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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello.
- 0:01Speaker 2: My name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yr the
- 0:05Speaker 2: Order Kerni Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before we
- 0:08Speaker 2: get started on She's on the Money podcast, I would
- 0:11Speaker 2: like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land of
- 0:14Speaker 2: which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country, acknowledging
- 0:18Speaker 2: the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming through.
- 0:23Speaker 2: As this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing and
- 0:27Speaker 2: the storytelling of you to make a difference for today
- 0:31Speaker 2: and lasting impact for tomorrow.
- 0:33Speaker 1: Let's get into it.
- 0:34Speaker 3: She's on the Money, She's on the Money.
- 0:58Speaker 4: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast
- 1:00Speaker 4: Millennials who want Financial Freedom.
- 1:03Speaker 1: My name is Jessica Ricky.
- 1:04Speaker 4: And of course today I have Beksayer joining me because
- 1:07Speaker 4: it's Friday, so today we are celebrating you, the incredible
- 1:10Speaker 4: She's on the Money community. Today, I'll be sharing some
- 1:13Speaker 4: of my favorite money ins. Beck will be sharing some
- 1:15Speaker 4: of her best broke tips, and we'll be helping to
- 1:17Speaker 4: answer a juicy money dilemma, which this week is all
- 1:19Speaker 4: about prioritizing healthy eating and your budget. Plus we're going
- 1:23Speaker 4: to unpack something that you slid into our DMS, about
- 1:25Speaker 4: which this week you asked for advice about navigating going
- 1:28Speaker 4: into business with your bestie.
- 1:30Speaker 1: Oh juicy, exciting and.
- 1:33Speaker 4: Beck, I feel like we have someone you might be
- 1:34Speaker 4: able to give us a little insight into that today, I do.
- 1:36Speaker 4: It does feel like we have someone in the room
- 1:38Speaker 4: with us today, a nice, bright energy. We are super
- 1:41Speaker 4: excited to be joined by someone who I think will
- 1:43Speaker 4: have some really amazing insights to share today. Laura Henshaw
- 1:47Speaker 4: is the CEO and co founder of health and.
- 1:49Speaker 1: Finis app Kick.
- 1:51Speaker 5: She's a podcaster and a columnist, among so many other things.
- 1:55Speaker 6: Welcome Laura, thank you so much for having me.
- 1:57Speaker 3: I'm so excited to be here, and I also I
- 2:00Speaker 3: come bearing gifts for anyone that has heard of Kick.
- 2:04Speaker 3: If you're thinking what the heck you're talking about, you'll
- 2:06Speaker 3: find out a little bit in this episode. But if
- 2:08Speaker 3: you have heard of Kick and you have wanted to
- 2:10Speaker 3: give it a go, it's an app that I.
- 2:12Speaker 6: Am the founder of and the CEO of.
- 2:15Speaker 3: We have over a thousand recipes, workouts and meditations on there,
- 2:19Speaker 3: and if you do want to give it a go,
- 2:20Speaker 3: we've got a free month code for your wonderful community,
- 2:24Speaker 3: which could be a bit of a money win.
- 2:26Speaker 6: I was thinking, we love a good segue.
- 2:30Speaker 3: Yes, So the code is money month and if you
- 2:34Speaker 3: go onto the website www dot kick app dot com,
- 2:37Speaker 3: make an account, put the code in for the monthly membership,
- 2:39Speaker 3: then download the app and log in, you can give
- 2:42Speaker 3: it a go.
- 2:42Speaker 1: Amazing cool, This is so exciting.
- 2:45Speaker 5: You're a very impressive, impressive woman about that definitely.
- 2:50Speaker 4: We were just talking off air about how you guys
- 2:52Speaker 4: celebrated your fifth birthday for Kick very recently.
- 2:55Speaker 3: Yes, for the podcast, which is crazy. It honestly has
- 2:58Speaker 3: felt like a year or two. Yeah, half a day
- 3:02Speaker 3: that as soon as you're an adult time, Yeah. I
- 3:07Speaker 3: feel like when you're a kid, it's like I just
- 3:09Speaker 3: want to be eighteen. Yeah, and then you're an adult,
- 3:12Speaker 3: it's like a five years.
- 3:14Speaker 1: I like to get older. How's it Ron's week been?
- 3:20Speaker 4: Might's been good? Taylor Swift, anybody else? The Torture Poets Department?
- 3:24Speaker 1: Big week dropped.
- 3:25Speaker 4: I know, Beck, you're not a huge fan, so I
- 3:27Speaker 4: don't know, are you across the whole?
- 3:29Speaker 5: I am across it, and I like, I'm you know,
- 3:31Speaker 5: I'm one of those not swifties that also don't hate tails.
- 3:34Speaker 1: Yeah, you appreciate I appreciate tailors swift.
- 3:36Speaker 4: So anyone who doesn't know she dropped an album, we're
- 3:38Speaker 4: all very excited. And then she put up another little
- 3:40Speaker 4: countdown on her Instagram and everyone's like, what's the countdown for?
- 3:44Speaker 4: What is she counting down for? What's happening? Two hours
- 3:46Speaker 4: later a second album. She does thirty one songs in
- 3:51Speaker 4: one day.
- 3:53Speaker 6: So it wasn't always in the same album.
- 3:55Speaker 4: So the second bit is she created an anthology, which
- 3:58Speaker 4: is like normally a collection or curation of poems or writings.
- 4:03Speaker 4: So so if you look up Tortured Poets Department the anthology,
- 4:06Speaker 4: that one has all thirty one but if you look
- 4:09Speaker 4: up just Tortured Poets Department and it has the original
- 4:11Speaker 4: set of songs.
- 4:12Speaker 1: I see, my queen.
- 4:14Speaker 4: I had full mental breakdown, like I was already crying.
- 4:18Speaker 1: I saw your calendar. It was quite funny.
- 4:20Speaker 3: I all about listening because it was that was like
- 4:24Speaker 3: a Tuesday or something.
- 4:25Speaker 1: It was a Friday, Friday. I remember looking at your
- 4:28Speaker 1: calendar and I was like, I love that. I feel
- 4:30Speaker 1: like if that was one of my employees. So cute, Jess,
- 4:33Speaker 1: I love watching you talk about Taylor Switch.
- 4:35Speaker 5: I get so excited and like things that make you
- 4:37Speaker 5: excited like Habiitasherie. You know, I just think it's really
- 4:42Speaker 5: cute to see like revert back into like a really
- 4:44Speaker 5: cute like young.
- 4:45Speaker 4: Like it is such a you're not young. It's you
- 4:48Speaker 4: know what I mean, It's a girlhood thing. I said
- 4:50Speaker 4: this about the Errors Tour. It just it made you
- 4:53Speaker 4: feel comfortable with girlhood, like all of that joy and
- 4:57Speaker 4: just wearing something sparkly and something you just feel cute
- 4:59Speaker 4: in and all those things that I think society sometimes
- 5:01Speaker 4: makes you feel silly for, like why are you so
- 5:04Speaker 4: excited over these like chill out?
- 5:05Speaker 1: Like it just is almost like permission. That's how I
- 5:09Speaker 1: feel abou tailor sweet. So it's very big weak for
- 5:10Speaker 1: me about you.
- 5:14Speaker 3: I love that I had a I had a good week.
- 5:17Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of people. Now it's got
- 5:19Speaker 3: a little bit colder. You get a bit sick, like
- 5:21Speaker 3: your body's like hang on, it's so hot. So I
- 5:23Speaker 3: have it last week, but now matter this week because
- 5:25Speaker 3: I'm feeling good and you have.
- 5:26Speaker 4: A you found appreciation for me able to breathe out
- 5:29Speaker 4: both your nostrils that you get after me. You know,
- 5:31Speaker 4: when you're sick and you're like, I never.
- 5:32Speaker 3: Appreciated very wide nostrils, so they get really super blocked
- 5:39Speaker 3: when I have like other things. But yeah, my nostrils
- 5:43Speaker 3: seem to be that sounds amazing.
- 5:46Speaker 1: Thoroughfare the word thoroughfare. God lucky you pray for white nostrils.
- 5:57Speaker 1: How's your We've been back? My week has It's been
- 6:00Speaker 1: pretty good.
- 6:01Speaker 5: I like, you know, obviously, as everyone knows, I'm like
- 6:04Speaker 5: in between jobs at the moment, so but I've just
- 6:06Speaker 5: started like casually working again at this in this office
- 6:09Speaker 5: and with Kiss with Kids Radio, so it's been really fun.
- 6:13Speaker 5: I've just felt like, you know, when you're like not working,
- 6:17Speaker 5: it's sounds like a dream, sounds like you're just constantly
- 6:19Speaker 5: on holiday. But everyone you've ever met is working, So
- 6:22Speaker 5: you're like you wake up and you're like, Okay, what
- 6:24Speaker 5: do I do now?
- 6:24Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
- 6:25Speaker 5: Or you will go to the gym and they be like, okay,
- 6:27Speaker 5: now what do I do? Like it's always like what
- 6:29Speaker 5: do I do?
- 6:30Speaker 4: You know?
- 6:30Speaker 5: So just knowing that I have something to like fill
- 6:33Speaker 5: my days and it's fun with people that I love,
- 6:36Speaker 5: and I just like I'm feeling really happy. So this
- 6:38Speaker 5: week has been really enjoyable. So yeah, I'm feeling good.
- 6:41Speaker 5: I'm feeling good.
- 6:42Speaker 4: Sounds like you're having a winning week, so do you.
- 6:47Speaker 4: I like a little pun.
- 6:48Speaker 1: I try, I really do try to do.
- 6:50Speaker 4: Speaking of which, I have some excellent money wins to
- 6:52Speaker 4: share with everybody this week. I will start off with Tyler,
- 6:56Speaker 4: who said I got my first dividend.
- 6:59Speaker 1: It was two dollars retirement coming soon.
- 7:01Speaker 4: I'm amazing and that was just the energy that I
- 7:04Speaker 4: needed this week celebrating the small wins.
- 7:06Speaker 1: Well done, Tyler.
