Latest / The Personal Finance Club Show / Six Phases of Investing, Kid Money, and Slow Mortgage Payments | Ep 17
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- 0:16Welcome back to the Personal Finance Club show.
- 0:19Hey, Jen. Hi, Jer.
- 0:21Well, we're officially deep into the new year.
- 0:23It's January 8th on the day this is being released.
- 0:26And January is really big for two things, people who go to the
- 0:32gym, people who want to get their finances in order.
- 0:35And as as personal finance club, January is always our biggest
- 0:38year because people, and you know, I'm not knocking it, I'm
- 0:40saying like it's like, you know, December, holidays, eating,
- 0:46spending money, just getting through the end of the year.
- 0:51And then January is like a fresh start.
- 0:52And so finances, fitness, everyone's getting their stuff
- 0:56in order. Do you have resolutions?
- 0:58I don't. I haven't done a resolution in
- 1:00forever. I have about like 400 unused
- 1:02class pass credits. So now that you say fitness, I
- 1:04should probably. 4. 100. You can do 2A day through
- 1:08September. Well, it's funny because then
- 1:10when I do use them, I'm like, how am I running out by like the
- 1:1210th of the month? But now that they've racked up,
- 1:14I'm like, OK, I guess I could use these.
- 1:16Yeah, you can get like massages and things like that too.
- 1:19Do they roll over? You get to keep them they.
- 1:21Don't like, I like got the plan at the end of last year where
- 1:23they can roll over because that was starting to piss me off when
- 1:26I like couldn't use them. So yeah, I'm like, I kind of
- 1:29find a happy medium of how many credits I'll actually use.
- 1:32I I get a text notification every time my credit card gets
- 1:36charged. That's actually a personal
- 1:37finance tip I recommend because I think sometimes subscriptions,
- 1:42you know, whatever your credit card starts getting charged, you
- 1:45don't even know it. And so if you get a text, at
- 1:47least you're like, you know, a little bit more dialed in and
- 1:50it's got a text. 4999 a month for my Peloton subscription, my
- 1:56wife's Peloton subscription that we both can technically use.
- 2:00And I told her I was like, hey, if you're using it, you know, I
- 2:03think spending money on health and fitness is 100% like a great
- 2:08ROI. You know, if, if I could pay
- 2:10$1000 and be in like great physical fitness health by the
- 2:14end of the year, like there literally there's no better
- 2:17money you could spend, right? But if I'm spending $50.00 for a
- 2:22exercise bike to sit there with a, you know, clothes drawing on
- 2:25it or something, I'm like, oh, that's just so brutal to me.
- 2:28So yeah, I need to go look at the look at the track record of
- 2:33our Peloton usage and see what we're really paying per ride.
- 2:37Are we paying like $25 a ride because we use it twice a month?
- 2:40Are we paying $200 a ride because we use it?
- 2:43If you're paying $200 a ride, you can you can do a lot of
- 2:45$200. Yeah.
- 2:47That's true. You can ride someone for $200.
- 2:50Oh. My God, that escalated so
- 2:54quickly. I don't know.
- 2:55Okay, let's pivot. Do you have resolutions?
- 2:58I don't do resolutions either. I think just like everyone, I
- 3:02kind of want to get fit and get my finances in order but right.
- 3:05Although one thing that stuck with me lately, this is like a
- 3:07tweet I saw or a threat, I guess it was that says you don't need
- 3:1175 hard, you need 362 SH medium. And and I really like that
- 3:17because I think, I think my resolution would be just just do
- 3:20a SH medium job more consistently because because I'm
- 3:22very like I'm like a yo-yo diet or yo-yo fitness person where
- 3:25I'm like, like, all right, Monday legs, Tuesday chest,
- 3:30Wednesday cardio, Thursday hit. And I do it for like a month.
- 3:34And I'm like, yeah. And then I'm like, oh, I'm so
- 3:36sick of this. I'm going to do nothing for a
- 3:37month, you know? So I'm going to just try to stay
- 3:39more SH medium for me. So relatable.
- 3:43I did 75 hard. It was pretty amazing.
- 3:44But yeah, it definitely didn't keep it up obviously.
- 3:46It's insane. Yeah, I still kind of want to do
- 3:50that just to see what happens, but I think like the better life
- 3:53advice would be just. Just yeah.
- 3:55Be more consistent. I cannot imagine doing it with
- 3:57kids, like having to feed a child and then having to like
- 3:59maintain this consistency and working out twice a day.
- 4:02Like, I don't know by the end of it, though, I will say my
- 4:05outside workout was almost always a walk, which is amazing.
- 4:08Like a 45 minute walk is really good for you.
- 4:10But like, it was like at the beginning I was like Culver City
- 4:13steps, like hiking. And then at the end it was like,
- 4:16all right, we're going to get outside, take a walk.
- 4:18I'm. Going to send my rocking chair,
- 4:20yeah. It's like I'm outside
- 4:22technically. Push, push my toes back and
- 4:24forth and rock. Got it in.
- 4:27Little meditation, all right, So no resolutions, but trying to
- 4:31just be better in 2026, OK. This is this is the big year.
- 4:35We're trying to be better. And let's make the podcast huge.
- 4:38I want to finally unseat Joe Rogan for the number one
- 4:41podcast. You know, we've been in the,
- 4:43we've been in the millions for long enough.
- 4:45Let's get to #1. Oh my.
- 4:49God, our three listeners are going to think that's hilarious.
- 4:51Yeah, my, I didn't know. I just came back from North
- 4:53Carolina. I didn't know my parents knew
- 4:55who Charlemagne was. I was like talking about him
- 4:57with my brother. And they were like, my dad goes
- 4:59Charlemagne, the God. I almost fell out of my seat.
- 5:02But he just signed a $200 million deal with iHeartRadio.
- 5:04So let's either let's get to Charlemagne and or Joe Rogan
- 5:07territory in terms of numbers maybe not ideals.
- 5:11I think, I don't know who Charlemagne is, but it sounds
- 5:14like he's he or they or it is successful so.
- 5:17He's doing very well. I'm trying to get there all
- 5:19right. Let's be found in them.
- 5:21Let's get into it, explain it like I'm 5.
- 5:28What's the topic this week, Jen? OK.
- 5:30You have posted so many times about the six phases of
- 5:34investing. We'll have Sahil put a picture
- 5:36up here for us. Can you break down those phases
- 5:39and tell us why the order is important?
- 5:42Yeah. I call this phases of investing,
- 5:44but it's more, it's really more general than that.
- 5:46It's really the what do I do with this money question?
- 5:52It's the answer to that. And and the reason I think that
- 5:56question needs an answer is because people make their life
- 6:01very complex and their financial life too.
- 6:05And a typical individual, I was told once in high school English
- 6:11class to never use the word person.
- 6:13Like don't ever write the word person in a in a paper.
- 6:16Because if you're talking about firefighters, say firefighter,
- 6:19don't just say person. But I'm never talking about
- 6:21firefighters. I'm always talking about humans.
- 6:25Who? Yeah.
- 6:25But you just said individual makes you sound like ChatGPT, so
- 6:28maybe I can workshop some things.
- 6:30And you know why I said individual?
- 6:32Why? Because Miss Martin in 11th
- 6:34grade high school said you can't say person, but you can't say
- 6:38individual. So we also start individual and
- 6:40we meant person and it's. Worse.
- 6:41Yeah, it's worse. So what?
