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You've Outgrown the Version of You That Built This | EP 319 · Confident and Empowered Women

• 0:05
  Okay,
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  have
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  you
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  ever
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  sat
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  in
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  a
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  room
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  you
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  worked
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  so
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  hard
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  to
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  get
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  into
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  and
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  thought,
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  "Something
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  is
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  wrong
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  with
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  me?"
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  Not
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  out
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  loud,
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  just
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  that
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  quiet
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  10:00
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  PM
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  kinda
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  thought
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  that
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  you
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  pushed
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  down
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  before
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  anybody
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  else
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  could
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  catch
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  it
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  on
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  your
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  face.
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  Mm-hmm,
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  that
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  one.
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  And
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  I
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  need
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  you
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  to
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  hear
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  me
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  on
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  this.
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  That
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  feeling
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  is
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  almost
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  never
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  telling
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  you
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  what
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  you
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  think
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  it's
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  telling
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  you.
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  I
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  sat
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  inside
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  that
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  exact
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  moment
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  for
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  too
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  many
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  years
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  before
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  I
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  actually
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  understood
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  what
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  it
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  actually
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  meant.
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  And
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  today
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  I'm
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  handing
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  you
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  the
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  three
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  questions
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  That
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  will
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  get
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  you
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  to
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  the
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  truth
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  a
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  lot
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  faster
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  than
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  it
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  took
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  me.
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  So
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  let's
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  get
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  into
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  it
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  Ooh,
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  welcome
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  back
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  to
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  Confident
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  and
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  Empowered
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  Women.
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  If
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  this
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  is
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  your
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  first
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  time
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  here,
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  I'm
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  so
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  glad
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  the
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  algorithm
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  did
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  you
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  right.
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  Grab
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  your
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  coffee,
• 1:00
  your
• 1:00
  laundry
• 1:00
  pile,
• 1:01
  or
• 1:01
  whatever
• 1:02
  it
• 1:02
  is
• 1:02
  that
• 1:02
  you're
• 1:02
  doing
• 1:02
  while
• 1:03
  you
• 1:03
  listen,
• 1:04
  because
• 1:04
  we
• 1:05
  are
• 1:05
  going
• 1:05
  there
• 1:06
  today.
• 1:07
  And
• 1:07
  if
• 1:07
  you're
• 1:08
  not
• 1:08
  yet
• 1:08
  subscribed,
• 1:09
  friend,
• 1:10
  what
• 1:10
  are
• 1:10
  we
• 1:10
  even
• 1:11
  doing?
• 1:12
  Hit
• 1:13
  that
• 1:13
  subscribe
• 1:14
  button
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  so
• 1:14
  you
• 1:15
  don't
• 1:15
  miss
• 1:15
  me
• 1:16
  or
• 1:17
  an
• 1:17
  opportunity
• 1:18
  to
• 1:18
  empower
• 1:18
  yourself
• 1:19
  in
• 1:19
  real
• 1:20
  time
• 1:23
  Hey,
• 1:23
  hey,
• 1:23
  hey
• 1:23
  friend.
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  Let
• 1:24
  me
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  take
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  you
• 1:25
  back,
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  back
• 1:27
  into
• 1:27
  time.
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  Listen,
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  I've
• 1:30
  spent
• 1:30
  over
• 1:31
  20-plus
• 1:32
  years
• 1:32
  in
• 1:32
  corporate
• 1:33
  leadership,
• 1:33
  and
• 1:34
  for
• 1:34
  a
• 1:34
  lot
• 1:34
  of
• 1:34
  those
• 1:35
  years,
• 1:36
  I
• 1:36
  felt
• 1:36
  like
• 1:36
  I
• 1:37
  didn't
• 1:37
  belong.
• 1:38
  And
• 1:38
  I'm
• 1:38
  not
• 1:38
  talking
• 1:39
  the
• 1:39
  cute,
• 1:39
  humble
• 1:40
  brag,
• 1:40
  I
• 1:40
  can't
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  believe
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  I'm
• 1:41
  in
• 1:41
  this
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  room
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  kind
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  of
• 1:42
  not
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  belonging.
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  I
• 1:44
  mean
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  the
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  real
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  kind.
• 1:45
  Sitting
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  in
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  a
• 1:46
  meeting
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  I
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  had
• 1:47
  every
• 1:47
  credential
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  to
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  be
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  in,
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  watching
• 1:51
  everybody
• 1:51
  else
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  nod
• 1:52
  along,
• 1:53
  quietly
• 1:53
  wondering
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  if
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  today
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  was
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  the
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  day
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  they'd
• 1:56
  figure
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  out
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  this
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  lie
• 1:58
  that
• 1:58
  I
• 1:58
  called
• 1:59
  the
• 1:59
  truth,
• 1:59
  okay?
• 2:01
  When
• 2:01
  I
• 2:01
  started
• 2:02
  that
• 2:02
  career,
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  I
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  fully
• 2:03
  intended
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  to
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  retire
• 2:05
  from
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  it.
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  That
• 2:07
  was
• 2:07
  the
• 2:07
  plan
• 2:07
  I
• 2:08
  told
• 2:08
  people
• 2:08
  at
• 2:08
  dinner
• 2:09
  parties.
• 2:09
  I
• 2:09
  was
• 2:10
  not
• 2:10
  trying
• 2:10
  to
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  leave.
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  I
• 2:11
  was
• 2:12
  trying
• 2:12
  to
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  build
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  a
• 2:13
  life
• 2:14
  there.
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  I'm
• 2:15
  from
• 2:15
  the
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  era
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  where
• 2:16
  building
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  a
• 2:17
  career
• 2:18
  and
• 2:18
  investing
• 2:19
  decades,
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  it
• 2:20
  meant
• 2:20
  something,
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  okay?
• 2:22
  And
• 2:23
  somewhere
• 2:23
  in
• 2:24
  the
• 2:24
  building
• 2:24
  of
• 2:24
  that
• 2:25
  life,
• 2:25
  I
• 2:25
  found
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  the
• 2:26
  thing
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  that
• 2:27
  actually
• 2:27
  lit
• 2:28
  me
• 2:28
  up.
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  It
• 2:29
  wasn't
• 2:29
  the
• 2:29
  title
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  or
• 2:30
  the
• 2:30
  org
• 2:31
  chart.
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  It
• 2:31
  was
• 2:31
  helping
• 2:32
  people
• 2:33
  Watching
• 2:34
  someone
• 2:34
  figure
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  out
• 2:35
  what
• 2:35
  they
• 2:35
  actually
• 2:36
  wanted
• 2:36
  for
• 2:36
  their
• 2:37
  career
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  and
• 2:38
  then
• 2:38
  helping
• 2:38
  them
• 2:38
  manage
• 2:39
  their
• 2:39
  self
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  well
• 2:40
  enough
• 2:40
  inside
• 2:41
  that
• 2:41
  career
• 2:42
  to
• 2:42
  actually
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  go
• 2:43
  get
• 2:43
  it
• 2:44
  while
• 2:44
  their
• 2:44
  life
• 2:45
  didn't
• 2:45
  fall
• 2:45
  apart
• 2:46
  in
• 2:46
  the
• 2:46
  process,
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  friend,
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  I
• 2:49
  lived
• 2:49
  for
• 2:50
  it,
• 2:50
  okay?
