker 3: when you have your phone right in your face or
- 18:32Speaker 3: you're gonna get dryin in your face, you're not really
- 18:34Speaker 3: prepping for bedtime. Your body's not getting ready for it.
- 18:38Speaker 3: Screen time limits are always a good idea. It helps
- 18:41Speaker 3: just prevent the problem from ballooning. I know it can
- 18:43Speaker 3: be hard. I know it can be pretty difficult, but
- 18:46Speaker 3: that's that's always a good option if you're the adult
- 18:49Speaker 3: in the situation trying to set a good example that's
- 18:51Speaker 3: going to fall to us this next school year. I'm
- 18:54Speaker 3: gonna do my best. I'm gonna just so usually we'll
- 18:56Speaker 3: stand in the in the hall in between passing periods
- 18:59Speaker 3: just like see students and you know, be available. I'm
- 19:02Speaker 3: just gonna have to leave my phone in the office
- 19:03Speaker 3: and not pull it out, and you know, got to
- 19:05Speaker 3: try to set a good example. I was in a
- 19:07Speaker 3: video chat like a meeting and virtual meeting the other
- 19:10Speaker 3: day where this high school in the area had implemented
- 19:14Speaker 3: kind of this program that just helps overall with like
- 19:16Speaker 3: school culture and like togetherness and connectedness to school. And
- 19:20Speaker 3: one thing that he said really stuck out and have
- 19:23Speaker 3: thought about in a lot of different instances, But basically
- 19:25Speaker 3: what he said was that with something new like this,
- 19:28Speaker 3: you're gonna have to expect that as the adult, you're
- 19:31Speaker 3: gonna have to take on a lot of the responsibility
- 19:33Speaker 3: in the beginning. And it's not because the kids don't care.
- 19:36Speaker 3: It's not because the kids are just trying to like
- 19:39Speaker 3: screw around. It's just one of those things that is
- 19:41Speaker 3: right now. So I think with this is the same thing,
- 19:44Speaker 3: as the adults, we're gonna have to lead by example
- 19:47Speaker 3: and start to kind of carry the heavy load in
- 19:49Speaker 3: the beginning because it's gonna be a shift. I I
- 19:53Speaker 3: don't know how it's gonna go. We get it back
- 19:56Speaker 3: in August, but we'll give it a shot.
- 19:59Speaker 1: And it might be hard, but I'm guessing it'll get
- 20:01Speaker 1: easier with time, and before you know it, it'll be
- 20:04Speaker 1: second nature. We'll realize, like, oh man, I can't believe
- 20:06Speaker 1: we ever allowed phones in our schools, and I can't
- 20:10Speaker 1: believe we allowed this distraction to be in our school
- 20:13Speaker 1: twenty four to seven in the past.
- 20:23Speaker 3: Some other things can be to consider, only allowing social
- 20:26Speaker 3: media at older ages, or even not at all, continue
- 20:29Speaker 3: to advocate for legal change. I think it's been cool
- 20:31Speaker 3: to see different states and places trying to make changes
- 20:35Speaker 3: and try to enforce some things, not just community wide,
- 20:39Speaker 3: but you know, state wide and even state to state.
- 20:43Speaker 3: We also continue to advocate that tech companies are held
- 20:45Speaker 3: responsible because ultimately they knew what they were doing. Mark Zuckerberg, TikTok,
- 20:52Speaker 3: everybody else whoever made snapchat, YouTube, all that stuff. They
- 20:57Speaker 3: ultimately have known what they're doing, and they've taken advantage
- 20:59Speaker 3: of it. I saw a TikTok video the other day
- 21:03Speaker 3: where they talked about how social media has really shifted
- 21:07Speaker 3: from it used to be a chronological thing where you'd
- 21:11Speaker 3: want to see what your friends were doing and see
- 21:14Speaker 3: posts in chronological order, but now it's really shifted to
- 21:17Speaker 3: like an algorithm based thing where you want to see
- 21:19Speaker 3: new things that you're not really they're not following, or
- 21:22Speaker 3: that might be of interest to you, and these tech
- 21:24Speaker 3: companies have really taken advantage of that. You kind of
- 21:26Speaker 3: see it all over. I deactivated my Facebook a while ago,
- 21:29Speaker 3: but before I did, I felt like I was seeing
- 21:31Speaker 3: more things that were recommended to me than like people
- 21:35Speaker 3: I followed, and then on Instagram, same thing I'm getting,
- 21:38Speaker 3: you know, stuff that I'm like, I don't even follow
- 21:39Speaker 3: these people. I don't what the hell is who are
- 21:42Speaker 3: these people? I like, yeah, you know, seeing It's just
- 21:46Speaker 3: it's it's way more algorithm based and way more trying
- 21:49Speaker 3: to get you hooked into the app than it is.
