Shows / The Susan Winter Show
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- The Susan Winter Show
Your Human Rights Are Your Dating Rights
https://youtu.be/oS_aqXJa2kc Your human rights supersede any condition of your relationship, including dating title (or lack thereof). You deserve to be…
- The Susan Winter Show
Your ex says they’ll ‘come back’ (in the future)
https://youtu.be/h3TZajz6tlg Your ex wants you back— in the future. They need to ‘grow’ and ‘heal. Do you trust them? Should you wait? Here’s your answer: #ex…
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Can they love you (again)?
https://youtu.be/Mpk14UicT20 Too cautious. Too guarded. Too late? Did you lose their love for good? Maybe not. Here’s how to tell if you still have a chance…
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Fear of running into ex (with their new lover)
https://youtu.be/Iaov_mCYHVo It’s scary enough running into your ex unexpectedly. But what about running into them with their new lover? Rather than fear this…
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GHOSTED by a person you’re close to
https://youtu.be/62hFcy_B1Fw Stunned by the fact that someone close ghosted you? Stuck in a loop of wondering ‘why?’ This isn’t some random person. You can…
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They’ve shut down. What should I do?
https://youtu.be/YueCfSu8yPk Has your partner shut down, gone radio silent silent, or ghosted you? What’s the right move? Here’s when to reach out and when to…
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Dating Games: The ‘Bad Texter’
https://youtu.be/gcErDitfqnI Don’t buy the lie when someone says, “I’m a bad texter.” It’s a choice. You’ll never be a priority with this type of person…
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Got your ex back (as well as old triggers)
https://youtu.be/Myty6iETuRM Finally! You got your ex back. You should be thrilled, right? But you’re in the same pattern of arguments and triggered responses…
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The Chronic Fear of Rejection
https://youtu.be/ezr1cZvmp7M Do you have an ongoing fear that the person you want will reject you…even when things are going well? Here’s what’s happening and…
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Why they won’t give you a “label”
https://youtu.be/vMsHOC-k9ng Wondering why your partner won’t give you a “label?” There are two distinct reasons for not clarifying your status. Want to know…
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Going No Contact with your Ex (and trusting your decision)
https://youtu.be/4v10p6cvyVY You went No Contact with your ex for your mental health. Now, a trusted friend says you’re overreacting. Who do you trust? Your…
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How to Know If They Like You
https://youtu.be/Vn-_GxMwtVE How do you know if they like you? Watch my video for the signs of someone who’s seriously interested, as opposed to a fleeting…
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LOA: Love and the Law of Substitution
https://youtu.be/ig8RtfrBY-M You MUST have that specific partner, right? Why are your thoughts so limited? Learn the secrets of the Law of Substitution to…
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Self-Sabotage? Or Setting Boundaries?
https://youtu.be/bQHTVj3aqsE Are you pushing someone away (and wondering whether it’s self-sabotage or self-protection)? Here’s the difference between setting…
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Breakups: They were ‘all in,’ then suddenly bailed
https://youtu.be/iMZqR3fXcGM What makes a person suddenly bail after they were ‘all in’? Here’s what happens when their future plans collide with today’s…
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Dating Games: When a ‘joke’ is not a joke
https://youtu.be/hqLUKZEWmF4 Partner trying to sabotage you through ‘humor?’ Making a joke at your expense is humor that hurts. Deactivate the emotional…
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LOA: The Universe’s ‘Love Test’
https://youtu.be/1khtrZHNOJ4 Do you (really) want what you say you want? Here’s how the Universe will test your newly amended request for a greater love and…
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Why they’re losing interest (and how you can fix it)
https://youtu.be/IBgCbkF2xhM What do you do when your partner loses interest in you? Can you fix it? Learn how to regain their attraction (and desire) while…
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How do you truly ‘let go and move on?’
https://youtu.be/VdPTBVVMEcE You’ve tried to ‘let go and move on’ but your mind is still holding a space (and hope) for their love. How do you advance yet keep…
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Manifesting a Partner: ‘This, or Greater’
https://youtu.be/6S5WXg3YF1I Are you fixated on trying to manifest a specific partner? Maybe you’re thinking too small. Here’s the LOA hack to getting a higher…
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When is the right time to have sex?
