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PF Unfiltered
Welcome to “PF Unfiltered,” where Pastor Femi Omotayo (PF) shares real-life wisdom and candid insights on life’s toughest questions. Join hosts Tunde “T Max” Makanjuola and Seun Allen-Taylor for unfiltered conversations on faith, money, relationships, and more. No sugar coating, just honest dialogue packed with practical gems to help you navigate life. Subscribe now for your weekly dose of PF’s authentic and insightful advice. Real Talk. Real Faith. Real Life.
Episodes
- PF Unfiltered
Should Your Pastor Be Your Friend?
Should your pastor be your friend or is there a line? It's Pastor Appreciation Month, and PF gets honest about the things he'll never tell his congregation…
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I Am Spiritual But Not Religious 2
Why do we cancel people based on a snapshot of their life, when God judges by something we can't even see? In Part 2 of "I Believe in God But I'm Not…
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Why Young Men Are Running Back To Church And Young Women Are Walking Out
Is the Bible misogynistic, or have we only been reading one verse of it?For the first time in 25 years, men are out-attending women at church (Barna, 2025)…
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I Believe In God But I'm Not Religious
"I believe in God, but I'm not religious." You've heard it, maybe you've said it. But what does it actually mean, and is it enough?Pastor Femi (PF), Tunde…
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Giving vs Exploitation: Black Tax, Billing & Scams
Should you keep giving when you know some of those requests are scams? PF has a surprisingly freeing answer about black tax, generosity, and the line between…
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The Heart Of Service
Everybody says they want to serve so why does modern church so often feel like a room full of people just watching? Season 5 is back, and Pastor Femi, Esther…
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Why Dating “Potential” Is Ruining Christian Relationships
What happens when someone checks all your boxes… but still isn’t right for you?In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF and the crew respond to real audience…
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Are You Following Christ Or Just Waiting For A Miracle?
Where did miracles go?In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF tackles one of the biggest questions many Christians quietly ask: why does it feel like we don’t see…
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We Look To Apple To Define iPhones, But We Won't Let God Define Us
Who are you, really? Not your job title, not your bank account, not your relationship status. If all of that disappeared tomorrow, what's left? In this…
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What If Babylon Is The System You’re Living In?
What if Babylon isn’t just a Bible story, a government, or a corrupt culture “out there” but the very system we’re all living in every day? In this episode of…
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You're Not Stuck. You're Just Comparing
Why do you feel stuck? Because you feel like you're not working on purpose. You haven't figured out the call of God. No, no, no I don't give people that much…
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Stop Fighting Witches. The Real Battle Is Your Faith
What if everyone you call your enemy that coworker, that ex, that "village person," that ops was never actually your enemy in the first place? In this episode…
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Why Your "Perfect" Life Feels So EMPTY
Feeling like your life is on autopilot? You're not depressed you're just living the life your parents prayed for. Stop chasing artificial highs. In this…
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Are Men Being Asked to Be Vulnerable or Set Up to Regret It?
Why do so many men struggle to be emotionally available and why does vulnerability sometimes get punished instead of rewarded? In this episode of PF…
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The Soft Life Gospel is a SCAM
Is the "soft life" actually a biblical promise or a dangerous prosperity scam? Pastor Femi unpacks the real cost of following Christ today.We love to scroll…
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Are Pastors Using AI? The TRUTH About Sermons
Pastor Femi tackles the controversial rise of AI in the church, addressing whether it's a tool for growth or a threat to genuine faith. We discuss the…
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Why You Are Always STRESSED (Stop the Hustle)
Are you waking up with anxiety? You're not alone. If you're tired of chasing money, social status, and your parents dreams, it's time to audit your life. We…
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Why Your Prayers Aren't Working (And How to Fix It)
Are you shouting into the wind? Prayer isn't a magical performance or a production to impress God—it’s a conversation. We’re breaking down why many of us…
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Honoring Parents Does not mean Bankrupting You
Are you bankrupting your own future to fix your parents' poor financial choices? You love them, but ‘honoring your parents’ doesn’t mean losing your autonomy…
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Lust, Attraction and the Truth Nobody Says Out Loud
Churches used to talk about lust all the time. Now they don't — and PF has a theory about why. In this episode, PF, Esther, and Tunde tackle the conversation…
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God's Chosen ones don't go to Church?
