Latest / Closing Sales in Nigeria - Sales For The Nigerian Business Person: The Sales and Marketing Blueprint / Keep the Deal Moving: Handling Customer Concerns Without Stalling
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- 0:01Hello and welcome. My name is Tavishima Ayede.
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- 0:31on 08064662140. Today on the podcast, Hopefully
- 0:38this is going to be a short one in the last episode and I think
- 0:42the episode before maybe like 5-6 episodes, I've been saying a
- 0:45lot about dealing with objections.
- 0:47And so that's what I want to tackle today.
- 0:49And that's because I just got off the phone with one of my
- 0:52clients that I've been consulting with for a while and
- 0:55they pulled one kind move with a potential customer and I move
- 0:58no, no two pure. So I said, let me just come and
- 1:00make this recording just in case you're in that kind of a
- 1:03situation and you self, you know, you now do something that
- 1:06would just torpedo the deal, even though you don't know
- 1:09actually what's going on. So what is an objection for
- 1:13those of you who are tuning in for the first time?
- 1:15An objection is just any particular reason that people
- 1:18give because they don't want to go ahead with the discussion,
- 1:21with the transaction, with your agenda, with your proposal, with
- 1:25your whatever. So like the example that I gave
- 1:27last time is let's say you're a member of the Catholic Church,
- 1:30you're in parish pastoral council, you're proposing let us
- 1:33celebrate these, let's celebrate these.
- 1:35And people are saying no, no, no, no, no, no, no, all that,
- 1:37no, no, no, that is objection. If you're involved in business,
- 1:41you're a fashion designer, somebody's talking to you.
- 1:43The Madam says she wants peplum and you're thinking that based
- 1:48on how body size and everything, peplum will not do pure.
- 1:52You're trying to recommend that she try something else and then
- 1:56because of that, it looks as if she's backing down.
- 1:58That is an objection. You're trying to get somebody to
- 2:01buy something from you and then the person says like, are you
- 2:03mad? If I go next door I can buy it
- 2:06at 50% off? You're too expensive.
- 2:08That is an objection. So any kind of common question
- 2:12mark, slowing down, matching brake, changing the topic, you
- 2:17know, whatever, any kind of speed bump like that, that is
- 2:21what we call objections in the sales process.
- 2:24And sometimes we business people, we don't handle
- 2:29objections too well. Well, number one is because we
- 2:32don't know. And number #2 because sometimes
- 2:34body they're hot. So you will now just be
- 2:37provoking unnecessarily. And that's what happened in this
- 2:39case. So that's the reason why I'm
- 2:40making today's podcast episode. So this is exactly what went
- 2:43down. Now I've been advising for a
- 2:47client in the real estate space. You know, they have an app that
- 2:50is supposed to make it easier to connect, you know, landlords
- 2:54with tenants, people who want to sell a house, you know, buy a
- 2:57house, all that kind of thing. And they have a proprietary
- 3:02algorithm that helps, you know, do all this, you know, stuff,
- 3:05you know, fancy, fancy stuff, you know, tech things.
- 3:08So, you know, I don't understand the mathematics behind it, so I
- 3:12don't even bother. My only just OK, I'm advising
- 3:15for you guys. So it's a matter of, you know,
- 3:17hooking you guys up with clients, making sure that you
- 3:19have access to, you know, certain kinds of people,
- 3:24whatever the priorities of the client seems to be for the day.
- 3:27So I'm just advising them now. There's this deal that they've
- 3:30been working on that they've been pursuing and I've been
- 3:33advising them. And so the CEO, when I was
- 3:37talking to other people and so we had draw proposal that we're
- 3:40doing something around December. We need you guys to secure XYZ
- 3:46number of shortlists. You know, was was plenty was
- 3:49running into thousands. Actually, we need you to secure,
- 3:53you know, XYZ number of short let's stay hotel, you know, this
- 3:57kind of thing running into thousands and thousands.
- 4:00And then, well, first of all, the CEO said why you guys draw a
- 4:04proposal? That was 1 goof and the the
- 4:08liaison officer now called me and I was like, no, that's not
- 4:13how you will draw proposal. Now you don't just, you know,
- 4:17just go and write anything and say this is proposal.
