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- 0:00Speaker 1: My name's Tatasha Bamblet. I'm a proud First Nations woman
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- 0:45Speaker 2: She's on the Money. She's on the Money.
- 0:50Speaker 3: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast
- 0:53Speaker 3: where we discuss all issues affecting your personal wealth goals
- 0:56Speaker 3: so that you can feel more in control of your
- 0:58Speaker 3: financial future. I'm Victoria Devine, and today we'll be covering
- 1:02Speaker 3: a topic that's top of mind for many of you
- 1:05Speaker 3: in our community. I'm talking IVF baby, including what's involved
- 1:09Speaker 3: and what you should know about financing this life changing decision.
- 1:13Speaker 3: Joining me is a friend of the podcast, doctor Cole Hope,
- 1:17Speaker 3: who you might remember from our webinar on IVF and
- 1:20Speaker 3: egg freezing, the medical director at New Life IVF.
- 1:24Speaker 2: Doctor A.
- 1:24Speaker 3: Cole is a sought after fertility specialist helping people have
- 1:28Speaker 3: and grow their families for almost twenty years. Passionate about
- 1:32Speaker 3: supporting people to conceive doctorn, Cole is here to help
- 1:35Speaker 3: you make sure that you have all of the information
- 1:38Speaker 3: that you need before choosing the right fertility outcome for you.
- 1:42Speaker 3: And just a little preface on this conversation. This one
- 1:46Speaker 3: is quite a sensitive one. Whether you're unsure about having kids,
- 1:50Speaker 3: you're planning to start a family, or you're experiencing complex
- 1:53Speaker 3: fertility issues of your own, it can be all too
- 1:56Speaker 3: hard to talk about sometimes, and that is okay. I've
- 2:00Speaker 3: had my own issues with fertility and definitely had moments
- 2:03Speaker 3: where I had to tap out of conversations like this.
- 2:06Speaker 3: So please do exactly what is right for you. Just
- 2:09Speaker 3: know that we get it, and we encourage you to
- 2:12Speaker 3: take your time and listen back if and when you're ready. Otherwise,
- 2:16Speaker 3: my friends, let's get into it. Doctor Nicole, welcome back
- 2:19Speaker 3: to the show. It is so good to have you
- 2:21Speaker 3: in an official studio. Yes, last time we were just
- 2:25Speaker 3: were you at your house or you at your office?
- 2:27Speaker 2: We were at the office. Yeah, I was in my house, yep.
- 2:29Speaker 4: But it was a very very small office, lots of
- 2:32Speaker 4: equipment around.
- 2:33Speaker 2: So I love it for tightspace.
- 2:36Speaker 3: It was a really special conversation. And I obviously went
- 2:39Speaker 3: in having this conversation about fertility because the community had
- 2:43Speaker 3: had so many questions. But it was just so nice
- 2:46Speaker 3: talking to you. Not only are you incredibly intelligent, I
- 2:50Speaker 3: was like, this woman is a weapon. I was like,
- 2:52Speaker 3: she makes me so comfortable, Like you're a friend of
- 2:55Speaker 3: the show, please come back. I have been deep in
- 2:58Speaker 3: the dms on Instagram of the show. She's on the
- 3:00Speaker 3: money community, and I've been gathering all of your pressing
- 3:03Speaker 3: questions for our friend doctor Nicole, the medical director at
- 3:07Speaker 3: New Life IVF. So when we're thinking about IVF and
- 3:11Speaker 3: egg freezing, what is actually the difference there? Can you explain?
- 3:16Speaker 3: I guess the purpose and then the process of each
- 3:19Speaker 3: because some of our listeners have gone down a rabbit hole,
- 3:22Speaker 3: are confused or they haven't gone down the rabbit hole
- 3:25Speaker 3: and they've been avoiding it because everything is kind of
- 3:27Speaker 3: like analysis paralysis.
- 3:29Speaker 4: Sure, so they're actually very similar processes. But the crux
- 3:35Speaker 4: of it is when we do egg freezing, we are
- 3:38Speaker 4: just freezing eggs, but when we are doing IVF, we
- 3:42Speaker 4: are actually putting the eggs and sperm together to make embryos.
- 3:47Speaker 4: But in terms of the actual preparation for egg freezing
- 3:51Speaker 4: and IVF, women are doing injections to try and get
- 3:56Speaker 4: multiple eggs to grow. They are having some blood tests
- 3:59Speaker 4: and ultras sounds during that treatment to assess how they
- 4:03Speaker 4: are progressing and how many eggs are likely to be
- 4:07Speaker 4: collected at an egg collection, And usually they are on
- 4:11Speaker 4: injections for about ten days and most women are ready
- 4:15Speaker 4: to have their egg collection around day fourteen in their cycle.
- 4:21Speaker 4: If someone is doing egg freezing on that day that
- 4:24Speaker 4: the eggs are collected, that is when we will freeze
- 4:28Speaker 4: the eggs, and the eggs then can remain frozen until
- 4:32Speaker 4: the woman is ready to use those eggs. Now, that
- 4:36Speaker 4: may be that she comes back in a few years
- 4:39Speaker 4: with a partner who she wants to conceive with, or
- 4:43Speaker 4: it could be she is single and wants to do
- 4:47Speaker 4: this on her own and access donor sperm and inseminate
- 4:50Speaker 4: those eggs. But by freezing eggs, we can preserve a
- 4:54Speaker 4: woman's fertility at that age she was when she froze
- 4:58Speaker 4: the eggs. If a woman is having IVF, then that
- 5:04Speaker 4: means we need sperm available on the day and we
- 5:07Speaker 4: will inseminate the eggs and rather than just freezing the eggs,
- 5:12Speaker 4: we then grow or culture the embryos in the lab
- 5:16Speaker 4: for up to five or six days, and we only
- 5:19Speaker 4: freeze the embryos that have continued to grow and progress
- 5:24Speaker 4: and reach a certain stage of development. And so mostly
- 5:29Speaker 4: in terms of freezing embryos, people are usually doing IVF
- 5:34Speaker 4: when they have a partner who they are trying to
- 5:38Speaker 4: conceive with and maybe they have not had any success
- 5:41Speaker 4: or if they are actually have decided they want to
- 5:45Speaker 4: do this on their own and access stonor sperm, then
- 5:49Speaker 4: they might be doing IVF and creating embryos with sperm.
- 5:53Speaker 3: It's crazy to me that you can freeze, like just
- 5:56Speaker 3: the idea that you can preserve someone's fertility that age
- 6:00Speaker 3: is just so cool.
- 6:02Speaker 4: I just when I started out in IVF, we did
- 6:06Speaker 4: have egg freezing, but our freezing and throwing techniques were
- 6:10Speaker 4: not very good, and really it was something that was
- 6:14Speaker 4: just sort of put aside for women, for example, maybe
- 6:19Speaker 4: who had cancer and they needed to start chemotherapy and
- 6:23Speaker 4: we wanted to freeze eggs because chemotherapy can damage the
- 6:28Speaker 4: egg supply, But it was more of an emergency kind
- 6:32Speaker 4: of situation and the success rates were not that great.
- 6:37Speaker 4: But over the years, freezing and throwing techniques have really improved,
- 6:42Speaker 4: and now egg freezing is a really viable option, and ultimately,
- 6:48Speaker 4: until we come up with a way to reverse the
- 6:51Speaker 4: aging process, it's the best way to preserve fertility.
- 6:56Speaker 3: It is very cool, like just the whole concept of it.
- 7:00Speaker 3: When you became a doctor, was that something that you
- 7:02Speaker 3: were like, I really want to go down this route
- 7:04Speaker 3: of kind of you know, helping create life, helping create babies,
- 7:08Speaker 3: or was this something you discovered during the process. I'm
- 7:11Speaker 3: just so pervy because it's just so special.
- 7:15Speaker 4: I think I did always have an interest in this,
- 7:17Speaker 4: and when I was studying medicine, when I first applied
- 7:22Speaker 4: and started doing my training in obstetrics and gynecology, I
- 7:26Speaker 4: was thinking, I really hope I like this, because I
- 7:29Speaker 4: actually can't imagine anything else that.
- 7:31Speaker 3: I've actually worked it up in my head.
- 7:33Speaker 4: Yes, this is where I want to go. And look,
- 7:37Speaker 4: I was lucky enough during my training that I did
- 7:39Speaker 4: get exposed to working with fertility patients. And so once
- 7:45Speaker 4: I had that exposure, and it just confirmed that this
- 7:48Speaker 4: is something that I was really interested in, and yeah, it.
- 7:52Speaker 3: Was interesting and to pursue my passion one hundred percent.
