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- 0:00Speaker 1: My name's Tatasha Bamblet. I'm a proud First Nations woman
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- 0:50Speaker 3: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast
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- 1:06Speaker 3: of sitting down with one of our incredible She's on
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- 1:15Speaker 3: week I got a message and it sounded exactly like this. Hi,
- 1:19Speaker 3: VD and the SotM team. I'm Bella. I'm the fangirl
- 1:23Speaker 3: who interrupted your family walk on Dromana Beach on Anzac Day.
- 1:26Speaker 3: She did my friends, and it was the best. Six
- 1:29Speaker 3: years ago, I was a law student, living paycheck to paycheck,
- 1:33Speaker 3: prioritizing travel over financial literacy, and I had no idea
- 1:37Speaker 3: what the SMP five hundred even meant. Fast forward to today,
- 1:41Speaker 3: after binging your podcast daily and completely shifting my mindset,
- 1:45Speaker 3: I'm now a lawyer, I'm married, I live on the
- 1:47Speaker 3: morning to Peninsula with our puppy, and we are building
- 1:50Speaker 3: our investment portfolio. We learned the hard way that property
- 1:54Speaker 3: investing isn't always the dream it's sold us, so we've
- 1:58Speaker 3: pivoted away from chasing expects, did milestones, and now invest
- 2:02Speaker 3: forty percent of our income instead. Our big lesson financial
- 2:06Speaker 3: security doesn't have to look the way everyone says it should.
- 2:10Speaker 3: Money Durist, Hello again, Hi, thanks so much for having me.
- 2:13Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, this was so fun. So both of
- 2:16Speaker 3: us make up free, looking a little bit disheveled. I
- 2:19Speaker 3: think both of us had been to like dawn services.
- 2:21Speaker 3: So we just like started walking our dogs. Straight after
- 2:25Speaker 3: you had your newborn, I did. I was ready. We
- 2:27Speaker 3: ran into each other on Dramana Beach, and much to
- 2:30Speaker 3: our husband's demise, we had a really good chat. And
- 2:33Speaker 3: then you said I'm going to ride in and I said,
- 2:35Speaker 3: please do Now are you here?
- 2:37Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having me.
- 2:39Speaker 3: I'm obsessed. I'm so excited. So as I always start money, darist,
- 2:43Speaker 3: what grade would you give your habits from A three
- 2:45Speaker 3: to F If I asked you to give them a grade.
- 2:47Speaker 2: I'm going to say B plus. I was thinking, you know,
- 2:51Speaker 2: I've come a long way, so I'm thinking B plus
- 2:53Speaker 2: maybe B minus.
- 2:54Speaker 3: Got questions, You've always got questions. Your letter in says
- 2:57Speaker 3: that you're investing forty percent of your income, and you're like,
- 3:00Speaker 3: B plus and okay, I'm not even doing that, but okay, yeah,
- 3:05Speaker 3: so talk to me. I want to know a little
- 3:07Speaker 3: bit more about your money story and the things that
- 3:08Speaker 3: have impacted it.
- 3:09Speaker 2: So I grew up in regional Victoria. Actually, mom and
- 3:13Speaker 2: dad just we never went without absolutely anything, but money
- 3:16Speaker 2: was just never spoken about. It was so taboo. It
- 3:19Speaker 2: was just like we always had what we wanted. If
- 3:21Speaker 2: I something got it, but I knew that we had
- 3:24Speaker 2: to work for things and hard work at big and
- 3:26Speaker 2: that kind of stuff, but it just wasn't woken about,
- 3:28Speaker 2: like it just money just never came up. Like I
- 3:31Speaker 2: guess I was very privileged.
- 3:32Speaker 3: It just didn't come up, or if it came up,
- 3:34Speaker 3: it was like, oh, that's rude.
- 3:36Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so. I think that like just oh,
- 3:39Speaker 2: we don't have to worry about money kind of thing,
- 3:40Speaker 2: or let's just not go into it. I think Dad
- 3:42Speaker 2: was very protective. Yeah, and now that I know, like
- 3:45Speaker 2: they weren't well off, like now that I've grown up
- 3:47Speaker 2: and we've spoken about it, like, they definitely weren't well
- 3:49Speaker 2: off in the sense of the word. But I think
- 3:52Speaker 2: maybe he just wanted to, yeah, protect his money story
- 3:56Speaker 2: for himself, I guess. But yeah, that's kind of I
- 3:59Speaker 2: think shaped my perspective on money now, and it's definitely
- 4:03Speaker 2: something I would do differently if I were to raise
- 4:05Speaker 2: my own kids as well. I think it should be
- 4:06Speaker 2: spoken about. And I know you believe this as well,
- 4:08Speaker 2: that you know how do you communicate about money with
- 4:11Speaker 2: your kids and whatnot. So yeah, I think in the
- 4:13Speaker 2: fact that also taboo. That kind of then led me
- 4:17Speaker 2: into where I am now, I guess. So I moved
- 4:19Speaker 2: to the city, inner city Melbourne to study.
- 4:22Speaker 3: Law and psychology, okay, queen when.
- 4:24Speaker 2: I was eighteen. Yeah, yeah, and I just worked part
- 4:26Speaker 2: time in hospitality, just trying to you know, get a
- 4:29Speaker 2: couple of hundred dollars for the week kind of thing
- 4:31Speaker 2: and to get by. But I was a really good
- 4:33Speaker 2: saver with whatever I had left at the end of
- 4:35Speaker 2: the paycheck. But all that money was going to travel.
- 4:38Speaker 2: Like I was just like, right, I'm saving and I'm
- 4:40Speaker 2: going to Europe and going to this and doing that.
- 4:43Speaker 2: And I did all that, but I did that up
- 4:45Speaker 2: until a couple of years ago. So yeah, all my
- 4:47Speaker 2: money's kind of just been on experiences and that's where
- 4:50Speaker 2: I really bowe you my money. And then I met
- 4:53Speaker 2: my husband actually in twenty nineteen, so just before COVID,
- 4:57Speaker 2: and we were thrust obviously into moving together.
- 5:00Speaker 3: Oh so many people were right, It's like, yeah, either
- 5:03Speaker 3: stopped dating because we can't see each other. Oh guess what,
- 5:06Speaker 3: we live together now.
- 5:06Speaker 2: Yep, we're in it. It was like after a year,
- 5:08Speaker 2: so it was fine. It was honestly fine.
- 5:11Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 5:11Speaker 2: Now they say that, I think that's actually okay, and
- 5:13Speaker 2: it was a lot of fun.
- 5:13Speaker 3: Like but at the time, it does feel like it's
- 5:15Speaker 3: moving quick because that's what my partner and I did.
- 5:17Speaker 3: And I remember telling somebody, oh, yeah, we've been together
- 5:20Speaker 3: a year and we're moving in. They were like wait what.
- 5:23Speaker 2: Yeah, so he's a little bit older than me. But
- 5:26Speaker 2: I guess we just were kind of yeah, as I said,
- 5:28Speaker 2: just thrust into it and we just were having a
- 5:29Speaker 2: really great time. When I look back on COVID, I'm like, oh,
- 5:32Speaker 2: what did I do? Like, I literally I wasn't learning
- 5:35Speaker 2: about money or doing finance or anything back then, So
- 5:37Speaker 2: I don't know what happened during that period of time.
- 5:39Speaker 2: I think I was just honestly mindlessly spending and just
- 5:42Speaker 2: being outrageous.
- 5:43Speaker 3: I feel like it all rolls into one.
- 5:45Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 5:46Speaker 3: I was looking back on this a little while ago
- 5:48Speaker 3: because someone was like, oh, yeah, it's been like six years,
- 5:50Speaker 3: and I was like, sorry, what what do you mean.
- 5:52Speaker 3: They're like, yeah, COVID nineteen started twenty twenty. I was like,
- 5:55Speaker 3: oh my god, Like, yeah, it feels like yesterday and
- 5:58Speaker 3: also fifty years ago at the same time. But I
- 6:02Speaker 3: was like, I don't remember a lot of Is that
- 6:04Speaker 3: a trauma response or is that just because every day
- 6:08Speaker 3: looked the same. Like my husband mentioned something the other day,
- 6:10Speaker 3: is like, hey, remember when we used to get our
- 6:13Speaker 3: fresco cups and feel them full of espresso martinis and
- 6:16Speaker 3: go for walks. And I was like, can you imagine
- 6:19Speaker 3: if I did that today? That would be so to do? Like,
- 6:21Speaker 3: can you imagine our Victoria Devine goes for a drink
- 6:24Speaker 3: and walk?
