Latest / The Body Pod / Mastering Menopause & Strength Training: Expert Insights with Selene Yeager
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, This is Haley and I'm Lara, and welcome
- 0:03Speaker 1: to the body Pod. In this episode of The Body Pod,
- 0:12Speaker 1: we sit down with fitness journalist and endurance athlete Selene
- 0:16Speaker 1: Jaeger to talk all about training, menopause, and navigating the
- 0:21Speaker 1: ever evolving landscape of women's health. From her collaboration with
- 0:25Speaker 1: doctor Stacy Simms to insights on strength training, nutrition, and
- 0:30Speaker 1: the science behind hormonal shifts. Selene breaks down the biggest
- 0:34Speaker 1: myths and shares practical strategies for thriving through every stage
- 0:39Speaker 1: of life. Whether you're an athlete or just looking to
- 0:42Speaker 1: feel stronger and more energized, This conversation is packed with
- 0:46Speaker 1: expert wisdom and real life solutions. Let's get into the show.
- 0:57Speaker 1: Welcome Selene, now to the body Pod. So it's your
- 1:03Speaker 1: turn to be in the hot seat.
- 1:05Speaker 2: I know it's great. I feel like we see a
- 1:07Speaker 2: lot of each other these days, so.
- 1:11Speaker 1: Welcome, and I'm super excited to get your take on
- 1:16Speaker 1: all of these questions. I mean, some of them might
- 1:18Speaker 1: be similar to what you were asking me, but I
- 1:21Speaker 1: want to know, like before we even start and get
- 1:25Speaker 1: into all of the questions, how did you get into
- 1:30Speaker 1: book publishing, author writing, all of that.
- 1:35Speaker 2: Yeah, I honestly always wanted to be a writer. I
- 1:40Speaker 2: didn't even really know what that meant, Like when I
- 1:42Speaker 2: was in high school. Even my health teacher, when I
- 1:45Speaker 2: would hand in things, she would say, you should consider
- 1:48Speaker 2: being a writer. Have a really good way with words,
- 1:50Speaker 2: and you put things together well, so I thought, And
- 1:53Speaker 2: it was just always something that I wanted to pursue.
- 1:57Speaker 2: But I didn't necessarily want to be a newspaper journalist.
- 2:00Speaker 2: And that's all I really knew at that time. So
- 2:01Speaker 2: I went to college and I thought I'll go pre med.
- 2:05Speaker 2: I don't know exactly what I was thinking, but I
- 2:07Speaker 2: started pre med and then I thought, I don't want
- 2:09Speaker 2: to go to school for eight years, and I pursued
- 2:14Speaker 2: English anatomy and also advertising copywriting of all things. Like
- 2:19Speaker 2: I just started cobbling together this degree. And it's funny, Hayley,
- 2:25Speaker 2: because I use all of it, like I now sort
- 2:27Speaker 2: of sell health and fitness and write and you know,
- 2:30Speaker 2: So it's what I ended up doing. So I got
- 2:33Speaker 2: out of school with this sort of communications degree, with
- 2:37Speaker 2: this scientific background, and I became a science writer. So
- 2:40Speaker 2: I was writing for very sexy publications like Infectious Diseases
- 2:44Speaker 2: and children and you know, like literally, and I thought,
- 2:48Speaker 2: I don't want to do this for the rest of
- 2:49Speaker 2: my life. And then I discovered Roadale Press and they
- 2:54Speaker 2: did prevention, men's health, women's health, bicycling, and I thought,
- 2:58Speaker 2: that's it, like that, That's what I want to be doing.
- 3:01Speaker 2: And I just kept sending them resumes and they kept
- 3:03Speaker 2: rejecting me. And then one day a head hunter that
- 3:07Speaker 2: they had hired found I guess all my resumes and
- 3:10Speaker 2: called me and I got a job there. And that's
- 3:12Speaker 2: how it all started.
- 3:13Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, so you can be a ghost writer m h.
- 3:17Speaker 1: And I mean, like, do you do you do the
- 3:20Speaker 1: editing as well.
- 3:22Speaker 2: I'm not as much of an editor I have. Well,
- 3:26Speaker 2: writers and editors are very different jobs. I prefer being
- 3:30Speaker 2: the writer. So the writer is the person who takes
- 3:33Speaker 2: all the information gets synthesizes it into a constructor an idea,
- 3:39Speaker 2: and puts it together in whatever language they are looking
- 3:42Speaker 2: for to communicate to the audience that they're looking to communicate.
- 3:45Speaker 2: The editor takes that and finds especially finds what's missing,
- 3:49Speaker 2: what's wrong when it needs you know how to work it.
- 3:51Speaker 2: They work that piece of material. So a good editor
- 3:55Speaker 2: always makes a writer better and I have. I filled
- 3:59Speaker 2: in for a couple of my editors when they were
- 4:00Speaker 2: on maternity leave and stuff, and I thought, this is
- 4:03Speaker 2: such an unsung profession because they don't get bylines, they
- 4:06Speaker 2: don't get any credit, they don't get any of the glory.
- 4:10Speaker 2: My name is on the piece, other people's names are
- 4:12Speaker 2: on books. But the editor is like a good editor
- 4:15Speaker 2: is worth their waiting gold. They make everything so much better.
- 4:19Speaker 1: Well, I would be fired day one on either of them. Gods,
- 4:23Speaker 1: please don't make me ever write a book.
- 4:25Speaker 2: I were sure to him.
- 4:29Speaker 1: Well, I became familiar with you from as a lot
- 4:33Speaker 1: of women have, through doctor Stacy Simms and the book
- 4:36Speaker 1: or down next level. Yeah, so how did you connect
- 4:43Speaker 1: with Stacy? Was it through this cycling world or did
- 4:47Speaker 1: that just how did that happen?
- 4:49Speaker 2: Indirectly? Yes, I hadn't actually put it together that way,
- 4:52Speaker 2: but indirectly it was through the cycling world. So I
- 4:57Speaker 2: went out on my own after about three years of
- 4:59Speaker 2: being in i'd a publishing house because I always wanted
- 5:01Speaker 2: to be self employed. So I went out of my
- 5:03Speaker 2: own and I freelanced, and I was always looking for
- 5:06Speaker 2: people to partner with and to do books with. Because
- 5:08Speaker 2: when you're a freelancer, a book is a great gig
- 5:11Speaker 2: because you know you have a check. You know, I
- 5:13Speaker 2: have like a large paid yeah, for a while, so
- 5:16Speaker 2: I was always trying to get some bookwork on top
- 5:18Speaker 2: of my magazine work and all of that kind of stuff.
- 5:20Speaker 2: So I was in my eyes open. But I was
- 5:21Speaker 2: also a USA Cycling coach, and I had a column
- 5:27Speaker 2: in Bicycling Magazine and I wrote for them as a
- 5:30Speaker 2: contributing editor for twenty seven years. So I was very
- 5:32Speaker 2: involved because I was also a bike racer, very involved
- 5:35Speaker 2: in that world, and I would always have to go
- 5:39Speaker 2: every two years to this USA Cycling summit, which I
- 5:42Speaker 2: would dread with the strength of seven sons, because they
- 5:46Speaker 2: the same people would get up there. It was all men,
- 5:49Speaker 2: and they would literally stand up there and say things
- 5:51Speaker 2: like and they would be in charge of the women's group,
- 5:53Speaker 2: and they'd be like, well, not really work with women,
- 5:56Speaker 2: but this is what I think you should do. And
- 5:58Speaker 2: I'm like, you don't work with women, don't care, and
- 6:00Speaker 2: it would just be so frustrating to me. So I
- 6:03Speaker 2: had to go. It was like twenty fourteen, I think,
- 6:05Speaker 2: or twenty twelve was around that time, and I had
- 6:08Speaker 2: to go and get my CECS, and a friend of
- 6:10Speaker 2: mine that I was staying with said, I think you
- 6:14Speaker 2: should go and see my friend, doctor Stacy Simms present.
- 6:18Speaker 2: I think you're going to really enjoy it this time
- 6:20Speaker 2: the conference, It's like okay. So I went and saw
- 6:23Speaker 2: her speak at the summit and she got up on
- 6:27Speaker 2: the stage in front of like largely a male audience
- 6:30Speaker 2: as it was, and talked about menstrual cycles and the
- 6:33Speaker 2: luteal phase and all of these things that I never
- 6:36Speaker 2: had heard anybody ever talk about anywhere, and sex differences.
- 6:41Speaker 2: And she got off that stage and people it was
- 6:43Speaker 2: like the Messiah like people followed her. She went out
- 6:45Speaker 2: the door and there's a line, like super deep line,
- 6:48Speaker 2: and I thought this. I immediately thought she needs a book,
- 6:52Speaker 2: like we need I need to get this out. So
- 6:55Speaker 2: I stood in the line and I said, Hi, I'm
- 6:58Speaker 2: Selene Jaeger. Blah blah blah. You need a book and
- 7:01Speaker 2: I can help you get it done. And she literally said, cool,
- 7:04Speaker 2: let's do it. And two weeks later, I was on
- 7:06Speaker 2: a plane. I'm I getting and I'm flying out to Fairfax.
