Latest / Faithful Fitness With Coach Alex VanHouten / Breath Is Power: How God Gave You Control Over Your Nervous System
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Welcome to the Faithful Fitness Podcast for My Dad. Coach
- 0:06Speaker 1: Alex van Houghten helps you get stronger and mind, body,
- 0:09Speaker 1: and spirit. He believes that your body is a temple,
- 0:12Speaker 1: so taking good care of it is an actual worship.
- 0:15Speaker 2: I should know.
- 0:15Speaker 1: I live with him every week. He brings truth from
- 0:18Speaker 1: the Bible, tool of some science and stories that will
- 0:20Speaker 1: set your heart on fire. May God bless you to
- 0:23Speaker 1: become everything He made you to be, just one percent
- 0:26Speaker 1: better every single day.
- 0:30Speaker 3: The body is a living library of all of our
- 0:32Speaker 3: human experiences. And this is why they say the body
- 0:36Speaker 3: keeps score and why the issues are in the tissues.
- 0:38Speaker 3: So a lot of the trauma, the accumulated stress, the
- 0:42Speaker 3: unresolved emotions, they're in the fascia of our body. They're
- 0:46Speaker 3: in the organs. That's why people get diseased.
- 0:50Speaker 4: Right, I'm coach Alex van Houghten, and today you're going
- 0:53Speaker 4: to hear why Breath. It's one of the few places
- 0:55Speaker 4: where biology, agency and.
- 0:58Speaker 2: God's design meet.
- 1:00Speaker 4: My guest courtes Lee Thomas, helps people reclaim control when
- 1:05Speaker 4: anxiety and trauma and stress have hijacked their bodies.
- 1:10Speaker 2: This conversation macs.
- 1:12Speaker 4: Because you're not as powerless as you think you are.
- 1:16Speaker 4: I am so excited to have this conversation with you.
- 1:18Speaker 4: I want to start with something really easy. I'm just kidding, not.
- 1:21Speaker 2: Easy at all.
- 1:23Speaker 4: You specialize in breath work, and you specialize in helping
- 1:26Speaker 4: individuals walk through the practical application.
- 1:29Speaker 2: Of that thing, not just the science of that thing.
- 1:31Speaker 4: And so I'm coming from the perspective of somebody who,
- 1:34Speaker 4: just like you, was trained as a personal trainer. First,
- 1:38Speaker 4: both of us share the ISSA as an origin of certification,
- 1:41Speaker 4: the International Sports Science Association. And what I noticed is
- 1:45Speaker 4: when I started working with individuals and teaching them how
- 1:47Speaker 4: to exercise, that I was constantly, constantly teaching them how
- 1:52Speaker 4: to breathe, even though that wasn't part of the curriculum
- 1:56Speaker 4: that I was taught. Everybody wants to know how to
- 1:58Speaker 4: use this muscle and make this stronger, blah blah blah.
- 2:00Speaker 4: And as a young trainer, I was always like, you
- 2:02Speaker 4: gotta breathe. Why are you holding your breath? Gotta breathe in,
- 2:05Speaker 4: let your belly expand you gotta exercise those bustles. That's
- 2:09Speaker 4: not a cramp, that's you being weak in your breathing right,
- 2:12Speaker 4: And and I found myself teaching that all the time.
- 2:16Speaker 4: Where did your first exposure to man, I got to
- 2:20Speaker 4: teach people how to breathe?
- 2:21Speaker 2: When did that happen for you?
- 2:23Speaker 3: When I realized I wasn't breathing. I one time, I
- 2:29Speaker 3: mean I wasn't just not breathing correctly. I remember distinctly.
- 2:33Speaker 3: It was on my birthday and I was having a
- 2:35Speaker 3: conversation with my friend and his wife, and during the conversation,
- 2:40Speaker 3: all of a sudden, I caught myself gasping for air
- 2:43Speaker 3: and I just remember going and I was like, what
- 2:47Speaker 3: the heck was that? Like what I was? I just
- 2:50Speaker 3: holding my breath. I was so so unconscious to it.
- 2:53Speaker 3: And then I looked down and my fist wasn't a ball,
- 2:57Speaker 3: and I was like and I was like, oh, and
- 2:59Speaker 3: it just hit me. I was like, wow, I'm holding
- 3:01Speaker 3: on to something. And I had to sleep apnear as well.
- 3:04Speaker 3: But that's during the nighttime. This was in broad daylight.
- 3:07Speaker 3: And I don't even know how many times I did
- 3:08Speaker 3: that in the past, just not even aware of it.
- 3:11Speaker 3: So I knew my breathing was totally screwed at that point.
- 3:15Speaker 3: And then slowly but surely I found this specific breathing
- 3:18Speaker 3: technique which is deep diaphragmatic breath work, which allowed me
- 3:23Speaker 3: to release the big thing that I was holding onto.
- 3:27Speaker 3: That changed not just my breathing, but it changed my life.
- 3:32Speaker 4: And you just spoke about breathing in a way that's
- 3:34Speaker 4: both physical and spiritual. And here on the Faithful Fitness Podcast,
- 3:39Speaker 4: we're working hard to help individuals make the most out
- 3:42Speaker 4: of the body God's given them. And for many people,
- 3:45Speaker 4: the spiritual and the physical are completely separate things. They
- 3:47Speaker 4: think of their body and their mind as separate things.
- 3:53Speaker 4: But interestingly, the science of breath shows us that there
- 3:57Speaker 4: are things that come together in us that well, they're
- 4:02Speaker 4: not separable. As an example, and I'm sure you know this,
- 4:06Speaker 4: we have our sympathetic nervous system and our parasympathetic nervous system.
- 4:10Speaker 4: And our sympathetic nervous system we actually have control over that.
- 4:13Speaker 4: We have conscious control.
- 4:14Speaker 2: Over grabbing a drink of water or or going for
- 4:17Speaker 2: a run. Right.
- 4:18Speaker 4: The parasympathetic nervous system is we think of it as
- 4:21Speaker 4: kind of the relax rest and digest thing. You don't
- 4:26Speaker 4: control that, like, you can't think about like, hey, food,
- 4:29Speaker 4: move through my digestive track a little more slowly or
- 4:32Speaker 4: speeded out like you can't do that right? What's crazy
- 4:35Speaker 4: is you said, I learned to breathe when I noticed
- 4:39Speaker 4: I wasn't breathing. But if you're not breathing, you die.
- 4:44Speaker 4: So obviously you were breathing, but it was it was
- 4:47Speaker 4: the parasympathetic version of it. It was the part of
- 4:51Speaker 4: you that you were breathing, but not consciously, not intentionally,
- 4:55Speaker 4: not with focus and control. And I realized in my
- 4:59Speaker 4: life that breathe was one of the very few things
- 5:02Speaker 4: that inhabits both sides of the nervous system.
- 5:06Speaker 2: I'll breathe. If I don't breathe, it's just going to happen.
- 5:09Speaker 4: But I can also take conscious control of that and
- 5:12Speaker 4: make breath a thing that's within my own personal agency.
- 5:18Speaker 4: Can you describe that in your work? I used my terms,
- 5:21Speaker 4: But in your work when you help individuals cross that
- 5:25Speaker 4: barrier what I would think of as a spiritual and
- 5:28Speaker 4: physical barrier, what kind of language are you using and
- 5:30Speaker 4: what are you seeing and the people you work with?
- 5:34Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I mean, for one, you can go years
- 5:38Speaker 3: without sunlight, months without food, weeks without water, but only
- 5:43Speaker 3: minutes without the breath. The breath theoretically speaking, we're breathing
- 5:48Speaker 3: in the same ear right now as Jesus, Buddha, Gandhi. Right,
- 5:53Speaker 3: it's the one thing that connects all humans on the
- 5:55Speaker 3: planet right now, because everything's connected to everything else. So
- 6:00Speaker 3: the breath is very spiritual, right, God breathe life into humans.
