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Not so Christian Brothers
🎙️️ Welcome to the Not So Christian Brothers Podcast!
New episodes every Thursday at 6 PM IST. Weekend After-Show every Sunday at 8 AM IST.
Meet veteran Irish radio broadcaster Colm Hayes (RTÉ, FM104, Ireland’s Classic Hits) and his brother, renowned high-performance coach, psychologist, and entrepreneur Justin Caffrey. They might share the same DNA, but they couldn’t be more different.
Together, they host Ireland's most candid podcast on modern masculinity, mental health, business strategy…
Episodes
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Wooden Spoon Trauma & The "Sterile Room" Secrets | The Royal Seal Mystery
Does your past define your response to pressure? This week, the Not So Christian Brothers start with a deep dive into "Wooden Spoon Trauma"—the unique brand of…
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"I Was Incensed": The Gender Debate Fallout | The South African River Mystery
The fallout from Thursday’s show is real. Producer Rebecca joins the conversation from South Africa to voice her frustration over Justin and Colm’s…
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Men are Being Sidelined": The Truth About the Manisphere | The South African Escape
Is the social balance of power shifting too far, or is it a necessary evolution? This week on the Not So Christian Brothers, Colm and Justin are "United by…
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"We’re a Bunch of Sacks": The Truth About Irish Sexiness | Terry’s Feet Mystery
Following our St. Patrick’s Day main show, the brothers return for a "Seachtain na Gaeilge" (Irish Language Week) special. Colm explores his "Republican roots"…
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The Irish Empire: From Gangs of New York to the CIA Mystery | St. Patrick’s Day Special
Is St. Patrick’s Day a celebration of culture or a masterclass in global branding? This week, the Not So Christian Brothersstrip back the green face paint to…
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The Truth About Identity | The Ticker Tape Mental Load
The brothers are back to dissect the "detour" from Thursday’s show, and things get personal fast. From Colm’s "bubble butt" in leather pants to Justin’s…
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The Scripture of Secrets: Ancient Letters & The $3 Psychological Trigger
Is the world reading from a new script or an ancient one? This week on the Not So Christian Brothers, Colm and Justin dissect the "Psychology of the Podium."…
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"I Wanted Him GONE": The Shakespearean Truth | The Red Sea Wardrobe Crisis
Following the shockwaves of Thursday’s show, the brothers return to dissect the "Shakespearean" drama of their childhood. Colm double-downs on the moment he…
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Why I Wanted My Brother Dead
Is the world losing its mind, or is it just the weather? This week on the Not So Christian Brothers, Colm and Justin tackle the "Atmospheric Mystery" of 48…
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The Aftershow: Are Aliens Hot? | Why We’re Being "Cancelled" for Thursday’s Show
The brothers are in the "rhinoplasty waiting room" this week as they address the chaotic reaction to Thursday’s main show. Colm attempts to defend his…
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The Alien Files: Did We Get Velcro From a UFO? | The Truth About Disclosure
The conversation takes a bizarre turn into the "Velcro Theory"—is our modern technology actually reverse-engineered from an alien ship?. Plus, the brothers…
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The €450,000 Secret | The Psychology of Money & The "Fem-Lit" Trap
Why are we so obsessed with "the number"? This week, the Not So Christian Brothers peel back the layers on our relationship with money and dopamine. Justin…
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The €600k Retirement Trick & The Psychology of Your Digital Addiction
Are you actually addicted to your phone, or is that just how the algorithm was "discovered" to work?. This week, Justin and Colm explore the high-stakes legal…
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The End of Motherhood? | Declining Birth Rates & Why Men Only Talk About Sports
In this candid After Show, the Not So Christian Brothers dive into the shifting dynamics of modern society. From the "death of the icebreaker" to a global…
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Is Your Phone the New Opioid? | Meta on Trial & The Secret Language of Men
In this hard-hitting main show, the Not So Christian Brothers dive into the "Digital Opioid Crisis." A landmark court case against Meta reveals how social…
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"You Have a Huge Ego" | The Brothers Roast Each Other & The Berlin Club
In this revealing After Show, Producer Rebecca puts the brothers on the spot with a "Secret Question" that threatens to tear the podcast apart: "What is the…
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Why Men Are Afraid to Tell Their Bosses They Are Struggling (71% Won't Speak Up)
In this powerful episode, the Not So Christian Brothers tackle the silent crisis in men's mental health. A shocking new statistic reveals that 71% of men won't…
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"Why Are You Staying In This Relationship?" (Justin Gets Brutally Honest)
This week on the Aftershow, the Not So Christian Brothers get deep into relationships, breakups, and the uncomfortable truth about why people stay in unhappy…
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The US Empire is Collapsing & The "Doomsday"
The Not So Christian Brothers are back, and things are getting apocalyptic. Colm predicts the total collapse of the United States Empire in our lifetime…
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"I Was In Bed With Victoria Beckham" | The Truth About The Wedding Drama
The "Not So Christian Brothers" After Show dives straight into the biggest celebrity scandal of the year: The Beckham Family Feud. Colm drops a bombshell story…
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"My Testosterone Went Up 47%" | Justin’s Cialis Confession & The Greenland
In this explosive Main Show, Justin drops a bombshell about men's health right from the start. He reveals the results of his latest bio-hacking experiment…
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"No Irish, No Dogs": Is Woke Culture Destroying Free Speech?