- 7:07Speaker 4: Next, I have a money win from Stacy, who said
- 7:10Speaker 4: I found lots of my berry plants had rooted on
- 7:12Speaker 4: the end of some canes. So I've potted them up
- 7:14Speaker 4: and I'm hoping they're all settle into the pots nicely
- 7:17Speaker 4: so I can sell them in a few months.
- 7:18Speaker 5: Maybe I didn't understand any of those words, but I
- 7:20Speaker 5: feel like trust the process.
- 7:22Speaker 4: You know, the berries had babies, and she did to
- 7:25Speaker 4: sell the babies on the canes, Yeah, which I think
- 7:27Speaker 4: is just maybe what she was growing them on.
- 7:29Speaker 1: Understood.
- 7:30Speaker 4: Yes, very exciting. We love that making something from nothing cool. Next,
- 7:34Speaker 4: I've got a really good money win for anyone who's
- 7:36Speaker 4: planning on traveling to the Goldie anytime soon? From Alisha,
- 7:40Speaker 4: who said, we're traveling the Goldie. We're in a caravan.
- 7:42Speaker 4: We wanted to head to Movie World. Two adults and
- 7:44Speaker 4: two children. That would be four hundred and eighty dollars
- 7:48Speaker 4: in tickets. Whoa daylight robbery? Now I understand why we
- 7:51Speaker 4: never wanted kids. Hurry, but she said, after doing some
- 7:54Speaker 4: research online, she's discovered that you can stay at the
- 7:58Speaker 4: SeaWorld resort for four hundred and forty four dollars like
- 8:01Speaker 4: a basic double room, and you get free entry to
- 8:05Speaker 4: Movie World the day that you check in.
- 8:06Speaker 1: So she caught up.
- 8:07Speaker 4: She organized early check in, and so they're staying accommodated
- 8:11Speaker 4: in an actual hotel for less money than they would
- 8:14Speaker 4: have spent on just their ticket Skins Movie World.
- 8:16Speaker 1: That is really cool. And then they have like a
- 8:18Speaker 1: nine of luxury if they're not that you know, did
- 8:21Speaker 1: they save an actual room?
- 8:22Speaker 4: They were in a caravan, they've got some proper see, yeah,
- 8:25Speaker 4: a bit more space curious.
- 8:27Speaker 3: I don't know what Free World accommodations like. Yeah, I
- 8:30Speaker 3: don't know either, but sure it's lovely. It's the main
- 8:35Speaker 3: thing is it's cheaper than the tickets. And I'm going
- 8:37Speaker 3: to call that a money win. That's a big win,
- 8:38Speaker 3: totally big win. Well done, Alisha.
- 8:40Speaker 4: Next, I've got one from Jesse her excellent name, who
- 8:43Speaker 4: said I ordered a glass of wine and they had
- 8:46Speaker 4: just under half a glass's worth left after her glass
- 8:51Speaker 4: and asked if I'd like the full glass for free.
- 8:53Speaker 1: Oh okay, so they had like a little bit left.
- 8:56Speaker 1: They're like, we'll just top.
- 8:56Speaker 4: It's like when you buy fabric and this is very
- 8:58Speaker 4: niche when you're buying As I'm saying this, I'm like
- 9:00Speaker 4: maybe not buying fabric at spotlight and they've got like
- 9:03Speaker 4: a little bit left on the roll. They're like, do
- 9:05Speaker 4: you want to just take it all for an extra dollar?
- 9:07Speaker 4: And you're like, absolutely I would.
- 9:09Speaker 5: It is similar to like when you're like in the
- 9:11Speaker 5: toilet and it's like I'm only allowing myself X amount
- 9:14Speaker 5: of squares.
- 9:18Speaker 1: I'm I'm not going to leave to exactly I'll give
- 9:22Speaker 1: myself Why not?
- 9:24Speaker 4: Oh my boyfriend youly for one square one?
- 9:27Speaker 1: Okay. It's a toxic trait.
- 9:32Speaker 6: Yeah, that is so cheeky.
- 9:34Speaker 4: And then lastly, I've got a very on theme win
- 9:37Speaker 4: from zoeh said money win.
- 9:38Speaker 1: Taylor put all her bonus tracks straight onto.
- 9:40Speaker 4: Streaming so I don't have to buy all the album
- 9:42Speaker 4: variants to hear them.
- 9:44Speaker 1: We love that a queen being so considerate.
- 9:46Speaker 4: Now, Laura, we've been asking everyone who comes in if
- 9:48Speaker 4: they have their own money or perhaps confession to share
- 9:51Speaker 4: if you happen to have one.
- 9:52Speaker 6: I do, so I don't know if anyone, Well are you.
- 9:56Speaker 3: I think it's only in Victoria, So if you live
- 9:57Speaker 3: in Victoria, you'll be familiar and you go park around
- 10:00Speaker 3: the city with past.
- 10:01Speaker 1: Day the app.
- 10:04Speaker 3: So I have been locked out of my app for
- 10:07Speaker 3: a long time and I can use it, but I
- 10:09Speaker 3: can't change cars in it. That's when it makes me
- 10:13Speaker 3: do my password and I my car was actually stolen
- 10:17Speaker 3: last year, which is fine, no problem at all, It's
- 10:19Speaker 3: all good. I was safe, it was well, it was
- 10:21Speaker 3: the car's not safe, but it was out.
- 10:24Speaker 6: The front of my house. I didn't come he went
- 10:26Speaker 6: car okay.
- 10:28Speaker 3: So I have a new car, and so I needed
- 10:31Speaker 3: to put my number plate into the payday app, and
- 10:33Speaker 3: every time I park, I'm rushed. So then I'm like,
- 10:36Speaker 3: I don't have time to work out my because it
- 10:38Speaker 3: keeps saying I didn't have an account. I'm like, I definitely.
- 10:41Speaker 6: Because I'm using it.
- 10:42Speaker 3: I have an account, and it's one of those things
- 10:44Speaker 3: that I just it is. I have to say, from
- 10:46Speaker 3: a product experience perspective, the forgot password experience is not
- 10:50Speaker 3: the best I.
- 10:51Speaker 6: Have used anyway.
- 10:53Speaker 3: So every time I end up having to pay for
- 10:56Speaker 3: the full time, so like the full two hours of
- 10:58Speaker 3: full one hour, because I have to.
- 10:59Speaker 6: Do it in the machine thing.
- 11:00Speaker 3: Yeah, but the most amazing thing with pace day or
- 11:02Speaker 3: whatever other thing is that you can pause it as
- 11:04Speaker 3: soon as you stop parking.
- 11:05Speaker 6: You just pay for what you parked.
- 11:06Speaker 3: Yes, So anyway, on the way kend, I dedicated twenty
- 11:08Speaker 3: minutes to working out how to get into my past
- 11:11Speaker 3: day app happened to be connected to my email from
- 11:14Speaker 3: about ten years ago.
- 11:15Speaker 1: So well that's why.
- 11:17Speaker 3: That's why anyway I'm in, And now since then, when
- 11:20Speaker 3: I've been parking, I'm just paying for the actual time
- 11:23Speaker 3: that I'm parking instead of the entire you know, two
- 11:27Speaker 3: hours or whatever. So that's a win, and I just
- 11:29Speaker 3: feel I feel organized. It was like a life Adaman
- 11:32Speaker 3: and every time I'm like, oh, why is this so difficult?
- 11:35Speaker 3: And it was a little bit difficult, but it wasn't
- 11:37Speaker 3: as hard as I built it up to be my
- 11:38Speaker 3: hit right right right, And it's like a weight off
- 11:40Speaker 3: your shoulders, theos that you leave for so long that
- 11:43Speaker 3: you go, oh, I need to do that, But I worry, April,
- 11:45Speaker 3: I'm so guilty of this.
- 11:45Speaker 4: See for weeks weeks and weeks, and then you do it.
- 11:47Speaker 4: You're like, why did I not just do that like
- 11:50Speaker 4: three weeks ago?
- 11:51Speaker 5: Yes, yes, I kind of had everything that story. It's
- 11:53Speaker 5: a money loss initially and will be your money win
- 11:56Speaker 5: in the future, exactly.
- 11:57Speaker 1: I love that incredible, Beck. Do you have any little
- 12:00Speaker 1: broke tips for us this week?
- 12:01Speaker 5: I do have some frog tips, so as per we
- 12:05Speaker 5: have some from the community and one from myself. But Laura,
- 12:08Speaker 5: because you are here, I'm hoping that you have one
- 12:11Speaker 5: to share after so I will just give you guys
- 12:13Speaker 5: one from the community for today. So the first one
- 12:15Speaker 5: comes from Tanya, who says, go to w allers at
- 12:18Speaker 5: four pm every day. That's where they start discounting food
- 12:20Speaker 5: items expiring that day. I stuck up on meats and
- 12:23Speaker 5: leave it in the freezer. Ask your local woolies what
- 12:26Speaker 5: time they discount it, as times may differ, which I
- 12:29Speaker 5: know is like something similar to what we've had before,
- 12:31Speaker 5: but I just think it's a really good idea because
- 12:32Speaker 5: I hadn't thought about meat and like having that like
- 12:36Speaker 5: marked down and just like keeping in the freezer forever
- 12:38Speaker 5: for the rest of eternity.
- 12:39Speaker 6: Do you follow those accounts on TikTok.
- 12:41Speaker 3: There's people on TikTok that are experts at this, and
- 12:44Speaker 3: these people are getting honestly three hundred dollars worth of stuff,
- 12:48Speaker 3: Like they buy muffins, everything, so much stuff gets discounts, fruit, venge,
- 12:52Speaker 3: salad mix, meat, Yeah, honestly, if it can go off,
- 12:56Speaker 3: it's it's discounted, and they get it for like twenty dollars.
- 12:59Speaker 3: And I find myself watching it because it's like that,
- 13:01Speaker 3: oh my god, they got like that packet of lettuce
- 13:03Speaker 3: for twenty one cents, and it's just quite satisfying to watch.
- 13:07Speaker 4: I would love to just figure out how they did,
- 13:10Speaker 4: like why twenty one cents, like so specific.
