You Know What to Do — So Why Are You Still Stuck? Here's the Real Reason

The Advisor with Stacey Chillemi · Dec 26, 2025 · 45m

You have read the books. You know the steps. You could probably write the advice yourself at this point — and somehow knowing has not translated into doing. That gap is not a discipline problem. It is an identity problem. Whatever belief is running underneath your choices is more powerful than any goal you set on top of it. Stephen Rue is a lawyer, coach, and author of the MUST series who works specifically at that root level — the limiting beliefs that show up in the language you use about yourself without you even noticing. What he shares about the I Am exercise that uncovers what is…