- 6:06Speaker 3: And you know, the breath is it is like like
- 6:13Speaker 3: think of the cells in the body. Right when the
- 6:15Speaker 3: breath comes in, it awakens the cells within the body,
- 6:18Speaker 3: and those cells hold memory. So people begin to activate,
- 6:22Speaker 3: you know, all types of realizations, epiphanies, clarity, there's things
- 6:27Speaker 3: that happen in the brain called transient hypofrontality. So there's
- 6:30Speaker 3: a bridge between the science and the spirituality. You know,
- 6:34Speaker 3: of it by nature. And I think when people realize
- 6:37Speaker 3: that the breath is the only system in the body
- 6:40Speaker 3: that works on its own, like you were saying, but
- 6:43Speaker 3: we can also control it. And that's the beauty of
- 6:47Speaker 3: it is that nobody's consciously breathing, right. And I think
- 6:52Speaker 3: once you learn how to consciously breathe, you know and
- 6:55Speaker 3: direct you know, certain energy, do certain techniques, certain breathing
- 6:58Speaker 3: techniques of certain reactions. And that's what I found fascinating
- 7:04Speaker 3: because we always think of you know, the pill is
- 7:07Speaker 3: the quick, fast and effective.
- 7:08Speaker 2: Way, right you know.
- 7:10Speaker 3: But when I had panic attacks and I was taking
- 7:12Speaker 3: all these you know, adavans and you know, all these
- 7:15Speaker 3: prescription pills, I realized that, you know, one the breath
- 7:20Speaker 3: works faster than any pill you could ever swallow. Just logically,
- 7:25Speaker 3: if you look at take a pill, it's got to
- 7:27Speaker 3: go thrown your esophage, it's going to go into your
- 7:30Speaker 3: you know, uh, stomach, small intestines, going to break down,
- 7:34Speaker 3: absorb into the body. You're looking at minimum twenty minutes, right.
- 7:38Speaker 3: So but why was it when I was taken, when
- 7:40Speaker 3: I was feeling and I was having a panic attack,
- 7:42Speaker 3: and I was taking the pill. As soon as I swallowed,
- 7:44Speaker 3: within a sixty seconds I felt better, it wasn't really
- 7:48Speaker 3: working at that moment. It's placebo, even though it's a
- 7:51Speaker 3: real drug, right you know, So a lot of the
- 7:53Speaker 3: stuff comes in our mind and it's really you know,
- 7:56Speaker 3: and I hate to say this, and because when the
- 7:58Speaker 3: doctors were saying to me, I was I wanted to
- 8:00Speaker 3: choke them, but they're like, you know, it's all in
- 8:02Speaker 3: your head. It's all You're like, no, it's not, no,
- 8:04Speaker 3: it's not no, it's not you know, and it's not,
- 8:06Speaker 3: it's really not. It's actually in the body. And that's
- 8:09Speaker 3: that's what they got wrong. Because the mind always wants
- 8:12Speaker 3: to think into the future, right in worrying, which is
- 8:14Speaker 3: just small, perpetual amounts of fear. The soul wants to
- 8:18Speaker 3: be present, but the body holds onto the past. The
- 8:23Speaker 3: body is a living library of all of our human experiences.
- 8:27Speaker 3: And this is why they say the body keeps score
- 8:29Speaker 3: and why the issues are in the tissues. So a
- 8:31Speaker 3: lot of the trauma, the accumulated stress, the unresolved emotions,
- 8:37Speaker 3: they're in the fascia of our body. They're in the organs.
- 8:39Speaker 3: That's why people get diseased, right So, and you know,
- 8:44Speaker 3: Harvard has studies that's saying that, you know, emotions and
- 8:48Speaker 3: trauma can cause physical ailments. So it's not new information
- 8:52Speaker 3: right now, but when you know, we're not taught how
- 8:55Speaker 3: to clear the body. Right back in the day, it
- 8:57Speaker 3: wasn't called breathwork detox. It was called body washing. They've
- 9:00Speaker 3: washed the motions from the body using the breath. So
- 9:04Speaker 3: we're talking ancient, ancient stuff in the beginning of time.
- 9:08Speaker 3: And you know, it's somehow this particular technique that I
- 9:11Speaker 3: discovered is resurfacing known as breath work, and you know,
- 9:16Speaker 3: it couldn't come at a more dire time with you
- 9:19Speaker 3: know the statistics of you know, how many people are
- 9:21Speaker 3: suffering from anxiety. I call it sad stress anxiety depression.
- 9:26Speaker 2: That's my accor yeah, I like that. I like that.
- 9:29Speaker 2: You should you should trademark that because it works.
- 9:32Speaker 3: I might write it down right down down, like we're.
- 9:35Speaker 4: Going to do it so so that what's powerful about
- 9:39Speaker 4: that And there's a few things kind of buzzing through
- 9:41Speaker 4: my head as as you're speaking there. What's powerful about
- 9:44Speaker 4: that is fourfold in my mind. First is the idea
- 9:47Speaker 4: that this is something I can do right now that
- 9:51Speaker 4: is immediately controllable and immediately effective. Like if you told
- 9:59Speaker 4: me what's that?
- 10:01Speaker 3: No, no, sorry, I thought you you're gonna I was
- 10:02Speaker 3: gonna jump in go ahead.
- 10:03Speaker 2: No no, no.
- 10:04Speaker 4: I was saying, like, if you told me there was
- 10:06Speaker 4: a pill that would help me deal with my past trauma,
- 10:12Speaker 4: make me more present, increase the likelihood that I have
- 10:16Speaker 4: more agency and capacity in my body, and do so
- 10:20Speaker 4: the instant that I begin the actual treatment, be like, great.
- 10:24Speaker 2: Take my money, how do we do that?
- 10:26Speaker 4: And it's like, no, it's free like it's right, it's
- 10:29Speaker 4: right here like like, which which for some people, you know,
- 10:32Speaker 4: free means less valuable, is not, it's not.
- 10:35Speaker 2: Breath is very fundamental, but it's so.
- 10:38Speaker 4: The second thing that's very ironic to me is is
- 10:40Speaker 4: how interesting is it that we live in a time
- 10:42Speaker 4: where we've forgotten how to breathe? And that even just
- 10:47Speaker 4: taking the time and energy to learn that. It's not
- 10:50Speaker 4: just like I have to go to a breath class
- 10:52Speaker 4: every day. In fact, in your work, your your goal
- 10:56Speaker 4: is to help to teach people these tools that they
- 10:59Speaker 4: can take with.
- 11:00Speaker 2: Them and just use for the rest of their life.
- 11:02Speaker 4: And so it's something that I can practice on a
- 11:05Speaker 4: regular basis. But the third thing that came to my
- 11:07Speaker 4: mind was I was spending some time.
- 11:09Speaker 2: In energy writing. I wrote a book. I wrote a
- 11:12Speaker 2: book called Faithful Fitness.
- 11:13Speaker 4: We're in the process of publishing it right now, and
- 11:16Speaker 4: thanks man. It's quite the endeavor, as you know, to
- 11:20Speaker 4: put all those thoughts on paper, go through the editing process,
- 11:23Speaker 4: go through the publishing process, dear, and then also to
- 11:27Speaker 4: get to see the change that makes in people's lives
- 11:30Speaker 4: when they read words that are powerful for them. The
- 11:36Speaker 4: lynch pin thing in one of one of the four
- 11:40Speaker 4: disciplines that I dig into was the story of King
- 11:43Speaker 4: David and how he faced Goliath. And what was crazy
- 11:46Speaker 4: is when I was trying to meditate on this idea
- 11:48Speaker 4: and put myself in the shoes of a young teenage
- 11:51Speaker 4: boy facing this nine foot warrior, right that everybody's trembling
- 11:55Speaker 4: around him, and the Israelites are scared, it's been going
- 11:58Speaker 4: on for forty days. Came to bring his brother some
- 12:01Speaker 4: bread and cheese because that's what his dad told him
- 12:04Speaker 4: to do. And he shows up and he sees this John.