- 7:11Speaker 2: And you know, at the time, she was developing her
- 7:14Speaker 2: drink mixes all that, and so I'm doing He'll repeats
- 7:17Speaker 2: up Mount Tam and I'm ducking behind dumpsters and peen
- 7:20Speaker 2: on sticks to like show her if I'm losing protein.
- 7:24Speaker 2: You know, the whole the whole thing. It was so funny.
- 7:27Speaker 2: But yeah, that was the start of it.
- 7:29Speaker 1: Okay, this is so funny about Stacy because I feel
- 7:31Speaker 1: like that's how I got my in with her.
- 7:33Speaker 2: Two.
- 7:33Speaker 1: I was just hey, you want to do that?
- 7:35Speaker 2: Cool? Sure, yeah, neat, let's do it.
- 7:43Speaker 1: Wow, that's amazing. Okay, So when you were writing these
- 7:48Speaker 1: well let's start with Roar. So when you were when
- 7:52Speaker 1: you were kind of around that time because you just
- 7:54Speaker 1: had you guys just relaunched a new, updated version, like.
- 8:00Speaker 2: Yeah, it came out in twenty sixteen, so you know
- 8:04Speaker 2: that's a long time in science. So after we did
- 8:08Speaker 2: Next Level, or actually mean, while we were doing it,
- 8:11Speaker 2: I was talking to the publisher saying, you know, we
- 8:14Speaker 2: really should be because people once Next Level came out,
- 8:17Speaker 2: a lot of people started buying Roar again, and I thought,
- 8:20Speaker 2: we need to update this book. So we updated it.
- 8:24Speaker 2: Is that last year time is a funny thing.
- 8:26Speaker 1: I was going to say a year in the last
- 8:28Speaker 1: year year and a half. Okay, So what were the
- 8:30Speaker 1: biggest differences in the science world that you felt like
- 8:33Speaker 1: you had to update this.
- 8:36Speaker 2: That's a good question, and I feel like I did
- 8:38Speaker 2: that so long ago. But the real thing was that
- 8:42Speaker 2: there were just more more recent studies that were done
- 8:45Speaker 2: on women specifically to include in that project, right, and
- 8:51Speaker 2: really talking about there weren't even when we wrote that,
- 8:55Speaker 2: people weren't worrying or rings or whoopstraps or any of
- 8:57Speaker 2: that kind of stuff. There was no tech, so we
- 8:59Speaker 2: would talking more about you know, there's a whole section
- 9:02Speaker 2: on tech, sort of a whole section about how to
- 9:05Speaker 2: track little more in depth nuanced knowledge about how women
- 9:09Speaker 2: can respond or not respond to the luvial phase and
- 9:12Speaker 2: ovulation and all that. So it was really just going
- 9:15Speaker 2: back in and inserting the most recent science, adding stuff
- 9:21Speaker 2: that literally didn't exist when we wrote it the first time,
- 9:24Speaker 2: and just making it a more current book.
- 9:27Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that, do you? Okay? So outside of
- 9:31Speaker 1: that you help? What is your role with Feisty?
- 9:35Speaker 2: Okay? I have the hip Play not Pause podcast and
- 9:39Speaker 2: that has been going on since twenty twenty and it's
- 9:42Speaker 2: just a place where I talk about how to adjust
- 9:46Speaker 2: your training and your nutrition and your mindset with your
- 9:49Speaker 2: changing physiology during this time of life, so you can
- 9:51Speaker 2: still perform because mainstream menopause advice really does not work
- 9:56Speaker 2: well for active athletic women because they just say you
- 10:00Speaker 2: should exercise and eat well, and we're like, yeah, okay, great,
- 10:02Speaker 2: you know.
- 10:02Speaker 1: We're in that.
- 10:03Speaker 2: Yeah, So it goes beyond that. And then I am
- 10:08Speaker 2: also the content manager for a Feisty Menopause, which is
- 10:11Speaker 2: the Umbrella brand. So I have a Feisty forty plus
- 10:14Speaker 2: newsletter that goes it's pretty much it's not just menopause,
- 10:18Speaker 2: but it's sort of anything masters level women, and I
- 10:21Speaker 2: create anything under that brand that has to do with
- 10:24Speaker 2: women in this demographic.
- 10:26Speaker 1: Okay, so the hit Play not Pause podcast, I mean,
- 10:31Speaker 1: of course, any any female can listen to that is
- 10:35Speaker 1: geared more towards the endurance athletic female.
- 10:39Speaker 2: Your strength. It's it is geared towards women who are
- 10:44Speaker 2: purposely active in care. It's kind of how I put it, like,
- 10:47Speaker 2: because sometimes people get turned off by the word athlete.
- 10:50Speaker 2: They don't self dot even people I talk to people
- 10:52Speaker 2: all the time. They're like, well, yeah, I do triathlons
- 10:55Speaker 2: and I do this, but I'm not really an athlete.
- 10:57Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, you kind of are, but they just aren't.
- 11:00Speaker 2: They just don't identify that way. And I one hundred
- 11:02Speaker 2: percent understand that. But it's anybody who even if they're
- 11:05Speaker 2: on their peloton five days a week or whatever, they
- 11:09Speaker 2: still feel the same effects. Right, They're still going through
- 11:12Speaker 2: it and they're still maybe not enjoying their peloton rides anymore,
- 11:15Speaker 2: or maybe they're at CrossFit and they don't know what
- 11:17Speaker 2: body's going to show up and it's a drag. So
- 11:19Speaker 2: it's really just helping people who are active and like
- 11:23Speaker 2: being active continue to feel good in their bodies as
- 11:26Speaker 2: their bodies are going through this really big transition.
- 11:29Speaker 1: Okay, so what are the most common questions that you
- 11:33Speaker 1: get as you are doing your podcast? What were the
- 11:38Speaker 1: most popular topics? Way the common questions.
- 11:41Speaker 2: I mean, the weight issue is by and large the
- 11:46Speaker 2: biggest thing that comes up. It's body composition changes. Not
- 11:49Speaker 2: just wait, I shouldn't just say wait, it's it is
- 11:51Speaker 2: body composition changes. It is the where did my muscles go?
- 11:57Speaker 2: Where did this fat game come from? Whereas my power?
- 12:01Speaker 2: You know that kind of thing. Is it is, by
- 12:04Speaker 2: and large, you know, the largest topic that comes up
- 12:07Speaker 2: in this and I think that it it hits everybody.
- 12:11Speaker 2: I believe it lands differently, if not harder, for this
- 12:16Speaker 2: population because they're so accustomed to work in outcome out,
- 12:22Speaker 2: you know, like I do this work, and this is
- 12:24Speaker 2: what happens. And when all of a sudden you're doing
- 12:28Speaker 2: this work and following the same same training peaks, plan,
- 12:32Speaker 2: the same nutrition, all the things that have been working
- 12:35Speaker 2: one plus one, E plus two, and all of a sudden,
- 12:37Speaker 2: it's minus five. It's very disorienting.
- 12:41Speaker 1: So along with these hormonal changes, do you think that
- 12:47Speaker 1: then there is a need to train women differently?
- 12:51Speaker 2: I mean and men or are women in the oh?
- 12:56Speaker 2: I think there's a need. Yes. I let me breaface
- 13:00Speaker 2: this by saying, I, of course came up not training
- 13:04Speaker 2: any differently than men. Right. I was in a very
- 13:07Speaker 2: male dominated sport. I was quite successful. However, once I
- 13:12Speaker 2: met Stacey and started learning more, a lot of dots
- 13:16Speaker 2: got connected. There were things that I would experience. I
- 13:20Speaker 2: would be on my bike and I would not be
- 13:23Speaker 2: able to I would just overheat right away, you know.
- 13:26Speaker 2: I would be racing and it would be certain times
- 13:28Speaker 2: that I would just like, I would not be able
- 13:30Speaker 2: to thermal regulate, I'd be overheating or other my power
- 13:33Speaker 2: didn't feel right, and I never until she had me
- 13:36Speaker 2: track and I was like, oh, it's always sort of
- 13:38Speaker 2: at the same time of my cycle. And then I learned.
- 13:42Speaker 2: And sometimes it's just simple things like I would learn
- 13:44Speaker 2: to just really get on top of my hydration. I
- 13:46Speaker 2: would use like pre load products just to make sure
- 13:49Speaker 2: I was super hydrated going in. These things, little things,
- 13:52Speaker 2: but it makes a huge difference when you're racing your
- 13:54Speaker 2: bike for four hours, you know, when you're doing these
- 13:56Speaker 2: kind of things, that kind of something's a huge difference.
