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Love Your Love Muscle - Reading Faces - Understanding the Stories We Carry · Transformational Meditation Podcast

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Hello everyone.
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Welcome back to another episode of Love Your Love Muscle.
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I'm sep, I'm a transformational meditation group, the group
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that, uh, provides you this, uh, this podcast
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of podcasts and Lucas back.
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It's everybody. Hey, Erin,
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How have you been? How are you guys doing?
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Um,
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I've been doing Chaotically Wonderful.
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And also coming off of another bout
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of the awesome coronavirus that's been coming out.
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Awesome. Just awesome.
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So that is all cleared up, just the residual cough.
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But other than that, life has been great
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and I honestly, it's just been a continuation of Wonderful.
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How about you? What's been going on with you?
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Same, uh, same as always working hard.
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Just finished my last, uh, deep meditation session in, uh,
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the town where I come from, uh, of this year.
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And, uh, looking forward to starting up again in January.
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Uh, I'm just still debating if I'm going
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to do it in the same format.
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You can always say like, never,
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never change the successful recipe,
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but well, maybe we need to do that.
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We'll see. I'm not just have to listen. Meditate on it.
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Listen to my heart. What is going to happen in 2026?
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Well, I gotta tell you,
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I really love the guided meditation
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that you did out by the water.
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That was a wonderful call.
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Very soothing, definitely felt like the heart was opening.
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Just had to give you props on that.
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I'm going to continue with those, uh, podcasts
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where we do the nature meditations.
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Uh, also when I'm doing them live in the
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summer with lots of people.
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There are lots of fun to do, always meeting new people,
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tourists, sometimes the great fun.
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And people really learn to appreciate the, the, the power
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that nature has and how balancing nature can be,
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even though we're in an area, we are in a beautiful area,
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but we have the city nearby, some airplanes, some boats.
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And that also makes of an interesting meditation experience
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because whenever we meditate at home
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or wherever, wherever we are,
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there's always people around us.
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There are always distractions.
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Uh, and to learn how to turn those distractions into, uh,
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a, a non distraction.
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Like just, just incorporate it into you.
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Sit in your, your meditation,
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change your perspective on something where you're,
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how you see some things like, uh, instead of, instead
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of a speedboat going by, you think, oh, this is irritating.
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I can't meditate. They're saying, oh, it's a speedboat.
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Interesting people having fun on the water. You know?
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Yeah. So different ways. Different ways, sorry.
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Yeah. Different ways to look at things.
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Uh, and also changing your respective might also help
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changing your state of being, which again, changes the way,
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uh, that the things you, you experience in life, the,
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the things that come to you.
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Uh, it sounds easy when we talk about it.
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It takes some practice, but it's
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so much fun when you get the hang of it.
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It is, and you wanna know what, uh, you're right,
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it is a lot of work when you start.
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You basically have to be the bouncer of your own brain,
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and it's, everybody wants to get in that club,
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and you have to be very selective with
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what thoughts are gonna be allowed in.
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Like, yeah, what's the dress code?
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So the way that you alter that, it, I, you did
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that in your video that I saw,
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and I can't wait to see the one that you post from today,
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but you did that and it was a wonderful segue.
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Yep. Thank you, Daniel.
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Before we get, before we get started, Erin, let's just, uh,
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just do, do what we always do, uh, for the listeners
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and viewers, uh, get everybody
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into a state of being of receivership
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concentration focus,
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because we are going to learn stuff here.
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Um, we are going, we, we are learning things,
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always useful information.
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And I would really like, invite everybody to focus
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and, uh, and listen
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and watch instead of getting distracted by thoughts as
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what is on my Instagram now and what is happening.
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Just center yourself and be with us.
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Be with Aaron and me as we start this session.
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So sit up straight, just move your shoulders, your neck,
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loosen up a bit, close your eyes if you want to,
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and just breathe in deeply through your nose
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and out through your mouth
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and letting the day go, letting everything go.
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And as you breathe out, center to yourself, feel
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that you get comfortable.
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And again, a nice deep inhale through your nose
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and out through your mouth.
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Ah, you can sigh,
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just letting things go off your chest, letting go.
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Beautiful and breathe normally.
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Just breathe like you usually do.
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You might notice you're already breathing calmer and deeper
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and just breathe even more calmly and deeply
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settling down even more with every outbreath.
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Focus on your heart space
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and you can put your hand on your chest
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right where your heart is.
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And imagine breathing through your heart.
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Just imagine the air going in and out of your chest area.
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This does so good for your nervous system,
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balances your nervous system,
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and your heart becomes the conductor of
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that orchestra, which is your body.
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All the organs in your body, each are the,
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their own instrument.
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And just getting everything in sync
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and in balance, calm down,
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center ourselves in a hard space, nice, calm,
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deep breaths through a heart.
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Just appreciate that moment.
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Feel nice that it is just getting back to your heart,
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to your core, to your being.
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And if you know medical termin terminology,
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the heart is called the core seal air.
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So that's, that's no coincidence.
