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Why a Full Life Can Feel Empty | EP 302 · Confident and Empowered Women

• 0:05
  Friend,
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  now
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  if
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  you
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  have
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  ever
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  stood
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  in
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  the
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  middle
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  of
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  your
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  own
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  life,
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  the
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  career,
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  the
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  home,
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  the
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  friendships,
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  the
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  milestones,
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  and
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  thought,
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  "Why
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  does
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  this
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  not
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  feel
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  like
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  mine?"
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  This
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  episode
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  is
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  for
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  you.
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  We
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  are
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  naming
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  something
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  today
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  that
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  some
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  carry
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  in
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  silence
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  because
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  they're
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  too
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  afraid
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  to
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  say
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  it
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  out
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  loud.
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  Because
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  to
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  admit
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  it
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  means
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  admitting
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  that
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  the
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  life
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  you
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  worked
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  so
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  hard
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  to
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  build
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  might
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  not
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  actually
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  be
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  the
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  life
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  you
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  wanted,
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  and
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  it's
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  terrifying,
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  and
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  as
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  true
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  as
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  that
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  may
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  be,
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  it's
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  also
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  the
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  beginning
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  of
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  your
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  next
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  chapter.
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  So
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  let's
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  get
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  into
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  it.
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  Okay,
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  real
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  quick,
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  if
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  you
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  are
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  not
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  yet
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  subscribed
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  to
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  Confident
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  and
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  Empowered
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  Women
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  yet,
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  what
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  are
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  we
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  even
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  doing,
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  okay?
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  We
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  are
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  here
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  every
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  single
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  Tuesday
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  and
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  Thursday,
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  and
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  this
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  is
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  not
• 1:00
  just
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  a
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  podcast.
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  This
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  is
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  a
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  community
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  of
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  women
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  who
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  are
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  done
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  shrinking,
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  settling,
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  people-pleasing,
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  performing,
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  and
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  putting
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  herself
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  last.
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  This
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  is
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  where
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  we
• 1:11
  come
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  together
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  to
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  remember
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  who
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  we
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  actually
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  are
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  and
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  build
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  the
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  life
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  that
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  reflects
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  her.
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  We
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  are
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  becoming
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  together,
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  friend,
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  and
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  if
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  you
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  are
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  not
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  subscribed
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  yet,
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  today
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  is
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  the
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  day.
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  Hey,
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  hey,
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  hey
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  friend.
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  Listen,
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  let's
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  clap
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  it
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  up
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  right
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  quick
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  because
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  you
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  did
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  everything
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  right.
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  You
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  outdid
• 1:34
  yourself
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  even.
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  I'm
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  talking
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  the
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  degree,
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  the
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  career,
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  the
• 1:40
  income,
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  the
• 1:41
  apartment
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  or
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  home.
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  A-and
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  listen,
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  it
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  ain't
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  just
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  any
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  apartment
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  or
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  home
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  because
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  it's
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  fly.
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  Shoot,
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  maybe
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  you
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  even
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  messed
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  around
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  and
• 1:53
  you
• 1:53
  been
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  doing
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  the
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  dang
• 1:54
  gone
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  thing
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  because
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  you
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  got
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  both.
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  And
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  the
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  icing
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  on
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  the
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  cake,
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  the
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  friendships,
• 2:02
  the
• 2:02
  trips,
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  the
• 2:03
  body
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  you
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  worked
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  for,
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  the
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  title
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  that
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  sounds
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  impressive
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  at
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  dinner
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  parties.
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  You
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  followed
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  the
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  plan.
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  You
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  executed
• 2:10
  the
• 2:10
  blueprint.
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  You
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  checked
• 2:12
  every
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  single
• 2:12
  box
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  on
• 2:13
  the
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  list
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  that
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  somebody,
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  your
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  parents,
• 2:16
  your
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  industry,
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  society,
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  your
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  younger
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  ambitious
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  self
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  handed
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  you
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  years
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  ago,
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  and
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  you
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  looked
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  up
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  one
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  day
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  in
• 2:24
  the
• 2:24
  middle
• 2:24
  of
• 2:25
  it
• 2:25
  all
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  and
• 2:26
  thought,
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  "Is
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  this
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  it?"
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  Not
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  in
• 2:29
  a
• 2:29
  waiting
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  to
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  excel,
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  burn
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  the
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  car
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  down
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  kinda
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  way,
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  Just
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  quietly
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  like
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  a
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  song
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  you've
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  heard
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  so
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  many
• 2:38
  times,
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  but
• 2:39
  the
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  melody
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  stopped
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  moving
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  you.
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  You're
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  still
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  humming
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  it.
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  You
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  just
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  can't
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  remember
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  why
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  it
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  used
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  to
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  make
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  you
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  feel
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  something.
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  And
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  worse,
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  you
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  can't
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  explain
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  it
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  to
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  anyone
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  because
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  from
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  the
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  outside
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  you
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  have
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  it
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  all,
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  everything.
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  And
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  so
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  you
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  do
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  what
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  so
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  many
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  of
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  us
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  high-achieving
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  women
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  do.
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  You
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  push
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  the
• 3:00
  feeling
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  down.
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  You
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  add
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  something
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  else
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  to
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  the
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  list.
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  You
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  book
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  a
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  new
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  trip.
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  You
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  reorganize
• 3:06
  the
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  pantry.
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  You
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  tell
• 3:07
  yourself
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  you're
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  just
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  tired,
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  you're
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  stressed,
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  or
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  you're
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  just
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  going
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  through
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  a
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  phase.
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  You
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  tell
• 3:13
  yourself
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  that
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  gratitude
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  should
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  be
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  enough,
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  and
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  then
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  the
• 3:17
  guilt
• 3:18
  sets
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  in
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  because
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  you
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  should
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  be
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  happy.
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  This
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  should
• 3:22
  be
• 3:23
  enough.
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  And
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  every
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  single
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  one
• 3:25
  of
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  those
• 3:25
  shoulds
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  piles
• 3:26
  up
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  and
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  makes
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  you
• 3:27
  feel
• 3:27
  bad
• 3:27
  about
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  yourself.
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  And
• 3:29
  listen,
• 3:29
  the
• 3:29
  feeling
• 3:30
  has
• 3:30
  a
• 3:30
  name,
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  and
• 3:31
  it's
• 3:31
  not
• 3:31
  burnout.
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  I
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  know,
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  we've
• 3:33
  been
• 3:33
  calling
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  it
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  burnout
• 3:34
  for
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  years,
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  heavy
• 3:37
  on
• 3:37
  the
• 3:37
  years.
