Latest / To All the Men I've Tolerated Before / Filmmakers and the Female Gaze
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- 0:21Speaker 1: Hey tolerators, listens to all the men I've tolerated before
- 0:24Speaker 1: with Namilee Katona, your weekly look at everyday misogyny. Today,
- 0:29Speaker 1: I'm introducing you to a new friend, Morgan from The
- 0:32Speaker 1: Female Gaze The Film Club podcast. On her podcast, Morgan
- 0:36Speaker 1: invites guests on to discuss films that are directed by women,
- 0:40Speaker 1: and I was recently on an episode talking about Nanally
- 0:44Speaker 1: Morales's film Plan B. Morgan is here today to help
- 0:48Speaker 1: me get a better definition of the female gaze and
- 0:51Speaker 1: how we can achieve it in film. Thanks for being here, Morgan.
- 0:55Speaker 2: Thanks so much for having me. I'm so excited to
- 0:57Speaker 2: talk about film and women in film than everything in between.
- 1:02Speaker 1: Ah. We love talking about film. We love talking about
- 1:05Speaker 1: women in film and what ends up getting represented. And
- 1:10Speaker 1: the reason I ended up reaching out to you is because,
- 1:13Speaker 1: like I who was just like help me. I'm a
- 1:16Speaker 1: lady who watches movies, but I don't know what the
- 1:19Speaker 1: female gaze is. And I recently realized it was because
- 1:25Speaker 1: I don't like defining the female gaze through the lens
- 1:30Speaker 1: of sexuality, because I'm like, no, we're more than that,
- 1:33Speaker 1: and those are men who just want boobies and like
- 1:37Speaker 1: blondes in their movies or whatever. So I don't know
- 1:39Speaker 1: if it's like a wall I've been putting up, but
- 1:42Speaker 1: I'm sure we'll get to it today.
- 1:45Speaker 2: Yeah, it's always just so interesting to kind of talk
- 1:48Speaker 2: about perspective when it comes to filmmaking, because I think
- 1:53Speaker 2: when we talk about films, when we talk about the
- 1:56Speaker 2: movies that receive achievements, it's largely white, male, sis gender
- 2:02Speaker 2: straight men, and so I think that there's just a
- 2:05Speaker 2: lot of work that we have to do to kind
- 2:09Speaker 2: of unpack what that pinnacle of cinema is because obviously
- 2:14Speaker 2: we know that movies speak to us in very different ways,
- 2:18Speaker 2: and being able to have representation in film is just
- 2:23Speaker 2: extremely important.
- 2:25Speaker 1: Yeah, and well, why don't you talk a little bit
- 2:28Speaker 1: about how the Female Days the Film Club podcast came
- 2:32Speaker 1: to be. What threw you into starting the podcast.
- 2:36Speaker 2: Yeah, I've realized that throughout my life, women in film
- 2:43Speaker 2: have been very important to defining the movies that I enjoy.
- 2:48Speaker 2: For instance, Harriet the Spy directed by a woman, one
- 2:53Speaker 2: of my favorite films as a kid, The Trouble with
- 2:54Speaker 2: Angels directed by Ida Lupino, who was kind of one
- 2:58Speaker 2: of the only women directing in the fifties and sixties
- 3:01Speaker 2: after Dorothy Arsner was kind of given the boot from Hollywood.
- 3:08Speaker 2: And you know, it wasn't until I was a bit
- 3:11Speaker 2: older and kind of understanding that there was a difference
- 3:15Speaker 2: in what I was watching. I was probably in high school.
- 3:18Speaker 2: I watched the film Waitress by the great late Adrian Shelley,
- 3:23Speaker 2: and the film centers on a woman who finds out
- 3:25Speaker 2: that she's pregnant. She's in an unhappy marriage and so
- 3:29Speaker 2: this pregnancy is not something that she's particularly excited about.
- 3:33Speaker 2: And it felt very revolutionary to see a film about
- 3:36Speaker 2: a woman that we still care deeply about who was
- 3:40Speaker 2: not having the like joyous maternal experience that we normally
- 3:44Speaker 2: see on film. And so that was kind of like
- 3:49Speaker 2: a huge turning point for me as just someone who
- 3:52Speaker 2: wanted to watch film. And then, starting in about twenty nineteen,
- 3:58Speaker 2: I started writing for the online publication In Their Own League,
- 4:03Speaker 2: which focuses on films directed by about women, and so
- 4:09Speaker 2: my normal I'm just primarily watching films directed by women
- 4:14Speaker 2: kind of became something that other people shared, which was
- 4:18Speaker 2: really fun and exciting. I've written for Filmotomy, which also
- 4:22Speaker 2: has the Femme Film Festival, which also focuses on films
- 4:26Speaker 2: directed by women, and so it really just became something
- 4:31Speaker 2: that I started working on more and then with friends,
- 4:35Speaker 2: including my friends over at Offscreen Central, started to be
- 4:39Speaker 2: able to branch out a bit more in understanding film
- 4:43Speaker 2: and film criticism, and I being surrounded by all these
- 4:46Speaker 2: really incredible supportive people, said I want to just start
- 4:51Speaker 2: my own little podcast then, where I talked to my
- 4:55Speaker 2: friends and people that I meet that become friends to
- 4:59Speaker 2: discuss films that they like that are directed by women.
- 5:03Speaker 2: And it's been a really fun experience that was very
- 5:06Speaker 2: long witted.
- 5:07Speaker 1: No, it's fine. It was a very fun experience. I
- 5:10Speaker 1: got to talk about lu made for Hulu movie Plan B,
- 5:14Speaker 1: which is about two friends on a road trip journey
- 5:18Speaker 1: to try and get Plan B after a little party mishap,
- 5:25Speaker 1: and it was a great episode. It got me thinking
- 5:28Speaker 1: about that film in all different ways because I had
- 5:31Speaker 1: just watched it late one night because I needed something
- 5:34Speaker 1: on the TV. And I do think, for one thing,
- 5:38Speaker 1: like I could talk until I blue in the face.
- 5:41Speaker 1: And I was talking about it last night with my
- 5:43Speaker 1: stepmom about how media literacy and the way that we
- 5:49Speaker 1: think about movies is getting so diluted and people don't
- 5:54Speaker 1: know how to talk about movies anymore. And I used
- 5:58Speaker 1: my favorite movie, Dropped a Gorgeous as an example, and
- 6:01Speaker 1: I was like, it would be so hard for me
- 6:04Speaker 1: to show drop Dead Gorgeous to a seventeen year old now,
- 6:08Speaker 1: because I probably watched that movie when I was fourteen
- 6:11Speaker 1: to seventeen years old, and for them to be able
- 6:14Speaker 1: to understand the satire and get past the dated language
- 6:19Speaker 1: and how the dated language also plays a role in
- 6:22Speaker 1: the satire totally.
- 6:24Speaker 2: There is just I think one of the things that
- 6:28Speaker 2: we're kind of experiencing just in general, is a paradigm
- 6:32Speaker 2: shift in how we understand our role as people who
- 6:37Speaker 2: talk about film, whether you are a critic who gets
- 6:41Speaker 2: paid to talk about film or just people who enjoy
- 6:45Speaker 2: film to begin with, because I think that there are
- 6:47Speaker 2: more avenues for people to talk about what they like,
- 6:50Speaker 2: what they don't like, and I think that there's a
- 6:54Speaker 2: lot of learning that comes with it, and especially when
- 6:58Speaker 2: you start out like you might just sit there and
- 7:01Speaker 2: just trash something because you are looking at film as
- 7:07Speaker 2: this total product where there are dozens of art forms
- 7:13Speaker 2: working in tandem to make a film, and so maybe
- 7:17Speaker 2: you don't like the writing, but the cinematography is great,
- 7:20Speaker 2: and maybe you don't like one performance, but the costuming
- 7:26Speaker 2: is like really incredible. So it is just having to
- 7:30Speaker 2: find ways to discuss things with nuance, which is very
- 7:35Speaker 2: difficult to do. That's not to say I'm hearing nuanced
- 7:40Speaker 2: all the time because I'm better than everyone else. That's
- 7:43Speaker 2: absolutely not the truth. I think having to lean into
- 7:46Speaker 2: nuance is a skill, and it's very counterintuitive because trying
- 7:52Speaker 2: to put things into categories, having to be very direct
- 7:59Speaker 2: is how we have survived for so long, and so
- 8:04Speaker 2: that's just kind of a difficult thing. And in addition,
- 8:07Speaker 2: you know, we're actually starting to see more women, more
- 8:11Speaker 2: people of color, more queer filmmakers making movies, and so
- 8:16Speaker 2: for people who may have seen themselves reflected more often
- 8:20Speaker 2: in film, it is a bit of a jump to
- 8:26Speaker 2: have to sit there and try to critique something that
- 8:30Speaker 2: you don't have any lived experience with and try to
- 8:34Speaker 2: dispel your own biases while also having to critique something,
- 8:39Speaker 2: because that is what film criticism is, is sitting there
- 8:43Speaker 2: and kind of picking pieces apart. So it's very difficult,
- 8:47Speaker 2: and in this very long paradigm shift that we're in,
- 8:52Speaker 2: you can kind of see where those tensions are and
- 8:54Speaker 2: just see the places where we all can myself include
- 9:00Speaker 2: can do better at talking about films in the language
- 9:04Speaker 2: that we use with it as an art or form.
- 9:07Speaker 1: Yeah. I think a perfect example of a show that
- 9:10Speaker 1: I'm very critical on and have gotten a lot of
- 9:15Speaker 1: jokes off of is the Netflix show Virgin River, because
- 9:19Speaker 1: it's like something really sappy and or dramatic and or
- 9:22Speaker 1: devastating will have an on Virgin River in the most
- 9:26Speaker 1: land way, and then they'll just shoot to a picture
- 9:30Speaker 1: esque like mountain scene and your brain immediately goes. But
- 9:34Speaker 1: I do want to be here because it's so pretty,
- 9:38Speaker 1: you know.
- 9:39Speaker 2: And I also think because sometimes one of the things
- 9:43Speaker 2: that I try not to lean into is trying to
- 9:47Speaker 2: just find dramatic art and have that be the you know,
- 9:52Speaker 2: the pinnacle of what film is. I am famously a
- 9:56Speaker 2: Madam Web defender ooh yeah, five stars on letterboxed. I
- 10:03Speaker 2: not only support women's rights, but they're wrongs too, And
- 10:07Speaker 2: I think that we need movies that are just fun
- 10:12Speaker 2: and silly and nonsensical and that you can sit there
- 10:16Speaker 2: and go, I hope the Spiders were worth it, mom, Like,
- 10:20Speaker 2: it just is such a silly fun time, and I think,
- 10:25Speaker 2: you know, I've been given so many films from the
- 10:28Speaker 2: male perspective, from male filmmakers that are really just like,
- 10:32Speaker 2: look at this cool technology that we have, look at
- 10:36Speaker 2: this silly, campy fun time that we're having, and or
- 10:42Speaker 2: are interpretation of what campy is, even though it's not
- 10:45Speaker 2: actual camp But yeah, you know, we get that from
- 10:49Speaker 2: men all the time, and I'm just like, I feel
- 10:51Speaker 2: like women have that capacity too. You know, It's not
- 10:56Speaker 2: just Madam Webb. It's tank Girl, which No. One to
- 11:00Speaker 2: the nineties and my friend Gavin brought it to my
- 11:03Speaker 2: podcast and it was really just such an interesting film
- 11:08Speaker 2: to watch, and it's like, I want more of that.
- 11:11Speaker 2: I want more. I don't know what's going to happen next,
- 11:15Speaker 2: you know, what is Laurie Petty going to do? What
- 11:18Speaker 2: is Dakota Johnson going to do? Why are we still
- 11:22Speaker 2: using the same busted up taxi that is? Those are
- 11:25Speaker 2: my questions.
- 11:26Speaker 1: But yeah, your Madam web is my Meg two because
- 11:32Speaker 1: people will admit that Meg one was a fun movie,
- 11:34Speaker 1: but when it comes to Meg two, they're like they've
- 11:36Speaker 1: pushed it too far. It's not good and at one moment,
- 11:40Speaker 1: make of it makes sense, and I was like, everything
- 11:42Speaker 1: about the Meg two makes sense. They made up movie
- 11:45Speaker 1: science for any question you could have had. And they're like,
- 11:48Speaker 1: that's the problem, it's made up science. I go, of course,
- 11:51Speaker 1: it's made up science. Jason Statum is fighting a crack in.