- 7:56Speaker 3: And I was saying this to you off camera. We
- 7:58Speaker 3: did our webinar, and for those of you who haven't
- 8:00Speaker 3: listened to it, I'll put a link in the show
- 8:02Speaker 3: notes so that you can go back, because I've made
- 8:04Speaker 3: sure that we haven't doubled up on questions because I
- 8:06Speaker 3: was like, if I have her in front of me,
- 8:08Speaker 3: I'm not going to be asking the same things over
- 8:10Speaker 3: and over. But I just feel like you're the right
- 8:13Speaker 3: person for this role. Like you are so warm and
- 8:15Speaker 3: so friendly, and I can imagine if I was going
- 8:18Speaker 3: through a process of IVF, You're the type of person
- 8:21Speaker 3: I would want holding my hand. But that's a really
- 8:24Speaker 3: big decision to make, right, So, for couples who have
- 8:27Speaker 3: been trying to conceive for a little while, and it's
- 8:30Speaker 3: been a little bit challenging, when do you recommend that
- 8:33Speaker 3: they actually start looking into IVF? Because I remember when
- 8:37Speaker 3: it was hard for me. I remember saying to my husband,
- 8:40Speaker 3: are we meant to talk to someone about this? Or
- 8:43Speaker 3: like do we just try for a few more months?
- 8:45Speaker 3: Or like what does this look like? Or are we
- 8:48Speaker 3: meant to do like preliminary fatility testing?
- 8:52Speaker 2: What do we do? Yeah?
- 8:53Speaker 4: Well, look, to be honest, I think if you were
- 8:57Speaker 4: worried and it's creating anxiety, it's quite reasonable to see
- 9:02Speaker 4: your GP, get a referral to see a fertility specialist.
- 9:06Speaker 4: And when you see the fertility specialists, they should be
- 9:10Speaker 4: ordering some baseline investigations That could include like hormone tests
- 9:16Speaker 4: to confirm that you're ovulating, a pelvic ultra sound to
- 9:20Speaker 4: check that there's nothing physical that might be interfering with
- 9:24Speaker 4: getting pregnant. If you're in a heterosexual relationship, checking your
- 9:28Speaker 4: partner's sperm to make sure that's okay. And so, just
- 9:33Speaker 4: because you make an appointment with a fertility specialist, it
- 9:37Speaker 4: doesn't mean that you're necessarily going to be doing IVF
- 9:40Speaker 4: next month. They would initially organize all these tests, and
- 9:44Speaker 4: sometimes there may actually be something that you can treat
- 9:48Speaker 4: without doing IVF. So, for example, if someone does have
- 9:53Speaker 4: an issue with ovulation, there are hormone medications to assist
- 9:58Speaker 4: with that. And so for some women, if you can
- 10:01Speaker 4: just get them to ovulate, they will get pregnant.
- 10:04Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and that's quite cool exactly.
- 10:08Speaker 4: So I would say, even though I do have a
- 10:10Speaker 4: lot of patients doing IVF, I also have a lot
- 10:13Speaker 4: of patients who are doing what we call ovulation induction
- 10:17Speaker 4: and getting pregnant naturally.
- 10:19Speaker 2: How cool. Not everyone has to go to IVF.
- 10:22Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's nice to know that there are lots
- 10:24Speaker 3: of different options and it's not just Okay, I'm going
- 10:27Speaker 3: to go down this route and it's going to get
- 10:29Speaker 3: real serious really quickly, because that can be overwhelming. Yes,
- 10:33Speaker 3: I have a question because whenever I've needed to go
- 10:36Speaker 3: to the GP to get a referral to a specialist,
- 10:39Speaker 3: I haven't necessarily known who I needed to see. I've
- 10:42Speaker 3: always gone, oh, I need to see a doctor for
- 10:44Speaker 3: there's more complex issue, and my GP says I'll refer
- 10:47Speaker 3: you out. Barry down the road has a good reputation.
- 10:51Speaker 3: But I feel like with fertility, I maybe have a
- 10:55Speaker 3: different experience to other people. So I'm only talking from
- 10:58Speaker 3: my I guess my my own experiences here. But before
- 11:02Speaker 3: I even spoke to a GP, and thankfully I didn't
- 11:05Speaker 3: need to go down this route, I googled everything. I
- 11:07Speaker 3: was looking at all the different clinics. I was looking
- 11:10Speaker 3: at what other people were doing and how they were
- 11:12Speaker 3: doing it. How do you or do you have a
- 11:15Speaker 3: list of things that people could look out for when
- 11:18Speaker 3: looking for a clinic, because it's not for me. It
- 11:21Speaker 3: didn't feel like something where I would go to my
- 11:23Speaker 3: GP and just go hey, could you just give me
- 11:25Speaker 3: a random referral? Like it's so important to pick the
- 11:28Speaker 3: right clinic.
- 11:29Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 11:29Speaker 4: Absolutely, And I think it's really difficult for patients to
- 11:33Speaker 4: navigate the information that's out there if you are looking
- 11:38Speaker 4: at an IVF clinic. Most IVF clinics on their website,
- 11:42Speaker 4: they will advertise, for example, the cost of their treatment,
- 11:47Speaker 4: but unfortunately for some clinics, there are lots of additional
- 11:52Speaker 4: costs that maybe are not always on their website. At
- 11:56Speaker 4: New Life IVF where I work, our costs are and
- 12:00Speaker 4: really quite inclusive. And what I mean by inclusive is
- 12:05Speaker 4: they include the fees of the doctor during an IVF cycle.
- 12:10Speaker 4: They include actually freezing the eggs or freezing embryos during
- 12:14Speaker 4: your treatment. They include extra lab techniques that we consider
- 12:19Speaker 4: best practice, like using an embryoscope or using embryo glue.
- 12:24Speaker 2: When we do an embryo.
- 12:26Speaker 3: Embryo glue, yes, that's a thing.
- 12:29Speaker 2: It is a thing.
- 12:30Speaker 4: There is evidence that it can help improve the chance
- 12:33Speaker 4: of an embryo in plant cool And with some clinics,
- 12:37Speaker 4: they may actually charge an extra fee for using that glue,
- 12:41Speaker 4: and that may not be actually included in the fees
- 12:45Speaker 4: that they advertise.
- 12:47Speaker 3: And that's disheartening because you go to someone and yes,
- 12:50Speaker 3: there's a very big financial side, but there's also an
- 12:53Speaker 3: even bigger emotional.
- 12:54Speaker 2: Side, that's exactly and to.
- 12:56Speaker 3: Then be slapping on additional costs and feeling like, oh,
- 12:59Speaker 3: I didn't see that coming. Oh I didn't see that coming.
- 13:01Speaker 3: I think it shakes the trust you have with.
- 13:03Speaker 2: Your provider, really does.
- 13:04Speaker 4: Yeah, And you know, one of the things when I
- 13:08Speaker 4: heard that some clinics were doing this, it just blew
- 13:11Speaker 4: my mind because some clinics, you go through a whole
- 13:14Speaker 4: IVF cycle and then they'll say, well, if you want
- 13:17Speaker 4: to freeze your excess embryos, there's an extra cost you
- 13:21Speaker 4: have to pay. And we have always just routinely included
- 13:25Speaker 4: freezing embryos as because the treatment, that's part of the treatment.
- 13:29Speaker 4: And then obviously if someone's got a lot of embryos
- 13:32Speaker 4: to freeze, then having to sort of make a decision about, oh,
- 13:37Speaker 4: can I actually afford to freeze the embryos I've made,
- 13:40Speaker 4: or can I afford to freeze.
- 13:41Speaker 2: All of them?
- 13:42Speaker 4: So these are things that are not going to be
- 13:46Speaker 4: advertised on the website that you do have to look at.
- 13:50Speaker 4: I think as well, like what you were saying about
- 13:53Speaker 4: the emotional cost, IVF definitely is a bit of a
- 13:57Speaker 4: roller coaster ride, and for someone it's really straightforward, especially
- 14:02Speaker 4: if they get pregnant on a first attempt or such.
- 14:06Speaker 3: A wily both emotionally and also financially.
- 14:09Speaker 2: That this is exactly right.
- 14:11Speaker 4: And so one of the things that I do suggest
- 14:14Speaker 4: people do is look at the success rates of the
- 14:18Speaker 4: clinic that they're looking at. So there is a website
- 14:22Speaker 4: called your IVF success dot com dot aut In the
- 14:26Speaker 4: show notes, this website is funded by the Australian government
- 14:30Speaker 4: and all IVF clinics in Australia are invited to provide
- 14:35Speaker 4: their results and so on this website you can go
- 14:38Speaker 4: through and there's like IVF success rate calculated, so you
- 14:42Speaker 4: can enter your details and it will give you some
- 14:45Speaker 4: idea about the overall average chance of getting pregnant per
- 14:49Speaker 4: IVF cycle, but it will also show you each individual
- 14:53Speaker 4: clinic and you can look at their success rates.
