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jason went dark. · Top Five

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Speaker 1: Episode twenty seven, not that my partner would really care
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Speaker 1: or know. Across from me of the Top five podcast,
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Speaker 1: I am Kaylin sitting across from Jason. Who's what's the
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Speaker 1: opposite of locked in?
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Speaker 2: Locked out?
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Speaker 3: What is that?
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Speaker 1: You're on my shit list for so many reasons? But yeah,
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Speaker 1: I'm sure we'll get into it.
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Speaker 3: If you are new here, go back, I guess, or
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Speaker 3: just start here. I don't know what you I'm not
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Speaker 3: going to tell you what.
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Speaker 2: To do you want to do most of the time.
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Speaker 3: Well, I was gonna say that's we need a new saying.
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Speaker 1: But we pick five things every week that we're obsessed
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Speaker 1: with and then one thing that either made us cry
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Speaker 1: or crash out because that's life, baby, and uh, we're
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Speaker 1: best using coworkers. But I don't I don't know tops.
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Speaker 1: I don't think he cares about you guys at all.
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Speaker 3: Why you don't even know? Okay, Well, first of all,
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Speaker 3: you were out last week.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was in Vegas.
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Speaker 1: Vegas working see and yes I did do a mini
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Speaker 1: Soulo episode.
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Speaker 3: Thank you for checking our social media.
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Speaker 2: I know I saw it, and I didn't know if
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Speaker 2: you had someone else with.
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Speaker 1: You maybe well the title was mini solo episode with Kaitlin,
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Speaker 1: and I did also tag you in it. Yes, I
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Speaker 1: did all the work. I wiped your ass and you
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Speaker 1: can't even I don't even know if you shared it.
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Speaker 2: I don't think I did. Why I went dark last
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Speaker 2: week and I didn't share anything?
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Speaker 3: Okay, what is why?
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Speaker 2: I don't know.
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Speaker 4: I go through times where I just don't like I
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Speaker 4: want that. I don't want to have a story.
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Speaker 2: Okay, do you know what I mean?
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Speaker 4: Like, like you know the stories on Instagram, I'm familiar,
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Speaker 4: yet like I like not having stories.
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Speaker 2: Sometimes I have dark times dark.
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Speaker 3: It's not an active choice I make.
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Speaker 1: If I get dark, then it's because I deleted Instagram
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Speaker 1: because I'm actually hanging by a thread.
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Speaker 3: But I've never like made an active choice.
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Speaker 4: To go at Even when I was God, I like
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Speaker 4: did nothing. I didn't open TikTok, I like did nothing.
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Speaker 4: It was weird.
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Speaker 3: It's fine.
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Speaker 1: But if you're on this, don't you like the podcast
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Speaker 1: and want to share in promote podcast?
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Speaker 3: Do you like this?
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Speaker 1: I love this podcast and I was told you guys
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Speaker 1: before he left it. If I do do a Minisol episode,
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Speaker 1: it will be the first one he listens to.
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Speaker 3: But you didn't listen.
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Speaker 2: Now, I have to.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, sure, I'm sure you'll get all right on that.
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Speaker 1: I did talk about how you were going to be
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Speaker 1: out this week because of your knee surgery.
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Speaker 3: So I'll let you have the floor before I lay
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Speaker 3: into you.
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Speaker 2: I'm here what happened?
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Speaker 4: So on Friday, I get a beautiful call from an
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Speaker 4: eight seven seven number.
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Speaker 3: While I'm answer while you were dark.
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Speaker 4: But I did answer that because I was like, who's
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Speaker 4: climbing from an and it didn't say spam? And I
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Speaker 4: was like, this is weird. And it was our amazing,
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Speaker 4: lovely insurance company for this fucking company that we worked for,
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Speaker 4: and telling me that the surgery that I had scheduled
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Speaker 4: for months would have zero percent insurance coverage because the
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Speaker 4: building that my doctor was going to operate me on
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Speaker 4: me in is not in network. And although I pay
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Speaker 4: for a PPO, which means I can go anywhere and
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Speaker 4: get minimal coverage, at least I was getting no coverage.
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Speaker 4: So I would have had to come completely.
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Speaker 2: Out of pocket to do my surgery the way I
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Speaker 2: had it scheduled yesterday.
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Speaker 3: How can now? How can now? You didn't tell me this.
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Speaker 2: Part of America and this is what happens.
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Speaker 1: Okay, Oh, I I don't unders.
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Speaker 3: You didn't tell me this part of the story. So
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Speaker 3: you can be covered to get a surgery from a
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Speaker 3: specific doctor, but the building can be the issue, like
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Speaker 3: can you do it in a back alley?
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Speaker 2: Literally?
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Speaker 4: What I learned after being on the phone for way
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Speaker 4: longer than I should have been while I was supposed
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Speaker 4: to be working, was that your doctor can be in network,
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Speaker 4: but the surgical center that they operate out of may
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Speaker 4: not be, which is in my case. So the surgical
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Speaker 4: center that I would have had go to, that's the
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Speaker 4: only surgical center that he works out of, is not
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Speaker 4: in network.
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Speaker 3: That doesn't make sense.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, yes.
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Speaker 4: And the kicker, the fucking kicker of this whole thing.
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Speaker 4: It's in the same fucking building one floor up. So
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Speaker 4: his office, which is on the first floor is in network,
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Speaker 4: but the surgical suite, which is floor two is not.
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Speaker 3: Only you only I've literally never heard of that.
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Speaker 4: Absolutely insane, because I even asked, okay, so if I
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Speaker 4: find so, then they sent me a list of all
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Speaker 4: the doctors that are in network, right, but.
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Speaker 3: You need to know if their buildings are too correct.
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Speaker 4: So that was my question to them. So if I
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Speaker 4: pick one of these randos that I've never met off
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Speaker 4: the list to chop my knee up? Yeah, do I
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Speaker 4: have to then ask where they do their surgery and
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Speaker 4: then call you back and make sure that it's what
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Speaker 4: do they do?
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Speaker 3: Why are you doing it right?
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Speaker 2: Well?
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Speaker 4: Lovely the office that I now I'm going to tomorrow
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Speaker 4: for my first visit with this new doctor, said, I
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Speaker 4: told I went through the whole story with them, and
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Speaker 4: they called and got it all cleared, so.
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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, so hopefully there's no surprises and I
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Speaker 2: can move forward.
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Speaker 4: But I was just very deflated because I had timed
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Speaker 4: it at the time. Its first off, you like I've
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Speaker 4: never had surgery, so you like psychologically sort of like
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Speaker 4: get ready to undertake this right, and like I was
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Speaker 4: putting things in order at home and like who was
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Speaker 4: gonna come and like help me, like like putting it
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Speaker 4: all like in order and doing working on stuff so
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Speaker 4: far ahead at work because I knew I was going
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Speaker 4: to be out at least a couple of days, like
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Speaker 4: recouping blah blah blah.
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Speaker 2: And you get like already and then three days before.
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Speaker 4: American Insurance calls you and says, sorry, no, it's all
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Speaker 4: it's all not covered zero percent coverage, So if you
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Speaker 4: want the surgery, you totally can, but you have to
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Speaker 4: pay like six thousand dollars.
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Speaker 2: I'm like, m don't have that, so.
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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go get surgery from people who are
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Speaker 1: like I guess you could come here and get your surgery,
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Speaker 1: Like I don't want that if I'm going under.
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Speaker 4: Right, And what's so crazy? It's like because Mike was like, well,
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Speaker 4: we'll just pay for it. We'll just pay for it,
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Speaker 4: like you have to get done. I'm like, I pay
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Speaker 4: insurance every fucking month, Like, yes, I could max out
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Speaker 4: my credit cards and go get this done. But it's
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Speaker 4: more of like, I what do I pay for that?
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Speaker 1: No? Yeah, it is very I that maybe was gonna
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Speaker 1: even be my crash up, but I just that is
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Speaker 1: my crash.
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Speaker 4: I'm doing it early, but like, uh, you know, And
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Speaker 4: there's been a lot of talk, especially with the Luigi
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Speaker 4: MAGGIONI of it all okay and what he did okay.
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Speaker 2: And I was like, that guy's crazy and he's still
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Speaker 2: is crazy. Get that. But I understand the frustration.