- 13:13Speaker 3: Yeah, I know you're exactly a formula or something, but
- 13:16Speaker 3: when it's going off and what the price is or something,
- 13:18Speaker 3: but it is, honestly, I I'm.
- 13:20Speaker 6: Like, oh, this is amazing, so good.
- 13:23Speaker 5: And I remember, like obviously when it's like a bigger
- 13:26Speaker 5: long weekend, let's say like Easter or Christmas my mum
- 13:28Speaker 5: for example, just this Christmas, the passport, like you know
- 13:31Speaker 5: those whole is cakes, like those, not the mud cake,
- 13:34Speaker 5: like more than the mud cake, even though the mud
- 13:37Speaker 5: cake is sufficient, but the ones that have like the
- 13:39Speaker 5: decorations in the.
- 13:40Speaker 6: Card put it's in the cardboard, babe, you get it.
- 13:45Speaker 5: I think the whole cake was like eighty three cents.
- 13:47Speaker 5: I'm not exaggerating. I have photo Sid's crazy and so yeah,
- 13:51Speaker 5: just like you know, go pisack out your local Woolies and.
- 13:54Speaker 4: They pre stock for the big weekends. Probably yeah, exactly,
- 13:57Speaker 4: just they counts.
- 13:57Speaker 1: They probably have extra leftover, exactly exactly. Talk to you
- 14:01Speaker 1: like a Woollies person. That's it.
- 14:03Speaker 6: Probably cold, yeah, maybe not aldi.
- 14:08Speaker 1: I've never seen Ali marked out anything. But they don't
- 14:09Speaker 1: need to do they It's so cheap.
- 14:12Speaker 4: Sometimes the stuff, the fun stuff in the middle bit
- 14:14Speaker 4: ye all the hile that gets you. Sometimes that stuff
- 14:16Speaker 4: goes on sale if it's like a two I think
- 14:18Speaker 4: if it's two lack left of center. True, nobody bought
- 14:21Speaker 4: like the mini standing tree.
- 14:25Speaker 5: So randomly aile a whole different later for like three dollars.
- 14:29Speaker 5: I'd buy that and then My broke tip for this
- 14:31Speaker 5: week again is also kind of similar to ones that
- 14:33Speaker 5: I've mentioned before, but I'm talking specifically about Adobe today.
- 14:37Speaker 1: Sorry.
- 14:37Speaker 5: Adobe, if you're listening for some reason to this podcast,
- 14:42Speaker 5: please know that I appreciate you so basically with Adobe
- 14:46Speaker 5: in my life, I've never you know, how you can
- 14:49Speaker 5: do the free trial and stuff like that.
- 14:50Speaker 1: You can do that for a lot of things.
- 14:51Speaker 5: It's all, you know, great, But if I actually intend
- 14:54Speaker 5: on staying, I will always free trial at first, and
- 14:58Speaker 5: then pretend that I'm canceling and then be like, no,
- 15:00Speaker 5: I don't want this anymore. And then they'll be like please, babe,
- 15:03Speaker 5: and then they'll be like, what if we give to
- 15:05Speaker 5: you cheaper? And then I'm like no, and then they
- 15:07Speaker 5: give it cheaper, cheaper, cheaper, and toward the end you
- 15:10Speaker 5: might even save like half price. So Adobe can be
- 15:13Speaker 5: quite expensive. If you can afford it, Please pay for
- 15:16Speaker 5: price because it's an amazing like I don't know, I
- 15:18Speaker 5: just love all their programs.
- 15:18Speaker 1: It's it's great.
- 15:19Speaker 5: But because I haven't, like you know, i've kind of
- 15:21Speaker 5: been in between jobs. I need to pay for that
- 15:23Speaker 5: myself now and I'm like, wow, it is so expensive.
- 15:26Speaker 5: So I have unfortunately had to be kind of like
- 15:29Speaker 5: being in a position where I'm not routing the system
- 15:32Speaker 5: but really taking creative, being at to be creative exactly exactly.
- 15:36Speaker 5: And so I would say I'd always recommend that goes
- 15:39Speaker 5: through a lot of things. Had the same thing with apps,
- 15:42Speaker 5: and also, like you know, I've tried to cancel my
- 15:44Speaker 5: Fitness First membership and they were like, how about this.
- 15:47Speaker 5: They kind of gave it to me a lot cheaper
- 15:48Speaker 5: half price, and like a lot of things, if you're
- 15:50Speaker 5: like I'm leaving, I'm out of here, They're you know,
- 15:54Speaker 5: the companies will be like, please stay and we'll give
- 15:56Speaker 5: you XYZ. So just try it, Just try it, you know.
- 16:00Speaker 5: So that's my bro tip and I hope that is
- 16:03Speaker 5: useful for someone out there.
- 16:04Speaker 1: And Laura will head to you.
- 16:06Speaker 2: Now.
- 16:06Speaker 1: Do you happen to have a broad tip of your own?
- 16:08Speaker 3: I do, and mine can come off the back of yours,
- 16:09Speaker 3: because I find with insurance, car insurance in.
- 16:13Speaker 6: Particular, every year and my car insurance rolls.
- 16:15Speaker 3: Over something, they often will put it up each year
- 16:20Speaker 3: and if you call them and it's life admin, it
- 16:22Speaker 3: goes and it's the thing that's like, I just it's
- 16:24Speaker 3: going to be a big thing, But it actually doesn't
- 16:25Speaker 3: take that long if you call them and or maybe
- 16:28Speaker 3: you go on a website where you can compare different
- 16:30Speaker 3: insurances and you find a cheaper price for your insurance.
- 16:33Speaker 3: And I know you've you've absolutely recommended this on the
- 16:36Speaker 3: podcast before, but it's always one to remind ourselves off
- 16:38Speaker 3: because it goes in the part of life admin. And
- 16:41Speaker 3: then you call them and say, hey, I'm leaving I
- 16:43Speaker 3: found insurance for this price.
- 16:44Speaker 6: They will very often match it.
- 16:47Speaker 1: Amazing, that's really cool.
- 16:48Speaker 4: Again, you probably if you did a little I'm gonna
- 16:50Speaker 4: leave RACV for UI like someone, you know what I mean,
- 16:53Speaker 4: they might go, oh, no, please please stay, give you
- 16:55Speaker 4: a little cheeky discount. Even if you don't find somewhere
- 16:57Speaker 4: that you can match it.
- 16:58Speaker 1: Yes, give it a go.
- 17:00Speaker 4: They have online chats now at all the time too,
- 17:01Speaker 4: So if it is in that too hard basket for
- 17:03Speaker 4: life admin a little tight while you're doing something else,
- 17:06Speaker 4: don't go.
- 17:07Speaker 1: Astraight mm hmmm hmm. It's so right. It's always worth
- 17:10Speaker 1: giving it to go.
- 17:10Speaker 4: The worst that they can say is no, exactly, I'm
- 17:13Speaker 4: trying to make that my attitude this year is just
- 17:15Speaker 4: take a punt, and if I say no, they.
- 17:16Speaker 1: Say no, that's okay, that's okay.
- 17:19Speaker 4: All right, Well, why don't we head to a really
- 17:20Speaker 4: quick break and on the other side, we're going to
- 17:22Speaker 4: be talking about prioritizing healthy eating while you're on a budget,
- 17:25Speaker 4: and navigating going in business with your bestie.
- 17:28Speaker 1: So don't go anywhere. Welcome back everyone. Here's our money dilemma.
- 17:37Speaker 6: Hi.
- 17:37Speaker 7: There, have you got a money dilemma you just can't solve?
- 17:40Speaker 7: The Sheese on the Money team is here to help.
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- 17:54Speaker 7: yourself on the show. Now, let's take a listen to
- 17:56Speaker 7: this week's money dilemma.
- 17:59Speaker 8: Hey guys, I'm single, and I'm on seventy five k
- 18:03Speaker 8: per year, and I've set myself the target this year
- 18:07Speaker 8: to eat better and have a more balanced diet, but
- 18:11Speaker 8: also to whip up my budget into shape and get
- 18:14Speaker 8: my savings and emergency fund in place, because at the
- 18:17Speaker 8: moment it's looking really dire, and I just feel like
- 18:20Speaker 8: I don't have a safety net, especially in this cost
- 18:24Speaker 8: of living crisis. I feel like I haven't yet managed
- 18:27Speaker 8: to do both yet.
- 18:29Speaker 1: One week, my.
- 18:30Speaker 8: Savings will be better, but my food habit's not great.
- 18:34Speaker 8: And then the next week I feel like I'm burning
- 18:35Speaker 8: through the extra cash at the checkout buying wonderful healthy
- 18:39Speaker 8: foods that I know my body needs and deserves. And
- 18:43Speaker 8: I just feel like I'm having to sacrifice my health
- 18:48Speaker 8: for more money, or I spend more of my money
- 18:51Speaker 8: and feel financially stressed, but I'm eating better. It's April now,
- 18:57Speaker 8: and I feel like I'm still on this sea saw
- 18:59Speaker 8: and have had made no progress.
- 19:01Speaker 1: Any advice would be so welcome.
- 19:04Speaker 8: Thank you.
- 19:05Speaker 1: I'm sorry feeling stressed.
- 19:06Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of people are feeling stressed
- 19:08Speaker 4: right now, and it's it's so unfair that people need
- 19:10Speaker 4: to feel like they have to choose between their help
- 19:13Speaker 4: or some level of financial stability. And that's not a
- 19:15Speaker 4: reflector on you. That is very much a reflection of
- 19:17Speaker 4: the financial climate and the way things are structured, which
- 19:20Speaker 4: is just awful. So I just want to say, firstly,
- 19:22Speaker 4: it's not you, like You're not the problem.
- 19:24Speaker 1: Here, but I.
- 19:25Speaker 4: Feel like, obviously, Laura, you are the co founder of Kick.
- 19:28Speaker 4: You guys are all about health and balance and all
- 19:31Speaker 4: those sorts of things. So I feel like you maybe
- 19:32Speaker 4: have some good insight to share.
