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MALE Enhancement & Biohacking: What They DON'T Tell You! with Sam Itshaki · Libido Lounge

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  Palms are proven to reverse mild erectile dysfunction.
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  Palms literally reverse atrophy.
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  Sam Itzhaki is known as mister get bigger now.
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  He's the CEO of doctor Joel Kaplan company and a leading leading voice in men's sexual
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  performance and erectile health.
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  With over twenty years of experience helping thousands of men improve confidence, function,
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  and results in the bedroom, Sam cuts through myths and taboos with science based medically
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  informed guidance.
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  His mission is simple, empower man and men to take control of their sexual health naturally
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  and confidently.
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  Pumps create a a gentle vacuum pressure around the penis, and that draws blood flow to penis.
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  The average gains are in length, which is amazing.
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  The average girth increase is about percent.
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  If you're 35 or older, start today.
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  There are three solutions.
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  Right?
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  So the first thing is
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  Hi, everybody.
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  Welcome back to another episode of the Libido Lounge.
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  I'm your host, doctor Diane, and I have a real treat for you guys today.
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  There are so many taboos.
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  There are so many stigmas when it comes to sexual health and erectile dysfunction in men.
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  And there's so many men that suffer in silence, that suffer, that their relationships suffer,
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  their partnerships suffer, and it doesn't have to be this way.
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  So I wanted to bring on Sam Itzhaki, also known as mister get bigger now, because he is an
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  expert in all of these things.
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  So welcome, Sam.
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  It is absolutely a pleasure to be with you today.
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  Thank you for coming on the lounge.
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  Thank you for having me, Diana.
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  It's a pleasure to be here.
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  So let's talk about we're gonna get into all the nitty gritty on erectile dysfunction, how
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  people can do it or fix it, dispel myths, all of that.
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  But before we do that, tell us a little bit about your history, how you got inspired in
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  this project, and why you're known as Mr.
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  Get Bigger now.
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  So, I I, you know, I did not imagine that this would be my life's mission.
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  I kind of fell into it.
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  So in my twenties, I actually just was bored one day, and I'm someone who loves to try new
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  things.
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  I consider myself a biohacker.
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  So if there's anything that can enhance who I am, you know, physically, emotionally,
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  mentally, if the risk is low enough, I will try it.
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  So I love trying new things.
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  And so one weekend, I was a little bored, and I decided to walk into an adult store for the
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  first time in my life.
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  And I didn't really know what I was going to get.
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  I figured I'll just explore, find something I like, a toy, and just have fun over the
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  weekend.
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  And so I walk in, and I see this giant penis pump.
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  It was it was like this big.
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  And, you know, it didn't seem like normal or realistic.
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  And so I was very curious about it, and I end up getting it.
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  And, you know, I put this thing on.
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  And before I tell you what happens, let me just briefly explain how pumps work.
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  So Pumps create a a gentle vacuum pressure around the penis, and that draws blood flow to
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  the penis.
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  And so I put this thing on, start pumping, and my penis just grows in the in the tube.
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  And I give it another squeeze and pump a little more, and and it grows a little more.
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  And, you know, it just keeps going and going.
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  And I just look down, and I'm like, I I can't believe this thing actually works because I
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  really didn't expect much from it.
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  So that's kind of what made me curious about and realize that, hey, this could actually
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  work.
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  What's the long term benefits here?
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  Now that thing just that pump just broke after a few minutes of use.
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  And, you know, I was a little disappointed, but more than anything, was super excited to get a
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  better one and and figure this out.
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  From there, I I got a water pump and end up injuring myself, couldn't have sex for a week
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  because it is important to know how not to injure yourself.
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  It's important to get the right product safe.
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  It's important to read the instructions, and this is for all the men out there who don't,
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  myself included, by the way.
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  Yeah.
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  And so from there, I realized that I have to take this seriously.
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  I can't just you know, try it and see what happens because I, you know, I only get one
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  penis in this lifetime.
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  So I did hours and hours of research online.
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  There are online communities of men who talk about penis enlargement and and just
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  enhancement in general, not just enlargement.
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  It's about getting better rigidity, things like that.
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  And all those men share their stats with the rest of the men on the forum, on the online
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  community.
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  And, of course, it's anonymous.
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  Right?
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  And so you you see all of those men who have zero interest.
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  They're not trying to sell you anything.
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  They're just there to help other fellow men.
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  And, you know, they they basically have, like, a little diary of, like, their progress and how
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  much bigger they're getting over time.
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  So I figured if I if I read a lot about and I follow what the the professionals, let's call
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  it, do, right, what someone who's been popping for ten or twenty years has to say, if I follow
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  their routine, if I read their tips and tricks, I'll be successful at it.
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  Because I knew the potential was there, and I just need to get the right device, and I have
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  to do it right because there there's no of guidance out there, and that's part of what I'm
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  trying to change.
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  So I ended up getting a Doctor.
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  Joel Kaplan pump because that's what a lot of them were using.
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  And it was very different than any other pump I've tried.
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  And for the first time, I was seeing results.
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  I was getting bigger.
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  I was getting harder.
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  And this is where the story gets a crazy twist.
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  About two years after using this pump, my wife tells me, hey.
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  Remember this side of the family that we don't talk to and they don't talk to us?
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  There was some rift in the family.
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  And so she's telling me that we're going to reconcile, and so we're gonna go meet someone
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  from that side of the family.
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  And her mom introduces me to doctor Joel Kaplan, the founder of the company of the pump
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  I'm using.
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  And, of course, at the time, it was a hobby for me.
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  Right?
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  But I was very interested and very curious about having a lot of fun with it.
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  And so, yeah, two years later, I find that that my family member owns and he's the founder of
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  this company, which is crazy.
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  Right?
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  I mean, what's the chance of that happening?
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  So synchronistic.
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  It's so synchronistic.
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  I love it.
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  I love it.
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  It's like, it's almost like, well, you didn't know you're gonna do this, but it kind of is
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  like fate or destiny in some sort of crazy way.
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  Exactly.
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  Exactly.
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  I just wanna humble your mole.
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  Yeah.
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  It's a really cool story.
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  And and I also wanna just comment on, I love that your nickname is mister get bigger now and
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  not just mister get bigger.
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  Right?
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  And just like, you know, with what you're saying is your story around like, okay.
