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- 0:00Speaker 1: My name is Natasha Bamblett. I'm a proud First Nations
- 0:02Speaker 1: woman and I'm here to acknowledge country. Hello beautiful friends.
- 0:08Speaker 1: We gather on the lands of the Aboriginal people. We thank,
- 0:13Speaker 1: acknowledge and respect the Aboriginal people's land that we're gathering
- 0:17Speaker 1: on today. Take pleasure in all the land and respect
- 0:33Speaker 1: all that you see. She's On The Money podcast acknowledges culture, country, community,
- 0:39Speaker 1: and connections, bringing you the tools, knowledge, and resources for
- 0:44Speaker 1: you to thrive.
- 0:44Speaker 2: She's on the money.
- 0:45Speaker 3: She's on the money.
- 0:46Speaker 4: She's on the money.
- 0:51Speaker 2: Hello, my spooky friends, and welcome to She's on the Money,
- 0:55Speaker 2: the podcast where we usually share in-depth philosophical discussions about
- 0:59Speaker 2: money and issues concerning your personal wealth goals.
- 1:01Speaker 3: But it's Friday, and you know what that means, my friends.
- 1:04Speaker 2: It is time for a Friday drinks, where we discard
- 1:07Speaker 2: the seriousness for a little levity.
- 1:09Speaker 3: And maybe a little spookiness.
- 1:12Speaker 4: Ooh.
- 1:14Speaker 3: Jess loves a spooky moment.
- 1:16Speaker 2: Joining me today are your two favourite co-hosts for another
- 1:20Speaker 2: round of Community Dilemmas, Whispers in the DMs, Broke Tips
- 1:24Speaker 2: and Money Wins of the Week. She's head of partnerships.
- 1:28Speaker 2: She's a painter. She's a lover of themes. And as
- 1:31Speaker 2: you can see, Halloween is no joke. It's Miss Jessica
- 1:35Speaker 2: Ricci and amateur photographer, raconteur, documenter of daily life.
- 1:42Speaker 3: It is the exceptional Miss Bec Syed. Oh, my gosh.
- 1:46Speaker 2: Hi. I love doing a little intro and I love
- 1:50Speaker 2: it that it feels a little bit spooky for those
- 1:52Speaker 2: of you following along.
- 1:53Speaker 3: Now, I hear we might be getting a little.
- 1:55Speaker 2: Bit dystopian today when it comes to this week's Community Dilemma.
- 1:59Speaker 2: Is the world not dystopian enough already?
- 2:02Speaker 1: Mm.
- 2:03Speaker 3: I feel like there's just a lot going on.
- 2:05Speaker 2: I'm also told that today's question of the week might
- 2:09Speaker 2: be a little on the nose, as in the episode
- 2:11Speaker 2: airs right before Halloween, so our team was trying to
- 2:14Speaker 2: be a little bit spooky, not genuinely horrifying. So hopefully
- 2:18Speaker 2: we hit the mark without scaring anybody away.
- 2:21Speaker 3: Now, I'm intrigued.
- 2:22Speaker 2: My friends, hold that thought, because after a quick coffee break,
- 2:26Speaker 2: we're going to be sharing a five-star review, and.
- 2:28Speaker 3: The suspense should be killing you.
- 2:30Speaker 4: Hey!
- 2:34Speaker 3: It's time for a spooky. I'm trying really hard to
- 2:38Speaker 3: make this episode Halloween themed, my friends. Spooky five star review.
- 2:43Speaker 3: Only kidding. There's literally nothing scary about being praised.
- 2:46Speaker 2: In fact, we adore it. It's our favorite thing. And
- 2:48Speaker 2: you know who else we adore? Leanne, who gave us
- 2:50Speaker 2: this praise this week. So our five-star review comes from
- 2:54Speaker 2: a friend of the community who gave her full government name,
- 2:57Speaker 2: Rogue when it's Halloween, but okay, Leanne Armstrong.
- 3:01Speaker 3: She's written, your.
- 3:03Speaker 2: Days without the boss are always so much fun to
- 3:05Speaker 2: listen to, but don't tell her I said that. I
- 3:09Speaker 2: have loved watching you both grow and learn with Victoria.
- 3:12Speaker 2: Congratulations on your house, Miss Jessica Ricci. You can call
- 3:15Speaker 2: this a five-star review, please.
- 3:17Speaker 3: Thanks, Leanne. Thank you so much, Leanne.
- 3:20Speaker 4: We'll definitely pretend Victoria didn't hear that. It's so scary.
- 3:23Speaker 2: I'll pretend I didn't hear that. But like, I guess.
- 3:27Speaker 2: Thank you so much.
- 3:28Speaker 4: For listening to our podcast.
- 3:30Speaker 2: And I guess thank you so much for witnessing our growth,
- 3:34Speaker 2: not just as individuals, but as a podcast and a show.
- 3:37Speaker 2: And thank you for preferring it when I'm not on it.
- 3:42Speaker 4: I really like that. It's just because we get to
- 3:43Speaker 4: go a little bit crazy.
- 3:44Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, we get some. You do, the B &
- 3:45Speaker 3: J show.
- 3:48Speaker 2: So, my friends, if you have any praise for our pod,
- 3:50Speaker 2: please don't be shy. Share your compliments and glowing reviews
- 3:53Speaker 2: about She's On The Money anywhere anyone is going to
- 3:56Speaker 2: let you or ideally wherever you get your podcasts.
- 4:00Speaker 4: Okay.
- 4:01Speaker 2: Now it's time for a slightly Halloween coded question of
- 4:05Speaker 2: the week.
- 4:06Speaker 3: Are you ready?
- 4:07Speaker 4: Mm-hmm.
- 4:07Speaker 3: All right.
- 4:07Speaker 2: Isabella wants to know, if you were all serial killers
- 4:11Speaker 2: but didn't know it, who do you think would get
- 4:13Speaker 2: caught first?
- 4:14Speaker 4: Oh.
- 4:15Speaker 3: Oh, I know. It's Beck. Beck's getting caught. I was
- 4:19Speaker 3: thinking that maybe like accidentally. No, it wouldn't be an accident.
- 4:24Speaker 1: Not accidentally.
- 4:24Speaker 2: You leave your car unlocked because you can't be bothered
- 4:28Speaker 2: locking it.
- 4:28Speaker 4: Yes. True.
- 4:29Speaker 5: You'd be like, oh, I'll just leave the body in
- 4:31Speaker 5: my boot for a while. Yeah, I feel like, oh, God,
- 4:35Speaker 5: it'd be so much effort, wouldn't it be? It'd just
- 4:37Speaker 5: be like to cover your tracks. You got to remember everything. Probably, yeah,
- 4:41Speaker 5: it would probably be me. Or it would be like
- 4:43Speaker 5: hiding in plain sight. Like it's like obviously I'm not
- 4:45Speaker 5: a serial killer because I'm so like, you know.
- 4:47Speaker 4: So lovable.
- 4:48Speaker 3: Oh, that's so cute. Yeah, the cops are going to
- 4:50Speaker 3: be like, can't be her. Can't be her. You'd be
- 4:53Speaker 3: so dumb. Have you ever.
- 4:55Speaker 2: Spoken to someone about their likelihood of being a serial
- 4:58Speaker 2: killer while there literally looks like there's an axe coming
- 5:00Speaker 2: out of their head, Jess?
- 5:02Speaker 3: Because, like, that's where we're at. I think serial killed.
- 5:05Speaker 3: You're the one being killed. And you know who put
- 5:07Speaker 3: it there?
- 5:08Speaker 1: Jess.
- 5:08Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. So I think I'm the victim here. And you? Perpetrator?
- 5:14Speaker 4: Yeah. I think, oh, I mean, if you get caught,
- 5:17Speaker 4: you're always like, yeah.
- 5:19Speaker 3: Jess is offended that people would even be like, what
- 5:22Speaker 3: do you mean I have to think about what would
- 5:24Speaker 3: happen if I was a serial killer? She never would.
- 5:27Speaker 3: I think my problem.
- 5:28Speaker 4: Would be I would have to turn myself in because
- 5:30Speaker 4: of the guilt.
- 5:31Speaker 3: Yeah, you would be very like.
- 5:32Speaker 4: I went to the shops on the weekend and I
- 5:34Speaker 4: like obviously did my checkout, whatever. I got to the
- 5:36Speaker 4: car and I realized I hadn't scanned like two Gatorade
- 5:38Speaker 4: bottles because they were hidden behind my like big box.
- 5:41Speaker 3: Is that what you told them?
- 5:43Speaker 4: Yeah, well, this is it. I got to the car
- 5:44Speaker 4: and obviously in my head I know that Coles is
- 5:46Speaker 4: not going to be hard done by if I take
- 5:48Speaker 4: two Gatorades on accident. But I felt so guilty I
- 5:51Speaker 4: had to.
- 5:51Speaker 3: Go back in.
- 5:52Speaker 4: No.
- 5:53Speaker 3: It was so embarrassing because I had to walk clean.