• 2:50
  Because
• 2:51
  your
• 2:52
  life
• 2:52
  and
• 2:52
  your
• 2:52
  career
• 2:53
  are
• 2:53
  in
• 2:53
  the
• 2:54
  car
• 2:54
  together,
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  and
• 2:55
  even
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  though
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  most
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  times
• 2:56
  it's
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  only
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  one
• 2:57
  of
• 2:57
  them
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  driving
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  at
• 2:58
  a
• 2:58
  time,
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  Some
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  seasons,
• 3:00
  your
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  life
• 3:01
  is
• 3:01
  behind
• 3:02
  the
• 3:02
  wheel
• 3:02
  and
• 3:03
  your
• 3:03
  career
• 3:03
  is
• 3:04
  riding
• 3:04
  shotgun
• 3:05
  reading
• 3:06
  the
• 3:06
  map.
• 3:07
  Other
• 3:07
  seasons,
• 3:08
  your
• 3:08
  career
• 3:09
  takes
• 3:09
  over
• 3:09
  and
• 3:10
  your
• 3:10
  life
• 3:10
  is
• 3:10
  in
• 3:11
  the
• 3:11
  backseat
• 3:11
  asking,
• 3:12
  "Are
• 3:12
  we
• 3:12
  there
• 3:13
  yet?"
• 3:15
  Every
• 3:16
  five
• 3:16
  minutes,
• 3:17
  okay?
• 3:18
  And
• 3:19
  then
• 3:19
  there's
• 3:20
  the
• 3:20
  season
• 3:21
  everybody
• 3:22
  dreads,
• 3:23
  the
• 3:23
  one
• 3:23
  that's
• 3:23
  acting
• 3:24
  like
• 3:24
  the
• 3:24
  kid
• 3:25
  that
• 3:25
  done
• 3:25
  climbed
• 3:26
  out
• 3:26
  of
• 3:26
  their
• 3:26
  seatbelt
• 3:27
  and
• 3:27
  is
• 3:27
  squeezing
• 3:28
  you
• 3:28
  around
• 3:28
  the
• 3:28
  neck
• 3:29
  Because
• 3:29
  both
• 3:29
  life
• 3:30
  and
• 3:30
  your
• 3:30
  career
• 3:31
  is
• 3:31
  grabbing
• 3:32
  for
• 3:32
  the
• 3:32
  wheel
• 3:32
  at
• 3:33
  the
• 3:33
  same
• 3:33
  time.
• 3:35
  That's
• 3:36
  the
• 3:36
  season
• 3:37
  that
• 3:37
  breaks
• 3:37
  people,
• 3:38
  okay?
• 3:39
  Not
• 3:39
  because
• 3:40
  they're
• 3:40
  weak.
• 3:40
  It's
• 3:40
  just
• 3:41
  that
• 3:41
  no
• 3:41
  one
• 3:41
  really
• 3:42
  teaches
• 3:42
  you
• 3:43
  how
• 3:43
  to
• 3:43
  sit
• 3:43
  in
• 3:44
  a
• 3:44
  car
• 3:45
  with
• 3:45
  two
• 3:45
  drivers.
• 3:46
  And
• 3:46
  men,
• 3:47
  okay,
• 3:48
  this
• 3:48
  is
• 3:48
  not
• 3:48
  your
• 3:49
  time
• 3:49
  to
• 3:49
  throw
• 3:49
  the
• 3:50
  dagger
• 3:50
  glare
• 3:50
  at
• 3:51
  your
• 3:51
  lady.
• 3:52
  Because
• 3:53
  yes,
• 3:53
  you
• 3:54
  should
• 3:54
  have
• 3:54
  turned
• 3:54
  left
• 3:55
  back
• 3:55
  there,
• 3:55
  but
• 3:56
  you
• 3:56
  know
• 3:56
  what?
• 3:56
  You
• 3:56
  told
• 3:57
  her
• 3:57
  to
• 3:57
  mind
• 3:57
  her
• 3:58
  business.
• 4:02
  Listen,
• 4:03
  helping
• 4:03
  people
• 4:04
  find
• 4:04
  that
• 4:04
  flow
• 4:05
  between
• 4:06
  life
• 4:06
  and
• 4:06
  career,
• 4:07
  that
• 4:07
  was
• 4:08
  my
• 4:08
  thing.
• 4:09
  I
• 4:09
  did
• 4:10
  it
• 4:10
  for
• 4:10
  20-plus
• 4:11
  years
• 4:11
  of
• 4:12
  my
• 4:12
  corporate
• 4:12
  leadership
• 4:13
  career.
• 4:14
  Watching
• 4:14
  somebody's
• 4:15
  face
• 4:15
  when
• 4:15
  they
• 4:16
  finally
• 4:16
  saw
• 4:17
  their
• 4:17
  own
• 4:17
  potential
• 4:18
  clearly
• 4:19
  enough
• 4:19
  to
• 4:19
  lean
• 4:20
  into
• 4:20
  it
• 4:21
  and
• 4:21
  operate
• 4:22
  fully
• 4:22
  from
• 4:23
  it,
• 4:23
  that's
• 4:24
  still
• 4:24
  my
• 4:24
  jam
• 4:25
  till
• 4:25
  this
• 4:25
  day
• 4:26
  Ooh,
• 4:26
  it
• 4:27
  just
• 4:27
  lights
• 4:27
  me
• 4:27
  up.
• 4:29
  Now,
• 4:29
  maybe
• 4:30
  your
• 4:30
  version
• 4:30
  of
• 4:30
  this
• 4:31
  doesn't
• 4:31
  have
• 4:31
  a
• 4:31
  fluorescent-lit
• 4:32
  conference
• 4:33
  room
• 4:33
  in
• 4:34
  it
• 4:34
  at
• 4:34
  all.
• 4:35
  Maybe
• 4:35
  it's
• 4:36
  the
• 4:36
  relationship
• 4:37
  you
• 4:37
  built
• 4:37
  a
• 4:37
  whole
• 4:38
  life
• 4:39
  around.
• 4:39
  Maybe
• 4:40
  it's
• 4:40
  the
• 4:40
  friend
• 4:41
  group
• 4:41
  you've
• 4:41
  outgrown,
• 4:42
  but
• 4:42
  you're
• 4:42
  still
• 4:43
  showing
• 4:43
  up
• 4:43
  to
• 4:43
  brunch
• 4:44
  anyway.
• 4:45
  Same
• 4:45
  feeling,
• 4:46
  different
• 4:47
  address.
• 4:48
  Here's
• 4:48
  what
• 4:48
  I
• 4:48
  did,
• 4:49
  and
• 4:49
  if
• 4:49
  you've
• 4:50
  done
• 4:50
  this
• 4:51
  too,
• 4:51
  friend,
• 4:52
  lean
• 4:52
  in.
• 4:53
  I
• 4:54
  took
• 4:54
  the
• 4:54
  discomfort
• 4:55
  of
• 4:55
  growing
• 4:56
  past
• 4:56
  something
• 4:58
  and
• 4:58
  filed
• 4:58
  it
• 4:58
  under
• 4:59
  something
• 5:00
  is
• 5:00
  wrong
• 5:00
  with
• 5:00
  me.
• 5:01
  Why?