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  Well, like, there are some instant results literally.
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  So we are talking about, like, right now, which I think is a really key thing to mention.
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  Now I'm very curious about,
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  like It's not just about the instant result.
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  It's about taking action.
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  It's very easy to learn something new and then not apply it in your life.
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  And that's something that everyone does.
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  You know?
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  And I want to not only educate people and tell them what works and what doesn't, but also I
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  want to motivate them to take action.
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  And and clarity of what works is the most important thing.
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  Yeah.
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  But it's about taking action.
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  Yeah.
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  Absolutely.
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  Absolutely.
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  So I wanna break that down.
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  And before we do that though, I think going back to what you said about like the water
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  pumps is really important.
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  So I know there's, like, there's manual pumps, there's electric electric pumps, there's water
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  pumps.
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  Like like, how many different types of pumps are there?
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  And what, like, what do people need to know?
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  What can people like, what can go really wrong when trying these things?
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  That that's a great question.
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  So about two years ago, I ended up designing my own pump from the ground up, and that was after
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  trying 39 pumps.
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  Oh, that's serious research.
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  Yes.
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  Is.
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  Yeah.
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  It's a business expense too.
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  So Yeah.
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  It's extra fun.
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  Right.
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  Yeah.
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  So I basically tried basically every pump out there, and whenever there's a new one comes
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  out, I I get those two.
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  I really love to know what are the pros and cons of each one, what they lack, And that's
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  how I designed mine.
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  I tried 39 different ones, realized I did extensive research.
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  I didn't only try the product itself.
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  I also, as I was trying things out, I realized, oh, no one has good instructions.
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  Like the best instructions would say, put it on and start pumping.
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  And that's not even close to be enough.
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  Right?
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  This is just supposed to be a routine.
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  How often do I do it?
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  What pressure do I need to use?
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  Now I know that obviously, but back then when I was just starting, I didn't.
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  So when I was just doing the research a few years ago, I realized that the guidance
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  instruction out there is terrible.
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  And so I end up calling some of the companies, and it's amazing.
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  Half of them, you can't even reach anyone on the phone.
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  And the ones that do answer the phone, you can ask basic questions.
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  Right?
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  Like, where is my order?
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  Or, hey, my pump broke.
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  Can I get a replacement?
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  But they can't really help you with pumping itself.
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  No one, not not a single company was able to to help me with that.
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  And so we do things very differently.
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  As the CEO of the Doctor Joel Kaplan company, I make sure that everyone who answers the phone
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  is someone who's been using a a pump, our pump for at least a year.
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  And so the people answering the phones are male enhancement coaches.
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  They can you know, besides the instructions, if you have any questions whatsoever, they can
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  help you make sure you're doing things right, help you customize your routine, things like
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  that.
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  Yeah.
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  Does that answer your question?
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  Sorry.
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  Yeah.
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  That's I mean, that's definitely really unique that you can get ahold of somebody and actually
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  learn the routine.
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  So I hear I mean, that definitely answers part of the question around like, okay, what is
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  different?
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  Do you see from a mechanism as far as like like vacuum based pumps versus other things like
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  pumps out there, do you see from a mechanism standpoint that some are, like, dramatically
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  less effective as well?
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  So let's talk about what should someone look when they buy a pump.
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  Yes.
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  I can tell you why mine are better.
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  There are other reasons, but the main goal is safety.
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  And of course, efficacy too.
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  That's the second goal.
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  First goal is don't hurt yourself.
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  Yes.
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  So which means you need a pump with a gauge.
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  That is the most important thing.
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  And a pump that is a medical device because there are so many pumps out there that are
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  cheap toys.
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  That was my first pump too.
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  I got a $20 pump and it broke after a few minutes.
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  It wasn't wasn't effective because it broke.
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  And even if I was using it for for longer, I know it wouldn't work because I know better
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  now.
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  And so gauge is number one, being a medical device so that it's high quality manufacturing,
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  so that they have done risk assessments for for the product, things like that.
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  That's very important, and that's that's for safety.
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  As far as efficacy, there are other things.
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  There are things like cylinder sizing.
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  So all the pumps out there come as a one size fits all.
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  It's usually an oversized cylinder.
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  It's way bigger than what you actually need.
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  And then there's a a squishy part at the base, kinda like a gasket, and that makes it a one
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  size fits all.
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  So the tube that you go into is huge, but because of that squishy part of the base, it's
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  okay.
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  Right?
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  You can get a vacuum seal and everything.
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  So it's convenient the way it works.
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  Right?
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  It works for most people.
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  That's nice, but is it effective?
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  No.
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  It's not because that gasket thing at the at the base constricts blood flow.
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  It's always too small.
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  And so, you know, you're using a device that is supposed to increase blood flow to the penis,
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  and there's something constricting, like a you know, it's constricting blood flow at the same
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  time.
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  It just doesn't make sense, and that makes those pumps less effective.
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  Yeah.
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  That makes a a lot of sense.
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  And so from a standpoint of, like, if it restricts blood flow, but there's still like a
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  vacuum, I imagine they might even get like a little bit of an acute change, but probably not
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  a significant acute change.
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  And certainly, restricting blood flow, like not a more permanent change.
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  Is that true?
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  Yes.
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  So what happens is you're causing strain on the skin.
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  You're supposed to pump a little bit.
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  Right?
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  And then blood flow goes into the penis, and the penis grows in the tube, and then you pump
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  again.
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  That's kind of the cycle.
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  That's how you want to increase the pressure gradually.
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  And when you use one size fits all, what happens is you're creating a lot of strain, and
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  there's very little blood flow going to the penis.
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  And so it's just extra strenuous and you get less of the actual long term benefits.
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  You won't have
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  blood flow.
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  So then I wonder, like, you're restricting blood flow, like, when we're talking about
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  safety.
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  Like, do we have a safety issue there where, like, if we're restricting blood flow to the
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  penis, that that seems like long term, we're we're gonna cause, like, even more erectile
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  dysfunction.
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  Do you do you see that?
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  No.
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  Because, basically, you could restrict blood flow in general with the body up to thirty
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  minutes.
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  So that's the general guidance with anything that is restrictive of blood flow.
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  And there are actually constriction rings, also known as cock rings, for men who want a more
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  rigid erection.
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  It actually something that comes with over pumps.