- 11:55Speaker 2: Yeah, it's you know, it needs sometime if you take
- 12:01Speaker 2: art too seriously. Sometimes if it's not being presented as
- 12:04Speaker 2: a serious thing, then you are missing out on joy.
- 12:08Speaker 2: You know, there's a current political candidate who has been
- 12:12Speaker 2: asked what makes him happy and he can't answer it,
- 12:16Speaker 2: and so you know this is a he who must
- 12:18Speaker 2: not be a name situation. But you know, I think
- 12:21Speaker 2: that that happens in film too, where sometimes we get
- 12:25Speaker 2: a little too wrapped up in the awards of it,
- 12:29Speaker 2: all of the prestige of it all that sometimes we
- 12:32Speaker 2: narrow ourselves to watching things that are silly, fun or
- 12:37Speaker 2: again things that I don't have lived experience in. I
- 12:40Speaker 2: love the film Hank for Jesus Save Your Soul. I
- 12:44Speaker 2: loved it absolutely, nowhere near the life experience that I've had.
- 12:49Speaker 2: But anything that lets Regina Hall just do what she
- 12:53Speaker 2: does best, I'm there for Sterling K. Brown amazing. It
- 12:57Speaker 2: was such a great film, and I I am very
- 12:59Speaker 2: excited to see what that filmmaking team does next.
- 13:04Speaker 1: Yes, that movie I watched with my favorite aunt and
- 13:08Speaker 1: my favorite aunt and I have this uncanny ability to
- 13:13Speaker 1: believe that we are picking a really funny movie, and
- 13:16Speaker 1: then we get halfway into the movie and we're like,
- 13:19Speaker 1: are we devastated? We picked a movie where I believe
- 13:22Speaker 1: it's it is Tony Collette and I think Drew Barrymore
- 13:27Speaker 1: is her sister, and we're like, oh, what could go
- 13:30Speaker 1: wrong here? And it's like cancer, cancer could go wrong here.
- 13:37Speaker 2: I was gonna say, I think that's miss You already
- 13:39Speaker 2: miss You.
- 13:40Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 13:41Speaker 2: Directed by Catherine Hardwick. It is great love Catherine Hardway.
- 13:49Speaker 1: It was a great movie. It was devastating when I
- 13:52Speaker 1: just wanted like a Drew Barrymore Tony Collette power rom
- 13:56Speaker 1: or whatever. And I knew that hunk for Jesus Savior Soul.
- 14:03Speaker 1: It was going to be a heavy movie, but I
- 14:07Speaker 1: thought that it was also going to be more satirical
- 14:10Speaker 1: than heavy. So I thought that like I would be
- 14:13Speaker 1: able to watch it with a family member and them
- 14:15Speaker 1: not even notice like all of the things that I
- 14:17Speaker 1: was getting out of it. And my aunt just looked
- 14:20Speaker 1: at me and she was like, well, what the hell
- 14:22Speaker 1: was that. I was like, well, it turns out Sterling
- 14:27Speaker 1: had a point to make.
- 14:29Speaker 2: Yeah, I just there are just so many good films,
- 14:34Speaker 2: and I just love to encourage people to like watch
- 14:38Speaker 2: films that you're like, oh, this might not be my
- 14:41Speaker 2: normal vibe, but you know, I really loved last year.
- 14:45Speaker 2: My favorite film was Are You There, God, It's Me Margaret?
- 14:48Speaker 2: And the amount of men that I somehow convinced to
- 14:52Speaker 2: watch that movie was really just heartwarming because it also
- 14:59Speaker 2: made so many people, regardless of gender, agree with me
- 15:02Speaker 2: that Rachel McAdams is one of the greatest actresses of
- 15:05Speaker 2: all time.
- 15:05Speaker 1: So one of the greatest actresses of all time. Her
- 15:10Speaker 1: and Amy Adams are some of my top tier actresses.
- 15:16Speaker 1: And I went and saw are you there, God, It's
- 15:19Speaker 1: Me Margaret, because someone should have taught me about my
- 15:22Speaker 1: period at some point, so it might as well be
- 15:25Speaker 1: Rachel McAdams. And it was so beautifully well done and
- 15:29Speaker 1: the just really subtle way of well, what happens when
- 15:34Speaker 1: religion is playing a huge role in your life when
- 15:38Speaker 1: you haven't even chosen a religion yet because you're eleven.
- 15:43Speaker 2: Yeah, and I just I love Kelly Fremont Craig, the filmmaker.
- 15:47Speaker 2: She also did the Edge of seventeen, and I think
- 15:51Speaker 2: she just has such a beautiful way of capturing girlhood
- 15:55Speaker 2: while also kind of balancing it with I like to
- 15:59Speaker 2: call it coming up certain age, because we don't always
- 16:03Speaker 2: get to see women asked thee as I like to
- 16:06Speaker 2: say Leonardo DiCaprio prime actually have nuanced lives, and so,
- 16:12Speaker 2: you know, seeing a woman in her forties having her
- 16:16Speaker 2: own existential crisis and having to rediscover herself at the
- 16:20Speaker 2: same time that her eleven year old daughter is. It
- 16:23Speaker 2: also kind of reminded me of the show My So
- 16:25Speaker 2: Called Wife, which was created by a woman. And you
- 16:28Speaker 2: can tell because Angela played by Claire Danes and her
- 16:32Speaker 2: mom Kattie played by the Great Best Armstrong, they have
- 16:37Speaker 2: such parallel journeys that are also very unique to the
- 16:42Speaker 2: stages of their life. And I just, you know, I
- 16:47Speaker 2: have that nostalgia watching Are you there, God, it's me Margaret,
- 16:52Speaker 2: And yeah, it just felt so different and so lovely.
- 16:57Speaker 1: I love that you got men every whey where to
- 17:00Speaker 1: sit down and watch it too. My dad loves to
- 17:03Speaker 1: cry to waitress and he like it's not like he'll
- 17:06Speaker 1: be like Nadley waitresses on TV, come sit in the
- 17:09Speaker 1: basement with me, let's have a cry. He literally has
- 17:12Speaker 1: to sequester himself alone, like maybe the dog gets to
- 17:16Speaker 1: be there, and he's like, it's time for me to
- 17:18Speaker 1: cry to waitress and just like have this cathartic afternoon.
- 17:24Speaker 2: It's a great cry, great cry. I agree, yeah, it is.
- 17:29Speaker 2: I think another film that I championed a lot and
- 17:33Speaker 2: got people to watch after it had been nominated for
- 17:36Speaker 2: a few Independent Spirit Awards was Lauren Hadaway Is the
- 17:40Speaker 2: Novice really incredible directorial debut. Because it was COVID times,
- 17:48Speaker 2: I was able to listen to how do I talk
- 17:51Speaker 2: about her film? And not only was that her first
- 17:54Speaker 2: time directing, it was her cinematographer's first feature film. They
- 17:59Speaker 2: shot all the Water. I just hyped that film up
- 18:03Speaker 2: so much, and it was really wonderful to see people
- 18:07Speaker 2: who also took a chance on that film and ended
- 18:10Speaker 2: up really enjoying it because it really is just I
- 18:14Speaker 2: have likened it to Black Swan just based off of
- 18:19Speaker 2: the tension that it builds, but I think it's so
- 18:22Speaker 2: singularly her vision.
- 18:24Speaker 1: I think something else that's great that you brought up.
- 18:27Speaker 1: Is this like nuanced layer version of girlhood or womanhood
- 18:33Speaker 1: or motherhood that we get through these female made films.
- 18:37Speaker 1: A book that I've championed on this podcast a million
- 18:41Speaker 1: times night, Bitch truly gave me words to why I
- 18:45Speaker 1: did not want to be a mother. And my mother
- 18:49Speaker 1: and my sister and I spent a lot of time
- 18:52Speaker 1: together this weekend, and you know, we were talking about
- 18:55Speaker 1: like that decision to be a mother and how some
- 18:59Speaker 1: people really weigh until the aha moment I really want that,
- 19:03Speaker 1: and some people just never know until it happens or
- 19:06Speaker 1: it don't or it doesn't or whatever. And I was like, well,
- 19:10Speaker 1: I know that I definitely had the aha, I never
- 19:13Speaker 1: want this, ever, don't do it to me moment when
- 19:17Speaker 1: I was nannying and I told my sister, I go,
- 19:19Speaker 1: I hope you don't take this personally, because I spend
- 19:22Speaker 1: a lot of time with my nephew now and I
- 19:23Speaker 1: am in charge of him solo sometimes. But I was like,
- 19:27Speaker 1: but part of my problem is it doesn't stimulate my
- 19:31Speaker 1: brain in a way that makes my brain fiery. I'm
- 19:35Speaker 1: bored after twenty five minutes. Even if I'm having a
- 19:39Speaker 1: good time, my brain is like, this is what we're doing.
- 19:42Speaker 1: I guess sing Pink Pony Club again.
- 19:46Speaker 2: It's always it's just so interesting the way in which
- 19:50Speaker 2: we're starting to see a bit more of that in
- 19:53Speaker 2: the culture.
- 19:54Speaker 1: So I so Night Bitch is becoming a movie. It's
- 19:58Speaker 1: being released this December with Amy Adams at the front
- 20:02Speaker 1: of it. She is Night Bitch and Annie and other
- 20:06Speaker 1: friends and I have talked about like the perfect like
- 20:09Speaker 1: how to make our perfect book Dight Bitch into a movie.
- 20:12Speaker 1: And I think it's going to be fine. Like I
- 20:14Speaker 1: think at the end of the day, I'll be able
- 20:15Speaker 1: to put a lot of what I would have wanted
- 20:17Speaker 1: compared to what they did away, and I'll just love
- 20:20Speaker 1: it because I love the book and I love the story.
- 20:23Speaker 1: But my sister was like, I have no interest in
- 20:25Speaker 1: seeing that at all. What is it even about? And
- 20:27Speaker 1: I was like, well, it's about the how often women
- 20:30Speaker 1: have to tamper down their own fair illness because they
- 20:36Speaker 1: are mother, because they are wife, because they are caregiver,
- 20:41Speaker 1: and how that slowly starts to eat away at your
- 20:44Speaker 1: brain and your soul and maybe you're turning into a werewolf.
- 20:47Speaker 1: Maybe you're just spiraling, But it all feels the same,
- 20:51Speaker 1: and she's like, and my mother said out loud. She goes,
- 20:54Speaker 1: I was never bored as a mother, And I was like,
- 20:57Speaker 1: were you not bored or were you just so stressed
- 21:01Speaker 1: and busy that you didn't know that your brain was stimulated?
- 21:05Speaker 1: Because I can tell the difference. I can be very,
- 21:09Speaker 1: very busy with children and also go, my god, is
- 21:14Speaker 1: this not what my brain wants to be doing.
- 21:17Speaker 2: Yeah. I haven't watched the trailer for Night Bitch, mainly
- 21:20Speaker 2: because I just want to go into a blind. I
- 21:23Speaker 2: haven't read the book, but it is directed by Mary
- 21:26Speaker 2: O Heller, and I just love what she does as
- 21:30Speaker 2: a filmmaker. I've finally watched The Diary of a Teenage Girl,
- 21:34Speaker 2: but I've seen her other works A Beautiful Day in
- 21:36Speaker 2: the Neighborhood and can You ever Forgive Me? And I
- 21:39Speaker 2: think that she takes really complicated matters and is able
- 21:46Speaker 2: to kind of subvert our expectations of where we're going
- 21:50Speaker 2: to go, even with something like A Beautiful Day in
- 21:53Speaker 2: the Neighborhood, which is very it's about mister Rogers. It's
- 21:56Speaker 2: about a man who interviewed mister Rogers, and I think
- 22:00Speaker 2: considering just how special mister Rounders is to generations of people.
- 22:06Speaker 2: I think that she brought so much humanness to him
- 22:09Speaker 2: and didn't really make him like a mythical creature, just
- 22:12Speaker 2: showed like, no, there are men who are capable of
- 22:15Speaker 2: these things, and there are men of who are capable
- 22:18Speaker 2: of admitting their own fears and insecurities, like they're not perfect,
- 22:24Speaker 2: they are people too, and can you ever forgive me?
