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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello, my name's Sanatasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yr
- 0:04Speaker 1: the Order Kerni Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before
- 0:08Speaker 1: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I
- 0:11Speaker 1: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land
- 0:14Speaker 1: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country,
- 0:18Speaker 1: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming through.
- 0:23Speaker 1: As this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing and
- 0:27Speaker 1: the storytelling of you to make a difference for today
- 0:31Speaker 1: and lasting impact for tomorrow.
- 0:33Speaker 2: Let's get into it.
- 0:34Speaker 3: She's on the Money.
- 0:36Speaker 2: She's on the Money.
- 0:57Speaker 4: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast
- 1:00Speaker 4: for millennials who want financial freedom. Today is Friday, which
- 1:04Speaker 4: means it is time to sit back with our friends
- 1:06Speaker 4: with a bevy in hand, to unpack our favorite moments
- 1:09Speaker 4: of the week, and of course.
- 1:11Speaker 2: To celebrate you ow incredible. She's on the Money community.
- 1:14Speaker 4: As always, we're going to be sharing our favorite money weeds,
- 1:17Speaker 4: We're going to discuss what's making news in the finance world,
- 1:20Speaker 4: and we're going to help to answer a very juicy
- 1:22Speaker 4: money question, which this week is all about bankruptcy and
- 1:25Speaker 4: money trauma.
- 1:26Speaker 2: But first it is time to recap the week that was.
- 1:29Speaker 4: Missus Jesse Gotiucci talk us through Monday's Money Diary episode.
- 1:34Speaker 5: So Monday's diarist was Uber hardworking t out she was
- 1:39Speaker 5: an Uber driver, which I found really interesting because I
- 1:42Speaker 5: think I said when we were on the call V,
- 1:44Speaker 5: I don't think I have ever had an Uber driver?
- 1:47Speaker 2: You did?
- 1:48Speaker 1: You did?
- 1:49Speaker 2: Actually, since you recorded that episode.
- 1:51Speaker 4: We flew to Sydney and on the drive from the
- 1:53Speaker 4: hotel to the airport to come home, what did we have?
- 1:56Speaker 4: Jess a female driver, and I'm pretty sure I said
- 1:58Speaker 4: to her, you're my first I was like, Jess, check
- 2:01Speaker 4: this out. This is so aligned to our content this week.
- 2:04Speaker 2: We have to mention it.
- 2:05Speaker 4: We didn't mention it to her because we're kind of
- 2:07Speaker 4: like awkwardly sitting in the back pig like, do well this.
- 2:09Speaker 2: Is cool or not?
- 2:11Speaker 5: Yeah, But it was really interesting to talk to her
- 2:13Speaker 5: about what it kind of looks like because I have
- 2:15Speaker 5: caught many an Uber, but I've never really thought about
- 2:18Speaker 5: I guess what it's like on the other side in
- 2:20Speaker 5: terms of, you know, how do you pick and choose?
- 2:22Speaker 5: Do you actually make good money or is it one
- 2:24Speaker 5: of those things where it's actually not that worth it.
- 2:27Speaker 4: I hear mixed bag stories right where people are like,
- 2:29Speaker 4: it's not worth it, rah rah. But then you actually
- 2:32Speaker 4: looked at that money, dar and I was like, oh,
- 2:33Speaker 4: sis is making them.
- 2:35Speaker 6: Yeah, it seems pretty lucrative.
- 2:36Speaker 5: And we picked her brain around the safety as a
- 2:39Speaker 5: female as well, which is something that's very front of
- 2:41Speaker 5: mind for me just as an anxious woman in general.
- 2:43Speaker 5: So it was really interesting to get her perspective on
- 2:46Speaker 5: that and while worth listen, I loved it.
- 2:48Speaker 4: I felt like it was an uber good episode. Jessicricci again,
- 2:54Speaker 4: let's move on.
- 2:55Speaker 2: Georgia kid.
- 2:57Speaker 6: Dandy, feeling good Dandy.
- 2:59Speaker 4: I always like asking you how you are because you've
- 3:01Speaker 4: always got a creative response.
- 3:03Speaker 2: YE was like, Jess, how are you?
- 3:04Speaker 6: You'd be like.
- 3:05Speaker 2: Good, not bad.
- 3:08Speaker 4: I saw a TikTok the other day. Actually that was
- 3:10Speaker 4: like Australians never say how they feel. Like if you
- 3:13Speaker 4: ask them how they are, you'd be like, oh, not bad.
- 3:15Speaker 4: And you have to like fill in the blanks, like
- 3:17Speaker 4: why can't you just say you are well? You have
- 3:19Speaker 4: to just say, oh, I'm not bad? How far is
- 3:21Speaker 4: it not far? Like come on, I'm like, we never
- 3:25Speaker 4: tell you the direct answer, We just tell you what
- 3:27Speaker 4: it's not.
- 3:28Speaker 7: That is true, that's true. Well I'm dandy so can
- 3:31Speaker 7: confirm that. But on Tuesday this week bit of a twist,
- 3:34Speaker 7: a little surprise Tuesday, we just could.
- 3:37Speaker 2: Not wait to get that episode in your ears.
- 3:41Speaker 4: And by that, I mean I clicked Tuesday instead of
- 3:43Speaker 4: Wednesday when uploading the episode.
- 3:46Speaker 2: Sorry, not sorry. Let's call it a very.
- 3:48Speaker 7: Cute mistapy accident. We spoke all about travel insurance, which
- 3:52Speaker 7: was it's top of mind for a lot of people
- 3:54Speaker 7: because everyone is on the mouth you coast right now?
- 3:57Speaker 6: How is this much you.
- 3:59Speaker 7: Just you just got back from you.
- 4:01Speaker 2: But we won't on their mouth coat.
- 4:03Speaker 4: No, And I feel like every man in his influence
- 4:05Speaker 4: that is over there at the moment, really are I
- 4:08Speaker 4: just I'm envious. They're sipping apparole, they're going on boats,
- 4:11Speaker 4: they're going around the como l like, can you stop.
- 4:15Speaker 2: I've got to go to work, and.
- 4:16Speaker 6: Hopefully they're insuring themselves as well.
- 4:18Speaker 7: Exactly right, Well, what we learned in the episode is
- 4:21Speaker 7: that the most important thing to ensure is actually yourself.
- 4:24Speaker 7: So we want comprehensive insurance, ladies, if you want to
- 4:27Speaker 7: know more about that. If you do have travel plans
- 4:30Speaker 7: lined up, then it's definitely the episode for you.
