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Almost There. So What’s in the Way. | EP 305 · Confident and Empowered Women

• 0:05
  If
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  you
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  can
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  see
• 0:06
  exactly
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  where
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  you
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  wanna
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  go,
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  you
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  know
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  what
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  the
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  next
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  chapter
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  looks
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  like
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  for
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  you,
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  you've
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  done
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  the
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  work,
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  built
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  the
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  foundation,
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  and
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  yet
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  you
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  are
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  still
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  standing
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  at
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  the
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  edge
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  wondering
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  why
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  you
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  can't
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  make
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  your
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  next
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  move.
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  This
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  episode
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  is
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  for
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  you
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  because
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  today
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  we're
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  talking
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  about
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  the
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  almost
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  there
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  woman,
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  the
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  one
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  who
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  is
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  closer
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  than
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  she
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  thinks
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  and
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  still
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  feels
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  further
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  than
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  she
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  is.
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  And
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  we're
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  going
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  to
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  figure
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  out
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  together
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  what
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  it
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  is
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  exactly
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  that's
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  in
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  her
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  way.
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  So
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  let's
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  get
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  into
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  it.
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  Okay,
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  real
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  quick,
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  if
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  you
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  are
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  not
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  yet
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  subscribed
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  to
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  Confident
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  and
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  Empowered
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  Women
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  yet,
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  what
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  are
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  we
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  even
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  doing,
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  okay?
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  We
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  are
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  here
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  every
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  single
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  Tuesday
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  and
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  Thursday,
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  and
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  this
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  is
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  not
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  just
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  a
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  podcast.
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  This
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  is
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  a
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  community
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  of
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  women
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  who
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  are
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  done
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  shrinking,
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  settling,
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  the
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  people-pleasing,
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  honey,
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  performing
• 1:02
  and
• 1:03
  putting
• 1:03
  herself
• 1:04
  last.
• 1:04
  This
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  is
• 1:05
  where
• 1:05
  we
• 1:05
  come
• 1:05
  to
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  remember
• 1:06
  who
• 1:06
  we
• 1:07
  actually
• 1:07
  are
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  and
• 1:08
  build
• 1:09
  the
• 1:09
  life
• 1:09
  that
• 1:10
  reflects
• 1:10
  her.
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  We
• 1:11
  are
• 1:11
  becoming
• 1:12
  together,
• 1:12
  friend,
• 1:13
  and
• 1:13
  if
• 1:13
  you
• 1:13
  are
• 1:14
  not
• 1:14
  subscribed
• 1:14
  yet,
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  today
• 1:15
  is
• 1:16
  the
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  day.
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  Hey,
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  hey,
• 1:19
  hey,
• 1:19
  friend.
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  Listen,
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  you
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  know
• 1:22
  there
• 1:22
  is
• 1:22
  a
• 1:22
  specific
• 1:23
  kind
• 1:24
  of
• 1:24
  frustration
• 1:25
  that's
• 1:26
  reserved
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  for
• 1:26
  the
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  woman
• 1:27
  who
• 1:27
  knows
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  exactly
• 1:29
  what
• 1:29
  she
• 1:29
  wants.
• 1:30
  I'm
• 1:30
  not
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  talking
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  about
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  the
• 1:31
  woman
• 1:31
  who's
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  lost
• 1:32
  or
• 1:32
  has
• 1:32
  no
• 1:33
  idea
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  what
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  direction
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  to
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  go
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  in.
• 1:35
  I'm
• 1:35
  talking
• 1:36
  about
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  the
• 1:36
  woman
• 1:37
  who
• 1:37
  can
• 1:37
  see
• 1:38
  it.
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  The
• 1:39
  vision
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  is
• 1:40
  clear,
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  the
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  desire
• 1:42
  is
• 1:42
  real,
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  and
• 1:42
  she
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  has
• 1:43
  done
• 1:43
  the
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  work,
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  built
• 1:44
  the
• 1:44
  foundation.
• 1:45
  She
• 1:45
  knows
• 1:46
  the
• 1:46
  direction,
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  and
• 1:47
  yet
• 1:48
  she
• 1:48
  is
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  still
• 1:49
  standing
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  right
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  here,
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  not
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  there,
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  but
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  right
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  here.
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  And
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  if
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  you
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  have
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  ever
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  met
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  that
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  woman
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  standing
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  at
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  the
• 1:57
  edge
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  of
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  the
• 1:57
  life
• 1:58
  you
• 1:58
  know
• 1:59
  You
• 1:59
  are
• 1:59
  supposed
• 1:59
  to
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  be
• 2:00
  living
• 2:00
  and
• 2:01
  still
• 2:01
  not
• 2:01
  moving
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  forward?
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  Friend,
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  first,
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  let
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  me
• 2:04
  just
• 2:04
  remind
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  you,
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  there
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  is
• 2:05
  nothing
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  wrong
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  with
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  you
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  and
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  whatever
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  is
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  in
• 2:08
  the
• 2:08
  way,
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  whether
• 2:09
  it's
• 2:09
  fear,
• 2:10
  clarity,
• 2:11
  timing,
• 2:11
  or
• 2:11
  resources,
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  or
• 2:13
  just
• 2:13
  not
• 2:13
  being
• 2:14
  sure
• 2:14
  enough
• 2:14
  yet,
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  it
• 2:15
  deserves
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  to
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  be
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  named.
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  Not
• 2:18
  judged,
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  named.
