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129. Travel Diaries: The Girls Are Back from Holiday and SEASON 2 is about to START! · She Rises with Ashy & Tijana

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Speaker 1: Apoday Production. Welcome to the she Risers Podcast. I'm Ashy
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Speaker 1: and I'm Tiana.
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Speaker 2: This podcast is about female empowerment and encouraging you to
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Speaker 2: be your biggest, boldest, and most authentic version of yourself.
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Speaker 1: We help you shed the shame, grow to new level.
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Speaker 1: We're gonna laugh, cry, and talk about the topics everyone
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Speaker 1: else is too afraid to talk about.
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Speaker 2: Get ready for your next level of self.
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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, Welcome back to the she rises Podcast. A
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Speaker 1: big episode today all about our Trouble Diaries. Because we
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Speaker 1: have been here, there and everywhere we have, especially me
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Speaker 1: places you.
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Speaker 2: Have, haven't you tell us about your travels?
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Speaker 1: So yeah, I went to Europe with Steve, no kids, amazing.
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Speaker 1: It was so fun, which I know you'll get pushed
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Speaker 1: back on that, but we actually this is the third
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Speaker 1: time that we've booked a Europe trip. The first few
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Speaker 1: times we had to cancel. The first time was from COVID.
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Speaker 1: The second time, I think you got pregnant and we
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Speaker 1: just decided not to go. So we've been wanting to
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Speaker 1: do this trip for so long and it was amazing.
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Speaker 1: It was so cool. Into three locations. We went to Poland,
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Speaker 1: which is really random but We've always both wanted to
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Speaker 1: go and visit the Ousewitch Camps, which I don't really
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Speaker 1: have words to describe, but it was very impactful, really
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Speaker 1: really sad, and just a lot to learn about the
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Speaker 1: history of the war camps and what they went through.
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Speaker 1: And I've read a lot of books and watch a
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Speaker 1: lot of things on Netflix, but actually being there in
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Speaker 1: real life to actually feel the energy and to see
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Speaker 1: what they went through. And even you walk through and
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Speaker 1: it's got this room full of all the kid's shoes,
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Speaker 1: and where they slept, you could feel it was just
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Speaker 1: wood and even on the lowest bunk it was all
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Speaker 1: uneven brick, and then if it rained, it gets flooded
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Speaker 1: and you're sleeping on that lower bunk, you're sleeping in water.
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Speaker 1: Like the conditions was so fucked up. I just can't
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Speaker 1: even imagine. And just learning more about what they all
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Speaker 1: had to go through, it was just so sad. So
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Speaker 1: we did that strategically at the start of our trip
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Speaker 1: so that we could process all of that and then
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Speaker 1: go into more of a joyful high vibe. So our
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Speaker 1: next stop was Switzerland, which was nature and we just
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Speaker 1: hiked and had a lot of money on food. It's
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Speaker 1: fucking expensive there, But honestly, what you see on TikTok
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Speaker 1: or postcards of Switzerland it is that. But ten times
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Speaker 1: a bad eight is so scenic and beautiful. It was
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Speaker 1: gorgeous and we got the perfect weather, so lots of
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Speaker 1: high sorts of hanging out and just enjoying nature. It
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Speaker 1: was really beautiful. So we had four days there, which
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Speaker 1: was enough. I don't feel like we needed anymore. It
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Speaker 1: was good. We actually went to the top of Europe
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Speaker 1: as well, which was like snowing the snow. That's really cool.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very cool.
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Speaker 1: And then from there we went to Spain. We went
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Speaker 1: to Majorca, which is very just my vibe. Summer hot
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Speaker 1: heat like I'm talking thirty eight degrees heat out, some baking, walking, gym,
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Speaker 1: road trips out to restaurants, cliff tops, beautiful beaches. It's
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Speaker 1: just perfect. And just to have that time, that quality
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Speaker 1: time where we could just fully plug into each other
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Speaker 1: and have no interruptions, no real plans, no time limits,
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Speaker 1: just chill. It was the best at but we felt
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Speaker 1: so connected, so the best time. It was definitely an
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Speaker 1: adjustment coming home. I don't feel like I ever get
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Speaker 1: post holiday blues because I love coming home to my reality,
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Speaker 1: and I feel like I'm always ready to come home,
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Speaker 1: and obviously he's so excited to see the kids. But
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Speaker 1: I definitely felt an adjustment coming home. One I was
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Speaker 1: really jet lagged and not sleeping, so that I think
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Speaker 1: just played on my emotions. Two, I was missing Tiana.