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And if you want to just set the intention as you breathe
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through your heart to settle down, listen in,
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watch this episode, listen to this episode in an open mind,
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ready to learn new things.
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Pick up important information that is important for you.
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At least you'll know when that is happening,
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That the information always comes through louder somehow.
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So, and we appreciate you for
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listening in and joining us to,
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and we hope the information
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or talk will benefit you greatly.
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Alright, well get back
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to the room you are in
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and back to your device,
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which you're listening and watching this on.
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And, uh, yeah, let's get started.
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Aaron, Erin, uh, like you said, you are recovering
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the last bits of COVID that are going out.
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It's just a strike off. Yeah, we'll do the magic of editing.
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We can, we can remove the, the, the, the coughs
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and everything, so, no, no. I'm
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So sorry. I had a time.
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I'm going to try and stifle it.
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I have some hot coffee, which feels
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good on the throat, and I have water. Oh,
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Everything Amount of cough drops.
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Wonderful. Um, I wanted to talk about what you're,
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you're recently, I'm following you on Vero True Social.
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And if you're not aware of
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what Vero True Social is, try it out.
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vero.co is their website is a social media platform
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with no algorithms, uh, no commercials,
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no advertisement,
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and, uh, great people, I must say very.
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Um, uh, people are very creative.
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A lot of photographers, artists there.
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Uh, Vera has their own music label as well.
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A lot of music going on video.
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Um, uh, cinematographers are there.
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Wonderful gang. I really like.
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I've been, I've been, uh, there for many, many years
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and I prefer it over Instagram and Facebook.
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Uh, also more engagement there
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than on Instagram and Facebook.
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Uh, luckily. Um, but yeah, try it out.
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And I've, but at least I'm, I'm following, um, uh,
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Aaron there and soon, and
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I follow you back Soon.
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There is a, Aaron will have a Patreon page as well,
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so that will be awesome.
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All the, all the stuff that, uh, that Eric, uh,
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Eric, I'm sorry,
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Or it happens all the time
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With Eric, with Aaron is, uh, is providing
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to us wonderful things, uh, amongst other things.
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Fa face readings.
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Well, I've heard a lot about readings,
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like reading a coffee cup, uh, Turkish coffee cup tea,
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leaf reading, hand reading.
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Uh, but face reading is new to me.
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And so one of your ve videos where, where you explained
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what it was, you had a whole tutorial about it almost.
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Yeah. Where you grip, where
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You pick it out of there, Pick it out, yeah.
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And do a facial reading.
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But, and you explained what it was about.
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It, it has to do with, with eyes how far your eyes are in,
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in your eye sockets your facial expression.
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I mean, you know me a bit now, you, you, you,
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you give me this feedback as well.
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Whenever I talk, I have a lot of facial expressions,
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so it's hard for me to, to, uh, to keep a straight face
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and, and tell a lie.
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But yeah.
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Well, you see, that's the thing.
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You are literally a product of your experience,
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your environment, your heritage, and your mindset.
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You are a huge amalgam of just consciousness.
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And I love this. And you come in with this
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baseline setting from the shape of your head to what organs
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and what placement they are, the hands
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and the feet that you have, the way that your face sits.
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And every which way that you have an experience
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or you have an emotion and you have a reaction to it.
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You tweak the, the muscles, the tissue,
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the fibers in your face, everything that you are feeling.
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The more that you want to see something, the more
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that you're going to protrude yourself into that.
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But also, you brought up the eyes,
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the eyes are truly the window of the soul.
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And one of the things I love about this is
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people can have very similar eyes
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and tell a completely different story.
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Like you have these eyes that are recessed
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and you have these eyes
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that have these wonderful hoods over them,
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but they stand out.
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And if I look at this
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and as I, I am watching like your body language
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and things like that, you're somebody who, it's,
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you have an immensely high standard.
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You have a great high standard.
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And also you, you're not just going
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to let people in,
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but you wanna be included to see what it's about,
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to see if it's something
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that you even wanna entertain with your time.
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And from what I can see with you, when we have eyes
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that are kind of like sloping down,
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or like they look a little bit more, um, an angle,
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downward angle, this is more often than not somebody who can
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pinpoint anything in this situation that goes wrong.
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Like they are looking for the faults in this.
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Not to just be like pessimistic or anything like that,
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but to be able to navigate any potential
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problems that would come about.
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And that really goes along with, you know,
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the high standard that you have.
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You're not gonna let anything just bypass you with the way
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that our eyebrows sit.
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Like this is a major protector for us.
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If we have a really developed brow bone, this is somebody
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who has dealt with, you know, the way that they react
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to trial and tribulation is they wanna take action.
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They wanna take control of it, they wanna problem solve.
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If there's no buildup on the brow bone, if they don't have
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that prominent one, then they could see the very same thing.
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But they're not going to keep taking in all the information
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until they can have a real world application for it.
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So they can have similar eyes,
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but a totally different approach to something.
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And like you have, if I look at your face, you have
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a wider mouth.
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It's not a smaller mouth.
