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Episode 6: Wrong Place, Wrong Time Book Review, GA Dumb Crimes, Dream Guests · This Is My Circus

• 0:00
  Hey everyone, I'm Stefanie.
• 0:01
  Hey, I'm Meredith and you are listening to, this is my circus.
• 0:06
  So girl, what's up Circus life.
• 0:09
  at its.
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  Its best.
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  Um, first of all, I'm surprised at how many people are listening to this.
• 0:15
  Uh, thank you so much.
• 0:16
  Thank you.
• 0:16
  Thank every single one of you.
• 0:18
  But I am so laughing so hard because Dylan and his friend, oh my gosh, are they listening?
• 0:26
  They, they're So, were Jackson's friends.
• 0:28
  So Dylan was like, I think I forwarded you a picture screenshot.
• 0:33
  Yeah.
• 0:33
  Yeah.
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  He texts me from class that he was listening and said that he needed to stay up to date in class.
• 0:39
  Oh my gosh.
• 0:40
  That is hilarious.
• 0:41
  So, well, I found out that, so one day Jackson came home and he was like, Hey mom, Dalton, sorry, I'm saying his name, whatever.
• 0:48
  Um, has been listening.
• 0:50
  I'm like, really?
• 0:50
  He was like, yeah, he was listening in class same thing and the next day he was like, so Dawson liked it, or Dalton, sorry, I don't know what I said.
• 0:56
  Dawson, Dalton.
• 0:58
  You know, was listening again.
• 0:59
  I was like, again, he was like, yeah, he, he was listening while he was practicing lacrosse outside.
• 1:02
  I was like, oh my gosh.
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  Well, oh me, Dalton.
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  Thank you.
• 1:05
  Dalton.
• 1:06
  Oh, and Caden.
• 1:07
  Caden, yes.
• 1:08
  Caden.
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  Dylan did tell me Caden's listening to him.
• 1:10
  What's up, Caden?
• 1:11
  Hi Caden.
• 1:12
  Um, actually you speaking of, yes.
• 1:15
  So you, um, for Caden's little sister?
• 1:17
  I did, apparently, yes.
• 1:19
  So, um, I had actually ump for that team before.
• 1:23
  Mm.
• 1:24
  Um, they're, is that the one that you made the mistake on?
• 1:27
  Yeah, I made a, made a really bad call in that game the first time.
• 1:30
  Um, that's the one where everybody looked at me, like, both teams like Wow.
• 1:34
  Yeah.
• 1:34
  So sorry about that.
• 1:36
  Um, but it went better this week.
• 1:38
  Good.
• 1:38
  Um, I was, ha so I did two games.
• 1:41
  I feel like we always talk about the UMP stuff first.
• 1:43
  You think people get tired of hearing about it?
• 1:44
  No, I think that it's funny.
• 1:48
  Okay, so I did the first game and in the first game, like I, I thought I did really good.
• 1:53
  There was one issue where um, I was like, I caught her safer out or whatever, and the little first base coach was like, what?
• 2:00
  Then?
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  I mean, whatever.
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  But I was just in my feelings a little bit.
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  Mm-hmm.
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  And I started like doubt.
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  Myself and whatever.
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  So in my head, the whole time the rest of the game is gone.
• 2:11
  I'm like, I'm gonna go ask somebody if I did good, who can I ask?
• 2:14
  And I'm continuing to ump the game, but I'm like, I just need some confirmation.
• 2:17
  Like, just gonna go ask'em if they think I'm trashed.
• 2:19
  Like I was just, all this is in my head.
• 2:22
  And then I, you know, the game ended and I had a bottle of water with me, so I was drinking my water and I had it like up against the fence behind.
• 2:29
  And I kind of talked myself out of that.
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  I was like, be a grownup, you idiot.
• 2:33
  You don't need affirmation that you know you're doing okay.
• 2:37
  Sometimes you do well, but listen to this, this was pretty cool.
• 2:39
  So I walked over to the fence, got my water, and this lady sitting on the bleachers behind me said, I'm glad to see a woman ump or whatever out here.
• 2:47
  And I was like, oh, thank you.
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  And um, she said, I used to ump and I was.
• 2:51
  Let me ask you that real quick.
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  Pretty much give me all of your knowledge.
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  Um, but anyway, she said she had ump, I don't know, for like 20 years, something like that.
• 3:00
  And she coached and all this kind of stuff.