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  Because
• 2:20
  you
• 2:20
  cannot
• 2:21
  move
• 2:21
  around
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  something
• 2:22
  you
• 2:23
  refuse
• 2:23
  to
• 2:23
  look
• 2:23
  at
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  directly,
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  and
• 2:25
  we
• 2:25
  are
• 2:25
  gonna
• 2:25
  look
• 2:25
  at
• 2:25
  it
• 2:26
  right
• 2:26
  now
• 2:26
  in
• 2:27
  the
• 2:27
  face.
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  So
• 2:28
  let's
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  really
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  get
• 2:29
  into
• 2:29
  it.
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  I
• 2:31
  wanna
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  say
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  this
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  gently
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  because
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  she
• 2:33
  may
• 2:33
  be
• 2:34
  telling
• 2:34
  herself
• 2:34
  this
• 2:35
  story
• 2:35
  and
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  it's
• 2:36
  just
• 2:36
  not
• 2:36
  true.
• 2:37
  The
• 2:37
  almost
• 2:38
  there
• 2:38
  woman
• 2:38
  is
• 2:39
  not
• 2:39
  standing
• 2:39
  still
• 2:40
  because
• 2:40
  she's
• 2:40
  not
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  smart
• 2:41
  enough,
• 2:42
  ready
• 2:42
  enough,
• 2:42
  or
• 2:42
  capable
• 2:43
  enough.
• 2:44
  She's
• 2:44
  standing
• 2:45
  still
• 2:45
  because
• 2:45
  she
• 2:46
  is
• 2:46
  the
• 2:46
  most
• 2:47
  aware
• 2:48
  of
• 2:48
  everything
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  involved
• 2:50
  in
• 2:50
  the
• 2:50
  move.
• 2:51
  She
• 2:52
  has
• 2:52
  thought
• 2:52
  about
• 2:52
  it
• 2:52
  from
• 2:53
  every
• 2:53
  angle,
• 2:53
  honey.
• 2:54
  She
• 2:54
  has
• 2:54
  run
• 2:55
  every
• 2:55
  scenario.
• 2:56
  She's
• 2:56
  done
• 2:56
  so
• 2:57
  much
• 2:57
  preparation
• 2:58
  that
• 2:58
  the
• 2:58
  preparation
• 2:59
  itself
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  has
• 3:00
  become
• 3:01
  the
• 3:01
  destination.
• 3:05
  So
• 3:05
  your
• 3:06
  awareness
• 3:06
  is
• 3:07
  not
• 3:07
  the
• 3:07
  problem.
• 3:08
  It's
• 3:09
  actually
• 3:09
  one
• 3:09
  of
• 3:10
  your
• 3:10
  greatest
• 3:11
  gifts.
• 3:11
  It
• 3:11
  just
• 3:12
  needs
• 3:12
  to
• 3:12
  be
• 3:12
  pointed
• 3:13
  in
• 3:13
  the
• 3:13
  right
• 3:13
  direction.
• 3:14
  You
• 3:14
  know
• 3:14
  that
• 3:15
  song
• 3:15
  by
• 3:15
  Aaliyah,
• 3:16
  "Try
• 3:16
  Again"?
• 3:17
  She
• 3:17
  said,
• 3:17
  "If
• 3:17
  at
• 3:18
  first
• 3:18
  you
• 3:18
  don't
• 3:18
  succeed,
• 3:19
  dust
• 3:20
  yourself
• 3:20
  off
• 3:20
  and
• 3:20
  try
• 3:20
  again."
• 3:21
  Listen,
• 3:22
  this
• 3:22
  is
• 3:22
  where
• 3:22
  the
• 3:23
  almost
• 3:23
  there
• 3:23
  woman
• 3:24
  has
• 3:24
  tried
• 3:24
  many
• 3:25
  a
• 3:25
  times
• 3:26
  in
• 3:26
  her
• 3:26
  mind,
• 3:27
  okay?
• 3:28
  She's
• 3:28
  run
• 3:28
  the
• 3:28
  plan,
• 3:29
  rehearsed
• 3:29
  the
• 3:29
  move,
• 3:30
  prepared
• 3:30
  for
• 3:30
  the
• 3:30
  moment,
• 3:31
  and
• 3:31
  still
• 3:32
  not
• 3:33
  taking
• 3:33
  the
• 3:33
  step.
• 3:34
  Not
• 3:34
  because
• 3:35
  she
• 3:35
  can't,
• 3:36
  but
• 3:36
  because
• 3:37
  there
• 3:37
  is
• 3:37
  something
• 3:38
  in
• 3:38
  the
• 3:38
  way.
• 3:39
  And
• 3:39
  we
• 3:39
  have
• 3:40
  to
• 3:40
  figure
• 3:40
  out
• 3:40
  exactly
• 3:41
  what
• 3:42
  that
• 3:42
  is
• 3:42
  specifically
• 3:44
  for
• 3:44
  her.
• 3:45
  Because
• 3:45
  friend,
• 3:45
  it
• 3:45
  isn't
• 3:46
  always
• 3:46
  fear,
• 3:47
  okay?
• 3:47
  Fear
• 3:48
  is
• 3:48
  talked
• 3:48
  about
• 3:49
  so
• 3:49
  much
• 3:50
  that
• 3:50
  it
• 3:51
  ends
• 3:51
  up
• 3:51
  being
• 3:51
  the
• 3:51
  default
• 3:52
  reason
• 3:52
  in
• 3:53
  front
• 3:53
  of
• 3:53
  everything.
• 3:54
  But
• 3:55
  that
• 3:55
  may
• 3:55
  not
• 3:56
  be
• 3:56
  it.
