
28: When Stable Feels Suspicious and Calm Feels Destabilizing
Just because you are uncomfortable does not mean something is wrong.
Many of us were conditioned early in life to associate intensity with connection, pressure with purpose, and chaos with meaning.
When life becomes steady, the nervous system often interprets that stability as unfamiliar territory.
Instead of relaxing into it, we scan for problems.
Lisa shares a deeply personal reflection from the season she spent living in Mexico — a period that began as an expansive adventure and slowly became something far more confronting: a quiet space without the usual noise, urgency, or social…
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