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Attitudes!
A pop culture comedy podcast hosted by Erin Gibson and Bryan Safi who cover LGBTQ+ and gender issues of the moment with both hilarity and healthy doses of absurdity.
Episodes
Attitudes!Texas Suing Abortion Pill Distributors, Dems Leaving Trans People Behind, Korn and Pobody's Nerfect
Bryan has returned to LA to his torn apart kitchen and gets advice from EMTs about a bad batch of drugs in town. Erin's back from her quick trip to NYC where…
Attitudes!Rainbow Crosswalks, Good Trouble in Texas, Carole Cook and The Incredible Mr. Limpet
Bryan talks about finishing his run at Edinburgh, and a discussion about actress Carole Cook takes us into a 10 minute deep dive on the 1960s Don Knotts film…
Attitudes!No Mifepristone at Costco, West Texas A&M Drag Ban, Amy Madigan and La Llorona
Bryan is in his last week of shows at Edinburgh, Erin is (not) retired, and Aunt Gladys talk turns into learning about La Llorona and the Cucuy. Erin talks…
Attitudes!Kim Davis, U.S. Burning Contraceptives, Bagpipes and Oasis
This week Bryan has been spending all his free time in Edinburgh at the copy shops printing stickers for his posters, and Erin keeps prodding at him to go and…
Attitudes!UK's Online Safety Act, Ryan Walters, Rhode Island Workplace Accommodations, Edinburgh and Tap Shoes
Happy Birthday to Bryan! Fresh off his first week at the Edinburgh Fringe, Bryan tells us about the hustle it takes to perform at the world's largest…
Attitudes!Dateline: The Widow of Woodland Hills
Bryan is prepping for his Edinburgh debut, so this week we're re-releasing one of our favorite Dateline Recaps from behind the paywall! A hairdresser to the…
Attitudes!Big Beautiful Bill Implications, 988, P-Touch and Burger King
Erin is staying dewy in Santa Fe and trying to find batteries for her P-Touch to stay organized. Bryan overhears some bros rating New York's hottest burger…
Attitudes!Bisexual Erasure, Women Driving The Economy, Cigarettes and the Subie Wave
Erin now officially owns her car and teaches us about the "Subie Wave". We reminisce about being smokers and how we love seeing the smoking trope in films with…
Attitudes!Danmei, Wisconsin and Arizona Abortion Ban Repeals, Boston, Viagra and Adderall
Bryan is with a private client exploring Boston and shares some pros and cons for visitors. Erin self-diagnoses herself with ADHD after taking Adderall for a…
Attitudes!People Over Papers, Budapest Pride, Bezos Wedding and Glory Holes
Erin is sweatin' it out with no AC during her last week in Vancouver, and Bryan tells us which celebrity turds were at the Bezos wedding over the weekend. Erin…
Attitudes!Supreme Court on Gender-Affirming Care and Pregnancy Resource Centers, First Class Pringles and Normal Eye Freckle
Erin is back in Santa Fe for a limited time, dropping off all her Vancouver luggages, and Bryan is still without a kitchen and has a new eye diagnosis. Bryan…
Attitudes!Anti-Trans Billionaires, Southern Baptist Convention, Bowen Island and No Kings Day
This week Erin captains a boat from Vancouver to Bowen Island, and Bryan has some kitchen mold remediation but still attends the WeHo No King's Day protest…
Attitudes!Hungary Pride Bans, Indy 500 Plane Banner, John Proctor is the Villain and LA ICE Raids
This week Bryan has some pre-Tony Awards praise for John Proctor is the Villain (congrats to Cole Escola!), and we discuss the horrific ICE Raids and protests…
