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- 0:03SPEAKER_00: Hello and welcome to Living & Learning with Aundria McMillan Humphrey.
- 0:10SPEAKER_00: This is episode 42 and it's called A Day That Filled Me.
- 0:21SPEAKER_00: Welcome.
- 0:25SPEAKER_00: Some days leave you tired.
- 0:29SPEAKER_00: Some days leave you full.
- 0:33SPEAKER_00: And sometimes, if you're fortunate, you come home both, tired and full.
- 0:46SPEAKER_00: That was my Friday yesterday.
- 0:51SPEAKER_00: I spent the day in Leon with my friend Noe and a couple of other friends,
- 0:58SPEAKER_00: and I am still carrying the images The feelings, the sheer wonder of it.
- 1:07SPEAKER_00: When I began writing down what I loved about our trip,
- 1:11SPEAKER_00: the first thing on my list wasn't an exhibit or a performance.
- 1:17SPEAKER_00: It was spending the day with Noe.
- 1:24SPEAKER_00: Our easy connective energy, no drama, just flow.
- 1:32SPEAKER_00: There is something so nourishing about being with someone whose company allows you
- 1:38SPEAKER_00: to settle into yourself.
- 1:41SPEAKER_00: You can enjoy what's in front of you without having to manage the experience.
- 1:47SPEAKER_00: The day can unfold and you can unfold with it.
- 1:54SPEAKER_00: And that's what happened.
- 1:59SPEAKER_00: We enjoyed a Oaxacan breakfast in the cutest little restaurant,
- 2:04SPEAKER_00: all things Oaxacan, colorful and delightful.
- 2:08SPEAKER_00: Even our breakfast became part of the adventure.
- 2:13SPEAKER_00: Then there was our earthing walk through the sculpture garden
- 2:20SPEAKER_00: at the University
- 2:22SPEAKER_00: of Guanajuato, that huge open plaza.
- 2:29SPEAKER_00: But grass,
- 2:32SPEAKER_00: barefoot on the ground,
- 2:36SPEAKER_00: trees reaching for the sky,
- 2:39SPEAKER_00: Leonora Carrington's towering sculpture, Tamborilera, sharing that expansive space.
- 2:51SPEAKER_00: I loved being there.
- 2:53SPEAKER_00: Art, earth, trees, and us moving through it all.
- 3:00SPEAKER_00: There were so many things asking for our attention,
- 3:03SPEAKER_00: and we had given ourselves a day to pay attention.
- 3:08SPEAKER_00: That alone felt like a gift, particularly for me, who tend to work a lot.
- 3:17SPEAKER_00: One particular exhibition moved me so deeply,
- 3:23SPEAKER_00: Bottles for Tears, inaugurated by writer Jennifer Clement.
- 3:33SPEAKER_00: It honors writers and journalists who have been persecuted,
- 3:39SPEAKER_00: exiled, imprisoned, or murdered for their use of words.
- 3:45SPEAKER_00: People whose freedom to speak came at an unimaginable cost.
- 3:53SPEAKER_00: As someone who writes and shares her thoughts with the world,
- 3:58SPEAKER_00: I could not pass through that experience lightly.
- 4:04SPEAKER_00: I kept thinking about what it means to have a voice,
- 4:08SPEAKER_00: to use it,
- 4:09SPEAKER_00: to try to silence another person's voice,
- 4:14SPEAKER_00: and the importance of safeguarding the memory of those who refused
- 4:20SPEAKER_00: to surrender theirs.
- 4:26SPEAKER_00: A day can hold delight and sorrow.
- 4:30SPEAKER_00: Beauty can invite us closer to something painful enough that we might otherwise turn away.
- 4:38SPEAKER_00: This exhibition stayed with me.
- 4:42SPEAKER_00: And then there was the sky.
- 4:46SPEAKER_00: Well, first of all, it was an exquisitely beautiful day.
- 4:50SPEAKER_00: But here,
- 4:51SPEAKER_00: three artists performing high above us on flexible poles,
- 4:57SPEAKER_00: even now, I wish I could bring you directly into that moment.
- 5:03SPEAKER_00: Imagine black costumes with swirling skirts against the bluest sky,
- 5:09SPEAKER_00: oceans of cumulus clouds shifting from white to dark gray,
- 5:15SPEAKER_00: music moving through a constellation of moods.
- 5:21SPEAKER_00: At times, it seemed as though the clouds themselves were listening.
- 5:27SPEAKER_00: And those performers,
- 5:29SPEAKER_00: their precise movements,
- 5:31SPEAKER_00: their coordination,
- 5:32SPEAKER_00: the extraordinary confidence, the poles bent, the artists moved with them.