- 13:59Speaker 2: So I don't know that I necessarily would have cycle
- 14:02Speaker 2: sinced or done things like that, but I would have
- 14:04Speaker 2: been more in tune to my cycle, and I would
- 14:07Speaker 2: have been more in tune to how it impacted me
- 14:10Speaker 2: and how to work with that, so I could just
- 14:12Speaker 2: keep performing and not be flumoxed every twenty five days,
- 14:15Speaker 2: you know, because I'd never tracked, I was like, what
- 14:17Speaker 2: is happening? So I don't think people need to. I
- 14:20Speaker 2: think that you can take this idea of training differently
- 14:23Speaker 2: for a women, like over the top, and I think
- 14:27Speaker 2: you see some of that, you know on online, but
- 14:32Speaker 2: I do think that women, because we are so hormonally driven,
- 14:35Speaker 2: our hormones are so different, we do need a different approach.
- 14:39Speaker 2: We do need somebody who at least understands that you know,
- 14:41Speaker 2: there are times of the month that your joints might
- 14:44Speaker 2: be different, and women at postpartum. I remember like after
- 14:46Speaker 2: I had my daughter, I felt like gumby, I'm like,
- 14:48Speaker 2: I don't know what's happening, might pop a shoulder out,
- 14:51Speaker 2: and I'm not sure what's going on. You need someone
- 14:54Speaker 2: to really understand those things. It's important, and women are
- 14:57Speaker 2: We take a journey with our hormones each month and
- 15:01Speaker 2: over a course of our life, and so I think
- 15:03Speaker 2: it's just important. And I will say one other thing
- 15:05Speaker 2: for people who do like cycle thinking, because I don't
- 15:08Speaker 2: want to just trash on that, because I do think
- 15:10Speaker 2: that the people who do it are are very successful
- 15:13Speaker 2: with it. One of the things that makes it successful
- 15:16Speaker 2: for a lot of people is there following structure and
- 15:20Speaker 2: a sense of periodization, where that where otherwise they were
- 15:23Speaker 2: not doing anything structured. So if you purposely train it
- 15:27Speaker 2: a certain intensity at certain times and then give yourself
- 15:29Speaker 2: rest and then work on technique like that's going to
- 15:31Speaker 2: be successful for you, right, and if it happens to
- 15:33Speaker 2: sync in with your physiology, all the better.
- 15:37Speaker 1: Yeah. And I think there's always in every field we
- 15:41Speaker 1: see this pendulum swing where there's no one paying attention
- 15:46Speaker 1: to this, and now everyone's paying attention to it, and
- 15:48Speaker 1: the magic is usually in the middle of you know,
- 15:52Speaker 1: because you have the pushback right now. Is a lot
- 15:55Speaker 1: of experts that are like, but there's no difference in
- 15:58Speaker 1: the literature, or there's no diff diference for you know,
- 16:01Speaker 1: this specific thing in the literature.
- 16:03Speaker 2: I have thoughts on that I have. It's very hard
- 16:09Speaker 2: to replicate a lot of this in a laboratory exercise study.
- 16:17Speaker 2: And also women, just because you can hit certain numbers
- 16:22Speaker 2: doesn't mean you feel great while doing it, and it
- 16:25Speaker 2: doesn't mean that you're going to recover well. You know,
- 16:27Speaker 2: there's a lot of nuance to this. Like I was
- 16:29Speaker 2: saying about hydrating or like overheating, there's a lot of
- 16:32Speaker 2: stuff that's just not captured there. So you can say, well,
- 16:35Speaker 2: you hit the same power numbers. Okay, that's one piece
- 16:39Speaker 2: of the puzzle. What was my rpe? How did I
- 16:41Speaker 2: feel that I did it feel harder, did it feel easier?
- 16:44Speaker 2: How did it feel after, you know, there's a lot
- 16:45Speaker 2: of stuff that just isn't captured when you have twenty
- 16:49Speaker 2: women doing a six week study.
- 16:52Speaker 1: Okay, that was that was it right there, because I've
- 16:58Speaker 1: never really thought of it that way. I've seen it
- 17:00Speaker 1: as the pros and the cons that come from these studies,
- 17:03Speaker 1: and uh, I haven't really put it into that light.
- 17:07Speaker 1: So thank you for thank you for sharing that. So
- 17:12Speaker 1: you coach women, do you? You do the podcast, but
- 17:15Speaker 1: do you coach women individually as well?
- 17:18Speaker 2: Not anymore. I used to be a trainer and a
- 17:22Speaker 2: coach individually, and I do not have the bandwidth to
- 17:26Speaker 2: do that. And honestly, the one on one was not
- 17:29Speaker 2: iver mind like, the programming one on one was never
- 17:31Speaker 2: my favorite part of the thing. So I have put
- 17:33Speaker 2: that aside and I work just with my broad brushes
- 17:38Speaker 2: and I let people like yourself go into the individual work.
- 17:42Speaker 1: Okay, So let's talk then about you have from all
- 17:47Speaker 1: of these collaborating lead leading experts that you have written
- 17:50Speaker 1: books with or that you're writing book a book with
- 17:52Speaker 1: right now, where do you see, like, what are the
- 17:55Speaker 1: similarities and what are the differences between Because this is
- 17:59Speaker 1: this is a huge issue where I know we have
- 18:01Speaker 1: talked about this, maybe in your podcast or maybe when
- 18:03Speaker 1: we did our pre podcast that maybe should have been
- 18:06Speaker 1: the podcast that happens all the time where we talk
- 18:11Speaker 1: about this. You know, people will come in and just
- 18:15Speaker 1: be like, but this person said this, this is it
- 18:18Speaker 1: because they said it, and we're like, well, there's always
- 18:21Speaker 1: a realm of everything. So what are the similarities and
- 18:25Speaker 1: differences that you have seen with working with, you know,
- 18:29Speaker 1: different experts, writing a book or even in the podcast world.
- 18:33Speaker 2: I think broad strokes at least a lot of the
- 18:36Speaker 2: people that I work with, I follow, collaborate with, are
- 18:43Speaker 2: have the same wide guardrails. Let's say it that way.
- 18:46Speaker 2: Are hit the same broad boxes they do. Women should
- 18:50Speaker 2: be resistance training, some of that should be heavy. You
- 18:54Speaker 2: need some form of cardio. What does that look like?
- 18:58Speaker 2: People don't necessarily agree on. That's definitely a point right
- 19:01Speaker 2: now where people are like, oh, zone two or no,
- 19:03Speaker 2: you know, I mean, there's all those arguments how much
- 19:07Speaker 2: protein should you eat? But I think they all sort
- 19:10Speaker 2: of believe in the overarching ideas of those you know
- 19:15Speaker 2: that you need these things. It's the nuance where they
- 19:20Speaker 2: have different ideas and as somebody who has written books
- 19:23Speaker 2: for thirty years now for all different people. You can
- 19:26Speaker 2: find literature to support almost any of those nuances. That's
- 19:31Speaker 2: just true. So people get real, real lost in the weeds.
- 19:37Speaker 2: But I always encourage them, like, just pull back and
- 19:40Speaker 2: look high level what people are saying, and you will
- 19:44Speaker 2: see more similarities than differences. And then what works for
- 19:50Speaker 2: you and you and I talked about that when we
- 19:51Speaker 2: did our show. It's like, you do need to be
- 19:55Speaker 2: an end of one then at some point and try
- 19:58Speaker 2: a couple of hats on which one looks best, which
- 20:00Speaker 2: one fits best, and that might change, you know, it
- 20:04Speaker 2: might change over time with you as you change, And
- 20:06Speaker 2: that's okay. There are many ways up the mountain. I
- 20:10Speaker 2: always say that there are many ways up the mountain.
- 20:13Speaker 2: But on a very broad level, a lot of the
- 20:18Speaker 2: experts are kind of saying the same high level things.
- 20:21Speaker 2: They just have different ideas about the execution within.
- 20:27Speaker 1: Perfection. So I love there's more than one way up
- 20:30Speaker 1: a hill. I always say, there's more than one way
- 20:31Speaker 1: to skin a cat.
- 20:32Speaker 3: Your sounding way, Yes, I mean I would always tell
- 20:50Speaker 3: them look look high level, like what are.
- 20:55Speaker 2: The main points that you're seeing. You know that these
- 20:58Speaker 2: people are saying that you need and then what do
- 21:01Speaker 2: you need to fit in your life. I've seen people
- 21:06Speaker 2: who upend everything they're doing even though what they're doing
- 21:09Speaker 2: is working, and that makes no sense. So if what
- 21:12Speaker 2: you're doing is working, yea, yay, keep doing it. Do
- 21:18Speaker 2: do not need to change it. This advice is really
- 21:20Speaker 2: there for you. When your physiology starts to change and
- 21:24Speaker 2: I see this a lot, and what you have always
- 21:27Speaker 2: done is like we just talked about, isn't yielding those
- 21:30Speaker 2: same results, then you do have to pull back and think, Okay,
- 21:34Speaker 2: what is happening. I need more stimulation for my muscles.