- 4:19And then you send first of all, you need to ask the client, OK,
- 4:22you are doing this thing in December, you know, like what's
- 4:24going on? What's the plan?
- 4:26You try and get a sense of the vibe, try and get a sense of
- 4:28what the problem is trying to solve.
- 4:30Then you cannot make a convincing proposal.
- 4:32Your proposal will now say that, OK, we XYZ Corporation have been
- 4:36engaged to, you know, provide services to you, blah, blah,
- 4:40blah. This is what you're trying to
- 4:41do. This is what you're trying to
- 4:43achieve. These are the results that
- 4:45you're looking for. These are the outcomes that you
- 4:47want at the end of the day, you know, having understood these
- 4:49problems, we so, so, so and so we can able to help you to
- 4:53achieve this. You know, that's the way that
- 4:55you put together a proposal, you know, from the other person's
- 4:57point of view. So it's not just you just put
- 5:00together 1 document. This is me, This Is Us, this is
- 5:03our board of director, this is our specialty.
- 5:05These are the services that we provide.
- 5:07This is how much will charge you.
- 5:08Then you send no, no, no, you write the proposal from the
- 5:12other people's point of view, any other the put together
- 5:15proposal. Now did the mathematics.
- 5:17You know, we need X number of people who need this, we need
- 5:20this, we need that. By the time they put together
- 5:22the proposal and I looked at the number at the bottom, I saw that
- 5:26this this number was sweet, as in millions big, big, big, big,
- 5:30big number. And I was thinking, oh, more
- 5:32this one, even if they say, you know, yes, we've agreed on your,
- 5:38your, your professional rate. But because, you know, out of
- 5:42gratitude, come and take 1%, at least my house looking like,
- 5:45man, even 1% of this number is correct.
- 5:48At least 1% means that my house rent is sure, school fees is
- 5:52sure and maybe fuel for like 3-4 months.
- 5:55You sure? That's how sweet the deal was.
- 5:57So I was looking at the number. The number is very, very sweet.
- 6:00Then in my mind now, I was now calculating all the things I
- 6:03need done in my Life, OK, the car that I need to fix, you
- 6:05know, all these, all these things, they're my children.
- 6:09They don't like this DSTV package, one that is 19 K.
- 6:12So in my mind, I'm not like, OK, I'll be paying the 19 K package.
- 6:16I was not calculating everything in my head.
- 6:18And then my mother is always warning me.
- 6:19She says that look, young man, stop counting money before the
- 6:23thing has arrived. And I say, yeah, mommy, I know,
- 6:25I know. But I'm always doing that
- 6:26counting money in my head even though the paper has not yet
- 6:29landed. So as I've been waiting for them
- 6:32to finish this thing now so that when Pepe rest, you know, do
- 6:37settle everybody and then I know that OK, some things are now
- 6:41clear from my own mind. I was waiting for Pepe then
- 6:45that's how liaison office sent me a message to the liaison
- 6:48officer. I said how far now what happens?
- 6:51So the thing has scatter, scatter because of how said
- 6:54because they were asking us to provide a list of the
- 6:57residences. So we say no, you have to engage
- 7:00us first and then we ended the whole thing.
- 7:03Let me repeat, this is how the deal scattered the other people
- 7:07who are trying to engage the services of my client to go and
- 7:10secure residences. They now told them give us a
- 7:13list of residences and then my client said no, we will not give
- 7:17you a list because the whole point of you engaging our
- 7:21services is for us to go and secure these accommodations.
- 7:24If we provide you a list ahead of time, you might as well just
- 7:27go ahead and you will now do it yourself and cut us out.
- 7:30So because of that, we're not giving you a list.
- 7:32And then that's all the whole deal scattered.
- 7:35So in that case, give us a list. That seems like an objection
- 7:40because, you know, from my own point of view, it was looking as
- 7:44if they want us to do something that will end up, you know,
- 7:48cutting us out of the picture at the end of the day.
- 7:50So I'm not told, leisure officer, that no, now that's not
- 7:53how you do things. Calm down.
- 7:56People ask questions for any number of reasons.
- 8:01The problem is maybe because you know, body the hot economy is
- 8:04hard or all kinds of things. We on the sales side, we now
- 8:07start assuming that we know exactly what is behind them
- 8:11asking. We just assume that they're
- 8:13trying to cut us out of the picture.
