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Create Love Create Freedom
Create Love, Create Freedom is a podcast about psychology, mythology, identity, relationships, culture, and the interior life.
Hosted by Allison N. Fischer, the podcast explores the deeper questions that shape who we become: how identity is formed and transformed, how we develop self-trust and discernment, how relationships influence the stories we tell about ourselves, and what it means to live with greater sovereignty, responsibility, and depth.
Drawing from psychology, mythology, archetypal…
Episodes
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The Divine Feminine and Spiritual Warriorship
By weaving together the softness of compassion, the fierceness of boundary‑setting, and the alchemy of shadow integration, the divine feminine spiritual…
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How Negative Emotions Can Hold You Back From Making Progress In Your Life and How to Heal
Negative emotions are innate signals meant to protect us, but in excess or when unexamined, they become barriers—especially for intuitive and reflective women…
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The Cost of Hiding From The Truth: How to Reclaim Your Self Sovereignty
Living inauthentically—hiding your true thoughts, feelings, and desires—can feel safe in the short term, but over years it exacts a heavy toll. Becoming…
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Choosing Solitude Rather Than Being In the Wrong "We": How Being The Guarded Romantic Can Help You Choose The Right Partnership
A woman may choose solitude over remaining in a relationship that feels fundamentally “off” when core needs aren’t being met and remaining feels more painful…
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Learning How to Be Done: Cultivating the Art of Walking Away Being Unbothered and Protecting Your Peace
By healing the wounds that keep you tethered, integrating both dark and light feminine energies, and practicing unwavering self-worth, you become the woman who…
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The Connection Between Enmeshment Trauma in Childhood, Anxious Attachment, and the Fear of Rejection
Enmeshment trauma, anxious attachment, and fear of rejection often form a kind of feedback loop: early boundary confusion and over-involvement teach a child…
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Wealth and Worthiness: Dismantling Inherited Beliefs That Keep Us In A Limited Mindset
To embody abundance as her natural state, a woman must shift from striving to magnetizing, from chasing to allowing, from scarcity to sacred sufficiency…
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When Men Assert Autonomy In The Relationship During Times Of Transition And Relationship Development
When a man asserts autonomy at key developmental junctures in a relationship—whether it’s moving in together, getting engaged, having children, or navigating a…
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Being the Late Bloomer: How to Let Go of Cultural Conditioning And Become Your Highest Self On Your Own Timeline
Being a “late bloomer” simply means you reach certain personal, professional, or creative milestones later than the cultural “average.” Far from being a…
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Living Form A Place Of Scarcity Rather Than Abundance: How To Shift Your Mindset On Your Healing Journey
In this episode, we discuss the aspects of the feminine who feels like she is living in a place of scarcity rather than abundance when she is working through…
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Understanding The Dismissive Avoidant Man: Why He Says He Loves You But Doesn't Treat You Like He Does
Romantic involvement with a dismissive‑avoidant (“DA”) partner can feel like a paradox: on one hand there’s warmth, charm, even deep declarations of care; on…
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Healing the Madona-Whore Wound Within the Feminine
In this episode, we continue our discussion of the Madona-Whore Complex and dive into a deep discussion on how the feminine can heal her experiences and…
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Rejecting the Madonna-Whore Dichotomy: The Feminine Who Chooses Autonomy Over Conforming to Patriarchal Roles
As women, we have experienced the Madonna-Whore Complex and have been put into one or both of the categories with different men. In this episode, we discuss…
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How the Feminine Abandons Herself: The Correlation Between Self-Abandonment, Childhood Wounds, and Insecure Attachment and How the Feminine Can Reclaim Her Self-Identity
Self‑abandonment is the habitual overlooking—or outright suppression—of one’s own needs, feelings, and boundaries in order to maintain connection with another…
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Male Aggression and Assertiveness as Idealized Traits: How the Feminine Can Live More Harmoniously in a Masculine Dominated Society
In this episode, we discuss male aggression and assertiveness as idealized traits in American society, as well as how our masculine dominated society teaches…
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The Difference Between Being Emotionally Needed Versus Emotionally Loved In A Relationship
In this episode, we discuss the difference between being emotionally needed versus emotionally loved in a relationship, as well as the cost of being…
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Self-Sovereignty, Transformation and the Reclamation of Personal Power
In this episode, we look at the correlations between Persephone and the Shadow Empress feminine archetype and their connection to duality, transformation, and…
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Using the Law of Detachment For Feminine Healing, Decentering Men, and Healing Insecure Attachment to Become Your Highest Self
In this episode, we discuss the law of detachment, the law of attachment, healing inner wounds using detachment, and how the feminine can transform her…