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Speaker 1: She was in Bali three, having two weeks off work,
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Speaker 1: especially for Hideaway. Not so much she rises, but it
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Speaker 1: just was coming back to stress. There was so much
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Speaker 1: that I think Steve had to catch up on and fix.
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Speaker 1: I just noticed the moment he was home, his whole
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Speaker 1: energy shifted into the stressing mode. And he does hold
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Speaker 1: a lot like we always talk about it, which is
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Speaker 1: in such admiration of what Steve holds in Hideaways incredible.
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Speaker 1: I could not do his job. So then I almost
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Speaker 1: felt like not a disconnect from Steve, but kind of
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Speaker 1: because we were so plugged in and they're not. And
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Speaker 1: the kids obviously were so excited to see us, and
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Speaker 1: I went into full mon mode, he went into full
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Speaker 1: work mode. That we weren't having moments of connection. So
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Speaker 1: it's been an adjustment coming back. And then I joked
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Speaker 1: to see one night, I was like, oh, I had
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Speaker 1: a passing thought that I'm going to book a random
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Speaker 1: flight to Bali, and he was like, oh my gosh.
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Speaker 2: No.
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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, of course, no, I just go
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Speaker 1: back from Europe. I want to be here with the kids.
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Speaker 1: Like she just like, I'm just missing Tiata. He's like,
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Speaker 1: I know you are.
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Speaker 2: In four weeks by this point.
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Speaker 1: Yeah. And then Steve came into the office at work
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Speaker 1: and told Clauda and I that he's sending us to Bali.
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Speaker 1: I honestly, Hannah, my heart thought it was a prank.
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Speaker 1: I was like, no, like what I thought he was
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Speaker 1: pranking us. But he had all these campaigns. We're building
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Speaker 1: a content studio and hideaway and it just wasn't ready,
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Speaker 1: and he had these epic campaigns that we needed to
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Speaker 1: build content for. So he was like, honestly, you get
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Speaker 1: to go on to ris Tiana and you get all
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Speaker 1: these campaigns done. It's a win win for everyone. I
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Speaker 1: was hesitant to go because I really missed the kids
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Speaker 1: and I wanted to be home with them. I spoke
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Speaker 1: to my mom about it and she's like, in the
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Speaker 1: scheme of their whole life, babe, this isn't a long
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Speaker 1: period of time. Yeah, it's not going to impact them
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Speaker 1: in a negative way. You're there for them and you're
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Speaker 1: so present all the time. Another couple of days in Bali,
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Speaker 1: it's not going to affect them. So I was like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: you're right, and I also wanted to help hideaway and
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Speaker 1: I also missed you, and I was like, okay, okay,
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Speaker 1: we'll go. So then, yeah, I've been home for just
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Speaker 1: over a week, and we booked our flights and we
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Speaker 1: left for Bali on the Sunday and Tiana had no idea.
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Speaker 1: I'd also checked in with Tiana's brother. I'd called him
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Speaker 1: and just said like, I'm planning on doing this. Is
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Speaker 1: this okay? Can I stay with you at the end
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Speaker 1: of the trip. How do you feel about it? I
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Speaker 1: just want to check in with him, and he was
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Speaker 1: all on board, so excited. So we were organizing how
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Speaker 1: we're going to surprise Tiana. He planned the cafe and
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Speaker 1: even on the day he was like, let me know a
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Speaker 1: new land because this bitch is hungry and she's trying
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Speaker 1: to get me out the door, so I'm trying to
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Speaker 1: keep her behind. We just like tie it perfectly. And
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Speaker 1: then if you don't follow us on Instagram, we posted
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Speaker 1: a video but Tianna had messaged me and was like,
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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, eight months until our retreat. And I
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Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, gat me to Bali. I'm
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Speaker 1: literally on a bike on my way to meet her. Oh.
