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Relational Injury. Episode 2. The Reckoning.
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Knowing something was wrong is one thing. Living with the truth once you finally see it is another. We dig into “the reckoning,” the phase after recognition where the mind stops being able to defend, minimize, or rationalize what happened and has to face psychological reality with clarity.
I talk through why so many people feel driven to confront the person who harmed them, and why that confrontation so often backfires. When someone lacks the capacity for accountability, they may deny, deflect, or flip into victim mode, and chasing “resolution” can deepen the wound. The focus…
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