- 5:42SPEAKER_00: And then clear plastic became part of those energetic, whirling dances in the air.
- 5:50SPEAKER_00: Such an extraordinary experience using ordinary material Transformed
- 5:58SPEAKER_00: through movement and light into something mesmerizing,
- 6:03SPEAKER_00: magical, aesthetically beautiful.
- 6:08SPEAKER_00: I watched, breathless.
- 6:12SPEAKER_00: The daring, the confidence, the trust.
- 6:17SPEAKER_00: Of course, I was witnessing practice skill.
- 6:20SPEAKER_00: I cannot imagine the hours of preparation behind those movements.
- 6:25SPEAKER_00: But what reached me sitting there Looking up was an exquisite demonstration of
- 6:32SPEAKER_00: the freedom of soaring human spirits.
- 6:37SPEAKER_00: And I found myself thinking about trust.
- 6:40SPEAKER_00: The trust involved in moving with something that bends high up in the air off the ground.
- 6:51SPEAKER_00: The willingness to leave a familiar position.
- 6:54SPEAKER_00: Knowing that the next movement requires your participation before you can arrive there.
- 7:03SPEAKER_00: We encounter our own versions of that, don't we?
- 7:07SPEAKER_00: Speaking something we have held inside.
- 7:11SPEAKER_00: Trying something we don't yet know how to do.
- 7:14SPEAKER_00: Allowing ourselves to be seen.
- 7:17SPEAKER_00: Making room for an experience without knowing exactly what it will bring.
- 7:25SPEAKER_00: I'm certainly not planning to climb a flexible pole,
- 7:29SPEAKER_00: let alone do that kind of dance in the air.
- 7:35SPEAKER_00: Let me make that perfectly clear,
- 7:37SPEAKER_00: although I did think a minute about what it might be like to be up there.
- 7:45SPEAKER_00: But I want to keep room and keep making room for wonder.
- 7:51SPEAKER_00: I want to remain available To a day that moves me.
- 7:56SPEAKER_00: To companionship that feels easy.
- 7:59SPEAKER_00: To art that asks something of me.
- 8:01SPEAKER_00: To beauty that sends my eyes upward and leaves me momentarily without words.
- 8:07SPEAKER_00: That is part of ageless living for me.
- 8:12SPEAKER_00: Continuing to participate.
- 8:14SPEAKER_00: Letting the world interest me.
- 8:17SPEAKER_00: Giving myself opportunities to discover something I didn't know I needed.
- 8:24SPEAKER_00: And there was one more thing.
- 8:26Ha!
- 8:28SPEAKER_00: I bought myself a great pair of walking boots.
- 8:31SPEAKER_00: I hadn't planned to.
- 8:33SPEAKER_00: I just saw them.
- 8:35SPEAKER_00: I was walking by and I thought, wow,
- 8:37SPEAKER_00: those would be perfect for walking in San Miguel de Allende
- 8:41SPEAKER_00: on our cobblestone streets.
- 8:44SPEAKER_00: Because apparently after a day of bare feet on the earth and my eyes in the sky,
- 8:51SPEAKER_00: I still needed something practical to bring home.
- 8:56SPEAKER_00: And there is more walking to do.
- 8:59SPEAKER_00: So much more to see.
- 9:01SPEAKER_00: Perhaps that's the invitation I want to leave with you today.
- 9:07SPEAKER_00: What would fill you?
- 9:08SPEAKER_00: What would fill you?
- 9:12SPEAKER_00: Not your calendar, but you.
- 9:16SPEAKER_00: A little companionship?
- 9:19SPEAKER_00: A change of scenery?
- 9:21SPEAKER_00: Something beautiful perhaps?
- 9:23SPEAKER_00: Something that makes you stop and look again?
- 9:26SPEAKER_00: I came home with images I can hardly wait to share.
- 9:36SPEAKER_00: New boots and gratitude for a day spent with a friend.
- 9:43SPEAKER_00: A day that filled me to the brim.
- 9:52SPEAKER_00: This has been Living & Learning with Aundria McMillan Humphrey.
- 9:57SPEAKER_00: I know this one is a little long,
- 10:00SPEAKER_00: but I could not stop myself from sharing as much of that spectacular day with you
- 10:08SPEAKER_00: as possible.
- 10:10SPEAKER_00: Thank you for listening and I will be here again next week as usual on Monday
- 10:19SPEAKER_00: and I hope I will have you here with me.