- 6:25Speaker 2: That's crazy sitting in the park.
- 6:28Speaker 3: Yeah, we was sitting in the park drinking margs out
- 6:30Speaker 3: of coffee cups, wasn't it.
- 6:33Speaker 2: I mean it sounds quite fun. Actually, yeah, let's go.
- 6:36Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 6:36Speaker 2: I guess where we're at now is because my partner's
- 6:39Speaker 2: are older than me. He's always had that sort of
- 6:41Speaker 2: hie salary.
- 6:42Speaker 3: Yeah, how much older are you talking? Though? Like, sorry,
- 6:44Speaker 3: this is money diaries.
- 6:45Speaker 2: I get the goss seven years.
- 6:47Speaker 3: Oh that's nothing, that's nothing.
- 6:48Speaker 2: Six he's thirty three. Yeah, okay, now when I was nineteen,
- 6:51Speaker 2: he was twenty six. But yeah, he's had a high salary.
- 6:54Speaker 2: But I just didn't really matter, Like I think there
- 6:57Speaker 2: was times when I was thinking, oh shit, like I
- 6:59Speaker 2: wish I was earning that little bit more to like
- 7:01Speaker 2: because I was obviously just working at hospital, trying to
- 7:02Speaker 2: get through my degree to like match you my guess.
- 7:05Speaker 2: But he never made me feel like I needed to
- 7:08Speaker 2: supportive and like, oh, get dinner and all that stuff.
- 7:11Speaker 3: Like yeah, he was like I'm queen, you're still at UNI.
- 7:13Speaker 2: Yeah, that was exactly what he did. But then in
- 7:16Speaker 2: twenty twenty four we got engaged, which was lovely.
- 7:19Speaker 3: Yeah, how did he provoke? Yeah?
- 7:21Speaker 2: So we were in Thailand cut yeah, and we went
- 7:24Speaker 2: on this little walk We're just holiday and he just
- 7:27Speaker 2: got down on one knee and it was just beautiful. Actually,
- 7:29Speaker 2: I was watching the video the other day.
- 7:31Speaker 3: I'm obsessed.
- 7:31Speaker 5: I just love it.
- 7:32Speaker 2: Same, I love love.
- 7:33Speaker 3: One of my team members just got engaged and I
- 7:35Speaker 3: was like so excited. I was like, hold on, hold on,
- 7:38Speaker 3: she's messaged me on her holiday, like I don't want to, like,
- 7:40Speaker 3: you know, it's a sign overstretched. No, she got engaged
- 7:43Speaker 3: in Japan, which I'm so excited. This is a leeche
- 7:45Speaker 3: If anybody is listening, she's already posted on Instagram about it.
- 7:48Speaker 3: So I feel like it's public knowledge. But I was like,
- 7:50Speaker 3: am I allowed to FaceTime her? Like I'm just so excited,
- 7:52Speaker 3: Like I just want to share this excitement.
- 7:54Speaker 2: Oh it was yeah, obviously my special day, but our
- 7:58Speaker 2: wedding was obviously then more special. Then got married last year.
- 8:01Speaker 2: I guess where we're at is last year And the
- 8:04Speaker 2: end of twenty twenty four was just the most expensive
- 8:08Speaker 2: yeah ever, Like of course it was. So we had
- 8:11Speaker 2: a wedding and we actually bought an apartment.
- 8:13Speaker 3: At the same time. Oh, Steve and I did that
- 8:16Speaker 3: and a dog. Oh yeah, just like hate money yep,
- 8:20Speaker 3: literally setting fire to it at that point yep.
- 8:23Speaker 2: Honeymoon and then we just put another trip in there
- 8:25Speaker 2: to New Zealand skiing, which was so expensive, so rary
- 8:30Speaker 2: and lucky and privilege obviously that we had the means
- 8:33Speaker 2: to do that. But now that we're here and we
- 8:37Speaker 2: can reflect, it's just like we spent hundreds of thousands
- 8:40Speaker 2: of dollars and that pains, Say, am.
- 8:42Speaker 3: I allowed to be pervy?
- 8:44Speaker 2: Yeah? I did the calcul I need I need to know.
- 8:46Speaker 3: So where did you get married in Australia?
- 8:48Speaker 2: Yes, in Australia in Shoal Bay, so sush near Stevens.
- 8:53Speaker 3: Yeah, up the coast.
- 8:53Speaker 2: Yeah, the wedding was fine. So the wedding was around
- 8:56Speaker 2: fifty sixty k all together. We had fifty five people.
- 9:00Speaker 2: It was quite small. Yeah, but then we did the
- 9:02Speaker 2: honeymoon and that was in Fiji.
- 9:04Speaker 3: Now it all adds up, doesn't it. It's like I
- 9:06Speaker 3: always talk about the core satellite investing approach, and like
- 9:09Speaker 3: I think that we talk about weddings in the same
- 9:11Speaker 3: way where it's like the core You're like, oh, the
- 9:13Speaker 3: wedding wasn't too bad, but then we forget to include
- 9:16Speaker 3: engagement parties and anniversaries and honeymoons and all of the
- 9:20Speaker 3: other stuff that goes around it, and then all of
- 9:22Speaker 3: a sudden you're like, where is all my money gone?
- 9:25Speaker 3: And it was wedding related exactly.
- 9:28Speaker 2: It's just baffling. But you know what, I was happy
- 9:30Speaker 2: with that amount, Like I was happy that we didn't spend,
- 9:34Speaker 2: you know, over one hundred thousand. I was happy with that.
- 9:36Speaker 3: And was this something that you budgeted for or was
- 9:38Speaker 3: it like you just spent as you went or I'm
- 9:41Speaker 3: just so pervy, I'm so sorry.
- 9:43Speaker 2: Yeah, no, No, we definitely budgeted for it. Actually, we
- 9:45Speaker 2: probably budgeted around fifty k, so blew it a little bit,
- 9:48Speaker 2: blowed a little bit. And then in Fiji, I think
- 9:51Speaker 2: we went for two weeks, two four weeks and that
- 9:53Speaker 2: was about fifteen thousand, which.
- 9:56Speaker 3: Is just figi's gorgeous, pg's gorgeous.
- 9:59Speaker 2: Like we went to this island, Turtle Island, this beautiful
- 10:02Speaker 2: island was amazing, like no regrets obviously, and then we
- 10:05Speaker 2: came back and we went to New Zealand a couple
- 10:07Speaker 2: months later because all our friends were going, so we're like,
- 10:10Speaker 2: well we're obviously going to yeah ma low yeah, and
- 10:14Speaker 2: that was just a yeah. I think that was twelve
- 10:16Speaker 2: thirty K for a week.
- 10:18Speaker 3: What did you do?
- 10:20Speaker 2: So the skiing passes are outrageous? What do you mean?
- 10:23Speaker 3: Where were you skiing? As somebody who like disclaimer, this
- 10:26Speaker 3: is going to be the most unrelatable conversation. I think
- 10:30Speaker 3: it is unrelatable the right thing, like maybe just like
- 10:32Speaker 3: a little bit entitled, Yeah, I go skiing a lot. Yeah,
- 10:34Speaker 3: I love skiing. Yes, we are a ski family. Skiing
- 10:37Speaker 3: is not cheap, but the ski passes in New Zealand
- 10:41Speaker 3: are about the same as they are in Australia.
- 10:43Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think we paid four hundred dollars for
- 10:46Speaker 2: a ski pass each, right, yes, but then.
- 10:48Speaker 3: What got us but that would have been like three
- 10:50Speaker 3: days or four days.
- 10:51Speaker 2: Yes, yes, what got us is we went Remarkables and
- 10:55Speaker 2: then the other one, which it was Cardrona.
- 10:57Speaker 3: Yeah, and they're not on the same ski pass.
- 10:59Speaker 2: They're not on the same ski so then you get two.
- 11:01Speaker 3: We needed the hero pass yeah yeah, yeah, so.
- 11:04Speaker 2: Then that was an accommodation a couple of thousand.
- 11:06Speaker 3: Yeah, it would have been.
- 11:07Speaker 2: Flights were expensive. I think they might have been two
- 11:10Speaker 2: K or something. Yeah, okay, which is kind of exy
- 11:12Speaker 2: now that I see white prices, but maybe it was
- 11:14Speaker 2: around ten. But then when we were there, we were
- 11:17Speaker 2: just out for dinner. We're going on this winery tour.
