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109. I Still Don’t Know What Happened That Night · She Rises with Ashy & Tijana

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  Speaker 1: Apote Production.
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  Speaker 1: So let's get straight into today's episode.
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  Speaker 2: Let's do it. So this experience happened to me just
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  Speaker 2: after I got my license. I think it was on
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  Speaker 2: my Green Peas at the time. And to give a
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  Speaker 2: little bit of context, my poppy died of cancer, followed
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  Speaker 2: by my nan a couple of years later, also from cancer.
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  Speaker 2: My grandmother never drove while my pot was alive, so
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  Speaker 2: when he passed she got her first car to gain
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  Speaker 2: some of her independence back. It was a baby blue
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  Speaker 2: Hyundai Getz and when she passed away, I was about
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  Speaker 2: sixteen years old and I bought it as my first car.
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  Speaker 2: I absolutely loved it. But one night, after a twelve shift,
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  Speaker 2: I was a hairdresser by the way, I stopped in
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  Speaker 2: to see my mom before I went home. When I
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  Speaker 2: pulled up, she said she saw my car and had
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  Speaker 2: this horrible vision of my car crumbled. We both said
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  Speaker 2: that that was weird, and we kind of just like
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  Speaker 2: shrugged it off. I had a tea, I headed home,
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  Speaker 2: and that was about thirty minutes from her house. I
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  Speaker 2: was coming off the exit of the motorway just near
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  Speaker 2: my house when next to the big green sign, I
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  Speaker 2: saw my grandparents standing there in my headlights. My Poppy
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  Speaker 2: had his arm around my nan, and they were smiling
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  Speaker 2: and calmly said be careful, darlin. I blinked as I
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  Speaker 2: couldn't believe what I'd saw. As I did, I realized
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  Speaker 2: that I was drifting off the road, and I swerved
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  Speaker 2: to get back on the track, pulled over with my
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  Speaker 2: hazards on, and burst into tears. I called my husband,
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  Speaker 2: who never believed in anything in quotations woo woo, and
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  Speaker 2: he said, somebody is watching out for you. You were
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  Speaker 2: probably exhausted after a big day. I drove home so safely,
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  Speaker 2: both windows down to keep me alert, and quit hairdressing
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  Speaker 2: after realizing that it was leaving me so exhausted, even
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  Speaker 2: though I just pushed through it. I to this day
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  Speaker 2: still don't know if I was actually asleep when I
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  Speaker 2: saw them standing or if it was their spirit keeping
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  Speaker 2: me safe from whatever was about to happen to me.
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  Speaker 2: But either way, I felt like I got a second
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  Speaker 2: chance that night and often find myself thanking them every
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  Speaker 2: single time I drive past that exit. Was the vision
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  Speaker 2: my mom saw another sign from them? Was it all
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  Speaker 2: a big coincidence? I'll never know, but thank my lucky
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  Speaker 2: stars every day. Wow, Wow, that's so incredible.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.
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  Speaker 2: Scary but incredible, all right out o my goodness.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think that's a coincidence for them, the mom
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  Speaker 1: to see the vision and then for you to see them.
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  Speaker 1: But crazy, she doesn't have she was asleep or not,
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  Speaker 1: I know.
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  Speaker 2: Must have been in some kind of dazed state. Like
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  Speaker 2: obviously you were tired, it was a long day, you
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  Speaker 2: were working. And to have had that experience and then
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  Speaker 2: come to almost like realize and have that realization you
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  Speaker 2: were behind the wheel and that you're swerving is scary.
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  Speaker 2: It's a scary moment to experience.
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  Speaker 1: That's so dangerous to drive when you're that tired. Did
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  Speaker 1: you ever like fall like length or wanted to fall
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  Speaker 1: asleep at the wheel, not.
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  Speaker 2: Fallen asleep, But I've definitely been tired behind the wheel
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  Speaker 2: driving to and from my work when I work a
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  Speaker 2: nine to five job in Sydney, so I used to
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  Speaker 2: have to drive three hours a day to and fro,
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  Speaker 2: so an hour and a half there, an hour and
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  Speaker 2: a half.
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  Speaker 1: Back lot top of a big day.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, on top of a twelve hour shift every single day.
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  Speaker 2: And I was doing that like six seven days a week,
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  Speaker 2: and you definitely do get to a point. I think
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  Speaker 2: there was a couple of times I did night shift
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  Speaker 2: as well, and that's when it happened. Yeah, doing night shift,
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  Speaker 2: coming home and finishing at six am and then having
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  Speaker 2: to drive an hour and a half home. That was bad,
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  Speaker 2: so tough.