- 6:45What do you call a person who's like, working on their finances
- 6:47like a a financier like Jeffrey Epstein?
- 6:51No. God, you are on a roll today.
- 6:55How do we go to riding people on Jeffrey Epstein?
- 6:58No, no. Don't say it again, all right?
- 7:02This individual's fine. Individual's fine.
- 7:04All right, individual, we'll go with ChatGPT, but at least you
- 7:06know, this isn't AI. All right, So, but it's an
- 7:09answer to the question. Like if you're a person, I'm
- 7:11just going to say a person. If you're a person who has some
- 7:13money, this is what you're typically doing.
- 7:14You're like like, OK, I want to be investing.
- 7:16So I think I'm going to buy some stocks and I'm saving for this
- 7:20car. So I'm saving, but I also have
- 7:22this debt. So I'm paying off the debt and I
- 7:24also, I think I'm going to do my 4-O1K or maybe I'm going to buy
- 7:27some insurance and maybe I'm going to, you know, maybe I'm
- 7:31going to do a high yield savings account.
- 7:32I heard bonds are going to think I'm going to do some bonds and
- 7:35you're, and you're just kind of like flailing with these like 14
- 7:40kind of all orthogonally aligned goals.
- 7:42Does that sound familiar to you at all?
- 7:45What orthogonally? No, no, like this, this like
- 7:49feeling of just like trying to do.
- 7:51Oh yeah, sounds like everybody I pretty much know.
- 7:54Totally. Exactly.
- 7:55So we all do this and then and then, you know, you get a bonus
- 7:58of $3000 at work or whatever, or tax return or whatever.
- 8:02And then you're like, OK, well, what do I do this money?
- 8:04Do I, you know, and it's kind of almost like what did I hear
- 8:08about most recently? Should I pass some debts?
- 8:10Should I invest? Should I save for kids college?
- 8:12Should I pay down my mortgage? Should I save for something?
- 8:15And, and, and this is an ordering that you should do.
- 8:20And it kind of simplifies all these decisions and the way I
- 8:24like to. And, and by the way, like, you
- 8:25know, this isn't totally novel in the world of personal
- 8:29finance. If you read like 10 personal
- 8:31finance books, probably six of them are going to have some
- 8:33similar prioritization of what to do with your money.
- 8:37And this is the one that I, you know, it's, it's pretty base.
- 8:40I I think keeping it simple, it's what's really important,
- 8:42which is why there's only 6. So here it goes.
- 8:44This is basically what you do with your next dollar number one
- 8:46phase one, Max out your 4-O1K up to your match.
- 8:50So if you have a job that offers a four O 1K and they offer a
- 8:54match, which means if you put in a dollar, they put a dollar or
- 8:57sometimes it's a partial match like you put in a dollar, they
- 8:59put in $0.50. If you don't do that, you're not
- 9:04literally, but you're what's the opposite of literally?
- 9:07You're metaphorically, you're figuratively.
- 9:10Thank you. You're figuratively flushing
- 9:12money down the toilet. Literally thrush flushing money
- 9:15down the toilet would be, you know, taking cash out of your
- 9:18wallet and putting the toilet and, and clicking the flush
- 9:20button. Do you click it?
- 9:23Although I heard that, didn't I heard Miriam Webster change the
- 9:26definition literally to mean figuratively because everyone
- 9:30used it wrong And and they're like, we're not telling you what
- 9:34the words mean. We just record with how they're
- 9:37used. No, I hate that.
- 9:39I hate that. Words mean things.
- 9:40That's the. Whole I agree, I think they
- 9:43literally change the word literally to mean wow,
- 9:46figuratively so anyway so. Terrible.
- 9:48All right, phase #1 Max out your 41K.
- 9:50If you don't put money into your 4-O1K.
- 9:52If you have a match, then you're flushing money down the toilet.
- 9:56Even if you did the worst possible thing financially,
- 9:58which was too. Then the next day go drain your
- 10:014-O1K of all the money, pay the tax, pay the penalty, yadda
- 10:04yadda yadda. That match is so much money,
- 10:06it's more than the tax and penalty combined.
- 10:08So you still end up with more money.
- 10:09Could then take it out and go, you know, buy, you know, a
- 10:12sports car with it or something but better yet just leave it in
- 10:16there because you're going to be a little bit better for, you
- 10:18know the long term. OK, that's phase one Max out
- 10:20your for 1K. Phase two pay off all non
- 10:23mortgage debt. So if you have car loans,
- 10:27student loans, credit card loans, medical debt, personal
- 10:31loans, anything that's not backed by a house paid off.
- 10:36And the reason is we as Americans have become so that
- 10:42crazy that we're all kind of have this like crazy backwards
- 10:48way of thinking where you think you borrow money to spend money
- 10:51and then you spend your whole life trying to pay the debt
- 10:54back. And instead, and I think of debt
- 10:58as like a down escalator when you're trying to go up, right?
- 11:02And if you're trying to build wealth, debt pushes you down the
- 11:05path, right? You're in debt, you're negative,
- 11:07you're way in the negative and it's going down, you know,
- 11:11because you're paying interest on it.
- 11:12So the more debt you acquire, the faster escalators.
- 11:15And so if you can pay off all that non mortgage debt, get at
- 11:18the top of that down escalator, suddenly now you're not like in
- 11:22this rat race just trying to keep your head above water
- 11:24anymore. Now you can kind of stand on
- 11:26solid ground and build some wealth.
- 11:28So that's phase two path. All your non mortgage debt.
- 11:30Phase three, save an emergency fund.
- 11:33These first 3 phases, if you see the graphic, they're in red.
- 11:36That's kind of like your defense.
- 11:38You go from defense 1st and offense.
- 11:39So defense is Lauren K half your Dutt and save an emergency fund.
- 11:44Emergency fund is a savings account, a high yield savings
- 11:46account, money market fund just a pile of cash somewhere.
- 11:50It has like 3 to 6 months of your monthly expenses.
- 11:55So if you spend 3000 bucks a month, there would be 9000 to
- 12:0018,000 bucks. You know, call 10, call 15, pick
- 12:03a number. And the reason you do this is
- 12:06because shit comes up in your life.
- 12:08Car breaks down, medical emergency job loss, you know,
- 12:12sick kid. You know, there's this stuff
- 12:14that comes up and you don't want to be living so close to the
- 12:17edge that any little bump on the road like throws you back that
- 12:20down escalator, right. And people are really excited by
- 12:23investing as they should be. It's like the miracle of
- 12:26positive compound growth is, is one of the wonders of the world.
- 12:29But the best, you know, offense can be a good defense, right?
- 12:33Because if you keep getting thrown down this down escalator
- 12:36of debt, you're going to be in the washing machine of, of, you
- 12:40know, not getting above water. I'm like mixing my metaphors,
- 12:43but you get you don't want to be an escalators or underwater.
- 12:47So there's your first 3 phases. Phase #4 now is invest so that
- 12:51you're on pace for a healthy retirement.
- 12:53And so how you basically figure out how much money per month I
- 12:57need to be putting into investments to make sure that
- 12:59when I'm age 65, I will be able to retire and not be, you know,
- 13:04at risk of being destitute, right?
- 13:06And you can go to you can use a investment growth calculator
- 13:10like the one at hellonectarine.com or just
- 13:13Google Nectarine calculator. It's your first hit.
- 13:16And you can type in your age, your income, how much money you
- 13:19currently have invested, how much money you're saving per
- 13:21month. And it's going to tell you the
- 13:23percent chance of a likely successful retirement, how much
- 13:26money you'll have a retirement. It's really cool.