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Speaker 1: So I walked up from the cafe and tapped her
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Speaker 1: on the shoulder, and you look dead. You were so shocked.
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Speaker 2: You're like, oh my god. I didn't know what to
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Speaker 2: do with myself.
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Speaker 1: It was so exciting and emotional and adrenaline and all
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Speaker 1: the things. And yeah, I spent the next four days
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Speaker 1: obviously met with Tiana then and then went back to
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Speaker 1: the villa. Claudie and I were booked in and we
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Speaker 1: spent the next four days filming all their Highway content.
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Speaker 1: Worked all day and then editor all afternoon.
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Speaker 2: It was big.
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Speaker 1: It was a lot of energy out. It was hustle.
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Speaker 1: Campaigns are amazing. And then I got a couple of
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Speaker 1: days with Tiana and her brother, which was so beautiful.
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Speaker 1: It was the best. And Tiana and her brother are
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Speaker 1: very very close, and you've only ever spoken so highly
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Speaker 1: of him, so it's really excited to get to know him.
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Speaker 1: And we just had beautiful times. I felt like I'd
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Speaker 1: met him before and we were just all hanging out.
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Speaker 1: We have this group chat now and it's just like
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Speaker 1: three little best cycle sisters.
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Speaker 2: It's the best.
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Speaker 1: He's such a legend. I love him.
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Speaker 2: I love him so much.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was amazing, And then I was ready to
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Speaker 1: come home. At that point. On Sunday, I also got
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Speaker 1: really congested from the aircorn in Bali, and I felt
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Speaker 1: a bit low energy. I think I was just jet lag,
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Speaker 1: worn out coming off sleeping tablets too. Oh that's brutal.
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Speaker 1: So now I'm home, I'm like happy to be home,
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Speaker 1: back of my routine. But what a whirl wind. It
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Speaker 1: was so fun.
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Speaker 2: It definitely is an adjustment to come back for her,
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Speaker 2: especially because you were at the even at the end
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Speaker 2: of the trip, like already so tight all of the trouble.
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Speaker 2: It was like a few weeks up to back and
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Speaker 2: then coming again. Yeah, you know, it definitely is an
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Speaker 2: adjustment to go from holiday mode to back into life mode.
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Speaker 1: Life. And it's not that anything's wrong with my life.
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Speaker 1: I loved my life. It's just different.
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Speaker 2: It's just you can feel the difference between holiday mode
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Speaker 2: and life mode.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, energetically, like responsibility mode, you're looking after two humans,
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Speaker 1: you've got multiple businesses. You're running, you've got deadlines, you've
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Speaker 1: got financial goals, you've got staff to pay, staff to
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Speaker 1: look after. It's like hot. Yeah. Yeah, it kind of
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Speaker 1: saved it. For two weeks and I was in Europe.
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Speaker 1: I didn't think about work at all.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: I was just like, this is my time to have
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Speaker 1: fun with my husband. And we had so much fun.
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Speaker 1: So he it was an adjustment. Yeah, you go, I
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Speaker 1: feel like I'm kind of out the other side now.
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Speaker 2: I feel good. That's good.
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Speaker 1: Does it tell us about your tip to Bali?
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Speaker 2: Oh goodness, where do I start? Honestly, Balley was so good.
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Speaker 2: I think leading up to Balio and right before having gone,
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Speaker 2: we went through this little bit of a period where
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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, okay, like everything is starting to
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Speaker 2: feel a little bit heavy, Like again, like I love
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Speaker 2: my life and so grateful for all the responsibilities and
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Speaker 2: things that I get to do, like work and podcasts
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Speaker 2: and all of that. I love it. Literally, I could
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Speaker 2: talk about it till the cows can parme. But there
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Speaker 2: was a point where I was like, oh, I'm feeling
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Speaker 2: a little bit heavy, Like everything's starting to feel a
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Speaker 2: bit heavy. Everything's starting to stack, and I could just
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Speaker 2: like really use like a perspective shift, a bit of
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Speaker 2: a reset, you know. So I was like, all right, cool.