- 14:56Speaker 2: That's so good, and.
- 14:58Speaker 4: This is really important because if a clinic may advertise
- 15:03Speaker 4: cheaper costs, but if their success rates are lower.
- 15:09Speaker 2: Round exactly, yeah, wow.
- 15:11Speaker 4: And then there's the emotional costs that go with that
- 15:14Speaker 4: because obviously the longer it takes to get pregnant, it's
- 15:18Speaker 4: a difficult process, and so ideally you want to get
- 15:23Speaker 4: pregnant as soon as you can from an emotional point
- 15:26Speaker 4: of view and also from a financial point of view.
- 15:29Speaker 3: Yeah, and we're trying to balance both of these things
- 15:31Speaker 3: as well. My goodness, I didn't know that website existed
- 15:35Speaker 3: and it makes me so happy it does, because when
- 15:38Speaker 3: I was looking for things like this, you relying on
- 15:41Speaker 3: Google reviews, yes, and people are incredibly emotional, so you
- 15:46Speaker 3: can't really rely on that when it comes down to
- 15:50Speaker 3: like the bad stuff versus the good stuff. Obviously fantastic,
- 15:54Speaker 3: but just the idea that you can look at success
- 15:56Speaker 3: rates and have more of a tangible measure of okay, well,
- 16:00Speaker 3: going to a place that is really good at what
- 16:02Speaker 3: they do, and I feel quite validated in that, yes,
- 16:05Speaker 3: and spending money there. What kind of cost are we
- 16:09Speaker 3: actually looking at when it comes to IVF.
- 16:11Speaker 4: So every clinic, as I said, is different, and looking
- 16:17Speaker 4: at what they include per cycle is also, as I said,
- 16:22Speaker 4: very important to consider at New Life IVF. The out
- 16:27Speaker 4: of pocket cost for if we're doing an IVF cycle
- 16:31Speaker 4: for a first cycle, that can be around five to
- 16:36Speaker 4: six thousand dollars for the first round that will though
- 16:41Speaker 4: often include hopefully freezing of embryos. Unfortunately, with IVF, the
- 16:48Speaker 4: no clinic has one hundred percent success rates and so
- 16:52Speaker 4: while some women do can see first time, for most
- 16:56Speaker 4: women they are having to do more than one round
- 17:00Speaker 4: and so hopefully, even though the first round that's when
- 17:03Speaker 4: we do the egg collection and make embryos and hopefully
- 17:07Speaker 4: freeze extra embryos, if a woman is not pregnant, then
- 17:12Speaker 4: potentially the next round, instead of having to go through
- 17:14Speaker 4: all the injections and the egg collection, we can just
- 17:18Speaker 4: take an embryo out of the freezer and put that
- 17:22Speaker 4: batch into them. The cost of that treatment is a
- 17:25Speaker 4: lot less.
- 17:26Speaker 3: Wow, And I feel like that's actually I won't say
- 17:29Speaker 3: reasonable for what it is because I've got absolutely no
- 17:32Speaker 3: idea what makes that cost up But I've got friends
- 17:34Speaker 3: who are paying ten twelve thousand dollars for round, so
- 17:37Speaker 3: that feels a lot more accessible. Is that something that
- 17:40Speaker 3: you use?
- 17:40Speaker 4: Well, what I will say is there is an upfront
- 17:44Speaker 4: fee and that is in that range around ten to
- 17:49Speaker 4: twelve thousand, but there are many care rebateses, so that
- 17:53Speaker 4: sort of five or six thousand is more that out
- 17:56Speaker 4: of pocket cost.
- 17:58Speaker 3: Absolutely.
- 17:58Speaker 4: The other thing we which isn't at all covered by Mediicare,
- 18:03Speaker 4: but is something to consider is pre implantation genetic testing.
- 18:08Speaker 2: Have you heard of that?
- 18:09Speaker 3: I have not done that, but I have done all
- 18:12Speaker 3: of the genetic testing. So I was that crazy lady.
- 18:15Speaker 3: I don't know if crazy is it. I think it's smart.
- 18:18Speaker 3: But I was that crazy lady who said to her husband, right,
- 18:20Speaker 3: if we're going to have babies in a couple of years,
- 18:22Speaker 3: I want to do all of our genetic testing and
- 18:24Speaker 3: make sure that nothing's awry. So is it similar to
- 18:28Speaker 3: doing all of the blood work?
- 18:30Speaker 4: It's actually a bit more similar to did you do
- 18:33Speaker 4: when you were sort of ten and a half weeks pregnant.
- 18:35Speaker 2: Did you do the NIT the nipped?
- 18:37Speaker 3: Yep, I did the NIP.
- 18:38Speaker 4: So what it's more like having the NIPPED done on
- 18:42Speaker 4: the embryo?
- 18:43Speaker 5: Wow?
- 18:43Speaker 2: For we put it back?
- 18:45Speaker 3: What a piece of mind because that NIP tea test
- 18:48Speaker 3: like it's happening at ten weeks, at which point that's
- 18:51Speaker 3: a very very hard decision to make.
- 18:53Speaker 2: That that's exactly right.
- 18:55Speaker 4: So with this PGT, as I said, it is an
- 18:58Speaker 4: extra cost, and not all clinics offer it, but for
- 19:03Speaker 4: all women, especially as we are in our mid thirties
- 19:08Speaker 4: or older, especially if we're looking at IV, Yes, we
- 19:12Speaker 4: do just naturally start to produce more abnormal eggs, and
- 19:16Speaker 4: unfortunately these will result in abnormal embryos. And we can't
- 19:22Speaker 4: tell if an embryo is abnormal just by looking under
- 19:25Speaker 4: the microscope. So if we put back an embryo and
- 19:29Speaker 4: it is abnormal, a lot of the time it just
- 19:32Speaker 4: won't stick and you won't be pregnant. But if it
- 19:36Speaker 4: does stick, sometimes it can result in an early miscarriage,
- 19:40Speaker 4: or sometimes you can get to that time of doing
- 19:43Speaker 4: the NIP test and find out there's an abnormal pregnancy.
- 19:47Speaker 4: And then there are some really difficult decisions to make.
- 19:51Speaker 4: So if we do this NIP test on an embryo,
- 19:55Speaker 4: we can't make an embryo normal.
- 19:57Speaker 2: If it's not normal.
- 19:59Speaker 4: Of course, we can select to put back the embryos
- 20:03Speaker 4: that have normal results and have the best chance of pregnancy.
- 20:07Speaker 4: And so with that, when we put back an embryo
- 20:10Speaker 4: that's being tested, not only are the pregnancy rates higher,
- 20:15Speaker 4: but also the miscarriage rates are much lower. So it
- 20:20Speaker 4: is an extra cost to do this testing on embryos,
- 20:24Speaker 4: but it might save you money in having transfers that
- 20:28Speaker 4: will ultimately not result in an ongoing pregnancy. It will
- 20:33Speaker 4: also save time by identifying the best embryos upfront, and
- 20:40Speaker 4: also helping with emotional cost of treatment by going through
- 20:45Speaker 4: not being pregnant or miscarrying.
- 20:47Speaker 3: I was about to say, you are arguably paying a
- 20:52Speaker 3: insurance cost to lower your trauma correct And I just
- 20:55Speaker 3: think that that as somebody who has been there, I
- 20:58Speaker 3: take all of my money, like I would love to
- 21:01Speaker 3: be able to lower the cost of miscarriage and stuff
- 21:04Speaker 3: like that. What type of cost are we looking at
- 21:06Speaker 3: if Medicare isn't going to supplement that.
- 21:08Speaker 4: Again, it is a varying cost per clinic at newly
- 21:12Speaker 4: five EF the cost per embryo that you test is
- 21:17Speaker 4: seven hundred and eighty dollars. But by comparison, if you
- 21:21Speaker 4: had a frozen embryo transfer, the out of pocket cost
- 21:26Speaker 4: for that can be something like just under three thousand dollars.
- 21:31Speaker 4: And so if there was an abnormal embryo and you
- 21:35Speaker 4: avoid putting that back, you have actually saved outlaying on
- 21:40Speaker 4: a frozen embryo transfer that was never going to work anywhere.