- 22:28Speaker 2: I was really struck by the fact that we have
- 22:31Speaker 2: a main character who is deeply unlikable, just there's almost
- 22:37Speaker 2: no redeeming qualities about her. And yet the way in
- 22:40Speaker 2: which she's framed, the space that Heller gives Melissa McCarthy
- 22:45Speaker 2: to really inhabit that character, she makes it so engaging
- 22:50Speaker 2: to watch this scammer basically reach the highest of highs
- 22:56Speaker 2: and plummet to the lowest of lows. And I'm just
- 23:00Speaker 2: really excited to see what she does.
- 23:01Speaker 1: No, I like, it's on my calendar. I might see
- 23:05Speaker 1: it once a week once it hits the theater. It's like,
- 23:08Speaker 1: I I love the book. I'm so excited. I love
- 23:11Speaker 1: Amy Adams, and I love when Amy Adams gets to
- 23:15Speaker 1: be weird. And I find even when like weird means
- 23:18Speaker 1: that she's Giselle and Enchanted. I'm like, yes, this is
- 23:22Speaker 1: exactly what I want you to be doing. Amy. So yeah,
- 23:25Speaker 1: even when being weird for Amy Adams is being super
- 23:30Speaker 1: over the top Giselle and Enchanted, I'm like, give it
- 23:33Speaker 1: all to me, Amy, just give it all. She's so
- 23:36Speaker 1: good at inhabiting her characters that I can't wait to
- 23:41Speaker 1: see what ends up happening with Night Bitch. And well,
- 23:46Speaker 1: I guess we should get to what is your definition
- 23:50Speaker 1: of the female gays?
- 23:51Speaker 2: I think I have a very brown definition because I
- 23:54Speaker 2: think what it means to be a woman is very different,
- 23:59Speaker 2: because you know, you have the white female gaze, you
- 24:04Speaker 2: have the queer female gaze, you have an intersectional of queer,
- 24:12Speaker 2: person of color woman of color type gaze, and so
- 24:17Speaker 2: I like to leave it broad, but I think.
- 24:19Speaker 1: It is.
- 24:21Speaker 2: Understanding the world from a woman's experience of living in
- 24:28Speaker 2: the world. You know, because Mira and Naire. I just
- 24:33Speaker 2: watched her film Mississippi Massala for the first time. Her
- 24:38Speaker 2: experience of moving through the world is very different than
- 24:42Speaker 2: you know, Mary. Maybe you know, like Cheryl Dunier who
- 24:46Speaker 2: did The Watermelon Woman, their experiences are very different than
- 24:50Speaker 2: my favorite filmmaker Lynn Shelton, who's doing works like your
- 24:55Speaker 2: sister's sister. And yeah, so I think that the female
- 24:58Speaker 2: gaze is just from a woman's lived experience and that's
- 25:03Speaker 2: influencing her work as a filmmaker.
- 25:07Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think because whenever I think about the counterpart,
- 25:14Speaker 1: the male gaze, it was always and you're looking at
- 25:20Speaker 1: something through the lungs lens of objectification, like that is
- 25:24Speaker 1: what classifies the male gaye for me. And when I
- 25:28Speaker 1: think that, it starts to click in my brain, but
- 25:31Speaker 1: I don't know how to verbalize it. It's like when
- 25:34Speaker 1: I'm watching something through the lens of the female gaze.
- 25:39Speaker 1: Because I myself have lived a female existence, I'm sold
- 25:43Speaker 1: not only visually but mentally, emotionally and usually spiritually. And
- 25:51Speaker 1: that has happened with male filmmakers before. Because Barbarian made
- 25:55Speaker 1: me feel that way, I was convinced Barbarian was a
- 25:58Speaker 1: female team.
- 26:00Speaker 2: Yeah, there are you know. I love an unmarried woman.
- 26:05Speaker 2: It's written and directed by Paul Mazerski. He said that
- 26:08Speaker 2: the way that he was able to write Jill Clayburg's
- 26:10Speaker 2: character was because he talked to women, and I was like, oh, fascinatinating.
- 26:16Speaker 2: That is pretty cool there, sir, But I just it's
- 26:20Speaker 2: a really beautiful portrayal of a woman at a crossroads
- 26:24Speaker 2: in her life when divorce no fault divorce was kind
- 26:27Speaker 2: of becoming more popular in the late seventies. But yeah,
- 26:34Speaker 2: you know, there are some things that I've noticed as
- 26:36Speaker 2: I've watched more films and have done the podcast kind
- 26:40Speaker 2: of you know, you know, because you were on. But
- 26:43Speaker 2: I like to end every episode with what about the
- 26:46Speaker 2: female experience? Does a film capture best? And does a
- 26:50Speaker 2: film feel different because it was directed by a woman,
- 26:53Speaker 2: And a few things I've noticed is I think, first
- 26:56Speaker 2: of all, as you mentioned, the way in which women
- 26:59Speaker 2: are shown on screen is very different. You know. I
- 27:03Speaker 2: remember watching The Virgin Suicides for the podcast, and there
- 27:08Speaker 2: is a scene with a woman who is playing tennis,
- 27:11Speaker 2: and I was really struck by the way that Sophia
- 27:14Speaker 2: Coppola shot those scenes because we saw this woman who
- 27:19Speaker 2: she's really only in that scene, but you see her
- 27:22Speaker 2: as strong as athletic as is capable, where I think
- 27:26Speaker 2: if a man had been shooting it, it would have
- 27:29Speaker 2: gone to either purposely or subconsciously kind of sexualized that moment.
- 27:38Speaker 2: But we don't get that same with the Norwegian film
- 27:42Speaker 2: Girl Picture, there's a lot of instances where there are
- 27:47Speaker 2: teenage girls understanding their sexuality and understanding sex and what
- 27:52Speaker 2: that means for them, and there is zero nudity. And
- 27:56Speaker 2: the filmmaker purposely did that because she said, I know
- 28:00Speaker 2: that that happens, but doesn't mean that I have to
- 28:03Speaker 2: show these women, these young women in that light. We
- 28:08Speaker 2: get the picture without having to show everything. And that
- 28:12Speaker 2: was just I'm not a prude, but I just didn't
- 28:15Speaker 2: feel that this was necessary. And then Miller, who I
- 28:18Speaker 2: talked to, actually interviewed the filmmaker and have that discussion about,
- 28:23Speaker 2: you know, her desire to make sure that she told
- 28:26Speaker 2: an authentic story without it potentially leaning into exploitation. So
- 28:31Speaker 2: that's one thing I've learned. And the second big thing
- 28:33Speaker 2: that I've learned is that women really give grace to
- 28:38Speaker 2: men in ways that men do not always give grace
- 28:42Speaker 2: to themselves. And that's actually I had listened back to
- 28:45Speaker 2: our episode as I was editing, and that's something that
- 28:48Speaker 2: we talked about of you know, we very largely again
- 28:53Speaker 2: not to blanket statement it, but we largely see films
- 28:59Speaker 2: directed by men where men are either the hero like
- 29:03Speaker 2: a godlike hero, they are the anti hero, or they
- 29:07Speaker 2: are just a despicable villain, and there are no variations
- 29:11Speaker 2: between those characterizations. But then you know, as you mentioned
- 29:15Speaker 2: a Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood, you get complex men.
- 29:19Speaker 2: In Mirinaer's Monsoon Wedding, you have a father who is
- 29:24Speaker 2: dealing with a lot of societal pressures that are very
- 29:29Speaker 2: negative to him, and he doesn't always make the right choices,
- 29:33Speaker 2: and you can hold him accountable for making those wrong choices,
- 29:37Speaker 2: but you can also give him grace as he tries
- 29:41Speaker 2: to learn to amend those choices. From those choices. Greta
- 29:45Speaker 2: Gerwig giving us Kyle and Ladybird Kyle sucks is he
- 29:51Speaker 2: is a bad boy who is very self centered, who
- 29:55Speaker 2: has had his world catered to him. However, his father
- 29:59Speaker 2: is actively dying. He is in the living room dying
- 30:03Speaker 2: of cancer, and he has his own struggles and so
- 30:06Speaker 2: it never condones his actions, but it does give breadth
- 30:12Speaker 2: and layers to who this person is. And so that's
- 30:17Speaker 2: something that I've seen so much pop up in these
- 30:20Speaker 2: films as I've been watching them.
- 30:22Speaker 1: It's so interesting that you bring up the virgin suicides
- 30:25Speaker 1: because the point of view of the Virgin Suicides are
- 30:30Speaker 1: these neighborhood boys who are in fact objectifying their female neighbors.
- 30:36Speaker 1: And yet Sophia, that's never clicked for me except for
- 30:41Speaker 1: right now. How not objectified the women are by the movie,
- 30:47Speaker 1: even though the whole book is an objectification of young women.
- 30:52Speaker 2: It is, Yeah, and it's all told from like this
- 30:54Speaker 2: male perspective. And I think Sophia is one of my
- 30:59Speaker 2: favorite filmmaker is working today. I just rewatched Somewhere with
- 31:04Speaker 2: Stephen Dorf the other night, and she does incredible things
- 31:08Speaker 2: with him and that character. But yeah, it's so interesting.
- 31:11Speaker 2: The Virgin Suicides is from the male perspective, but it
- 31:16Speaker 2: is the male perspective under the female gaze. And she
- 31:20Speaker 2: gives them that grace again that maybe we don't always
- 31:26Speaker 2: get based because they are teenage always looking back on
- 31:30Speaker 2: a very traumatic event. You know, they watch this family
- 31:37Speaker 2: crumble and perish in front of their eyes. You know,
- 31:41Speaker 2: they are the ones that are called to the Lisbon
- 31:45Speaker 2: House by Lux to basically discover her and her deceased
- 31:49Speaker 2: sisters after they've all died by suicide. And I think
- 31:56Speaker 2: if you had let a man adapt that book, we
- 32:03Speaker 2: might not have been able to kind of see that
- 32:06Speaker 2: there are some constraints for them too. They're under a
- 32:10Speaker 2: patriarchal society just like the Lisp and Sisters, and having
- 32:15Speaker 2: to understand what happened to them is very difficult when
- 32:18Speaker 2: people brush that out of the rug that they are
- 32:22Speaker 2: just not interested in speaking further about it. And yeah,
- 32:27Speaker 2: I just it's such a brilliant piece.
- 32:30Speaker 1: It is, and it does really balance the idea of
- 32:35Speaker 1: what is our fantasy that we project onto a woman
- 32:39Speaker 1: compared to what is actually going on with that woman,
- 32:43Speaker 1: because a lot of the movie is also those boys fantasizing.
- 32:47Speaker 1: We have like a montage of them being like and
- 32:49Speaker 1: we knew that we would take them to Paris, to
- 32:51Speaker 1: Rome and like all of these like made up scenarios
- 32:54Speaker 1: that they've put upon the object of their desires. Meanwhile,
- 32:59Speaker 1: their father is literally the women's fathers, burning their records,
- 33:03Speaker 1: locking them in their bedroom. They're only allowed to wear
- 33:06Speaker 1: nightgowns now, like horrific circumstances.
- 33:11Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's also their mother is really kind of
- 33:14Speaker 2: pushing a lot of these patriarchal ideas too. And there's
- 33:18Speaker 2: so much to unpack with that Haafleen Turner character. It's yeah,
- 33:22Speaker 2: there's just so. It's so rich in trying to understand
- 33:26Speaker 2: that projection. It's similar to the Jonathan Dayton Valerie Ferris
- 33:30Speaker 2: film Ruby Sparks, which was written by Zoe Kazan, and
- 33:35Speaker 2: it's about a male writer who writes a woman from
- 33:40Speaker 2: his dreams and she manifests in his house. And I
- 33:43Speaker 2: think that that was such a brilliant film about expectation
- 33:49Speaker 2: and projection that we do that men due to women.
- 33:54Speaker 2: That you know, I understood that. I loved it when
- 33:57Speaker 2: I first saw it, but after being in my thirties
- 34:01Speaker 2: for a little bit, rewatched it for the first time
- 34:04Speaker 2: in many years and was like, oh, I misunderstood so
- 34:07Speaker 2: much of what was happening in this film.
