Latest / Tom's Hirschsprung's Podcast / Episode 57 - With Sherry Maavich
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- 0:05Speaker 1: You are listening to Tom's Hirshprung's Podcast, where I provide
- 0:08Speaker 1: a look into the remarkable experiences of the most inspiring
- 0:11Speaker 1: people around Hirshprung's disease and sports. Hello and welcome to
- 0:39Speaker 1: episode fifty seven of Tom's Hirshprung's Podcast. I have Sherry
- 0:45Speaker 1: with me today and we're going to talk about what
- 0:48Speaker 1: we're going to talk about, Hirshprungs. We're going to talk
- 0:50Speaker 1: about your story and various various medical studies you've been
- 0:57Speaker 1: involved in as well. So that should be a very
- 0:59Speaker 1: interesting story to be told. And welcome to the podcast, Sherry.
- 1:05Speaker 2: Hi, thank you for having me. I'm looking forward to.
- 1:07Speaker 1: It V too, V too. It should be a very
- 1:10Speaker 1: a very interesting one. We'll start, if I may sort
- 1:15Speaker 1: of from from the very beginning, because you were operated
- 1:19Speaker 1: on by a very very famous doctor in doctor Everett Coope.
- 1:26Speaker 1: Would you like to just sort of explain a little
- 1:28Speaker 1: bit about him.
- 1:30Speaker 3: Well, first of all, we got to him because my
- 1:36Speaker 3: surgeon in Elkton, Maryland, which is between if you looked
- 1:40Speaker 3: on me at between Baltimore and Philadelphia, and my surgeon
- 1:45Speaker 3: had gone to medical school with Cee Everett Coop and
- 1:49Speaker 3: when he was just a general surgeon and when he
- 1:53Speaker 3: really didn't feel like he could treat me, and they
- 1:56Speaker 3: were deciding where to send me because there are a
- 1:58Speaker 3: lot of options in the north east of the United States.
- 2:03Speaker 3: He said, you know, I went to school with See EVERYT.
- 2:06Speaker 3: Coop and he's one of the very few pediatric surgeons.
- 2:10Speaker 3: So my mom just took his advice and doctor Fisher
- 2:14Speaker 3: called him and that's how we got.
- 2:15Speaker 2: To Philadelphia Children's Hospital. Now, the one thing that I want.
- 2:19Speaker 3: To say about see Everett Cooper is he was really
- 2:22Speaker 3: sweet to my mother. My parents got married very young.
- 2:26Speaker 3: My mom was sixteen. I was her oldest. She had
- 2:29Speaker 3: turned nineteen two weeks before I was born, so very
- 2:33Speaker 3: young mother. And when she had me in Elpton, they
- 2:40Speaker 3: were in the hospital a couple of days and then
- 2:44Speaker 3: that's when it all started. But he was really sweet
- 2:47Speaker 3: to her. He really explained things in ways she didn't
- 2:51Speaker 3: that she understood. He drew her pictures and one of
- 2:55Speaker 3: the things he said, after he got done examining, he
- 2:57Speaker 3: came out and he says, you know, missus, privet, there's
- 3:00Speaker 3: two kinds of babies that come to this hospital. Babies
- 3:03Speaker 3: that are gonna die, in baties, we can help, and
- 3:06Speaker 3: I can help your baby. That was huge for my mother,
- 3:13Speaker 3: and he just he took her every step of the way,
- 3:16Speaker 3: even before they did the colostomy surgery. He took her
- 3:19Speaker 3: in and showed her babies with colostomy so she wouldn't
- 3:23Speaker 3: be surprised when I came out.
- 3:26Speaker 2: Oh wow, yeah, I mean, he.
- 3:29Speaker 3: Just really did things back then that was not done
- 3:32Speaker 3: Like I was in a semi private room with fifty children.
- 3:36Speaker 3: Fifty babies was a semi private room in nineteen sixty four.
- 3:43Speaker 3: So and then I know that he took apart Siamese
- 3:48Speaker 3: twins that were connected all through from the chest down
- 3:51Speaker 3: to the abdomen. And then later on he became our
- 3:54Speaker 3: surgeon general in the eighties. Yep, he lived a long life,
- 4:00Speaker 3: and I know that he really did a lot in
- 4:03Speaker 3: the pediatric world long before that was a thing. And
- 4:08Speaker 3: a nice little story here. He told my mom in
- 4:12Speaker 3: nineteen sixty four that one day the insurance companies were
- 4:17Speaker 3: going to run medicine.
- 4:20Speaker 1: So not only was he a pioneer but also a
- 4:24Speaker 1: visionary as well.
- 4:26Speaker 3: Yes, wow, because my mom said that to me a
- 4:29Speaker 3: couple of years ago. Doctor Cook told me this is
- 4:32Speaker 3: where medisine was heading. My mom just always felt like
- 4:37Speaker 3: he was a really good man and he.
- 4:39Speaker 2: Could be trusted. Yeah, so he was very very good
- 4:44Speaker 2: to the parent of the patient.