- 21:52Speaker 3: Let me just see what Justin and Dana are posting, right,
- 21:55Speaker 3: it's way more, way more the algorithm stuff. And then
- 21:58Speaker 3: and they know what they're doing.
- 22:00Speaker 1: A big reason why we got to hold those tech
- 22:01Speaker 1: companies accountable. On the tech Talk, actually someone had put
- 22:06Speaker 1: a comment on there and said, like he's really going
- 22:09Speaker 1: after the tech companies, Like is this guy still alive?
- 22:14Speaker 2: When I commented on.
- 22:15Speaker 1: It, it was like alive and kick It's hell. I
- 22:20Speaker 1: saw a picture today too of it was like a
- 22:24Speaker 1: picture from nineteen seventy eight, and it was like a
- 22:26Speaker 1: bunch of old white dudes swearing on a bible under oath,
- 22:30Speaker 1: and it said, these are the tobacco company CEOs swearing
- 22:34Speaker 1: under oath that their product is not addictive. Wild companies
- 22:40Speaker 1: and big corporations are going to lie through their teeth
- 22:44Speaker 1: to protect their profits. So we have to hold them accountable.
- 22:49Speaker 1: That was the only way we got big change on
- 22:52Speaker 1: the tobacco industry. And I bring up the tobacco industry
- 22:57Speaker 1: a lot because that is a big success story from
- 23:00Speaker 1: us from a societal standpoint, where we were able to
- 23:03Speaker 1: turn things around. There have been other examples, especially like
- 23:07Speaker 1: the food industry, where we have not been able to
- 23:10Speaker 1: turn things around. We have not been able to hold
- 23:13Speaker 1: food companies accountable for causing the obesity crisis. So we
- 23:17Speaker 1: can either help this thing or make it worse. And
- 23:21Speaker 1: the first and best thing that we can do is say, hey,
- 23:24Speaker 1: you're making us all sick. You have to be accountable
- 23:28Speaker 1: for this too, because companies love passing the responsibility onto people.
- 23:33Speaker 1: Another big example of that is global warming. How they've
- 23:37Speaker 1: tried to say, oh, how can you reduce your carbon footprint?
- 23:40Speaker 1: How can you make a difference, instead of saying, like,
- 23:42Speaker 1: how can we stop polluting and raping the earth?
- 23:47Speaker 3: I'll tell you that shit kind of worked because I
- 23:49Speaker 3: feel like I used to use straws for sure, and
- 23:51Speaker 3: now I never They fucking got me.
- 23:58Speaker 1: It's the guilt, right, I mean, it's effective strategy and
- 24:01Speaker 1: that's why they do it.
- 24:02Speaker 3: Same thing with plastic bags. We got a bunch of
- 24:05Speaker 3: reusable bags. That's all we use.
- 24:09Speaker 2: That what I'm okay with.
- 24:10Speaker 3: It's a good system.
- 24:12Speaker 1: Yeah, but they shouldn't have just been given they still
- 24:15Speaker 1: we use millions of plastic bags every year at those stores,
- 24:20Speaker 1: and if they just made a dedicated effort to stop,
- 24:23Speaker 1: we wouldn't use them.
- 24:24Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 24:25Speaker 1: So some discussion questions for today, like what are some
- 24:28Speaker 1: extreme cases?
- 24:30Speaker 2: Can anything we're tech?
- 24:34Speaker 1: You've seen it really get in the way of young
- 24:36Speaker 1: people's lives or adults lives.
- 24:38Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I've seen instances where kids have full
- 24:41Speaker 3: on lack of a better word, just meltdown because they're
- 24:44Speaker 3: not they don't have their phone. Hey, you gotta put
- 24:47Speaker 3: your phone away? No, No, I can't. Well no, you
- 24:50Speaker 3: got to go back to No. I like, all right,
- 24:53Speaker 3: I guess we're calling home, or you know, kid pushing
- 24:56Speaker 3: a staff out of the way to try to get
- 24:58Speaker 3: their phone, or a kid reaching out a staff's arm
- 25:01Speaker 3: and scratching it up and an attempt to get their phone. Like,
- 25:04Speaker 3: we've seen it a good amount and it's just reactions
- 25:09Speaker 3: that don't seem to fit what's going on in the moment,
- 25:12Speaker 3: don't seem to fit the environment, but it's just what
- 25:16Speaker 3: our kids have. They've gotten addicted. Yeah, we'll say that
- 25:21Speaker 3: they've gotten addicted or highly highly dependable dependent on the phones.
