Maybe Delulu is the Solulu

All The Light She Found · Aug 25, 2026 · 24m

What if being “realistic” isn’t always wisdom?In this episode of All the Light She Found, Kelly explores what happens when we become so focused on protecting ourselves from disappointment that we accidentally protect ourselves from possibility, too.Kelly talks about creating a “delulu list”—a list of the things you might want if you stopped editing your dreams based on what seems practical, what other people expect, or what you think you’ve earned. Maybe it’s a new career, a different kind of relationship, more travel, a business of your own, deeper friendships, or simply a life that feels…