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Outwitting the Manipulator
Manipulation doesn't announce itself. It shows up mid-sentence, mid-meeting, mid-argument — and by the time you realize what happened, it's over.
Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski — communication experts with 50+ years of combined experience — break down the tactics manipulators use and hand you specific, practical techniques to respond in real time. No therapy-speak. No "just set boundaries" advice that sounds great on paper and falls apart the second someone pushes back.
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Episodes
Outwitting the ManipulatorNavigating the Maze of Manipulation and Persuasion
The podcast delves into the intricate dynamics of communication, manipulation, and persuasion, exploring whether manipulation can ever be deemed appropriate or…
Outwitting the ManipulatorWhy Does Society Reward Manipulators?
In this episode of the "Outwitting the Manipulator" podcast, Robin Golinski and Dr. Dennis Becker discuss the prevalence and impact of manipulation in society…
Outwitting the ManipulatorCuriosity, Critical Thinking & Courage
Robin Golinsky and Dr. Dennis Becker host "Outwitting the Manipulator," a weekly live stream focused on dissecting manipulation and offering strategies to…
Outwitting the ManipulatorA False Sense of Urgency
The conversation revolves around the pervasive use of a false sense of urgency in manipulation, whether in marketing tactics, personal interactions, or sales…
Outwitting the ManipulatorCompliance in Your Own Manipulation
ChatGPT In this conversation, Robin and Dennis discuss the topic of manipulation and compliance in relationships, particularly coercive control. They emphasize…
Outwitting the ManipulatorBetween Paranoia and Trust
Dennis and Robin delve into the topic how individuals can navigate the spectrum between paranoia and blind trust. They discuss the impact of fear on one's…
Outwitting the ManipulatorProtecting Your Reputation
Your credibility, your integrity, and your reputation are everything. Dennis and Robin talk to you about what your "ethos" is and how a manipulator can "shop"…
Outwitting the ManipulatorManipulation on Valentine’s Day!
Valentine's Day is known for love, chocolate, roses ... and manipulation? Absolutely, according to Robin and Dennis, who are here to guide you through what is…
Outwitting the ManipulatorSocial Media: Preying on Our Insecurities
Robin and Dennis discuss social media, and how it preys upon people's insecurities. The moving of 'optional' to 'mandatory' for social media has been a tool of…
Outwitting the ManipulatorManipulation in the Holiday Season
The holiday season brings cheer, but it also gives opportunties for the manipulators. Robin and Dennis help you avoid holiday gloom.
Outwitting the ManipulatorA Childhood of Manipulation
Robin and Dennis welcome Simon, who shares his story of a challenging childhood fraught with manipulation.
Outwitting the ManipulatorConquering the Fear of Speaking
Robin and Dennis address the odious fear of speaking, a very common problem at the top of almost everyone's list.
Outwitting the ManipulatorManipulation in Business
Rich, a former CPA, joins the show to discuss inauthenticity and manipulation in the business world.
Outwitting the ManipulatorManipulating Through Inertia
Inertia. What has that got to do with manipulation? Inertia is a human condition that's very common, and it's when you're stuck. It's not moving forward. It's…
Outwitting the ManipulatorDealing With a Narcissist
Alison Kurt joins the show with an open and honest account of her experiences with a narciissist.
Outwitting the ManipulatorThe Backhanded Compliment
When is a compliment not a compliment? When it is backhanded -- and thus a tool of manipulation. Robin and Dennis discuss.
Outwitting the ManipulatorA Young Target of Manipulation
Dennis and Robin hear a tale shared by Vanessa, a young target of manipulation.
Outwitting the ManipulatorCommunication as a Weapon
Communication is a good thing -- until it is used for manipulation. Robin & Dennis discuss.
Outwitting the ManipulatorThe Dangers of Love Bombing
Dennis and Robin explain what "love bombing" is -- then hear a real example of it with guest Lolya Pushak.
Outwitting the ManipulatorThe Specter of Complicity
Are you complicit in your own manipulation? Robin and Dennis discuss what you need to know.
Outwitting the ManipulatorA Tale of a Manipulative Father
Becky Norwood, the founder of Spotlight Publishing, shares her story of a childhood marred by the manipulation of her father.
Outwitting the ManipulatorAll About Manipulation
Robin and Dennis are back for Season 2 and once again talking about manipulation and how you can protect yourself from being manipulated while it's happening.
Outwitting the ManipulatorThe Importance of Listening
Robin and Dennis wrap up season 1 by discussing the importance of listening -- and share six active-listening techniques that anyone can use.
Outwitting the ManipulatorTechniques You Can Use Against Manipulators
In earlier episodes Robin and Dennis addressed the tactics that the manipulator does to you. Now they reveal techniques that you can use against the…
Outwitting the ManipulatorParalanguage: Manipulation by Facial Expression
The topic is non-verbal approval and disapproval, or the manipulative tactics of "paralanguage," all of those moments where you are actually communicating…
Outwitting the ManipulatorRedefining Reality: Yes, You Are Losing Your Mind!
Dennis and Robin discuss gaslighting; the creation of self-doubt; and reframing past events, three of the tactics manipulators often use.
Outwitting the ManipulatorInvalidation and Dictating Feelings
Two tactics that have huge consequences for your mindset: Invalidation and dictating feelings. For more info on Robin and Dennis please visit…
Outwitting the Manipulator‘Love Bombing’ and Other Manipulative Tactics
In this episode Robin and Dennis discuss three common tactics used in manipulation: "love bombing"; calculation and planning; and hurt and rescue.
Outwitting the ManipulatorContextual Tactics of the Manipulator
Robin and Dennis tackle the contextual tactics of the manipulator and their use of surrogates. For more info on Robin and Dennis please visit…
Outwitting the ManipulatorCommon Conversation Manipulations
Robin and Dennis discuss the five most common methods of manipulation in conversation, how they are used in concert, and how to escape them. For more info on…
Outwitting the ManipulatorHumor Hurts
Robin and Dennis discuss humor as a manipulation tactic. Humor can make you feel loved and happy, but it can also be a powerful weapon in the world of…
Outwitting the ManipulatorThe Four Most Terrible Tactics Used To Manipulate
In this episode Robin and Dennis discuss the four most terrible tactics used to manipulate (blame, bullying, name-calling and public humiliation) and the ways…
Outwitting the ManipulatorPersuasion vs. Manipulation
In this episode Robin and Dennis discuss the element of persuasion and how it differs from manipulation. Learn how to protect yourself -- by knowing what you…
Outwitting the ManipulatorWhat Makes You A Target For Manipulation?
In this episode Robin and Dennis discuss how a manipulator looks to make you a target for manipulation. Learn to develop self-awareness about vulnerabilities…
Outwitting the ManipulatorWhat is Manipulation?
What is manipulation; how do we define it? Robin and Dennis discuss why manipulators manipulate. Most pain points in your life Inevitably has to do with…