- 12:05Speaker 4: He's like, not in my house. I'll show you God's
- 12:09Speaker 4: real right. And as I was meditating on that, what
- 12:12Speaker 4: came to me was was this boy with a sling
- 12:15Speaker 4: and a stone in the face of everything that would
- 12:17Speaker 4: be anxiety producing and overwhelming and scary, right like every
- 12:23Speaker 4: public speaker's worst nightmare, like the spotlights on you. You
- 12:27Speaker 4: lose this David and we're all slaves man. In what
- 12:32Speaker 4: came to my heart and mind, well, what praying through
- 12:34Speaker 4: that was his breath was the deep breath in in,
- 12:39Speaker 4: the deep breath out, remembering what he was here for
- 12:44Speaker 4: and understanding that God was with him. And I heard
- 12:48Speaker 4: somebody one time teach on this that the Hebrew word
- 12:51Speaker 4: for God is yahweh why w h, And that naturally,
- 12:56Speaker 4: when I breathe.
- 12:59Speaker 2: In is the y w out.
- 13:03Speaker 4: I'm I'm unconsciously, subconsciously always the name of God is
- 13:08Speaker 4: always on my lips. And it was so interesting when
- 13:11Speaker 4: that came to me at that point in time. It
- 13:13Speaker 4: was shortly thereafter that your your publicist reached out to me.
- 13:15Speaker 4: I was like, Yeah, we need to talk breath work,
- 13:17Speaker 4: because because there is something, there is something to this,
- 13:20Speaker 4: because you know, you might not be David facing the Giant,
- 13:22Speaker 4: or maybe you are, but but really where your agency
- 13:26Speaker 4: starts in a situation like that is your breath in
- 13:31Speaker 4: my in my mind, Curtis, you're helping individuals create agency
- 13:37Speaker 4: in their life where they didn't before.
- 13:40Speaker 2: How do you describe that to them?
- 13:42Speaker 4: When when somebody comes to you and there there's a
- 13:45Speaker 4: lot of anxiety, maybe some some disease, as you said
- 13:49Speaker 4: at disease in both body and mind, and and they're like, okay,
- 13:53Speaker 4: you want me to breathe YEA, all right, I'll give
- 13:57Speaker 4: it a shot.
- 13:57Speaker 2: I guess I get it.
- 14:00Speaker 3: I love that you shared that about you know, the
- 14:04Speaker 3: breathing in and the out is speaking God's name. It
- 14:06Speaker 3: was cool about that is even atheists speak God's name,
- 14:14Speaker 3: you know, when they breathe. So there's that there's some irony.
- 14:16Speaker 2: For you, right, you can't get away from it. God,
- 14:20Speaker 2: I'm breathing.
- 14:21Speaker 3: I personally think everyone's facing their their goliath right now,
- 14:26Speaker 3: you know, and in their own ways. And it could
- 14:27Speaker 3: be you know, in business, it could be in family,
- 14:30Speaker 3: it could be a diction, it could be whatever. Everyone
- 14:32Speaker 3: has their goliath. That's the that's the metaphor of it.
- 14:35Speaker 3: And people, you know, need tools, just like the slingshot, right,
- 14:41Speaker 3: it was a tool. So I believe breathwork is one
- 14:45Speaker 3: of the most powerful tools for people going through whatever
- 14:49Speaker 3: they're going through. And the reason why you know, we're
- 14:52Speaker 3: not in you know, BC times where we're in twenty
- 14:55Speaker 3: twenty six. So what I love about broad work, and
- 15:00Speaker 3: you were alluding to this earlier, is the accessibility. Right,
- 15:05Speaker 3: anyone with a pair of lungs can do this anywhere, anytime,
- 15:09Speaker 3: and there's no barriers to entry, even less than yoga
- 15:13Speaker 3: and meditation. You know, if you look at the reality
- 15:15Speaker 3: of yoga, you know there's a lot of obese people right,
- 15:19Speaker 3: who don't want to go put on a leotard and
- 15:21Speaker 3: go bend in funny ways and sweat in front of people.
- 15:24Speaker 3: You know, it's a real thing performance anxiety. You know,
- 15:28Speaker 3: you're new to yoga, you're gonna go there someone who's
- 15:30Speaker 3: been doing it for twenty years. You can bend like
- 15:32Speaker 3: a pretzel. And then where fifty four percent of the
- 15:34Speaker 3: world's population can't even bend down and touch their toes.
- 15:37Speaker 3: So there's all these barriers to entry when going in there,
- 15:41Speaker 3: and even meditation. Right, First of all, you look at
- 15:46Speaker 3: the statistics of how many people are stressed out, almost everybody.
- 15:50Speaker 3: And if you try to get somebody who's stressed out
- 15:54Speaker 3: already to sit down, sit still and don't think of
- 15:57Speaker 3: a thought for the next twenty minutes, going to get
- 16:00Speaker 3: more stressed out. So breathwork, you can be five hundred pounds,
- 16:06Speaker 3: fully clothed, lay down on your back, in your house,
- 16:10Speaker 3: at the beach wherever, do this specific technique for a
- 16:14Speaker 3: very specific amount of time, and you will have an experience.
- 16:17Speaker 3: And unlike yoga and meditation, the results of breathwork detox
- 16:21Speaker 3: are immediate and undeniable from one session. Now in the
- 16:26Speaker 3: modern times, that we're in. I think that is that's
- 16:28Speaker 3: significant because we live in a microwave society where people
- 16:33Speaker 3: want to see results and they want to see results fast.
- 16:36Speaker 3: And you and I both know. You know, we can't
- 16:38Speaker 3: go to the gym and then the next morning we
- 16:41Speaker 3: wake up with a six pack. It doesn't work. It
- 16:43Speaker 3: doesn't work like that, right, although we'd love that to be,
- 16:46Speaker 3: you know, And the strange thing about breath work is
- 16:49Speaker 3: that you can do one session and be like, oh,
- 16:52Speaker 3: this works. You know, I have so many supplements in
- 16:55Speaker 3: my cabinet. I don't know which one works. I see
- 16:58Speaker 3: a cool Dave Asprey video. I see, you know, cool
- 17:00Speaker 3: this video, and I'm like, that's the supplement that's going
- 17:02Speaker 3: to change my life. I don't know if it's working.
- 17:04Speaker 3: You know, they get me every time. But there's a
- 17:06Speaker 3: few things that come along in life where you're like, oh,
- 17:09Speaker 3: I know this works, This actually moves the needle in
- 17:13Speaker 3: my life, and breathwork is one of those things.
- 17:18Speaker 2: Awesome.
- 17:19Speaker 4: So I heard you say once that breathwork is the
- 17:23Speaker 4: new yoga, and I liked that partially because and my
- 17:28Speaker 4: yoga friends are going to be annoyed at me, So
- 17:30Speaker 4: hang with me. Yoga friends, because I think yoga's fantastic,
- 17:35Speaker 4: but partially because yoga does have such a barrier to entry,
- 17:39Speaker 4: whether it's perceived or real.
- 17:41Speaker 2: Right, yoga does have such a.
- 17:42Speaker 4: Barrier to entry to individuals, and I have in my
- 17:46Speaker 4: training career recommended yoga as a way for people to
- 17:51Speaker 4: go learn how to move well, how to breathe well,
- 17:55Speaker 4: and how to make those things sync up right. But
- 18:01Speaker 4: at the same time, many yoga instructors would tell you
- 18:06Speaker 4: that that meant much of what they coach in an
- 18:09Speaker 4: hour is breath And I think I heard you once
- 18:13Speaker 4: say that yoga without breath work is just stretching, which
- 18:17Speaker 4: I'm sure they love. By the way, I'm sure that's
- 18:20Speaker 4: intentionally true. So so if not the yoga people who
- 18:25Speaker 4: taught you how to breathe.
- 18:28Speaker 3: Oh man. You know, there was an instance when I
- 18:36Speaker 3: found out I was holding my breath. There was a
- 18:40Speaker 3: time where my doctor wasn't in and there was a
- 18:43Speaker 3: substitute doctor in. I was looking to get my prescription filled,
- 18:47Speaker 3: and I remember she gave me. She's like, I kept
- 18:50Speaker 3: asking around, you know, because I didn't want to have
- 18:51Speaker 3: to come back, and she's like, don't worry, I'm going
- 18:54Speaker 3: to fulfill your prescription. Relax. She's like, but I'm going
- 18:58Speaker 3: to tell you this before I do going down a
- 19:00Speaker 3: dark path. You know, I watched Star Wars, so like
- 19:04Speaker 3: that line scared me.