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Speaker 2: So I was really looking forward to going to Bali,
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Speaker 2: and the moment that I got there, I just felt
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Speaker 2: like the freest bird one. I love Bali And for
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Speaker 2: anyone who doesn't know, I've been going to Bali since
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Speaker 2: I was little, Like my mom and dad used to
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Speaker 2: take us to this one resort where they would go
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Speaker 2: every single time. They have videos of us dancing on
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Speaker 2: the side of the pool. You know, our four phones
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Speaker 2: were a thing, and we had to entertain ourselves. We
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Speaker 2: would go to this one place. And I've gone back
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Speaker 2: almost every second year or something like that since. And
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Speaker 2: then I had a break over COVID and then you know,
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Speaker 2: going in May was the first time that we had gone.
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Speaker 2: It was is we're second time back. And I went
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Speaker 2: for like three and a half weeks and my brother
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Speaker 2: and I booked and we were like, should we go
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Speaker 2: to Bali? And so we were just like, fuck it,
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Speaker 2: let's book it. And we've spoken for at least ten
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Speaker 2: years of going on a trip together, just us two solo.
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Speaker 2: We've spoken about it, we've planned it. We're like, we
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Speaker 2: should go to New York, we should go here, and
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Speaker 2: you know, we just were like, screw it, we can
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Speaker 2: go to Bali. We can work together, we can do
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Speaker 2: our thing and kind of balance a working holiday with
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Speaker 2: like play and fun. Yeah, you know, And as soon
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Speaker 2: as I got there, it was honestly everything that I needed,
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Speaker 2: Like it was the reset that I needed to pull
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Speaker 2: me out of like home environment and get myself into
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Speaker 2: a new space. I always feel so free when I'm
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Speaker 2: in Bali, whether it's being on the back of the
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Speaker 2: bikes or just being away from your usual home. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: your usual routine.
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Speaker 1: And the energy there, it's different.
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Speaker 2: Something about the energy is different. It's very healing, and
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Speaker 2: I feel like a different version of myself. It's like
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Speaker 2: I get really creative and I get very feminine. And
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Speaker 2: also in saying that, I felt super driven while I
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Speaker 2: was in there too, like you know, had my own
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Speaker 2: momentum in business while I was over there. But then
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Speaker 2: I was also like you know, hustling in the morning,
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Speaker 2: and then I was also still making time for training
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Speaker 2: and walking and exercising, and then we would go to
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Speaker 2: a beach club in the afternoon and then go to
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Speaker 2: a really really beautiful dinner. So I think going over
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Speaker 2: there and not having to rush was really nice. You know,
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Speaker 2: normally go to Bali for a week till a week
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Speaker 2: and a half. I had three and a half weeks
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Speaker 2: for my brother there. And the place that we stayed
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Speaker 2: in was so immaculate. It's so beautiful and felt like
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Speaker 2: a home away from home, and I'm really grateful that
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Speaker 2: we did stay there. But it also allowed me to
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Speaker 2: create a routine in Bali as well, So it wasn't
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Speaker 2: like I was on a holiday. I was like, well,
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Speaker 2: not like everything's off the table. I was still in Bali,
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Speaker 2: still working, still doing my routine, but I was in
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Speaker 2: a different country. So cool, and it just shifted something
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Speaker 2: in me, like the introspection and the self reflection that
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Speaker 2: I was able to do while I was over there.
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Speaker 2: I've said this to Ashi, I'm like, I feel like
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Speaker 2: a new woman. It gave me perspective on what I wanted,
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Speaker 2: how it was being, how I was showing. Oh, boundaries
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Speaker 2: helping me. Yeah, boundaries helping me, you know, expand my
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Speaker 2: capacity for what I can hold mentally, emotionally and financially,
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Speaker 2: all of those different things. And just this thing came
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Speaker 2: over me. It was like this certainty of like I
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Speaker 2: know what I need to do, I know what I
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Speaker 2: want to focus on, I know what boundaries I need
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Speaker 2: to set, and I know where I'm leaking my energy.