- 19:35Speaker 3: Sure, yes, so, as you said, just just to echo
- 19:39Speaker 3: what Jess said, it is just horrible to feel like
- 19:41Speaker 3: we have to choose between looking after our bodies and
- 19:43Speaker 3: our health and then wanting to.
- 19:46Speaker 1: Have financial stability.
- 19:48Speaker 3: However, I do think and this is actually going back
- 19:51Speaker 3: to when we first started Kick in twenty fifteen with
- 19:54Speaker 3: our ebook was recipes, and the point of the kind
- 19:58Speaker 3: of recipe food part of Kick was wanting to kind
- 20:01Speaker 3: of reframe healthy eating as it being able to be
- 20:05Speaker 3: accessible and also affordable. I think there's quite a bit
- 20:08Speaker 3: of misconception that do eat healthy, you have to go
- 20:11Speaker 3: to the organic food store and like buy really expensive
- 20:14Speaker 3: food and everything has to be organic, and that's not
- 20:17Speaker 3: feasible for most people in society unless you value that
- 20:22Speaker 3: very highly and that's your core spending area and then
- 20:25Speaker 3: the rest you save. And so for us at Kick,
- 20:28Speaker 3: what's really important is making healthy eating accessible and so
- 20:33Speaker 3: in thinking through how to eat healthy while saving money,
- 20:36Speaker 3: there's a few things that I think can really help.
- 20:38Speaker 3: So the first one being when things are trending, especially
- 20:41Speaker 3: within the health space. We see things trending, it goes
- 20:43Speaker 3: kind of from one thing to the other, they usually
- 20:47Speaker 3: go up in price significantly. And so it is so
- 20:51Speaker 3: for example, if anything becomes in quotation mark superfood, Like
- 20:55Speaker 3: there was a time when oats was it, and oats
- 20:56Speaker 3: is amazing.
- 20:57Speaker 6: Really really healthy food, part of a.
- 21:00Speaker 3: For part of our diet that we can eat delicious,
- 21:02Speaker 3: you know, great for breakfast, however you're going to eat
- 21:04Speaker 3: you're ever going to eat it. But there was a
- 21:05Speaker 3: time when it was labeled a superfood and it went up.
- 21:09Speaker 3: Take crassing anytime that that happens, because then the food
- 21:14Speaker 3: starts to become popular. So then more brands or new
- 21:16Speaker 3: brands to kind of like, okay, I'm going to make
- 21:19Speaker 3: this into a product. Then you end up paying for
- 21:21Speaker 3: a lot of the branding and kind of all of
- 21:23Speaker 3: the superfoodness around it. When it's trending, and it's that
- 21:27Speaker 3: can push our what we're spending on our food, it
- 21:29Speaker 3: can increase the food bilt quite significantly. So not feeling
- 21:32Speaker 3: like we have to you know, follow all the health
- 21:34Speaker 3: trends is really important and just.
- 21:36Speaker 1: Always trip it back to basics.
- 21:38Speaker 3: The second thing is around canned foods like lagrooms and beans.
- 21:43Speaker 6: They're really great high sources of protein.
- 21:46Speaker 3: There's something that you can buy when they're on sales,
- 21:48Speaker 3: so you can stock up if they're half priza balls
- 21:50Speaker 3: or coals or wherever you buy them, and.
- 21:52Speaker 1: They they last for ages. Yeah, true.
- 21:56Speaker 3: And then also that you can add them into casseroles
- 21:58Speaker 3: or whatever, like slow especially we now go into winter
- 22:01Speaker 3: slow cooked meals to help bulk up the protein without
- 22:04Speaker 3: having to add extra meat. So if you do eat meat,
- 22:07Speaker 3: and meat is expensive, it's the usually the most expensive
- 22:10Speaker 3: thing in our kind of grocery bill of what we're buying,
- 22:13Speaker 3: So you can bulk up the protein with the more
- 22:15Speaker 3: affordable item in the lagrooms, and they're really really good
- 22:18Speaker 3: for us.
- 22:19Speaker 1: I just realized I've been pronouncing that wrong way, have I?
- 22:21Speaker 1: How do you say it? I say leg you which.
- 22:23Speaker 3: I think it's definitely tomato or tomato. I think you
- 22:27Speaker 3: can say either.
- 22:28Speaker 6: I think you can absolutely say either.
- 22:30Speaker 1: Embarrassed, no, no, no.
- 22:32Speaker 3: No no. There's probably people listening, being like every time
- 22:36Speaker 3: I said it's screaming like that is not how you
- 22:38Speaker 3: say it. However, you say legoo or how did you
- 22:42Speaker 3: say leg You like, so, I think that's fine. I
- 22:46Speaker 3: think it's fine, can be however you say it, beans, whatever, lentils,
- 22:51Speaker 3: et cetera.
- 22:52Speaker 6: Really good for saving money and.
- 22:54Speaker 3: Also very very healthy, and but they're just not again
- 22:56Speaker 3: they're not they're probably right now not trending in quotation marks.
- 22:59Speaker 1: So we don't have anxiety exactly.
- 23:01Speaker 3: We don't think like, oh, they're really really healthy, but
- 23:03Speaker 3: they are full of and packed with nutrients.
- 23:05Speaker 1: So that's a good tip.
- 23:06Speaker 3: It's also really important to shop seasonally, so within your
- 23:10Speaker 3: and also change the recipes that you're making seasonally as well.
- 23:13Speaker 3: So you might have a favorite recipe that you love,
- 23:16Speaker 3: but it actually might be double the cost to prepare
- 23:18Speaker 3: that recipe in winter versus summer because the ingredients might
- 23:22Speaker 3: be out of season. There's times when capsicins are eighteen
- 23:25Speaker 3: dollars a kilo.
- 23:26Speaker 6: Who So there's one of my.
- 23:28Speaker 3: Favorite recipes in kick is we have this One the
- 23:30Speaker 3: most popular recipes is always the one pot ones because
- 23:33Speaker 3: no dishes, you just put it all in the pot.
- 23:35Speaker 3: But there's one that uses a lot of capskicins. I
- 23:38Speaker 3: think the one pot for heater bowl. It's so delicious
- 23:41Speaker 3: Mexican for heater Bowl. But during the time when Capsicans
- 23:45Speaker 3: are out of season, that's not a good recipe to
- 23:47Speaker 3: make because it's so expensive because it needs about six capsicins,
- 23:51Speaker 3: so it's shopping seasonally.
- 23:52Speaker 6: And then the other thing is prepping.
- 23:54Speaker 3: Meal Prepping is very very important for saving money when
- 23:59Speaker 3: you go to the shop and wheel to it. You know,
- 24:01Speaker 3: when you go and you shop for one meal at
- 24:03Speaker 3: a time, and it's hard because you know you had
- 24:05Speaker 3: a busy weekend and you didn't do it, and then
- 24:07Speaker 3: you know it's better than getting often more affordable than
- 24:10Speaker 3: getting takeaway, but you then buy all this random stuff
- 24:13Speaker 3: that you don't need and it ends up being way
- 24:16Speaker 3: more expensive per meal than if you prep. So prepping
- 24:18Speaker 3: what you're going to make for the full week that way,
- 24:21Speaker 3: then you could buy So for example, if you're going
- 24:22Speaker 3: to use chicken, you could make three meals with chicken,
- 24:25Speaker 3: and you can bulk buy the chicken, so it's cheaper.
- 24:28Speaker 3: You can also as well in terms of meal prepping,
- 24:30Speaker 3: which is really because if you think about if you
- 24:32Speaker 3: get home you're so tired, you don't have any like
- 24:36Speaker 3: you just you can't blow cooking and you orto Uber Eats,
- 24:38Speaker 3: they can cost like ten dollars in delivery, and Uber
- 24:41Speaker 3: eats as well. Often things are about thirty percent more
- 24:44Speaker 3: than if you actually go into that particular shop and
- 24:47Speaker 3: order it, just because obviously the shop has to.
- 24:49Speaker 1: Make the charge on it, exactly right.
- 24:52Speaker 3: But the surcharge of the actual cost of things on
- 24:54Speaker 3: Uber eats is more like there's a chicken shop near me,
- 24:56Speaker 3: where the chicken might be about I don't know, fifteen
- 24:59Speaker 3: dollars if you are, probably more, I can't remember, but
- 25:01Speaker 3: just say, for Shane dollars if you buy in the shop,
- 25:03Speaker 3: or twenty five dollars on uber each. Yes, so I
- 25:06Speaker 3: think that's important to acknowledge. But then within that kind
- 25:09Speaker 3: of Uber eats order, just say you end up spending
- 25:11Speaker 3: thirty dollars on a meal when because you just can't
- 25:15Speaker 3: be bothered. And for some people meal prepping and thinking
- 25:18Speaker 3: or for me, like meal prepping every meal for the week,
- 25:20Speaker 3: like eating out of having a container with chicken and
- 25:23Speaker 3: rice whatever is easy to meal prep is so unappealing.
- 25:27Speaker 1: I completely we all know that.
- 25:29Speaker 3: Like if you bring lunch to work and it's the
- 25:31Speaker 3: same lunch you had every day for the week, and
- 25:33Speaker 3: of course that as soon as one person's like, you
- 25:35Speaker 3: want to go get immediately? Do you like guizmind and goment?
- 25:37Speaker 1: Do you call it guzzies guzzies or.
- 25:41Speaker 4: But I love it?
- 25:42Speaker 1: I think you call it guzzies.
- 25:44Speaker 3: I mean, okay, whatever saying let's go get you know,
- 25:47Speaker 3: let's go get sushi or whatever it might be.
- 25:49Speaker 6: You're so much you're gonna be like, yeah, I have
- 25:51Speaker 6: eaten this same lunch.
- 25:52Speaker 1: It has like ten days.
- 25:54Speaker 3: So it's with meal prepping. It's important to remember that.
- 25:57Speaker 3: I think some people like I just can't do that,
- 25:59Speaker 3: So I can't meal prep. But there's many ways that
- 26:01Speaker 3: you can do it. It might be making a you
- 26:04Speaker 3: might have bolonnaise for dinner one night, making more of
- 26:07Speaker 3: that sauce, freezing that in the freezer, so then when
- 26:10Speaker 3: you in the whatever week you know you're gonna have
- 26:12Speaker 3: a really big day, defrost that in the morning you
- 26:14Speaker 3: get home.