• 3:57
  But
• 3:57
  on
• 3:58
  the
• 3:58
  flip
• 3:58
  side,
• 3:58
  if
• 3:59
  it
• 3:59
  is
• 3:59
  fear,
• 4:00
  since
• 4:00
  we
• 4:00
  here,
• 4:01
  let's
• 4:01
  talk
• 4:02
  about
• 4:02
  it
• 4:02
  for
• 4:02
  a
• 4:02
  minute.
• 4:04
  And
• 4:05
  this
• 4:05
  was
• 4:05
  me.
• 4:06
  My
• 4:06
  fear
• 4:07
  of
• 4:07
  being
• 4:07
  seen
• 4:08
  had
• 4:08
  been
• 4:08
  plaguing
• 4:09
  me
• 4:09
  for
• 4:10
  as
• 4:10
  long
• 4:10
  as
• 4:10
  I
• 4:10
  can
• 4:11
  remember.
• 4:12
  It
• 4:12
  was
• 4:12
  the
• 4:12
  decision-maker
• 4:14
  in
• 4:14
  my
• 4:15
  life.
• 4:15
  I
• 4:16
  seen
• 4:16
  it
• 4:16
  show
• 4:16
  up
• 4:17
  in
• 4:17
  my
• 4:17
  career,
• 4:18
  my
• 4:19
  relationships.
• 4:20
  Every
• 4:21
  place
• 4:21
  in
• 4:22
  my
• 4:22
  life
• 4:23
  that
• 4:23
  required
• 4:24
  visibility,
• 4:25
  That
• 4:25
  fear
• 4:26
  was
• 4:26
  right
• 4:27
  there.
• 4:27
  And
• 4:28
  luckily,
• 4:28
  I've
• 4:29
  done
• 4:29
  the
• 4:29
  work
• 4:30
  over
• 4:30
  the
• 4:30
  years,
• 4:31
  and
• 4:31
  to
• 4:31
  be
• 4:31
  where
• 4:31
  I
• 4:32
  am
• 4:32
  now,
• 4:33
  officially
• 4:34
  88
• 4:34
  days
• 4:35
  of
• 4:35
  posting
• 4:36
  videos
• 4:37
  on
• 4:37
  YouTube
• 4:37
  straight.
• 4:39
  Can
• 4:39
  I
• 4:41
  get
• 4:42
  an
• 4:42
  amen?
• 4:44
  Prepare
• 4:44
  to
• 4:44
  keep
• 4:45
  being
• 4:45
  sick
• 4:45
  of
• 4:46
  me.
• 4:48
  Listen,
• 4:49
  I'm
• 4:49
  so
• 4:49
  close
• 4:50
  to
• 4:50
  day
• 4:50
  100,
• 4:51
  and
• 4:51
  I'm
• 4:51
  not
• 4:51
  stopping
• 4:52
  there
• 4:52
  or
• 4:53
  no
• 4:53
  time
• 4:53
  soon.
• 4:54
  No
• 4:55
  time
• 4:55
  soon.
• 4:58
  So
• 4:59
  if
• 4:59
  it
• 4:59
  is
• 5:00
  fear
• 5:00
  that's
• 5:01
  standing
• 5:01
  in
• 5:01
  your
• 5:01
  way,
• 5:02
  let
• 5:02
  me
• 5:02
  just
• 5:03
  remind
• 5:03
  you,
• 5:04
  fears
• 5:04
  can
• 5:04
  be
• 5:05
  overcome
• 5:06
  if
• 5:06
  you
• 5:06
  are
• 5:06
  willing
• 5:06
  to
• 5:07
  do
• 5:07
  your
• 5:07
  work,
• 5:09
  AKA
• 5:10
  do
• 5:10
  your
• 5:10
  part.
• 5:12
  And
• 5:12
  if
• 5:12
  it's
• 5:13
  not
• 5:13
  fear,
• 5:13
  let's
• 5:14
  set
• 5:14
  that
• 5:14
  aside,
• 5:15
  because
• 5:15
  sometimes
• 5:16
  it's
• 5:16
  clarity.
• 5:17
  She's
• 5:17
  not
• 5:18
  sure
• 5:18
  enough
• 5:18
  yet
• 5:19
  that
• 5:19
  this
• 5:19
  is
• 5:19
  really
• 5:20
  her
• 5:20
  path
• 5:21
  and
• 5:21
  not
• 5:21
  someone
• 5:22
  else's
• 5:22
  idea
• 5:23
  of
• 5:23
  what
• 5:23
  her
• 5:23
  path
• 5:24
  should
• 5:24
  actually
• 5:24
  look
• 5:25
  like.
• 5:25
  Sometimes
• 5:26
  it's
• 5:26
  timing.
• 5:27
  Something
• 5:27
  genuinely
• 5:28
  needs
• 5:29
  to
• 5:29
  shift
• 5:30
  before
• 5:30
  the
• 5:30
  move
• 5:31
  makes
• 5:31
  sense.
• 5:32
  Sometimes
• 5:33
  it's
• 5:33
  the
• 5:33
  resources
• 5:34
  or
• 5:35
  discernment.
