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Below Deck Med: "Lead Like a Leader Who Leads" · Drama, Darling: A Real Housewives Comedy Podcast

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Drama, Darling, Drama, Darling, Drama, Darling. Hello, what's
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up? Everybody? Happy Tuesday. It's drama Darling. It's me Amy Phillips.
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Joining me is Angela Quintana. Hi, Angela, Oh shit, I
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forgot to mute you tried it one more time. I take two. Hi
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Darling, I've missed you. So, I've missed you so and Angela is
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coming in hot for today's recap of Below deck med Oh, so many accents,
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so little time, so many accents. Ying a brand new one that
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we've never seen on any Below Daly yebe Oh my god, I we have
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okay, sorry, just a little ahead of ourself. Yeah, Lula moose
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Bousch for the darlings. But I'm so happy you're here. We're going to
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talk about that in a moment. We have a little serving dish to give
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you. But also an update. Cabareamy in Vegas, as you know,
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thank you. I'm fighting. I'm very excited it will be posted on Friday.
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Okay, so Friday Night's show, we'll be posted on Saturday, November
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You do not have to be a subscriber to purchase, and so that will
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I mean, you're not gonna be if you're on the East Coast, you're
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not going to be live streaming this at midnight. My show is late at
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night. So we're just gonna post it up there and then boom, you
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just watch whenever you gosh darn want you, you know what I'm saying,
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whenever you want to love it. Thank you. I'm so thrilled that this
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is an option and it's going to be spectacular. And I also want to
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tell you about a few special guests that will be joining me that for my
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and Cook Cook and Kibbitts, and Saturday night, Amrit Kapai from Family Karma.
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Yes, he's nice. We have so many people who are going to
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be there. As you know, there's an after party on Thursday night that
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is sold out. It's I'm very excited for the whole thing for sale at
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heat transfer, honey, it's it's in bright amazing. Did fish me make
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these hats? I only I don't know, you know what they should.
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I wish he would have, but you know, gosh darn it, he
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didn't. Drama Darling mugs will be available and some signed cookbooks of cook It,
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you one. We'll just give you one when I see you. See you
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there, and please do not forward or share with anyone under twenty one.
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Please drink responsibly. So today in serving dish, we just have a little
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bit of a nibble serving dish, all right, first and foremost, you
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know, reasonably shady has been a little quiet quiet lately on the front of
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what's been going on with Candae and the alleged accusations that we heard about about
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Chris having an alleged affair, and I know there were some pictures posted there.
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There are no receipts essentially that can really connect the dots. Well,
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no, they weren't for public. It just was sent to miss Tasha Kay.
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Okay, So Tasha Kay broke the story and this is an alleged story
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that was going on. You know, Candice has been really quiet about it,
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only posting like Hey, I'm out with the ladies, like hanging out
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with you know, Karen Huger. And so today was the day in which
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reasonably shady ladies got into the mix and they posted a little bit. Of
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course, you know, I went over to Queens of Bravo Plus on Instagram
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and got my tea over there. But they had a little SoundBite from their
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podcast saying that they're saying like, hey, listen, you know, as
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you know, someone in our cast has been in the news lately, and
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they're so shady and they're not reasonable. But then you know what I'm going
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to say next that they were like Robin's like, well, I'm not going
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to say anything about this, and then Gazelle's like, but we may be
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taugh talking about it over on our Patreon. So I mean, I can't
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believe that they still have jobs on Bravo with the crap that they have pulled.
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I'm not kidding, but it's so on brand, and you know,
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so go head on over to their patreon. But I did post on Queens
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of Bravo Plus of course, you know I love that account. I was
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like, listen instead, why don't you head over to my patreon? Okay,
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I do recaps of all the Bravo shows and daily plus bonus EPs.
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I mean patreon dot comback slash Drama Dollar Darling. So that's my plug for
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my patreon. No, I you so yeah, giving people the things that
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they didn't know they wanted. Thank you, and that just I'm going to
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go through, as a matter of fact, the schedule after I finish up
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this next story, and that is this which this is a Radar Online exclusive,
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and this is a whole story about Gina and Travis and who knew that
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really the waters run deep with the drama happening in Travis's life and his ex
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wife. We kind of brushed this. We knew something was bubbling there.