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This is somebody who you can talk to anyone or anything,
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but you have these wonderful little divots on the side.
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So I can almost guarantee you that you have
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the most unknown secrets about a person,
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and you could take them to the grave.
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You are a secret keeper.
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You will hold the this in high regard.
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I don't think that you're using it as, uh, something
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to use against somebody,
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but you are immensely a trustworthy person
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because you're not letting anything out.
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And that is a really cool feature.
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But also with, uh, sorry, I de I derailed, uh,
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from the brows and went to the lips.
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But, um, the closer that somebody's eyebrows are, the more
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that they have this, um, confrontation with authority.
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And they are not just going to take things lying down.
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Now somebody who, who could have a wide space
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between their eyebrows can still be confrontational
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to authority, but the way
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that they go about it is going to be immensely different.
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The way that you and I would approach things
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would be vastly different.
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You're gonna get right up in their face and challenge them.
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If it's something that you truly do believe in with me,
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I'm going to zero in.
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I'm going to focus. I'm gonna get the facts,
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and I'm going to create a case.
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You're gonna throw things at that person immediately.
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If you truly do believe in it,
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you're not gonna wait to build a case.
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You're gonna be like, you wanna know what beg to the, no,
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this is not happening on my watch.
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Sorry. And, uh, you are somebody
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who you can spot somebody coming a mile away,
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but you really wanna welcome them in.
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I don't think that you're naive in the slightest.
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I think that you see somebody's BS
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and wanna give 'em an opportunity to go another way.
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So when I say that to you, does that make sense? Yeah.
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Uh, well, we talked about what I,
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what I found funny is like, uh, the eyebrows,
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because I'm always having uni brow,
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or maybe you could call it a uni brow already.
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Is it true with the, uh, what people,
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because people most, most likely have questions about it.
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Is it true, like, um, uh, people with a uni brow, uh,
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that it's, um, uh, don't say distracting,
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but people mistrust them.
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And a lot of crim criminals have a uni brow?
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I don't think that it's mistrust as much
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as it is being guarded.
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Mm. So it's not that you're telling the wrong thing.
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I don't know if you're gonna get quiet
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and then going for the attack.
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So that's where that confrontation is.
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It is not a bad aggression.
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It's how do you direct it aggression.
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And I'm looking at like even how the face shape goes
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with you and also
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how the ears are even sitting on your head.
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You are somebody who's so immensely down to earth,
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but you think outside of the box from the tilt
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of where your ears are.
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And I wanna say that you're not a conformist,
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but you're not a non-conformist.
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You are going to try
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and play this the middle ground of
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what is gonna work best for you.
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But above all, you're gonna listen
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to your inner monologue about what is what,
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because sometimes you'll have to cave in on something
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and then go in for the attack later
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because you don't have everything
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that you need at that time.
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And I don't think that you are a very submissive guy.
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I think that you have been, um, probably led
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to have to portray that in certain situations.
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But it's all a facade. You're not,
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you're not submissive in the slightest.
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And in fact, your belief system holds you so tightly
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that your faith is completely unshakeable.
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And that is a real strong way that you navigate your life
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and it leads into every single
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action that you do in the day.
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It's something that I find immensely wonderful.
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And as you have gotten older, Seb,
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your intuition has gotten just more spot on
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and only reinforced your faith.
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You are what I would consider to be an unshakeable
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and unbreakable person.
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And with the research that you have done in your
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field, it only makes sense.
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Or for those listening
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and watching, um, uh, I have to say,
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what everything is saying right now is 99% spot on.
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And it's not because we know each other
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for a long time either.
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Mm-hmm. Uh, we have talked to each other maybe four times
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and always did, did a recording, uh,
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of the podcast afterwards.
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So we haven't had, we don't know each other
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that well, basically.
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Uh, and, uh, and she already, from the first moment
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or the second time we talked was face reading me.
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And so, uh, pretty, pretty correct already.
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So if you're, if you're watching this
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and thinking, yeah, yeah, they know each other
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so well, that's not true.
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We only have talked to each other how many hours?
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Maybe six, seven total
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Maybe. And that is
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being generous, but yeah. Yeah.
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No, the thing is, once you do this, you can't not do it.
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Right? Yeah. If I'm thinking about somebody,
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I'm thinking about their face.
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It's just, it becomes automatic and you have to love it.
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You have to love what you do.
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Like if you're doing this
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and it's just something that's monotonous, you're going
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to avoid everybody.
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But you, it's like you have to be a people person in order
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to do this and the work that you do.
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You have to be a people person. Yeah.
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But you're a very protective people person.
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You've seen so many people get swindled
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and you have seen, uh, disappointments in various areas
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of your life, and you're like, no more.
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No, not this time.
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You will expose a fake person
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if you see them taking advantage
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or trying to create a following off of that.
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And I think that's one of the coolest things about you.
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So, yeah, no, I definitely read your features.
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The thing is, you're a genuinely good person.
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And I'm not saying that to fluff your ego.
