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- 0:02Hello and welcome to the show. Before we begin, the usual
- 0:05warnings because this is an out and about episode so expect to
- 0:08hear from noise from the background.
- 0:10Also my sore throat is getting worse just in case there's more
- 0:13sniffling and hacking and all of that.
- 0:17Then also another apology for today because we should be
- 0:23getting back on topic and we should be dealing with
- 0:26objections that people give in business.
- 0:28Those are reasons why reasons that people give are not wanting
- 0:32to go ahead, reasons why people say they don't want to do
- 0:39business with us or continue with a specific project or an
- 0:42agenda or whatever. And one of those that we've
- 0:44tackled so far, I think we've only tackled one.
- 0:47I'll have to check my list. I think we've tackled the most
- 0:51popular money objection and that's when people say I can't
- 0:54afford it or you are too expensive.
- 0:56So this is your first time of listening to the show.
- 1:00I think this should be the second episode after that.
- 1:02So if you skip back two episodes, you'll be able to get
- 1:06some framework, some perspectives on what to do when
- 1:10you have a nice juicy potential customer, you think it's going
- 1:13to be a sweet deal and you've sent over the proposal, the
- 1:16e-mail, the DM, the whatever it is, and then the person replies
- 1:21you're too expensive, I can't afford it, blah blah blah.
- 1:23So that should give you some ideas about how you should go
- 1:27about handling that. So like I said today, I'm going
- 1:32to make a detail. I'm not going to continue with
- 1:34the other list of the objections.
- 1:35And that's because I saw something on LinkedIn and
- 1:40because, well, OK, well, I have female friends who are in the
- 1:49business who are self-employed and also have female friends who
- 1:54happen to work in other organisations.
- 1:56You know, you work in the bank, you work in the ministry, you
- 1:58know, that sort of thing. And of course I also have
- 2:00aunties and cousins and I saw something on LinkedIn that I
- 2:05think lots of women struggle with.
- 2:08So I figured, let me just hop on and make an episode on that real
- 2:12quick. And that is this whole thing of
- 2:16women being in leadership positions.
- 2:18And then they get tired because they're feeling like they're
- 2:20inauthentic, like they have to show up at work or they have to
- 2:24show up in business in ways that are not authentic to them.
- 2:27And after a while, they get, they just get tired of
- 2:29pretending. So First off, my sympathies to
- 2:34my mother's, my sisters, my aunties, my cousins, my female
- 2:41friends. I was speaking in a universal
- 2:43sense here, that I can understand what it is that
- 2:46you're going through, because it's not easy showing up in an
- 2:51environment where you feel like you can't let your hair down,
- 2:54you can't be yourself. And in fact, I think part of the
- 2:58reason why I've taken the business trajectory that I have
- 3:02so far was precisely because of these sorts of issues.
- 3:06I grew up as a fun loving, sometimes adventurous, stubborn
- 3:11or rebellious, depending on who you're talking to.
- 3:14Kind of child. And for some reason I didn't
- 3:19take a liking to wearing shoes and I decided to study law and I
- 3:24showed up in Obafa ME Awolowo University.
- 3:26That's the greatest university on the African continent because
- 3:30of their world renowned law faculty.
- 3:32So I showed up there happy and ready to begin my study of law
- 3:36only to be slammed with dress restrictions.
- 3:39You have to wear shoes. You have to wear black and
- 3:41white, white shirt, black trousers, need to wear ties,
- 3:45need to wear shoes. And looking back now, you know,
- 3:48I'm wondering, like, what was I thinking?
- 3:50You know, it should have been obvious, Like, everybody else in
- 3:53Nigeria knows that if you're studying law, that's just what
- 3:57you do. You wear shoes, you wear
- 3:58trousers. Yeah, You wear shirt, you wear
- 4:01tie. And so I struggled with the
- 4:06dress ethic on on that part. You know, that whole thing of
- 4:08feeling like it was not authentically me and all that.
