Episode 25 | Why You’re Less Tolerant of People Now

Figuring It Out with Rachel Lee · Mar 25, 2026 · 9m

Why does other people’s behavior start bothering you more as you grow?

In this episode of Figuring It Out with Rachel Lee, Rachel explores the connection between self-awareness, judgment, and personal growth — and why increased awareness often leads to decreased tolerance.

She shares honest insights on noticing judgment in others, recognizing it within yourself, and understanding how past patterns like overfunctioning and oversharing were rooted in the desire to be seen.

This episode breaks down:

• Why judgment triggers you more as you become more self-aware

• The connection between judgment…