- 25:25Speaker 3: And it's really tough. It's really tough to break that.
- 25:28Speaker 1: I would say for my kids that I see that
- 25:30Speaker 1: have like ten plus around twelve even.
- 25:33Speaker 2: More hours per day.
- 25:34Speaker 1: Yeah, they just they're highly anxious, they're super socially awkward,
- 25:39Speaker 1: they don't have any people skills, they don't have any hobbies.
- 25:43Speaker 1: All they do is screens, and they're just not really
- 25:47Speaker 1: living a full life. So that's one of my main
- 25:51Speaker 1: messages to kids. It's like my wife gives this example
- 25:54Speaker 1: all the time of on your gravestone, do you want
- 25:59Speaker 1: it to say like how many hours you spent on
- 26:03Speaker 1: your phone? Or do you want it to say all
- 26:05Speaker 1: the things you did in life? Like what's more important
- 26:09Speaker 1: is just staring at that screen or actually living your life.
- 26:13Speaker 1: So trying to get people to understand that that the
- 26:15Speaker 1: life you live on your phone just isn't nearly as
- 26:18Speaker 1: fulfilling as the life you can live in person.
- 26:20Speaker 3: We've talked about it, but like, what are some some
- 26:22Speaker 3: positives that screens in tech can provide?
- 26:25Speaker 1: You know, there's there's lots. The thing is, they just
- 26:28Speaker 1: have to be done in moderation. I've seen a lot
- 26:31Speaker 1: of kids get some really great drugs on Snapchat, and
- 26:35Speaker 1: you know, I think that's an awesome thing.
- 26:37Speaker 3: Just kidding, Okay. The semi funny thing about that is
- 26:43Speaker 3: when when like police departments or like county officials will
- 26:48Speaker 3: send out like these are what these emojis mean? And
- 26:51Speaker 3: then like you talk to kids and like, what the
- 26:53Speaker 3: fuck is that?
- 26:56Speaker 2: What?
- 26:57Speaker 3: Who talks like that? Yeah, we just there's a disconnect.
- 27:04Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a disconnect.
- 27:05Speaker 1: And I know we talked a lot about it on
- 27:06Speaker 1: our last episode too. But I do like the fact
- 27:10Speaker 1: that kids can be connected, that there are a ton
- 27:13Speaker 1: of great tools on cell phones that kids can use,
- 27:18Speaker 1: and you know, there are some good things. It's just
- 27:20Speaker 1: it's gotten so out of hand. That's that the hours
- 27:23Speaker 1: and hours of screen time every day is really when
- 27:25Speaker 1: you run into the problems.
- 27:26Speaker 3: Yeah, I think the same thing, the connection. You can
- 27:28Speaker 3: still have the positives the way things have been made
- 27:32Speaker 3: easier because of screens and tech. We were just talking
- 27:36Speaker 3: earlier about plane tickets. I can get my plane ticket
- 27:38Speaker 3: on my phone. I don't got to go print anything.
- 27:40Speaker 3: I don't got to go go to the stand. I
- 27:43Speaker 3: can take care of all that. I can do all
- 27:44Speaker 3: this thing, Like there's just so much. I can order
- 27:47Speaker 3: a lift when I get you know, I went to
- 27:49Speaker 3: South Korea in November and I could just order an
- 27:54Speaker 3: uber from the fucking airport. Like, man, it's so easy,
- 27:58Speaker 3: you know. Yeah, It's made it's good life easier for sure.
- 28:03Speaker 3: What about Okay, so you are a father, what are
- 28:05Speaker 3: you going to do screen time wise with Liam? What
- 28:08Speaker 3: are we doing and for any potential future children or
- 28:11Speaker 3: what would you tell parents in terms of like what
- 28:13Speaker 3: could be helpful. It's not a one size fits all, but.