Attitudes!Digital Camera Guys and Concert Selfies, State of Pride 2025, Garfield and Barefoot at the Movies
We're seeing the signs of the start of summer (or at least people wanting it to be). Erin tries out some Boom Boom fashion with her new thrifted sleep shirt…
Attitudes!Supreme Court Reviewing ACA Preventative Care, Toxic Masculinity, Salome and The Greatest Genitalation
This week spring has sprung while Erin is in Vancouver, Bryan gives us a review of Salome at The Met, and we ponder whether the "Gen" in Gen X, and Gen Z is…
Attitudes!Vermont's S.28, Montana's SB99, GLAAD's Social Media Safety Index, The Good Dumbwaiter and Suspension Bridges
This week Bryan reminisces about his family's (now closed) Italian restaurant in El Paso, and Erin gets in a fight with a Russian man at a Vancouver suspension…
Attitudes!Dateline Recap: Deadly Omission
Surprise! We're giving you one of our favorite Dateline Recaps from behind the paywall! Dateline Season 33, Episode 5. Condos. Condominiums. Jade earrings…
Attitudes!Boise and Salt Lake City Pride Flags, At-Home Pap-Smear, European Jet Lag and Canadian Cell Phone
Erin is looking for the best baked goods in Vancouver and jet lagged Bryan is back from his European vacation with Mother and Father Safi. Bryan explains how…
Attitudes!Best of the Vault Vol. 4
We'll be back next week with a new ep, but to hold you over we've got more of the best from the Vault! Bryan's one man show Hair I Am, Yarn Tethers, Big Teeth…
Attitudes!Best of the Vault Vol. 3
We're off this week but have compiled some of our best bits from the vault! Get ready for an unfortunate hotel experience we had while on tour, Pizza Horse…
Attitudes!For Women Scotland, Alabama Anti-LGBTQ+ Bills, Whistler and iMessage Hearts
Recorded pre-Easter and pre-Pope dying, Erin is on her way to Whistler in Canada for a long weekend and Bryan is worried about whether his iMessage reaction to…
Attitudes!Air Force Defies Trump, The SAVE Act, Sally Jesse Raphael and 700th Surprise!
We've joined The 700 Club! Who'd have thought when we started in 2011 that we'd be in this dystopian nightmare 14 years later?! For this momentous occasion we…
Attitudes!Georgia Woman Arrested After Miscarriage, California Rejects Trans Athlete Ban, Aunt Selfies and Slinkies
This week we're sharing our airline hacks for all you Southwest Early Birds! Bryan is back from El Paso with stories about his silent gym experience and…
Attitudes!Utah Bans Pride Flags, Exploding Voter Gender Gap, Pill Nightmares and Thomas Kinkade
This week Erin is taking advantage of Canada's socialized medicine with pills that are going to give her nightmares, and is pulled over by the VPD AGAIN! We go…
Attitudes!New Jersey Reproductive Rights Bills, El Cerrito, Gay Quads, and Pulled Over in Vancouver
Happy Birthday Erin! Our feminasty celebrated another trip around the sun with a French dinner and an encounter with the VPD. Bryan educates us on polyamorous…
Attitudes!Montana Anti-LGBTQ Bills, Transphobe Congressman, Squirt and SmilePik
This week Erin is back in Jigsaw's basement (Vancouver). Bryan has a memorable dining experience in NYC, plus he has a birthday surprise (and demonstration!)…
Attitudes!Billionaire Women Doing Good, Love Is Blind, Scottsdale and Cruella Breville
Erin has some tales from her Scottsdale pit stop on the way home to New Mexico, and Bryan is having issues troubleshooting his new espresso machine. Erin…
Attitudes!Iowa Removes Trans Civil Rights Protections, Military Female Firings, Oscars and Special Guest Jeffery Self!