- 4:32Speaker 4: But TLDRG, the most important thing to ensure it is
- 4:35Speaker 4: actually yourself. It's not your camera or your phone or
- 4:37Speaker 4: your assets. It's actually about making sure that you're safe
- 4:40Speaker 4: and secure. So if you can't be bothered listening to it,
- 4:42Speaker 4: kind of want to spoil it for you, because I
- 4:44Speaker 4: think it is so genuinely important and it still baffles
- 4:48Speaker 4: me to this day that so many people be like,
- 4:50Speaker 4: it doesn't really matter. I don't want to waste my
- 4:51Speaker 4: money on insurance, and literally, Jess, when we went overseas,
- 4:55Speaker 4: I was like, oh, book it for us, We'll work
- 4:56Speaker 4: it out later because I just want to make sure
- 4:58Speaker 4: you not only have good insurance. But I know it
- 5:00Speaker 4: went through. I was crazy about it. But in what
- 5:04Speaker 4: else is karazy? G King on tour segue to the
- 5:09Speaker 4: money wins? All right, Georgia King, what have you got
- 5:11Speaker 4: for us this week? For our budget direct money wins?
- 5:13Speaker 4: They were absolutely I want to say thump and they
- 5:16Speaker 4: were really really good this week. So who thinks that
- 5:18Speaker 4: who reads our money diary's theread and goes this is thumping?
- 5:21Speaker 7: I don't know what I meant to say, But anyway,
- 5:23Speaker 7: here we are. There's eight of them, so brace yourselves.
- 5:26Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 5:27Speaker 7: First one for the day comes from Kimberly money Win.
- 5:30Speaker 7: My small business is finally thriving and doing the best
- 5:34Speaker 7: it's ever done, crying emoji status. The next one comes
- 5:39Speaker 7: from Sarah. My home insurance is currently due for renewal.
- 5:43Speaker 7: I shopped around and completed quotes with a few different
- 5:45Speaker 7: insurers online, as I do each.
- 5:47Speaker 2: And every year.
- 5:47Speaker 7: Wa a queen, so smart, But I couldn't find any
- 5:50Speaker 7: cheaper than my renewal amount, so I phoned the existing
- 5:53Speaker 7: insurer and asked for a discount. They knocked one hundred
- 5:56Speaker 7: and forty dollars off the annual premium.
- 5:58Speaker 2: Money Win.
- 6:00Speaker 4: That is a very good call to make. But also
- 6:03Speaker 4: you could just see that call as you making one
- 6:04Speaker 4: hundred and forty bucks exactly, Jesse. If I gave you
- 6:06Speaker 4: one hundred and forty bucks to make a phone call,
- 6:08Speaker 4: would you do it?
- 6:09Speaker 6: Absolutely? But when all the time for.
- 6:13Speaker 2: True, It's true, George.
- 6:14Speaker 4: I actually made her call my gym one time because
- 6:16Speaker 4: I was too scared to cancel my membership.
- 6:18Speaker 7: I can remember this.
- 6:19Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel like it.
- 6:20Speaker 2: Was an ordeal.
- 6:21Speaker 4: Because it was a nightmare to get out of. There
- 6:23Speaker 4: was like forms and we had to go in. I
- 6:25Speaker 4: just I'm traumatized. Shit done, she does alrighty. The next
- 6:29Speaker 4: week comes from Tory.
- 6:31Speaker 7: Money you win. My partner and I booked our first
- 6:33Speaker 7: holiday together in over five years yesterday, and I had
- 6:36Speaker 7: budgeted for it, so it didn't feel like it was
- 6:38Speaker 7: setting me back or that I was taking it from
- 6:40Speaker 7: somewhere that I shouldn't be such a nice feeling. Well
- 6:43Speaker 7: done to you, Tory. Make sure you get travel insurance.
- 6:46Speaker 4: Make sure you get travel insurance, and also how much
- 6:49Speaker 4: of a better holiday you're going to have now you're
- 6:51Speaker 4: not stressed about money on exactly and like saving up for.
- 6:54Speaker 7: It instead of after paying you.
- 6:55Speaker 2: I love the Queens.
- 6:57Speaker 7: Yes, exactly right. The next week it comes from Tathy.
- 6:59Speaker 7: This one's a bit a PSA which I saw you
- 7:01Speaker 7: commented on in the group, Jess, so.
- 7:03Speaker 2: It must be good getting involved.
- 7:05Speaker 6: This stuff is good.
- 7:06Speaker 7: It comes from Kathy. I read about the Medibank Private
- 7:10Speaker 7: Live Better app in this group a year or so ago,
- 7:12Speaker 7: and I downloaded it. You earn points through logging any
- 7:15Speaker 7: health and well being activities you've participated in each day
- 7:18Speaker 7: you can then sink your fitness trackers to it. You
- 7:21Speaker 7: earn points that can then be swapped for rewards like
- 7:23Speaker 7: added as vouchers, AirPods, smart watches, and so on. Then
- 7:27Speaker 7: a few months ago I had enough points to replace
- 7:29Speaker 7: my fitbit that had died, and I now have enough
- 7:31Speaker 7: points to claim a two hundred dollars payment towards health
- 7:34Speaker 7: insurance premiums. Yes, probably pase this, bloody brother.
- 7:37Speaker 6: I feel like it.
- 7:38Speaker 4: Sounds a little bit like my AIA Vitality membership which
- 7:41Speaker 4: I've mentioned before, which comes with my insurance. Because if
- 7:43Speaker 4: I make enough steps and I do the health checks
- 7:45Speaker 4: and all of the stuff in the app on there,
- 7:47Speaker 4: I mean I could get into it, but there's a
- 7:48Speaker 4: lot to it. You actually get a discount on your insurance.
- 7:52Speaker 4: So like I'm always trying to make sure that I
- 7:53Speaker 4: make my steps and I'm healthy and I do my
- 7:55Speaker 4: optical check every year and do all of my stuff
- 7:57Speaker 4: because you get different amounts of points for different activities
- 8:00Speaker 4: that you do that will contribute towards your health.
- 8:02Speaker 2: And I think it just makes sense.
- 8:03Speaker 4: Like these health insurance companies, you're like, this is some
- 8:05Speaker 4: money win.
- 8:06Speaker 2: This makes sense, but it's a win for them as.
- 8:08Speaker 4: Well, because if they've got healthier customers, the likelihood of
- 8:11Speaker 4: you actually claiming on insurance is lower, so you're less
- 8:13Speaker 4: likely to be sick, but you're also saving money.
- 8:16Speaker 2: Like it's a winner for everybody. It is much genius.
