Latest / Tom's Hirschsprung's Podcast / Episode 93 - With Stacey Haines
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- 0:02Speaker 1: You are listening to Tom's Hirshprung's Podcast, a space where
- 0:05Speaker 1: we talk openly about living with Hirshprung's disease. Whether you
- 0:09Speaker 1: live with it, care for someone who has it, or
- 0:12Speaker 1: just want to understand more, this podcast is for you.
- 0:15Speaker 1: Each episode, we will explore real stories and honest conversations
- 0:19Speaker 1: about a condition that often goes unheard. Thank you for
- 0:22Speaker 1: tuning in. Hello, and welcome to episode of Tom's Hirshbrung's Podcast.
- 0:54Speaker 1: I have a little bit of a different one for
- 0:56Speaker 1: you today. I'm joined by Stacy all the way from Why,
- 1:00Speaker 1: which I've never never interviewed anyone from for Why before,
- 1:04Speaker 1: and we're going to talk about something called Rare Patient Voices.
- 1:09Speaker 1: Some of you may be aware of that, either via
- 1:12Speaker 1: the Rare Patient Voices or via little posts on my
- 1:15Speaker 1: Instagram as well. Welcome Stacy, Welcome to the podcast.
- 1:19Speaker 2: So much for having me. I'm so excited to be
- 1:21Speaker 2: here today.
- 1:22Speaker 1: Me too, Thank you so much for coming on.
- 1:24Speaker 2: Now.
- 1:25Speaker 1: I guess we'll get straight down to it and talk
- 1:28Speaker 1: a little bit about what you do. Obviously that you're
- 1:31Speaker 1: the social media manager for Rare Patient Voices. What is it?
- 1:39Speaker 1: How did it start? How did we go from there.
- 1:41Speaker 2: All right, let's just jump right into it. So I
- 1:45Speaker 2: am not only am I with the Social Media Department.
- 1:48Speaker 2: I'm also a part of the patient Outreach team. But
- 1:52Speaker 2: we are rare patient voice. We connect patients and caregivers
- 1:56Speaker 2: to online research studies based on the condition that you
- 2:01Speaker 2: live with every single day. We give individuals an opportunity
- 2:06Speaker 2: to share their experiences and get paid for the time
- 2:11Speaker 2: that they spend on these studies. We have anything from
- 2:16Speaker 2: online surveys, bulletin boards, focus groups, to clinical trials, in
- 2:21Speaker 2: person interviews, all kinds of different opportunities to try out
- 2:26Speaker 2: new medical devices. So individual companies come to us and
- 2:32Speaker 2: we connect all of our patients and caregivers to these
- 2:36Speaker 2: different studies. We have a panel of over one hundred
- 2:41Speaker 2: thousand patients and caregivers and so we sort of hold
- 2:45Speaker 2: the gold standard to filling these studies for different companies.
- 2:53Speaker 2: We are we are very committed to providing real patients
- 2:58Speaker 2: and real caregivers, which in turn produces real results and
- 3:02Speaker 2: real data. So the social the social media department is
- 3:10Speaker 2: my baby. I absolutely love it. We have a great
- 3:14Speaker 2: community within all social media platforms. My favorite is Instagram.
- 3:20Speaker 2: I've used Instagram pretty much my whole entire teenage and
- 3:24Speaker 2: adult life. So and the community there always comes at
- 3:30Speaker 2: us with open arms. I love being able to connect
- 3:33Speaker 2: with individuals, share their stories, be the inspiration for other
- 3:38Speaker 2: people who might just be starting their diagnosis or so
- 3:43Speaker 2: well versed in their diagnosis that they're helping the next
- 3:47Speaker 2: patient or caregiver in their journey. So social media my favorite.
- 3:51Speaker 2: Patient addovacy is my all time favorite as well. I'm
- 3:56Speaker 2: I'm a real people person and not only am I
- 3:59Speaker 2: patient myself, but I'm also a family caregiver to my
- 4:02Speaker 2: daughter who was chronically ill. So connecting with individuals is
- 4:06Speaker 2: what I love to do and then tell you know
- 4:09Speaker 2: I was able to reach out to you. And that's
- 4:13Speaker 2: pretty much what I do and what rare patient voice is.
- 4:16Speaker 2: In a nutshell, we connect patients and caregivers to studies.
- 4:21Speaker 2: You guys in turn complete the studies, You get paid,
- 4:24Speaker 2: and the researchers get the data that we need they
- 4:26Speaker 2: need in order to hopefully make the healthcare system better
- 4:31Speaker 2: for the future.
- 4:32Speaker 1: Fantastic, fantastic and that as well, And I love the
- 4:36Speaker 1: fact that it is real patients, real stories, real data
- 4:42Speaker 1: as opposed to kind of I guess. What I see
- 4:46Speaker 1: quite a lot is people sort of have an estimated
- 4:50Speaker 1: guess and they kind of say, well, I mean you
- 4:52Speaker 1: take hershprungs. For example, the common number is one in
- 4:58Speaker 1: five thousand, but then I've seen one in seven thousand
- 5:01Speaker 1: and one in three thousand. But with you, you have
- 5:04Speaker 1: real data and real people filling out these surveys, which
- 5:09Speaker 1: I imagine is incredibly valuable.
