Latest / Tom's Hirschsprung's Podcast / Episode 59 - With Simone Rist
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- 0:05Speaker 1: You are listening to Tom's Hirshbrun's Podcast, where our provide
- 0:08Speaker 1: a look into the remarkable experiences of the most inspiring
- 0:11Speaker 1: people around Hirshprung's disease and sports. Hello and welcome to
- 0:39Speaker 1: episode fifty nine of Tom's Hirshprunk's podcast. A very special
- 0:44Speaker 1: author with me joins all the way from Australia. She
- 0:50Speaker 1: is the author of Oscar the Unstoppable that we're going
- 0:53Speaker 1: to talk about later on in the program. A huge
- 0:56Speaker 1: welcome to Simone Risk. Welcome to the podcast.
- 1:00Speaker 2: Thank you, Tom, thanks for having me. I'm excited to
- 1:02Speaker 2: be here.
- 1:03Speaker 1: Thanks so much for coming on. I think, as we
- 1:06Speaker 1: were talking a little bit beforehand, we have sort of
- 1:09Speaker 1: tried to get this going for a while. So I'm
- 1:13Speaker 1: very very happy to get you on. And I've had
- 1:16Speaker 1: a lot of requests from people saying, you really need
- 1:18Speaker 1: to get some owed on, you really need to get
- 1:20Speaker 1: her on. I'm trying. I've definitely tried. We will manage it,
- 1:25Speaker 1: and today we have so I am delighted, absolutely delighted
- 1:29Speaker 1: to be joined by you. Now, we did mention that
- 1:33Speaker 1: you are the author of Oscar the unsoppom and we
- 1:36Speaker 1: will talk about that most definitely a little bit later on.
- 1:39Speaker 1: But first of all, would you like to explain who
- 1:42Speaker 1: Oscar is?
- 1:44Speaker 2: Yes? Absolutely, so is my firstborn child. He is seven
- 1:50Speaker 2: years old in April, so, yes, and he was diagnosed
- 1:56Speaker 2: with hershbruns a couple of days after So. I had
- 2:02Speaker 2: a complicated pregnancy and was closely watched up until Oscar
- 2:07Speaker 2: was born. And it was probably about day two he
- 2:12Speaker 2: wasn't feeding. You know. We had pediatrics come in and
- 2:17Speaker 2: exalmon and kind of assess and they were like, no,
- 2:21Speaker 2: he's fine, to be discharged. And the midwife was actually
- 2:24Speaker 2: the one who was really concerned, and she actually had
- 2:28Speaker 2: mentioned hersh runs at the time. She said, oh, I'm
- 2:30Speaker 2: feeling like, you know, he's not feeding, he's got these symptoms.
- 2:34Speaker 2: Have you heard about Hirschrum's disease? And I said no,
- 2:37Speaker 2: I'll have it. At that point, I was so sleek, decrived.
- 2:40Speaker 2: I just wanted to go home. I was feeling quite frustrated.
- 2:44Speaker 2: He was then transferred to nursery and he was started
- 2:48Speaker 2: to be tube fed, and he immediately kind of had
- 2:51Speaker 2: these reactions and started vomiting. And that's when we were
- 2:55Speaker 2: transferred to the PERF Children's Hospital, which is about forty
- 3:00Speaker 2: forty five minutes from where we live. And so at
- 3:03Speaker 2: that point I had already been in hospital about six
- 3:05Speaker 2: days and he was transferred on day three or four.
- 3:11Speaker 2: We were after his birth, and so we got into
- 3:15Speaker 2: the pres Children's hoschool quite late at night on a
- 3:17Speaker 2: Saturday night, you know, it was skeleton staff, and they said,
- 3:22Speaker 2: you've got to wait till Monday for a biopsy. And
- 3:24Speaker 2: in our heads, we're what do you mean we have
- 3:26Speaker 2: to wait until Monday. So on the Monday they did
- 3:31Speaker 2: a biopsy and they didn't get the results back, I
- 3:34Speaker 2: think for a couple of days. But at that point
- 3:36Speaker 2: they were like, look, we're pretty certain it's Hirshbrum's. We're
- 3:40Speaker 2: going to book in for the surgery. And it wasn't
- 3:43Speaker 2: until the following week. So Oscar was thirteen days old
- 3:47Speaker 2: when he had his surgery. And leading up to that
- 3:50Speaker 2: point of his surgery day, we were doing lots of research.
- 3:55Speaker 2: We were trying to find out more, trying to what
- 3:57Speaker 2: was this disease that all these doctors would tell is about.
- 4:00Speaker 2: And you know, the doctors would come around once a day,
- 4:05Speaker 2: you know, do their checks. You know, we'd have nursing
- 4:08Speaker 2: throughout the day, but it was such a limited time
- 4:11Speaker 2: you couldn't ask them questions, or if you did, you
- 4:13Speaker 2: felt like you were imposing on the next person's time.
- 4:16Speaker 2: So my husband and I were trying to do as
- 4:18Speaker 2: much research as we could, and we were just my
- 4:20Speaker 2: husband was reading medical journals. He he is very knowledgeable
- 4:26Speaker 2: himself in terms of he's a researcher, so he was
- 4:30Speaker 2: kind of doing all of this research trying to find out. No,
- 4:33Speaker 2: I don't want and I'm very much a personable person,
- 4:36Speaker 2: so I'm like, I don't want researcher and I want
- 4:38Speaker 2: people's experiences. I want to know a lived experience as
- 4:41Speaker 2: to what's happening for families, and you know there, I
- 4:45Speaker 2: want to hear from everyday life people. I couldn't find
- 4:48Speaker 2: anything at the time. So, you know, surgery day came
- 4:52Speaker 2: around and we were becoming more knowledgeable on it and
- 4:55Speaker 2: just having longer discussions with the medical staff, and so
- 4:59Speaker 2: leading up to that point, he was having bow wash
- 5:01Speaker 2: outs every kind of six to twelve hours and he
- 5:05Speaker 2: was responding well to feeds. So they thought they had
- 5:09Speaker 2: said to us and their lead up, oh, look, his
- 5:10Speaker 2: surgery is probably going to be about four hours. We
- 5:12Speaker 2: think he's got you know, a really short segment in
- 5:16Speaker 2: terms of that needs to be removed. So he went
- 5:19Speaker 2: in for surgery at one at one pm in the afternoon,
- 5:22Speaker 2: we were like, okay, cool, we'll be back here at
- 5:25Speaker 2: you know, five ish, you know, we'll be back on ward,
- 5:28Speaker 2: et cetera. So we went home for a little bit
- 5:31Speaker 2: just to kind of regroup and get more of our
- 5:33Speaker 2: belongings because at that point we've already been in hospital
- 5:36Speaker 2: for two weeks, hadn't been home, hadn't really kind of
- 5:40Speaker 2: paid much attention to our dog, and so we kind
- 5:44Speaker 2: of regrouped, and you know, five o'clock mark came and
- 5:46Speaker 2: we hadn't had a phone call, and six o'clock and
- 5:50Speaker 2: then I think we got a phone call around you know,
- 5:52Speaker 2: six or seven o'clock saying it was still going to
- 5:54Speaker 2: be a couple more hours. And at that point we
- 5:57Speaker 2: were like, so, does this mean he's going to have
- 5:59Speaker 2: a does this mean he is going to have you know,
- 6:03Speaker 2: a short segment? And at that point they couldn't really
- 6:05Speaker 2: tell us. So what they were doing was biopsy in
- 6:09Speaker 2: every one centimeter of his bow to determine, running it
- 6:12Speaker 2: off to the lab, coming back waiting for the results.