• 5:02
  Because
• 5:02
  every
• 5:02
  time
• 5:03
  something
• 5:03
  feels
• 5:04
  off,
• 5:04
  different,
• 5:05
  there's
• 5:05
  something
• 5:06
  that
• 5:06
  you
• 5:06
  can't
• 5:07
  quite
• 5:07
  put
• 5:07
  your
• 5:07
  finger
• 5:08
  on
• 5:08
  or
• 5:09
  something
• 5:09
  doesn't
• 5:09
  feel
• 5:10
  right,
• 5:10
  we
• 5:11
  immediately
• 5:12
  make
• 5:12
  ourselves
• 5:13
  wrong
• 5:13
  or
• 5:13
  at
• 5:14
  fault.
• 5:14
  Trust
• 5:15
  me,
• 5:15
  I
• 5:15
  know,
• 5:16
  okay?
• 5:16
  This
• 5:17
  was
• 5:17
  the
• 5:17
  old
• 5:17
  me
• 5:18
  all
• 5:19
  day.
• 5:20
  There
• 5:20
  were
• 5:20
  meetings
• 5:21
  where
• 5:21
  I
• 5:21
  didn't
• 5:22
  speak.
• 5:22
  I
• 5:22
  told
• 5:23
  myself
• 5:23
  it
• 5:23
  was
• 5:23
  because
• 5:24
  I
• 5:25
  only
• 5:25
  wanted
• 5:25
  to
• 5:26
  add
• 5:26
  value,
• 5:27
  not
• 5:27
  talk
• 5:27
  just
• 5:28
  to
• 5:28
  hear
• 5:28
  my
• 5:28
  own
• 5:29
  voice,
• 5:29
  okay?
• 5:30
  You
• 5:30
  know
• 5:30
  what
• 5:30
  those
• 5:31
  meetings
• 5:31
  are
• 5:31
  like,
• 5:31
  and
• 5:32
  no
• 5:32
  one
• 5:32
  enjoys
• 5:32
  them
• 5:34
  That
• 5:35
  sounded
• 5:35
  so
• 5:36
  mature,
• 5:37
  so
• 5:37
  discerning,
• 5:38
  so
• 5:38
  above
• 5:39
  the
• 5:39
  fray
• 5:39
  even,
• 5:40
  when
• 5:41
  it
• 5:41
  was
• 5:41
  fear
• 5:42
  wearing
• 5:42
  a
• 5:42
  custom-fitted
• 5:43
  blazer,
• 5:44
  okay?
• 5:45
  Add
• 5:45
  a
• 5:45
  healthy
• 5:46
  dose
• 5:46
  of
• 5:47
  sunken
• 5:47
  cost
• 5:47
  to
• 5:48
  that
• 5:48
  because
• 5:49
  20-plus
• 5:49
  years
• 5:50
  is
• 5:50
  not
• 5:50
  nothing,
• 5:51
  okay?
• 5:52
  You
• 5:52
  don't
• 5:52
  walk
• 5:53
  away
• 5:53
  from
• 5:53
  20-some
• 5:54
  odd
• 5:54
  years
• 5:55
  the
• 5:55
  way
• 5:55
  you
• 5:55
  walk
• 5:55
  away
• 5:56
  from
• 5:56
  a
• 5:56
  bad
• 5:56
  Tinder
• 5:57
  date,
• 5:57
  okay?
• 5:59
  Underneath
• 5:59
  that
• 6:00
  sunken
• 6:00
  cost
• 6:01
  was
• 6:01
  a
• 6:01
  secondary
• 6:02
  story.
• 6:03
  I
• 6:03
  can't
• 6:04
  leave
• 6:04
  yet
• 6:04
  because
• 6:04
  my
• 6:05
  coaching
• 6:05
  business
• 6:06
  isn't
• 6:06
  ready,
• 6:07
  as
• 6:08
  if
• 6:08
  it
• 6:08
  was
• 6:09
  ever
• 6:09
  going
• 6:09
  to
• 6:09
  feel
• 6:10
  ready
• 6:10
  before
• 6:11
  I
• 6:11
  made
• 6:11
  room
• 6:12
  for
• 6:12
  it
• 6:12
  to
• 6:12
  breathe
• 6:13
  Mine
• 6:14
  look
• 6:14
  like
• 6:15
  corporate
• 6:15
  meetings.
• 6:16
  Yours
• 6:17
  might
• 6:17
  look
• 6:17
  like
• 6:17
  biting
• 6:18
  your
• 6:18
  tongue
• 6:18
  at
• 6:19
  Sunday
• 6:19
  dinner
• 6:20
  or
• 6:20
  shrinking
• 6:21
  down
• 6:21
  in
• 6:21
  a
• 6:21
  friendship
• 6:22
  that
• 6:22
  used
• 6:23
  to
• 6:23
  fit,
• 6:23
  or
• 6:24
  going
• 6:24
  quiet
• 6:25
  in
• 6:25
  your
• 6:25
  own
• 6:25
  marriage
• 6:26
  so
• 6:26
  nobody
• 6:27
  has
• 6:27
  to
• 6:27
  deal
• 6:27
  with
• 6:28
  what
• 6:28
  you
• 6:28
  actually
• 6:29
  want.
• 6:30
  The
• 6:30
  room
• 6:31
  changes,
• 6:31
  but
• 6:32
  the
• 6:32
  move
• 6:33
  stays
• 6:33
  the
• 6:34
  same.
• 6:35
  Friend,
• 6:35
  listen,
• 6:36
  that
• 6:37
  feeling
• 6:37
  of
• 6:38
  not
• 6:38
  belonging
• 6:39
  was
• 6:39
  never
• 6:40
  a
• 6:40
  rejection
• 6:41
  notice,
• 6:42
  okay?
• 6:42
  Contrary
• 6:43
  to
• 6:43
  popular
• 6:44
  belief,
• 6:44
  it
• 6:45
  was
• 6:45
  an
• 6:45
  expiration
• 6:46
  date
• 6:46
  on
• 6:47
  a
• 6:47
  season
• 6:47
  that
• 6:47
  had
• 6:48
  already
• 6:48
  finished
• 6:49
  its
• 6:49
  job.
• 6:50
  I
• 6:50
  had
• 6:50
  outgrown
• 6:51
  the
• 6:51
  version
• 6:52
  of
• 6:52
  me
• 6:52
  that
• 6:53
  built
• 6:53
  that
• 6:53
  career,
• 6:54
  Mind
• 6:55
  you,
• 6:55
  that
• 6:56
  career
• 6:56
  built
• 6:57
  the
• 6:57
  leader
• 6:57
  I
• 6:58
  still
• 6:58
  am
• 6:58
  today.
• 6:59
  Those
• 7:00
  skills
• 7:00
  I
• 7:00
  get
• 7:01
  to
• 7:01
  take
• 7:01
  with
• 7:01
  me,
• 7:02
  just
• 7:03
  as
• 7:03
  you
• 7:03
  get
• 7:03
  to
• 7:03
  do
• 7:04
  with
• 7:04
  yours.
• 7:05
  Consider
• 7:05
  it
• 7:05
  a
• 7:05
  parting
• 7:06
  gift.
• 7:07
  It
• 7:07
  was
• 7:07
  never
• 7:08
  meant
• 7:08
  to
• 7:08
  be
• 7:08
  the
• 7:08
  place
• 7:09
  I
• 7:09
  stayed
• 7:09
  forever.