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Speaker 2: And it was just this whole like lifelike cleanup, but
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Speaker 2: just like a Titan of the belt, you know of
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Speaker 2: like okay, cool, Like I don't have boundaries here, Okay,
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Speaker 2: pull it in. Yeah I'm not speaking up here. Okay,
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Speaker 2: pull it in, you know. And then by doing those
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Speaker 2: things and cleaning up those areas and also having the
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Speaker 2: time to just really rest and like settle in, be
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Speaker 2: in my feminine enjoy, be on the back of a bike,
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Speaker 2: listening to like my new favorite playlist which is called
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Speaker 2: My New Life by Tea Dash Wild with Double D
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Speaker 2: if you want to listen to it, and just listening
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Speaker 2: to those musics and feeling so free.
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Speaker 1: It's the best feeling.
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Speaker 2: A big thing in my life, my personal what's it
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Speaker 2: called my human design, my life challenges, my gene keys,
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Speaker 2: all of that. Something that I have to overcome in
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Speaker 2: my life is feeling like a prisoner in my life.
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Speaker 2: It's like a psychological battle that I have to face.
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Speaker 2: And so for me, it was like a moment of
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Speaker 2: that for me, of like breaking down that feeling of
11:54
Speaker 2: feeling like a prisoner mentally, psychologically in my own challenges
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Speaker 2: and being like whoa, Like, you're actually already free, You're
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Speaker 2: already supported, you're already loved, you're already chosen all of
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Speaker 2: these things, and I just like, I got to enjoy myself.
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Speaker 2: I love it so nice and with your brother too,
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Speaker 2: And yeah, getting to spend time with my brother was
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Speaker 2: so healing, like him and I so obviously when we
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Speaker 2: lived at home, we lived together, and all of my
12:17
Speaker 2: older sisters they had already moved out, so it was
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Speaker 2: just Nick and I. So from a really young age,
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Speaker 2: we built a really strong bond, like we will right
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Speaker 2: or die, always there for each other, been through every hardship,
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Speaker 2: every challenge together from the get go, and that just
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Speaker 2: helped us build a really really beautiful bond. And more God,
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Speaker 2: the amount of times I had to tell people that
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Speaker 2: we weren't together and in a relationship was actually so wild,
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Speaker 2: so funny. It was so funny, and they're like, oh,
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Speaker 2: my god, have fun with your new man. I'm like
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Speaker 2: ill because my brother, it's my little brother. Stop that.
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Speaker 2: And he's very gay by the way, he is not
12:48
Speaker 2: barking up that kind of tree tell you that right
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Speaker 2: now it doesn't like women, but ill. Yeah and yeah,
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Speaker 2: getting to spend quality time with him just it was
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Speaker 2: so nice to reconnect with him, replug back in because
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Speaker 2: even when we lived in Sydney, we only got to
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Speaker 2: see each other every two weeks. Every two weeks, yes,
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Speaker 2: we had a fortnightly dinner where we would catch up
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Speaker 2: and go over goals and chat and check in with
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Speaker 2: each other. And then it went from that to me
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Speaker 2: moving to the Gold Coast and then having just not
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Speaker 2: even being able to see each other every six months,
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Speaker 2: you know. So being in Bali was amazing for that
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Speaker 2: because it helped us reconnect in that sense and reprioritize
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Speaker 2: our dynamic and now we go, okay, cool, they're going
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Speaker 2: to book something else in or we're going to chat
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Speaker 2: with each other and make sure that we're flying back
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Speaker 2: and forth and take turns so that we can reconnect
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Speaker 2: with each other. That's beautiful. Yeah, being in Bali really
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Speaker 2: got me excited for the retreats as well. You know,
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Speaker 2: we've got our retreats next year in May and then
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Speaker 2: another one in September, and being over there was just
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Speaker 2: confirmation of like, I'm so excited for what we're doing
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Speaker 2: and how impactful it's going to be. Something about something
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Speaker 2: about the energy in Bali is just absolutely next levels.
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Speaker 1: And so know that there's women coming that have never
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Speaker 1: been to Bali. We get to show them and help
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Speaker 1: them feel and experience it all. It's just so exciting, absolutely.
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Speaker 2: Being in Bali for that amount of time. I could
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Speaker 2: have stayed longer, to be honest, but I was seeing
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Speaker 2: you so much, and I was like, oh, my work wife,
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Speaker 2: And then when you surprised me, Oh my god, do
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Speaker 2: you know what to do with myself? I honestly was
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Speaker 2: so shocked. I went through a wave of emotions the
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Speaker 2: day that you guys surprised me, because I was just like,
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Speaker 2: but I just texted you five minutes ago and you
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Speaker 2: said I miss you and I wish I was in Bali.