- 6:16Speaker 2: Yes there's live there's living ganglion cells, or no, there isn't.
- 6:21Speaker 2: So they did that up to the to the point
- 6:23Speaker 2: of the transverse colon, and they said that that was
- 6:26Speaker 2: their last opportunity, the last biopsy that they did before
- 6:30Speaker 2: they would have had to put a stowing a bag in,
- 6:34Speaker 2: so he he had living cells just before his transverse
- 6:41Speaker 2: so he didn't end up having a bag. And so
- 6:45Speaker 2: his surgery in total was eight hours and I guess
- 6:50Speaker 2: they and I think it was around twenty or twenty
- 6:52Speaker 2: five centimeters that was removed. So we ended up back
- 6:57Speaker 2: on board with him about nine thirty PM, and then
- 7:00Speaker 2: he had another just over about a week and a
- 7:02Speaker 2: half of recovery, and definitely those kind of two days
- 7:06Speaker 2: after his surgery. It was quite different to see him
- 7:10Speaker 2: recovering from all the medication that he would have had,
- 7:13Speaker 2: et cetera. And then posts that we're actually discharged on
- 7:19Speaker 2: his due date, which was a very special kind of experience.
- 7:23Speaker 2: And then we got home and it was really surreal
- 7:26Speaker 2: because there was no beeping, there was no daily obs,
- 7:29Speaker 2: there was no or three hourly obs. It took us
- 7:33Speaker 2: a while to kind of get back into home life,
- 7:35Speaker 2: and then we actually had to be back at the
- 7:37Speaker 2: hospital every week for checkups, and then we started the
- 7:43Speaker 2: dilation process, which went on for about it was, it
- 7:48Speaker 2: was about eleven months. And I understand now there's actually
- 7:51Speaker 2: been a big shift in how long dilation now the
- 7:56Speaker 2: curse hall compared to when Oscar was young, it's quite
- 7:59Speaker 2: a shorter stint now. So we were spending a lot
- 8:02Speaker 2: of time at the hospital. But at that point here
- 8:05Speaker 2: in Wa Children's Hospital was actually being upgraded, and so
- 8:10Speaker 2: we had had this experience of where he was on
- 8:14Speaker 2: ward and then when he when we were going back
- 8:18Speaker 2: for appointments, we're at this brand new hospital. It's just
- 8:22Speaker 2: stated of the beautiful, amazing hospital. So it's a really
- 8:25Speaker 2: nice transition because then all of our hospital appointments were
- 8:28Speaker 2: a really different experience for us and for him. I
- 8:32Speaker 2: mean it kind of feeling like a fresh start and
- 8:35Speaker 2: you know, we're on the road to recovery, et cetera.
- 8:38Speaker 2: So yeah, he had kind of weekly, fortnightly, monthly appointments
- 8:44Speaker 2: up until he was about eighteen months old two years
- 8:46Speaker 2: and then he was transferred to the like a colorectual
- 8:51Speaker 2: intensive team where they've got you know, a variety of
- 8:55Speaker 2: professionals on the team, and they were kind of three
- 9:00Speaker 2: monthly than six monthly, and now they're currently yearly appointments,
- 9:04Speaker 2: so he's still involved in that team. We've actually got
- 9:08Speaker 2: an appointment coming up Spoon, So it's been Yeah, it's
- 9:14Speaker 2: been a it's been an interesting journey and for us
- 9:16Speaker 2: as parents, learning along the way all the different hurdles
- 9:20Speaker 2: that we were faced with, but all the different wins
- 9:22Speaker 2: as well, and just learning about the disease and connecting
- 9:26Speaker 2: with other parents. I think he's probably been the biggest
- 9:29Speaker 2: win for us, and learning more about the disease from
- 9:33Speaker 2: lived experiences and having that connection with others is just incredible.
- 9:40Speaker 2: There was a time in his life where he it
- 9:43Speaker 2: was about the age of between the age of about
- 9:45Speaker 2: two to three and a half, where he was having
- 9:47Speaker 2: regular episodes of enterpolitis and at the time we had
- 9:53Speaker 2: thought he was just having gas stro It was, you know,
- 9:57Speaker 2: the symptoms present very much like Gastro was pregnant when
- 10:01Speaker 2: he was about three. I was pregnant with our second child,
- 10:03Speaker 2: and you know, juggling what you thought was Gastro and
- 10:07Speaker 2: you know, pregnancy at the time was just like, oh,
- 10:10Speaker 2: what is going on? And so we ended up kind
- 10:13Speaker 2: of speaking with his surgeon again about Okay, does he
- 10:16Speaker 2: need another surgery. You know, this was happening way through
- 10:20Speaker 2: regularly for it to be something that we could actually
- 10:24Speaker 2: you know, we understood that something needed to shift. So
- 10:28Speaker 2: at the time, you know, we saw the surgeon and
- 10:30Speaker 2: they either had recommended botox or you know, some kind
- 10:35Speaker 2: of other form of intervention. And because my husband, it's
- 10:39Speaker 2: very much a researcher and kind of looks into more things,
- 10:42Speaker 2: and we started to kind of delve a little bit deeper,
- 10:45Speaker 2: and we kind of started to look at his diet
- 10:47Speaker 2: and looking at different ways that we could actually manage
- 10:51Speaker 2: the entricollias. So we actually spoke to the surgeon and
- 10:55Speaker 2: he recommended that as an alternative, we could engage with
- 10:59Speaker 2: a dietitian and a physio who he was actually connected with,
- 11:02Speaker 2: and they were specialist dietitians and physios who specifically work
- 11:05Speaker 2: with children with vowl diseesars. So we engaged with them
- 11:12Speaker 2: and that was probably one of the most significant, like
- 11:15Speaker 2: life changing points for him. So he went, we started
- 11:20Speaker 2: on a low FOD map diet and eliminated you know, glue, glincos,
- 11:26Speaker 2: fructos and lactose and then we did the we immediately.