This conversation gets heated in the best way. The crew unpacks what it actually means to be the church not a building, not a concert, not a social club but…
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Honor vs. Obey: What the Bible actually Says About Parents
Growing up in an African household often comes with strict, unwritten rules—don’t question authority, don’t challenge your parents, and always respect your…
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How Much Money Is Enough?" - Contentment, Greed & What You Actually Need
If you had a billion dollars, what would you do? PF's answer might surprise you — and then he flips the question entirely. In this episode, PF, Esther…
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This One Habit Is Quietly Killing Your Marriage
One word said casually, said a thousand times nearly broke a 10-year marriage. It wasn't cheating. It wasn't money. It was something most people say every day…
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"Serving God Is Not a Sentence of Poverty" | The Tithing Debate
Should Christians still tithe? And why do people lose their minds when a pastor wears a nice watch?In this episode, PF, Kenneth, and Esther tackle one of the…
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You Want Her to Cook, Clean, and Work 9-5? Are You Mad?"
In this unfiltered conversation, the crew tackles the gender roles debate head-on: Why are men emotionally unavailable? Why do women want men to cry... but…
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He Cheated in Year 2. They Just Celebrated 20 Years. Here’s How.
This Valentine’s week, skip the couple goals content. Here’s a real marriage. He had a full-blown affair in year 2 of their marriage. She flew to Oklahoma…
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Passion ≠ Purpose: Why Being Good at Something Doesn't Mean You Should Do It
Should you quit your job and chase your passion? Not so fast. Pastor Femi unpacks why passion and purpose aren't the same thing—and why confusing them could…
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Why Your New Year Goals Are Already Failing | Desire vs Discipline
Welcome to Season 4 of PF Unfiltered! We're kicking off the year with a conversation about the elephant in the room: why your New Year resolutions are probably…
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What We Learned in 2025 & Why 2026 Won't Be Easy
In this conversation, the PF and team reflect on their experiences in 2025, discussing personal growth, challenges faced, and the importance of community and…
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Should Christians celebrate Christmas?
Pastor Femi, Esther, and Kenneth tackle the most debated question in church culture with biblical truth and unfiltered honesty. The answer might surprise you…
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Why Young People Are Leaving Church (And How to Find Your Way Back)
"If you leave church because you are hurt, you never understood what church was about." - Pastor Femi Controversial? Absolutely. But before you comment, hear…
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Ask us Anything!
We’re opening up the floor! Drop your raw, honest, unfiltered questions about faith, relationships, real-life struggles, and everything in between. No topic is…
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How to Be Thankful When Life Is a Mess | PF Unfiltered
In this heartfelt Thanksgiving episode of PF Unfiltered, the crew tackles the hardest kind of gratitude - being thankful when life isn't going according to…
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The Money Fight Every Couple Has
In this episode of PF Unfiltered, PF sits down with Dami and Lolade Akibola, an incredible couple to discuss one of the most challenging aspects of marriage…
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Can Christians Be Depressed?