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Speaker 2: But then I'm looking at you and I was like,
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Speaker 2: what the fuck is happening? And then I laughed, and
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Speaker 2: then I dropped down, and then I cried, and it
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Speaker 2: was just so like, so much emotion, and I just
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Speaker 2: remember feeling so grateful because I'm kind of the one
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Speaker 2: who loves doing the surprises.
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Speaker 1: I was so good at it.
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Speaker 2: I love the planning. I love making people feel that way.
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Speaker 1: You love making people feel special.
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Speaker 2: But it was so nice to be able to like
14:43
Speaker 2: receive that. You know, I'm always usually the person who
14:45
Speaker 2: does that, so to be on the receiving end of that,
14:47
Speaker 2: I was just like, fuck, I feel so loved and
14:49
Speaker 2: it feels so nice to receive that. And yeah, that
14:52
Speaker 2: felt really really good. And then it was good because
14:54
Speaker 2: we got to spend like a whole week together or
14:56
Speaker 2: just under a week together in Bali and do content
14:59
Speaker 2: and chill and just spend time together. And even though
15:02
Speaker 2: you'd just been traveling all that time, it was so
15:04
Speaker 2: nice for us to just after having spent time apart,
15:06
Speaker 2: to come back together and to just be with each other.
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Speaker 1: I know, I know, beautiful.
15:10
Speaker 2: You know. There were times where we were going off
15:11
Speaker 2: for adventures and doing dinners and doing this, but then
15:13
Speaker 2: sometimes we were just sitting and chilling and watching a
15:15
Speaker 2: movie and not saying anything to each other, just seeing
15:17
Speaker 2: each other's energy again. And it's so funny. When we
15:19
Speaker 2: first got back together, we first had our dinner and
15:21
Speaker 2: it was the three of us, us in Claudia, and
15:23
Speaker 2: we sat down for dinner. We were laughing and giggling
15:26
Speaker 2: and it was so much fun. And then we messaged
15:27
Speaker 2: each other. We got on separate bikes and we messaged
15:30
Speaker 2: each other. We're like, oh my god, that was the
15:31
Speaker 2: fucking best. I messed you so much and it was
15:33
Speaker 2: just we almost had to like replug back into each other. Yeah,
15:37
Speaker 2: so cool. I remember saying to you. I was like,
15:39
Speaker 2: we just need us all the time. Yeah, I know.
15:43
Speaker 1: And it's funny. I got a couple of a couple
15:45
Speaker 1: maybe maybe two or three where people were concerned that
15:49
Speaker 1: I ruined your trip.
15:50
Speaker 2: Oh yes, Yeah.
15:51
Speaker 1: There was a couple that came through and one lady
15:53
Speaker 1: that was really convinced that I had imposed and I'd
15:56
Speaker 1: ruined your trip, that you needed space for me. She
15:59
Speaker 1: was like saying all this stuff then, But and I
16:00
Speaker 1: did bring it to team. I have full trust that
16:03
Speaker 1: if Tiana ever felt anything, she would tell me, tell
16:05
Speaker 1: me everything. Like there's just if anything's ever wrong or
16:07
Speaker 1: feeling icky, or there's a concern or there's a worry,
16:10
Speaker 1: we just bring it intraway. We're all about transparency and
16:13
Speaker 1: preventing breakdown in our relationships, not just with each other
16:16
Speaker 1: but anyone in our life. Now, that's just the standard.
16:18
Speaker 1: We have for each other. But there was a moment
16:20
Speaker 1: where I was like, oh, I'm going to bring it
16:22
Speaker 1: to her in case anything's come up. And you were
16:24
Speaker 1: so reassuring. But I would love you to talk about that,
16:27
Speaker 1: because there definitely was a few that were thinking that
16:29
Speaker 1: was there any moments for you? Not at all.
16:31
Speaker 2: So when you first came, I did check with my brother,
16:33
Speaker 2: like just I just had a conversation with him yea
16:36
Speaker 2: that I was like, oh, hey, like I just want
16:37
Speaker 2: a triple check, like this is okay for you because
16:39
Speaker 2: it was like our accommodation and the trip that we
16:41
Speaker 2: booked and stuff like that. And again same thing with Nick.