- 8:19Speaker 7: From that remarkable high, I'm now going to take us
- 8:21Speaker 7: through some money losses. But's I thank you all made
- 8:24Speaker 7: me laugh, so prauss yourselves. The first one comes from
- 8:27Speaker 7: Lisa money loss. I went to see Frozen, the musical
- 8:31Speaker 7: I'm issuing this weekend with my child. They asked for
- 8:34Speaker 7: an O laugh plush, and I thought, why not? Seventy
- 8:37Speaker 7: five dollars later, I knew where I was moving forward.
- 8:42Speaker 7: I will now be asking the cost of something before
- 8:44Speaker 7: saying yes again.
- 8:45Speaker 6: Seventy five dollars for a whole loss.
- 8:47Speaker 7: Flush, you're kidding me, Okay, okay, out of contu.
- 8:52Speaker 2: You're a kid in yourself, mate.
- 8:55Speaker 4: Just and I went to Disneyland recently and I did
- 8:57Speaker 4: buy an e or toy.
- 8:58Speaker 6: How much that's it?
- 8:59Speaker 7: You?
- 8:59Speaker 4: I can't but it was probably very expensive and I
- 9:02Speaker 4: gave it to my dog, So I just feel like
- 9:03Speaker 4: that was the most expensive thing I've ever bought.
- 9:07Speaker 7: Oh bless Okay, The next loss comes from Allie money loss.
- 9:11Speaker 7: My partner got blind, drunk and got a taxi alone
- 9:14Speaker 7: from Melbourne to Geelong Friday time. I don't think it's
- 9:18Speaker 7: meant to be funny, like I'm so sorry, Ellie. That sucks,
- 9:20Speaker 7: but we've also all been there.
- 9:23Speaker 6: I hope he's part and not the shd take me.
- 9:30Speaker 7: I just had this.
- 9:31Speaker 4: Idea, like, you both know Steve, my partner well, like
- 9:35Speaker 4: I can imagine if he'd done something like that and
- 9:37Speaker 4: turned up at home, he'd be like, I'm home.
- 9:38Speaker 2: Aren't you excited?
- 9:40Speaker 8: Did get me?
- 9:42Speaker 2: He would be so stoked. I had mom early jess
- 9:45Speaker 2: are you excited? No, no, I'm not good.
- 9:48Speaker 7: And the next one comes from Angelica money Win. I
- 9:52Speaker 7: scored two hundred dollars off my wedding reception dress, down
- 9:55Speaker 7: from five hundred dollars, which is incredible money loss. As
- 9:59Speaker 7: I was traveling to the dress shop, I ended up
- 10:01Speaker 7: getting a speeding fine. So evens out, I am going
- 10:06Speaker 7: to end it on an inspirational note today, ladies. It
- 10:08Speaker 7: comes from Teagin money Win. I got a promotion at work,
- 10:12Speaker 7: but the salary wasn't quite what I expected it to be.
- 10:14Speaker 7: I thought about taking the easy option and just accepting
- 10:17Speaker 7: it and signing the paper. As it was already super
- 10:19Speaker 7: excited to get the promotion. I decided to sleep on
- 10:22Speaker 7: it and woke up the next morning and wrote a
- 10:23Speaker 7: list of points as to why I was worth more.
- 10:26Speaker 7: I went in feeling confident and stated the facts and
- 10:28Speaker 7: then gave them my number. They rang me on Friday
- 10:31Speaker 7: and said they were proud of me for going back
- 10:33Speaker 7: and they've rounded the number up.
- 10:34Speaker 6: Thank you.
- 10:35Speaker 7: She's on the money for giving me.
- 10:36Speaker 4: The skills to achieve this. What a good place to
- 10:39Speaker 4: leave it. I love that, Georgia. I thought you were
- 10:41Speaker 4: taking a few liberties going I've got eight this week.
- 10:44Speaker 2: I was like, oh do you?
- 10:45Speaker 4: But all of those absolutely made the cut. It has
- 10:47Speaker 4: been great, gee, celebrating some of your budget Direct money
- 10:50Speaker 4: wins Budget Direct winner of Canstar's Insurer of the Year
- 10:53Speaker 4: Award twenty twenty two. Budget Direct Insurance solved with that,
- 10:57Speaker 4: my friends, let's go to a quick break and then
- 10:59Speaker 4: we're going to dive straight into.
- 11:00Speaker 2: Some very juicy money topics.
- 11:06Speaker 4: All right, let's dive straight back in, miss Jessica. She
- 11:10Speaker 4: I believe you have a piece of content you would
- 11:12Speaker 4: like to discuss with the group of course.
- 11:15Speaker 5: Now don't turn off when I say this word after pay.
- 11:19Speaker 2: I don't turn off.
- 11:20Speaker 4: Georgia gains through spicy, she gets through heated.
- 11:22Speaker 6: She's literally just like stood up.
- 11:28Speaker 2: I'm ready.
- 11:29Speaker 5: I know we talked about out to pay a lot,
- 11:30Speaker 5: but we got reasons so Eddy dms because over the weekend.
- 11:36Speaker 5: This is in Auckland, New Zealand. But I wouldn't be
- 11:38Speaker 5: surprised if they tried to roll it out here as well.
- 11:40Speaker 5: A bottleo rolled out after pay in their store, which
- 11:44Speaker 5: means that obviously you can break down your payment of
- 11:46Speaker 5: alcohol into full.
- 11:47Speaker 2: For yeah, a kind of them.
- 11:51Speaker 5: Been a lot of criticism around this, beyond what we
- 11:54Speaker 5: normally talk about, and I thought it was a very
- 11:56Speaker 5: interesting conversation because alcohol is obviously a control old substance,
- 12:00Speaker 5: there's an addictive substance, and in Australia, and I know
- 12:03Speaker 5: we talking about New Zealand, but there's definitely a history
- 12:06Speaker 5: of culture relating to bad habits when it comes to
- 12:09Speaker 5: over consumption of alcohol. And the criticism that we're seeing
- 12:13Speaker 5: is people saying this shop shouldn't do it. It's so unethical.
- 12:17Speaker 5: If people can't afford a drink, they shouldn't buy a drink.