• 5:35
  Maybe
• 5:36
  her
• 5:36
  spirit
• 5:37
  is
• 5:37
  still
• 5:37
  processing
• 5:38
  whether
• 5:39
  this
• 5:39
  is
• 5:39
  truly
• 5:39
  aligned,
• 5:40
  and
• 5:41
  all
• 5:41
  of
• 5:41
  these
• 5:42
  are
• 5:42
  valid
• 5:43
  because
• 5:43
  she
• 5:43
  has
• 5:44
  to
• 5:44
  get
• 5:44
  honest
• 5:45
  about
• 5:45
  which
• 5:45
  one
• 5:46
  it
• 5:46
  actually
• 5:46
  is,
• 5:47
  because
• 5:48
  the
• 5:48
  solution
• 5:49
  is
• 5:49
  completely
• 5:50
  different
• 5:51
  depending
• 5:51
  on
• 5:51
  the
• 5:51
  answer.
• 5:52
  And
• 5:53
  let's
• 5:53
  just
• 5:53
  draw
• 5:53
  some
• 5:53
  attention
• 5:54
  here
• 5:54
  really
• 5:54
  quick
• 5:55
  Because
• 5:55
  being
• 5:56
  almost
• 5:56
  there
• 5:57
  is
• 5:58
  tired,
• 5:58
  honey.
• 5:59
  Not
• 5:59
  the
• 6:00
  same
• 6:00
  tired
• 6:00
  as
• 6:01
  burnt
• 6:01
  out
• 6:01
  or
• 6:01
  depleted
• 6:02
  from
• 6:02
  giving
• 6:02
  too
• 6:03
  much.
• 6:03
  This
• 6:03
  is
• 6:04
  the
• 6:04
  tired
• 6:04
  that
• 6:05
  comes
• 6:06
  from
• 6:06
  carrying
• 6:07
  the
• 6:07
  gap
• 6:08
  between
• 6:08
  who
• 6:09
  you
• 6:09
  are
• 6:09
  right
• 6:09
  now
• 6:10
  and
• 6:10
  who
• 6:10
  you
• 6:10
  know
• 6:11
  you
• 6:11
  are
• 6:11
  meant
• 6:12
  to
• 6:12
  be
• 6:13
  every
• 6:13
  single
• 6:14
  day.
• 6:14
  She's
• 6:15
  not
• 6:15
  lost
• 6:15
  or
• 6:15
  confused.
• 6:16
  She
• 6:17
  knows
• 6:17
  the
• 6:17
  direction.
• 6:18
  But
• 6:18
  yet
• 6:19
  every
• 6:19
  single
• 6:19
  morning
• 6:20
  she
• 6:20
  wakes
• 6:20
  up
• 6:21
  On
• 6:21
  this
• 6:21
  side
• 6:22
  of
• 6:22
  the
• 6:22
  life
• 6:22
  she's
• 6:23
  supposed
• 6:23
  to
• 6:23
  be
• 6:24
  living
• 6:24
  and
• 6:25
  has
• 6:25
  to
• 6:25
  make
• 6:25
  peace
• 6:26
  with
• 6:26
  that
• 6:26
  yet
• 6:27
  again.
• 6:28
  That
• 6:28
  is
• 6:29
  a
• 6:29
  specific
• 6:30
  kind
• 6:30
  of
• 6:30
  heavy
• 6:31
  that's
• 6:32
  exhausting.
• 6:33
  It's
• 6:33
  like
• 6:34
  being
• 6:34
  on
• 6:34
  a
• 6:34
  road
• 6:35
  trip
• 6:35
  and
• 6:35
  you
• 6:35
  can
• 6:35
  literally
• 6:36
  see
• 6:36
  your
• 6:36
  destination
• 6:37
  on
• 6:38
  the
• 6:38
  horizon.
• 6:39
  You
• 6:39
  can
• 6:39
  make
• 6:39
  out
• 6:39
  the
• 6:40
  skyline,
• 6:40
  you
• 6:41
  know
• 6:41
  you're
• 6:41
  close,
• 6:42
  and
• 6:42
  then
• 6:43
  boom,
• 6:43
  traffic
• 6:44
  stops,
• 6:45
  and
• 6:45
  you're
• 6:46
  just
• 6:46
  sitting
• 6:46
  there.
• 6:47
  Your
• 6:47
  destination
• 6:47
  is
• 6:48
  in
• 6:48
  sight,
• 6:48
  but
• 6:49
  you're
• 6:49
  unable
• 6:49
  to
• 6:49
  move
• 6:50
  and
• 6:50
  watching
• 6:51
  the
• 6:51
  clock
• 6:52
  tick.
• 6:53
  That
• 6:53
  is
• 6:53
  the
• 6:54
  almost
• 6:54
  there
• 6:54
  woman.
• 6:55
  And
• 6:55
  the
• 6:55
  danger
• 6:56
  is
• 6:57
  not
• 6:57
  that
• 6:57
  she
• 6:57
  will
• 6:58
  never
• 6:58
  get
• 6:58
  there.
• 6:59
  She'll
• 6:59
  sit
• 6:59
  in
• 7:00
  traffic
• 7:00
  so
• 7:00
  long
• 7:01
  she
• 7:01
  starts
• 7:02
  to
• 7:02
  believe
• 7:02
  the
• 7:03
  destination
• 7:04
  was
• 7:04
  never
• 7:04
  really
• 7:05
  meant
• 7:05
  for
• 7:05
  her.
• 7:06
  And
• 7:06
  friend,
• 7:07
  that's
• 7:07
  the
• 7:07
  lie.
• 7:08
  The
• 7:08
  destination
• 7:09
  is
• 7:10
  real.
• 7:11
  The
• 7:11
  traffic
• 7:12
  is
• 7:12
  temporary,
• 7:13
  and
• 7:14
  you're
• 7:14
  closer
• 7:14
  than
• 7:14
  you
• 7:14
  think.