- 21:37Speaker 2: I need to lift heavier. Maybe I'm drowning in volume.
- 21:40Speaker 2: I don't want to do all that volume. I need
- 21:42Speaker 2: to bring that back and then experiment with that as
- 21:45Speaker 2: you need to for what fits your goals and be
- 21:48Speaker 2: open to trial and error for a while. People do,
- 21:53Speaker 2: and I understand that. I understand they want someone just
- 21:55Speaker 2: to lay out, tell me what to do every day,
- 21:57Speaker 2: Just tell me and you could start there, and if
- 22:01Speaker 2: it's not working for you, then you then you need
- 22:04Speaker 2: to adjust.
- 22:06Speaker 1: Okay.
- 22:06Speaker 2: That's why working with people like yourselves is useful, because
- 22:09Speaker 2: you have somebody to bounce that off of.
- 22:11Speaker 1: Yeah, and I mean again, if we pull back because
- 22:17Speaker 1: the nuances and the controversy and debate online between thirty
- 22:23Speaker 1: grands and forty grands, just freaking eat protein at every meal.
- 22:28Speaker 1: It depends on the age, It depends on the the
- 22:30Speaker 1: you know the goal. Are you in a wait fat
- 22:32Speaker 1: loss phase? Are you building muscle? What's your age? Like,
- 22:36Speaker 1: what's your height, what's your weight? All of those Like
- 22:39Speaker 1: everything comes in context. But what I think is it's
- 22:44Speaker 1: like what we always say and nobody wants to majoring
- 22:47Speaker 1: in the minors, like these little minute details that I'm like,
- 22:52Speaker 1: I think it comes and I would love your opinion
- 22:54Speaker 1: as well. For me, I see it as women are
- 22:57Speaker 1: desperate because all of us sudden they don't recognize their bodies.
- 23:01Speaker 1: So they're just like hanging and clinging onto everything to
- 23:06Speaker 1: try to do. And I'm like, if you are just
- 23:08Speaker 1: consistent and you try try this, and if it doesn't work,
- 23:11Speaker 1: and I know, everyone's impatient because they don't like necessarily
- 23:15Speaker 1: what they see. And while I don't always like the
- 23:20Speaker 1: body composition conversation because everyone's like, well, we should be
- 23:24Speaker 1: worried about being strong and independent and all. It's that's true,
- 23:28Speaker 1: but behind that, it's still a hell of a lot
- 23:31Speaker 1: of women that are like, but I want help, and
- 23:34Speaker 1: I don't need to look nineteen, but I want help
- 23:37Speaker 1: because I just want to feel good right now. So
- 23:40Speaker 1: body composition has to be part of the conversation because
- 23:43Speaker 1: it's what at least you just said, it was the
- 23:46Speaker 1: number one thing you get asked. It's by far the
- 23:48Speaker 1: number one thing that I get asked as well, what's
- 23:50Speaker 1: your opinion on that?
- 23:52Speaker 2: And so one hundred percent true. And I struggle with
- 23:55Speaker 2: this mightily because there are a lot of women in
- 23:59Speaker 2: my group. I am among them, who have struggled with
- 24:01Speaker 2: eating disordered and disordered eating over their lives. And athletes
- 24:08Speaker 2: get a lot of you know, we've come up with
- 24:10Speaker 2: race weight and you can't be fit enough. It's very
- 24:14Speaker 2: very treacherous territory for a lot of women. And I
- 24:18Speaker 2: see more under eating than I see overeating in our population,
- 24:21Speaker 2: quite frankly. And I had doctor Bill Campbell on last
- 24:25Speaker 2: week because I really I wanted everyone to hear. He
- 24:29Speaker 2: is a fat loss researcher who said when my wife
- 24:32Speaker 2: gained weight, I could not help her. And this is
- 24:34Speaker 2: why I'm on this menopause because a lot of women
- 24:37Speaker 2: are resistant and if you look around the planet, women
- 24:42Speaker 2: gain weight all of the world at this time of life,
- 24:45Speaker 2: and some of it is your body protecting you. It is,
- 24:50Speaker 2: It's just it is what it is. Now. That said,
- 24:54Speaker 2: I do think that there is a conversation to be
- 24:57Speaker 2: had and that you can change what you're doing to
- 25:02Speaker 2: optimize your body composition as best you can. While there
- 25:06Speaker 2: are still people who will be resistant to fat loss,
- 25:09Speaker 2: and that we know that's true. And I am very
- 25:13Speaker 2: hesitant to make them feel like failures because they feel
- 25:17Speaker 2: like failures. So it's a really hard I mean, you
- 25:20Speaker 2: know it, it's a really hard place to be.
- 25:24Speaker 1: It is, and it's you know it. I've never I
- 25:28Speaker 1: always say that there's outliers, and those are the outliers
- 25:31Speaker 1: you're speaking to. I've never had a course that's been
- 25:35Speaker 1: one hundred percent everyone has lost weight. I've never had
- 25:39Speaker 1: all one on one clients where every single person. There
- 25:41Speaker 1: have been a couple where I'm scratching my head and
- 25:43Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't I'm out of tools, Like I'm
- 25:46Speaker 1: out of tools here. And that is where this part
- 25:50Speaker 1: of I mean, bless Bill Campbell, Bless that someone is
- 25:54Speaker 1: that at his level that is a fat loss researcher
- 25:57Speaker 1: is taking into account this menopaust because there are some
- 26:01Speaker 1: that you know, and it's really it's such an emotional
- 26:05Speaker 1: topic that a woman doesn't even want to come into
- 26:08Speaker 1: a course because they're like, well, what's the point. I
- 26:10Speaker 1: just it doesn't like I'm going to fail. Yeah, So
- 26:14Speaker 1: much needed research and more education on this, and I'm
- 26:17Speaker 1: super excited to see where the next decade lies with
- 26:21Speaker 1: what you're learn because holy cow, I mean over the
- 26:24Speaker 1: last decade, we weren't even talking about menopause. No one
- 26:29Speaker 1: was maybe Stacy on that first stage.
- 26:35Speaker 2: Yeah, but it is definitely in the conversation now and
- 26:38Speaker 2: and we'll see research on it, and it's much needed.
- 26:43Speaker 4: What products do you think are helpful and what do
- 26:46Speaker 4: you specifically use and recommend for your clients during this time?
- 26:52Speaker 2: I mean it really that's a very very individual conversation.
- 26:55Speaker 2: I will say that a lot of people in my
- 26:59Speaker 2: audience maybe you see it too, struggle with joint issues
- 27:03Speaker 2: and that kind of like joint pain, joint health issues.
- 27:06Speaker 2: And they are I will say it, they are a
- 27:10Speaker 2: sponsor of my podcast, and they're a sponsor of our show.
- 27:13Speaker 2: But they are a sponsored because their products worked so
- 27:15Speaker 2: great for me that I couldn't stop talking about them.
- 27:18Speaker 2: There's Joint Health Plus is something that I recommend a
- 27:21Speaker 2: lot in my audience. Has got eggshell membrane and bosuelia
- 27:24Speaker 2: and collagen. And I was having such pain in my
- 27:27Speaker 2: big toes. They were getting rigid. After I did iron Man,
- 27:30Speaker 2: I had like bone spurs and stuff, and they I
- 27:32Speaker 2: went to the doctors and like, well, we can't do
- 27:34Speaker 2: anything with surgery, and I don't really want that. So
- 27:37Speaker 2: I tried a bunch of stuff and some thing's worked okay,
- 27:40Speaker 2: And then I found this product and they stopped. I
- 27:43Speaker 2: was waking up in the middle of the night with pain,
- 27:45Speaker 2: and within two weeks I wasn't waking up anymore. And
- 27:47Speaker 2: now I'm running an ultra in two weeks. So it
- 27:51Speaker 2: is made. It's made huge Joint health Plus from Prevenex.
- 27:57Speaker 2: It has made a huge difference in my life. So
- 27:59Speaker 2: that kind of thing I'll shout from the mountain docks like,
- 28:03Speaker 2: I find it extremely extremely useful. I will say that
- 28:09Speaker 2: there are women are still They'll be on the show
- 28:11Speaker 2: or I'll be talking to them and I hear over
- 28:13Speaker 2: and over they'll say, oh, I don't want to go
- 28:16Speaker 2: on hormone therapy or I gave in and I've decided
- 28:18Speaker 2: to try it, and I'm like, don't this language is
- 28:20Speaker 2: not right. If you are not feeling like yourself and
- 28:24Speaker 2: you have these hormonally driven signs and symptoms like hot
- 28:28Speaker 2: flashes or sleep disturbances or brain all the things brain
- 28:31Speaker 2: FuG even the joint pain. For some people, go and
- 28:35Speaker 2: talk to a menopause and forum practitioner and see about
- 28:38Speaker 2: using some hormone therapy. Please do not be afraid or
- 28:42Speaker 2: hesitant or think that it's some sort of like failure
- 28:45Speaker 2: or there's some trophy at the end of the line
- 28:46Speaker 2: if you get through without it. There's not like it
- 28:49Speaker 2: is a tool that is there for you, and it's
- 28:50Speaker 2: very underutilized.