- 11:31Speaker 2: It was probably within about a month or six weeks
- 11:34Speaker 2: that we saw the complete stop of entripolatis and an
- 11:39Speaker 2: immediate change because we we had removed all of those
- 11:42Speaker 2: We kind of followed blow Ford map to an absolute
- 11:45Speaker 2: tea and the whole family like we were doing it
- 11:47Speaker 2: as a whole family, and it was it was interesting
- 11:54Speaker 2: because we hadn't really known about this, or there hadn't
- 11:56Speaker 2: been a lot of talk about diet or low fond
- 12:02Speaker 2: map because a lot of the kind of research or
- 12:04Speaker 2: things that we were looking at just automatically fell to surgery,
- 12:06Speaker 2: kept falling to surgery, and we didn't he was already
- 12:11Speaker 2: gaining quite a lot of anxiety towards medical appointments, so
- 12:15Speaker 2: we didn't want him to continue to have those experiences.
- 12:18Speaker 2: And we were kind of thinking, Okay, well, what can
- 12:20Speaker 2: we do. Is this something else that we can do?
- 12:21Speaker 2: And we obviously knew what you put into your body
- 12:24Speaker 2: can really have an impact and et cetera. So we
- 12:28Speaker 2: then started the reintroduction process, you know, very kind of
- 12:32Speaker 2: strict you'd have to do like really small portions of
- 12:34Speaker 2: fructose and then only reintroduced one at a time, and
- 12:38Speaker 2: you know, like we follow the dietician's advice on that,
- 12:41Speaker 2: and it took probably the whole process took about a
- 12:44Speaker 2: year and a half to now get to a point
- 12:46Speaker 2: where we know how much gluten he can kind of manage,
- 12:50Speaker 2: and then how much fructose he can manage, and how
- 12:53Speaker 2: much lactose he can manage. So, for example, lactose is
- 12:57Speaker 2: probably his biggest impact, so he has latchosepree you know,
- 13:02Speaker 2: milk and yogurt. But then if it's it, there's a
- 13:04Speaker 2: cake being made, it's fine and a cake, and it's
- 13:08Speaker 2: just saying like you know, he'd eat an apple, where
- 13:10Speaker 2: now it's kind of like, okay, we need to half
- 13:12Speaker 2: an apples manageable versus three apples for example, for fructose,
- 13:16Speaker 2: and it's just saying it's gluten. He can't have gloom
- 13:19Speaker 2: for breakfast, lunch and dinner, but he might be able
- 13:21Speaker 2: to have one meal like a pasta, but then the
- 13:23Speaker 2: other meals he'll have, like we have a low FOD
- 13:26Speaker 2: that like bread here in Australia that's specifically made. It's
- 13:32Speaker 2: low FOD map diet. So it's kind of like it
- 13:35Speaker 2: was a really interesting experience that we learn more about
- 13:39Speaker 2: the disease as well as to what could actually be
- 13:41Speaker 2: managed for him, and we are so grateful that we
- 13:44Speaker 2: avoided kind of another surgery and more kind of medical
- 13:47Speaker 2: intervention and anxiety for him. And now we're at a
- 13:51Speaker 2: point where it's really manageable. And you know, there's times
- 13:55Speaker 2: where we just have a holiday season and we've had
- 13:58Speaker 2: lots of you know, food that is high in you know,
- 14:04Speaker 2: fat or high in you know, those kind of things,
- 14:07Speaker 2: and we've kind of like, well, okay, we need to
- 14:09Speaker 2: pull back and we need to get back on schedule.
- 14:11Speaker 2: And that's okay. You know, we just we're learning as
- 14:13Speaker 2: we're going. So but yeah, it's been it's been a journey.
- 14:19Speaker 1: That that sounds absolutely fantastic and what a what a
- 14:23Speaker 1: journey as well. There's a couple of things I pick
- 14:26Speaker 1: up on what you said, one of which when you
- 14:29Speaker 1: said I was searching and your husband was searching for stories.
- 14:34Speaker 1: And I guess if i'd started this six years ago
- 14:37Speaker 1: rather than one year ago, you might have found some stories.
- 14:42Speaker 1: Which is kind of part of why I do this
- 14:44Speaker 1: is to have almost envisage the situation that you were
- 14:49Speaker 1: in seven years ago, and you're going, Okay, what what
- 14:52Speaker 1: does life potentially because everyone's different potentially look like I
- 14:59Speaker 1: think again, if I started six years ago, that might
- 15:01Speaker 1: have been a bit more helpful.
- 15:02Speaker 2: And I remember had a fine podka and it all
- 15:06Speaker 2: being medical based, you know, or being really limited. And
- 15:12Speaker 2: you know, I had stumbled across Steph little in terms
- 15:15Speaker 2: of her Facebook page, and I engaged in that and
- 15:18Speaker 2: connected with Steph and amazing that we were in the
- 15:21Speaker 2: same state as well. So but besides that, it was
- 15:26Speaker 2: really and you know, I was searching for books and
- 15:28Speaker 2: there's one other children's book that is based on hersh
- 15:32Speaker 2: Brunts and you know, we've got that Bork and you know,
- 15:36Speaker 2: that was valuable at the time as well. But there
- 15:38Speaker 2: was something within me that I was like I needed,
- 15:43Speaker 2: I needed to relate more, and I wanted to provide
- 15:47Speaker 2: that more to I guess the community, and I work
- 15:53Speaker 2: with you know, my profession, I'm a social worker. I
- 15:55Speaker 2: work with children. You know, this is my world in
- 15:58Speaker 2: that sense. So I was really determined to kind of
- 16:05Speaker 2: bring Oscar story to other people so that they could
- 16:08Speaker 2: kind of feel comfort that they're not alone, and also
- 16:11Speaker 2: to kind of feel like, you know, as hard as
- 16:14Speaker 2: it was in the trenches of like we had those
- 16:18Speaker 2: those thoughts of like, what's his life going to be like?
- 16:20Speaker 2: What is what is this? Does it? What's going to
- 16:23Speaker 2: be held for him in his childhood into his adult
- 16:26Speaker 2: ears and really that unknown space and that feeling of
- 16:31Speaker 2: fear to be honest as to you know, this is
- 16:33Speaker 2: our firstborn and what's that going to look like? So
- 16:36Speaker 2: I guess we wanted to I wanted to provide that
- 16:39Speaker 2: story of being like of hope and that they can
- 16:43Speaker 2: still do they can still do amazing things regardless of
- 16:48Speaker 2: this disease. And it's yeah, trying to provide I guess
- 16:51Speaker 2: a bit of empowerment as well for parents and children
- 16:53Speaker 2: that you can do anything regardless if you have POSH
- 16:58Speaker 2: runs you know.