- 19:05Speaker 2: It's like, Kathren Lord, Yeah, I'm like, wait, what do
- 19:10Speaker 2: you what do you mean?
- 19:11Speaker 3: She's like, and she explained, like, you know, it's the
- 19:13Speaker 3: BNE that would trigger that and the panic attack, and
- 19:16Speaker 3: then you take the pill and now the pills are
- 19:17Speaker 3: causing the panic attacks and you don't even realize it.
- 19:20Speaker 3: And she broke it down and it completely made sense,
- 19:22Speaker 3: but I still wanted my refill. So she's like, I'm
- 19:25Speaker 3: gonna teach you a breathing technique the next time you
- 19:27Speaker 3: have a panic attack. Just promise me you're going to
- 19:29Speaker 3: do it and at least try it. So she taught
- 19:31Speaker 3: me something called straw breathing, and it's just you're breathing regular,
- 19:36Speaker 3: except you pretend you have a straw in your mouth
- 19:38Speaker 3: that you actually do have a straw in your mouth,
- 19:39Speaker 3: so you pucker your lips like a fish like you're
- 19:41Speaker 3: gonna kiss, and you breathe regular. You're not forcifully pushing
- 19:46Speaker 3: more air in. You're not forcially pushing pushing the air out.
- 19:49Speaker 3: You're breathing normal with your mouth constricted, just like you
- 19:53Speaker 3: would and it just creates the perfect amount of inflow
- 19:56Speaker 3: of oxygen and outflow of CO two.
- 19:59Speaker 4: Quick Because if this conversation is landing, here's the truth.
- 20:04Speaker 4: Insight alone does not change people. Practice does. That's why
- 20:08Speaker 4: we built the Faithful Fitness Community. It's a place to
- 20:12Speaker 4: practice embodied faith daily through scripture, movement, and discipline together.
- 20:18Speaker 4: If you're tired of knowing what's right but really struggling
- 20:21Speaker 4: to hang on, it's time to stop doing it alone.
- 20:25Speaker 4: Join us at faithfulfitness dot co. Links in the show notes. Ah,
- 20:31Speaker 4: we'd love to see you there.
- 20:33Speaker 3: To get the body into the parasepathetic. And I remember
- 20:36Speaker 3: I woke up at you know, three in the morning
- 20:38Speaker 3: one night, having a panic attack from a dead sleep,
- 20:41Speaker 3: and then all of a sudden, I went to grab
- 20:43Speaker 3: my pills and I had, you know, only supposed to
- 20:44Speaker 3: take one. I was taking three because they were that bad.
- 20:47Speaker 3: I don't know anyone. If if anyone had a real
- 20:49Speaker 3: panic attack, they know exactly what I'm talking about. It's
- 20:52Speaker 3: the scuriest thing in the world. You'd think you're gonna die,
- 20:54Speaker 3: You're like, this is a hard attack. So I was,
- 20:57Speaker 3: and I remember I got up three in the morning,
- 20:59Speaker 3: panic attack for the pills, had three in my hand,
- 21:02Speaker 3: was just about to take it and I heard the voice,
- 21:05Speaker 3: You're going down the dark.
- 21:06Speaker 2: Path straw breathing.
- 21:09Speaker 3: Yes, And I did it. I started doing it and
- 21:13Speaker 3: started doing it. I remember the very like the nanosecond
- 21:16Speaker 3: before I was about to stop, it just felt like
- 21:18Speaker 3: something popped, like I just heard a pop, but I
- 21:21Speaker 3: really didn't hear a pop, and it was like and
- 21:23Speaker 3: then all of a sudden, my vitals just relaxed, my
- 21:26Speaker 3: heart stopped racing so fast, and my breath calmed down,
- 21:30Speaker 3: and I was like, oh my god. And I put
- 21:32Speaker 3: the pills away and didn't need them since. And that
- 21:35Speaker 3: was the first person that taught me a breath a
- 21:37Speaker 3: breathing technique that I actually did that actually worked. So
- 21:42Speaker 3: from there you'd think I would have became a breathwork teacher,
- 21:46Speaker 3: but I had to be like ten more years until
- 21:48Speaker 3: I actually started.
- 21:50Speaker 2: Are you You're in good company?
- 21:52Speaker 3: Very very much so, very very much so. And then
- 21:56Speaker 3: I had a stomach condition where five years doctors couldn't
- 21:59Speaker 3: heal me from this specific stomach condition. They couldn't even
- 22:02Speaker 3: diagnose me. I this HAPPENEDS went on for five years.
- 22:06Speaker 3: I did every test under the sun, multiple times, s
- 22:09Speaker 3: wild pill cameras at you know, endoscopy, colonoscopy, I mean,
- 22:14Speaker 3: you name it. I did it. And then even got
- 22:16Speaker 3: really desperate and started venturing into plant medicine, went to
- 22:20Speaker 3: the jungle drink ayahuasca with my mother. You know, I
- 22:23Speaker 3: did fourteen ceremonies of that up to twenty now. And
- 22:28Speaker 3: it wasn't until I found this one breathing technique. It
- 22:31Speaker 3: was actually in the United States, and I went to India, Tibet,
- 22:34Speaker 3: I was all overlooking and it was actually the United States,
- 22:37Speaker 3: and this one technique I did completely eradicated my stomach
- 22:41Speaker 3: condition that I was suffering with for five years in
- 22:43Speaker 3: one single session. And at that moment, I meant, you know,
- 22:48Speaker 3: everyone's crying in the room. It's so like, so cathartic.
- 22:51Speaker 3: It was so powerful. I didn't know something inside of
- 22:56Speaker 3: us that has always been there, we always had the ability,
- 22:58Speaker 3: had so much power. And when that technique healed me,
- 23:04Speaker 3: you know, I literally made it my mission to bring
- 23:07Speaker 3: this to the world because you know, going back to
- 23:09Speaker 3: stubbornness and I'm a very analytical, logical type of person,
- 23:14Speaker 3: so I couldn't wrap my head around how this silly
- 23:18Speaker 3: little breathing technique is what healed me. But the best
- 23:20Speaker 3: doctors from New York to LA couldn't. And then I realized,
- 23:23Speaker 3: oh my god, you know, the common sensus hit me
- 23:26Speaker 3: over the head and it was you know, these doctors
- 23:28Speaker 3: couldn't tell me what was wrong with me because my
- 23:30Speaker 3: issue wasn't physical, right, it was energetic. It was emotional, right,
- 23:35Speaker 3: and anatomically, you can't cut the body open and be like, hey,
- 23:38Speaker 3: you got to you got an energy clot here, you
- 23:40Speaker 3: got to unresolve emotion here, right, What.
- 23:42Speaker 2: Did you do? It's not a very easy thing to assess.
- 23:45Speaker 3: No, they can't. They don't. They don't. They don't they
- 23:49Speaker 3: give you pills. Like, go to a psychiatrist, right and
- 23:52Speaker 3: ask them how many people that they cured mm hmm,
- 23:55Speaker 3: and guess what they're gonna.
- 23:56Speaker 2: Say, eighteen percent or less. No, they don't.
- 24:02Speaker 3: Palmer, right, It's like they don't, they don't. They don't
- 24:05Speaker 3: care people. They help people, They help people, right, And
- 24:08Speaker 3: I think that's important. But I went to all the
- 24:11Speaker 3: psychiatrists and all those things just so desperate, and the
- 24:15Speaker 3: breathing technique is what allowed me to remove or release
- 24:19Speaker 3: or alleviate old emotion, suppressed trauma that was lodged within
- 24:26Speaker 3: my body, right, my energy field that for the most
- 24:31Speaker 3: part was unbeknownst to my conscious mind. And I didn't
- 24:34Speaker 3: really know what I was holding onto until I released it.
- 24:38Speaker 3: And when I did, I felt more buoyant, I felt
- 24:41Speaker 3: more liberated, I felt more free, I felt more joy.