- 28:51Speaker 1: Still, Yeah, it's I feel like the conversation around hormones
- 28:58Speaker 1: it's spicy as well. Oh boy, so controversial, which I
- 29:02Speaker 1: wish it wasn't.
- 29:04Speaker 2: It shouldn't be. There's no need for it to be.
- 29:07Speaker 2: But I think what has happened to your point is
- 29:09Speaker 2: it's this pendulum thing. So women went from being afraid
- 29:14Speaker 2: to use it, and there's still some people in that camp.
- 29:16Speaker 2: And then I hear all these people who are afraid
- 29:17Speaker 2: not to use it, because there's people who make them
- 29:19Speaker 2: feel like they're going to end up in an old
- 29:20Speaker 2: age home and turn to duck if they don't. And
- 29:23Speaker 2: I'm like, that's not really it either, you know. I'm like, again,
- 29:27Speaker 2: there's many ways we can help you, but the reality
- 29:32Speaker 2: is lying in the middle, and it is a very
- 29:34Speaker 2: personalized thing. But the benefits for most women one hundred percent.
- 29:39Speaker 2: Owagh the risks.
- 29:40Speaker 1: Do you how do you feel about testosterone? Now, that's
- 29:44Speaker 1: the one that I feel like is kind of the
- 29:47Speaker 1: darling of the hour where it's getting a lot of press,
- 29:51Speaker 1: it's getting a lot of but it's also the one
- 29:53Speaker 1: that's like, what, we don't have a lot of research
- 29:57Speaker 1: in this, and it's really hard to get curious your
- 30:01Speaker 1: thoughts about. Is this like the you know, the one
- 30:05Speaker 1: that is kind of the shining star of all of
- 30:09Speaker 1: the different hormones that we would take?
- 30:14Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I don't actually think so. I from
- 30:19Speaker 2: the experience, and as a competitive athlete, I have seen
- 30:24Speaker 2: illicit testosterone use in my day and I've seen you know,
- 30:28Speaker 2: other things. You need pretty high levels to get real
- 30:38Speaker 2: performance gains. And I'm talking from my end of the thing,
- 30:41Speaker 2: like I know, athletes who have permanent voice changes. Their
- 30:44Speaker 2: voices are deep forever because they went high on the testosterone.
- 30:50Speaker 2: I do think that we are going to see it
- 30:52Speaker 2: become more of the accepted cocktail of hormone therapy options
- 30:57Speaker 2: for women. I'll put it that way. Using Davis, who
- 31:00Speaker 2: I had on the show, is doing quite a bit
- 31:02Speaker 2: of research on bone health and muscle health and testosterone
- 31:06Speaker 2: to see where it fits in that, and I think
- 31:08Speaker 2: we do need to include it in the broader conversation
- 31:11Speaker 2: of what women need as opposed to just estradyle and progesterone.
- 31:15Speaker 2: But it's never just one thing, right, There's so many
- 31:20Speaker 2: different hormones. It's never In my opinion, I think what
- 31:23Speaker 2: we're going to see, it's not just estradyle either. Estradyle
- 31:27Speaker 2: is just one form of estrogen, right. There's a number
- 31:30Speaker 2: of them, and we make about three or whatever, you know.
- 31:35Speaker 2: I believe as this research evolves, we are going to
- 31:39Speaker 2: see far more nuanced care and precision medicine around hormones
- 31:47Speaker 2: because everyone's different. We have all had different receptors, you know.
- 31:51Speaker 2: I mean, I've had my hormones checked and they are
- 31:54Speaker 2: blow but I don't have any hot flashes. My bones
- 31:57Speaker 2: are great, my arteries are great. And when I tried
- 32:00Speaker 2: to take something a little higher, I felt naxious and
- 32:02Speaker 2: woozy and not good. So everyone is very different here.
- 32:06Speaker 1: Mm hmm, well, I'm feeling super space cadet every time
- 32:12Speaker 1: I've done a podcast or have my group calls because
- 32:15Speaker 1: the brain like out of nowhere. I'll be talking and
- 32:17Speaker 1: I'm like, sorry, guys, it's gone now. Luckily to this
- 32:20Speaker 1: group of women, everyone gets it. But I'm just like,
- 32:24Speaker 1: what what is happening? That's the biggest symptom that I
- 32:28Speaker 1: see that out of nowhere. I'm just like, I can't
- 32:30Speaker 1: think of a word. I can't think of a word.
- 32:32Speaker 1: I forgot what I was saying.
- 32:35Speaker 2: Have you seen doctor Lisa Musconi's work on this?
- 32:40Speaker 1: Not as much as I need to, because I love
- 32:42Speaker 1: her from the little things I have seen. But now
- 32:45Speaker 1: I'm gonna did she just have a book.
- 32:47Speaker 2: Or has she has? She has a couple of books,
- 32:50Speaker 2: but she has the mens I think it's called the
- 32:52Speaker 2: menopause brain. Yeah, I have it behind me. It's because
- 32:55Speaker 2: she did research. She' like your brain during Harry menopause
- 32:59Speaker 2: physically changes like it physically changes, well, our brains actually
- 33:04Speaker 2: change every mental cycle, which we did, Like who knew that? Like,
- 33:07Speaker 2: there's a little adaptions that goes every mental cycle, but
- 33:10Speaker 2: during perimenopause particularly, it has a change in the volume
- 33:16Speaker 2: and a change in the glucose metabolism, and then it
- 33:20Speaker 2: adjusts and reconfigures and finds other pathways of other energy systems.
- 33:25Speaker 2: It's fascinating. But yeah, we definitely experience it, some women
- 33:29Speaker 2: more than other, but probably about a quarter of women
- 33:32Speaker 2: go through some of that. I have seen in my
- 33:35Speaker 2: group a lot of women if even if they're on
- 33:37Speaker 2: hormone therapy, they find it doesn't always help. You must
- 33:41Speaker 2: be on creatane, right, Hayley, do you like some women
- 33:44Speaker 2: find creatine helps branch chain amino acid. Somebody just told
- 33:48Speaker 2: me they find that that is helping. But it is,
- 33:51Speaker 2: It's real, and there's no one thing that flicks that
- 33:55Speaker 2: lever for everybody. I wish I could tell you there
- 33:58Speaker 2: rose the.
- 33:59Speaker 4: More information that we find, and here it really is validating.
- 34:04Speaker 4: They're like, Okay, so I'm not crazy, I'm not losing
- 34:07Speaker 4: my mind.
- 34:08Speaker 1: It's helpful.
- 34:10Speaker 2: Totally, totally, because if you didn't know what was happening,
- 34:15Speaker 2: you would think you were just coming undone at least
- 34:17Speaker 2: like when you know what it is, it takes the
- 34:21Speaker 2: anxiety about it down a little bit because you're like, Okay,
- 34:23Speaker 2: this is a hormonal thing. I'm just gonna, you know,
- 34:27Speaker 2: do what I can and cope as best I can.
- 34:31Speaker 2: It does get better.
- 34:33Speaker 1: That's what I was gonna ask.
- 34:34Speaker 4: Feel like, So that's part of the mental like shift
- 34:41Speaker 4: in menopause. I feel like there's mental, physical, emotional.
- 34:47Speaker 2: There's a few mental shifts. I mean, the positive one
- 34:50Speaker 2: is that you lose all those nurturing hormones you know
- 34:55Speaker 2: that like, and you you just step into yourself mar
- 35:00Speaker 2: for lack of a better way to say it, like,
- 35:02Speaker 2: that's one of the big benefits across the board. Women
- 35:05Speaker 2: I talk to on the other side or just like,
- 35:08Speaker 2: this is kind of great. I don't care what anyone
- 35:10Speaker 2: thinks anymore.
- 35:11Speaker 1: Like a amen. This is like two years ago, had
- 35:17Speaker 1: you asked me if somebody were to write something mean
- 35:19Speaker 1: on my social media, I would just be like they
- 35:23Speaker 1: would ruin my day. And now I'm just like I
- 35:25Speaker 1: can't be bothered. Yeah, this is a positive for sure.
- 35:32Speaker 1: That's great. So how do you feel about adaptogens and
- 35:35Speaker 1: did you use them yourself or did you or do you.
- 35:40Speaker 2: I don't right now because I don't feel like I
- 35:42Speaker 2: need them. Well, I shouldn't say that. Like sometimes in training,
- 35:45Speaker 2: like ashwaganda is also good for training stress, so sometimes
- 35:49Speaker 2: I will bring that in if I'm doing a lot
- 35:51Speaker 2: of heavy training. I used that one and I used
- 35:55Speaker 2: Schandra early on, Like I used the ashwaganda for like
- 36:00Speaker 2: the anxiety and the stress that I was experiencing, and
- 36:03Speaker 2: I felt like it helped quite a bit for that.