- 28:16Speaker 1: Trying to lay it as much as possible. Try and
- 28:19Speaker 1: not give kids phones until a set age. I know
- 28:23Speaker 1: it's so hard, and I know that kids are going
- 28:26Speaker 1: to whine and complain, and I know I've talked about
- 28:28Speaker 1: like third graders who have told me like I feel
- 28:31Speaker 1: like an outcast because I'm the only one in my
- 28:32Speaker 1: class who doesn't have a phone. And it's really tough too,
- 28:36Speaker 1: because we try and not give my son our phones,
- 28:40Speaker 1: and then of course he hangs out with grandparents for
- 28:42Speaker 1: a day and and he's on the phone the whole time,
- 28:45Speaker 1: and he asks for it, he requests it, but just
- 28:48Speaker 1: trying to lay it. If you do give phones, set
- 28:51Speaker 1: screen time limits, try and set up some sort of
- 28:53Speaker 1: parental control stuff, so you know, they're not getting into
- 28:57Speaker 1: the things they should not be getting into, communicating with
- 28:59Speaker 1: the people should not be communicating with, because that phone
- 29:02Speaker 1: literally connects them with any one on earth.
- 29:06Speaker 2: That's wild.
- 29:08Speaker 3: You ever heard of the bark phone. Yeah, yeah, it's
- 29:12Speaker 3: very popular. Yeah, I know, I know a bunch of
- 29:14Speaker 3: kids that have one. It looks just like which is good.
- 29:19Speaker 3: I mean, not only does it look, but it is.
- 29:21Speaker 3: It's just a regular kind of Samsung phone and you
- 29:25Speaker 3: can either get the phone or you can get the app.
- 29:27Speaker 3: But they're all kind of helpful and helping to limit
- 29:29Speaker 3: things that kids are doing. If you if you really
- 29:32Speaker 3: feel like it's time to give your kid a phone,
- 29:33Speaker 3: there's ways that you can help protect kind of what's
- 29:36Speaker 3: going on. And I've even heard of like parents like hey,
- 29:39Speaker 3: I saw my kid type. I mean, we've gotten kids
- 29:42Speaker 3: have gotten busted with drugs in their backpack because someone
- 29:45Speaker 3: that texted them something and their mom'saw it or their
- 29:48Speaker 3: dad saw it and they told the school. So you know,
- 29:50Speaker 3: it's it is a lot of responsibility, but there's ways
- 29:54Speaker 3: that you can help manage that.
- 29:56Speaker 1: So one thing I wanted to talk about to discussion wise,
- 29:59Speaker 1: like what's still needs to happen in this world to
- 30:02Speaker 1: really start pushing back on cell phone addiction. And you know,
- 30:05Speaker 1: I mentioned in the TED talk that there is no
- 30:09Speaker 1: recognized DSM diagnosis or ICD diagnosis for cell phone addiction.
- 30:16Speaker 1: And you know, the TED talk was years ago and
- 30:18Speaker 1: there is still nothing, Like there is still no ICD code.
- 30:22Speaker 1: There is still no DSM diagnosis for screen time and
- 30:25Speaker 1: phone addiction other than like Internet gaming disorder that's the
- 30:29Speaker 1: only one, or Internet gambling I think is one two
- 30:32Speaker 1: on there too. But yeah, there is nothing that allows
- 30:37Speaker 1: us to identify and label this track it treat it
- 30:42Speaker 1: that this has been a huge failure of I think
- 30:46Speaker 1: the mental health community, in a psychiatric community, that we
- 30:50Speaker 1: have not been able to come together and come down
- 30:53Speaker 1: with a specific set of criteria for creating this diagnosis.
- 30:58Speaker 3: You got to think with the DS like, there's gonna
- 31:01Speaker 3: be something.
- 31:03Speaker 1: And if there's not, I'm gonna be a ks.
- 31:05Speaker 3: Yeah, So I just googled, and of course I get
- 31:09Speaker 3: the Google Gemini to give me like a quick thing,
- 31:12Speaker 3: and then I clicked on an article so from mastermind
- 31:16Speaker 3: Behavior dot com. Uh, there hasn't been anything official with
- 31:19Speaker 3: the DSM six, but you know, historically there's a lot
- 31:23Speaker 3: of time and research and things that goes into the
- 31:26Speaker 3: development of a new version of it, the next version.
- 31:30Speaker 3: If you think back, so the DSM four, between the
- 31:33Speaker 3: four and the five, there's fourteen years, and it looks
- 31:35Speaker 3: like between the DSM three R and the DSM four
- 31:39Speaker 3: there was seven years. So you can assume it's probably somewhere. Well,
- 31:44Speaker 3: I mean right now we're at twelve years. I think
- 31:47Speaker 3: came out in twenty thirteen. The DSM five yes, yes,
- 31:50Speaker 3: or at about twelve years, so you can assume in
- 31:52Speaker 3: the next two to five years maybe something might come out.
