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The Zachary Stockill Podcast
Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy, Relationship Advice & More. Presented by Author and Coach Zachary Stockill from RetroactiveJealousy.com.
Episodes
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Top-3 Retroactive Jealousy Questions EVERY Sufferer Should Ask [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share three questions that I believe every retroactive jealousy sufferer should ask themselves at least once. Read on or watch…
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“What if My Girlfriend is LYING About Her Past?” Q & A [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I want to share a few thoughts for people who are bothered by their partner’s past, and wondering whether their partner is being entirely…
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Positive Masculinity vs. “Fake Alpha Males:” My Thoughts [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I offer a bit of a warning to modern men to be wary of phony masculine role models in the world today. I want to share a few of my thoughts…
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These Are SO Important: My Top “Green Flags” in Dating [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share my top “Green Flags” in dating–because looking only for “red flags” is not enough. Read on or watch below to learn all…
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Intrusive Thoughts About Your Partner’s Past: My #1 Technique [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I want to share my #1 perspective for dealing with intrusive thoughts, how to overcome them, and how to start the process of rewiring our…
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Men in the Red Pill: My #1 Message For You [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I want to share my (gasp!) nuanced take on the “Red Pill” online men’s movement. And share a few thoughts for men who are “flirting” with the…
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Retroactive Jealousy Course Testimonial: Listen to Guy’s Story [VIDEO]
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What is “Self-Acceptance?” A Politically-Incorrect Take [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to offer my answer to the question “What is self-acceptance?” and how this is related to overcoming retroactive jealousy. Read on…
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Boundaries and Values in Relationships: A Simple Explainer [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I want to offer some thoughts about boundaries and values in relationships. I want to share a couple of ways of thinking about boundaries and…
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Get Started Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Here’s How [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about where you can start with my work if you’re ready to get serious about beating retroactive jealousy for good ASAP…
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The Truth About Retroactive Jealousy: STOP Doing This [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the “flipside” of taking proactive steps to beat retroactive jealousy, and how identifying what NOT to do is equally…
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“How Do I Stop Blaming My Partner for Retroactive Jealousy?” [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to respond to a viewer’s question of what to do when we feel like other people “makes us feel” a certain way. Read on to learn more…
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Freedom From Retroactive Jealousy: Listen to Toni’s Story [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I had an inspiring conversation with Toni, a retroactive jealousy survivor. Read or watch below to hear Toni’s retroactive jealousy…
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Retroactive Jealousy and “Anti-Fragility:” This is Your Opportunity [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share my ideas about anti-fragility, how it’s different from mere resilience, and how it’s directly related to retroactive…
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Relationship Red Flags: What I Watch Out For [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share my personal views about “relationship red flags;” things that I look out for when considering a long-term relationship, or…
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Retroactive Jealousy Definition: DON’T Get It Wrong [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share my own definition of retroactive jealousy, and help to clear this up a bit. Read on or watch below to learn more about my…
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Message for Retroactive Jealousy Sufferers: You NEED To Hear This [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share an important message about retroactive jealousy that every retroactive jealousy sufferer needs to hear. Read on to hear an…
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Retroactive Jealousy Goals: How to Get Clarity and Motivation [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how you can define and specify the goal of beating retroactive jealousy for good as soon as possible. Read on to…
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“My Girlfriend’s Number is Too Much To Handle:” Think About This [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share a way to reframe the question, “Does the number of people my girlfriend had sex with matter?” Hopefully, this will help…
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How to Stop Retroactive Jealousy: “Begin With a Win” [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share some big lessons that I learned over the past year. I’m also going to talk about how this can help you beat retroactive or…
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My Antidote to Retroactive Jealousy: Listen to This [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share a few perspectives about struggling with retroactive jealousy if you’re living in the Western world in the 21st century…
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Retroactive Jealousy Recovery: What Does It Feel Like? [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about what it’s like to overcome retroactive jealousy and whether or not retroactive jealousy is still an issue for me in…
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Retroactive Jealousy Survivors: 5 Key Lessons from Last Year [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share my top-5 lessons from the past year for retroactive jealousy survivors. Watch the video below, or read below to learn more…
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Tips for Retroactive Jealousy Triggers: These Really Help [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share three practical, simple tips that you can use to start dealing with retroactive jealousy triggers. Watch or read below for…
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Male Retroactive Jealousy Sufferers: DON’T Make This Mistake [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a social trend, a unique challenge among male retroactive jealousy sufferers, which is only getting worse. So: what…
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Overcoming Intrusive Jealous Thoughts: Remember This [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how remembering that I’m “crazy” helps me stay sane. Watch the video below for a counterintuitive approach for…
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Dealing with Jealous Thoughts: A Strange, Effective Technique [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share a bizarre but effective technique for getting through things like obsessive and retroactive jealousy. So: what’s a better…
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The #1 Retroactive Jealousy Lie: You CANNOT Believe It [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share the number one lie that most retroactive jealousy sufferers tell themselves at least once a day. So: what is the #1…
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“My Husband Has Retroactive Jealousy… And It Destroyed Us” [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share a painful lesson that at least one retroactive jealousy sufferer is currently learning. How does it feel if your husband…
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Meditation for Beating Jealousy: DON’T Believe These Myths [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the virtues and benefits of meditation. I’m also going to dispel some of the myths around meditation. So: why is…