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We knew that there was some kind of restraining order. We did find out
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about this last year he had a restraining order against her. It started,
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I want to say, like twenty twenty one, and then he re upped
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the restraining order in twenty twenty two. Here we are again reup. You
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get into a reup. You know, you got in a reap. And
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so now he went to the court to plead with a judge to grant him
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a restraining order. Again they did. The judge did allow him to get
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a temporary restraining order against Meghan Mullen. This was in August. This was
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on August sixteenth. Okay, this is what the documents are yes of this
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year. So now this has trickled down and finally hit the tabloids. As
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we know, he filed for divorce from Megan in twenty seventeen. They share
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joint custody of their three children. In this filing, he asked that his
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ex be prohibited from coming one hundred within one hundred yards of Gina and his
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children. I believe that the restraining order, the temp restraining order, only
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covers him and not Gina and the kids, if I'm correct here. But
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Travis is claiming that Megan was arrested for violating a criminal protective order protecting him
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from her. She has also threatened him and his family and engaged in a
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campaign of harassment, unwanted contact, attempted extortion, and threats of arm if
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he does not comply with her demands. He said that he needs a restraining
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order because he's fearful that in his absence she will continue to harm him and
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harass him and their children. Because she's continually and increasingly harassing and harming him,
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even with criminal protective order in place, Travis said Meghan's actions have created
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a dangerous environment for their children and him. In the document, explained that
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Meghan was charged with misdemeanor battery over an incident involving him that went down in
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October of twenty twenty one, and then again it gets into the reinstated protective
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orders in twenty twenty two in May. In August, Travis is essentially saying
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that he called nine to one one and officers arrived at the home and found
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Megan in the car because she was one hunt within one hundred feet or like,
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you know, of his house. And I think Megan is saying that
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she was bless you, like, within one hundred feet of a kid's school,
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and that's why she was there. He's claimed that she made several Instagram
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posts that insinuated that Megan was going to kill herself, called out Gina and
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him for by their names, made various disparaging and untrue comments about him and
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Gina, and stated that Gina and he were abusing his children. I remember
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that story from like a year ago. So this is a continuing ongoing thing.
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And that really called the cops recently because she was in the car near
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his house. So this is just okay. So my question, so you
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you said the original restraining order was just kind of she couldn't go near him,
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But now this new restraining order, he's including Gina and her kids and
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his kids or just they just say they say the children, they say the
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kids. So I'm guessing I don't know, and that does wonder. I
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wonder that too. I thought, well, if they have joint custody,
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how can you have a restractor against the kids. But it must maybe it's
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Gina's kids because they live in that house. I'm just guessing that's just so
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sad. These poor kids like are going to see all this, you know
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what, I'm guessing it must be his kids. It's because it says,
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the court granted travis request for a temporary restraining order from him for him personally,
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but not for his children or Gina. The hearing has been set for
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December, where Travis will argue to make the order permanent. Oh wow,
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this is just you know, oh gosh, it's just troubling, you know,
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the amount of drama that is going on between their families and what they've
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been through. And also this has been happening with his ex for the past
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you know, year or two, you know, going on two years.
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And this makes me think of the undertones of the recent season of Orange County
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when you know, the only thing that was brought up in the season was
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Shannon bringing up the awful thing about you knows was going to take your kids.
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And when she clarified, I meant if no one was home at that
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time to take the kids when you were arrested, it wasn't like for good.
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She was trying to clarify that. So that being said, I wasn't
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trying to clarify anything. She was trying to cover her ass. Well,
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yeah, of course, come on, because you can't. You just don't
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mention CPS period. That was a rude rude comment, absolutely, and nothing
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else was brought up. And I know there's no way that the cast didn't
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know about all of these allegations that his ex wife was you know, putting
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out there about the abuse and all this stuff, these alleged abuse that she
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was saying was happening at their house, and no one on the cast brought
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this up. No one on the cast brought up the restraining order. So
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I find it to be yes, which to me says a lot about the
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cast not bringing right up in a good way, in a good way,
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so they had her back. Yeah. Anyway, that being said, that
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is the news there, and just thoughts out of Gina and Travis and like
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the kids, you just don't want messy and like they don't, we don't
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want this in the headlines. And I'm sorry to report, but it's out
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there, you know, no, right, it's out there, and we're
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trying to be protective of the children and hope that they're you know, okay.
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But then you think about it's you said they got divorced in twenty seventeen,
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right, so I'm sure it hasn't been amicable up until just a couple
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a couple of year. You know what I mean, I'm sure it was
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pretty probably contentious since then. Sure, and that is like these poor kids,
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that's like their whole life, like you know what I mean, like
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this, it's been like this for It's just it makes me so seems like
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they have a very stable environment with Gena and Travis, you know, it
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seems like they have a really nice, blended family. And then also to
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know what Gina's dealing with on her end and then with the show and stuff
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like that, it really gives you an I into why Travis is like,
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yeah, bring it, I'm fine, We're cool. I can handle it.
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And Gina's like, I can't tell him anything, Heather it cause you
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don't even know the have of it, Like you know, they're dealing with
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shit on a constant basis, Like they are a team, and so let
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them be. They own their house, and they own their house, thank
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you, and she has their real estate I license along with DRAVI that yeah,
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they're gonna they're going to be an empire. I know. So that
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is the news. But I want to mention the schedule because you know,
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I went I went to work yesterday. I went to work and I was
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like, oh my God, lately, I'm just so trying to get my
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head around this schedule, with the upcoming Bravo con coming around the corner,
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with all of the shows that Bravos just dealing out. I mean, it's
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just they're shuffling the deck and they're just they just keep dealing these premieres,
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and so I just wanted to get my head around. So I have a
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week at a glance. I posted this on my Patreon so you guys can
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see it smarts, but you know, I just want to let you know
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what's coming up. So obviously, today Angela Quentin is here, we're doing
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Below Deck med. Tomorrow we have got a great episode. We're gonna be
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covering Foxes Special Forces and that's gonna be Angela and Jamie Moyer. So we're
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popping into just episode four. You know, i'd like to say, I've
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got, you know, my own Special Forces here with Angela because she has
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already been watching this, so she's already three episodes ahead. I'm not gonna
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dive in. Okay, I'm only here, thank you. I'm only here
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for episode four because Tom Sandoval is gonna be crying and I need to see
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this. So we're gonna talk about that, and that is tomorrow and the
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Patreon on Thursday, it is Real Housewives of Salt Lake City with Emily that
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is everywhere you get your podcasts. And then on Friday over on the Patreon
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Southern Charm with Deanna, and the bonus episode is Golden Bachelor with Deanna.