- 16:58Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, And and that's another reason why I really
- 17:02Speaker 1: wanted to do ON because I think we come from
- 17:03Speaker 1: a very similar background in that in that sense in
- 17:08Speaker 1: terms of you're really trying to, you know, not tell
- 17:13Speaker 1: people what life is going to be like, because we
- 17:15Speaker 1: don't know and everyone's different, but to provide that, you know,
- 17:19Speaker 1: if you are going through as you did, as a
- 17:21Speaker 1: lot of Hirschbrung's mums and dads both went through, providing
- 17:26Speaker 1: that sort of there is you know, a world of opportunities.
- 17:31Speaker 1: You know, you go through the surgery obviously to pull
- 17:33Speaker 1: throughs and all of that stuff, and whilst you're going
- 17:35Speaker 1: through all of that stuff that you went through, having
- 17:39Speaker 1: sort of something to look forward to, I guess, and
- 17:43Speaker 1: to have that hope, I think is something that is
- 17:47Speaker 1: really important. There was one other thing as well. I
- 17:50Speaker 1: wanted to mention. You have said you were pregnant at
- 17:54Speaker 1: the time when Moscow was going through a lot of surgeries.
- 17:59Speaker 1: One thing that has fascinated me when doing this is
- 18:02Speaker 1: genetics and sort of the possibility or probability of another
- 18:09Speaker 1: child once you've had a child with hirshprung's, probability of
- 18:12Speaker 1: then having another child with hirshprungs. For anybody who doesn't
- 18:16Speaker 1: know my family history, I have an older brother you're
- 18:18Speaker 1: older than me, who doesn't have hirshprungs. I do, and
- 18:21Speaker 1: then I have two younger brothers that don't. So I
- 18:24Speaker 1: was the lucky or unlucky one, whatever way you want
- 18:26Speaker 1: to put it. Were you ever given sort of a
- 18:30Speaker 1: possibility a percentage chance second time round?
- 18:35Speaker 2: Yeah? Absolutely, that was Like as soon as we had
- 18:39Speaker 2: fallen pregnant with our second it was the most thing
- 18:43Speaker 2: that I probably thought about versus the pregnancy complications that
- 18:47Speaker 2: I had with both the children, But it was absolutely
- 18:52Speaker 2: spoken about quite a lot and told to us, and
- 18:56Speaker 2: particularly there was a lot of strain towards us around, oh,
- 18:59Speaker 2: if it's a boy, it's more likely than that the
- 19:03Speaker 2: boy will get them if it's a girl. And I
- 19:05Speaker 2: don't I don't know the stats in that, but that's
- 19:08Speaker 2: what the medical professionals were telling us. And we had
- 19:11Speaker 2: a girl. But I would say I was so hyper
- 19:16Speaker 2: vigilant for that first twenty four hours post birth, is
- 19:20Speaker 2: she going to do a preu like, what is it like?
- 19:23Speaker 2: And at the time, because I had her in the
- 19:25Speaker 2: peak of COVID, so she was born in February twenty
- 19:29Speaker 2: twenty one. So our hospital system here in perse it
- 19:32Speaker 2: went a little bit wild in the sense of like
- 19:34Speaker 2: we weren't even sure if my husband was going to
- 19:36Speaker 2: be able to be at the birth. Oscar wasn't able
- 19:38Speaker 2: to come to the hospital. It was skeleton stuff. There
- 19:41Speaker 2: was you know, no contact, et cetera. So you know,
- 19:44Speaker 2: I'd had, you know, my second child needs and my
- 19:48Speaker 2: husband had to go pretty quickly and then I'm here
- 19:50Speaker 2: with you know, my second child, you know, no medical
- 19:53Speaker 2: staff around because also very much second child. Oh you've
- 19:57Speaker 2: got it, You're fine, you don't need much support, you know.
- 20:01Speaker 2: And I'm waiting, waiting, and it got into like I
- 20:04Speaker 2: was on the countdown, like and it got to twenty
- 20:06Speaker 2: three hours and which she still hasn't pood. What's going on?
- 20:09Speaker 2: And then I think it was probably about it was
- 20:11Speaker 2: close twenty four hours. At that point, I was like,
- 20:13Speaker 2: that's it. We're going to pH and I had remember
- 20:16Speaker 2: saying to the medical staff all the nursing stuff. I
- 20:19Speaker 2: was like, look, you may as well just transfers now,
- 20:21Speaker 2: like it's been twenty four hours, she hasn't pood. Can
- 20:24Speaker 2: you please just get the wheels in motion? Because in
- 20:26Speaker 2: my mind, I'm like, okay, this is round two. Here
- 20:28Speaker 2: we go. And I think it was around probably like
- 20:33Speaker 2: twenty six hours around that, and I was like, oh
- 20:38Speaker 2: my god, you know, I'm taking a photo. But Evidene said,
- 20:41Speaker 2: you know, like this is it, you know, this is right,
- 20:44Speaker 2: And then again my first thought was like, oh maybe
- 20:47Speaker 2: that was just that was just will she do it again?
- 20:50Speaker 2: And then thankfully she had, you know, and then she
- 20:54Speaker 2: continued to do it and we were like okay, Okay,
- 20:56Speaker 2: we're fine, We're fine. But it was that that anxiety
- 21:00Speaker 2: leading up to it for the entire pregnancy and then
- 21:03Speaker 2: post birth. It really it took over, to be honest,
- 21:07Speaker 2: but having a having a different experience of that and yeah,
- 21:13Speaker 2: it's just been Yeah, it consumes me for that time,
- 21:16Speaker 2: to be honest, that definitely. So we were prepared for
- 21:22Speaker 2: if it was, you know, like we were mentally like,
- 21:25Speaker 2: you know, what, if it is, that's okay, and we
- 21:28Speaker 2: take this journey and we we take it for what
- 21:31Speaker 2: it is. We were not kind of wishing or hoping
- 21:33Speaker 2: it was, just like it is, it will be what
- 21:35Speaker 2: it will be, and very much trying to keep an
- 21:39Speaker 2: open mind to that and having the experience with Oscar,
- 21:43Speaker 2: we felt more equipped if we were going to go
- 21:46Speaker 2: down that route again, I.