- 5:56Speaker 4: I was like, just had to walk back through. And
- 5:57Speaker 4: I was like, I look like I'm stealing. And I
- 5:59Speaker 4: was like, well, I kind of technically just did.
- 6:01Speaker 3: You are so cute.
- 6:03Speaker 4: The guilt would eat me up. But I think I'm
- 6:05Speaker 4: detail oriented. So maybe I'd be like, not bad.
- 6:07Speaker 3: I think you'd be really good.
- 6:08Speaker 4: I think without a doubt, VD would be the best
- 6:10Speaker 4: because she's listened to every possible true crime.
- 6:13Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 6:13Speaker 4: If you want to hide a body, she knows how
- 6:15Speaker 4: to do it.
- 6:16Speaker 2: I'm really scared of how my brain works sometimes.
- 6:21Speaker 3: I think I'd be great at it.
- 6:22Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 6:22Speaker 3: Like, not at the killing part. Like, I don't want
- 6:24Speaker 3: to do that.
- 6:25Speaker 2: I don't want to physically be involved in any of it.
- 6:28Speaker 3: No, you would have an assistant to do that. The strategy, though, like,
- 6:31Speaker 3: I reckon Beck could do it. I would hide it.
- 6:34Speaker 3: Gorgeous video. And do you want me to get, like,
- 6:36Speaker 3: real morbid? Please. Because this is, like, a Halloween episode.
- 6:39Speaker 2: Absolutely.
- 6:40Speaker 4: So.
- 6:40Speaker 2: Something that a lot of people don't know about me
- 6:45Speaker 2: is what my mum's.
- 6:46Speaker 3: Career was as I was growing up, right? So my
- 6:51Speaker 3: mum was a coroner.
- 6:53Speaker 2: And I remember in grade three at parent-teacher conference, they
- 6:57Speaker 2: really wanted to talk to my mum. because I had
- 7:01Speaker 2: told all the kids at school that my mum cuts
- 7:03Speaker 2: up dead people. And apparently that's not what you should
- 7:09Speaker 2: say to other children. So I learned very quickly that
- 7:13Speaker 2: maybe we shouldn't be talking about my mum's career publicly.
- 7:16Speaker 2: But a lot of topics were maybe discussed at my
- 7:18Speaker 2: dinner table that were probably definitely not discussed at either
- 7:21Speaker 2: of your dinner tables.
- 7:22Speaker 4: You could have ended up in a whole different career path.
- 7:25Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 7:25Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 7:26Speaker 2: And I I don't know if it plays into my
- 7:28Speaker 2: interest in the space because, like, my mum being a
- 7:31Speaker 2: coroner was very, I guess, interesting because I'd be like,
- 7:35Speaker 2: how was your day at work? And, like, when I
- 7:37Speaker 2: was quite little, she was quite protective of that information. Oh,
- 7:40Speaker 2: it was good, full stop, end of story. But as
- 7:42Speaker 2: I got older, I'd be like, hey, what happened here? Because, like,
- 7:45Speaker 2: my mum would know what was happening with things that
- 7:49Speaker 2: were going on in the media and in the news because, like,
- 7:52Speaker 2: the Queen worked at the coroner's courts, you know, like...
- 7:55Speaker 2: She knew and, I mean, she wouldn't divulge information to
- 7:58Speaker 2: me that was inappropriate. But, like, yeah, there were some
- 8:02Speaker 2: things that I knew and I, you know, mentioned in
- 8:04Speaker 2: passing and definitely wouldn't put on a podcast to Jess
- 8:07Speaker 2: and be like.
- 8:08Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, did you know? And Jess is like, shh, stop.
- 8:11Speaker 4: I don't want to hear it. I don't want to
- 8:12Speaker 4: know about it. It gives me the heebie-jeebies, kiss of
- 8:15Speaker 4: the night. Fair. Not for me.
- 8:16Speaker 3: But I reckon I would recruit my mum.
- 8:20Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely.
- 8:21Speaker 2: So if I wanted to be a serial killer, I'd
- 8:23Speaker 2: go to my mum. And be like, hey, mum, I've
- 8:25Speaker 2: done this stuff. And she'd be like, queen, I can
- 8:27Speaker 2: get rid of that body. I reckon she'd still know.
- 8:29Speaker 3: She would also know how to make it so it
- 8:31Speaker 3: doesn't look like a murder. Oh, no, she absolutely would.
- 8:33Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 8:33Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 8:34Speaker 2: So she used to, so like. For those of you
- 8:36Speaker 2: following along, she was an autopsy technician. And so she
- 8:40Speaker 2: did definitely investigate deaths in a very physical way and
- 8:45Speaker 2: also investigate how they died.
- 8:47Speaker 3: So there were like two parts.
- 8:49Speaker 2: Like she did a whole heap of like stuff where
- 8:51Speaker 2: it was murders and it was like part of that.
- 8:53Speaker 2: But then as we got older and she decided to
- 8:57Speaker 2: kind of not retire but step back a little bit,
- 8:59Speaker 2: she did what was called non-suspicious deaths. So investigating deaths
- 9:04Speaker 2: for families. to make sure that they had like a
- 9:07Speaker 2: proper family history. And, you know, if someone had died of,
- 9:10Speaker 2: a particular cancer, just checking that it wasn't elsewhere so
- 9:13Speaker 2: that the rest of the family, you know, could check
- 9:16Speaker 2: themselves and stuff like that. So, like, I think I
- 9:19Speaker 2: also really want to caveat this as well and be like.
- 9:21Speaker 3: I think if you met my mum, you've met my mum, Jess.
- 9:24Speaker 4: Very unsuspecting. You'd never know. You'd never know.
- 9:27Speaker 3: That's what makes a perfect serial killer.
- 9:29Speaker 4: Absolutely. You know what, Judy would be great.
- 9:31Speaker 2: So, like, my mum is arguably shorter than me, blonde,
- 9:35Speaker 2: always has perfectly styled hair. Like, you would not look
- 9:39Speaker 2: at this woman and be like, chops up dead people
- 9:42Speaker 2: yeah like you would look at this woman and be
- 9:44Speaker 2: like maybe like friendly hairdresser yeah like maybe like works
- 9:50Speaker 2: in the beauty space yeah no queen wow anyway that's
- 9:54Speaker 2: enough on that if anybody wants to know more information
- 9:57Speaker 2: about that obviously happy to share but yeah growing up
- 9:59Speaker 2: my life was relatively morbid and that maybe has helped
- 10:02Speaker 2: manifest my obsession with crime podcasts. I don't want to
- 10:07Speaker 2: hear fake crime. I only want true crime, stuff that's
- 10:09Speaker 2: really happened. Anyway, Isabella, I think the outcome here is
- 10:14Speaker 2: that I would be the best serial killer. Bec would
- 10:18Speaker 2: get caught first and Jess would let everybody know that
- 10:21Speaker 2: she did it because she couldn't.
- 10:22Speaker 3: Live with the guilt.
- 10:24Speaker 4: Sounds about right.
- 10:24Speaker 3: That's so cute. I don't know, revealing? Terrifying? You guys
- 10:27Speaker 3: can be the judge. Thank you, my friend, for the question.
- 10:30Speaker 2: And remember, if you've got a non-finance question for us,
- 10:33Speaker 2: please send it on in via our DMs. And if
- 10:36Speaker 2: you're extra crafty, seek out our thread in our Facebook
- 10:39Speaker 2: group and add it to the comment section over there
- 10:40Speaker 2: because we are always looking. And to be honest, sometimes
- 10:43Speaker 2: answering them on the fly because it's just so fun.
- 10:46Speaker 2: All right, let's lighten up the episode a little bit.
- 10:49Speaker 2: Something that maybe brightens our spirit after that relatively dark
- 10:52Speaker 2: turn of events. Miss Jessica Ricci, money wins. What can
- 10:56Speaker 2: you share with us today?
- 10:57Speaker 1: Alrighty.
- 10:58Speaker 4: I've got lots of Revolut money wins to share with
- 11:00Speaker 4: you this week. Firstly, from Jane, she said, maybe not
- 11:03Speaker 4: a money win, but hopefully it will bring me good karma,
- 11:05Speaker 4: good money karma. Specifically, I found a wallet on my
- 11:08Speaker 4: morning walk with $ 250 in it. They also obviously had
- 11:12Speaker 4: a card in there, so she returned it straight to
- 11:14Speaker 4: the owner's address. Which I think is very lovely. And
- 11:17Speaker 4: someone who has lost their wallet and had it returned,
- 11:19Speaker 4: you're doing the Lord's work.
- 11:20Speaker 2: In my head, if I found a wallet on the
- 11:22Speaker 2: ground with $ 250 on it, I would genuinely think that
- 11:27Speaker 2: there was a hidden camera somewhere.
- 11:28Speaker 4: You're being punked. Yeah.
- 11:30Speaker 3: It's scary. I'd be like, this is a trap.
- 11:31Speaker 5: 100%.