https://youtu.be/fPRM4SMK63Y When is the right time to have sex? Pace can impact a relationship’s success. But how do you make that determination? Here are the…
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Will believing we’re ‘worthy of love’ make it happen?
https://youtu.be/ECSHyarYpS4 Does believing we’re worthy of love make it happen? Or does it ‘allow’ love to enter our consciousness? Here’s the distinction…
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How to Find Love as a Cynic
https://youtu.be/6uM99nKUj30 Have you had so many negative experiences that you no longer believe love can happen? Here’s the cynic’s guide to attracting a…
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Missing your ex? Or just bored.
https://youtu.be/W1tC1LUvC_g You’re feeling a little low and find yourself thinking about your ex. Are you having second thoughts? Or are you simply bored?…
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What’s the sign that shows they’re hooked?
https://youtu.be/MydretzR_n8 The moment you see ‘THE LOOK,’ you’ll know you’re being considered as relationship material. Your partner has just awakened to…
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When constant obsession won’t let you move on
https://youtu.be/7l7wC_OEfW8 Is constant obsession not allowing you to move forward? How are you feeling stuck, and tried everything (yet nothing works)? If…
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3 reasons they’re pulling away
https://youtu.be/KVb-tG4lOZo You thought everything was going well. Then, your partner began pulling away. Learn the 3 big reasons why this is happening (and…
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ACCEPTING FWB (when you want a relationship)?
https://youtu.be/GejNH5rPvaw Are you trying to be at peace with settling for a ‘friend with benefits’ situation (when what you really want is a…
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Breakups: Was is all an act?
https://youtu.be/-RaSYsI64Gg They loved you, then left you. This extreme change of heart leaves you wondering… was it ALL an act? Here’s what really happened…
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Obsessing over, “Why don’t they want me?”
https://youtu.be/Sxa5LhXrHDw They wanted you (or so it seemed). What happened? The loop of obsession over this question can feel like a downward spiral. Here’s…
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The Insecurity of an Undefined Relationship
https://youtu.be/6z8BfdFRaP4 Are you struggling with feelings of jealousy and insecurity due to your undefined relationship? Here’s how to regain your…
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There’s chemistry (but they’re holding back)
https://youtu.be/-ga-94MQHCI Your date is holding back despite intense mutual chemistry. What does this mean? Is it a game? A test? Or the foundation for a…
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They can’t be with you (but won’t let you go)
https://youtu.be/DXPnvxYmpqI Your ex has been in contact. They say they miss you and want you. BUT… they can’t be with you due to their circumstances. What’s…
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You didn’t fall in Love. You fell in ‘Hope’
https://youtu.be/bowXIMv36zA Is your obsession based on love? Or a powerful desire fueled by ‘hope.’ Knowing this distinction saves heartache and creates…
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Dumped- because they ‘don’t want to hurt you’
https://youtu.be/-i5pRo1Sv7E One minute they love you. The next, they dump you. Why? They “don’t want to hurt you.” What does that mean? #dumped #breakups…
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Feeling ‘incomplete’ without a partner?
https://youtu.be/kq7gEOQFzdc Do you feel incomplete without a partner? Are you seeking love outside of yourself, to love yourself? Here’s how to attain…
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One Year of No Contact (and still hurting)
https://youtu.be/ZeGbzGjdCao Can’t get over the person who love-bombed you? Tried ‘no contact,’ but it’s still not working? Here’s how to break free from this…
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The Lover Like Quicksand (that you can’t resist)
https://youtu.be/mTZfLJs0O-Y Attraction. Desire. Obsession. Ah yes… the lover like quicksand who pulls you in beyond your control. You know the pattern. But do…
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The factors that create a ‘high value’ partner
https://youtu.be/WzF7KtWURO8 Wondering what factors establish the perception of a ‘high value’ ? Here’s how the process of overvaluing or undervaluing a…
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Ultimatums: Do they work?