- 21:46Speaker 1: Guess absolutely, And I don't think anybody will quite understand
- 21:53Speaker 1: the thought apart from if you are a Hirshbroung's mother
- 21:57Speaker 1: of waiting for your child to pooh, I don't think
- 21:59Speaker 1: any I don't think anybody quite grasped that like a
- 22:03Speaker 1: Hirshprung's mother does.
- 22:06Speaker 2: You're very true, that's very right.
- 22:10Speaker 1: So another point you brought up was was diet as well,
- 22:14Speaker 1: and that I find really really interesting because, as I said,
- 22:18Speaker 1: everybody's everybody's different when it comes to hirshprungs and the
- 22:23Speaker 1: sort of trials of going through the fructo's and the
- 22:27Speaker 1: gluepose and whatnot. I just found out that that was
- 22:31Speaker 1: incredibly interesting. And then it was sort of because again
- 22:37Speaker 1: there was another story. I had something on a few
- 22:40Speaker 1: weeks ago who could only boiled potatoes, which again or
- 22:45Speaker 1: just really really bland food. So was that more sort
- 22:48Speaker 1: of a sort of trial and error in the end,
- 22:50Speaker 1: or was that sort of a specific guidelines that you
- 22:53Speaker 1: were given.
- 22:55Speaker 2: Yeah, so the dietitian gave us very specific guidelines of
- 22:58Speaker 2: kind of like, okay, breaks out a gluten. Okay, you've
- 23:01Speaker 2: got to introduce half half a slice of bread for
- 23:05Speaker 2: the first day, and then for two days do that,
- 23:08Speaker 2: and then for the third day introduced two thirds of
- 23:11Speaker 2: a slice, and then and introduced and at that point
- 23:14Speaker 2: you weren't allowed to introduce any other of the lactose
- 23:18Speaker 2: or fructose. So it was very specific and very guided
- 23:25Speaker 2: in that sense. And so I guess my recommendation would
- 23:28Speaker 2: be always to kind of be guided by a qualified dietitian.
- 23:33Speaker 2: And now because we've done that process so extensively, we
- 23:37Speaker 2: can kind of like tweak it and know what works
- 23:39Speaker 2: to his body, because obviously somebody else's body can be different.
- 23:44Speaker 2: And the other thing is we engaged with a physio
- 23:47Speaker 2: as well, who kind of tortures different ways with different
- 23:52Speaker 2: movements to kind of help his bowel movements or to
- 23:55Speaker 2: help if he was you know, we'd kind of noticed
- 23:58Speaker 2: if he was gassy and to do certain games or
- 24:01Speaker 2: engage with him in a different light. For example, she
- 24:03Speaker 2: would say, you know, clay again, you know, lay on
- 24:06Speaker 2: your tummy and play a board game. Notice the difference
- 24:09Speaker 2: what might happen. And we did, and it was like,
- 24:12Speaker 2: oh wow, that's a really cool trick to know. You know,
- 24:16Speaker 2: like if he's feeling like he's tummy saw or you know,
- 24:21Speaker 2: he's feeling a bit gassy, we'll do that. And that
- 24:26Speaker 2: was a really good tip. Or you know, there'd be
- 24:28Speaker 2: certain movements or certain ways to do things. So we
- 24:32Speaker 2: probably engage with the physio a little bit less than
- 24:34Speaker 2: a dietitian, but it was still very valuable in that sense.
- 24:37Speaker 2: And then they were both working really closely with his surgeon.
- 24:40Speaker 2: They actually all worked at the same clinic. So it
- 24:45Speaker 2: was a very helpful process that everybody was kind of
- 24:49Speaker 2: communicating with each other and everybody you know, was on
- 24:52Speaker 2: board and new oscars needs in that way.
- 24:57Speaker 1: Yeah. No, that's fantastic, Always very very helpful when departments
- 25:01Speaker 1: talk to each other, always, always incredibly helpful and when
- 25:06Speaker 1: they do. Now, as we mentioned at the beginning, you
- 25:10Speaker 1: are an author of Oscar the Unstoppable, selling worldwide, and
- 25:17Speaker 1: we'll talk about how you can get it a bit
- 25:18Speaker 1: later on. First of all, am I right in saying
- 25:23Speaker 1: that this is the one and only book that you've written,
- 25:26Speaker 1: never sort of written a book before.
- 25:29Speaker 2: No, this is my first book and would probably very much.
- 25:33Speaker 1: I love go out on a high.
- 25:35Speaker 2: Absolutely, Yeah, so, yeah, it's my first book. I'm I'm
- 25:41Speaker 2: very taken by children's books, you know, like when when
- 25:45Speaker 2: I was pregnant with Oscar, and even when we're in
- 25:47Speaker 2: hospital with Oscar, we would read to Oscar. You know,
- 25:50Speaker 2: I would have a stack of children's books and on
- 25:53Speaker 2: his little trolley under where he was sleeping, and we'd
- 25:56Speaker 2: read to him every day. And our friends would would
- 26:01Speaker 2: sent a lot of children's books in and I remember
- 26:04Speaker 2: going into his surgery a friend had gifted us. You know,
- 26:07Speaker 2: this beautiful book about bravery that I had read to
- 26:10Speaker 2: him just before he was being wheeled into surgery. And
- 26:14Speaker 2: he still has that book now. So yeah, children's books
- 26:18Speaker 2: are very special and very important to me. So that's what.
- 26:21Speaker 2: It just seemed like an easy Well I wouldn't say
- 26:26Speaker 2: it definitely wasn't easy, but it was. It was something
- 26:30Speaker 2: that I was like, I can do, Like I'm passionate
- 26:33Speaker 2: about it, so I can do this.
- 26:36Speaker 1: No, absolutely fantastic. And I and that there is a
- 26:40Speaker 1: story of how how everything sort of came about on
- 26:43Speaker 1: your Instagram page. Then I write again in saying that
- 26:48Speaker 1: you were reading a lot of children's books to Oscar
- 26:51Speaker 1: and then thought, right now I'll write one because there
- 26:55Speaker 1: wasn't a book or certainly not one available about Hirshprungs.
- 26:59Speaker 2: Yeah that's true. Yeah, like we we have so many books,
- 27:05Speaker 2: and you know, through his first year, we were reading
- 27:08Speaker 2: lots of different books, and I would go through the
- 27:11Speaker 2: Internet and trying to find all, you know, different books
- 27:14Speaker 2: around diversity or different books about you know, being different
- 27:18Speaker 2: and still being capable, and there is nothing I can find.