- 4:46Speaker 1: Absolutely, and I mean he was, I guess and in
- 4:50Speaker 1: the research I did on him as well that anyone
- 4:52Speaker 1: can sort of find out there was. He was a
- 4:56Speaker 1: pioneer in a lot of different ways as well. It
- 4:58Speaker 1: wasn't just in chill hospitals, in sort of children's wards
- 5:04Speaker 1: and in operations. He was sort of very much against
- 5:09Speaker 1: things like tobacco and smoking very early, much early nineteen
- 5:14Speaker 1: eighty eight. I've got it down here back sort of
- 5:18Speaker 1: when again we probably didn't know as much as we
- 5:20Speaker 1: know now when it comes to tobacco and smoking. I
- 5:24Speaker 1: saw that he's in his particular I don't want to
- 5:30Speaker 1: call it constituency the hospital. He got smoking rates down
- 5:34Speaker 1: from thirty seven percent to twenty eight percent, which which
- 5:38Speaker 1: again in those times would have been would have been enormous.
- 5:43Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, he's definitely. I definitely grew up in
- 5:49Speaker 3: smoking was just everywhere. Yeah. Yeah, you know, kids today
- 5:54Speaker 3: don't understand how privalent it was. I mean, you just
- 5:57Speaker 3: smoked everywhere, You smoked your ass.
- 6:01Speaker 2: That sounds crazy nowadays, you smoke down an airplane.
- 6:07Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean I think I'm old enough to remember,
- 6:11Speaker 1: you know, smoking in restaurants, and that is sort of
- 6:14Speaker 1: I think I can't remember when that was outlawed here.
- 6:16Speaker 1: It might have been two thousand and five, I'm guessing
- 6:19Speaker 1: I don't know, but around that.
- 6:22Speaker 2: Yeah, the snapper room never really worked in the restaurant.
- 6:26Speaker 1: No, people sort of forgot that smoke actually travels through
- 6:29Speaker 1: the air. It doesn't just stop when it ring. It
- 6:32Speaker 1: sees a stop sign and goes Actually, no, I won't
- 6:34Speaker 1: travel across there. It doesn't work like that.
- 6:38Speaker 3: And it's see Everett Coop was the first sergeant that
- 6:41Speaker 3: did the pull through on infants. When I was young,
- 6:46Speaker 3: the pull through was being done on two and three
- 6:48Speaker 3: year old tadlers.
- 6:51Speaker 2: So I don't remember any of it. Adult.
- 6:54Speaker 3: My first memory is hiding from my mom, so I
- 6:57Speaker 3: didn't have to have a suppository.
- 7:01Speaker 4: Well you know that's my first memory. Well, yeah, that's
- 7:04Speaker 4: what a first memory time. But yeah, I mean, it
- 7:09Speaker 4: just just sounds like the most amazing man. Just somebody
- 7:13Speaker 4: who sounds like way ahead of his time.
- 7:15Speaker 2: I guess, yes, yes, and a good man, just a
- 7:19Speaker 2: good man.
- 7:21Speaker 1: But that must have been incredibly comforting for your parents
- 7:24Speaker 1: to have somebody there who not only was, you know,
- 7:27Speaker 1: very intelligent, but also would be so adaptable and be
- 7:34Speaker 1: able to sort of talk to everybody in a way
- 7:37Speaker 1: that made them feel comfortable.
- 7:40Speaker 3: Yeah, and and he didn't back then they like, I
- 7:44Speaker 3: don't know what surgery I had. I know that the
- 7:48Speaker 3: surgery that they did before mine left male soul and
- 7:52Speaker 3: impet it and my surgery had only been being done
- 7:56Speaker 3: a couple of years. Wow, knew that, but they didn't
- 8:01Speaker 3: give you little light names. They didn't tell you whether
- 8:03Speaker 3: it was long or short sect. None of them terms
- 8:06Speaker 3: were used.
- 8:07Speaker 2: With my mom at all.
- 8:10Speaker 1: No, but again that.
- 8:12Speaker 3: What they told them is what they were going to
- 8:14Speaker 3: do and how they were going to fix her baby,
- 8:17Speaker 3: and that was all she cared about.
- 8:20Speaker 1: But I guess that is at the time, that is
- 8:21Speaker 1: all the tilers or you do care about. But we
- 8:25Speaker 1: were talking about in terms of long and short segment
- 8:29Speaker 1: because you're unsure as to which one you have prep.
- 8:37Speaker 1: I know we were started talking off air about how
- 8:40Speaker 1: that sort of came to be. But I guess for
- 8:44Speaker 1: everybody listening, how are you unsure?
- 8:49Speaker 3: Because that wasn't something that they talked about at all then.
- 8:53Speaker 3: So all I know is how much they took out
- 8:56Speaker 3: between ten and twelve inches of my call. And that's
- 9:01Speaker 3: the only words my mom heard. They didn't use any
- 9:06Speaker 3: of the medical terms with her. They really wanted her
- 9:09Speaker 3: to understand in layman's terms what they were doing for me.
- 9:15Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely, and.
- 9:18Speaker 5: I don't And back then, I don't think the doctors
- 9:20Speaker 5: gave the patient as much information as they do today.
- 9:25Speaker 5: Look back then, you went to the doctor and you
- 9:27Speaker 5: just did what the doctor said. You didn't question the doctor,
- 9:30Speaker 5: You didn't assume that that you could have a bad doctor.