- 4:11And even before I finished law school, I was thinking that if
- 4:13anything, I'll be more of a solicitor rather than an
- 4:17advocate so that I could show up to the office and wear my Ankara
- 4:22or whatever it is, maybe once in a while, dress up and go to
- 4:26court. So the point I'm just trying to
- 4:28make is I know first hand what it is, what it feels like, like,
- 4:34OK, I'm going into this environment and I'm going to be
- 4:36there from 7:30 and I'm going to be there until 5:00.
- 4:39And while I'm there, I have to fit in.
- 4:42I have to pretend to be what I'm not.
- 4:45Now of course I'm not going to make light of the issues that
- 4:47female leaders face in business, because being a female leader in
- 4:53male dominated environments come with his own peculiar sort of
- 4:57challenges that even if I can't understand on an intellectual
- 5:00level, I'm not going to be able to understand in in an emotive
- 5:05way, in an emotional way. But please, I beg of you, my
- 5:10sisters, cousins, aunties, friends, you know, female
- 5:15listeners listening to the show. Please, I beg of you that
- 5:18whatever I say here, do not take it as mansplaining.
- 5:21I'm not mansplaining. It's just that, you know, I've
- 5:24had a conversation with my mum, conversations with my aunts,
- 5:27conversations with my Big Sisters, but I don't have any
- 5:31biological Big Sisters. But of course I have women that
- 5:33I'll I'll regard as big sis about these sorts of things.
- 5:39And there are a couple of what I say.
- 5:43Should I say misconceptions or assumptions that are going on
- 5:47out there that make things much more difficult than they need
- 5:50be. So please, when you hear this
- 5:53episode, my dear female listeners, please do not assume
- 5:55that I am mansplaining. Just think of me as your son,
- 5:59just like the son who would talk to his mother, because I've had
- 6:02these conversations with my mom. Think of me as your nephew,
- 6:05because as a nephew, I've had these conversations with my
- 6:07aunties. Think of me as your boyfriend,
- 6:12because I've had these conversations with people that
- 6:14I've dated in the past. Although now I'm happily
- 6:16married, so maybe you shouldn't be thinking of me as your
- 6:18boyfriend, but you get the whole idea.
- 6:21Think of me as your son, your younger brother, your colleague,
- 6:25your brother in church, whatever it is.
- 6:30So I'm not mansplaining. But please, if at any point you
- 6:35think that my tone is inappropriate, then I always
- 6:38give out my contact details at the end of the show.
- 6:41So yeah, reach out to me. Let me know where it is that I
- 6:44went wrong so I can, you know, take dressing and be more
- 6:49appropriate in tone when it comes to future episodes.
- 6:53So are you a female leader? And you're tired of being
- 6:57inauthentic? Like I said, the number of poor
- 6:59assumptions that come into this. And one of those assumptions is,
- 7:02you know, for some reason, female folks seem to think that
- 7:06you have to change your personality when it comes to
- 7:08work or business. Now, there are some guys who
- 7:11have those assumptions as well. Like, you know, you're a joker.
- 7:15You're the life of the party and everything, But you work in
- 7:18Zenith Bank. 8:00 AM You get to Zenith Bank.
- 7:22You button up, you suit up, you tie up.
- 7:24And then you leave all that joking at home.
- 7:26Leave all the joke outside. Then you're in the office.
- 7:29And you have to be serious, you know, because you work inside
- 7:32his bank and you are no guy. You're a big boss.
- 7:35You can't be acting like a fool. So yeah, I understand men have
- 7:39that thing. Women have that thing too.
- 7:40But women particularly feel that pressure.
- 7:43Now there's a poor assumption on the on the, on the part of, OK,
- 7:47let me come up with some. What's that word?
- 7:49Personas. So let's say the jokester is
- 7:52Chukudi. Let's go with three people.
- 7:55Jokester is Chukudi. And then there's me, Tavi,
- 7:58Shima. And then there's, let's say
- 8:00there's a lady and let's say Chidima.
- 8:02OK, so Chukudi, Chidima and then me.