- 26:14Speaker 1: You still cook the pasta fresh.
- 26:16Speaker 3: You can add a little bit more vegetables or something,
- 26:19Speaker 3: so it feels like a new, exciting meal. You haven't
- 26:21Speaker 3: had bolonaise every single day for the past six days, and.
- 26:23Speaker 1: You're over it.
- 26:24Speaker 3: But it's still a really easy, affordable meal to meal
- 26:28Speaker 3: prep so really thinking about what type of meal prep
- 26:31Speaker 3: works for you and then letting that you know, working
- 26:34Speaker 3: in with that instead of just thinking I just kind
- 26:36Speaker 3: of the same meal every day.
- 26:38Speaker 6: The other one is shopping at the market.
- 26:40Speaker 3: Often, if you are near a market for fruit and vege,
- 26:43Speaker 3: it can be a really affordable way to buy fruit
- 26:46Speaker 3: and veg.
- 26:47Speaker 6: So I find when I.
- 26:48Speaker 3: Do do my shop at the market, it is I
- 26:51Speaker 3: get the fruit and veg is super fresh, and they
- 26:54Speaker 3: always have specials that mean that you might you know,
- 26:56Speaker 3: they might be a special of I don't know, potatoes
- 26:58Speaker 3: or whatever, bananda, something is really reduce So then it's like, okay,
- 27:02Speaker 3: how could you make that vegetable or whatever it might
- 27:04Speaker 3: be work for you?
- 27:06Speaker 6: True in that way, yes, to reduce the food cost.
- 27:09Speaker 4: Yeah, can you freeze the bananas and use them in
- 27:12Speaker 4: a cyball exactly right?
- 27:14Speaker 6: Or smoothies or whatever it might be.
- 27:16Speaker 3: But it's thinking about how can you and not I
- 27:19Speaker 3: think it's just kind of not feeling like you have
- 27:20Speaker 3: to buy into the trends when it comes to health,
- 27:23Speaker 3: and it's really stripping it back to basics. And I
- 27:26Speaker 3: mean that that's a big part of why we started
- 27:27Speaker 3: kick because.
- 27:28Speaker 6: Healthy doesn't have to be trendy or show. It's not.
- 27:32Speaker 3: It's it's stripping it back to basics and it's a
- 27:35Speaker 3: healthy meal is like meat and three bedge if that's
- 27:37Speaker 3: what you want to eat or whatever it is. It
- 27:40Speaker 3: can be affordable, it's but it's reframing I think what
- 27:43Speaker 3: we think health looks like, yeah, versus what it actually is.
- 27:46Speaker 3: It's way less glamorous than you know what. I think
- 27:48Speaker 3: sometimes social media makes it seem seem like.
- 27:51Speaker 5: Does need to be super complex because exactly totally, I
- 27:54Speaker 5: completely agree with that, and I feel like you've really
- 27:56Speaker 5: kind of like captured everything there. But I guess, like
- 27:58Speaker 5: just to add to that, exactly as we were saying before,
- 28:01Speaker 5: like going to your woolies, your Harris farms sometimes like
- 28:05Speaker 5: and don't I know that it's not really a Harris
- 28:07Speaker 5: farm in Victoria, I don't think, but like in New
- 28:09Speaker 5: South Wales they will have like bags of veggies for
- 28:12Speaker 5: like two dollars or something, and just like exactly as
- 28:14Speaker 5: you say, like finding a way to make that work
- 28:16Speaker 5: for you for the week, going back next week and
- 28:18Speaker 5: seeing what other like weird little specials bags of like
- 28:21Speaker 5: miscellaneous fruits and bands they have and things like that
- 28:24Speaker 5: I recently just bought a box of good and fugly,
- 28:27Speaker 5: which is like you and fuggly. Yeah, it's like fruits
- 28:31Speaker 5: and begs that they're gonna throw out because they're fugly. Yeah,
- 28:34Speaker 5: but they're really still good for you. And like it's
- 28:37Speaker 5: pro it's like thirty nine dollars a box, but like you.
- 28:39Speaker 1: Have, there's so much in there.
- 28:41Speaker 5: So I feel like, you know, doing that like going
- 28:44Speaker 5: to places where it's like you know, cheaper by miles
- 28:46Speaker 5: for example, which I know again is something that's probably
- 28:49Speaker 5: only in Melbourne. I think it's like things that are
- 28:52Speaker 5: you know, either being discontinued but still good or.
- 28:55Speaker 3: Ugly vegetables and things like that and still got the
- 28:57Speaker 3: same amount of nutrients exactly c has a hole in
- 29:00Speaker 3: it or if it has a worm, but if it's bent,
- 29:04Speaker 3: if it's bent, it's still not exactly the same amount
- 29:06Speaker 3: of means exactly exactly.
- 29:08Speaker 5: Yeah, totally, And I feel like, yeah, pre planning your
- 29:11Speaker 5: meals and things like that, you can kind of like
- 29:13Speaker 5: see that you don't actually need that much to get
- 29:17Speaker 5: a like kind of like a lot of nutrients out
- 29:19Speaker 5: of like fruits, vegetables, legumes and things like that, like
- 29:22Speaker 5: I when I was trying to eat really healthy, I
- 29:24Speaker 5: was like, I need to eat the rainbow in every meal,
- 29:27Speaker 5: Like you don't need to do that, you know, you
- 29:28Speaker 5: could just have like some frozen broccoli.
- 29:30Speaker 1: Also go frozen. I feel like it's.
- 29:33Speaker 5: A really good way to get your fruits and veggies
- 29:35Speaker 5: in cheap and also easy to prepare, easy to cook,
- 29:39Speaker 5: all that kind of stuff. And also it's like frozen
- 29:41Speaker 5: at time of harvest. I think, I don't know, I
- 29:43Speaker 5: made that up.
- 29:43Speaker 3: So maybe it's like they're fresh what's they're called fresh
- 29:47Speaker 3: sat frozen sat press and exactly right, so they keep
- 29:49Speaker 3: a lot of the nutrients. But I think a lot
- 29:51Speaker 3: of people, again, frozen vegetables are not glamorous.
- 29:54Speaker 6: They're not you know, you don't go to a.
- 29:56Speaker 3: Cafe that's super in quotation makes healthy and they still
- 29:58Speaker 3: be frozen vegetables. So but it is such a good option,
- 30:01Speaker 3: and they're already prepped, so it's so much easier.
- 30:03Speaker 1: Just exactly exactly. But yeah, you're doing your best and
- 30:07Speaker 1: that's all you can do. I agree.
- 30:09Speaker 4: Also, see if you can, like one little thing for
- 30:11Speaker 4: me is see if you can make your leftovers into
- 30:15Speaker 4: like grow your leftovers, So like Avocados, for example, are
- 30:18Speaker 4: really easy. If you take the pit of your avocado
- 30:20Speaker 4: and you put a little skewy in it, and you
- 30:22Speaker 4: put it over water, you can grow an avocado plant
- 30:24Speaker 4: and grow an avocado. True, a lot of herbs are
- 30:27Speaker 4: the same, Like if you buy fresh herbs, you can
- 30:29Speaker 4: then propagate those and plant them and then you never
- 30:32Speaker 4: have to buy the herb again. So like just little things,
- 30:34Speaker 4: which I know that that might seem a little extreme,
- 30:37Speaker 4: like it seems like a lot of effort, but if
- 30:39Speaker 4: you're really having a tough time, I think financially, it's
- 30:42Speaker 4: about how can you extend everything? Also, using this is
- 30:47Speaker 4: embarrassing for me, but how can you use the whole thing?
- 30:49Speaker 4: I used to only use the leaves of pacty and
- 30:52Speaker 4: I would chuck the bottom pit.
- 30:54Speaker 1: It turns out you can cook that.
- 30:55Speaker 4: I didn't know that bokchoy packed toaktoy, bokchoy, they're different
- 31:00Speaker 4: variations of like the bottom is, so there you go,
- 31:03Speaker 4: But now now I know.
- 31:04Speaker 1: But I think there are a lot.
- 31:05Speaker 4: Of like things that maybe like a recipe cause for
- 31:07Speaker 4: a certain part of a vegetable, but for the most part,
- 31:11Speaker 4: you can cook and use the whole thing. So like
- 31:13Speaker 4: figuring out learning, not being dumb like me and not
- 31:16Speaker 4: really hot. I don't know, I feel stupid now, but
- 31:19Speaker 4: learn for my mistakes, like use all of those things,
- 31:22Speaker 4: use leftovers to grow things if you can, because all
- 31:24Speaker 4: those little bits add up. But also I think, don't
- 31:26Speaker 4: beat yourself up if you have a week where you're like,
- 31:28Speaker 4: I can only do this and it's not as healthy
- 31:31Speaker 4: as I wanted to be. I think like health is
- 31:33Speaker 4: often and all or nothing thing in our minds, and
- 31:35Speaker 4: it's not.
- 31:35Speaker 6: It's not at all.
- 31:36Speaker 1: And just don't beat yourself up.
- 31:38Speaker 4: I think, because that's something that I've been guilty of
- 31:40Speaker 4: in the past, is I set this goal or this
- 31:42Speaker 4: expectation for myself and then I don't get there, and
- 31:44Speaker 4: I feel really awful about myself and that it's harder
- 31:47Speaker 4: to get back on the horse, and it's it's a
- 31:49Speaker 4: whole thing. So I think you're doing your best, and
- 31:52Speaker 4: it's awesome that you've identified that you need to have
- 31:55Speaker 4: this emergency fund, and I'm so happy that you're prioritizing
- 31:58Speaker 4: that because that will bring you, I think a lot
- 32:00Speaker 4: of peace of mind, and if that sometimes comes at
- 32:03Speaker 4: the cost of you not eating in the way that
- 32:05Speaker 4: you wanted to. As long as you are feeding yourself
- 32:07Speaker 4: the nutrients that you need, that's all that matters. Like,
- 32:10Speaker 4: as long as you are getting what you need and
- 32:12Speaker 4: you're surviving and you are doing your best, and we're
- 32:15Speaker 4: so proud of you just for doing that, I think.