- 5:13Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, especially in I always like I
- 5:17Speaker 2: always push for individuals to know, especially for people who
- 5:20Speaker 2: don't know who we are and what we do, that
- 5:23Speaker 2: we really are real people. We're real patients, We're real
- 5:26Speaker 2: family caregivers. When you email us or send a message
- 5:30Speaker 2: in our DMS, you are reaching real people. There is
- 5:33Speaker 2: no AI behind any of this. We all live all
- 5:37Speaker 2: over we're scattered all over the world, but we are
- 5:40Speaker 2: one team. And just especially in this whole age of
- 5:45Speaker 2: excuse me AI, there's sometimes a mistrust when it comes
- 5:51Speaker 2: to companies like ours. So I always love to be
- 5:54Speaker 2: able to proudly say, like, you know, we are real people,
- 5:59Speaker 2: we are real individuals. We care about your stories, we
- 6:01Speaker 2: care about you know, your mission or your journey, and
- 6:04Speaker 2: your voice really does matter and connecting the researchers with
- 6:09Speaker 2: real patients with real results versus something that they can
- 6:14Speaker 2: run in through AI and get a statistic. Yeah.
- 6:18Speaker 1: Absolutely, And for anybody who doesn't believe you're real, this
- 6:20Speaker 1: will go on YouTube, so you can watch this on
- 6:22Speaker 1: YouTube instead of just listening that you are actually a
- 6:25Speaker 1: real person and not just an AI generated bot.
- 6:28Speaker 2: Yeah. And I like and I always reiterate that because
- 6:32Speaker 2: sometimes people will, you know, message me on Instagram and
- 6:36Speaker 2: maybe they say a few things that are ugly, but
- 6:38Speaker 2: they're thinking that they're going to be you know, responded
- 6:41Speaker 2: to by an like an automated message, but it's me
- 6:44Speaker 2: and I'm like, whoa slow down, You'll have to use
- 6:47Speaker 2: that term with me, Like, let's make this work, Let's
- 6:49Speaker 2: figure out what's going on, you know what I mean. Like,
- 6:51Speaker 2: it's just it's nice to have that real personal connection
- 6:53Speaker 2: and I really hold that very near and dear to me.
- 6:58Speaker 2: So I love being part of that, and I love
- 6:59Speaker 2: being you know, in the forefront at rare patient voice
- 7:02Speaker 2: and being able to head that.
- 7:04Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely. And as you said, you're a people person
- 7:07Speaker 1: and it takes a it takes a people person to
- 7:10Speaker 1: do that. I mean, you can't I imagine, you can't
- 7:14Speaker 1: do this job without being sort of that front facing,
- 7:19Speaker 1: enjoying working with people. You know, you can't just sort
- 7:22Speaker 1: of be sitting there doing papers and whatnot. I imagine.
- 7:27Speaker 1: So if you take us back to I guess the
- 7:31Speaker 1: beginning of Rare Patient Voices started in twenty thirteen with
- 7:39Speaker 1: am I right in saying where's Michael the West.
- 7:43Speaker 2: Michael's are is the founder of Rare Patient Voice, and
- 7:47Speaker 2: he's been in market research pretty much forever. It's what
- 7:51Speaker 2: he did. He worked for big corporate research companies when
- 7:56Speaker 2: he was younger and found a niche for this hole
- 8:01Speaker 2: in the medical system where researchers were looking for individuals
- 8:05Speaker 2: and how hard it was for them to fill and
- 8:08Speaker 2: all randomly, one day somebody asked if he knew anybody
- 8:12Speaker 2: with hemophilia, right, So he got this like aha moment,
- 8:17Speaker 2: like he's doing all of these different market research studies
- 8:20Speaker 2: to fill spices and you know, like market research on
- 8:24Speaker 2: you know, different spices and this and that and that
- 8:26Speaker 2: and this, and he was like, well, what if we
- 8:27Speaker 2: could take it to a whole other level. And he
- 8:31Speaker 2: created the very first hemophilia panel and was able to
- 8:36Speaker 2: help this client fill this research study, and then so
- 8:41Speaker 2: from then on it kind of snowballed into this, well,
- 8:44Speaker 2: why can't I do this? Right? So he started Rare
- 8:47Speaker 2: Patient Boys and it just built and built and built,
- 8:52Speaker 2: and tons of trial and error, right of course, but
- 8:55Speaker 2: he I mean, since then, we have a panel of
- 8:58Speaker 2: over I think we're close to a hundred and eighty
- 9:00Speaker 2: thousand individuals and that comes with over fourteen hundred different
- 9:05Speaker 2: diagnosies in our panel. And so since then it has grown.
- 9:11Speaker 2: There's about forty of us, maybe a little bit more
- 9:14Speaker 2: than forty. We're nine different countries, but we all work remote,
- 9:20Speaker 2: which is really nice. But so since then, Wes has
- 9:26Speaker 2: been able to build this, you know, this resource for
- 9:31Speaker 2: individuals to use, and like I had stated earlier, we
- 9:34Speaker 2: are the gold standard and we work really hard to
- 9:37Speaker 2: make sure that we do not have fraudulent patients or caregivers.