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So there's so many people in these podcasts
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that have this overinflated, arrogant sense of self
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or their, their, their word is the word of God.
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And it's pathetic when they do that.
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But you, when you're doing this, you, you talk
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amongst the people because you are the people.
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And that's what makes you such an amazing leader
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when you get into this.
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And you definitely have leader qualities.
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'cause I'm looking at this, um, this wide set chin area.
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This is somebody who's going to stick their chin out
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for you, who is going to say what other people won't,
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and nothing but props.
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So this is something that I had been doing
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for I guess, most of my life.
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I didn't even have a name to put to it
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until a few years ago.
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But you take the reins off
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and it's like, okay, let's call a spade a spade.
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This is what we're doing. So it kind of fell into that.
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But yeah, it's, you have to have a passion for it.
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And I think that one of the most outstanding individuals,
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he's called the human lie detector, he hates it
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because he thinks that humans are fallible, obviously.
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And he doesn't think that he's
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correct a hundred percent of the time.
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It's Paul Eckman from the Paul Eckman Yeah. Project.
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And I am in his, uh, course.
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And I've been brushing up on the micro expressions
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because even though I've been doing this for years,
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there's still new things that are coming out
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and people are still evolving.
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So this, what is the little thing
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that you could possibly miss?
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A macro expression last two to five seconds,
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a micro expression is one 25th of a second
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because you're trying to conceal
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what it is you're actually feeling,
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and that that is a baseline. Do you get what I'm saying?
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Yeah. Okay. But it's just like you have to, if you want
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to do that, you have to, I mean, wouldn't you have
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to look very intensely
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and closely to somebody when they talk? Whatcha Are you
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Talking about loss?
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Yeah, something like that. Yeah.
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Like really intense staring at someone
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and to try to pick up things.
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Or are they repeating the same micro, uh, expression over
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and over again at certain point? The more,
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The more that you do it, the more easy it becomes.
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So in talking with you
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or anybody, I'm just talking to you normal,
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but my visual of you,
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it's becoming more attuned, more aware.
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I'm picking up all of your mannerisms, all of your features,
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even the way that you nod your head back, even the way
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that you flare your nostrils.
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Mm-hmm. Because you, you're very generous.
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And that's something that, again,
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you don't really necessarily see unless you're humanitarian
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and you happen to be.
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And the thing is, you'll give people whatever it is
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that you can give at a time, if they genuinely do need it,
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almost to a fault, you've had to pull yourself back
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because it can get to a detrimental point for you.
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And I think that you have a higher ranking of when to quit
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for yourself, and you don't necessarily know
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when to quit in the past.
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Now I think you have a better handle on it. Mm-hmm.
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But, uh, it would actually get to the point
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of sebs suffering.
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So you had to re that back in. Is that fair to say?
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Yeah. In the past I, like, I was,
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I was depleting myself. Yeah,
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Yeah. No.
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So you, you are a walking storyteller
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and you don't even realize that everything
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that you have done, everything that you've gone through,
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every which way that you have felt, even though you try
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and conceal it and you can conceal it, for the most part,
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it's gonna come out because your story wants to be told.
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The thing is, you are somebody who's highly influential
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with the people around you
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because you want to help so many people, you want
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to help them and turn their lives around.
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And that's where your key point is.
24:23
You can't be as infiltrating as you are
24:27
unless you are that intention.
24:30
Does that make sense?
24:32
Well, I don't want to be infiltrating,
24:35
I mean this in a positive way. Yeah.
24:37
You Will see where somebody is griping with something.
24:41
You're not going to invade them. No.
24:43
But you're going to be able to get into the nook
24:45
and cranny, show 'em their safety
24:47
and power it and pull them out. Yeah.
24:50
I did that before. I was like,
24:52
like telling them the solution to things.
24:55
I'm not doing that anymore.
24:57
No. They'll find the solution on their own, but Yeah.
24:59
Yeah. You're going to show them where the door is.
25:01
Like, Hey, yeah. Look,
25:03
can you turn the knob like this? Yeah. You can go in.
25:06
You might want to, you might want to look that direction.
25:10
These eggs hidden in plain sight. Yeah. Yeah.
25:13
It's, it's absolutely amazing. So
25:17
That's what I love about this work.
25:19
Oh God. Yeah. But also, let me tell you, as you evolve,
25:24
you as Seb, whoever is watching this, as you evolve,
25:28
as you age, even your face is going
25:30
to change from your experience.
25:31
So if you have, like, say,
25:33
a really strong prominent brow bone or cheekbones,
25:37
or a really long pointy nose, the more that you act
25:41
or behave in a certain way, that feature is gonna change.
25:45
Your nose is never gonna stop growing.
25:47
But you can mitigate like the expression of it.
25:50
And this is not gonna happen overnight.
25:52
We're talking years
25:53
and we're talking other features that are gonna have
25:55
to override that to have a different expression in that.
25:58
And your brows, like, they might become more smooth,
26:02
they might become more sparse or more nodded,
26:05
but it's going to change in time.