- 24:45Speaker 3: That's the thing about the deep diapragmatic breathing is that
- 24:48Speaker 3: people forget that the stomach area is the core engine
- 24:53Speaker 3: of our vitality, right, and there's there's there's these things
- 24:57Speaker 3: in our body called nadis right. Not to geek out people,
- 25:00Speaker 3: but you know, we all understand that we have blood
- 25:02Speaker 3: in our bodies. And if you ask somebody how that
- 25:04Speaker 3: blood's distributed, they're gonna be like, oh, through veins and outeries.
- 25:07Speaker 3: I think just about every religion in person can agree.
- 25:10Speaker 3: Even science says that humans are made up of more
- 25:12Speaker 3: energy than matter. And you know, you can walk into
- 25:15Speaker 3: a room and instantly feel if it's good vibes, bad vibes.
- 25:18Speaker 3: You know, vibes is just vibration, vibrations energy, right, you
- 25:21Speaker 3: can read people to see if they're a good person
- 25:23Speaker 3: or a bad person. We all have this. It's not supernatural,
- 25:26Speaker 3: you know, but you know the the energy that uh man,
- 25:34Speaker 3: I was just gonna share a whole second, the second thought,
- 25:36Speaker 3: and I just I just messed up my thought. Man,
- 25:38Speaker 3: I just try to share two stories at the same time.
- 25:41Speaker 3: A man, let me go back to the original story.
- 25:42Speaker 3: Hold on, man, we're gonna have to come back to that.
- 25:48Speaker 3: We might have to cut that apart out.
- 25:49Speaker 2: Actually it happens.
- 25:51Speaker 3: Where was what was the thing I was saying right
- 25:53Speaker 3: before that, because it's gonna it's gonna.
- 25:54Speaker 2: Hit me before the naughties.
- 25:57Speaker 3: Oh, the natties got it? Thank you? That's it, okay,
- 26:01Speaker 3: And so we can all agree that there's we have energy, right,
- 26:05Speaker 3: And if you ask somebody how that energy gets distributed
- 26:08Speaker 3: throughout the body, we really don't know. But it gets
- 26:11Speaker 3: distributed through energetic channels called knotties, which we have seventy
- 26:15Speaker 3: two thousand of them that run through our body. Now
- 26:17Speaker 3: this isn't Western type of medicine. It's more Eastern and
- 26:22Speaker 3: the these knotties are these energetic highways, right Anatomically, you
- 26:26Speaker 3: can't cut them open and see them either, but they
- 26:29Speaker 3: run through our body, and there's one place that's called
- 26:32Speaker 3: the times square of our energy body, which is the
- 26:34Speaker 3: stomach where all the knotties intersect.
- 26:37Speaker 2: Well.
- 26:38Speaker 3: Also, eighty percent of our immune system right lives in
- 26:41Speaker 3: our gut, and eighty percent of our serotonin is produced
- 26:45Speaker 3: in our gut, not our mind. So eighty percent of
- 26:48Speaker 3: our health, immune system, our happiness, serotonin, and our energy
- 26:53Speaker 3: and vitality is in the gut. Yet nobody's breathing into
- 26:57Speaker 3: our gut anymore. We're actually doing the opposite. We're doing
- 26:59Speaker 3: something then called paradoxical breathing. And next time you're teaching
- 27:03Speaker 3: a class or with people exactly you know, say hey,
- 27:06Speaker 3: on the counted three, I want everyone to take the
- 27:07Speaker 3: deepest breath you possibly can. And when they do, that's
- 27:11Speaker 3: exactly what happens. The chest all this stuff moves, the
- 27:13Speaker 3: belly doesn't move. But if you watch a baby breathe,
- 27:17Speaker 3: the baby breaths when they breathe in the belly moves, right.
- 27:20Speaker 3: It's because stressed didn't get caught in their diaphragm. They
- 27:22Speaker 3: don't have all this trauma. And you know, as adults,
- 27:25Speaker 3: this is just what it is for us. So for me,
- 27:28Speaker 3: I had that block in my belly, and when I
- 27:30Speaker 3: started breathing deep into my belly, I was able to
- 27:34Speaker 3: dislodge whatever was was blocking in there, and that's what
- 27:37Speaker 3: I released, and my health came back to me. And
- 27:40Speaker 3: I just did a TED talk actually kind of going
- 27:42Speaker 3: more in depth into this called actually I'm not sure
- 27:45Speaker 3: what the title is called, but something about energy clots.
- 27:48Speaker 3: It's pretty fascinating. I'm pretty happy that I knocked that
- 27:52Speaker 3: off my bucket list. I did want to do a
- 27:54Speaker 3: TED talk.
- 27:55Speaker 2: So.
- 27:56Speaker 3: Pretty wild.
- 27:57Speaker 4: We'll stick the link in the show notes for those
- 27:59Speaker 4: who are interesting in the TED talk. But as you were,
- 28:04Speaker 4: as you're speaking there there, there's you mentioned earlier.
- 28:09Speaker 2: How the body keeps score.
- 28:10Speaker 4: It sounds like your trauma informed as a practitioner, which
- 28:14Speaker 4: means that it's very possible that you wrestled with with
- 28:17Speaker 4: trauma in your past. Do you have any adverse childhood
- 28:19Speaker 4: events personally?
- 28:22Speaker 3: Oh yeah, of course, he said, Oh.
- 28:24Speaker 4: Yeah, Uh doesn't everybody? Yeah, well apparently not everybody does.
- 28:27Speaker 4: So it was it was news to me when I
- 28:30Speaker 4: learned that I was a seven out of ten on
- 28:32Speaker 4: the adverse childhood event scale. But but what's what's very
- 28:36Speaker 4: wild about that is, is that that panicked response, that
- 28:40Speaker 4: hyper anxious, hyperactive response inside For me personally, I didn't
- 28:47Speaker 4: learn how to breathe until I learned how to bring
- 28:51Speaker 4: healing to those things that I wrestled with in my life.
- 28:55Speaker 4: I was carrying those around for such a long time.
- 28:57Speaker 4: And I feel like that's probably the case for most
- 29:00Speaker 4: individuals that I work with. Is that all that caught
- 29:04Speaker 4: up breathing up here. That's how you breathe when you're
- 29:08Speaker 4: like out of breath running up a hill and you
- 29:10Speaker 4: got no choice, you know, I breathe or die.
- 29:13Speaker 2: I breathe or die.
- 29:14Speaker 4: But many people exist in that state in their day
- 29:17Speaker 4: to day life.
- 29:18Speaker 2: It's like it's like in the nervous system, stuck there.
- 29:22Speaker 4: This is how you breathe because this is how you
- 29:25Speaker 4: breathed when you were panicked and anxious and didn't have
- 29:29Speaker 4: a lot of agency. But that doesn't mean it has
- 29:31Speaker 4: to stay that way. You mentioned in your story that
- 29:35Speaker 4: there was there was a technique that you learned that
- 29:39Speaker 4: that really opened things up for you and help you
- 29:41Speaker 4: to let go of something that you were holding onto.
- 29:45Speaker 4: Can you tell us a little more about that technique.
- 29:47Speaker 4: I know that in your work. You are very careful
- 29:50Speaker 4: to make sure that individuals learn several different tools in
- 29:54Speaker 4: their process.
- 29:54Speaker 2: And if you teach a whole bunch of them at once,
- 29:56Speaker 2: nobody's going to do any of them.
- 29:58Speaker 4: So it's important that that things are bite sized and useful.
- 30:02Speaker 2: But I wonder if you'd help us to explore what
- 30:05Speaker 2: it looks like to learn.
- 30:07Speaker 4: How to breathe in the way that will help you
- 30:10Speaker 4: to let go of some things that you've been holding
- 30:11Speaker 4: on to.
