Latest / Confident and Empowered Women / EP 241. Step Into Your Icon Era — Rewrite Your Script & Attract Aligned Love
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- 0:01Stop
- 0:02auditioning
- 0:02for
- 0:03a
- 0:03role
- 0:03you
- 0:03already
- 0:04won.
- 0:05Your
- 0:05icon
- 0:05era
- 0:06isn't
- 0:06out
- 0:07there.
- 0:07It's
- 0:08here
- 0:09the
- 0:09moment
- 0:09you
- 0:10decide
- 0:10to
- 0:10live
- 0:11like
- 0:11the
- 0:11woman
- 0:12your
- 0:12future
- 0:13is
- 0:13waiting
- 0:13for.
- 0:14Hey
- 0:14friend.
- 0:15Welcome
- 0:15to
- 0:16Confident
- 0:16and
- 0:16Empowered
- 0:17Women.
- 0:17We
- 0:18are
- 0:18taking
- 0:18main
- 0:19character
- 0:19energy
- 0:20to
- 0:20its
- 0:20highest
- 0:21expression,
- 0:23your
- 0:23icon
- 0:24era.
- 0:24This
- 0:25isn't
- 0:25about
- 0:26perfection
- 0:27or
- 0:27performing.
- 0:28It's
- 0:28about
- 0:28alignment,
- 0:29embodiment,
- 0:30and
- 0:31loving
- 0:31yourself
- 0:32so
- 0:32thoroughly
- 0:33that
- 0:33your
- 0:34standards
- 0:35become
- 0:35second
- 0:35nature.
- 0:36We're
- 0:36gonna
- 0:36define
- 0:37what
- 0:37your
- 0:38icon
- 0:38era.
- 0:38Actually
- 0:39looks
- 0:39and
- 0:40feels
- 0:40like
- 0:41rewrite
- 0:42that
- 0:42tired
- 0:42script
- 0:43you've
- 0:43already
- 0:43outgrown
- 0:44and
- 0:44get
- 0:45into
- 0:45the
- 0:45daily
- 0:46habits
- 0:46that
- 0:46lock
- 0:47in
- 0:47your
- 0:48identity.
- 0:49You
- 0:49will
- 0:49learn
- 0:49how
- 0:49to
- 0:50become
- 0:50your
- 0:50love
- 0:51story
- 0:51first,
- 0:52so
- 0:52you
- 0:53attract
- 0:53what
- 0:53you
- 0:54deserve
- 0:54without
- 0:55begging,
- 0:55bargaining
- 0:56or
- 0:56bending.
- 0:57And
- 0:57yes,
- 0:58I'm
- 0:58handing
- 0:58you
- 0:59a
- 0:59simple
- 0:59self-love
- 1:00two
- 1:00step,
- 1:00the
- 1:01spotlight
- 1:01switch,
- 1:02so
- 1:02you
- 1:02can
- 1:02stop
- 1:02waiting
- 1:03to
- 1:03feel
- 1:03ready
- 1:04and
- 1:04start
- 1:04living.
- 1:05Ready.
- 1:06Take
- 1:06a
- 1:06breath.
- 1:07Place
- 1:07a
- 1:07hand
- 1:08on
- 1:08your
- 1:08heart
- 1:08and
- 1:09step
- 1:09in
- 1:10your
- 1:10icon.
- 1:10Era
- 1:11starts
- 1:11the
- 1:12moment
- 1:12you
- 1:12decide.
- 1:13Ready
- 1:14to
- 1:14make
- 1:14confidence,
- 1:15repeatable
- 1:16and
- 1:16not
- 1:16random.
- 1:17Grab
- 1:17the
- 1:18main
- 1:18character
- 1:18confidence
- 1:19checklist,
- 1:19a
- 1:20step-by-step
- 1:20guide
- 1:21to
- 1:21turn
- 1:21insight
- 1:22into
- 1:22action.
- 1:23Inside
- 1:24you'll
- 1:24get
- 1:25the
- 1:25do
- 1:25today
- 1:25moves
- 1:26that
- 1:26motivate
- 1:27radiant
- 1:27confidence.
- 1:28Set
- 1:28boundaries
- 1:29that
- 1:29build
- 1:30and
- 1:30replace
- 1:31overthinking
- 1:32with
- 1:32clear
- 1:32decisions.
- 1:33Think
- 1:34word
- 1:34for
- 1:34word
- 1:35scripts
- 1:35for
- 1:35real
- 1:36conversations.
- 1:37A
- 1:37nervous
- 1:37system
- 1:38reset
- 1:38and
- 1:39simple
- 1:39proof
- 1:39stack
- 1:40so
- 1:40you
- 1:40actually
- 1:41feel
- 1:42the
- 1:42momentum.
- 1:43Use
- 1:43it
- 1:44as
- 1:44a
- 1:44morning
- 1:44primer
- 1:45or
- 1:45pre-meeting
- 1:46boost.
- 1:46Check
- 1:47the
- 1:47boxes.
- 1:48Speak
- 1:48the
- 1:48line,
- 1:49take
- 1:50one.
- 1:50Aligned
- 1:51action.
- 1:51Expect
- 1:52calmer
- 1:52language,
- 1:53cleaner
- 1:53standards,
- 1:54and
- 1:55the
- 1:55day
- 1:55that
- 1:56matches
- 1:56your
- 1:57energy.
- 1:58And
- 1:58best
- 1:58of
- 1:58all,
- 1:59it's
- 1:59free.
- 1:59Find
- 2:00the
- 2:00main
- 2:00character
- 2:01confidence
- 2:01checklist
- 2:02in
- 2:02the
- 2:02show
- 2:02notes
- 2:03and
- 2:03start
- 2:03today.
- 2:04Crown
- 2:04on
- 2:05because
- 2:05we
- 2:05don't
- 2:06settle.
- 2:06We
- 2:07shine.
- 2:08Hey,
- 2:08hey,
- 2:08hey
- 2:08friend.
- 2:09Come
- 2:09on
- 2:10in
- 2:11and
- 2:12take
- 2:12a
- 2:12breath
- 2:12with
- 2:12me.
- 2:13Shoulders
- 2:13down.
- 2:14UNC
- 2:14Unclench,
- 2:15that
- 2:15jaw.
- 2:16You
- 2:16are
- 2:17here
- 2:17because
- 2:17some
- 2:18part
- 2:18of
- 2:18you
- 2:18knows
- 2:19you've
- 2:20been
- 2:20living
- 2:21under
- 2:21your
- 2:21wattage.
- 2:22You
- 2:22are
- 2:23ready
- 2:23to
- 2:23stop
- 2:24performing
- 2:24and
- 2:25start
- 2:25being.
- 2:26This
- 2:27isn't
- 2:27a
- 2:27makeover,
- 2:28it's
- 2:28a
- 2:28remembering.
- 2:30Today,
- 2:31we
- 2:31are
- 2:31not
- 2:31chasing
- 2:32an
- 2:32aesthetic.
- 2:33We
- 2:33are
- 2:33choosing
- 2:34an
- 2:35identity.
- 2:36We
- 2:36are
- 2:36taking
- 2:36your
- 2:37main
- 2:37character
- 2:37energy
- 2:38and
- 2:38elevating
- 2:39it
- 2:39into
- 2:40your
- 2:40icon
- 2:40era.
- 2:41Nope,
- 2:42nope,
- 2:42nope.
- 2:42Not
- 2:42a
- 2:42persona.
- 2:43But
- 2:44as
- 2:44practice,
- 2:45I'm
- 2:46talking
- 2:46a
- 2:46clear
- 2:47vision,
- 2:47boundaries
- 2:48that
- 2:48build.
- 2:49And
- 2:49daily
- 2:50choices
- 2:51that
- 2:51make
- 2:51your
- 2:52life
- 2:52feel
- 2:52like
- 2:53a
- 2:53homecoming
- 2:54and
- 2:54not
- 2:54another
- 2:54hustle.
- 2:55If
- 2:55you
- 2:56are
- 2:56tired
- 2:57of
- 2:57shrinking
- 2:58to
- 2:58keep
- 2:58the
- 2:58peace,
- 2:59negotiating
- 3:00your
- 3:00standards,
- 3:01or
- 3:01just
- 3:01waiting
- 3:01to
- 3:02feel
- 3:02ready,
- 3:03let
- 3:04this
- 3:04be
- 3:04your
- 3:05green
- 3:05light
- 3:06inside
- 3:06this
- 3:07space,
- 3:07we
- 3:08honor
- 3:08the
- 3:08woman
- 3:09you
- 3:09already
- 3:10are
- 3:10and
- 3:11align
- 3:12the
- 3:12way
- 3:12you
- 3:12move
- 3:13with
- 3:13what
- 3:14you
- 3:14truly
- 3:15deserve.
- 3:15Before
- 3:16we
- 3:16dive
- 3:17in,
- 3:17place
- 3:18your
- 3:18hand
- 3:18to
- 3:18your
- 3:18heart,
- 3:19and
- 3:19let's
- 3:19set
- 3:20an
- 3:20intention.
- 3:21I
- 3:21allow
- 3:22the
- 3:22highest,
- 3:23most
- 3:23honest
- 3:24version
- 3:24of
- 3:24me
- 3:25to
- 3:25lead.
- 3:26Mm.
- 3:27Let
- 3:27that
- 3:28sink
- 3:28in.
- 3:29You
- 3:29are
- 3:29in
- 3:29the
- 3:29right
- 3:30place,
- 3:30friend.
- 3:31Let's
- 3:31begin.
- 3:32Have
- 3:32you
- 3:32ever
- 3:33had
- 3:33a
- 3:33time
- 3:33in
- 3:33your
- 3:34life
- 3:34when
- 3:34you
- 3:35were
- 3:35afraid
- 3:36of
- 3:36what
- 3:36you
- 3:36really
- 3:37wanted,
- 3:38like
- 3:38if
- 3:38you're
- 3:38really
- 3:39being
- 3:39honest
- 3:40with
- 3:40yourself
- 3:40about
- 3:41what
- 3:41you
- 3:41wanted,
- 3:42without
- 3:42fear,
- 3:43without
- 3:43doubt.
- 3:44Or
- 3:45worry
- 3:46if
- 3:46it
- 3:46could
- 3:46happen
- 3:47for
- 3:47you.