- 9:34Speaker 5: You just trusted your doctor. I know the concept today,
- 9:38Speaker 5: but it was what it was back then.
- 9:41Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess what what they say goes back. Back
- 9:44Speaker 1: back then, it was just a case of my doctors
- 9:47Speaker 1: said this, that's what I'm doing. Yes, Yeah, Whereas nowadays
- 9:52Speaker 1: we're potentially, I mean, there's still a lot of that
- 9:57Speaker 1: and a lot of you know, very very very good
- 9:59Speaker 1: doctors out there, and we just do and take whatever
- 10:02Speaker 1: pills they give us and do whatever they say. But
- 10:06Speaker 1: there's a lot more I guess information around as well.
- 10:10Speaker 1: Because we were obviously talking pre internet days here, very
- 10:15Speaker 1: much prey everything.
- 10:16Speaker 2: I went to the library to look step up.
- 10:20Speaker 1: It will be people.
- 10:21Speaker 2: My daughter never had that joy, not when you've got
- 10:25Speaker 2: a smartphone.
- 10:26Speaker 3: Now, well, she started on the computer. She's twenty seven,
- 10:31Speaker 3: so they weren't quite smart yet. They just were phones.
- 10:35Speaker 1: But definitely definitely Internet being around there as well.
- 10:39Speaker 2: I knew.
- 10:40Speaker 3: I knew when I had her she had to have
- 10:42Speaker 3: computer literacy early. There wasn't an option in today's world.
- 10:47Speaker 3: I knew where it was heating. I had her on
- 10:49Speaker 3: at chill with Disney and Sesame Street apps or software,
- 10:55Speaker 3: so you just that's where I knew we had.
- 10:57Speaker 1: To go absolutely. And then we were talking as well,
- 11:03Speaker 1: a little bit about Mayo Clinic as well. It's just
- 11:07Speaker 1: something i've I have heard of, and you're very positive
- 11:12Speaker 1: about how how they've treated. You would like to talk
- 11:16Speaker 1: a little bit about.
- 11:17Speaker 3: Them, Yes, I had let me start with prior to COVID. Oh, well,
- 11:26Speaker 3: let me let's go way back. I've been going to
- 11:30Speaker 3: Mayo Clinic.
- 11:32Speaker 2: Oh.
- 11:33Speaker 3: I must have been my late twenties, and I went
- 11:37Speaker 3: up there for several things. I've gone up there for
- 11:39Speaker 3: several things throughout the years. But one time I was
- 11:44Speaker 3: up there and I was going through fertility stuff, and
- 11:49Speaker 3: somebody come up along the way and said, well, we've
- 11:51Speaker 3: got a we've got a constipation study going. Would you
- 11:57Speaker 3: be interested in coming back, And we'd like to do
- 12:01Speaker 3: this study on you because I think we might learn
- 12:03Speaker 3: something maybe a little bit more about how your colon works.
- 12:07Speaker 3: And they kind of told me what the study was,
- 12:09Speaker 3: and I kind of did it not gloriously because it
- 12:13Speaker 3: wasn't a fun study. So I spent two full days
- 12:17Speaker 3: doing cleanse. You think a colon asked to be Clint's
- 12:21Speaker 3: is difficult, Yeah, do the other one. It's even worth
- 12:24Speaker 3: two days of cleanse in hotels with not.
- 12:28Speaker 2: Good toilet paper. Oh yeah.
- 12:32Speaker 3: And then they put tubes up your ear end, not
- 12:38Speaker 3: to wires. So what they were doing for me is
- 12:42Speaker 3: it was an eight hour test, four hours totally on
- 12:46Speaker 3: an empty colon and four hours on a full colon.
- 12:51Speaker 3: So after four hours they gave me a thirty five
- 12:54Speaker 3: hundred calorie shape and I had twenty minutes to get down,
- 12:59Speaker 3: which is you know, a lot of calories. So there
- 13:01Speaker 3: weren't that colon to go to work. And so the
- 13:05Speaker 3: next day I go in and there's twenty doctors in
- 13:08Speaker 3: a little bit Examino at Mayo Clinic that sees everything,
- 13:14Speaker 3: everything in the world that they see, and the doctor
- 13:19Speaker 3: looks at me. He says, you know, we kind of thought,
- 13:23Speaker 3: well we did this that well, we got in there,
- 13:25Speaker 3: you were just going to have maybe kind of a
- 13:27Speaker 3: sluggish gut. Things were just gonna work kind of slow,
- 13:33Speaker 3: he says. But you know what we found. When the
- 13:36Speaker 3: colon is empty, you have perfect nerve and muscle activity.
- 13:42Speaker 3: When it's full, it does not function properly. Yes, right,
- 13:51Speaker 3: I believe that's changed the direction of some of the
- 13:54Speaker 3: research in Hirschbrunks. I'm not saying it's discounting the DNA stuff,
- 13:59Speaker 3: because that's how you get it, but I think it
- 14:01Speaker 3: definitely could affect how it's treated.
- 14:06Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be a really And And what year
- 14:11Speaker 1: roughly was was this.