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The Feminine and Self-Discovery: How to Prioritize and Embody Your Inner World
Prioritizing self-discovery is an ongoing, dynamic process that involves cultivating a deeper understanding of a woman's inner world, values, passions, and…
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Reclaiming Your Independence When You Have Lost Connection With Yourself In Your Relationship
Reclaiming independence in a relationship or after ending a relationship starts with reconnecting to who the feminine is as an individual, rather than as part…
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The Secret of Women Who Hold Their Own: How the Feminine Can Cultivate Quiet Power
The idea of soft, quiet feminine power centers on an inner strength that doesn’t rely on volume or overt dominance but on presence, intuition, and a deep sense…
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The Difficult Mother Series: Inner Wounds A Daughter Can Experience, How It Affects Her Relationships, and The Correlation to Insecure Attachment
In this episode, we conclude our last episode in the Difficult Mother Series where we discuss the inner wounds we can experience as daughters with difficult…
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The Difficult Mother Series: Shallow Emotional Expression and Attention Seeking Behavior in the Histrionic Mother and the Impact on Her Daughter
In this episode, we continue our series on being a daughter with a difficult mother. We explore the histrionic mother in this episode - why she has shallow…
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The Difficult Mother Series: Emotional Constancy and Splitting in the Borderline Mother and the Impact on Her Daughter
In this episode, we discuss the borderline mother and emotional constancy and splitting and how these behaviors impact her daughter. Create Love Create Freedom…
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The Difficult Mother Series: Narcissistic Extension and the Narcissistic Mother and How This Impacts Her Daughter
In this episode, we discuss narcissistic extension in the context of the narcissistic mother and how her narcissistic extension impacts her daughter. Create…
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How the Feminine Uses Dark Psychology to Influence Societal Change, Grow Her Wealth, and Build the Life She Desires
In this episode, we discuss how the feminine can use dark psychology to persuade, influence, and subtly shift the outdated mindsets of others, influence change…
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The Feminine Duality of Accepting Your Fate While Creating the Life You Desire
In this episode, we discuss accepting our fate which involves a deep recognition of what is beyond our control—acknowledging the circumstances, events, or…
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Low Vibrational Attachment and It's Correlation to Insecure Attachment Style and the Situationship
In this episode, we discuss low vibrational attachment and how it is not about true love—it’s more about clinging to feelings and patterns that are driven by…
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What Persephone Teaches the Feminine About Periods of Transition in Our Lives
In this episode, we discuss Persephone’s myth - a powerful metaphor for transitions in a woman's life, particularly those that involve cycles of growth…
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Quantum Leaping and Quantum Timelines for the Feminine on Her Journey to Wholeness and Growth
In this episode, we discuss the feminine's path to building the life she desires by using quantum leaping and quantum timelines. Create Love Create Freedom…
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Healthy Delusion vs Unhealthy Delusion: How the Feminine Can Use Healthy Delusion to Create the Life She Desires
In this episode, we discuss the characteristics of healthy delusion and unhealthy delusion and how the feminine can use healthy delusion to create the life she…
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The Misguided Beliefs Around Unhealthy Self-Reliance: How Baby Boomers Interact with Their Children and Grandchildren
In this episode, we discuss the misguided beliefs around self-reliance that Baby Boomers had passed on to them from their parents, their lack of healing their…
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Baby Boomers and Trauma: Why the Children and Grandchildren of Boomers Struggle to Connect with Their Families of Origin
In this episode, we discuss the trauma that Baby Boomers had passed on to them from their parents, their lack of healing their wounds and trauma, how this…
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Becoming and Intimidating Woman: Shifting Societal Norms
In this episode, we discuss the intimidating woman - the woman who uses both her light and dark feminine energy to shift societal norms, dismantling…
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Can Women Use Feminine Seduction to Change Society and Dismantle Patriarchy
In this episode, we explore using feminine seduction to do more than entice men. We look at using feminine seduction to influence a mindset shift in men so…
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Weaponized Emotional Intelligence: How Unhealthy Men Try to Keep Power and Control
In this episode, we explore weaponized emotional intelligence and how unhealthy men use weaponized emotional intelligence to keep power and control in a…
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Characteristics of the High Value Man vs The High Status Man
In this episode, we explore the difference between the high-status man and the high-value man. Our society tries to convince woman that the high value and…
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Why We Resist Change: Identity Attachment and Facing the Shadow Self
In this episode, we discuss why most people love staying the same and struggle any time they feel their way of life is threatened or they have to face the…