- 12:20Speaker 5: This is going to enable people who arguably maybe are
- 12:23Speaker 5: in a bit of a bad place to purchase more
- 12:25Speaker 5: than they would normally be able to because they can
- 12:27Speaker 5: afford more. And the debate it kind of sparked was
- 12:30Speaker 5: really interesting because I think it comes down to, ethically,
- 12:34Speaker 5: is the responsibility on the store owner? So let's say
- 12:37Speaker 5: it's a small business, because it didn't roll out in
- 12:39Speaker 5: like a Dan Movies, I think it was an independent
- 12:42Speaker 5: Is it the store owner's job to regulate that? Is
- 12:44Speaker 5: it our job as consumers to keep an eye on
- 12:47Speaker 5: what we're doing, or more broadly, should the government be
- 12:49Speaker 5: stepping in and keeping an eye on these things? Where
- 12:52Speaker 5: does that responsibility lie? Because at the moment, it really
- 12:54Speaker 5: seems like everyone's kind of going, not my problem, not
- 12:57Speaker 5: my circle's, not my monkey's, and nothing's being done, and
- 13:00Speaker 5: these policies or these steps are being put in place
- 13:03Speaker 5: that really, in my opinion, kind of pushed the boundaries
- 13:06Speaker 5: of what is and isn't okay. But that's also totally
- 13:09Speaker 5: a personal perception thing, and so I wanted to see
- 13:12Speaker 5: what you guys kind of thought about it.
- 13:13Speaker 4: Well, given I'm basically best friends with Jacinda Arjurn, let
- 13:16Speaker 4: me for her. At our next meeting, I'll just bring
- 13:20Speaker 4: it up and be like, hey, could you fix this,
- 13:21Speaker 4: and she'll be like, no problems, babe, got you, and
- 13:24Speaker 4: we'll organize it all. But I think from my perspective again,
- 13:28Speaker 4: I'm obviously not that stoked with it, But if we
- 13:31Speaker 4: compare it to other industries. We were talking and it
- 13:33Speaker 4: hasn't come out yet, it'll come out next week. We
- 13:35Speaker 4: have a money diary with a woman who is a
- 13:38Speaker 4: sex worker, and she was saying that payment terminals often
- 13:41Speaker 4: kick sex workers off those terminals because they think that
- 13:44Speaker 4: they're generating money that is maybe not as closher as
- 13:47Speaker 4: it could be, and they see that as a high
- 13:49Speaker 4: risk industry so they say no, thank you. So it's
- 13:52Speaker 4: the platform taking the responsibility, and then also looking at
- 13:56Speaker 4: the way Australia governs financial advisors and accountants and you know,
- 13:59Speaker 4: financial platforms, it's actually very different to the way it
- 14:03Speaker 4: is managed around the world. So Jess, you and I
- 14:05Speaker 4: are actually going to a conference in September in the US.
- 14:09Speaker 4: It's a finance conference so that we can learn about
- 14:11Speaker 4: how other people are producing money content internationally, and we
- 14:14Speaker 4: are so genuinely excited. Actually low key, I'm speaking at
- 14:17Speaker 4: the event, I am stoked. But in America, the onners
- 14:21Speaker 4: is put on the consumer and they say the consumer
- 14:24Speaker 4: has to go do their own research and make the
- 14:26Speaker 4: decision that's right for them. In Australia the opposite is true.
- 14:30Speaker 4: And you're seeing this a lot at the moment in
- 14:32Speaker 4: the media with financial advisors being come down on like
- 14:35Speaker 4: a town of bricks when it comes to acid regulations
- 14:38Speaker 4: and finfluences, you know, coppying a lot of heat at
- 14:40Speaker 4: the moment for the content they produce. Because in Australia,
- 14:44Speaker 4: the onners is put on the content creator, or the
- 14:46Speaker 4: onners is put on the business. So if you then
- 14:49Speaker 4: apply this to this particular situation, I look at it
- 14:53Speaker 4: and I go, yeah, it's in New Zealand. There are
- 14:55Speaker 4: friends across the ditch. Yes, they're not governed by the
- 14:58Speaker 4: same rules and regulations here in a s Australia. But
- 15:01Speaker 4: from my perspective as an Australian, I would then assume
- 15:04Speaker 4: that the onus is on after pay to regulate that
- 15:06Speaker 4: and not allow things like alcohol or tobacco or gambling
- 15:09Speaker 4: on their platforms because it's not an essential item. I
- 15:13Speaker 4: think you guys and I sit in a very privileged
- 15:16Speaker 4: position where we get to look at after pay as
- 15:18Speaker 4: something that is, you know, the big bad wolf, and
- 15:20Speaker 4: we do need to look at it from a little
- 15:23Speaker 4: bit more of a less entitled view and go, gin,
- 15:25Speaker 4: know what, there are people out there that need this
- 15:27Speaker 4: to get by. It's something that they're using that is
- 15:30Speaker 4: enabling them to have a good lifestyle or change their
- 15:33Speaker 4: lives in a way that they weren't able to before,
- 15:35Speaker 4: whether that's because they can't access credit or they have
- 15:38Speaker 4: you know, we've heard stories in our community, people like
- 15:40Speaker 4: the I use after pay all the time because I
- 15:42Speaker 4: only have sentling and I just need to get through
- 15:44Speaker 4: the next pay, and you know, I'm really responsible with it,
- 15:47Speaker 4: but I might be buying Christmas presents where I might
- 15:50Speaker 4: be buying things that my kid needs for school, or
- 15:52Speaker 4: more recently, I've spoken to people and they're like, the
- 15:55Speaker 4: it's so good. I know that you don't like after pay,
- 15:58Speaker 4: but I've been paying for doctors of moments on that
- 16:00Speaker 4: that otherwise I would have been really stressed about that
- 16:03Speaker 4: my kid needed. And I go, wow, like, there are
- 16:05Speaker 4: some good reasons to use it, But then alcohol, to me,
- 16:10Speaker 4: that's a luxury that's not something that is a necessity.
- 16:14Speaker 4: It's something that can be used and abused, and it
- 16:16Speaker 4: just is not putting our community in the right position.
- 16:20Speaker 4: And the messages I'm getting a test to that, like
- 16:22Speaker 4: they genuinely break my heart. It's making me go, oh,
- 16:25Speaker 4: I wish I could do more, but what can you do?
- 16:28Speaker 4: This isn't even happening in our country.
- 16:30Speaker 7: Well, a lot of the people that are going to
- 16:32Speaker 7: be using after pay in bottle shops if this does
- 16:34Speaker 7: become a thing across the board and infiltrates into the
- 16:37Speaker 7: Australian marketplace as well. They're people that can't afford alcohol
- 16:41Speaker 7: from where they're at currently. They're in these bad, bad
- 16:45Speaker 7: positions and it's really exploiting extremely vulnerable people. That's why
- 16:51Speaker 7: I don't like after pay full stop. But to move
- 16:53Speaker 7: into this alcohol space is just makes me very mad.
- 17:00Speaker 7: We saw it maybe like six months ago, maybe a
- 17:02Speaker 7: little bit longer. You can now like after pay your cocktails.