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Retroactive Jealousy Testimonial: Simon’s Story [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I had a revealing and inspiring conversation with Simon, a retroactive jealousy survivor. Read or watch below to hear Simon’s retroactive…
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Retroactive Jealousy Books for Men: My Top-5 List [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to recommend five books which I believe every male retroactive jealousy sufferer should read. So: what are my top-5 recommended…
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“Tell My Girlfriend About Retroactive Jealousy?” My Response [VIDEO]
Can you tell your girlfriend about your retroactive jealousy? Yes. You can explain what you are struggling with without describing every intrusive thought…
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Yearly Review Practice: How To Conduct One For Yourself [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about my yearly review process. I’m going to show you exactly how to do one for yourself and how this can help you achieve…
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Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast Testimonial: Nolan’s Story [VIDEO]
In today’s video, we’re going to hear from Nolan, who struggled with intense retroactive jealousy, and how my course, Get Over Your Partner’s Past Fast…
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Causes of Retroactive Jealousy: Ever Think About This One? [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about the number one mistake people make when they fall in love, particularly younger people. And that is: spending way too…
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“Should I Lower My Dating Standards?” My Opinion [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to the questions: “What happens if you’re out there in the dating world, and you’ve found out that the world is not living up to…
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How to Avoid Irrational Jealousy: My #1 Tip [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share a crucial message to set the tone for your relationship as early as possible to minimize the odds of chaos, drama…
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Stoic Philosophy for Overcoming Jealousy: 8 CRUCIAL Lessons [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a post by the Daily Stoic, featuring eight lessons that will help you overcome retroactive jealousy. So: what can we…
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Trust Issues in a Relationship: How to Work Through Them [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who is struggling with trust issues and wants some advice on how to get started working through these relationship…
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“Snooping Through My Partner’s Phone:” How to Stop [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I wanted to respond to a question: “How do I resist the urge to snoop through my partner’s phone?” So: how do you stop snooping through your…
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Start Beating Retroactive Jealousy: Listen to This [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I will share a very important message for anyone who’s on the fence about getting started putting in the work toward overcoming retroactive…
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“Male Simping:” What It Is, and Why It’s So Toxic [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about a male phenomenon that I see all around me. I’m going to share a message that I think a lot of guys really need to…
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Retroactive Jealousy and Personal Development: Your Journey [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share what comes after retroactive jealousy for those of us who actually work our way through it. So: how should you approach…
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How Young Men Can Find Purpose: My #1 Tip [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share an idea that gave me a lot of clarity, meaning, and purpose in my life where previously some of that meaning and purpose…
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Perspective for Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: Consider This [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share one of my all-time favorite perspectives in life that helps me stay grounded, overcome retroactive jealousy, and just…
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Partner’s Character In Question? Think About This [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share my number one tip for anyone trying to assess anyone’s character. Zachary Stockill: A lot of people who come to me are…
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Retroactive Jealousy Community: Why It’s So Valuable [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share two often overlooked recipes for healing from retroactive jealousy. So: why could your own retroactive jealousy community…
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Bad Day With Retroactive Jealousy? Listen to This… [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to talk about how to handle the advanced stages of overcoming retroactive jealousy when you encounter “bumps in the road.” So, how…
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“Should Guys Watch Porn?” A Nuanced Perspective [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to explore pornography in-depth and provide some food for thought when you’re struggling with intrusive thoughts and obsessive…
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Overcoming Intrusive Thoughts: One Way To “Label” Them [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share one of my favourite ways to think about retroactive jealousy. So: how to start overcoming intrusive thoughts? Zachary…
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Retroactive Jealousy is an Opportunity (Yes, Really) [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to prove to you that if you’re struggling with retroactive or obsessive jealousy, it’s actually a blessing in disguise. So, why…
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“Asking About My Partner’s Past:” What’s the Right Method? [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share why it’s usually a bad idea to ask your partner endless questions about their past. So, why is it important to be…
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“Desire to Control My Partner:” How Do You Let it Go? [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m responding to a viewer who’s struggling to let go of the urge to control her partner. I’m going to suggest some alternative ways to look…
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Framework for Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy: What Works? [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share another 80/20 rule, and if you’re struggling with retroactive or obsessive jealousy, this is going to be useful for you…
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Retroactive Jealousy Fear: The #1 Step in Overcoming It [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to share a quote by Einstein that represents one of my all-time favorite universal solutions for retroactive jealousy. So: how to…
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Partner’s Past Values: How to Assess Them? [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to tell you my number one tip for how to know whether you’re struggling with irrational retroactive jealousy or a genuine clash of…
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What To Do After a Breakup: The #1 Step to Start Healing [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’d like to share the number one step you should take after you break up. So, what to do after a breakup? Zachary Stockill: I’m Zachary…
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Your Questions Answered: YouTube Livestream #2 [VIDEO]
Yesterday, I hosted my second YouTube livestream where I took all kinds of interesting subscriber questions. Although the questions were mainly concerning…
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What I’ve Learned as the “Retroactive Jealousy Guy” for 8+ Years [VIDEO]
In today’s video, I’m going to offer a bit of tough love to anyone struggling with retroactive or obsessive jealousy. And share some insight as to what it’s…