The After Show gets heated this week as the "Not So Christian Brothers" tackle the most explosive topics of the moment: Racism, Free Speech, and Woke Culture…
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The Secret Deportation Flights: Is the Government Breaking the Law? (Plus: Ireland's Donald Trump)
The Not So Christian Brothers are back with an explosive episode that swings from Hollywood absurdity to serious political scandal. Colm kicks things off with…
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Emotions & Realisations from Ground Zero & The Brooklyn Bridge.
Colm is back on Irish soil! With Justin away working (possibly in Gibraltar... or the toilet), Rebecca steps into the co-host chair to debrief Colm on his…
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Miami Makes You Question Everything
The Not So Christian Brothers have left the building! While Rebecca freezes back in the Greystones studio, Colm and Justin report live from Miami, sharing the…
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The End of The World is NOW (and Why Men Can't Get Pregnant)
The chaos of the New Year continues as Justin, Colm, and Rebecca dive deeper into their 2026 predictions—and things get dark (and hilarious). Colm reveals a…
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2026 Predictions: Civil War in Cork & The "Dead Cat Bounce"
Happy New Year! We kick off 2026 with a bang as the full team reunites to predict the future. Colm has run his theories through ChatGPT and predicts a United…
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Justin is BACK! (The "Guerrilla Shopping" Technique & Worst Gifts Ever)
e’s back! After traveling the world backwards (or just being "high performance" somewhere), Justin returns to the studio just in time for the post-Christmas…
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Colm’s Lonely Christmas: Why I'm Running Away To New York
Merry Christmas! In this special festive episode (released early for your Christmas Eve drive), Justin is still missing in action, so Producer Rebecca steps in…
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Terry: "Men Only Want One Thing!" (The Friendship Debate Explodes)
The "Not So Christian Brothers" AfterShow descends into chaos as producer Rebecca takes the therapy chair (Justin is still MIA) and Terry unleashes his most…
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Can Men & Women Really Be Just Friends? (Rebecca Drops A Truth Bomb)
With Justin currently traveling (or being a "high performance Ziploc" somewhere), producer Rebecca steps out from behind the desk to take the co-host chair …
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Colm’s Mick Jagger Theory: "Older Women Don’t Have A Sex Drive?"
This week, the lads dive headfirst into the most explosive topic of all: marriage, sex, and the reality of long-term relationships. The debate ignites…
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The Truth About Marriage: “Is This As Good As It Gets?”
Is monogamy natural, or just a choice we make to keep the farm in the family? This week, Colm and Justin tear apart the concept of modern marriage. Inspired by…
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Colm Grabbed A Manager! (Why We’re Capping Christmas Spending)
This week’s Aftershow descends into chaos as we tackle the stress of Christmas spending, the power of cash, and Colm’s infamous history of restaurant…
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Crypto, Cash, and Chaos: Is the World About to Snap?