- 13:28It's got inflation, it's got all these features built right in.
- 13:30And so figure out how much you're doing there.
- 13:32So like let's say just and the way these phases work is you
- 13:35just do the the first one until you're fully done with it, then
- 13:39you just do the second one until you're fully done with it.
- 13:41So these are like 14 different orthogonal means like like not
- 13:46perpendicular like. Is that what it means?
- 13:49I this is the first time I'm hearing this word.
- 13:52Really. That's like I used it.
- 13:53Twice. I mean, well, I know now I feel
- 13:55like I need to explain it because you, you acted confused
- 13:58before, but I'm like a computer programmer.
- 14:00So sometimes, like words, I think are like normal every
- 14:04single day. Words are words people like,
- 14:06don't even use ever. Do you ever use the word
- 14:08default? Like, oh, that's like the
- 14:10default option. Yeah, OK, I used that once and
- 14:13someone's like, oh, I never said it where I was like, what's that
- 14:15word mean? I was like, really?
- 14:16I was like, that's like like a, that's like, I thought maybe it
- 14:18was like a computer programming thing.
- 14:20No. I mean, maybe it's something
- 14:21different to you, but it's very. Basic, yeah, it's like the
- 14:23default option. It's like, OK, if you don't
- 14:25choose, that's what you get. OK.
- 14:26Yeah. Anyway, this is not our default.
- 14:29It's not orthogonal. And orthogonal means these
- 14:32things are all pointing in different directions, right?
- 14:33Like parallel means, OK, we're all aligned.
- 14:36Orthogonal means they're going in different directions.
- 14:39And if you're all going in different directions, it's very
- 14:41hard to make progress. And so that's why you do these
- 14:43things in order. You do phase one until you're
- 14:45fully done. You pay off all loan, you know,
- 14:47you Max out your 41K until you're totally done with the
- 14:51match again. And that should take like 5
- 14:53minutes. Either you have it if you don't,
- 14:54if you don't, you skip it. If you have it, you just fill
- 14:56out your form at work. Done.
- 14:57Phase two, you pass on on mortgage debt for some of you,
- 15:00for many of you, you might already be there.
- 15:02You're like, oh, I don't have any debt besides my house.
- 15:04Great. If you have 100 grand in debt,
- 15:07then that's going to take a few years to get out of it.
- 15:09And then you're in phase two for a few years.
- 15:12But it's way better to be in phase two for a few years than
- 15:15for the rest of your life. Because when you're focused on
- 15:18phase two, getting out of debt and not trying to do the 14
- 15:21other thing things, then you can actually get out of phase two
- 15:24and get out of that down escalator, OK?
- 15:26Once you're out of debt, then you save the emergency fund and
- 15:29of course you have some cash. It's going to be in your
- 15:31checking account. You're not going to like be
- 15:32totally cash broke this time, but you're going to save a more
- 15:35significant emergency fund. Once you pay off all your debt,
- 15:38then phase 4, figure out how much per month you have to
- 15:41invest tilling on pace for healthy retirement.
- 15:43Once you can fulfill that and you're beyond that and you have
- 15:46more money, you're now you're getting to be in pretty good
- 15:49shape here. Now time to save for a house,
- 15:52save for a down payment for a house or kids college.
- 15:55Anybody's saying whoa, whoa, whoa, you don't want me to save
- 15:57for a house until I'm like on pace for healthy retirement.
- 16:01And my answer is no, I don't like if you aren't going to even
- 16:05be able to like retire, it means you're going to be broke.
- 16:09That means you're going to like not be able to eat.
- 16:11Then I don't think it's time to get into more debt to buy this
- 16:14massive asset, right. So you know, I want you to at
- 16:19least be debt free and being able to take care of yourself
- 16:23face for is kind of the minimum for I'm going to be able to make
- 16:26it through through life here and I'm not drowning in in financial
- 16:29problems. Then you can talk about being a
- 16:31homeowner if you want to, but you don't have to be.
- 16:33You can be a renter. That's totally fine too.
- 16:35And saving for kids college. Same thing for kids college.
- 16:37I think the oxygen math school. I've been flying with kids a lot
- 16:40lately and every single time I fly the flight attendant comes
- 16:43to our row and says when the masks come down, do yours 1st
- 16:46and then do the kids. The reason is because if you're
- 16:49monkeying with your little toddler who's like squirming,
- 16:51you're going to pass out and die and then you're both going to
- 16:54die. So you put yours on in 2
- 16:55seconds, then you do the kids get your own finances in order
- 16:58first, then help save for kids college, right?
- 17:01If you aren't even able to save enough to retire, it's not time
- 17:05to worry about your kids college.
- 17:06Like your kids going to maybe get financially.
- 17:09Maybe you have to work through college and maybe take some
- 17:11debt. Maybe you're going to help them
- 17:12later when you have more money, when they're college age.
- 17:14Whatever it is, you'll help them then.
- 17:16But now is not the time. But phase 5 is a time.
- 17:19Once you're investing for health, retirement, then phase
- 17:22six. Phase 6 means you've maxed out
- 17:24your 4-O1K. You're paid off all non non
- 17:26mortgage debt. You have an emergency fund.
- 17:28You're investing at least enough to retire at age 65 based on a
- 17:32retirement calculator like at hellonectarine.com.
- 17:35You've saved enough for a house if you want one, and you've
- 17:38saved enough for kids college. Now you're like in very, very
- 17:41good, very solid financial footing.
- 17:42You're probably on pace to be a millionaire multimillionaire.
- 17:45Phase 6 is invest more or pay off your mortgage or do both.
- 17:50And I always get this question from people in phase six, which
- 17:53one do I do? And the answer is whichever 1
- 17:56you want. You know, if you have a 2%
- 17:58mortgage that you got in 2021 and your your house is worth 4
- 18:04times your debt and you're super comfortable with your super low
- 18:07mortgage payment, then maybe don't pay it off.
- 18:10Or maybe do you know, because some people just don't want debt
- 18:13and they want to not have a mortgage payment all and take
- 18:15that mortgage payment that they used to be making and put into
- 18:17investing, that'd be fine too. This was no really wrong answer
- 18:20there. And there's not one that's going
- 18:21to like guarantee you a better outcome.
- 18:23It's really more about just what you want out of life.
- 18:25You know, if you have like a six or seven or 8% mortgage, then
- 18:28I'd probably say, yeah, go hard on that mortgage or just order
- 18:31to do a little bit of both during phase six.
- 18:33So yeah, this is really the forget the 14 different
- 18:36orthogonal arrows pointing. You can't really have 14
- 18:40orthogonal arrows. You can have like, you know, 2
- 18:42on a flat surface and three and a three plane beyond that.
- 18:46Come on, isn't this personal physics club?
- 18:49PPC physics starts with an F sound.
- 18:54But yeah, you can't. So instead of having these 14
- 18:56different arrows pointing different direction, this is
- 18:59just going in order. And this is a really tough pill
- 19:02for a lot of people to swallow because they're like, oh, just
- 19:05because I've got student loans, you don't want to be a my buy
- 19:07house. I was like, hey, I want you to
- 19:08own a house. I just don't want you to like be
- 19:11in like this crippling debt forever.
- 19:12I want you to get out of debt fast, which is what which is
- 19:16requires focus. Then you can get on to buying a
- 19:19house. Boom, love the breakdown aids of
- 19:23investing y'all Check it out. OK, Should we move on to our
- 19:27next segment? Can I ask a dumb one?
