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You don't need to feel excited to 'manifest' · #BeMoreLobster

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  SPEAKER_00: Today's micro episode is talking about manifestation, and I'm going to be talking about it in a way that you've probably never heard it talked about before.
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  SPEAKER_00: So you know what to do, grab your brew and let's dive right in.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, like I say, today is a micro episode, and it's just running off the bat of a reel that I did on Tuesday, which went down like an absolute absolute storm.
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  SPEAKER_00: And whilst this isn't a new thought process for me, it obviously has been something that's resonated, and I thought I have to share it with you.
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  SPEAKER_00: So, listen up.
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  SPEAKER_00: Many, many, many, many, many, many years ago when The Secret first came out.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm going back over probably 20 years.
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  SPEAKER_00: I loved the secret by the way, it was like life-changing for me.
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  SPEAKER_00: I look back now and I think I kind of approached manifestation from a process point of view, from an act point of view, doing something.
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  SPEAKER_00: It felt very much like creating something that aligned externally to create something in my own life.
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  SPEAKER_00: It also felt a little bit like you could either manifest or you couldn't.
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  SPEAKER_00: There was that kind of like magical manifestation energy.
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  SPEAKER_00: And although subconsciously we all kind of knew we had access to it, it almost felt a little bit like some people just really got it and some people didn't.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I certainly know that at the very, very beginning, before I even came across mindset, there was almost that thing of deserving that came in.
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  SPEAKER_00: Do I deserve to have this?
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  SPEAKER_00: That's a whole other podcast, by the way.
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  SPEAKER_00: But I just want to tell you like where I was at because I want to see where you land in that map.
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  SPEAKER_00: So when you think about manifestation, whether you think about it differently now to when you did back then, just notice if you can get on board with anything that I've just said about it being something that was an act external and that some people could do it and some people couldn't.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it was like this kind of like mystic thing that happened.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, a few years back I had a different thought about manifestation and I just parked it.
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  SPEAKER_00: I don't know why.
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  SPEAKER_00: I didn't really share it with anybody.
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  SPEAKER_00: I just put it in the back of the wardrobe and didn't think about it until now.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I find it very interesting that I just did this impromptu reel after a day out in London on Monday.
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  SPEAKER_00: It went down like an absolute storm, and it just happens to be the week that we have the final eclipse of the eclipse season, and we've got a big full moon tonight going into tomorrow, and it's the closing of the opposite, I think they call it the opportunity doorway.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, there is a reason why this is landing so much right now, which is why I had to get it out to you so you can hear this right away.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let's go back to that process of the act of manifesting.
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  SPEAKER_00: One of the things that first changed my definition around that was an amazing pod um not podcast, YouTube meditation from Bob Proctor, an abundance meditation, which I will share in the show notes.
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  SPEAKER_00: And in there, he talked about um the transmutation of energy into reality, making something manifest.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it landed in my brain and like in the pictures in such a different way.
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  SPEAKER_00: The transmutation of energy to make something manifest.
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  SPEAKER_00: In other words, every possibility that you desire already exists in the invisible field, whatever you want to call it, vortex, matrix, universe, like call it whatever you want.
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  SPEAKER_00: It already is an existence in possibility.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the way that you choose, or the thoughts that you choose to hold, and therefore the frequency that you choose to create transmutes this energy and makes something manifest in your life.
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  SPEAKER_00: And it just for me started to become something that was more of a responsibility of me holding a frequency than of me imagining that I'm driving behind my car and I'm getting really excited or I'm opening the keys to the house and I'm walking in, I'm like, giddy, and you know, I'm all giddy and da-da-da-da.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like it was just something so much more grounded in certainty that I was like, I freaking love that.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm gonna take that on board.
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  SPEAKER_00: Now, last year, last November, as you know, maybe I went out to Australia for a couple of weeks to do my NLP master's certification.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I remember clients and friends and things saying, like, oh my god, you're so lucky, this is so amazing.
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  SPEAKER_00: I can't believe you're doing that.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's a really long way to go, like, really in support, but almost like it was something unheard of.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I was excited, but I kind of wasn't excited, it was like this neutral sense of, yeah, well, of course, of course, I'm doing it.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like it was just it's it this is who I am.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the same thing happened on Monday.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was in London and on impromptu uh signing up to an amazing workshop by uh Greg Braden, and I was in this room hearing all these amazing things, and there was this excitement, but again, it was this neutral excitement, like I knew this, I know this, I know my power.