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  It's for men who actually have varicose dysfunction.
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  They basically use the pump to gain an erection, and then they roll down the
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  constriction ring, and it just constricts the base and and keep that blood in the penis.
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  It doesn't allow it to flow back as quickly.
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  And so it's a way to maintain an erection.
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  After you got it with a pump, you can maintain erection for the duration of the sex.
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  And just as a little show and tell, I have one of your pumps here.
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  I have, like, two two different sizes here.
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  So I'll be like excellent.
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  And so, like, what somebody would do then is basically have this, you know, this device is
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  is what's helping with the suction at at the top, and then the cock ring is here around it.
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  So then as it's as the penis gets erect, then we just slide the cock ring off onto the penis.
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  Right?
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  Yes.
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  Exactly.
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  Beautiful.
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  And so okay.
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  So then that answers that And
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  just to clarify, this is this is the way you use the pump to treat a reckless function.
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  So if someone can get an erection for sex, this is how they use it.
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  But it's very different when you use a pump for long term benefits like an exercise.
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  Okay.
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  So let's talk about that.
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  So that's how we use it short term.
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  And is there, like, actually, before we go on, is there any, like, pressure maximum people
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  need to be aware of that you never go beyond with with pumps, or is it, like, more
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  dependent?
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  Yes.
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  My recommendation is up to negative 10 inches of mercury.
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  That's that's the measurement unit.
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  On this pump, it's level 10.
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  Okay.
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  Response to the measurement unit.
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  So level 10
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  really helpful.
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  Yes.
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  So with a pump, like, prevents them from actually going beyond a dangerous level.
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  Exactly.
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  That's amazing.
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  Right.
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  Yeah.
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  And you know, before we talk about the benefits, I think it's important to talk about
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  erectile fitness in general, because there are two terms that get thrown around, and I think
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  they can use some, you know, misclassification I mean, reclassification, let's call it.
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  One is erectile dysfunction, and the other one is malenhancement.
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  So when it comes to erectile dysfunction, a lot of doctors, especially, urologists, they look
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  at it like an on and off switch.
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  Either you can get an erection for sex or it's not good enough for penetration, and then you
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  can it's considered that you have erectile dysfunction.
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  And it's so not like that.
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  Any any man who really look back in our twenties, we get great erections.
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  Right?
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  They're very rigid.
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  It takes very little stimulation.
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  We get spontaneous erections for no reason in our twenties, like zero stimulation.
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  We don't need to think about anything.
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  It's just the wind blows the wrong way, and we get an erection randomly.
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  And then as time goes by, it's part of aging, it happens to everyone.
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  We just lose erection quality.
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  Right?
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  We lose rigidity, and we actually lose size too.
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  Right?
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  And this is something that happened due to chain hormonal changes, like declining
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  testosterone.
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  That's a known thing.
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  Right?
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  With every decade, we just have less and less testosterone.
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  Same thing with nitric oxide production.
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  That's that is super important for blood flow.
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  And if you look at a chart of nitric oxide production by age from studies, it looks just
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  like testosterone.
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  It just declines with age.
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  And so as we get older, we just have less blood flow.
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  We have less testosterone, and so eye erections just decrease in quality.
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  And on top of that, people get busy.
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  They have more responsibilities like children and things like that, and there's less sex.
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  So now we get less of this exercise of getting an erection.
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  Now there there are what's called nocturnal erections, erections that happen at night
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  during REM sleep, and we all get them.
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  And if someone doesn't, they can get an erection.
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  That's just a rule.
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  And as we get older, there's a way to measure this.
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  And as we get older, it's a known thing that we get less and less of those nocturnal erections.
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  And so we have less of this erectile exercise, let's call it, right, during the day because we
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  have less sex.
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  Right?
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  Most people have sex once or twice a week on you know?
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  And that's that's a good average.
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  And then we get less of this biological exercise at night.
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  And so with time, it becomes a cycle.
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  We have less sex.
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  We get less erection.
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  What happens?
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  Atrophy sets in even faster, and we get an even worse erection.
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  And so it's it become a snowball and a cycle that just just get worse and worse.
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  And the thing is the solutions out there, no one really talks about any good solution.
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  What usually happens is someone goes to a doctor to complain about, and usually men only
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  complain about when it's a real problem.
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  Right?
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  Where it's it is a spectrum that that gradually decreases.
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  And so it's best to catch it and prevent it ahead of time.
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  And so when someone has a problem, they go to a doctor.
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  A doctor just we just prescribe you a pill.
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  That's generally what happens, and pills are a band aid.
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  It's just it doesn't address the root cause of the problem.
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  It's it's like Vicodin or any other pain reliever.
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  When someone uses it regularly, it really masks the root cause.
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  Once someone takes it, there's no reason to fix the root cause because they're able to get an
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  erection and they go about with their lives.
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  And, you know, again, it's a it's a Band Aid.
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  It's much better when it comes to health especially to really get to the root cause of
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  the problem.
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  You know?
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  And so pumps can really help with that because the number one cause of erectile dysfunction,
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  at least the mild version, I'm not talking about someone who, let's say, had their
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  prostate removed.
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  Right?
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  I'm talking about the general public, most people where the erection just decreases with
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  the quality decreases with age, it's really mostly about blood flow.
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  Right?
• 20:36
  Our our blood vessels get narrower and smaller.
• 20:40
  They shrink.
• 20:40
  Right?
• 20:41
  And then we lose some blood vessels.
• 20:43
  And the thing is there is something you can do.
• 20:45
  Just pump regularly.
• 20:46
  Pumps are proven to reverse mild erectile dysfunction.
• 20:50
  As long as it's mild, it
• 20:51
  will
• 20:51
  work.
• 20:53
  And, yeah, you can you can actually not only your blood vessels get bigger, but also you can
• 20:59
  create new blood vessels through a process called neovascularization.
• 21:04
  And so pumps literally reverse atrophy.
• 21:07
  It's an amazing exercise that more people need to know about and use over the age of 35.
• 21:14
  So it brings me back to or brings me to another question, which is, is erectile dysfunction
• 21:19
  inevitable?
• 21:20
  And and, you know, my general medical opinion on this is largely yes.
• 21:25
  Like like if we don't do anything, just if we don't do anything to intervene, age related
• 21:31
  changes, and I think this is some of what you're saying, like age related changes are
• 21:35
  going to happen.