- 3:48That
- 3:48is
- 3:48how
- 3:48I
- 3:49felt.
- 3:49At
- 3:49one
- 3:50point
- 3:50during
- 3:51my
- 3:51single
- 3:51season,
- 3:52I
- 3:52had
- 3:53gotten
- 3:53to
- 3:53the
- 3:53point
- 3:54where
- 3:54I
- 3:54tried
- 3:55to
- 3:55convince
- 3:55myself
- 3:56that
- 3:56I
- 3:56was
- 3:56okay.
- 3:57If
- 3:58marriage
- 3:59never
- 3:59happened
- 3:59for
- 3:59me,
- 4:00I'd
- 4:00be
- 4:00okay
- 4:01if
- 4:01I
- 4:01was
- 4:01gonna
- 4:02be
- 4:02single
- 4:02the
- 4:02rest
- 4:03of
- 4:03my
- 4:03life.
- 4:04I'd
- 4:04been
- 4:04telling
- 4:05everyone
- 4:06and
- 4:06myself
- 4:07I
- 4:07was
- 4:08fine.
- 4:08Busy
- 4:09booked
- 4:09and
- 4:10blessed,
- 4:10but
- 4:11there
- 4:11was
- 4:11an
- 4:12ache.
- 4:12I
- 4:13kept
- 4:13tidying
- 4:14away
- 4:14like
- 4:15those
- 4:15dishes
- 4:16that
- 4:16always
- 4:16seemed
- 4:16to
- 4:17fill
- 4:17the
- 4:17sink
- 4:17in
- 4:18my
- 4:18heart.
- 4:18I
- 4:19wanted
- 4:20a
- 4:20committed,
- 4:20faithful,
- 4:21healthy,
- 4:22and
- 4:22happy
- 4:23relationship,
- 4:24a
- 4:24marriage
- 4:25that
- 4:25felt
- 4:25like
- 4:25home
- 4:26and
- 4:26not
- 4:27something
- 4:27that
- 4:27I
- 4:28had
- 4:28to
- 4:28perform
- 4:28for,
- 4:29and
- 4:30the
- 4:30part
- 4:30I
- 4:31wasn't
- 4:31saying
- 4:31out
- 4:32loud.
- 4:33I
- 4:34believed
- 4:34I
- 4:35was
- 4:35worthy
- 4:35of
- 4:35it,
- 4:36and
- 4:36I
- 4:36was
- 4:36really
- 4:36scared
- 4:37of
- 4:37that
- 4:37Truth.
- 4:38Scared
- 4:39because
- 4:39wanting
- 4:39something
- 4:40big.
- 4:41It
- 4:41puts
- 4:41you
- 4:42at
- 4:42a
- 4:42crossroads.
- 4:43Either
- 4:43you
- 4:43rise
- 4:44to
- 4:44meet
- 4:44it
- 4:45or
- 4:45you
- 4:45start
- 4:46negotiating
- 4:46your
- 4:47own
- 4:47standards.
- 4:48I
- 4:48caught
- 4:48myself
- 4:49mid
- 4:49negotiation.
- 4:52You
- 4:52know
- 4:52those
- 4:52thoughts
- 4:53when
- 4:53they
- 4:53creep
- 4:53in.
- 4:54Maybe
- 4:54I'm
- 4:54asking
- 4:55for
- 4:55too
- 4:55much
- 4:55or
- 4:56maybe
- 4:56it.
- 4:56Safe
- 4:57to
- 4:57just
- 4:58want
- 4:58less,
- 4:59and
- 5:00then
- 5:01the
- 5:01clearest
- 5:01voice
- 5:02inside
- 5:03of
- 5:03me
- 5:03said,
- 5:04or
- 5:04maybe
- 5:04it's
- 5:05time
- 5:06to
- 5:06want
- 5:06exactly
- 5:07what
- 5:07you
- 5:08want
- 5:09and
- 5:09live
- 5:09like
- 5:10a
- 5:10woman
- 5:10who
- 5:11has
- 5:11it.
- 5:12Ooh,
- 5:12yes,
- 5:13yes,
- 5:13yes,
- 5:14yes.
- 5:15God
- 5:15made
- 5:15me
- 5:15a
- 5:15wife.
- 5:16No
- 5:17wonder
- 5:17I
- 5:17was
- 5:17having
- 5:18the
- 5:18hardest
- 5:18time
- 5:19just
- 5:19trying
- 5:19to
- 5:19be
- 5:19a
- 5:19girlfriend.
- 5:20That
- 5:21was
- 5:21never
- 5:22meant
- 5:22to
- 5:22be
- 5:23my
- 5:23permanent
- 5:23position,
- 5:25so
- 5:25I
- 5:25may
- 5:26tea
- 5:26like
- 5:27it
- 5:27was
- 5:27a
- 5:27ceremony,
- 5:28sat
- 5:28on
- 5:28the
- 5:28floor
- 5:29with
- 5:29my
- 5:29journal
- 5:29and
- 5:30asked
- 5:30the
- 5:30questions
- 5:31I'd
- 5:31been
- 5:31avoiding.
- 5:32If
- 5:32my
- 5:32life
- 5:33was
- 5:33already
- 5:34the
- 5:34after,
- 5:35how
- 5:35would
- 5:36I
- 5:36dress
- 5:37decide
- 5:37to
- 5:37speak
- 5:38and
- 5:38rest?
- 5:39What
- 5:39rooms
- 5:40would
- 5:40I
- 5:40keep
- 5:41entering
- 5:41and
- 5:42which
- 5:42would
- 5:42I
- 5:43close
- 5:43for
- 5:43good?
- 5:45What
- 5:45were
- 5:45three
- 5:46core
- 5:46values
- 5:47that
- 5:47drive
- 5:48the
- 5:48way
- 5:48I
- 5:48love
- 5:49work
- 5:49and
- 5:50receive?
- 5:51That
- 5:51night,
- 5:51I
- 5:52realized
- 5:52the
- 5:52icon
- 5:53era
- 5:54isn't
- 5:54about
- 5:55becoming
- 5:55someone
- 5:56shinier.
- 5:57It's
- 5:57about
- 5:58alignment,
- 5:59expression,
- 6:00and
- 6:00standards,
- 6:01not
- 6:01perfection
- 6:02or
- 6:02performing,
- 6:03but
- 6:04living
- 6:04from
- 6:04values,
- 6:05not
- 6:06for
- 6:06validation.
- 6:07It's
- 6:08the
- 6:08decision
- 6:08to
- 6:09stop
- 6:09auditioning
- 6:10for
- 6:10your
- 6:11own
- 6:11life.
- 6:13I
- 6:13wrote
- 6:13this
- 6:13one
- 6:14sentence
- 6:15and
- 6:15put
- 6:16it
- 6:16up
- 6:16on
- 6:16my
- 6:16mirror.
- 6:16In
- 6:17my
- 6:17icon
- 6:17era,
- 6:18I
- 6:19am
- 6:19a
- 6:19woman
- 6:19who
- 6:20is
- 6:20chosen,
- 6:21cherished,
- 6:21and
- 6:22clear
- 6:23by
- 6:23me
- 6:23first,
- 6:24and
- 6:25then
- 6:25by
- 6:25anyone
- 6:26who
- 6:26gets
- 6:27access.
- 6:28Ooh,
- 6:29yes,
- 6:29yes,
- 6:30yes,
- 6:30yes.
- 6:31And
- 6:31here's
- 6:32what
- 6:32changed
- 6:33my
- 6:33calendar,
- 6:34my
- 6:34conversations,
- 6:35my
- 6:35closet,
- 6:36even
- 6:37my
- 6:37bedtime.
- 6:38Those
- 6:39tiny
- 6:39shifts
- 6:41is
- 6:41where
- 6:41icon
- 6:42showed
- 6:42up
- 6:43and
- 6:43even
- 6:43the
- 6:44smallest
- 6:44moves.
- 6:45Putting
- 6:45my
- 6:46phone
- 6:46down
- 6:46at
- 6:47nine,
- 6:47telling
- 6:48the
- 6:48truth
- 6:48on
- 6:49the
- 6:49first
- 6:49try.
- 6:50Choosing
- 6:51silence
- 6:51over
- 6:52self
- 6:52betrayal.
- 6:53Hmm,
- 6:55leaving
- 6:55potential.
- 6:56When
- 6:56I
- 6:57saw
- 6:57the
- 6:57pattern,
- 6:58every
- 6:58yes
- 6:59and
- 6:59no,
- 7:00started
- 7:01building
- 7:01a
- 7:02life
- 7:02that
- 7:02matched
- 7:03the
- 7:03love
- 7:03I
- 7:04desired
- 7:05because
- 7:05I
- 7:05finally
- 7:06totally
- 7:07and
- 7:07completely
- 7:08loved
- 7:10Me.
- 7:10So
- 7:11place
- 7:11your
- 7:11hand
- 7:11on
- 7:12your
- 7:12heart
- 7:12and
- 7:13let
- 7:13this
- 7:13in.
- 7:14I'm
- 7:15safe
- 7:16to
- 7:16want
- 7:17what
- 7:17I
- 7:18want.
- 7:18And
- 7:19here's
- 7:19some
- 7:19journal
- 7:19prompts
- 7:20for
- 7:20you
- 7:20'cause
- 7:20you
- 7:20know
- 7:21I
- 7:21love
- 7:21me,
- 7:21some
- 7:21good
- 7:21journal
- 7:22time.
- 7:22If
- 7:22I
- 7:23was
- 7:23already
- 7:24the
- 7:24after,
- 7:25how
- 7:25do
- 7:26I
- 7:26dress,
- 7:27decide,
- 7:27speak
- 7:28or
- 7:28rest?
- 7:29Which
- 7:29rooms
- 7:30do
- 7:30I
- 7:30keep
- 7:31entering
- 7:32and
- 7:32which
- 7:33do
- 7:34I
- 7:34lovingly
- 7:34close
- 7:35My
- 7:36three
- 7:36core
- 7:36values
- 7:37as
- 7:38filters
- 7:39and
- 7:39not
- 7:39decorations
- 7:40are.
- 7:41Now
- 7:41write
- 7:42your
- 7:42one
- 7:43line
- 7:43identity
- 7:44and
- 7:44tape
- 7:45it
- 7:45to
- 7:45your
- 7:45mirror.