- 19:32OK, we have a question from Cilicia.
- 19:34OK, Cilicia asks. And that you know that actually
- 19:38it's quite topical. Or explain it like I'm 5.
- 19:41Should I pay off my student loans quickly after I finish
- 19:44paying my car off or put the extra money towards investing
- 19:47and the minimum monthly payments on my student loans?
- 19:50I would be done in 10 years that way while putting all the extra
- 19:52cash towards investing. I'm 39 with $27,000 in my 401K.
- 19:58Currently investing up to my company match at 6%.
- 20:01I have a $5000 emergency fund, no other savings and no other
- 20:04investing accounts. My debt is a car at 7.55%
- 20:08interest with 36,000 left to pay and my student loans are at 5.5%
- 20:13interest with 77,000 left to pay.
- 20:16I currently rent and have no desire to buy a house.
- 20:18Currently I'm paying my car but wondering what I should do when
- 20:21that's done. Jeremy.
- 20:23That is topical. How nice, Jen.
- 20:26Whoever organizes these episodes is just crushing it.
- 20:29So Cilicia. Cilicia's asking.
- 20:33I hope I'm saying your name right.
- 20:34Cilicia. Cilicia yes, I like your name.
- 20:38And it's really, it's spelled really beautiful.
- 20:39SALISEA Cilicia It's got a lot of vowels in it and a lot of
- 20:45sounds. I love it.
- 20:47So Cilicia is asking, OK, I'm going to pay off this car, but
- 20:50after I'm done paying the car, she's talking about these
- 20:53orthogonal arrows. Should I?
- 20:56Which? Which one should I do?
- 20:57Your cap no more. That's the one we.
- 20:58Don't say orthogonal 16 more times this episode.
- 21:02I'm just going to delete it. There's not.
- 21:04There's not a minimum orthogonal orthogonality.
- 21:07How about that? I'm I'm counting it.
- 21:10There's a minimum orthogonality. I doubt that's a word.
- 21:12I feel like something's either orthogonal or it's not.
- 21:15There's not a level of orthognality.
- 21:18Yeah, it's binary. Thank you for binary count.
- 21:20That too. This.
- 21:21This is a great episode of Personal Computer Programmer
- 21:23Club. OK, so Solis is asking about
- 21:26these arrows, like, OK, what? How do I prioritize?
- 21:30And my answer is, you know, my answer to her, to her question
- 21:35is the phases of investing. Pay off all your debt first,
- 21:38then worry about investing. But my real answer is, is, girl,
- 21:43I need to be a little bit real with you right now.
- 21:47You're 39, you're about, you're generalized age and we're not
- 21:50the springiest of chickens, if you know what I'm saying.
- 21:53We've we've been in the been in the world for a few years.
- 21:56You've got $27,000 invested. You know, this is a little
- 22:00question. I don't know your entire
- 22:01financial situation, but it sounds like you have $27,000
- 22:03invested. You just bought a car that you
- 22:08still owe $36,000 on. So you're a car that you drive
- 22:14around in that's losing 10% of its value every single year.
- 22:18That's going to be worth like 10 grand in a few years.
- 22:21When you go to sell it. That's just plummeting in value.
- 22:24Plus you have to pay for insurance, plus you have to pay
- 22:27for gas, plus you have to pay for maintenance.
- 22:29This thing is a money pit. You spent more money on that
- 22:35than you have money in the world.
- 22:38You do not have a should I pay this, that off or this?
- 22:42That's not your problem. And by the way, I'm saying this
- 22:45with like a heart of love and caring because I only would
- 22:50speak so dramatically if I because I care and want the best
- 22:54of you. But you don't have like a pay
- 22:56this off or that off prom. You have a 2 rules prom.
- 23:00You are not living below your means and you're not investing
- 23:02early enough and you're living way above your means.
- 23:05I never bought, I never went to debt for $36,000 for a car.
- 23:10That would be crazy to me. One time in my life I borrowed
- 23:13money for a car. It was a used car.
- 23:15It cost $10,000 and I borrowed and I put down $5000 and I I
- 23:19borrowed $5000 for that. This was a while ago.
- 23:22This was, you know, 2006 or something.
- 23:24So it was 20 years ago. So, you know, if you're going to
- 23:27cry inflation sales are made-up numbers double it Say it was a
- 23:29$20,000 car and I put down $10 and I borrowed 10,000 fine.
- 23:33But still, I'm not borrowing $40,000 for a car at 7.55%
- 23:38interest, you know, and I don't, I don't even need.
- 23:40I just want to apologize on behalf of the Personal Violence
- 23:43Club podcast that Jeremy's yelling at.
- 23:45You just getting out of control, but go ahead.
- 23:47I agree. I mean, I agree because you
- 23:50know, I hate would be like, oh, Jeremy's like the the finger
- 23:52wagger and telling people that they're naughty or whatever, and
- 23:55I don't want to, but like, you know, that's the reality here.
- 23:58And The thing is like, I want you to drive a beautiful car.
- 24:02I bet your car is beautiful. I bet it's got a moonroof.
- 24:05I bet it's got alloy wheels. Moonroof, not a sunroof, OK.
- 24:08Cool. No, the moonroof, man.
- 24:09That's what's on all the the descriptions.
- 24:11Oh, I haven't bought a new car in a long time.
- 24:13Yeah, I've seen a. Sunroof.
- 24:15My my Honda Civic has a sunroof. That's a rust hole gem that's on
- 24:19a sunroof. I'm like Fred Flintstone.
- 24:21I'm like I'm peddling with my feet.
- 24:23I know she stays on gas and she's getting in shape.
- 24:25That's how you do it. All my resolutions at once.
- 24:28Well, yeah, sleazy. I'm sure your car is beautiful.
- 24:30I want you to drive a beautiful car.
- 24:32But this car, it's going to make you broke, and I'm telling you
- 24:36why. OK, I just ran some baseline
- 24:38numbers and I don't know your entire situation.
- 24:39So I'm going to like kind of make some assumptions here to
- 24:41give you an example. But I'm going to assume you make
- 24:43the US median household income of $80,000 a year about.
- 24:47And you said that you have $29,000 or sorry, $27,000 in
- 24:52your 4-O1K. And you're doing your full 1K
- 24:54math, which is 6 percent, 6% of $80,000.
- 24:58Your income is $4000. So if you have $27,000
- 25:03investments and you add $4000 a year, I went to the Nectarine
- 25:07investment growth calculator to do this.
- 25:10That predicts age 65, you'll have $463,000.
- 25:16By the way, that accounts for inflation.
- 25:17So you can think of that as today's dollars, which is
- 25:20nothing to sneeze at, by the way, but to maintain your
- 25:24current standard of living, it gives you a 3% chance of
- 25:27success. You cannot live like you're
- 25:30living now on $463,000, which means you are going to keep
- 25:35working until your 70s or 80s or have to dramatically like move
- 25:39to a apartment community or, you know, definitely downsize your
- 25:42car. You know, you don't want to be
- 25:44in a situation where you're in financial desperation when it's
- 25:49time for retirement, right? And so right now, you have a 97%
- 25:52chance of failure based on where you're going right now.
