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IT’S TIME TO TAKE ACTION – No More Waiting. · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: Everybody gets hurt, either metaphorically, sabbolically or physically.
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  Speaker 2: They get hurt.
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  Speaker 3: What's the matter with you tomorrow?
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  Speaker 2: And you root for that person who gets hurt. Get up, because.
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  Speaker 1: We all get knocked down. And that's just a credo
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  Speaker 1: I've followed my whole life. Life is undefeated. You can't
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  Speaker 1: beat it. You just have to go on the defense.
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  Speaker 1: That inspired the line no one punches harder than life.
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  Speaker 1: I felt that, geez, if I was going to go
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  Speaker 1: down into professional obscurity, I wanted to at least have
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  Speaker 1: the opportunity to say to myself, what you tried. It
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  Speaker 1: dawned on me that we basically are in a movie
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  Speaker 1: from the time we're born, and then when you get
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  Speaker 1: to be around eighteen twenty, you're now the director of
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  Speaker 1: your movie, which is called Light. And I ask you,
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  Speaker 1: knowing that if you were in a movie of your
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  Speaker 1: own making, would you.
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  Speaker 2: Be proud of the part you're playing?
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  Speaker 1: I certainly wasn't, and I took drastic steps to change
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  Speaker 1: all that. The point being, if you're producing this film
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  Speaker 1: called you make it the way you want to make it,
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  Speaker 1: and to really progress, old skin must be shed before
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  Speaker 1: a new skin can grow. I don't know if that
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  Speaker 1: makes sense, but that's pretty much the truth. You don't
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  Speaker 1: like this skin, rip it off and become a different character.
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  Speaker 2: I was raised by a.
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  Speaker 1: Very physical father, you know, I mean, so I was
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  Speaker 1: no stranger to serious pain, and I think it just
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  Speaker 1: became I'm not going to break no matter what he did,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I'm just not going to break. I had
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  Speaker 1: a very tumultuous upbringing, rough father, rough every and I
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  Speaker 1: was thin. I just was not genetically you say a mesomorph.
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  Speaker 1: I was an ecdo morph. And I went to see
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  Speaker 1: a film one day and it altered my life completely.
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  Speaker 1: It was Steve Reeves and hercules unchained, and when he
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  Speaker 1: struck that pose, I had an epiphot of him. That's
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  Speaker 1: who I want to be. That's a man. That's oh
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  Speaker 1: my god. And I ran out of the theater after
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  Speaker 1: that and went the junkyard and started lifting little break
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  Speaker 1: drums or anything that I could lift, like thirty pounds whatever.
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  Speaker 1: And I never stopped, and I did build on armor.
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  Speaker 1: It was like I felt I could really take care
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  Speaker 1: of myself. I could inflict punishment rather than take punishment.
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  Speaker 2: And I never stopped. Always had a hero worship, you know, I.
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  Speaker 1: Wish I could be the guy who saved a bus
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  Speaker 1: full of children.
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  Speaker 2: That's who I want to be. I want to be
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  Speaker 2: the guy who saves people.
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  Speaker 1: I think everybody here put under the right circumstances and
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  Speaker 1: their children, or their wife or entire trouble.
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  Speaker 2: Put their life on the line. I don't cave you
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  Speaker 2: kuld fall in a tire occage. You wouldn't take twise
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  Speaker 2: about jumping in.
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  Speaker 1: So everyone has the hero syndrome in them.
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  Speaker 3: They do. You just have to push the right button.
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  Speaker 1: I used to sit in this little apartment and it
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  Speaker 1: was a room. As a matter of fact, the room
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  Speaker 1: was so small. I remember I was able to open
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  Speaker 1: up the window and close the door while sitting on
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  Speaker 1: the bed at.
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  Speaker 3: The same time.
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  Speaker 1: It was like eight feet by eight feet by nine feet.
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  Speaker 1: But the one thing about that room there was really
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  Speaker 1: very little distraction.
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  Speaker 2: And he painted the windows black so he could write.
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  Speaker 1: I did paint them black because I don't know what time.