- 27:24Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, like I said, we have we have
- 27:25Speaker 2: one children's book that I think was written by an
- 27:28Speaker 2: American couple and we had that book and we were
- 27:34Speaker 2: I feel like there needs to be something different here
- 27:36Speaker 2: like this, Like I felt like an urge that I
- 27:39Speaker 2: needed to do this for Oscar. And I remember studying
- 27:42Speaker 2: out like, you know what, even if it's just for him,
- 27:45Speaker 2: for him to see himself and in print and know
- 27:52Speaker 2: that he is being seen and heard in that space,
- 27:55Speaker 2: and that's goal achieved, you know, and if I can,
- 27:58Speaker 2: if I can get it out to other families, and
- 28:01Speaker 2: that's just a bonus, you know, that's incredible. I wanted
- 28:04Speaker 2: him to feel a sense of belonging, a sense of like,
- 28:10Speaker 2: you know, that he was a part of a children's book,
- 28:12Speaker 2: you know, in that kind of world that he could
- 28:15Speaker 2: kind of pick up a book and be like, oh,
- 28:16Speaker 2: I can relate to this, you know, at any age.
- 28:20Speaker 2: So yeah, that was a really big motivation for me
- 28:24Speaker 2: to kind of write it for him to have that
- 28:26Speaker 2: sense within himself.
- 28:27Speaker 1: Fantastic. No, I love the entrepreneurial spirit of there isn't something,
- 28:33Speaker 1: so stuff it, I'll do it myself, you know. I
- 28:36Speaker 1: love that. I love that spirit I do. That's fantastic.
- 28:41Speaker 1: And as we mentioned as well, I think you said
- 28:44Speaker 1: previously that it it took you quite a while to
- 28:47Speaker 1: write it get it into prints. How long roughly did
- 28:51Speaker 1: that all take.
- 28:54Speaker 2: It probably took about very aft three years potentially, So
- 29:01Speaker 2: I think I started writing it in I was pregnant
- 29:04Speaker 2: at the time. I think it was about twenty twenty.
- 29:08Speaker 2: Towards the end of twenty twenty. I had just, you know,
- 29:12Speaker 2: he was two at the time, so and this was when,
- 29:15Speaker 2: you know, two years already's starting to engage more, starting
- 29:18Speaker 2: to really enjoy two of them's books. And so I
- 29:21Speaker 2: just opened a word document and I just started just
- 29:25Speaker 2: started writing from what I knew as a parent, you know,
- 29:29Speaker 2: and along that way. So it took about six months
- 29:32Speaker 2: before I then started to like seriously explore an illustrator.
- 29:37Speaker 2: And in my mind at that point, I really wanted
- 29:40Speaker 2: to obviously keep it within Australia. I was really passionate
- 29:45Speaker 2: around getting an editor who was able to read it
- 29:50Speaker 2: in Australia to understand our language, understand our slang, or
- 29:53Speaker 2: understand you know, just the context of Australia. And then
- 29:57Speaker 2: I really wanted to engage in the illustrator who was
- 29:59Speaker 2: Australian well, because I wanted to have or a B
- 30:02Speaker 2: on the same time zone and be be able to
- 30:06Speaker 2: kind of have that engagement in Australia and just support
- 30:14Speaker 2: another professional who was trying to, you know, run their
- 30:19Speaker 2: own business in Australia. And and I Marante is just
- 30:23Speaker 2: who is the illustrator. It's just an incredible human being.
- 30:27Speaker 2: And we work together for over a year and it
- 30:30Speaker 2: was back and forth emails, it was dropbox, it was
- 30:33Speaker 2: you know, pham calls, it was just it was a
- 30:36Speaker 2: beautiful process with her, and she was so patient with me.
- 30:39Speaker 2: I am a very detailed person, so it would be
- 30:42Speaker 2: like the shade of red, can it be a little
- 30:45Speaker 2: bit more of this, or you know, can you put
- 30:47Speaker 2: an extra shoelace on, or you know, little She was
- 30:50Speaker 2: just so accommodating and so incredible and as you can
- 30:54Speaker 2: see from the book, it is just an incredible illustration.
- 30:58Speaker 2: It is uncanny as to how much it looks like Oscar.
- 31:03Speaker 2: All of our family members are like, wow, She's done
- 31:05Speaker 2: such an incredible job to get it exactly like Oscar.
- 31:10Speaker 2: And I also wanted to create an element of color
- 31:13Speaker 2: but softness and to really incorporate There's lots of little
- 31:17Speaker 2: things throughout the books that are really special to us
- 31:20Speaker 2: as a family. So our dog is in the book,
- 31:24Speaker 2: who's now passed, so we wanted to you know, at
- 31:27Speaker 2: the time she hadn't passed, but so our dog's in
- 31:29Speaker 2: the book. Oscar's Special Bunnies in the book. You know,
- 31:33Speaker 2: I'd provided pictures to Morante of Oscar in that hospital,
- 31:37Speaker 2: you know, the page where Oscar's in his hospital bed
- 31:40Speaker 2: and myself and my husband Elliott looking over Oscar. That
- 31:44Speaker 2: was she took. She illustrated that from the picture that
- 31:46Speaker 2: I sent her. So a lot of the illustrations she
- 31:49Speaker 2: did were images that I had sent from our experience
- 31:52Speaker 2: in hospital or post you know, post hospital. So yeah,
- 31:59Speaker 2: I just I'm forever grateful for her in creating this
- 32:02Speaker 2: because it wouldn't be the book that it is if
- 32:04Speaker 2: she didn't do those illustrations, to be honest, and yeah,
- 32:10Speaker 2: she's just an incredible human being.
- 32:12Speaker 1: Fantastic Well, just sounds like a great collaboration. It wouldn't
- 32:16Speaker 1: be there without the illustrations, but it wouldn't be there
- 32:18Speaker 1: without your words either, So it sounds it sounds like
- 32:21Speaker 1: a fantastic collaboration. And speaking about sort of the person
- 32:26Speaker 1: who the book is about, how does Oscar feel about
- 32:28Speaker 1: the book.
- 32:29Speaker 2: Oh, unsort. He thinks that it's pticularly you know, when
- 32:34Speaker 2: we first kind of released it, he was very much like, oh,
- 32:39Speaker 2: that's me. I've got my own book. And then there'd
- 32:42Speaker 2: be times where he'd kind of feel a bit he
- 32:44Speaker 2: was still kind of figuring out, like how much do
- 32:47Speaker 2: I want to you know, show other people in my
- 32:50Speaker 2: life about this book. So you know, there's been times
- 32:54Speaker 2: where he's chosen to take it to school and share
- 32:57Speaker 2: it and actually his spoor habit in a school library.
- 32:59Speaker 2: I don't needed it to the school library and to
- 33:02Speaker 2: all of our local libraries. They are also donated poppies.