• 7:10
  I
• 7:11
  just
• 7:11
  didn't
• 7:11
  recognize
• 7:12
  when
• 7:13
  the
• 7:13
  room
• 7:13
  was
• 7:13
  done
• 7:14
  growing
• 7:15
  me.
• 7:15
  So
• 7:16
  I
• 7:16
  sat
• 7:16
  in
• 7:17
  it
• 7:17
  an
• 7:17
  extra
• 7:18
  two
• 7:18
  years
• 7:19
  arguing
• 7:19
  with
• 7:19
  a
• 7:20
  feeling
• 7:20
  that
• 7:20
  already
• 7:21
  knew
• 7:21
  the
• 7:21
  answer.
• 7:22
  And
• 7:23
  here's
• 7:23
  the
• 7:23
  part,
• 7:24
  friend,
• 7:24
  you
• 7:24
  gotta
• 7:25
  write
• 7:25
  this
• 7:25
  down,
• 7:25
  okay?
• 7:26
  The
• 7:27
  version
• 7:27
  of
• 7:27
  you
• 7:28
  who
• 7:29
  built
• 7:29
  what
• 7:29
  you're
• 7:30
  currently
• 7:30
  living
• 7:31
  does
• 7:31
  not
• 7:32
  know
• 7:32
  it's
• 7:32
  time
• 7:32
  to
• 7:33
  go,
• 7:33
  okay?
• 7:34
  She
• 7:34
  built
• 7:35
  the
• 7:35
  thing.
• 7:35
  She's
• 7:36
  proud
• 7:36
  of
• 7:36
  the
• 7:36
  thing.
• 7:37
  She
• 7:38
  cannot
• 7:38
  see
• 7:38
  past
• 7:39
  the
• 7:39
  thing.
• 7:40
  But
• 7:41
  the
• 7:41
  future
• 7:41
  version
• 7:42
  of
• 7:42
  you,
• 7:43
  the
• 7:43
  one
• 7:43
  your
• 7:43
  dreams
• 7:44
  keep
• 7:45
  tapping
• 7:45
  on
• 7:45
  the
• 7:45
  shoulder,
• 7:46
  she
• 7:47
  already
• 7:47
  knows.
• 7:48
  Your
• 7:48
  job
• 7:49
  is
• 7:49
  to
• 7:49
  stop
• 7:50
  arguing
• 7:50
  with
• 7:51
  her
• 7:51
  and
• 7:51
  start
• 7:52
  listening
• 7:52
  to
• 7:52
  her
• 7:53
  Now
• 7:53
  let's
• 7:54
  be
• 7:54
  soul
• 7:54
  for
• 7:55
  real,
• 7:55
  okay?
• 7:55
  Because
• 7:56
  I
• 7:56
  did
• 7:56
  not
• 7:57
  leave
• 7:57
  on
• 7:57
  my
• 7:57
  own
• 7:58
  timeline,
• 7:59
  but
• 7:59
  you
• 7:59
  better
• 7:59
  bet
• 8:00
  your
• 8:00
  candy-coated
• 8:01
  raindrops
• 8:01
  I
• 8:02
  had
• 8:02
  a
• 8:02
  runway
• 8:03
  I
• 8:03
  built
• 8:03
  in
• 8:03
  my
• 8:04
  own
• 8:04
  head.
• 8:08
  You
• 8:08
  see
• 8:08
  what
• 8:08
  I
• 8:08
  did
• 8:08
  there?
• 8:09
  That
• 8:09
  was
• 8:09
  fun.
• 8:13
  But
• 8:14
  listen,
• 8:14
  God
• 8:15
  had
• 8:15
  other
• 8:15
  plans,
• 8:16
  okay?
• 8:16
  He
• 8:17
  said,
• 8:17
  "No,
• 8:17
  thank
• 8:18
  you.
• 8:18
  We're
• 8:19
  doing
• 8:19
  this
• 8:19
  now,"
• 8:20
  and
• 8:20
  moved
• 8:20
  me
• 8:21
  up
• 8:21
  and
• 8:21
  out
• 8:21
  before
• 8:22
  I
• 8:22
  was
• 8:22
  ready
• 8:22
  to
• 8:23
  make
• 8:23
  a
• 8:23
  move
• 8:23
  myself.
• 8:24
  Whatever
• 8:25
  you
• 8:25
  call
• 8:25
  that
• 8:26
  force
• 8:26
  in
• 8:26
  your
• 8:27
  life,
• 8:28
  God,
• 8:28
  source,
• 8:29
  the
• 8:29
  universe,
• 8:30
  your
• 8:30
  gut,
• 8:31
  insert
• 8:31
  whom
• 8:32
  it
• 8:32
  is
• 8:32
  that
• 8:33
  you
• 8:33
  talk
• 8:33
  to
• 8:33
  right
• 8:34
  here.
• 8:34
  For
• 8:35
  me,
• 8:35
  Jesus
• 8:36
  took
• 8:36
  the
• 8:36
  wheel
• 8:37
  and
• 8:37
  drove
• 8:37
  me
• 8:38
  right
• 8:38
  on
• 8:38
  up
• 8:38
  out
• 8:39
  the
• 8:39
  building
• 8:39
  I
• 8:40
  had
• 8:40
  convinced
• 8:40
  myself
• 8:41
  I
• 8:41
  was
• 8:41
  going
• 8:42
  to
• 8:42
  sit
• 8:42
  in
• 8:42
  forever.
• 8:44
  That
• 8:44
  layoff
• 8:45
  was
• 8:45
  an
• 8:45
  alley-oop
• 8:47
  right
• 8:47
  on
• 8:47
  into
• 8:48
  my
• 8:48
  coaching
• 8:48
  business,
• 8:49
  and
• 8:49
  I
• 8:49
  felt
• 8:50
  a
• 8:50
  beautiful
• 8:51
  sense
• 8:51
  of
• 8:51
  calm
• 8:52
  and
• 8:52
  ease
• 8:53
  about
• 8:53
  it.
• 8:54
  Listen,
• 8:55
  Serena
• 8:55
  Williams
• 8:56
  didn't
• 8:57
  call
• 8:57
  it
• 8:57
  retiring
• 8:58
  when
• 8:58
  she
• 8:59
  left
• 8:59
  tennis.
• 9:00
  She
• 9:00
  wrote
• 9:00
  in
• 9:01
  Vogue
• 9:01
  that
• 9:01
  she
• 9:02
  was
• 9:02
  evolving
• 9:03
  away
• 9:03
  from
• 9:04
  tennis,
• 9:05
  not
• 9:05
  quitting,
• 9:06
  not
• 9:06
  failing,
• 9:07
  evolving.
• 9:09
  A
• 9:09
  woman
• 9:09
  who
• 9:10
  built
• 9:10
  one
• 9:10
  of
• 9:11
  the
• 9:11
  greatest
• 9:11
  careers
• 9:12
  a
• 9:12
  sport
• 9:13
  has
• 9:13
  ever
• 9:14
  seen,
• 9:14
  and
• 9:15
  she
• 9:15
  still
• 9:16
  had
• 9:16
  the
• 9:16
  clarity
• 9:17
  to
• 9:17
  call
• 9:17
  it
• 9:18
  what
• 9:18
  it
• 9:18
  was,
• 9:19
  not
• 9:19
  a
• 9:20
  door
• 9:20
  closing
• 9:21
  on
• 9:21
  her,
• 9:21
  a
• 9:22
  version
• 9:22
  of
• 9:22
  her
• 9:23
  that
• 9:23
  had
• 9:23
  already
• 9:24
  done
• 9:24
  its
• 9:25
  work.