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  Speaker 1: But it didn't matter what time was. Oh, it's time
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  Speaker 1: for breakfast right away. You've just you derailed yourself. I'll
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  Speaker 1: have breakfast On'm hungry. I don't need to know what
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  Speaker 1: time is that kind of thing, so I was trying
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  Speaker 1: to eliminate all the excuses because it's write. So I
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  Speaker 1: would sit there propped up in bed, and I go
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  Speaker 1: out with my big pen and legal pat and just
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  Speaker 1: start writing these stories. And most of them were very,
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  Speaker 1: very trivial. But there was something about the process of
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  Speaker 1: unrealized dreams. I always brought back to this subject because
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  Speaker 1: I think it's one of the most enduring subjects and
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  Speaker 1: one of the most difficult passages for people to accept
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  Speaker 1: that they never were realized in the wrong lifetime, that
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  Speaker 1: they just didn't get that shot. The more I thought
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  Speaker 1: about this kind of street like character that just is
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  Speaker 1: totally misrepresented by.
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  Speaker 3: The way he looks physically.
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  Speaker 1: Just the way he walks down the street was enough
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  Speaker 1: to say, people, oh, dismissing me, He's kind of looks
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  Speaker 1: like a bully.
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  Speaker 3: It looks like a dark.
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  Speaker 1: Kind of character, and I thought, you know, that's an
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  Speaker 1: interesting character because they're always unrealized. Well, that festered in
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  Speaker 1: my mind for quite a while, and then eventually I
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  Speaker 1: decided it was a time to come to call. So
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  Speaker 1: I went to California and I moved in the valley,
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  Speaker 1: and things weren't going very very well there as a
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  Speaker 1: matter of fact, I had to try to sell my
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  Speaker 1: dog because he would either do that or he just
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  Speaker 1: was not going to be very well fed around the house.
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  Speaker 1: I did sell my dog at a seven eleven. It
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  Speaker 1: was either that or eat him. And then one night
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  Speaker 1: I went to see a Muhammad Ali fight and what
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  Speaker 1: I saw was pretty extraordinary. I saw a man they
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  Speaker 1: called the bay Om Leader, who didn't have a chance
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  Speaker 1: at all against you know, the greatest fighting machine supposedly
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  Speaker 1: that ever lived. And for one brief moment, this supposed
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  Speaker 1: stumblebum turned out to be magnificent in the fact that
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  Speaker 1: he lasted and knocked the champion down. I said, boy,
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  Speaker 1: if this isn't a metaphor for life, his entire life
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  Speaker 1: crystallized at that moment. He will be remembered for all eternity,
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  Speaker 1: at least among the fight fans.
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  Speaker 2: He did something extraordinary. I said, Oh, that.
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  Speaker 1: That is probably what I need, is a catalyst for
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  Speaker 1: an idea, a man who's going to stand up to
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  Speaker 1: life and take one shot and maybe go the distance.
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  Speaker 2: I really don't letter if it was just sleep. I
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  Speaker 2: really don't know if this guy opens my head again.
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  Speaker 2: So I wanted to do was distance.
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  Speaker 1: So I started to write, and it was one of
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  Speaker 1: those writing frenzies.
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  Speaker 2: And three days later and came up with the script
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  Speaker 2: of Rocket.
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  Speaker 1: At that time, I must admit my life was definitely
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  Speaker 1: on the way, at least professionally. I was emotionally, spiritually,
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  Speaker 1: physically bankrupt. Bit about one hundred and six dollars in
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  Speaker 1: the bank. I had a landlord, was a female landlord.
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  Speaker 1: But she was so big that when she came to
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  Speaker 1: collect the rent, like an entire shadow would cover the building,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I mean, it's like a total eclipse.
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  Speaker 2: And I mean, I'm not a small man.
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  Speaker 1: But she was a vicious individual, and she would have
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  Speaker 1: thought nothing about taking my car and bending it in half.
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  Speaker 1: And she didn't get her money. And so I had
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  Speaker 1: one hundred and six dollars the rent was three hundred
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  Speaker 1: out of didn't wipe.
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  Speaker 2: So you might say I had quite a bit of
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  Speaker 2: fuel to sit down and write the script.
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  Speaker 1: I write the script about three and a half days,
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  Speaker 1: and only because I could hear the wolf at the
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  Speaker 1: door a little like but here's the caveat. I'd say
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  Speaker 1: ninety percent was terrible. I believe in getting something done,
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  Speaker 1: no matter how flawed, just to get to the finish line,
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  Speaker 1: just to get it out, just to get it out,
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  Speaker 1: because I find the procrastination and diversion is something that
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  Speaker 1: writers reveling. Oh, I hope that phone rings, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I hope someone advice in to the beach because or
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  Speaker 1: let me see, what would I rather do? Play golf
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  Speaker 1: or sit at this desk continually reminding myself of how
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  Speaker 1: stupid I am because I can't come up with an idea.