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Speaker 4: Like I couldn't imagine if I had, like I don't know,
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Speaker 4: whatever his mom or whatever had cancer or something and
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Speaker 4: was like dealing with this and trying to work through insurance,
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Speaker 4: Like I could imagine if I had something life threatening
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Speaker 4: and you're like dealing with the fact of like I
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Speaker 4: could die from something, and instead of that, you're worrying
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Speaker 4: about what's in network, what's out of network, what's your copey,
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Speaker 4: what the fuck you have to pay the anesthesiologist or like.
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Speaker 3: Whatever, Right, let's all do one thing. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: No, in the.
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Speaker 4: Minute, I got mark because I called and I was like, hey,
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Speaker 4: what would it be out of pocket? Just so I
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Speaker 4: know a figure, right, like like even though I probably not,
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Speaker 4: just can you give me a figure? She's like, okay,
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Speaker 4: I'll mark you a self pay and she told me
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Speaker 4: it was gonna be six thousand whatever whatever. Within an hour,
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Speaker 4: I'm getting a call from the anestesiologist office, the actual
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Speaker 4: doctor's office, saying, oh, we see herself paid. So that
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Speaker 4: means before you come in, it's another four hundred and
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Speaker 4: some dollars. And I'm like this system is so fucked
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Speaker 4: it is and like now, I like, fully under I
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Speaker 4: would not you know, I don't say that you should
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Speaker 4: go and murder somebody. That's crazy, but.
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Speaker 3: Like, thank you.
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Speaker 4: I see the frustration, like it's I couldn't imagine having
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Speaker 4: a life threatening disease and having to deal about this
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Speaker 4: bullshit on top of it, Like that would.
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Speaker 2: Kill me, just the stress alone.
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Speaker 3: But I I get it.
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Speaker 1: My boyfriend has talked about this publicly now, so I
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Speaker 1: talk about it. He is not working right now but
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Speaker 1: has health issues. And it's just like trying to get
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Speaker 1: You should not be begging for care and there should
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Speaker 1: be You should not have to cobra, which is thousands
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Speaker 1: of dollars I know each state, Like I know Obama
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Speaker 1: tried to do some shit or some or buy like
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Speaker 1: affordable carry.
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Speaker 3: I don't know who did it.
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Speaker 1: Someone did it, It wasn't it's not right now Obamacare whatever,
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Speaker 1: But why like other countries that are like, no, this
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Speaker 1: is like the minimum that we can fucking do.
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Speaker 2: For you, like I do you alive?
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Speaker 3: Like it's disgusting.
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Speaker 2: It's just it's so insane to me.
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Speaker 4: And that's all I could think about during this whole
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Speaker 4: process is like I'm lucky, Like I'm not in excruciating
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Speaker 4: pain or it's life threatening, or like I can still
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Speaker 4: like do my normal life, like if I had a
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Speaker 4: different job, if I was working construction every single day,
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Speaker 4: like I wouldn't be able to work.
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Speaker 1: Like, you know, like my best one's a therapist, and
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Speaker 1: like they don't you know, like they don't get insurance
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Speaker 1: and they have to pay for their own insurance. And
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Speaker 1: she's been like, I don't even pay for right now,
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Speaker 1: which is a whole nother story, which is very upsetting
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Speaker 1: to me. But I can't convince her, and I can't.
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Speaker 1: She gets very angry when we talk about it, and
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Speaker 1: I don't blame her because it's so fucked okay. So
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Speaker 1: then you want to start a business and work for
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Speaker 1: yourself and you're not, It's right, I feel you, and
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Speaker 1: I'm I was very upset for you.
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Speaker 3: I was thinking about you, because that's yeah, beyond fire.
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Speaker 2: I was just like mad, because like I just was,
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Speaker 2: like I said, psyching myself up for this, and then
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Speaker 2: life throws you a curveball. But you know that's what happens.
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Speaker 2: So now I'm seeing new doctor tomorrow and then they're
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Speaker 2: gonna see when I can go in and like look
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Speaker 2: at dates and all that stuff. So not ideal, but
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Speaker 2: figuring it out. So I'm here. More of the story
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Speaker 2: is I'm here today.
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Speaker 1: You're here and while you were off trapesing around in Vegas,
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Speaker 1: limping and working and fighting with people. I'm jokingly saying
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Speaker 1: that we almost lost our Instagram.
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Speaker 3: I don't know what I did. I don't know what
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Speaker 3: I did. They were threatening, they were doing this. I
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Speaker 3: gotta give a cask for you.
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Speaker 2: I need some help using copywritten music or.
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Speaker 3: I don't know what I did.
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Speaker 1: I mean, I obviously like use that as like a
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Speaker 1: spam account to share like things that I like that
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Speaker 1: I don't want to like do on my main story
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Speaker 1: or whatever.
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Speaker 3: But I don't know. We probably shared something inappropriate. I'm
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Speaker 3: not sure what it was, but we almost lost it.
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Speaker 1: And the funniest part is I have so much going
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Speaker 1: on right now that I didn't even know we almost
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Speaker 1: lost it until they were telling me, like, we're glad
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Speaker 1: you got it figured out. I don't know how I
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Speaker 1: got it figured out and got it back, but they
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Speaker 1: were like basically saying, we're gonna shut down the top
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Speaker 1: five Instagram?
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Speaker 3: Oh shit, what are we the top five podcast?
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Speaker 2: Take us?
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Speaker 1: Well, they didn't, and somehow I for They told me
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Speaker 1: congrats on figuring out. I don't know how I did,
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Speaker 1: but we were like, you know, think I'm a single
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Speaker 1: mom who works two jobs. And you're off in Vegas
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Speaker 1: and I don't know how to fucking save our Instagram,
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Speaker 1: but I think I saved it.
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Speaker 2: Weird. I don't know what we did to get violated.
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Speaker 3: I don't know what we did.
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Speaker 1: I thought i'd curated a safe and funny space when
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Speaker 1: I probably I probably shared something that was inappropriate, which
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Speaker 1: you know, I'm not trying to do anything.
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Speaker 2: I mean, we're ten minutes and I already talked about
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Speaker 2: Luigi MAGGIONI.
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Speaker 3: I'm glad you clarified that you're not like saying to
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Speaker 3: do that. I didn't know his mom. I didn't know
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Speaker 3: that part of the story.
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Speaker 4: I don't know if it's mom his mom, and I
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Speaker 4: don't want to like, but what I heard was there
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Speaker 4: was some family member that was dealing with like a
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Speaker 4: life threatening illness and it was just not getting anywhere
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Speaker 4: and not getting coverage or whatever because they couldn't pray.
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Speaker 4: And that's what sort of led to his frustration with,
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Speaker 4: you know, the insurance company. And it's like, what he
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Speaker 4: did is not okay by any means. I will say that,
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Speaker 4: but I do get now with this little taste of it,
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Speaker 4: just how.
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Speaker 2: Fucking frustrating it really is.
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Speaker 3: It's heartbreaking. It really is heartbreaking.
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Speaker 4: And then it makes you just look at the system
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Speaker 4: as a whole and you're like, this is people's lives,
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Speaker 4: Like you can't get the care that you need because
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Speaker 4: of your economic status.
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Speaker 1: It's disgusting, right, And then all these rich people are
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Speaker 1: getting like stem Cell and all this shit are going
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Speaker 1: to live forever like vampires, which as if why would
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Speaker 1: I want to live forever?
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Speaker 3: And this fucking hell as but another day of this
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Speaker 3: that I don't have to something else.
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Speaker 5: I was.
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Speaker 1: I was very excited to make your day. I was
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Speaker 1: going to start with my top five and I was
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Speaker 1: like so excited because you never fucking miss something on
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Speaker 1: the Internet. I don't you're so boring, and you're not boring, Jesus,
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Speaker 1: You're not.
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Speaker 3: What was I trying to say? You're so busy is
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Speaker 3: what I meant to say.
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Speaker 1: And you're you claim you're going dark, but you miss
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Speaker 1: nothing on the fucking Internet.
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Speaker 3: You're not boring. You're anything but boring.
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Speaker 1: But you know, you somehow missed something that I was
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Speaker 1: going to break for you, which was not going to
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Speaker 1: be breaking for anyone else when they.
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Speaker 3: Listen to this.