- 11:20Speaker 2: It just go's a slippery slow Yeah, it seriously is
- 11:22Speaker 2: a hence the slippery slope of the last year that
- 11:25Speaker 2: was just ridiculously Yeah, so I think this was our mentality,
- 11:30Speaker 2: like and now just look back on it and I
- 11:32Speaker 2: just got it.
- 11:32Speaker 3: And it's hard, right, And I'm not saying that that's
- 11:34Speaker 3: a bad thing, but it's so easy to spend that.
- 11:37Speaker 3: Whereas that's why I was like, oh, really is it expensive?
- 11:40Speaker 3: Like not in a I'm being entitled way. That's why
- 11:43Speaker 3: I was like, I want to disclaim it this. I
- 11:44Speaker 3: promise I don't need to touch grass, but as somebody
- 11:47Speaker 3: who you know, if my husband and I want to
- 11:49Speaker 3: go skiing, which we adore, like that's something big line
- 11:52Speaker 3: item in our budget, right, we do like going to
- 11:55Speaker 3: New Zealand because the snow is better, it's a little
- 11:57Speaker 3: bit more predictable, and we actually find it cheaper. But
- 12:00Speaker 3: we're shopping around, like we're making sure that we book
- 12:03Speaker 3: flights when they're on sale.
- 12:04Speaker 1: You know.
- 12:04Speaker 3: We usually share an airbnb with a group of friends,
- 12:07Speaker 3: like we're not just going and like having a bougie
- 12:10Speaker 3: hotel experience, and then we eat in most of the time,
- 12:13Speaker 3: like we go down to the shops because we've all
- 12:15Speaker 3: just hired a car together. We go down to the
- 12:17Speaker 3: shops and we're like, all right, tonight's roast, Tomorrow night's this,
- 12:20Speaker 3: like yeah, and we all do like shared cooking and
- 12:22Speaker 3: it becomes a really reasonable trip.
- 12:24Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 12:25Speaker 3: But I think you're at Botswan goodchery, won't you.
- 12:27Speaker 2: It's definitely and berg Berger, Oh my god, breakfast, lunch
- 12:32Speaker 2: and dinner.
- 12:32Speaker 3: Yeah, I can see how it would happen. I promise
- 12:35Speaker 3: you if you said, Victoria, there's no budget on this trip,
- 12:38Speaker 3: I'd be like, yeah, sit down, I've got no exactly, And.
- 12:41Speaker 2: In saying that, like that actually makes me feel sick,
- 12:43Speaker 2: like we know what we did was just you just
- 12:46Speaker 2: spend money like when it's there and tying back into
- 12:49Speaker 2: that piece of like we have a solid duel income
- 12:52Speaker 2: that I think when we could get to that, but
- 12:54Speaker 2: like when it's there, you just spend it. And when
- 12:57Speaker 2: you don't know enough about your finances in your budgeting,
- 13:01Speaker 2: you haven't done everything that you tell your community to do,
- 13:03Speaker 2: Like we haven't even thought about the emergency fund, but
- 13:06Speaker 2: we had it there, but was it for that purpose?
- 13:08Speaker 3: No, that was just but it's so easy, Like it
- 13:11Speaker 3: is so easy to slip into that. And again it's
- 13:14Speaker 3: not because you're being entitled or you don't know what's
- 13:16Speaker 3: going on or you're not smart. But once you've gotten
- 13:20Speaker 3: to a point where you're like, I'm a lawyer and
- 13:22Speaker 3: my partner has a solid job, Like we don't need
- 13:25Speaker 3: to stress about money, Like you don't have any kids,
- 13:27Speaker 3: Like you've not got this huge, big mortgage over your head.
- 13:30Speaker 3: You're kind of like, well, we don't need to stress.
- 13:32Speaker 3: We can just be a little bit more frivolous. But
- 13:34Speaker 3: this is where people fall into the trap of overspending
- 13:39Speaker 3: because they just go, how much could it be? It's
- 13:41Speaker 3: just one din under the set, but it's not. It's
- 13:43Speaker 3: the entire lifestyle that surrounds that. And if we're not
- 13:46Speaker 3: budgeting from the beginning and understanding where every dollar's going,
- 13:50Speaker 3: it just falls through our fingers.
- 13:52Speaker 2: That's it, That's really it. And then I think we
- 13:54Speaker 2: have reflected now, like in the last twelve months, it's
- 13:57Speaker 2: been our real knuckle down and focus on what we
- 14:01Speaker 2: need to do to get our money in order. I guess, yeah,
- 14:04Speaker 2: I think that's the best. So I'll put it like,
- 14:05Speaker 2: just where's your money going?
- 14:06Speaker 3: Just understanding it. It's not even about budgeting it. It's
- 14:09Speaker 3: not about restriction, and I think that's a massive misconception.
- 14:12Speaker 3: It's not about going you only have X yep for
- 14:14Speaker 3: the groceries. It's about going, hey, bab, how much do
- 14:17Speaker 3: we actually spend on groceries?
- 14:18Speaker 1: Do you know?
- 14:19Speaker 3: And most of the time your partner is going to
- 14:20Speaker 3: go no clue, and then you're going to add it
- 14:23Speaker 3: up and you're both going to be sick. You're going
- 14:25Speaker 3: to be like, oh my oh my goodness, like how
- 14:27Speaker 3: many troops to the supermarket?
- 14:29Speaker 2: Literally what happened? And so we actually bought the apartment
- 14:33Speaker 2: before we got married, so it was kind of like
- 14:35Speaker 2: apartment deposit was gone, and then a couple of months
- 14:39Speaker 2: it was like the wedding, which we'd had a pot for,
- 14:42Speaker 2: but that was then gone. And then it was the holiday,
- 14:44Speaker 2: and then that was gone, and then it was the
- 14:46Speaker 2: New Zealand holiday, and then the dog and then your
- 14:48Speaker 2: moving house. And then we looked and we're like, ooh,
- 14:52Speaker 2: a lot of money, money go on. I just full
- 14:55Speaker 2: decided when I have ADHD and I just hyper focused
- 14:59Speaker 2: on money.
- 15:00Speaker 3: Good girl, as I ye do.
- 15:02Speaker 2: I think it works to my advantage to be honest,
- 15:04Speaker 2: And I just did the budgeting spreadsheet. Your spreadsheet. We
- 15:07Speaker 2: already had emergency fund set it up, but we had
- 15:09Speaker 2: the fund, had the budget, and then it was more
- 15:11Speaker 2: just about, right, what can I learn about investing now
- 15:14Speaker 2: and how do I get into that? Oh So says yeah,
- 15:18Speaker 2: but yeah, that's kind of where we're at now. But
- 15:20Speaker 2: we did have a bit of a hic up with
- 15:22Speaker 2: our apartment, so I think it is worth talking about
- 15:25Speaker 2: because it kind of ties into our story a lot
- 15:27Speaker 2: in terms of when we bought it, we were really excited.
- 15:30Speaker 2: I think we had around at k for a deposit.
- 15:33Speaker 3: And just rewinding a little bit, we bought this apartment
- 15:36Speaker 3: to move into, or we bought it as an investment. Okay,
- 15:39Speaker 3: so we've moved in.
- 15:39Speaker 2: Yep, we've moved into the apartment, super excited. We were
- 15:42Speaker 2: renting together before randomly and then moved in together, super excited.
- 15:47Speaker 2: I think we'd been looking around and all we could
- 15:51Speaker 2: afford in that period of time was an apartment in
- 15:52Speaker 2: the area because we wanted to live in a city
- 15:55Speaker 2: like around the nice bulb and suburb, and we just
- 15:57Speaker 2: couldn't get a free standing house like that. It's just
- 16:00Speaker 2: not happening.
- 16:01Speaker 3: No, I feel like that's very normal nowadays.
- 16:03Speaker 2: So we're like, right, apartment and we found this one
- 16:06Speaker 2: after looking around for a bit that actually felt spacious,
- 16:09Speaker 2: like it was on the beach so you actually see
- 16:11Speaker 2: the beach, and it felt really lovely. It was like
- 16:13Speaker 2: two bedroom, one bathroom, and I just got so excited,
- 16:15Speaker 2: and my partner loved it and was like, oh my god,
- 16:17Speaker 2: Like it's so so much emotion involved in that process,
- 16:21Speaker 2: as you.
- 16:21Speaker 3: Know, isn't it bad? We all say we shouldn't get
- 16:24Speaker 3: emotion involved, and then you find the apartment of your
- 16:26Speaker 3: dreams and all of a sudden, all of that logic
- 16:29Speaker 3: goes out of the window.