26:08
So where you may have been high strung
26:10
before, you may have learned to relax,
26:12
and now you have more relaxed features, more soft
26:15
and rounded features.
26:16
You're a guy who gets the facts,
26:18
but you're also a guy who gets so many of the facts,
26:21
unless you manicure them, it's going to invite chaos.
26:24
And I feel like chaos has been a prominent thing.
26:27
And if you want to mitigate that, it's said in, um,
26:31
like the features and everything like that.
26:34
If you can manicure that, then you can, uh, start
26:37
to change the portrayal of chaos in
26:40
that it's gonna be micro at first,
26:42
but like everything else, it's a personal evolution.
26:46
So it's, again, you are a constant evolutionary story,
26:51
and you are never going
26:52
to be the same person in the next minute.
26:55
You're, we're not
26:57
who we were five minutes ago for God's sakes. Well,
27:00
Always changing change is the only
27:02
constant is you say yes.
27:04
Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Um, I, how do, how do we,
27:09
I'm I, I'm, I'm a guy.
27:11
I, I, yeah. Don't wear makeup, uh, naturally.
27:14
Uh, I know some, some guys start doing that, but, uh, yeah.
27:18
Like, how is that with, with women?
27:19
How do you do face with, uh, face with a woman that's, uh,
27:24
that says, uh, lots of makeup or clocks their eyebrows.
27:28
Maybe they have a, maybe they have a uni
27:30
brow, but it's all gone. Yeah,
27:32
I had a uni brow when I was younger.
27:33
Okay. So first off, my 19-year-old,
27:36
my son Richie, he wears skyliner.
27:38
He's in his goth face.
27:39
And I'm just like, okay, I see,
27:42
I see my young son right there,
27:43
and he's trying to be this, you know,
27:47
he's going through a goth stage.
27:48
And then, you know,
27:50
he's all about like this edgy spiky look.
27:53
Um, but safer, like women who have eye makeup.
27:58
I used to do the cat's eyes, and I still do sometimes,
28:01
but eyeliner emphasizing this, emphasizing, especially
28:04
with the colors that you could use,
28:06
when we are looking at our eyelashes, sparse eyelashes,
28:10
they just want the de they just want
28:12
the detailed facts right there.
28:14
They don't wanna mess around.
28:15
They don't wanna fluff around emotions.
28:17
And again, look at the other features to see
28:19
how this marries with that personality type.
28:22
But if somebody has lush eyebrows or eye eyelash extensions,
28:27
and they have like a very thick eyelash going on,
28:30
this is somebody who's trying
28:31
to seem more softened and welcoming.
28:34
So you marry that with
28:36
somebody who's maybe wearing this heavy accented eye makeup,
28:40
this is going to show that you can be massively intense,
28:44
but also you don't want that person to be afraid.
28:47
You wanna show that you are welcoming,
28:48
but you're also not gonna be taking crap either.
28:51
And when we have really thin,
28:53
like say you have pencil thin eyebrows, me,
28:56
I don't have pencil thin,
28:57
but, um, if you have like pencil thin eyebrows,
29:01
and I'm not even talking about the angles on that yet.
29:04
This is somebody who really does care about
29:06
what other people think about them,
29:08
how they feel about them.
29:09
They wanna, um, change their behavior
29:12
to be more accepted by that.
29:14
If you have a really thick, prominent, hairy eyebrow,
29:19
you are very self-aware.
29:21
You know who you are, you know what you're capable of,
29:23
and you're putting your foot down.
29:24
It's a very masculine, not gender oriented,
29:27
but masculine quality to have.
29:29
Thank you. Yeah. If,
29:31
if you have really sharp angled eyebrows,
29:34
that's a very intense person who has to be right.
29:38
They have to be right. They're not going
29:40
to say something if they're going
29:42
to feel like you're gonna get one over on them.
29:44
Rounded eyebrows is somebody who can be very courageous,
29:48
but also if you have, you know, thin,
29:50
but, uh, full eyebrows like this,
29:52
and if you have eyebrows that go to the end over here,
29:55
this is somebody who's very wi wise in,
29:58
has had certain experiences that have really shaped them
30:01
to be more calm
30:02
and kind of investigating in that situation,
30:06
depending on the colors that let's say a woman
30:08
or a man would use to color their eye, uh, their eyelash,
30:13
not eyebrows, sorry, not eyebrows, not eyelashes,
30:15
but the eyelids depending on that color, it's going
30:19
to emphasize in, um, that not only that person's demeanor,
30:24
but um, like if they say they have green, they're going
30:29
to be seen and seeing things
30:31
a little bit more compassionately.
30:33
If it's blue, it's a little bit more emotional,
30:36
maybe sometimes in the low vibes, it really depends.
30:40
But there's different, there's different shades of blue
30:42
and the red that is obviously intensity and passion.
30:46
So it really does matter, um,
30:50
how the features are interacting.
30:52
And then the colors that you choose to use
30:54
and the, uh, ways that you represent yourself.