Welcome to the 'Silly Season' on Not So Christian Brothers! Following the massive success of last week’s episode on a looming housing crash, Justin and Colm…
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Bedroom Antics & The Coming Recession: Why You Need Cash NOW
This week on the Not So Christian Brothers Aftershow, the conversation goes from the bedroom to the bank in record time. We kick things off with the "sexy…
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The Economy Is About to Snap: Justin Explains What’s Really Coming in 2026
This episode is a wild mix — starting with new chairs and a ridiculous pitch for a male-led sex-advice show… but very quickly turning into one of the most…
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The Conversation We Weren’t Ready to Have… But Had Anyway
This aftershow hits deeper than anyone expected. It opens with Justin’s wild story about a man who dug an entire underground temple system under a mountain —…
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Why I Can't Sleep: The Letter, The Past, & The Panic
The Christian Brothers have officially come for the podcast again — and this time, they’ve issued a full legal warning. In today’s episode, the NSCB crew dive…
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The Movies That Broke Us: Childhood Dreams, Death, and the Films That Shaped Our Lives
This week’s Aftershow takes a turn down movie memory lane — and things get emotional, hilarious, and unexpectedly profound. Justin reveals how a paleontology…
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Disney Lied to Us All | The Movies That Messed Up Our Minds
The Brothers are back — and this week they’re tearing into the fairy tales, Disney dreams, and “life lessons” that turned out to be complete nonsense. From…
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The Myth of Balance: Why Peace Is Overrated
Everyone’s chasing balance — but what if the secret is learning to live in chaos? This week’s Aftershow gets philosophical (and messy) as Colm Hayes, Justin…
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Everybody’s Faking It (Even You)
Let’s be honest — we’re all full of sh*t. This week, the Not So Christian Brothers — Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan — rip apart the illusion of…
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Brothers, Guilt & The Snowman: When Family Messes You Up
This one hits hard. In this week’s Aftershow, the Not So Christian Brothers — Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan — drop the jokes (mostly) and dive…
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Crying for Clicks: Are We All Addicted to Misery?
Are we healing — or just performing pain for attention? This week on Not So Christian Brothers, Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan get brutally real…
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Beckhams, Billionaires & Bullshit: Power, Sex & Corruption
Sunday’s supposed to be holy — but not here. In this week’s Aftershow, Colm, Justin, and Rebecca dive straight into scandal, corruption, and why humans can’t…
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Woke, War & Wives: The World’s Gone Mad (Again)
This one’s an absolute ride. Colm gets accused of having “lesbian energy,” Justin tries to justify angry men, Rebecca calls out everyone’s hypocrisy — and…
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Fueled by Anger or Freed by Forgiveness? The Aftershow Gets Personal
It’s Sunday, and the hangover from Thursday’s episode on forgiveness is still brewing. Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan are back — a little raw, a…
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Forgive, Forget, or F* Off? The Truth About Letting Go
Can you really forgive and forget? This week on Not So Christian Brothers, Colm Hayes and Justin Caffrey go head-to-head on forgiveness — from global politics…
Not so Christian BrothersHappiness, Guilt & The Voices in Our Heads
This Aftershow might just break your heart and make you laugh out loud. Rebecca dives headfirst into intrusive thoughts, Justin preaches that happiness is “an…
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Intrusive Thoughts & the 3:28 a.m. Spiral
We all wake up at 3 a.m. sometimes — heart racing, thoughts racing faster. In this week’s episode of Not So Christian Brothers, Justin and Colm tackle the 3…
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Aftershow: Therapy, Grief & the Brothers Who Talk About It”
The Aftershow continues one of the most moving conversations we’ve ever had. Colm has returned to the studio after sharing the story of losing his wife, Anne —…
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Grief, Anger & Sandwiches: Colm’s Raw Story
This episode marks a special moment as Justin welcomes his brother Colm back to the studio after the loss of his wife, Anne. What begins as a heartfelt…
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Why Nobody Does Funerals Like the Irish | The Aftershow
Welcome to the Aftershow of Not So Christian Brothers, released every Saturday. This week, Rebecca, Justin, and Beatrice continue the conversation about loss…
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Life, Legacy & Laughter After Loss – What Really Matters Most
This week’s episode opens on a heartfelt note. Sadly, Colm’s wife Anne passed away last week after a long battle with cancer. Our thoughts and prayers are with…
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Are We Born This Way, Or Broken Into It? Labels, Trauma & Destiny Unpacked
❤️ Note to Listeners Before we dive in, we want to pause. Colm’s beautiful wife Anne — married 35 years — has sadly passed away. We are all devastated for…
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Marriage, Mental Load & 20 Years Together — The Aftershow Takeover
This week’s Not So Christian Brothers Aftershow looks a little different… with Colm away and Terry missing in action, Rebecca and Beatrice take over the mic —…
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Do Men Ever Really Share the Load at Home? Justin & Beatrice Get Real
With Colm away on personal matters and Rebecca on holiday, Beatrice Caffrey steps into the hot seat opposite her husband, Justin. What begins with playful…
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The Aftershow: Loose Hyphens, Tight Wallets & Life’s Unpredictable Punch
But just when you think it’s all laughs, Rebecca shares a harrowing personal story from her holiday (Caution When Listening), witnessing a man collapse and die…
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When Life Blindsides You: From Chris Evans to Hospital Emergencies
What happens when life throws you completely off script? In this week’s Not So Christian Brothers, Justin and Colm swap wild stories of unpredictability—from…