- 9:42Speaker 2: Because I had no idea that individuals will sign up
- 9:46Speaker 2: to Rare Patient Voice and completely lie about everything just
- 9:50Speaker 2: to make one hundred bucks. I'd really honest, Oh no,
- 9:54Speaker 2: I just didn't know that was a thing. So we
- 9:56Speaker 2: have a whole entire team specifically that go in and
- 10:01Speaker 2: they not research, but they go in and verify every
- 10:06Speaker 2: single sign up that comes through our desk to make
- 10:09Speaker 2: sure that they are real patients, so that when the
- 10:11Speaker 2: clients do come to us and we book or we
- 10:15Speaker 2: schedule them for an interview what have you with them,
- 10:19Speaker 2: that they're actually somebody with the real condition. So yeah,
- 10:24Speaker 2: it's an ever ever growing company. And being a patient
- 10:31Speaker 2: and being a caregiver myself, it's just it's so amazing
- 10:34Speaker 2: to know that there is a resource, like we're a
- 10:36Speaker 2: patient voice out there. I always say that before I
- 10:40Speaker 2: was ever in the chronic illness community or ever in
- 10:45Speaker 2: involved in any of that, I really only thought that
- 10:47Speaker 2: medical research was specifically clinical trials, right, And so for
- 10:52Speaker 2: a lot of people that's scary, Like you might want
- 10:54Speaker 2: to be an advocate and do things to help change
- 10:58Speaker 2: the future of what's going on with your condition, and
- 11:01Speaker 2: sometimes clinical trials can be scary. We do offer clinical trials,
- 11:05Speaker 2: but research also comes from your experience through you know,
- 11:10Speaker 2: online surveys, right, you can maybe a client is just
- 11:13Speaker 2: looking for whether or not these one hundred and fifty
- 11:16Speaker 2: people have ever taken a certain medication or if they've
- 11:19Speaker 2: ever been medicated for their condition, you know, And this
- 11:22Speaker 2: gives individuals who are not wanting to commit to, you know,
- 11:28Speaker 2: something as big as a clinical trial. They're able to
- 11:30Speaker 2: use their voices through these smaller avenues, but they have
- 11:33Speaker 2: such a great impact as well.
- 11:35Speaker 1: Absolutely, I think that's that's brilliant. I mean, it's it's
- 11:40Speaker 1: that bridging that gap, isn't it between the sort of
- 11:43Speaker 1: full on clinical trial and nothing. I guess and you
- 11:47Speaker 1: said it's fourteen fourteen thousand conditions.
- 11:52Speaker 2: Fourteen, I think we have over fourteen hundred.
- 11:54Speaker 1: Conditioning on hundred, sorry, fourteen hundred conditions, And it's I mean,
- 11:58Speaker 1: I I was having a flake through when you do
- 12:01Speaker 1: various stories and posts on Instagram of so many conditions,
- 12:06Speaker 1: I mean some that I've never really heard of, I've
- 12:08Speaker 1: never even come across before.
- 12:10Speaker 2: And that on our Instagram page. That's just a teeny
- 12:14Speaker 2: bit of how many studies we have on a given day.
- 12:17Speaker 2: So right now at the patient advocacy team, what comes
- 12:22Speaker 2: across my desk is the really hard to find studies
- 12:26Speaker 2: or hard to fill studies. So we might have three
- 12:29Speaker 2: hundred studies at any given time, but there's maybe seventy
- 12:34Speaker 2: or eighty that are a little more like finding a
- 12:36Speaker 2: needle in a haystack. So those studies come to the
- 12:41Speaker 2: Patient Advocacy Team, and it is our job to try
- 12:44Speaker 2: to find that individual that can fit the criteria right
- 12:50Speaker 2: because sometimes researchers are looking for certain gender, you know, ethnicity,
- 12:55Speaker 2: they're looking for certain people who age different age bracket.
- 13:00Speaker 2: There's all kinds of different criteria that individuals might have
- 13:03Speaker 2: to meet in order to actually be involved in certain studies.
- 13:08Speaker 2: So that's our job to reach out to individuals like you, like,
- 13:11Speaker 2: maybe we have a really hard study that we're trying
- 13:14Speaker 2: to fill. So I'll be like, hey, Tom, you know
- 13:16Speaker 2: we have the study and we kind of need your help.
- 13:19Speaker 2: So then you could reach out to your community and say, hey,
- 13:22Speaker 2: if write Patient Voice is looking for a needle in
- 13:23Speaker 2: a haystack and maybe you know somebody in our community
- 13:26Speaker 2: can help fill that. Or there's super simple studies. You know,
- 13:30Speaker 2: maybe we need three thousand people with ezema to answer
- 13:34Speaker 2: a super short survey because they just need you know,
- 13:37Speaker 2: quick data, really quick to push out something that maybe
- 13:40Speaker 2: they're looking to push out. So some of the studies
- 13:42Speaker 2: are a little bit harder to get into, and then
- 13:44Speaker 2: some of the studies are way easier to get into.
- 13:49Speaker 2: But we we email our invites to individuals, so they
- 13:53Speaker 2: come to your email direct and we only email you
- 13:57Speaker 2: for disease specific or conditions specific studies. For instance, I
- 14:02Speaker 2: would never send you a study for a condition that
- 14:04Speaker 2: you don't have, because what would be the point of
- 14:07Speaker 2: filling your inbox with, you know, something that doesn't work
- 14:11Speaker 2: with you. And then the individual, the patient of the caregiver,
- 14:14Speaker 2: has the option to click on that invite and they
- 14:18Speaker 2: can read through the details of the study and if
- 14:21Speaker 2: it's something that maybe they want to try to do,
- 14:23Speaker 2: they can go through the pre screen or questions, and
- 14:25Speaker 2: then if they qualify, we get a hold of you
- 14:27Speaker 2: to schedule any kind of scheduling. If we do, if
- 14:31Speaker 2: it's an online survey, you'll just immediately go right into
- 14:34Speaker 2: that survey. Yeah.