- 7:46In
- 7:46my
- 7:46icon
- 7:47era,
- 7:48I
- 7:48am
- 7:48a
- 7:48woman
- 7:48who,
- 7:49and
- 7:50fill
- 7:50it
- 7:50in
- 7:50with
- 7:50who
- 7:51you
- 7:51are
- 7:51standing
- 7:52in
- 7:52your
- 7:52icon
- 7:53era.
- 7:54Is
- 7:54it
- 7:54aligned
- 7:55confident
- 7:56Empowered,
- 7:57blessed.
- 7:58When
- 7:58you
- 7:59know
- 7:59who
- 7:59you
- 7:59are
- 8:00and
- 8:00what
- 8:00you
- 8:01are
- 8:01available
- 8:01for,
- 8:02you
- 8:02stop
- 8:03chasing
- 8:03love
- 8:04and
- 8:04start
- 8:04becoming
- 8:05it.
- 8:06So
- 8:06let's
- 8:06talk
- 8:07about
- 8:07becoming
- 8:08your
- 8:08love
- 8:08story
- 8:09first.
- 8:10Now,
- 8:11Viola
- 8:11Davis
- 8:12reminds
- 8:12us
- 8:13regularly.
- 8:14You
- 8:14are
- 8:15the
- 8:15love
- 8:15of
- 8:15your
- 8:15life.
- 8:16And
- 8:17it
- 8:17hits
- 8:18different
- 8:18when
- 8:18you
- 8:19realize
- 8:20you
- 8:20are
- 8:20asking
- 8:21someone
- 8:21else
- 8:22to
- 8:22treat
- 8:22you
- 8:23better
- 8:23than
- 8:23you
- 8:24treat
- 8:24yourself.
- 8:25Have
- 8:25you
- 8:25ever
- 8:25caught
- 8:26yourself
- 8:26waiting
- 8:27for
- 8:27a
- 8:27text
- 8:28that
- 8:28would
- 8:28decide
- 8:29your
- 8:29mood?
- 8:30You
- 8:30could
- 8:30have
- 8:31a
- 8:31whole
- 8:31beautiful
- 8:32day
- 8:32queued
- 8:33up,
- 8:33but
- 8:34your
- 8:34energy
- 8:34is
- 8:35on
- 8:35layaway
- 8:35weight
- 8:35Wait
- 8:36on
- 8:36somebody
- 8:36else's
- 8:37maybe.
- 8:37And
- 8:37that's
- 8:38when
- 8:38the
- 8:38truth
- 8:39likes
- 8:39to
- 8:39get
- 8:39right
- 8:40up
- 8:40in
- 8:40your
- 8:40face.
- 8:41How
- 8:41can
- 8:42someone
- 8:42love
- 8:43you
- 8:43thoroughly
- 8:44if
- 8:44you
- 8:45are
- 8:45settling
- 8:45for
- 8:46crumbs
- 8:47from
- 8:47you?
- 8:47If
- 8:47you
- 8:48want
- 8:48certainty,
- 8:49you
- 8:49have
- 8:50to
- 8:50stop
- 8:50dating
- 8:51uncertainty.
- 8:52No
- 8:53more
- 8:53almost
- 8:54plans.
- 8:55No
- 8:55more
- 8:55decoding.
- 8:56Hey,
- 8:56stranger
- 8:57at
- 8:5711:07
- 8:58PM
- 8:58Okay.
- 8:59Yes,
- 9:00that,
- 9:00mm-hmm.
- 9:00No
- 9:01more
- 9:01of
- 9:01that.
- 9:01And
- 9:02no
- 9:02more
- 9:02auditioning
- 9:03for
- 9:04the
- 9:04bare
- 9:05minimum.
- 9:06Trust
- 9:06me,
- 9:06friend.
- 9:07I
- 9:07had
- 9:07this
- 9:07very
- 9:08same
- 9:08realization
- 9:09with
- 9:10myself.
- 9:11If
- 9:11I
- 9:11wanted
- 9:11a
- 9:11partner
- 9:12who
- 9:12was
- 9:12sure
- 9:13about
- 9:13me,
- 9:14I
- 9:14had
- 9:14to
- 9:14go
- 9:15first
- 9:16by
- 9:16being
- 9:17sure
- 9:17about
- 9:18me.
- 9:19And
- 9:19here's
- 9:19what
- 9:19shifted.
- 9:20Self-respect
- 9:22replaced
- 9:23craving.
- 9:24I
- 9:24stopped
- 9:24refreshing
- 9:25and
- 9:26started
- 9:26receiving.
- 9:27I
- 9:27choose
- 9:28what
- 9:28nourished
- 9:29me,
- 9:30which
- 9:30was
- 9:30rest,
- 9:31a
- 9:31walk,
- 9:31a
- 9:31chapter
- 9:32of
- 9:32my
- 9:32favorite
- 9:33book
- 9:34over
- 9:34the
- 9:34hit
- 9:35of
- 9:35attention
- 9:36that
- 9:37always
- 9:37left
- 9:38me
- 9:38hungry,
- 9:39self-soothing,
- 9:40replaced
- 9:41spirals,
- 9:42hand
- 9:43to
- 9:43heart,
- 9:44and
- 9:44exhale.
- 9:46And
- 9:46remind
- 9:46yourself
- 9:47I'm
- 9:48safe.
- 9:49What's
- 9:49meant
- 9:49for
- 9:50me
- 9:50is
- 9:50not
- 9:51confused
- 9:52about
- 9:52me.
- 9:53And
- 9:53self-honoring
- 9:54replaced
- 9:55people
- 9:55pleasing.
- 9:56I
- 9:56stopped
- 9:57softening
- 9:58my
- 9:58standards
- 9:59to
- 9:59keep
- 9:59the
- 9:59peace.
- 10:00Peace
- 10:00that
- 10:01required.
- 10:01Self
- 10:02betrayal
- 10:02wasn't
- 10:03peace
- 10:03at
- 10:03all.
- 10:04It
- 10:04was
- 10:04performance.
- 10:05Now
- 10:05add
- 10:06this
- 10:06to
- 10:06a
- 10:06sticky
- 10:06note
- 10:07or
- 10:07save
- 10:07it
- 10:07in
- 10:07your
- 10:08notes
- 10:08app.
- 10:09I'm
- 10:09not
- 10:10proving
- 10:11I'm
- 10:11worthy
- 10:12of
- 10:12love.
- 10:13I'm
- 10:13practicing
- 10:14the
- 10:15love
- 10:15I
- 10:15give.
- 10:17Ooh,
- 10:17friend.
- 10:19This
- 10:19is
- 10:19so
- 10:19powerful
- 10:20and
- 10:20practicing
- 10:21looks
- 10:22ordinary,
- 10:23like
- 10:23cooking
- 10:24the
- 10:24meal
- 10:24you
- 10:25would've
- 10:25saved
- 10:26for
- 10:26quote
- 10:26unquote
- 10:27company
- 10:27or
- 10:28turning
- 10:28your
- 10:28phone
- 10:29face
- 10:29down
- 10:29during
- 10:30your
- 10:30wind
- 10:30down
- 10:31time,
- 10:31or
- 10:32answering
- 10:32messages.
- 10:33When
- 10:33you
- 10:33have
- 10:34capacity
- 10:35not
- 10:36on
- 10:36command,
- 10:37you
- 10:37will
- 10:37start
- 10:37noticing
- 10:38the
- 10:38weirdest,
- 10:39most
- 10:39wonderful
- 10:40part,
- 10:41your
- 10:41relationships.
- 10:42Stop
- 10:43feeling
- 10:43like
- 10:43interviews
- 10:44and
- 10:45start
- 10:45feeling
- 10:46like
- 10:46alignment.
- 10:47People
- 10:47who
- 10:48want
- 10:48access
- 10:49will
- 10:49rise
- 10:50to
- 10:50the
- 10:50standard
- 10:51and
- 10:51those
- 10:51that
- 10:52don't
- 10:52drifted.
- 10:53No
- 10:54drama,
- 10:54just
- 10:55data.
- 10:56So
- 10:56what's
- 10:57your
- 10:57go
- 10:57first
- 10:57move
- 10:58today?
- 10:58Is
- 10:59it
- 10:59deleting
- 10:59one
- 11:00of
- 11:00those
- 11:00almost
- 11:01threads
- 11:02and
- 11:02reclaim
- 11:02your
- 11:03attention?
- 11:04Or
- 11:04put
- 11:04your
- 11:04phone
- 11:05on
- 11:05do
- 11:05not
- 11:05disturb
- 11:06for
- 11:06your
- 11:06evening
- 11:06ritual.
- 11:07Or
- 11:08say
- 11:08the
- 11:08clean
- 11:09boundary
- 11:10of
- 11:10what
- 11:10you're
- 11:11not
- 11:11available
- 11:12for.
- 11:12And
- 11:12if
- 11:12you're
- 11:13really
- 11:13serious,
- 11:14set
- 11:14a
- 11:14standard
- 11:15in
- 11:15writing.
- 11:16Access
- 11:17to
- 11:17me
- 11:17requires
- 11:19consistency,
- 11:20clarity,
- 11:20reciprocity.
- 11:22When
- 11:22you
- 11:23become
- 11:23your
- 11:23love
- 11:24story
- 11:24first,
- 11:25your
- 11:26life
- 11:26starts
- 11:27matching
- 11:27the
- 11:27way
- 11:28you.
- 11:28Treat
- 11:29you.
- 11:29It's
- 11:30very
- 11:30much
- 11:30giving.
- 11:31I
- 11:31don't
- 11:31play
- 11:32about
- 11:32me
- 11:32energy.
- 11:33Okay,
- 11:34now
- 11:34next
- 11:36we
- 11:36are
- 11:36writing
- 11:37the
- 11:37lines
- 11:37that
- 11:38kept
- 11:38you
- 11:38auditioning.
- 11:39So
- 11:39your
- 11:40script
- 11:40finally
- 11:41matches
- 11:42your
- 11:42standard.
- 11:43Ready
- 11:43to
- 11:44turn
- 11:44insight
- 11:45into
- 11:45identity.
- 11:46That's
- 11:46right,
- 11:46friend.