30:57
If you're, say that your
31:00
eyes are open really wide like this,
31:02
like I have the white going over the top
31:05
and the bottom, this is, if somebody is walking
31:08
around this expression, then this is somebody who's walking
31:11
around with a heightened level of shock, wanting
31:14
to take everything in.
31:16
If somebody has these bulbous eye eyes
31:20
and they're standing out like that, even recessed, um,
31:24
this is somebody who doesn't wanna let people in
31:26
but wants to be included to investigate.
31:29
But if you have these outward eyes that are bulbous,
31:32
you wanna be included with everybody.
31:33
You wanna let people in, you wanna be seen,
31:36
you wanna interact.
31:37
And if they're recessed in,
31:39
and if they're small eyes, I mean, you're,
31:42
you're a fortress, you don't wanna let squat in.
31:45
And depending on how the eye lids sit,
31:48
either from the bottom
31:49
or the top, this is going to be either fear or anger
31:53
or just disinterest or disassociation.
31:57
But what I also love is the ears,
32:00
because the size of the ears
32:02
and the way that they sit is going to tell you a lot.
32:05
So you're not somebody who's a conformist,
32:08
and you're not somebody who is going
32:11
to just run all willy-nilly.
32:15
You're gonna conform when it is absolutely necessary
32:18
for a very specific purpose,
32:20
and it's usually gonna work out for the best.
32:22
But if somebody is really closed in ears, like really close
32:25
to the head, you can't see them.
32:27
If you're looking straight, this is somebody
32:29
who's gonna go in.
32:30
In more cases, again,
32:31
look at the other features with the Joneses.
32:34
If you have ears that are sticking out, you're going
32:37
to be somebody who is very unique, marches to the beat
32:41
of their own drum and kinda, um,
32:45
can't be contained, but also pay attention to the inner ear
32:49
because this protrudes out.
32:52
And if, if it protrudes out,
32:53
then this is somebody who's going to listen
32:55
to their inner voice rather than everyone else.
32:58
And it also matters which side of the ear this is going on,
33:01
because both ears are different.
33:03
If somebody has
33:05
Yeah, I'm, I'm just surprised now.
33:07
Yeah, I'm learning so much. Go on
33:10
Again. It's,
33:11
it's, it's, you have to love it.
33:13
You have to have a passion, has to be obsessive.
33:16
So like, if this internal ear is pushed in,
33:19
let's say on this side, I'm gonna listen to
33:21
what everybody's telling me
33:23
because for whatever reason, I mean,
33:25
it could be either I think they know more than me,
33:27
or it's just, I wanna be able to fit in,
33:30
or this is gonna get me ahead.
33:31
There could be various reasons, not just those three.
33:34
But if it's on this side,
33:36
and this is my intimate circle, this is the feminine side,
33:39
again, not equating to gender, then
33:41
what this is gonna tell me is you are going to be listening
33:45
to what your intimate circle says
33:47
because, uh, for, again, for whatever reason,
33:49
maybe you have more respect for what they have to say than
33:53
what your own, than what your words are.
33:54
But it doesn't always work out like that.
33:56
Maybe you wanna create a sense of comradery with them.
34:00
But if you have a really prominent ear
34:04
and it's has that inner ear sticking out,
34:07
you're gonna still listen to everybody.
34:08
You are, you're gonna listen to everybody,
34:11
but it's not gonna trump your own inner monologue
34:13
and your inner knowing to make either a decision
34:15
or take an action.
34:17
But if you have like, all right, moving from the ears,
34:21
and if a ear is leaning back, you think outside of the box.
34:25
But if you have an ear that is sitting upright,
34:27
what this is going to tell me is
34:29
that you have a more linear way of thinking.
34:32
You're going to look at all the different boxes,
34:34
you're gonna look at all the criteria,
34:36
all the grids and everything like that.
34:38
But the slanted back here again, look at the other features
34:41
and how that marries with them.
34:43
It's going to be like, okay, I see this,
34:46
but what's going on over here about this?
34:48
How can I get this all to connect the lips?
34:52
Now, if we look at the lips, a big mouth, a big wide mouth,
34:57
that is gonna be somebody who is going to be very social.
35:01
They're going to be very outgoing if they have thin lips.
35:05
It really depends on the type of, if a lip is, um,
35:09
rolling inwards, then this is somebody who is very reserved,
35:13
can spot somebody's agenda a mile away,
35:15
and they're waiting, waiting to cast their chips in on that.
35:19
If you have big full lips,
35:21
this is talking about being highly emotional.
35:24
And the more wrinkles that you have like
35:26
that create these little crevices in the lips,
35:29
the more prominent those are, the more emotionally, um, uh,
35:34
what's the word I'm looking for?
35:36
Um, the more emotional input you, I guess you try
35:39
to have in other people's lives.
35:41
But there's also a deep line that can go
35:44
through the lips over here.
35:46
And what this is talking about is being the
35:48
entertainer of the group.
35:50
So if you have a small mouth,
35:52
you're gonna be a little bit more reserved,
35:54
you're gonna be a little bit more, uh, reclusive there.