- 34:10Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, and that's wild too, because I was probably
- 34:15Speaker 1: too young twelve thirteen if I had made it into
- 34:20Speaker 1: high school, what a feat Before I was watching The
- 34:24Speaker 1: Virgin Suicides every time it was on cable. Every time
- 34:28Speaker 1: it was on cable, I'd be like, oh, my favorite
- 34:30Speaker 1: movie with my girl Kursten dunce like, And I mean
- 34:36Speaker 1: my mom used to joke with it all the time
- 34:38Speaker 1: about like, ah, yes, another Virgin Suicides, watching from like
- 34:43Speaker 1: my two little virgins at home and it's like, yeah,
- 34:46Speaker 1: that's what we're doing all day, every day. We're just dark.
- 34:50Speaker 1: This is girlhood.
- 34:52Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean the film literally does start with I
- 34:56Speaker 2: think the youngest sister, Cecilia, telling the doctor you have
- 34:59Speaker 2: no idea what is to be a girl, and you're
- 35:01Speaker 2: just like, yeah, okay, that's.
- 35:04Speaker 1: Yes, right yeah. Because also, like movies like The Virgin
- 35:08Speaker 1: Suicide and others made me think about things that had
- 35:12Speaker 1: happened that in my mind I was pretty sure was okay,
- 35:17Speaker 1: and then I was like, wait a minute, was it
- 35:20Speaker 1: And then you know, half the time the answer is no,
- 35:25Speaker 1: and that's Girlhood And oh my gosh, yes I do.
- 35:30Speaker 1: I love that movie. My sister loves the book. I
- 35:33Speaker 1: think she took a college class where she got to
- 35:35Speaker 1: go in depth on the book and the movie at
- 35:38Speaker 1: the same time. And I had another movie that I
- 35:41Speaker 1: would say, oh, when it comes to Ruby Sparks, I
- 35:45Speaker 1: immediately thought to my other pop culture reference, which is
- 35:48Speaker 1: Weird Science, where two boys do come up with their
- 35:52Speaker 1: quote unquote perfect woman and then the rest of it
- 35:56Speaker 1: is just like an objectification comedy.
- 35:58Speaker 2: Rob yep, sure, is it very much?
- 36:02Speaker 1: Is?
- 36:03Speaker 2: You had also mentioned this when we had talked was
- 36:06Speaker 2: kind of the exact opposite of Lisa Frankenstein, where you
- 36:11Speaker 2: have a young woman who is making the man of
- 36:15Speaker 2: her dreams and there is a lack of objectification on
- 36:20Speaker 2: that male character that we've clearly seen is not given
- 36:25Speaker 2: to women when it has when it's done in the
- 36:29Speaker 2: opposite manner.
- 36:30Speaker 1: And it's so interesting in Lisa Frankenstein because while she
- 36:33Speaker 1: is not objectifying him, she is also not investing in him,
- 36:38Speaker 1: because she's mostly talking over him.
- 36:43Speaker 2: She's a very peculiar teenage girl.
- 36:45Speaker 1: But I love her so much, the most confident, insecure
- 36:50Speaker 1: woman you'll ever see walk on screen. I just I
- 36:55Speaker 1: love her. Be gave Zoe's Have you seen Blink twice yet?
- 37:00Speaker 2: I haven't yet.
- 37:01Speaker 1: Oh you have to, and then you have to text
- 37:04Speaker 1: me when you do. Because I believe that Zoe Kravitz
- 37:07Speaker 1: really did a very good job with that movie.
- 37:11Speaker 2: I'm excited to see. I really love something else that
- 37:15Speaker 2: I love as kind of a very weird intersection when
- 37:18Speaker 2: it comes to women in films. I love when female
- 37:21Speaker 2: actors become directors. I think that there's something very special
- 37:27Speaker 2: about that leap, you know, I love. I mean, I
- 37:30Speaker 2: mentioned Lynn Shelton. She went to school to be an actor.
- 37:34Speaker 2: She ended up becoming a director and was one of
- 37:36Speaker 2: the most incredible and very influential on me. You have
- 37:43Speaker 2: Britney Snow just had her directorial debut with Parachute, which
- 37:48Speaker 2: is maybe the best depiction of mental health I've ever
- 37:51Speaker 2: seen on screen. You have Rebecca Hall with Passing. She
- 37:55Speaker 2: spent eleven years trying to get that movie made and
- 37:59Speaker 2: it is nothing short of a masterpiece. Olivia Wilde with BookSmart,
- 38:04Speaker 2: even Older, with Barbara Loden and Wanda Cassie Lemons and
- 38:09Speaker 2: eves By. You you have all of these women who
- 38:12Speaker 2: started as actors making that transition, and I think that
- 38:16Speaker 2: there's something about knowing what has helped you as an
- 38:21Speaker 2: actor make you be better as a director. But also,
- 38:25Speaker 2: you know, after Lyn Shelton passed away, she had done
- 38:29Speaker 2: a lot of television work, and so some of the
- 38:31Speaker 2: actors that she had worked with had come together for
- 38:34Speaker 2: kind of a virtual roundtable to talk about what it
- 38:37Speaker 2: was like working with her. And Gillian Jacobs worked with
- 38:41Speaker 2: her on the show Love and one of the scenes
- 38:45Speaker 2: that they were going to be working on in an episode,
- 38:47Speaker 2: there was going to be a sex scene, and before
- 38:51Speaker 2: they even filmed, Lynn Shelton reached out to Gillian Jacobs
- 38:55Speaker 2: to be like, Okay, where is your comfort level? Where
- 38:59Speaker 2: do we where do we even start to pull back
- 39:04Speaker 2: a little bit so that we don't even push that boundary?
- 39:08Speaker 2: What is something that we can do to make you
- 39:10Speaker 2: feel safe? And now we obviously have more intimacy coordinators
- 39:14Speaker 2: on set, but having a woman start that conversation and
- 39:19Speaker 2: not being making someone feel ashamed to say I don't
- 39:24Speaker 2: feel comfortable doing X, Y or Z, I think is
- 39:28Speaker 2: really a powerful way to lead because that then there's
- 39:33Speaker 2: a ripple effect on set when you have your leader
- 39:36Speaker 2: as someone that's just like, we're not here to make
- 39:39Speaker 2: this a bad experience for other people.
- 39:42Speaker 1: Yeah, speaking of Olivia Wilde, my girl, I do have
- 39:47Speaker 1: it on our outline that there are things that female
- 39:52Speaker 1: filmmakers will get backlash for that male filmmakers simply don't.
- 39:59Speaker 1: And my favorite thing to talk about Olivia Wilde is
- 40:03Speaker 1: that movie that everyone is convinced as trash but I'll
- 40:06Speaker 1: die on the hill. It's a perfect movie. Don't worry, darling.
- 40:10Speaker 2: It's not my favorite, but fine, it's fine. I don't
- 40:15Speaker 2: understand the visceral reaction to it, and I think the
- 40:20Speaker 2: other thing is, you know, Olivia Wilde is kind of
- 40:23Speaker 2: a more recent example, but we know what happens when
- 40:27Speaker 2: women make a quote unquote bad movie. They get what
- 40:30Speaker 2: happened to Elaine May. She famously worked on Ishtar, which
- 40:34Speaker 2: had too many egos to finish properly, and they basically said,
- 40:40Speaker 2: no more movies for you. Rachel Talaway has moved into
- 40:45Speaker 2: television and is doing incredible work there, but Tank Girl
- 40:48Speaker 2: did not because people didn't understand her vision. They weren't
- 40:51Speaker 2: willing to finance anything else that she was going to do.
- 40:55Speaker 2: I'm glad it sounds like Olivia Wilde does have another
- 40:57Speaker 2: project lined up, so I'm happy that she's not following
- 41:01Speaker 2: in the footsteps of misogyny there. But yeah, you know,
- 41:05Speaker 2: it was kind of I remember, I think it was
- 41:07Speaker 2: Michelle Wolfe when she was on The Daily Show joked
- 41:11Speaker 2: about Wonder Woman that if Patty Jenkins didn't do a
- 41:15Speaker 2: good job with Wonder Woman, then no more female movies. Yes,
- 41:19Speaker 2: women directors are done.
- 41:21Speaker 1: We had that feeling with Barbie. What are you allowed
- 41:23Speaker 1: to criticize when it comes to Barbie? Because if we
- 41:26Speaker 1: criticize Barbie to the place that we convinced people it
- 41:30Speaker 1: actually wasn't a good movie or smartly done or made
- 41:34Speaker 1: very good statements about women's treatment in our society. Then
- 41:38Speaker 1: by Greta and Goodbye Polly Pocket.
- 41:42Speaker 2: I'm more importantly goodbye Monopoly. I'm very excited Margot Robbie
- 41:47Speaker 2: picking up some really interesting ip there, which I mean,
- 41:51Speaker 2: Monopoly as a game was invented by a woman who
- 41:54Speaker 2: basically was trying to show that capitalism was bad, and
- 41:58Speaker 2: men saw it and they were like, we should make it,
- 42:00Speaker 2: we should capitalize on this a bunch of money. So
- 42:04Speaker 2: if you're ever playing a very long game of monopoly,
- 42:07Speaker 2: just stop and think of the woman who invented it
- 42:10Speaker 2: and say, maybe I should just stop, because the whole
- 42:12Speaker 2: point was that everyone loses.
- 42:14Speaker 1: The whole point was this is actually torture.
- 42:18Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, it's just Barbie's a great example too, because
- 42:23Speaker 2: it was. I think there are criticisms for Barbie. It's
- 42:28Speaker 2: largely white. The few women of color are kind of
- 42:31Speaker 2: having to teach white women things which no woman of
- 42:35Speaker 2: color should be required to teach a white woman something
- 42:38Speaker 2: that they cannot get the resources themselves. Even with those criticisms,
- 42:44Speaker 2: I think it kind of goes back to the very
- 42:46Speaker 2: beginning of our conversation is the fact that we really
- 42:50Speaker 2: struggle with nuance and being able to say I love something,
- 42:56Speaker 2: here's something that doesn't sit well with me, or here's
- 42:59Speaker 2: you know. I think Seeing a Woman is a great
- 43:01Speaker 2: example of this too. The critiques of that film I
- 43:05Speaker 2: wholeheartedly understand, and many of them I can't agree with.
- 43:10Speaker 2: I still love that movie.
- 43:12Speaker 1: I love that movie.
- 43:13Speaker 2: I love arm Old fan Now, I love Carrie Mulligan.
- 43:16Speaker 2: I really liked the work that they were doing together.
- 43:19Speaker 2: But my appreciation for that film should not one make
- 43:24Speaker 2: me defensive to the point that it is nauseating, but
- 43:27Speaker 2: two should not invalidate someone's own experience of watching that movie.
- 43:33Speaker 2: Because again, I've watched many films by men that I
- 43:36Speaker 2: do love. Shout out to the Iron Claw. Sean Derkins
- 43:40Speaker 2: is one of my favorite male directors out there. He
- 43:43Speaker 2: just breaks me every time I watch none of his movies.
- 43:46Speaker 2: But you know, I have watched. I have a very
- 43:52Speaker 2: good friend who loves catch me if you can, I'm
- 43:55Speaker 2: not interested. I was very bored, and that was my experience,
- 43:58Speaker 2: and I don't think that that my lack of appreciating
- 44:01Speaker 2: it should not negate his love for that film. His
- 44:05Speaker 2: love for that film should not negate my own ambivalence
- 44:09Speaker 2: towards it. I do think that if there are very
- 44:11Speaker 2: harmful things, that we should be able to talk about those.
- 44:15Speaker 2: I know that there were some criticisms for the film Challenger,
- 44:18Speaker 2: because you have Sendaea as the only person of color
- 44:21Speaker 2: in that film, and there are some things about it
- 44:24Speaker 2: that people understandably did not like her characterization. And I
- 44:30Speaker 2: think that we should be able to hold those truths
- 44:33Speaker 2: with our own opinions as well, because we can have multitudes.
- 44:38Speaker 1: That's could you imagine multitudes? Multitudes? Yeah, I mean the
- 44:44Speaker 1: Zoe Kravitz Blink Twice movie completely changed my viewpoint of
- 44:50Speaker 1: Channing Tatum, which is that I used to joke that like,
- 44:54Speaker 1: are we sure Channing can read like are we sure?