- 8:05So Chukudi is a jokester. Then there's me.
- 8:08I have a very, very, very, very inappropriate sense of humour.
- 8:12So for my mom, my wife, my friends, they keep on saying it
- 8:15all the time that my sense of humour is inappropriate.
- 8:17It's crude. Very sexually crude.
- 8:20So they constantly warned me that, look, this thing you're
- 8:22saying is cool, but that's just because it's us here.
- 8:24If you say this thing outside, you're going to get lynched.
- 8:27So there's the jokes, Jokester Chukudi, then there's the
- 8:30inappropriate humor guy, That's me.
- 8:33And then there's Cheating Man. Let's say Cheating Man is
- 8:36bubbly. So we're all coming to the
- 8:40office or we're all coming to the business and we're assuming
- 8:42that we have to change our personality.
- 8:45Well, First off, there's that whole thing off.
- 8:47We have to determine that the things that we claim to be core
- 8:51parts of our personality, are they really core parts of our
- 8:54personality? Like self identifying as a
- 8:59jokester, does that really have to be a core part of who you
- 9:02are? Or self identifying as a song
- 9:05with an inappropriate sense of humor does not have to be core
- 9:08to who you are. The bubbly thing you know does
- 9:11not necessarily have to be who you are.
- 9:14There's that question, but I'm not going to go into that.
- 9:16Let's just assume that we have accepted that these are key
- 9:18parts of our personality and we're wondering how much of it
- 9:21we can bring to the work environment, how much of it we
- 9:23can bring to the office. So the first question would be,
- 9:27do you have to change your personality when showing up to
- 9:29the office or when you're in the business context?
- 9:32And the answer is no. Remember that I am tackling this
- 9:38thing like I tackle most issues on the podcast from a sales and
- 9:41business development perspective.
- 9:44So Please remember that this is how sales and business
- 9:47development people think traditionally anyway when it
- 9:50comes to this matter of personality.
- 9:52So do you have to mask your personality?
- 9:56The answer is no. And that is because from a sales
- 9:59and business development perspective, the focus is on
- 10:02being relevant to whoever you are, relevant and appropriate to
- 10:06whoever you are. So, so long as I am diagnosing
- 10:11problems on point, I understand the potential customer that I'm
- 10:14talking to while vibing along the main issues, I can still be
- 10:20my quirky self, but of course I have to be appropriate because
- 10:28right now we're talking business.
- 10:31So there absolutely is no reason why my crude sense of humor,
- 10:35especially when it comes to sexual matters.
- 10:37There's no reason why my crude sense of humour ought to come
- 10:40out in this context, because it is inappropriate.
- 10:43So you see how for sales and business development, we have a
- 10:45guiding principle. So Chukudi will still be able to
- 10:49be his rascally self so long as there's no inappropriate humour
- 10:57involved and so long as he's able to stay on point that we're
- 11:01here in the customer's house because we're trying to help the
- 11:04customer find a perfect solar system and inverter system.
- 11:08I know what not to meet their energy needs, so joking around
- 11:11or huffing around would not be a problem.
- 11:13So long as you're respecting people's privacy, you're staying
- 11:15on point, you're not being too forward.
- 11:17So you see how these kind of restrictions apply when it comes
- 11:20to traditional sales and environment.
- 11:22And it's the same sort of thing that should apply for Chidima in
- 11:25the office as well. So Chidima, you don't have to
- 11:27change your personality if you think you're bubbly and the
- 11:30office is too, to like. The office is forcing you to
- 11:37button up to be too stock up. Now there are times when some
- 11:41people have dissent, that you are in a work environment and
- 11:45there's a cultural clash and things like that.
- 11:48So in those sorts of scenarios, you know, something has got to
- 11:53give. You know, there's some people
- 11:54who leave and say, look, this thing is not just me, so there
- 11:58are times when you might have to descend that.
- 11:59But The thing is, you'll find that in most work of business
- 12:02situations there are going to be some restrictions around dress.