- 14:36Speaker 1: I think that's really really interesting and really good to know,
- 14:39Speaker 1: because sometimes when people sign up the things that they thinking,
- 14:43Speaker 1: am I going to get three million emails, you know,
- 14:45Speaker 1: asking me to do this advertising this for me? And
- 14:49Speaker 1: it's just general marketing stuff. But it's really good to
- 14:53Speaker 1: know that it's it's very specific, it's very direct. You're
- 14:58Speaker 1: only going to send emails to people who have that
- 15:03Speaker 1: condition that can actually help. So I think I think
- 15:06Speaker 1: that's an excellent, excellent way of going about it.
- 15:09Speaker 2: And another thing I like to touch on too, Tom,
- 15:11Speaker 2: is if you sign up to us, you are not
- 15:14Speaker 2: committed to anything. So if we send you an invite
- 15:18Speaker 2: to a study and you see that in your inbox
- 15:20Speaker 2: and you start your blood pressure kids a little bit high,
- 15:22Speaker 2: and you're like, oh my gosh, where Patient Voice sent
- 15:25Speaker 2: us something like, send me something like I have to
- 15:27Speaker 2: commit to this. I have to do that. Like, we
- 15:29Speaker 2: don't want to give you that feeling, right, We are
- 15:32Speaker 2: simply giving you the opportunity to share your experiences through
- 15:37Speaker 2: these different studies, but you don't have to commit to
- 15:40Speaker 2: it if you see one for like, cause a lot
- 15:43Speaker 2: of them are like face to face like we're doing now,
- 15:46Speaker 2: and a lot of people aren't comfortable with that. But
- 15:48Speaker 2: they don't want to sit and see and talk, so
- 15:51Speaker 2: they can just spipe past those and if they see
- 15:53Speaker 2: like an online survey that fits them better, then there's
- 15:56Speaker 2: that option as well.
- 15:58Speaker 1: That's good to know as well. It's like you said,
- 16:01Speaker 1: it's good to have different options because some people don't
- 16:04Speaker 1: like the the face to face some people. I mean,
- 16:07Speaker 1: I just know through my own experience of doing this
- 16:10Speaker 1: podcast with you know, some people want sort of some
- 16:13Speaker 1: people have had sort of pre zoom meetings, if that
- 16:17Speaker 1: makes sense, to just kind of chat through various things,
- 16:20Speaker 1: to know that there are lots of different options out there,
- 16:24Speaker 1: and it's not you're not fully committing to everything. You're
- 16:27Speaker 1: not sort of once you've signed up, you're in it
- 16:30Speaker 1: forever and you can't have a leave. You know, it's
- 16:33Speaker 1: not one of those things. And I really like that
- 16:36Speaker 1: about about rare patient voices.
- 16:38Speaker 2: And you can completely excuse me, you can completely opt
- 16:41Speaker 2: out at any time as well, but just and I
- 16:44Speaker 2: would love free of yours to know that when like
- 16:47Speaker 2: when we send invites to you, you can immediately email
- 16:51Speaker 2: the project manager back and it and it comes to
- 16:54Speaker 2: somebody real They're not we're not just mass pushing out
- 16:59Speaker 2: emails like that. It's not an automated thing. So if
- 17:02Speaker 2: you have a question about that study, you can you
- 17:05Speaker 2: can reply to that exact email and you'll speak to
- 17:09Speaker 2: a project manager from your patient voice.
- 17:12Speaker 1: It's really good to know, really really good tonight as well,
- 17:14Speaker 1: because it's again it's that like we said before, is
- 17:17Speaker 1: that sometimes you get emails from various places and studies
- 17:22Speaker 1: and it seems very automated, and it's kind of like
- 17:26Speaker 1: very generic, but this isn't. It's very specific, and it's
- 17:29Speaker 1: it's personal yep.
- 17:31Speaker 2: And and we are always more than welcome to answer
- 17:34Speaker 2: any questions that anybody might have in regards to any
- 17:37Speaker 2: of the studies that come to their inbox. I want
- 17:40Speaker 2: to reiterate too, that we do pay at one hundred
- 17:43Speaker 2: and twenty dollars an hour, at a rate of one
- 17:44Speaker 2: hundred and twenty dollars an hour, so and that for
- 17:48Speaker 2: your viewers it might be a little bit different just
- 17:51Speaker 2: because of your your location, but we do pay one
- 17:55Speaker 2: hundred and twenty dollars an hour in US dollars. So
- 18:00Speaker 2: if a study for some reason takes an hour, you'll
- 18:02Speaker 2: get a check from your patient voice for one hundred
- 18:04Speaker 2: and twenty dollars an hour or more. So we have
- 18:08Speaker 2: a study that's just thirty minutes, you'll probably be compensated
- 18:11Speaker 2: sixty dollars and sometimes more so we're in the range
- 18:15Speaker 2: of one hundred and twenty an hour. Wow. Just great
- 18:18Speaker 2: because one, research in general is great for people to
- 18:22Speaker 2: participate in, but if they can be compensated for their time,
- 18:24Speaker 2: then why not.
- 18:26Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, And it's obviously that incentive for I mean
- 18:30Speaker 1: some people might do it a free who does, but
- 18:33Speaker 1: it's it's that incentive to go, oh yeah, I'll do this,
- 18:37Speaker 1: And it's it's win win, isn't it. They earn money
- 18:41Speaker 1: from it, they help people, they help you, you know.
- 18:44Speaker 1: It's one of those sort of win win courses. I guess.