- 16:30Speaker 2: And I would say, that's exactly what happened, like it
- 16:31Speaker 2: felt like the one we'd been looking for, I guess,
- 16:34Speaker 2: but I think we turned a blind eye to a
- 16:37Speaker 2: couple of things. So it went to auction, it got
- 16:40Speaker 2: passed in, but then we put it offer in the
- 16:42Speaker 2: next day and then they accepted it, which was really good.
- 16:45Speaker 2: So we bought that apartment for seven hundred thousand, and
- 16:49Speaker 2: we thought that was a great deal, to be honest,
- 16:51Speaker 2: because it had previously sold for seven fifty right. Yeah,
- 16:55Speaker 2: they took a loss, and we thought we were getting
- 16:57Speaker 2: a great deal.
- 16:58Speaker 3: Yeah, and you've got a question why they were happy
- 16:59Speaker 3: to take a loss, don't.
- 17:01Speaker 2: Yes, yes, did we do that?
- 17:03Speaker 1: No?
- 17:03Speaker 4: No?
- 17:04Speaker 2: Oh no, no, I know. So we moved in lived
- 17:08Speaker 2: in there for twelve months. But then during that twelve
- 17:10Speaker 2: months is when all the things happened that I just mentioned.
- 17:12Speaker 2: The wedding, the.
- 17:13Speaker 3: Holiday, and so we're just bleeding money, yea, bleeding.
- 17:16Speaker 2: Money and stressy as and after the wedding and stuff,
- 17:20Speaker 2: both our mental health actually took a bit of a turn.
- 17:22Speaker 2: And we've been thinking about moving to the Peninsula for
- 17:25Speaker 2: a really long time. It'd been on the cards of
- 17:28Speaker 2: like that's what we want to do in the future.
- 17:30Speaker 2: But I guess when we made an assessment of our
- 17:33Speaker 2: happiness overall happiness, we were like, we need to just
- 17:36Speaker 2: get out of this confined space. Department felt really small,
- 17:39Speaker 2: and we had the ability to move down the pinchular
- 17:43Speaker 2: just because our works were flexible in that respect. So
- 17:46Speaker 2: we were just like, okay, we've done the twelve month
- 17:48Speaker 2: cut off thing that you have to live there, because
- 17:51Speaker 2: I think there's something that you have to live there
- 17:52Speaker 2: for twelve months. Yeah.
- 17:53Speaker 3: Yeah, so that in the future you don't have to
- 17:55Speaker 3: pay capital gains tax for seven years. Yeah, yeah, it's
- 17:59Speaker 3: worth doing going to purchase the house and live in it.
- 18:02Speaker 2: Yeah, And we just decided to put our house on
- 18:05Speaker 2: the market, like the apartment on the market.
- 18:07Speaker 3: All we sold. You didn't even lea set out and
- 18:09Speaker 3: see what happened. You were just like, not cut my losses.
- 18:11Speaker 2: Well, we couldn't sell it, so we can't. Yeah, put
- 18:15Speaker 2: it up for sale, and unfortunately it was up there
- 18:18Speaker 2: for three months. Could not sell it.
- 18:20Speaker 3: What about this apartment. So obviously someone prior to you
- 18:23Speaker 3: made a fifty grand loss on it and then you
- 18:25Speaker 3: couldn't sell it. Why what's wrong with the apartment?
- 18:29Speaker 2: Body Corp? So it's a body court fees, I know.
- 18:32Speaker 2: And this is a thing of like, yeah, you're so
- 18:33Speaker 2: excited you buy the house. You just you're like, oh,
- 18:36Speaker 2: so the fees are eight thousand. Yeah, we were like, great,
- 18:39Speaker 2: that's nothing.
- 18:40Speaker 3: Did you have a good mortgage broker, because it sounds
- 18:42Speaker 3: like you did not.
- 18:43Speaker 2: I don't know, Victoria, I don't think so in hindsight.
- 18:47Speaker 3: You come to my house and I'll fix you up
- 18:49Speaker 3: because I find it so funny because sometimes we shoot
- 18:53Speaker 3: ourselves in the foot and lose clients because I'm like, baby,
- 18:56Speaker 3: shouldn't be paying that, And we don't lose them to
- 18:58Speaker 3: other brokers. We lose them because they.
- 19:00Speaker 2: Don't buy the house.
- 19:01Speaker 3: Yeah exactly, And I'd prefer that and to have some
- 19:05Speaker 3: integrity then just sell you something and then have you
- 19:09Speaker 3: looked back and go, oh my god, Like Victoria would
- 19:12Speaker 3: have like had her team review that, she would have
- 19:14Speaker 3: known that that was the Body Corporate. She would have
- 19:17Speaker 3: thought that was ridiculous, and she still let me do.
- 19:19Speaker 2: It would not and even what my partner and I
- 19:22Speaker 2: know about it all now, like.
- 19:23Speaker 3: Why did we do that? Well, you don't know what
- 19:25Speaker 3: you don't know?
- 19:26Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, and I like to think I make informed
- 19:29Speaker 2: choices now, but definitely.
- 19:31Speaker 3: Yeah, a history of learning from our mistake.
- 19:33Speaker 2: We are ye one hundred percent. The body got was
- 19:35Speaker 2: really really high and also just really awful to deal with. Ah,
- 19:39Speaker 2: not a vibe.
- 19:40Speaker 3: Guys, We're paying you enough to be nice.
- 19:42Speaker 2: Come on, like so many admin fees. I'm like, what
- 19:45Speaker 2: are these adminbe's? It's spacious, but the actual block itself
- 19:50Speaker 2: is on a busy kind of road, I would say,
- 19:53Speaker 2: and then there's beach. Okay. So when we couldn't sell,
- 19:56Speaker 2: we were kind of like, oh, I just gonna I
- 19:57Speaker 2: think we just need to rent this out, Like we
- 19:59Speaker 2: really need to rent out the apartment to try and
- 20:02Speaker 2: get some sort of money coming in. Yeah, of course, yeah,
- 20:05Speaker 2: instead of leading up there, because then we're come like, oh,
- 20:07Speaker 2: maybe we try being landlords. I don't know, like we
- 20:09Speaker 2: started renting down here, so let's just try it. And
- 20:11Speaker 2: we were lucky that we could afford to pay the
- 20:14Speaker 2: mortgage and rent as well. Yeah, and we're still doing
- 20:17Speaker 2: that now, and we're grateful that we can do that,
- 20:19Speaker 2: but it was so stressful, like victoria is so stful
- 20:22Speaker 2: when you can't sell a property that is too much.
- 20:25Speaker 3: Girl, you don't have to tell me, Like, it just
- 20:28Speaker 3: feels stressful. But then also you just know that, like
- 20:31Speaker 3: the real estate agents are making so much money, so
- 20:33Speaker 3: you know that they're working, but also why can't they
- 20:36Speaker 3: sell it? Like and they're probably not going to be
- 20:38Speaker 3: honest to you because they don't want to lose that sale.
- 20:40Speaker 3: Like yeah, oh, it's just it's a bit of a mind,
- 20:44Speaker 3: I know, a mess.
- 20:46Speaker 2: So yeah, we just decided to get the tenants in there,
- 20:48Speaker 2: and we're now getting seven hundred fifty dollars a week,
- 20:51Speaker 2: which is really good for rent from the tenants, which
- 20:55Speaker 2: is lovely, and we're just kind of keeping it afloat.
- 20:58Speaker 2: But I think we're it gets us is the maintenance,
- 21:03Speaker 2: like the consistent maintenance, and then the body PORP fees come,
- 21:05Speaker 2: and then rates come and there's just so many things.
- 21:08Speaker 2: You just go, Okay, we're negative gearing this, but it's
- 21:11Speaker 2: very much negatively good, Like how do we kind of
- 21:14Speaker 2: make this worth it? So yeah, I think the intention
- 21:16Speaker 2: will be to try and sell that again in the future,
- 21:19Speaker 2: but for now, the tenants.
- 21:20Speaker 3: Are really good, So yeah, and that can be really
- 21:23Speaker 3: really stressful, Like that doesn't sound like a situation I
- 21:27Speaker 3: would want to find myself in. But it sounds like
- 21:29Speaker 3: you're also making Hey well the sun is shining right, yeah.
- 21:32Speaker 2: Yeah, yep, we've made it work, I guess. So, yeah,
- 21:36Speaker 2: that's where we've ended up. Now, it's just about how
- 21:38Speaker 2: we can maximize our income while we're in a space
- 21:43Speaker 2: to do it with the tenants in there, with paying rent,
- 21:45Speaker 2: with investing with that, So yeah, how do we make
- 21:49Speaker 2: our money work harder?