- 12:06So for tavi shimmer, showing up, shoe, shirt, tie, all of that,
- 12:13you know it is what it is. There's a dress code.
- 12:15If I wanted to remain within the legal environment, it is what it
- 12:18is. There is just a dress code.
- 12:21Then there are also restrictions around propriety.
- 12:24So my sense of humor, I had to take dressing and I have taken
- 12:29dressing over the years and so I only let my hair down in quote.
- 12:32You know when I'm my wife, my mom, what else, you know,
- 12:37cousins, you know and then I can crack the off color jokes that I
- 12:40normally do although it's becoming more difficult now
- 12:43because my boys are becoming young men.
- 12:45So it's not like before when there were kids where I'd say
- 12:47something and go over their heads, I say something.
- 12:50Now they pick up on that. They say dad, what do you mean?
- 12:53And sometimes they repeat what I say.
- 12:55So for those of you who have an off color sense of humour and
- 12:59you have kids, you know, be mindful of that.
- 13:01The children are listening, so they mirror stuff.
- 13:03So let's let's be careful with the jokes that we tell around
- 13:06the house. So I was like, OK, so there are
- 13:10going to be restrictions around dress, around propriety, around
- 13:13humour, around decency. There's also going to be
- 13:16restrictions around respect. That's because Nigeria has a
- 13:19hierarchical nature of the work environment.
- 13:22It's just one of those things. So you're required to say good
- 13:26morning, Sir. What else?
- 13:30You get the whole idea. You're required to.
- 13:33OK, you don't have to double it, but you you're required to.
- 13:37And for those of you who are Nigerians, you, you get the gist
- 13:39of what I'm trying to say. If you're not Nigerian listening
- 13:42to the show, you require some more nuance on that.
- 13:44You know, hit me up, excuse me, hit me up in the DMS and then we
- 13:50can talk some more about that. But you find that these sort of
- 13:53restrictions apply to both sexes when it comes to dress,
- 13:56propriety, humor, decency, respect and all these all these
- 14:01other things. So an example that I'm going to
- 14:03give because. And this is 1 area where women
- 14:06feel picked on most of the time. And yes, I will admit that,
- 14:11yeah, there's a bit of that going on, especially in this
- 14:13environment because it looks like with each legislative, what
- 14:20do you call them When the senators that we we elect, what
- 14:24is it called when they come in for a A10 year or.
- 14:27And I can't remember what it's called, but it looks like with
- 14:30each 10 year there's always someone who is proposing a bill
- 14:33about modesty and about how women are supposed to dress and
- 14:36things like that. And you know, it just gets me
- 14:39wondering like, you know, our senators, like why won't they
- 14:41just let this issue go? You guys come in and then
- 14:43there's always this whole thing of modesty bill.
- 14:46Women were dressed like this and blah, blah, blah.
- 14:48I'm not saying these issues are not important, but I really
- 14:51think that as senators and elected representatives, you
- 14:55guys have so much more, bigger issues to talk about than how
- 15:00women dress. And I have no doubt that in the
- 15:03next set of senators are coming, it's also going to be an issue
- 15:08as well. Somebody's going to try and
- 15:09float that bill again. My thing is, yeah, men are also
- 15:14subject to those sorts of restrictions.
- 15:17I like to walk around a lot in jeans and in shorts and I have
- 15:21been evicted from 1 premises. The government office, I won't
- 15:24say what the government office is because I was wearing shorts.
- 15:29I didn't match the dress code of the establishment.
- 15:32The funny thing is the shorts I was wearing were actually in
- 15:34Cara shorts, so I was wearing a Cara top and Cara shorts, and I
- 15:37figured that traditional dressing native attire is part
- 15:40of our work, what's it called? Official work dress in Nigeria.
- 15:49So I didn't think that was going to be a problem, but I was
- 15:51evicted from the premises. And then another premise that I
- 15:55wasn't able to get entry into actually was a private
- 15:57establishment. And I found that really shocking
- 15:59and they wouldn't let me in because I was wearing shorts.
