The Eight of Swords is a Rope Bunny

Boner and Mirror Tarot · Nov 1, 2026 · 43m · transcript

Would you marry emotional maturity... or someone who actually has time for you?

This week I’m joined by Irene Lo, creator of Soft Femme Tarot, and for the first time on Boner & Mirror Tarot, my guest brings her own deck to decide our fate.

❤️ Fuck

💍 Marry

🪨 Push Off a Cliff

This week’s cards:

🔥 Ten of Wands

⚔️ Eight of Swords

🌊 Queen of Cups

And somehow... we end up fucking the Eight of Swords.

What begins with Irene noticing the ropes and blindfold becomes a much deeper conversation about fantasy, bondage, surrender, consent, control and what it might mean to willingly enter a space where we…