- 14:14Speaker 3: I think I was in my mid to late thirties,
- 14:17Speaker 3: so twenty some plus years ago. When I went back
- 14:21Speaker 3: a couple of years later for something, I said, so
- 14:26Speaker 3: did you did you publish a paper and gastrology today
- 14:31Speaker 3: I don't know what gastrology magazines they have or doctor's journals.
- 14:35Speaker 3: That was my joke, And they're like, did they tell
- 14:38Speaker 3: you that they were writing a paper on you.
- 14:40Speaker 2: I says no.
- 14:41Speaker 3: But when you have twenty doctors steering at you in
- 14:44Speaker 3: a little doctor's opposite Man Lenning, they're writing a paper
- 14:47Speaker 3: on you, and they said, yeah, that's pretty good deduction. Yeah.
- 14:52Speaker 1: When when twenty doctors are looking at you, you kind
- 14:55Speaker 1: of yeah, they won't No, I will say, yes, they
- 15:01Speaker 1: want to know something from you.
- 15:03Speaker 2: Yes.
- 15:05Speaker 3: So it was really an interesting, interesting thing for me
- 15:09Speaker 3: to learn.
- 15:10Speaker 2: I don't know what I could do with it.
- 15:13Speaker 3: I'm definitely hoping that it changes the direction of research.
- 15:18Speaker 3: Maybe it'll help us later on manage it through our
- 15:22Speaker 3: adult lives.
- 15:24Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely.
- 15:25Speaker 3: You know, I'm not as lucky as some that just
- 15:30Speaker 3: had the surgeries that never had any problems actor that.
- 15:33Speaker 3: I'm like you, not lots of surgeries under my belt,
- 15:37Speaker 3: and each surgery just makes things worse. It just adds
- 15:41Speaker 3: to the scar tissue and all the other issues that
- 15:44Speaker 3: come along with it. Yeah.
- 15:47Speaker 1: No, most definitely. I think it's one of those things
- 15:52Speaker 1: with Hairshbrung's. I think we're talking to so many people
- 15:55Speaker 1: that I have with it is that everybody is different
- 16:00Speaker 1: and that there are some, as you said, who have
- 16:02Speaker 1: had you know, have the pull through. Maybe you have
- 16:04Speaker 1: one more. Everything is, you know, as normal as normal
- 16:11Speaker 1: can be. But then there've been people I've talked to
- 16:15Speaker 1: on here that have had over one hundred surgeries. Oh yeah,
- 16:20Speaker 1: so anywhere between sort of two and I think it
- 16:24Speaker 1: was about one hundred and forty or something like that.
- 16:26Speaker 1: It was, yeah, a lot, a lot of surgeries. And
- 16:31Speaker 1: then you imagine the scar tissue. As you said, you know,
- 16:35Speaker 1: the more operations you have, the more scartish you have,
- 16:37Speaker 1: the harder the next operation is going to be in theory.
- 16:41Speaker 1: So yeah, so that that is host springs is different
- 16:46Speaker 1: for everybody. Hence why I think trying to get stories
- 16:49Speaker 1: out there is is for the best in my opinion.
- 16:53Speaker 2: Well, I had four as an four surgeries.
- 16:57Speaker 3: I had an exploratory and elped and by a general surgeon.
- 17:01Speaker 3: They didn't have pediatric surgeons as much as they do today.
- 17:07Speaker 3: He geed my mom a list of things that could
- 17:10Speaker 3: be and then I laid in a hospital for three days,
- 17:14Speaker 3: and then my mom came in and threw his heat
- 17:16Speaker 3: fit and said you bring a specialist in here or
- 17:18Speaker 3: I'm taking her out right now. And they brought someone
- 17:21Speaker 3: in from Delaware, a pediatrician, and again he said, these
- 17:26Speaker 3: are your options, and he had thought I should go
- 17:29Speaker 3: to John Hopkins, but my surgeon had gone to school
- 17:32Speaker 3: with Coop, so that's we ended up at Philadelphia Children's Hospital.
- 17:37Speaker 3: I had the initial colossomy, I had the clostomy pulled
- 17:42Speaker 3: back in, and I got a severe infection, and then
- 17:46Speaker 3: I had to pull through it right about eleven months.
- 17:51Speaker 1: Okay, so for a little bit later than you would
- 17:54Speaker 1: do now necessarily.
- 17:57Speaker 3: Well, most of them waiting to two or three when
- 17:59Speaker 3: I was born. Yes, yes, Hoop was the only one
- 18:03Speaker 3: doing to pull through on infants.
- 18:05Speaker 1: Which, again, as we said, pioneer of his time.
- 18:08Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, absolutely.
- 18:10Speaker 3: I was really my mom and dad were really blessed
- 18:15Speaker 3: to have good insurance and find really good care for me.
- 18:21Speaker 2: Yeah, because, as I.
- 18:24Speaker 3: Had told you previously, you're the first person I've ever
- 18:27Speaker 3: spoke to that heard hirsch brns. Besides me, I know
- 18:31Speaker 3: that there's one in Rockford. One of the nurses told
- 18:34Speaker 3: me that they have another lady in Rockford and she's
- 18:37Speaker 3: in the hospital almost every month. Really, they don't tell
- 18:41Speaker 3: me why. I can't you know, but she just said,
- 18:44Speaker 3: because I said, you know, there's not many of them.