- 25:54But let's look at this, let's say you sell your car and from
- 25:58now on you buy cars in cash. I bet you have an $800 a month
- 26:02car payment. Having a, you know, buying a
- 26:03$40,000 car and 8%, you know, do the math, whatever the term is,
- 26:08it's probably around 800 bucks a month, which is about crazy
- 26:11enough as it sounds. The US median new car payment,
- 26:14now $800 a month times 12 months times 12 months, is $9600 per
- 26:21year. If you add that $9600 to the
- 26:23$4800 you're already investing, that's 14,400.
- 26:27So you could go from investing about $5000 a year to investing
- 26:31about $15,000 a year just by not having this $800 a month car
- 26:36payment. That is $14,400 a year of your
- 26:42$80,000 salary. Not crazy, right?
- 26:44Like you can still live on a lot.
- 26:47So that what that one change, that one change, what difference
- 26:53would it make? Instead of having forty,
- 26:54$463,000 of retirement, you'd have $1.2 million of retirement.
- 27:00It would triple your retirement and it would take your chance of
- 27:03success from 3% to 98%. And so this whole like, should I
- 27:09pay off the Student Loans or like, pay off, you know, like
- 27:12that ain't your problem. And like, you know, the answer
- 27:14is like, yeah, I'd pay off your debt first.
- 27:15The problem is you're living above your means.
- 27:17If you're doing it at 39, you're going to be doing it at 44.
- 27:19You're going to be doing it at 49.
- 27:20You're going to be doing it at 54.
- 27:22You're going to be doing it at 59.
- 27:23You got to make a change, girl. So housing, car, job, the big
- 27:28things. Get those in order.
- 27:30Live below your means, invest early and often.
- 27:32Pay off your debt fast, fast, fast.
- 27:34I'd sell the car. I mean, that's crazy.
- 27:35Sell this $40,000 car, buy a $10,000 car.
- 27:38Take your $30,000 path alone, path the other 6000 path.
- 27:42Pay off your student loans. Then you're going to have, you
- 27:45know, 2 or $3000 a month extra. Put that towards investing,
- 27:49upgrading car then. But you got to make a change
- 27:52because this is you kind of on a collision course for not being
- 27:54able to retire. Girl.
- 27:58I know, sorry. My friends selling a 2014 Ford
- 28:04Fiesta for like 5000 bucks so you know slide of my DMS. And
- 28:08you know, like you laugh at that, but 2014 was like a blink
- 28:11of an eye ago when people bought a 2014, they're like, oh, this
- 28:14like, you know, it was this super modern car.
- 28:16I remember driving the 98 car and it had an airbag and an
- 28:19automatic seat belt and it had like all the stuff.
- 28:21And then people like, Oh, I need a modern car.
- 28:23I'm like 2014 that's like this futuristic year.
- 28:25And you know, it's going to take a little bit of maintenance.
- 28:27You know, you got to go to the mechanic and send them 500 bucks
- 28:29once a year or so when you when you drive a 2014 Ford, but 500
- 28:33bucks a year is a heck of a lot less than 10,000 bucks a year
- 28:37for a new car payment. And it's just about it's just
- 28:40people found this like keeping up with the Joneses trap, you
- 28:44know, like, oh, like even I'm falling to do I talk.
- 28:49I was listening to one of our recent episodes in the drive in
- 28:51today and I was talking about how I want this Rivian and it's
- 28:53just like, do I really need an $80,000 car?
- 28:56And you know 1000% of. My dollar car payment.
- 29:01Right, exactly. I think it's a $700.00 lease or
- 29:03whatever. Like, you know, my net worth
- 29:05saves about $6 million and $80,000 car would be what, like
- 29:08about 1% of that. So yeah, I could buy it if I
- 29:11wanted, but like, it still is a terrible financial decision.
- 29:13Celicia, you're not talking about 1% of your net worth.
- 29:16You're talking about like 200% of your net worth.
- 29:19You're talking about more than all the money you have in the
- 29:21world. So yeah, you got to, you got to
- 29:24get it over. But, but trust me, when you
- 29:28drive a car and you paid in cash and you have no debt in this
- 29:32world, it's going to drive so sweet.
- 29:34It's going to sound so good. It's going to feel so good.
- 29:36You're going to sleep better. You're going to feel better,
- 29:38like your life is going to be better and your future's going
- 29:41to be better. And so the lesson here isn't,
- 29:45you know, you have to live this like life of poverty to drive a
- 29:47shitty car. Now, I want you to drive an
- 29:49amazing car, but you can't do it out of order or else you're
- 29:52going to always be, you know, you're going to be unhappy.
- 29:55It's going to the debt's going to eat away at you from the
- 29:57inside. I can tell it's eating away at
- 29:58you because you're asking this question.
- 30:00You just the numbers in your numbers in this question, you
- 30:02have $110,000 of debt here. That's going to suck thinking
- 30:06about that and paying into it every single day.
- 30:08If you can go nuts and get rid of that in two to three years by
- 30:11just picking up some side hustles, extra shifts at work,
- 30:14getting a raise, switching jobs, getting rid of the car, just
- 30:17dumping money after money after money for two to three years.
- 30:20Go hard when you're 42, which by the way is still pretty young
- 30:24because I'm 45. And then you have 0 debt and you
- 30:27have thousands of dollars free and clear cash flow that you can
- 30:30invest and save and buy cars with in cash.
- 30:34Life's going to be good, but you're not going to get there
- 30:36unless you make some dramatic changes temporarily.
- 30:39OK. Tough, this is a long rant.
- 30:40Sorry Cilicia, it was a long run.
- 30:44Call off the dogs for a minute. But you know, tough love, you
- 30:46need it, you need it. OK.
- 30:48All right, let's move on to our next segment, Scroll Patrol.
- 30:56Scroll Patrol. This is a little bit longer.
- 30:59This came to us in Adm to our Personal Finance club inbox on
- 31:02Instagram. Feel free to send over any
- 31:03videos you want us to review. It's a little bit long, but I
- 31:07like the way she breaks it down so well.
- 31:11I kind of spoiled it a little bit, but.
- 31:14I already know she and I already know breaks it down.
- 31:18But go ahead and click on that and we'll watch this together.
- 31:20I hope this is a similar gender. Let's see what?
- 31:22Let's see what she says. All right.
- 31:24Do not overpay your mortgage. I love what this person did, but
- 31:28it could have potentially cost them millions.
- 31:30Let's take it to the whiteboard. Don't get lost in the numbers.
- 31:33Understand the concept. Let's take a $500,000 loan at 4%
- 31:39for 30 years. The principal and interest
- 31:43payment would be about $2400. If we make this monthly payment
- 31:49for 30 years, we will end up paying $859,000 on the loan.
- 31:54We owed 500, so in interest alone we pay $359,000.
- 32:01OK, let's talk about what it will look like if we pay over
- 32:05that to get it paid off by year 15.
- 32:08To get this loan paid off in 15 years, the borrower would have
- 32:13to contribute $3730 per month. If they did that for 15 years,
- 32:21they would end up paying $671,000 on the loan.
- 32:27They owed 500, so the interest on the loan would only be 171.
- 32:33So instead of paying 359 in interest, they pay 171 in
- 32:37interest. They end up saving about
- 32:40$188,000 over that time. OK, that's a win.
- 32:47But we spent $1343 per month in overpayment.
- 32:54If instead of overpaying the mortgage, what if we would have
- 32:57taken that and invested it? What would that look like?
- 33:01So instead of overpaying the mortgage, we take this.