- 44:59Speaker 1: And then I go to dead Pool Wolverine because I'm
- 45:01Speaker 1: a Hugh Jackman slut and he does his little casion accent,
- 45:06Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god, Channing, they should have
- 45:09Speaker 1: let you do that movie. I'm so mean. And then
- 45:14Speaker 1: I go and see Blink Twice and my sister still
- 45:16Speaker 1: talks about she doesn't only talk for the rest of
- 45:18Speaker 1: the day. I'm just so proud of Channing. She goes
- 45:21Speaker 1: like he was our cousin. I'm just giving him, give
- 45:25Speaker 1: him an award. I was like, I didn't think he
- 45:27Speaker 1: could pull it off, and I didn't understand why Zoe
- 45:30Speaker 1: was dating him because he's She's so cool and he's
- 45:35Speaker 1: so not cool. There's not one cool thing about Channing
- 45:39Speaker 1: to you.
- 45:39Speaker 2: It does kind of give off himbo vibes. Yeah, but
- 45:43Speaker 2: I do think he has done some really there are
- 45:46Speaker 2: some works that he has done that I have really enjoyed,
- 45:49Speaker 2: so I'm excited to see him in this. I also
- 45:50Speaker 2: think that the cast of women who every person's name
- 45:54Speaker 2: has miraculously left my mind, but I'm so excited to
- 45:57Speaker 2: see them because I think that there's such an interesting
- 46:01Speaker 2: group of women in that film who've come from such
- 46:04Speaker 2: different backgrounds as artists that I'm like, let's see what happens,
- 46:08Speaker 2: you know. I just also recently rewatched Marie Antoinette, and
- 46:12Speaker 2: when Molly Shannon appeared, I was just like, I thought
- 46:15Speaker 2: you were in this. It was such a delight to
- 46:18Speaker 2: see Molly Shannon sw up and a Sofia Coppola film
- 46:23Speaker 2: had completely forgotten that she was there.
- 46:26Speaker 1: It's like when Will Ferrell is the Wheel of Fortune
- 46:30Speaker 1: guy on Quiz Show or Quiz Lady on another made
- 46:35Speaker 1: for Hulu movie that I adore and I currently I
- 46:39Speaker 1: don't think I've ever been more in love with Will Ferrell,
- 46:42Speaker 1: and I've always been a fan, like I love the
- 46:46Speaker 1: Ice Skate. Now I can't name a movie who is
- 46:49Speaker 1: Will fer.
- 46:50Speaker 2: Blades of Glory, Blades of Glory.
- 46:52Speaker 1: Talladega Knights, like if Will Ferrell Old School, if Will
- 46:56Speaker 1: Ferrell was in it, I was in a movie theater
- 46:59Speaker 1: in the nineties, early two thousands. But now he's just
- 47:02Speaker 1: like this quaint old man who's like, I've been thinking
- 47:07Speaker 1: about how other people should be viewed as people, and
- 47:11Speaker 1: it's like, will I love this for you? We hope
- 47:13Speaker 1: this only for our father's grandfathers and uncles as well.
- 47:18Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's done. His production company has also produced
- 47:22Speaker 2: a lot of films that I've really enjoyed, one being
- 47:27Speaker 2: one that I rewatch almost on a monthly weekly basis,
- 47:32Speaker 2: Theater Camp, co directed by Nick Lieberman and Molly Gordon.
- 47:40Speaker 2: I think Molly Gordon has a very specific eye when
- 47:42Speaker 2: it comes to comedy, so I love that film endlessly.
- 47:48Speaker 1: The friendship dynamics in Theater Camp and how fragile friendships
- 47:54Speaker 1: can actually be when egos are involved, especially creative egos. Huh.
- 48:02Speaker 1: Perfect the perfect way to cap to show that on film,
- 48:09Speaker 1: and I love every second of Theaters.
- 48:13Speaker 2: It's such a It's such a beautiful film that's like
- 48:17Speaker 2: a love letter to creatives while also just having some
- 48:22Speaker 2: of the most outrageous comedy. I still love Molly Gordon
- 48:26Speaker 2: entering playing a recorder and there's just such a wild
- 48:32Speaker 2: tune and then asking the class, okay, play that back
- 48:35Speaker 2: to me and they all have to sing it back
- 48:37Speaker 2: to her. I just that is like that, and her
- 48:41Speaker 2: going I want her to scream daddy, a guttural daddy.
- 48:46Speaker 2: And they're talking.
- 48:46Speaker 1: About children, They're talking about eight year olds.
- 48:50Speaker 2: It's just but I really that film is so good.
- 48:54Speaker 2: It also has Iowa Debris and it was another woman
- 48:57Speaker 2: in comedy that she can do wrong to show up
- 49:00Speaker 2: in everything place.
- 49:02Speaker 1: Yes, because Bottoms is also one of my favorite movies.
- 49:05Speaker 2: Bottoms is so good. I just recorded an episode with
- 49:11Speaker 2: my friend Jesse, and most of that episode was just
- 49:16Speaker 2: talking about a scene and then laughing about a scene
- 49:19Speaker 2: because it's just so smart and so funny. And between
- 49:25Speaker 2: that and the Seligman's other film shit a baby. I
- 49:28Speaker 2: can't wait to see what she does next.
- 49:30Speaker 1: I was deeply devastated to find that me and my
- 49:33Speaker 1: friend and maybe three other people were the only people
- 49:37Speaker 1: in the movie theater four Bottoms. But then it was
- 49:40Speaker 1: also lovely because I got to talk through the whole movie,
- 49:43Speaker 1: because Bottoms is a movie that you have to talk
- 49:47Speaker 1: through because at some point I'm like, ah, that's red,
- 49:50Speaker 1: white and royal blue. She's like what I was like
- 49:54Speaker 1: the Brits. And then I was like, there's a man
- 49:56Speaker 1: in a cage. Do you think we're ever going to
- 49:58Speaker 1: learn why? And then it's it's like, oh, we learned
- 50:01Speaker 1: why that man was in a cage.
- 50:04Speaker 2: It is I Yeah. So I went and saw that
- 50:08Speaker 2: film in theaters a couple of times, because my rule
- 50:10Speaker 2: is if I love a film, especially if it's an
- 50:12Speaker 2: independent film, I will go. Even though I'm sure my
- 50:17Speaker 2: ten dollars is just a drop in the bucket. I
- 50:20Speaker 2: am just I feel like I'm manifesting for studios to
- 50:26Speaker 2: make more fun, quirky independent films. So I supported Bottoms
- 50:30Speaker 2: just like I supported Theater Camp eight bajillion times in
- 50:34Speaker 2: the movie theater. But in one of my showings of
- 50:37Speaker 2: bottoms after again this is a high school comedy. After
- 50:43Speaker 2: a group of girls blow up a car, I hear
- 50:47Speaker 2: someone behind me turn to whomever they're sitting with and
- 50:50Speaker 2: just go, this is insane. And I was like, this
- 50:54Speaker 2: is why we come to the theater. This is what
- 50:56Speaker 2: Nicole Kitma was talking about. That's the magic is.
- 51:00Speaker 1: What Nicole Kidman is talking about. And Nicole Kidman, what
- 51:03Speaker 1: are career renaissance? I guess for calling it she's having
- 51:07Speaker 1: because I for her. I'm excited for her. She was
- 51:11Speaker 1: the butt of my joke about this new season of
- 51:14Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars because when they announced the new
- 51:17Speaker 1: season of Dancing with the Stars, I had to flip
- 51:19Speaker 1: five people before I recognized some one and I asked
- 51:24Speaker 1: my friends. I was like, are we are we out
- 51:28Speaker 1: of former celebrities that need to check? Because the A
- 51:32Speaker 1: listers on Netflix Movies would tell me otherwise.
- 51:38Speaker 2: Yeah. She just won the Boldy Cup at the Venice
- 51:42Speaker 2: Film Festival. Super excited to see her and Baby Girls,
- 51:45Speaker 2: directed by the same filmmaker who did Body's Body's.
- 51:49Speaker 1: Bodies, another one of my favorites.
- 51:51Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, let's also add in the trifecta of
- 51:54Speaker 2: like Rachel Sennett being one of the best sillennial gen
- 51:59Speaker 2: Z actors out there. Her other film of hers that
- 52:04Speaker 2: I saw very recently, I Used to Be Funny, which
- 52:08Speaker 2: is not a comedy that would lead to preface by
- 52:13Speaker 2: Ali pank is finally on Netflix in the US if
- 52:17Speaker 2: you have not seen it. But she's really just such
- 52:21Speaker 2: a dynamic performer, and I love how many women that
- 52:24Speaker 2: she's worked with again bodies, I Used to be Funny,
- 52:28Speaker 2: Should the Baby Bottoms? Just so many female filmmakers that
- 52:32Speaker 2: she's been working with.
- 52:35Speaker 1: Yes, there was a good part of last year where
- 52:39Speaker 1: it felt like every time I was walking into five
- 52:43Speaker 1: dollars movie night, it was because there was a Bottoms,
- 52:47Speaker 1: there was a Love Lies Bleeding, there was a Lisa Frankenstein,
- 52:52Speaker 1: and I was like, we must tryumph these movies made
- 52:56Speaker 1: by women for women, even though I have to go
- 52:59Speaker 1: on cheap.
- 53:02Speaker 2: You know, but seeing someone like Rose Glass with Love
- 53:06Speaker 2: Life Bleeding, coming off of Saint Maude, which is just
- 53:10Speaker 2: such a disturbing little horror film, I really love watching.
- 53:17Speaker 2: You know, some of these more independent minded production companies
- 53:22Speaker 2: like A twenty four Neon really champing championing women in
- 53:28Speaker 2: making another film. Amazon's done that obviously Blinked Twice is
- 53:33Speaker 2: an Amazon MGM, Amazon. I think you have they've worked
- 53:38Speaker 2: Saltburn was on film that they also produce, co produced
- 53:42Speaker 2: and distributed as well. You have Margot Robbie's production company
- 53:46Speaker 2: Lucky Chap that is just giving so many opportunities to women.
- 53:51Speaker 2: So we we love to.
- 53:52Speaker 1: See that, I know, And I'm like on the verge
- 53:55Speaker 1: of being of Reese Witherspoon hater because I'm like, those
- 53:58Speaker 1: movies make me feel so much different than anything that's
- 54:01Speaker 1: ever come out of Oh Hello Sunshine.
- 54:05Speaker 2: Yeah, I just really hope Reese Witherspoon some of her
- 54:09Speaker 2: early stuff that she's produced. I mean, Gone Girl was
- 54:11Speaker 2: really cool.
- 54:12Speaker 1: Oh Gone Girl was amazing.
- 54:13Speaker 2: Incredible, Wild was really good. Yeah, I just hope that
- 54:17Speaker 2: she kind of gets back and gets inspired by other
- 54:22Speaker 2: people around her. And I think that, you know, people
- 54:26Speaker 2: go through an ebb and flow. I feel like Nicole
- 54:29Speaker 2: Kimmon's a great example too, because you look at her
- 54:33Speaker 2: nineties and early two thousands, just some breath taking work
- 54:38Speaker 2: and then a period of just kind of self discovery
- 54:40Speaker 2: of like trying things, not all of them working, and
- 54:43Speaker 2: so I'm just really excited to now see her working
- 54:46Speaker 2: with a female director in what seems to be just
- 54:51Speaker 2: like a career redefining moment, saying with Angelina Jolie getting
- 54:56Speaker 2: to have a moment in the spotlight after many years
- 55:00Speaker 2: where we haven't gotten to see her in such a
- 55:04Speaker 2: spotlight is really exciting to witness.
- 55:07Speaker 1: Being thirty five and knowing that I can still be
- 55:13Speaker 1: surprised because Sandra Bullock's going to show up in a
- 55:16Speaker 1: rom com and it's going to be opposite of Channing Tatum,
- 55:19Speaker 1: who's playing his version of BOBBYO. Is beautiful. I love
- 55:24Speaker 1: that my girls are getting back into movies.
- 55:28Speaker 2: I you know, I'm so excited too because it sounds
- 55:30Speaker 2: like Practical Magitude might actually be a thing.
- 55:34Speaker 1: It is a thing. It was officially announced by Warner Brothers.
- 55:37Speaker 2: I think I'm still until it's in production. I'm not
- 55:41Speaker 2: going to I've talked about it a lot. I'm just
- 55:46Speaker 2: going to play it safe a little bit. But so
- 55:49Speaker 2: excited for Santra Bullock and Nicole Kimmon to be like
- 55:51Speaker 2: back together. I have some women that I would love
- 55:54Speaker 2: to direct it.
- 55:55Speaker 1: God, I hope a woman.