In this episode of PF Unfiltered, the hosts delve into the complexities of emotions, mental health, and seasonal depression. They discuss personal experiences…
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Night Vigils & 401(k)s: How Place Shapes Our Faith
In this episode of PF Unfiltered, hosts Esther and Tunde engage in a candid discussion about the differences in Christian faith practices between Nigeria and…
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The Pressure to Have It All Together
In this episode PF gets candid about almost breaking under the weight of perfection, how performing perfection nearly cost him his peace and how honesty…
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Confidence over Boundaries
What does it mean to have boundaries as a Christian? In this episode, PF Unfiltered explores how fear, insecurity, and people-pleasing often keep us from…
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Navigating Relationships: The Green Flag Guide
In this unfiltered conversation, Pastor Femi, Esther, and Tunde flip the script on red flags — and dive deep into what green flags really look like in…
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Why I Left at the Peak w/Pastor Wale Adenuga
Ever felt stuck between who you’ve been and who you’re called to become? In this episode, Pastor Wale Adenuga shares why he stepped down after 8 years of…
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Relationship Red Flags
From wig lace and too much makeup to love bombing and selfish friendships, the PF Unfiltered crew dives into the petty and the serious signs you shouldn’t…
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How to Disagree (Without Starting WWIII)
How do we disagree without blowing up the relationship? In this lively PF Unfiltered episode, PF, Esther, and T dig into real-life conflict: tone vs. words…
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Should Pastors Get Paid?
Season 3 of PF Unfiltered kicks off with a big question: Should pastors, worship leaders, and church creatives be paid—or is ministry meant to be free? Pastor…
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If I Had One Week to Live…
What would PF do if God gave him just one week? Hear his honest, heartfelt answer—alongside hilarious banter, some sandwich betrayal, and lessons on staying…
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Pregnant on Day One
They barely knew each other. “The Lord said...” turned into “We’re pregnant” on day one. In this hilarious yet sobering episode, the crew and Guest, Pastor AK…
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The Illusion of Control: Finding Excellence Through Surrender
In this heartfelt and unfiltered episode, PF sits down with Emmy Award-winning filmmaker Abi Matesun (Malekfotos) to unpack the tension between control…
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Faith in Political Turmoil
As headlines grow darker and policies grow more unpredictable, this episode calls Christians back to the peace of God that surpasses understanding. Through…
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Witchcraft in the Modern World: Real or Ridiculous?
From ancestral altars to pop culture trends, we unpack thetruth about witchcraft—what it really means biblically, how it shows up today,and why it’s more than…
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The Truth Behind Unanswered Prayers
In this powerful episode of PF Unfiltered, we sit with the tension of unanswered prayers and the emotional weight they leave behind. Through personal stories…
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Boundaries Around Dating in the Church and in Society Today 2
In Part 2 of our PF Unfiltered conversation, we pick up where we left off—taking the boundary talk even deeper. This time, we’re unpacking how past…
- PF Unfiltered
Boundaries Around Dating in the Church and in Society Today
Dating in today's world can feel like a tug-of-war between faith and culture. In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we're breaking down what real boundaries look…
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You Can’t Earn God’s Love—So Stop Trying
In this heartfelt and no-fluff episode of PF Unfiltered, the crew dives headfirst into the big question: Do we truly love God? We wrestle with the tension…
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Vagabond to Megaborn — On Growth, Faith, and God's Grace
What do you do when you're on a bus with no destination? PF Unfiltered dives into deep spiritual and practical questions from our listeners — from financial…
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Delete the DMs, Delete the Marriage !!!
When digital boundaries get blurred, do you delete the DMs or reevaluate the whole relationship? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we dive into the sticky gray…
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Conditional Love: Let’s Be Honest
Why do we judge others by their actions but ourselves by our intentions? We explore the real meaning of love through biblical lens, mental gymnastics, and…
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The Danger of Forgetting What God Has Done
You asked for $500. God gave you $250. Are you still grateful? In this episode, Esther and Pastor Femi explore how entitlement can blind us to answered…
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The Dark Side of Tradition: A Raw Conversation w/ Praise Fowowe
Pastor Femi Omotayo sits down with Praise Fowowe to discuss the deep impact of childhood trauma, the power of personal transformation, and the role of family…
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We Missed This Week’s Episode (But Here’s What’s Coming)
There’s no new episode this week, but we’re still here! 💛 Life gets busy sometimes, and we had to hit pause—but we’ll be back soon with more impactful content…
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Letting Go to Follow Christ: What Are We Holding Onto?
In this episode, we dive deep into what it means to truly know Christ and follow Him. From personal transformation to the struggle of letting go of material…