- 33:06Speaker 2: But he feels really empowered by it. He he loves
- 33:11Speaker 2: seeing himself there. He also just loves other seeing other
- 33:16Speaker 2: kids hold the book and feel like a connection with
- 33:20Speaker 2: another child. We has hirsh Bruns on the other side
- 33:23Speaker 2: of the world, and there's been lots of people who
- 33:26Speaker 2: have messaged me, and you know, we've you know, Oscar
- 33:29Speaker 2: and the other child have actually had video pools or
- 33:32Speaker 2: have had you know, connecting in a special way that
- 33:36Speaker 2: they wouldn't have had that connection if the book wasn't there.
- 33:40Speaker 2: And I think that's what has what he loves most
- 33:43Speaker 2: about it is that sense of belongnia, but that sense
- 33:45Speaker 2: of connection with other children, with her sh frinds all
- 33:48Speaker 2: over the world is what I think holds a special
- 33:52Speaker 2: place in his heart. So, yeah, no, that's fantastic, That's brilliant.
- 33:57Speaker 2: And you just spoke about the release of the book
- 33:59Speaker 2: as well. It's sort of about a year and a
- 34:01Speaker 2: half to do and you had a special release day
- 34:06Speaker 2: or a special release date in mind. Would you like
- 34:10Speaker 2: to talk about so when that was and why you
- 34:13Speaker 2: chose that specific date. Yeah, absolutely, so we it was
- 34:21Speaker 2: we were kind of at the time we were tying
- 34:23Speaker 2: up the book, it was kind of January twenty twenty two,
- 34:26Speaker 2: and in my mind, I'm okay, what do they think? Sorry,
- 34:29Speaker 2: trying up the illustrations. So in my mind I was like, okay,
- 34:32Speaker 2: what else we I need to do? And then I
- 34:34Speaker 2: was kind of projecting the month's forward. Okay, I needed
- 34:36Speaker 2: it edited, again, I needed formatted, etc. And again I
- 34:40Speaker 2: was still really passionate about engaging the formatted within Australia,
- 34:43Speaker 2: which engaged an incredible one. And so as the day
- 34:47Speaker 2: got clost hold on, I want to release this book
- 34:51Speaker 2: on oscar surgery Day. I want this to be a
- 34:54Speaker 2: really momentous experience for us, you know, a personal experience
- 34:59Speaker 2: for us to kind of shift. Okay, he had his
- 35:02Speaker 2: surgery and that was the biggest life changing day for him,
- 35:06Speaker 2: but how about we release it on the same day.
- 35:09Speaker 2: So yes, it was released in April twenty twenty two,
- 35:14Speaker 2: and COVID was a blessing it a sense, because it
- 35:17Speaker 2: allowed a year for me and Maranty to kind of
- 35:20Speaker 2: be going back and forth and to be working on
- 35:22Speaker 2: this book. When in twenty twenty one, when you know,
- 35:26Speaker 2: the world had kind of shut down, it was like, oh, well,
- 35:28Speaker 2: we may as well just write a book. So it
- 35:32Speaker 2: was I'm not sure if the book we've been released
- 35:35Speaker 2: when it was if it wasn't the lockdown situation that
- 35:38Speaker 2: we were in because we had a lot of time
- 35:40Speaker 2: at home and a lot of time to review. So
- 35:46Speaker 2: so yeah, it's been It will be nearly three years
- 35:48Speaker 2: since the book has been released coming up, which has
- 35:54Speaker 2: just flown by.
- 35:54Speaker 1: To be honest, that was fantastic, And yeah, I have
- 35:58Speaker 1: to remember it's twenty twenty five as well, but that's
- 36:01Speaker 1: it's yeah, time has time has really flowed, really really flowed.
- 36:06Speaker 1: But it was it was a quote as well that
- 36:09Speaker 1: you wrote on your your Instagram when you're telling all
- 36:11Speaker 1: about the story, that I loved that I'd loved you
- 36:15Speaker 1: to expand and I'll share it as well that when
- 36:20Speaker 1: you were you were packing up the books ready to descend,
- 36:23Speaker 1: or whatever Oscar said to you, I quote from your Instagram,
- 36:28Speaker 1: do all of these people love me? Which I thought
- 36:31Speaker 1: was amazing. Yeah, just yeah, he'd be amazing.
- 36:36Speaker 2: He he absolutely just loves the connection with other people.
- 36:43Speaker 2: And you know, every time, you know, I go to
- 36:46Speaker 2: particular envelope that let's send it in. So as soon
- 36:48Speaker 2: as the envelopes out, who's brought my book? Where do
- 36:52Speaker 2: they live, what's their name? How old are they? Like
- 36:55Speaker 2: wanting to know everything. I'm okay, I don't know. You know,
- 37:01Speaker 2: you know, all over the world and different ages. I
- 37:03Speaker 2: have a lot of teachers who purchase the book because
- 37:05Speaker 2: they want to share it with their students, or I
- 37:07Speaker 2: have libraries who purchase a book, or I have a
- 37:10Speaker 2: lot of medical professionals and they'll email and say, hey,
- 37:12Speaker 2: I'm a surgeon in you know, Ohio, in America. I
- 37:17Speaker 2: want to you know, I've purchased your book. I'm sharing
- 37:19Speaker 2: it with my patients. So every single order that comes through,
- 37:24Speaker 2: Oscar is aware of we let him, you know, I
- 37:27Speaker 2: let him know who they are, and generally if I
- 37:30Speaker 2: kind of know who they are, or let them know.
- 37:32Speaker 2: And a really special experience that we're now able to
- 37:34Speaker 2: do is Oscar. So if I'm sending the book from
- 37:37Speaker 2: my website, Oscar handwrites the notes to the buyer, so
- 37:44Speaker 2: he will, yeah, he will write a little blurb on
- 37:48Speaker 2: the back of the flyer, thanking them. And sometimes he
- 37:52Speaker 2: writes a novel. And sometimes he loves to choose the
- 37:56Speaker 2: lollies that go in, like we send a little men
- 37:59Speaker 2: there and he might sneak one and puts one in
- 38:03Speaker 2: the envelope and then we often go to the post
- 38:05Speaker 2: office together and post it. So it's a really special experience.
- 38:10Speaker 2: If people are buying in Australia, then that hoping that
- 38:15Speaker 2: they're buying from my website, so we can do that
- 38:18Speaker 2: special experience for him. But in saying that, he just
- 38:24Speaker 2: loves seeing from Instagram or from the Facebook groups that
- 38:28Speaker 2: all the different people who reading the book or it
- 38:32Speaker 2: will you know, is that baby reading my book or
- 38:36Speaker 2: is that you know, teenager or you know whatever that
- 38:40Speaker 2: looks like. So yeah, and because when we go to
- 38:46Speaker 2: our local library. Often I will search the book and
- 38:49Speaker 2: see if it's in or out or you know, And
- 38:53Speaker 2: there was a time where I'd searched and reserved three times.