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Speaker 1: But then you fucking were on Instagram before and you
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Speaker 1: saw all right, so let me read I saw that. Uh,
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Speaker 1: Lauren Conrad posted, well, my first red flag was because
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Speaker 1: she doesn't really want anything to do with them.
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Speaker 3: It doesn't seem like because she's got her little blog
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Speaker 3: and all that stuff has he I mean, it's true.
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Speaker 2: Come on, coles queen.
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Speaker 3: Who just said that they hooked up with her?
13:21
Speaker 1: Oh, Shina from Vanda Pumperle said she hooked up with
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Speaker 1: William hold any.
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Speaker 3: Sina.
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Speaker 2: Wasn't there a woman that had like a fake clothing
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Speaker 2: in the Housewives?
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Speaker 1: That's okay, No, that's I'm impressed you've knew that yet.
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Speaker 1: She because Andy Cohen asked her, she has been Yeah, well,
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Speaker 1: Chera on Real Housbanves of Atlanta was working on this
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Speaker 1: for like almost what seemed like years, and she's always
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Speaker 1: had these samples and she was making the line of joggers,
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Speaker 1: which yeah, our friend Andie gave me a she buy
13:53
Speaker 1: Chara like someone made a shirt just so I I
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Speaker 1: don't know, it's very funny. But so Andy asked her, bitch, like,
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Speaker 1: we've been when is this coming at the reunion?
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Speaker 3: And she was like it's coming, and He's.
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Speaker 1: Like, give us a date it's been years and she
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Speaker 1: goes spring summer and so like she just she just said,
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Speaker 1: springs up like that, and we never and then she
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Speaker 1: she came back years later and did like a really
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Speaker 1: like a fashion show like on her own. She threw
14:17
Speaker 1: it to be like, I have this line, and then
14:20
Speaker 1: I want to say she gave people some stuff of
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Speaker 1: the product like some of the other housewives and then
14:24
Speaker 1: asked for a.
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Speaker 3: Back or so. I don't know, I don't know.
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Speaker 1: It's just yes, but I'm impressed that you knew that.
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Speaker 1: I don't even know how we got there. But Lauren
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Speaker 1: Conrad I saw, posted a throwback photo of she and
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Speaker 1: the cast of Laguna Beach.
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Speaker 3: Kristin is in the photo.
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Speaker 1: It's actually an album from what looks like a dance,
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Speaker 1: and of course they had the stretch hummer limo, yes, yes,
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Speaker 1: so from that dance, and she wrote, let's go back
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Speaker 1: to the beginning, reuniting the cast of Laguna Beach coming
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Speaker 1: to the Roku channel twenty twenty six, so.
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Speaker 2: We could get nothing.
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Speaker 3: It's giving coals.
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Speaker 2: How do I watch that?
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Speaker 3: Roku r okayu? So I have a rokup in my bedroom.
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Speaker 2: How do I watch that?
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Speaker 3: I don't do I have to have Well, I'll help
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Speaker 3: you if I have one. But bitch, I don't watch Roku.
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Speaker 3: I know it's giving coals.
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Speaker 4: You can like, who broke her this deal? It could
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Speaker 4: not have been Chris said, christ would not have settled
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Speaker 4: for Roku.
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Speaker 2: No, she was on E. Like, how is it not
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Speaker 2: on E or Peacock or Prime?
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Speaker 3: They this is this is not giving what it's supposed
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Speaker 3: to give?
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Speaker 5: But what is this?
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Speaker 3: But my number one is Laguna Beach? And I know
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Speaker 3: you feel me on this. It was It was a time.
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Speaker 3: If you are it raised me excuse me me too,
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Speaker 3: and that's not a good thing. Yeah, but if you
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Speaker 3: are a younger person, I mean, there's no excuse for
15:55
Speaker 3: your millennial and didn't watch it. But for us, I'm
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Speaker 3: just painting the scene. We were young.
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Speaker 1: It was the first reality show of its kind. They
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Speaker 1: didn't know what they were getting into as and they
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Speaker 1: they exploited those little kids, you know, those high schoolers.
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Speaker 5: It was not.
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Speaker 2: There no guardrails, there were no supervision.
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Speaker 1: They just parents and no MTV was actively fucking with
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Speaker 1: people's relationships of like fragile high schoolers feeding things and
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Speaker 1: playing things out of order. They basically said you guys
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Speaker 1: are we'll make it look like reality. And I know
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Speaker 1: they splice it all around, but it was a time.
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Speaker 1: It was iconic and one of my favorite things to do, uh,
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Speaker 1: because I do binge it sometimes.
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Speaker 4: Is to try to surprisingly I'll start watching it. I
16:39
Speaker 4: started watching like season one the other day, just like
16:41
Speaker 4: watching it on demand.
16:43
Speaker 3: It's so good. There's so many quotable moments, and I loved.
16:46
Speaker 1: I used to love to stop and catch them because
16:49
Speaker 1: in the show it's about high schoolers obviously legally cannot drink,
16:52
Speaker 1: but they were always hammered, and I loved when it
16:55
Speaker 1: would be like they were normal and then they were
16:57
Speaker 1: fucking hammered in a scene and you're like, I know
16:59
Speaker 1: you're hammered, but we didn't see how you got hammered.
17:00
Speaker 1: But if you stop, there's a scene where Jessica I believe,
17:05
Speaker 1: is holding a water bottle in the backseat of a
17:07
Speaker 1: car with brown liquor, which is just so millennial and everything,
17:11
Speaker 1: and so I would try to stop.
17:12
Speaker 2: Always sat there's always a bag cats witham is.
17:17
Speaker 1: I think about the when they tried to make feticini
17:20
Speaker 1: often and my favorite quote, yes, which I think I
17:24
Speaker 1: said to you when we first were becoming friends. My
17:26
Speaker 1: favorite quote of all time, which is not PC, but.
17:31
Speaker 3: You look so good. Keep dancing on the bar slow,
17:33
Speaker 3: which is what a drunk Steven said to Kristen when
17:36
Speaker 3: she was with saying in Mexico they have They did
17:40
Speaker 3: their whole little podcast, and I didn't did you ever
17:42
Speaker 3: finish it? I didn't finish it. It was nice to
17:44
Speaker 3: hear them together.
17:45
Speaker 2: Started her.
17:46
Speaker 4: I started Let's be honest her like podcast. I started
17:51
Speaker 4: back way back to the beginning of it.
17:55
Speaker 3: Did you watch the show because I do kind of
17:56
Speaker 3: want to.
18:00
Speaker 2: No, I didn't watch that Hippeacock. I think it's on Peacock.
18:02
Speaker 3: Okay, I I do want to watch that.
18:04
Speaker 1: I see our friend Lagunabiac seems so you have found
18:07
Speaker 1: some gems in there, so I want to watch that.
18:08
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I didn't even know that. I think I'm
18:11
Speaker 4: on episode three or four of her podcast. But Travis
18:14
Speaker 4: Kelsey was on like episode two of her podcast and
18:17
Speaker 4: they did a full on interview and it's just so
18:20
Speaker 4: crazy listening.
18:21
Speaker 3: Now what year was that, I'll look it up.
18:24
Speaker 1: It's so funny watching people like discuss because like I
18:28
Speaker 1: love I mean, Taylor did put him on for a
18:30
Speaker 1: lot of people, but like I fully watched his ereality.
18:32
Speaker 3: Show back in the day.
18:33
Speaker 2: Yeah twenty twenty three.
18:35
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so that wasn't even that far off. I
18:37
Speaker 1: don't remember when his reality show was, but I fully watched.
18:39
Speaker 1: I thought he was so hot for so long. But
18:42
Speaker 1: he also was on Watch What Happens Live with Another
18:45
Speaker 1: Housewife years ago and that clip has been resurfacing, just
18:48
Speaker 1: talking about like what he wants and a girl whatever
18:51
Speaker 1: or the f Mary Kill question with Katie Perry, Taylor,
18:54
Speaker 1: and I forget who the third one was, but he
18:56
Speaker 1: was a full he was a full person before Taylor.
18:59
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just funny is that they dive all into
19:02
Speaker 4: like relationships and I don't know, it's just it's really
19:05
Speaker 4: interesting to hear his perspective, like pre Taylor.
19:07
Speaker 2: It's crazy.
19:07
Speaker 3: I gotta listen.
19:08
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's like episode two, Like I literally think our
19:11
Speaker 4: first guest is Travis Kelcey.