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  Speaker 1: I remember this one time, I must have been like
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  Speaker 1: twenty or something when I used to do bikin a
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  Speaker 1: competitions at like pubs and clubs and stuff, and they
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  Speaker 1: drag on all night. So I'd been like peata in
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  Speaker 1: the morning, worked a valley, go all day, peat in
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  Speaker 1: the afternoon, go home like glammed up. Go to the competition.
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  Speaker 1: You have to do heats, so you've got to make
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  Speaker 1: each heat and then there's a semi final and then
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  Speaker 1: there's a final. So like drags on fro about a month.
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  Speaker 2: Here's a hustler.
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  Speaker 1: This is yeah, seriously, this is all turned like if
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  Speaker 1: you get first prize, you're be in like a thousand bucks.
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  Speaker 1: A second prize at seven fifty and it's five hundred.
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  Speaker 1: I was a big hustler and I did enjoy it.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, this one competition that just dragged on and
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  Speaker 1: it didn't finish two two thirty in the morning or something,
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  Speaker 1: and I want to it and I was like excited.
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  Speaker 1: But I remember getting in the car. I was like
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  Speaker 1: from Brisbane, so to drive back to the Gold Coast,
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  Speaker 1: and I remember feeling so tired. I remember telling myself
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  Speaker 1: just like close your eyes for just a second, and
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  Speaker 1: I remember closing them and I could have fallen asleep,
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  Speaker 1: and I literally jerked myself awake. I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: wound out my windows, turn the music up really loud,
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  Speaker 1: like let the fresh air wake me up. And I
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  Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, this is so dangerous, so dangerous,
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  Speaker 1: such a big wake up call. And if I ever
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  Speaker 1: feel tired, like either I won't drive or like winding
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  Speaker 1: down the windows, it.
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  Speaker 2: Just wakes you up. Be it's so cold, it definitely
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  Speaker 2: doesn't make a difference. Hey keeps you or like turn
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  Speaker 2: the aircorne on full ball. Yeah, you don't open the
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  Speaker 2: windows close cold.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it keeps you awake.
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  Speaker 2: The moment that that heat you get warm. Crazy, It's
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  Speaker 2: just it's not it and it was definitely not worth it.
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  Speaker 1: No anyone that's sudden at Tony Robins. Course he makes
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  Speaker 1: the room so cold, but he says, I do this
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  Speaker 1: to keep you guys awake, you to be here for
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  Speaker 1: sixteen hours learning you're going to stay awake.
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  Speaker 2: It was it works because I was freezing when I went.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah I did three a three day or a four day.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it does a meditation. I'm like on Steve's shoulder.
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  Speaker 2: Like I just want to see it, Like my back's
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  Speaker 2: hurting a lot to sit through.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's a crazy story but so beautiful. And yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I wonder what she's doing now she's not hairdressing, because
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  Speaker 1: it's like that's your training, as we've done for so
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  Speaker 1: many years, and you obviously love it, Like what do
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  Speaker 1: you what do you do after.
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  Speaker 2: That big huge decision to make after that? But obviously
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  Speaker 2: it's made a realization for you that like oh wow,
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  Speaker 2: maybe I don't feel aligned in this or maybe this
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  Speaker 2: isn't the path for me.
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  Speaker 1: It's not worth it for me to be so tired
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  Speaker 1: and risk my life driving home. I've seen so tired
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  Speaker 1: hatdresses can do really long hours. Hey, you know it's
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  Speaker 1: really cool. I really like that the mum saw that vision.
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  Speaker 1: I like hearing stuff like this of like really intuitive
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  Speaker 1: things happening because it's.
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  Speaker 2: Just so intriguing. I find it scary. It is scary.
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  Speaker 1: You feel like you're manifesting and putting it out there.
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  Speaker 1: You don't want to like make it come to fruition.
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  Speaker 1: And you know it wasn't just an interest. You thought
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  Speaker 1: it was like, oh wait, this.
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  Speaker 2: Is like a vision.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's true.
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  Speaker 2: It's a little bit different. Yeah you know, yeah, but
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  Speaker 2: I get that the fear of that. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Well, thanks setting it in guys, and we'll see you
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  Speaker 1: on Monday. Have an amazing weekend. We've got epic episodes
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  Speaker 1: next week, so it makes you stay tuned.
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  Speaker 2: Bye bye