- 16:03I had to meet someone and I was wearing shorts.
- 16:05This was not in car shorts and they wouldn't let me in.
- 16:07What I found really perplexing was that it was a social
- 16:09establishment, so it's not even an office.
- 16:11It's not like I showed up to Zenith Bank in shorts, which I
- 16:15do from time to time anyway. Why?
- 16:18Why do I say Zenith Bank? I don't know.
- 16:20For some reason that the bank that I think of the most when
- 16:22I'm on the mic. Zenith and Axis.
- 16:26So where was I? Yeah.
- 16:28So these things happen to men too.
- 16:29Yes, I have been evicted from premises because I've been
- 16:33wearing shorts. So there are rules that and some
- 16:36stricture that everybody has to abode.
- 16:41Sorry, no. What's that word?
- 16:42Abide. Yeah, abide by now.
- 16:44But remember, what I said is that from a sales and business
- 16:46development perspective, so long as you focus on being relevant
- 16:50to the mission, relevant to the agenda for the call, to the
- 16:55agenda for the meeting or the whatever, then your personality
- 16:59doesn't matter. So what you should be doing
- 17:01really is just be free, You know, be yourself.
- 17:05But make sure that whenever you're speaking, whenever you're
- 17:07pursuing something, whenever you are trying to lend your weight
- 17:12behind something, you are being on point and being on agenda.
- 17:17So you make sure that we are on point with the customer needs.
- 17:21We make sure that we're on point with the departmental agenda,
- 17:25with our colleagues, you know, things like that.
- 17:28So if you do all that, then it doesn't really matter if you're
- 17:31Sanguine or if you're bubbly or if you're an SU, you know,
- 17:35scripture union, those people that dress like mommy Gio, you
- 17:38know, mommy overseer or people like to dress like grammars or
- 17:43maybe you're young and bubbly and squealy, you know, so so
- 17:49long as you are on point and on agenda, then people usually
- 17:54tolerate all kinds of personality quirks and you being
- 18:01your authentic self. So this whole thing of you have
- 18:05to change your personality when you get, when it's 8:00, and
- 18:09then switch your personality back on when it's five.
- 18:13There's just some poor assumptions there about what is
- 18:16required in the workplace. So back to the personas.
- 18:20So for I can't remember the names I came up with.
- 18:23I think I said Chukwudi, Chinima, then tavishima as me.
- 18:27So for Chukwudi, you can be your bubbly self and you can still be
- 18:31the head of the department. You just have to be on point and
- 18:34you just have to be focused. You can't say you're being
- 18:37bubbly to the point of you guys are having a departmental
- 18:40meeting and you're cracking jokes, you're straying off
- 18:43points, you're talking about stuff that is happening on
- 18:45Tiktok and you know, blah blah blah, blah, that is just being
- 18:48plain inappropriate. You can be your bubbly self and
- 18:51share the meeting in a bubbly manner, so long as you're
- 18:54sticking to what the agenda is for the day and what you're
- 18:57trying to achieve as a department so you don't have to
- 18:59show up 8:00, put on your tie, and oh, I'm Mr. Serious.
- 19:05And then 5:00 PM oh, I'm Mr. Bubbly again.
- 19:08No, it can be Mr. Bubbly all throughout the day.
- 19:11You just have to stay on point. If you're in front of a
- 19:15customer, what are you trying to achieve in this particular
- 19:17meeting? If you're in front of the
- 19:19department, what is the agenda for the meeting?
- 19:23If the meeting is over and you're sending memos back and
- 19:26forth, people are trying to do something like what is the point
- 19:30of this particular agenda, particular thing that you are
- 19:34trying to achieve? As long as you stay on task, on
- 19:38agenda, on point, people be will be willing to tolerate a whole
- 19:41bunch of stuff. Now assuming that Chukudi works
- 19:46in Zenith Bank, there are some things that would be
- 19:48inappropriate. Putting smileys and emotis,
- 19:51sorry, not emotis, rather called emoticons.