- 17:05Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's not just to pay right, like we
- 17:08Speaker 4: highlighted on our She's on the Money stories, payoh, which
- 17:11Speaker 4: is a company that purely exists for bars, restaurants and
- 17:15Speaker 4: food providing services. And I was just like, what there's
- 17:18Speaker 4: a food specific buy now, pay later, Like where's the line,
- 17:23Speaker 4: Like how does that work? And I think my biggest
- 17:26Speaker 4: gripe with it is that it's just not regulated in
- 17:29Speaker 4: the same way credit would be, because a lot of
- 17:31Speaker 4: people are gonna jump up and down and be like, Victoria,
- 17:34Speaker 4: you can go and put a bottle of vodka on
- 17:36Speaker 4: your credit card tomorrow. Yeah, but like there's checks in
- 17:40Speaker 4: place for you to be able to do that. They've
- 17:42Speaker 4: checked your financial history, they've checked your serviceability, they've checked
- 17:45Speaker 4: whether you can repay that loan, because that's basically what
- 17:48Speaker 4: it is, whereas those same restrictions don't apply to after pay,
- 17:52Speaker 4: So to me, it's a really slippery slope.
- 17:54Speaker 7: So yes, obviously my disdain for after pay is very
- 17:59Speaker 7: You had it for just a little bit of disdain,
- 18:02Speaker 7: but I wanted to play the devil's advocate here, ladies,
- 18:05Speaker 7: because we, as we've said on the podcast, are heading
- 18:09Speaker 7: into a recession.
- 18:10Speaker 6: Things.
- 18:11Speaker 2: Don't get that word around here. We are having a
- 18:13Speaker 2: good data.
- 18:14Speaker 6: Now, but things are really really tough.
- 18:16Speaker 7: The cost of living is ridiculous right now, and small
- 18:20Speaker 7: businesses are facing that crisis as well. So we know
- 18:25Speaker 7: that after pay is really good for small business. So
- 18:28Speaker 7: how do they kind of balance that ethical dilemma of
- 18:32Speaker 7: wanting to use after pay to attract more consumers and
- 18:36Speaker 7: customers while also dealing with the ethical ambiguity of offering
- 18:41Speaker 7: a service that might put customers in a precarious situation.
- 18:45Speaker 4: It's such a hard position because you look at it
- 18:48Speaker 4: and you go pragmatically. After pay makes a lot of
- 18:50Speaker 4: sense for small business. Statistically, Gee, the stats on the
- 18:54Speaker 4: after pay website say the average Australian small business merchant
- 18:58Speaker 4: sees are thirteen percent uppleiest in rev you by partnering
- 19:00Speaker 4: with after pay, which equates to around thirty two thousand
- 19:03Speaker 4: dollars in new revenue annually. Like, if I was a
- 19:06Speaker 4: small business and it doesn't matter what I was selling,
- 19:08Speaker 4: if I was selling candles or stationery, or if I
- 19:11Speaker 4: had a bikini business, like, I would look at it
- 19:13Speaker 4: and go well, from my perspective, I just want to
- 19:16Speaker 4: sell my product and get my product on more people's shelves.
- 19:19Speaker 4: And a good way to do that is to increase
- 19:22Speaker 4: the ways people can pay. And you know, if I'm
- 19:25Speaker 4: selling candles and I go oha, my candles are only
- 19:28Speaker 4: like thirty dollars each or fifty dollars each or whatever
- 19:30Speaker 4: inflation has made them these days. What is my responsibility?
- 19:34Speaker 4: Like should I stop Jess from paying for one of
- 19:36Speaker 4: my candles because she really wants it in four separate payments?
- 19:39Speaker 4: Like Jess is a very I'm using you as an example,
- 19:42Speaker 4: my friend, But Jess is a really financially conscious person.
- 19:45Speaker 4: I know what your savings habits are, and I know
- 19:47Speaker 4: that if you used a platform like after pay, you
- 19:49Speaker 4: would probably be using it because you're cash flowing or
- 19:52Speaker 4: you're like, oh well, I gave myself this budget and
- 19:54Speaker 4: cashlow plan and I only have this amount to spend
- 19:56Speaker 4: per week, so I'm going to take it out of
- 19:58Speaker 4: my cash flow plan for the next four weeks. This
- 20:00Speaker 4: makes sense, and you can use it really constructively and
- 20:04Speaker 4: for the people that just want to use it as
- 20:05Speaker 4: a cash flow tool, like are you taking something away
- 20:08Speaker 4: from them by worrying about the people that aren't as responsible?
- 20:12Speaker 4: And how responsible are you for people's actions? Like obviously,
- 20:17Speaker 4: I care so much about our community and want them
- 20:20Speaker 4: to be in the best possible position, so I jump
- 20:22Speaker 4: up and down about it. But Georgia, how much of
- 20:25Speaker 4: a responsibility is it on you to manage your friends'
- 20:29Speaker 4: finances or the decisions they make if they're a grown adult.
- 20:32Speaker 7: Yeah, it's such a hard one because it does it
- 20:34Speaker 7: comes down to the individual. But what's missing in that
- 20:37Speaker 7: piece is the education. And we're doing our best atchoes
- 20:40Speaker 7: on the money to explain the details of all of this,
- 20:43Speaker 7: and you know, Piers through the marketing that is really
- 20:47Speaker 7: confusing and makes us feel like things are okay when
- 20:49Speaker 7: they're really not. So I don't know who's responsibilities. It's
- 20:53Speaker 7: really really hard.
- 20:54Speaker 4: It is right because it's like I feel like it's
- 20:57Speaker 4: my responsibility as a financial advisor to education you guys.
- 21:01Speaker 4: But I also say often like I don't care what
- 21:03Speaker 4: you do with your money as long as you're educated
- 21:05Speaker 4: and you know that the decisions you are making are
- 21:07Speaker 4: the right ones for you. I really want to be
- 21:10Speaker 4: able to put the onus back on you and say, well, gee,
- 21:13Speaker 4: if you go and make that decision, that's on you, Like,
- 21:16Speaker 4: I'm not going to judge that situation. That's not my position.
- 21:19Speaker 4: If we took this and put it in any other
- 21:22Speaker 4: stream of life, whether that's sex or religion, money is
- 21:27Speaker 4: that other spicy topic that people don't like talking about.
- 21:30Speaker 4: How much do I have to control over your religion,
- 21:32Speaker 4: or your sex.
- 21:32Speaker 2: Life or any of that. Why should I.
- 21:35Speaker 4: Then have a say over you know, my client's financial life.
- 21:38Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?
- 21:38Speaker 4: Like, unless you've come to me as an advisor and
- 21:40Speaker 4: said I want financial advice from you, Victoria, I don't
- 21:43Speaker 4: think it's any of my business to dish out advice.