- 8:16Maybe it's not. There are some clients who are
- 8:18fraudulent, yes, who want to do things like that, but it might
- 8:21not be that might not be the case.
- 8:23So whenever you're faced with an objection, instead of assuming
- 8:26you know what the other person is thinking, then you now react
- 8:29like calm down, lean in, acknowledge, ask a couple of
- 8:33questions, figure out what is going on, and then you'll be
- 8:37able to now resolve the matter. Before I tell you what I've
- 8:41asked my client, let me give you 1 practical example that some
- 8:43people have been doing business with for a very long time.
- 8:46And you know, when you do business with people, you will
- 8:48get comfort, comfortable with each other.
- 8:50You know, sometimes you know, see finish, you know, maybe they
- 8:52won't rate you highly. So the time came now to drop a a
- 8:59proposal, a draft proposal. I sent them the figure.
- 9:02Then that's how the desk officer got back to me and she said
- 9:05please, we need a breakdown. I was now angry.
- 9:09I was now thinking, OK, because me tavish and I'm civil.
- 9:13I'm always available, I'm always helpful.
- 9:16So this is how you guys are looking at me now.
- 9:18I've given you invoice. You want me to break it down so
- 9:21that you can now start slashing my money and removing things.
- 9:26So I now picked up the phone. By the way, we should always
- 9:28pick up the phone. It's easier to handle these
- 9:29things in person. And then I called the desk
- 9:31officer. Her name is Angel.
- 9:34She doesn't listen to this podcast so I can use her real
- 9:36name. So I said, Angel, how far?
- 9:38Like what's what's going on? I received this e-mail even want
- 9:42me to break down all my figures. I be so that you start
- 9:44negotiating things on my own behalf.
- 9:46I told her, look, I'm not going to do that.
- 9:49I'm not going to send you figures.
- 9:50You cannot keep pricing by something you know you like.
- 9:54You're not going to do that to me?
- 9:56But then she was like please that we need the figures.
- 9:58And so me angrily I said look, you know what, OK, to facilitate
- 10:02this thing, I need to send boys to Lagos.
- 10:04I need to send boys to Cano, I need to send boys to Anugu.
- 10:07This is how much will cost me. This is how much will cost me.
- 10:09This is how much will cost me. After all this stress, I people
- 10:12saying that I should not at least have a few, you know
- 10:16something to put in my pocket while this is the breakdown,
- 10:18this is my profit margin. Why are you now tell me how much
- 10:21am I supposed to keep? And I left it like that in
- 10:24anger. And next thing Angel is like
- 10:27Tara Schumer is not like that. The thing is just that
- 10:31accounting said they cannot pay out anything unless they see the
- 10:36breakdown. We're ready to pay.
- 10:38Accounting just needed breakdown.
- 10:40Once you give the breakdown, the payment will be in your account
- 10:43by next week Wednesday. That's why my man came down.
- 10:46I said, so that's all she said. Yes, that was just it.
- 10:50Accounting is just is a compliance issue.
- 10:52Accounting just needs some kind of breakdown.
- 10:55We are not, we're not criticizing anything now.
- 11:02And I started feeling like I'm a fool because I seriously provoke
- 11:05for Angel because I assumed that I knew what the question was
- 11:09about or what the objection was about.
- 11:12I just assumed I didn't ask. If I had asked and I realized
- 11:15that was a compliance issue, I would have just gone ahead,
- 11:19prepared something, anything, and then sent it in.
- 11:23And then the next question, of course, would have been OK, when
- 11:25are we expecting payment? How soon can we go ahead?
- 11:29So of course, be feeling like a fool now.
- 11:31And that's how, Angel, I beg. No, Vex, you know, times are
- 11:35hard. You know how these things can
- 11:37be. She laughed and said, yeah, I
- 11:38understand. That's the reason why I'm not
- 11:39married. I said, hi, Angel, calm down
- 11:42now. How can you say, you know,
- 11:44because of small, small financial difficulties.
- 11:46You know, you won't. You won't get married.
- 11:48Yeah, I told her you're a fine girl, like you suppose married.
- 11:51You can't just be staying like this.
- 11:52But anyway, we'll discuss all these things later.
- 11:55And then that's how we ended the phone call.