• 21:35
  So in your experience, like is ED like largely inevitable?
• 21:41
  And I think the importance of naming that is like just normalizing it, right, getting the
• 21:45
  stigma out.
• 21:46
  And then from a preventable standpoint, like like when you're saying like 35, like okay, so
• 21:52
  do you recommend oftentimes then that, you know, once men hit their mid thirties that,
• 21:57
  hey, why don't you just go ahead just like anything else we do from preventative medicine,
• 22:02
  get good lab tests, you know, make sure you're eating a good diet.
• 22:06
  Do you do you throw the penis bump in as, like, something that at a certain age is, like, yeah,
• 22:10
  just throw this in your health care regimen because this is gonna help this part of your
• 22:15
  body age better, help with vascularization, and really just help, prevent those age related
• 22:20
  changes?
• 22:22
  Yeah.
• 22:22
  100%.
• 22:23
  So first of all, when it comes to whether or not erectile dysfunction is inevitable, I
• 22:28
  agree.
• 22:29
  It's generally is the answer is generally yes.
• 22:32
  Because when you when you read the stats, like, from studies, we're talking about half of all
• 22:38
  men by the age of 50.
• 22:39
  Right?
• 22:39
  So half of all men by the age of 50 report some form of erectile dysfunction.
• 22:44
  And and actually by the age of 60, men can lose up to 20% of their erection size, which is
• 22:51
  crazy.
• 22:51
  Men just don't know about this.
• 22:54
  That means think of two men that you know in your life.
• 22:58
  One of them is likely to have a problem in in the bedroom.
• 23:02
  And men don't talk about, which means the number can be higher.
• 23:06
  Right?
• 23:06
  And it's a little sad because there is stigma around it.
• 23:11
  Men don't like to feel vulnerable.
• 23:14
  And the outcome is just so much worse because then when someone has a problem, they think
• 23:19
  they're alone.
• 23:20
  They feel isolated, alone.
• 23:22
  The first thing I want them to know is that they're not.
• 23:27
  It happens to everyone.
• 23:30
  A lot of men report those kind of problems.
• 23:32
  And even the ones who say, I don't have a problem, just ask them, how is your erection
• 23:36
  compared to ten or twenty years ago?
• 23:38
  And you'll get the right answer.
• 23:39
  It's not the same.
• 23:41
  And yeah.
• 23:42
  What was I'm sorry.
• 23:43
  What was the other question?
• 23:44
  Just from a standpoint of like prevention, do you feel because of, you know, some of those
• 23:48
  statistics, do you feel that it's a good idea for men once they reach like, you know, 30 that
• 23:55
  they just start utilizing a penis pump just to help from a preventative standpoint, just
• 24:00
  similarly to, you know, what we do from all sorts of different kinds of things, water, gym,
• 24:06
  you know, like those types of things.
• 24:07
  Like is penis pump just like, hey, this happens, why don't you just throw this into
• 24:11
  your health for, like your health regimen, your health routine?
• 24:14
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• 25:24
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• 25:30
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  Yeah.
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  A 100%.
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  You know, you can think of it you know, we all brush our teeth, you know, and we don't do it
• 28:23
  because we have cavities.
• 28:24
  We do it to prevent cavities.
• 28:26
  It's so much easier to prevent health problems.
• 28:29
  So yeah.
• 28:30
  That and A good way to look at it is just like the gym.
• 28:34
  When you look at a person who doesn't move for decades, and that that is pretty much most
• 28:40
  people.
• 28:41
  Right?
• 28:41
  We all shrivel with age.
• 28:43
  You know, our whole body shrivels, and that's exactly what happened to the penis with time.
• 28:49
  And so prevention is key.
• 28:51
  Just like you can go to the gym and instead of lose muscle mass as you get older, you can gain
• 28:56
  muscle mass.
• 28:57
  I'm the strongest I've ever been in my life, way stronger than I was in my twenties.
• 29:02
  And it's just because I do some pull ups, some push ups, you know, I just lift something
• 29:07
  heavy, basically.
• 29:08
  You know?
• 29:08
  It doesn't take that much.
• 29:10
  And so, yeah, I think it's super important to to do something about early so that you don't
• 29:16
  have a problem later.
• 29:18
  I agree.
• 29:19
  I couldn't agree more.
• 29:20
  It's like the basis of everything I like to do in life and teach upon is like, how do we stop
• 29:24
  a problem before it even starts?
• 29:26
  Right?
• 29:26
  But if you have a problem, it's not too late.
• 29:28
  It sounds like this is like a reversible condition as well.
• 29:31
  Exactly.
• 29:32
  Yes.
• 29:32
  Mild mild the mild condition can definitely be reversed.
• 29:36
  You know, if it's more than that, like if someone had the process removed, you know,
• 29:41
  things are different.
• 29:42
  Right.
• 29:42
  Yep.
• 29:43
  Absolutely.
• 29:44
  I know one of the things that comes up on online chat forums that I've seen that is a
• 29:49
  concern for people is about any long term damage.
• 29:53
  Any, like so when we're talking about pumps, what do we need to be?
• 29:57
  Is there anything especially with using your pumps, are there any side effects?
• 30:01
  Are there any risks that people would need to consider?
• 30:04
  No.
• 30:05
  So I I would say, number one, read the instructions.
• 30:09
  That's rule number one.
• 30:10
  Rule number two is there shouldn't be any pain or discomfort.
• 30:14
  If you feel pain, you have to reduce the pressure or stop using it because something's
• 30:19
  wrong.
• 30:19
  You're either using on a pressure that's too high or maybe you have a medical conditions.
• 30:25
  But the general consensus is that if you're healthy, if you don't have diabetes, if you
• 30:30
  don't have a blood disorder, you can definitely use a penis pump.
• 30:34
  They've been used for decades.
• 30:36
  And, actually, penis pumps existed before Vagra or Cialis existed for the treatment of rectal
• 30:42
  dysfunction.
• 30:42
  So it's a super proven treatment, and it's proven for safety for a very long time.
• 30:50
  Let's talk too about some of the other fun things that happen.
• 30:53
  So you did mention, like, when people are using the pumps, they'll actually see the penis grow
• 30:57
  inside.
• 30:58
  What about more like and then you also mentioned, okay.