• 7:15
  So
• 7:16
  here's
• 7:16
  where
• 7:16
  I
• 7:16
  wanna
• 7:16
  park
• 7:17
  for
• 7:17
  a
• 7:17
  minute
• 7:17
  because
• 7:18
  I
• 7:18
  think
• 7:18
  this
• 7:18
  is
• 7:18
  where
• 7:19
  the
• 7:19
  almost
• 7:20
  there
• 7:20
  woman
• 7:21
  gets
• 7:21
  it
• 7:21
  twisted.
• 7:22
  She's
• 7:22
  been
• 7:23
  waiting
• 7:23
  to
• 7:23
  feel
• 7:24
  ready
• 7:24
  for
• 7:24
  the
• 7:25
  whole
• 7:25
  thing,
• 7:26
  the
• 7:26
  complete
• 7:27
  picture,
• 7:28
  the
• 7:28
  full
• 7:28
  vision
• 7:29
  locked
• 7:29
  and
• 7:30
  loaded
• 7:30
  before
• 7:31
  she
• 7:31
  commits
• 7:31
  to
• 7:31
  a
• 7:32
  single
• 7:32
  step.
• 7:33
  And
• 7:34
  I
• 7:34
  understand
• 7:35
  that,
• 7:35
  I
• 7:35
  really
• 7:35
  do.
• 7:36
  When
• 7:36
  you
• 7:37
  can
• 7:37
  see
• 7:37
  the
• 7:38
  whole
• 7:38
  destination,
• 7:39
  it's
• 7:39
  tempting
• 7:40
  to
• 7:40
  want
• 7:41
  to
• 7:41
  plan
• 7:42
  the
• 7:42
  whole
• 7:43
  journey
• 7:43
  before
• 7:44
  you
• 7:44
  start
• 7:44
  driving.
• 7:45
  And
• 7:46
  here's
• 7:46
  what
• 7:46
  Proverbs
• 7:47
  16
• 7:47
  says,
• 7:48
  "We
• 7:48
  can
• 7:48
  make
• 7:49
  our
• 7:49
  plans,
• 7:49
  but
• 7:50
  God
• 7:50
  determines
• 7:51
  our
• 7:51
  steps."
• 7:52
  Not
• 7:52
  our
• 7:52
  leap,
• 7:53
  our
• 7:53
  steps,
• 7:54
  plural,
• 7:55
  one
• 7:55
  at
• 7:56
  a
• 7:56
  time.
• 7:56
  And
• 7:57
  motion
• 7:57
  creates
• 7:57
  clarity
• 7:58
  in
• 7:58
  a
• 7:58
  way
• 7:59
  that
• 7:59
  stillness
• 8:00
  never
• 8:00
  will.
• 8:01
  You
• 8:01
  will
• 8:01
  not
• 8:02
  figure
• 8:02
  out
• 8:02
  everything
• 8:03
  standing
• 8:04
  still.
• 8:05
  You
• 8:05
  can't
• 8:05
  strategize,
• 8:06
  plan,
• 8:07
  or
• 8:07
  prepare
• 8:08
  your
• 8:08
  way
• 8:08
  there.
• 8:09
  You
• 8:09
  will
• 8:09
  figure
• 8:10
  it
• 8:10
  out
• 8:11
  moving.
• 8:12
  The
• 8:12
  next
• 8:13
  step
• 8:13
  does
• 8:13
  not
• 8:13
  have
• 8:14
  to
• 8:14
  be
• 8:14
  the
• 8:14
  whole
• 8:14
  answer.
• 8:15
  It
• 8:15
  just
• 8:15
  has
• 8:16
  to
• 8:16
  be
• 8:16
  honest
• 8:17
  and
• 8:17
  moving
• 8:18
  forward.
• 8:19
  So
• 8:19
  the
• 8:19
  question
• 8:19
  is
• 8:20
  not,
• 8:20
  am
• 8:20
  I
• 8:20
  ready
• 8:21
  for
• 8:21
  everything
• 8:22
  this
• 8:22
  is
• 8:22
  going
• 8:22
  to
• 8:23
  require?
• 8:24
  See,
• 8:24
  that's
• 8:25
  the
• 8:25
  type
• 8:25
  of
• 8:25
  low
• 8:25
  vibration
• 8:26
  question
• 8:26
  that
• 8:26
  keeps
• 8:27
  you
• 8:27
  stuck
• 8:27
  and
• 8:28
  second-guessing
• 8:28
  yourself.
• 8:29
  The
• 8:29
  question
• 8:30
  is,
• 8:31
  what
• 8:31
  is
• 8:31
  the
• 8:31
  one
• 8:32
  honest
• 8:32
  move
• 8:33
  I
• 8:33
  can
• 8:33
  make
• 8:33
  right
• 8:34
  now
• 8:35
  in
• 8:35
  the
• 8:35
  direction
• 8:35
  of
• 8:36
  what
• 8:36
  I
• 8:36
  already
• 8:37
  know?
• 8:38
  Because
• 8:38
  that
• 8:39
  one
• 8:39
  move,
• 8:40
  that
• 8:40
  single
• 8:41
  step,
• 8:42
  is
• 8:42
  where
• 8:42
  the
• 8:42
  whole
• 8:42
  thing
• 8:43
  starts
• 8:43
  to
• 8:43
  open
• 8:44
  up
• 8:47
  Friend,
• 8:48
  okay,
• 8:49
  real
• 8:49
  talk
• 8:50
  for
• 8:50
  a
• 8:50
  second.