16:43
Speaker 2: He would absolutely tell me, you know, and I was like,
16:45
Speaker 2: just wanted to triple check and he was like, oh
16:48
Speaker 2: my god, no, like this is the best thing ever.
16:49
Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, what do you mean? Like, I'm so
16:51
Speaker 2: happy to have her here and get to know her
16:52
Speaker 2: and all of the things. And just to confirm with
16:55
Speaker 2: anyone who was questioning that it absolutely did not ruin
16:57
Speaker 2: my trip. If you watched my stories, I literally cry
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Speaker 2: out of my stories because I was saying how beautiful
17:03
Speaker 2: it was to have you there and to be able
17:05
Speaker 2: to see you after the time that we spent apart.
17:07
Speaker 2: It was a shock to the system to spend four
17:08
Speaker 2: weeks apart.
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, almost.
17:11
Speaker 2: Every day together for the last two years. Never do
17:12
Speaker 2: that again, never, never, And it was a dream. Like
17:15
Speaker 2: the moment that I realized you were actually with me
17:17
Speaker 2: and the shock well where off. I was like, holy fuck,
17:20
Speaker 2: we're both in BALI like, what a beautiful thing that
17:23
Speaker 2: I get to experience, that we have the ability to
17:25
Speaker 2: make that happen, and this is a memory that I'm
17:27
Speaker 2: going to hold onto forever.
17:28
Speaker 1: It was so special.
17:29
Speaker 2: It was so special, and like, yes, my brother and
17:33
Speaker 2: I we booked that holiday and all the things, but
17:35
Speaker 2: like we had already spent two weeks of being together
17:37
Speaker 2: so plugged in, and then what I got to experience
17:40
Speaker 2: with the three of you was something like I'll never
17:42
Speaker 2: forget I will never forget it. We were just like
17:45
Speaker 2: sitting out by the pool and talking and literally there
17:47
Speaker 2: were moments where I was sitting there and I got
17:49
Speaker 2: teary because I was watching you and my brother connect
17:53
Speaker 2: and I'm like, two of my favorite humans in the
17:55
Speaker 2: world are literally connecting, and the three of us get
17:58
Speaker 2: to be here together. It just felt so special for me.
18:00
Speaker 2: So special, you know, so, there were so many reasons
18:02
Speaker 2: why that trip was so beautiful, and you coming to
18:04
Speaker 2: surprise me was something I'll honestly never forget, you know.
18:08
Speaker 2: So't just social memory for anyone who thinks that she
18:10
Speaker 2: ruined my whole I'm like you, guys, don't get how
18:12
Speaker 2: I'm obsessed.
18:13
Speaker 1: We are no maybe in your friendship dynamic that might happen.
18:16
Speaker 2: And you know something else, there was something that somebody
18:19
Speaker 2: had said to you around O. I hope there was
18:20
Speaker 2: no work talk. Yes, that was me. One. I don't
18:24
Speaker 2: want space from her. Two. What we do is so impactful.
18:29
Speaker 2: It's not just like clocking into a job that we
18:31
Speaker 2: don't love, do you know what I mean? And we've
18:32
Speaker 2: both experienced that where we've been in things that we
18:34
Speaker 2: don't love doing. But together we bounce off each other's
18:38
Speaker 2: energy like or it's not even funny, you know, we
18:41
Speaker 2: are together, we're thinking about Deeas we become more creative
18:43
Speaker 2: when we're together, our energy just like continues to grow
18:47
Speaker 2: and expand when we are together, being amplifize. That's right.
18:50
Speaker 2: And so even if we are together and we are
18:51
Speaker 2: focusing on work, it's because we want to, not because
18:54
Speaker 2: we have to. Everything that we've done for she rises
18:56
Speaker 2: is heart led, purpose led, and passion fueled. And that's
18:59
Speaker 2: why I believe it works the way that it does.