• 31:01
  Well, you know, men are seeing this, like, huge.
• 31:03
  I think you said 20% reduction in penis size.
• 31:05
  Is that right?
• 31:07
  Are you seeing up to.
• 31:09
  Okay.
• 31:09
  So then are you seeing with the use of the pump, like, less for, like, acutely with
• 31:13
  growth, but are you seeing more, like, permanent changes in size and and helping men
• 31:19
  get some of the size back if they've lost it?
• 31:22
  Oh, absolutely.
• 31:23
  Actually, five years ago, I create an app.
• 31:27
  And the reason why I created it is I I became the CEO of the doctor Joel Kaplan company about
• 31:33
  ten years ago.
• 31:35
  And one of the things that was very obvious is that a lot of people don't believe that pumps
• 31:40
  work for size.
• 31:41
  You know, if if you look it up, very official websites like the Mayo Clinic or plenty of
• 31:47
  other official websites say, no, it doesn't work for size.
• 31:51
  And at the time when I just took over, I was reading it, and I just I couldn't believe it
• 31:57
  because I knew from personal experience that it works.
• 32:00
  And I did those hours and hours of research I was talking about earlier, and all of those men
• 32:06
  are seeing results.
• 32:08
  So just annoyed me that the truth isn't out there.
• 32:13
  I'm someone who really believe in the truth.
• 32:18
  And so I decided, you know what?
• 32:20
  Let me create an app so that people can see for themselves that things are working.
• 32:25
  And I'm I'm talking about the individual level for every person who uses my pump, and also as
• 32:30
  a whole.
• 32:30
  Right?
• 32:31
  I can just generate anonymized statistics and see how many people it helped.
• 32:36
  What's the average gain gains, things like that.
• 32:39
  So I created about five years ago.
• 32:42
  We have, about 11,000, 12,000 users.
• 32:46
  We have over 60,000 exercises records, meaning when someone uses a pump, they they log it.
• 32:54
  Right?
• 32:55
  And then we have about 12,000 measurements of erection performance.
• 33:02
  That means someone put in their size.
• 33:05
  It means someone put in their, level of rigidity and sensitivity.
• 33:09
  And so we have this this the stats, and it's very obvious that it works for most people.
• 33:16
  The success rate of seeing some positive results is ninety two percent.
• 33:20
  And the average and keep in mind, not everyone uses, you know, the pump for long enough.
• 33:26
  The the program that comes the the program that I talk about, you can gain one to three inches.
• 33:32
  It's very common for customers to report one or two inches in length.
• 33:37
  It's extremely common as long as they stick with the program.
• 33:40
  Right?
• 33:41
  Sometimes people buy a product and, you know, in the case of, let's say, a treadmill, it ends
• 33:46
  up becoming a coat hanger.
• 33:48
  Right?
• 33:48
  Yes.
• 33:49
  So people do sometimes buy a product and then not use it.
• 33:52
  This is something I can see.
• 33:54
  Right?
• 33:55
  I can also see the exact opposite.
• 33:57
  Men who have been pumping They have an account.
• 34:02
  I see progress since and Exxcise, since the day or the very beginning when I created the app,
• 34:08
  and they're still logging stuff.
• 34:10
  Right?
• 34:12
  And so I can tell that it's working.
• 34:15
  The average gains and the average So the average duration is between five and six
• 34:19
  months.
• 34:20
  That means that most men stick with it for close to six months, which is great.
• 34:25
  And the average gains are three quarters of an inches in length, which is amazing.
• 34:30
  And the the average girth increase is about 20%.
• 34:34
  So people clearly are seeing results.
• 34:37
  I have the data.
• 34:39
  Yeah.
• 34:39
  It's so exciting that you've been collecting that.
• 34:42
  I love that so much.
• 34:43
  And you said something as you're describing this that I wanna come back to, which is you
• 34:46
  use the word sensitivity.
• 34:48
  So are you finding that men are actually having more like sensation?
• 34:52
  Is that what you mean by sensitivity?
• 34:54
  Like, there more feeling of pleasure that they get from using the pumps?
• 34:58
  Yes.
• 34:59
  So if someone has low if they rate their sensitivity as low, over time by using the
• 35:06
  pump, it increases by about 12%.
• 35:09
  Exciting.
• 35:11
  What about another
• 35:12
  It happens when you reverse atrophy.
• 35:14
  You know, they lose sensation because their penis shrivels slowly because they don't use
• 35:18
  it.
• 35:19
  So it's a use it or lose it kind of things kind of thing.
• 35:22
  Same thing for women.
• 35:23
  Like, same thing happens to us.
• 35:24
  Like, you're not you're not getting blood flow there, tissue atrophies, and yeah, you lose
• 35:29
  that sensitivity.
• 35:30
  And then it's it certainly doesn't drive pleasure when the sensitivity goes down.
• 35:35
  Right.
• 35:36
  Exactly.
• 35:36
  And, I don't know if you if you're aware, but I do have pumps for women.
• 35:40
  I am aware.
• 35:41
  Should we talk about those too?
• 35:43
  Sure.
• 35:43
  Yeah.
• 35:44
  So so tell us about those.
• 35:46
  So I know they're they're clitoral pumps.
• 35:48
  Correct?
• 35:49
  Clitoral or vulva pump?
• 35:51
  I have both.
• 35:51
  Let me quickly go ahead.
• 35:54
  Yeah.
• 35:55
  So it's all all pumps have the same top part, which is the pump itself.
• 36:00
  And then we have the the penis pump, which comes with a cylinder for the penis.
• 36:04
  We have this one, which is for the clitoris.
• 36:06
  It's just a much smaller cylinder or Mhmm.
• 36:09
  Copper tube, people call different things.
• 36:11
  And then we have one for the vulva, which brings blood flow to the whole region.
• 36:16
  Right?
• 36:16
  The the labia, the the vulva, the clitoris, just everything.
• 36:20
  Do you have an app for the females as well or just for the men?
• 36:24
  I don't.
• 36:25
  And someone told me that recently, and they're like, hey.
• 36:28
  There's always research done for men.
• 36:30
  What about women?
• 36:31
  Yes.
• 36:32
  They were right, and I'm gonna do something about it.
• 36:34
  Okay.
• 36:35
  Let me know.
• 36:35
  I'll help spread the word for sure.