- 36:05Speaker 2: And then I use the Sossandra just because Stacey had
- 36:08Speaker 2: recommended it as something when you were talking about the
- 36:10Speaker 2: brain fog. I didn't have a ton of it, so
- 36:13Speaker 2: I thought it was like it did give me a
- 36:15Speaker 2: little bit of a mental lift, but I didn't need
- 36:18Speaker 2: that at that point anymore. You know, I use that
- 36:20Speaker 2: for just a short while. Wow.
- 36:23Speaker 1: Okay, And do you think that in your opinion? Have
- 36:26Speaker 1: you heard from your community that women can they take
- 36:30Speaker 1: adaptogens and hormone therapy. Yes, that's a question that I
- 36:33Speaker 1: get a lot.
- 36:34Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, that's fine. The thing that you run into
- 36:37Speaker 2: with adaptogens is thyroid and a lot of women do
- 36:41Speaker 2: have thyroid medication or thyroid issues. That is something that
- 36:44Speaker 2: is usually a contraindication for using.
- 36:48Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So in your groups, we talked about the
- 36:53Speaker 1: number one question or issue being the body composition that
- 36:59Speaker 1: you get asked. But what where is the confusion? Where
- 37:03Speaker 1: are most people confused? Is it about the nutrition? Is
- 37:08Speaker 1: it about the fitness?
- 37:10Speaker 2: Uh, it's about everything. I don't know if there's any
- 37:12Speaker 2: I don't know if there's anyone. I don't know if
- 37:15Speaker 2: there's anyone you know, yeah, because they are already most
- 37:21Speaker 2: of them are already doing something right. So then the
- 37:24Speaker 2: confusion becomes off of the confusion is how how do
- 37:28Speaker 2: I how do I put all these pieces together? Because
- 37:31Speaker 2: they understand that there is this increase need to maintain
- 37:37Speaker 2: that resistance training and if they've never done that, how
- 37:39Speaker 2: do you work it into endurance training? Because those two
- 37:42Speaker 2: things can feel like they're competing with each other sometimes,
- 37:45Speaker 2: and then there's mobility. Where does that? You know? How
- 37:49Speaker 2: do I fit this all into a schedule? So I
- 37:51Speaker 2: think their biggest the biggest confusion that I see is
- 37:54Speaker 2: honestly on the programming side of like what does this
- 37:58Speaker 2: really look like in real life?
- 38:00Speaker 1: M So, what do you do yourself personally? Yeah?
- 38:06Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so it kind of it varies a little
- 38:09Speaker 2: bit around around the seasonality of it, because come summertime,
- 38:12Speaker 2: you'll find me on my bike an awful lot. You know.
- 38:15Speaker 2: I ride almost every day, very long on the weekends.
- 38:19Speaker 2: Right now, Like, let's take right now, I'm training for
- 38:22Speaker 2: this thirty k Ultra Trail run which is coming up
- 38:24Speaker 2: on March first, And I did that intentionally to get
- 38:27Speaker 2: through the winter without having to be on my bike
- 38:29Speaker 2: outside like I've always had. When I was rain seen professionally,
- 38:32Speaker 2: I trained outside in the freezing cold on my bike
- 38:34Speaker 2: and I was like done. So I right now I
- 38:38Speaker 2: lift five mornings for four or five mornings a week,
- 38:41Speaker 2: not always heavy, just something just moving my body, you know,
- 38:45Speaker 2: maybe twice a week doing something heavy.
- 38:47Speaker 1: I do.
- 38:49Speaker 2: A long run on Saturday, and then during the week
- 38:53Speaker 2: I'll do like one day where I'm doing hills, I'll
- 38:56Speaker 2: do another day while I'm doing some form work like
- 38:59Speaker 2: some Hayden strills, that kind of thing. So I'm doing
- 39:02Speaker 2: pretty much something every day except Monday is always a
- 39:05Speaker 2: rejuvenation day for me.
- 39:08Speaker 1: I love that. So I need to work on mobility
- 39:11Speaker 1: because I always scrub.
- 39:13Speaker 2: If I don't include it in my strength training, I
- 39:18Speaker 2: don't do it either. I will like I will never
- 39:20Speaker 2: carve out a special time for mobility. But I have
- 39:22Speaker 2: a do you guys know what a tonal is? I
- 39:27Speaker 2: love it. I love it. So I have been following
- 39:31Speaker 2: Christina Centenarian's programs. She does the strength training for runners,
- 39:35Speaker 2: and she does all those controlled articular rotations. She does mobility,
- 39:39Speaker 2: like three minutes of mobility before and after, and it
- 39:43Speaker 2: is amazing.
- 39:45Speaker 1: It is.
- 39:46Speaker 2: It's the only way I'll do it. If somebody is like,
- 39:48Speaker 2: we're gonna do this, okay, yes we are, and then
- 39:51Speaker 2: but We're not going to do it too long or
- 39:52Speaker 2: I'll stop and then we do our strength and because
- 39:56Speaker 2: I really do feel the difference. But I'm like you,
- 39:59Speaker 2: it's so hard to myself actually do it separately. I
- 40:02Speaker 2: won't do it.
- 40:04Speaker 4: Have you become have you become a better runner or cyclist?
- 40:08Speaker 1: The older you get?
- 40:12Speaker 2: Uh No.
- 40:13Speaker 4: The reason why I asked when I was you were
- 40:15Speaker 4: saying something and it reminded me of a woman that
- 40:19Speaker 4: I worked with years ago, and she was a huge
- 40:23Speaker 4: runner and she loved to cycle. And I remember her saying,
- 40:26Speaker 4: the older I get, the faster runner I am. And
- 40:30Speaker 4: I'm actually a better runner and cyclist now that I'm older.
- 40:35Speaker 2: How old is older.
- 40:37Speaker 4: Well, I was like twenty one at the time, so.
- 40:41Speaker 2: Yeah, how literally get older? I mean I feel like she.
- 40:44Speaker 4: Was maybe forty nine fifty, so.
- 40:48Speaker 1: She wasn't old.
- 40:49Speaker 2: But yeah, so let me let me preface that, like
- 40:52Speaker 2: I started, I got I started racing semi professionally on
- 40:58Speaker 2: my mount bike when I was forty, and I raced
- 41:00Speaker 2: pretty much from forty to forty eight or so at
- 41:03Speaker 2: that level, and I felt bionic. I mean I felt like, yes,
- 41:06Speaker 2: I was way stronger than I was when I was
- 41:08Speaker 2: in my twenties or thirty one hundred percent and could
- 41:11Speaker 2: race for days. I was a stage racer. So I
- 41:13Speaker 2: do think women do become we peak later definitely, And yeah,
- 41:18Speaker 2: I wonder if you saw that. Okay, yeah, oh I
- 41:20Speaker 2: definitely see that. And I just said a post about this.
- 41:24Speaker 2: I've been very pleasantly surprised because I'm an on again
- 41:28Speaker 2: and off again runner for sure, but my times are
- 41:32Speaker 2: not really different now. I am going to be fifty
- 41:34Speaker 2: six on Friday, and they're not really different from when
- 41:38Speaker 2: I was thirty six, honestly, like I probably need more recovery,
- 41:42Speaker 2: but like when I they're actually just not that different.
- 41:47Speaker 2: I love that and the strength training helps a ton.
- 41:50Speaker 2: There's no question that that has been a really essential
- 41:53Speaker 2: piece for me to be doing that at this point,
- 41:56Speaker 2: no question.
- 41:58Speaker 1: Do you think that they're room there's room for different
- 42:01Speaker 1: rep ranges for lifting heaven, Yes.
- 42:04Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes I do.
- 42:09Speaker 4: I do.
- 42:10Speaker 2: I do think. Here's what I think happened, if I
- 42:16Speaker 2: if I can say this, so, I think that when
- 42:21Speaker 2: we were putting out the message to lift heavy shit
- 42:24Speaker 2: and to lift heavier and to get in those loyal
- 42:26Speaker 2: rep ranges, we were saying things that had never hit
- 42:30Speaker 2: women's ears before in a large way, in a mainstream way.