- 11:47Grab
- 11:47the
- 11:48Ignite
- 11:48Your
- 11:48main
- 11:49character
- 11:49Energy
- 11:50journal
- 11:50prompts
- 11:51a
- 11:51deep
- 11:51guided
- 11:52collection.
- 11:53Of
- 11:53soul
- 11:53level
- 11:54prompts
- 11:54designed
- 11:55to
- 11:55shift
- 11:56you
- 11:56from
- 11:56second
- 11:57guessing
- 11:57to
- 11:57radiant
- 11:58confidence
- 11:59from
- 11:59people
- 11:59pleasing
- 12:00to
- 12:00boundaries
- 12:01that
- 12:01build
- 12:01and
- 12:02from
- 12:02someday
- 12:02to
- 12:03I'm
- 12:03living
- 12:04it
- 12:04now,
- 12:05you'll
- 12:05move
- 12:06through
- 12:06self-trust.
- 12:07Standards,
- 12:08communication
- 12:09and
- 12:09aligned
- 12:10Love
- 12:11each
- 12:11prompt
- 12:12a
- 12:12layer
- 12:12to
- 12:12help
- 12:13you
- 12:13release
- 12:13old
- 12:14scripts,
- 12:15clarity
- 12:15with
- 12:16who
- 12:16you
- 12:16are,
- 12:17and
- 12:17act
- 12:18like
- 12:18her
- 12:19today.
- 12:19Use
- 12:20it
- 12:20as
- 12:20a
- 12:20daily
- 12:21ritual
- 12:21or
- 12:22a
- 12:22weekend
- 12:22reset.
- 12:23One
- 12:23prompt
- 12:24to
- 12:24open
- 12:24your
- 12:24heart,
- 12:25one
- 12:26to
- 12:26set
- 12:26your
- 12:26standards
- 12:27and
- 12:27one
- 12:28action
- 12:28to
- 12:29lock
- 12:29it
- 12:29in.
- 12:30Expect
- 12:31calmer
- 12:32decisions,
- 12:32cleaner
- 12:33language,
- 12:34and
- 12:34a
- 12:34life
- 12:35that
- 12:35starts
- 12:35matching
- 12:36your
- 12:36vision.
- 12:37Find
- 12:37the
- 12:38Ignite
- 12:38Your
- 12:38main
- 12:39character
- 12:39journal
- 12:39prompts
- 12:40in
- 12:40the
- 12:40show
- 12:40notes,
- 12:41or
- 12:41check
- 12:42it
- 12:42out
- 12:42on
- 12:43the
- 12:43website@encourageovereverything.com.
- 12:46Open
- 12:46the
- 12:46page,
- 12:47meet
- 12:47Your
- 12:47Power
- 12:48Crown
- 12:48on
- 12:49Queen.
- 12:49Let's
- 12:50get
- 12:50it.
- 12:51Rewriting
- 12:52your
- 12:52script
- 12:53is
- 12:53about
- 12:54how
- 12:54you
- 12:54take
- 12:55the
- 12:55pin
- 12:55back
- 12:55from
- 12:56the
- 12:56old
- 12:56conditioning
- 12:57and
- 12:58hand
- 12:58it
- 12:58to
- 12:58your
- 12:58future
- 12:59self.
- 13:00The
- 13:00words
- 13:00you
- 13:00repeat
- 13:01out
- 13:02loud
- 13:02and
- 13:03in
- 13:03your
- 13:03head
- 13:04become
- 13:04instructions
- 13:05to
- 13:05your
- 13:05nervous
- 13:06system
- 13:07and
- 13:07ultimately
- 13:07your
- 13:08calendar.
- 13:09When
- 13:09you
- 13:09swap
- 13:10survival
- 13:10lines
- 13:11for
- 13:11standards,
- 13:12you
- 13:12stop
- 13:12negotiating
- 13:13your
- 13:13own
- 13:14worth
- 13:14and
- 13:15start
- 13:15directing
- 13:16your
- 13:16life.
- 13:17That
- 13:17whole
- 13:18I'm
- 13:18too
- 13:19much,
- 13:19becomes
- 13:20my
- 13:21fullness
- 13:22is
- 13:22my
- 13:22feature.
- 13:23So
- 13:23you
- 13:23show
- 13:24up
- 13:24whole
- 13:25instead
- 13:26of
- 13:26edited
- 13:27that
- 13:27whole
- 13:27train
- 13:28of
- 13:28thought,
- 13:28I
- 13:28don't
- 13:28wanna
- 13:29scare
- 13:29them
- 13:29off,
- 13:30becomes
- 13:31my
- 13:31standards
- 13:32filter
- 13:33for
- 13:33me.
- 13:34So
- 13:34you
- 13:35let
- 13:35misalignment
- 13:36exit
- 13:37without
- 13:38the
- 13:38drama.
- 13:39Or
- 13:39that
- 13:39line,
- 13:40I'll
- 13:40wait
- 13:40until
- 13:41I
- 13:41feel
- 13:41ready.
- 13:42Becomes
- 13:42action
- 13:43builds
- 13:44readiness.
- 13:45So
- 13:45momentum
- 13:46replaces
- 13:47hesitation.
- 13:48This
- 13:49is
- 13:49language
- 13:49work,
- 13:50identity
- 13:50work
- 13:51and
- 13:51energy
- 13:52work
- 13:52wrapped
- 13:53into
- 13:53one
- 13:54because
- 13:54the
- 13:54sentences
- 13:55you
- 13:55choose.
- 13:56Is
- 13:57the
- 13:57signal
- 13:57you
- 13:58send
- 13:59designing
- 13:59your
- 13:59icon
- 14:00era
- 14:01starts
- 14:01with
- 14:01one
- 14:02clear
- 14:03identity
- 14:03line
- 14:04and
- 14:04daily
- 14:04proof.
- 14:05A
- 14:05friend.
- 14:06Your
- 14:06icon
- 14:06era
- 14:07isn't
- 14:07a
- 14:07vibe,
- 14:08it's
- 14:08a
- 14:08voiceover.
- 14:09We
- 14:10replace
- 14:10those
- 14:11survival
- 14:11lines
- 14:12with
- 14:12standards,
- 14:13self-doubt,
- 14:14with
- 14:14self-direction,
- 14:16and
- 14:16wrap
- 14:17it
- 14:17up
- 14:17in
- 14:17embodiment.
- 14:18Are
- 14:18you
- 14:18ready?
- 14:19Okay.
- 14:20So
- 14:20in
- 14:21your
- 14:21journal
- 14:21you're
- 14:21gonna
- 14:22have
- 14:22two
- 14:22columns,
- 14:23one
- 14:23column
- 14:24for
- 14:24the
- 14:24old
- 14:24script.
- 14:26The
- 14:26other
- 14:26column
- 14:27is
- 14:27your
- 14:27icon
- 14:28rewrite.
- 14:29These
- 14:30are
- 14:30the
- 14:30lines
- 14:30that
- 14:31you're
- 14:31gonna
- 14:31say
- 14:32three
- 14:32times,
- 14:33and
- 14:33then
- 14:34give
- 14:34it
- 14:34a
- 14:35body
- 14:35level
- 14:36action
- 14:37within
- 14:37the
- 14:37next
- 14:38hour.
- 14:38So
- 14:39whether
- 14:39it's
- 14:39set
- 14:40that
- 14:40clean
- 14:41boundary
- 14:41or
- 14:42put
- 14:42your
- 14:42phone
- 14:43on,
- 14:43do
- 14:43not
- 14:43disturb
- 14:45or
- 14:45close
- 14:45the
- 14:4650
- 14:46tabs
- 14:47and
- 14:47leave
- 14:47only
- 14:48what
- 14:48you
- 14:48truly
- 14:48need
- 14:49open,
- 14:50or
- 14:50even
- 14:50something
- 14:51as
- 14:51simple
- 14:51as
- 14:52choosing
- 14:52to
- 14:52rest
- 14:53on
- 14:54purpose.
- 14:55So
- 14:55some
- 14:55of
- 14:56these
- 14:56transformative
- 14:57rewrites
- 14:57look
- 14:57like
- 14:58going
- 14:59from,
- 14:59I
- 15:00need
- 15:00them
- 15:00to
- 15:00pick
- 15:01me
- 15:01to
- 15:02I
- 15:02choose
- 15:03me
- 15:04first.
- 15:05Access
- 15:06follows
- 15:07alignment.
- 15:08Ooh,
- 15:08yes.
- 15:09Or
- 15:10that
- 15:10belief
- 15:10confidence
- 15:11comes
- 15:11and
- 15:12goes.
- 15:13Changes
- 15:13to
- 15:14confidence
- 15:15is
- 15:15who
- 15:15I
- 15:16am.
- 15:17Radiant
- 15:17and
- 15:18repeatable.
- 15:19And
- 15:19when
- 15:19it
- 15:19comes
- 15:20to
- 15:20boundaries
- 15:20that
- 15:21build
- 15:21that
- 15:22line
- 15:22of
- 15:22thinking,
- 15:23saying
- 15:24no
- 15:24is
- 15:24mean.
- 15:25Changes
- 15:26to
- 15:26clarity
- 15:27is
- 15:27kindness
- 15:28to
- 15:28me
- 15:29and
- 15:29to
- 15:30them.
- 15:30It's
- 15:30time
- 15:31to
- 15:31give
- 15:31your
- 15:31no.
- 15:32A
- 15:32brand
- 15:33new
- 15:33meaning.
- 15:34No
- 15:34does
- 15:35not
- 15:35have
- 15:35to
- 15:35be
- 15:36mean.
- 15:36It
- 15:37doesn't
- 15:37mean
- 15:38that
- 15:38you're
- 15:38evil,
- 15:39okay?
- 15:39Just
- 15:40because
- 15:40you
- 15:40tell
- 15:40somebody.
- 15:41No
- 15:41clarity.
- 15:42Is
- 15:42being
- 15:43kind
- 15:43to
- 15:44them
- 15:44and
- 15:44to
- 15:45you.
- 15:45It's
- 15:45time
- 15:46to
- 15:46honor
- 15:46your
- 15:47capacity,
- 15:48like
- 15:48a
- 15:48true
- 15:49commitment.
- 15:50And
- 15:50when
- 15:50it
- 15:50comes
- 15:50to
- 15:51your
- 15:51time,
- 15:51your
- 15:52energy,
- 15:52your
- 15:52presence.