• 9:26
  And
• 9:26
  even
• 9:26
  when
• 9:26
  she
• 9:26
  decided
• 9:27
  to
• 9:27
  come
• 9:28
  back
• 9:28
  out
• 9:28
  of
• 9:28
  retirement,
• 9:29
  she
• 9:30
  wasn't
• 9:30
  afraid
• 9:31
  to
• 9:31
  honor
• 9:32
  where
• 9:32
  her
• 9:32
  dreams
• 9:33
  were
• 9:33
  calling
• 9:34
  her
• 9:34
  next
• 9:35
  We
• 9:35
  can
• 9:36
  definitely
• 9:36
  learn
• 9:37
  a
• 9:37
  thing
• 9:38
  or
• 9:38
  two
• 9:38
  from
• 9:39
  that,
• 9:39
  okay?
• 9:40
  Now,
• 9:40
  here
• 9:41
  is
• 9:41
  where
• 9:42
  I
• 9:42
  wanna
• 9:42
  give
• 9:42
  you
• 9:42
  something
• 9:43
  useful
• 9:43
  because
• 9:44
  you
• 9:44
  might
• 9:44
  have
• 9:45
  outgrown
• 9:45
  it
• 9:45
  isn't
• 9:46
  the
• 9:46
  only
• 9:46
  reason
• 9:47
  a
• 9:47
  room
• 9:48
  can
• 9:48
  feel
• 9:48
  wrong.
• 9:49
  There
• 9:50
  are
• 9:50
  three,
• 9:51
  and
• 9:52
  they
• 9:52
  need
• 9:52
  three
• 9:53
  completely
• 9:54
  different
• 9:54
  responses,
• 9:55
  okay?
• 9:55
  One,
• 9:56
  it
• 9:56
  was
• 9:57
  never
• 9:57
  actually
• 9:58
  for
• 9:58
  you.
• 9:59
  I'm
• 9:59
  talking
• 10:00
  real
• 10:01
  misalignment.
• 10:01
  You
• 10:02
  took
• 10:02
  the
• 10:02
  job,
• 10:03
  the
• 10:03
  relationship,
• 10:04
  the
• 10:04
  friend
• 10:04
  group
• 10:04
  because
• 10:05
  it
• 10:05
  looked
• 10:05
  right
• 10:06
  on
• 10:06
  paper,
• 10:07
  not
• 10:07
  because
• 10:08
  it
• 10:08
  was
• 10:08
  ever
• 10:08
  built
• 10:09
  for
• 10:09
  who
• 10:10
  you
• 10:10
  truly
• 10:11
  are.
• 10:11
  If
• 10:12
  you're
• 10:12
  brand
• 10:13
  new
• 10:13
  to
• 10:13
  noticing
• 10:14
  this
• 10:14
  feeling,
• 10:14
  start
• 10:15
  here.
• 10:16
  Did
• 10:16
  this
• 10:16
  ever
• 10:17
  fit
• 10:17
  or
• 10:18
  did
• 10:18
  you
• 10:19
  just
• 10:19
  talk
• 10:19
  yourself
• 10:19
  into
• 10:20
  it?
• 10:21
  Two,
• 10:21
  you
• 10:22
  haven't
• 10:22
  grown
• 10:22
  into
• 10:23
  it
• 10:23
  yet.
• 10:23
  Friend,
• 10:24
  this
• 10:24
  is
• 10:25
  imposter
• 10:25
  syndrome,
• 10:26
  and
• 10:26
  it's
• 10:27
  not
• 10:27
  the
• 10:27
  same
• 10:27
  conversation
• 10:28
  as
• 10:28
  outgrowing
• 10:29
  something.
• 10:30
  It's
• 10:30
  the
• 10:30
  right
• 10:31
  room.
• 10:31
  You're
• 10:32
  just
• 10:32
  early
• 10:33
  This
• 10:33
  is
• 10:34
  where
• 10:34
  I
• 10:34
  like
• 10:35
  to
• 10:35
  say
• 10:35
  imposter
• 10:36
  syndrome
• 10:37
  is
• 10:37
  that
• 10:38
  inner
• 10:38
  voice
• 10:39
  that
• 10:39
  has
• 10:39
  terrible
• 10:40
  communication.
• 10:42
  It
• 10:42
  can
• 10:43
  be
• 10:43
  really
• 10:43
  harsh
• 10:44
  in
• 10:44
  telling
• 10:44
  you
• 10:45
  what
• 10:45
  you
• 10:46
  don't
• 10:46
  have
• 10:46
  yet
• 10:47
  to
• 10:47
  do
• 10:47
  the
• 10:48
  thing
• 10:48
  that
• 10:48
  you
• 10:48
  wanna
• 10:48
  do,
• 10:49
  when
• 10:49
  really
• 10:50
  it's
• 10:50
  just
• 10:51
  got
• 10:52
  a
• 10:52
  crappy
• 10:52
  way
• 10:53
  of
• 10:53
  pointing
• 10:54
  out
• 10:54
  new
• 10:55
  capabilities
• 10:56
  and
• 10:56
  skills
• 10:57
  that
• 10:57
  you
• 10:58
  have
• 10:58
  to
• 10:58
  gain
• 10:59
  in
• 10:59
  order
• 10:59
  to
• 11:00
  do
• 11:00
  what
• 11:00
  you're
• 11:01
  doing.
• 11:01
  It's
• 11:02
  not
• 11:02
  about
• 11:02
  the
• 11:02
  shortcoming
• 11:03
  of
• 11:03
  it.
• 11:03
  It's
• 11:04
  about
• 11:04
  recognizing
• 11:05
  where
• 11:05
  the
• 11:05
  gap
• 11:06
  is
• 11:07
  and
• 11:07
  bridging
• 11:08
  it
• 11:09
  So
• 11:09
  if
• 11:09
  you're
• 11:09
  in
• 11:09
  the
• 11:09
  messy
• 11:10
  middle
• 11:10
  right
• 11:10
  now,
• 11:11
  stuck
• 11:11
  between
• 11:12
  staying
• 11:12
  and
• 11:12
  leaving,
• 11:13
  rule
• 11:14
  this
• 11:14
  out
• 11:14
  first
• 11:15
  because
• 11:15
  leaving
• 11:16
  a
• 11:16
  room
• 11:17
  you
• 11:17
  haven't
• 11:17
  grown
• 11:18
  into
• 11:18
  yet
• 11:19
  just
• 11:19
  relocates
• 11:20
  the
• 11:21
  same
• 11:21
  fear
• 11:22
  to
• 11:22
  a
• 11:22
  new
• 11:22
  address,
• 11:23
  okay?
• 11:24
  So
• 11:25
  the
• 11:25
  question
• 11:25
  is,
• 11:26
  do
• 11:26
  you
• 11:26
  still
• 11:27
  have
• 11:27
  room
• 11:27
  to
• 11:28
  grow
• 11:28
  here?