- 55:58Speaker 2: I mean no, I think griffined on to a really
- 56:00Speaker 2: great job with that. It was the screenplay was written
- 56:05Speaker 2: by two women and a male screenwriter, and I think
- 56:09Speaker 2: that that really helped having those voices on the page.
- 56:14Speaker 2: And I appreciate Griffin Dunn kind of like Rob Reiner
- 56:17Speaker 2: did with When Harry Met Sally, really let there be
- 56:20Speaker 2: a lot of what was on that page be what
- 56:24Speaker 2: grounded him in his filmmaking.
- 56:26Speaker 1: Practical Magic is my I know that. I just said
- 56:30Speaker 1: that another movie was my favorite movie and it was
- 56:32Speaker 1: dropped dead gorgeous, but Practice, Oh my god. I watched
- 56:36Speaker 1: Practical Magic. As soon as there's a cool breeze in
- 56:40Speaker 1: the air. I'm like, it's time fall. Tricia yearwould Stevie
- 56:44Speaker 1: Nix and Stocker Channing Baby.
- 56:47Speaker 2: I just I always say Practical Magic is has everything, Magic, Murder,
- 56:53Speaker 2: Margarita's Margot Martindale, What do you need?
- 56:56Speaker 1: What more do you need? Nothing? And if they fuck
- 57:00Speaker 1: this sequel for me and I have to go on
- 57:04Speaker 1: a hot mic and be like, you fucked, because I've
- 57:07Speaker 1: read every Alice Hoffman book and I don't know how
- 57:11Speaker 1: they're turning the prequel of Practical Magic into the sequel
- 57:16Speaker 1: of Practical Magic. So just like I don't know, I
- 57:19Speaker 1: might have to go into HYDI after the movie releases.
- 57:23Speaker 2: I I just hope that they kind of do what
- 57:26Speaker 2: they want, because I mean, the book is so different
- 57:29Speaker 2: than the film, so I hope that they kind of
- 57:33Speaker 2: have that same energy with the sequel of like, maybe
- 57:37Speaker 2: take some pieces of the book that you really enjoyed
- 57:40Speaker 2: and translate it, but make it be its own thing.
- 57:42Speaker 1: Maybe its own thing.
- 57:44Speaker 2: Sandy and Nick can do it.
- 57:47Speaker 1: I often tell people when they're like, what's a little cute,
- 57:50Speaker 1: little anecdote fact about you, I'm like, I'm the only
- 57:53Speaker 1: person on the globe that can take the book Ellen
- 57:57Speaker 1: Enchanted and the movie Ellen Enchanted and love them as
- 58:00Speaker 1: separate entities, because you could never make me hate you
- 58:04Speaker 1: and have the.
- 58:05Speaker 2: Way there are, you know. I think it's kind of
- 58:09Speaker 2: like I really love Greta Gerwrigg's adaptation of Little Women,
- 58:13Speaker 2: and it's very different than other adaptations, different than the book.
- 58:16Speaker 2: And I think that that's kind of like the beauty
- 58:19Speaker 2: of a film adaptation is you don't have to make
- 58:23Speaker 2: it exactly as a book because that's not the forum
- 58:30Speaker 2: that you're working in. You're working in cinema. So I
- 58:34Speaker 2: really like to see them as almost like a cover
- 58:38Speaker 2: or an acoustic version of a song you know, is
- 58:43Speaker 2: the Nirvana version of the Man Who Sold the World
- 58:46Speaker 2: better than David Bowie's. Some might say so, some might
- 58:50Speaker 2: say that they're both great. Some might still prefer the
- 58:52Speaker 2: original to the Nervana. That's fine, but they are two
- 58:56Speaker 2: different things.
- 58:58Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, I am not. I mean, did the Hobbit
- 59:02Speaker 1: have to be three films? Of course not. The forty
- 59:04Speaker 1: five minute cartoon was perfect. It was perfect.
- 59:09Speaker 2: I sometimes forget that The Hobbit was three films, which
- 59:12Speaker 2: is also now my pitch for why Mama Mia should
- 59:15Speaker 2: be a trilogy, because if we can turn the Hobbit
- 59:18Speaker 2: into three films, then we can have three Mama Mia movie.
- 59:21Speaker 1: I think we're getting three Baba Villas. I think it
- 59:24Speaker 1: doesn't make sense. So because in Mama Mia two spoilers,
- 59:28Speaker 1: they kill off Donna, Like.
- 59:31Speaker 2: I already have a vision in my mind of how
- 59:34Speaker 2: this can be universal.
- 59:36Speaker 1: Call me anything that requires Colin Firth to mumble scene
- 59:41Speaker 1: in hot pants in a in a seventies disco leotard outfit.
- 59:52Speaker 2: And look, we're going to bring back Lily James.
- 59:54Speaker 1: It'll be great. I loved Mama Mia too, and they
- 59:58Speaker 1: could never make me hate too.
- 1:00:02Speaker 2: It is an incredible film. It's perfect also directed by
- 1:00:07Speaker 2: a man, though, so I will.
- 1:00:08Speaker 1: Give Parker that, you know, you get a gold star.
- 1:00:12Speaker 1: One of the things that I also wanted to talk
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: about about the different treatment of female stories is who
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: actually gets to tell female stories, because I hinted to
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: you after we had wrapped recording that the thing that
- 1:00:26Speaker 1: infuriates me the most about the It Ends with Us
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: drama is that I was mad that Justin got to
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: tell that story to begin with, even though the author
- 1:00:36Speaker 1: wanted him to, because it would have literally raised my
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: hackles to be on that set and have him tell
- 1:00:42Speaker 1: me what to do.
- 1:00:43Speaker 2: See, I mean, I love other people's drama, so this
- 1:00:48Speaker 2: Ends with Us drama is exhausting. I think it's a
- 1:00:52Speaker 2: bunch of really privileged people not centering the idea that
- 1:00:55Speaker 2: this is supposed to be about in domestic science. Yes,
- 1:00:58Speaker 2: and that also is to author as well, because I
- 1:01:01Speaker 2: read a synopsis of the book and it just is
- 1:01:04Speaker 2: not it's a white lady, white feminist views of the world,
- 1:01:10Speaker 2: which again I did say I support women's rights and
- 1:01:13Speaker 2: women's wrongs, but maybe not this wrong. That said, I
- 1:01:17Speaker 2: do think it is very difficult for anyone from an
- 1:01:24Speaker 2: underrepresented community to be able to tell their own story.
- 1:01:27Speaker 2: And I think that what happens there is you get
- 1:01:34Speaker 2: the finance people involved, because cinema is an art that
- 1:01:39Speaker 2: is financed by people who do not understand art. So
- 1:01:43Speaker 2: I will talk about one of my nemeses, David Saslaw.
- 1:01:48Speaker 2: This this really beautiful film, funny, thoughtful film am I Okay
- 1:01:55Speaker 2: co directed by Tick Nataro and Stephanie Allen and after
- 1:02:00Speaker 2: Sun Dance, HBO Max at the time before they rebranded
- 1:02:05Speaker 2: for the umpteenth time acquired the film and then did
- 1:02:08Speaker 2: nothing with it. And again it's two women directing this film.
- 1:02:15Speaker 2: Dakota Johnson is fantastic in it. She produced it, It
- 1:02:20Speaker 2: was written by Lauren Pamarans. There were just a lot
- 1:02:24Speaker 2: of women involved in this movie. And then it sat
- 1:02:27Speaker 2: there and then eventually kind of got like a very
- 1:02:30Speaker 2: rushed release. So that said, if you have MAX people,
- 1:02:34Speaker 2: please go watch that film, because I'd been talking about
- 1:02:37Speaker 2: it for like two years, two maybe three years time.
- 1:02:41Speaker 2: As a social construct I have trouble with sometimes, you know,
- 1:02:45Speaker 2: it was a numbers thing and they sat on it
- 1:02:48Speaker 2: for forever, you know, sus same as I was very
- 1:02:52Speaker 2: concerned Anna Kendrick's directorial debut, The Woman of the Hour,
- 1:02:58Speaker 2: was acquired by Netflix, have a release date for a
- 1:03:01Speaker 2: really long time, and then all of a sudden, we
- 1:03:03Speaker 2: get both a trailer and a release date six weeks
- 1:03:06Speaker 2: away from said release date. So I just think that
- 1:03:10Speaker 2: there are not enough creative people providing creative input on
- 1:03:16Speaker 2: what films should be made. And I think it also
- 1:03:20Speaker 2: has to go to the films that we decide deserve
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: to be preserved. So not to congratulate white men, but
- 1:03:29Speaker 2: you do have men like Martin Scorsese, Steven Spielberg, Paul
- 1:03:33Speaker 2: Thomas Anderson who really fight for film preservation, and they're
- 1:03:38Speaker 2: not just fighting for the films with people that look
- 1:03:42Speaker 2: like them. Martin Scorsese has really done an incredible job
- 1:03:45Speaker 2: of uplifting voices of all different types of filmmakers, regardless
- 1:03:50Speaker 2: of their background. Steven Spielberg was really just probably Jane
- 1:03:56Speaker 2: Campion's biggest supporter when she was nominated for the Power
- 1:03:59Speaker 2: of the Job. But because we've moved away from physical media,
- 1:04:04Speaker 2: we're starting to see that again. People without a creed
- 1:04:07Speaker 2: a bone in their body, who house some of the
- 1:04:11Speaker 2: most beautiful creative works, are very flippant with keeping that work,
- 1:04:16Speaker 2: and so having places like the Criterion Collection which does
- 1:04:22Speaker 2: preserve that work is so important. But what we see
- 1:04:26Speaker 2: is the works that are kept first are largely white
- 1:04:30Speaker 2: male stories, and sometimes our more nuanced stories of from women,
- 1:04:37Speaker 2: from people of color, from the queer community, from the
- 1:04:40Speaker 2: intersectionality of all of that, from non Americans. We forget
- 1:04:45Speaker 2: that there are people making films, not just in America,
- 1:04:49Speaker 2: not just in the UK, but those artists, their works
- 1:04:53Speaker 2: are not kept. And so you have something like the
- 1:04:58Speaker 2: site and Sound Pole, which highlighted Chantell Ackerman's John Dielman,
- 1:05:03Speaker 2: which is a three and a half hour movie with
- 1:05:05Speaker 2: almost no dialogue. It is one of the most unnerving
- 1:05:10Speaker 2: endings of a film I've ever seen. But a whole
- 1:05:12Speaker 2: bunch of people who are artistic, who have access to
- 1:05:17Speaker 2: films that are very difficult for regular people to access,
- 1:05:20Speaker 2: talked about how much they loved that film, and all
- 1:05:23Speaker 2: of a sudden you saw retrospective screenings of it, you
- 1:05:26Speaker 2: saw people buying it off of the Criterion Collection. You
- 1:05:29Speaker 2: saw these people starting to support this film, and I
- 1:05:32Speaker 2: think that's really beautiful and wonderful to see that happen.
- 1:05:36Speaker 2: And so I think we just kind of have a
- 1:05:40Speaker 2: duty to champion works. And I really hope that as
- 1:05:45Speaker 2: we're coming to have a reckoning with the streaming model,
- 1:05:52Speaker 2: that we begin to realize how special physical media was,
- 1:05:56Speaker 2: because if Netflix decides to take passing off of their plan,
- 1:06:00Speaker 2: it's nowhere.
- 1:06:01Speaker 1: Where does it go?
- 1:06:03Speaker 2: Mm hmm?
- 1:06:04Speaker 1: Because I ran into this, doing an episode of pop
- 1:06:09Speaker 1: culture makes me jealous for a movie that I picked,
- 1:06:12Speaker 1: and I usually check to make sure that they're streaming
- 1:06:15Speaker 1: because I'm broke. Muppets Take Manhattan isn't on Disney Plus
- 1:06:20Speaker 1: the best Muppets movie if they were just like, not
- 1:06:24Speaker 1: this one. And I was flabbergasted. And then when I
- 1:06:29Speaker 1: was moving, it turned out I had two physical DVDs
- 1:06:33Speaker 1: of Buppets Take Manhattan because I probably see it in
- 1:06:37Speaker 1: stores and then panic that I don't have it and
- 1:06:40Speaker 1: then purchase it. I just brought that up to my
- 1:06:43Speaker 1: dad because my dad's like, you watch any Muppet movie
- 1:06:46Speaker 1: that you want. We have Disney Plus. And I was like,
- 1:06:48Speaker 1: not my favorite, not the one that moves me, not
- 1:06:52Speaker 1: the one with the wedding, not Muppets Takes Manhattan. Where
- 1:06:56Speaker 1: is it? Where I had to rent it?