- 21:50Speaker 3: I want to talk about the rental yield because a
- 21:52Speaker 3: lot of people would have been like, oh is that
- 21:54Speaker 3: when you said, oh, that's good rent because it is
- 21:56Speaker 3: like if you purchased a property for seven hundred thousand
- 22:00Speaker 3: dollars and you get to rent it out for seven
- 22:02Speaker 3: fifty you've got a gross rental yield of about five
- 22:04Speaker 3: and a half percent, But then that would drop down
- 22:08Speaker 3: I would say seventy significantly because you've got what eight
- 22:11Speaker 3: grand in body corp. Why are we having so many
- 22:15Speaker 3: consistent repairs and stuff? Is it the whole building or
- 22:17Speaker 3: is it that apartment? What's going on?
- 22:20Speaker 2: It's been the apartment. It's probably been monthly to be honest.
- 22:23Speaker 2: We had a locksmith issue, yep. And then we had
- 22:26Speaker 2: a plumbing issue where they had to regrout and do
- 22:29Speaker 2: the whole thing and didn't how much plumbing that's so expensive.
- 22:32Speaker 3: Yeah, anything but room related in the bin in the
- 22:35Speaker 3: bin and.
- 22:35Speaker 2: The toilet breaks, and then the heater. We had a
- 22:38Speaker 2: hot service that's expensive to stop it outrageous. There was
- 22:43Speaker 2: a clothesline issue, which was like that was me, like fine,
- 22:46Speaker 2: but it's just been literally one thing after the other,
- 22:49Speaker 2: and plus the body court feece like, it's been a lot.
- 22:51Speaker 3: So you would have spent probably at least ten grand
- 22:54Speaker 3: in the last year on this apartment. So you've gone
- 22:56Speaker 3: through expenses of eight thousand dollars probably to twenty thousand dolls,
- 23:00Speaker 3: which takes your rental yield from being you know, a
- 23:02Speaker 3: really sexy five and a half percent, which is you know,
- 23:05Speaker 3: for property pretty good in this economy, down to maybe
- 23:08Speaker 3: two and a half to two point seven percent.
- 23:10Speaker 2: Is that what it is?
- 23:11Speaker 3: Oh god, yeah, be in my head, yes, yeah, in
- 23:14Speaker 3: my head, I'm like, oh yeah, if you took twenty
- 23:16Speaker 3: thousand dollars, seven hundred thousand dollars property rental yield of
- 23:19Speaker 3: seven fifty, you're about two point seven percent. Gosh, yeah,
- 23:23Speaker 3: but that's still positive, baby cakes.
- 23:26Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, we're Yes, that's exactly right. I love the
- 23:30Speaker 2: attitude there, and I think it is where fortunate that
- 23:33Speaker 2: we could get the seven fifty, like other ones in
- 23:35Speaker 2: the building were going for five sixs Now. I really
- 23:37Speaker 2: think it was the spaciousness, like it's this big living area. Yeah,
- 23:42Speaker 2: and then all the other rooms are normal, but it's
- 23:43Speaker 2: just this area that's like you've.
- 23:45Speaker 3: Just got lots of room. I mean, people are willing
- 23:47Speaker 3: to pay for that, like when you're renting, space is priority.
- 23:52Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
- 23:52Speaker 3: Oh I love that. All right, let's get into a
- 23:54Speaker 3: little bit more of the nitty gritty. You're a lawyer.
- 23:56Speaker 3: How much do you earn?
- 23:57Speaker 2: Yes? So I actually only was admitted as a lawyer
- 24:01Speaker 2: two months ago, so I'm.
- 24:02Speaker 3: Still a big dog. Yeah, it's so exciting, trim grat, Yeah.
- 24:05Speaker 2: Thank you. I am currently working employment law, so well,
- 24:09Speaker 2: I've always worked in employment law, but I'm a workplace
- 24:12Speaker 2: relations consultant, just sort of working in a lawyer capacity.
- 24:16Speaker 2: I guess I earn ninety thousand plus.
- 24:19Speaker 3: Super Hey, that's pretty good given you got admitted two
- 24:21Speaker 3: months ago. Yeah, and you were in that role before
- 24:24Speaker 3: and now you're just quote official, is that right?
- 24:26Speaker 2: Yes, Yes, that's exactly right. Yep. So it's been a
- 24:29Speaker 2: bit of a journey. I did start working in law
- 24:33Speaker 2: firms throughout my degree. I think that's kind of just
- 24:35Speaker 2: what you do, Like you just get a part time
- 24:37Speaker 2: job in a law firm and you see, if you
- 24:38Speaker 2: like it, you're the assistant to the partner's kind of thing.
- 24:41Speaker 2: So I was doing that and I worked in a
- 24:44Speaker 2: private law firm to start, and I absolutely did not
- 24:48Speaker 2: like the environment of a law firm at all. So
- 24:51Speaker 2: and then I tried another one and I did not
- 24:52Speaker 2: like it, and it's just being like in that environment
- 24:56Speaker 2: is just incredibly toxic. And I'm very like work life balanced,
- 25:01Speaker 2: and I always knew even doing my law degree, I
- 25:03Speaker 2: was like, I'm not going to be that person that's
- 25:05Speaker 2: working sixteen hour days, Like it was just not my preromative.
- 25:08Speaker 2: So I'm very grateful now that I work in a
- 25:12Speaker 2: space that I can can make a pretty decent salary
- 25:15Speaker 2: and there's obviously like the earning potential is there as
- 25:17Speaker 2: well to keep earning more, which is good. Yeah, I'm
- 25:20Speaker 2: grateful that I can still have that balance but also
- 25:22Speaker 2: be pretty comfortable.
- 25:23Speaker 3: I guess now, yeah that's cool. Yes, yeah, and talk
- 25:26Speaker 3: to me. What does your partner do and how much
- 25:28Speaker 3: does he earn?
- 25:29Speaker 2: He earns two hundred and fifty thousand plus simper.
- 25:32Speaker 3: Oh, very nice, it's very nice.
- 25:35Speaker 2: He works in corporate in the digital space, so digital
- 25:39Speaker 2: and marketing for one of the companies that we would
- 25:41Speaker 2: all know.
- 25:42Speaker 3: Ah, very cool. I wonder if our husbands know each other.
- 25:45Speaker 3: We'll talk about this all flime. Now, what is your
- 25:49Speaker 3: big money goal? What are you currently working towards? Because
- 25:52Speaker 3: I feel like you've ticked off all the big ticket items.
- 25:55Speaker 3: You've been a spam apartment bam, wedding bam, big holidays black.
- 26:00Speaker 3: Where are we going now?
- 26:00Speaker 2: Queen holding off on the holidays for a little bit?
- 26:02Speaker 2: I think I think for us now, the money goals
- 26:05Speaker 2: are just keep pumping what we can into our portfolios,
- 26:10Speaker 2: into our share portfolio. So I actually never even had
- 26:12Speaker 2: one until I kind of went down this she's on
- 26:15Speaker 2: the money hyperfocus moment.
- 26:17Speaker 3: Welcome. I I'm so exciting because there's going to be
- 26:20Speaker 3: all these rich, little old ladies around being honest one time,
- 26:23Speaker 3: Why you listening to Victoria and I'm going to be
- 26:25Speaker 3: in your nursing home and we can hang.
- 26:27Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah exactly. So I sat up one, like my
- 26:30Speaker 2: partner always had one, but that was just his things.
- 26:32Speaker 2: Like I just didn't Yeah, we just didn't talk about
- 26:35Speaker 2: it all.
- 26:35Speaker 3: And I just wasn't interested these boys and they get
- 26:38Speaker 3: it exactly, and.
- 26:40Speaker 2: I just was interested in money. Once I heard content
- 26:43Speaker 2: that was actually digestible.
- 26:44Speaker 3: It's almost like it was made for you, yes, exactly,
- 26:47Speaker 3: And I was crazy, see who would do that?
- 26:49Speaker 2: Exactly. I was reading these things the listeners podcast, going oh,
- 26:52Speaker 2: I can do this, and I downloaded.
- 26:54Speaker 3: The how hard could it be? Natural boys do it yep.
- 26:57Speaker 2: And like it's so boring just having money in like saying, exactly,
- 27:01Speaker 2: it's a weird kind of thing. But we're kind of
- 27:03Speaker 2: just I'm doing my own, my partner's doing his, and
- 27:05Speaker 2: then obviously joined like I don't know how that works.
- 27:08Speaker 3: Yeah that's fine, that makes sense.
- 27:10Speaker 2: Things that I can just do for fun, I guess.