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Building the Future We Desire: Using Dark Feminine Energy, The Shadow Empress & Sigma Female Archetypes
In this episode, we look at how we can use archetype and myth to build the future we desire as women. We dive into the lessons of dark feminine energy, the…
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Understanding Extinction Burst, Spontaneous Recovery, and the Spiritual Revolution and Cultural Awakening That Is Taking Place
In this episode, we discuss what a dying system looks like and the correlation between extinction burst, spontaneous recovery, spiritual revolution, and the…
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Persephone, Hades & Hermes: Facing Our Shadow Self and Letting Go of Limiting Identity Attachments
In this episode we dive into the myths of Persephone, Hades, and Hermes and examine what each of these gods and goddesses can teach us about facing our shadow…
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Why Our Society Is Trying to Go Backwards (And Why It Matters For The Feminine)
Feminine sexuality is deeply entwined with and embedded in societal gender dynamics, structures of power, changes in culture, and patriarchy. One of the…
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When A Man Is Trying To Humble You: Why He Humbles and What It Looks Like
In this episode, we discuss masculine humbling - why a man will try to humble you, what it looks like, and how masculine humbling is rooted in patriarchy…
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Attraction To Morally Grey Men: Exploring Masculine Energy, The Sigma Male and Masculine Archetypes
In this episode, we explore the feminine’s attraction to the morally grey man - what makes him unique, captivating, and addictive - and explore the connection…
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Non-Conformity In A World That Demands Compliance, Obedience, & Acquiescence From The Feminine
In this episode, we discuss how the feminine can become a non-conformist and live life on her own terms in a world that demands compliance, obedience, and…
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The Art of Feminine Paradox: Using Your Dak Feminine Energy to Cultivate Allure
In this episode, we discuss feminine paradox and how the feminine uses paradox and dark feminine energy to create allure through embracing and celebrating a…
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The Feminine and The Void
In this episode, we dive into the feminine void and the feminine womb as a sacred place where all things are possible. We also look at the feminine void from…
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The Five Feminine Leadership Archetypes
In this episode, we discuss the 5 different types of feminine leadership archetypes, why we can embody more than one archetype and different archetypes…
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The Almost Perfect Relationship: What Makes Women Walk Away
In this episode, we discuss the challenge of being in the "almost perfect relationship" - the relationship that we want to work but just doesn't feel quite…
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Shifting Your Mood As A Feminine Woman
In this episode, we discuss how you can shift your mood as a feminine woman - whether you are on a relationship or single. Create Love Create Freedom explores…
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How to Turn Betrayal Into Your Catalyst for Growth, Change and Transformation
In this episode, we discuss betrayal from the perspective of using it as an agent of transformation, change, and growth. Create Love Create Freedom explores…
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How to Become the Seductress: Characteristics of The Siren, The Femme Fatale, & The Enigma
In this episode, we discuss the multiple characteristics and archetypes of the feminine seductress and how to become the woman who embodies her feminine…
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Reclaiming Your Power in Relationships: The Antidote to Giving Yourself Away and Becoming Anxious
In this episode, we discuss how to reclaim you power in relationships. Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and…
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Not Expressing Your Needs: Why We Can't and How to Change
In this episode, we discuss why we struggle to express our needs, especially if we have had childhood wounds and trauma, and how to change so that we can…
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Keeping Things to Yourself: The Difference Between Being Authentic and Oversharing
In this episode, we discuss oversharing - why we might feel the need to overshare, our desire for authenticity, and how to keep things to ourselves. Create…
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Playing the Long Game In Life and On Your Healing Journey: Becoming Your Highest Self
In this episode, we discuss how to play the long game in life and on your healing journey, how playing the long game is deeply feminine, and how it allows you…
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Neurodivergence and The Highly Sensitive Person
The connection between neurodivergence and the highly sensitive person (HSP) is multifaceted, involving overlapping traits and distinct differences. Both…
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How To Train Men To Prioritize You & The Art of Walking Away When You Need To
In this episode, we discuss how to train men to prioritize our needs. We also discuss how and why to walk away from a man. Create Love Create Freedom explores…
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The Four Types of Feminine Moon Cycles
In this episode, we discuss the four types of moon cycles during menstruation. Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity…
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Going from the Narcissistic Relationship into the Dismissive Avoidant Relationship
In this episode, we discuss being in a narcissistic relationship, leaving it, then going into the next relationship with the dismissive avoidant. Create Love…