- 18:46Speaker 3: She says, well, there's another lady here, and she has
- 18:49Speaker 3: a lot more problems than you have. I don't know
- 18:53Speaker 3: her age or anything. That's about all I know.
- 18:55Speaker 2: We have another lady here.
- 18:57Speaker 3: So yeah, I really kind of about kind of on
- 19:01Speaker 3: an island here. Yeah. I felt like I'm in my
- 19:06Speaker 3: own friend to mind my own journey, that I don't
- 19:10Speaker 3: know where I'm going.
- 19:12Speaker 1: I think that's that's pretty normal. And as we've spoken before,
- 19:16Speaker 1: you can, as I said, I think in other episodes,
- 19:20Speaker 1: I wasn't till I was twenty five until I met
- 19:23Speaker 1: somebody else, and that was just purely by chance, because
- 19:27Speaker 1: me being a teacher, I was teaching somebody who had
- 19:31Speaker 1: hirshbrungs or has hirshbrungs, and that was just purely by chance.
- 19:36Speaker 1: And that was kind of one of the reasons of
- 19:37Speaker 1: doing this was to try and get you know, try
- 19:41Speaker 1: and build a community of sorts. I don't know, there's
- 19:45Speaker 1: lots of people you know, do Facebook groups and all sorts,
- 19:48Speaker 1: but to try and sort of put all of these
- 19:51Speaker 1: really fascinating, interesting, positive stories all together in one place
- 19:58Speaker 1: so that I.
- 19:58Speaker 3: Really have a mother one time call me with a
- 20:01Speaker 3: boy and she wanted to know if he.
- 20:05Speaker 2: If he was going to have a normal light.
- 20:11Speaker 3: I trusting, Okay, they lose you Nope, okay, but I
- 20:19Speaker 3: never I never spoke with her. I just spoke with
- 20:21Speaker 3: her one time. I let her know I have a
- 20:24Speaker 3: normal light. There's some management with it.
- 20:30Speaker 2: Yeah, but never.
- 20:31Speaker 3: You know, That's about all I've had up until just
- 20:34Speaker 3: me having you DM me fantastic.
- 20:39Speaker 1: Well, Well, if anybody ever wants to know more, there
- 20:42Speaker 1: are forty two, I think after this goes out, forty
- 20:46Speaker 1: two episodes of people with hirshbruings on the podcast. So
- 20:49Speaker 1: there's many, many hours of the of listening to be told,
- 20:53Speaker 1: if anybody wants to do that. Another thing that we
- 20:56Speaker 1: were going to talk about that you were very keen
- 20:58Speaker 1: to talk about with something that's sort of going on
- 21:02Speaker 1: about now with you with COVID, and you have long Covid.
- 21:08Speaker 1: At the moment, you are the first person certainly i've
- 21:12Speaker 1: met with both Hirshprungs and Long COVID. I think, as
- 21:16Speaker 1: we were talking a little bit off air, was still
- 21:18Speaker 1: very much in the sort of finding out phase when
- 21:22Speaker 1: it comes to COVID and I personally I don't I
- 21:26Speaker 1: don't think we'll know a great deal for a long
- 21:29Speaker 1: time yet. But there might be people listening at the
- 21:32Speaker 1: moment with long COVID. What how has your life changed
- 21:39Speaker 1: or adapted since being diagnosed?
- 21:42Speaker 2: Well, first let.
- 21:43Speaker 3: Me start before real quickly, before I was diagnosed. Before
- 21:47Speaker 3: I was diagnosed, I had decided that in my very
- 21:51Speaker 3: early fifties, I wanted to go into sixty better than
- 21:54Speaker 3: my fifties.
- 21:56Speaker 2: So I went on a health journey.
- 21:58Speaker 3: I went on trying to eat better, and I got
- 22:02Speaker 3: into exercising. For the first time in my life. I
- 22:05Speaker 3: really got exercise. I was jogging five hours or five
- 22:10Speaker 3: miles a day, five to six days.
- 22:13Speaker 2: A week in about an hour.
- 22:16Speaker 3: Wow.
- 22:17Speaker 2: So I was really feeling great.
- 22:20Speaker 3: And then I got COVID in September of twenty twenty two.
- 22:27Speaker 3: And when I went back and I had I would
- 22:29Speaker 3: tell you I almost had COVID, like I barely. I
- 22:32Speaker 3: had some cold symptoms. I had a nose that ran
- 22:37Speaker 3: for a week, you know, nothing major. And then I
- 22:41Speaker 3: went back to exercising. And when I went back to exercising,
- 22:46Speaker 3: I couldn't breathe and my heart is just trying to
- 22:48Speaker 3: pound out of my chest. Now this is just a
- 22:51Speaker 3: couple of weeks for me walking all through the city
- 22:55Speaker 3: of Seattle and my family tagging behind me, and I
- 23:00Speaker 3: could not exercise, and then we went down the road
- 23:04Speaker 3: of COVID. The one thing that's the only be Fictel
- 23:08Speaker 3: on COVID is it's been much easier to handle my constipation.
- 23:13Speaker 3: I'm not having much constipation. However, that's not my norm.
- 23:19Speaker 3: And even at Mayo Clinic, the doctor said, yeah, that's
- 23:23Speaker 3: not your norm. If you were probably normal in that
- 23:26Speaker 3: area right now, you'd be living with diarrhea. Right.