19:01
Speaker 1: It never feels like work, Like even when we have
19:03
Speaker 1: money come into account both like get paid for this,
19:07
Speaker 1: it feels like free money. Yeah, this is not real, right, Yes,
19:12
Speaker 1: so yeah, there was that concern. Hey, yeah, she said,
19:14
Speaker 1: I hope there's no work talk, and I remember being like,
19:16
Speaker 1: what do you mean your hope? Yeah, it's like, oh,
19:18
Speaker 1: maybe if you don't like your job, I can understand
19:20
Speaker 1: why you would say that, but I think you understand
19:22
Speaker 1: how much we love it. Yeah, it's not work now,
19:24
Speaker 1: it's not. We get to yeah and be together and
19:26
Speaker 1: make positive impact in women's lives, like this is cool.
19:28
Speaker 2: And this is also something we spoke about on the
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Speaker 2: way up here to film this morning. Was I shared
19:33
Speaker 2: with you, like how grateful I am that we get
19:35
Speaker 2: to do this together, Like we don't just get to
19:37
Speaker 2: create impact, we also get to do it literally with
19:40
Speaker 2: our best friends. Yeah, and that's something that you know,
19:42
Speaker 2: not everyone. Yeah, and I'm just so grateful for that.
19:47
Speaker 1: Daily. Yeah, and then we're already planning twenty twenty seven. Yeah, Okay,
19:52
Speaker 1: so we've got two Barley Tips next year. Town don't
19:54
Speaker 1: I really want to go to America together? We're both
19:56
Speaker 1: being obviously separately, but really with a couple of places
19:59
Speaker 1: really want to go and just explore together. And we're
20:01
Speaker 1: also planning Okay, well, we do the two Barleyer treats
20:03
Speaker 1: in twenty twenty six, which is next year, they're all
20:05
Speaker 1: booked out. Then we do them again in twenty twenty seven.
20:08
Speaker 1: Then my question mark, I mean, yes we will be
20:12
Speaker 1: and yeah, there's just so many cool things we want
20:13
Speaker 1: to do. Like tonight in the hotel room, we're staying
20:15
Speaker 1: in Brisbane for the podcast. We're going to plan out
20:17
Speaker 1: all of next year because there's just so much that
20:19
Speaker 1: we want to do.
20:20
Speaker 2: There's so much, and there's so much we have coming
20:22
Speaker 2: as well, so we're trying to figure out like our
20:23
Speaker 2: timeline and what it looks like. And then also, you know,
20:26
Speaker 2: we were having a conversation this morning, right we were
20:28
Speaker 2: asking the question like do we do a retreat in Australia? Yeah,
20:31
Speaker 2: is that something we explore because there were so many
20:33
Speaker 2: women who were like, I just can't do Bali because
20:35
Speaker 2: I have commitments or I have children and I can't
20:37
Speaker 2: get somebody to look after my kids for a whole
20:38
Speaker 2: week or you know, things like that, So it's also
20:40
Speaker 2: something that we have in mind.
20:42
Speaker 1: Definitely, we've got a physical product coming out which you
20:45
Speaker 1: guys are going to absolutely love. And then we've also
20:47
Speaker 1: got something for our online girlies. Yep, we've got our
20:49
Speaker 1: Bali retreats, we've got the podcast. Obviously we're going to
20:52
Speaker 1: have many intimate events next year, and then yeah, we're
20:54
Speaker 1: planning an Australian retreat, so that's really exciting. There's so
20:57
Speaker 1: much happening behind the scenes and we're just are so
20:59
Speaker 1: grateful we get to experience it, not only together but
21:01
Speaker 1: with all of you as well. So if you're listening,
21:03
Speaker 1: thank you so much being a part of our journey.
21:05
Speaker 2: We're so grateful. Honestly, it craves the world to us
21:07
Speaker 2: when we hear and read your messages that you send in,
21:10
Speaker 2: when you guys send in bestie advice, like it means
21:12
Speaker 2: a lot to us that you trust us to lead
21:13
Speaker 2: you in that it does.
21:14
Speaker 1: We don't ask as often, but if you ever listen
21:16
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21:18
Speaker 1: you send it to a girlfriend like we would love
21:20
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21:24
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21:26
Speaker 2: It does.
21:27
Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks guys, We'll see you in the next episode.
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Speaker 2: Thanks so much.
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Speaker 1: Bye.