35:59
That's kind of the word that I wanted to use.
36:02
And the smaller that your lips are, the more
36:05
that you are just going to be less, well, the more
36:08
that you're going to be less saying or outgoing
36:11
or talking people inviting 'em in.
36:14
And again, look at the shape of them to see what it is.
36:17
If you have these little dips over here,
36:20
more likely than not, you are going to be the secret keeper.
36:24
You are a walking diary,
36:26
who knows the most unexpected things about people
36:29
and groups of people or whatever that is.
36:32
If we have these deep lines over here,
36:35
these are talking about our hidden emotions, the repression
36:39
that we do, and going into dimples,
36:41
the charm aspects that we have.
36:43
And those can fall into the lines over here.
36:45
There's so many nooks and crannies
36:47
and even the way that your face crinkles when you smile,
36:50
the lines that come up here, the way
36:52
that your moles sit on your face
36:54
or even freckles, all of that.
36:57
It tells a story.
36:59
And there are no two faces that are exactly alike.
37:02
And I don't care if you're an identical twin, that like the,
37:07
the skin prints that you have on yourself are going to be
37:10
as different as a thumbprint, so that you're going
37:14
to be having a different story and a different perspective.
37:17
There are no two perspectives on the planet in the way
37:19
that we all direct, which is why we need
37:22
to have more empathy and understanding
37:24
and compassion and effort.
37:27
Does that make sense? Yeah.
37:29
Funny with the twins as well,
37:31
because they start out being identical
37:34
and once they get separated
37:36
and live, start their own lives, they change mm-hmm.
37:39
Physically as well. And I reckon the face as well, they're,
37:42
they look similar, but differences are
37:45
getting more and more.
37:47
Oh, absolutely. Absolutely.
37:50
And, um, and different aspects can start to grow.
37:54
And even twin faces, like you have one to win,
37:57
who can maybe have like a blank slate of a face,
38:00
and the other one starts to have all these like little
38:02
cherry moles or these little moles or these freckles
38:05
or these divots that, uh, you know, start to show up on it,
38:08
that's gonna start to tell a slight difference.
38:11
And none of it is inherently bad.
38:13
I mean, there are certain features
38:15
that a person can carry on their face,
38:17
which really does talk about like repressed, uh, feelings
38:21
that may not be so positive, like rage, even
38:25
if somebody has a big development over here
38:28
and it kind of triangulates over here, that is somebody
38:31
who has the most unbreakable willpower for God knows
38:36
what at the point in time.
38:38
But the more that we have a puffiness around our eyes,
38:41
as long as you don't have a medical condition, again,
38:44
there's, it's not everything is,
38:46
not everything is in exact science on this,
38:48
trust me, I'm very aware of that.
38:49
But studies that they have done
38:51
inconsistency have shown these traits show this.
38:56
If you have huge puff covers on the eyes
38:59
and on the under eyes, this is talking about somebody
39:02
who could have a lot of repressed rage
39:07
or I, I do wanna stick with rage on this.
39:09
And I've seen people who have the repressed, you know,
39:13
that huge puffiness going on,
39:15
and when you see their wrath, it is frightening.
39:20
And I mean, they can talk themselves off a ledge.
39:23
These aren't things that are going to be a walking,
39:26
you know, death trap or anything like that.
39:29
A person can learn to control
39:30
and mitigate their expression of it,
39:33
but it's going to take time.
39:35
And that's where the kind of wisdom comes in.
39:37
Like you have, if I look at your face for wisdom, you carry
39:40
that in your eyebrows because they go all the way out
39:42
to here and there's something that is very soft and warm,
39:47
but you still take no crap.
39:49
I'm just gonna put that out there, Seb.
39:51
Yep. So there's so much that goes into face rating,
39:55
but it always leads to micro expressions, body language,
39:59
and that it's, it's a floodgate that you just have to love.
40:03
You know what I'm saying?
40:06
I think what will be interesting
40:08
with the AI things coming up as well, like you, you how real
40:14
AI becomes, you still see
40:17
by facial expressions of the AI
40:20
that it's not the human being.
40:21
Mm-hmm. Artificially, you, you still notice it.
40:24
I think we are picking up on that, uh, as, as human beings,
40:29
like, yeah, yeah, this look very real.
40:32
But there's some things off.
40:34
And I think what you're talking about,
40:35
like those micro expressions, that sort of things we, we,
40:39
we pick up on that, even if we're not focused on it
40:42
or aware of it, we, unc subconsciously we,
40:45
we pick it up like there's something off here.
40:47
Mm-hmm. Some, some things aren't, aren't completely
40:50
as I'm used to, to seeing when talk to a real human being.
40:54
So I, I, I think this is, this is going
40:57
to be very interesting as well for people in general
40:59
who also want to maybe
41:01
or interested in, um, in, um, in stuff like, okay,
41:06
how can I see
41:08
or train myself in, in, in, in looking at videos
41:11
and saying, okay, this is an AI person
41:14
And you're gonna have to look at all
41:16
the little fine tuned things.