- 23:31Speaker 2: So the fatigue, the malaise, all of.
- 23:34Speaker 3: That's really just overwhelming, and personally, I'm not sure nobody
- 23:41Speaker 3: can tell me.
- 23:42Speaker 2: Nobody knows.
- 23:43Speaker 3: I question if it's not because I have COVID, when
- 23:47Speaker 3: you have COVID or not COVID, when you have Erstbron's.
- 23:51Speaker 3: I question how well am I processing my nutrition? And
- 23:57Speaker 3: if I'm not crushing my nutrition correctly, then I have
- 24:00Speaker 3: some sort of immunity issues.
- 24:03Speaker 2: I would think.
- 24:05Speaker 3: Now, this is just my opinion, and I'm not really sure,
- 24:09Speaker 3: but it definitely makes me questioned.
- 24:12Speaker 1: You know all of that absolutely not and I think,
- 24:16Speaker 1: you know, again, I don't know. I don't think there's
- 24:19Speaker 1: anybody who there's anybody who knows, because there's there's obviously
- 24:24Speaker 1: not been any tests or not been a lot of
- 24:27Speaker 1: testing on it. I mean, firstly, you've got to find
- 24:29Speaker 1: someone with COVID, then you've got to find someone with hirshprungs.
- 24:31Speaker 1: I can't imagine there are many people in the world
- 24:34Speaker 1: who have both. But I mean, your your theory does
- 24:41Speaker 1: in terms of being an autoimmune disease as such as
- 24:47Speaker 1: COVID and you know the condition that hirshprunks is as well,
- 24:54Speaker 1: there's certainly a possibility. I don't think anyone can anyone
- 24:57Speaker 1: could say for sure, as you said, but having COVID
- 25:02Speaker 1: on hirshbruns is a bit of a double whammy.
- 25:04Speaker 3: It is, except that I'm hearing easier trying to callote
- 25:08Speaker 3: the bathroom.
- 25:09Speaker 2: But as the doctor Mao said that that's not my norm.
- 25:16Speaker 3: No, I should be having to manage constipation, which is
- 25:20Speaker 3: most of what I've had to do most of my
- 25:22Speaker 3: life is manage constipation, and that can be challenging.
- 25:26Speaker 1: Really.
- 25:28Speaker 3: You know, sometimes people forget that just because we had
- 25:32Speaker 3: it fixed does not mean we work properly. No, no,
- 25:38Speaker 3: And I'm totally done hearing doctor say, well you had
- 25:41Speaker 3: that fixed.
- 25:42Speaker 2: Nope, that no wrong answer. Because it's not fixed. Maos
- 25:47Speaker 2: prove that.
- 25:48Speaker 3: No.
- 25:49Speaker 1: And I think that especially when people haven't heard of hirshprunks,
- 25:54Speaker 1: they can potentially go, oh, well you've had the pull through.
- 25:57Speaker 1: Everything's now fine, and it doesn't again. As we said before,
- 26:01Speaker 1: some people that can be sort of true. For a
- 26:07Speaker 1: lot of us, me included, it is not. And things
- 26:12Speaker 1: it can and it can. It can be sort of
- 26:14Speaker 1: a you know, things happened daily that are challenging a
- 26:21Speaker 1: weekly or whatever it might be.
- 26:24Speaker 3: I had some of that, and then I had no
- 26:26Speaker 3: like when I travel always bad. The last colostomy or
- 26:31Speaker 3: not classic, the last colonnascopy I had, it got me
- 26:36Speaker 3: so stewed up.
- 26:36Speaker 2: It took me.
- 26:37Speaker 3: I take six or eight weeks to get back on
- 26:39Speaker 3: some type of schedule at all. Wow, four days after
- 26:44Speaker 3: the colonoscopy, I'm constipated again.
- 26:49Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how can we be concipated already?
- 26:53Speaker 1: That doesn't sound Yeah, that doesn't sound quote unquote normal.
- 26:59Speaker 2: Well it's not, but there we are.
- 27:02Speaker 1: But we were supposed to speak. You're fair. I don't
- 27:05Speaker 1: think any of us who have hirshbrungs are are normal.
- 27:09Speaker 3: No, I don't either. I think that some have it
- 27:13Speaker 3: a lot worse than others. I've read a couple of
- 27:16Speaker 3: stories of people going back to you know, some form
- 27:21Speaker 3: of classroomy or stormer whatever. All I've ever thought about
- 27:26Speaker 3: is what do you got to be going through actually
- 27:28Speaker 3: sign up for that?
- 27:31Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 27:32Speaker 1: Yeah, most definitely.
- 27:33Speaker 2: I mean, you know you'd have to do. That's a
- 27:38Speaker 2: hard sell for me.
- 27:39Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I I uh, yeah, I understand that, most definitely.
- 27:46Speaker 1: I think as well, it's something else to touch on
- 27:50Speaker 1: in terms of your life, is hirshprungs. How have you seen,
- 27:58Speaker 1: I guess, the ways in which people are treated change
- 28:02Speaker 1: over the years.
- 28:06Speaker 2: What do you mean by that?