- 42:33Speaker 2: Most women had never heard that I had written for
- 42:35Speaker 2: those shape self, very clear, glamour all of them. We
- 42:38Speaker 2: never told anyone to lift less than six reps ever,
- 42:42Speaker 2: like it was always eight to twelve or you know,
- 42:45Speaker 2: like like it was always eight pound dumbells for one
- 42:48Speaker 2: hundred whatever. So telling women to get into especially to
- 42:54Speaker 2: build strength, and even like endurance athletes never lifted heavy
- 42:59Speaker 2: to build strength. This is all pretty new in all
- 43:02Speaker 2: of these spaces, and it's just an evolution of our
- 43:05Speaker 2: understanding of how strength training works and how you know,
- 43:09Speaker 2: all of that with resistance training and with women. But
- 43:15Speaker 2: it's not like that's all you need to do. You know,
- 43:18Speaker 2: like you can do your your heavier lifting and also
- 43:22Speaker 2: do your especially for accessory lifts. Like I'll do a
- 43:27Speaker 2: heavier lift for say a dead lift and do five
- 43:30Speaker 2: reps or six reps, but then eight to ten of
- 43:34Speaker 2: goblet lunches or something, right, you know. I mean there's
- 43:37Speaker 2: these things can work together, and there's you still want
- 43:41Speaker 2: to like give your muscles variety and a different stimulation,
- 43:45Speaker 2: and they're still foundational work. So that's a long way
- 43:48Speaker 2: of saying yes.
- 43:50Speaker 1: Yes, I love it. Okay, So do you run any
- 43:55Speaker 1: groups where you talk about nutrition and fitness for women?
- 44:03Speaker 2: We have a course called Navigate Menopause and we talk
- 44:08Speaker 2: about all of that. I actually have uh dietician who
- 44:12Speaker 2: is part of that, strength training coach who is part
- 44:15Speaker 2: of that, a hormone endochronology doctor who is part of that,
- 44:19Speaker 2: and we have eight modules where we talk specifically about
- 44:22Speaker 2: all of these things for active women and how they
- 44:26Speaker 2: how they can approach it.
- 44:29Speaker 1: Yeah, that's great. And then is that that's something that
- 44:32Speaker 1: you run on your own.
- 44:34Speaker 2: That's through feisty, that's through feisty media.
- 44:37Speaker 1: Okay, Natural Navigate.
- 44:40Speaker 2: Menopause, Navigate menopause menopause, and is.
- 44:43Speaker 1: That year round or do you have like open closed
- 44:46Speaker 1: card or is it a tape.
- 44:47Speaker 2: It's open closed. We do it a couple of times,
- 44:50Speaker 2: two or three times a year. And we actually have
- 44:53Speaker 2: March coming up. We'll do another another session, another session.
- 44:57Speaker 1: Awesome. Okay, So we know that everyone is jumping on
- 45:03Speaker 1: the mental train, for good or for bad. I think
- 45:07Speaker 1: we're both in agreeance that the majority of the experts
- 45:14Speaker 1: that are are getting a lot of the having a
- 45:17Speaker 1: lot of the noise, that are the that are the
- 45:20Speaker 1: ones that everyone's following, have all like good intentions and
- 45:24Speaker 1: kind of the same. There's differences, but there's similarities. But
- 45:28Speaker 1: do you see this space targeting these women? You know,
- 45:33Speaker 1: all of us that are insecure already about this transition
- 45:36Speaker 1: and that products are coming in and you know, magic
- 45:40Speaker 1: supplements or magic workouts or whatever that that are we
- 45:44Speaker 1: in danger of getting. I mean we're always sold to.
- 45:47Speaker 2: We're there, like diet culture has followed us, right, Like
- 45:53Speaker 2: a lot of the menopause marketing is just diet culture
- 45:56Speaker 2: wrapped up in another bow. I mean, we we've we've
- 45:59Speaker 2: been here before or and it's it's the same and
- 46:02Speaker 2: it's it's the same insidious We're going to prey on
- 46:06Speaker 2: the things that are into you insecure about I hate
- 46:10Speaker 2: the term metal belly. I hate all of that. And
- 46:13Speaker 2: but that's that is what they're going for, skin, fat,
- 46:18Speaker 2: this and that, you know, and it's uh, yeah, there
- 46:22Speaker 2: is a lot of predatory marketing towards women because there's
- 46:25Speaker 2: billions of dollars to be made. And I'll tell you
- 46:28Speaker 2: like one of the I won't name them by name,
- 46:30Speaker 2: but there is a main major company out there that
- 46:35Speaker 2: you know, for hormone therapy specifically that in their marketing
- 46:39Speaker 2: has like do you want to fit in your slim
- 46:41Speaker 2: clothes again? You know, and they're they're talking about hormone
- 46:44Speaker 2: therapy like it's going to help you get into your
- 46:46Speaker 2: slim clothes. And it makes me so angry. It makes
- 46:50Speaker 2: me really really that is yeah.
- 46:53Speaker 1: I actually said something that that there was like a
- 46:55Speaker 1: creatine product that was also going to make you lose
- 47:00Speaker 1: weight or something.
- 47:02Speaker 2: Come on, yeah, I mean, but it's sad.
- 47:06Speaker 1: I mean I every time I run groups, people will
- 47:08Speaker 1: send in and be like, what do you think of
- 47:10Speaker 1: this commercial?
- 47:12Speaker 2: I see it all pably not well. And this is
- 47:15Speaker 2: what I tell people, and I say this all the
- 47:18Speaker 2: time in the course and the Navigate Menopause Course. I
- 47:21Speaker 2: say it in the Hit Plane at Pause group. We
- 47:22Speaker 2: got thirty four thousand women in there. I say it
- 47:24Speaker 2: all the time. I say, if there was one thing
- 47:27Speaker 2: that worked that well, one hundred percent of us would
- 47:29Speaker 2: know about it, like everybody would know.
- 47:31Speaker 4: Such a good point.
- 47:33Speaker 2: You know, there's there's no secrets. Everybody would know.
- 47:37Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, good point. So I love the statement that
- 47:40Speaker 1: you made on your Instagram that said menopause does not
- 47:45Speaker 1: have to be a full time job. Can you dive
- 47:48Speaker 1: into that?
- 47:50Speaker 2: Yes, Well, I've had people like literally come up to
- 47:54Speaker 2: me sometimes we have menopause retreats and like no, no where.
- 47:57Speaker 2: We teach heavy lifting and we do all stuff, and
- 48:00Speaker 2: like this woman almost in tears. It's like this feels
- 48:04Speaker 2: like it's going to be a full time job, and
- 48:06Speaker 2: like it doesn't have to be, I promise you. And
- 48:09Speaker 2: it's kind of what we just talked about, Like they
- 48:11Speaker 2: hear all of these components that will help them, and
- 48:15Speaker 2: they feel like there is no way I can do
- 48:18Speaker 2: all this in one day, you know, let alone whatever
- 48:21Speaker 2: do a day after day. And that's when I talk about,
- 48:24Speaker 2: like what I just told you with that mobility. I
- 48:27Speaker 2: do need mobility at this point, like there's no question
- 48:29Speaker 2: I do. But I don't need to do forty five
- 48:32Speaker 2: minutes of it. I'm not exaggerating when I probably say
- 48:36Speaker 2: I do three and a half maybe four, you know,
- 48:38Speaker 2: And it's booke nding my strength training. So that's not
- 48:41Speaker 2: a full time job. That's not like, that's not that
- 48:44Speaker 2: really really that much time. So you can, you can,
- 48:48Speaker 2: you can work this stuff into your life in a
- 48:50Speaker 2: way that is attainable and doable and does not feel overwhelming.
- 48:55Speaker 2: It does not have to be this full time job.
- 48:57Speaker 2: And I tell people like hit the big doms, you know,
- 49:01Speaker 2: like if you're not sleeping, address your sleep, like, get
- 49:04Speaker 2: on top of that, if you're having moot issues or
- 49:08Speaker 2: you're having have like get on top of the stuff
- 49:10Speaker 2: that's really disruptive, get on top of the things that
- 49:12Speaker 2: are going to make a big difference in your life,
- 49:14Speaker 2: and take like one little piece of time. You don't
- 49:16Speaker 2: need it. Nobody needs to do everything.
- 49:19Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean, and I'm sure because again I
- 49:22Speaker 1: feel like we're the same person in different groups totally,
- 49:26Speaker 1: you guys are. But I really want you know, I
- 49:30Speaker 1: really love my yoga class or I really love my
- 49:34Speaker 1: you know my whatever boot camp, I really love it.
- 49:40Speaker 1: Why are you asking me permission to do it? Do it?
- 49:44Speaker 1: As long as you have a strength like some strength
- 49:46Speaker 1: training in there and some cardio in there. I mean
- 49:51Speaker 1: there's just there's like there's maybe what might be slightly better,
- 49:57Speaker 1: and then there's what you're going to do, and that's
- 50:00Speaker 1: just like good, good.
- 50:03Speaker 2: Enough, And if you love it to it, I mean
- 50:05Speaker 2: that that that's if you love it, there's a reason
- 50:08Speaker 2: you love it. It's doing something for you that is
- 50:11Speaker 2: enhancing your life, and you're probably good at it. Yeah,
- 50:14Speaker 2: so that's what people are attracted to. You wouldn't love
- 50:18Speaker 2: something that made you feel bad or that you weren't
- 50:21Speaker 2: good at, Like, that's not human nature. So yeah, don't
- 50:25Speaker 2: you don't need to give up that kind of stuff?