• 11:29
  And
• 11:29
  three
• 11:30
  is
• 11:30
  you've
• 11:31
  outgrown
• 11:31
  it.
• 11:32
  The
• 11:32
  room
• 11:32
  was
• 11:33
  right.
• 11:33
  It
• 11:33
  did
• 11:34
  its
• 11:34
  job.
• 11:35
  The
• 11:35
  version
• 11:35
  of
• 11:35
  you
• 11:36
  sitting
• 11:36
  in
• 11:36
  it
• 11:37
  now
• 11:37
  is
• 11:38
  bigger
• 11:39
  than
• 11:39
  what
• 11:40
  it
• 11:40
  can
• 11:40
  hold.
• 11:41
  That
• 11:41
  is
• 11:42
  where
• 11:42
  I
• 11:42
  lived
• 11:43
  for
• 11:43
  extra
• 11:44
  years
• 11:44
  longer
• 11:45
  than
• 11:45
  I
• 11:45
  needed
• 11:45
  to.
• 11:46
  So
• 11:46
  the
• 11:46
  question
• 11:47
  is,
• 11:48
  have
• 11:48
  you
• 11:48
  outgrown
• 11:49
  this
• 11:49
  space
• 11:49
  and
• 11:50
  being
• 11:50
  called
• 11:51
  to
• 11:51
  do
• 11:51
  what's
• 11:51
  next?
• 11:53
  Okay,
• 11:53
  now
• 11:53
  here's
• 11:53
  the
• 11:54
  cheat
• 11:54
  sheet,
• 11:54
  okay?
• 11:55
  How
• 11:55
  you
• 11:55
  can
• 11:55
  tell
• 11:56
  the
• 11:56
  difference.
• 11:57
  Misalignment
• 11:58
  feels
• 11:59
  like
• 11:59
  discomfort
• 12:00
  from
• 12:00
  day
• 12:00
  one.
• 12:01
  It
• 12:01
  never
• 12:02
  settled.
• 12:02
  It
• 12:03
  never
• 12:03
  fit.
• 12:04
  Impostor
• 12:05
  syndrome
• 12:05
  feels
• 12:06
  like
• 12:06
  fear
• 12:07
  about
• 12:07
  your
• 12:07
  ability.
• 12:09
  Outgrowing
• 12:10
  feels
• 12:10
  like
• 12:10
  boredom
• 12:11
  wrapped
• 12:12
  in
• 12:12
  guilt
• 12:12
  because
• 12:13
  you're
• 12:13
  really
• 12:13
  good
• 12:14
  at
• 12:14
  it.
• 12:14
  You
• 12:15
  just
• 12:15
  know
• 12:15
  there's
• 12:16
  more,
• 12:16
  And
• 12:17
  you
• 12:17
  low-key
• 12:18
  feel
• 12:18
  bad
• 12:19
  for
• 12:19
  wanting
• 12:19
  more
• 12:20
  out
• 12:20
  of
• 12:20
  something
• 12:21
  that's
• 12:21
  been
• 12:21
  so
• 12:22
  good
• 12:22
  to
• 12:22
  you.
• 12:23
  If
• 12:23
  you're
• 12:23
  already
• 12:24
  standing
• 12:25
  at
• 12:25
  the
• 12:25
  edge
• 12:26
  ready
• 12:26
  to
• 12:26
  leap,
• 12:27
  that
• 12:27
  guilt
• 12:28
  is
• 12:28
  the
• 12:29
  telltale.
• 12:30
  you
• 12:30
  don't
• 12:30
  feel
• 12:30
  guilty
• 12:31
  leaving
• 12:31
  something
• 12:32
  that
• 12:32
  was
• 12:32
  never
• 12:32
  right
• 12:33
  for
• 12:33
  you.
• 12:33
  You
• 12:34
  only
• 12:34
  feel
• 12:34
  guilty
• 12:35
  leaving
• 12:35
  something
• 12:36
  that
• 12:36
  you
• 12:36
  loved
• 12:37
  well
• 12:38
  and
• 12:39
  finished
• 12:40
  loving
• 12:41
  you
• 12:41
  well
• 12:42
  So
• 12:42
  friend,
• 12:43
  sit
• 12:43
  with
• 12:43
  this
• 12:43
  for
• 12:43
  a
• 12:43
  moment.
• 12:44
  Where
• 12:45
  in
• 12:45
  your
• 12:45
  life
• 12:45
  right
• 12:46
  now
• 12:46
  does
• 12:46
  something
• 12:47
  feel
• 12:47
  off
• 12:48
  and
• 12:48
  you've
• 12:49
  been
• 12:49
  calling
• 12:49
  it
• 12:50
  your
• 12:50
  own
• 12:50
  fault?
• 12:51
  A
• 12:51
  job,
• 12:52
  a
• 12:52
  friendship,
• 12:53
  a
• 12:53
  version
• 12:54
  of
• 12:54
  strong
• 12:55
  you've
• 12:55
  been
• 12:55
  performing
• 12:56
  since
• 12:57
  you
• 12:57
  were
• 12:57
  19.
• 12:58
  Run
• 12:59
  it
• 12:59
  through
• 12:59
  these
• 12:59
  questions.
• 13:00
  Never
• 13:01
  fit,
• 13:01
  haven't
• 13:02
  grown
• 13:02
  into
• 13:03
  it,
• 13:03
  or
• 13:03
  outgrown
• 13:04
  it.
• 13:05
  Get
• 13:05
  honest
• 13:06
  about
• 13:06
  which
• 13:06
  one
• 13:07
  it
• 13:07
  is,
• 13:07
  because
• 13:08
  the
• 13:08
  fix
• 13:09
  is
• 13:09
  different
• 13:10
  for
• 13:10
  all
• 13:11
  three
• 13:11
  of
• 13:11
  these
• 13:14
  Friend,
• 13:15
  if
• 13:15
  this
• 13:15
  episode
• 13:16
  found
• 13:17
  something
• 13:17
  in
• 13:17
  you
• 13:17
  today,
• 13:18
  I
• 13:18
  don't
• 13:19
  want
• 13:19
  it
• 13:19
  to
• 13:19
  just
• 13:19
  live
• 13:19
  in
• 13:20
  your
• 13:20
  ears
• 13:20
  and
• 13:21
  disappear
• 13:21
  by
• 13:21
  the
• 13:22
  time
• 13:22
  you
• 13:22
  are
• 13:22
  back
• 13:22
  in
• 13:23
  the
• 13:23
  carpool
• 13:23
  line.
• 13:24
  Grab
• 13:24
  the
• 13:24
  Main
• 13:25
  Character
• 13:25
  Energy
• 13:26
  journal
• 13:26
  prompts.
• 13:27
  They
• 13:27
  are
• 13:27
  linked
• 13:28
  for
• 13:28
  you
• 13:28
  in
• 13:28
  the
• 13:28
  show
• 13:28
  notes.