- 30:13Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I believe you know, when people are
- 30:17Speaker 3: breathing up here and they're you know, in their chest
- 30:20Speaker 3: and they have this disregulated breathing patterns that correlates to
- 30:26Speaker 3: being stuck in what we talked about earlier, that fight
- 30:30Speaker 3: or flight, which is sympathetic nervous system. And I found
- 30:32Speaker 3: a lot of the trauma that people experience is stuck
- 30:35Speaker 3: in the sympathetic nervous system. And what's interesting about the
- 30:38Speaker 3: breathwork detox technique is that it's done through the mouth,
- 30:43Speaker 3: and I tell people ninety nine point nine percent of
- 30:46Speaker 3: the time you should be breathing through your nose. The
- 30:49Speaker 3: nose is connected to the power sympathetic right. The mouth
- 30:52Speaker 3: is connected to the sympathetic nervous system. So they're like,
- 30:56Speaker 3: you know, why are we activating are sympathetic nervous system
- 31:01Speaker 3: if we want to go into parasympathetic and you know,
- 31:05Speaker 3: if there's things stuck in there and you're stuck in there,
- 31:09Speaker 3: you have to go in there to fix it. It's like,
- 31:12Speaker 3: you know, if my toilet is clogged, right, I'm not
- 31:15Speaker 3: going to go to my neighbor's sink and try to
- 31:17Speaker 3: unclog it there. No, I'm going to go into the
- 31:18Speaker 3: toilet to unclog it. So that's like the sympathetic nervous system.
- 31:23Speaker 3: We were accessing the sympathetic nervous system and removing whatever's
- 31:27Speaker 3: clogged in the sympathetic nervous system to exhaust it, and
- 31:32Speaker 3: then it forcefully puts the body into parasympathetic. And that's
- 31:36Speaker 3: why after the deep diafromatic breath work, people are just,
- 31:39Speaker 3: you know, they're so calm, they're so relaxed, and I
- 31:42Speaker 3: think that's, you know, that's the biggest issue and how
- 31:46Speaker 3: to fix that. I found it a lot harder to
- 31:52Speaker 3: just continuously try to put the body into parasympathetic when
- 31:56Speaker 3: it's stuck in sympathetic. Kind of similar to a Harvard
- 31:59Speaker 3: study and Harvard did the study, and they found people
- 32:04Speaker 3: who were really afraid, whether they were getting ready to
- 32:06Speaker 3: go in a job interview or getting ready to go
- 32:09Speaker 3: on stage and do a ted talk, or going on
- 32:11Speaker 3: a date. And they found that instead of telling yourself, okay,
- 32:17Speaker 3: you know, calm down, read, let's relac, let's chill, that
- 32:21Speaker 3: it was more effective to convince the brain that it's
- 32:25Speaker 3: excited for what's about to happen. That there was a
- 32:28Speaker 3: smaller threshold to the other side of excitement and joy
- 32:33Speaker 3: than there was to calm the body and relax. So,
- 32:37Speaker 3: you know, there's a very thin line between fear and excitement,
- 32:41Speaker 3: and it's just the mindset. It's like, okay, you know, oh,
- 32:44Speaker 3: you know what, I'm not nervous. I'm actually excited for
- 32:47Speaker 3: this job interview. I worked my ass off for this.
- 32:49Speaker 3: This is why they're giving me the interview. They see
- 32:51Speaker 3: the value in me. I'm gonna go in there, I'm
- 32:53Speaker 3: gonna crush it. This is what I've been waiting for.
- 32:55Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you, thank you. Right, you go in
- 32:58Speaker 3: that way. So it's a lot easier to do that
- 33:01Speaker 3: than to try to calm the system. So very similar,
- 33:04Speaker 3: I believe to you know, being able to go back
- 33:07Speaker 3: into that parasympathetic and that rest and digest that and
- 33:10Speaker 3: that chill mo is clearing the things out that's blocking it.
- 33:13Speaker 2: Mm hmmmm.
- 33:14Speaker 4: It's something like, hey, hey, there's a battle to fight,
- 33:18Speaker 4: and you don't fight the battle through rest and recovery.
- 33:22Speaker 4: I think of it as I think if it as
- 33:23Speaker 4: waking up the warrior. That's what I think of it as.
- 33:26Speaker 4: It's the idea being that that you're not going to
- 33:29Speaker 4: win this battle watching it unfold and trying to tell
- 33:32Speaker 4: yourself to relax. You're gonna win this battle by stepping
- 33:35Speaker 4: into it and facing it forthrightly, kind of like David
- 33:40Speaker 4: with Goliath. If you join the group out here and
- 33:43Speaker 4: like hey, relax, somebody's going to take care of this.
- 33:45Speaker 4: It's on you, bro's it's your five stones, it's your sling.
- 33:48Speaker 4: Take a deep breath and make it happen. So so
- 33:53Speaker 4: I want to switch gears here and talk a bit
- 33:56Speaker 4: about the science side of things. And this is my wheelhouse.
- 33:58Speaker 4: So if it's not your will, so that's cool. We
- 34:00Speaker 4: don't have to go there. But I am very, very
- 34:04Speaker 4: interested in some of the physiological ways that we are
- 34:09Speaker 4: discovering in modern science.
- 34:12Speaker 2: How these things actually work.
- 34:14Speaker 4: Right, and not that what you've said so far hasn't
- 34:18Speaker 4: given some explanation to that. But as we spoke about earlier,
- 34:21Speaker 4: it's difficult to measure. You can't cut yourself open and
- 34:23Speaker 4: see that you're limited in your energy from one pathway
- 34:26Speaker 4: to another.
- 34:27Speaker 2: Right.
- 34:27Speaker 4: But one of the more recent things that, especially in
- 34:31Speaker 4: the mental health world, I think is very interesting, is
- 34:34Speaker 4: there's a lot of research happening around the dysfunction related
- 34:38Speaker 4: to mitochondrial activity. That is to say, each one of
- 34:43Speaker 4: our cells has these little powerhouses, right, and they're producing ATP,
- 34:46Speaker 4: but they're also responding to different signals in the body,
- 34:49Speaker 4: and ATP really is the energy currency of the body,
- 34:53Speaker 4: or or if we had to make it more bare bones,
- 34:57Speaker 4: you could just say ATP is how we store electrons,
- 35:00Speaker 4: like this big giant battery, and we're constantly exchanging all
- 35:03Speaker 4: these reactions and electrons can't you can't really find them,
- 35:08Speaker 4: you can't measure them.
- 35:09Speaker 2: They're the tiny little particles that zip around so.
- 35:11Speaker 4: Fast that to find it is also to lose it
- 35:14Speaker 4: at the same time. And that's not spiritual speak, that's
- 35:17Speaker 4: quantum mechanics. The Eisenbergen certainty principle, but we are finding
- 35:23Speaker 4: that in depression, that in anxiety, in ADHD, in Alzheimer's,
- 35:28Speaker 4: that in each of these cases there is dysfunctional metabolic
- 35:34Speaker 4: pathways occurring at the level of the mitochondria. And one
- 35:38Speaker 4: of the things that researchers are messing with animals in
- 35:41Speaker 4: right now is called hypoxia. So they're reducing the amount
- 35:47Speaker 4: of oxygen available to an animal and letting it just
- 35:50Speaker 4: kind of exist, not enough to kill it, just enough
- 35:53Speaker 4: to really stress the system, right. And then what's crazy
- 35:56Speaker 4: is after about a week, maybe ten days, this animal
- 36:00Speaker 4: will go from they're doing it to rats right now,
- 36:02Speaker 4: because you can't really do it to humans, but this
- 36:05Speaker 4: animal will go from like laying in a corner going like, man,
- 36:07Speaker 4: I don't got a lot of oxygen, I'm not going
- 36:09Speaker 4: to do rat things to just existing normally in a
- 36:13Speaker 4: state of hypoxia. And when you actually measure the mitochondrial
- 36:18Speaker 4: function of these animals, you find that their mitochondria function
- 36:21Speaker 4: has increased significantly, more mitochondria, more oxygenation, several adaptations in
- 36:26Speaker 4: the body that are related to bringing oxygen to the cell,
- 36:29Speaker 4: and all of this, in my mind, mirrors what's happening
- 36:32Speaker 4: when you work with people on the breath work side
- 36:35Speaker 4: of things, because what you're doing is taking agency actual
- 36:40Speaker 4: control over the oxygenating pathways of the body and the
- 36:45Speaker 4: deoxygenating pathways of the body. By controlling your breath, you
- 36:49Speaker 4: can make yourself hypoxic, and you can make yourself what's
- 36:54Speaker 4: the opposite hypoxic? It just escaped me hypoxic, meaning I
- 36:59Speaker 4: don't have a lot of oxygen in my system.