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  Speaker 1: So I feel for writing now. The script, by no
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  Speaker 1: means was a finished piece of material. It was probably
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  Speaker 1: about ninety pages, and maybe ten percent of it remained
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  Speaker 1: in the final script, but it was done.
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  Speaker 3: And I said, how could you doubt me? Mom?
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  Speaker 1: I'm shocked, And it's like, I really, it just completely
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  Speaker 1: came apart, and there's there's so there will never be
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  Speaker 1: a moment like that ever.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I truly was over.
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  Speaker 3: I said, is it?
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  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go back home, take my dog and
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  Speaker 1: go back into you know, trying to eat, get a living.
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  Speaker 3: And they were all there and they responded in a way.
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  Speaker 1: It's like I don't know if that's the way they
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  Speaker 1: did things in Hollywood, but they saved it up.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm never give of that moment.
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  Speaker 1: I just looked at all these people and are planning,
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  Speaker 1: and it's been all downhill since at the very end
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  Speaker 1: of our lives, if we can still say, you know,
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  Speaker 1: we were never humbled. We were knocked down, but we
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  Speaker 1: got up, and I can say I lived life with integrity,
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  Speaker 1: and I took all the blows, as the song says,
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  Speaker 1: and I still prevailed. I think that's that's a good
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  Speaker 1: epitaph for anyone. What is healthier to live under the
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  Speaker 1: illusion and still have a little glimmer of hope that
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  Speaker 1: you could have been great or actually have an opportunity
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  Speaker 1: to be great, and then you blow it and you
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  Speaker 1: realize you're a failure. So I think that the easier
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  Speaker 1: route is to live under the illusion. Say, you know,
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  Speaker 1: if I had had that chance, I would have beaten
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  Speaker 1: all of them. Then finally it was being shown that
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  Speaker 1: the director was killed and this was going to be
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  Speaker 1: a test, and there was about nine hundred people invited,
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  Speaker 1: and it was a packed crowd, and the movie was
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  Speaker 1: playing terribly. My mother was sitting next to me, and
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  Speaker 1: the last weren't coming with us folks too, and the
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  Speaker 1: fight itself seemed to be listless. The response was and
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  Speaker 1: I sat there as everyone filed out of the theater,
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  Speaker 1: and I couldn't believe it, said, I really blew it.
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  Speaker 1: It was all late. I know it was nice while
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  Speaker 1: it lasted, but I guess when you get down and
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  Speaker 1: you show it to the big boys, they're just not
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  Speaker 1: buying it. Anyway, I sat there and literally there was
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  Speaker 1: no one to the theater because I didn't want. I
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  Speaker 1: was humiliated and saddened by the whole thing. And even
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  Speaker 1: you know, I walked her out and I was walking
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  Speaker 1: down the steps and there's three flights down, first flight,
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  Speaker 1: second flight, and then by the time I turned to
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  Speaker 1: the third flight, the entire.
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  Speaker 3: Audience was down there.
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  Speaker 1: There was nine hundred people waiting, and they started to applaud,
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  Speaker 1: and I mean truly a plud. I was on a
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  Speaker 1: casting call, so we're talking a little bit, and I
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  Speaker 1: guess I really wasn't right for the acting partner. On
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  Speaker 1: the way out, I said, Oh, I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: it matters, but I do a little bit of writing.
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  Speaker 1: He goes, really, he says, he say, yeah, I'm writing
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  Speaker 1: this story. Is I have a scene about wrestlers and
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  Speaker 1: I might do some of the boxing wall. He says, well,
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  Speaker 1: bringing it around and I thought if I hadn't stopped
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  Speaker 1: on the way out. You know, that's why I tell
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  Speaker 1: all our writers, don't give up.
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  Speaker 2: Keep talking.
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  Speaker 1: Eventually you might hit a nerve somewhere and they go, oh,
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  Speaker 1: come on back. And if they didn't say come on back,
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  Speaker 1: or bring it later and let's see what you've developed,
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't be sitting here.
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  Speaker 3: So I have to give incredible.