19:13
Speaker 3: That's his I wonder why.
19:15
Speaker 2: I mean, I know it's so random, like, but I.
19:18
Speaker 4: Was like, was he trying to bone her and like
19:19
Speaker 4: threw her a bone by like being on her podcast,
19:22
Speaker 4: because that seems like that's what it would be.
19:24
Speaker 3: Probably, I don't know.
19:25
Speaker 2: I don't.
19:25
Speaker 3: I can't tell he doesn't like necessarily have a type.
19:27
Speaker 1: But I'm I'm so glad that they never dug anything
19:29
Speaker 1: up of him talking about Taylor or anything, or when
19:32
Speaker 1: they did it was he didn't say he want to
19:33
Speaker 1: marry her. He wanted to kiss her, bang her. So
19:36
Speaker 1: that was fine, I guess.
19:38
Speaker 3: But yeah, binge Laguna.
19:41
Speaker 1: And I saw someone in the comments saying millennials are
19:43
Speaker 1: healing with all these reunions because they did that.
19:46
Speaker 4: Do you remember like during COVID they did like a
19:48
Speaker 4: fake reunion but it was like a zoom, Yeah, Like
19:51
Speaker 4: isn't that wasn't.
19:52
Speaker 3: What in your dream reunion? Like what would you want?
19:56
Speaker 4: I wouldn't want them all to like I would I
20:00
Speaker 4: want it to be like very reality show again. Like
20:02
Speaker 4: I would want them all to like go back and
20:05
Speaker 4: like stay in Laguna for a summer and like go
20:08
Speaker 4: and do all the things like go to the old restaurants,
20:11
Speaker 4: go to the beach, like have a bonfire, like just
20:14
Speaker 4: like sort of like all this shit like so kind
20:16
Speaker 4: of like how fit Jersey Shore family vacation is. But
20:19
Speaker 4: like I don't know, have them come together. I would
20:22
Speaker 4: love them to do like one summer back in Laguna.
20:25
Speaker 3: That would be so great.
20:26
Speaker 1: I mean, you know their schedule, Well, let me modify
20:29
Speaker 1: that Kristen schedule. I don't know how they do that
20:32
Speaker 1: with her, but maybe they could bring her in and out.
20:33
Speaker 1: I mean, Lauren is very busy and she is a
20:35
Speaker 1: good business woman, but she lives there and I'm sure
20:38
Speaker 1: she can find the time. I'm sorry.
20:40
Speaker 3: I always was team Criston.
20:42
Speaker 1: I know she's a bitch or they portrayed her as
20:44
Speaker 1: a bit, but I just like wasn't getting that from her,
20:48
Speaker 1: and like she was like really in love with Steven
20:50
Speaker 1: and I don't. I mean, I think Lauren liked him,
20:52
Speaker 1: but they were really like fucking I mean, my first
20:55
Speaker 1: love was so like I don't know, I was so
20:57
Speaker 1: wholesome and important to me. I can't imagine and if
21:00
Speaker 1: someone were like trying to like make it look like
21:02
Speaker 1: he was cheating on me or I mean he I'm
21:04
Speaker 1: sure he did at one point, but you know, like.
21:06
Speaker 3: On TV, like that's that's sad, but they fox you up.
21:10
Speaker 3: They did their big one. Yeah, MTV.
21:12
Speaker 2: There's been nothing like that ever since.
21:14
Speaker 1: No, because I think like it's it was like very
21:18
Speaker 1: much a learning curve of like doing all the illegal
21:20
Speaker 1: things and all the fucked up things, and then you know,
21:22
Speaker 1: and then people started knowing about like Okay, I know
21:25
Speaker 1: how to get X, Y or Z out of this opportunity,
21:28
Speaker 1: Like I need the reality to be in the reality show.
21:30
Speaker 3: Yeah, but go ahead on your first.
21:33
Speaker 4: So my first one that I have, I started watching
21:36
Speaker 4: on the flight, so I watched, well, this isn't it.
21:38
Speaker 4: But I did watch The High School Catfish.
21:42
Speaker 3: Okay, that was in my top five last week. What
21:43
Speaker 3: did you think?
21:45
Speaker 4: I mean, it was crazy. Unfortunately the ending was spoiled
21:47
Speaker 4: for me prior. But I mean I also waited like
21:49
Speaker 4: a month to watch it from when it came.
21:51
Speaker 3: Out, so you know which, mom, Yeah I did, you did?
21:54
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's okay.
21:55
Speaker 4: I still was like I had no idea, like the
21:57
Speaker 4: context of the text, yeah, and I was like, that's
22:01
Speaker 4: fucking nuts, and the fact that she's just.
22:03
Speaker 3: Sitting there like with her fucking teeth, yeah, her teeth
22:07
Speaker 3: and her.
22:07
Speaker 2: Face and like, and I kept seeing that meme of
22:10
Speaker 2: like her, but I didn't know what it was and
22:11
Speaker 2: I didn't see the show.
22:12
Speaker 4: But then when I started watching the show, was like,
22:14
Speaker 4: oh fuck, that's hilarious. And what I did think was
22:19
Speaker 4: interesting and you can tell me your thoughts is maybe
22:21
Speaker 4: I'll make this my Number one is when she got
22:27
Speaker 4: busted and like the cop went to her house, the
22:30
Speaker 4: reaction from the daughter from Lauren wasn't that of like
22:35
Speaker 4: shock in awe, Like she just kind of like sat
22:38
Speaker 4: there and like also like hugged her mom. Like I
22:40
Speaker 4: was like, I feel like I would have like had questions,
22:43
Speaker 4: like I would have been like, what do you mean,
22:46
Speaker 4: like what do you mean you were bullying me for
22:47
Speaker 4: the last three years or however, like what do you
22:50
Speaker 4: mean like you know, you know, like and she just
22:52
Speaker 4: kind of like sat there like yeah, yeah, maybe she
22:54
Speaker 4: was in shock.
22:55
Speaker 2: But I was like, so that made me started thinking, like.
22:58
Speaker 1: Is she in on it?
22:59
Speaker 3: Because I'm like, no justice for Lauren?
23:01
Speaker 2: Okay?
23:02
Speaker 1: And your everybody is looking at it from a adult
23:07
Speaker 1: healed or someone who didn't grow up in a household
23:10
Speaker 1: with an emotionally incestual parent. And I think my take
23:15
Speaker 1: on it is that this an emotional incest is not
23:19
Speaker 1: like literal incest. But it's like when you you know
23:23
Speaker 1: you relied too much on your your children, whether it
23:26
Speaker 1: be like if you look to them for help with
23:28
Speaker 1: your problems, like I hate when people's parents call them crying,
23:30
Speaker 1: what do we get you know, I don't know, whatever,
23:32
Speaker 1: you like, you should not involve, especially kids that age,
23:35
Speaker 1: in those things. And I saw it compared or maybe
23:38
Speaker 1: even in the documentary to a form of Munchausen Allah
23:42
Speaker 1: Gypsy's mom, and.
23:44
Speaker 3: I think that she I think there's a lot going on.
23:49
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think that that poor sweet daughter just
23:53
Speaker 1: had a little bit of an inappropriate relationship with her mom,
23:56
Speaker 1: and I do think she maybe didn't fully understand what
23:59
Speaker 1: was happening, and then when her mom was holding on
24:00
Speaker 1: to her like oh, you're gonna lose me, You're gonna
24:02
Speaker 1: lose me.
24:03
Speaker 3: I just think there was a lot happening in that moment.
24:08
Speaker 3: I think.
24:09
Speaker 1: I I think it's very sad how little of a
24:13
Speaker 1: reaction she had, and very sad that she still wants
24:15
Speaker 1: a relationship with her mom because I think that that
24:17
Speaker 1: inappropriate attachment is still there a little bit.
24:20
Speaker 4: Yeah, which that part, I mean, it's unfortunate, but I
24:22
Speaker 4: do get it how she's like, okay, like it's your mom,
24:24
Speaker 4: Like my mom could probably do a bunch of shit
24:26
Speaker 4: and I probably would forgive her and like move on.
24:28
Speaker 4: But it was just like I feel like most people
24:31
Speaker 4: would be more reactive in that exact moment.