- 15:53You
- 15:53can
- 15:54ditch
- 15:54that
- 15:54line
- 15:55of
- 15:55thinking
- 15:55that
- 15:56says
- 15:56you
- 15:56have
- 15:56to
- 15:57respond
- 15:57right
- 15:58now.
- 15:58You
- 15:59get
- 15:59to
- 15:59reply
- 16:00based
- 16:00on
- 16:01your
- 16:01capacity,
- 16:02not
- 16:02on
- 16:02command.
- 16:03And
- 16:03when
- 16:04it
- 16:04comes
- 16:04to
- 16:04the
- 16:04love
- 16:05and
- 16:05relationships
- 16:06in
- 16:06your
- 16:06life,
- 16:07you
- 16:07get
- 16:07to
- 16:07set
- 16:08the
- 16:08standard.
- 16:09Mixed
- 16:09signals
- 16:10are
- 16:10not
- 16:10normal.
- 16:11You
- 16:11now
- 16:12operate
- 16:12underneath
- 16:13a
- 16:13different
- 16:14standard.
- 16:14Consistency
- 16:16is
- 16:16my
- 16:16baseline,
- 16:17not
- 16:18a
- 16:18bonus.
- 16:19So.
- 16:19We
- 16:19are
- 16:20no
- 16:20longer
- 16:20taking
- 16:21the
- 16:21maybes
- 16:22and
- 16:23convincing
- 16:24ourselves
- 16:24that
- 16:24it
- 16:25means
- 16:25a
- 16:25yes.
- 16:25It's
- 16:26either
- 16:26a
- 16:26full
- 16:26body
- 16:27yes,
- 16:28or
- 16:28it's
- 16:28an
- 16:28absolute
- 16:29no
- 16:29and
- 16:29no
- 16:29more
- 16:30of
- 16:30this
- 16:30thinking
- 16:31that
- 16:31if
- 16:31I
- 16:31over
- 16:32give,
- 16:32they'll
- 16:32stay.
- 16:33That's
- 16:33not
- 16:34true,
- 16:34friend.
- 16:34Now
- 16:35you
- 16:35operate
- 16:36knowing,
- 16:36and
- 16:36their
- 16:37actions
- 16:37either
- 16:38reflect,
- 16:38reciprocity,
- 16:39or
- 16:39it's
- 16:40time
- 16:40to
- 16:40release.
- 16:41Every
- 16:41move,
- 16:42even
- 16:42the
- 16:42micro
- 16:43ones,
- 16:43tell
- 16:44your
- 16:44brain,
- 16:45this
- 16:45is
- 16:45who
- 16:46we
- 16:46are
- 16:46now.
- 16:47Over
- 16:47time,
- 16:48your
- 16:48choices.
- 16:49Get
- 16:49quieter
- 16:50and
- 16:50stronger
- 16:51cravings
- 16:52turn
- 16:52into
- 16:53self-respect,
- 16:54spirals
- 16:55into
- 16:55self-soothing,
- 16:56and
- 16:57people
- 16:57pleasing
- 16:58into
- 16:58self
- 16:58honor.
- 16:59You
- 16:59are
- 16:59not
- 17:00the
- 17:01performing
- 17:01person
- 17:02that
- 17:02you
- 17:02used
- 17:02to
- 17:02be.
- 17:03You
- 17:03are
- 17:03practicing
- 17:04it
- 17:04until
- 17:05the
- 17:06only
- 17:06story
- 17:07that
- 17:07fits
- 17:08is
- 17:08your
- 17:08icon
- 17:09era.
- 17:09So
- 17:10let
- 17:10your
- 17:10new
- 17:10scripts
- 17:11shape
- 17:12what
- 17:12shows
- 17:13up
- 17:13for
- 17:13you.
- 17:14Now
- 17:14let's
- 17:14move
- 17:15into
- 17:15attracting
- 17:16what
- 17:16you
- 17:16deserve.
- 17:17Energy
- 17:18truly
- 17:18is
- 17:19an
- 17:19invitation,
- 17:20and
- 17:20self-love
- 17:21sets
- 17:21the
- 17:21frequency.
- 17:22You
- 17:23don't
- 17:23attract
- 17:24what
- 17:24you
- 17:24want.
- 17:25Wayne
- 17:25Dyer
- 17:26says
- 17:26you
- 17:27attract.
- 17:28Who
- 17:28you
- 17:29are
- 17:30and
- 17:30your
- 17:30attraction
- 17:31is
- 17:32based
- 17:32off
- 17:32of
- 17:33what
- 17:33your
- 17:33nervous
- 17:33system
- 17:34believes
- 17:35you
- 17:35deserve.
- 17:36When
- 17:36you
- 17:36treat
- 17:36yourself
- 17:37like
- 17:37a
- 17:37woman
- 17:38you
- 17:38respect,
- 17:39resting
- 17:40before
- 17:40you're
- 17:40depleted,
- 17:41feeding
- 17:42your
- 17:42body
- 17:43with
- 17:43nourishment,
- 17:44speaking
- 17:44to
- 17:45yourself,
- 17:45with
- 17:45honor
- 17:46your
- 17:47energy,
- 17:47broadcast,
- 17:49safety
- 17:50worth,
- 17:50and
- 17:51availability
- 17:51for
- 17:52real
- 17:52love.
- 17:53That
- 17:54signal
- 17:54is
- 17:55just
- 17:55like
- 17:55the
- 17:55bat
- 17:55signal.
- 17:56It's
- 17:56unmistakable.
- 17:58People,
- 17:58opportunities
- 17:59and
- 18:00outcomes.
- 18:01Start
- 18:01matching
- 18:02your
- 18:02self
- 18:03regard
- 18:03because
- 18:04your
- 18:04presence
- 18:05says,
- 18:06I'm
- 18:06well
- 18:06cared
- 18:07for
- 18:07here.
- 18:08Self-love
- 18:09isn't
- 18:09just
- 18:10some
- 18:10cute,
- 18:10fluffy
- 18:11little
- 18:11hashtag.
- 18:12It's
- 18:13the
- 18:13operating
- 18:14system.
- 18:15It
- 18:15turns
- 18:16standards
- 18:16from
- 18:17ideas
- 18:17into
- 18:18instincts.
- 18:19The
- 18:19more
- 18:19you
- 18:20practice
- 18:20self
- 18:20regard,
- 18:21the
- 18:22less
- 18:23you
- 18:23tolerate
- 18:24confusion,
- 18:25crumbs,
- 18:26or
- 18:26chemistry.
- 18:27Without
- 18:27care,
- 18:28you
- 18:29naturally
- 18:29choose
- 18:30reciprocity.
- 18:32Over
- 18:32performance,
- 18:33clarity
- 18:34over
- 18:34mixed
- 18:35signals
- 18:35and
- 18:36peace
- 18:36over
- 18:37adrenaline.
- 18:38That
- 18:38alignment
- 18:39is
- 18:39what
- 18:39calms
- 18:40your
- 18:40body,
- 18:41sharpens
- 18:42your
- 18:42discernment,
- 18:43and
- 18:43makes
- 18:44confidence
- 18:45repeatable.
- 18:46So
- 18:46attraction
- 18:47becomes
- 18:47an
- 18:48ecosystem
- 18:50and
- 18:50not
- 18:50an
- 18:50accident.
- 18:51This
- 18:52energy
- 18:52shows
- 18:53up
- 18:53everywhere,
- 18:54not
- 18:55just
- 18:55in
- 18:55love.
- 18:56You
- 18:56might
- 18:57see
- 18:57it
- 18:57showing
- 18:58up
- 18:58at
- 18:58work.
- 18:59The
- 18:59old
- 18:59pattern
- 19:00might
- 19:00be
- 19:01you
- 19:01saying
- 19:02yes
- 19:02to
- 19:02quick
- 19:03favors
- 19:03by
- 19:03staying
- 19:04late,
- 19:05but
- 19:05then
- 19:05resenting
- 19:06it
- 19:06later,
- 19:07and
- 19:07then
- 19:07doubting
- 19:08your
- 19:08value.
- 19:08The
- 19:09self-love
- 19:09shift
- 19:10is
- 19:10you
- 19:11treating
- 19:11your
- 19:12time
- 19:12like
- 19:13it
- 19:13matters.
- 19:14You
- 19:14can
- 19:14plan
- 19:15deep
- 19:15work
- 19:15blocks
- 19:16and
- 19:16answer
- 19:17at
- 19:17your
- 19:17capacity
- 19:18and
- 19:19not
- 19:19on
- 19:19command.
- 19:20You
- 19:20can
- 19:20easily
- 19:21set
- 19:21boundaries
- 19:22by
- 19:22saying,
- 19:23I
- 19:23can't
- 19:23take
- 19:23that
- 19:24on
- 19:24today,
- 19:25but
- 19:25if
- 19:25the
- 19:25deadline
- 19:26is
- 19:26next
- 19:26Tuesday,
- 19:27I
- 19:27can
- 19:27own
- 19:27that.
- 19:28Otherwise,
- 19:29it
- 19:29needs
- 19:29to
- 19:29stay
- 19:30with
- 19:30that
- 19:30team.
- 19:30The
- 19:31result.
- 19:32Respect
- 19:32rises
- 19:33and
- 19:34work
- 19:34matches
- 19:35your
- 19:35standards
- 19:36and
- 19:36not
- 19:37your
- 19:37people
- 19:37pleasing.
- 19:38You
- 19:38might
- 19:38see
- 19:38old
- 19:39patterns
- 19:39showing
- 19:40up
- 19:40in
- 19:40your
- 19:40family.
- 19:41There's
- 19:41a
- 19:41relative
- 19:42that
- 19:42expects
- 19:43instant
- 19:44replies
- 19:44or
- 19:45errands,
- 19:46so
- 19:46you
- 19:46drop
- 19:46everything.
- 19:47Meanwhile,
- 19:48you
- 19:48simmering
- 19:49on
- 19:49resentment.
- 19:50The
- 19:50self-love
- 19:51shift,
- 19:51you
- 19:52honor
- 19:52your
- 19:52bandwidth,
- 19:53and
- 19:53offer
- 19:54options
- 19:55without
- 19:55over
- 19:56explaining
- 19:57the
- 19:57new
- 19:57script.