- 32:17Speaker 4: So please, don't feel bad. You are doing autumn great advice.
- 32:22Speaker 3: Yess.
- 32:22Speaker 4: Wow, them and me feel empowered. Oh good, I'm so
- 32:25Speaker 4: glad not to fully switch June. But do we want
- 32:30Speaker 4: to chat about this week's juicy Juicy DM?
- 32:33Speaker 6: Yes?
- 32:33Speaker 1: Please? All right?
- 32:34Speaker 4: So the DM says this, Hey, girls, So, my best
- 32:38Speaker 4: friend of ten years and I have been talking for
- 32:40Speaker 4: quite some time about starting a business together. It's going
- 32:43Speaker 4: to be a jewelry brand, and we've put heaps of
- 32:46Speaker 4: time and effort into this and we're finally ready to
- 32:48Speaker 4: kickstart things. Whilst I'm so excited, I'm thinking is it
- 32:52Speaker 4: a bad idea to mix business and friendship? What do
- 32:55Speaker 4: we do if we have a disagreement? How do we
- 32:57Speaker 4: navigate different opinions, especially because as we have very different
- 33:01Speaker 4: ways of resolving conflict. On first glance, starting a business
- 33:04Speaker 4: with my bestie sounds like so much fun, But I'm
- 33:07Speaker 4: afraid it will have a negative impact on our friendship.
- 33:10Speaker 4: My dad once worked with his best friend and the
- 33:12Speaker 4: job went bad and they ended up losing the friendship.
- 33:14Speaker 4: So my question is what's your best advice for navigating
- 33:18Speaker 4: owning business with a friend and what do you do
- 33:20Speaker 4: when you need to have tough conversations. Also on the
- 33:23Speaker 4: flip side, do you think there are any great advantages
- 33:25Speaker 4: we should know about?
- 33:27Speaker 1: That's a good question, and who better.
- 33:33Speaker 3: And someone who has worked with their best friend for
- 33:36Speaker 3: since twenty fifteen, so almost ten years now, almost a
- 33:39Speaker 3: full decade that we've been working.
- 33:41Speaker 6: On Kick or some you know before Kick was Kick,
- 33:45Speaker 6: I can offer some advice on that.
- 33:47Speaker 3: So I think when we first started, people definitely said
- 33:51Speaker 3: to us, never go in I mean it's something that
- 33:53Speaker 3: I think we just have. It's been embedded into our
- 33:56Speaker 3: belief system. Never go into business with a friend, Yeah,
- 33:58Speaker 3: because you know, I will ruin your friendship and all
- 34:01Speaker 3: of those things. I think it's really important to try
- 34:04Speaker 3: and take that noise out of your decision because what
- 34:07Speaker 3: other people's experiences are. While they might be helpful if
- 34:10Speaker 3: they're exactly the same as you, they often can cloud
- 34:14Speaker 3: our judgment because every experience is different for everyone, so
- 34:19Speaker 3: in making the decision, obviously it's especially if it is
- 34:21Speaker 3: from your dad who shared that with you, it can
- 34:23Speaker 3: make it a little bit harder because that is very
- 34:25Speaker 3: close to home. But I think definitely take it on board,
- 34:27Speaker 3: but don't let that cloud your decision. I think the
- 34:31Speaker 3: most important thing to start out with, and a big
- 34:34Speaker 3: part of how Steph and I have been able to
- 34:37Speaker 3: work the way that we have for such a long
- 34:38Speaker 3: time is being very aligned. And this is I do
- 34:43Speaker 3: not think you can go into business with anyone if
- 34:46Speaker 3: it's your friend or not, if you are not aligned
- 34:48Speaker 3: on the vision and where you want to take the business.
- 34:51Speaker 3: That includes at what point will you pay yourselves? What
- 34:55Speaker 3: are you both doing in the business, like, what are
- 34:58Speaker 3: you both bringing to the tape? And it's really important
- 35:01Speaker 3: that that's different if it is the same. That's something
- 35:04Speaker 3: that I have seen in many kind of business or
- 35:08Speaker 3: business partner relationships where you bring the same skill set,
- 35:12Speaker 3: that can become quite difficult once when you start you're
- 35:15Speaker 3: kind of doing everything, and when you bring a team on,
- 35:18Speaker 3: that can become.
- 35:19Speaker 1: A little bit difficult.
- 35:20Speaker 3: So it's really important that you're and also so then
- 35:23Speaker 3: it doesn't make sense to start. If you're starting a
- 35:25Speaker 3: business and you're going to give half of it, or
- 35:27Speaker 3: if it's your idea, or maybe a lot of the
- 35:28Speaker 3: ideas together. But if you're going to give half of
- 35:31Speaker 3: the equity of your business to someone else and they're
- 35:33Speaker 3: going to give it to you, you need to do
- 35:36Speaker 3: that for a reason, right, And we are going to
- 35:38Speaker 3: start this business together and we're going to be the
- 35:40Speaker 3: best people to do this because we bring X, Y
- 35:42Speaker 3: and Z to the table.
- 35:44Speaker 6: So it's really important to be clear on that.
- 35:46Speaker 1: Set clear.
- 35:47Speaker 3: It's all about communication and setting expectations because if you
- 35:51Speaker 3: haven't set an expectation that for example, if you're working
- 35:54Speaker 3: going to work full time in the business, but your
- 35:56Speaker 3: business partner still has a job and it's going to
- 35:58Speaker 3: do it after hours, being really clear on what are
- 36:01Speaker 3: your expectations if you're working full time, are you going
- 36:03Speaker 3: to be paid for that time because they're being paid
- 36:05Speaker 3: in their job. What are the expectations on them in
- 36:08Speaker 3: the hours that they're going to do Because when that
- 36:11Speaker 3: goes unspoken and there's kind of assumptions, no assumptions, don't
- 36:15Speaker 3: go into any business arrangement with assumptions. It's important to
- 36:18Speaker 3: have an agreement it's interesting everyone said, this is Sep
- 36:20Speaker 3: and I and we had one and we actually ended
- 36:22Speaker 3: up never looking at it. But it is important to have,
- 36:25Speaker 3: you know, just in case. So you've got that down
- 36:28Speaker 3: and then as you kind of navigated and you know,
- 36:31Speaker 3: for Stephanis as I said, it's almost been a decade.
- 36:34Speaker 3: What's really important to enable is to never stop communicating
- 36:39Speaker 3: because as humans, our wants and our needs change, and
- 36:42Speaker 3: that's okay. And if you are with this jury business,
- 36:45Speaker 3: which sounds amazing, going to go into business, it might
- 36:48Speaker 3: be a ten year journey, it might be five, it
- 36:50Speaker 3: might be one, it might be twenty years.
- 36:51Speaker 6: You don't know.
- 36:52Speaker 1: But over that time you will both evolve.
- 36:55Speaker 3: As people and what you want will change, and so
- 36:57Speaker 3: it is very important that you create safe space to
- 37:01Speaker 3: enable those conversations to speak about what you want and
- 37:05Speaker 3: if it changes, to.
- 37:07Speaker 1: Have that conversation.
- 37:08Speaker 3: So you might have when you start, you might think, okay,
- 37:11Speaker 3: we want to grow this business and have brick and
- 37:13Speaker 3: mortar stores. We want to have, you know, all around Australia,
- 37:16Speaker 3: and that's the goal. There might be something that happens
- 37:19Speaker 3: in either one of the business partner's lives where that
- 37:21Speaker 3: no longer is what they want. You don't want to
- 37:24Speaker 3: be in business with someone who doesn't want to be
- 37:26Speaker 3: there anymore, or who's like feeling like they're not living,
- 37:30Speaker 3: you know, or being in that business because being a
- 37:32Speaker 3: foundry is all encompassing and it consumes a lot of
- 37:35Speaker 3: your life. You don't want to be in business with
- 37:37Speaker 3: someone who even though they started by wanting one thing,
- 37:41Speaker 3: it then changed and then they feel unhappy. You don't
- 37:45Speaker 3: want to be in business someone who's unhappy.
- 37:46Speaker 6: You want to.
- 37:46Speaker 3: Enable that conversation and be comfortable that things may change
- 37:51Speaker 3: and you will find a solution, but you have to
- 37:53Speaker 3: open the space to talk through it.
- 37:55Speaker 6: Yeah, and that's something that Steph and I have learned
- 37:57Speaker 6: along the journey.
- 37:58Speaker 3: It's very easy to get caught up in just day
- 38:00Speaker 3: to day kind of this has to be done, and
- 38:01Speaker 3: this has to be done without taking space and time
- 38:04Speaker 3: to sit down and say like, hey, how are you
- 38:07Speaker 3: how are you going? Because there's there is going to
- 38:09Speaker 3: be things that you're both going to do that are
- 38:12Speaker 3: going to maybe annoy each other.
- 38:14Speaker 6: It's inevitable, exactly right, But it's so important that you
- 38:18Speaker 6: work through them.
- 38:20Speaker 3: Because otherwise you can build things like resentment and you
- 38:23Speaker 3: start to have this kind of you can build an
- 38:25Speaker 3: elephant within your partnership. Often this is also advice for
- 38:28Speaker 3: like a lot of relationships in our lives, but especially
- 38:30Speaker 3: you know as business partners that you could have avoided
- 38:33Speaker 3: by just having a conversation, and you are going to
- 38:36Speaker 3: have to have uncomfortable conversations. I think that's something that
- 38:39Speaker 3: we and I don't know if it's through COVID or
- 38:43Speaker 3: in the way that we live in Like for example,
- 38:45Speaker 3: on Facebook, your algorithm is very close to what you
- 38:48Speaker 3: believe because Facebook it knows what you.
- 38:51Speaker 1: Believe, so you'll serve what you believe.
- 38:53Speaker 3: And sometimes we become very or we have I think,
- 38:56Speaker 3: become very uncomfortable with uncomfort stable conversations saying something that
- 39:03Speaker 3: you so for example, just say you want to do
- 39:05Speaker 3: the bricks one wants to do. You had an idea
- 39:07Speaker 3: you're going to do the brick and mortar stores, but
- 39:08Speaker 3: then one said, hey, I actually don't want this anymore.