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  And
• 3:38
  I
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  love
• 3:39
  conversation
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  about
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  burnout
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  Because
• 3:41
  rest
• 3:41
  is
• 3:42
  productive.
• 3:42
  Empty
• 3:43
  cups
• 3:43
  serve
• 3:43
  no
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  one.
• 3:44
  All
• 3:44
  of
• 3:45
  that
• 3:45
  is
• 3:45
  true,
• 3:46
  and
• 3:46
  we're
• 3:46
  keeping
• 3:47
  it,
• 3:47
  by
• 3:47
  the
• 3:47
  way.
• 3:50
  But
• 3:50
  what
• 3:50
  you're
• 3:50
  feeling
• 3:51
  right
• 3:51
  now,
• 3:52
  that
• 3:53
  hollowness,
• 3:54
  the
• 3:54
  quiet
• 3:54
  disconnect,
• 3:56
  this
• 3:56
  I
• 3:56
  should
• 3:57
  be
• 3:57
  happy,
• 3:57
  but
• 3:57
  I'm
• 3:58
  not,
• 3:59
  that
• 3:59
  lives
• 3:59
  in
• 4:00
  your
• 4:00
  chest
• 4:00
  like
• 4:01
  an
• 4:01
  uninvited
• 4:02
  guest
• 4:02
  who
• 4:02
  isn't
• 4:03
  picking
• 4:03
  up
• 4:04
  on
• 4:04
  any
• 4:04
  of
• 4:04
  your
• 4:04
  not-so-subtle
• 4:06
  cues,
• 4:06
  who
• 4:06
  in
• 4:07
  fact
• 4:07
  just
• 4:07
  won't
• 4:08
  leave.
• 4:10
  And
• 4:10
  that
• 4:10
  is
• 4:10
  not
• 4:11
  burnout.
• 4:12
  Burnout
• 4:12
  is
• 4:13
  what
• 4:13
  happens
• 4:13
  when
• 4:14
  you're
• 4:14
  doing
• 4:14
  too
• 4:14
  much
• 4:15
  of
• 4:15
  something
• 4:15
  that's
• 4:15
  actually
• 4:16
  yours.
• 4:17
  Or
• 4:17
  even
• 4:17
  what
• 4:17
  you've
• 4:18
  assumed
• 4:18
  of
• 4:19
  others
• 4:19
  that
• 4:19
  has
• 4:20
  become
• 4:20
  yours.
• 4:21
  Burnout
• 4:22
  says
• 4:22
  you
• 4:22
  need
• 4:23
  a
• 4:23
  vacation.
• 4:24
  But
• 4:24
  what
• 4:24
  you're
• 4:25
  feeling
• 4:25
  says
• 4:26
  something
• 4:26
  different.
• 4:27
  The
• 4:27
  feeling
• 4:27
  says
• 4:28
  you
• 4:28
  need
• 4:28
  a
• 4:28
  reckoning,
• 4:29
  And
• 4:30
  those
• 4:30
  are
• 4:30
  two
• 4:31
  very
• 4:31
  different
• 4:31
  prescriptions,
• 4:32
  friend.
• 4:35
  You
• 4:35
  know
• 4:35
  how
• 4:36
  sometimes
• 4:36
  you're
• 4:37
  eating
• 4:37
  the
• 4:37
  food
• 4:38
  and
• 4:38
  it's
• 4:38
  fine.
• 4:39
  It's
• 4:39
  perfectly
• 4:40
  good
• 4:40
  food
• 4:41
  objectively,
• 4:42
  but
• 4:42
  you're
• 4:43
  not
• 4:43
  satisfied.
• 4:44
  It's
• 4:44
  just
• 4:45
  not
• 4:45
  hitting
• 4:46
  the
• 4:46
  way
• 4:46
  that
• 4:46
  you
• 4:46
  expected,
• 4:48
  and
• 4:48
  your
• 4:48
  taste
• 4:48
  buds
• 4:49
  are
• 4:49
  craving
• 4:49
  something
• 4:50
  more.
• 4:51
  And
• 4:51
  even
• 4:52
  when
• 4:52
  you
• 4:52
  go
• 4:52
  back
• 4:52
  in
• 4:52
  the
• 4:52
  kitchen
• 4:53
  looking
• 4:53
  for
• 4:54
  something,
• 4:54
  but
• 4:54
  you
• 4:55
  don't
• 4:55
  really
• 4:55
  know
• 4:55
  what,
• 4:56
  and
• 4:56
  no
• 4:57
  matter
• 4:57
  what
• 4:57
  you
• 4:57
  add,
• 4:58
  it
• 4:58
  still
• 4:59
  leaves
• 4:59
  you
• 4:59
  walking
• 5:00
  away
• 5:00
  like
• 5:00
  that's
• 5:01
  not
• 5:01
  it.
• 5:02
  That's
• 5:02
  the
• 5:02
  identity
• 5:03
  gap.
• 5:04
  You
• 5:04
  keep
• 5:04
  adding
• 5:05
  to
• 5:05
  the
• 5:05
  life,
• 5:06
  the
• 5:06
  new
• 5:06
  job,
• 5:07
  the
• 5:07
  new
• 5:07
  relationship,
• 5:08
  a
• 5:08
  new
• 5:08
  goal,
• 5:08
  the
• 5:08
  new
• 5:09
  apartment,
• 5:10
  But
• 5:10
  something
• 5:10
  ain't
• 5:11
  hitting
• 5:11
  because
• 5:12
  what's
• 5:12
  missing
• 5:13
  isn't
• 5:13
  on
• 5:14
  the
• 5:14
  menu
• 5:15
  you've
• 5:15
  been
• 5:15
  ordering
• 5:16
  from.
• 5:16
  The
• 5:16
  woman
• 5:17
  in
• 5:17
  the
• 5:17
  identity
• 5:18
  gap,
• 5:18
  she's
• 5:18
  still
• 5:19
  functioning,
• 5:19
  by
• 5:20
  the
• 5:20
  way.
• 5:20
  She's
• 5:21
  showing
• 5:21
  up.
• 5:22
  She's
• 5:22
  producing,
• 5:23
  maintaining.
• 5:24
  She's
• 5:24
  holding
• 5:24
  it
• 5:24
  down
• 5:25
  for
• 5:25
  everyone
• 5:26
  around
• 5:26
  her.
• 5:27
  But
• 5:27
  she
• 5:27
  is
• 5:28
  maintaining
• 5:28
  a
• 5:29
  version
• 5:29
  of
• 5:29
  herself
• 5:30
  that
• 5:31
  was
• 5:31
  built
• 5:31
  from
• 5:32
  somebody
• 5:32
  else's
• 5:33
  blueprint,
• 5:34
  her
• 5:34
  parents'
• 5:34
  blueprint,
• 5:35
  her
• 5:36
  industry's
• 5:36
  blueprint,
• 5:37
  her
• 5:37
  relationship's
• 5:39
  blueprint.