https://youtu.be/v3YjH0hWSag Do ultimatums work? And if so, when should you use them? Here’s the best way to get the answers you need: #datingadvice…
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You took them for granted (now you can’t get them back)
https://youtu.be/1mw21iyhbs0 You took your partner for granted. Now they’re gone and you’re tormented with regret. How can you get them back? #breakups #guilt…
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Your partner’s great (why don’t you feel attraction?)
https://youtu.be/8QTSmIzePqs You’ve got a great partner. Everything’s good…except you’re not attracted. Can this (and should this) be fixed? Find out…
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Can’t find love (and sick of hearing ‘love yourself first’)
https://youtu.be/CU-qxsdHNBM Are you tired of hearing people preach the need for self-love before you’ll find love? While it’s preferable to love yourself, the…
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Ending Obsession: Disconnecting the ‘partner’ from the ‘dream’
https://youtu.be/3KMxUD_XbRs Frustrated (and exasperated) over not being able to shake off your ex? Still can’t free yourself from obsession, craving your…
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When the Player Acts Like a Partner
https://youtu.be/HTlZ_n1N5gQ You’ve seen your partner regularly for months. They’ve met your friends and family and talk of your future. Then, you discover…
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‘Praisebombing’— The casual seduction technique that wins affection
‘Praisebombing’ is my term for a side door seduction technique to gain your attention (and affection) through excessive praise. Done in a non-dating…
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#1 Cause of Unnecessary Breakups
https://youtu.be/X8HXp1ZsBe8 Who decided the breakup was a good idea “for you both?” Was it for your benefit, or theirs? Here’s the distinction between a…
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Contact from the ex that dumped you
https://youtu.be/3LWmDjnvwb0 The ex that dumped you makes contact and shows interest. Is this a game, or do they have a genuine change of heart? Here’s how to…
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LOA: The allure of an indefinable partner
https://youtu.be/GghHZOfAuxw Feeling pulled toward a person and an indefinable form of connection? Welcome to your evolution. Here’s how to benefit from the…
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The ‘text-ghost-text-ghost’ dance
https://youtu.be/WQHqfQTT8GI What’s up with the ‘text-ghost-text-ghost’ dance? Why would someone contact you only to go silent? Here’s what’s behind this BDB…
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Dating Games: Is Your Partner ‘Pocketing’ You?
https://youtu.be/UFW-vD0rcEE ‘Pocketing’ is a new term for the type of bad dating behavior that excludes you from your partner's social life. They love you in…
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How to Speak Your Truth
https://youtu.be/LYgRSjUpKrU Why do we fear that speaking up will make us look weak or needy? Speaking your truth is a powerful tool for communicating your…
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Made the right choice (but still suffering)
https://youtu.be/8Z2Q50X9PMY Making the right choice can still feel painful. Here's what you need to remember to allow your well-being, confidence, and faith…
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Overcoming the Betrayal of Trust
https://youtu.be/e05cZKm26Wc Our partner’s betrayal can affect our identity and self-worth. How do we allow ourselves to trust again? Moving on (and moving…
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3 Excuses That Show Your Partner Won’t Change
https://youtu.be/hs_vJg3ZUcI Exhausted from asking your partner to put effort into the relationship? Tired of hearing, "I’ll work on it” or, “Now’s not the…
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Breaking Up vs Giving Up
https://youtu.be/2WXPVe6aIDY What’s the difference between breaking up and giving up? How do you know the right move to make? Stay hoping, or call it quits?…
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The ‘One and Only’ Trap
https://youtu.be/idtAERXiMi4 No individual can be our ‘one and only.’ Being our everything is too great an expectation to achieve. Offset relationship stress…
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Twin Flames: Hallmarks and Characteristics
https://youtu.be/NON_ZgFMsTg What is a twin flame? These hallmarks and characteristics separate this partner from all others as you enter a unique vehicle of…
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Dating Games: Why did they stop texting?
https://youtu.be/qYGkgNbxc6c They gave every indication they liked you. The connection and chemistry were there. Here’s why they stopped texting: #hotandcold…
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Stuck in a loop of ‘what if?’
https://youtu.be/DmwxMgNDisI Are you stuck in a loop of "what if?" Obsessing over a love that ended, or never started? ‘What if’ won’t get you the answers (or…