- 11:32Speaker 3: It was a trap.
- 11:33Speaker 4: Next, I've got a money win from Kim who said,
- 11:35Speaker 4: Energy Made Easy is a government electricity and gas comparison site.
- 11:38Speaker 4: I plugged all my info in and worked out that
- 11:40Speaker 4: I would be saving $ 30 a week just by changing
- 11:42Speaker 4: my provider. Wow.
- 11:43Speaker 3: Sorry, what?
- 11:44Speaker 4: Really good. Energy Made Easy, everybody. Get on it.
- 11:47Speaker 3: $ 30 a week is big.
- 11:48Speaker 4: Yeah, that's great. Over the course of a year, that's heaps. Yeah.
- 11:52Speaker 4: I've got my loss this week from Kristen who said
- 11:53Speaker 4: she got $ 174 parking fine. She did a bit of
- 11:57Speaker 4: a backside. She chanced it and she lost.
- 12:00Speaker 2: I love this.
- 12:00Speaker 4: Lesson has been learned.
- 12:01Speaker 3: It's called doing a backside. That's so cute. No, it's
- 12:04Speaker 3: not cute, queen. Thank you, guys. Follow my lead.
- 12:09Speaker 4: She said it would come out of this fortnight's play money,
- 12:11Speaker 4: so it doesn't say her normal savings behind, but obviously
- 12:13Speaker 4: still kind of sucks. Next, I've got a money win
- 12:16Speaker 4: from Claire, who said she found a pair of pants
- 12:18Speaker 4: that she meant to return earlier in the year.
- 12:20Speaker 3: But forgot to.
- 12:21Speaker 4: Happens to the best of us. She said she thought
- 12:23Speaker 4: it was going to be a money loss, but she
- 12:24Speaker 4: decided just to take them in store and ask anyway,
- 12:27Speaker 4: and they let her exchange them, so she could still
- 12:29Speaker 4: get something that she would actually use instead of having
- 12:31Speaker 4: to hold on to the pants that she wouldn't have.
- 12:33Speaker 3: That's actually such a money win. You don't ask, you
- 12:35Speaker 3: don't get. Literally.
- 12:37Speaker 4: Gemma said she got her fiance's birthday present basically for
- 12:40Speaker 4: free by saving her Flybuys dollars.
- 12:42Speaker 3: Money win.
- 12:44Speaker 4: I used my Velocity Points recently to shop in Maya
- 12:47Speaker 4: and I bought a gift for somebody.
- 12:48Speaker 2: And I feel like now is a really good reminder
- 12:50Speaker 2: for people to like check in on all the points
- 12:52Speaker 2: that you've got in different locations. And your cashback rewards
- 12:56Speaker 2: and stuff like that because Christmas is coming up and
- 12:58Speaker 2: like I don't want to scare anyone but this is
- 13:00Speaker 2: a Halloween episode and Christmas is close and that is terrifying.
- 13:04Speaker 3: What do you mean it's close already?
- 13:06Speaker 4: Yeah, less than eight weeks I think it would be.
- 13:09Speaker 2: Guys, the world is just flying past me at a
- 13:11Speaker 2: rate that I do not want to keep up with.
- 13:13Speaker 4: Literally, so everybody get prepared. And then lastly this week
- 13:16Speaker 4: I've got a money win from Jen who said she's
- 13:18Speaker 4: just arrived in LA. She missed her next flight by
- 13:21Speaker 4: two minutes. They put her on another flight which would
- 13:23Speaker 4: have been more expensive for no additional cost.
- 13:26Speaker 3: Oh, money win. That's so nice when that happens.
- 13:28Speaker 4: Especially when you're at the airport and you're stressed and
- 13:30Speaker 4: you're flustered and you're in a foreign country. Like it's
- 13:32Speaker 4: nice that someone just said.
- 13:33Speaker 2: Jess and I have done that and the stress that
- 13:36Speaker 2: you feel and I feel in that moment you're like,
- 13:38Speaker 2: I don't even care.
- 13:39Speaker 3: Take my money. Just get me back on track. Yes.
- 13:41Speaker 3: To then find out it was free.
- 13:43Speaker 4: Oh.
- 13:43Speaker 3: That would have been such a good win.
- 13:45Speaker 4: Well done, everybody.
- 13:47Speaker 3: Look, I'm already feeling better.
- 13:48Speaker 2: After our bring it down moment at the start, the
- 13:51Speaker 2: money wins definitely lifted it up. And of course, what
- 13:53Speaker 2: would our wins be without our broke tips? Miss Bec Syed,
- 13:57Speaker 2: what have you got this week?
- 13:58Speaker 3: Okay, so this week I've got one from Bella who says,
- 14:01Speaker 3: broke tip for the pod. For uni students, check your
- 14:03Speaker 3: university for what programs they run. My uni runs a
- 14:06Speaker 3: food pantry like once a week and free breakfasts twice
- 14:10Speaker 3: a week. as well as social activities all the time.
- 14:13Speaker 3: Such a good tip for utilizing uni services that people
- 14:15Speaker 3: often don't realize are there.
- 14:17Speaker 4: Wow.
- 14:17Speaker 3: It's a great idea. This next one comes from Laura
- 14:20Speaker 3: who said, World of Books has cheaper books, free shipping,
- 14:23Speaker 3: and they're secondhand. Certified B Corp. So I don't get
- 14:26Speaker 3: consumer guilt. I don't know what B Corp means, but
- 14:29Speaker 3: I trust it's good. It's good.
- 14:30Speaker 4: I would say it's a certification that basically says that
- 14:33Speaker 4: they're really ethical in the way they operate. Like they
- 14:35Speaker 4: meet a bunch of criteria in terms of their like wages,
- 14:39Speaker 4: in terms of their working environment.
- 14:41Speaker 3: All those sorts of things. Sharesies is a big corp
- 14:43Speaker 3: as well.
- 14:44Speaker 4: Oh, that's great.
- 14:45Speaker 3: I think it's quite a prestigious certification.
- 14:46Speaker 2: I've been looking at doing it because I was like,
- 14:48Speaker 2: I think that's really cool. And Sharesies have done it.
- 14:51Speaker 2: And obviously Sharesies are really good friends of the show.
- 14:54Speaker 2: And I asked Brooke, who is one of their three
- 14:56Speaker 2: CEOs or one of the CEOs of Sharesies, how did you,
- 15:00Speaker 2: she's like, Victoria, amazing, but also so arduous.
- 15:03Speaker 3: Like there are so many hoops and things you have
- 15:05Speaker 3: to go through.
- 15:05Speaker 2: And I was like, at this point in time, I
- 15:08Speaker 2: have two very tiny children. I don't have the time,
- 15:10Speaker 2: but one day that's like on my goals list. Like
- 15:13Speaker 2: I want to be a B Corp. Like I know
- 15:15Speaker 2: we're a B Corp. I look at the criteria and
- 15:17Speaker 2: I'm like, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick. But I don't
- 15:19Speaker 2: have the sticker and I want the sticker. So you
- 15:22Speaker 2: see a B Corp and they're a great company to
- 15:24Speaker 2: shop from.
- 15:24Speaker 3: That's so good. Okay.
- 15:26Speaker 4: Amazing.
- 15:27Speaker 3: And the last one for myself, my friends, Alison and Rosie,
- 15:30Speaker 3: wanted to road trip from New South Melbourne, but that
- 15:33Speaker 3: can be quite expensive, obviously, as we know. So they
- 15:35Speaker 3: used this company that, well, basically they have these vans
- 15:38Speaker 3: and they need them to be like transported interstate. So
- 15:41Speaker 3: you don't have to, like, rent a van and then
- 15:42Speaker 3: pay for it all yourself. In the end, they ended
- 15:44Speaker 3: up paying, like, $ 100 all up, like, out of their
- 15:46Speaker 3: own pocket.
- 15:46Speaker 4: What?
- 15:47Speaker 3: I think even the petrol was paid for by the company.
- 15:49Speaker 3: It's like you're doing them a favor. Yeah, because they
- 15:51Speaker 3: want their van in a different location. Exactly. But they
- 15:54Speaker 3: don't have staff to take it there. Exactly. Which is genius.
- 15:56Speaker 3: This one was called Indy Campers, but there are others, too,
- 16:00Speaker 3: out there.
- 16:00Speaker 6: Genius.
- 16:01Speaker 2: That's awesome.
- 16:01Speaker 3: Have a think about that before you can sleep in
- 16:04Speaker 3: it and stuff. Like if you were just wanting to
- 16:05Speaker 3: rent one, God, it'd be so expensive.
- 16:07Speaker 4: And petrol is $ 2 a litre at the moment as well,
- 16:09Speaker 4: which is crazy.
- 16:10Speaker 3: I don't even want to talk about it. It's actually depressing.
- 16:13Speaker 3: It cost me.
- 16:14Speaker 4: $ 100 to fill up my little tiny red car.
- 16:17Speaker 3: No, that's crazy. I drive a Kia Rio. Like, that's nuts.