- 31:58Speaker 3: So yeah, you gotta you gotta that there's that's next, right,
- 32:02Speaker 3: Like that's yeah, you.
- 32:04Speaker 2: Would hope and if there's not, there's gotta be.
- 32:09Speaker 1: And I talked about this, We're gonna be doing a
- 32:12Speaker 1: podcast with the Ritual Sisters. I was just a guest
- 32:15Speaker 1: on their show, and we talked about how like this
- 32:17Speaker 1: is my conspiracy theory cap coming on that I think
- 32:20Speaker 1: maybe the tech companies are are stopping this from happening,
- 32:24Speaker 1: are changing the way we communicate online and trying to
- 32:27Speaker 1: prevent people from actually coming together. So you know, that's
- 32:31Speaker 1: my conspiracy. I don't know if that's actually I have
- 32:33Speaker 1: no evidence to support that, but there seems like, why
- 32:36Speaker 1: is this not happening. It seems so obvious, it seems
- 32:40Speaker 1: so needed, and it's just we're not even close.
- 32:43Speaker 3: I don't know. Yeah, it's just like when those companies
- 32:45Speaker 3: like try to donate money and the lobbyists. That's what
- 32:49Speaker 3: it is. When they get like lobbyists and shit in
- 32:51Speaker 3: their favor so that things don't go against them. I
- 32:56Speaker 3: don't think that's a conspiracy at all. That feels legit.
- 32:59Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
- 33:01Speaker 3: And then you found as we get ready to wrap up,
- 33:04Speaker 3: you found like an article that links potentially just just
- 33:08Speaker 3: some speculation, just some numbers, but still of interest. It's
- 33:12Speaker 3: something that links screens and autisms, tell autisms, autism, tell
- 33:16Speaker 3: us more. Well.
- 33:17Speaker 1: I know that we just did an episode on autism
- 33:20Speaker 1: and we said there's probably not an environmental factor. But
- 33:24Speaker 1: this was kind of interesting on the American Academy of
- 33:28Speaker 1: Pediatrics website. This there was an article that came out
- 33:31Speaker 1: in twenty twenty four that talked about a journal paper
- 33:35Speaker 1: from Japan and showed that we don't know if there's
- 33:40Speaker 1: a causal relationship between screen time and autism, but in
- 33:45Speaker 1: Japan they did a prospective cohort study of eighty four
- 33:49Speaker 1: thousand kids, so it's like a pretty big study that
- 33:53Speaker 1: showed that the more screen time that boys have, and
- 33:58Speaker 1: that was the surprising thing, is that boys made a
- 34:01Speaker 1: big difference with screen times. So then we actually just
- 34:04Speaker 1: back up and say, the more screen time you had
- 34:06Speaker 1: at one year old predicted the rate of autism diagnosis
- 34:12Speaker 1: at three years old. So surprisingly, for boys it was
- 34:17Speaker 1: a big association, but for girls there was no association. Fascinating, right,
- 34:23Speaker 1: because we know the boys get diagnosed much more frequently
- 34:25Speaker 1: than girls. But for kids who got one to two
- 34:29Speaker 1: hours of screen time per day, we're about twice as
- 34:33Speaker 1: likely to be diagnosed with autism at three years old,
- 34:36Speaker 1: and then two to four hours of screen time per day,
- 34:39Speaker 1: we're three point five times more likely to be diagnosed
- 34:43Speaker 1: with autism. So kind of a fascinating study. It's one study,
- 34:47Speaker 1: not enough to say like, oh, screens are absolutely associated
- 34:52Speaker 1: with autism, but something we should continue to consider and
- 34:55Speaker 1: look into.
- 34:56Speaker 3: Well, I wonder then if this is looking at ages
- 34:59Speaker 3: one and three, I think we both know or have
- 35:02Speaker 3: seen that diagnoses autism, and girls tend to be harder
- 35:07Speaker 3: to get. So I wonder if they would continue to
- 35:10Speaker 3: like look at the children as they get older and
- 35:13Speaker 3: as they're more like socially developed, is it can they
- 35:16Speaker 3: potentially diagnose?
- 35:18Speaker 2: Wonderful point? Bam, That's why I keep you around, Eddie.
- 35:26Speaker 3: Man, I'd be thinking sometimes let's.
- 35:28Speaker 1: Go so I'm hoping that they're continuing to follow these
- 35:34Speaker 1: kids into their early adulthood so that we get some
- 35:37Speaker 1: of those numbers.
- 35:38Speaker 3: Yeah, man, look at that. Just fucking reading articles and ship.
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