- 1:07:01Speaker 2: Well, it's also like Disney, which owns. Hulu had taken Rosaline,
- 1:07:06Speaker 2: directed by Karen Maine, off of there, and it was
- 1:07:10Speaker 2: just kind of nowhere, And then eventually they make it
- 1:07:13Speaker 2: available for rent, but it's like, but you can also
- 1:07:17Speaker 2: then revoke our ability to rent it at some point
- 1:07:20Speaker 2: in time, which means once again, I won't be able
- 1:07:23Speaker 2: to watch this film and enjoy Caitlin Deavers's fun performance
- 1:07:30Speaker 2: because you've decided you're just not it's not worth it anymore.
- 1:07:35Speaker 1: Disney is my nemesis, and I talk about it pretty openly,
- 1:07:38Speaker 1: despite the fact that I believe that they're dangerous and
- 1:07:41Speaker 1: will put a hit out on me one day and
- 1:07:44Speaker 1: I'll be killed with an arrow to the heart by
- 1:07:48Speaker 1: Jeremy Runner and he'll be in full costume. And but
- 1:07:53Speaker 1: Disney is my nemesis. And over my nephew's current conferent
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: movie is Racket. So we queue up for bedtime Disney Plus,
- 1:08:03Speaker 1: and Disney Plus is a trash streaming service that works
- 1:08:07Speaker 1: thirty five percent of the time.
- 1:08:10Speaker 2: Yeah, there's just I mean, I think that there is
- 1:08:14Speaker 2: something really great and beautiful about having a platform that
- 1:08:19Speaker 2: you can go to to discover new films. I mean,
- 1:08:22Speaker 2: when Netflix was early in what it was doing. I
- 1:08:27Speaker 2: watched foreign films that I would have never seen before
- 1:08:32Speaker 2: or had access to. I do now have the Criterion Channel,
- 1:08:36Speaker 2: which has been the most revolutionary thing that I've ever
- 1:08:39Speaker 2: gifted myself. I love it so much. But now we're
- 1:08:44Speaker 2: kind of getting into the cable of it, all of
- 1:08:48Speaker 2: bundling all of these things together, and it's you know,
- 1:08:52Speaker 2: it's becoming a bit too much. And so I hope
- 1:08:55Speaker 2: that again, kind of as we're confronting what this is,
- 1:09:00Speaker 2: that we make some choices in the right direction.
- 1:09:03Speaker 1: Yeah, because my brother in law, who's a very intelligent man,
- 1:09:06Speaker 1: he was like, if it's his comfort movie and we're
- 1:09:08Speaker 1: gonna watch it every night, just buy Bracket Ralph, so
- 1:09:10Speaker 1: we don't have to rely on Disney and the fact
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: that their own streaming service doesn't work, we couldn't buy it.
- 1:09:18Speaker 1: Disney was like, no, you have to watch it through us.
- 1:09:20Speaker 1: I was like, but you don't work. So we watched
- 1:09:23Speaker 1: Super Mario instead, which I had never seen because Chris
- 1:09:26Speaker 1: Pratt is also my enemy, but I love Jack Black
- 1:09:30Speaker 1: and I was a Bowser sympathizer that entire movie, and
- 1:09:34Speaker 1: I was like, I think I could fix them. I'm
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: team Mary Bowser. Yeah, Yeah, I.
- 1:09:41Speaker 2: Mean there's a lot of complexity to Bowser there.
- 1:09:44Speaker 1: There truly is he wrote her a theme song. What
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: did Chris Pratt Mario do nothing but Jack Black? Bowser charmie,
- 1:09:54Speaker 1: Jack Black, always charming. Okay, they could never make me
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: hate you, Jack Black. We should probably wrap up before
- 1:10:03Speaker 1: I just literally start listing movies for us to talk about. Yeah,
- 1:10:07Speaker 1: and move into our closing out ceremony. So, as you've
- 1:10:12Speaker 1: been looking at, specifically movies directed and created by women,
- 1:10:20Speaker 1: what has been your biggest lesson or takeaway that you
- 1:10:23Speaker 1: kind of carry on with you when you're making decisions
- 1:10:26Speaker 1: or when you're doing critical analysis of something that maybe
- 1:10:31Speaker 1: has nothing to do with movies, but it's just like
- 1:10:33Speaker 1: a little life lesson.
- 1:10:35Speaker 2: Gosh, that's such a good question. I think one thing
- 1:10:39Speaker 2: that it has taught me is to seek out films
- 1:10:46Speaker 2: that I might not always be comfortable with, or seek
- 1:10:51Speaker 2: out films that just don't look like a hashtag Morgan movie.
- 1:10:59Speaker 2: You know, to be daring and to let an artist
- 1:11:06Speaker 2: provide their voice and in turn give them your time
- 1:11:12Speaker 2: and attention in their art.
- 1:11:16Speaker 1: Yeah. And I think my biggest lesson is and I
- 1:11:20Speaker 1: say this a lot like you have to be the
- 1:11:23Speaker 1: champion of the thing that you love. So I talk
- 1:11:25Speaker 1: about that, like I'm a champion of the libraries because
- 1:11:28Speaker 1: when I was too broke to sit in public where
- 1:11:32Speaker 1: it cost you money to be there, the library was
- 1:11:34Speaker 1: always there with a craft and sometimes a spaghetti dinner.
- 1:11:39Speaker 1: And the drive through is another thing that a friend
- 1:11:42Speaker 1: once asked me, like, you just said that you love
- 1:11:44Speaker 1: the drive through. How often have you been this summer?
- 1:11:47Speaker 1: And I said, I have it And he said, then
- 1:11:49Speaker 1: when the drive through is gone, you have to ask
- 1:11:52Speaker 1: yourself whether or not you were a part of that.
- 1:11:57Speaker 1: So I think the idea of making sure or like
- 1:12:01Speaker 1: I was like, I have to go see Blink twice.
- 1:12:05Speaker 1: You know, I want Zoe making movies. I want people
- 1:12:08Speaker 1: making horror movies, romantic movies, comedy movies that represent my
- 1:12:15Speaker 1: experience as a woman, Like I have to be that champion,
- 1:12:19Speaker 1: and then I have to like truly strong arm other
- 1:12:24Speaker 1: people into watching these movies to be like sit down
- 1:12:29Speaker 1: Bottoms is the perfect way. My sister, who is often
- 1:12:33Speaker 1: very critical of me and my taste and I am
- 1:12:37Speaker 1: always stupid, when I told her, I go, you have
- 1:12:41Speaker 1: to watch Bottoms. It will never waste your time. She
- 1:12:45Speaker 1: texted me the moment the credits rolled and when I
- 1:12:48Speaker 1: have no notes for this movie.
- 1:12:52Speaker 2: I yeah, I mean I totally agree with you gotta
- 1:12:57Speaker 2: champion things that you love, because I also think there
- 1:13:00Speaker 2: are so many things that I hate. But is that
- 1:13:04Speaker 2: really worth my energy? Or could I be talking about
- 1:13:07Speaker 2: Sometimes I think about Dying, which is a tiny independent
- 1:13:10Speaker 2: film that you can now watch on movies. Yes, that
- 1:13:13Speaker 2: really is one of the most beautiful things that I've seen.
- 1:13:16Speaker 2: Or do I talk about something that annoyed me? Or
- 1:13:20Speaker 2: do I take my friend to go see Janet Planet
- 1:13:23Speaker 2: and have someone to be able to talk with afterwards
- 1:13:28Speaker 2: of what a beautiful film that is?
- 1:13:31Speaker 1: Yeah? I get really caught up into this idea of
- 1:13:34Speaker 1: be a champion for the things that you love instead
- 1:13:37Speaker 1: of like a nitpicker of the things that you love.
- 1:13:40Speaker 1: When it comes to drop Out TV, my favorite independent
- 1:13:44Speaker 1: streaming service that doesn't sponsor this podcast but basically gets
- 1:13:47Speaker 1: me through life, because so many people will take the
- 1:13:50Speaker 1: thing that they love and be like, but remember when
- 1:13:53Speaker 1: you pissed me off this one time and literally wait
- 1:13:56Speaker 1: until Samurai's CEO of Dropout answers your Instagram DM to
- 1:14:01Speaker 1: be like, real, sorry about that. One bro, It's just
- 1:14:05Speaker 1: real and it happens to critical role in all of it.
- 1:14:08Speaker 1: And I would rather go to every Dropout video as
- 1:14:13Speaker 1: it pops up on my feet to be like, hell, yes,
- 1:14:16Speaker 1: I'm so glad Giovanni is on this episode of Money's
- 1:14:21Speaker 1: Slumber Party, because more drag representation online and on my
- 1:14:26Speaker 1: TV is what I fucking want all day every day.
- 1:14:29Speaker 1: Literally blow them up, tag them all to be like
- 1:14:32Speaker 1: I love you, I love your work. Here's my seven
- 1:14:35Speaker 1: dollars every month, Like please doing this because I would
- 1:14:38Speaker 1: hate and I've made this point in videos and in
- 1:14:42Speaker 1: comments on other people's videos where it's like I would
- 1:14:45Speaker 1: hate for Dropout to stop taking risks because I was
- 1:14:49Speaker 1: having a bitchy day, Like I don't want filmmakers to
- 1:14:53Speaker 1: stop taking risks because all of a sudden, like I
- 1:14:57Speaker 1: have to be catered too, and I'm feeling frad jel
- 1:15:00Speaker 1: like I'm mentally ill, I have PMDD. No one should
- 1:15:03Speaker 1: take what I'm saying.
- 1:15:07Speaker 2: There are plenty of filmmakers that I have tried to
- 1:15:10Speaker 2: watch their movies and I don't like any of them,
- 1:15:14Speaker 2: and that's okay because there are people who really connect
- 1:15:18Speaker 2: with them. Just don't recommend it to me because I
- 1:15:22Speaker 2: already know where I'm going to stand on it. It
- 1:15:25Speaker 2: is what it is.
- 1:15:27Speaker 1: Yeah, don't send me Chris Pratt movies, because then I'm
- 1:15:30Speaker 1: going to have to remind you how Chris Pratt ruined everything,
- 1:15:33Speaker 1: including Anna Faris Okay, where's my Anna Faris renaissance? Chris
- 1:15:38Speaker 1: Pratt still holding it hostage because he still makes her
- 1:15:41Speaker 1: sad every day.
- 1:15:42Speaker 2: I'm just waiting for The House Bunny too, He's crossed.
- 1:15:46Speaker 2: May that happen?
- 1:15:48Speaker 1: Was The House Bunny directed by a woman?
- 1:15:52Speaker 2: It was not, but it was written by the women
- 1:15:54Speaker 2: who also wrote Ten Things I Hate about It? You
- 1:15:57Speaker 2: legally blonde? She's the man?
- 1:16:01Speaker 1: Why is the House Bunny so funny? And we stop
- 1:16:03Speaker 1: talking about it? Like when I see clips of the
- 1:16:06Speaker 1: House Bunny, I'm like, this is brilliant.
- 1:16:09Speaker 2: I will never stop talking about the House Bunny.
- 1:16:12Speaker 1: They could never make me hate you, Anna Faris Morgan.
- 1:16:17Speaker 1: What would be a manifestation that you would want the
- 1:16:19Speaker 1: listeners to help add to the collective energy when it
- 1:16:22Speaker 1: comes to female filmmakers.
- 1:16:25Speaker 2: Well, I guess maybe let's manifest a three out of
- 1:16:34Speaker 2: five best directors being a female being female lineup. I mean,
- 1:16:40Speaker 2: I would like five for five women in the Best
- 1:16:43Speaker 2: Director's category. I'm realistic, though, let's manifest an eventual three
- 1:16:49Speaker 2: because I can already see I want maryle Color to
- 1:16:54Speaker 2: get some recognition. There are so many women with works
- 1:16:58Speaker 2: coming out later this year. Yeah, I'm super excited about So.
- 1:17:02Speaker 1: I would like the entire Academy Awards a ceremony that
- 1:17:07Speaker 1: I did not watch last year because they pissed me
- 1:17:09Speaker 1: off by being like comedy.
- 1:17:10Speaker 2: Is it real art?
- 1:17:12Speaker 1: Fantasy you? So I didn't watch because I was in protest.