- 33:03We invested in the S&P 500 average is 10% and we do that
- 33:08for 15 years. At the end of that, you'd have
- 33:13$550,000. So here's the question, would
- 33:18you rather save 188 in interest or would you rather have
- 33:22$550,000 in an investment account at the end of that 15
- 33:25years? Let's keep it going, let this
- 33:28money only compound at 10% for another 15 years.
- 33:33You have about $2.3 million and a paid off house.
- 33:37Now I know some of you guys value Peace of Mind having debt
- 33:40paid off. So at the end of that 15 years
- 33:42you have this 5:50. You can take it, pay off the
- 33:45loan. You would owe 359 about at that
- 33:49point, pay it off and you'd still have another 219 in the
- 33:54account. Then you could let that 219
- 33:58compound for 15 years and have $914,000 and a paid off house K.
- 34:08Don't get lost in the numbers. I know mortgages vary and homes
- 34:11vary and things like that. It's the concept you have to
- 34:13compound your money. Paying your mortgage early
- 34:17almost is never going to be the best financial move.
- 34:19All right, the money, Mom, I don't think I know that creator.
- 34:24You know, us influencers use the word crater to sound just every
- 34:30a little tiny bit less obnoxious or pretentious and it doesn't
- 34:34work. So yeah, you know, I haven't, I
- 34:39didn't. You know, I'm watching this in
- 34:41real time, so I didn't check the math, but everything there looks
- 34:43correct to me. You know, I do think that you
- 34:46took a long time to basically say investing at 10% will grow
- 34:51faster than that at 4% will cost you.
- 34:55And that's not news to me. You know, her advice there is
- 35:01kind of baked into the phases of investing we just talked about,
- 35:07which is don't pay off your mortgage early until you're at
- 35:11least on pace for a healthy retirement.
- 35:13And then phase six, like we talked about is choose, you
- 35:18know, if you were actually at phase six and you know, you've
- 35:22paid off your debt, your non mortgage debt and you've saved
- 35:24emergency on yadda, yadda, yadda.
- 35:26And you're choosing between paying off your mortgage or
- 35:28investing. The whole point of her video is
- 35:30saying don't do the mortgage invest.
- 35:33And I actually disagree with that.
- 35:37I think that's a fine option, but I'm not as emphatic about it
- 35:41for a few reasons. One, 4% loans aren't happening
- 35:47right now. You know, right now they're like
- 35:497% to 10% is the historical average of the S&P 500.
- 35:54But that's over long periods of time.
- 35:57If you have a bad 10 year run, there's been bad 10 year runs
- 36:00like from the year 2000 to 2010 where your total return was
- 36:03around 0. And so if you are like, let's
- 36:07say you have a 7% loan and for the next 10 years the stock
- 36:10market returns zero and you do what she suggests, you'd put
- 36:14yourself in a dramatically worse situation.
- 36:16And so while the very simple spreadsheet math says 10% will
- 36:20be 4%, of course it will, but it's not a guaranteed for 10% or
- 36:24the 4% debt is guaranteed. So I think that isn't
- 36:29represented in that video. And she also kind of mentions if
- 36:34you have Peace of Mind by paying off debt, she's like just paid
- 36:39off in 15 years. And I'm like, yeah, you could do
- 36:41that. It's not fully fair because you
- 36:43have to pay capital gains tax and some some income tax and the
- 36:47dividends along the way. And so you know, it's and and
- 36:50you know, to her crash, she's like don't get lost in numbers.
- 36:52And you know, some of these things are kind of rounding
- 36:54error. But she's saying basically you
- 36:56could just invest for 15 years and then take some of the
- 36:59investments, pay it all off in one fell swoop, still get done
- 37:01in 15 years and start up with $1,000,000.
- 37:03Yeah, that's true too. And so like All in all, like I
- 37:07think what she's saying is correct.
- 37:08I think the math is good to know.
- 37:09I think it's good to understand that.
- 37:11But I think it's kind of missing the risk aspect and the
- 37:14psychology aspect, which is like, let's say you go ham and
- 37:18you do pay off in 15 years, then you can put that whole mortgage
- 37:22payment plus all the extra you're putting into investments
- 37:25and get yourself into an equally good situation down the road.
- 37:28And so when you're making that decision for yourself, do I pay
- 37:31off the mortgage or do I invest more?
- 37:34I think it really comes down to what makes you sleep better at
- 37:38night, feel better, give you a better life.
- 37:40And if you're someone who's like, hey, I really like, I'm
- 37:43really comfortable with my two or three or 4% mortgage.
- 37:46I really want to be investing more.
- 37:48I'm I'm accepting the risk that maybe this is going to go on for
- 37:5110 years and I'll have made the wrong choice and I'll be
- 37:53accruing, I'll be paying more in interest, even though the market
- 37:56did bad for 10 years. If that's all cool with you,
- 38:00then do what she says, you know, just invest instead of paying
- 38:03extra towards your mortgage. If that's not cool with you and
- 38:05say, hey, I don't like the idea of putting more money at risk in
- 38:09the market when I'm have this guaranteed debt that I'm paying
- 38:11pay on that debt, right? You know, it's hard to find
- 38:14someone who has zero mortgage and has thousands of dollars in
- 38:18free and clear cash flow that they can invest and become a
- 38:21millionaire very quickly through investing.
- 38:23Who's like, oh, damn, I wish I didn't pay off this mortgage,
- 38:25right? And so I feel like there's some
- 38:27like, you know, more squishy, like soft, soft issues at play.
- 38:34They're like the risk and the, and the mentality stuff.
- 38:36But overall, you know, the math's correct.
- 38:38Sometimes I see people with these whiteboard things.
- 38:40I'm like, oh, no. And it just like there's like
- 38:42some big lie that's being, being hidden there.
- 38:46There's not like I think all the math is correct.
- 38:48And I think her conclusion is perfectly fine, but I'm not as
- 38:53like militaristic about it. I think if you want to be debt
- 38:55free, including your home, go for it.
- 38:57And that's like a perfectly good thing to do.
- 38:59There's this great book called the psychology of money by
- 39:02Morgan Housel, who goes into issues like this and he really
- 39:05makes great arguments, which is this is never really a black and
- 39:08white issue. And there's not, there's not
- 39:09right and wrong. It's kind of right for you and
- 39:12what you know brings you peace and joy and, and leads to a
- 39:17successful outcome is the right decision for you.
- 39:20And so, you know, the, you know, the video is kind of saying, oh,
- 39:24if you buy the spreadsheet, if you end up behind where you
- 39:26could have been, you've lost. I, I disagree with that, you
- 39:29know, because we don't know that that's going to come true.
- 39:31It depends what the market does. And maybe you've lived a more
- 39:34stressful life along the way because you hate having a
- 39:36mortgage payment, you hate having the bank on your home,
- 39:39whatever. So, you know, I'm not as
- 39:41militaristic about that. But still, I think I think it's
- 39:43a good video and I like her and I think it's like good, it's
- 39:45good math to understand. So I'd give it AB plus good job.
- 39:50Good job the money mom. I have to check out more of her
- 39:53content. OK, last segment, Jeremy had
- 40:00time today. We're in the comments section.
- 40:04It's a post, actually, of the cutie baby tie.
- 40:08He's so cute. He's so cute.
- 40:10He has a very. Biased because he's my child.
- 40:12But well, I can say from the outside, although you are my
- 40:16boss, so maybe it's not so objective.
- 40:18He's really cute. Nothing like telling your boss
- 40:21they have an ugly baby to. Imagine telling anybody for
- 40:25being honest. Like, yeah, he's all right.