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  SPEAKER_00: And so when I did the reel on Tuesday, I was just out walking the dog like I normally am, and FYI, if you're not on Instagram right now following me, why not?
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  SPEAKER_00: Please find the link below and go check out the reel and let me know what you think.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because I opened it up with something along the lines of like, what if you didn't need to be excited to manifest?
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  SPEAKER_00: What if you could just have this grounded sense of certainty?
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  SPEAKER_00: What if your expectations for your life were so high and the standards for yourself were so high that when these amazing things happened, you're like, Yeah, of course.
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  SPEAKER_00: I was waiting for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've been thinking about you for a long time.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm so glad you're here.
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  SPEAKER_00: Thank you for arriving.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, what if it was that?
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  SPEAKER_00: What if we didn't need to like choose to step into excitement and frivolity and vivaciousness and whatever these big emotions are that sit at the top of the um like the frequency cone?
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  SPEAKER_00: Not that they're bad and not that we shouldn't want to feel those things because that's great.
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  SPEAKER_00: But what if the best thing that you could do would be to focus on creating those thought and feeling states that align with I have very high expectations and standards for my life.
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  SPEAKER_00: I know what I want and I'm gonna get what I want.
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  SPEAKER_00: I am so certain in the inevitability of my creating this life for myself that when these things happen, it's like, hello, dear friend, I've been here waiting for you.
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  SPEAKER_00: Doesn't that feel so much better?
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  SPEAKER_00: And let me tell you from a business perspective as well.
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  SPEAKER_00: When my clients finally drop into that grounded certainty of their own inevitability of their success, business becomes easy because nothing deters you.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know you can hold big problems and you don't make it mean anything.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know you can hold failure without blame, shame, or judgment.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know you can hold like the capacity to work on several things at once.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know that you can you can be safe in slowing down.
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  SPEAKER_00: You know that you can hold the space for like, I'm just gonna focus on these one or two things this month and then I'll review it.
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  SPEAKER_00: So it's a that this gift of grounded in certainty and sufficiency and of course is not just a great manifestation experience or making things manifest experience, it's something that makes running your business so much easier because you're not chasing to get to the result to prove yourself that you can make it happen.
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  SPEAKER_00: You're not constantly fighting the fear of not being enough or the or FOMO, you're not trying to run away from the pain because let me tell you, the pain just changes at different levels.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the difference is when you increase your capacity for the pain, the pain doesn't feel the same.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's just part of the process.
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  SPEAKER_00: I see so many women in business running from the pain because they think it's meaning that they're doing something wrong.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not, it's because you're so freaking courageous that you're doing something that most people in the world wouldn't do that you feel higher levels of emotional discomfort on a regular basis than the average person.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm really sorry if I'm speaking really quick, but I'm super passionate about this.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um so I'm gonna literally leave it at that.
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  SPEAKER_00: Short, sharp, and sweet.
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  SPEAKER_00: I would love to know what you think, though.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm really, really curious.
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  SPEAKER_00: So I would love it if you would go over to Instagram, follow me, I will put the link below because it's a bit of a mouthful.
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  SPEAKER_00: Find that real.
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  SPEAKER_00: I think I've talked about something like what if you didn't need to be excited to manifest or something, you'll find it.
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  SPEAKER_00: And let me know what you think in the comments.
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  SPEAKER_00: Let me know what happens in your brain and your body when you think about I could just choose to focus on creating a certainty and efficiency in my body and know that this shit is out there, just waiting for me to transmute it through the thoughts that I choose to hold and the frequency that I choose to create.
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  SPEAKER_00: And why not start now?
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  SPEAKER_00: Why not start now under the power of the full moon that's coming up and just decide.
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  SPEAKER_00: Decide for yourself.
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  SPEAKER_00: Decide the high expectations, decide the high standards, and be that person right now.
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  SPEAKER_00: Phew! Anyway, hope you enjoyed this micro episode.
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  SPEAKER_00: There'll be more to come, you know.
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  SPEAKER_00: And until then, I'll speak to you again in the next episode of the Be My Lobster podcast.