• 13:29
  This
• 13:29
  is
• 13:29
  where
• 13:30
  you
• 13:30
  stop
• 13:30
  replaying
• 13:31
  the
• 13:31
  same
• 13:32
  conversation
• 13:32
  in
• 13:33
  the
• 13:33
  shower
• 13:33
  every
• 13:34
  night
• 13:34
  and
• 13:35
  start
• 13:35
  seeing
• 13:36
  it
• 13:36
  in
• 13:36
  your
• 13:36
  own
• 13:36
  handwriting,
• 13:38
  in
• 13:38
  your
• 13:38
  own
• 13:39
  words,
• 13:40
  clear
• 13:40
  enough
• 13:41
  that
• 13:41
  you
• 13:41
  can't
• 13:41
  talk
• 13:42
  yourself
• 13:42
  out
• 13:42
  of
• 13:43
  it
• 13:43
  anymore
• 13:44
  and
• 13:44
  actually
• 13:45
  live
• 13:45
  it
• 13:45
  in
• 13:45
  real
• 13:46
  life.
• 13:47
  Not
• 13:47
  someday
• 13:48
  but
• 13:49
  make
• 13:49
  it
• 13:49
  today
• 13:52
  Okay,
• 13:53
  now
• 13:54
  let's
• 13:54
  do
• 13:54
  our
• 13:54
  favorite
• 13:55
  self-love
• 13:56
  two-step
• 13:56
  with
• 13:57
  the
• 13:57
  remix
• 13:57
  because
• 13:58
  you
• 13:58
  already
• 13:59
  know
• 13:59
  how
• 14:00
  it
• 14:00
  goes
• 14:00
  down,
• 14:00
  okay?
• 14:01
  We
• 14:02
  are
• 14:02
  putting
• 14:02
  it
• 14:02
  all
• 14:03
  into
• 14:03
  action,
• 14:04
  okay?
• 14:05
  All
• 14:05
  right,
• 14:05
  step
• 14:06
  one,
• 14:06
  stop
• 14:07
  personalizing
• 14:09
  the
• 14:09
  discomfort.
• 14:10
  The
• 14:10
  feeling
• 14:11
  of
• 14:11
  not
• 14:11
  belonging
• 14:12
  is
• 14:13
  information,
• 14:14
  not
• 14:14
  a
• 14:14
  verdict
• 14:15
  on
• 14:15
  your
• 14:15
  worth,
• 14:16
  okay?
• 14:17
  No
• 14:17
  shade,
• 14:18
  no
• 14:18
  shame,
• 14:18
  and
• 14:19
  no
• 14:19
  judgment
• 14:20
  for
• 14:20
  years
• 14:21
  that
• 14:21
  you've
• 14:21
  spent
• 14:21
  mislabeling
• 14:23
  it.
• 14:23
  You
• 14:23
  didn't
• 14:24
  know
• 14:24
  then
• 14:25
  what
• 14:25
  you
• 14:25
  know
• 14:25
  now,
• 14:26
  so
• 14:26
  grant
• 14:27
  yourself
• 14:28
  some
• 14:28
  grace
• 14:30
  Step
• 14:30
  two,
• 14:31
  honor
• 14:31
  the
• 14:31
  season
• 14:32
  out
• 14:32
  loud,
• 14:33
  even
• 14:34
  the
• 14:34
  one
• 14:34
  that
• 14:34
  you're
• 14:35
  leaving.
• 14:35
  Say
• 14:36
  what
• 14:36
  it
• 14:37
  built
• 14:37
  in
• 14:37
  you
• 14:38
  before
• 14:38
  you
• 14:38
  say
• 14:39
  what
• 14:39
  it's
• 14:39
  costing
• 14:40
  you
• 14:40
  right
• 14:40
  now,
• 14:41
  because
• 14:42
  both
• 14:42
  are
• 14:42
  true
• 14:43
  at
• 14:43
  the
• 14:43
  same
• 14:44
  time.
• 14:45
  And
• 14:45
  step
• 14:45
  three,
• 14:46
  the
• 14:46
  you
• 14:46
  step.
• 14:47
  You
• 14:47
  get
• 14:48
  still,
• 14:48
  you
• 14:48
  get
• 14:49
  quiet,
• 14:49
  and
• 14:50
  you
• 14:50
  ask
• 14:50
  yourself,
• 14:51
  "What
• 14:51
  is
• 14:52
  my
• 14:52
  heart
• 14:52
  telling
• 14:53
  me
• 14:53
  to
• 14:53
  do
• 14:54
  next?"
• 14:54
  Whatever
• 14:55
  comes
• 14:55
  up,
• 14:56
  that
• 14:56
  is
• 14:57
  your
• 14:57
  next
• 14:58
  right
• 14:58
  aligned
• 14:58
  step.
• 14:59
  You
• 14:59
  don't
• 14:59
  need
• 15:00
  the
• 15:00
  whole
• 15:00
  plan,
• 15:01
  just
• 15:01
  the
• 15:02
  next
• 15:02
  move.
• 15:03
  Trust
• 15:04
  her,
• 15:04
  friend.
• 15:05
  She
• 15:05
  already
• 15:05
  knows
• 15:07
  Now
• 15:07
  let
• 15:08
  me
• 15:08
  pour
• 15:08
  into
• 15:08
  you
• 15:09
  real
• 15:09
  quick
• 15:09
  If
• 15:10
  you're
• 15:10
  sitting
• 15:11
  in
• 15:11
  a
• 15:11
  room
• 15:11
  right
• 15:11
  now
• 15:12
  wondering
• 15:13
  what's
• 15:13
  wrong
• 15:13
  with
• 15:14
  you,
• 15:14
  friend,
• 15:15
  hear
• 15:15
  me
• 15:16
  with
• 15:16
  your
• 15:16
  whole
• 15:17
  heart
• 15:18
  when
• 15:18
  I
• 15:18
  say
• 15:18
  this,
• 15:19
  nothing,
• 15:20
  and
• 15:20
  I
• 15:21
  mean
• 15:21
  nothing,
• 15:22
  is
• 15:22
  wrong
• 15:23
  with
• 15:23
  you
• 15:24
  Let's
• 15:24
  start
• 15:24
  to
• 15:25
  spend
• 15:25
  more
• 15:25
  time
• 15:26
  exploring
• 15:27
  other
• 15:28
  options,
• 15:29
  okay?
• 15:29
  for
• 15:30
  what
• 15:30
  things
• 15:30
  can
• 15:31
  mean
• 15:31
  besides
• 15:32
  something
• 15:33
  being
• 15:33
  wrong
• 15:33
  with
• 15:33
  you.
• 15:35
  You
• 15:35
  did
• 15:35
  not
• 15:35
  fail
• 15:36
  that
• 15:36
  room.
• 15:37
  That
• 15:37
  room
• 15:38
  did
• 15:38
  exactly
• 15:39
  what
• 15:39
  it
• 15:39
  was
• 15:40
  supposed
• 15:40
  to
• 15:40
  do,
• 15:41
  and
• 15:41
  so
• 15:41
  did
• 15:42
  you.
• 15:42
  Growth
• 15:43
  doesn't
• 15:43
  always
• 15:44
  look
• 15:44
  like
• 15:44
  a
• 15:44
  promotion
• 15:45
  or
• 15:46
  a
• 15:46
  parade,
• 15:46
  okay?
• 15:47
  Sometimes
• 15:48
  it
• 15:48
  looks
• 15:48
  like
• 15:48
  a
• 15:48
  quiet,
• 15:49
  uncomfortable
• 15:50
  feeling
• 15:50
  that
• 15:51
  everybody
• 15:51
  else
• 15:51
  in
• 15:52
  the
• 15:52
  room
• 15:53
  can't
• 15:53
  see
• 15:54
  because
• 15:54
  it's
• 15:54
  not
• 15:55
  their
• 15:55
  season.