• 36:37
  What are you what are you hearing though in just like anecdotal stories from women that
• 36:41
  have been using the vulva or clitoral versions?
• 36:45
  So what I hear about the main thing is there there are two main benefits of long term use.
• 36:51
  One is increasing sensitivity, which I think that's something that women can really use some
• 36:57
  help with in general, and also because of aging.
• 37:00
  Right?
• 37:00
  It's it's really both.
• 37:02
  A lot of women, there is the orgasm gap.
• 37:06
  You know?
• 37:06
  So I think adding some sensitivity might help, not for everyone maybe, but for a lot of women
• 37:10
  out there, especially for women who are older because of atrophy.
• 37:15
  So that's one one major benefit.
• 37:18
  And then the other one is natural lubrication.
• 37:20
  So with age, women lose some of that natural lubrication.
• 37:25
  It can be hormonal changes.
• 37:26
  So it's it's not just it's not specific just aging.
• 37:29
  That's a major one.
• 37:30
  But also a good example is after pregnancy.
• 37:33
  It's very common for women to be very dry after because of hormonal changes.
• 37:38
  And so this type of pump can really help with that.
• 37:42
  Yeah.
• 37:42
  The the atrophy is such a real thing.
• 37:44
  I when I was in medical school and we were doing cadaver lab and, you know, it's like in
• 37:49
  medical school, we did cadaver lab for an entire year.
• 37:51
  So you really get to know the anatomy of, I think there was eight cadavers in our lab.
• 37:58
  And there was one woman that she had no no obvious clitoris.
• 38:03
  It was complete Wow.
• 38:04
  Completely atrophied.
• 38:06
  So that was really interesting for me to learn like, well, that's like the level of atrophy we
• 38:11
  can have.
• 38:12
  Like, it's a very, very, very real thing.
• 38:15
  And you know, think she was obviously an extreme case, but you know, to the point of
• 38:19
  like this is an important thing and this can happen.
• 38:22
  Yeah, absolutely.
• 38:23
  It's a really big thing.
• 38:24
  Like we gotta keep the blood flow there or that tissue just if we're not using it.
• 38:29
  And we're adapted.
• 38:30
  Like, our our human bodies are so adaptive.
• 38:32
  So if we're not using it, like, we'll just make changes.
• 38:35
  Like, why do we keep things around that we don't need?
• 38:37
  Exactly.
• 38:37
  It's like wasted energy basically from the body's perspective at least.
• 38:40
  Right?
• 38:41
  Yeah.
• 38:41
  Exactly.
• 38:42
  And and it's not just the clitoris, the trivils.
• 38:44
  It's really everything.
• 38:45
  The whole region shrivels.
• 38:47
  Right?
• 38:47
  The labia, the vulva.
• 38:48
  And this is something that a lot of women know is with age.
• 38:51
  So using a pump can really reverse that.
• 38:55
  Absolutely.
• 38:55
  And I think that's like you know, when you're talking about orgasm gap, I think that's a
• 38:59
  there's, you know, many components of it, but I certainly think one component of it is losing
• 39:04
  that sensitivity.
• 39:04
  And we have 8,000 nerve endings, you know, this to this part of our body, and if there's, like,
• 39:09
  less sensitivity there.
• 39:11
  Because we know that clitoris, like, runs, you know, and it's not just that bull.
• 39:15
  We know it like is running under the labia along the pelvis.
• 39:19
  So the vulvar, you know, part is also going to help with that clitoral stimulation as well and
• 39:24
  that clitoral So I think just helping with like that blood flow there and that increase of that
• 39:30
  sensitivity, sensitivity, that that is is certainly certainly one very important way of
• 39:33
  of helping, you know, women and men close that orgasm gap.
• 39:36
  Right.
• 39:37
  And, you know, it's very obvious.
• 39:38
  Like, once you put on you know, I I'm not a woman, but I I've gotten plenty of feedback
• 39:43
  from women about it.
• 39:45
  It's described as non stimulating but still arousing.
• 39:51
  So when you put it on, it kinda like just wakes you up sexually.
• 39:55
  It's just in a way, it's like getting an erection.
• 39:58
  And I and I know a lot of men think it's weird, but the parts for men and women are arranged
• 40:02
  differently.
• 40:03
  That's the only difference.
• 40:04
  Women get an erection.
• 40:06
  It's just the the tissue just spread out differently, and it takes because of that, it
• 40:11
  takes longer to, let's call it, get an erection.
• 40:14
  Right?
• 40:14
  Yes.
• 40:15
  Exactly.
• 40:16
  Exactly.
• 40:16
  And that's like just like, you know, men would never have sex with like a flaccid penis.
• 40:20
  I think the idea that a lot of women don't understand is that there's blood flow that
• 40:25
  needs to go to this erectile tissue.
• 40:28
  And because women don't know this, and I think many men don't know this too, oftentimes women
• 40:32
  are having sex before there's blood flow to this tissue.
• 40:36
  And then it's like, it doesn't feel that pleasurable similarly to like how a man would
• 40:41
  never have sex with a flaccid penis.
• 40:43
  So we we all need this blood flow for things to work and feel good and that sort of thing.
• 40:49
  Yeah.
• 40:50
  Are there any Yeah.
• 40:51
  I think I think men just need to realize that it takes a little longer for women.
• 40:54
  And just take your time, really.
• 40:56
  It's just a simple rule.
• 40:58
  Exactly.
• 40:59
  It's true.
• 41:00
  It's true.
• 41:00
  Yeah.
• 41:00
  When I asked my partner one time, like, if there was anything that he wishes were
• 41:04
  different about females and sex, that was, like, his answer.
• 41:07
  It was, like, I wish you guys would just, you know, I wish it could be that the God had made
• 41:10
  us, that we're, you know, the spirit or whatever, whoever made us, could have made us
• 41:14
  so that we are more in alignment and women would work faster.
• 41:17
  And like, that's a fun wish and the reality is like, hey, it's not a big deal.
• 41:22
  We just need to know it and and work together with it, with the differences.
• 41:24
  Exactly.
• 41:26
  Yep.
• 41:27
  So are there any misconceptions around erections and erectile health or, you know, or
• 41:32
  clitoral health or vulvar health that we have not mentioned today that are important to to
• 41:37
  mention?
• 41:38
  Yeah.