- 16:22Speaker 3: That's actually illegal.
- 16:23Speaker 2: And I was about to be like, guys, the balance
- 16:26Speaker 2: has been restored, but it hasn't.
- 16:28Speaker 3: We've brought it back down. We've started talking about petrol.
- 16:31Speaker 4: All right.
- 16:31Speaker 3: Let's go to a really quick break.
- 16:33Speaker 2: And once we get back, we're going to be tuning
- 16:35Speaker 2: into a dilemma from our community concerning superannuation and AI.
- 16:40Speaker 4: Oh.
- 16:40Speaker 3: So don't go anywhere.
- 16:45Speaker 4: Welcome back, everybody. Let's take a listen to this week's
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- 17:11Speaker 6: Hey, Victoria, Bec and Jess.
- 17:16Speaker 4: Love you guys.
- 17:16Speaker 6: I just wanted to submit a question. A video, a
- 17:20Speaker 6: lot of discussion recently about AI and the AI bubble
- 17:26Speaker 6: and of course around AI companies gearing up to enter
- 17:30Speaker 6: the public stock exchange. I also saw an interesting video
- 17:35Speaker 6: around how our super will then be invested into AI companies.
- 17:40Speaker 6: My question is mostly around that, around super and AI,
- 17:44Speaker 6: and I guess the concerns around the AI bubble if
- 17:47Speaker 6: my super is invested into AI companies. I just kind
- 17:52Speaker 6: of wanted to hear your thoughts on that and if
- 17:55Speaker 6: you think it could be a problem if or when
- 17:58Speaker 6: the AI bubble bursts. And also, do you know if
- 18:02Speaker 6: there's a way that I can opt for my super
- 18:04Speaker 6: to not be invested in AI if it could be
- 18:07Speaker 6: a possible problem?
- 18:08Speaker 2: Thanks so much.
- 18:09Speaker 6: I'm keen to hear your thoughts.
- 18:10Speaker 2: I'm so keen on this space at the moment. Like
- 18:13Speaker 2: not as in, hey, I love supporting it, more as
- 18:16Speaker 2: in I've been really enjoying looking at what media has
- 18:21Speaker 2: been surrounding AI and how other companies are using it
- 18:24Speaker 2: and abusing it. And like, I just think there's a
- 18:26Speaker 2: lot to it. And I, yeah, I want to know
- 18:29Speaker 2: what you guys think before I talk about it more deeply,
- 18:32Speaker 2: I suppose.
- 18:32Speaker 3: I hadn't heard about this, so I don't have heaps
- 18:35Speaker 3: to say, but I'd feel like in terms of wanting
- 18:37Speaker 3: to opt out, I'm sure you can do that because
- 18:40Speaker 3: like when you log into your super, you can kind
- 18:42Speaker 3: of like pick and choose. It can be really confusing.
- 18:46Speaker 3: I know that I kind of went into my account
- 18:48Speaker 3: and just picked something, the one that was like the
- 18:50Speaker 3: highest growth, but you can actually look at what your
- 18:53Speaker 3: super is being invested in. But I think that's probably
- 18:55Speaker 3: one for your super company to be like, I would
- 18:59Speaker 3: like to opt out of this. And I'm sure they would.
- 19:00Speaker 3: I don't think it's like it would be compulsory to
- 19:03Speaker 3: kind of invest in something like that. But yeah, I'm
- 19:05Speaker 3: also worried about that. I wouldn't personally be investing because
- 19:08Speaker 3: it probably will. I mean, we don't know. It's impossible
- 19:11Speaker 3: to time or predict the market, as you say. So, God,
- 19:15Speaker 3: I'm really useless in this one. I'm so sorry.
- 19:17Speaker 2: But you're not because you're right. You can't time, you
- 19:20Speaker 2: can't predict literally any market. All of it's speculation. And
- 19:24Speaker 2: some of it is very educated speculation. But at the
- 19:27Speaker 2: end of the day, like, If anything was set in stone,
- 19:30Speaker 2: we'd all be really, really ridiculously rich.
- 19:35Speaker 4: Jess? I think you should remember that your super funds
- 19:37Speaker 4: are on some level predetermined. Like, it's not as if
- 19:39Speaker 4: every individual has a unique super. Like, if I'm in
- 19:43Speaker 4: the HPF High Growth Fund and you're in the HPF
- 19:46Speaker 4: High Growth Fund, those funds are not tailored to our
- 19:49Speaker 4: personal needs.
- 19:49Speaker 1: Right.
- 19:50Speaker 4: So I don't necessarily think it's as simple as saying, oh,
- 19:52Speaker 4: can you just pull the AI out? I think there
- 19:55Speaker 4: might be certain ethical funds potentially that you might be
- 19:58Speaker 4: able to find that don't invest in AI. But I
- 20:01Speaker 4: think as its applications become more broad, it probably will
- 20:05Speaker 4: become more and more challenging. And Is it only AI
- 20:10Speaker 4: development companies like an open AI or something like that,
- 20:13Speaker 4: that you're not comfy investing in? But what if a
- 20:15Speaker 4: company uses AI as the basis of its infrastructure for
- 20:19Speaker 4: its software or stuff like that? So there's lots of
- 20:22Speaker 4: questions around what that looks like for you. I haven't
- 20:26Speaker 4: looked into it deeply myself. It's not a space that
- 20:29Speaker 4: is of particular interest to me, I would say. I
- 20:33Speaker 4: think the bubble, it's probably similar to the tech bubble, right?
- 20:36Speaker 4: Where you go, well, right now there's expansive growth. It's
- 20:39Speaker 4: going to hit a ceiling at some point. And that's
- 20:41Speaker 4: where the concept of the bubble burst comes in, I
- 20:44Speaker 4: would guess. I personally believe that we will hit a
- 20:47Speaker 4: point where there will be significantly more regulation around its
- 20:51Speaker 4: development and applications than there is now. I think we're
- 20:54Speaker 4: still in very early days and people are still working
- 20:57Speaker 4: out what it does and what that looks like and
- 20:58Speaker 4: what the risks are.
- 21:00Speaker 3: In terms of your super fund.
- 21:01Speaker 4: Specifically, the other thing I would remind you is that generally,
- 21:06Speaker 4: I don't want to say every single one is, but
- 21:08Speaker 4: as a general rule of thumb, most super funds are
- 21:10Speaker 4: actively managed. So somebody is looking at the bubble or
- 21:14Speaker 4: the market or the landscape and mitigating those risks on
- 21:18Speaker 4: your behalf. Like they employ people and it's their job
- 21:20Speaker 4: to make sure that those funds are set up and
- 21:23Speaker 4: structured in a way that will provide you the best
- 21:25Speaker 4: return possible. That's their job. I don't necessarily think you
- 21:30Speaker 4: need to be too concerned. I think it's healthy to
- 21:32Speaker 4: know what's going on and it's healthy to take an
- 21:34Speaker 4: interest in it, but I don't think you need to
- 21:36Speaker 4: be super concerned about future-proofing it because there should be
- 21:41Speaker 4: someone else who's doing that for you. If it's an
- 21:44Speaker 4: ethical issue, that's a different thing. Yeah. But that's just
- 21:47Speaker 4: my take on it, BD.
- 21:50Speaker 2: So from my perspective, I'm not worried about an AI
- 21:54Speaker 2: bubble bursting. I'm also not necessarily worried about a superannuation
- 21:58Speaker 2: company investing in AI because just like Jess said, they're
- 22:02Speaker 2: actively managed. They would be looking into it. I think
- 22:05Speaker 2: the important thing is that you address whether you're comfortable
- 22:08Speaker 2: with your superannuation company or not. So like you need
- 22:12Speaker 2: to pick a super company that aligns to your goals
- 22:14Speaker 2: and your values and then go, okay, I'm in the
- 22:18Speaker 2: risk profile of growth or high growth or balanced or
- 22:20Speaker 2: whatever it is. And I really do respect the way
- 22:24Speaker 2: that this company makes decisions as to how they input
- 22:28Speaker 2: different things into that portfolio.
- 22:31Speaker 3: So it actually is not for me about....
- 22:36Speaker 2: AI, it's about, do you actually know everything inside your portfolio?
- 22:40Speaker 2: If you're identifying that you're concerned about AI, very valid,
- 22:44Speaker 2: but have you gone and reviewed all of the holdings
- 22:47Speaker 2: in your current superannuation? Are they aligned to your current values?