• 8:51
  If
• 8:51
  this
• 8:51
  episode
• 8:52
  has
• 8:52
  you
• 8:52
  all
• 8:52
  in
• 8:52
  your
• 8:53
  feelings,
• 8:53
  if
• 8:53
  you
• 8:53
  are
• 8:54
  sitting
• 8:54
  there
• 8:54
  like,
• 8:54
  "Okay,
• 8:55
  she's
• 8:55
  talking
• 8:55
  directly
• 8:56
  to
• 8:56
  me,"
• 8:57
  then
• 8:58
  you
• 8:58
  gotta
• 8:58
  grab
• 8:59
  The
• 8:59
  Main
• 8:59
  Character
• 8:59
  Energy
• 9:00
  Journal
• 9:00
  Prompts.
• 9:01
  Because
• 9:01
  here's
• 9:01
  the
• 9:02
  thing,
• 9:02
  we
• 9:02
  can
• 9:03
  have
• 9:03
  all
• 9:03
  the
• 9:03
  awareness
• 9:04
  in
• 9:04
  the
• 9:04
  world,
• 9:05
  but
• 9:05
  if
• 9:05
  we
• 9:05
  don't
• 9:06
  actually
• 9:06
  do
• 9:06
  something
• 9:07
  with
• 9:07
  it,
• 9:08
  we'll
• 9:08
  just
• 9:08
  keep
• 9:08
  running
• 9:09
  in
• 9:09
  circles,
• 9:09
  friend,
• 9:10
  and
• 9:10
  I
• 9:10
  don't
• 9:11
  want
• 9:11
  that
• 9:11
  for
• 9:11
  you.
• 9:12
  These
• 9:12
  prompts
• 9:12
  help
• 9:13
  you
• 9:13
  get
• 9:13
  honest
• 9:13
  with
• 9:14
  yourself
• 9:14
  in
• 9:14
  the
• 9:14
  most
• 9:15
  real,
• 9:16
  loving,
• 9:16
  grace-filled
• 9:17
  way
• 9:17
  possible.
• 9:19
  No
• 9:19
  tough
• 9:19
  love,
• 9:19
  no
• 9:20
  shame,
• 9:20
  just
• 9:21
  you,
• 9:21
  your
• 9:21
  journal,
• 9:22
  and
• 9:22
  some
• 9:23
  really,
• 9:23
  really
• 9:23
  good
• 9:24
  questions
• 9:24
  that
• 9:25
  are
• 9:25
  gonna
• 9:25
  help
• 9:25
  you
• 9:25
  figure
• 9:26
  out
• 9:26
  where
• 9:26
  you
• 9:27
  are
• 9:27
  and
• 9:27
  what
• 9:28
  it
• 9:28
  looks
• 9:28
  like
• 9:28
  to
• 9:29
  move
• 9:29
  forward.
• 9:30
  Friend,
• 9:30
  I
• 9:30
  made
• 9:31
  these
• 9:31
  just
• 9:32
  for
• 9:32
  you
• 9:32
  for
• 9:33
  this
• 9:33
  exact
• 9:34
  moment.
• 9:35
  This
• 9:35
  is
• 9:35
  for
• 9:35
  the
• 9:36
  woman
• 9:36
  who
• 9:36
  just
• 9:36
  heard
• 9:37
  something
• 9:37
  that
• 9:37
  cracked
• 9:38
  open
• 9:38
  a
• 9:38
  door
• 9:39
  and
• 9:39
  needs
• 9:40
  somewhere
• 9:40
  to
• 9:40
  go
• 9:40
  with
• 9:41
  it.
• 9:41
  The
• 9:41
  link
• 9:41
  is
• 9:42
  in
• 9:42
  the
• 9:42
  show
• 9:42
  notes,
• 9:42
  so
• 9:43
  grab
• 9:43
  it
• 9:43
  because
• 9:44
  this
• 9:45
  has
• 9:45
  your
• 9:45
  next
• 9:45
  step
• 9:46
  written
• 9:46
  all
• 9:47
  over
• 9:47
  it.
• 9:49
  Ooh,
• 9:50
  and
• 9:50
  now
• 9:50
  it's
• 9:51
  time
• 9:51
  for
• 9:51
  our
• 9:51
  favorite,
• 9:52
  the
• 9:52
  self-love
• 9:53
  two-step
• 9:54
  with
• 9:54
  the
• 9:54
  remix.
• 9:55
  Thank
• 9:55
  you
• 9:55
  very
• 9:56
  much
• 9:58
  So
• 9:58
  let's
• 9:58
  get
• 9:58
  into
• 9:59
  it
• 9:59
  'cause
• 9:59
  this
• 10:00
  is
• 10:00
  the
• 10:00
  almost
• 10:00
  there
• 10:01
  two-step.
• 10:02
  Step
• 10:02
  one,
• 10:03
  name
• 10:04
  what
• 10:04
  is
• 10:04
  actually
• 10:05
  in
• 10:05
  the
• 10:05
  way.
• 10:06
  Not
• 10:06
  what
• 10:07
  you
• 10:07
  think
• 10:07
  sounds
• 10:07
  like
• 10:08
  a
• 10:08
  good
• 10:08
  reason,
• 10:09
  not
• 10:09
  the
• 10:09
  responsible
• 10:10
  answer,
• 10:11
  the
• 10:11
  one
• 10:11
  that
• 10:11
  everybody
• 10:12
  else
• 10:12
  wants
• 10:12
  to
• 10:12
  hear.