• 41:39
  I think I think the the most important misconception about erectile health is the
• 41:45
  whole erectile dysfunction situation where doctors just, not everyone, of course, but most
• 41:50
  doctors, just believe it's a an on an on and off switch.
• 41:54
  True or false?
• 41:55
  It's not.
• 41:56
  It's really a spectrum, and it declines slowly.
• 41:59
  And the sooner they recognize it and and understand it, the better they can help their
• 42:04
  patients.
• 42:05
  I think that's the most important thing.
• 42:08
  Another thing is misconception.
• 42:09
  It's not really about, erectile dysfunction, but it's one about the other side.
• 42:15
  It's about malenhancement.
• 42:17
  There are so many scams out there when it comes to malenhancement, and that's one of the
• 42:22
  reasons why I decided to go out there and talk about.
• 42:26
  You know, everyone gets an email many emails actually, about the reckless function.
• 42:31
  Just take this pill for three days and you'll get gain five inches.
• 42:35
  You know, no one believes that.
• 42:36
  I you know, it's it's just mind blowing that those those emails and this type of spam is
• 42:43
  even being sent.
• 42:44
  It's hard to believe anyone would fall for it.
• 42:46
  But I feel like because this the industry is so saturated with this type of scams, no one
• 42:54
  believes that anything works.
• 42:56
  And that's why I think it's important to understand that this is not about erectile
• 43:02
  dysfunction, and it's not about no enhancement.
• 43:04
  It's about erectile fitness, and it's something that just no.
• 43:08
  It's natural.
• 43:09
  Just look at the rest of your body.
• 43:10
  That's something that anyone can understand.
• 43:12
  Right?
• 43:12
  It just declines slowly with age.
• 43:15
  So you better lose it use it or you lose it.
• 43:18
  That's pretty much it.
• 43:19
  Yeah.
• 43:20
  And I think to just kinda highlight something you said, I think like the recognition is just
• 43:25
  a huge thing to highlight because oftentimes when we have changes, it's like so slow over
• 43:31
  time.
• 43:32
  Right?
• 43:32
  It's like, oh, it's just like this much less and it's so minute that it's like, oh, okay, we
• 43:38
  don't even notice it.
• 43:39
  And then the body and the brain adapts to that being the new normal, and then it changes
• 43:42
  again.
• 43:43
  And and our brain just keeps adapting to the new normal that sometimes it can get, you know,
• 43:47
  pretty out of balance compared to what it, you know, used to be.
• 43:51
  And and before like we even like recognize it if even at all.
• 43:55
  So what you said earlier around asking somebody, you know, the question or asking
• 43:59
  oneself the question around like, where are you compared to when you were 20?
• 44:04
  I think it's such an important, question that everybody I hope that's listening will ask
• 44:09
  themselves that question because that's the biggest thing is recognizing like, has there
• 44:14
  been a change?
• 44:15
  And if so, probably great idea to do something about it.
• 44:18
  Exactly, yes.
• 44:20
  So my final question for you is when it comes to other ED treatments on the market, like how
• 44:28
  like, how does this compare?
• 44:29
  I know you're talking about like a lot of scams.
• 44:32
  What about other things like using Cialis, using testosterone?
• 44:36
  Obviously, like Cialis, Viagra are just band aids.
• 44:40
  Do you ever see people use those kind of band aids in combination with this?
• 44:44
  Where do those kind of things play as far as working with the penis pump?
• 44:48
  Yeah.
• 44:49
  So, you know, I look at other solutions as a tool in your toolbox, you know, and and so are
• 44:56
  pumps.
• 44:57
  Right?
• 44:57
  And so I think it's important to use the right tool for the job.
• 45:01
  When it comes to Vagra Cialis, it generally is safe.
• 45:05
  It generally does work for men.
• 45:06
  But there are reasons why it's just not great.
• 45:10
  One reason is that a lot of men get used to it over time.
• 45:14
  Right?
• 45:14
  And so when you go to a doctor, there's it's very obvious.
• 45:18
  When you go to a urologist, it's very obvious that there is a standard operating procedure.
• 45:22
  There are three solutions.
• 45:23
  Right?
• 45:24
  So the first thing is that they prescribe you pills, right, medications like Vagra or Cialis.
• 45:29
  The second thing, if that doesn't work or if it stops working over time, they'll go for an
• 45:34
  injection, something like have you ever heard of Trimex?
• 45:38
  I don't know Trimex.
• 45:39
  No.
• 45:39
  Yeah.
• 45:40
  So there are injections out there.
• 45:41
  That's just one of them that you basically have to inject yourself in a penis every time you
• 45:46
  need an erection.
• 45:47
  And I don't think it's something that anyone wants to do, but they don't necessarily have a
• 45:52
  choice because pills stopped working.
• 45:55
  Right?
• 45:56
  And then also when when someone keeps injecting themselves, it creates scar tissue.
• 46:03
  And so over time, it can cause Pyronie's disease or curvature.
• 46:07
  Right?
• 46:08
  It can also become less effective because now we have scar tissue.
• 46:12
  Right?
• 46:12
  It's just different tissue, not erectile tissue that actually works.
• 46:16
  And so and then from there, the third solution is an inflatable device inside your penis that
• 46:24
  whenever you want an erection, you have to kinda move fluid onto the penis.
• 46:28
  It's not even a real erection.
• 46:30
  And so when you see this path forward, right, that all those three solutions, and when you
• 46:37
  understand that that if you take pills, you could get used to it, Then the next logical
• 46:44
  thought should be, okay.
• 46:46
  Pills are okay to use, but let's keep them for when I really need them.
• 46:50
  Let's first try to reverse atrophy, right, you know, by using a pump.
• 46:55
  Now is it okay to use both of them?
• 46:57
  Absolutely.
• 46:57
  It is.
• 46:58
  You know, I'm I'm not against medications if it works for someone.
• 47:02
  I just think if someone can get by without someone could buy getting the root cause of the
• 47:09
  problem and not take medications, try to leave the medications for when you absolutely need
• 47:14
  it.
• 47:14
  Right?
• 47:15
  Because you don't wanna go down the path where you use the medications and then, you know, you
• 47:19
  get used to it.
• 47:20
  Don't don't start in your 30, get used to it by 40 or 50, right, when you can start with the
• 47:25
  medications at 50 and get twenty more years of good sex.