- 19:54Yeah. So putting emoticons in e-mail,
- 19:56yeah, your your department ahead is not going to tolerate that
- 19:59because it's a bank. But there's nothing to say that
- 20:03because you work in a bank and your departmental head that all
- 20:06your emails have to be here. Please find attached hereto
- 20:11forthwith, hitherto pending meeting last held on June 23rd,
- 20:212023. Please find here forthwith for
- 20:24your consideration PDF attached. There's nothing that says you
- 20:29have to talk that way. Now of course, if you're in
- 20:33legal circles, there are times when the hitherto and all those
- 20:37things have to be used because they convey a technically
- 20:41precise meaning. And maybe if you're an engineer,
- 20:45there are times when you have to use precise words.
- 20:47But for Chukwadi, who works in Zenith Bank, it'll be sufficient
- 20:51to say Chair Maker. It was.
- 20:57I enjoyed your contributions at the last meeting that we held on
- 21:0223rd of June 2004. Let me see what else In line
- 21:09with what we discussed on items number 123 and four, I think the
- 21:13next course of action should be 5-6 and seven.
- 21:17Please can you report on so, so, so and so before next week,
- 21:20Monday. The PDF is attached to this
- 21:23e-mail. It can be that simple and it's
- 21:26it's not a problem. You haven't crossed any lines.
- 21:29You haven't done anything. I'm unethical.
- 21:31So this is a joke. With the listening to the show
- 21:35you can be your bubbly self. It's not a problem.
- 21:39And so it's also the same thing with a Chidima.
- 21:42If you're a Chidima and you are an SU, for instance, and you
- 21:47really don't feel comfortable with wearing high heels because
- 21:52you think it's. I don't know.
- 21:56But we know how SU scriptural Union.
- 21:59That's how I define SU. For those of you who are not
- 22:02Nigerian SU or Scripture Union, that particular kind of What
- 22:08would I say? Should I say Christian?
- 22:11Fundamental. I'll be Christian.
- 22:14Anyway, let me stop before I get into trouble.
- 22:16But you get what I'm trying to say.
- 22:18If you're an SU person, you don't like these kind of shoes,
- 22:21have a conversation with human resources.
- 22:23I'm sure that human resources won't have a problem with you
- 22:25coming in flats and if you'd like to get to your desk and say
- 22:28your prayers before you begin. I'm sure that human resources is
- 22:31not going to have a problem with you saying your prayers before
- 22:34you begin your work, so long as you're not scabashing over the
- 22:37place and interrupting people. The point I'm just trying to
- 22:42make is that whatever you think your authentic self is, you can
- 22:45be your authentic self so long as when you show up, you try to
- 22:49be appropriate to the situation. You try to stay on task, you
- 22:52start, you try to stay on brand, you try to focus on the agenda
- 22:57that needs to be achieved. So from a sales and business
- 23:00development perspective, if you do that you'll be absolutely
- 23:02fine. And that's one of the reasons
- 23:04why in my trainings, whether online or live, I tell people
- 23:08that, look, you don't have to change your personality, you
- 23:10don't have to be me. So apart from my off colour
- 23:13humour I've been told that I have the I have the the sense of
- 23:19style and the personality of a Ghanaian school teacher.
- 23:22Now for those of you who are listening to the show who are
- 23:24Ghanaians, you know, no offence and I'm not quite sure what that
- 23:26means but it's something that I've been told by a few people.
- 23:31So if you're the for me the the formal stuffy kind of person and
- 23:36that's what you prefer, that's what you that's who you think
- 23:38you are whether you're a man or a woman then please continue
- 23:42that way you don't have to change.
- 23:45I'm talking now, particularly when it comes to sales.
- 23:49So a stuffy person can succeed in sales, a bubbly person can
- 23:53succeed in sales, a shy person can succeed in sales, an
- 23:57extroverted person, an introverted person, a Sanguine,
- 24:00A Columbic, a Gemini, a Taurus, a whatever.