• 5:40
  And
• 5:40
  at
• 5:40
  some
• 5:40
  point,
• 5:41
  sometimes
• 5:42
  slowly
• 5:43
  or
• 5:43
  even
• 5:44
  all
• 5:44
  at
• 5:44
  once,
• 5:45
  the
• 5:45
  blueprint
• 5:46
  stopped
• 5:46
  matching
• 5:47
  the
• 5:47
  building.
• 5:48
  You
• 5:48
  didn't
• 5:48
  lose
• 5:49
  your
• 5:49
  mind,
• 5:49
  friend.
• 5:50
  You
• 5:50
  lost
• 5:50
  your
• 5:51
  map,
• 5:51
  and
• 5:51
  the
• 5:52
  map
• 5:52
  was
• 5:52
  never
• 5:53
  actually
• 5:53
  yours
• 5:54
  to
• 5:54
  begin
• 5:54
  with
• 5:55
  Okay,
• 5:56
  I
• 5:56
  need
• 5:56
  you
• 5:56
  to
• 5:56
  think
• 5:56
  back
• 5:57
  with
• 5:57
  me,
• 5:57
  and
• 5:58
  I
• 5:58
  mean
• 5:58
  really
• 5:59
  go
• 5:59
  back.
• 6:00
  Back,
• 6:00
  back
• 6:01
  into
• 6:01
  time.
• 6:05
  I
• 6:05
  want
• 6:05
  you
• 6:05
  to
• 6:06
  find
• 6:06
  a
• 6:06
  moment,
• 6:07
  a
• 6:07
  real
• 6:07
  one,
• 6:08
  when
• 6:08
  you
• 6:08
  made
• 6:09
  a
• 6:09
  decision
• 6:10
  that
• 6:10
  was
• 6:10
  entirely
• 6:11
  yours,
• 6:12
  not
• 6:13
  influenced
• 6:14
  by
• 6:14
  what
• 6:14
  made
• 6:14
  sense
• 6:15
  on
• 6:15
  paper,
• 6:16
  not
• 6:16
  shaped
• 6:16
  by
• 6:17
  what
• 6:17
  other
• 6:17
  people
• 6:18
  expected,
• 6:19
  not
• 6:19
  built
• 6:19
  around
• 6:20
  who
• 6:20
  you
• 6:20
  thought
• 6:21
  you
• 6:21
  should
• 6:22
  be
• 6:22
  by
• 6:22
  now.
• 6:23
  A
• 6:23
  decision
• 6:24
  that
• 6:24
  came
• 6:24
  purely
• 6:25
  from
• 6:25
  what
• 6:25
  you
• 6:26
  wanted,
• 6:27
  what
• 6:28
  lit
• 6:28
  you
• 6:29
  up,
• 6:29
  what
• 6:30
  felt
• 6:30
  like
• 6:30
  you.
• 6:31
  And
• 6:32
  listen,
• 6:32
  it's
• 6:32
  okay
• 6:33
  if
• 6:33
  that
• 6:33
  memory
• 6:34
  is
• 6:34
  harder
• 6:35
  to
• 6:35
  find
• 6:35
  than
• 6:36
  it
• 6:36
  should
• 6:36
  be,
• 6:37
  because
• 6:37
  here's
• 6:37
  what
• 6:37
  happens.
• 6:38
  You
• 6:39
  start
• 6:39
  out
• 6:39
  as
• 6:40
  the
• 6:40
  author.
• 6:40
  You've
• 6:41
  got
• 6:41
  the
• 6:41
  pen.
• 6:41
  You're
• 6:42
  writing
• 6:42
  the
• 6:42
  story.
• 6:43
  The
• 6:43
  little
• 6:43
  girl
• 6:44
  with
• 6:44
  the
• 6:44
  big
• 6:44
  dreams
• 6:45
  and
• 6:45
  the
• 6:45
  loud
• 6:46
  laugh
• 6:46
  and
• 6:46
  opinions,
• 6:47
  she
• 6:48
  stated
• 6:48
  without
• 6:48
  apologizing
• 6:49
  first.
• 6:51
  She
• 6:51
  knew
• 6:52
  what
• 6:52
  she
• 6:52
  wanted.
• 6:53
  She
• 6:53
  knew
• 6:54
  who
• 6:54
  she
• 6:54
  was,
• 6:55
  and
• 6:55
  she
• 6:55
  wasn't
• 6:56
  taking
• 6:56
  no
• 6:56
  questions
• 6:57
  at
• 6:57
  this
• 6:58
  time.
• 7:01
  and
• 7:01
  then
• 7:02
  she
• 7:02
  grew
• 7:02
  up.
• 7:03
  Life
• 7:03
  happens,
• 7:04
  and
• 7:04
  the
• 7:04
  expectations
• 7:06
  all
• 7:06
  come
• 7:06
  piling
• 7:07
  in,
• 7:08
  and
• 7:08
  the
• 7:08
  be
• 7:09
  realistic
• 7:09
  happens,
• 7:11
  and
• 7:11
  then
• 7:11
  the
• 7:11
  relationships
• 7:12
  happen.
• 7:12
  And
• 7:13
  somewhere
• 7:13
  between
• 7:14
  ambitious
• 7:15
  girl
• 7:15
  who
• 7:15
  had
• 7:15
  big
• 7:16
  dreams
• 7:17
  and
• 7:17
  accomplished
• 7:17
  woman
• 7:18
  who
• 7:18
  executed
• 7:19
  all
• 7:19
  the
• 7:19
  plans,
• 7:20
  she
• 7:20
  quietly
• 7:21
  moved
• 7:22
  from
• 7:22
  author
• 7:23
  to
• 7:23
  character.
• 7:24
  She
• 7:24
  stopped
• 7:25
  writing
• 7:26
  the
• 7:26
  story
• 7:26
  and
• 7:26
  started
• 7:27
  performing
• 7:28
  it.
• 7:28
  And
• 7:28
  here's
• 7:29
  what's
• 7:29
  wild
• 7:29
  about
• 7:30
  performing
• 7:30
  long
• 7:31
  enough,
• 7:31
  friend.
• 7:32
  You
• 7:32
  forget
• 7:33
  there
• 7:33
  was
• 7:33
  ever
• 7:34
  a
• 7:34
  script.
• 7:35
  The
• 7:35
  performance
• 7:36
  becomes
• 7:36
  the
• 7:37
  identity.
