Rethinking 50-50 care Through A Child’s Eyes

Inside The Consulting Room - Understanding the Child Behind the Behaviour · Feb 4, 2026 · 13m · transcript

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We challenge the idea that equal time is equal care and centre the child’s need for one secure base. Real stories from the consulting room reveal how conflict, absence, and “fairness” myths shape behaviour, learning, and long-term attachment.

• the hidden costs of two homes and split routines

• how “fair” time can ignore child stability

• signs of emotional harm and internal conflict

• why children rarely choose 50-50 when asked

• absent parents, broken promises, and self-blame

...Next,

• practical ways to reduce transitions and center school and friends

• when therapy helps…