- 40:27Like that's crazy. I know, no, not like, I don't
- 40:31know if he's cute because like, I think he's extraordinarily
- 40:33cute, but I know that like, my, my brain is wired to believe
- 40:36that. So I don't like strangle him and
- 40:39he's a nice baby too. And I know that everyone is like
- 40:42societally obligated to lie to me, so I have no way to get a
- 40:45truthful answer. And I asked chachi PT.
- 40:48I was like, maybe chachi PT will be honest.
- 40:50I did this. This is true.
- 40:51And I put a picture of my baby in the chachi PT.
- 40:53I said, is this a cute baby and chat.
- 40:55I didn't say I wasn't crazy. I just said I did it.
- 40:57And chachi PT said it's a very cute baby.
- 41:00Then I then I put the ugliest baby I could find on the
- 41:03Internet in the chachi PT. And chachi PT was like a little
- 41:06bit less confidence like, oh, it's kind of like got one of
- 41:09those unique looks or something like that.
- 41:11I'm like, no, that's an ugly baby.
- 41:14And you did say it's ugly. So how can I get?
- 41:16How can I get straight answer? In the real world, how many ugly
- 41:20babies have you seen in your life?
- 41:22A lot of newborns look like aliens, like if they just come
- 41:26home from the hospital. Yeah, they're like, they need to
- 41:29bake a little bit more, you know, they need to like, get
- 41:31like, right. No, and their heads are squished
- 41:33and stuff. I'm like an ugly baby.
- 41:36Like I haven't seen like maybe. No, I see lots of life, not that
- 41:39cute babies. That's probably there's like
- 41:42Gerber cute and there's like just like average babies.
- 41:44You can't compare everybody to model baby.
- 41:46That's like comparing everybody to like.
- 41:48But my son's model? Cute.
- 41:50OK, well he OK, we're we have Gerber baby Thai over here.
- 41:53Do you want to explain this post?
- 41:55This kids cash gift post? Yeah, so Thai got my My wife is
- 42:00half Chinese and so my son is 1/4 Chinese and Ty got a red
- 42:04envelope full of $50.00 in cash for Christmas and he's 0 years
- 42:09old still. And so he personally has frankly
- 42:14terrible financial habits. He well, his spending is very
- 42:17good. He spends nothing because he
- 42:18doesn't know how to. He's living below his means.
- 42:20Doesn't even know what money is. He kind of liked the red
- 42:23envelope, but it doesn't matter if it had anything inside of it.
- 42:26It's kind of a. Moocher though, yeah, it's kind
- 42:28of a. Definitely a moocher.
- 42:29Yeah, but he's found cheap rent in 0.
- 42:33All right, so, so I said, what do you do with this money?
- 42:35And I've always thought that like, you know, if like what do
- 42:37you do with a baby's money? And what I what I did with it is
- 42:41I went and opened like literally like on a Christmas Day, I think
- 42:44I opened a custodial brokerage account, which is an investment
- 42:47account, like a bank account that you are the custodian of.
- 42:51That means you control it on behalf of the owner of the
- 42:55account. And the owner of the account is
- 42:57my son. And so I literally had to put my
- 42:59son's name and Social Security number.
- 43:01He like literally owns them money.
- 43:02But it's not legal for kids to control investments until
- 43:06they're 18. And so it has to be like a joint
- 43:08account or a custodial account. And it's either 18 or 21
- 43:12depending on your state. And then I went and bought 2
- 43:16mutual funds. I bought FZROX&FZILX, which is
- 43:20the the total U.S. stock market mutual fund and the total
- 43:24international stock market mutual fund.
- 43:25I think I did 6040. So I did like 30 bucks and the
- 43:28120 bucks and the other and there's going to sit.
- 43:31What'd you say? Which one did you do more of?
- 43:33More US, you know, 60% US, 40% international.
- 43:37Good question. And there it's going to sit
- 43:41until, you know, once he's like, you know, old enough to
- 43:45understand, I'm going to show it to him and explain to him what
- 43:47we're doing. And invest is going to be, you
- 43:48know, saving, spending, giving. It's all going to be part of his
- 43:52money world. And then when he becomes an
- 43:55adult, 18 or 21, I think it's 18 in California, he's just going
- 43:58to get it all. And, you know, some people like,
- 44:00wow, you know, some. And I guess this is like the the
- 44:03comment says. What?
- 44:05Oh yes, this is the comment. Actually, while you were
- 44:07talking, I was thinking about how I think in California, they
- 44:10passed some kind of influencer law where like you can't use
- 44:13money or you have to contribute a certain amount of money.
- 44:16If you, if you are famous on Instagram, for instance, from
- 44:18your kids and like that's the main reason you have an account.
- 44:21You can't, you have to put a certain amount like an
- 44:24investment I believe is part of the law.
- 44:26So like there's all these families that move to like
- 44:28Minnesota, That's like how they were like we're not actually
- 44:31going to follow this rule. We're just going to move because
- 44:33we don't. Want to keep embezzling money
- 44:34for my children? But that's what I was thinking,
- 44:37sorry. I kind of like that was what my
- 44:38mind was on. But anyway, the comment says why
- 44:40not just keep it in your own name?
- 44:42Says someone who's moving to Minnesota, packing their bags
- 44:45right now. OK, so I have, I have 4 reasons
- 44:51why I don't keep in my own name. And it's, and it's a good
- 44:53question because, you know, why did I go through all these hoops
- 44:56like open an account as a name? And, and there's, there's like
- 44:58kind of one good reason not to this, which I'm again to, but
- 45:00I'll tell you the reasons too. First of all, I think it's, you
- 45:03know, technically illegal. I can't just put that in my wall
- 45:06and spend it on something that's, that's stealing.
- 45:10I can't even put in my wall and say, well, it comes on the wash
- 45:12because I'm covering housing and food.
- 45:14No, like I legally owe my child food to housing.
- 45:19I could keep it in a, an account and make sure it's earmarked to
- 45:24like go towards his like college or I could like, you know, give
- 45:28it to him and let him buy a toy with it or something.
- 45:30And obviously we're getting into like the very fine
- 45:33technicalities, like how could this ever go to court, right?
- 45:36Like especially for small dollar amounts, if you know, if a child
- 45:41is like given $1,000,000 or something as part of a will and
- 45:43then the the parent steals it, that could go to court.
- 45:45But you know, how good is $50 go to court?
- 45:47It never, it never could, right? And so in practice, parents
- 45:51probably are stealing their kids money all the time is like
- 45:53stupid as that sounds, because they're obviously like giving
- 45:55the kids a lot of money too. But for me, technically it's
- 45:59legal. That money is his.
- 46:00It's not to be spent on me. It's not to be spent on his
- 46:02housing. It's not to be, in my opinion,
- 46:04commingled with my bank account. It's his.
- 46:06So it's going to his account. That's that's reason number one
- 46:08reason #2 I think it's morally like kind of squishy.
- 46:11Like if I put it in an account in earmarket, I was like, well,
- 46:14like, is that really going to go to him?
- 46:16Or is that kind of getting lost in the mix?
- 46:18With all my other funds, I could keep it in a separate account
- 46:22under my name and call it, you know, just casually the tie
- 46:25account and then, you know, give it to him later when I feel like
- 46:29it, which I think would be fine. You know, I don't think saying
- 46:31you're a bad person if you do that.
- 46:33But for me, I think it's more about setting clear boundaries.
- 46:37If I actually have it in his name.