- 18:47Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, it's very it's rewarding for everybody really because
- 18:53Speaker 2: we're all like when I see conditions of like my
- 18:55Speaker 2: daughter has, when I see hers come up on the screen,
- 18:58Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my gosh, I wonder what they're they're
- 19:01Speaker 2: studying right now. Right, So it's like when you see
- 19:03Speaker 2: your condition, it's like there are researchers out there thinking
- 19:06Speaker 2: about you and your condition, right, because there's so many,
- 19:10Speaker 2: so many conditions that you know aren't in the forefront yet,
- 19:14Speaker 2: you know. So when you see something, when I see
- 19:16Speaker 2: something come across my desk and I'm like, oh, oh
- 19:19Speaker 2: my gosh, I wonder what they're researching, like, you know,
- 19:22Speaker 2: So it's really neat, it's very rewarning. It feels good.
- 19:25Speaker 2: I love being able to be a part of this
- 19:26Speaker 2: and pushing it out to the masses as well.
- 19:30Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think for a lot of rare conditions. Well,
- 19:33Speaker 1: I guess conditions in general, that there are so many
- 19:37Speaker 1: different types and variants and all sorts of experiences that
- 19:45Speaker 1: having just seen this in my own condition, that seemed
- 19:48Speaker 1: to be invaluable for people because there will be something
- 19:52Speaker 1: that will take from it and go, oh, I didn't
- 19:54Speaker 1: know that could happen, or I didn't know that this
- 19:58Speaker 1: type of medication or side effect or whatever it may be.
- 20:02Speaker 1: So I guess that's really really important as well.
- 20:05Speaker 2: Yeah, and there's no one story the same, you know,
- 20:08Speaker 2: like we may carry the same condition, but our experiences
- 20:12Speaker 2: might not be the same, you know. And I think
- 20:14Speaker 2: that's really important, especially with the social media platform that
- 20:19Speaker 2: I can push out, you know, like, just because this
- 20:22Speaker 2: is how your journey went doesn't mean that this is
- 20:25Speaker 2: how this person's journey is going to go. And I
- 20:27Speaker 2: think that's really important for people to understand because just
- 20:32Speaker 2: even with mental health issues, right like, you could be
- 20:36Speaker 2: experiencing this condition this way, and you're doing great and
- 20:39Speaker 2: everything's awesome, and you have really supportive doctors, and you
- 20:41Speaker 2: have supportive family members and friends, but then right across
- 20:45Speaker 2: the street there's a person who's going through the same
- 20:47Speaker 2: exact things you are. They don't have the support and
- 20:50Speaker 2: they don't have the correct doctors, you know. So I
- 20:53Speaker 2: love being able to use our Instagram as a resource
- 20:56Speaker 2: for individuals like I'd love to be able to enter
- 20:59Speaker 2: you you to our community because maybe there's ten fifteen
- 21:03Speaker 2: people in our community that have the same condition and
- 21:06Speaker 2: didn't know that. You know, you were a resource and
- 21:08Speaker 2: you were an option and a connection. So I love
- 21:11Speaker 2: being able to just connect. And it's just it's so
- 21:14Speaker 2: important to me.
- 21:15Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I mean I get messages every week from
- 21:18Speaker 1: people saying, oh, I didn't know there's a Hirschbrugs podcast.
- 21:21Speaker 1: I mean, you know, but why would you? I guess
- 21:24Speaker 1: it's quite a niche thing, but it's And I know
- 21:27Speaker 1: you said you're also a caregiver yourself as well to
- 21:33Speaker 1: your daughter. Would you like to talk a little bit
- 21:36Speaker 1: about your own personal experience of caregiving?
- 21:39Speaker 2: Yeah? So, oh my gosh. My daughter's eleven now, and
- 21:44Speaker 2: her journey started when she was four days old and
- 21:49Speaker 2: we I just she was my second baby, and I
- 21:51Speaker 2: just knew something was off, something wasn't right. I just
- 21:54Speaker 2: knew it. And so that's really when our journey began,
- 21:59Speaker 2: and I ended up having to leave Kauai and we
- 22:03Speaker 2: headed to the mainland to find different doctors in different
- 22:07Speaker 2: care and we were finally able to get a diagnosis
- 22:10Speaker 2: for her. And you know, we fought and fought and
- 22:14Speaker 2: fought and fought for a diagnosis and then we finally
- 22:17Speaker 2: had one and we were like, oh, my gosh, now
- 22:19Speaker 2: what right. So then there's there's that uphill, uphill, uphill
- 22:24Speaker 2: battle where you're fighting. You're fighting, and you're fighting, and
- 22:26Speaker 2: then you finally reached that point where you finally get
- 22:28Speaker 2: a diagnosis and then you're like, oh, your whole world
- 22:33Speaker 2: just kind of like everything stops and you're like, well,
- 22:35Speaker 2: what do we do now? And so that's when I
- 22:38Speaker 2: turned to social media. You know, I was a mom
- 22:42Speaker 2: to a two year old who had just been diagnosed,
- 22:45Speaker 2: and I had never met anybody with her condition. I
- 22:48Speaker 2: you know, I was my son and is like a bull,
- 22:50Speaker 2: like he's never been sick. And so I turned to
- 22:53Speaker 2: social media and I created a page and the chronic
- 22:58Speaker 2: illness community came running at me from every angle. They
- 23:03Speaker 2: were lending and helping hand, they were telling you a
- 23:06Speaker 2: questions to ask the doctors, where to go, who to see,
- 23:09Speaker 2: you know, just everything, and had it not been for
- 23:15Speaker 2: my social community, social media community. I'm not sure that
- 23:19Speaker 2: iris is healing would have happened so quickly, right, I
- 23:22Speaker 2: feel like we would have still been bouncing back and
- 23:24Speaker 2: forth to different doctors and trying this medication and trying
- 23:27Speaker 2: that medication instead of like belining it to Okay, here's
- 23:31Speaker 2: a book of questions that I have for you can
- 23:33Speaker 2: answer them, and then where do we start? Right? So
- 23:35Speaker 2: I feel like that's that's something that's so invaluable that
- 23:40Speaker 2: we can give one another as caregivers and we can
- 23:42Speaker 2: give one anothers as patients, like, ok here's my journey's
- 23:47Speaker 2: here's how it unfolded for me. Here's what you can
- 23:50Speaker 2: take from my experience. Now your experience might not be
- 23:54Speaker 2: the same, but here's some questions that you can ask,
- 23:56Speaker 2: you know. And so, of course it was very tiring.