- 11:57And then eventually I got paid. But I assumed that I knew what
- 12:02the objection was about. And I responded.
- 12:06So 1 moment. OK.
- 12:10I thought the phone call was coming in.
- 12:11So instead of always assuming when people object, so there's
- 12:16some objections that is kind of clear.
- 12:18If somebody says, are you mad? If I go next door, you could do
- 12:21give it to me for 50% off that one.
- 12:23Clearly the objection is about money, but there's some
- 12:27objections that we receive, excuse me, that we really don't
- 12:31know what's at the back of the mind of the customer.
- 12:34Now when they say, let me think about it, let me get back to
- 12:37you. Sometimes they might be saying
- 12:39that because they don't have money, that's how they say let
- 12:41me get back to you. Sometimes they may be saying let
- 12:44me get back to you because the customer needs some more time to
- 12:47process. He wants to discuss with his
- 12:49wife, she wants to discuss with her husband, They want to talk
- 12:52to somebody else. Let them understand.
- 12:55Sometimes they'll say, let me get back to you because maybe
- 12:57they don't have confidence in you that you can't deliver what
- 13:01it is that you're promising. So they need sometimes to
- 13:04process. So there are some objections
- 13:06where you really don't know where they're coming from.
- 13:08So you cannot address it until you ask where they are coming
- 13:12from. So back to my client now, the
- 13:17one that millions, 1,000,000 millions, everything has
- 13:18scattered and I have to now start looking for school fees
- 13:22and house rent for 2026 because this one has scattered.
- 13:26So where was I? So I told her that look, people
- 13:31ask questions all the time for different reasons.
- 13:33You can't just assume and then react.
- 13:37So I told her you should have just answered.
- 13:38I said, oh, can you give us a list of housing?
- 13:40We have to say we are sure we can, you know, ask your
- 13:44question. Is there anything in particular
- 13:46that you are concerned about? You ask and the reply might just
- 13:50be as simple as, oh, we just want to know the quality or the
- 13:54standard of accommodation that you're going to provide for our
- 13:56guests. Then in that case you say, oh,
- 13:58OK, that's not a problem. We are looking at so, so and so
- 14:02property on Lucky, so, so and so property on the mainland, So, so
- 14:06and so property on Banana Island.
- 14:08You give them like 5 or 6, you know, will this kind of things
- 14:11match the standard that you're looking for?
- 14:14And some people look and say, oh, OK, if we're looking at
- 14:16these kinds of things, that's absolutely fine.
- 14:18And then the conversation continues.
- 14:20Now, it doesn't mean that the deal will close.
- 14:22But The thing is, you've gotten to the root of what their
- 14:25concern was. Then you can address it instead
- 14:28of assuming that they want a list of all the thousands of
- 14:31properties that were supposed to give them.
- 14:33And then you say, look, if you do that, you want to cut us out,
- 14:37you know, therefore the deal is off.
- 14:40So when dealing with objections, first of all, always try and
- 14:44empathize with the customer or the client.
- 14:47You try and tap things down. Then you ask questions, you try
- 14:50and figure out what exactly is going on.
- 14:53You will now know how it is that you're supposed to respond.
- 14:56So in the situation where somebody says, are you mad that
- 14:58Chukudi can give it to me for 50% down, you know, empathize.
- 15:01You say, Oh yeah, I know that Chukudi can give it to you a 50%
- 15:06off, but the thing that you could is promising you exactly,
- 15:10you know like what is it? So what you could promise the
- 15:14this this this model 2 and they say oh OK sure, no problem.
- 15:19I have the model 2IN store. But Bros, based on what you have
- 15:22told me, the model 2 is not going to be adequate for what it
- 15:25is that you want to achieve. Model 2 is best for this and
- 15:28best for this and best for that. That is the reason why me I
- 15:31recommended for you Model 5. So yes, you can go to Chukudi
- 15:36and get it at 50% cheaper, but it will not do.
- 15:40You will not solve these particular problems that you
- 15:42want solved. In fact, OK, instead of going to
- 15:44Chukudi, I get need a 5050% off buy it from me and you know I'll
- 15:50give you a further 2% discount on what it is that he's arguing.
- 15:53So if it is a matter of model 2, the model 2 is here and take it
- 15:57at this price without even further discount.