- 22:52Speaker 2: Because I can almost guarantee that most superannuation companies hold
- 22:55Speaker 2: things like gas and oil. They probably have some level
- 22:59Speaker 2: of tech. They would definitely have lots of different infrastructure businesses,
- 23:03Speaker 2: healthcare businesses, some of them have tobacco still. Some of
- 23:07Speaker 2: them have guns. It's totally up to you, but is
- 23:11Speaker 2: your finger on the pulse to begin with? And then
- 23:13Speaker 2: if they added AI, have you read why? Why are
- 23:17Speaker 2: they adding AI? And how much of a percentage are
- 23:21Speaker 2: they adding to your portfolio? Because If they're adding it
- 23:24Speaker 2: because they say, hey, we've identified, and I don't know
- 23:27Speaker 2: your actual thoughts on investing in AI, right? You've just
- 23:30Speaker 2: said that you're concerned about the bubble bursting, not whether
- 23:32Speaker 2: you believe in AI or don't believe in AI. And
- 23:34Speaker 2: that's actually not up for debate right now. But do
- 23:37Speaker 2: you understand why they're adding it to your portfolio? And
- 23:41Speaker 2: if so, do you go, yeah, no worries. They're just
- 23:43Speaker 2: trying to add more diversification and get into a new
- 23:46Speaker 2: industry that is obviously going to take off. unfortunately, AI
- 23:50Speaker 2: is going nowhere, but it will be like the tech bubble.
- 23:54Speaker 3: It will be like the dot-com bubble.
- 23:55Speaker 2: It will be like every other bubble that has come
- 23:57Speaker 2: before where something has been identified as a new technology.
- 24:03Speaker 2: And there are going to be people who say, oh,
- 24:05Speaker 2: the dot-com bubble, when this happened, people are like, the
- 24:07Speaker 2: internet's not going to last.
- 24:09Speaker 3: People love human connection.
- 24:11Speaker 2: Like that was something that people poo-pooed. But then on
- 24:15Speaker 2: the flip side, that was also an opportunity that heaps
- 24:18Speaker 2: of companies identified and we had an influx of the
- 24:21Speaker 2: amount of companies that were there that now no longer exist.
- 24:25Speaker 2: So I think it's important to go, well, if they're
- 24:27Speaker 2: adding it, why are they adding it? Is it for
- 24:28Speaker 2: more diversification? If so, what companies are they adding? Are
- 24:32Speaker 2: they the big established ones that we kind of go, yeah,
- 24:35Speaker 2: like the chatty GPT, which is not listed yet. She
- 24:39Speaker 2: is kind of tried, true and tested. We're not talking
- 24:41Speaker 2: about the ethics here. We're not talking about whether I
- 24:43Speaker 2: believe in it or not. I think that's a company
- 24:46Speaker 2: that's not going anywhere. Like that's just so well distributed
- 24:50Speaker 2: at this point that for them to disappear, unlikely. But
- 24:55Speaker 2: I would be going, well, why are we worried about
- 24:58Speaker 2: the bubble bursting when hypothetically, if we look at like
- 25:01Speaker 2: the tech bubble, people are like, oh my God, I'm
- 25:04Speaker 2: not so sure about investing in Google or investing in Microsoft.
- 25:10Speaker 2: if you bought and held, you're going to be rich.
- 25:13Speaker 2: I'm not saying that that's the same for AI, but
- 25:16Speaker 2: had you bought, stressed out, sold, you would have missed out.
- 25:20Speaker 2: But if you'd bought, stressed out, held, you would be
- 25:23Speaker 2: in a better position now. The other thing I want
- 25:26Speaker 2: to touch on here, and I'm trying to wrap this
- 25:28Speaker 2: up really quickly, I'm sorry, you have a superannuation fund
- 25:32Speaker 2: that will have a number that you can call and
- 25:34Speaker 2: ask them questions like this. You can directly call and
- 25:37Speaker 2: be like, hello, my name is Victoria and I have
- 25:40Speaker 2: a superannuation fund with you guys.
- 25:42Speaker 3: I want to know about my holdings. I want to
- 25:44Speaker 3: know why.
- 25:45Speaker 2: They're making the decisions that they're making and they will
- 25:47Speaker 2: have the information on that because I promise you're not
- 25:49Speaker 2: the only person being like, why is AI being added
- 25:52Speaker 2: to my portfolio?
- 25:53Speaker 3: So that's where I would be at.
- 25:55Speaker 2: Use the infrastructure that exists for supporting your super fund.
- 26:00Speaker 4: Absolutely.
- 26:01Speaker 2: And I think that's all I want to say on
- 26:02Speaker 2: that at this point, but I have a whole deep
- 26:04Speaker 2: dive on AI that I want to do at some point,
- 26:06Speaker 2: but haven't managed to put it onto paper yet.
- 26:10Speaker 3: Stay tuned.
- 26:11Speaker 2: Now, what do they say about burdens? Is it that
- 26:13Speaker 2: a burden shared is a burden halved? My friends, head
- 26:17Speaker 2: on over to the podcast page on our website and
- 26:19Speaker 2: record your very own money dilemma using our little voice recorder.
- 26:23Speaker 2: And you too might have it answered on the pod
- 26:26Speaker 2: or at the very least, you'll meet three other people
- 26:28Speaker 2: who now share your fiscal concerns, my friend. Or if
- 26:31Speaker 2: typing is more your thing, slide into our DMs. We
- 26:35Speaker 2: literally love it as long as it is kind, as
- 26:38Speaker 2: long as it is nice. I don't much love it
- 26:40Speaker 2: when you go, Victoria, I don't like the witch's hat
- 26:43Speaker 2: you wore.
- 26:44Speaker 4: Surely nobody's saying that.
- 26:45Speaker 3: It's beautiful. Not yet. Not yet.
- 26:49Speaker 2: But anyway, speaking of sliding into our DMs, I feel
- 26:51Speaker 2: like this one is really relatable, as in who among
- 26:54Speaker 2: us has not felt personally victimised by their own budget
- 26:57Speaker 2: and saving routine?
- 26:59Speaker 3: I feel like that's all of us. Would you like
- 27:00Speaker 3: me to read it out? Are you ready? Please. Hi, Victoria,
- 27:03Speaker 3: Jess and Bec. Before I start, I'm 29. I live alone.
- 27:09Speaker 2: And I earn a decent salary. I feel like my
- 27:12Speaker 2: budget hasn't caught up with how expensive my life has
- 27:15Speaker 2: become between rent, groceries, gym, and saying yes to dinners
- 27:18Speaker 2: most weekends. I'm barely putting anything into savings, even though
- 27:22Speaker 2: on paper I feel like I really should be doing more.
- 27:25Speaker 2: I've tried going super strict and I've cut out takeaway
- 27:28Speaker 2: and dinner, but I ended up miserable, saying no to
- 27:30Speaker 2: literally everything, and I ended up giving up on budgeting altogether.
- 27:35Speaker 2: Part of me thinks I need to accept that reaching
- 27:37Speaker 2: my deposit goal means sacrificing my social life for a
- 27:40Speaker 2: little while, but another part of me doesn't want to
- 27:42Speaker 2: lose my late 20s to saving every single spare dollar.
- 27:45Speaker 3: What do I do? Some things we actually can't control.
- 27:49Speaker 3: I know, like, coming from me, who's really, really bad
- 27:51Speaker 3: with money, it's like... I just don't feel like I
- 27:54Speaker 3: have any credibility here. But what I'm trying to say
- 27:56Speaker 3: is we- I think you have a lot of credibility here.
- 27:59Speaker 3: Thank you so much, guys. That's so nice. Why would you.
- 28:02Speaker 2: Not have credibility around a topic that you clearly understand?
- 28:05Speaker 3: That's so nice. Wow, I really was expecting that. Sorry,
- 28:08Speaker 3: just to flip it, I also don't think you're bad
- 28:11Speaker 3: with money. Thank you.
- 28:13Speaker 2: I think that you're fine with money. And I hope
- 28:16Speaker 2: that this is not offensive. And I feel like this
- 28:18Speaker 2: plays into a lot of people who probably listen to
- 28:20Speaker 2: this podcast and go, I'm really bad with money. No,
- 28:23Speaker 2: my queen, there are so many different things. Life is expensive.
- 28:26Speaker 2: So many people like you, Beck, like me, we're really impulsive.
- 28:30Speaker 2: Trying to balance a budget and being impulsive and having
- 28:33Speaker 2: things that arguably, I would say are more important to you.
- 28:38Speaker 2: That's a hard balance to run. It doesn't make you
- 28:41Speaker 2: bad at something. It means that your budget, and if
- 28:44Speaker 2: I look at this maybe a little bit too deeply,
- 28:47Speaker 2: I would say that you and money, you don't see
- 28:50Speaker 2: money in the same way that I see money. You
- 28:52Speaker 2: see money as like it's a means to an end.
- 28:54Speaker 2: I actually don't care. I'll work it out later. And
- 28:57Speaker 2: you genuinely mean that. Not like, oh, yeah, I don't
- 29:00Speaker 2: care because I'm evasive of it. Like you just go,
- 29:03Speaker 2: I will work it out. There's always been a thing
- 29:06Speaker 2: for me that has worked it out and she's good.
- 29:09Speaker 2: That's so true. Because I think if I sat you
- 29:11Speaker 2: down and said, hey, Bec, how much do you spend
- 29:14Speaker 2: on groceries? You'd be able to calculate that and tell me. Yeah.