- 39:11Speaker 3: I want to take the business global, or I want
- 39:14Speaker 3: to step out of the business, or whatever it might be.
- 39:17Speaker 3: That is going to be an uncomfortable conversation because you're
- 39:19Speaker 3: changing your mind. But it is okay to change your
- 39:22Speaker 3: mind it is okay to voice those things, and if
- 39:25Speaker 3: you avoid it, it just gets really, really, really hard.
- 39:27Speaker 3: So that's the most important advice that I would have
- 39:31Speaker 3: is know that you have to create a safe space
- 39:34Speaker 3: to have those conversations that you have the respect And
- 39:38Speaker 3: this is what Sep and I like we have. I'm
- 39:40Speaker 3: so grateful to be able to work with someone who
- 39:42Speaker 3: trusts me wholeheartedly and respects me wholeheartedly. And I know
- 39:45Speaker 3: going into any uncomfortable conversation that we have that we
- 39:49Speaker 3: both want the best. It's obviously important to say what
- 39:52Speaker 3: we want, but we also want the best for each other.
- 39:54Speaker 3: And we're not going in thinking like, oh, I'm going
- 39:56Speaker 3: to say this and I just really want to piss
- 39:57Speaker 3: the other person off or whatever.
- 39:59Speaker 1: It's like.
- 39:59Speaker 3: No, we're going in because we value and respect our
- 40:01Speaker 3: friendship so much first before our kind of business partnership
- 40:05Speaker 3: that we want to protect it so then we can
- 40:08Speaker 3: be the best.
- 40:08Speaker 6: Business partners for our team and then for the mission
- 40:11Speaker 6: and et cetera.
- 40:13Speaker 4: How you found that, as you know, you guys have
- 40:15Speaker 4: been in business for such a long time. You know
- 40:16Speaker 4: you've been friends for way longer from what I understand, right,
- 40:20Speaker 4: did any point your relationship suffer because of work, not
- 40:24Speaker 4: because necessarily you're having conflict, but just I can imagine
- 40:27Speaker 4: if you see someone every day at the office or whatever,
- 40:30Speaker 4: then making time outside of work might not seem like
- 40:32Speaker 4: such a priority or did it impact the relationship at
- 40:35Speaker 4: all between you guys in those kinds of ways.
- 40:37Speaker 3: It definitely goes through seasons, like all kind of relationships
- 40:41Speaker 3: that we have in our lives. I think it is
- 40:43Speaker 3: that something that's really important is making time outside of
- 40:46Speaker 3: work to spend together where you don't talk about work
- 40:50Speaker 3: and you nourish that you know, that beautiful friendship. That's
- 40:53Speaker 3: why you started working together in the first place, and
- 40:56Speaker 3: that is very, very important. And so absolutely there's been
- 40:59Speaker 3: times we and it's come from avoiding conversations and we
- 41:03Speaker 3: avoided and this has been a journey for us. We
- 41:06Speaker 3: didn't avoid them because we were like, oh, I just
- 41:08Speaker 3: want to build this up my head and make this
- 41:10Speaker 3: big story out. We avoided them because we were trying
- 41:12Speaker 3: to protect the And this is what we're working through
- 41:16Speaker 3: is we tell each other like ninety seven percent, but
- 41:19Speaker 3: the three percent that we don't share is and I
- 41:22Speaker 3: think this is very prominent in many relationships. Is not
- 41:25Speaker 3: because we want to keep anything from each other, but
- 41:29Speaker 3: it's because we're trying to protect the other one. Yeah,
- 41:32Speaker 3: from that three percent, it might be something that we want,
- 41:35Speaker 3: but we're like, that's going to be uncomfortable to talk through.
- 41:38Speaker 3: That's going to I don't know if that's going to
- 41:39Speaker 3: be the best thing for them. But again, this is
- 41:42Speaker 3: all assumptions. This is all assumptions of what you think,
- 41:45Speaker 3: like for me, like maybe what I thought Seph would think,
- 41:47Speaker 3: or what Seth Goood I would think. And that protecting
- 41:51Speaker 3: each other, which is always a good intention, has been
- 41:54Speaker 3: sometimes the reason that we've avoided conversations and let them
- 41:58Speaker 3: build up and then we've had an it's been like,
- 42:00Speaker 3: oh my god, why don't we talk about this six
- 42:01Speaker 3: months ago? But because we're trying to protect each other
- 42:04Speaker 3: based on assumptions that are not true, it became this
- 42:08Speaker 3: big thing and it didn't need to be exactly and
- 42:11Speaker 3: even some of it's a smaller thing or bigger thing.
- 42:13Speaker 3: And in an assumption, it's kind of thinking, Okay, I
- 42:15Speaker 3: can't say this because I think even in whatever relationship,
- 42:20Speaker 3: this person is going to say this back. This is
- 42:24Speaker 3: how it's going to impact them. You don't know how
- 42:26Speaker 3: it's going to impact them. But to not have conversations
- 42:29Speaker 3: because of these assumptions that are most likely not true,
- 42:33Speaker 3: it can be very dangerous for relationships.
- 42:35Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, completely, Yeah, I completely agree with everything you're saying.
- 42:40Speaker 1: It's all about communication.
- 42:42Speaker 5: And when you were reading this out, I was kind
- 42:43Speaker 5: of thinking it could work until it got to the
- 42:46Speaker 5: point where she said that they have different conflict resolution styles,
- 42:49Speaker 5: and like that obviously not our whole friendship relationship. You know,
- 42:54Speaker 5: whatever it looks like is going to be conflict after conflict.
- 42:58Speaker 5: But if you deal with differently, I can only assume
- 43:01Speaker 5: that the kind of like communication styles are also quite different. Also,
- 43:05Speaker 5: if it does get to a point where like, sure
- 43:06Speaker 5: you've had an uncomfortable situation where you have you have
- 43:09Speaker 5: had an uncomfortable conversation and it's turned into a conflict,
- 43:14Speaker 5: it's already kind of gone through all the steps of
- 43:17Speaker 5: like gentle conversation, uncomfortable conversation. Now it's a conflict, And
- 43:21Speaker 5: then I just can't see that going very well. Like
- 43:23Speaker 5: if you do have different conflict resolution styles, like it
- 43:25Speaker 5: can work if everyone's like this is how you like
- 43:28Speaker 5: to do it, and so I like to do it,
- 43:30Speaker 5: So let's compromise, And it's kind of like.
- 43:32Speaker 3: And create a process before you go into business of
- 43:35Speaker 3: how are we going to create And if they have
- 43:37Speaker 3: different conflicts styles and maybe communication styles, it's possible and
- 43:41Speaker 3: it's very likely one would feel more comfortable with being
- 43:44Speaker 3: possibly dominant and maybe not dominant, but with conflict and
- 43:48Speaker 3: a certainness, and then one may not and that can
- 43:51Speaker 3: be quite dangerous in a relationship. Don't acknowledge it and
- 43:54Speaker 3: speak about it. So maybe it's speaking through that totally.
- 43:57Speaker 3: As you said, how what is your conflict resolution and style? Look,
- 44:00Speaker 3: maybe not even starting with conflict because you don't want
- 44:02Speaker 3: to get to conflict you want to rename it as
- 44:04Speaker 3: and reframe it as communications style as you said, and
- 44:08Speaker 3: working through differences exactly. But you're always wanting the best
- 44:12Speaker 3: of the business, right yeah, And so talking about it
- 44:15Speaker 3: before and how we work through this and being really
- 44:18Speaker 3: honest about how that when that whatever the other person
- 44:21Speaker 3: does for conflict resolution, how that makes you feel and
- 44:25Speaker 3: vice versa, So then you can maybe work through can
- 44:28Speaker 3: we actually navigate this, because that's so true, it would
- 44:30Speaker 3: be quite difficult if that's not addressed totally.
- 44:34Speaker 1: My best friend and I just really quickly.
- 44:35Speaker 5: Well, she owns a coffee van, but we used to
- 44:37Speaker 5: run one together in Sorrento, beautiful Sorrento, and we like
- 44:41Speaker 5: we're still like best friends to this day, and we
- 44:43Speaker 5: do argue a lot. We're kind of like, you know,
- 44:44Speaker 5: like an old married couple, so we're very comfortable arguing
- 44:47Speaker 5: with each other. But when we were doing this, because
- 44:50Speaker 5: she she's kind of the type that would there would
- 44:52Speaker 5: be like a bit of an issue. She wants to
- 44:53Speaker 5: go away and think about it and then come back
- 44:55Speaker 5: when all of his thoughts are in order and then
- 44:58Speaker 5: discuss it. But I like, just want to talk about
- 45:01Speaker 5: it right here, right now, and let's just like let's
- 45:02Speaker 5: just sit down. Let's just like calm down and talk.
- 45:05Speaker 5: I cannot like let it simmer, but she must have
- 45:09Speaker 5: let it simmer. So we realized very quickly we weren't
- 45:12Speaker 5: very good as business partners or whatever that was. And
- 45:16Speaker 5: so I think, yeah, it just you know exactly, just
- 45:19Speaker 5: like it's all about communication. Just talk about it, just
- 45:21Speaker 5: talk about it.
- 45:22Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 45:23Speaker 4: No, I'm the only person who hasn't gone into business
- 45:25Speaker 4: or someone, so I don't know that I'm the best
- 45:26Speaker 4: person to talk about it. But I will say I
- 45:29Speaker 4: have observed many a business partnership fall apart, and not
- 45:33Speaker 4: to be the downer, but I will say that not
- 45:36Speaker 4: every set of friends is made or equipped to go
- 45:40Speaker 4: into business together, even if the intentions are the best
- 45:43Speaker 4: of the best. So I would really make sure that
- 45:46Speaker 4: you sit with it and think about it because I think,
- 45:48Speaker 4: you know, I do have a small business, and a
- 45:50Speaker 4: lot of us who have small businesses, you get stuck
- 45:52Speaker 4: in the thought of small like you're just thinking about
- 45:55Speaker 4: your current day to day operations and the little things
- 45:57Speaker 4: that you do. But I think if you're going into
- 46:00Speaker 4: business ideally like you do want to get to a
- 46:02Speaker 4: point where you're scaling, whether that's scaling a team, whether
- 46:04Speaker 4: that's scaling income with that scaling product. And so at
- 46:08Speaker 4: some point, if everything goes the way that you hope
- 46:10Speaker 4: it will, you will one day be a bigger business.
