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Do You Just Need to “Relax” or is Something Else Making Sex Hurt?

That’s one of the questions we explore in this Language of Love Session, as I dive into a letter from a listener, Veera, who’s grappling with some common and tricky troubles with intimacy, body image, and self-worth. Veera’s been feeling discomfort and even bleeding during sex with her new partner. She’s wondering, “Is this just because I’m getting older, or are we not a good match?” Veera’s partner suggests she should “relax” through intoxication, which is definitely not the best approach.

If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re worthy of love (You absolutely are), you’ll want to stick…

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