- 21:44Speaker 3: Yeah, and not only are you kind of saving that
- 21:46Speaker 3: trauma and stuff, it's also time, especially if you're in
- 21:50Speaker 3: that process having held a lot of friends' hands through
- 21:54Speaker 3: this process, you don't want to muck around with doing
- 21:57Speaker 3: around and then having to go through the waiting process
- 21:59Speaker 3: again it not working and then oh it just it
- 22:02Speaker 3: sounds like a lot. Yes, is that something that is
- 22:06Speaker 3: going to be added to medicare at some point because
- 22:09Speaker 3: I feel like this space is so fickle because there's
- 22:11Speaker 3: changes and developments all the time. So have they caught
- 22:14Speaker 3: up or are they not planned to?
- 22:15Speaker 4: So there is some support from medicare for people who
- 22:20Speaker 4: are doing PGT to look for specific genetic conditions. So
- 22:24Speaker 4: you mentioned you had all the genetic testing when you
- 22:28Speaker 4: were trying to get pregnant. And so when we do
- 22:31Speaker 4: have couples where they are at risk of having a
- 22:34Speaker 4: child with a genetic condition, then Medicare does provide some
- 22:38Speaker 4: funding for that, but not yet for the general chromosome testing, which,
- 22:44Speaker 4: as I said, is an issue for all women, especially
- 22:47Speaker 4: as we yeah.
- 22:48Speaker 2: Exact older.
- 22:49Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm hoping that as time goes on they
- 22:52Speaker 3: add more and more things.
- 22:53Speaker 4: Yeah, And look, it is a little bit of a
- 22:56Speaker 4: slow process with Medicare. In the last year, we have
- 23:01Speaker 4: embraced a new definition of infertility which does allow more
- 23:07Speaker 4: people to access treatment and have Medicare support. So it
- 23:14Speaker 4: used to like the traditional definition of infertility.
- 23:18Speaker 2: To ask what's the new definition.
- 23:20Speaker 4: The traditional definition was sort of a heterosexual couple having
- 23:25Speaker 4: sex every month for a year and not conceiving.
- 23:28Speaker 3: That's what I was told. It was, Yes, like you've
- 23:30Speaker 3: got to try for a year and then you can
- 23:32Speaker 3: talk to a fertility expert.
- 23:33Speaker 2: But that's not.
- 23:34Speaker 4: Exactly no, because our society is different than it was
- 23:38Speaker 4: thirty years ago. We now have people who have issues
- 23:42Speaker 4: with fertility for a variety of reasons. Maybe they are single.
- 23:47Speaker 4: No matter how much you try on your own, you're
- 23:50Speaker 4: not getting pregnant. Maybe you're in the same sex relationship.
- 23:55Speaker 3: And you can try all you might, it's just not
- 23:57Speaker 3: going to happen.
- 23:58Speaker 4: And so the new definition encompasses a variety of both
- 24:04Speaker 4: strictly medical causes but also other circumstantial reasons that would
- 24:11Speaker 4: explain infertility.
- 24:12Speaker 3: That's really cool.
- 24:13Speaker 4: So that's definitely made treatment more accessible.
- 24:16Speaker 3: I love that you mentioned before ovulation treatment, and one
- 24:20Speaker 3: of my girlfriends has gone through IUI and that was successful.
- 24:25Speaker 3: Can we just touch on what that is and financially
- 24:28Speaker 3: what that costs, because from my understanding, IUI is like
- 24:33Speaker 3: a step down from IVF. Is that how we would
- 24:36Speaker 3: categorize it.
- 24:38Speaker 4: Yes, So with IUI, what it stands for is intrauterine insemination,
- 24:44Speaker 4: and that's where we prepare sperm. We monitor the woman
- 24:50Speaker 4: to see when she's ovulating, and then we will insert
- 24:55Speaker 4: some sperm into the uterus at the time of ovulation.
- 24:59Speaker 3: Direct delivery. It's express, posts correct perfect.
- 25:03Speaker 4: Now with insemination, there are certain circumstances where there's a
- 25:10Speaker 4: real benefit. So for some couples there are actual issues
- 25:16Speaker 4: with intercourse. They're not able to have intercourse, and that
- 25:20Speaker 4: can be due to pain with intercourse erection ejaculation disorders,
- 25:27Speaker 4: or it can also be again a same sex couple
- 25:31Speaker 4: or a single woman where they need to use stonor
- 25:35Speaker 4: sperm and then we need to get the sperm into
- 25:39Speaker 4: them for them to get pregnant. So there are definite
- 25:42Speaker 4: indications like that. There are other indications, for example, if
- 25:48Speaker 4: the sperm parameters are a little bit below normal, by
- 25:52Speaker 4: doing the insemination process, we wash and prepare the sperm
- 25:57Speaker 4: to get a smaller volume, but highly concentrated, swimming sperm
- 26:01Speaker 4: that we can deliver directly to the top of the
- 26:04Speaker 4: uterus where it needs to go. In couples where they
- 26:09Speaker 4: are having regular sex and they're ovulating and the sperm
- 26:14Speaker 4: is normal, the insemination doesn't offer as much of a
- 26:21Speaker 4: benefitt So sometimes when I have couples who have what
- 26:26Speaker 4: is called unexplained infertility, so that means we've done all
- 26:30Speaker 4: their tests and they're all normal and we don't know
- 26:33Speaker 4: why they're not getting pregnant.
- 26:35Speaker 3: That would be so frustrating. It's very frustrating hearing like
- 26:39Speaker 3: there's no good reason.
- 26:40Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't such a reason.
- 26:42Speaker 3: Person.
- 26:43Speaker 2: Yes, it doesn't mean there's not a reason.
- 26:45Speaker 4: It just means our tests haven't shown what the reason
- 26:48Speaker 4: is yet, And unfortunately it's about ten percent of the
- 26:51Speaker 4: patients that we do see have unexplained infertility. So for
- 26:56Speaker 4: someone under thirty five with unexpl infertility, I would be
- 27:02Speaker 4: saying to them, look, if you keep trying naturally, you've
- 27:05Speaker 4: got about an eight percent chance of getting pregnant every month.
- 27:10Speaker 3: If it's much lower than I thought it would be.
- 27:12Speaker 4: Well, unexplaining fertility means you've already been safe trying for
- 27:16Speaker 4: a year and it hasn't happened. If we do incemination,
- 27:21Speaker 4: that might boost it up to twelve percent.
- 27:25Speaker 3: Oh, that's not as good as I thought it.
- 27:27Speaker 4: No, And if you then do IVF in someone under
- 27:33Speaker 4: thirty five, the pregnancy rate per cycle with IVF is
- 27:37Speaker 4: more like fifty percent. Yeah, okay, So as I said,
- 27:41Speaker 4: it's I do have some patients who really want to
- 27:45Speaker 4: try in semination first, and that can be just because
- 27:51Speaker 4: they're not quite ready to go down to my VF
- 27:55Speaker 4: pathway and they feel like they want to try everything
- 27:59Speaker 4: first before they embark on the IVF journey. But a
- 28:04Speaker 4: lot of patients do ask about insemination, and when we
- 28:08Speaker 4: talk about the actual success rates, then a lot of
- 28:12Speaker 4: them do actually bypass inseemination and go straight to IVF.
- 28:17Speaker 4: But as I said, in certain circumstances, as I said,
- 28:21Speaker 4: if you actually haven't been managing to have intercourse at all,
- 28:25Speaker 4: a preen, there really could be a benefit from having insemination.
- 28:31Speaker 3: And that's where you want a good clinic and a
- 28:34Speaker 3: doctor that you can sit down with and be like,
- 28:36Speaker 3: here's all my cards on the table, here's what we've tried.
- 28:39Speaker 3: And you've got to be so comfortable opening up and
- 28:41Speaker 3: being like, so we did this, and we tried this,
- 28:44Speaker 3: and this is how life is looking for us right now.
- 28:47Speaker 3: And that's a big conversation to have. Yeah, Nicole, we
- 28:50Speaker 3: are I feel like just getting into the thick of it,
- 28:53Speaker 3: but there is a lot more to come. Right after
- 28:55Speaker 3: a very quick break, all right, we are back with
- 29:01Speaker 3: doctor Nicole from New Life IVF and we're discussing all
- 29:04Speaker 3: things finance when it comes to your fertility and family planning.
- 29:08Speaker 3: Now we've covered the process of IVF and what egg
- 29:12Speaker 3: freezing looks like, and you'd mentioned costs relating to like
- 29:16Speaker 3: other medications and stuff on your price charts, but they're
- 29:20Speaker 3: ranging from like two hundred to four hundred dollars and
- 29:24Speaker 3: I just don't know what I'm talking about when I
- 29:26Speaker 3: look at that, So can you tell me a little
- 29:28Speaker 3: bit more about them, and like what the medications are
- 29:31Speaker 3: for and when they're introduced.
- 29:34Speaker 2: Yes.