24:33
Speaker 3: And that's when I was like, I know people online
24:36
Speaker 3: are saying that too. I don't know. That was my takeaway.
24:40
Speaker 3: It was shocked, maybe not understanding, like.
24:42
Speaker 1: Wait, you shouldn't it my mom's telling me like I'm
24:45
Speaker 1: an anorexic bitch, and I kill myself, like wait, hold on,
24:48
Speaker 1: like because even I was like I knew it was
24:51
Speaker 1: a mom, I didn't know which mom, and I was like, what, Like,
24:54
Speaker 1: I was just I needed a shower. But I do
24:56
Speaker 1: think that that's what was happening. And she also seems
25:01
Speaker 1: like a very shy, innocent, sweet girl. Oh yeah, and
25:05
Speaker 1: I just don't know if I don't know, but yeah,
25:09
Speaker 1: I would have probably had a different reaction. I think
25:12
Speaker 1: the reaction would have been like I don't believe that
25:15
Speaker 1: this is.
25:15
Speaker 2: Like I would have Yeah, I would have. I would
25:17
Speaker 2: have had questions for sure.
25:19
Speaker 4: And maybe you just needed a minute to Like again,
25:21
Speaker 4: I've never been in that situation, but I feel like
25:23
Speaker 4: maybe you just need a minute to like take it
25:25
Speaker 4: all in and like think about it.
25:26
Speaker 3: And then the level of a sickness is shown by
25:30
Speaker 3: the mom being willing to fucking do the documentary when
25:33
Speaker 3: she's the one.
25:35
Speaker 4: Like pretending like it's not like that it's fine, like
25:38
Speaker 4: not that it's fine, but like maybe she wanted to
25:40
Speaker 4: portray that she like, you know is better quote unquote now,
25:43
Speaker 4: so she's like not, but like the fact that you're
25:46
Speaker 4: still is just It's crazy.
25:48
Speaker 1: The faction that she'd show her face and she's still
25:50
Speaker 1: it seemed to me like she was still defending it
25:52
Speaker 1: or like minimizing it, like saying that.
25:54
Speaker 3: We do batter too. I was like, lady, I may
25:56
Speaker 3: have done some things, but nothing compared to what you.
25:59
Speaker 2: Buy my daughter for two years?
26:01
Speaker 4: Yeah, telling her and then it was saying really inappropriate
26:05
Speaker 4: things about children.
26:06
Speaker 3: I think she was in love with the son.
26:07
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think that she was taking out her
26:09
Speaker 1: own insecure I'm sure the daughter looks just like her
26:11
Speaker 1: when she was I mean well, I mean yeah, thank
26:14
Speaker 1: goodness she didn't get her mom's teeth.
26:16
Speaker 3: I felt so guilty for going oh when I.
26:17
Speaker 1: Saw her on the screen, and then when I found out,
26:19
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, no, you're like a sick bitch,
26:21
Speaker 1: and I can say, like you, what's going on with
26:24
Speaker 1: those teeth? But I think that she saw herself in
26:28
Speaker 1: that and like was taking but again, like that's what
26:31
Speaker 1: that is probably one of the most fucked.
26:33
Speaker 4: Up things I've ever Yeah, yeah, just like the graphic
26:36
Speaker 4: nature of the messages.
26:38
Speaker 3: Yeah, he wants to fuck. He doesn't want head like
26:41
Speaker 3: talking about mom like a old He doesn't know the
26:45
Speaker 3: difference at this point, like fuck you were fucking.
26:49
Speaker 2: Yeah, I knew about fuck it.
26:52
Speaker 3: I've never fucked. Is that your Is that your one? Okay?
26:57
Speaker 2: What I watched?
26:58
Speaker 3: Okay, well, thank you for watching something I asked you
27:00
Speaker 3: to watch, but you watched it a little late. But
27:02
Speaker 3: that's okay. It was room for everyone, and stop spoiling
27:06
Speaker 3: things for people. That's rude.
27:08
Speaker 4: Yeah, or at least give like a trigger word I
27:10
Speaker 4: find out from a podcast and I'm like, okay, at
27:11
Speaker 4: least you could give me like a warning, right right.
27:15
Speaker 3: But still even don't you think even watching it, it's
27:16
Speaker 3: still like different than mom.
27:19
Speaker 2: It's shocking even knowing the outcome.
27:21
Speaker 4: I was shocked, like just at the nature of what
27:24
Speaker 4: she was saying and then her reaction after Oh.
27:28
Speaker 1: So creepy when she was holding onto her and yeah,
27:30
Speaker 1: the girl was like okay, but yeah, I think it's
27:32
Speaker 1: just at that age you just still think your parents
27:34
Speaker 1: like know and do everything best for you, and I
27:39
Speaker 1: don't know.
27:40
Speaker 3: Okay.
27:41
Speaker 1: Another reason I'm very upset with you is because yeah, okay,
27:49
Speaker 1: earlier today, I we were talking about or someone.
27:53
Speaker 3: Brought up Audrey Hobert Albert. Yeah, and you not only
27:57
Speaker 3: did not know that she was like the deal that
28:00
Speaker 3: she was.
28:00
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I thought she was like a new artist.
28:03
Speaker 1: Like she kind of is, but she makes actually very
28:08
Speaker 1: good music. Aside from the song I be at the Party.
28:12
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's it, right. I think she's big with
28:16
Speaker 1: the gen zs, but she's fucking amazing.
28:18
Speaker 3: She reminds me.
28:20
Speaker 1: She her style of singing is like kind of how
28:21
Speaker 1: Phoebee Bridges is, where it's like she's painting a picture,
28:25
Speaker 1: but it's very like simplified. It's not like how Taylor's
28:27
Speaker 1: to full to do it, where it's you know, my
28:29
Speaker 1: all of my.
28:30
Speaker 5: Soliloquies like yeah right, like no, she's saying it and
28:36
Speaker 5: she's pointing it out and I just want to read
28:38
Speaker 5: you this bar so her song Sex in the City,
28:40
Speaker 5: I almost sent it to you.
28:42
Speaker 3: I got it. I'm glad I didn't because you were
28:43
Speaker 3: gonna go dark. But her song Sex in.
28:44
Speaker 1: The City is I've truly been and I haven't had
28:48
Speaker 1: this in a while. A song that I've been listening
28:50
Speaker 1: to over and over and over again. And I put
28:52
Speaker 1: it under the post of the announcement that I did
28:55
Speaker 1: a solo mini episode.
28:56
Speaker 3: But again, you chose not to share that.
28:58
Speaker 2: So I just want to.
28:59
Speaker 1: I want you I heard it, read this or listen
29:01
Speaker 1: to this bar and she because we can't play the song.
29:04
Speaker 1: But okay, now I'm ready to go back out, and
29:07
Speaker 1: he's here at the bar. God is he boring? I
29:09
Speaker 1: want to wake up and make up with him in
29:12
Speaker 1: the in make up with him in the morning, he
29:14
Speaker 1: calls a car to his apartment. I guess there is
29:16
Speaker 1: a God. Then the seat okay, so she's describing his house.
29:19
Speaker 1: The seat is up, the place is haunted. He's heating
29:22
Speaker 1: up and eating up a pizza pocket. I wanted one,
29:25
Speaker 1: but he forgot it. He's off his meds and he's
29:27
Speaker 1: an artist.
29:28
Speaker 3: Touching my leg. You don't have a headboard. Do that again.
29:32
Speaker 1: I think that I want more. If this is it,
29:34
Speaker 1: then what is it all for? Let's make it quick.
29:36
Speaker 1: Then I'm leaving out the front door.
29:40
Speaker 2: So she thought he was boring, but she still went
29:43
Speaker 2: his house, and.
29:43
Speaker 1: I can't tell you as a woman and how much
29:45
Speaker 1: that's fucking relatable. Not that I just like was throwing
29:48
Speaker 1: it out forever, but like, I think what younger girls,
29:50
Speaker 1: If I could give any advice to younger women, is
29:53
Speaker 1: don't constantly ask yourself if if he likes you, ask
29:56
Speaker 1: yourself if you actually fucking like him, because I.
29:58
Speaker 3: Think a lot of girls getting don't fuck it right.
30:01
Speaker 1: But I think a lot of girls get caught into
30:03
Speaker 1: like I don't even like this person, but they're playing
30:04
Speaker 1: games with me, and I get my praise or approval
30:08
Speaker 1: or my you know, my self confidence from another person. Yea.