• 10:13
  No,
• 10:14
  I'm
• 10:14
  talking
• 10:14
  about
• 10:15
  the
• 10:15
  real
• 10:16
  one.
• 10:16
  Is
• 10:17
  it
• 10:17
  fear,
• 10:18
  clarity,
• 10:19
  timing,
• 10:19
  resources?
• 10:21
  Is
• 10:21
  it
• 10:21
  discernment?
• 10:23
  Just
• 10:23
  name
• 10:23
  it
• 10:23
  honestly
• 10:24
  because
• 10:24
  you
• 10:25
  cannot
• 10:25
  move
• 10:25
  around
• 10:26
  something
• 10:27
  you
• 10:27
  are
• 10:27
  not
• 10:27
  willing
• 10:28
  to
• 10:28
  look
• 10:28
  at
• 10:28
  directly.
• 10:29
  Step
• 10:30
  two,
• 10:30
  find
• 10:31
  one
• 10:32
  honest
• 10:32
  next
• 10:33
  step.
• 10:34
  Not
• 10:34
  the
• 10:34
  whole
• 10:34
  plan,
• 10:35
  not
• 10:35
  the
• 10:35
  leap,
• 10:36
  just
• 10:36
  the
• 10:36
  next
• 10:37
  move.
• 10:37
  The
• 10:37
  one
• 10:38
  thing
• 10:38
  that
• 10:38
  you
• 10:38
  can
• 10:39
  do
• 10:39
  this
• 10:39
  week
• 10:40
  that
• 10:40
  is
• 10:40
  forward-facing
• 10:42
  and
• 10:43
  aligned
• 10:43
  with
• 10:43
  where
• 10:43
  you're
• 10:44
  trying
• 10:44
  to
• 10:44
  go.
• 10:44
  Write
• 10:45
  it
• 10:45
  down
• 10:46
  and
• 10:46
  then
• 10:46
  do
• 10:47
  it.
• 10:47
  Make
• 10:48
  sure
• 10:48
  that
• 10:48
  thing
• 10:48
  shows
• 10:49
  up
• 10:49
  on
• 10:49
  your
• 10:49
  calendar,
• 10:50
  okay?
• 10:50
  Before
• 10:51
  you
• 10:51
  have
• 10:51
  time
• 10:52
  to
• 10:52
  talk
• 10:52
  yourself
• 10:52
  out
• 10:52
  of
• 10:55
  it
• 10:56
  And
• 10:56
  then
• 10:56
  step
• 10:57
  three
• 10:57
  is
• 10:57
  the
• 10:57
  you
• 10:58
  step.
• 10:59
  You
• 10:59
  get
• 10:59
  still,
• 11:00
  you
• 11:00
  get
• 11:00
  quiet,
• 11:01
  and
• 11:01
  you
• 11:02
  ask
• 11:02
  yourself,
• 11:03
  "What
• 11:03
  is
• 11:03
  my
• 11:04
  heart
• 11:04
  telling
• 11:05
  me
• 11:05
  to
• 11:05
  do
• 11:05
  next?"
• 11:06
  Because
• 11:06
  whatever
• 11:07
  comes
• 11:07
  up,
• 11:08
  that
• 11:08
  is
• 11:09
  your
• 11:09
  next
• 11:10
  right
• 11:10
  aligned
• 11:11
  step.
• 11:12
  Not
• 11:12
  the
• 11:12
  whole
• 11:12
  plan,
• 11:13
  just
• 11:14
  the
• 11:14
  next
• 11:14
  move.
• 11:15
  And
• 11:15
  trust
• 11:15
  her,
• 11:16
  friend,
• 11:16
  she
• 11:17
  already
• 11:17
  knows.
• 11:18
  Now,
• 11:18
  let
• 11:19
  me
• 11:19
  pour
• 11:19
  into
• 11:20
  you
• 11:20
  real
• 11:20
  quick.
• 11:21
  Listen,
• 11:21
  while
• 11:21
  some
• 11:22
  people
• 11:22
  struggle
• 11:23
  to
• 11:23
  know
• 11:23
  what
• 11:23
  they
• 11:24
  want,
• 11:24
  you
• 11:25
  already
• 11:25
  know.
• 11:26
  You've
• 11:26
  been
• 11:27
  clear
• 11:27
  on
• 11:27
  the
• 11:27
  vision
• 11:28
  from
• 11:29
  the
• 11:29
  start.
• 11:30
  You
• 11:30
  know
• 11:30
  what
• 11:30
  to
• 11:30
  do,
• 11:31
  and
• 11:31
  you've
• 11:31
  been
• 11:31
  holding
• 11:32
  yourself
• 11:32
  in
• 11:33
  this
• 11:33
  stalled
• 11:33
  pattern
• 11:34
  that
• 11:34
  we
• 11:35
  are
• 11:35
  now
• 11:36
  shifting
• 11:36
  into
• 11:36
  action.
• 11:37
  You've
• 11:38
  identified
• 11:39
  what
• 11:39
  the
• 11:39
  holdup
• 11:39
  is,
• 11:40
  and
• 11:40
  now
• 11:41
  you're
• 11:41
  giving
• 11:41
  yourself
• 11:42
  permission
• 11:42
  to
• 11:43
  move.
• 11:44
  There
• 11:44
  is
• 11:45
  no
• 11:45
  one
• 11:45
  else
• 11:46
  who
• 11:46
  can
• 11:47
  approve
• 11:47
  this
• 11:48
  but
• 11:48
  you.