This week we're excited to have Jeffery Self to chat about his book Self Sabotage and Other Ways I've Spent My Time coming out March 11th! Bryan regales us…
Attitudes!Conservative Push to Raise Birth Rate, Increasing Number of LGBTQ+ Americans, Devil in a Blue Dress and Gatorade
Bryan is fresh from an NYC haircut giving him Elizabeth Taylor spider bangs. Erin missed LA’s Frieze Art Fair, but rediscovered the 1995 Denzel Washington film…
Attitudes!Erasing T and Q from LGB, Diem, Post-Valentine's and Sheryl Crow
We're soaking up the sun with the Lady Attorneys to discuss our romantic Valentine's Day outings (with husband and client), plus a deep dive into Sheryl Crow…
Attitudes!Contraception Begins at Erection Act, Liberal State Hospitals Ending Gender-Affirming Care, Grandma Gibson and Diet Coke
Get ready for our new opening segment Grandma Gibson where Erin pleads for us all to get off social media and tells us about her lymphatic massage experience…
Attitudes!Queer Erasure, Deleting Reproductive Rights Information, Grammys and Tinctures
Bryan is back in Texas for his dad's birthday and full of Oregonal and Erin pulls out some good ol' gym floor xanax for her flight anxiety. Bryan gives an…
Attitudes!European Court of Human Rights, Target DEI, Neil Young and Bryan's Series of Unfortunate Events
Today we present Bryan Safi’s Series of Unfortunate Events as he attempts to fix his broken MacBook at the Apple Genius Bar, deals with a car breakdown, and…
Attitudes!LGBTQ+ Progress Around the World, Beauty Influencers Profiting from Wildfires, Kohl’s and Martin Luther King Jr.
We spent Inauguration Day distracting ourselves learning about the history of Kohl’s and interspersing some Martin Luther King Jr. quotes for good measure…
Attitudes!Challenging the South Carolina Abortion Ban, Costco DEI, El Paso Dillard's, and Leaving LA
We left LA due to the fires, and our thoughts are with everyone affected. Erin's back in Santa Fe having home cooked meals with the ones she loves, Bryan is…
Attitudes!National Defense Authorization Act, TikTok Fitspiration, Italy and New Year Stomach Problems
Bryan is back with tales from his holiday trip to Italy involving Coke Zero and Christmas poems. Erin hiked, journaled, and ended up with stomach problems from…
Attitudes!Dateline: The Carrollton Plot
Happy New Year! We'll be back next week. In the meantime enjoy Bryan's recap of Dateline: Season 23, Episode 4. Carrollton, Texas - where there are more…
Attitudes!Columbo Likes the Nightlife
A post-Christmas miracle - the final Columbo from 2003! The boomer writers of the OG Columbo series asked themselves, "What's popular with the kids these…
Attitudes!Groceries: Wegmans Astor Place
We're off for the Holidays, but we wanted to gift you something from behind the paywall! One of the most recommended stores in our DMs and emails. Named to…
Attitudes!Zombie Laws, CPR Dummies, Apartment Fire and Murphy's Oil Soap
Bryan takes us on his 36 hour NYC Pig Bitch Tour which includes an apartment fire, "Birdboxing" himself, a coffee tour and Bergdorfs. At her convent, Sister…
Attitudes!Pastor Joel Webbon, Walmart's DEI Programs, Thanksgiving and Fresco by Scotto
We're back from Thanksgiving and Erin is never cooking again, meanwhile Bryan had a celebrity encounter at one of New York's hottest restaurants. Erin tells us…
Attitudes!Texas Decriminalizing Gay Sex, Georgia Maternal Mortality Committee, Camping Mattresses and Broadway Movie Musicals
Happy Thanksgiving! The discussion about our 2025 queer white water rafting trip continues with worries about whether or not we can bring full mattresses to…
Attitudes!For the Love of DILFS, Gendered Drug Testing, Queer White Water Rafting and Poki Roni
We're back from the wayOUT Gala where we honored Harper Steele and Bryan spent a lot of money on a joke (for a good cause). Erin shares some disturbing gender…
Attitudes!Disengaging with Trump-Voting Family, The 4B Movement, Carol Channing and Breaking Up with Scherzinger