- 24:02Speaker 2: It is very tiring. Iris has a pronic illness, so
- 24:04Speaker 2: it's you know, So it was something that we weren't
- 24:07Speaker 2: able to like we got a diagnosis and it's cured.
- 24:09Speaker 2: We got a diagnosis, and it was like, okay, how
- 24:11Speaker 2: do we manage this? How do we maintain this? And
- 24:14Speaker 2: then how do we give her the correct tools in
- 24:17Speaker 2: her life to make sure that when she, you know,
- 24:20Speaker 2: gets her wings and leaves home, that she's ready to
- 24:24Speaker 2: be an adult and care for this chronic illness on
- 24:26Speaker 2: her own. I think what's not talked about enough in
- 24:32Speaker 2: a caregivers situation is maintaining a household and maintaining a
- 24:37Speaker 2: marriage and making sure that all of that is healthy
- 24:40Speaker 2: as well. Because when you, from my experience, when you
- 24:45Speaker 2: have a child that is so sick, everything stops, and
- 24:49Speaker 2: it's you're literally in it, and you're googling all night long,
- 24:53Speaker 2: and you're up at three o'clock in the morning. You
- 24:55Speaker 2: know web MD, And I know you're not supposed to
- 24:58Speaker 2: do that, and I know a lot of people say, oh,
- 24:59Speaker 2: I don't do that, but everybody does that, right, And
- 25:02Speaker 2: so you're looking for anything. You're looking for the natural ways,
- 25:06Speaker 2: you're looking for the holistic ways, you're looking for the
- 25:08Speaker 2: western medicine ways, you're looking for shamans and like whatever
- 25:12Speaker 2: you can do to fix your situation, right and so,
- 25:16Speaker 2: and then you have to wake up in the morning
- 25:18Speaker 2: and make sure everybody's ready for school, and you have
- 25:20Speaker 2: to make sure, you know, but the house is ready
- 25:22Speaker 2: and the house is clean. And so I think there's
- 25:24Speaker 2: I think all none of that has talked about enough,
- 25:27Speaker 2: like how do you maintain a marriage, how do you
- 25:29Speaker 2: keep your marriage happy? How do you keep yourself happy?
- 25:33Speaker 2: How do you engage with your other child who is
- 25:36Speaker 2: still growing up and living life and has their own
- 25:41Speaker 2: just growing up problems, you know, and how do you
- 25:44Speaker 2: compartmentalize all of that and make sure that everybody's happy
- 25:47Speaker 2: and you're happy, And you know, it's there's a lot
- 25:51Speaker 2: to it, like when you're a caregiver, you're not just
- 25:53Speaker 2: a caregiver.
- 25:54Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I think you're absolutely right because I
- 25:58Speaker 1: speak to some people about just the physical symptoms of stuff.
- 26:03Speaker 1: You know, you go to doctors, they prescribe X, Y
- 26:06Speaker 1: and Z, and you go through the physical symptoms. But
- 26:09Speaker 1: what's not talked about enough is the mental side of it,
- 26:13Speaker 1: the emotional side of it. And like you said, it's
- 26:18Speaker 1: it's everybody else around, isn't it. It's it's brothers, it's sisters,
- 26:22Speaker 1: it's parents, it's grandparents, it's it's everybody else that also
- 26:28Speaker 1: needs that sort of support network around them as well.
- 26:35Speaker 1: And that's a really really interesting point. There's a really
- 26:38Speaker 1: good point to make because I and I find that
- 26:40Speaker 1: I think with with all chronic illnesses. That it's that
- 26:48Speaker 1: not to say that everybody else will be affected in
- 26:50Speaker 1: the same way, but I think too to note that
- 26:54Speaker 1: to think actually they might need some extra support here
- 26:58Speaker 1: is so so valuable.
- 27:04Speaker 2: Yeah, and especially if there's nowhere to turn. I like
- 27:08Speaker 2: thinking that if people know about rare patient boys, then
- 27:11Speaker 2: they know that I'm sitting behind the screen and they
- 27:15Speaker 2: can DM me at any time. You know, it's not
- 27:17Speaker 2: my job to give medical advice. I do not ever
- 27:20Speaker 2: give any kind of medical advice. I don't, but I'll listen,
- 27:25Speaker 2: you know, and I might know a resource like, oh
- 27:27Speaker 2: you know what, I know so and so maybe you
- 27:30Speaker 2: can reach out to them or be that connection for somebody,
- 27:33Speaker 2: because when you're in the thick of it and you
- 27:36Speaker 2: feel alone, it is just it's the worst, you know.
- 27:39Speaker 2: And if I can be that shoulder for somebody, even
- 27:43Speaker 2: for just ten minutes at work through this app, then
- 27:47Speaker 2: then I will be there for you to listen and
- 27:50Speaker 2: to chat and just say hey, yeah, no.