- 19:58I'm
- 19:59not
- 19:59available
- 19:59today,
- 20:00but
- 20:00if
- 20:00Saturday
- 20:00morning
- 20:01works,
- 20:01I
- 20:01can
- 20:02help
- 20:02for
- 20:02an
- 20:02hour.
- 20:03The
- 20:03results,
- 20:04you'll
- 20:04have
- 20:05less
- 20:05chaos
- 20:06and
- 20:06more
- 20:07clarity.
- 20:08The
- 20:08relationship
- 20:09gets
- 20:09kinder
- 20:10because
- 20:11your
- 20:11rules
- 20:12are
- 20:12clear,
- 20:13and
- 20:13even
- 20:13in
- 20:14your
- 20:14friendships.
- 20:15The
- 20:15old
- 20:16pattern
- 20:16you
- 20:17playing,
- 20:17the
- 20:1724
- 20:187
- 20:18therapist
- 20:19absorb
- 20:20every
- 20:20crisis
- 20:21and
- 20:22expect
- 20:22those
- 20:23maybe
- 20:23plans,
- 20:24but
- 20:24the
- 20:24self-love
- 20:25shift.
- 20:26You
- 20:26create
- 20:27containers
- 20:27for
- 20:28support
- 20:29and
- 20:29require
- 20:30reciprocity.
- 20:31So
- 20:32the
- 20:32new
- 20:32boundary
- 20:33script
- 20:33to
- 20:33support
- 20:34you
- 20:34is,
- 20:35I
- 20:35have
- 20:3515
- 20:36minutes
- 20:36now,
- 20:37or
- 20:37we
- 20:38can
- 20:38schedule
- 20:38a
- 20:38time
- 20:39to
- 20:39talk
- 20:39longer
- 20:40tomorrow.
- 20:41What
- 20:41do
- 20:41you
- 20:41prefer?
- 20:42Or
- 20:42you
- 20:42can
- 20:43say,
- 20:44I'm
- 20:44confirming
- 20:44by
- 20:45Thursday,
- 20:45and
- 20:46if
- 20:46I
- 20:46don't
- 20:46hear
- 20:46back,
- 20:47then
- 20:47I'll
- 20:47just
- 20:47make
- 20:47other
- 20:48plans.
- 20:48The
- 20:49result
- 20:49is
- 20:50deeper,
- 20:50more
- 20:50balanced
- 20:51friendships
- 20:52with
- 20:52less
- 20:53burnout
- 20:54and
- 20:54fewer
- 20:55mixed
- 20:55signals.
- 20:56If
- 20:56you
- 20:57want
- 20:57more
- 20:57evidence
- 20:58today,
- 20:58just
- 20:59do
- 20:59one
- 21:00act
- 21:00of
- 21:01self-respect.
- 21:02Is
- 21:02it
- 21:02keeping
- 21:03a
- 21:03promise
- 21:03to
- 21:03yourself,
- 21:04taking
- 21:05a
- 21:05walk,
- 21:06or
- 21:06actually
- 21:06properly
- 21:07hydrating
- 21:08yourself?
- 21:08Speak
- 21:09one
- 21:09line
- 21:10of
- 21:10self
- 21:11honor.
- 21:11I'm
- 21:12proud
- 21:12of
- 21:12how
- 21:13I
- 21:13showed
- 21:13up
- 21:13today.
- 21:14Or
- 21:14set
- 21:15one
- 21:15boundary
- 21:16that
- 21:16builds,
- 21:17I'm
- 21:18not
- 21:18available
- 21:18for
- 21:19this,
- 21:19but
- 21:20I'll
- 21:20tell
- 21:20you
- 21:20what
- 21:21works
- 21:21for
- 21:21me.
- 21:22And
- 21:22just
- 21:22watch
- 21:23how
- 21:23your
- 21:23energy
- 21:24lifts,
- 21:25your
- 21:25choices
- 21:26clean
- 21:27up
- 21:27and
- 21:28your
- 21:28world
- 21:28answers
- 21:29at
- 21:29the
- 21:30level
- 21:30of
- 21:30love
- 21:31that
- 21:31you
- 21:31give.
- 21:32That's
- 21:33self
- 21:33respected
- 21:34motion
- 21:35and
- 21:35the
- 21:35life
- 21:36that
- 21:36answers
- 21:37at
- 21:37that
- 21:38level.
- 21:38Now
- 21:38we
- 21:38gotta
- 21:39back
- 21:39it
- 21:39up
- 21:39with
- 21:40the
- 21:40habits
- 21:41of
- 21:41an
- 21:41icon.
- 21:41Because
- 21:42your
- 21:42icon
- 21:43era
- 21:43every
- 21:44day,
- 21:44it's
- 21:44not
- 21:45a
- 21:45mood
- 21:45or
- 21:45a
- 21:45montage,
- 21:47but
- 21:47muscle
- 21:48memory,
- 21:49big
- 21:49identity
- 21:50shifts
- 21:51stick
- 21:52with
- 21:52small
- 21:53actions
- 21:53on
- 21:54repeat.
- 21:54Partnered
- 21:55with
- 21:55those
- 21:56power
- 21:56moves.
- 21:57Every
- 21:57time
- 21:58you
- 21:58choose
- 21:59a
- 21:59regulated
- 21:59morning,
- 22:00speak
- 22:01a
- 22:01clear
- 22:01boundary
- 22:02or
- 22:02honor
- 22:02your
- 22:02capacity.
- 22:03You
- 22:04are
- 22:04teaching
- 22:04your
- 22:04nervous
- 22:05system.
- 22:06This
- 22:06is
- 22:06who
- 22:06we
- 22:06are
- 22:07now,
- 22:07babe,
- 22:08that
- 22:08repetition,
- 22:09rewires
- 22:10doubt
- 22:10into
- 22:11direction
- 22:12and
- 22:12turns
- 22:13your
- 22:13main
- 22:13character
- 22:13energy
- 22:14from
- 22:14inspiration
- 22:15into
- 22:16implementation.
- 22:17Those
- 22:18tiny.
- 22:19Or
- 22:19big
- 22:20power
- 22:20moves
- 22:21consistently
- 22:22count
- 22:22to
- 22:23putting
- 22:24that
- 22:24phone
- 22:24on
- 22:24do
- 22:25not
- 22:25disturb
- 22:26or
- 22:26having
- 22:27that
- 22:27difficult
- 22:28conversation.
- 22:29Ultimately,
- 22:30taking
- 22:30these
- 22:31actions
- 22:31help
- 22:32you
- 22:32become
- 22:32even
- 22:33more
- 22:33proud
- 22:34of
- 22:34your
- 22:34yourself
- 22:35because
- 22:36you
- 22:36stood
- 22:36up
- 22:37for
- 22:37you
- 22:38and
- 22:38then
- 22:38you
- 22:38realize
- 22:39it's
- 22:39actually
- 22:40easier
- 22:40than
- 22:40you
- 22:41anticipated.
- 22:42So
- 22:42keep
- 22:43stacking
- 22:43all
- 22:44that
- 22:44proof
- 22:45because
- 22:45that
- 22:46is
- 22:46what
- 22:46creates
- 22:47trust
- 22:48and
- 22:48that
- 22:48trust
- 22:49creates
- 22:50radiant
- 22:50confidence
- 22:51that
- 22:51you
- 22:51don't
- 22:51have
- 22:51to
- 22:51perform
- 22:52for.
- 22:53So
- 22:53do
- 22:53a
- 22:53quick
- 22:53identity
- 22:54check.
- 22:54Who
- 22:55am
- 22:55I
- 22:56being
- 22:56today
- 22:57and
- 22:57what
- 22:57is
- 22:57the
- 22:58one
- 22:58aligned
- 22:59action
- 22:59that
- 23:00you'll
- 23:00take
- 23:00to
- 23:01prove
- 23:01it
- 23:01to
- 23:01yourself?
- 23:02And
- 23:02before
- 23:02you
- 23:03hustle,
- 23:04receive,
- 23:05what
- 23:05support
- 23:06do
- 23:06you
- 23:06need
- 23:07in
- 23:07order
- 23:07to
- 23:08move
- 23:08forward?
- 23:09Take
- 23:09a
- 23:09few
- 23:10minutes,
- 23:10take
- 23:11a
- 23:11breath,
- 23:11have
- 23:12a
- 23:12moment
- 23:12of
- 23:12gratitude,
- 23:13and
- 23:13then
- 23:13set
- 23:14the
- 23:14intention.
- 23:15You
- 23:15probably
- 23:15spend
- 23:16all
- 23:16day
- 23:16long
- 23:17anticipating
- 23:18everyone
- 23:18else's
- 23:19needs,
- 23:20but
- 23:20never
- 23:20taking
- 23:21a
- 23:21moment
- 23:22of
- 23:22pause
- 23:23to
- 23:23ask
- 23:23yourself
- 23:24about
- 23:24your
- 23:24own
- 23:24needs.
- 23:25So
- 23:25what
- 23:25is
- 23:26one
- 23:26yes
- 23:27that
- 23:27you
- 23:27can
- 23:27say
- 23:28and
- 23:28mean
- 23:28it?
- 23:28Or
- 23:29what
- 23:29does
- 23:29one
- 23:30know
- 23:30that
- 23:30you
- 23:30can
- 23:31actually
- 23:31honor?
- 23:32And
- 23:32make
- 23:32sure
- 23:32that
- 23:33at
- 23:33the
- 23:33end
- 23:33of
- 23:33the
- 23:33day
- 23:34you
- 23:34take
- 23:34a
- 23:34moment
- 23:35to
- 23:35capture
- 23:36your
- 23:36wins
- 23:36for
- 23:36the
- 23:36day,
- 23:37because
- 23:37that's
- 23:38the
- 23:38proof
- 23:38that's
- 23:39gonna
- 23:39stack
- 23:39up
- 23:40and
- 23:40remind
- 23:40you
- 23:41that
- 23:41it's
- 23:41safe
- 23:42to
- 23:42trust
- 23:42yourself.
- 23:43And
- 23:43what's
- 23:44one
- 23:44habit
- 23:44that
- 23:45you
- 23:45can
- 23:45do
- 23:45each
- 23:46week
- 23:46that
- 23:46aligns
- 23:47you
- 23:47with
- 23:47your
- 23:48icon
- 23:48era?