- 29:17Speaker 3: You don't want to, but you can. That is so true.
- 29:20Speaker 3: You're not bad at money. There's just lots of competing priorities.
- 29:24Speaker 4: Totally.
- 29:24Speaker 3: Things that I would say are more important to you.
- 29:26Speaker 4: I agree.
- 29:27Speaker 3: And that is basically what I was going to say
- 29:29Speaker 3: summed up is, but it's also there is like only
- 29:33Speaker 3: so much we can do sometimes when it comes to
- 29:35Speaker 3: the cost of living. And I feel like unless you
- 29:39Speaker 3: somehow are making a really good salary, we can't unless we.
- 29:45Speaker 3: move out bush and isolate ourselves and never do anything ever.
- 29:48Speaker 3: We don't have as much disposable income is what I'm
- 29:51Speaker 3: trying to say, as we maybe could have had back
- 29:54Speaker 3: in the day. But to live is very expensive right now.
- 29:58Speaker 3: So I think that removing any part of you that's like, oh,
- 30:02Speaker 3: I'm just like not doing this well enough, or I
- 30:04Speaker 3: should be saying no to things. Or I remember maybe
- 30:07Speaker 3: even five years ago, saying no to things was like
- 30:10Speaker 3: saying no to Meredith, saying no to $ 500 a on
- 30:13Speaker 3: three nights in the middle of nowhere. But now it's like, oh,
- 30:17Speaker 3: I probably should not be buying a coffee once a week.
- 30:20Speaker 3: It's getting less and less and less. And it's like
- 30:23Speaker 3: we are frogs boiling in a pot because we don't
- 30:27Speaker 3: even realize that now it's like, oh, I should probably
- 30:29Speaker 3: say no to dinner or lunch with my friends. It's
- 30:33Speaker 3: getting insane. To what end? So I think don't feel
- 30:39Speaker 3: bad about anything. Yeah. And like, exactly.
- 30:43Speaker 2: That doesn't make you bad at money. It means that
- 30:46Speaker 2: money is really hard at the moment. And I think
- 30:48Speaker 2: looking at this, I'm like, oh girl, it doesn't mean
- 30:50Speaker 2: you're bad at this. Like, sorry, there's so much about
- 30:53Speaker 2: your story that is slay. What do you mean you're
- 30:56Speaker 2: in your twenties and you live alone?
- 30:57Speaker 4: That's really cool.
- 30:59Speaker 3: Like how? How? I've got questions.
- 31:02Speaker 4: That's where all your money is going is to all
- 31:04Speaker 4: the expenses that you have to pay when you live
- 31:06Speaker 4: by yourself.
- 31:07Speaker 1: Exactly.
- 31:07Speaker 3: Jess, what's your response? Yeah, I agree.
- 31:09Speaker 4: I think like if you haven't, look at your budget.
- 31:12Speaker 4: Like I know that sounds really obvious, but, you know,
- 31:13Speaker 4: you've said you've tried. You went really hard one way.
- 31:16Speaker 4: Can you like structure your budget in a way that
- 31:17Speaker 4: you have an allowance to spend on those things?
- 31:20Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 31:21Speaker 4: You know, you guys know I spent five-ish years saving
- 31:24Speaker 4: for my deposit or however long it was. It was
- 31:25Speaker 4: a long time.
- 31:26Speaker 3: Which, by the way, Slay, what do you mean it
- 31:27Speaker 3: only took her five years? It probably felt like the
- 31:29Speaker 3: longest five years of your entire life.
- 31:31Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's what I mean. I think, like, I
- 31:33Speaker 4: spoke about it on the show, like, towards the end
- 31:34Speaker 4: especially I really loosened the reins a little bit because
- 31:37Speaker 4: you do kind of get to a point where, like, God, like–
- 31:40Speaker 4: I'm so sick of this. It's my life forever. Yeah.
- 31:42Speaker 4: So I think whatever your budget, your structure looks like,
- 31:44Speaker 4: it does need to be sustainable or exactly like our
- 31:47Speaker 4: listener said, you're going to fall off the horse, right?
- 31:49Speaker 4: So you do need to go, well, how much am
- 31:52Speaker 4: I willing to give up? How long am I willing
- 31:54Speaker 4: to give things up for? My answer is always, you know,
- 31:57Speaker 4: if you're doing the most you can with what you've
- 31:59Speaker 4: got and you don't want to make any changes, can
- 32:01Speaker 4: you increase your income? You know, can you pick up
- 32:03Speaker 4: a second job? Can you sell stuff that you've got secondhand?
- 32:06Speaker 4: Can you just find little odd jobs online that you
- 32:09Speaker 4: can do? Can you answer surveys? Can you shop back?
- 32:12Speaker 4: Like I know that some of these things seem very small,
- 32:15Speaker 4: but even like I mentioned earlier in the show, like
- 32:17Speaker 4: I just bought a gift for a friend using points
- 32:20Speaker 4: that I'd accumulated just doing my day-to-day shopping. And that
- 32:23Speaker 4: saved me nearly $ 100 on a gift that I was
- 32:25Speaker 4: able to just pay for with points. It cost me
- 32:27Speaker 4: nothing and that relieved what otherwise would have been a
- 32:30Speaker 4: burden on my budget. So it's like the sum of being,
- 32:33Speaker 4: I think, frugal is lots of little actions and it's
- 32:38Speaker 4: making sure that you have a really clear picture of
- 32:40Speaker 4: what you can do and what you are willing to
- 32:43Speaker 4: do and then going, okay, well, if there's a deficit
- 32:45Speaker 4: between the two, what do I do to make that
- 32:47Speaker 4: deficit up?
- 32:48Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 32:49Speaker 2: And I feel like I haven't said it on the
- 32:51Speaker 2: show for a really long time, but if you're an OG,
- 32:53Speaker 2: you've heard this a million times.
- 32:55Speaker 3: From little things, big things grow. Oh, quite the throwback. Right? But, like,
- 32:59Speaker 3: they do. Like, it's the small steps that you take
- 33:03Speaker 3: that you think, oh, this.
- 33:04Speaker 2: Doesn't matter, that actually really push the dial in the
- 33:08Speaker 2: right direction.
- 33:09Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 33:09Speaker 2: And I think I'm going to go a different way
- 33:12Speaker 2: than both of you have, and that's if you are–
- 33:16Speaker 2: serious about this and you just want to get your
- 33:19Speaker 2: shit together, essentially, we're going to go back to everything
- 33:23Speaker 2: I have said about budgeting and cashflow and finance. I
- 33:27Speaker 2: can see that your budget has kind of like not
- 33:30Speaker 2: kept up with your lifestyle.
- 33:32Speaker 3: That tells me that that budget is broken. We're putting
- 33:34Speaker 3: that budget in the bin.
- 33:35Speaker 2: We are starting from scratch and starting from scratch doesn't
- 33:38Speaker 2: mean starting with a spreadsheet. It means starting with an audit,
- 33:41Speaker 2: which is not the sexiest thing you've ever done, but
- 33:44Speaker 2: But you're going to pour yourself a really nice glass
- 33:46Speaker 2: of wine or if you're a more responsible human being,
- 33:48Speaker 2: maybe like a cup of tea or a lemonade. I
- 33:51Speaker 2: don't care, but like I would need a wine to
- 33:54Speaker 2: get through this and you're going to get three months
- 33:57Speaker 2: of your bank statements and I need you to go
- 33:58Speaker 2: through it.
- 33:59Speaker 3: What is rent costing you? What are groceries costing you?
- 34:04Speaker 2: Because in your head, and like this is just a
- 34:06Speaker 2: number that might not be reflective of yours and you
- 34:08Speaker 2: know what, if you're living on your own, it's not,
- 34:09Speaker 2: but Rent in your head's.
- 34:12Speaker 6: $ 1, 000.
- 34:13Speaker 2: Because that's what it was when you signed the lease.
- 34:16Speaker 2: And now it's $ 1, 061 because rent has gone up and
- 34:19Speaker 2: things have changed. But in your head, it's still $ 1, 000,
- 34:23Speaker 2: but that's $ 61 a month that you still have to
- 34:25Speaker 2: find in your budget. We're going to get really specific.
- 34:28Speaker 2: So you're going to look at how much does your
- 34:30Speaker 2: rent cost you? How much do your groceries and all
- 34:33Speaker 2: the little trips to Coles actually cost you?
- 34:36Speaker 3: What is your gym? What are you actually spending?
- 34:39Speaker 2: Because Most people will be able to tell me how
- 34:43Speaker 2: many dollars are coming into their account.
- 34:45Speaker 3: You know what you get paid. We're excited for payday.
- 34:48Speaker 3: How many genuinely go out?
- 34:50Speaker 2: How many discretionary dollars do we actually have for the
- 34:53Speaker 2: things that you love saying yes to? Like you said
- 34:55Speaker 2: you love going out for dinner with your friends. How
- 34:57Speaker 2: many dollars do we have to allocate to that genuinely?