41:17
Yeah. And what I have noticed,
41:18
because AI is getting a lot harder
41:20
to recognize even now in the months that it's passed, um,
41:25
there's a certain polish that kind of goes over
41:28
and a certain angle to it
41:30
where it is the most ridiculous angle in the most
41:33
ridiculous position.
41:35
And these people are having, like, it's polished,
41:38
but they're having this weird interaction
41:41
that makes no sense. Yeah.
41:43
Yeah. If I can make a suggestion,
41:46
if you really wanna see some ridiculous AI just
41:49
to have a good, what the heck laugh, look at Sora,
41:52
like, what the heck is that?
41:54
Oh yeah. You'll see cats using machine guns,
41:56
and it's like, I guess that works.
41:58
Yeah, sure. This is an AI
42:01
Can be great strong, but we have to be mindful
42:03
of how we use it as well.
42:05
Oh, oh God. Yeah. Yeah.
42:07
But it's, it's a tool, uh,
42:09
and we have to, to make sure we know how
42:12
to use it in the best possible way for good, uh, instead of,
42:16
uh, of bad.
42:18
Um, this is, this was so enormously interesting
42:23
and such a floodgate with information
42:24
and it, I wish I had a notepad
42:27
and just write things down as well,
42:28
but of course we have to recording so we can always
42:32
look it back step by step.
42:34
Uh, is this something you're going to put as a course
42:37
or a workshop on your page? On page?
42:40
Um, I'm gonna be working on developing the course, yes.
42:44
But also, um, I do have private reads for people
42:47
where they could actually just have me do this for them.
42:51
But also, um, with the Patreon,
42:54
I was thinking about taking non copyright stuff
42:57
or having people either donate material
43:00
and having me dissect it and giving their feedback
43:02
and showing them how to do it themselves.
43:05
Awesome. Well, looking forward to that.
43:09
And, uh, I hope we have, uh, we have your link ready mm-hmm.
43:13
In time to put it on this video. Uh, I want to wrap it up.
43:16
It was a, a, a great joy listening to you. Thank you.
43:20
And I, I noticed myself becoming more when looking at your
43:24
facial expressions as well, trying
43:27
to understand who is Aaron?
43:29
Oh, God. And I'm sure, I'm sure tomorrow when I meet, uh,
43:32
meet customers and clients
43:33
that I will be looking at their face
43:35
and they may be thinking, what are you looking at?
43:38
What's the story that you're telling?
43:39
What are you trying to not tell me?
43:41
And this is, okay, I got you.
43:44
Yeah, no, it's, it's a lot of fun.
43:46
And again, you really, yeah.
43:47
Once you do it, you're not, not doing it.
43:50
And my significant other, he'll look at people
43:53
and he'll be like, what does their face say?
43:54
And I'm like, it says I want french fries, come on.
44:01
But it's, it's, it's fun and it's a, it's great.
44:05
So once you do it, it's just, it's gonna pick up.
44:09
Yeah. Yeah.
44:10
And that's, it's, it's, it's not only interesting,
44:13
it's great fun as well.
44:14
It's fun to do and, and experiment with.
44:16
And I mean, like, you talk about the ears, the mouth,
44:21
and especially the eyes and eyebrows.
44:23
I mean, there's so many combinations there of course. Right.
44:27
So it's, it's like, it's a never ending story.
44:29
People and, and the people are unique. Mm-hmm.
44:32
And I guess, and I, and I'm guessing right now from
44:34
what you've told me, like you can read that uniqueness
44:38
from their facial expression from how they, how they Yeah.
44:42
Animate their face as well.
44:44
It really kind of flips over judging a book
44:46
by its cover, doesn't it? Yeah. Yeah.
44:49
Amazing. Yeah. Thank you so much for having me.
44:53
This was so much fun. Erin.
44:55
Uh, looking forward to it next time. Mm-hmm.
44:57
Uh, oh, well, let's not plan on any topics.
45:01
We'll see what comes up and, uh, it tends
45:03
Happen naturally. Yeah.
45:04
We originally wanted to talk about loneliness,
45:07
but we thought, nah,
45:08
with the holidays coming up and everything like that.
45:11
Let's do that some other time.
45:13
And, uh, let's, let's keep it lighthearted.
45:16
And this was perfect. So thank you so much, Erin,
45:18
for, for joining me.
45:19
Thank you everybody for watching and listening in.
45:22
Uh, thank so much for having me.
45:24
Just as exciting and interesting as, as I,
45:26
uh, I found this to be.
45:28
And, uh, yeah, of course.
45:30
Follow Erin, uh, all the socials are
45:34
underneath somewhere down here.
45:36
And, uh, and of course join her Patreon
45:39
as well when that, uh, that comes up.
45:42
Yep. I'll be working on that this week
45:43
because the old one got taken away with my old phone number,
45:47
so I had to start a new one,
45:48
but you guys will be getting that. Yay.
45:50
Yay. Alright. Thank you.
45:53
Okay, bye everyone. Take good care.
45:55
Have a great.