- 27:12Speaker 2: So yeah, I've got mainly just ETFs and a couple
- 27:15Speaker 2: of stocks in there. I'm trying to do the whole
- 27:17Speaker 2: course satellite thing, but I guess our whole goal would
- 27:20Speaker 2: be to just keep pumping what we can into there
- 27:22Speaker 2: and eventually sole the apartment and honestly.
- 27:25Speaker 3: Cut your losses there.
- 27:26Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, and not get involved in property again
- 27:30Speaker 2: for a bit. Like I think we're both a.
- 27:31Speaker 3: Bit scarred about to say that, because you're a bit burnt.
- 27:34Speaker 2: Yes, exactly, yeah, very triggered, Like we just don't want
- 27:38Speaker 2: to make any more mistakes. I think we just were
- 27:41Speaker 2: so involved in like what society and our friends and
- 27:44Speaker 2: our family and everyone was like, just by you want
- 27:46Speaker 2: to be homeowners, do it?
- 27:47Speaker 4: Do it?
- 27:47Speaker 2: And you're like, no, just I think if we had
- 27:50Speaker 2: our time again, we would definitely not like rush into
- 27:53Speaker 2: it in the way that we did, and like renting
- 27:57Speaker 2: is amazing in our view now and we can still
- 27:59Speaker 2: have secure and whatnot. So yeah, I think in terms
- 28:03Speaker 2: of the goals, it's just finding like habiness is not
- 28:06Speaker 2: necessarily property.
- 28:09Speaker 3: It's fair and orange very fairy money. DRIs. Let's go
- 28:11Speaker 3: to a really quick break on the flip side. I
- 28:14Speaker 3: want to know a little bit more about your investing
- 28:15Speaker 3: portfolios because in your letter and you said that you're
- 28:17Speaker 3: investing forty percent of your income, So guys, don't go
- 28:21Speaker 3: anywhere money drist. We are back, and I want to
- 28:27Speaker 3: pose a question because I know that you've said a
- 28:30Speaker 3: few times, Look, I just want to cut my losses.
- 28:31Speaker 3: I don't want to be in property anymore. I don't
- 28:34Speaker 3: think it'll work for me. But do you think that
- 28:36Speaker 3: sitting down and talking to a good mortgage broker about
- 28:40Speaker 3: tell me about this house, like have we actually cooked it?
- 28:43Speaker 3: Would that be a good idea to make you feel
- 28:45Speaker 3: better about the situation. Yes, the way that you just
- 28:48Speaker 3: said that, Yes, because I'm just looking at it going look,
- 28:52Speaker 3: I can see how you're probably not comfortable with it.
- 28:55Speaker 3: And seven hundred thousand dollars is so much money. But
- 28:59Speaker 3: can I just like do a little bit of investigating
- 29:01Speaker 3: off the top of my head because it was seven
- 29:04Speaker 3: hundred grand and you were buying in Melbourne and it
- 29:06Speaker 3: was both your first homes. Did you get your first
- 29:08Speaker 3: home buyers concessions? Did you get any benefits for purchasing.
- 29:12Speaker 2: The stamp duty to stamps waved? And then I think
- 29:15Speaker 2: that was it.
- 29:16Speaker 3: So you're sitting in a pretty okay position, like thankfully
- 29:18Speaker 3: we haven't flushed any stamp duty down the toilet, and
- 29:21Speaker 3: I talk about it that way because like, as somebody
- 29:24Speaker 3: who gets to like I understand that money is inherently political.
- 29:28Speaker 3: And if we rewind a little bit, stamp duty used
- 29:31Speaker 3: to be the fee that you would pay when you
- 29:33Speaker 3: went down to the little council and said, hey, I'm
- 29:35Speaker 3: buying this property. Can you please stamp this because it
- 29:38Speaker 3: needs to be transferred to my name. Now all of
- 29:40Speaker 3: that's done electronically. It doesn't need to be tens of
- 29:43Speaker 3: thousands of dollars like in my head, logically, it doesn't
- 29:45Speaker 3: need to be tens of thousands of dollars. The government
- 29:48Speaker 3: needs it to be tens of thousands of dollars because
- 29:50Speaker 3: they're raising revenue. But I'm like, go find it somewhere else.
- 29:53Speaker 3: Stop kicking us while we are down. But thankfully you
- 29:56Speaker 3: didn't have to pay that. But maybe we could do
- 29:59Speaker 3: a little bit of a day dive on the suburb
- 30:01Speaker 3: and the area and what kind of rental yield it has,
- 30:03Speaker 3: and maybe working out how it could slot in you
- 30:07Speaker 3: to your portfolio, because we're already there. We already have it. Yes,
- 30:09Speaker 3: it has a positive yield. What we could do to
- 30:13Speaker 3: preserve that and hopefully eat increase in value. And that
- 30:16Speaker 3: means that either we could sell it, or we could
- 30:18Speaker 3: use the equity to leverage you further into wealth. Like
- 30:22Speaker 3: I think that there's maybe a reframe here, like, yeah,
- 30:26Speaker 3: they can't guarantee it, because I can see where you
- 30:29Speaker 3: guys are at. You might still go Victoria, we just
- 30:31Speaker 3: don't want it, we hate this place, And I go,
- 30:33Speaker 3: that's a choice then, But at least it's not because
- 30:36Speaker 3: you're like, Victoria, we're losing so much money, when maybe yeah,
- 30:39Speaker 3: we're coming out of the wash not feeling good, but
- 30:41Speaker 3: like everything that you've spent on it because it's now
- 30:44Speaker 3: a rental asset, we can claim on tax, and obviously
- 30:47Speaker 3: your partner has a relatively high tax. I just think
- 30:49Speaker 3: that there's some chatting we could do offline.
- 30:54Speaker 2: That would be great.
- 30:55Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's where a good mortgage broker is going
- 30:57Speaker 3: to kind of come in and be like, all right, well,
- 30:59Speaker 3: let me just lay it out on the table. Because
- 31:00Speaker 3: they've got no skin in the game. They'll be like,
- 31:02Speaker 3: if you sell your property, we don't care. Like, our
- 31:05Speaker 3: job is to make sure that you understand what's going on,
- 31:08Speaker 3: making sure that the rates competitive obviously, but like also
- 31:11Speaker 3: just helping you put your ducks in a row so
- 31:14Speaker 3: that the ducks in the future are well fed. Yes,
- 31:16Speaker 3: and that's what we talk about.
- 31:17Speaker 2: Yeah, and we are quite negative about it, like you
- 31:19Speaker 2: can probably tell it quite peasanisty, like it's just frustrating.
- 31:22Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I was like, can I just pick
- 31:23Speaker 3: up on this because I'm picking up that vibe. But
- 31:25Speaker 3: then I also just did that little like in my head,
- 31:28Speaker 3: I was like, oh, the rental yields positive, Like that's
- 31:30Speaker 3: not bad. It doesn't mean that the mortgage is not crippling.
- 31:34Speaker 3: We need to talk about that, but it looks like
- 31:37Speaker 3: you would be in a pretty positive position.
- 31:38Speaker 2: Okay, great, well, thank you for that approach.
- 31:41Speaker 3: Tell me a bit more about your investments because you
- 31:43Speaker 3: said we had to sit back, we had to do
- 31:44Speaker 3: some budgeting. Was really confronting. And now you all of
- 31:47Speaker 3: a sudden investing forty percent of your income queen, how.
- 31:50Speaker 2: I have no idea?
- 31:51Speaker 3: Are just really helpful? Yeah, really helpful. Thank you.
- 31:54Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's it. When you put numbers in a spreadsheet,
- 31:58Speaker 2: as you know, they all can just to have a
- 32:00Speaker 2: place in the end, like we both give ourselves allocations
- 32:04Speaker 2: of what we are going to spend for the fortnight,
- 32:06Speaker 2: to be honest, like that is quite slim. We try
- 32:08Speaker 2: and be as frugal as we can, so whatever that
- 32:11Speaker 2: is that might come up, like for me, it's like
- 32:13Speaker 2: coffee and things like that, like little grocery expendites and stuff.
- 32:17Speaker 2: And then it's obviously the mortgage and rent that comes out,
- 32:20Speaker 2: which I think is around thirty percent the mortgage and
- 32:23Speaker 2: the roc could be a little bit more. But then
- 32:25Speaker 2: we have this ability where there's kind of money sitting
- 32:29Speaker 2: there and it can either go into the offset or
- 32:30Speaker 2: we can put it into our portfolios. And we're just like, hello,
- 32:34Speaker 2: why is it not just going into portfolio because we
- 32:36Speaker 2: just had this shift. Yeah, so it's really that allocation
- 32:40Speaker 2: and that doesn't really help much, but yeah, it's just
- 32:43Speaker 2: being fruit.