- 35:01Speaker 2: So your audit first, your budget second. It sounds like
- 35:04Speaker 2: the budget that you've set up is really restrictive. like
- 35:08Speaker 2: you said, I set a really strict budget.
- 35:11Speaker 4: Cool.
- 35:11Speaker 2: I don't know how to tell you this, but like
- 35:13Speaker 2: that never works. I'm so sorry. It's just like a diet.
- 35:17Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't like diet culture at all. So
- 35:20Speaker 2: do you really think I like budgeting culture? Anything that's restrictive?
- 35:24Speaker 3: Absolutely not.
- 35:25Speaker 2: Like, you do end up miserable in comparison to a diet.
- 35:32Speaker 2: You do end up binging. You do end up throwing
- 35:36Speaker 2: the baby out with the bathwater because you just can't
- 35:38Speaker 2: be bothered. Like you can only eat so many carrot sticks.
- 35:41Speaker 2: Like that's just not going to work. So I think
- 35:43Speaker 2: it's so important to not have a restrictive budget, but
- 35:47Speaker 2: look at a budget as a tool for telling you
- 35:50Speaker 2: how your cash gets allocated to make sure we don't
- 35:52Speaker 2: have any leaks. to make sure that we are making
- 35:55Speaker 2: the most of every dollar, to make sure that if
- 35:58Speaker 2: you go.
- 35:58Speaker 3: I really like dining out and I really want to
- 36:01Speaker 3: see my friends on the weekends. How much does that
- 36:03Speaker 3: cost on average? You've worked it out in your head,
- 36:05Speaker 3: all right. It's expensive to dine out these days, guys.
- 36:08Speaker 2: It costs me about 50 or 60 bucks every time
- 36:11Speaker 2: I just go out and have a drink and like
- 36:13Speaker 2: a main course and like whatever else.
- 36:15Speaker 4: It's so expensive.
- 36:17Speaker 2: Do you find, like Jess said, a little side hustle
- 36:20Speaker 2: that gives you an extra hundred bucks a month so
- 36:22Speaker 2: that guilt-free you can have that, but you're also sticking
- 36:24Speaker 2: to your savings goals. It needs to be sustainable. Or
- 36:30Speaker 2: if you're like Jess and you're like, I actually have
- 36:32Speaker 2: this really specific savings goal and it's my first home
- 36:35Speaker 2: deposit and I'm going to hustle and I'm going to
- 36:37Speaker 2: hustle real hard, but the light at the end of
- 36:39Speaker 2: the tunnel is there because I know based on the
- 36:42Speaker 2: budget that I've done, I only have to hustle until
- 36:44Speaker 2: I have the deposit and then I can loosen the
- 36:46Speaker 2: reins because like, I've worked out that the repayments on
- 36:48Speaker 2: that house are going to be the same as my
- 36:50Speaker 2: rent and that is okay.
- 36:52Speaker 3: Right? That feels a.
- 36:54Speaker 2: Lot more palpable. That feels a little bit more easy
- 36:58Speaker 2: to swallow. Restrictive budgeting? No, no, that's very like early 2000s.
- 37:02Speaker 3: Yeah. Bill David. No, thank you.
- 37:06Speaker 4: What did everybody else say?
- 37:07Speaker 3: Oh my God, they had so much to say. So
- 37:09Speaker 3: first I asked them a lot of questions.
- 37:11Speaker 2: I said, would you sacrifice your social life for a
- 37:13Speaker 2: year if it meant reaching your house deposit sooner? Mm-hmm.
- 37:16Speaker 3: Let's just do a pop quiz. Jess, would you?
- 37:19Speaker 4: Yes, and I did.
- 37:20Speaker 3: Clearly. Bec, would you? I don't think so. Exactly.
- 37:23Speaker 2: And that's what the community said. 52% said yep and 48%
- 37:27Speaker 2: said no. Wow.
- 37:27Speaker 3: But that's what I mean.
- 37:34Speaker 2: You're not bad at budgeting, Bec, just because Jess does
- 37:37Speaker 2: it different and has different priorities. I think if I
- 37:40Speaker 2: said to you, hey, so get rid of all your
- 37:42Speaker 2: friends for a year, do this, do that, and you
- 37:44Speaker 2: can have a house, you'd.
- 37:45Speaker 3: Be like, me, I don't want a house. I don't
- 37:49Speaker 3: want what you want. And that's cool. Yeah. I also
- 37:53Speaker 3: ask them, when you're saving for a big goal, how
- 37:56Speaker 3: strict are you with your social spending? Again, this is
- 38:00Speaker 3: going to be really different for everybody. 71% said, I'm
- 38:04Speaker 3: trying really hard to balance both. 18% said, I'm cutting back.
- 38:09Speaker 3: And 11% said, I just prioritize fun.
- 38:14Speaker 2: But like, you do you. I think the thing that,
- 38:18Speaker 2: I don't think it's confusing. If you're listening to this podcast,
- 38:21Speaker 2: you know, I don't believe in a strict budget. You know,
- 38:23Speaker 2: I believe in just understanding things. I just want you
- 38:27Speaker 2: to have all of the tools and resources so that
- 38:29Speaker 2: you can make the decisions that are right for you
- 38:31Speaker 2: and still be financially okay.
- 38:34Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 38:34Speaker 2: Like looking at Beck and I'm attacking you today because
- 38:37Speaker 2: you said, oh, I'm.
- 38:39Speaker 3: Not credible here.
- 38:40Speaker 2: Sit down.
- 38:40Speaker 4: So sweet.
- 38:42Speaker 2: But you just have different priorities, but you're not financially
- 38:46Speaker 2: okay at this point in time. Like you've got money
- 38:49Speaker 2: coming in, you're paying your bills, you're okay. Do you
- 38:52Speaker 2: make some questionable as hell money decisions that.
- 38:54Speaker 3: I wouldn't make?
- 38:56Speaker 4: Yes.
- 38:57Speaker 2: Well, I mean, guys, today Beck rolls on into the
- 39:02Speaker 2: studio and we're like, oh, how was your morning? She's like, oh,
- 39:05Speaker 2: it was fine. Can you believe, get this, guys, my
- 39:08Speaker 2: car was broken into. And Jess and I are like, girl,
- 39:10Speaker 2: are you okay? That's horrific. And Beck goes, oh, it
- 39:12Speaker 2: was my own fault. I just left my car open.
- 39:16Speaker 2: We're just different people. Well, they didn't take anything. And
- 39:19Speaker 2: if you're listening to this for some reason, thank you.
- 39:21Speaker 3: They only took a perfume, but everything else they left
- 39:24Speaker 3: my heart thank you so much that would.
- 39:28Speaker 2: Be diabolical for me like i would feel like you
- 39:31Speaker 2: had invaded my personal like my whole day would be ruined.
- 39:35Speaker 3: Thank you i want to.
- 39:38Speaker 2: Be more beck when i grow up all right back
- 39:40Speaker 2: on track i asked them another question i said what's
- 39:43Speaker 2: the hardest expense to cut back on when you were
- 39:45Speaker 2: trying to save I don't think it's going to be
- 39:48Speaker 2: a surprise. 35% of you said dinners and takeaway. For me,
- 39:52Speaker 2: it's always convenience and food. Next, 25% of you said
- 39:57Speaker 2: everyday treats. 23% said things like birthdays, weddings and events.
- 40:02Speaker 2: And 18% of you said holidays and weekends away.
- 40:06Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 40:07Speaker 2: Which I feel like They're all things that we struggle
- 40:10Speaker 2: with when we're trying to save. Like, they're all things
- 40:13Speaker 2: that we go, yeah, how cliche. We're cutting back on
- 40:16Speaker 2: takeaway and Uber Eats and dinners and holidays and weekends away.
- 40:20Speaker 3: That's all the fun stuff in life. How do we
- 40:21Speaker 3: have some balance? And then we.
- 40:24Speaker 2: Went to the comments section. I said, guys, what is
- 40:26Speaker 2: your two cents? First person said... try and live on
- 40:30Speaker 2: less than what you make. I prioritize what I value,
- 40:33Speaker 2: which is travel over every other everyday luxury. I don't
- 40:37Speaker 2: get my nails done. I don't buy coffee out. And
- 40:39Speaker 2: every time I'm envious of that, I remind myself that
- 40:42Speaker 2: I still get to travel.
- 40:44Speaker 4: I really like that perspective.
- 40:46Speaker 2: Next person said, be the one to suggest a picnic
- 40:49Speaker 2: or host dinner at home.
- 40:50Speaker 3: Make it fancy. Why don't you all bring a plate?
- 40:52Speaker 3: Wine can be super cheap and super fun. You can
- 40:56Speaker 3: still see your friends. You can still do things together.
- 40:58Speaker 3: It doesn't have to cost a lot of money.
- 40:59Speaker 4: Absolutely.
- 41:00Speaker 3: What I took from that was wine can be fun.
- 41:02Speaker 4: Absolutely.