- 24:03We can all be successful in sales and selling.
- 24:06We don't have to change our personality, and I think that
- 24:09within limits. The same thing applies to a
- 24:11worker in the business environment as well.
- 24:14So if you're a female leader and you're tired of being
- 24:17inauthentic, there's nothing that forces you in most work
- 24:22environments to to pretend to be someone that you're not.
- 24:30Please note I said most work environments.
- 24:32I'm assuming that if you're in the military, I'm assuming that
- 24:35you know, jokes and bubbliness and all that has to be kept to a
- 24:38minimum. So I don't know how things work
- 24:40in the military, but if you work in the Ministry of Finance,
- 24:45you're a businesswoman, you work in Zenith Bank, you work in Axis
- 24:47Bank or whatever, then you don't have to hide your authentic
- 24:52self. So long as the focus is always
- 24:55on the customer, the focus is always on the agenda, and the
- 24:57focus is always on being appropriate to the situation,
- 25:01then you can let your personality shine through.
- 25:04And you don't have to end up in nothing where you show up to
- 25:08work, you're angry and everything, but then you get
- 25:10home. You're with your husband and
- 25:12your kids, or you're not married, but you get home and
- 25:16you know, you chill with Netflix and I feel like, oh, now I'm me.
- 25:19Now I can relax. So you don't have to be
- 25:21authentic. You don't have to lie, you don't
- 25:24have to be somebody else. So it's been about 25 minutes.
- 25:26Then we bring this thing to a close.
- 25:28So this is the reason why I made the detour because like I said,
- 25:31been having lots of these conversations, especially now
- 25:33that I'm older. You know, when you're a kid,
- 25:36people don't talk to you, but then you grow older and then you
- 25:38start having some interesting conversations with your mum,
- 25:41with your aunties and with your uncles and you know, it's it's
- 25:45really interesting. So for those of you who are like
- 25:47me, who are coming of age now and your uncles and aunties are
- 25:51having some mature conversations with you, you know, please
- 25:54engage. You get to learn some more about
- 26:00family dynamics. Of course, that also reflects a
- 26:02little bit about who you are and it helps give you some wisdom
- 26:09and some understanding about how things run.
- 26:15OK, anyway, let me stop. So tomorrow I'm going to stay on
- 26:18course. I've done two episodes that are
- 26:19detours. So for those of you who are
- 26:22listening to, if yesterday and today was the first time I've
- 26:24listened to the podcast episode, don't worry, we're usually on
- 26:28point. We're usually on focus when it
- 26:30comes to this podcast because we have over 830 episodes so far
- 26:34and I can count on one hand the number of times that I have
- 26:37spoken about some of something else.
- 26:39So I made two podcast episodes on the around some time when
- 26:44Nigeria was experiencing some political upheaval that was the
- 26:48the SARS revolt 1000 people are voting against police.
- 26:52I made two SARS episodes. I've done one episode now about
- 26:56authentic female expression in the workplace and I think I did
- 27:00one yesterday where I spoke about whether God is lying with
- 27:03people. Yeah, so over 830 episodes and
- 27:06I've only deviated on 4. So if you came here for the
- 27:08business, don't worry. Tomorrow we're getting back to
- 27:10the business. So thank you very much for your
- 27:12time and attention. I'll catch you guys at the next
- 27:13episode. Remember to connect with me on
- 27:15WhatsApp. The phone number is 08064662140.
- 27:21The country code is +234. For those of you who are not
- 27:23Nigerian, then connect me on LinkedIn.
- 27:27My name is Tavishima Ayeda. I'm the host of the show.
- 27:30Hopefully by tomorrow my sore throat should be better, but if
- 27:34it's not I'll just hook up anyway and give a recording.
- 27:37Except if I've gotten to the point where I'm now sounding
- 27:40like a scratchy toad or something.
- 27:43So thanks for your time and attention.
- 27:45I'll catch you guys on the next episode.