• 7:38
  The
• 7:38
  role
• 7:39
  becomes
• 7:40
  the
• 7:40
  woman.
• 7:41
  It's
• 7:41
  just
• 7:42
  like
• 7:42
  actors
• 7:43
  when
• 7:43
  you
• 7:43
  hear
• 7:43
  those
• 7:44
  stories
• 7:44
  about
• 7:45
  it
• 7:45
  taking
• 7:46
  time
• 7:46
  for
• 7:46
  them
• 7:47
  to
• 7:47
  wind
• 7:48
  down
• 7:49
  after
• 7:49
  playing
• 7:49
  a
• 7:49
  character,
• 7:50
  that
• 7:51
  sometimes
• 7:52
  they
• 7:52
  get
• 7:52
  so
• 7:53
  into
• 7:53
  character
• 7:54
  that
• 7:55
  they
• 7:55
  forget
• 7:56
  where
• 7:56
  the
• 7:56
  line
• 7:57
  is
• 7:57
  between
• 7:58
  the
• 7:58
  character
• 7:59
  and
• 7:59
  them
• 7:59
  And
• 8:00
  we
• 8:00
  do
• 8:00
  that
• 8:00
  too.
• 8:01
  We
• 8:01
  play
• 8:01
  the
• 8:01
  role
• 8:02
  so
• 8:02
  convincingly
• 8:04
  that
• 8:04
  we
• 8:04
  forget
• 8:05
  we
• 8:05
  auditioned
• 8:05
  for
• 8:06
  it
• 8:06
  in
• 8:06
  the
• 8:06
  first
• 8:06
  place.
• 8:07
  And
• 8:07
  when
• 8:07
  somebody
• 8:08
  asks
• 8:08
  you
• 8:09
  what
• 8:09
  you
• 8:10
  actually
• 8:10
  want,
• 8:11
  what
• 8:11
  actually
• 8:12
  lights
• 8:12
  you
• 8:12
  up,
• 8:13
  who
• 8:13
  you
• 8:13
  are
• 8:14
  underneath
• 8:14
  all
• 8:15
  the
• 8:15
  achieving,
• 8:16
  you
• 8:16
  go
• 8:16
  blank.
• 8:17
  Deep
• 8:17
  down,
• 8:18
  you
• 8:18
  know
• 8:18
  the
• 8:18
  answers,
• 8:19
  but
• 8:19
  you
• 8:19
  haven't
• 8:20
  been
• 8:20
  asked
• 8:21
  in
• 8:21
  so
• 8:21
  long.
• 8:22
  And
• 8:22
  worse,
• 8:23
  you
• 8:23
  stopped
• 8:23
  asking
• 8:24
  yourself.
• 8:25
  That
• 8:26
  hollowness
• 8:26
  you
• 8:27
  feel,
• 8:27
  that
• 8:28
  is
• 8:28
  authorship
• 8:29
  asking
• 8:30
  to
• 8:30
  be
• 8:30
  reclaimed.
• 8:31
  And
• 8:31
  I'm
• 8:32
  speaking
• 8:32
  from
• 8:32
  experience
• 8:33
  here,
• 8:33
  okay?
• 8:33
  So
• 8:34
  no
• 8:34
  shade,
• 8:34
  no
• 8:34
  shame,
• 8:35
  and
• 8:35
  no
• 8:35
  judgment.
• 8:36
  I
• 8:37
  felt
• 8:37
  this
• 8:37
  feeling
• 8:38
  after
• 8:38
  building
• 8:39
  a
• 8:39
  successful
• 8:40
  career
• 8:40
  in
• 8:40
  corporate
• 8:41
  America.
• 8:42
  With
• 8:42
  20-plus
• 8:43
  years
• 8:43
  of
• 8:44
  experience
• 8:44
  from
• 8:45
  building
• 8:45
  teams
• 8:46
  from
• 8:46
  scratch
• 8:47
  to
• 8:47
  taking
• 8:47
  over
• 8:48
  teams,
• 8:48
  and
• 8:49
  me
• 8:49
  being
• 8:49
  the
• 8:49
  only
• 8:50
  new
• 8:50
  person
• 8:50
  up
• 8:51
  in
• 8:51
  it,
• 8:51
  and
• 8:52
  everything
• 8:52
  in
• 8:52
  between,
• 8:53
  my
• 8:54
  next
• 8:54
  step
• 8:55
  would've
• 8:55
  been
• 8:55
  to
• 8:56
  keep
• 8:56
  climbing
• 8:57
  that
• 8:57
  senior
• 8:58
  leadership
• 8:58
  ladder.
• 8:59
  And
• 9:00
  when
• 9:00
  I
• 9:00
  looked
• 9:00
  around
• 9:01
  at
• 9:01
  my
• 9:01
  mentors,
• 9:02
  especially
• 9:03
  the
• 9:03
  one
• 9:03
  that
• 9:04
  I
• 9:04
  admired
• 9:04
  the
• 9:04
  most,
• 9:05
  I
• 9:05
  did
• 9:06
  not
• 9:06
  want
• 9:06
  to
• 9:06
  do
• 9:07
  what
• 9:07
  she
• 9:07
  was
• 9:08
  doing.
• 9:08
  Answering
• 9:09
  emails
• 9:10
  at
• 9:10
  all
• 9:10
  times
• 9:11
  of
• 9:11
  the
• 9:11
  night,
• 9:11
  always
• 9:12
  on,
• 9:13
  tethered
• 9:13
  to
• 9:13
  the
• 9:13
  laptop.
• 9:14
  I
• 9:14
  just
• 9:15
  didn't
• 9:15
  want
• 9:15
  that.
• 9:17
  And
• 9:17
  listen,
• 9:18
  this
• 9:18
  is
• 9:18
  not
• 9:18
  to
• 9:18
  downplay
• 9:19
  it,
• 9:19
  her,
• 9:20
  or
• 9:20
  anyone
• 9:20
  who
• 9:21
  loves
• 9:21
  it.
• 9:22
  It
• 9:22
  just
• 9:22
  wasn't
• 9:23
  for
• 9:23
  me.
• 9:24
  I
• 9:24
  didn't
• 9:25
  know
• 9:25
  what
• 9:25
  I
• 9:25
  wanted
• 9:26
  to
• 9:26
  do
• 9:26
  next,
• 9:27
  and
• 9:27
  I
• 9:27
  had
• 9:27
  to
• 9:27
  ask
• 9:28
  myself
• 9:28
  a
• 9:28
  lot
• 9:29
  of
• 9:29
  hard
• 9:29
  questions.