- 29:34Speaker 4: So, in an IVF cycle, usually there are three main
- 29:41Speaker 4: medications or maybe actually four, three to four main medications,
- 29:44Speaker 4: depending on what treatment you're having. The first medication is
- 29:48Speaker 4: one to try and make multiple legs. Right, so, naturally,
- 29:53Speaker 4: as women, we tend to just produce one egg every month.
- 29:58Speaker 4: While it's possible to do IVF in a natural cycle
- 30:02Speaker 4: and just get one egg every month, they don't all fertilize,
- 30:07Speaker 4: they don't all form embryos, and so the more eggs
- 30:11Speaker 4: we can get vestigat the chance we have not only
- 30:15Speaker 4: of getting a good embryo to put back on the day,
- 30:19Speaker 4: but also getting extra embryos that we can freeze. And
- 30:23Speaker 4: again talking about cost of treatment, the more embryos you
- 30:28Speaker 4: can freeze, the less egg collections you have to go through,
- 30:32Speaker 4: and therefore the cost of treatment if less. Usually some
- 30:37Speaker 4: money is on one injection every day to try and
- 30:40Speaker 4: make multiple eggs grow. After a few days they may
- 30:44Speaker 4: start a second injection, which is to make sure you
- 30:47Speaker 4: don't ovulate too early, so when you have multiple eggs growing,
- 30:53Speaker 4: your hormone levels are higher than normal, and the brain
- 30:57Speaker 4: thinks that you're ready to ovulate, and we don't want
- 31:00Speaker 4: you to ovulate because obviously we want to get all
- 31:03Speaker 4: the eggs.
- 31:04Speaker 3: Yeah, so no, save them for us exactly.
- 31:07Speaker 4: And then usually women are on injections for about ten
- 31:11Speaker 4: days in total. And as I mentioned earlier, prior to
- 31:15Speaker 4: having an egg collection, a women will usually be having
- 31:18Speaker 4: some blood tests and scans to see when's going to
- 31:21Speaker 4: be the best time to do the egg collection. And
- 31:24Speaker 4: once we make that decision, there's a final injection we
- 31:28Speaker 4: call the trigger injection, and that trigger injection actually starts
- 31:34Speaker 4: the ovulation process. And what we want to do is
- 31:38Speaker 4: then collect the eggs before ovulation actually occurs. So the
- 31:43Speaker 4: ovulation process is really important for helping to mature the
- 31:47Speaker 4: egg and make it ready so it's ready, ready to
- 31:50Speaker 4: be inseminated or ready to freeze.
- 31:53Speaker 3: Yeah cool.
- 31:54Speaker 4: Then for women having egg freezing, that will be the
- 31:59Speaker 4: end of their tree. But if a woman is doing
- 32:02Speaker 4: IVF and she's having what we call a fresh embryo transfer,
- 32:06Speaker 4: so that's usually putting the embryo back five days after
- 32:10Speaker 4: the egg collection, then often she will be starting some
- 32:14Speaker 4: progesterone to support the lining of the uterus and make
- 32:18Speaker 4: sure the period doesn't come too early.
- 32:21Speaker 2: Yes, and with.
- 32:22Speaker 4: That progesterone, often they are vaginal.
- 32:26Speaker 3: As sune pestores. Had to take progesterone to support my pregnancies.
- 32:32Speaker 3: They suck.
- 32:32Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Nicole, they're not pleasant. There are some injectable options.
- 32:38Speaker 3: No, I'd prefer the pestory, thank you.
- 32:42Speaker 2: Yees.
- 32:42Speaker 4: So they're injections for around ten days and then progesterone
- 32:47Speaker 4: for sort of two weeks from the egg collection until
- 32:51Speaker 4: the pregnancy.
- 32:52Speaker 3: Two weeks. I'm not gonna lie. That sounds good as
- 32:54Speaker 3: someone who had to be on it for sixteen weeks,
- 32:57Speaker 3: oh wow, one out of ten do not recommend.
- 33:00Speaker 2: No, that that's a long time. It was a while yet.
- 33:04Speaker 4: Look, if we have someone who is pregnant, I do
- 33:07Speaker 4: often continue the projest sterne for a few more weeks
- 33:10Speaker 4: until the pregnancy is established.
- 33:13Speaker 2: But yeah, sixteen weeks.
- 33:14Speaker 3: Yeah, and I should profess that for those of you
- 33:16Speaker 3: who maybe are going, what the hell, Victoria, what's going on?
- 33:20Speaker 3: I had recurrent miscarriage and so that's something that they
- 33:24Speaker 3: do to hopefully make sure that the pregnancy stays and
- 33:27Speaker 3: sticks because there was no good reason for my miscarriages,
- 33:31Speaker 3: and I'm happy to talk about it. For those of
- 33:33Speaker 3: you who maybe haven't seen my social media, there's a
- 33:36Speaker 3: pinned post on my Instagram talking about it. But I
- 33:39Speaker 3: think it's something that is really important to be open
- 33:41Speaker 3: and honest about because it's not just me going through
- 33:45Speaker 3: these things. And I didn't know Nicole that I would
- 33:48Speaker 3: have to take pessories for fourteen weeks. And they're not
- 33:52Speaker 3: cheap either, oh, they are like ninety dollars a box. Ye,
- 33:56Speaker 3: and a lot of people in my DMS when I
- 33:58Speaker 3: started talking about IVF and the costs associated. I feel
- 34:02Speaker 3: like a lot of us in our heads, we go, okay, cool,
- 34:04Speaker 3: around is going to be ten to twelve thousand dollars
- 34:07Speaker 3: and we'll get a rebate, so we can anticipate about
- 34:09Speaker 3: six grand.
- 34:10Speaker 5: Right.
- 34:11Speaker 3: There's lots of different you know, levers there. But some
- 34:14Speaker 3: of our listeners have asked, what are some other out
- 34:19Speaker 3: of pocket costs that might come up during the process.
- 34:22Speaker 4: With the medications? If your cycle is covered by Medicare,
- 34:27Speaker 4: and if you are a Medicare card holder, I would
- 34:31Speaker 4: say a majority of IVF treatment is covered by Medicare
- 34:35Speaker 4: so the actual medications are covered by Medicare, but Medicare
- 34:41Speaker 4: do have what they call a script fee. So I
- 34:45Speaker 4: was talking about E two injections, the trigger injection and
- 34:50Speaker 4: the progesterone. So that's for different medications. So Medicare will
- 34:55Speaker 4: charge sixty dollars per medication, right, so you don't actually
- 35:02Speaker 4: get charged for the medication.
- 35:04Speaker 3: You're getting script yes, script to it.
- 35:07Speaker 4: Yeah, And unfortunately that's a Medicare thing. It's not your
- 35:12Speaker 4: IVF clinic charging yet. During your treatment, any blood tests
- 35:17Speaker 4: and scans you have for monitoring, they should be covered
- 35:21Speaker 4: by your IVF clinic fee. But the IVF cycle does
- 35:26Speaker 4: only go until the pregnancy test. And so when you
- 35:31Speaker 4: are pregnant, most clinics will do some monitoring for a
- 35:35Speaker 4: few weeks to make sure the pregnancy has established itself.
- 35:40Speaker 3: To ask, when do we get to graduate.
- 35:42Speaker 4: Yes, yes, So what we usually do at our clinic
- 35:45Speaker 4: is some blood tests. For so when you find out
- 35:49Speaker 4: you're pregnant, you're four weeks pregnant, we usually do a
- 35:52Speaker 4: blood test at four weeks, five weeks, six weeks, and
- 35:55Speaker 4: then we will get patients to have an ultrasound at
- 35:58Speaker 4: seven weeks and at that point in time, we are
- 36:02Speaker 4: hoping to see a baby and a heart rate. And
- 36:04Speaker 4: that's usually when you are graduate.
- 36:07Speaker 3: You get to graduate, you get to go, which is exciting.
- 36:10Speaker 4: So with the IVF cycle, those tests once you are
- 36:15Speaker 4: pregnant are no longer covered by the IVF cycle fees.
- 36:20Speaker 4: So yes, there can be a cost for the scan
- 36:23Speaker 4: with the blood tests. If you are lucky, your clinic
- 36:27Speaker 4: may b bill those ones for you.
- 36:30Speaker 3: Yeah. So when we graduate, and this may be a
- 36:33Speaker 3: naive question, is our pregnancy then considered vanilla pregnancy and
- 36:39Speaker 3: I can just go through the public healthcare system or
- 36:42Speaker 3: do I need another like private obgyn that I can
- 36:47Speaker 3: work with to support it in a different way, Like what.
- 36:49Speaker 2: Does that look like?