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That's the bonus episode for the next and for the next ever until it ends
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next week. Monday, We've got the New York Reunion with Emily Below deck
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Med with Angela on Tuesday, Real Housewives of Salt Lake City with Emily on
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Wednesday. The bonus episode is Winter House with Angela. You're gonna get two
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bonus episodes next week. Beverly Hills available everywhere you get podcasts on Thursday with
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Emily and then Friday Southern Charm with Deenna, another bonus episode on Patreon with
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Golden Bachelor with Deenna popping into No Show on Monday. Below deck on Med
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with Emily on the thirty first on Tuesday, Salt Lake City with Emily on
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Wednesday, Beverly Hills with Emily on Thursday, Southern Charm with Deanna Friday,
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Golden Bachelor with Deanna on Friday, I'm gonna be in Vegas, leaving on
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the first so Vegas Bay, I'm leaving. I will be driving, and
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then I'm doing my podcast from Caesar's Palace my room. So you know,
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barring no technical difficulties, you're gonna get your have content. Okay, I'm
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doing my shows up there and over there, and I'm going to be popping
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out these these podcasts because we are not stopping, you will. I love
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it. We're not going to stop so so much, so much in the
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beginning. But it's all worth it, guys, because in life there's always
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hurdle. Whatever you do is going to have hurdles. Yeah, and you
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know sometimes sometimes the announcements have hurdles. Duh, I missed the hobbits,
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thank you, honey. Well, we've got to get into our below deck
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med recap Angela, so we take you a mystique and I'm not talking about
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my cologne all right, fresh smells fresh. It smells like the ocean,
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mystiquh Wow, we're really popping and locking. We're coming right into nat and
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to me, finishing their argument from last week, a shit show from the
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first episode this season has been I can't, isn't it fantastic though. It
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is amazing, but like, yeah, it's a lot of waves on the
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ocean in this on this vessel that's like the biggest vessel we've seen yet.
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Yeah, it is. They need four interior stews and I I will say
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exterior plus oh yeah yeah. But I enjoy below decks when it's not the
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crew against each other, but the crew against the guests. I love when
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the conflict is like, oh, these guests are like horrible guests. When
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the conflict is between the crew, I don't it upsets me. Like I
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love to see a crew that gets along and has so much fun with each
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other. That's fun for me to watch. I love it. But I
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like it too, But it's got to ebb and flow. You have to
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give some drama and you've got to give some play. Yeah. I love
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like the dumb, like little relationship dramas that you have are sometimes maybe between
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the chef and the chiefs. Do like those are always silly and fun to
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watch. Yeah, this is tumultuous. Is tumultuous. It's it's unbelievable.
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You know, it says a lot. It says a lot to me.
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Has to walk away and breathe tell herself to breed and she's tasting. Yeah,
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she's testing you, she's testing you. For Jack to say it's confessional,
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is he wait he's Irish? Right? Wait? What is he got
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it from Manchester? I'm trying to I'm trying to. Yes, he's British.
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Yeah, Now I'm just kidding because he's like, Natolean, team,
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you need to work out the problems. It's gonna be the Titanic. I
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mean he definitely, I mean, yeah, yeah, yes we do.
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Oh you know when someone is referencing the Titanic, uh, you know,
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and he's really team that because she is buddied up to him. So for
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him to say that, he's starting to be like all right, like let's
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just calm down, Nat. Yeah. So they're finally leaving the dock.
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Yeah, we're gonna get out there. We're finally gonna leave this dock.
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We're gonna get those We're gonna launch all the water toys. Yeah it's cool.