- 28:07Speaker 1: Well, as in as in sort of the way because
- 28:14Speaker 1: we were talking a little bit about the pull through
- 28:16Speaker 1: and the scars, the scars being larger than they are now,
- 28:20Speaker 1: is there anything that sort of stands out where you think, actually,
- 28:25Speaker 1: this is done differently sort of over the years. Because
- 28:29Speaker 1: obviously you have more experience than than a lot of
- 28:31Speaker 1: my guess with with hirshpruns.
- 28:38Speaker 3: I don't know what they're doing today with all of that,
- 28:43Speaker 3: because I'm already so messed up and lumpy and bumpy
- 28:47Speaker 3: and so full of scars. Every just they typically a
- 28:52Speaker 3: lot of times she reopened old scars. Okay, so I
- 28:57Speaker 3: don't ever seen much different. Now I've had some doctors
- 29:02Speaker 3: be very creative with me. I don't know if you're
- 29:05Speaker 3: aware of kirsh Brunt's patients tend to have very weak pelvic.
- 29:10Speaker 1: Floors, makes sense.
- 29:13Speaker 3: So very early on I had some I was in
- 29:16Speaker 3: my thirty late thirties with having some incontinence issues and
- 29:21Speaker 3: I had never carried a baby. And they told me
- 29:26Speaker 3: again at Mayo that patients with hirsch Brunts, because of
- 29:30Speaker 3: all the surgeries they had in the pelvic region, they
- 29:34Speaker 3: tend to have a wheat velvet floor. And then what
- 29:38Speaker 3: they did is they did a highbred of the old
- 29:43Speaker 3: bladder slang and the new one where.
- 29:45Speaker 2: They did vaginally.
- 29:47Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, so I had a little bitty like oneed
- 29:50Speaker 3: scar and then I had stitches come out of my
- 29:53Speaker 3: vagina right, and that was very successful for me. But
- 29:58Speaker 3: it was really shocked for me to start having incontinence
- 30:02Speaker 3: issues and not have carried a child normally.
- 30:06Speaker 2: You know, it's women carrying babies.
- 30:09Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely, but I think that definitely certainly from again
- 30:14Speaker 1: from people I've spoken to. You know, we're talking a
- 30:16Speaker 1: little bit about scars, and about how the scars across
- 30:21Speaker 1: the abdomen with the pulsry goes through just doesn't. It
- 30:24Speaker 1: won't look the same anymore, even from sort of from
- 30:28Speaker 1: when I had mine to when people are who are
- 30:31Speaker 1: having them now, they look sort of completely different and
- 30:34Speaker 1: in a lot of cases I think a lot smaller.
- 30:37Speaker 3: Well, mine or my stomach's just a mess. It was
- 30:40Speaker 3: definitely difficult for me through my teen years a gym
- 30:46Speaker 3: class where you've changed in the locker room as an adult. Overall,
- 30:50Speaker 3: I think I've just handled it well. It's saved my life.
- 30:54Speaker 3: I wouldn't be here without them. They're who I am.
- 30:57Speaker 3: And if I don't go through life with some scars,
- 31:01Speaker 3: I'm probably had a pretty boring life.
- 31:03Speaker 1: Ah ha, Yes, yes, I think.
- 31:06Speaker 2: No, I got other scars.
- 31:07Speaker 3: I got a monkey bite star, and you know I
- 31:09Speaker 3: got other scars to tell stories.
- 31:13Speaker 2: That's true.
- 31:14Speaker 1: Every scar tells a story, it does.
- 31:17Speaker 2: Some of them are good, some of them are paidful.
- 31:19Speaker 1: Yes, yes, most definitely, But I think, yeah, a lot
- 31:22Speaker 1: of us in terms of hirsprungs, we tend to wear
- 31:25Speaker 1: our scars potentially more than most.
- 31:30Speaker 2: Yes.
- 31:30Speaker 3: Probably the other thing I did want to cover really
- 31:34Speaker 3: quickly if you don't mind, absolutely is I want to
- 31:38Speaker 3: talk about the parents of the upcoming kersh Brons babies
- 31:43Speaker 3: coming along my mom did. I've got a really fantastic mom.
- 31:48Speaker 3: But my mom did a few things really right for
- 31:52Speaker 3: me very early in my life. Some decisions she made.
- 31:56Speaker 3: One of them was she was never going to let
- 31:59Speaker 3: anyone treat me like a sick baby, because I was
- 32:03Speaker 3: going to grow up and I was going to be normal.
- 32:07Speaker 3: She didn't want people coming along in babying me. She
- 32:11Speaker 3: wanted to treat me age appropriate, and that was really
- 32:15Speaker 3: a blessing for me. I didn't know until much later
- 32:20Speaker 3: in my life what a special place I had in
- 32:23Speaker 3: extended family's lives. But as a child, I just thought
- 32:27Speaker 3: I was like to everyone else. In fact, I didn't
- 32:30Speaker 3: know every other baby didn't have to have animals and suppositories, right,
- 32:37Speaker 3: Why would I know any different. Secondly, she never told
- 32:43Speaker 3: me that she had concerns with me sexually because of
- 32:49Speaker 3: the boy The boys the babies prior to my generation
- 32:54Speaker 3: were being left impotent. She was always worried about that.