- 36:50Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say, I mean IVF is so common
- 36:54Speaker 4: at the moment, we sort of estimate around ten percent. Wow,
- 36:59Speaker 4: kids are born through IVF. So as long as the
- 37:04Speaker 4: pregnancy itself is like there's a single pregnancy and there
- 37:10Speaker 4: are no you don't have any previous obstetric complications or
- 37:16Speaker 4: any severe medical issues yourself, we would actually treat it
- 37:21Speaker 4: just like a normal pregnancy. I do often say to patients,
- 37:26Speaker 4: We're really lucky. We have a really good public hospital system,
- 37:30Speaker 4: especially for obstetrics, unlike other areas in medicine. You know,
- 37:35Speaker 4: you need a knee joint replacement, you go on a
- 37:37Speaker 4: waiting list for however many months.
- 37:39Speaker 2: You can't put pregnant women.
- 37:42Speaker 3: Would you actually have your baby next year not this year,
- 37:45Speaker 3: because we've got a wait list.
- 37:47Speaker 2: That's not going to have it's not going to happen. No.
- 37:50Speaker 4: So look, one thing with the public hospital system is
- 37:53Speaker 4: they do work on a sort of triage patterns. So
- 37:56Speaker 4: basically I have heard of cases where someone was going
- 38:00Speaker 4: to get induced on a certain day, but then there
- 38:04Speaker 4: were some other more urgent cases that came up and
- 38:08Speaker 4: so their induction was pushed to the next day or
- 38:12Speaker 4: the day after. But at the same time, if you're
- 38:15Speaker 4: the person who does need urgent care, you were going
- 38:19Speaker 4: to get looked after straight away, because as I said,
- 38:22Speaker 4: you can't postpone or delay obstetric issues.
- 38:26Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely absolutely, and stuff like that can go so
- 38:30Speaker 3: awry so quickly.
- 38:32Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 38:32Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like it's nice to know that the
- 38:35Speaker 3: public system is well equipped. And it's a funny conversation
- 38:40Speaker 3: because like I had private obg ans when I had
- 38:43Speaker 3: both of my children, and they were like Victoria, like
- 38:47Speaker 3: the public system at the end of the day is
- 38:49Speaker 3: where you'll be transferred if things go awry, and that
- 38:52Speaker 3: gave me a lot of peace to go. We are
- 38:55Speaker 3: in exactly the right place we need to be in.
- 38:57Speaker 3: Can I just say that it has been so good
- 39:00Speaker 3: to have all of this information I guess presented to
- 39:03Speaker 3: you up front, like to be able to have this
- 39:05Speaker 3: conversation and have someone I don't know in their car
- 39:09Speaker 3: or on their morning walk, be able to listen to
- 39:12Speaker 3: a conversation between two women talking about a topic that
- 39:15Speaker 3: maybe they haven't opened their mouths about yet, or maybe
- 39:17Speaker 3: they're not ready to reach out to their GP for
- 39:19Speaker 3: their referral yet, Especially because I know that so many
- 39:23Speaker 3: people in our audience are already invested but feeling really overwhelmed.
- 39:26Speaker 3: It's just been really really cool to feel from my perspective,
- 39:32Speaker 3: safe to ask these questions, but from my community's perspective,
- 39:35Speaker 3: knowing that I've got somebody who's so well I guess
- 39:40Speaker 3: equipped in this space to be like, Nope, this is
- 39:41Speaker 3: what that looks like, this is what that looks like.
- 39:43Speaker 3: Here are the medications. I just know that if I
- 39:46Speaker 3: went into the process now, I'd be like, Okay, I've
- 39:47Speaker 3: got a little bit of background, and I always say
- 39:50Speaker 3: you need to know enough to be dangerous. You don't
- 39:52Speaker 3: need to know the whole thing. You just need to
- 39:54Speaker 3: know enough that you can ask the right questions and
- 39:56Speaker 3: feel empowered. But I do feel like the financial commitment
- 40:00Speaker 3: should be a very big part of this as well. Absolutely,
- 40:04Speaker 3: do you have to have these conversations with people, Yeah,
- 40:07Speaker 3: all the time.
- 40:08Speaker 4: I think in all areas of medicine there should be
- 40:12Speaker 4: financial consent that's obtained. But I do have patients where
- 40:18Speaker 4: because they of their financial circumstances, I will refer them
- 40:24Speaker 4: maybe to public IVF options if they're available, because it's
- 40:30Speaker 4: just not possible for them to afford treatment in the
- 40:33Speaker 4: private setting. But obviously, if you can do IVF in
- 40:39Speaker 4: the private setting, there are so many options, And you
- 40:45Speaker 4: do really need to sort of get an itemized costing
- 40:49Speaker 4: to know what you're going to be up for. You
- 40:52Speaker 4: do need to look at the success rates to sort
- 40:56Speaker 4: of give you an idea about how many treatment cycles
- 40:59Speaker 4: you're going to need. And you do need to look
- 41:02Speaker 4: at what's included with your treatment, even things like counseling.
- 41:08Speaker 4: So at New Life, we have counselors and we provide
- 41:12Speaker 4: counseling to patients if they are struggling during treatment, and
- 41:18Speaker 4: that can be women that can be their partners or
- 41:22Speaker 4: the couples together. And this is just part of our
- 41:26Speaker 4: routine treatment and care that we offer. And I have
- 41:32Speaker 4: heard that some clinics offer counseling but only in a
- 41:37Speaker 4: group session or only online, and I think that that's
- 41:43Speaker 4: quite confronting, especially as you mentioned, it is so personal.
- 41:48Speaker 4: And I'm always amazed at what some clinics are doing.
- 41:53Speaker 4: And usually I'm actually relying on my patients to say, hey,
- 41:58Speaker 4: I've come to you because I went to this other
- 42:01Speaker 4: clinic and this is what they were doing, or yeah.
- 42:06Speaker 4: I meet people who've come from elsewhere and I say, okay,
- 42:09Speaker 4: this is these are the costs of we're doing this,
- 42:11Speaker 4: this and this, and they say, oh, I don't have
- 42:14Speaker 4: to pay extra for that.
- 42:16Speaker 2: I'm like no, now.
- 42:17Speaker 3: Of course, not, as I'm not taking advantage of you. Yeah,
- 42:20Speaker 3: I feel like you are being much kinder about this
- 42:24Speaker 3: than you could be, because it's like financial advice. So
- 42:27Speaker 3: as someone who used to be a financial advisor, I
- 42:30Speaker 3: have clients come to me and be like, this is
- 42:31Speaker 3: what another practice has done, and I'd be like, oh,
- 42:34Speaker 3: my goodness, like and fly absolutely off the chain because
- 42:37Speaker 3: it's crazy to me how different industries and obviously your
- 42:42Speaker 3: space and my space could not be further from different,
- 42:45Speaker 3: but I just look at it and go, my goodness,
- 42:48Speaker 3: In every aspect, there's always someone who is willing to
- 42:51Speaker 3: take advantage of a situation and milk it for what
- 42:54Speaker 3: it's worth, and that breaks my heart, especially when it's
- 42:57Speaker 3: such an emotional field journey. And that's where I want
- 43:01Speaker 3: to add a little bit more of a caveat, I suppose,
- 43:04Speaker 3: because this space is filled with fertility or IVF specific
- 43:09Speaker 3: loans and please, I'm not saying they're bad, but please, please,
- 43:14Speaker 3: please do your research because you might just be better
- 43:18Speaker 3: off getting a standard personal loan rather than an IVF
- 43:22Speaker 3: branded one if you're going down that route. And that's
- 43:25Speaker 3: the you know, financial decision that you've made, because these
- 43:30Speaker 3: options exist, and there are lots of different options. You
- 43:34Speaker 3: could even potentially access your superannuation to help you fund
- 43:38Speaker 3: your IVF journey. Is that something that you've seen a
- 43:40Speaker 3: lot of your patients.
- 43:41Speaker 2: Yes, a few patients do that.
- 43:44Speaker 4: Obviously, I would say, where possible, look at other options
- 43:48Speaker 4: because your supers really important.
- 43:50Speaker 3: Thank you, But it's so nice to know it's an option.
- 43:54Speaker 3: Let's preserve it.