- 21:46Speaker 4: This podcast is educational because I want you to want
- 21:48Speaker 4: to educate yourself, but if you're listening to it, it's
- 21:51Speaker 4: because you want that already, right, Like, yeah, it's about
- 21:54Speaker 4: where the onus is, but it's also about when do
- 21:57Speaker 4: you expect the government to step in? And if this
- 22:00Speaker 4: word happened in Australia, which it basically has already with
- 22:03Speaker 4: buy now, pay later platforms like Payoh, where's the line
- 22:08Speaker 4: where does the government step in and say, you know what?
- 22:10Speaker 4: We know that the Australian population does not have good
- 22:13Speaker 4: financial literacy, so therefore there needs to be a few
- 22:16Speaker 4: steps here to put them in the best possible position.
- 22:19Speaker 4: Whereas if they could be like oh no, like financial
- 22:21Speaker 4: literacy is a core pillar of our education system and
- 22:24Speaker 4: they've been doing it since prep. They know, well, that
- 22:28Speaker 4: might be a different story. But till then, I think
- 22:30Speaker 4: that there needs to be a bigger governing body that
- 22:33Speaker 4: makes sure that we are in the best possible position.
- 22:36Speaker 4: In the same way that the government has restricted the
- 22:38Speaker 4: sale of tobacco and have restricted the sale of alcohol
- 22:41Speaker 4: to people under the age of eighteen, and like they've
- 22:43Speaker 4: made all these other rules to protect us, why is
- 22:46Speaker 4: this not an extension of that?
- 22:48Speaker 5: And I think because we're treading unprecedented waters here with
- 22:52Speaker 5: you know, I think businesses like after pay and buying
- 22:55Speaker 5: our pay lader platforms in general are really pushing and
- 22:57Speaker 5: testing the boundaries to see what they can and can't
- 22:59Speaker 5: get away with, and they, you know, would have really
- 23:02Speaker 5: big teams in the background working to find how they
- 23:05Speaker 5: can be compliant in the most bendy way possible for them.
- 23:13Speaker 5: I'm a big believer in the power of the people,
- 23:15Speaker 5: and what I would say to all of our friends
- 23:17Speaker 5: in New Zealand and all of our friends in Australia,
- 23:19Speaker 5: should we, you know, come to this point make a report.
- 23:23Speaker 6: In New Zealand.
- 23:24Speaker 5: The Commerce Commission which is ComCom dot Govte dot NZ.
- 23:28Speaker 5: They're the regulating body here in Australia. It's consumer Affairs
- 23:33Speaker 5: and one of their dot points on their website it
- 23:35Speaker 5: says that their role is to regulate credit contracts and
- 23:39Speaker 5: Consumer Finance Act, which protects consumers when they borrow money
- 23:42Speaker 5: or buy goods on credit. And so while it's not
- 23:46Speaker 5: a direct line of credit, they're definitely borrowing money to
- 23:49Speaker 5: gene and that I would suggest, if you feel the
- 23:52Speaker 5: same way that we do, send them a nice email.
- 23:55Speaker 5: There's a big red button that says make it very same.
- 23:58Speaker 5: They make it really easy and say to them, hey,
- 24:01Speaker 5: I'm really concerned about the direction this is going. This
- 24:03Speaker 5: seems really unethical, and I think it's something you should
- 24:06Speaker 5: look into because if enough people start making that complaint,
- 24:10Speaker 5: it will trigger an investigation. And that's all you can
- 24:13Speaker 5: really do is try to facilitate change. But it requires
- 24:17Speaker 5: people to take that little step and do something about it.
- 24:20Speaker 5: So that's what I would personally suggest, because I do
- 24:22Speaker 5: think that right now these platforms are kind of seeing
- 24:25Speaker 5: what they can get away with, and it's up to
- 24:27Speaker 5: us as a community and just as human beings to say, actually,
- 24:32Speaker 5: it's not good enough, yeah, and to talk to.
- 24:34Speaker 7: Each other about it as well. If you have mates
- 24:36Speaker 7: that you know use after pay and would be tempted
- 24:38Speaker 7: by something like this, if you are in New Zealand,
- 24:40Speaker 7: talk to them about it, help them out with that education.
- 24:42Speaker 7: If they're not share these.
- 24:43Speaker 4: Podcasts with them exactly, if you don't even have to
- 24:46Speaker 4: sit them down and be like, okay, Georgia, I was thinking,
- 24:48Speaker 4: you need to Xpyz. You can bring finance topics up
- 24:51Speaker 4: in really non confrontational ways where you put the onus
- 24:54Speaker 4: back on you, and you'd be like, oh my gosh,
- 24:55Speaker 4: I was listening to this great podcast the other day
- 24:57Speaker 4: and they were saying x y Z Jess. If you
- 24:59Speaker 4: haven't le to it, I'll send you the link, because honestly,
- 25:02Speaker 4: it made me really think. And you just don't have
- 25:04Speaker 4: to say, oh my gosh, yes, So I noticed you
- 25:06Speaker 4: use after pain, and I just don't think that's a
- 25:07Speaker 4: good thing. Like it's not your job to tell people
- 25:10Speaker 4: what to do with their money, but I think it's
- 25:12Speaker 4: everybody's job to increase the level of financial literacy we have.
- 25:16Speaker 4: And once we get to a point where I genuinely
- 25:19Speaker 4: feel like our community is financially literate, I'll probably not
- 25:23Speaker 4: be as vocal on these platforms because I'll be like cool,
- 25:25Speaker 4: like they exist, but I know people use them responsibly,
- 25:28Speaker 4: like and I know that people understand the repercussions of
- 25:30Speaker 4: their decisions. And I know that people are in a
- 25:32Speaker 4: pretty good position because they've you know, structured things right,
- 25:35Speaker 4: But we can't genuinely say that. And I think that
- 25:38Speaker 4: that's why we're so uncomfortable, because we're looking at it going.
- 25:40Speaker 4: There are so many people that are gonna, you know,
- 25:42Speaker 4: end up in compromising positions because of this, because they
- 25:45Speaker 4: just don't know any better. And I mean, that's a
- 25:47Speaker 4: really beautiful thing that we care. But you also have
- 25:50Speaker 4: to go how much of this is our responsibility, how
- 25:53Speaker 4: much of it is the responsibility of the government, and
- 25:56Speaker 4: how much is a product responsibility?
- 25:58Speaker 7: Lots to think about, ladies, But I reckon it's probably
- 26:02Speaker 7: time for a little money dilemma.
- 26:03Speaker 6: If we're interested, Oh would love that.