• 11:49
  Maybe
• 11:50
  you've
• 11:50
  been
• 11:51
  waiting
• 11:51
  for
• 11:52
  someone
• 11:52
  else
• 11:53
  to
• 11:53
  see
• 11:54
  the
• 11:54
  dream,
• 11:55
  to
• 11:55
  believe
• 11:56
  the
• 11:56
  dream,
• 11:57
  and
• 11:57
  believe
• 11:57
  that
• 11:58
  you
• 11:58
  can
• 11:58
  actually
• 11:59
  do
• 11:59
  it.
• 12:00
  But
• 12:00
  this
• 12:00
  isn't
• 12:01
  about
• 12:01
  them.
• 12:02
  It
• 12:02
  never
• 12:03
  has
• 12:03
  been
• 12:04
  about
• 12:04
  them.
• 12:05
  The
• 12:05
  only
• 12:06
  one
• 12:06
  you've
• 12:06
  been
• 12:07
  waiting
• 12:07
  on
• 12:08
  is
• 12:08
  you.
• 12:09
  You
• 12:10
  deciding
• 12:11
  you
• 12:11
  are
• 12:11
  worth
• 12:11
  betting
• 12:12
  on.
• 12:12
  You
• 12:13
  deciding
• 12:14
  now
• 12:15
  is
• 12:15
  the
• 12:15
  time.
• 12:16
  Because
• 12:17
  whole
• 12:17
  time
• 12:18
  you've
• 12:18
  been
• 12:18
  one
• 12:19
  decision
• 12:20
  away
• 12:20
  from
• 12:21
  creating
• 12:21
  what's
• 12:22
  next
• 12:22
  for
• 12:22
  you.
• 12:23
  You
• 12:23
  already
• 12:24
  have
• 12:25
  all
• 12:25
  of
• 12:25
  heaven
• 12:26
  rooting
• 12:26
  for
• 12:27
  you,
• 12:27
  and
• 12:28
  now
• 12:28
  it's
• 12:29
  your
• 12:29
  turn
• 12:30
  to
• 12:30
  root
• 12:30
  for
• 12:30
  you
• 12:31
  too.
• 12:32
  You
• 12:32
  just
• 12:32
  have
• 12:32
  to
• 12:33
  decide
• 12:34
  you
• 12:34
  are
• 12:34
  already
• 12:35
  the
• 12:35
  one.
• 12:36
  You've
• 12:36
  always
• 12:37
  been
• 12:37
  the
• 12:37
  one.
• 12:38
  Now
• 12:39
  be
• 12:40
  the
• 12:40
  one.
• 12:40
  Okay?
• 12:41
  Let's
• 12:42
  go.
• 12:43
  Ooh,
• 12:44
  friend.
• 12:45
  Ooh,
• 12:45
  I'm
• 12:45
  so
• 12:45
  excited
• 12:45
  for
• 12:46
  you.
• 12:46
  This
• 12:46
  is
• 12:47
  where
• 12:47
  the
• 12:47
  story
• 12:48
  really
• 12:49
  gets
• 12:49
  good,
• 12:49
  okay?
• 12:50
  So
• 12:50
  come
• 12:50
  and
• 12:51
  find
• 12:51
  me
• 12:51
  on
• 12:51
  YouTube
• 12:52
  and
• 12:52
  tell
• 12:52
  me
• 12:53
  what
• 12:53
  your
• 12:53
  action
• 12:54
  move
• 12:54
  is
• 12:55
  because
• 12:56
  the
• 12:56
  only
• 12:56
  way
• 12:56
  to
• 12:57
  make
• 12:57
  things
• 12:57
  happen
• 12:58
  is
• 12:59
  through
• 12:59
  your
• 13:00
  continued
• 13:01
  actions.
• 13:02
  So
• 13:02
  let's
• 13:02
  get
• 13:03
  it
• 13:03
  Okay,
• 13:03
  friend,
• 13:04
  remember,
• 13:04
  you
• 13:05
  are
• 13:05
  not
• 13:06
  an
• 13:06
  extra
• 13:06
  in
• 13:06
  somebody
• 13:07
  else's
• 13:07
  story.
• 13:08
  You
• 13:08
  are
• 13:08
  the
• 13:08
  main
• 13:09
  character
• 13:09
  of
• 13:10
  your
• 13:10
  very
• 13:10
  own
• 13:11
  story.
• 13:12
  So
• 13:12
  go
• 13:13
  be
• 13:13
  her,
• 13:14
  the
• 13:14
  one
• 13:14
  you've
• 13:15
  been
• 13:15
  becoming.
• 13:16
  She's
• 13:16
  been
• 13:16
  waiting
• 13:17
  on
• 13:17
  you
• 13:17
  to
• 13:17
  live
• 13:17
  out
• 13:18
  loud,
• 13:18
  and
• 13:19
  I'm
• 13:19
  cheering
• 13:19
  for
• 13:19
  you
• 13:20
  loud
• 13:20
  and
• 13:21
  obnoxiously
• 13:21
  always.
• 13:23
  And
• 13:24
  no
• 13:24
  matter
• 13:24
  what
• 13:24
  comes
• 13:25
  your
• 13:25
  way,
• 13:25
  together
• 13:26
  we
• 13:26
  can
• 13:27
  encourage
• 13:27
  over
• 13:28
  everything,
• 13:29
  And
• 13:29
  I'll
• 13:29
  see
• 13:30
  you
• 13:30
  in
• 13:30
  the
• 13:30
  next
• 13:31
  episode