- 50:27Speaker 2: I say, I hear that too, and it makes me sad,
- 50:30Speaker 2: like that's not that's not the point here.
- 50:32Speaker 4: You'll be more consistent if you love it one.
- 50:37Speaker 2: Hundred percent. And these people who are the Courtisol conversation,
- 50:41Speaker 2: it just has me cross eyed. And there are people
- 50:45Speaker 2: who are just afraid, they're afraid to exercise, Like what
- 50:49Speaker 2: is happening? Like, yeah, you need courts, you'll be dead.
- 50:52Speaker 2: You want to be dead, You need cortisol. I mean,
- 50:54Speaker 2: you just you need your recovery too, and you probably
- 50:58Speaker 2: need to focus on that more than you did when
- 51:01Speaker 2: you had more hormonal support and you were younger, and
- 51:04Speaker 2: you didn't need to concentrate on that recovery piece as much.
- 51:07Speaker 2: That's really the message, not the we need to demonize cortisol.
- 51:12Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I mean, it's like when we are
- 51:15Speaker 1: creating barriers for women to know what to do to
- 51:19Speaker 1: even exercise, that they don't want to exercise. This is
- 51:23Speaker 1: a problem.
- 51:24Speaker 2: It's problem. I agree one hundred percent.
- 51:27Speaker 1: How do you feel about continuous glucose monitors? Do you
- 51:30Speaker 1: have an opinion? Have you ever used one yourself?
- 51:32Speaker 2: I do have an opinion. I do think I, as
- 51:36Speaker 2: with many things, I think they can be over sold
- 51:39Speaker 2: and I think that I had a very interesting experience
- 51:43Speaker 2: with glucose monitors. I tried one of the very early ones.
- 51:47Speaker 2: It was called super Sapiens. They were trying to get
- 51:51Speaker 2: into the sports market but having a lot of trouble
- 51:54Speaker 2: because of the FDA and everything. But I tried it
- 51:57Speaker 2: and they had not, And this is still part the problem.
- 52:01Speaker 2: This is still pretty new to you using this technology
- 52:05Speaker 2: in a metabolically healthy population, So we we don't really
- 52:10Speaker 2: know what all the data means yet. Even the experts
- 52:12Speaker 2: don't know what all the data means dead. So I
- 52:14Speaker 2: would I would put this thing on, I would do
- 52:16Speaker 2: a race, I would try these things. They had them
- 52:18Speaker 2: on World Tour pro guys, and I was talking to
- 52:21Speaker 2: their scientists and they were like, we can't believe the numbers,
- 52:24Speaker 2: were saying, we don't know what this means. We didn't
- 52:26Speaker 2: expect them to be having these two hundred, Like the
- 52:28Speaker 2: numbers were out of this world and they were just flummocks.
- 52:31Speaker 2: They were like, I don't know what this means. And
- 52:35Speaker 2: that's like, that's just true. Like nobody had ever put
- 52:38Speaker 2: one on a Tour de France rider and been like,
- 52:40Speaker 2: go see what that looks like. It We just don't know.
- 52:44Speaker 2: So but what I did, what I think is useful
- 52:48Speaker 2: about them, and what I did learn. I did some experiments,
- 52:51Speaker 2: and what I took home more than anything, is that
- 52:55Speaker 2: stress is real and stress really does impact your blood
- 52:59Speaker 2: sugar more. You know, you think about that, you write
- 53:01Speaker 2: about that. But I would be just chilling now, and
- 53:05Speaker 2: then I would get like some email that would rile
- 53:08Speaker 2: me up and you could see it's fight. You can
- 53:10Speaker 2: see its fike, you can see my bulcher go up.
- 53:12Speaker 2: It was really interesting. And I did experiments where I
- 53:16Speaker 2: would have pad tie, right, I would have pad tie
- 53:19Speaker 2: on like a Tuesday night after whatever, and it would
- 53:21Speaker 2: be up. It would spike. But if I was chilling
- 53:25Speaker 2: watching a movie with my family on a Friday night,
- 53:27Speaker 2: it would do nothing like the glucose response to the
- 53:30Speaker 2: same meal can be so different depending on your your
- 53:35Speaker 2: set and setting and state of mind, no question, and
- 53:39Speaker 2: last thing I can say about that, the power of
- 53:41Speaker 2: a walk is unbelievable. I would that that whole idea
- 53:46Speaker 2: that you know, like traditionally people would like take stroll
- 53:50Speaker 2: after dinner whatever, do it. Everybody should stroll after dinner. Yeah,
- 53:53Speaker 2: it is so good for you. It's crazy what it
- 53:56Speaker 2: does to your your bluntugger levels. It's amazing. Yeah, So
- 54:00Speaker 2: it was. It was very like. I wore one for
- 54:01Speaker 2: about six months and I watched things and I did
- 54:03Speaker 2: experiments and I learned, you know, from it. But I
- 54:07Speaker 2: don't think we all need to be walking around with
- 54:09Speaker 2: them all the time. Yeah, Like I don't. I don't
- 54:11Speaker 2: think that's true, and I think that in some people
- 54:15Speaker 2: they're more harmful than they are good because they end
- 54:17Speaker 2: up eating in a very unhealthy way because they don't
- 54:21Speaker 2: want to move the blood sugar and that's not wise,
- 54:25Speaker 2: you know. I mean, you could sit there and just
- 54:26Speaker 2: eat lard all day if you want. You could eat
- 54:29Speaker 2: a stick of butter. You could eat stick of butter
- 54:31Speaker 2: with pork crimes and not like, what are we doing?
- 54:36Speaker 1: I actually saw someone on Instagram that was eating like butter,
- 54:41Speaker 1: just eating it, and I was like, I'm confused, I'm confused, what.
- 54:45Speaker 2: Are you doing? Okay? And they follow that with a
- 54:49Speaker 2: coffee and I'm sure because that's back too. I'm like,
- 54:52Speaker 2: what's happening?
- 54:53Speaker 1: You know when you put it in the other.
- 54:55Speaker 2: Hole up here, it works really great. You can just
- 54:58Speaker 2: try that.
- 55:00Speaker 1: Sorry, Yeah, this has.
- 55:01Speaker 2: Gone off the rails.
- 55:06Speaker 1: Okay, before we wrap up? Can get you just got exciting?
- 55:17Speaker 1: How do you talk about any projects that you're working
- 55:21Speaker 1: on or that you know you're excited about. Yeah, anything
- 55:25Speaker 1: you're excited about.
- 55:26Speaker 2: Oh, let's see what I am I excited about? We
- 55:29Speaker 2: have a gravel cycling camp. If I seeing menopause is
- 55:33Speaker 2: partnering with Thompson Tours and we're going to Gerona, Spain
- 55:36Speaker 2: to have a week long gravel writing, which will be
- 55:40Speaker 2: amazing at the end of April, because you know what,
- 55:44Speaker 2: the magic really happens when women get together in person,
- 55:48Speaker 2: Like I find that at the retreats, it's just man.
- 55:51Speaker 2: People really open up and they get clarity and it's
- 55:55Speaker 2: just so wonderful. So I'm really looking forward to that.
- 55:58Speaker 2: And I'm working on a book with doctor Bond to write.
- 56:01Speaker 2: I think I had shared that with you before, called Unbreakable.
- 56:04Speaker 2: She talks a lot about I learned a ton about
- 56:07Speaker 2: bones and how bones communicate with your brain and the
- 56:10Speaker 2: rest of Like we think of them as inert, like
- 56:13Speaker 2: just rods, you know, but they're not. They're living organs
- 56:17Speaker 2: within with our bodies that women really do need to
- 56:20Speaker 2: pay more attention to. Is very very important. So I'm
- 56:23Speaker 2: excited for that one too. So those are the two
- 56:25Speaker 2: things navigate. Menopause is ongoing and all the stuff with
- 56:28Speaker 2: Feisty is always exciting. So yeah, life is good.
- 56:31Speaker 1: Good. Where can people find you?
- 56:34Speaker 2: Fistymenopause dot Com is the best place because then you
- 56:36Speaker 2: can find the course, the podcast, all the stuff I write,
- 56:39Speaker 2: the blogs is all.
- 56:40Speaker 4: There and what's your Instagram.
- 56:43Speaker 2: It's at picty menopause.
- 56:46Speaker 1: Yeah, you are amazing, Selene, so thank you, thank you,
- 56:49Speaker 1: thank you for joining us and for your expertise and man,
- 56:53Speaker 1: one day I want I want you to write a
- 56:55Speaker 1: book for me, but I don't know what about.
- 56:59Speaker 2: That helps you first your workshop that a little bit.
- 57:06Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Selene. Yeah, thank you. We will
- 57:10Speaker 1: keep catching up with you and listening to the hit
- 57:14Speaker 1: Play not Pause podcast.
- 57:16Speaker 2: Thanks so much, thanks for listening.
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