- 37:02Speaker 2: I per hyperoxidated. There we go.
- 37:06Speaker 4: That means I have a lot of oxygen in the
- 37:08Speaker 4: system of my body. I believe that a lot of
- 37:11Speaker 4: what you're doing is helping individuals take ownership of that process.
- 37:16Speaker 4: And I also believe that that's not just like a
- 37:19Speaker 4: magic pill that fixes things in the moment. I believe
- 37:22Speaker 4: that that actually is adaptive over time in a mitochondrial sense.
- 37:26Speaker 4: In your mind, are you familiar with any of this
- 37:28Speaker 4: research and or do you have any any ways of
- 37:32Speaker 4: explaining or describing to your clients what's actually happening to
- 37:35Speaker 4: them when they start taking control of their breathing and
- 37:37Speaker 4: implementing these tools regularly.
- 37:40Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a lot of cool breath hacks that you
- 37:42Speaker 3: can do, and there's even you know what they're doing
- 37:45Speaker 3: there really is is limiting the intake of oxygen, right
- 37:48Speaker 3: and increase in the CO two tolerance. And there's even
- 37:51Speaker 3: you see the athletes where they're wearing the mask, right,
- 37:54Speaker 3: those aren't oxygen masks. That's actually depriving the system of
- 37:57Speaker 3: the oxygen so they can train. They're you know, they're
- 38:00Speaker 3: going to be going into a different environment, you know,
- 38:03Speaker 3: in the mountains where has you know, less oxygen, you know,
- 38:07Speaker 3: or just to have a competitive advantage in the ring
- 38:10Speaker 3: because they don't need as much oxygen because they trained
- 38:13Speaker 3: to be more CO two tolerant. And you know, there's
- 38:16Speaker 3: like a bootegup model that is solely based upon that,
- 38:21Speaker 3: very different than what I specialize in and train people
- 38:26Speaker 3: because there's many different breathing techniques and you know, we
- 38:29Speaker 3: did as far as the science involved in this, there
- 38:33Speaker 3: is you know, we did a breathwork event for NASA,
- 38:37Speaker 3: and you know they're very you know a lot of
- 38:40Speaker 3: the My method and you know, how to explain things
- 38:44Speaker 3: is I try to be as practical as I can.
- 38:47Speaker 3: I don't want to kind of talk over anyone's head.
- 38:49Speaker 3: It doesn't it's pointless for me to sound smart in
- 38:52Speaker 3: them to not get it. Just for me to sound smart.
- 38:54Speaker 3: I want to bring it to really really practical. But
- 38:57Speaker 3: when you go and work with someone like NASA, right,
- 39:00Speaker 3: they don't care about your charisma, they don't care about
- 39:02Speaker 3: your spirituality, they don't care about any of that stuff.
- 39:04Speaker 3: They care about the science and the facts.
- 39:07Speaker 1: Right.
- 39:07Speaker 3: So I actually teamed up with doctor Jack Feldman, who
- 39:12Speaker 3: was on the Hubanan podcast, and he's one of the
- 39:16Speaker 3: they'd say the number one breathing expert as far as
- 39:18Speaker 3: neuroscience goes. He's a neuroscientist at UCLA, and he did
- 39:23Speaker 3: my technique and we became friends and actually brought him
- 39:26Speaker 3: into NASA with me to do that event, along with
- 39:30Speaker 3: Helen Levetski, who is a psychologist. So I brought him,
- 39:35Speaker 3: I did the technique, and then they asked all their
- 39:38Speaker 3: scientific questions and we had a board and we all
- 39:41Speaker 3: answered him afterwards, and they were just fascinated because they
- 39:44Speaker 3: didn't know something like this exists. What I'm doing is
- 39:47Speaker 3: very opposite. And you know when doctor Jack Felon, he's
- 39:50Speaker 3: been doing this like forty years. When he did my technique,
- 39:54Speaker 3: you know, he came up to me afterwards and he
- 39:56Speaker 3: was like, holy crap. I didn't even know the breath
- 39:58Speaker 3: could do that. Now, mind you, this guy one I
- 40:01Speaker 3: forget the name, some really really famous award, he's the
- 40:05Speaker 3: one responsible for discovering the mechanism in the brain that
- 40:09Speaker 3: controls our breathing. Like he's the guy.
- 40:11Speaker 2: You know, the guy, he's the breath guy.
- 40:13Speaker 3: And he was just so blown away by what this
- 40:16Speaker 3: technique does. And it, you know, it floods the system
- 40:18Speaker 3: with oxygen, which is very different than what you're talking about.
- 40:22Speaker 3: And you know, by flooding the system with oxygen, a
- 40:25Speaker 3: lot of things happen, you know, as far as you
- 40:27Speaker 3: know the blood flow, and you know the energy in
- 40:30Speaker 3: the body, which is a little bit more metaphysical because
- 40:33Speaker 3: we're not talking, you know, ATP in mitochondria. But when
- 40:36Speaker 3: you do talk ATP mitochondria and that that body, that's
- 40:40Speaker 3: the energy that's moving throughout the body. What I discovered
- 40:44Speaker 3: without being a scientist, is that if there is a
- 40:47Speaker 3: blockage and energy blockage in the body, all of those
- 40:51Speaker 3: things are not going to perform the way that they're
- 40:53Speaker 3: supposed to. You know, So it doesn't matter how good
- 40:56Speaker 3: of like I was on the best diet ever. You know,
- 40:59Speaker 3: you can have the best diet, you can and I
- 41:01Speaker 3: don't care how many green juices you drink, podcasts you
- 41:04Speaker 3: listen to. Right if you have an energy blockage or
- 41:06Speaker 3: energy clot you know, it's gonna cause an impediment in
- 41:09Speaker 3: your energy flow and you are going to experience some
- 41:13Speaker 3: sort of fatigue, you know, disease, or discomfort or simply
- 41:18Speaker 3: not feeling comfortable in your own body. And I think
- 41:21Speaker 3: that's what most people are feeling today, and that's why
- 41:24Speaker 3: they turn to whatever substances or you know, whatever their
- 41:27Speaker 3: thing is, their vice is, because we just don't feel
- 41:29Speaker 3: comfortable in our own body. We don't feel don't feel present,
- 41:32Speaker 3: we don't feel grounded, and just because things aren't flowing correctly,
- 41:36Speaker 3: you know. So I think that was the biggest discovery
- 41:38Speaker 3: that I made that you know, Western science really didn't
- 41:41Speaker 3: have an answer for. And I'm all for Western science.
- 41:44Speaker 3: Like I'm not one of those spiritual woo woo people
- 41:48Speaker 3: you know, who are just like, you know, totally against
- 41:51Speaker 3: the you know, if I break my arm, give me
- 41:53Speaker 3: the painkiller. I got a cavity, give me the novacame. Like,
- 41:56Speaker 3: I am all for the merging of the two worlds,
- 42:00Speaker 3: and I think that's the only way we're going to
- 42:02Speaker 3: truly understand the body and what's really happening in it
- 42:06Speaker 3: and around it.
- 42:07Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. That's that's very well said.
- 42:09Speaker 4: And I think I think oftentimes in Eastern and Western
- 42:12Speaker 4: medicine there's Eastern is a way of being and then
- 42:17Speaker 4: and then Western is a way of becoming, and and
- 42:21Speaker 4: the becoming is is like, hey, you know, when things
- 42:24Speaker 4: aren't working very well for you, you got strep throat.
- 42:28Speaker 4: It hurts. I would like to become less strep throaty.
- 42:33Speaker 4: There's an antibiotic for that, right, there is really a
- 42:35Speaker 4: pill for that. I can't imagine using breathwork to fix
- 42:39Speaker 4: my strep throat. However, in the being of things, I
- 42:44Speaker 4: can actually exist in a way that makes me less
- 42:48Speaker 4: susceptible to getting strep throat on a regular basis, and
- 42:52Speaker 4: Western medicine doesn't generally inform that process, and so and so,
- 42:57Speaker 4: in my mind, breath work is a thing that is
- 42:59Speaker 4: thing therapeutic and positive for us regardless.