- 38:57Speaker 2: I'm like, who's your preserving this book? Then high demard,
- 39:00Speaker 2: It's probably it's my family and friends. But but yeah,
- 39:06Speaker 2: it's it's just such a surreal experience. I think for
- 39:10Speaker 2: all of us involved to be able to have this
- 39:15Speaker 2: opportunity to share oscar story with the world.
- 39:18Speaker 1: Absolutely, and I on a slightly lower lower I think
- 39:22Speaker 1: I do sort of understand where you're coming from. When
- 39:25Speaker 1: I think, you know, who's listening to the podcast, it
- 39:27Speaker 1: probably just is my mum and dad, But that kind
- 39:31Speaker 1: of you, I think, where are they listening form? And
- 39:33Speaker 1: all of this? That the other the question I probably
- 39:36Speaker 1: should have asked a little bit earlier on. But with
- 39:41Speaker 1: the book itself, I never talked a little bit about
- 39:44Speaker 1: it's Oscar's story in his journey. If you were to
- 39:49Speaker 1: sum up the book in sort of a few sentences,
- 39:53Speaker 1: what would you what would you say if someone said
- 39:57Speaker 1: to you or what's it all about?
- 39:59Speaker 2: Yeah? Absolutely, Palpable is about sharing what hirsh runs can
- 40:08Speaker 2: be in a really child and simple terms, but also
- 40:13Speaker 2: focusing on how a child with Hirschwung's disease can do anything.
- 40:18Speaker 2: It's not going to stop them from playing basketball, or
- 40:22Speaker 2: it's not going to stop them from reaching their goals.
- 40:24Speaker 2: And I really wanted to write a book that was
- 40:26Speaker 2: empowering for children with Kirshwrong's disease and their families and
- 40:29Speaker 2: their siblings and their peers, and to normalize and to
- 40:33Speaker 2: bring awareness to the disease and to really celebrate it
- 40:38Speaker 2: as well, and to really show showcase it in a
- 40:44Speaker 2: really positive light, and to bring cope to families and
- 40:48Speaker 2: to children, and to be honest, for the children with
- 40:53Speaker 2: Hirshrun's disease to feel seen and heard within a children's
- 40:58Speaker 2: books collection. I guess in a sense of you know,
- 41:02Speaker 2: often children will pick up books and be able to
- 41:05Speaker 2: identify with that, and I think, because there is such
- 41:08Speaker 2: limited books out there on Hirschbrun's disease, that this is
- 41:13Speaker 2: a book that they can pick up and feel a
- 41:15Speaker 2: connection to, and they can feel like they can relate
- 41:19Speaker 2: to somebody and there's somebody else out there like me.
- 41:22Speaker 2: And that's probably one of the biggest feedback I've got
- 41:24Speaker 2: is that children are reading these books, reading this book
- 41:27Speaker 2: and feeling like, oh wow, Oscar's like me, Oscar's my friend,
- 41:32Speaker 2: or I've got scars like Oscar, or yeah, I like
- 41:35Speaker 2: Tobay basketball and hirshbrings doesn't stop me from playing basketball.
- 41:41Speaker 2: So it's really a book about connection and relation and
- 41:44Speaker 2: empowerment and feeling seen and heard for them as little
- 41:49Speaker 2: warriors of Hirschron's.
- 41:50Speaker 1: So yeah, absolutely fantastic, And that's a wonderful, wonderful sentiment
- 41:56Speaker 1: that we'll conclude on, and just very quickly a couple
- 41:59Speaker 1: of things just before we wrap up. Where can people
- 42:03Speaker 1: find you and where can people buy the book from?
- 42:08Speaker 2: Yeah? Absolutely, So if you're in Australia, I would recommend
- 42:12Speaker 2: if you want to get a little note from Oscar
- 42:15Speaker 2: that you book, that you purchase it from Oscar the
- 42:18Speaker 2: Unstoppable dot Com. So unfortunately I need to ship within
- 42:22Speaker 2: Australia just because of postage costs. The next recommendation for
- 42:27Speaker 2: worldwide would be Amazon. So it's a print on demand service.
- 42:31Speaker 2: So for example, if you're ordering in London or the UK,
- 42:35Speaker 2: and it's actually printed in the UK and it's shipped
- 42:39Speaker 2: to you from your local dispatching Amazon service, so it's
- 42:45Speaker 2: actually a pretty a pretty quick turnaround. Obviously you don't
- 42:49Speaker 2: get the little personalized note, which is completely fine. And
- 42:52Speaker 2: that's the reason why I have it available worldwide, because
- 42:56Speaker 2: it's not about an income or it's not about making
- 43:00Speaker 2: money for us. It is about awareness and getting it
- 43:03Speaker 2: out into the community and for children to feel seen
- 43:06Speaker 2: and heard. So that's why we have it available on Amazon,
- 43:09Speaker 2: so it's more accessible to the world, really, and that's
- 43:14Speaker 2: what it's about for us. It's it's it's about a
- 43:17Speaker 2: community and raising that awareness.
- 43:20Speaker 1: Absolutely. And on Instagram, where can people follow you?
- 43:25Speaker 2: Yes, so it is Oscar Underscore, the Sorry, Oscar Underscore,
- 43:33Speaker 2: the Underscore, unstoppable and yeah, you'll see little Oscar's Morantes
- 43:40Speaker 2: illustration in the little tile. You'll know that you've landed
- 43:45Speaker 2: in the right space. So and please, anybody who is
- 43:49Speaker 2: reading the book or sharing the book, I would love
- 43:53Speaker 2: for you to contact me and you know, either in
- 43:56Speaker 2: the DMS or flicking me an email from the website,
- 44:00Speaker 2: because every single story that comes through to me, I
- 44:02Speaker 2: share with Oscar and he feels so much more connected
- 44:06Speaker 2: to the world and he is so excited to travel
- 44:09Speaker 2: the world. And I think a big reason of that
- 44:12Speaker 2: is because of those who are reading the book, and
- 44:14Speaker 2: he's excited to see where all these people live and in,
- 44:19Speaker 2: you know, be a globe trubber.
- 44:21Speaker 1: Essentially fantastic. Well, thank you, thank you ever so much
- 44:27Speaker 1: for everything that you do, and Oscar as well, and
- 44:30Speaker 1: thank you so so much for joining me.
- 44:34Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Tom, I appreciate your time.
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