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Isn't get those smiles out? I never want to see those awesome Yeah,
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all right, get those smiles out, get those water toys and smiles
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up. So they had a full team and the primary makes a proper Mimosa,
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which is basically just all Champagne that coming. Yeah. Luke is very
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impressed by Laurya Laura, Laura, La Laura Lara, and Luke asks Sandy
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about, you know, appointing a league deckhand. He's so impressed by her,
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and Sandy's like, you, I want you to lead, So whatever's
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up, you know, it's up to you. Do you do what you
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do? Yeah, do what you do. I actually like I I kind
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of love that Sandy leads that way because she lets them find there. She's
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still guiding them and she's still leading them, but she lets them find their
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own style and way of doing it without stepping in and telling like this is
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how you do it, like telling them micromanaging, even though she does get
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accused of micromanaging. I don't know. I love Sandy's style of cat I
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love her leadership, she loves caprice, her caprices. Yes, room to
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room, and we're hearing a lot of the because it's such a huge vessel,
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so she has to walk a little more briskly than she normally does,
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so the pace is of yes, she's kidding, yes. So Nat is
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bitching to Kyle about to me in the laundry room. NAT's bitching to Jessica
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while they're doing and we get that great video collage of her just bitching,
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bitching, bitching, and Kyle says, it is confessional. You know,
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I'm good at keeping information, but I'm all good at keeping information locked the
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store. I mean, of course he likes to stirtup. He's such a
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shit star. He's majorly the reason why this has even gone down. Yes,
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And I love how that confessional. You can always tell in confessionals,
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you're like, oh, this is like six months later, Yeah, that
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he sees pasty. Uh, it's it cracks. But I this is like
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one of those reddits, am I the asshole threads and it's everyone sucks here,
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everyone sucks. Oh, everyone says Kyle wouldn't have happened if you would
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have kept her or even got on the vessel. She's muscle mouth. Shut
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your gossipy mouth to me, came in, way too hot to me,
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came in and shows asshole like, yeah, yeah, I agree, I
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agree, And then Natalia like you're not even giving her a chance, and
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it's and at this point, honestly, if anyone has ever talked with their
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hands more, it's Natalia and if she ever ever as the ball over ever
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as the falls to accuse to me of using her hands, Oh again,
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I'm gonna go ahead and just wait for the editors to do another idio collage
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of just her hands that are far out of her own space since the first
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time we saw her last season, I won a montage of all all of
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the hands. I want a hand montage. I want arm I mean,
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and the head is going rn. I've never seen she's a fucking puppet.
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I mean, the way that she moves I just and now to me is
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so paranoid about her hands. She literally did you see her go into the
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galley, She crossed them like a corpse against her chest and she was like,
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Jack, the vegan isn't happy. And I'm like, poor to me,
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now, she's fucking terrified of using her hands, so she's now x
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them on her body and I'm like, babe, you're fine. You know
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who's got a problem with their hands? Uh? And Italia a pot and
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meat cattle. Yeah, it's just these like oh my god, I mean,
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I honestly, I feel like Kyle is the messiest and biggest to blame
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of the punch, Like if he didn't put that in Toomey's head. She
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wouldn't have gone in with already preconceived notions about Natalia and how like all right,
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I'm gonna get this bitch and like I'm gonna whip her into shape.
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Yep, this is the way you anything. This is before, this is
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when you have plenty of time on your hands at the Consulate. Oh yeah,
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at the Consolate, you're just like what do we do to you know,
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pass the time at the Consulate. And then to watch Kyle be like
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to Natalia like she's coming for you, bite, like she said she would
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have no problem firing you, and it was like uh oh. But then
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immediately to go to Toomey and just be like she said, bring it on,
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go ahead and fire her. And the way he is playing everybody,
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he literally is like, oh god, he loves And to put it in
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a heather do Bro's words. Do you think I'm some sort of machiavellian villain.
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It's like, ah, that is Kyle. That is so Kyle.
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So now Toomey goes to talk to Sandy about it, and she's like,
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I'm worried about nat It's constant resistance and Sandy's like, yeah, it's not
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good. Transition is hard. Try to approach it with kindness, all right,
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And it's like, uh no, I don't you know what's going on.
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This is her first you know, this is Sandy's first thing. This
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is her first step is she likes to give chances, so approach it with
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kindness. That's the her first you know step. And then then you know
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the next thing. You know. We got the water toys in and we're
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going to start setting up this picnic at the Santa Margarita Castle, which is
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amazing, gorgeous, stunny, Wow, beautiful, gorgeous, stunny, beautiful.
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We see how much Lara hates hates what I Max Max. She hates
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him with a passion. Oh my god, absolutely love with reason. And
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I feel like maybe there is a reason we haven't seen many French people on
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below decks because, like he said, he's like, I am with Americans,
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I am with South South Africans, and they're like, oh, go
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go. It was like, so they're working, they're working hard at their
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job, is what you're telling me. All Right, we get a couple
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of Lara clips here that I just have to play. We don't have time
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to consider out and wink, what are you doing? Ah you Angela's jamin
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out. I want to kick Maximist. I love the usage of the dead
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hands, using the word dick all the time. Like Haley was like,
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because he looks like a bag of dick, and she's just like, I
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want to kick him in the deck. I just it's so empowering, you
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know what I mean? It really, it really is, and I love
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how it's It's like as much as uh Natalia was like we saw the montage
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of Natalia talking bad about to me or to me that calls her to me,
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it was like watching Laura bitch about it. Probably the frenchy. It's
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probably winking. He's probably out of that whiking, Like all he does is
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wank and exercise and like she's like, are you okay? Brother, And
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it's like it's like working out. Immediately. They are like carrying, you
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know, six chairs at a time. They're going up. It's like seapilled
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in this castle and Luke is like, hey, I need a deckhand to
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come back and get the guests. He's like I'm going he couldn't get out
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of there faster, I know, and you know what honest, I mean
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him being like I need to keep Wait no, what does he sound like
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you need a Kiri Palu. I'm like, you don't need anything. You
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need to do your job. Oh the bench, arm press whatever, use
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that as she elsewhere working. But also like Laura, you kind of don't
28:23
need him, like she can work circles around him. I know, but
28:26
it's just not fair. He shouldn't be getting the tip. You know that.