- 32:43Speaker 3: So it does help because it's good to understand how
- 32:46Speaker 3: people are approaching it, and like obviously I was like, yeah,
- 32:49Speaker 3: really helpful. But it kind of can be that simple
- 32:53Speaker 3: like once you've sat down with your spreadsheet and there's
- 32:56Speaker 3: a free one on our website if you would like
- 32:58Speaker 3: to do it. But once you sit down with a
- 33:00Speaker 3: budget and go, okay, cool, I'm just going to pre
- 33:02Speaker 3: allocate the money to the buckets and then I'm just
- 33:05Speaker 3: going to use the buckets as intended. Sometimes it just
- 33:09Speaker 3: works out, and like I don't want to have to
- 33:11Speaker 3: point it out here, and I hope that you don't
- 33:13Speaker 3: hate me for this, But there's obviously a fair bit
- 33:15Speaker 3: of privilege in this as well, because you have really
- 33:17Speaker 3: good jobs, like your partner earning two hundred and fifty
- 33:20Speaker 3: grand and you on ninety. Like those two combined mean
- 33:23Speaker 3: that your household income when you don't have kids, yes,
- 33:26Speaker 3: I would say, is comfortable, so we can move things around.
- 33:29Speaker 3: But there are so many people in our community that
- 33:32Speaker 3: have similar incomes to you. Why do I know that
- 33:34Speaker 3: because I survey you all and I know that they exist.
- 33:38Speaker 3: But there are so many people that would still be
- 33:40Speaker 3: living paycheck to paycheck even with that income, because it's
- 33:43Speaker 3: just so easy to bleed money.
- 33:45Speaker 2: And that's it's so easy. You genuinely were, and it
- 33:48Speaker 2: wasn't paycheck to paychecked in that sense, but it was
- 33:50Speaker 2: like all your money, is it going to something worth
- 33:53Speaker 2: it for our future self? As you say, like it
- 33:56Speaker 2: was just going on things and you know you could
- 33:58Speaker 2: be earning, you know, one hundred thousand dollars less and
- 34:01Speaker 2: be able to put money away.
- 34:03Speaker 3: And it just disappears and I'm not saying that that's
- 34:06Speaker 3: quote okay, because there's probably someone listening to this being
- 34:09Speaker 3: like Victoria, I'm earning fifty thousand dollars and I have
- 34:12Speaker 3: two children, and it's so hard to make ends meet.
- 34:14Speaker 3: You guys need to touch grass, and like, yes, I
- 34:17Speaker 3: fully comprehend that that situation exists as well, and it's
- 34:20Speaker 3: bloody hard, Like that is so hard, But there are
- 34:24Speaker 3: also people who have hire incomes who are also struggling
- 34:27Speaker 3: to get it together in just because one struggle is
- 34:29Speaker 3: quote worse than another doesn't mean that we can't feel
- 34:32Speaker 3: the struggle still, Yes, And I think that that's worth
- 34:34Speaker 3: putting on the table as well, because you know, I
- 34:37Speaker 3: don't want people to go, oh, well, they wouldn't get
- 34:39Speaker 3: it they've got a higher income. But anyone is going
- 34:43Speaker 3: to budget from understanding where every single dollar is coming
- 34:46Speaker 3: from and where every single dollar is going so that
- 34:48Speaker 3: they can feel more in control of it.
- 34:51Speaker 2: Yep. Absolutely, yep.
- 34:52Speaker 3: So it kind of just happened, which is so nice.
- 34:56Speaker 3: And what does that project out to be is the
- 34:58Speaker 3: plan to retire early? Is the plan to just be
- 35:01Speaker 3: financially comfortable? You, like v I have no idea. We
- 35:04Speaker 3: just started what does that look like a.
- 35:06Speaker 2: Bit of all of that. Probably not the fire approach necessarily,
- 35:10Speaker 2: but I think the idea would be to just pump
- 35:12Speaker 2: as much as we can into the portfolio to then
- 35:15Speaker 2: be able to draw down when we do get to
- 35:17Speaker 2: that age, whatever that age is, like fifty five whatever, yeah, sixty,
- 35:20Speaker 2: whatever it is, but just to have security that's not
- 35:24Speaker 2: in a property asset. I would say, that's in the
- 35:27Speaker 2: portfolio that we can watch and grow and compound, like
- 35:31Speaker 2: just yeah, please compound.
- 35:32Speaker 3: Do you think totally fair? And can I be really
- 35:35Speaker 3: pervy about your personal life and like what you want
- 35:37Speaker 3: out of life, because like all of that sounds fantastic
- 35:41Speaker 3: If you don't plan on having kids, are you planning
- 35:45Speaker 3: for kids in the future.
- 35:46Speaker 2: Yes, I would say one hundred percent yeap, So I
- 35:49Speaker 2: think the whole story will change again, So that's not.
- 35:52Speaker 3: Going to be attainable, But we're making shine exactly.
- 35:55Speaker 2: We do want kids, I think, no rush, but I
- 36:00Speaker 2: I'm definitely more maternal than what I ever have been
- 36:02Speaker 2: in my life, So I don't know what that means,
- 36:04Speaker 2: Like I'm in my loose to your face, so maybe
- 36:06Speaker 2: something's going on there.
- 36:08Speaker 3: Don't I find it? So funny because you know, maybe
- 36:13Speaker 3: six years ago I was with my husband. We're talking about,
- 36:16Speaker 3: you know, maybe getting married one day, and do we
- 36:18Speaker 3: want kids? And like I was the one that was like, oh,
- 36:21Speaker 3: in this economy, I don't know, Like I don't know,
- 36:24Speaker 3: and would I even be a good mum black all
- 36:27Speaker 3: of those questions come up, You're like do I don't?
- 36:29Speaker 3: I like our life would significantly change. I really like
- 36:32Speaker 3: my sleep all of that other stuff. And now I'm like, girl,
- 36:35Speaker 3: give me ten. It's crazy how much you can change.
- 36:40Speaker 3: And it might flip back the other way and you'll
- 36:42Speaker 3: be like, actually, we don't want this at all.
- 36:44Speaker 2: Pop off.
- 36:45Speaker 3: I love that for you too, but it's so hard. Yeah,
- 36:48Speaker 3: it is.
- 36:49Speaker 2: It really is. Like I think the shift has happened, though.
- 36:51Speaker 2: I think the warning kids shift is definitely there, Like
- 36:54Speaker 2: it's definitely.
- 36:55Speaker 3: Want them just don't know when to slippery slope once
- 36:57Speaker 3: it starts happening. Yeah, I get it, I get it
- 37:00Speaker 3: all right. Talk to me about debt. This apartment was
- 37:03Speaker 3: purchased for seven hundred thousand dollars. What kind of debt
- 37:07Speaker 3: are you currently carrying on that?
- 37:08Speaker 2: So we around, I think it's just over six hundred thousand.
- 37:13Speaker 3: Hey, that's pretty good, isn't it.
- 37:14Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we've done okay at that. So that's obviously
- 37:17Speaker 2: a big, big debt that we have. And then I
- 37:19Speaker 2: have my hex which is believe it's forty thousand, that's
- 37:23Speaker 2: actually come down because.
- 37:24Speaker 3: Of the discount that we got, the twenty percent discount.
- 37:27Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, the discount we've got sets come
- 37:29Speaker 2: down a lot, which has been great. But yeah, so
- 37:31Speaker 2: they're the two things morbid and.
- 37:33Speaker 3: Hell I love that for you. And talk to me
- 37:36Speaker 3: about personal insurances. Obviously you've got some responsibilities like your
- 37:40Speaker 3: mortgage and having a partner and now a dog. Have
- 37:43Speaker 3: you set up your personal insurances? If so, what did
- 37:45Speaker 3: you do?
- 37:45Speaker 2: If not? Why not? Yes, we have got the personal
- 37:49Speaker 2: insurances incorporated with our supers Gorge. I've got mine, the
- 37:52Speaker 2: three main ones, and then my partner also has his.
- 37:55Speaker 2: And then obviously our dog is insured with pet Your dog.
- 37:58Speaker 3: Is insured endurance. Yeah, look at it go to go.
- 38:02Speaker 2: So yeah, we are sorted there. And that was genuinely
- 38:06Speaker 2: on the back of listening to your podcast about it,
- 38:08Speaker 2: because we actually didn't have the personal assurances within our
- 38:11Speaker 2: super flipped.