- 27:53Speaker 1: I think that's That's also another reason why I want
- 27:55Speaker 1: to do on the show as well, because I think
- 27:56Speaker 1: we're very much aligned in that sense that we don't
- 28:00Speaker 1: not doctors, we're not nurses. We don't give medical advice.
- 28:03Speaker 1: We don't say take this pill, do this exercise, whatever,
- 28:07Speaker 1: but we will listen. And sometimes that can be really
- 28:13Speaker 1: important for someone just to just to get everything out
- 28:16Speaker 1: there because and you probably have it as well, where
- 28:21Speaker 1: people will talk to you because they know that you
- 28:24Speaker 1: will know a little bit about this condition or whatever
- 28:27Speaker 1: it might be. And just talking to somebody who knows,
- 28:31Speaker 1: whether you know the ins and outs of their condition
- 28:33Speaker 1: or not, but you know what it's like to be
- 28:36Speaker 1: a caregiver, to a parent, to a child who has
- 28:39Speaker 1: a chronic illness, and to just talk to someone who
- 28:43Speaker 1: sort of understands those types of feelings. I think that's
- 28:49Speaker 1: that's really important as well.
- 28:52Speaker 2: Yeah, so I love to I love to push out
- 28:57Speaker 2: as much resources they can on our Instagram. I love
- 29:01Speaker 2: to share caregiver stories as well as patient stories. Just
- 29:04Speaker 2: you know, I feel like as long as we continue
- 29:06Speaker 2: to talk, and as long as we continue to comment
- 29:11Speaker 2: and connect, then there's always a common ground somewhere. There's
- 29:15Speaker 2: always somewhere for us to go. And you know, we
- 29:19Speaker 2: might not be able to sit down physically, but there
- 29:21Speaker 2: have been so many people on in our community that
- 29:25Speaker 2: have met each other and eventually met in real life
- 29:28Speaker 2: just through you know, meeting on our on Rare Patient
- 29:33Speaker 2: Voices Instagram, you know, and and then they'll come back
- 29:36Speaker 2: and I'll hear these stories, you know, and it just
- 29:39Speaker 2: warms my whole entire soul that, like, you know, what
- 29:42Speaker 2: I do really does matter. And I love being able
- 29:44Speaker 2: to wake up in the morning and being like, Okay,
- 29:46Speaker 2: I'm so excited to go to work today. I'm so
- 29:48Speaker 2: excited to connect with people. I'm so excited to maybe
- 29:51Speaker 2: you know, move this mountain just a little bit, you know,
- 29:54Speaker 2: if not for me, then for somebody else, you know. Yeah,
- 29:57Speaker 2: very rewarding and and West a wonderful job at Rare
- 30:01Speaker 2: Patient Voice, and everybody is extremely committed, and there is empathy,
- 30:06Speaker 2: and there's compassion, and there's you know, advocacy, and there's
- 30:11Speaker 2: just so much going on. There's so many different parts
- 30:14Speaker 2: and we're all in it, you know, and we're all
- 30:17Speaker 2: in it, and we're all working for the greater good,
- 30:19Speaker 2: and it just it makes sense to do something like this.
- 30:23Speaker 1: Yeah, no, and and that kind of goes along with
- 30:26Speaker 1: your mission as well on the website, So there's for
- 30:30Speaker 1: them for people who don't know that there's there's five
- 30:34Speaker 1: five different parts or to five different words and use
- 30:39Speaker 1: for the mission integrity, respect, innovation, improvement, and responsibility. And
- 30:46Speaker 1: you've kind of explained those really really well. I think
- 30:49Speaker 1: they based on what you've said already, they they really
- 30:55Speaker 1: encapsulate what Rare Patient Voices is all about. And I
- 31:00Speaker 1: think that's I think that's excellent. And I think again,
- 31:04Speaker 1: like we said, if somebody just wants to because again
- 31:07Speaker 1: some people maybe they don't want to talk down the phone,
- 31:09Speaker 1: maybe they don't want to talk via zoo, and they
- 31:12Speaker 1: just want to send you a message, and some people
- 31:14Speaker 1: are easier to you know, texting or DM or whatever
- 31:17Speaker 1: it might be. And sometimes that's a lot easier for
- 31:21Speaker 1: people is they know that there's a real person at
- 31:23Speaker 1: the end of the phone that they can then DM
- 31:25Speaker 1: them back or provide them with somebody else that may
- 31:29Speaker 1: be able to help the situation. I think that's that's brilliant.
- 31:34Speaker 1: And then just on the Rare Patient Voice itself, if
- 31:37Speaker 1: somebody wants to sign up, what do they what would
- 31:42Speaker 1: they need to do?
- 31:43Speaker 2: It's super easy, super painless. You can do it from home, obviously,
- 31:49Speaker 2: but I do believe Tom, you have referral link. So
- 31:52Speaker 2: if they have found out about Rare Patient Voice through you.
- 31:56Speaker 2: Then they would simply click on your link and when
- 31:59Speaker 2: they click on that link, it will take them directly
- 32:02Speaker 2: to the sign up portion of our website. They click
- 32:07Speaker 2: sign up and they'll go through. It's kind of just
- 32:10Speaker 2: like building a Facebook profile or whatever. It's super easy.