28:30
He also doesn't know the ground lines. He can't die When she was
28:37
a disaster, it was such a disaster, and then even Haley was like,
28:40
can you like put a dick in your mouth for a second? Shut
28:42
up? Dicks everywhere, But it's just it's so insane this season, poor
28:51
Luke is stuck with these people and he's like, I I hopefully the Boson
28:56
will come back soon, and she's like, I want you to be my
28:57
permanent bos right, Like ShW you really took a back seat this this episode
29:08
because he definitely I don't know what's going to happen, but he's going to
29:11
have to call this French ye on the carpet at some point soon hope.
29:17
So, But also like was he even like lead deackhand or like whatever it's
29:23
called before you know what I mean. Yeah, he Oh god, I
29:29
want to say he was. I don't know, but I know that he
29:33
has really good skills with a Z. I don't know he does he know
29:37
what doesn't matter. You know, recommended him captain, and that's I take
29:42
a captain's order and recommendation, high school guard. Whatever you do is going
29:47
to have hurdles. I don't care, thank you. I was between a
29:51
rock and hard place, all right. There's no Boson within a million kilometer
29:57
radar distance, okay. And he knew how to call distances. He gave
30:02
the right distance. So he's bost what like, that's why you're that's when
30:07
she was about five feet away Boston material. The guests have to walk all
30:12
the way up there, and I'm like, the same, the worst sad.
30:15
Well, no we didn't and uh they were like do you is there
30:21
an escalator here? Like this is a nightmare, but they made it.
30:27
And I have to say, I feel like the one vegan guest lady.
30:33
I know, thank you, thank you, thank you. I don't look,
30:37
we've all done some stuff in our lives, you know, that doesn't
30:41
mean that you can't be served a mediocre meal. And also look chef Jack,
30:47
that's not his gig, and he did mess up to me? Did
30:52
say fried tofu when she got down? Yes, I feel like when you
30:59
say fried to an American versus anybody else, immediately immediately we think deep fried,
31:10
batter deep, but he's thinking pan fried. But then I also go
31:15
to the well just because he's from the UK, you're a chef, but
31:21
also like, aren't like fish and chips? Like, isn't that what you
31:23
do? Yeah? Yeah? Is it? Do they sit like? I
31:29
don't know. I just I think he just threw to me under the bus.
31:33
I it was he was in trouble, he was out of his league.
31:37
I think it was miscommunication. I don't think he meant to throw to
31:41
me under the bus, because I really do think at this point he's like,
31:45
I see what's gonna happen with Natalia and to me, and I don't
31:48
want any part of that. So I'm just going to try to get along
31:52
with my chiefs too and stay the hell away from that. But I find
31:56
it right under that vessel, right under that three yeah, right under the
32:00
d than three anchors. I mean, because he was like, oh,
32:04
she didn't say fried, and it's like breaded and fried. Oh did he
32:09
say she didn't say breaded and fried? For God's sakes, because but I
32:15
could see where it was as a cook myself. Okay, okay, but
32:22
if someone was like, can you just season this and fry it? I
32:25
would be like, sure, I would pan for, I would season it,
32:28
and then I would not. I would I would not think to like
32:30
I would think deep fry. I would think deep fry. Absolutely. I
32:35
think it was just a miscommunication. It's your English background that's coming here,
32:38
coming up here. You just of course. But also I feel like I
32:45
anytime these people go on a yacht, like like Charles or whatever his name
32:52
was, that was like, oh, this is disgusting. I could get
32:57
a better breakfast at McDonald's. It was. It's like, no for her
33:00
to be like this flavor, it's a two out of ten witch, this
33:05
is like a yacht chef. I highly doubt you got a two at a
33:09
ten meal. You're I feel like she was just being It's all like the
33:14
other thing is how are the other meals? Like how is the main meal?
33:16
You know, like on the side, Yes, I mean it seemed
33:21
like they like the jerk chicken, the jambalaya during the Caribbean meal, and
33:25
so you know, Vegan, he should have prepared better for that. You're
33:30
gonna have dietary restrictions. People are going to be vegan, so he needs
33:36
to step up his game for that period. Dot. However, you know
33:40
you're being a little you're being a little rougher on the edges. Okay,
33:44
I hardly doubt he was like, oh God, Vegan, just get some
33:50
romaine lettuce and I'll chop up some carrots and celery. And you know it
33:54
looks a little more creative than that. So the flavors weren't there, Lass
34:01
weren't there. We have to talk about the fight that happened before the dinner.
34:07
God, Okay, nat and Toomey fight and this was my God,
34:12
Natalie, I'm sorry Natalia. When she gets her panties in a bunch and
34:17
that hurricane starts going, you can't stop her. That top is a spinning
34:22
and she is bitching to Jessica, who's just like, I don't want to
34:24
be a part of this, and she's like, oh, I just can't
34:27
believe this. Hello, what's the issue? This time? We done the
34:30
Cabins day. We did a quick check up, made all the beds again,
34:32
if you like, oh, I can't believe this, what is the
34:35
problem. And Tommy's like, if you say the cabins are done, that
34:37
means showers have been white. We did it this morning. This was just
34:42
a freshen up. There's a freshen up. I'm the chief stew congratulations.
34:46
And then they go back and forth. Oh my god, you're Natalia.