- 23:49Is
- 23:49it
- 23:49setting
- 23:50up
- 23:50a
- 23:50vision
- 23:51date
- 23:51where
- 23:51you
- 23:51review
- 23:52your
- 23:52goals
- 23:52or
- 23:53refine
- 23:54your
- 23:55one
- 23:55sentence
- 23:56icon
- 23:56era?
- 23:57Or
- 23:58do
- 23:58you
- 23:58take
- 23:58the
- 23:58time
- 23:59to
- 23:59do
- 23:59a
- 23:59capacity
- 24:00audit
- 24:01where
- 24:01you
- 24:01look
- 24:02at
- 24:02where
- 24:02are
- 24:03you
- 24:03overgiving?
- 24:04And
- 24:04where
- 24:05are
- 24:05you
- 24:05undernourished
- 24:07so
- 24:07that
- 24:07you
- 24:07can
- 24:07reallocate
- 24:08appropriately.
- 24:09Or
- 24:10maybe
- 24:10you
- 24:10do
- 24:11an
- 24:11upgrade
- 24:11ritual
- 24:12where
- 24:13you
- 24:13take
- 24:13one
- 24:13small
- 24:14event
- 24:15or
- 24:15even
- 24:15just
- 24:15do
- 24:16a
- 24:16wardrobe
- 24:17tweak
- 24:17that
- 24:18matches
- 24:18the
- 24:19woman
- 24:19your
- 24:20becoming,
- 24:20or
- 24:21one
- 24:21of
- 24:21my
- 24:21favorites,
- 24:22a
- 24:22connection
- 24:23with
- 24:23care
- 24:24moment.
- 24:24Where
- 24:25you
- 24:25reach
- 24:25out
- 24:25to
- 24:26one
- 24:26aligned
- 24:27relationship
- 24:28and
- 24:28let
- 24:28reciprocity
- 24:29lead.
- 24:30Here's
- 24:30the
- 24:31magic
- 24:31habits.
- 24:32Make
- 24:32your
- 24:32standards
- 24:33effortless.
- 24:34When
- 24:35your
- 24:35calendar,
- 24:36your
- 24:36environment,
- 24:37and
- 24:37rituals
- 24:37are
- 24:38aligned,
- 24:39you
- 24:39don't
- 24:39debate
- 24:40your
- 24:40worth
- 24:40in
- 24:41a
- 24:41moment.
- 24:41Because
- 24:42your
- 24:42worth
- 24:43is
- 24:44already
- 24:44your
- 24:45default.
- 24:46That
- 24:46means
- 24:46fewer
- 24:47spirals,
- 24:48clearer
- 24:48decisions
- 24:49and
- 24:49boundaries
- 24:50that
- 24:50build.
- 24:51Your
- 24:51identity
- 24:52is
- 24:53backed
- 24:53by
- 24:53your
- 24:54habits.
- 24:54Your
- 24:55habits
- 24:55become
- 24:55evidence,
- 24:57all
- 24:57of
- 24:57which
- 24:57feeds
- 24:58back
- 24:58into
- 24:58the
- 24:59identity
- 24:59of
- 24:59who
- 25:00you
- 25:00are.
- 25:01Being
- 25:02loop
- 25:02it
- 25:02daily,
- 25:03and
- 25:03your
- 25:04icon
- 25:04era
- 25:05isn't
- 25:05something
- 25:06that
- 25:06you
- 25:06chase,
- 25:07it's
- 25:07just
- 25:08the
- 25:08way
- 25:08you
- 25:08move
- 25:09through
- 25:10every
- 25:10room
- 25:10you
- 25:10enter.
- 25:11Now
- 25:11friend
- 25:12here
- 25:12is
- 25:12one
- 25:13of
- 25:13our
- 25:13favorite
- 25:13parts.
- 25:14Our
- 25:14self-love
- 25:15two
- 25:16step
- 25:16because
- 25:16here
- 25:17we
- 25:17can
- 25:17make
- 25:18it
- 25:18real.
- 25:19This
- 25:19is
- 25:19the
- 25:20spotlight
- 25:20switch.
- 25:21It's
- 25:21your
- 25:22quick
- 25:22on
- 25:22demand
- 25:23identity,
- 25:24reset
- 25:25that
- 25:25self-love
- 25:26two
- 25:26step
- 25:26that
- 25:26you
- 25:26can
- 25:26use
- 25:27when
- 25:27you
- 25:27catch
- 25:28yourself.
- 25:28Second
- 25:29guessing
- 25:30or
- 25:30overexplaining.
- 25:31Even
- 25:32people
- 25:32pleasing
- 25:33or
- 25:33waiting
- 25:33on
- 25:34someone
- 25:34else's
- 25:34reply
- 25:35to
- 25:35decide
- 25:36how
- 25:37you're
- 25:37gonna
- 25:37feel
- 25:37or
- 25:38move
- 25:38about
- 25:38your
- 25:38day.
- 25:39It
- 25:39pulls
- 25:40you
- 25:40out
- 25:40of
- 25:40performing
- 25:41and
- 25:42back
- 25:42into
- 25:42your
- 25:43main
- 25:43character
- 25:43energy.
- 25:44So
- 25:44you
- 25:44move
- 25:45from
- 25:45overthinking
- 25:46to
- 25:46aligned
- 25:47action
- 25:47within
- 25:47minutes.
- 25:49Just
- 25:49think
- 25:50before
- 25:50you
- 25:50text
- 25:51back
- 25:51out
- 25:51of
- 25:51anxiety
- 25:52before
- 25:53you
- 25:53say
- 25:53yes,
- 25:54that
- 25:54you
- 25:54don't
- 25:55even
- 25:55mean,
- 25:56or
- 25:56before
- 25:56you
- 25:57shrink
- 25:57your
- 25:57standard,
- 25:58we're
- 25:58gonna
- 25:58flip
- 25:59the
- 25:59switch
- 25:59and
- 26:00lead
- 26:00instead.
- 26:01So
- 26:01here's
- 26:02your
- 26:02two
- 26:02step
- 26:03step
- 26:03one.
- 26:04Cast
- 26:04yourself
- 26:05in
- 26:06presence
- 26:06and
- 26:07power.
- 26:07Just
- 26:08pause
- 26:09and
- 26:09place
- 26:09your
- 26:09hand
- 26:10on
- 26:10your
- 26:10heart
- 26:10and
- 26:11ask
- 26:11yourself,
- 26:12if
- 26:13I
- 26:13loved
- 26:13myself
- 26:14loudly
- 26:15right
- 26:15now,
- 26:16what
- 26:17would
- 26:17I
- 26:17do
- 26:17next?
- 26:18Is
- 26:18it
- 26:18get
- 26:18a
- 26:19fresh
- 26:19cup
- 26:19of
- 26:19water?
- 26:20Take
- 26:20the
- 26:20walk,
- 26:20say
- 26:21the
- 26:21boundary,
- 26:21send
- 26:22the
- 26:22email.
- 26:23The
- 26:23important
- 26:23thing
- 26:24is
- 26:24to
- 26:24be
- 26:24present.
- 26:25Stand
- 26:26in
- 26:26your
- 26:26power
- 26:27and
- 26:27take
- 26:28action
- 26:28from
- 26:28the
- 26:28place
- 26:29of
- 26:30loving
- 26:30yourself.
- 26:31And
- 26:31step
- 26:32two,
- 26:32collect
- 26:33those
- 26:33receipts,
- 26:34friend,
- 26:35because
- 26:35proof
- 26:36equals
- 26:37confidence,
- 26:38right?
- 26:38Write
- 26:39two
- 26:39of
- 26:39your
- 26:39wins
- 26:40from
- 26:40today,
- 26:41because
- 26:41icons
- 26:42don't
- 26:42wait
- 26:42for
- 26:43miracles.
- 26:44They
- 26:44measure
- 26:44momentum.
- 26:45So
- 26:46use
- 26:46it
- 26:46anytime
- 26:47your
- 26:47piece
- 26:48feels
- 26:48negotiable.
- 26:49Just
- 26:50one
- 26:50switch,
- 26:51and
- 26:51you're
- 26:51back
- 26:51in
- 26:52the
- 26:52role
- 26:52that
- 26:52you
- 26:52were
- 26:53born
- 26:53to
- 26:53play.
- 26:54Crown
- 26:54on
- 26:55Queen.
- 26:55Now,
- 26:56let
- 26:56me
- 26:56pour
- 26:56into
- 26:57you
- 26:57right
- 26:57quick.
- 26:57My
- 26:58friend.
- 26:58Abundance
- 26:59isn't
- 27:00a
- 27:00chase,
- 27:01it's
- 27:02a
- 27:02climate,
- 27:03and
- 27:03the
- 27:03temperature
- 27:04of
- 27:04the
- 27:04thermostat
- 27:05is
- 27:06set
- 27:06by
- 27:07how
- 27:07deeply
- 27:08you
- 27:08know,
- 27:09like
- 27:10and
- 27:10love
- 27:10yourself.
- 27:11When
- 27:11you
- 27:12stop
- 27:12outsourcing
- 27:13your
- 27:13worth
- 27:14and
- 27:15start
- 27:15standing
- 27:15in
- 27:15who
- 27:15you
- 27:16are,
- 27:17life
- 27:17stops.
- 27:18Feeling
- 27:19like
- 27:19knocking
- 27:20and
- 27:20begging
- 27:21at
- 27:21doors
- 27:22and
- 27:22starts
- 27:23feeling
- 27:23like
- 27:24you
- 27:24are
- 27:24unlocking
- 27:25your
- 27:25own
- 27:26home.
- 27:26The
- 27:26moment
- 27:27you
- 27:27stop
- 27:28negotiating
- 27:29with
- 27:29your
- 27:29worth
- 27:30and
- 27:30start
- 27:31narrating
- 27:32from
- 27:32your
- 27:32power
- 27:33life
- 27:34rearranges
- 27:35to
- 27:35meet
- 27:36you
- 27:36there.
- 27:37Rooms
- 27:37change
- 27:38when
- 27:38you
- 27:38enter
- 27:39with
- 27:39clarity.
- 27:40Standards
- 27:41change
- 27:41when
- 27:41you
- 27:41decide
- 27:42they
- 27:42will
- 27:43and
- 27:43love.