- 26:05Speaker 7: That's how to listen, Hi, Beert, have you got a
- 26:09Speaker 7: money dilemma you just can't solve that? She's on The
- 26:12Speaker 7: Money Team is here to help. Every week we tackle
- 26:15Speaker 7: your dilemmas, both big and small, to answer your most
- 26:17Speaker 7: burning money, career and life questions. To get involved, simply
- 26:21Speaker 7: head to our website and leave us a quick voice recording,
- 26:24Speaker 7: and you may just find yourself on the show. Now
- 26:26Speaker 7: let's take a listen to today's money dilemma.
- 26:30Speaker 3: My husband and I had to start over again after
- 26:33Speaker 3: being bankrupt from our business. We have done an amazing
- 26:38Speaker 3: job saving We got a twenty percent deposit together, purchased.
- 26:42Speaker 8: A block of land and in our building. However, I
- 26:45Speaker 8: am petrified of having not so much money in the
- 26:48Speaker 8: account I just keep thinking back to when we had nothing.
- 26:53Speaker 8: We've worked so hard and I know we have money
- 26:56Speaker 8: in the accounts and we are quite stable, but I
- 27:00Speaker 8: have a massive fear of looking at the bank accounts
- 27:03Speaker 8: and I just don't know what to go, where to
- 27:05Speaker 8: go from here? We have no other debts apart from
- 27:08Speaker 8: a home loan. Please help me.
- 27:11Speaker 6: I really feel for her.
- 27:12Speaker 5: She sounds like genuinely stressed, Like that's my first thought,
- 27:16Speaker 5: Like off the back of.
- 27:17Speaker 2: That, yeah, actually I don't.
- 27:18Speaker 4: That tone of voice was, SI, oh, I'm not in
- 27:22Speaker 4: a good place with this.
- 27:23Speaker 5: I totally get being stressed out. I think like I've
- 27:26Speaker 5: obviously never been through bankruptcy myself. But we did a
- 27:28Speaker 5: really good episode actually on it a couple months ago.
- 27:31Speaker 5: But I would highly recommend it because we spoke a
- 27:32Speaker 5: lot about the stigma and how it can actually be
- 27:35Speaker 5: a really positive choice for somebody if you're making it
- 27:37Speaker 5: and it's the right decision for you, which I think
- 27:39Speaker 5: is a great thing. But I can totally understand how
- 27:43Speaker 5: going through something like that could really bring out a
- 27:47Speaker 5: lot of anxiety. And we refer to earlier as a
- 27:49Speaker 5: little bit of trauma, you know, that real stress around
- 27:52Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, Like, I don't want to find myself
- 27:55Speaker 5: back in that position where things are so difficult and
- 27:58Speaker 5: I'm making these really hard choices do impact my future
- 28:01Speaker 5: and do impact my ability to borrow money. I'm sure
- 28:04Speaker 5: that they would have had to jump through some hoops
- 28:06Speaker 5: to get this mortgage that they've got, which is very exciting. Congratulations, Yeah,
- 28:10Speaker 5: super exciting. But I can totally see how that would
- 28:13Speaker 5: be really anxiety inducing. And I think that it's probably
- 28:17Speaker 5: a little bit bigger than you know, normally we'd say, hey,
- 28:20Speaker 5: look at your.
- 28:20Speaker 6: Cash flow system.
- 28:21Speaker 2: It's not that at all.
- 28:22Speaker 1: Is that.
- 28:23Speaker 5: I think it's a much bigger issue, and V, I'd
- 28:26Speaker 5: love to know what you suggest she kind of do
- 28:28Speaker 5: to help deal with those feelings.
- 28:29Speaker 4: I think the first thing that I would say here
- 28:32Speaker 4: is you are validated in your feelings, and even though
- 28:35Speaker 4: quote you're better that doesn't mean that there's not trauma there.
- 28:39Speaker 4: And I think validating that financial trauma exists is really
- 28:42Speaker 4: important because it's scientifically proven that you can be traumatized
- 28:46Speaker 4: from your financial situation. Bankruptcy includes so much more than like, oh, Jess,
- 28:51Speaker 4: you had to file for bankruptcy and you skip down
- 28:53Speaker 4: the lane and you're in a better position to hurry,
- 28:55Speaker 4: you'll be able to get a mortgage later. Like, there's
- 28:57Speaker 4: so much stress and energy during that process that actually
- 29:01Speaker 4: needs working through. So in this circumstance, I would recommend,
- 29:05Speaker 4: and this is not just a bankruptcy, if you've been
- 29:07Speaker 4: through any type of traumatic event, financial or otherwise, I
- 29:11Speaker 4: would seek therapy. And I would be going to talk
- 29:14Speaker 4: to a professional counselor or psychologist, or I'd be going
- 29:17Speaker 4: to talk to my GP asking for a mental health
- 29:19Speaker 4: care plan and just saying, look, I need to work
- 29:22Speaker 4: through these things because anxiety is real and we need
- 29:25Speaker 4: to find ways to not only cope with that, but
- 29:28Speaker 4: really understand the root cause. And you still feeling anxious
- 29:31Speaker 4: about money even though you're quote in a better position,
- 29:34Speaker 4: is an indicator that you are not fully across, that
- 29:37Speaker 4: you're not over that line. We're not over that at all,
- 29:40Speaker 4: and you actually need to delve deeper into that. I
- 29:43Speaker 4: do find this to be very common in people who
- 29:46Speaker 4: experience bankruptcy or go through a similar process, because you
- 29:50Speaker 4: end up wanting to stick your head in the sand,
- 29:52Speaker 4: Like bills make you so anxious and you don't want
- 29:55Speaker 4: to open another one because what if it's a bill
- 29:57Speaker 4: that is not expected? What if it's a fohone bill
- 30:00Speaker 4: that's above and beyond what you had anticipated. What if
- 30:03Speaker 4: it's the mortgage company calling you and saying, well, actually
- 30:06Speaker 4: you accidentally paid your mortgage into the wrong account and
- 30:09Speaker 4: you're now behind three months. Like I'm not saying that
- 30:12Speaker 4: those things are true, but when you're anxious, you dramatize
- 30:16Speaker 4: everything and you make everything seem much worse than it
- 30:18Speaker 4: actually is.
- 30:18Speaker 6: And we need to.
- 30:19Speaker 4: Work on that because as a fellow anxious person, that
- 30:22Speaker 4: impacts your ability in your relationships, in your ability to
- 30:25Speaker 4: derive an income, in your ability to you know, be
- 30:28Speaker 4: physically healthy. Like, these things impact you so deeply. It's
- 30:32Speaker 4: not funny. And I think that we don't really talk
- 30:35Speaker 4: about and I don't think we've talked about financial trauma
- 30:37Speaker 4: on the podcast before, but I pulled up a few
- 30:40Speaker 4: stats about it. For you, guys, it has a definition.