34:52
The voice, the vanderism, the body movements, it's so spot on because
34:57
that is totally hard, Like she gets so her whole body, she flails,
35:01
No wonder she's so skinny, the amount of calories she is burning.
35:07
Just speaking with her hands, by the way, and I mean to me,
35:12
needs to be like, I'm not talking about your hands getting in my
35:15
face. I'm talking about can you remove your arms? Can you move your
35:17
shoulders from my space? And the ends of your hair? Like that's what's
35:22
happening now? And then what then? Tell me give me a little Kyle,
35:27
Give me a little Kyle going over to Sandy and telling her what's going
35:32
on. Hey, Kyle, what's up? What Italian Italian fighting? Oh?
35:39
No, what's up again? So like I know I'm process I need
35:45
to say, I God, I look at the mess I've created. I
35:49
need to go to the captin you Italian. So and again this was an
35:57
instant where mm hmm, simple communication, yes, full communication. Could it
36:06
like cabins are done? What does that mean? Like, maybe tell each
36:10
other what does cabins are done mean to you? Like they can't get to
36:15
that point. They cannot. Oh, that's because there are so many hurdles
36:23
all these vessel it's just too much. And I, I mean to me
36:31
has a point. Okay, this is where we need to get on the
36:35
same page. And they could never get on the same page when Toomey says,
36:38
if you say cabins are done, that means shower doors have been wiped
36:43
right, is that what it means? So, but then she has a
36:46
point. And then when you hear Netch it seems like she has a point.
36:50
When you're like, we've made the beds again for the second time today.
36:53
This was a freshen up. So like when do you do the wipe
36:58
down? At what point is that for dinner? Is that then? And
37:02
then uh okay, so now Sandy's like, let's go to the bridge.
37:07
Now we're to the bridge. We're in trouble. Yeah, when the captain
37:12
calls you to the bridge you have. There has to be a little bit
37:14
of like the pucker factor in your ball hole because you're like, oh no,
37:16
I'm in trouble, like what have I done? But neither one of
37:20
them like falls back if anything now, I mean throws. She is not
37:27
like me from the beginning. She's given me seasy only when that has an
37:30
attitude with me. I was like, I know the captain called you,
37:32
and she's right. I mean, she didn't even she asked a question and
37:38
continued. She asked for permission to tell her side of the story, didn't
37:44
wait for a response. Oh can I tell you myself? Every So I
37:47
got on this and then she's headed hands on me every time, and then
37:51
she's just talking. And then what was weird is that Sandy's like, first
37:58
of all, thank you for everything you've done, you know what I mean,
38:00
which was great, and then she's like, but I can't tell them
38:02
kindness. You guys gotta just you know, smile, where are your smiles?
38:08
Smile it out? All right, there you go. Angela's got her
38:12
smile on. Points to a smile, don't take this away, points points
38:19
to it. Don't take this away. It's my smile. Hold on,
38:22
guys, I got something in my pocket. You know what it is.
38:24
No, it's not a take it home, all right, it's a smile.
38:30
I know what. I got two of them in the hand them out.
38:35
She says that Kyle's been texting behind my back that she's going to fire
38:38
me, and that's when it's like, Toomey's like, I did not.
38:43
So that's when the game of telephone is starting to unfold here. But what
38:46
I didn't see and what Sandy's pointing out to me, that's not good.
38:52
You can't make fun of someone right in front of her. Did you?
38:54
Did you see how how? She was like, oh me, that's what
38:59
because I had to rend it because I was like, I couldn't catch them
39:02
talking about okay, so what when she was like she's texting, She's like
39:06
she's taxting cow behind my back and blah blah blah. She's going like nuts,
39:08
And that's when Toomey started laughing. She was like, oh, and
39:14
that's when Captain Sandy was like, oh, okay, we're not we don't
39:17
make fun of people, okay, all right, Well then that's just kind
39:22
of like I love how she could have ended it. By saying, we
39:25
don't make fun of people full stop. But she was like, we don't
39:30
make fun of people in front of me, in front, that's right in
39:34
front of me. Dot so how but it was and I think it just
39:42
frontles down to yeah, in front of me, wait for crew night out.
39:46
You know what, Wait till you're in your cabin. Would you like
39:49
and walk in on you another time? All right, wait till Kyle FIBs
39:52
on you. He's a little tattletale that one. Yeah, and that is
39:55
I mean, we did. I remound it because I was like, I
39:59
want to see I remember them showing the text messages a couple of different times.
40:02
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah to me, was talking about
40:05
herself a third person, which is like God, oh babe, babe when
40:07
people do that. Okay, So I was going back and I didn't see.
40:14
All I saw was the message where she talked about herself a third person,
40:16
like me, well, you will have a hard time whatever, and
40:19
then you will walk off the boat. Yeah, you will walk off the
40:22
boat. I will fire any right. And then Kyle texted back, I
40:28
told you she did this to us on a last boat and it was like,
40:31
oh God, like you're making it worse. So I didn't see any
40:36
fucking Kyle is happening me. It's so good because he's so he's so subtle,
40:43
Okay, such a gossip bee boy, and I love it. But
40:46
he was like, but then we didn't see a text from Tommy that said
40:51
that, but we did see him say to Natalia, she said she would
40:55
have no problem firing you. And that's how I'm sorry to have her fire
40:59
me. What did he's what did you say? He said, she takes
41:01
to me last night and she said she would have no problem firing and bring
41:05
it, bring it, get hegg get he bring it and then he runs,
41:09
So that wasn't helpful. I just think to me, like you said,
41:15
like you said before, when you were like, what, so cabins
41:19
are done? What does that mean? I feel like maybe once to me
41:23
has more experience because this is her first time being a chief, and I
41:28
think it might have been a little too much too soon for her, because
41:32
it would have been super helpful for her to come on the boat and say,
41:37
oh my god, Natalia, thank you so much for covering for me.