- 27:44I'm
- 27:44talking
- 27:45real
- 27:46steady,
- 27:47healthy
- 27:47love
- 27:48rushes
- 27:49in
- 27:49when
- 27:49you
- 27:50become
- 27:51it's
- 27:51safest.
- 27:52Home.
- 27:53Your
- 27:54icon
- 27:54era
- 27:55isn't
- 27:55waiting
- 27:55for
- 27:55permission.
- 27:57It's
- 27:57waiting
- 27:58for
- 27:58your
- 27:58presence.
- 27:59So
- 27:59walk
- 28:00in
- 28:00friend.
- 28:01Designing
- 28:02your
- 28:02icon
- 28:02era
- 28:03gives
- 28:03your
- 28:04main
- 28:04character
- 28:04energy
- 28:05a
- 28:05horizon,
- 28:07a
- 28:07vivid
- 28:07picture
- 28:08to
- 28:08move
- 28:08towards
- 28:09instead
- 28:10of
- 28:10some
- 28:10blur
- 28:11to
- 28:11hustle
- 28:12into
- 28:13design
- 28:13it
- 28:14like
- 28:14you
- 28:14mean
- 28:15it.
- 28:15Your
- 28:16icon
- 28:16era
- 28:17is
- 28:17a
- 28:17sensory
- 28:18blueprint.
- 28:19What
- 28:19it
- 28:19looks
- 28:20like,
- 28:20feels
- 28:21like.
- 28:21Sounds
- 28:22like
- 28:22when
- 28:23you
- 28:23live
- 28:24as
- 28:24the
- 28:24happiest,
- 28:25healthiest,
- 28:27most
- 28:27whole
- 28:28version
- 28:29of
- 28:29yourself,
- 28:30just
- 28:30think
- 28:31about
- 28:31the
- 28:31way
- 28:31that
- 28:31it
- 28:32looks.
- 28:32Is
- 28:33it
- 28:33a
- 28:33cleaner
- 28:33calendar?
- 28:34Elevated
- 28:35basics,
- 28:36a
- 28:36home
- 28:37that
- 28:37supports
- 28:38your
- 28:38rituals
- 28:39like
- 28:39water
- 28:40by
- 28:40your
- 28:40bed,
- 28:41a
- 28:41journal
- 28:42on
- 28:42the
- 28:42nightstand
- 28:42and
- 28:43the
- 28:43phone
- 28:43on
- 28:44do
- 28:44not
- 28:44disturb
- 28:45when
- 28:45it's
- 28:45time
- 28:45for
- 28:45you
- 28:45to
- 28:46fully
- 28:46wind
- 28:46down.
- 28:47It
- 28:47is
- 28:47outfits
- 28:48that
- 28:48fits
- 28:49your
- 28:49life,
- 28:50not
- 28:50your
- 28:51old
- 28:51story.
- 28:52The
- 28:52workspace
- 28:53that
- 28:54invites
- 28:55focus.
- 28:56The
- 28:56dates
- 28:56and
- 28:56friendships
- 28:57that
- 28:58look
- 28:58like
- 28:58reciprocity.
- 29:00The
- 29:00feels
- 29:01of
- 29:01it
- 29:02all
- 29:02regulated,
- 29:03warm,
- 29:04radiant,
- 29:05confidence,
- 29:06humming
- 29:06under
- 29:07your
- 29:07skin,
- 29:08peace
- 29:08in
- 29:08your
- 29:09body
- 29:09after
- 29:10you've
- 29:10given
- 29:10a
- 29:10clean
- 29:11and
- 29:11clear,
- 29:12no
- 29:12spaciousness
- 29:14because
- 29:14you
- 29:15stop
- 29:15negotiating
- 29:16with
- 29:16your
- 29:17needs.
- 29:18It
- 29:18sounds
- 29:19like
- 29:19music
- 29:19to
- 29:19my
- 29:20ears,
- 29:20right?
- 29:21Your
- 29:22voice
- 29:22steady
- 29:23and
- 29:23kind
- 29:24shoes
- 29:25clicking
- 29:25into
- 29:26rooms,
- 29:26you
- 29:26actually
- 29:27wanna
- 29:27be
- 29:27in
- 29:28the
- 29:28playlist
- 29:29that
- 29:29matches
- 29:30your
- 29:30intentions.
- 29:32Think
- 29:32receiving
- 29:33as
- 29:34slow
- 29:34r
- 29:34and
- 29:34b,
- 29:35that
- 29:35creates
- 29:36upbeat
- 29:37instrumentals.
- 29:38It
- 29:38even
- 29:39sounds
- 29:39like
- 29:39the
- 29:40silence
- 29:41you
- 29:41choose.
- 29:42You
- 29:43have
- 29:43the
- 29:43power
- 29:44to
- 29:44make
- 29:44it
- 29:44so
- 29:45specific
- 29:46when
- 29:47you
- 29:47sketch
- 29:48the
- 29:48happiest,
- 29:49healthiest,
- 29:50basking
- 29:50in
- 29:51your
- 29:51wholeness
- 29:52version
- 29:52of
- 29:53you,
- 29:53how
- 29:54she
- 29:54dresses,
- 29:55decides,
- 29:56loves
- 29:57resets.
- 29:59You
- 29:59create
- 29:59a
- 30:00living
- 30:00blueprint,
- 30:01suddenly
- 30:02your
- 30:02daily
- 30:03choices
- 30:04have
- 30:04context.
- 30:05That
- 30:05morning
- 30:06walk
- 30:06isn't
- 30:07random.
- 30:08It's
- 30:08how
- 30:09she
- 30:09regulates
- 30:11that
- 30:11no,
- 30:11isn't
- 30:12scary.
- 30:13It's
- 30:13a
- 30:13boundary
- 30:14that
- 30:15builds.
- 30:15And
- 30:16that
- 30:16early
- 30:16bedtime
- 30:17isn't
- 30:18boring.
- 30:18It's
- 30:19devotion.
- 30:20Vision
- 30:21turns
- 30:21discipline
- 30:22into
- 30:22desire.
- 30:23You
- 30:24are
- 30:24not
- 30:24forcing
- 30:24change.
- 30:25You
- 30:25are
- 30:26following
- 30:26directions
- 30:27from
- 30:27your
- 30:27future,
- 30:28and
- 30:29the
- 30:29payoff
- 30:29is
- 30:30momentum.
- 30:30You
- 30:31can
- 30:31feel
- 30:32a
- 30:32clean
- 30:33icon,
- 30:34era.
- 30:34Keeps
- 30:35your
- 30:36nervous
- 30:36system
- 30:37anchored
- 30:38and
- 30:38your
- 30:38actions
- 30:39aligned.
- 30:40So
- 30:40confidence
- 30:41stops
- 30:41spiking
- 30:42and
- 30:42starts
- 30:43radiating.
- 30:44You
- 30:45measure
- 30:45progress
- 30:46by
- 30:46proof,
- 30:47not
- 30:47perfection.
- 30:48One
- 30:49aligned,
- 30:50yes.
- 30:51One
- 30:51honest
- 30:52conversation.
- 30:53One
- 30:53self-love.
- 30:54Two
- 30:54step.
- 30:55When
- 30:55you
- 30:56start
- 30:56to
- 30:56second
- 30:57guess
- 30:57it
- 30:57all
- 30:58bit
- 30:58by
- 30:59bit,
- 30:59brick
- 31:00by
- 31:00brick,
- 31:01life
- 31:01begins
- 31:02to
- 31:02match
- 31:03the
- 31:03picture
- 31:04you
- 31:04drew
- 31:05out
- 31:05happier,
- 31:06healthier,
- 31:07feeling
- 31:08complete
- 31:09in
- 31:09your
- 31:10own
- 31:10wholeness
- 31:11because
- 31:12you
- 31:12are
- 31:12no
- 31:12longer
- 31:12waiting
- 31:13for
- 31:13some
- 31:14day
- 31:14or
- 31:14someone
- 31:16you
- 31:16are
- 31:16rehearsing
- 31:17today
- 31:18for
- 31:18the
- 31:18role
- 31:19you
- 31:19already
- 31:19claimed.
- 31:20Walk
- 31:21like
- 31:21you
- 31:21are
- 31:21aligned.
- 31:23Speak
- 31:23like
- 31:24you
- 31:24are
- 31:24certain.
- 31:25Choose
- 31:26like
- 31:26you
- 31:26are
- 31:26already
- 31:27her
- 31:28because
- 31:28you
- 31:28are.
- 31:29Crown
- 31:29on
- 31:29Queen.
- 31:30We
- 31:30are
- 31:30not
- 31:31chasing,
- 31:32we
- 31:32are
- 31:32constructing.
- 31:33I'm
- 31:33sending
- 31:34you
- 31:34a
- 31:34big
- 31:35virtual
- 31:36hug.
- 31:36I'm
- 31:37so
- 31:37proud
- 31:37of
- 31:37you.
- 31:38Cheers
- 31:38to
- 31:38you
- 31:39in
- 31:39your
- 31:40icon
- 31:40era
- 31:41in
- 31:41the
- 31:41making.
- 31:43Thanks
- 31:43for
- 31:43being
- 31:43here,
- 31:44friend.
- 31:44If
- 31:45this
- 31:45poured
- 31:46into
- 31:46you,
- 31:46hit
- 31:47follow
- 31:47and
- 31:47leave
- 31:48a
- 31:48quick
- 31:48five
- 31:49star
- 31:49review.
- 31:50It
- 31:50helps
- 31:50more
- 31:51confident
- 31:51and
- 31:51empowered
- 31:52women
- 31:52find
- 31:52us.
- 31:53I'll
- 31:53see
- 31:54you
- 31:54in
- 31:54the
- 31:54next
- 31:55episode.
- 31:55Until
- 31:56then,
- 31:56keep
- 31:57shining,
- 31:57keep
- 31:58growing,
- 31:58and
- 31:58keep
- 31:59stepping
- 31:59into
- 32:00the
- 32:00confident,
- 32:00empowered
- 32:01woman
- 32:01you
- 32:02are.
- 32:02Crown
- 32:03on
- 32:03Queen.
- 32:04We
- 32:04don't
- 32:04settle.
- 32:05We
- 32:05shine
- 32:06all
- 32:06because
- 32:07together
- 32:07we
- 32:07can
- 32:08encourage
- 32:09over
- 32:09everything.