• 9:30
  When
• 9:30
  I
• 9:30
  looked
• 9:31
  around
• 9:31
  at
• 9:31
  what
• 9:32
  I
• 9:32
  loved
• 9:32
  within
• 9:33
  what
• 9:33
  I
• 9:33
  was
• 9:34
  already
• 9:34
  doing,
• 9:35
  coaching
• 9:36
  was
• 9:36
  my
• 9:36
  absolute
• 9:37
  favorite.
• 9:38
  Helping
• 9:38
  people
• 9:39
  navigate
• 9:39
  life
• 9:40
  and
• 9:40
  work,
• 9:41
  finding
• 9:41
  their
• 9:42
  own
• 9:42
  flow,
• 9:42
  and
• 9:43
  achieving
• 9:43
  all
• 9:43
  that
• 9:44
  they
• 9:44
  wanted
• 9:44
  within
• 9:45
  their
• 9:45
  career
• 9:46
  lit
• 9:46
  me
• 9:47
  up,
• 9:48
  and
• 9:48
  it
• 9:48
  led
• 9:48
  me
• 9:49
  here
• 9:49
  to
• 9:49
  you.
• 9:50
  And
• 9:50
  listen,
• 9:51
  I
• 9:51
  know
• 9:52
  this
• 9:52
  feeling
• 9:52
  doesn't
• 9:53
  feel
• 9:54
  like
• 9:54
  an
• 9:54
  invitation
• 9:55
  because
• 9:56
  it
• 9:56
  feels
• 9:56
  uncomfortable,
• 9:57
  inconvenient,
• 9:58
  and
• 9:58
  perhaps
• 9:59
  even
• 9:59
  rude.
• 10:03
  It
• 10:03
  feels
• 10:04
  like
• 10:04
  something
• 10:04
  you
• 10:05
  should
• 10:05
  be
• 10:05
  able
• 10:05
  to
• 10:05
  push
• 10:06
  through
• 10:06
  or
• 10:07
  positive
• 10:07
  think
• 10:08
  yourself
• 10:08
  out
• 10:09
  of.
• 10:09
  It
• 10:10
  feels
• 10:10
  like
• 10:10
  a
• 10:10
  problem
• 10:11
  to
• 10:11
  be
• 10:11
  solved.
• 10:12
  But
• 10:12
  friend,
• 10:13
  what
• 10:14
  if
• 10:14
  this
• 10:14
  feeling
• 10:15
  is
• 10:15
  the
• 10:15
  most
• 10:16
  important
• 10:16
  thing
• 10:17
  that's
• 10:17
  happened
• 10:17
  to
• 10:17
  you
• 10:18
  in
• 10:18
  years
• 10:19
  Iyanla
• 10:20
  Vanzant
• 10:21
  says,
• 10:21
  The
• 10:22
  breakdown
• 10:23
  is
• 10:23
  always
• 10:24
  before
• 10:24
  the
• 10:24
  breakthrough."
• 10:26
  Always.
• 10:27
  Not
• 10:27
  sometimes,
• 10:28
  but
• 10:28
  always.
• 10:29
  And
• 10:29
  I
• 10:29
  think
• 10:30
  about
• 10:30
  the
• 10:30
  women
• 10:31
  in
• 10:31
  the
• 10:31
  world
• 10:31
  who
• 10:31
  felt
• 10:32
  exactly
• 10:33
  what
• 10:33
  you're
• 10:33
  feeling
• 10:33
  right
• 10:33
  now,
• 10:34
  that
• 10:35
  quiet
• 10:35
  unsettling
• 10:36
  something
• 10:37
  is
• 10:37
  off,
• 10:38
  and
• 10:38
  I
• 10:38
  watch
• 10:39
  what
• 10:39
  happens
• 10:40
  when
• 10:40
  they
• 10:40
  stop
• 10:41
  running
• 10:41
  from
• 10:42
  it
• 10:42
  and
• 10:42
  get
• 10:43
  curious
• 10:43
  about
• 10:44
  it
• 10:44
  instead,
• 10:45
  because
• 10:46
  that
• 10:46
  is
• 10:46
  when
• 10:47
  everything
• 10:47
  shifts.
• 10:48
  And
• 10:48
  let
• 10:49
  me
• 10:49
  be
• 10:49
  clear
• 10:49
  about
• 10:49
  this,
• 10:50
  because
• 10:50
  here's
• 10:51
  where
• 10:51
  you
• 10:51
  start
• 10:51
  to
• 10:52
  give
• 10:52
  yourself
• 10:52
  a
• 10:52
  hard
• 10:53
  time.
• 10:55
  The
• 10:56
  feeling
• 10:56
  doesn't
• 10:57
  mean
• 10:57
  you
• 10:57
  made
• 10:58
  the
• 10:58
  wrong
• 10:58
  choices.
• 10:59
  It
• 11:00
  means
• 11:00
  that
• 11:00
  you
• 11:00
  have
• 11:01
  grown
• 11:01
  past
• 11:02
  the
• 11:02
  version
• 11:02
  of
• 11:03
  yourself
• 11:03
  who
• 11:03
  made
• 11:04
  them.
• 11:04
  You
• 11:05
  outgrew
• 11:05
  the
• 11:05
  blueprint.
• 11:06
  So
• 11:07
  please
• 11:07
  don't
• 11:07
  consider
• 11:08
  this
• 11:08
  a
• 11:08
  failure
• 11:09
  when
• 11:09
  it's
• 11:09
  just
• 11:10
  evidence
• 11:10
  of
• 11:11
  evolution.
• 11:12
  You
• 11:12
  know
• 11:12
  how
• 11:12
  a
• 11:12
  snake
• 11:13
  sheds
• 11:14
  its
• 11:14
  skin?
• 11:15
  It
• 11:15
  doesn't
• 11:15
  shed
• 11:16
  because
• 11:16
  something
• 11:16
  went
• 11:17
  wrong.
• 11:18
  It
• 11:18
  sheds
• 11:18
  because
• 11:19
  it
• 11:19
  grew.
• 11:20
  The
• 11:20
  old
• 11:21
  skin
• 11:21
  served
• 11:22
  its
• 11:22
  purpose,
• 11:23
  and
• 11:23
  now
• 11:23
  the
• 11:23
  snake
• 11:24
  literally
• 11:25
  cannot
• 11:25
  fit
• 11:26
  inside
• 11:26
  it
• 11:26
  anymore.
• 11:27
  The
• 11:27
  shedding
• 11:28
  is
• 11:28
  not
• 11:29
  the
• 11:29
  crisis
• 11:30
  or
• 11:30
  something
• 11:30
  to
• 11:30
  be
• 11:31
  ashamed
• 11:31
  of.