- 43:55Speaker 4: So one of their things is there is a special
- 44:00Speaker 4: application form and it does need to be completed by
- 44:05Speaker 4: someone other than your IVF specialist or doctor. And as
- 44:11Speaker 4: part of that form, one of the things is there
- 44:14Speaker 4: are only certain situations where you can access your SUPER
- 44:19Speaker 4: and for patients doing IVF, the main thing or indication
- 44:24Speaker 4: is mental health issues. So what you need to be
- 44:29Speaker 4: prepared for is the doctor completing the form has to
- 44:34Speaker 4: state how your infertility has impacted on your mental health
- 44:39Speaker 4: or contributed to deterioration in your mental health. Some super
- 44:45Speaker 4: companies do require you to actually see a psychiatrist. Other companies,
- 44:51Speaker 4: if you've had your GP managing your mental health issues,
- 44:55Speaker 4: the GP can sometimes complete that form. So that can
- 45:01Speaker 4: take a little bit of time to organize, especially if
- 45:05Speaker 4: you are required to see a psychiatrist. I've had patients
- 45:08Speaker 4: where they've had to wait several months to get an
- 45:11Speaker 4: appointment with a psychiatrist. Yeah, so if you do have
- 45:16Speaker 4: a GP who you've who've supported you and seen you
- 45:20Speaker 4: before for mental health issues, that's what the form is.
- 45:24Speaker 4: You can't just say I want to do IVF, give
- 45:27Speaker 4: me my super to pay for that, there does have
- 45:31Speaker 4: to be this application on mental health grounds.
- 45:34Speaker 3: Yeah, and that makes sense, And I've had a lot
- 45:37Speaker 3: of people say that's not fair. It's my super I
- 45:39Speaker 3: should be able to spend it in line with whatever
- 45:41Speaker 3: I would like. But ultimately, superanuation exists to provide for
- 45:45Speaker 3: you in retirement, and quite bluntly, it's the government's priority
- 45:51Speaker 3: to make sure that you're financially sound and you're not
- 45:54Speaker 3: going to be destitute. And as much as it is
- 45:57Speaker 3: your money and you do have control over it, it
- 45:59Speaker 3: has been allocated for that, and so I get why
- 46:02Speaker 3: it's such a serious process. It just breaks my heart
- 46:05Speaker 3: a little bit knowing that it could be the reason
- 46:08Speaker 3: you're being held up like you know that that's the
- 46:10Speaker 3: only way you're going to access it, but you can't
- 46:12Speaker 3: get your fertility treatment until you get a psychiatry appointment,
- 46:15Speaker 3: and it's just a circus that I wish people didn't
- 46:18Speaker 3: have to be involved in.
- 46:20Speaker 4: But having said that, so sometimes I have patients and
- 46:23Speaker 4: they are not on any psychiatric medications or antidepressants or
- 46:28Speaker 4: anything like that. But nonetheless, most of my patients, by
- 46:32Speaker 4: the time they are getting to do IVF, they already
- 46:36Speaker 4: do have a degree of anxiety, maybe some depression as
- 46:41Speaker 4: well relating to their infertility.
- 46:44Speaker 2: Absolutely.
- 46:44Speaker 4: So even someone might say, well, look, i've never seen
- 46:49Speaker 4: my GP before for mental health issues, it doesn't actually
- 46:55Speaker 4: mean that it's a no, that it's a no yeah,
- 46:58Speaker 4: because even if you don't need to be medicated, you
- 47:04Speaker 4: will probably still have those feelings because that's normal when
- 47:08Speaker 4: you've been trying to get pregnant and it's not happening.
- 47:11Speaker 3: And I cannot imagine that a doctor exists where they
- 47:15Speaker 3: don't understand that the IVF process is inherently emotionally draining. Yes,
- 47:20Speaker 3: So I just can't imagine you're going to a doctor
- 47:23Speaker 3: and going I think I need to access my super
- 47:25Speaker 3: and they go no, no, no, Like they're not financial advisors.
- 47:29Speaker 3: I'm sure that they would recommend LL. Maybe you should
- 47:31Speaker 3: chat to an advisor and see what your options are.
- 47:33Speaker 3: But here's the process and I can help you go
- 47:35Speaker 3: down it. Am I right in saying that?
- 47:37Speaker 4: Okay?
- 47:38Speaker 3: Very cool?
- 47:39Speaker 2: Now?
- 47:40Speaker 3: I shared a poll on our Instagram stories because I
- 47:43Speaker 3: was like, all right, guys, I've got doctor Nicole in
- 47:46Speaker 3: what are your rapid fire questions? And I've taken some screenshots.
- 47:50Speaker 3: Would it be Okay, if I ask a few questions
- 47:53Speaker 3: and we can rapid fire through them. Because I know
- 47:55Speaker 3: that I'm running out of time, we go and I'm
- 47:58Speaker 3: trying very hard to make the most of it. I'm
- 48:00Speaker 3: not going to use names. I'm just going to ask
- 48:02Speaker 3: the questions. Someone said, I'm three months into trying. Should
- 48:07Speaker 3: I be looking at IVF? I'm thirty two years old.
- 48:10Speaker 3: Is there a process I'm supposed to be following? So
- 48:13Speaker 3: that's that perfect example. CGP get a referral to see
- 48:19Speaker 3: a specialist and just start the investigation process. It doesn't
- 48:23Speaker 3: mean you have to do IVF, but you can get
- 48:26Speaker 3: the ball rolling, and it takes time to do tests,
- 48:29Speaker 3: so you can still be trying in the meantime. Very cool.
- 48:33Speaker 3: The next person has said, I'm thinking about freezing my eggs,
- 48:36Speaker 3: but I have a partner. What are the chances of
- 48:39Speaker 3: successful outcomes from egg freezing versus freezing an embryo?
- 48:44Speaker 4: Well, what I would say is there is more certainty
- 48:49Speaker 4: with freezing embryos. So with eggs, we have to make assumptions,
- 48:55Speaker 4: like we have to assume that of the eggs, this
- 48:58Speaker 4: many will fertilize, this many will form embryos, and so
- 49:03Speaker 4: we can give you an estimate. When we are freezing embryos,
- 49:07Speaker 4: they have already fertilized and made embryos, so our estimation
- 49:14Speaker 4: is a lot clearer or precise. Yes, so I think
- 49:19Speaker 4: when I'm talking to people about freezing eggs or embryos, Yeah,
- 49:23Speaker 4: I have a lot of patients who do come and say,
- 49:25Speaker 4: I'm in an early relationship. I'm not quite sure. Look,
- 49:30Speaker 4: the main advantage of freezing eggs is that they're your eggs, and.
- 49:35Speaker 3: You could pick a different partner.
- 49:37Speaker 4: Exactly, or if your relationship breaks down, you're not ever
- 49:42Speaker 4: you're not being tied to that. So when you freeze embryos,
- 49:46Speaker 4: you are actually then tied to the person who you
- 49:50Speaker 4: created embryos with. Yes, and if you meet another partner
- 49:54Speaker 4: down the track, obviously you're not going to use those embryos.
- 49:58Speaker 4: But sometimes I have people who who are in committed
- 50:02Speaker 4: relationships and they will say, well, look, I'm thirty seven now,
- 50:07Speaker 4: but we've got these various things happening over the next
- 50:11Speaker 4: twelve to twenty four months, and I won't be ready
- 50:13Speaker 4: to get pregnant till I'm thirty nine, and so therefore
- 50:17Speaker 4: I'd rather be making embryos now when I'm thirty seven.
- 50:21Speaker 4: So in that situation, if you are in a committed relationship,
- 50:25Speaker 4: then definitely freezing embryos gives you a much better idea
- 50:29Speaker 4: about what you've got frozen.
- 50:30Speaker 3: Yeah, And it to me is kind of magic, the
- 50:33Speaker 3: idea that you could freeze embryos, have a baby and
- 50:37Speaker 3: still have an embryo that was made at the same time,
- 50:40Speaker 3: but then all of a sudden your babies have a
- 50:42Speaker 3: three or four year age difference or even more.
- 50:44Speaker 4: Yeah, I have heard the term is twibblings twibblings, so
- 50:49Speaker 4: twins but siblings.
- 50:50Speaker 3: That's really cute. Another person has said, how does egg
- 50:55Speaker 3: freezing and medicare work if you have endo?
- 50:59Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 50:59Speaker 4: As I said, the definitions for infertility have become a
- 51:04Speaker 4: lot more inclusive. If I have a patient who is
- 51:08Speaker 4: doing a freezing and they have endometriosis, I would be
- 51:13Speaker 4: putting them through under medicare.
- 51:15Speaker 3: Very cool. I have a question, and I have not
- 51:19Speaker 3: heard this term. Someone said, what is a mosaic embryo?
- 51:24Speaker 3: And do you know more about the outcomes?