- 46:39Three, I think it's a learning opportunity.
- 46:40We're talking about 50 bucks here, right?
- 46:42Like on my drive to work, my I got a credit card tax while my
- 46:47wife spent more than 50 bucks in DoorDash while I was while I was
- 46:51leaving, right? So like, you know, 50 bucks.
- 46:54Is catching strays today. I know.
- 46:56Well, she's sick, you know. Leave her alone.
- 46:59I know you have an electric car but like my gas is like 40-50
- 47:02bucks so you could have said that OK.
- 47:04OK, well for a. Tank of gas.
- 47:06Come on, she's laugher. No 100% did I?
- 47:10She got another stray. She's.
- 47:11Amazing. I feel like we mentioned her.
- 47:13Oh, we just talked about how yeah, you have a baby with her.
- 47:18So I guess that's not a stray technically spending.
- 47:20That is some sort of insult, though, for poor choice of men
- 47:24be like that. OK.
- 47:27But yeah, so I'd say rule #3 it's a learning opportunity.
- 47:31Because like I said, it's not, it's not a huge amount of money.
- 47:33But when my kids 10, it understands math.
- 47:37I'm going to say, hey, look, here's your account, here's your
- 47:38name. When you get a gift when you're
- 47:4010, we're going to have some new roles.
- 47:43You're going to spend a third. You're going to invest 1/3 into
- 47:46this account, and you're going to gift a third.
- 47:48We're going to go, you know, give it to someone in need.
- 47:50And then they're going to start to understand, OK, Money, some
- 47:52money grows. Somebody spends some monies to
- 47:54help people, whatever it is. And they also will get that
- 48:00money when they're 18, right? So when they're 18, maybe
- 48:02there's going to be 5 grand in there.
- 48:03Over the years it grows or whatever they're going to say,
- 48:05OK, now I'm not going to go and borrow $40,000 to buy a car.
- 48:09Maybe I can buy a 2014 Ford Fiesta for five grand in cash
- 48:13because I've got this birthday money over the years that's
- 48:15that's compounded, right? So I think that's like a
- 48:18learning opportunity about how to save and how to invest. 4
- 48:21There's a modest tax benefit since it's in Ty's name.
- 48:25All the growth and dividends are taxed at Ty's tax rate.
- 48:30Now, as you may know, Ty's lazy and doesn't have a job.
- 48:33He's 10 months old and so his income 0.
- 48:36And so, you know, this year or twenty, Yeah, actually in 2025
- 48:41he's probably going to get a tax form.
- 48:43That says 2026 when these people are listening.
- 48:46Oh yeah, that's true. But when I started, I started
- 48:48the account last year in 2025. And so I'm going to, I think he
- 48:52might actually get, no, maybe he won't because it's too small.
- 48:54I think they just like if it's under a dollar, they don't even
- 48:56send you the tax from, but you know, for 2026, I might get a
- 48:58tax from that says, hey, you got $1.00 of dividends.
- 49:02And if that was on, you know, Jeremy's taxes, I have to pay
- 49:05that $1.00, I have to pay tax on that dollar as it's income.
- 49:09But since it's his, there's no tax on it because he's like way
- 49:11under the standard deduction. And so, you know, why have all
- 49:16of his money adding to my tax bill when he could be getting it
- 49:19tax free essentially. And so those are the four
- 49:21reasons illegal, morally squishy learning opportunity tax
- 49:25benefit. I also want his money in his
- 49:26account. And I think it's a really cool
- 49:28opportunity for him to have his first introduction to investing.
- 49:31The, the other big comment I saw was, hey, what about financial
- 49:35aid? If he has a lot of money in his
- 49:37name, that's going to impact him more for financial aid than it
- 49:41is if it's in your name. And that's technically true.
- 49:43But my answer to that is kind of like it's supposed to, right?
- 49:47Like let's say he was gifted $100,000 and I said, Hey, give
- 49:50me your money kid. I'm going to put it in my
- 49:52account. That way we can go get some more
- 49:55loans or grants or whatever for financial aid.
- 50:00You know, that's essentially fraud in my opinion.
- 50:03No, that's, that's like concealing the true origin of
- 50:05money to, to, to be more attractive for, you know, gifts
- 50:10from the, the government or for donors or whatever.
- 50:13And you know, what we're talking about here isn't a big amount of
- 50:17money. If it's like 5000 bucks, the
- 50:19times 18, we're going to be talking about like a few 100
- 50:21bucks a year that he might not be eligible for student aid.
- 50:25So I don't really think it's that big of a deal and I think
- 50:26it's technically not the right thing to do.
- 50:28So I don't know like strict moral ground.
- 50:30I just say it's his money. If he has a lot of money, then
- 50:32he should be counted. You know, according to the
- 50:35financial aid people should be counted towards financial aid.
- 50:38So and. I think one or two episodes ago
- 50:40we we dive to like a little deeper into that.
- 50:43Yeah, we need to talk about this.
- 50:45Yeah. So if you want to know more.
- 50:46Welcome my role, Jen. We just answer the same
- 50:48questions over and over and over and over.
- 50:50Just. In case they want more of a deep
- 50:52dives into you, you know this. Is.
- 50:53That's a good point. Yeah, that's a throwback.
- 50:55Yeah, by the time they get here, maybe they would be like, oh, we
- 50:58kind of already answered my question.
- 51:00Cool, Thank you. That was like, that comment
- 51:02wasn't necessarily like a mean comment, but I thought it was
- 51:04something that would be cool to address here so.
- 51:07No, it's not a mean comment. And and you know, like I said,
- 51:09if you don't do this, like I'm obviously a very, you know,
- 51:13organized money nerd kind of person that wants to do
- 51:15everything very strictly to buy the books.
- 51:17Like if you take your kids 50 bucks and put in your wallet
- 51:19and, you know, go shopping with your kids or, you know, you
- 51:22know, put in a separate account and save it for him, that'd be
- 51:25fine. Like my brother had this thing
- 51:27called like Bank of Dad where whenever they got money, they
- 51:29would just give him the money. And then he had like a
- 51:31spreadsheet that basically kept track of like how much they had,
- 51:35which I think is kind of cool too, because then they, you
- 51:37know, it wasn't technically a bank house.
- 51:38It's just a spreadsheet. Then like they're like, hey,
- 51:41dad, I gave you 120 bucks. I want to go spend 30 bucks and
- 51:44he's like, OK, you can because, you know, the Bank of Dad
- 51:47spreadsheet says so. So there's other ways to do it,
- 51:49yeah, but yeah. My mom did that with my little
- 51:52brother so that he could buy a car because he would never have
- 51:55saved the money on his own. Kind of like the kind that like
- 51:57as soon as he gets a paycheck is gone.
- 51:59So somehow he agreed to it. And you hear that Cilicia?
- 52:03Is that Cilicia shade? He she did get him like a $3000
- 52:08car paid in cash because she kept that money for him for a
- 52:10couple. Of years.
- 52:10Oh, see, there you go. He wouldn't.
- 52:13Have done otherwise. So all right, cool.
- 52:15Great score patrol. That's that's our last segment.
- 52:18That was Scroll Patrol. That was Jeremy had time today.
- 52:21Oh my gosh, I don't know why I always get those two confused.
- 52:24Yeah, I don't either. We are scrolling through our
- 52:27comments. Well, great last segment.
- 52:30Jeremy had time today and that is all we have time for today on
- 52:33the Personal Finance Club show. Thank you for listening and we
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