41:40
That's awesome. I maybe we can sit and you can tell me how
41:44
you ran it. And I can tell you how I run it, and
41:46
we can you know, like just like I know you have run it your
41:50
way for this charter. But now I would love to have a meeting with
41:53
everybody and kind of like let's regroup. And this is what I mean when
41:57
I say it was that something. This is what I mean when I say,
42:00
you know, when like Kyle going to bed and leaving that whole mess
42:06
of a party, That's what I'm saying. I know, I God,
42:09
I agree, and he did that the last season too. It's so long,
42:14
but it's so wrong. And also in Tommy's defense, when Toomey did
42:20
say to Natal Natalia, I keep kill her, Natalia, I understand.
42:23
I was okay with it, and I know, and it's just is what
42:27
it is. Natalia should have backed down as right and would have just but
42:30
she keeps winding up, so she needs to check herself. She is not
42:37
the chief ste So all this being said, and when they had that talk
42:42
in the laundry room, fucking Natalia needs needed to shut up, as Toomy
42:47
was coming to her and finally being like, all right, I don't want
42:51
to have conflict, and nat just again circling back to her issues and it's
42:57
like, no, we under we can't do this again. In fact,
43:01
when Tommy tried to approach her about talking, when Sandy said you need to
43:06
apologize for that, nat shut her down and was like I can't right now.
43:10
And it's like, okay, but you're not the chiefs do so actually
43:14
you can right now because you're not in Chark. You have to write now,
43:16
you have to And to me respected that and was like, okay,
43:21
I'm going to give her some time, so you know. But also I
43:24
thought it was kind of shady of to me, because yeah, to me
43:30
is your chief STU dude, So when your chiefs do says can we have
43:35
a discussion, the only answer is yes. However, I did kind of
43:38
understand where Natalia was coming from and being like, I'm too heated right now.
43:44
Yeah, I have a discussion with you. It's not going to We're
43:46
not gonna go anywhere. Great to chill out, which is kind of what
43:50
she said in an aggressive manner with her hands. We're everywhere. Of course,
43:55
So when Tuby went to Captain Sandy and said something in Sandy was like,
44:00
oh, you didn't get to talk to her, and she was like,
44:01
no, she didn't want to talk to me. You didn't say the
44:04
full story like I think Sandy would have understood had you been like, she
44:07
wasn't ready to talk. She needed to calm down, instead of making her
44:12
look worse than she already does by saying, well, she did, she
44:16
just didn't want to talk to me. How about when Kyle walks away after
44:21
nat shuts down that conversation. He's like, oh, come on, you
44:24
just you know, don't don't suit to that level. Yes, don't,
44:30
don't demean yourself. Yeah, he ushers her off. I mean, he's
44:34
just playing two sides of the coin. It's amazing for Natalia to be like,
44:37
uh no, I'm just going to talk to you through Kyle and vice
44:40
versa. Oh right to be making an order to the chiefs do and the
44:45
worst person to be. How this began was because everything went through Kyle.
44:51
That is why we are in the mess where and you know, and to
44:54
bring it back to the beginning, I keep it going, like, keep
45:00
going through Kyle as far as I'm concerned, because right now, you guys,
45:02
but I really like Toomy's approach in the laundry, how she was like,
45:06
you know, I don't like having conflict I really respect your enthusiasm and
45:10
maybe we're just too similar. And then her body language, you know,
45:14
coming forward to her, just everything about it was great. And then Nat
45:19
she should have been able to wind her ass down and she didn't, and
45:23
then there was nowhere to go from there, and she was like, you
45:29
haven't been giving me a fair go, And that's true, because I agree
45:31
with you when she got on that vessel. Oh, what I wanted to
45:35
ask you was was there something that we didn't see? Because Toomey was saying,
45:39
well, you didn't give me a fair go either. Your hello was
45:43
beautiful, but it was the walkthrough and I didn't like, you know her.
45:49
So was there something about the walkthrough that we didn't see other than nat
45:52
having a little resistance about where the Sun's screen basket should go? Were there
45:58
are several incidents where nat was giving pushback? Because if there were, that
46:02
would tell the story as to why Toomey was very set back and a little
46:07
more. But I honestly I feel that it was the poison that Kyle about
46:14
Natalia, because I can't imagine that they wouldn't show us more comp you know
46:20
what I mean, If there were, if there was more conflict in that.
46:22
I feel like they would show it coming from Natalia, yeah, to
46:28
make it make more sense, But honestly, I feel like she just kind
46:30
of it's her first chief job, it's her first time as chiefs do she's
46:36
coming on a charter later, you know, she's already missed a full charter.