• 15:55
  It's
• 15:56
  yours.
• 15:57
  Trust
• 15:58
  it.
• 15:59
  Even
• 15:59
  if
• 15:59
  you
• 15:59
  can't
• 16:00
  move
• 16:00
  just
• 16:00
  yet,
• 16:01
  actually,
• 16:02
  especially
• 16:03
  if
• 16:03
  you
• 16:03
  can't
• 16:03
  move
• 16:04
  yet
• 16:05
  Your
• 16:06
  dreams
• 16:06
  and
• 16:06
  desires
• 16:07
  are
• 16:07
  calling
• 16:08
  the
• 16:08
  best
• 16:09
  of
• 16:09
  you
• 16:09
  up
• 16:10
  and
• 16:10
  calling
• 16:10
  you
• 16:11
  forward
• 16:11
  towards
• 16:12
  your
• 16:12
  destiny.
• 16:13
  There
• 16:13
  are
• 16:13
  some
• 16:13
  things
• 16:14
  that
• 16:14
  cannot
• 16:14
  go
• 16:15
  with
• 16:15
  you
• 16:15
  into
• 16:16
  your
• 16:16
  next
• 16:16
  season.
• 16:17
  For
• 16:17
  me,
• 16:18
  it
• 16:18
  was
• 16:19
  that
• 16:19
  old
• 16:19
  fear
• 16:20
  of
• 16:20
  being
• 16:20
  seen.
• 16:21
  It
• 16:21
  couldn't
• 16:21
  come
• 16:22
  with
• 16:22
  me.
• 16:23
  I
• 16:23
  had
• 16:23
  to
• 16:23
  leave
• 16:24
  her
• 16:24
  behind.
• 16:25
  That
• 16:25
  was
• 16:25
  a
• 16:26
  part
• 16:26
  of
• 16:26
  me
• 16:26
  that
• 16:26
  I
• 16:27
  had
• 16:27
  to
• 16:27
  shed
• 16:28
  in
• 16:28
  order
• 16:29
  for
• 16:29
  this
• 16:29
  season
• 16:30
  of
• 16:30
  me
• 16:30
  to
• 16:30
  exist
• 16:31
  today
• 16:32
  So
• 16:32
  what
• 16:33
  is
• 16:33
  that
• 16:33
  for
• 16:33
  you?
• 16:34
  What
• 16:34
  fear
• 16:35
  or
• 16:35
  old
• 16:35
  part
• 16:36
  of
• 16:36
  you
• 16:37
  has
• 16:37
  to
• 16:37
  stay
• 16:38
  in
• 16:38
  that
• 16:38
  old
• 16:38
  season?
• 16:39
  What
• 16:39
  part
• 16:40
  of
• 16:40
  yourself
• 16:40
  cannot
• 16:41
  come
• 16:41
  into
• 16:42
  this
• 16:42
  next
• 16:42
  stage
• 16:42
  of
• 16:43
  your
• 16:43
  life?
• 16:44
  This
• 16:44
  is
• 16:44
  natural
• 16:45
  evolution,
• 16:47
  letting
• 16:47
  something
• 16:48
  go
• 16:48
  in
• 16:49
  order
• 16:49
  to
• 16:49
  make
• 16:49
  room
• 16:50
  for
• 16:50
  what's
• 16:50
  next,
• 16:51
  including
• 16:52
  the
• 16:52
  next
• 16:52
  version
• 16:53
  of
• 16:53
  you.
• 16:54
  There's
• 16:54
  nothing
• 16:54
  to
• 16:55
  be
• 16:55
  afraid
• 16:55
  of.
• 16:56
  You
• 16:56
  are
• 16:57
  taking
• 16:57
  the
• 16:57
  best
• 16:58
  of
• 16:58
  you
• 16:58
  with
• 16:59
  you
• 17:00
  always.
• 17:01
  What
• 17:01
  you're
• 17:01
  building
• 17:02
  next
• 17:03
  requires
• 17:03
  that
• 17:04
  of
• 17:04
  you.
• 17:04
  That
• 17:05
  version
• 17:05
  of
• 17:06
  you
• 17:06
  is
• 17:06
  getting
• 17:07
  you
• 17:07
  closer
• 17:08
  and
• 17:08
  closer
• 17:09
  to
• 17:09
  the
• 17:09
  dreams
• 17:10
  and
• 17:10
  desires
• 17:11
  of
• 17:11
  your
• 17:11
  heart.
• 17:12
  So
• 17:12
  friend,
• 17:13
  no
• 17:13
  more
• 17:14
  arguing.
• 17:15
  Release,
• 17:16
  surrender,
• 17:17
  and
• 17:17
  let
• 17:18
  your
• 17:18
  blessings
• 17:19
  land.
• 17:20
  Now
• 17:21
  is
• 17:21
  your
• 17:22
  time
• 17:22
  to
• 17:22
  build
• 17:23
  what's
• 17:24
  next
• 17:27
  Friend,
• 17:28
  you
• 17:28
  deserve
• 17:29
  to
• 17:29
  fall
• 17:30
  in
• 17:30
  love
• 17:30
  with
• 17:30
  yourself,
• 17:31
  your
• 17:31
  days,
• 17:32
  and
• 17:32
  your
• 17:33
  life.
• 17:34
  Not
• 17:34
  someday,
• 17:35
  but
• 17:35
  right
• 17:36
  now.
• 17:36
  This
• 17:37
  conversation,
• 17:38
  this
• 17:38
  work
• 17:38
  that
• 17:39
  you
• 17:39
  showed
• 17:39
  up
• 17:39
  for,
• 17:40
  this
• 17:41
  is
• 17:41
  how
• 17:41
  it
• 17:41
  happens,
• 17:42
  one
• 17:42
  layer
• 17:43
  at
• 17:43
  a
• 17:43
  time.
• 17:44
  And
• 17:44
  I'm
• 17:45
  gonna
• 17:45
  keep
• 17:45
  showing
• 17:45
  up
• 17:46
  in
• 17:46
  your
• 17:46
  earbuds
• 17:47
  every
• 17:48
  week
• 17:48
  until
• 17:49
  you
• 17:49
  believe
• 17:49
  it,
• 17:49
  and
• 17:50
  I
• 17:50
  do
• 17:50
  mean
• 17:51
  every
• 17:52
  week.
• 17:52
  So
• 17:53
  leave
• 17:53
  a
• 17:53
  review
• 17:54
  and
• 17:54
  tell
• 17:55
  me
• 17:55
  how
• 17:55
  this
• 17:55
  is
• 17:56
  helping
• 17:56
  you
• 17:57
  step
• 17:57
  into
• 17:58
  your
• 17:58
  main
• 17:59
  character
• 17:59
  energy.
• 18:00
  And
• 18:01
  remember,
• 18:02
  no
• 18:02
  matter
• 18:02
  what
• 18:02
  comes
• 18:03
  your
• 18:03
  way,
• 18:04
  together
• 18:04
  we
• 18:04
  can
• 18:05
  encourage
• 18:06
  over
• 18:06
  everything.
• 18:08
  And
• 18:08
  I'll
• 18:08
  see
• 18:08
  you
• 18:09
  in
• 18:09
  the
• 18:09
  next
• 18:09
  episode