• 11:32
  The
• 11:32
  shedding
• 11:33
  is
• 11:33
  a
• 11:33
  sign.
• 11:34
  Friend,
• 11:35
  you
• 11:35
  have
• 11:35
  outgrown
• 11:36
  the
• 11:36
  skin,
• 11:37
  and
• 11:38
  your
• 11:38
  life
• 11:38
  is
• 11:39
  telling
• 11:39
  you
• 11:39
  it's
• 11:40
  your
• 11:40
  time
• 11:40
  to
• 11:40
  shed
• 11:41
  it.
• 11:41
  The
• 11:41
  invitation
• 11:42
  is
• 11:42
  this:
• 11:43
  Stop
• 11:44
  running
• 11:44
  from
• 11:44
  the
• 11:44
  feeling
• 11:45
  and
• 11:45
  get
• 11:46
  curious
• 11:46
  about
• 11:47
  it,
• 11:47
  because
• 11:48
  on
• 11:48
  the
• 11:48
  other
• 11:48
  side
• 11:48
  of
• 11:48
  that
• 11:49
  curiosity
• 11:50
  is
• 11:50
  the
• 11:50
  woman
• 11:50
  you've
• 11:51
  been
• 11:51
  becoming,
• 11:52
  and
• 11:52
  she
• 11:52
  has
• 11:52
  been
• 11:52
  waiting
• 11:53
  for
• 11:53
  you
• 11:53
  to
• 11:53
  slow
• 11:54
  down
• 11:55
  long
• 11:55
  enough
• 11:55
  to
• 11:56
  listen.
• 11:58
  Oof,
• 11:59
  friend.
• 11:59
  Okay,
• 12:00
  real
• 12:01
  talk
• 12:01
  for
• 12:01
  a
• 12:01
  second.
• 12:02
  If
• 12:02
  today's
• 12:03
  episode
• 12:04
  has
• 12:04
  you
• 12:04
  in
• 12:04
  your
• 12:04
  feelings,
• 12:05
  if
• 12:05
  it
• 12:06
  has
• 12:06
  you
• 12:06
  sitting
• 12:06
  here
• 12:06
  like,
• 12:07
  "Okay,
• 12:07
  she
• 12:07
  is
• 12:08
  talking
• 12:08
  directly
• 12:09
  to
• 12:09
  me,"
• 12:10
  then
• 12:10
  I
• 12:10
  really
• 12:11
  want
• 12:11
  you
• 12:11
  to
• 12:11
  grab
• 12:12
  the
• 12:12
  Main
• 12:12
  Character
• 12:13
  Energy
• 12:13
  Journal
• 12:13
  Prompts,
• 12:14
  because
• 12:14
  here's
• 12:15
  the
• 12:15
  thing.
• 12:15
  We
• 12:16
  can
• 12:16
  have
• 12:16
  all
• 12:17
  the
• 12:17
  awareness
• 12:17
  in
• 12:17
  the
• 12:17
  world,
• 12:18
  but
• 12:18
  if
• 12:18
  we
• 12:18
  don't
• 12:19
  actually
• 12:19
  do
• 12:20
  something
• 12:20
  with
• 12:21
  it,
• 12:21
  we
• 12:21
  just
• 12:22
  keep
• 12:22
  going
• 12:22
  in
• 12:23
  circles,
• 12:23
  friend,
• 12:24
  and
• 12:24
  I
• 12:24
  don't
• 12:24
  want
• 12:25
  that
• 12:25
  for
• 12:25
  you.
• 12:25
  These
• 12:26
  prompts
• 12:27
  are
• 12:27
  going
• 12:27
  to
• 12:27
  help
• 12:27
  you
• 12:28
  get
• 12:28
  honest
• 12:28
  with
• 12:29
  yourself
• 12:29
  in
• 12:29
  the
• 12:29
  most
• 12:30
  loving,
• 12:30
  grace-filled
• 12:32
  possible
• 12:32
  way.
• 12:33
  No
• 12:33
  tough
• 12:34
  love,
• 12:34
  no
• 12:34
  shame,
• 12:35
  and
• 12:35
  no
• 12:35
  shade.
• 12:36
  Just
• 12:36
  you,
• 12:37
  your
• 12:37
  journal,
• 12:38
  and
• 12:38
  some
• 12:38
  really,
• 12:39
  really
• 12:39
  good
• 12:39
  questions
• 12:41
  that
• 12:41
  are
• 12:41
  gonna
• 12:41
  help
• 12:41
  you
• 12:42
  figure
• 12:42
  out
• 12:42
  Where
• 12:43
  you
• 12:43
  are
• 12:43
  and
• 12:44
  what
• 12:44
  it
• 12:44
  looks
• 12:44
  like
• 12:44
  to
• 12:44
  move
• 12:45
  forward.
• 12:46
  Friend,
• 12:46
  I
• 12:46
  made
• 12:47
  these
• 12:47
  just
• 12:47
  for
• 12:47
  you,
• 12:48
  for
• 12:48
  this
• 12:48
  exact
• 12:49
  moment.
• 12:50
  For
• 12:50
  the
• 12:50
  woman
• 12:50
  who
• 12:51
  just
• 12:51
  heard
• 12:51
  something
• 12:52
  that
• 12:52
  cracked
• 12:52
  you
• 12:52
  open
• 12:53
  in
• 12:53
  a
• 12:53
  way,
• 12:54
  and
• 12:54
  now
• 12:55
  you
• 12:55
  need
• 12:55
  somewhere
• 12:56
  to
• 12:56
  go
• 12:56
  with
• 12:56
  it.
• 12:57
  The
• 12:57
  link
• 12:57
  is
• 12:57
  in
• 12:57
  the
• 12:57
  show
• 12:58
  notes,
• 12:58
  so
• 12:58
  Go
• 12:58
  grab
• 12:59
  it.
• 12:59
  You
• 12:59
  need
• 13:00
  this
• 13:00
  right
• 13:00
  now.
• 13:03
  Okay,
• 13:04
  friend,
• 13:04
  and
• 13:04
  now
• 13:05
  it's
• 13:05
  time
• 13:05
  for
• 13:05
  our
• 13:06
  favorite,
• 13:06
  our
• 13:07
  self-love
• 13:08
  two-step
• 13:08
  with
• 13:09
  the
• 13:09
  remix,
• 13:09
  okay?
• 13:12
  This
• 13:13
  is
• 13:13
  the
• 13:13
  name
• 13:14
  it
• 13:14
  two-step.
• 13:15
  Step
• 13:15
  one,
• 13:16
  I
• 13:16
  want
• 13:16
  you
• 13:16
  to
• 13:16
  name
• 13:17
  it
• 13:17
  without
• 13:18
  judgment.