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  Speaker 1: Credit to their insight and their patients, and they're willing
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  Speaker 1: to take a chance, which it doesn't exist much anymore.
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  Speaker 3: Unfortunately, Originally, when I brought.
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  Speaker 1: The script to them, they were fairly enthusiastic about it.
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  Speaker 1: The one thing they were not enthusiastic about was me
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  Speaker 1: playing the part.
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  Speaker 2: And I really can't blame them.
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  Speaker 1: At the time, Ryan O'Neill was a candidate, Bert Reynolds,
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  Speaker 1: Robert Redford, Jimmy Kahn, and they all were at the
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  Speaker 1: top of their game.
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  Speaker 2: And so I could see it.
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  Speaker 1: But there was something inside of me that, you know,
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  Speaker 1: this opportunity is never going to come around. And I
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  Speaker 1: really wasn't used to money, and I had no idea
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  Speaker 1: of what I would be missing, but.
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  Speaker 2: The temptation started to come forward.
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  Speaker 1: At first, it was twenty five grands and one hundred
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  Speaker 1: thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 3: I never heard of a hundred thousand.
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  Speaker 1: Because I had like one hundred and six dollars in
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  Speaker 1: the bank, and like I said, I had to sell
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  Speaker 1: my dog and things were not looking very very good.
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  Speaker 1: My forty dollars car had just blown up, so I
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  Speaker 1: was taking a bus to work. I was still it
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  Speaker 1: didn't matter. I wanted to stick with it. Then I
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  Speaker 1: went up to one hundred and fifty hundred and seventy five thousand,
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  Speaker 1: and went up to two hundred and fifty thousand, and
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  Speaker 1: it went up to three hundred and sixty thousand.
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  Speaker 3: Now my head was starting to spend.
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  Speaker 1: Famous stories that you turned down all this money for
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  Speaker 1: the screenplay to Rocke because they wouldn't let you.
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  Speaker 3: Didn't want you to be in it, right, can you play?
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  Speaker 1: It was like, you know, what I've never heard you
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  Speaker 1: talk about is what is India to be able to
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  Speaker 1: turn right down when you don't have it?
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  Speaker 2: You broke? I was.
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  Speaker 3: I was flat broke, I really seriously.
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  Speaker 2: But it depends how well you know yourself.
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  Speaker 1: I knew my personality that if I sold it, that
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  Speaker 1: was probably a million plus by today's dollars. The way
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  Speaker 1: and someone else did it and it was successful, I
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  Speaker 1: would have never forgiven myself. I know, in the back
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  Speaker 1: of my mind, if I sell the script and it
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  Speaker 1: does very very well, I'm gonna jump off a building.
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  Speaker 1: And if I'm not, there's no doubt about it, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna leave in front of a train.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna be very, very upset.
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  Speaker 1: So I would have been a broken, embittered man the
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  Speaker 1: rest of my life. So I realized we have in
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  Speaker 1: our in our entire futures, about three or four serious crossroads,
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  Speaker 1: and that was my first one. That's a real serious
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  Speaker 1: cross road where this is life altered and it's not
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  Speaker 1: about money. I know I will be destroyed and I
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  Speaker 1: will destroy everyone around me. I'll be such a miserable
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  Speaker 1: human being for selling out.
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  Speaker 2: This is what the whole movie is about. Is not
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  Speaker 2: selling now that I know, I just I just know
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  Speaker 2: how I work.
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  Speaker 3: I know what my injury will do.
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  Speaker 1: But I would have been dead because when you're broke,
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  Speaker 1: I actually master at the art of poverty. Well you know,
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  Speaker 1: I figured it out, all right, We have sketty one
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  Speaker 1: day a week and listen that I manage. And I
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  Speaker 1: still had to blaken optimism. But if I had sold out.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I knew it. Hey they tried it.
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  Speaker 2: I mean believe it.
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  Speaker 3: They tried it.
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  Speaker 1: So this is one of those things where you just
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  Speaker 1: roll the dice and you fly by the proverbial seat
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  Speaker 1: of your parts say all.
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  Speaker 3: Right, I gotta try it.
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  Speaker 2: I gotta just do it.
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  Speaker 1: I may be totally wrong and I'm gonna be taking
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people down with me, but I just
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  Speaker 1: believe in it.
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  Speaker 2: If nothing else, I had a good home movie. My
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  Speaker 2: parents would enjoy it.