- 1:17:18Speaker 1: But I would love the entire Academy Awards to be
- 1:17:21Speaker 1: that moment on the Emmys where all of those women
- 1:17:24Speaker 1: held hands and pretended that it was a beauty pageant.
- 1:17:28Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:17:28Speaker 1: I cry every time that comes across my feeing and
- 1:17:31Speaker 1: the fact that Eddie Falca was supposed to go first
- 1:17:34Speaker 1: and then she's like, I'm really nervous to start off
- 1:17:36Speaker 1: this bit because we're not supposed to be doing bits.
- 1:17:38Speaker 1: It was unscripted, and someone will change the whole order.
- 1:17:42Speaker 1: Who cares?
- 1:17:44Speaker 2: I just yeah, I mean, I really loved watching. I
- 1:17:48Speaker 2: think that's one of the things in general that I
- 1:17:51Speaker 2: just love watching is women supporting women. I mean, we've
- 1:17:57Speaker 2: mentioned her Kirson. Dunst has worked with women her entire career,
- 1:18:02Speaker 2: from Julian Armstrong and Little Women to Leslie Hedlin with Bachelorette,
- 1:18:09Speaker 2: her constant collaborations with Sophia Coppola, finally getting her first
- 1:18:14Speaker 2: OSCAR nomination with Jane Campion. I you know, I think
- 1:18:19Speaker 2: that there is room for us to support women, and
- 1:18:23Speaker 2: as women, we can do that either with our time,
- 1:18:26Speaker 2: our money, if you are a creative of working with women,
- 1:18:33Speaker 2: there's just there's ample opportunities for us.
- 1:18:37Speaker 1: So I think that's also my manifestation too, is like
- 1:18:39Speaker 1: anytime anyone anywhere is like, aren't we super excited for
- 1:18:45Speaker 1: the new Star Wars movie? Probably I love lasers, but
- 1:18:51Speaker 1: also I hope that at the tip of my tongue
- 1:18:55Speaker 1: I have like a female filmmaker, like I want Greta
- 1:18:58Speaker 1: Burwig's name to be said out loud as often as
- 1:19:02Speaker 1: Steven Spielbert's, as often as George Lucas, Like I truly
- 1:19:07Speaker 1: always want someone to be talking to me about a
- 1:19:10Speaker 1: new female filmmaker that I haven't even conceptualized yet.
- 1:19:15Speaker 2: Yeah, I want, and not just because I think we
- 1:19:19Speaker 2: always tend to talk about like the Gretiger Rags and
- 1:19:22Speaker 2: the Sofia Coppolas. But you know there is Gina Prince
- 1:19:26Speaker 2: Fightwood who did The Woman King. Yes, I still just
- 1:19:32Speaker 2: love everything that Lulu Wang has been doing. The Farewell
- 1:19:37Speaker 2: is just such a beautiful film. I happen to recommend
- 1:19:42Speaker 2: it recently, hence why I have to bring it up now.
- 1:19:45Speaker 2: But you know, Chloe Joo being the second woman ever
- 1:19:49Speaker 2: to win an Academy Award, first woman of color to
- 1:19:52Speaker 2: win Best Director, I just think that we and also
- 1:19:57Speaker 2: I think that awards are silly. They are awards don't words,
- 1:20:01Speaker 2: don't matter until they do matter, because you know, it
- 1:20:04Speaker 2: does matter to see someone like Michelle Yo win Best
- 1:20:07Speaker 2: Actress when for ninety five years, no one like Michelle
- 1:20:12Speaker 2: Yo was really considered in that category. Their art, their
- 1:20:17Speaker 2: craft was not considered. Again, it doesn't matter until it
- 1:20:21Speaker 2: does matter. But I hope that we find ways to
- 1:20:25Speaker 2: not put so much pressure. Maybe that's another manifestation is
- 1:20:29Speaker 2: let's not put so much pressure on women excelling. We
- 1:20:33Speaker 2: don't ask Zack Snyder to make a good movie ever,
- 1:20:37Speaker 2: and we still give him money. It still never happened,
- 1:20:42Speaker 2: So I just not I mean, I wish I could
- 1:20:46Speaker 2: say no offense Zack Snyder, but I mean offense. But yeah,
- 1:20:50Speaker 2: I just I think that there are so many stories
- 1:20:52Speaker 2: that if we just took the time and we weren't
- 1:20:57Speaker 2: sitting here going like, oh, is this going to be
- 1:20:59Speaker 2: the new contender? Is this going to be the thing
- 1:21:02Speaker 2: that wins all the awards? Okay, yeah, go and see that,
- 1:21:05Speaker 2: but also like, go touch grass, Go watch a movie.
- 1:21:09Speaker 2: Go watch Fancy Dance that's on Apple TV. Erica Tromblay
- 1:21:13Speaker 2: made this beautiful movie that I think more people should see.
- 1:21:16Speaker 1: You can't get me to watch Openheimer. I do not
- 1:21:20Speaker 1: have the time. Even when I'm knee deep into selling
- 1:21:23Speaker 1: Sunset that I've watched four times through all of the seasons.
- 1:21:28Speaker 1: I'm a slut for selling Sunset. You can't get me
- 1:21:31Speaker 1: to watch Openheimer.
- 1:21:34Speaker 2: I won't, And that's fine because Fancy Dance is under
- 1:21:38Speaker 2: two hours and it has Lily Glasstone. It is one
- 1:21:43Speaker 2: of the most heartbreakingly beautiful films that I've seen in
- 1:21:46Speaker 2: the past couple of years. People should watch that.
- 1:21:50Speaker 1: And I will watch any Lily Gladstone project that is
- 1:21:54Speaker 1: a Pillars of the Flower Moon because I can't Stan
- 1:21:57Speaker 1: Leonardo DiCaprio, and that's my right as a who's over
- 1:22:00Speaker 1: twenty five.
- 1:22:02Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's tough with him being around. But wille
- 1:22:07Speaker 2: Blodstone's in this other great film called The Unfold Country,
- 1:22:12Speaker 2: which I cannot recommend enough by Marissamlts.
- 1:22:15Speaker 1: That's a sound bite. Yeah, it's just really tough with
- 1:22:18Speaker 1: Leonardo around. Remember Titanic Leonardo. Remember Growing Pains Leonardo. Every
- 1:22:23Speaker 1: time I want to go hey on Leonardo DiCaprio, which
- 1:22:26Speaker 1: is every day, I just like moored Growing Pains Leonardo
- 1:22:31Speaker 1: di Caprio.
- 1:22:33Speaker 2: I might have been too young to have been sold
- 1:22:35Speaker 2: on early Leonardo DiCaprio when he was you know, Romeo
- 1:22:39Speaker 2: and Romeo and Juliet. I've never gotten the appeal. And
- 1:22:43Speaker 2: it is what it is. Marince Corsace loves him, and
- 1:22:46Speaker 2: I love Lily Lily Gladstone, so she gets all my money.
- 1:22:53Speaker 1: Marts Merstase loves leanderd Yeahrie, and I love Lily Glass
- 1:22:58Speaker 1: not even and I love mart and so maybe I'll
- 1:23:00Speaker 1: go fast though. And I love Lily. I do love Lily.
- 1:23:05Speaker 1: I wanted her to win a trophy. I wanted to
- 1:23:08Speaker 1: cry during that speech. I was very toward this year
- 1:23:11Speaker 1: at the O.
- 1:23:13Speaker 2: I was very excited to see her win the Sack Award,
- 1:23:16Speaker 2: and I'm just so excited that, you know, we saw
- 1:23:20Speaker 2: her in Certain Women by Kelly Reikhart, beautiful film.
- 1:23:24Speaker 1: She's got that Hulu series about crime.
- 1:23:27Speaker 2: I'm just very excited for you know, the opportunities that
- 1:23:32Speaker 2: they're going to get, the work that they're going to
- 1:23:35Speaker 2: be doing, and you know, she's just a dynamic performer.
- 1:23:39Speaker 2: I'm so excited.
- 1:23:40Speaker 1: Well, Morgan, thank you so much for being here.
- 1:23:43Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having me. This has been
- 1:23:44Speaker 2: a delight.
- 1:23:45Speaker 1: I love talking to you. I love that I pay
- 1:23:48Speaker 1: attention to all of my friends social media with a
- 1:23:51Speaker 1: fervor that when al Rinthia was on your show, I
- 1:23:54Speaker 1: was like, Morgan, must be on my show. We are
- 1:23:57Speaker 1: women who appreciate women. We are Yeah, let the listeners
- 1:24:02Speaker 1: know where they can find you.
- 1:24:04Speaker 2: Yeah, you can find me slash my podcast on Instagram.
- 1:24:08Speaker 2: Female Games. The Film Club new episodes pretty much every Sunday.
- 1:24:12Speaker 2: Every so often we go on a little hiatus, but
- 1:24:16Speaker 2: we have some a very wide range of films, which
- 1:24:19Speaker 2: has been so fun to go from a check new
- 1:24:25Speaker 2: way of film to something like Bottoms to you know,
- 1:24:30Speaker 2: both romance and drama of Mississippi Masala. So great times
- 1:24:35Speaker 2: over there.
- 1:24:36Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. It's a great show.
- 1:24:39Speaker 1: Because again, if you're a person who isn't constantly trolling
- 1:24:43Speaker 1: movie trailers like I am, it'll just like open your
- 1:24:46Speaker 1: world up to be like, could I like that movie?
- 1:24:49Speaker 1: I bet you I would, because I saw the preview
- 1:24:53Speaker 1: for Woman Keen and I was like, that's gonna be
- 1:24:56Speaker 1: the hottest movie of my life, but probably also devastating,
- 1:25:01Speaker 1: just devastating in a very sexy way.
- 1:25:04Speaker 2: Yeah. I think it's been so fun to have people
- 1:25:07Speaker 2: pick their own films because it's also just so interesting
- 1:25:10Speaker 2: for someone to, you know, you might have a preconceived
- 1:25:13Speaker 2: notion of the types of films that they might pick,
- 1:25:15Speaker 2: and they're like, I want to talk about The Babbadoo,
- 1:25:20Speaker 2: which I had never seen, and it was such a
- 1:25:23Speaker 2: fun time. So I really have also loved while I
- 1:25:28Speaker 2: merrely watch films directed by women, there are only so
- 1:25:31Speaker 2: many hours in the day, and so I miss some
- 1:25:34Speaker 2: and I really enjoy the opportunity to watch something that
- 1:25:37Speaker 2: I've never seen and for someone to introduce that to
- 1:25:40Speaker 2: me and have that conversation of like, what made you
- 1:25:43Speaker 2: watch it? Because you made me sit and watch this film,
- 1:25:48Speaker 2: And I enjoyed it, but how did this come to pass?
- 1:25:52Speaker 2: So's it's very fun.
- 1:25:55Speaker 1: No, That's why I try to go on as many
- 1:25:58Speaker 1: movie podcasts as I can because I love it, especially
- 1:26:01Speaker 1: when they'll assign me a movie because they want my
- 1:26:04Speaker 1: take on the movie and I'm like, oh, yes, Scary
- 1:26:07Speaker 1: on the Prairie on Netflix, which was called The Wind,
- 1:26:11Speaker 1: but I call it Scary on the Prairie like a
- 1:26:14Speaker 1: beautiful film that I would have never watched. It would
- 1:26:17Speaker 1: have never ended up in my algorithm, even though I
- 1:26:20Speaker 1: love horror. And hey, tolerators, you know where to find us.
- 1:26:24Speaker 1: It's Men I Have Tolerated Pod. I'm gonna actually wrap
- 1:26:27Speaker 1: up this episode because again I'll just list movies till
- 1:26:30Speaker 1: I die. And I guilted my sister into coming over
- 1:26:32Speaker 1: to my father's house today, so that's not cool on me.
- 1:26:37Speaker 1: But you can find us on Men. I Have Tolerated
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- 1:26:51Speaker 1: the book for Night Bitch. I think I reviewed Bottoms
- 1:26:56Speaker 1: at some point. Who's to say time in my brain
- 1:26:59Speaker 1: is a construct? And remember, tolerators, you don't have to
- 1:27:03Speaker 1: smile through anything you're tolerating, including winding up on a
- 1:27:07Speaker 1: date with someone who's only seen Steven Spielberg movies or
- 1:27:13Speaker 1: movie starring Leonardo DiCaprio. Smiles are for joy.