- 51:28Speaker 4: Yes, So what a mosaic embryo refers to is this
- 51:32Speaker 4: pre implantation genetic testing I was talking about, right, So
- 51:36Speaker 4: most embryos are either normal or not normal, but some
- 51:41Speaker 4: embryos come back with a mosaic result. And what that
- 51:45Speaker 4: means is of the cells we test, some are normal
- 51:49Speaker 4: and some are abnormal, so it's a combination of normal
- 51:53Speaker 4: and abnormal cells. We know that human embryos do have
- 51:58Speaker 4: the capacity to repair themselves, and so there is actually
- 52:04Speaker 4: quite a lot of evidence now that putting back a
- 52:07Speaker 4: mosaic embryo actually they do have quite decent pregnancy rates
- 52:12Speaker 4: and live birth rates. We would always recommend putting obviously
- 52:16Speaker 4: normal embryos back first where possible, but there are some
- 52:20Speaker 4: women who never get normal embryos, especially as they get older,
- 52:25Speaker 4: and maybe their best embryo is a mosaic embryo. So
- 52:30Speaker 4: when putting back a mosaic embryo, something that's really important
- 52:34Speaker 4: is having good genetic counseling beforehand.
- 52:39Speaker 2: And again this could.
- 52:40Speaker 4: Be another extra cost through an IVF clinic, so at
- 52:45Speaker 4: New Life, our genetic counseling is again included in the
- 52:50Speaker 4: payments that patients are making. It's not an extra cost,
- 52:54Speaker 4: but patients do just need to be aware that an
- 52:59Speaker 4: embryo can correct itself, but it may not correct itself,
- 53:04Speaker 4: and so if we do put back a mosic cambrio
- 53:07Speaker 4: when someone gets pregnant. We would often suggest, for example,
- 53:11Speaker 4: having an amniosyentesis to just confirm that result. I've definitely
- 53:16Speaker 4: had quite a few patients who've put back mosic cambrios
- 53:20Speaker 4: and have healthy children born from that. So, as I said,
- 53:24Speaker 4: it's not our first line go to option, but it
- 53:28Speaker 4: is an option, and with appropriate genetic counseling, we can proceed.
- 53:33Speaker 3: That's very cool that those options exist. Now I have
- 53:37Speaker 3: two more questions for you. The second last is how
- 53:41Speaker 3: much does it cost to use donus sperm?
- 53:44Speaker 2: That is quite complicated. Sorry, I thought very complicated.
- 53:48Speaker 3: Like it's X and I'd be like cool, moving on.
- 53:51Speaker 2: Yep.
- 53:52Speaker 4: So with donusperm, there is clinic recruited donor sperm, and
- 53:57Speaker 4: then some clinics also offer overseas donor sperm as well.
- 54:03Speaker 4: The issue is it's very difficult to transcruit sperm donors.
- 54:09Speaker 2: No, actually, the transport's fine.
- 54:11Speaker 4: There are very specialized couriers who are experienced at moving
- 54:16Speaker 4: eggs and sperm.
- 54:17Speaker 3: You never know what's between states, in between countries.
- 54:21Speaker 2: No, you do not know.
- 54:23Speaker 4: There are specialized couriers and specialized containers and packaging to
- 54:29Speaker 4: sort of keep them.
- 54:31Speaker 3: You can just import it.
- 54:33Speaker 2: Well, no, you can't just sound.
- 54:35Speaker 4: It is a process and ultimately any sperm that we
- 54:40Speaker 4: import does need to comply with our local laws and legislation.
- 54:46Speaker 4: But invariably when with the overseas sperm, there's additional costs.
- 54:53Speaker 4: But with the sperm, there are often fees to secure
- 54:58Speaker 4: a sperm donor, and then there are fees to use
- 55:02Speaker 4: sperm each time. Okay, so part of the securing a
- 55:07Speaker 4: donor is for example, in Victoria, a sperm donor can
- 55:12Speaker 4: donate to up to nine different women. So by securing
- 55:17Speaker 4: your spot, you've got that, yeah, okay out of nine.
- 55:22Speaker 4: We always do genetic testing and we do like an
- 55:26Speaker 4: extended panel to make sure there are no issues with
- 55:29Speaker 4: the sperm donor that you're using, and there is a
- 55:33Speaker 4: cost for that genetic testing. And then every time you
- 55:37Speaker 4: use the sperm, you will pay a fee per use.
- 55:42Speaker 4: So for example, someone doing insemination with donor sperm, each
- 55:47Speaker 4: time they have in semination, they will pay a fee
- 55:50Speaker 4: to use the donor sperg whereas someone else if they
- 55:54Speaker 4: are doing IVF, they will pay a fee in their
- 55:58Speaker 4: first round of IVF. When we using the sperm. But
- 56:02Speaker 4: when we do say a frozen embryo transfer, because the
- 56:05Speaker 4: embryos already created, they don't pay anything using the sperm.
- 56:09Speaker 2: Again.
- 56:10Speaker 3: Yeah, wow, I had literally no idea this space. It's
- 56:14Speaker 3: like equal parts of magic and mystery to me. And
- 56:18Speaker 3: the last question, which I think a lot of people,
- 56:21Speaker 3: especially if they're listening to this episode, are going to
- 56:23Speaker 3: resonate with, how do I get over the anxiety of
- 56:27Speaker 3: just starting the process. I'm really scared that I might
- 56:30Speaker 3: end up paying for a loss.
- 56:32Speaker 4: What I would say is, as you said, just sort
- 56:35Speaker 4: of trying to work out who is someone you can see,
- 56:39Speaker 4: who you can trust. As I was mentioning earlier, about
- 56:42Speaker 4: ten percent of kids are blond through IVF. So actually,
- 56:48Speaker 4: I think if people do start talking to friends and family,
- 56:52Speaker 4: they will find someone who has done IVF. And so
- 56:57Speaker 4: I think yet talking with friends and fans, family, seeing
- 57:01Speaker 4: who they use, where they're happy with them. So word
- 57:05Speaker 4: of mouth is really good. And I must say, I
- 57:09Speaker 4: have a lot of patients where they'll say you treated
- 57:12Speaker 4: my sister, you treated my friend at work, and so
- 57:15Speaker 4: sometimes it's not necessarily the GP who's referred them to me,
- 57:20Speaker 4: but they've gone to their GP saying I want to
- 57:22Speaker 4: see this doctor because they've spoken with their friends.
- 57:26Speaker 3: That's the best.
- 57:27Speaker 4: Obviously, if you have like a good GP, especially a
- 57:32Speaker 4: GP who's sort of more focused on younger people and fertility,
- 57:39Speaker 4: they will often have other patients, and patients will speak
- 57:43Speaker 4: to their GP and say I saw this person, I
- 57:45Speaker 4: didn't like them. And so if you really don't have
- 57:48Speaker 4: any contacts, speaking to your GP is good. And then
- 57:53Speaker 4: I think as well, in this day and age, there
- 57:56Speaker 4: are lots of webinars and POGs and other things, and
- 58:01Speaker 4: so sometimes you can access an IVF clinics website and
- 58:06Speaker 4: there will be videos or links to videos, and you
- 58:10Speaker 4: can get a feel if someone's going to be a
- 58:12Speaker 4: good fit for you. And obviously sometimes even locations and
- 58:17Speaker 4: important things, I mean, fertility treatments hard enough. You don't
- 58:21Speaker 4: want to be, you know, having to lug it.
- 58:24Speaker 3: Two hours to get there when you're already tired and
- 58:28Speaker 3: pumped full of hormone exactly.
- 58:30Speaker 4: But at the same time, I guess this is one
- 58:33Speaker 4: good thing from COVID. You know that telehealth appointments are
- 58:38Speaker 4: now very common, almost the norm. So while I do
- 58:43Speaker 4: like to meet my patients at least once in the court.
- 58:47Speaker 4: I do have a lot of patients who we do
- 58:50Speaker 4: telehealth appointments, just because it is really hard to, you know,
- 58:54Speaker 4: when you're working full time to actually get out in
- 58:57Speaker 4: the middle of the day go to an appointment when
- 59:00Speaker 4: the petrol costs however much.
- 59:02Speaker 2: At corn.
- 59:06Speaker 3: Hospital parking is as astronomical as the fuel crisis is.
- 59:11Speaker 3: Oh my goodness. Can I just say how grateful I
- 59:14Speaker 3: am to have finally gotten you on the podcast. I
- 59:16Speaker 3: got to do a webinar with you, and I was like,
- 59:18Speaker 3: it's going to happen, and we finally have made that
- 59:20Speaker 3: a reality. I just know that so many people within
- 59:24Speaker 3: our community have had their questions answered finally. So thanks
- 59:28Speaker 3: for hanging out, Thanks for your wisdom, thank you for
- 59:31Speaker 3: discussing all things fertility. And I'm sure this is not
- 59:33Speaker 3: the last time that I get to share you with
- 59:35Speaker 3: our community. My friends. I'm going to share all of
- 59:38Speaker 3: the important links that Nicole has mentioned in the show
- 59:41Speaker 3: notes so that you can continue learning about your fertility
- 59:44Speaker 3: options and everything that is available to you. And if
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