- 43:02Speaker 2: But it's a matter of being.
- 43:03Speaker 4: It's a matter of how I exist on a regular
- 43:05Speaker 4: basis and what that does for me and my body.
- 43:09Speaker 4: As we're coming to our time together here, I did
- 43:13Speaker 4: want to leave our listeners with something practical. And the
- 43:16Speaker 4: nice thing about breath work is that's something you can
- 43:19Speaker 4: auditorially instruct us in. Is there a simple tool that
- 43:24Speaker 4: you're willing to share with our listeners or a simple
- 43:27Speaker 4: practice that we can do right here together on the
- 43:30Speaker 4: podcast that would be useful to them now and also
- 43:33Speaker 4: maybe introduce.
- 43:33Speaker 2: Them to your work that they can explore in the future.
- 43:37Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I would say there's a lot of
- 43:39Speaker 3: different breathing techniques out there. I'd like to focus on
- 43:42Speaker 3: the most effective ones, the ones that I found to
- 43:45Speaker 3: be most effective, but then also the ones that science supports.
- 43:49Speaker 3: So you know, box breathing very famous. I think most
- 43:53Speaker 3: people hear about breathing techniques style probably hear about that one.
- 43:57Speaker 3: And you know that one is you know in health
- 44:00Speaker 3: four seconds hold for four seconds, exhale for four seconds,
- 44:04Speaker 3: hold for four seconds, breathe out for four seconds, So
- 44:06Speaker 3: everything's four seconds and at the top of the breath,
- 44:09Speaker 3: in the bottom of the breath you're holding for four
- 44:12Speaker 3: seconds and then in and out four seconds, and that
- 44:15Speaker 3: is extremely effective. Then there's the four to seven eight
- 44:18Speaker 3: method breathe in for four seconds, hold for seven seconds,
- 44:23Speaker 3: slow release for eight seconds. So you always want to
- 44:26Speaker 3: have your release longer than your inhale. That's going to
- 44:28Speaker 3: trigger the parasympathetic response. And both of those two techniques
- 44:32Speaker 3: are used by Navy seals right they're out, they're wired,
- 44:35Speaker 3: or they need to fall asleep and they get all
- 44:36Speaker 3: this adrenaline. They'll use those techniques to fall asleep, you know,
- 44:39Speaker 3: to go into you know, a calm state before battle.
- 44:43Speaker 3: And you know it's if they're using it, you know
- 44:45Speaker 3: what I mean, it's it's effective. I think the one
- 44:49Speaker 3: I like sharing the most because it's never shared, and
- 44:53Speaker 3: I think it's the most underrated breathing technique that there
- 44:56Speaker 3: is is the SIG. It's something that we do unconsciously,
- 45:02Speaker 3: but it's something that we can induce and do consciously. Right.
- 45:06Speaker 3: It's a technique, and it's a technique that's so powerful
- 45:11Speaker 3: that this body that we both have right now is
- 45:14Speaker 3: the most advanced biomechanical machine on the planet right and
- 45:17Speaker 3: self heal. It can do amazing things like this, So
- 45:20Speaker 3: much this body can do well. When the body has
- 45:23Speaker 3: pent up stress right, real chronic emotion and things start
- 45:27Speaker 3: building to an accumulated point before it starts to come compounded,
- 45:31Speaker 3: the body will naturally feel the build up, build up,
- 45:34Speaker 3: build up, build up. It'll take a deep breath in
- 45:37Speaker 3: without you even realize it, and then it does something
- 45:38Speaker 3: like this. It's called the sigh of relief because that
- 45:46Speaker 3: is the body's natural way of releasing stress, tension, and pain.
- 45:51Speaker 3: It's the pressure release valve of the body. Is the size.
- 45:55Speaker 3: So if you do three conscious size in a row,
- 45:58Speaker 3: and how you would do this, as you know, I
- 46:00Speaker 3: like you can go in through the nose, in through
- 46:02Speaker 3: the mouth. I like to go in through the nose
- 46:05Speaker 3: really deep, and then out through the mouth. And when
- 46:07Speaker 3: you exhale through the mouth, it needs to be a
- 46:10Speaker 3: very loud and obnoxious exhale. Right, I got total released, Like,
- 46:16Speaker 3: if you're just gonna go, that's one, right, just do three,
- 46:22Speaker 3: Like I already feel that from that one, from that release.
- 46:26Speaker 3: And when you release the breath, I want you to
- 46:28Speaker 3: release something else along with it, something that doesn't serve you,
- 46:32Speaker 3: something you've been holding on to for far too long, Right,
- 46:36Speaker 3: let it go and give yourself permission to let it go.
- 46:39Speaker 3: And I think that's the go to I would start with.
- 46:42Speaker 3: You know, I think it's the most effective as well
- 46:44Speaker 3: and the easiest.
- 46:46Speaker 2: Man. I appreciate that.
- 46:47Speaker 4: As you were speaking, I was thinking about how that
- 46:51Speaker 4: mirror so closely a prayer work that I lead individuals through,
- 46:57Speaker 4: not necessarily from a breathing perspective, although I will generally
- 47:01Speaker 4: instruct hey, we're going to breathe this in and then
- 47:04Speaker 4: we're going to say, Lord, I give this to you, right.
- 47:06Speaker 4: And what's weird is is those two things coincide. I'm
- 47:09Speaker 4: releasing this in my breath, but also some an open
- 47:13Speaker 4: posture of hands like hey here, like I don't want
- 47:16Speaker 4: this any this is yours, Like I don't want it.
- 47:19Speaker 4: I'm not carrying it anymore.
- 47:20Speaker 2: Man.
- 47:20Speaker 4: And And what's what's so powerful about that is is
- 47:24Speaker 4: physiologically the breath and spiritually the mindset related to that,
- 47:30Speaker 4: those two things they are synergistically powerful. I've never had
- 47:36Speaker 4: a single person go through what you just described with
- 47:40Speaker 4: their hands open and been like yeah, I don't get it.
- 47:45Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, like now I got nothing, you know, like
- 47:49Speaker 4: it's it does make a difference. And I would encourage
- 47:54Speaker 4: our audience as we're listening, if you are holding on
- 47:57Speaker 4: to something, and you probably are, that you need to
- 47:59Speaker 4: let go of pause and give yourself the opportunity to
- 48:02Speaker 4: do these three size, open your hands and give it
- 48:06Speaker 4: up and let us know how you feel about that.
- 48:09Speaker 2: What changes for you.
- 48:11Speaker 4: Man, brother, I sincerely appreciate this conversation. I like to
- 48:15Speaker 4: end every podcast by praying over the person that I'm
- 48:18Speaker 4: spending time with. You, mind if I pray over you
- 48:20Speaker 4: Curtis and what.
- 48:20Speaker 2: You're doing in the world.
- 48:22Speaker 4: Please and thank you Father, God, thank you so much
- 48:25Speaker 4: for the opportunity to spend time with Curtis today. God,
- 48:27Speaker 4: I pray that you would bless him, give him wisdom
- 48:30Speaker 4: and grace as he works with his audiences, his clients
- 48:34Speaker 4: and his partnerships. God, I pray that you would be
- 48:37Speaker 4: in his breath, and that as he speaks and as
- 48:40Speaker 4: he teaches others to breathe, God, that your piece would
- 48:43Speaker 4: also be with him and in them as well. God
- 48:47Speaker 4: give him healing in his hands and healing in his speech.
- 48:50Speaker 4: And I pray Lord that his work will bring individuals
- 48:53Speaker 4: closer to You through something You've given us all your breath.
- 48:58Speaker 2: We love you, Lord in Jesus's name.
- 49:00Speaker 3: Hey Manames, Oh, gave me goosebumps.
- 49:03Speaker 4: Man, that was beautiful, My man, Curtis, thank you so
- 49:06Speaker 4: much for the time here and to our listeners. Guys,
- 49:08Speaker 4: thank you so much for joining us on the Faithful
- 49:10Speaker 4: Fitness Podcast. Until next time, train hard, but pray harder.
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