30:11
Speaker 1: And I think there's a lot of reasons for that,
30:13
Speaker 1: but it's it's the stream of consciousness. Like he's not
30:17
Speaker 1: that great, you know, but I still want him to
30:21
Speaker 1: want me.
30:21
Speaker 3: I don't know.
30:22
Speaker 1: I just like it's a bar and it's relatable. But
30:24
Speaker 1: listen to Sex and the City. It's on repeat, and
30:27
Speaker 1: she has her recent album is supposed to be really good.
30:29
Speaker 1: I haven't listened to the whole thing, but she I
30:31
Speaker 1: think has promised and I think she'll be like a
30:33
Speaker 1: Gracy or a Phoebe.
30:35
Speaker 2: Yeah. I just saw that she wrote a bunch for Gracie.
30:39
Speaker 2: I was looking her up while you were talking. Okay,
30:41
Speaker 2: she wrote, risk blowing smoke, I love you. I'm sorry.
30:45
Speaker 2: Oh that's so true, she wrote, that's so true.
30:47
Speaker 3: Okay, a queen and you were like, I thought she
30:50
Speaker 3: had one song, and who the fuck is that?
30:52
Speaker 2: She was here? I met her? You did.
30:54
Speaker 3: Oh she's a fucking queen. I'm so sad and nobody
30:57
Speaker 3: tells me these things.
30:59
Speaker 2: But I didn't. I didn't. Normally I'm pretty up on it.
31:03
Speaker 2: Normally I'm pretty hip. But I missed. I missed Miss Audrey,
31:07
Speaker 2: the other one that my music one I can't remember.
31:12
Speaker 2: I hope you didn't do her before.
31:14
Speaker 3: We probably I think we've probably repeated.
31:16
Speaker 2: But Olivia Dean, do you know her?
31:19
Speaker 3: She was, Yeah, she was gonna maybe be in my I'm.
31:21
Speaker 2: Obsessed with that song. I can't stop listening to it
31:24
Speaker 2: the man I need or man I Need.
31:27
Speaker 5: I Need.
31:27
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the first I've ever heard of from her.
31:29
Speaker 4: Oh bitch, she does not miss like so I haven't
31:32
Speaker 4: doven anything else, but like, I've had that song on
31:34
Speaker 4: fucking repeat, and even in Vegas, like all the all
31:37
Speaker 4: the millennial and gen Z girlies were like bumping Olivia
31:41
Speaker 4: Dean everywhere.
31:42
Speaker 2: And singing it. And she's just so talented.
31:45
Speaker 4: Like I love her voice, and I love like the
31:47
Speaker 4: style because it's like poppy, but it's also like sort
31:49
Speaker 4: of like I get like a little bit of jazz
31:52
Speaker 4: and like R and B a little bit too.
31:57
Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm excited to dive into her. But she's
32:00
Speaker 2: our I heard radio on the Verge artist.
32:02
Speaker 3: Right she is.
32:03
Speaker 4: I was going to ask our boss if we're gonna
32:05
Speaker 4: play her, but we'll be hearing it on our stations
32:07
Speaker 4: starting next week. Okay, we're late on that, but yeah,
32:12
Speaker 4: I'm obsessed with that song right now.
32:14
Speaker 3: Okay, I she's great. She all her songs are good.
32:20
Speaker 2: Wow.
32:21
Speaker 3: I think she was on I think if its heard her.
32:23
Speaker 1: She was on a Leon Bridges like playlist that my
32:26
Speaker 1: friend was playing when I was over at her house
32:28
Speaker 1: a little while ago, and she like all of her songs.
32:31
Speaker 3: I haven't heard a bad song from her.
32:32
Speaker 2: Yeah, so.
32:35
Speaker 3: She is wonderful and that everybody's like loving that song
32:38
Speaker 3: right now. Okay.
32:39
Speaker 1: My next one is a quote because I do have
32:42
Speaker 1: to get to the dentist at noon. My next one
32:46
Speaker 1: is a quote from a real housewife of Orange County,
32:50
Speaker 1: and this is something that I've been screaming at the
32:53
Speaker 1: top of my lungs for years, but I feel like
32:55
Speaker 1: I didn't have a way to say it eloquently. And
32:56
Speaker 1: even my mom, who's uh wonderful psychologists and I will
33:01
Speaker 1: go back and forth because my mom's very much like,
33:05
Speaker 1: ask for what you need, and I feel like she
33:06
Speaker 1: sees the world to where people should be able to
33:09
Speaker 1: like give you, like healthy relationship situations. But I personally
33:15
Speaker 1: feel like sometimes like people they're at a cap like
33:19
Speaker 1: they can't give any more.
33:21
Speaker 3: You've gotten what they like.
33:22
Speaker 1: If you're trying to get squeeze more out of someone,
33:26
Speaker 1: they there's some people just don't have more to give.
33:28
Speaker 1: And I'm not being eloquent about it, but Emily said
33:32
Speaker 1: on this episode, I was like, that's how I need
33:33
Speaker 1: to say it. People can't reach expectations, they can't reach
33:36
Speaker 1: and it's so simple, but I've like always felt that way.
33:39
Speaker 1: It's like some people have hit their growth limit, and
33:43
Speaker 1: while it's sad, they're not going to be doing any
33:46
Speaker 1: more growing. So you're spinning your wheels trying to get
33:49
Speaker 1: them to treat you in a way or be healthy
33:51
Speaker 1: with you. And my thing is always to my mom
33:54
Speaker 1: is like, Okay, you can either decide if you want
33:56
Speaker 1: them in your life or not.
33:57
Speaker 3: But sometimes you.
33:58
Speaker 1: Leave people in your life because it's easier than having
34:01
Speaker 1: them not in your life. But you also know that
34:03
Speaker 1: they're not able to grow anymore. You know, you just
34:08
Speaker 1: meet them where they're at, So you create healthy boundaries
34:11
Speaker 1: and go, Okay, I'm not going to get this from you,
34:13
Speaker 1: but you know, I'd rather have you in my life
34:16
Speaker 1: than not, so you just have to to kind of
34:18
Speaker 1: I don't know, so I just I felt like that
34:19
Speaker 1: was like, h hit me right there.
34:21
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that makes sense. A lot of times,
34:23
Speaker 4: like I have to take a step back. It's like
34:25
Speaker 4: no one's ever going to act like you or how
34:28
Speaker 4: you think they should act. At some point you're like
34:31
Speaker 4: really look at people's actions and like that they're doing
34:35
Speaker 4: what they're doing because they want to do that, right
34:38
Speaker 4: Like so it's like you can't control adults. You can't
34:40
Speaker 4: control what other people do, so like let their actions speak, you.
34:45
Speaker 3: Know, And some people are not capable.
34:47
Speaker 1: They're really not, like they don't And I don't know
34:49
Speaker 1: if it's a decision like I don't want to grow
34:51
Speaker 1: anymore or it's just something with their mental I don't
34:54
Speaker 1: know what it is, but some people are not capable
34:56
Speaker 1: of the growth that you would like them to have,
34:58
Speaker 1: and you sometimes have to make your peace with that.
35:00
Speaker 1: And so if you're like, no, like you need to
35:02
Speaker 1: do this X Y r Z for me because that's
35:04
Speaker 1: healthy and that's appropriate, and that's the way you're supposed
35:07
Speaker 1: to communicate, You're not always going to get that from
35:09
Speaker 1: people just because that's how you're supposed.
35:10
Speaker 3: To Yeah, and so I thought that that was interesting.
35:13
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I love that. My number three And this
35:16
Speaker 2: is going to sound like a plug for our job,
35:17
Speaker 2: but I swear to you it's not.
35:18
Speaker 4: I'm actually loving it. This week is our lovely employer.
35:24
Speaker 4: I heart radio as a station, The Life of a
35:27
Speaker 4: Showgirl station, and I hurt Radio, and I've been listening
35:32
Speaker 4: to it NonStop the last the last at least four days.
35:36
Speaker 4: And the reason being is because and I think this
35:40
Speaker 4: is like if you take a step back and just
35:42
Speaker 4: I guess, look at what we do. Like like I
35:45
Speaker 4: like curating what I'm listening to and planning it and
35:48
Speaker 4: listening to what I want, But sometimes I just like
35:50
Speaker 4: to like, let Jesus have the wheel and I feel
35:53
Speaker 4: like listening to a station like that. So I heard
35:56
Speaker 4: radio is doing something where it's life of a Showgirl Radio.