After praising her performance in Sunset Blvd. Bryan is upset with the lead Pussycat Doll's recent Instagram likes and comments of conservative content, and…
Attitudes!2024 Election Post-Mortem
Well, that happened. Erin and Bryan have a raw morning-after discussion about the Election Day results, what is going on in America, and the small victories…
Attitudes!Can Husbands Find Out Who You Voted For? LGBTQ+ GOP Platform, Bate Boards and Guilty Pleasures
Happy Halloqueen! This year Bryan dressed as the skeleton of Vincent Price and Erin is a woman who can never get warm. Erin describes her gym's trainer "bate…
Attitudes!Reproductive and LGBTQ Rights on Your Ballots, Sunset Blvd. and LA Workout Classes
Bryan's back from New York where he witnessed Nicole Scherzinger's star turn in Sunset Blvd. on Broadway. Erin is back in LA and describes the generational gap…
Attitudes!Grindr AI, Texas Supreme Court, It's Just Lunch, and C3P0
We open this week with a discussion about the matchmaking service It's Just Lunch and, following the news of Elon's upcoming Optimus humanoid army, why we'd…
Attitudes!Judge Robert McBurney, Gage Klipper, Dog Psychic and MyWay
Bryan is starting his own private insurance company (with many prerequisites before joining), and Erin shares details about her recent pet psychic call, and a…
Attitudes!San Diego vs. LA, Rebecca Reynolds, Plus Guest Co-Host Drew Droege!
This week Erin is joined by star of stage and screen Drew Droege, who is currently starring in Dracula, A Comedy of Terrors at The Old Globe in San Diego! We…
Attitudes!Amber Nicole Thurman, HRC Election Poll, Dutch Test, Derm Talk
Erin's doctor is having her take a 30 day Dutch Test, and Bryan's neck skin is turning red from an Instagram dermatologist's product recommendations. Erin…
Attitudes!Sarah McBride, Missouri's Amendment 3, The Perfect Couple, Jelly Roll
This week Bryan's fresh from visiting Texas and watching The Perfect Couple with his mom. We also discuss the Emmys and Jelly Roll's face tattoos. Bryan…
Attitudes!Ep 669 - Best of the Vault Vol. 2
We couldn't record a regular episode this week, but have put together another compilation of some of the best bits from the Vault for you to enjoy! In this ep…
Attitudes!Ford Abandons Support for LGBTQ+ Employees, Dearica Hamby, Pig Pencil Case and The Jellicle Ball
Bryan is back from seeing the incredible Jellicle Ball revival of CATS in New York which somehow takes the original concept of wibble wormble and jingle…
Attitudes!Sall Grover, Robby Starbuck Strikes Again, Steak Dabney Coleman and The Pleasant Peasant
This week's Columbo guest star Dabney Coleman spawns a discussion of fine dining and celebrity-inspired dishes at Dan Tana's in LA. Erin takes us through the…
Attitudes!Ep 666 - DoxyPEP, Allie Beth Stuckey, Cold Brew and Turo Life Hacks
This episode is the devil's number!!! This week Bryan and Erin share important life hacks (going to the grocery store, car rentals). Bryan gives us the rundown…
Attitudes!Gendered Ageism in the Workplace, Utah Book Bans, Tim Walz's Hotdish, Free Willy
This week Erin has the FLiRT and is converting Fahrenheit to Celsius. Bryan reminisces about the 90s while reading through the Free Willy wikipedia page. Plus…
Attitudes!Valentina Gomez's Gay Brother, Imane Khelif, George Michaels' Lasagna and Consumer Reports
Erin has been released from the Saw basement so Bryan gives her his review of Longlegs, presents George Michael's long-lost Lasagna Recipe, plus some tips from…
Attitudes!Best of the Vault Vol. 1
We’re taking this week off, so enjoy a best-of-the-Vault compilation! It has phone calls to Jan Brewer, Victoria Jackson, Swedish Guy Time at Ikea, Tales from…
Attitudes!Project 2025, John Deere Backtracks, Kamala and Embarassing Crushes
After a historic weekend Bryan is back in LA signing autographs on the way home from the airport, and Erin is filling in her eyebrows as we discuss the change…