- 30:44Speaker 4: Financial trauma is a moment in someone's life where things
- 30:47Speaker 4: changed and a belief and image about their relationship with
- 30:50Speaker 4: money turns around in a negative way. So obviously that
- 30:54Speaker 4: makes sense to me. But one thing that I thought
- 30:56Speaker 4: was really interesting is I was reading an article on
- 30:59Speaker 4: the Nation Child Traumatic Stress Network, which is an American website,
- 31:03Speaker 4: but often when it comes to finances, America is actually
- 31:07Speaker 4: a lot more progressive when talking about things like financial trauma.
- 31:10Speaker 4: Australia I feel like it's genuinely ten years behind when
- 31:13Speaker 4: it comes to finance content. But I found this article
- 31:17Speaker 4: that said researchers have revealed that socioeconomic status can be
- 31:21Speaker 4: linked to a majority of anxiety disorders, which later can
- 31:25Speaker 4: manifest into PTSD, which is post traumatic stress disorder. Food insecurity,
- 31:30Speaker 4: financial worries, housing instability, along with living in vulnerable conditions
- 31:35Speaker 4: can wear a one psyche like this is not just
- 31:38Speaker 4: me going oh my gosh, guys, get some help, like
- 31:40Speaker 4: genuinely research that was done by the APS. So the
- 31:43Speaker 4: Australian Psychological Society found that money was the number one
- 31:46Speaker 4: stressor for employed people. So it makes sense that we're
- 31:49Speaker 4: all stressed about money, But I just don't think we
- 31:51Speaker 4: give it enough credit to say that you can be
- 31:54Speaker 4: traumatized from your personal financial situations, like whether it is bankruptcy.
- 31:58Speaker 4: And I guess that sits on one end of this
- 32:00Speaker 4: spectrum with things like financial abuse and going through really
- 32:02Speaker 4: dramatic situations all the way through to you know, the
- 32:05Speaker 4: situation I was in where I had a personal loan
- 32:07Speaker 4: and I just couldn't sleep at night and I was
- 32:09Speaker 4: super stressed about being able to pay it. So now
- 32:12Speaker 4: whenever we talk about personal loans or you know, I'm
- 32:14Speaker 4: talking about trying to afford things, like, I get that
- 32:16Speaker 4: twang in the back of my head that makes me
- 32:18Speaker 4: feel a little bit sick in my stomach because I go, oh,
- 32:21Speaker 4: I don't want to be there, Like I just don't
- 32:23Speaker 4: want to be in a compromising position. And even when
- 32:26Speaker 4: we were in Europe recently, just so like I had
- 32:28Speaker 4: that pit in my stomach, I was like, am I
- 32:30Speaker 4: reverting to old behaviors? Not because I was going into
- 32:32Speaker 4: debt or using credit or doing anything that I don't
- 32:35Speaker 4: want to do, but because I wasn't tracking my money
- 32:38Speaker 4: as closely as I usually do. And for me, that's
- 32:41Speaker 4: My safety net is always knowing in the back of
- 32:43Speaker 4: my mind what I'm spending, what I'm saving, what that
- 32:45Speaker 4: looked like for this week.
- 32:46Speaker 2: And I remember there was one particular.
- 32:47Speaker 4: Point I was like, I don't know how much I've
- 32:49Speaker 4: spent this week. This gives me anxiety, knowing full well
- 32:52Speaker 4: I could afford it because I'd already budgeted for it
- 32:54Speaker 4: and I knew what was going on, and like we
- 32:56Speaker 4: had these budgeting spreadsheets, but I didn't know how that
- 32:59Speaker 4: budgeting spreadhere sheet fit into my personal budget.
- 33:02Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, I.
- 33:04Speaker 4: Feel a bit anxious, and I had to go away,
- 33:06Speaker 4: and like I looked up my budget and looked at
- 33:08Speaker 4: my bank accounts and made sure i was all comfy
- 33:10Speaker 4: and all happy and I'm in the very privileged position
- 33:12Speaker 4: where it was all fine. But like even me who's
- 33:15Speaker 4: in a fine financial position now was a bit like, oh,
- 33:18Speaker 4: that gave me the ick because I never talked about it,
- 33:22Speaker 4: Like why would I talk about my personal owner paid
- 33:23Speaker 4: it off?
- 33:24Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, that trauma kind of becomes a part of
- 33:27Speaker 7: your money story, I.
- 33:28Speaker 6: Guess, yeah, exactly.
- 33:29Speaker 4: And I don't think we address it for what it
- 33:30Speaker 4: actually is, and that that's trauma, and we need to
- 33:33Speaker 4: get through that. So I guess, in a roundabout way
- 33:35Speaker 4: of answering this question, our answer isn't like do your
- 33:37Speaker 4: budget and do your cash flow, which we would recommend
- 33:39Speaker 4: to absolutely anyone, But I think you need to have
- 33:41Speaker 4: a chat with someone about this situation, about the experience
- 33:44Speaker 4: you've been through, because it was genuinely traumatic and you're
- 33:47Speaker 4: probably carrying a lot of the weight of that experience
- 33:50Speaker 4: that you can probably let go of now.
- 33:51Speaker 5: And if you are struggling with anything like that, we'll
- 33:53Speaker 5: pop a link in the show notes to Beyond Blue.
- 33:55Speaker 5: They're a really fantastic charity who do a lot of
- 33:57Speaker 5: work in the mental health space, particularly around depression, anxiety
- 34:01Speaker 5: and those kinds of things. They're not for profit and
- 34:03Speaker 5: they do fantastic, fantastic work, So if you are struggling,
- 34:06Speaker 5: please feel free to reach out to them.
- 34:08Speaker 4: Yeah, and our friends at the National Debt Helpline. If
- 34:10Speaker 4: you ever feel super stressed about money or you're in
- 34:13Speaker 4: a bit of a pickle, please feel free.
- 34:14Speaker 2: To pick up the phone and have a chat to them.
- 34:16Speaker 4: As we've said before, like it's free financial counseling and
- 34:18Speaker 4: they will put you on track to be in the
- 34:20Speaker 4: best possible position. But both of those resources the resources
- 34:24Speaker 4: that I would personally reach out to if I found
- 34:26Speaker 4: that I was finding a little bit overwhelming.
- 34:28Speaker 7: Perfect place to end it today, ladies, let's rip into
- 34:32Speaker 7: the boring but important stuff.
- 34:33Speaker 2: Oh, I can't wait.
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