35:59
Speaker 4: It's all Taylor commercial free and there's little like snippets
36:02
Speaker 4: of her talking in between every song. But they go
36:05
Speaker 4: from like Ara to era to era, like it's like
36:07
Speaker 4: coming from Midnights to something from debut, from something to
36:10
Speaker 4: Fearless to like red, Like it's just jumping all over
36:12
Speaker 4: the place. And it's not just her singles. It's like
36:15
Speaker 4: I heard mad Woman yesterday and like just like deep
36:17
Speaker 4: cut tracks too, and like the remixes, the live versions
36:21
Speaker 4: of stuff, Like I was like, whoever's programming this? Like
36:23
Speaker 4: a plus like we have we have a yeah, like
36:26
Speaker 4: we have a swifty here like this like somewhere in
36:28
Speaker 4: the company and it's just nice to I literally head
36:32
Speaker 4: it on for hours because like, yeah, I know, I'm
36:34
Speaker 4: probably ninety five percent of the songs right, Like there
36:37
Speaker 4: are a couple eras, there are a couple of deep cuts.
36:38
Speaker 4: I was like, what is this or I don't I
36:40
Speaker 4: don't necessarily listen to like the remixes, like and they
36:43
Speaker 4: they threw in some of those.
36:44
Speaker 3: There's a couple good.
36:45
Speaker 4: But it's really, really, really good, and it's running through
36:49
Speaker 4: the album debut next week. And if you this is
36:53
Speaker 4: gonna sound like such a total ad. But if you're
36:55
Speaker 4: listening to that, if you leave a talk back, you're
36:57
Speaker 4: enter to win March, which is pretty cool.
37:00
Speaker 3: Oh that's cool.
37:01
Speaker 4: If you leave a talk back and say what era
37:02
Speaker 4: you fell in love with Taylor your favorite era, then
37:04
Speaker 4: you're entered to win merch from her. So so yeah,
37:08
Speaker 4: it's a plug, but it's actually something that I like
37:11
Speaker 4: have been listening to.
37:12
Speaker 1: I was going to get you a ticket for the
37:14
Speaker 1: for the movie premiere because you're in Vegas, and then
37:16
Speaker 1: the day that it comes out, we have like a
37:19
Speaker 1: appearance very far away, so I knew that.
37:21
Speaker 3: You were Yeah, you were not going to be joining me.
37:23
Speaker 1: So I'm going to my first solo movie two PM
37:27
Speaker 1: when I get back into the city.
37:29
Speaker 2: And until Sunday.
37:30
Speaker 1: At this point, I know, well all the showings later
37:33
Speaker 1: at night, because then I was like you and I'm like, oh,
37:35
Speaker 1: they have a ton and so I waited and then
37:37
Speaker 1: they were like almost full and the seat was like
37:39
Speaker 1: you had me in that one time out row and
37:41
Speaker 1: so I was like no, So the only like spacious
37:44
Speaker 1: one was a two pm and I figure I'll be
37:47
Speaker 1: so exhausted that I'll be like my before bed, you know,
37:49
Speaker 1: I'll get my snacks and vibe out and then go
37:54
Speaker 1: home and knock it off the old list.
37:57
Speaker 2: If you're listening to us on the free, I heard
37:59
Speaker 2: Radio Appy. Once you're done, switch over to Life of
38:01
Speaker 2: a Showgirl.
38:02
Speaker 3: Yes, radio, Yes, ma'am the next one? How many am
38:08
Speaker 3: I let's see here or okay.
38:13
Speaker 1: I don't even know if I liked it, so I
38:18
Speaker 1: just know that everyone, everyone and their mother told me
38:21
Speaker 1: to watch The Hunting Wives, and they kept saying, you
38:23
Speaker 1: specifically would love this show.
38:25
Speaker 3: And I was like, when I watched it, I was like, oh, interesting.
38:28
Speaker 1: It is about a dude who is the head of
38:32
Speaker 1: the NRA and his wife and all of like, there's
38:36
Speaker 1: there's everything, there's murder, there's there's lots of lesbian sex
38:41
Speaker 1: amongst uh like the li the wives of the husbands
38:46
Speaker 1: who work in the NRA and who work in and
38:49
Speaker 1: the police work for the police.
38:52
Speaker 3: And I don't love the NRA.
38:56
Speaker 1: I do I like a lesbian moment, But everybody was
38:59
Speaker 1: like very much, like you need to watch Okay. What
39:02
Speaker 1: I will say is my friend and I Maddy crushed
39:04
Speaker 1: it in a weekend together.
39:06
Speaker 3: It was it's an It's very entertaining. Now, is it
39:10
Speaker 3: like up there like a like a piece of art.
39:13
Speaker 1: No, it's one of those like very like think like
39:16
Speaker 1: Desperate Housewives, like so much fucking drama, but it is different.
39:21
Speaker 1: I do like that they feature women who are not
39:23
Speaker 1: like twelve years old, and the lesbian scenes are like
39:26
Speaker 1: very much between like older women, like a woman who
39:29
Speaker 1: has been curious about it but maybe never tried it.
39:31
Speaker 3: I just I like that. I like that whole thing.
39:34
Speaker 3: But it's scripted Britney Snow, isn't it.
39:38
Speaker 1: I don't know if you'll know Malan Ackerman, but there's
39:41
Speaker 1: it's a good cast, it's a good walk like, it's juicy.
39:46
Speaker 3: But I just don't know. I was like, I don't know,
39:48
Speaker 3: maybe season two. They're they definitely set it up for
39:50
Speaker 3: a season too. So I do recommend watching it if
39:52
Speaker 3: you need a show and you want to be like
39:53
Speaker 3: hooked on something right away. You'll get that out of it.
39:56
Speaker 3: But I don't know if it was like I don't know,
39:58
Speaker 3: it was just like a little cheesy for me. Yeah,
40:01
Speaker 3: but shout out to the lesbians, I guess.
40:04
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So speaking of lesbians. That brings to my
40:09
Speaker 2: we're watching a lot of lesbian shows. I started watching
40:12
Speaker 2: a show also while I was on the plane and
40:14
Speaker 2: in Vegas. No, it's called high Town.
40:18
Speaker 4: It's on I watched it on Netflix, but it was
40:21
Speaker 4: originally on Stars. It came out in like twenty twenty, okay,
40:26
Speaker 4: and it's about a lesbian. Her name is Jackie. She
40:29
Speaker 4: is a uh, she's like a law enforcement but for
40:32
Speaker 4: like it all takes place on Cape Cod and she's
40:37
Speaker 4: a law enforcement before like the sea like so she
40:39
Speaker 4: like patrols like the fishermen or whatever. She's not a
40:41
Speaker 4: real cop, but she's like kind of like, yeah, a
40:43
Speaker 4: sea cop. I guess, like a it's not coos guard.
40:46
Speaker 1: Yeah.
40:46
Speaker 4: But anyway, she's a lesbian. So she she's but she's
40:50
Speaker 4: like the hot lesbian. I guess she's like a lot
40:52
Speaker 4: of gay people in Cape Cod wherever.
40:53
Speaker 1: This is well grad and Cutler my obsession. He's always
40:58
Speaker 1: on the Cape. I learned that you're not like in
41:00
Speaker 1: Cape Cod. You're on Cape Cod.
41:01
Speaker 4: Okay, So I guess people go there. Maybe it's like
41:03
Speaker 4: a gay destination. I didn't know about.
41:06
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she lives there.
41:08
Speaker 4: This is all scripted too, but she lives there anyway,
41:10
Speaker 4: she witnesses a murder and then now she's like she
41:15
Speaker 4: feels this need. She was like doing drugs and like
41:19
Speaker 4: drinking really bad, got into a car accident whatever, sober now,
41:22
Speaker 4: but now she feels the need to sort of like
41:24
Speaker 4: find out who murdered this girl that she found, and
41:27
Speaker 4: so like she's like sort of on this quest and
41:31
Speaker 4: on a parallel path. The cops are also investigating, and
41:34
Speaker 4: there's a whole bunch going on the other side as well.