• 47:29
  Yeah.
• 47:30
  Yeah.
• 47:30
  I couldn't agree more with that.
• 47:31
  And I and I said that was my last question, but I think I lied.
• 47:34
  So in cases where somebody has like Peyronie's disease, right, where they have that curvature
• 47:39
  of the penis, is are is this still like a safe device to use the penis pumps?
• 47:44
  Like, can it still help people like that?
• 47:46
  Or just like thinking about the curvature, is there any problems with using a penis pump if
• 47:50
  somebody has that situation going on?
• 47:53
  Yeah.
• 47:53
  So actually, pumps can correct mild curvatures.
• 47:56
  So as long as it's yeah.
• 47:57
  Mild
• 47:58
  They're one of the devices.
• 47:59
  There's one more device that I that I offer.
• 48:02
  It's called it's an extender essentially or a stretcher.
• 48:05
  By the way, it's amazing for size, for specifically length.
• 48:10
  And I introduced it because, you know, pumps get so many great benefits long term, which is
• 48:16
  why I really recommend using pumps because it's all about blood flow.
• 48:20
  But knowing that guys use pumps because they wanna get bigger, and that's a lot of guys out
• 48:25
  there.
• 48:27
  Those guys, they wanna get bigger, and they wanna get bigger yesterday.
• 48:31
  They don't wanna wait.
• 48:32
  And, you know, using a pump is like an exercise.
• 48:35
  You know, you go to the gym once, you'll see some results, but those results will subside.
• 48:40
  Like, you'll even get bigger temporarily when you go to the gym the first time, but it's
• 48:44
  gonna go away.
• 48:45
  But you keep going for a few weeks, a few months, you'll actually gain muscle mass.
• 48:50
  And so it's the same thing with penis pumps.
• 48:52
  It's like an exercise, and we use it regularly.
• 48:55
  You get great benefits, which is why I recommend them.
• 48:58
  But knowing that guys want length specifically, and that's there seem to be a disconnect
• 49:04
  between men and women.
• 49:05
  You know, men measure their, let's call it, ego with length.
• 49:10
  And if you ask a woman about, do you care about size?
• 49:14
  If they're willing to admit that they do, they they will tell you that they care more about
• 49:18
  girth than length.
• 49:19
  Right?
• 49:20
  There is such a thing as being too long, but girth really helps with sensation.
• 49:24
  And so women prefer girth.
• 49:26
  And I feel that that's that's a conversation that men and women should have.
• 49:31
  But knowing that guys really care for length and they want quickly, I introduced a stretcher
• 49:38
  a few years ago.
• 49:39
  Essentially, just think about holding a floss of penis stretched.
• 49:43
  It's that, but you can wear it for hours a day.
• 49:47
  Mhmm.
• 49:47
  Not all at once, of course, because it is a restricted device.
• 49:50
  So thirty minutes at a time, but you can wear it for hours.
• 49:54
  And that's something actually that I experimented with in my twenties.
• 50:00
  Before I knew this was going to be my lab's mission, I was a software engineer.
• 50:04
  And as a software engineer, you sit down all day and you program.
• 50:07
  And so I just wore an extender under my pants in the office with everyone around me,
• 50:14
  and I love this.
• 50:16
  Yeah.
• 50:16
  No one knew, and my wife begged me to stop after about five weeks.
• 50:22
  It just
• 50:22
  Because the results were so were so significant.
• 50:25
  Wow.
• 50:26
  It just it happens so quickly that yeah.
• 50:29
  If someone just wants length, that's that's the recommendation.
• 50:33
  But, you know, I recommend a pump because there's more to penis health and erectile
• 50:37
  fitness than just size.
• 50:39
  You know, it's about rigidity.
• 50:40
  It's about getting erections quicker.
• 50:42
  It's it's really about health, not just size.
• 50:45
  Right?
• 50:45
  Yes.
• 50:46
  And so if someone wants length, they can get the extended.
• 50:49
  If someone wants all the amazing health benefits, I recommend to pump every other day.
• 50:54
  If you want both, when you combine both of those things, the results are absolutely mind
• 51:01
  blowing.
• 51:01
  You basically stretch the penis with the extender, and once it elongates the stretch,
• 51:07
  you use a penis pump to engorge it with blood.
• 51:09
  And when you do that over and over again, the results happen so fast.
• 51:14
  And what a great combo.
• 51:15
  This has just been so delightful, Sam.
• 51:18
  So much information.
• 51:20
  I really appreciate your time today.
• 51:22
  Is there anything we did not say that we absolutely have to say?
• 51:27
  I think just where people can find, you know, find more about who I am and what I do.
• 51:34
  And I would say if you're 35 or older, start today.
• 51:39
  That's Yeah.
• 51:39
  That's my final message.
• 51:42
  Yeah.
• 51:42
  Amazing.
• 51:43
  And we're gonna have, links for how to get the penis pump, discount codes, your personal link,
• 51:49
  which is getbiggernow.com in the show notes.
• 51:54
  What else?
• 51:55
  And I think is it at getbiggernow.com, what have what is at that URL?
• 51:59
  Can you tell us a little bit about that site?
• 52:01
  Yes.
• 52:01
  So that's my my website.
• 52:04
  Everything I talk about is there.
• 52:06
  There's also a free ebook.
• 52:09
  If anyone wants to really get a great erection, seven methods, to to get your perfect manhood,
• 52:18
  they can get it there for absolutely free.
• 52:21
  That is amazing.
• 52:22
  Yeah.
• 52:22
  And we'll have all of that in the show notes for you guys.
• 52:25
  Thank you so much for joining me today.
• 52:28
  Hope everybody will get online.
• 52:29
  Get your penis pumps, get your stretchers, get your vulvar and clitoral pumps.
• 52:35
  I know I am going to because I don't have that in my life yet, but we are going to be seeing
• 52:39
  that immediately.
• 52:40
  Thank you.
• 52:42
  And I will report back with you guys, at another episode on the lounge with my progress
• 52:46
  with that.
• 52:47
  So thank you so much, Sam.
• 52:49
  Thank you for having me, Dan.
• 52:51
  Everybody, it is a pleasure to have you guys on the lounge.
• 52:55
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• 53:00
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• 53:02
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• 53:07
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• 53:09
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