- 46:13Speaker 4: And with a bigger business comes I think significantly more
- 46:17Speaker 4: challenges and it becomes harder to navigate if you don't
- 46:22Speaker 4: have that really solid foundation.
- 46:23Speaker 1: Again, this is just what I've observed. That's very true.
- 46:26Speaker 6: One hundred percent agree, So.
- 46:27Speaker 4: I think it is worth reflecting. Now, imagine you and
- 46:33Speaker 4: your best friend had a team of ten people, or
- 46:35Speaker 4: imagine you had a business that was turning over half
- 46:38Speaker 4: a million dollars a year or whatever your ideal big
- 46:41Speaker 4: picture endgame looks like, do you think that you could
- 46:45Speaker 4: still run that business effectively as a team, Because ultimately
- 46:48Speaker 4: that's what you are. You're a team that is trying
- 46:50Speaker 4: to build this thing. And so I think if you
- 46:52Speaker 4: have doubts now, I think it's really important that you
- 46:56Speaker 4: look into them deeply because it may the outcome may
- 47:00Speaker 4: be like, there is a possibility that it just might
- 47:02Speaker 4: not work like as much as you want it too,
- 47:04Speaker 4: as much as you're the best of friends and you
- 47:06Speaker 4: want to do this cool thing together, if you have doubts,
- 47:08Speaker 4: there may be a reason, And so I just I
- 47:10Speaker 4: would suggest sitting with them and really like reflecting deeply
- 47:15Speaker 4: on them because it may be a thing that that
- 47:16Speaker 4: your communication styles are just too different, and you know,
- 47:20Speaker 4: when you have that conflict, it could tear that relationship apart,
- 47:23Speaker 4: and you don't want that either. I don't know that
- 47:25Speaker 4: anything would be worth that. So I think also just
- 47:28Speaker 4: considering that outcome as an option, I hope that that's
- 47:31Speaker 4: not the case. Like I want you guys to be
- 47:33Speaker 4: able to go into business and to build this incredible thing.
- 47:35Speaker 4: But it's okay if it is it's okay if it
- 47:37Speaker 4: is absolutely and I've seen many a person go down
- 47:39Speaker 4: that path and it is very hard on everybody.
- 47:42Speaker 6: So yeah.
- 47:43Speaker 1: We did ask a few questions.
- 47:44Speaker 4: If you guys on our Instagram and she's in the
- 47:46Speaker 4: money aus, if you want to join in every week,
- 47:48Speaker 4: these are so much funds. The first thing we said
- 47:50Speaker 4: was would you ever consider starting a business or a
- 47:52Speaker 4: side hustle with your friend or somebody close to you.
- 47:55Speaker 4: Thirty five percent of people said yes, it would be
- 47:57Speaker 4: slight and I would love that, and sixty five percent
- 48:00Speaker 4: of people said no, I wouldn't want to risk my friendship. Next,
- 48:04Speaker 4: we asked, if you have done this before, how has
- 48:07Speaker 4: it impacted your relationship. Thirty percent of people said it's
- 48:11Speaker 4: made us closer than ever, and seventy percent of people
- 48:13Speaker 4: said we've had some issues. Third thing that we asked
- 48:17Speaker 4: was do you think that being besties would make running
- 48:19Speaker 4: a business easier or harder?
- 48:21Speaker 1: And this was interesting.
- 48:22Speaker 4: Twenty three percent of people said easier and seventy seven
- 48:25Speaker 4: percent of people said they thought that it would be harder.
- 48:28Speaker 4: So I really feel like you and Steph are kind
- 48:29Speaker 4: of unicorns in the way that you guys have done
- 48:32Speaker 4: so well. But we did ask for a bit more details.
- 48:35Speaker 4: We said, what advantages do you think would come with
- 48:38Speaker 4: running a business with your bestie?
- 48:40Speaker 1: And it was really vary.
- 48:41Speaker 4: So some people said, you know, you know how they think,
- 48:43Speaker 4: you know how they work. You can work to your
- 48:45Speaker 4: strength and your weaknesses, which I think really goes back
- 48:47Speaker 4: to what you were saying before, Laura. Someone said the
- 48:51Speaker 4: good days would be so much fun, Like just think
- 48:53Speaker 4: about how much fun you would have together. Someone said
- 48:56Speaker 4: you can understand each other's support and conflict, need, their habits,
- 49:00Speaker 4: their triggers, which I think is also I guess the
- 49:02Speaker 4: flip side of that's true of the negative is you
- 49:05Speaker 4: know or may be able to preempt, But then are
- 49:07Speaker 4: we getting into that dangerous territory where you're assuming, So
- 49:11Speaker 4: it could be like a little bit of a double
- 49:12Speaker 4: edged sword. Lots of people saying your values are likely
- 49:15Speaker 4: aligned because you were good friends. You know, if you
- 49:18Speaker 4: are best friends, you've built that relationship on respect and
- 49:21Speaker 4: honesty and all of those great qualities that we look
- 49:24Speaker 4: for in friendships. So that should translate really nicely into
- 49:28Speaker 4: a business partner getting to work together all the time,
- 49:31Speaker 4: sounds really fun. So overwhelmingly I would say, people seemed
- 49:34Speaker 4: pretty positive about it. And so then we said, tell
- 49:38Speaker 4: us your two cents. Any other thoughts on mixing business
- 49:41Speaker 4: and friendship, And I just want to say, not a
- 49:43Speaker 4: word of a lie. The first thing that came up
- 49:45Speaker 4: is Stephan Laura from Kick did it and are thriving
- 49:48Speaker 4: so many people because it's possible, which I just think
- 49:50Speaker 4: is so sweet. Lots of people are saying get contracts
- 49:54Speaker 4: and written agreements in place, which I agree with very strongly.
- 49:57Speaker 4: I think coming back to that imagining you're a big
- 50:00Speaker 4: business when you're small, you go, oh, it doesn't matter,
- 50:04Speaker 4: Like it's just the two of us from our garage,
- 50:05Speaker 4: Like it's not that big of a deal, it's not
- 50:07Speaker 4: that deep. But I think if you treat yourself as
- 50:09Speaker 4: that big, big business from the very start, that means
- 50:12Speaker 4: having agreements in place. If one person wants to step away,
- 50:16Speaker 4: what does that look like? If one person is doing
- 50:18Speaker 4: more work than the other person, what does that look like.
- 50:21Speaker 4: I think outlining the financial and some of the interpersonal
- 50:26Speaker 4: things can help avoid conflict later on. I know you
- 50:29Speaker 4: guys said you never used your agreement, but you had
- 50:31Speaker 4: one from the beginning, right, had.
- 50:32Speaker 3: One, and so it's important to put in there you're
- 50:35Speaker 3: depending if you're paying yourself or if you're not.
- 50:37Speaker 1: That's really important.
- 50:38Speaker 3: Expectations in terms of work hours or however you measure
- 50:41Speaker 3: work output, if it's in task, whatever it my old projects,
- 50:44Speaker 3: whatever it might be. I think sometimes we can overcomplicate
- 50:47Speaker 3: it in thinking we need to solve for so for example,
- 50:49Speaker 3: around if someone to leave at one point, that's very
- 50:52Speaker 3: hard to solve for and in it because hopefully that
- 50:56Speaker 3: doesn't happen. I think it's putting the basics down because
- 50:59Speaker 3: you don't want to make it overwhelming, and that like
- 51:01Speaker 3: you have to solve for everything in this original contract.
- 51:05Speaker 3: I think it is such amazing advice to think about
- 51:07Speaker 3: yourself as a big business in that, but try not
- 51:10Speaker 3: to also, I think put too much pressure to solve everything.
- 51:12Speaker 3: But the really important things is whatever's happening with money,
- 51:16Speaker 3: like how you be financially supported and what is the
- 51:18Speaker 3: output of each of you going to be. And you
- 51:21Speaker 3: could even put in there too that you're going to
- 51:23Speaker 3: catch up every month and talk through you know where
- 51:26Speaker 3: you're both at, and that the contract is open to
- 51:30Speaker 3: changing as you both evolve, which may mean that you
- 51:33Speaker 3: can have to solve for actually one of us isn't
- 51:35Speaker 3: in this anymore, or whatever.
- 51:37Speaker 1: You can always amend or update it later.
- 51:38Speaker 4: Absolutely, people saying set aside time each week socially where
- 51:43Speaker 4: you don't talk about the business at all and can
- 51:45Speaker 4: connect as friends is really important. Lots and lots of
- 51:48Speaker 4: people saying contracts and boundaries as well, coming clear you know,
- 51:52Speaker 4: outside of work, we don't talk about these things, or
- 51:54Speaker 4: you know, this day is my day off and I
- 51:55Speaker 4: don't want to think about work or things of that nature.
- 51:58Speaker 4: Also quite a few people saying it's a bad idea,
- 52:01Speaker 4: don't do it. So it's a really mixed bag. But
- 52:04Speaker 4: I think ultimately it's really well summed up by what
- 52:08Speaker 4: you were saying before, Laura, which is it can be
- 52:10Speaker 4: so great and there can be so many wonderful things
- 52:13Speaker 4: to it, but you need to set it up for
- 52:15Speaker 4: success early, which you know is what you were saying
- 52:18Speaker 4: as well back. So I think hopefully that helps answer
- 52:21Speaker 4: the question. Has anybody else have any your last thoughts
- 52:24Speaker 4: before we s get out all out of here. Personally,
- 52:26Speaker 4: I'm okay, you're feeling good, Laura. Thank you for coming
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- 53:47Speaker 5: Credit so much. It's been so nice having you on.
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- 53:52Speaker 6: Thanks you for having me.
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