- 38:12Speaker 3: On isn't it crazy?
- 38:14Speaker 2: Yes, until like twelve months ago and then we're like,
- 38:16Speaker 2: oh gosh, we need to do that.
- 38:18Speaker 3: So we did. Probably should look into this because I
- 38:20Speaker 3: feel like this might be a big deal if something
- 38:22Speaker 3: bad happens. Yes, and we have a lot of liabilities exactly,
- 38:26Speaker 3: and I feel like your best money habit might be.
- 38:28Speaker 3: Now how good you are at budgeting, But tell me
- 38:30Speaker 3: a bit more about what you think your best money
- 38:32Speaker 3: habit is.
- 38:33Speaker 2: Yes, I think budgeting definitely, that's one of my strengths
- 38:37Speaker 2: for sure. But I also think researching and hyper focusing
- 38:41Speaker 2: and like genuinely just making informed decisions about setting the
- 38:45Speaker 2: time aside to be like I need to know about
- 38:48Speaker 2: this thing that I don't know, and that's really worked
- 38:51Speaker 2: to my advantage over the last Yeah, my whole affit
- 38:54Speaker 2: more specifically with this kind of finance piece, it's like
- 38:57Speaker 2: if I don't know something, I need to know about it,
- 39:00Speaker 2: and that's worked in the terms of investing and whatnot,
- 39:02Speaker 2: so it's really helped. I think that's my strong side again.
- 39:05Speaker 2: Love that. And then also the dollar cost averaging into
- 39:07Speaker 2: our portfolios, like I just don't know it's happening. It
- 39:11Speaker 2: just comes out of the rank account and then goes
- 39:14Speaker 2: into Chairsi's and it's really easy to start.
- 39:16Speaker 3: Oh I love that. So you would say maybe like automation, Yes, automation,
- 39:21Speaker 3: she's just like set it all up to work for her.
- 39:23Speaker 2: Yep, yep, it's doing it awful for you.
- 39:26Speaker 3: And flip side, what do you think the worst money
- 39:28Speaker 3: habit is?
- 39:29Speaker 2: So I am a sucker for activewear, so clear has
- 39:35Speaker 2: me in a choke hold. I seriously like any time
- 39:38Speaker 2: I see anything that's like on my emails or I
- 39:41Speaker 2: just immediately need it.
- 39:42Speaker 3: So that's unsubscribed unsubscribed, Yes, immediately I am.
- 39:45Speaker 2: Subscribed, I know. And social media needs just to go
- 39:49Speaker 2: because if I see something someone's wearing something, I'm buying
- 39:51Speaker 2: it immediately. But I think that's also the dopamine seeking
- 39:54Speaker 2: kind of thing as well, So that's definitely my fault
- 39:58Speaker 2: for sure. And coffee, Like I'm buying coffee like there's
- 40:00Speaker 2: no tomorrow.
- 40:02Speaker 3: Yeah, love love. I feel like it's a slippery slope
- 40:05Speaker 3: and like, really, if it's built into the budget, it's okay. Yes,
- 40:09Speaker 3: Like if it's built in and you're enjoying it, Because
- 40:11Speaker 3: I've said this a million times, Like coffee, for me,
- 40:14Speaker 3: it's not just the cup, it's not the social it's
- 40:17Speaker 3: the you caught me having coffee with my husband along
- 40:20Speaker 3: the waterfront, Like I get to go on these walks
- 40:23Speaker 3: with my family and have a coffee and it just
- 40:25Speaker 3: feels so wholesome. Like, oh, please, don't take that from me.
- 40:29Speaker 2: Yeah, please don't.
- 40:30Speaker 3: I want that to stay in my budget, dimond cap immediately.
- 40:34Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 40:35Speaker 3: But I also, now I've got kids, I'm like, Okay, actually,
- 40:39Speaker 3: I do really enjoy having a coffee machine at home. Yes,
- 40:42Speaker 3: I am saving money because I'm making at home, but like,
- 40:44Speaker 3: it's also about the convenience of not having to pack
- 40:47Speaker 3: the kids up to get my caffeine hit in the morning,
- 40:49Speaker 3: because it turns out I am addicted. You made both
- 40:54Speaker 3: not the worst. I think we need to find balance.
- 40:57Speaker 3: And that's why for me this like fire mine that
- 41:00Speaker 3: doesn't work, Like it just doesn't work for me, and
- 41:03Speaker 3: that's so fine. Like you're in the She's on the
- 41:05Speaker 3: Money community. You know that one of my team members, Brook,
- 41:07Speaker 3: who is an absolute weapon. She is all about the
- 41:11Speaker 3: fire life and she's investing so much that she's going
- 41:13Speaker 3: to retire by the time she turns thirty five. I
- 41:16Speaker 3: turned thirty five in June. Babe, there's no chance.
- 41:21Speaker 2: Oh gosh, good on her though. I love that for her.
- 41:23Speaker 3: But each to their own, and it's exciting that we
- 41:25Speaker 3: get to share these stories so that we can learn
- 41:27Speaker 3: from them and be like, Oh, I could take parts
- 41:29Speaker 3: of her money story and tips and tricks from this
- 41:31Speaker 3: person and all that money Dara said that, and I
- 41:33Speaker 3: can just be the best version of myself financially because
- 41:36Speaker 3: of it. Really, Oh, I have loved this, But my queen,
- 41:39Speaker 3: you bought an apartment. You have the most expansive year
- 41:42Speaker 3: of your life last year. The apartment that you said
- 41:45Speaker 3: was maybe not the best financial precision is still positive
- 41:48Speaker 3: when it comes to rental yield, so not too bad.
- 41:51Speaker 3: And you've got your personal insurances set up. You're investing
- 41:53Speaker 3: forty percent of your income, but you're a B plus.
- 41:55Speaker 3: Well yeah, riddle me that one, queen.
- 41:59Speaker 2: Where it is the through it?
- 42:00Speaker 4: No.
- 42:00Speaker 2: I mentioned earlier that I have a sort of an
- 42:02Speaker 2: allocated budget. Yeah, I would like to rain that in
- 42:05Speaker 2: potentially in terms of what I'm actually spending that on,
- 42:08Speaker 2: Like do I need the things I'm buying within that?
- 42:12Speaker 2: If that makes sense? Like, yeah, can I reduce my
- 42:15Speaker 2: spending there and put the money somewhere else? Even though
- 42:17Speaker 2: it is quite reduced in itself. But yeah, I think
- 42:20Speaker 2: for me, I'm just hard on myself in that sense
- 42:22Speaker 2: that I would like to be doing better.
- 42:24Speaker 3: It's why I don't often like I like to point
- 42:26Speaker 3: it out, but I don't want to go, oh, you're
- 42:30Speaker 3: not and disagree with you because I think we all
- 42:33Speaker 3: have a very different view of what financial freedom actually
- 42:38Speaker 3: looks like and what you know that means for us.
- 42:41Speaker 3: Because to one person, they could be like, girl, did
- 42:44Speaker 3: you hear that that she's on the money episode? She
- 42:47Speaker 3: was killing it, Like I don't even understand why she
- 42:49Speaker 3: thought she wasn't doing well. And then on the flip side,
- 42:52Speaker 3: someone could be like, oh my goodness, I so resonate
- 42:54Speaker 3: with that, Like I would feel the same way. So
- 42:56Speaker 3: it's like this arbitrary reading that I make you give yourself.
- 43:00Speaker 3: Then I'm like, it doesn't matter exactly, but it does.
- 43:04Speaker 5: It matters to the community, It matters to me because
- 43:07Speaker 5: I think it's so important to be able to reflect
- 43:09Speaker 5: and see that you know, one B plus is not
- 43:11Speaker 5: the same as another B plus and that is okay
- 43:14Speaker 5: for sure.
- 43:14Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, what a pleasure I got to hang
- 43:17Speaker 3: out with you a second time. Oh love, Oh this
- 43:20Speaker 3: has been such a beautiful diary, and I just I'm
- 43:23Speaker 3: so glad that I got to share that with the community,
- 43:25Speaker 3: because I just know that there are people going to
- 43:27Speaker 3: be like, oh, this is like an episode that just
- 43:29Speaker 3: called me out. I was like, maybe I do need
- 43:31Speaker 3: to look at my budget. And it's not about restriction,
- 43:33Speaker 3: but it is about just getting to know what you're
- 43:35Speaker 3: actually up to. So thank you so much. What a
- 43:39Speaker 3: privilege it's been.
- 43:40Speaker 2: Thank you, career.
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