46:40
She has this story about a person she hasn't even met in her head
46:45
that's negative. Yeah, so I feel like she's probably going in there being
46:50
like, Okay, I'm not gonna over. And we learned that about her
46:54
personality and her upbringing and about how she will not allow anyone to walk over
47:00
her story. That story about her father. I I was baffled that her
47:09
mother a mother, no, no mother to make I don't know, I'm
47:15
sorry, eight year old child. Her mother must have been in shop.
47:19
I don't know. She had to have been in shock. There's no other
47:22
reason for that than a woman who is in utter shock and despair and grief.
47:30
Because I don't know what that had to have been in Because I was
47:32
like, who does that to an eight year old child? And they're close
47:36
now. So I would really love it if we got another follow up on
47:39
that story, if her mother ever was like, I can't believe I did
47:43
that to you, and I'm sorry because who would do that? Who would
47:47
do that? And then so it had to have been shocked, it had
47:52
to have been I don't know much about it. You know, your bish
47:54
therapist would know. She has an amazing podcast, so check her out.
48:00
It's everywhere you find podcast. But we should, I should ask her and
48:02
see if she'll do something on like grief in the realm of Bravo, because
48:07
this is something that we've seen a lot in Bravo, a lot of like,
48:14
uh, I feel un dealt with maybe I don't know if that's right
48:17
word, undealt with grief Like wow, So Derinda for one, and that
48:23
that's just so when VICKI lost her mom, oh god, uh Nico's brother,
48:30
Uh, Lisa vander Pump's brother, Oh god, Lisa vander Pump tragic.
48:36
There have been two. I was gonna say, the Southern charm two
48:39
brothers on that a lot, a lot. And yeah, to have that
48:46
on top of like the stress of a job, and then on top of
48:52
that the stress of filming you doing that job like I it's I I can't
49:00
imagine. I just and I kudos to her for being like, well,
49:05
that helped me make me who I am today because now I can I can
49:07
compartmentalize. But it was just like, I I'm so sorry that that's why
49:13
you're able to compartmentalize, because that I know horrible, it's horrible. Well,
49:20
it makes sense, uh oh yeah about her personality. It also makes
49:24
sense about how when she has in the past talked about her childhood and and
49:30
she's dealt with racism, she's shut that down and she's found that the second
49:35
that she doesn't shut it down immediately, she'll get run over. And so
49:38
it's important for her to establish her authority. Yeah, and who's you know
49:44
that you will never take advantage of her and hurt her in that way,
49:46
And so for that you have to understand where she's coming from. Uh.
49:51
But the poison that Kyle, you know, put in her milkshake before she
49:54
got there, you know, I think she could have been a lot more,
49:59
uh of a team player along with Nat, And so I do think
50:01
I got muddied the waters. How about when Toomy talks to Kyle that Nat
50:07
is lying about the text, that's right, and then Kyle says, when
50:15
she's in a corner, she ratches out that's what she does, and then
50:19
she also says that to Jessica, because doesn't she say that to Jessica on
50:23
the Yeah, she was like, she was like, I don't want to
50:27
get in the middle of this, but it seems like she's being a mean
50:30
girl right now. And the one bit she don't want to cross past with
50:32
yes, you know, if you don't want to die today, don't go
50:36
down there. It was like, Kyle, I mean, stop yourself from
50:43
being the most dramatic and just the best drama darling I've ever seen. Poor
50:50
Jessica, who's just literally like I don't want to be in any leadership position.
50:54
I just want someone to tell me what to do and then I'll do
50:57
it. Poor drama, what are you doing on reality? I didn't mean
51:01
to get in the middle of it. I just wanted I was just literally
51:05
telling you what it needed to be ton. That was really sweet. It
51:07
was she kills me because she is just kind of like, just please tell
51:12
me what to do and where to go. I'm worried about her. I'm
51:15
like, what do you know what you signed up for? Like, do
51:16
you know what you just signed up with? That's why she's so good.
51:21
I know it's so good. Any other thoughts on this episode? It was,
51:25
it was great And we've got some formidable villains and players on this vessel.
51:32
Wow, we do, we sure do. And I asked you for
51:36
your prediction about because we did see upcoming you know snippets. Do you think
51:40
that Kyle is going to go against to me or go against nat when it
51:45
all comes out? I mean, well, the only reason I feel like
51:49
he's going to go against nat is because when she was on Watch What Happens
51:52
Live Andy, I can't remember what he asked her, but she was like,
51:58
I will never work with Kyle again. He's a vile, vile human
52:01
being. And it was just like they've un followed each other and like so
52:07
until next season. I'm just I feel like he's probably going to turn against
52:15
Natalia because they just have such oil and water and I love that. In
52:21
the previous when they when they were like previously and they showed Captain Sandy talking
52:25
to Italia and she was like Kyle is going to be and she was like
52:30
twin flame, what do you think? What? When when Talia was so
52:36
excited that Kyle was going to come on the bone and she called him her
52:38
flame. Oh earlier God yeah yeah, oh I thought you meant you only
52:47
knew. But also it was kind of like didn't you learn from last season
52:51
because like like once for me, once shamon shamonk. Yeah, I'm gonna
53:00
let you get there on your put a smile on your face, darlings.
53:06
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