41:36
Speaker 4: It's really interesting, and it takes a lot for a
41:39
Speaker 4: series for me to like, I got through like the
41:41
Speaker 4: first six episodes and then like I downloaded more fround
41:44
Speaker 4: the way home, which to keep my attention that it's
41:47
Speaker 4: got to be pretty good. So it actually came from
41:49
Speaker 4: a suggestion off of a discord that I'm in, So
41:53
Speaker 4: I was like.
41:54
Speaker 3: Okay, that was not gonna be My question is, how
41:56
Speaker 3: do you decide the things that you're going to watch?
41:58
Speaker 3: Because you are the most random person.
42:00
Speaker 4: I've ever met, I know, I honestly just have to
42:02
Speaker 4: take a chance. And there's a there's discord and I'm
42:05
Speaker 4: in for one of my favorite TikTokers and they have
42:06
Speaker 4: a channel on there like what are you watching? And
42:08
Speaker 4: so like I clicked on that and people put like
42:10
Speaker 4: their suggestions or whatever.
42:11
Speaker 3: Yeah, because why would you ask your friends?
42:14
Speaker 4: And well, I knew I was gonna watch the High
42:15
Speaker 4: School things because you told me to watch that, But
42:17
Speaker 4: then I was looking for something else if I got
42:18
Speaker 4: through that too quickly, which I did, and so then
42:20
Speaker 4: I started this.
42:21
Speaker 2: It's called high Town. I don't know.
42:22
Speaker 4: I think it's over now, so there's probably no new episodes,
42:25
Speaker 4: but it's out on Netflix.
42:26
Speaker 3: On Netflix, Yeah, okay cool. And my last one is
42:30
Speaker 3: just do you know Taylor Biggs, that sweet young girl
42:33
Speaker 3: who does interviews?
42:35
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I just I my.
42:38
Speaker 3: Ovaries for that sweet little girl.
42:40
Speaker 1: She I don't shout out to her parents or whoever
42:44
Speaker 1: believed in her tiny little dream and who has you know,
42:47
Speaker 1: grown helped her grow and allowed her to grow into
42:50
Speaker 1: this like big deal on the internet.
42:51
Speaker 3: She has interviewed. I mean I saw she was at
42:54
Speaker 3: the which I do want to watch the Chiefs. She
42:58
Speaker 3: was at like the premiere for.
42:59
Speaker 1: The Chiefs documentary with Travis Like she's I love watching
43:03
Speaker 1: her and Rihanna talk. I mean, she's just just watching
43:06
Speaker 1: the stars like be so kind and loving to like
43:09
Speaker 1: support her dream to her and like she's gonna be
43:12
Speaker 1: I mean, she already is huge, and she is adorable,
43:16
Speaker 1: and she has work ethic that is lacking with the
43:20
Speaker 1: younger generation. And I fucking love that little girl and
43:24
Speaker 1: just I would love to support her in anything and
43:26
Speaker 1: all she does because you know, maybe a part of
43:29
Speaker 1: me is because like I wanted to do that, and
43:31
Speaker 1: I just like didn't know where to start her begin
43:33
Speaker 1: I don't know she's it's gonna be to her parents,
43:35
Speaker 1: but she I just love her.
43:37
Speaker 3: She's so sweet and we did your crash out. I
43:40
Speaker 3: feel you on that. Wait, no, no, you have one
43:43
Speaker 3: more to do?
43:44
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do you have. That's why TikToker.
43:46
Speaker 4: Her name is a Fena Lena, and I think she
43:50
Speaker 4: is trans okay, but she used to work at Sephora
43:54
Speaker 4: and now she's like a makeup influencer. Before she used
43:56
Speaker 4: to work at Sephora. So she does these hilarious bits
43:59
Speaker 4: of just how rude to everyone that works that's Aphora
44:01
Speaker 4: is and how all the managers are rude to and
44:04
Speaker 4: they're just fucking hilarious. Like she like tells little girls
44:07
Speaker 4: she's gonna drop kicks.
44:11
Speaker 2: Have overtaken, so they're trying to buy what is it
44:14
Speaker 2: something elephant.
44:17
Speaker 3: Which don't Oh my god, you.
44:18
Speaker 1: Know what, maybe I'm switching crash outs because but her
44:22
Speaker 1: TikTok is Athena at h e n a and then
44:24
Speaker 1: it's a you'll that'll come right up.
44:26
Speaker 2: But it's l A y n a and she's a
44:28
Speaker 2: good follow and the content is hilarious.
44:31
Speaker 3: So yeah, little girls do not need to be doing
44:34
Speaker 3: skincare that like adult women are doing. They don't need retina,
44:38
Speaker 3: they don't need to worry about their skin barrier. It
44:40
Speaker 3: worries me too.
44:41
Speaker 1: Where is the Smucker's flavored toxic chapstick and the fucking
44:45
Speaker 1: glitter that we were wearing that was awful for us,
44:48
Speaker 1: but that's what young girls should be wearing.
44:51
Speaker 3: Like, stop with your skincare routine.
44:53
Speaker 1: How are you affording this for I can barely afford
44:56
Speaker 1: my skincare and get out of there, because that's for us,
45:00
Speaker 1: the aging women.
45:01
Speaker 3: Okay. And also I know that you feel me.
45:04
Speaker 1: I have dropped things on both of my big toes
45:08
Speaker 1: and that's typically how they become ingrown on my left
45:12
Speaker 1: big toe, I have a funny ohils it grows so tiny.
45:18
Speaker 1: Every time it grows tinier and tiny back every time
45:21
Speaker 1: you lose it. I have the most painful fucking ingrown
45:23
Speaker 1: that you just either have to get surgery on or
45:25
Speaker 1: live with. And I think people like want to dig
45:28
Speaker 1: it out, but like I guess, legally, like when you
45:31
Speaker 1: get those I know, when you get a pedicure, like
45:33
Speaker 1: they're not legally supposed to be doing that. I know
45:34
Speaker 1: some places will do it, and like shout out to
45:36
Speaker 1: the people who do do it and take that risk,
45:38
Speaker 1: but it's just like, why is that a thing?
45:41
Speaker 2: Just fuck up?
45:41
Speaker 1: Right?
45:42
Speaker 2: Oh godils do you have?
45:45
Speaker 3: Like I know you have little stubbles? Do you have
45:47
Speaker 3: ingrowns or are they.
45:47
Speaker 2: Just did so?
45:48
Speaker 4: I had well before my toes got fucked. I used
45:51
Speaker 4: to get in to ingrown all the time and then
45:54
Speaker 4: they had to do like some procedure. Yeah, it like
45:57
Speaker 4: stops them or something.
45:58
Speaker 2: I don't know what it is. But it was like
46:00
Speaker 2: every six months I was getting infected, had it, it
46:02
Speaker 2: would grow, it would get deed. I would have to
46:05
Speaker 2: go get it like dug that dug out or whatever.
46:08
Speaker 4: It was literally like every six months I was going
46:10
Speaker 4: This is like junior high, like high school, like it
46:13
Speaker 4: was really bad. And then finally, like my mom took
46:15
Speaker 4: me and they had to do like some procedure that
46:16
Speaker 4: like cuts them a certain way so they don't grow
46:19
Speaker 4: a certain way or whatever.
46:20
Speaker 3: Do you have to wear a boot like for a while?
46:22
Speaker 2: No, okay, because I just had to be wrapped.
46:24
Speaker 1: Like friend has bad ones and I thought she had
46:26
Speaker 1: to get like a surgery and wear like a fucking boot.
46:28
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't have time for this.
46:29
Speaker 4: No, I had to wrap it and then like I remember,
46:31
Speaker 4: I had to soak it and then you sid to
46:33
Speaker 4: take the wrap off of her. So fucking bad because
46:35
Speaker 4: it'll like, yeah, they're the worst.
46:38
Speaker 1: Sometimes a regnant oil helps, which I put on everything,
46:41
Speaker 1: but like it's just, yeah, I'm just done with it.
46:43
Speaker 1: And it's like it's one of those things that I
46:44
Speaker 1: don't have the time to like go get taken care of,
46:46
Speaker 1: but like why do I have to.
46:47
Speaker 2: Deal with this?
46:49
Speaker 3: So that's my crash out and I've got to run
46:52
Speaker 3: to the dentist. So let's post this. Bye.