• 13:19
  This
• 13:19
  week,
• 13:20
  sit
• 13:20
  with
• 13:20
  the
• 13:20
  feeling
• 13:21
  instead
• 13:22
  of
• 13:22
  fixing
• 13:22
  it.
• 13:23
  Just
• 13:23
  notice,
• 13:24
  where
• 13:25
  does
• 13:25
  it
• 13:25
  show
• 13:25
  up?
• 13:26
  In
• 13:26
  your
• 13:26
  career?
• 13:27
  Relationships?
• 13:29
  In
• 13:29
  those
• 13:29
  moments
• 13:30
  when
• 13:30
  nobody
• 13:30
  needs
• 13:31
  anything
• 13:31
  from
• 13:32
  you?
• 13:32
  Don't
• 13:33
  try
• 13:33
  to
• 13:33
  solve
• 13:33
  it,
• 13:34
  just
• 13:34
  name
• 13:35
  it.
• 13:35
  "I
• 13:35
  feel
• 13:36
  disconnected
• 13:37
  here."
• 13:38
  "I
• 13:38
  feel
• 13:39
  hollow
• 13:39
  when
• 13:39
  I
• 13:39
  do
• 13:40
  this."
• 13:41
  "This
• 13:41
  doesn't
• 13:41
  feel
• 13:42
  like
• 13:42
  mine."
• 13:43
  Just
• 13:43
  naming
• 13:44
  it
• 13:44
  is
• 13:44
  not
• 13:45
  overhauling
• 13:45
  your
• 13:45
  life.
• 13:46
  Naming
• 13:47
  it
• 13:47
  is
• 13:48
  just
• 13:48
  the
• 13:48
  beginning.
• 13:49
  Step
• 13:49
  two,
• 13:50
  after
• 13:51
  you've
• 13:51
  named
• 13:51
  it,
• 13:51
  ask
• 13:52
  yourself
• 13:52
  this
• 13:53
  question:
• 13:54
  If
• 13:54
  I
• 13:54
  wasn't
• 13:54
  afraid
• 13:55
  of
• 13:55
  disappointing
• 13:56
  anyone,
• 13:57
  what
• 13:57
  would
• 13:57
  I
• 13:57
  want
• 13:58
  instead?
• 13:59
  Don't
• 14:00
  answer
• 14:00
  it
• 14:00
  for
• 14:00
  anybody
• 14:01
  else.
• 14:02
  Don't
• 14:02
  edit
• 14:02
  it
• 14:03
  before
• 14:03
  it
• 14:03
  comes
• 14:03
  out.
• 14:04
  Just
• 14:05
  let
• 14:05
  the
• 14:05
  answer
• 14:06
  arrive.
• 14:07
  You
• 14:07
  don't
• 14:08
  have
• 14:08
  to
• 14:08
  act
• 14:08
  on
• 14:08
  it
• 14:08
  today.
• 14:09
  just
• 14:09
  be
• 14:10
  honest
• 14:10
  enough
• 14:11
  to
• 14:11
  hear
• 14:11
  it.
• 14:12
  And
• 14:12
  then
• 14:12
  step
• 14:13
  three
• 14:13
  is
• 14:14
  the
• 14:14
  you
• 14:15
  step.
• 14:15
  You
• 14:16
  get
• 14:16
  still,
• 14:17
  you
• 14:17
  get
• 14:17
  quiet,
• 14:18
  and
• 14:18
  you
• 14:18
  ask
• 14:18
  yourself,
• 14:19
  "What
• 14:20
  is
• 14:20
  my
• 14:20
  heart
• 14:20
  telling
• 14:21
  me
• 14:21
  to
• 14:22
  do
• 14:22
  next?"
• 14:23
  Because
• 14:23
  whatever
• 14:23
  comes
• 14:24
  up,
• 14:24
  that
• 14:25
  is
• 14:25
  your
• 14:26
  next
• 14:26
  right
• 14:26
  aligned
• 14:27
  step.
• 14:28
  Not
• 14:28
  the
• 14:28
  whole
• 14:28
  plan,
• 14:29
  just
• 14:30
  the
• 14:30
  next
• 14:30
  move.
• 14:31
  Trust
• 14:31
  her,
• 14:32
  friend.
• 14:32
  She
• 14:33
  already
• 14:33
  knows.
• 14:34
  Now,
• 14:35
  let
• 14:35
  me
• 14:35
  pour
• 14:35
  into
• 14:36
  you
• 14:36
  real
• 14:36
  quick.
• 14:37
  The
• 14:37
  life
• 14:38
  you
• 14:38
  built,
• 14:38
  everything
• 14:39
  you've
• 14:39
  achieved,
• 14:40
  the
• 14:40
  woman
• 14:41
  you
• 14:41
  are
• 14:41
  today,
• 14:42
  is
• 14:43
  a
• 14:43
  testament
• 14:44
  to
• 14:44
  you
• 14:44
  creating
• 14:45
  the
• 14:45
  life
• 14:45
  you
• 14:46
  wanted.
• 14:47
  I
• 14:47
  hope
• 14:47
  you
• 14:47
  are
• 14:47
  proud
• 14:48
  of
• 14:48
  what
• 14:49
  you've
• 14:49
  built
• 14:50
  and
• 14:50
  who
• 14:50
  you've
• 14:50
  become.
• 14:51
  Not
• 14:52
  everyone
• 14:52
  can
• 14:52
  say
• 14:53
  they
• 14:53
  did
• 14:53
  it,
• 14:53
  friend,
• 14:54
  but
• 14:54
  you
• 14:54
  can
• 14:55
  What
• 14:55
  you've
• 14:56
  done
• 14:56
  is
• 14:57
  amazing.
• 14:58
  I
• 14:58
  really
• 14:59
  hope
• 14:59
  you
• 14:59
  celebrate
• 15:00
  that.
• 15:00
  For
• 15:00
  as
• 15:01
  wonderful
• 15:02
  as
• 15:02
  it
• 15:02
  all
• 15:02
  is,
• 15:03
  now
• 15:04
  you're
• 15:04
  being
• 15:04
  called
• 15:05
  to
• 15:05
  create
• 15:05
  what's
• 15:06
  next
• 15:06
  for
• 15:06
  you.
• 15:07
  Allow
• 15:08
  what's
• 15:08
  next
• 15:08
  for
• 15:09
  you
• 15:10
  to
• 15:10
  be
• 15:10
  what's
• 15:10
  true
• 15:11
  for
• 15:11
  you.