- 32:59Speaker 3: So after I had gone through fertility issues, which is
- 33:03Speaker 3: the other thing she didn't talk to me about, late
- 33:06Speaker 3: in my early thirties. She asked me about it, and
- 33:09Speaker 3: I says, well, of course I have orgasms, and then
- 33:12Speaker 3: she told me why she had always been concerned. And
- 33:17Speaker 3: then same thing the day the.
- 33:21Speaker 2: Night I had the.
- 33:24Speaker 3: Or the aclostomy poland and I got that severe infection.
- 33:27Speaker 3: That next morning, she had a conversation with my dad
- 33:32Speaker 3: about I would never have babies, But she never told
- 33:36Speaker 3: me that. She let me do it organically and then
- 33:40Speaker 3: were really good things for me. And She's always known
- 33:46Speaker 3: that I would have to manage this. This wasn't just
- 33:49Speaker 3: a one and done, This wasn't my appendix ruptury. No,
- 33:54Speaker 3: this is a life long thing. She never made a
- 33:58Speaker 3: deal of it, but there was. She was always there
- 34:01Speaker 3: to understand when I did need to I had I
- 34:06Speaker 3: was pretty normal through my childhood. Then I had it
- 34:09Speaker 3: over here, insisted eighteen and when they got in there,
- 34:13Speaker 3: my bowels had wrapped around and grown to my uterus,
- 34:18Speaker 3: which would have been really dangerous had.
- 34:20Speaker 2: I become pregnant.
- 34:22Speaker 3: After that surgery, I really started having to manage constipation
- 34:26Speaker 3: more than I ever had in my life. And since then,
- 34:30Speaker 3: the more surgeries I've had, the more issues that have arrived,
- 34:34Speaker 3: including you know, I have obstructions. I haven't had one
- 34:38Speaker 3: since COVID, but there for a while I was having
- 34:40Speaker 3: pretty regular obstructions. I called the doctor going, I'm going
- 34:44Speaker 3: on clear liquids again, and I would do clear liquids
- 34:48Speaker 3: for a week because I don't want to let them
- 34:50Speaker 3: open me. Yep, that's just going to create more stuff.
- 34:55Speaker 3: And every surgery I've had really has been needed. I didn't,
- 35:01Speaker 3: you know, I did look at one point in my
- 35:03Speaker 3: twenties about having my stomach you know, fixed, but it
- 35:06Speaker 3: was never really gonna be fixed.
- 35:10Speaker 1: What you mean by fixed.
- 35:13Speaker 2: Flat, you know, not have it so scarry.
- 35:18Speaker 1: Okay, And one more thing you want to mention.
- 35:22Speaker 2: Yes, my mom.
- 35:30Speaker 3: She never looked at this as a job or as
- 35:34Speaker 3: dicky or as you know, sticking her finger up to
- 35:37Speaker 3: dilate my record. None of that stuff bothered her. She
- 35:41Speaker 3: always felt, this is what I gotta do to make
- 35:45Speaker 3: my baby better. She never once looked at how difficult
- 35:50Speaker 3: it was for her, or how much more work I
- 35:53Speaker 3: was than what an other baby might be. She always
- 35:58Speaker 3: just thought about how I'm going to get my baby better,
- 36:02Speaker 3: and that was really good and positive for me.
- 36:06Speaker 2: Yeah, even into my adulthood.
- 36:09Speaker 1: Absolutely, and then as There's one thing that there's sort
- 36:13Speaker 1: of a constant throughout the episodes on this podcast when
- 36:16Speaker 1: I talk to a lot of mothers is that I
- 36:21Speaker 1: can't thank them enough really for what they do. And
- 36:26Speaker 1: there's so many, but so many mothers that I talk
- 36:29Speaker 1: to they just would do, would do anything, and and
- 36:36Speaker 1: just such an important role that they play. I mean,
- 36:41Speaker 1: all mothers play an important role. I think we know that,
- 36:45Speaker 1: but especially when you have a child who is I
- 36:50Speaker 1: don't want to say is ill or is sick or whatever,
- 36:54Speaker 1: although that might well be the case, but it is
- 36:57Speaker 1: certainly going to go through more issues in your average child.
- 37:01Speaker 3: I guess, yes, yes, like I had a ton of
- 37:06Speaker 3: ear infections, whereas as a direct of dear infections.
- 37:10Speaker 2: We all have more stuff than people who don't have
- 37:14Speaker 2: a response that we do that we do just have
- 37:18Speaker 2: more stuff.
- 37:19Speaker 1: We do. That's that's absolutely true. But it has been
- 37:24Speaker 1: it has been a pleasure having you on. Thank you
- 37:26Speaker 1: so much for sharing a story, for sharing a unique
- 37:31Speaker 1: insight into into what life life was like for people
- 37:36Speaker 1: who haven't haven't experienced hirshprungs in the sixties, But thank
- 37:41Speaker 1: you ever so much for coming on. It's been a
- 37:44Speaker 1: it's been a real pleasure having you and chatting to you.
- 37:46Speaker 3: Thank you, You're welcome. It's been an absolute joy.
- 37:53Speaker 1: Thank you for listening to the podcast. Find us on
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- 38:23Speaker 3: Hmm