- 32:15Speaker 2: It's just a profile first name, last name, where you're from,
- 32:20Speaker 2: and then you can list all of your conditions. I
- 32:22Speaker 2: always encourage people to list all of their conditions because
- 32:27Speaker 2: it gives you more of an opportunity to participate in
- 32:31Speaker 2: our studies. For instance, Crone's disease have is an umbrella
- 32:36Speaker 2: of many conditions, right, so list all of those conditions.
- 32:41Speaker 2: With Crone's disease. You can have ra you can have EOE,
- 32:44Speaker 2: you can have exema, you can have food allergies. You know,
- 32:46Speaker 2: so list all of those if you're diagnosed with those,
- 32:50Speaker 2: and that's really it. So it takes about it can
- 32:53Speaker 2: take anywhere between like a week to two weeks to
- 32:57Speaker 2: get verified on our end, because once you're signed up,
- 33:00Speaker 2: your sign up comes to our desk and then we
- 33:03Speaker 2: just go through verify it all, make sure that it's okay,
- 33:05Speaker 2: and then you'll get a confirmation email. From us. Once
- 33:08Speaker 2: you get that confirmation email, you can go into your
- 33:12Speaker 2: dashboard at any time. You can add conditions, you can
- 33:16Speaker 2: take conditions off, you can add medications, take medications off,
- 33:21Speaker 2: and that's it. Once your profile is created, we have
- 33:24Speaker 2: that safe and secured and we'll reach out to you
- 33:28Speaker 2: via email anytime a study comes through our desk that
- 33:31Speaker 2: matches the conditions that you have on your profile.
- 33:34Speaker 1: Easy, that easy.
- 33:37Speaker 2: Well, if you don't use Tom's referral link, which you
- 33:40Speaker 2: should totally use Tom's referral link, you can just sign
- 33:44Speaker 2: up through the website as well.
- 33:45Speaker 1: But don't do that, use my referral link to use
- 33:48Speaker 1: some Well, this has been excellent. Thank you so so
- 33:54Speaker 1: much for coming on and explaining again rare pace your
- 33:57Speaker 1: voices was something that before I starts Instagram, didn't know existed.
- 34:01Speaker 1: So I'm really really glad that I now know about
- 34:05Speaker 1: it and I know just how many people you help
- 34:08Speaker 1: and all across the world, which is brilliant. And I
- 34:13Speaker 1: know we've talked about how people sign up, but if
- 34:15Speaker 1: people want to follow the Instagram account, keep up to
- 34:19Speaker 1: date with everything on the website, how do they how
- 34:22Speaker 1: do they do that?
- 34:23Speaker 2: So we are on all social media platforms. We've got TikTok,
- 34:28Speaker 2: which is tough, but I do TikTok.
- 34:31Speaker 1: I don't understand TikTok. I've got it, but I I
- 34:33Speaker 1: just I feel like I'm too old.
- 34:37Speaker 2: Yeah, the same way, but I sorry to be relevant
- 34:40Speaker 2: and I still try to post because that's what I do.
- 34:43Speaker 2: We're on TikTok, Facebook, all of you know, Pinterest, everything,
- 34:46Speaker 2: We're on all the social media platforms at Rear Patient Voice,
- 34:50Speaker 2: and you know, I want to throw this out there
- 34:52Speaker 2: really quick too. We I love to do if you'd
- 34:55Speaker 2: love to share your story, I do what's called a
- 34:58Speaker 2: Weekly Warrior every week. It's kind of taken the hiatus
- 35:02Speaker 2: for the past few months just because I've been super busy,
- 35:05Speaker 2: but I want to bring that back because it is
- 35:08Speaker 2: it's such a great part of our Instagram to If
- 35:11Speaker 2: any of your listeners would like to share their story,
- 35:14Speaker 2: please reach out to me. I would love to introduce
- 35:17Speaker 2: you to our community. You can do that through a video. Obviously,
- 35:21Speaker 2: reels have a bigger push on social media, but if
- 35:25Speaker 2: you're not comfortable with creating a video all about you,
- 35:28Speaker 2: you can send a picture of yourself to me with
- 35:31Speaker 2: a short bio and I'd love to introduce you to
- 35:33Speaker 2: our community, so you can reach out to me through
- 35:36Speaker 2: any of our social media platforms. I am always the
- 35:40Speaker 2: face behind Instagram and TikTok. If you reach out through Facebook,
- 35:43Speaker 2: it is my colleague, Brooklyn, and she is just as
- 35:46Speaker 2: sweet as they come. But so I would love to
- 35:51Speaker 2: push out to Weekly Warriors. You can reach out to me.
- 35:57Speaker 1: I'm starting to backput all.
- 35:58Speaker 2: I don't know why social media. Follow us on social media,
- 36:01Speaker 2: Weekly Warriors. If you'd like to become a referral partner
- 36:04Speaker 2: as well, reach out to me and we can make
- 36:06Speaker 2: that happen.
- 36:08Speaker 1: And yeah, fantastic. And the website as well is rare.
- 36:13Speaker 2: Patient Voice dot com. Everything is just at Rare Patient Voice,
- 36:18Speaker 2: so if you take that in you'll find us brilliant.
- 36:22Speaker 1: Well, thank you. This has been excellent, so thank you
- 36:24Speaker 1: so so much for coming on and obviously with you,
- 36:27Speaker 1: wish you the very best with Rare Patient Voices in
- 36:30Speaker 1: the future.
- 36:31Speaker 2: You so much done. I appreciate being here.
- 36:36Speaker 1: Thank you for listening and being part of this growing community.
- 36:39Speaker 1: If you have enjoyed the episode, don't forget to subscribe,
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- 36:53Speaker 1: See you next week.