- 41:03Speaker 2: The next person said, I would suggest walks with my friends,
- 41:07Speaker 2: doing a movie night at home with some popcorn or
- 41:09Speaker 2: cutting back on wine when out but still enjoying the food.
- 41:13Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 41:14Speaker 3: Which I think is a good one.
- 41:15Speaker 2: I remember when I was a bit younger and trying
- 41:18Speaker 2: really hard to save and I feel like you used
- 41:20Speaker 2: to do this too or maybe still do this, Bec.
- 41:23Speaker 2: Where I would eat before I left so that then
- 41:25Speaker 2: I'd just get an entree when I was out. Yeah.
- 41:28Speaker 2: So much more cost effective. I didn't feel bad. I
- 41:30Speaker 2: got to eat at the same time as my friends.
- 41:32Speaker 2: But like it's kind of like going supermarket shopping. I
- 41:35Speaker 2: think it's a bad idea to turn up in a
- 41:37Speaker 2: bad mood or really hungry. Yes.
- 41:39Speaker 4: So true.
- 41:40Speaker 3: One out of ten.
- 41:41Speaker 2: I've also realized that I need to– this is nation
- 41:45Speaker 2: side topic– I need to ban myself from shopping for
- 41:48Speaker 2: clothes when I'm ovulating. Yeah.
- 41:51Speaker 3: Because in my head, I look good in everything.
- 41:54Speaker 4: I mean, it's way better than the opposite. Yeah.
- 41:58Speaker 2: But then the.
- 41:58Speaker 3: Rest of the month comes and I'm like, girl, why
- 42:01Speaker 3: did you buy that? I don't want to wear that.
- 42:03Speaker 4: That's funny.
- 42:05Speaker 2: Anyway, carrying on, another person said, let's normalize catching up
- 42:09Speaker 2: at home.
- 42:10Speaker 3: Why don't we just cook an easy dinner and share?
- 42:13Speaker 4: Absolutely. Gorgeous.
- 42:15Speaker 2: I love having my friends over for dinner. Next person said,
- 42:19Speaker 2: people don't know what it means to sacrifice anymore. Sacrifice
- 42:23Speaker 2: is not equal to having no life.
- 42:26Speaker 3: It's a hard take. Yeah. Yeah, depends what you're, what
- 42:31Speaker 3: they're talking about.
- 42:32Speaker 4: I do like, I do agree on some people financially
- 42:34Speaker 4: are in the position where it's like my money will
- 42:36Speaker 4: only go far enough and living is so expensive that
- 42:38Speaker 4: I can only cover my necessities, in which case I
- 42:40Speaker 4: don't think that's a fair assessment at all. But I
- 42:43Speaker 4: do also agree on some level sometimes you have to
- 42:48Speaker 4: identify what you care about. And, like, I've always said
- 42:50Speaker 4: for me, like, I cut out so much of what
- 42:52Speaker 4: I was doing because I was working for a goal.
- 42:55Speaker 4: Whereas for you, Bec, you go, well, I'd rather enjoy
- 42:56Speaker 4: my life than necessarily reach that goal any sooner. And
- 43:00Speaker 4: neither of those are right or wrong perspectives. But I
- 43:02Speaker 4: do think sometimes– you know, we're exposed to this culture
- 43:05Speaker 4: online where everyone has it all and we want and
- 43:07Speaker 4: we want and we want. And you go, well, sometimes
- 43:09Speaker 4: you do have to go, well, okay, I can't go
- 43:12Speaker 4: out to dinners, but I can still see my friends.
- 43:14Speaker 4: We can still hang out. That doesn't mean I need
- 43:15Speaker 4: to lose that social interaction, but maybe I need to
- 43:19Speaker 4: give those things up for a little bit if reaching
- 43:21Speaker 4: that goal is more important to me.
- 43:24Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't know.
- 43:25Speaker 2: I just feel like If you had said to me
- 43:28Speaker 2: 10 years ago, oh, V, people don't know what it
- 43:31Speaker 2: means to sacrifice anymore, I'd be like, yeah, you're right,
- 43:34Speaker 2: people don't. And it was really evident in what you
- 43:38Speaker 2: said before, Bec.
- 43:38Speaker 3: Like five years ago, the sacrifice was like I don't
- 43:42Speaker 3: get to go to my festival.
- 43:43Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 43:44Speaker 2: Whereas now we're like, what's sacrifice? It's groceries or your
- 43:48Speaker 2: vet bills. It's petrol. Like these are everyday things that
- 43:52Speaker 2: we should arguably be able to afford. Like these are
- 43:55Speaker 2: things that I don't think we should be talking about
- 43:57Speaker 2: sacrifice on.
- 43:59Speaker 3: I agree.
- 44:00Speaker 2: When it comes to groceries, yeah, there's sacrifice. You shouldn't
- 44:02Speaker 2: be buying the bougie cheese every single week. But the
- 44:05Speaker 2: fact that we are going, oh, maybe we'll become completely
- 44:08Speaker 2: vegetarian because meat in general is too expensive. I don't
- 44:12Speaker 2: think that's sacrifice. I think that that's cooked. Like, I
- 44:16Speaker 2: just think that it's a different world. I do agree
- 44:19Speaker 2: that some people don't understand sacrifice and, you know, expect
- 44:23Speaker 2: everything all at once.
- 44:24Speaker 3: But that's a different story than what we're talking.
- 44:26Speaker 4: About right now.
- 44:26Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.
- 44:27Speaker 2: Next person said, finding new ways to define what a
- 44:31Speaker 2: fun social event is. How can you brainstorm together as
- 44:35Speaker 2: a friend group the things that you like doing that
- 44:37Speaker 2: are free?
- 44:38Speaker 4: Yeah, I love that.
- 44:39Speaker 2: Well, I really like that because how many times have
- 44:40Speaker 2: we been like, have dinner at home, do this, do that.
- 44:43Speaker 2: Why don't you just get your group chat together and
- 44:44Speaker 2: be like, all right, let's list out all of our
- 44:46Speaker 2: favorite free things and over the next six months we're
- 44:48Speaker 2: going to do them.
- 44:49Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 44:50Speaker 3: Jess, what's your favorite free thing? We're going to do that. Bec,
- 44:52Speaker 3: what's your favorite free thing? We're going to do that. Like, cool,
- 44:55Speaker 3: your social calendar is full and free. Yeah.
- 44:58Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 44:58Speaker 3: My two favorite Fs.
- 45:00Speaker 1: Is it?
- 45:01Speaker 3: Have you got a third?
- 45:03Speaker 4: I can, but not what I can say on this podcast.
- 45:06Speaker 3: I'm dead.
- 45:07Speaker 2: All right.
- 45:07Speaker 3: Sorry. That was not a Jessica Ricci thing to say.
- 45:10Speaker 3: Next person. My hat literally fell off.
- 45:13Speaker 2: Next person said, my social life improves my mental health.
- 45:17Speaker 2: So for me, that's actually a non-negotiable.
- 45:21Speaker 3: Agreed. Next person.
- 45:23Speaker 2: And last thing that I'm going to share is, Start
- 45:25Speaker 2: trying to allocate a manageable amount to savings and then
- 45:29Speaker 2: build from your habits as your income increases, which I
- 45:33Speaker 2: think is really good. And I mean, someone else said, girl,
- 45:36Speaker 2: it's not all or nothing. Just set an amount for
- 45:38Speaker 2: fun in your budget and make sure that you actually
- 45:40Speaker 2: spend it and make sure that everything else is actually
- 45:43Speaker 2: on track.
- 45:44Speaker 3: Which I think is really important.
- 45:46Speaker 4: For sure.
- 45:46Speaker 3: I think it's really hard at the moment though.
- 45:48Speaker 4: I like, yeah, I just, be kind to yourself.
- 45:51Speaker 3: Exactly.
- 45:52Speaker 2: And I don't think it's about saying, oh my God,
- 45:53Speaker 2: I'm so bad at budgeting or I'm so bad at
- 45:55Speaker 2: this or that. Like, yes, you are not good at
- 45:59Speaker 2: budgeting if it's being restrictive on yourself, but that's just
- 46:02Speaker 2: not a good budget. And if you want a good budget,
- 46:04Speaker 2: there is a free one that you can download on
- 46:07Speaker 2: our website at That is not about restriction. It's just
- 46:10Speaker 2: about understanding cash flow and understanding where every single dollar
- 46:14Speaker 2: is going so that you can make more educated decisions
- 46:17Speaker 2: in line with your values.
- 46:19Speaker 3: Go download it. It's literally free.
- 46:20Speaker 2: All it's going to cost you is giving me your
- 46:24Speaker 2: email address.
- 46:25Speaker 3: I think that's a really good value exchange. That's pretty good.
- 46:28Speaker 2: All right, my little ghouls, we've got to wrap it
- 46:31Speaker 2: back to being a little bit Halloween theme.
- 46:34Speaker 3: It is time for us to wrap the episode. If
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- 46:44Speaker 2: mum did what?
- 46:46Speaker 3: Then the spell, my friend, is working.
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