- 16:00But just know that most of your problem, so you see how if you
- 16:05lean in, you ask a couple of questions, you're going to be
- 16:08able to on earth what the customer is thinking and then
- 16:11you will be able to address it. So in this case that you could
- 16:16is selling it at 50% less by the time you ask questions, you now
- 16:20know that OK, you can now educate the customer about how
- 16:22this sort of thing is inadequate because you've asked some
- 16:26questions about what it is that he's going to receive when he
- 16:29goes next door to go and meet Chukudi.
- 16:32So that's always the approach. Just calm down.
- 16:34We get very emotional because times I had and body, they're
- 16:39hot and we all have concerns that we want to meet.
- 16:42So you know something I'm really trying to learn because my
- 16:44mother tells me I should stop counting money in my head.
- 16:46Me, I'm always counting money in my head.
- 16:48So by the times she looks as if we're close to time for the
- 16:50money to drop and then some comma, some speed bump, some
- 16:56question, some queries, some something comes out of nowhere.
- 16:59Sometimes you think just destabilizes me because in my
- 17:01head I'm already seeing hundreds of thousands or millions in my
- 17:06bank account. So when something just comes
- 17:08like that, my initial whatever is just like my client is for,
- 17:12you know, palpitation. But we should learn to be calm,
- 17:17empathize, ask questions, figure out what's going on.
- 17:20We'll be able to resolve the situation.
- 17:22If we can't resolve the situation, it's just one of
- 17:24those things, you know, become, be cool, you know, money comes,
- 17:28money goes. Blessed be the name of the Lord.
- 17:30That's just life. Some opportunities come, some
- 17:32opportunities go. You lose this one today.
- 17:35Don't worry, next month, next week, next year, next two years,
- 17:42something will come up. Another elephant project will
- 17:44come up. So that's just what I wanted to
- 17:48say today about dealing with objections because since in the
- 17:52work that I'm doing with Shagging LLC and Rudolph, we've
- 17:56been talking about this particular objection, this
- 17:58particular objection. I just wanted to come here and
- 18:01then take the take the big view to show the philosophy about how
- 18:07we deal with objections. Empathize first, acknowledge
- 18:10first, then ask a couple of questions.
- 18:14Figure out what the real issue is.
- 18:16When you address what the real issue is, you'll be able to get
- 18:19things back on track. So don't end up in a situation
- 18:23where, you know, like me, you pick up the phone and you say
- 18:28Angel, like what the hell is going on is that is easy finish.
- 18:32Everyone now wanting me to break down all my figures so that you
- 18:37guys will start determining what is the right profit margin for
- 18:40me. You know, calm down.
- 18:45So it doesn't get to that situation where you're vomiting
- 18:47unnecessarily over the phone or we're like my client, you
- 18:50torpedo a deal that might be sweet for all of us just because
- 18:53you think they're trying to cut us out of the deal.
- 18:56You lean in first, you ask questions.
- 18:58When it is now clear that, oh, somebody's trying to cut us out
- 19:01of the deal, then you can be frank with them.
- 19:02Like, how can you be asking me this kind of thing?
- 19:07If it's like that, no problem. Just go and do the job yourself.
- 19:10I'm not going to use my own hand and put me put me out of put me
- 19:13out of a deal. And then, you know, that kind of
- 19:15fun conversation, you know, of course, only will laugh now.
- 19:18And you know, yes, it has scattered, but at least it has
- 19:19scattered on the level of we're still mutual friends.
- 19:22We can still do business tomorrow.
- 19:24Not that we torpedo everything in bad faith.
- 19:27So that's how we deal with objections.
- 19:29Again, acknowledge, empathize, make it look as if you're on
- 19:34their own side. Ask a couple of questions.
- 19:36So in this particular case was a matter of sure, no problem.
- 19:40We can provide you a list of properties.
- 19:42Is there anything you are concerned about?
- 19:45Question mark? You hear what it is that they
- 19:47have to say. Based on their response, you
- 19:49will now know the lay of the land and you don't know whether
- 19:52you have to go left or whether you have to go right.
- 19:54So that's it. And that's all for today's
- 19:57episode. And remember, if you'd love to
- 20:00connect, then you can call. You can SMS or WhatsApp me on
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- 20:09time and attention. I'll catch you next time.
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