• 15:12
  Let
• 15:13
  what's
• 15:13
  next
• 15:14
  be
• 15:15
  for
• 15:15
  you.
• 15:16
  Maybe
• 15:16
  what
• 15:16
  you
• 15:17
  built
• 15:17
  was
• 15:17
  for
• 15:17
  something
• 15:18
  else.
• 15:18
  Maybe
• 15:19
  it
• 15:19
  was
• 15:19
  a
• 15:19
  story
• 15:19
  you
• 15:20
  wanted
• 15:20
  to
• 15:20
  tell
• 15:21
  in
• 15:21
  honor
• 15:22
  of
• 15:22
  someone,
• 15:23
  And
• 15:23
  now
• 15:24
  it's
• 15:24
  your
• 15:24
  turn.
• 15:25
  You
• 15:25
  are
• 15:25
  being
• 15:26
  called
• 15:26
  forward.
• 15:27
  The
• 15:27
  restlessness
• 15:29
  that
• 15:29
  you
• 15:29
  feel,
• 15:30
  that
• 15:30
  quiet
• 15:31
  longing
• 15:31
  for
• 15:31
  something
• 15:32
  you
• 15:33
  haven't
• 15:33
  quite
• 15:33
  been
• 15:34
  able
• 15:34
  to
• 15:34
  put
• 15:34
  your
• 15:34
  finger
• 15:35
  on,
• 15:36
  is
• 15:36
  an
• 15:36
  invitation
• 15:37
  to
• 15:37
  connect
• 15:38
  back
• 15:38
  to
• 15:39
  the
• 15:39
  best
• 15:39
  of
• 15:39
  you
• 15:40
  so
• 15:40
  you
• 15:40
  can
• 15:41
  hear
• 15:41
  what's
• 15:41
  calling
• 15:42
  you
• 15:42
  next.
• 15:43
  And
• 15:43
  let's
• 15:43
  just
• 15:44
  normalize
• 15:45
  outgrowing
• 15:46
  things.
• 15:47
  Some
• 15:47
  things
• 15:48
  are
• 15:48
  only
• 15:48
  meant
• 15:48
  to
• 15:49
  live
• 15:49
  but
• 15:49
  a
• 15:50
  season
• 15:50
  and
• 15:51
  not
• 15:51
  several.
• 15:52
  Let's
• 15:52
  normalize
• 15:53
  building
• 15:54
  something
• 15:55
  and
• 15:55
  then
• 15:55
  wanting
• 15:56
  something
• 15:56
  else.
• 15:57
  Listen,
• 15:58
  we
• 15:58
  don't
• 15:58
  know
• 15:58
  what
• 15:59
  our
• 15:59
  experience
• 16:00
  will
• 16:00
  be
• 16:00
  when
• 16:00
  we
• 16:00
  get
• 16:01
  there.
• 16:01
  Everything
• 16:02
  looks
• 16:02
  different
• 16:02
  from
• 16:02
  the
• 16:03
  bottom
• 16:03
  of
• 16:03
  the
• 16:03
  mountain
• 16:04
  than
• 16:04
  when
• 16:04
  you're
• 16:04
  at
• 16:05
  the
• 16:05
  top
• 16:05
  of
• 16:05
  it.
• 16:06
  It
• 16:06
  is
• 16:06
  okay
• 16:07
  to
• 16:07
  change
• 16:08
  your
• 16:08
  mind,
• 16:09
  to
• 16:09
  pivot,
• 16:09
  To
• 16:10
  outgrow
• 16:10
  what
• 16:11
  once
• 16:11
  was
• 16:12
  in
• 16:13
  order
• 16:13
  to
• 16:13
  build
• 16:14
  what's
• 16:14
  meant
• 16:14
  to
• 16:14
  be.
• 16:15
  Life
• 16:16
  is
• 16:16
  a
• 16:16
  constant
• 16:17
  evolution,
• 16:18
  and
• 16:18
  yours
• 16:19
  is
• 16:19
  beautiful.
• 16:20
  So
• 16:21
  there's
• 16:21
  nothing
• 16:21
  wrong
• 16:22
  with
• 16:22
  you.
• 16:23
  There's
• 16:23
  nothing
• 16:24
  wrong
• 16:24
  with
• 16:24
  what
• 16:24
  you've
• 16:25
  built.
• 16:25
  You
• 16:26
  are
• 16:26
  just
• 16:26
  being
• 16:26
  called
• 16:27
  to
• 16:27
  what's
• 16:28
  next
• 16:28
  for
• 16:29
  you.
• 16:32
  Ooh,
• 16:32
  friend.
• 16:33
  Yes.
• 16:34
  I
• 16:35
  hope
• 16:35
  you
• 16:35
  loved
• 16:36
  today's
• 16:36
  episode.
• 16:37
  Drop
• 16:38
  it
• 16:38
  in
• 16:38
  the
• 16:38
  girls
• 16:38
  chat,
• 16:39
  and
• 16:39
  let's
• 16:40
  continue
• 16:40
  this
• 16:40
  conversation
• 16:41
  over
• 16:41
  on
• 16:42
  YouTube.
• 16:43
  I
• 16:43
  love
• 16:44
  you
• 16:44
  so
• 16:44
  much,
• 16:45
  and
• 16:45
  I
• 16:45
  hope
• 16:46
  that
• 16:46
  during
• 16:46
  this
• 16:47
  season
• 16:47
  of
• 16:47
  your
• 16:48
  life,
• 16:49
  instead
• 16:49
  of
• 16:49
  you
• 16:49
  labeling
• 16:50
  it
• 16:50
  as
• 16:50
  something
• 16:51
  being
• 16:51
  wrong
• 16:52
  with
• 16:52
  you
• 16:52
  or
• 16:53
  what
• 16:53
  you've
• 16:53
  built,
• 16:54
  look
• 16:54
  at
• 16:54
  it
• 16:55
  like
• 16:55
  a
• 16:55
  new
• 16:56
  opportunity
• 16:57
  to
• 16:57
  build
• 16:58
  what's
• 16:59
  next
• 17:00
  Because
• 17:00
  your
• 17:00
  next
• 17:01
  chapter
• 17:02
  awaits.
• 17:03
  Crown
• 17:03
  on,
• 17:04
  queen,
• 17:05
  because
• 17:05
  together
• 17:05
  we
• 17:05
  can
• 17:06
  encourage
• 17:07
  over
• 17:07
  everything.
• 17:09
  Big
• 17:09
  virtual
• 17:09
  hugs,
• 17:10
  friend,
• 17:10
  and
• 17:10
  I'll
• 17:10
  see
• 17:10
  you
• 17:11
  next
• 17:11
  episode