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  And she was like, you made some really good calls out there.
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  And I said, did you see the one at first?
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  Was that she was like, well, she said, yeah, that one's good, but then another one back here and da da da.
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  And I was like, I needed that.
• 3:13
  So thank you to that lady who gave me just a little boost of con, I have no idea what her name.
• 3:19
  Um, but you know what I love about that is like, women supporting women or like, you know, just encouraging each other.
• 3:23
  Yes.
• 3:23
  There are so many.
• 3:25
  Um, I think we've talked about this before.
• 3:27
  Like I just feel like everybody has gotten like cuckoo since Covid.
• 3:29
  Yeah.
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  And so everybody just seems to have like a chip on their shoulder or everyone.
• 3:34
  So mean she just took a minute to be kind.
• 3:37
  Yes.
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  And I don't know if she saw the tears streaming down my face.
• 3:40
  No, I'm just kidding.
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  I wanna cry.
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  But I mean, you know, Like you said, just to take a minute to support somebody.
• 3:45
  Yeah.
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  And say, good job, whatever.
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  Yeah.
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  You know, the other thing that gets me to is like when you go through a drive-through and you can tell the person's new, they're training and I always tell'em like, it's okay.
• 3:54
  We've all been new at something before.
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  Mm-hmm.
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  Just keep with it.
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  Yeah.
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  So anyway, that was, um, that was really nice of her.
• 4:01
  That's, but so one of the teams, and then I'll stop talking about this.
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  So they're not, they don't really have a catcher typically.
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  It's a pitcher that's a.
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  And the catcher is a coach.
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  So they're just two coaches.
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  Well, this one team, have I told you about this?
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  Mm-hmm.
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  Has, um, a catcher and, you know, catchers wear all this stuff.
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  Well, theirs is red and she looks like a little lobster cause it's like the red helmet and the shiny red leg things all down her legs.
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  And Cliffy clopping, she walks and every time.
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  And to be quite honest, I don't know if it's the same girl every time or not.
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  Cause they're all like blonde that play the position.
• 4:43
  Um, but every time she like gets up and down they come unbuckled and it's just one more piece.
• 4:48
  So de lobster every time I see I can't, obviously I think too much in these games cause I'm thinking about all these other things.
• 4:55
  But, um, anyway.
• 4:57
  Well, did I tell you like, so we went one of Dylan's lacrosse games.
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  Um, the other team had.
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  Their teen colors are like black, white, and red or whatever.
• 5:04
  Okay.
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  And they come out onto the field in these like super sparkly helmets.
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  And Brandon was like, I didn't realize we were at a dance competition.
• 5:16
  That's crazy.
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  It was like during the daytime, so like, like they're, it was like glittering and the sun hitting them.
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  Somehow I really like the helmets that are like a mat, but they're still shiny, if that makes any sense.
• 5:27
  Yeah.
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  I like the mat.
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  These were like spark sparkles.
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  Sparkles, yes.
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  Like skin thinkers.
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  Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  That's funny.
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  That's funny.
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  But like all the kids on the team were like, those are cool helmets.
• 5:36
  I know.
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  Like all the parents are like, dude, were getting blinded.
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  Pretty funny.
• 5:41
  Maybe that was the point.
• 5:41
  Yeah, maybe that was the point.
• 5:43
  So, um, I do have one more thing that I need to say.
• 5:45
  So did you have a nickname growing up?
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  Everybody knew you?
• 5:51
  No, no, no.
• 5:52
  Just my family called me Princess cause I was a baby.
• 5:55
  Of course I did.
• 5:56
  They did.
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  That's gonna be your name.
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  And I had like crowns.
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  Oh my God.
• 6:00
  Tia.
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  That's pretty awesome.
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  Like my, like best friends all knew cuz I, everybody's at your house and like we would, yeah, there was like tiara's.
• 6:09
  Okay.
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  So I might start calling you that now.
• 6:10
  No, this, I'm no longer, no longer like a princess.
• 6:15
  Right.
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  I'm like Cinderella.
• 6:19
  I went backwards.
• 6:20
  That work.
• 6:21
  Regressed.
• 6:22
  Yeah.
• 6:22
  Um, okay.
• 6:23
  So I had a nickname growing up.
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  What was it?
• 6:24
  My mom started it.
• 6:26
  I'm, I'm, I'm hesitating saying it.
• 6:28
  So my mom started.
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  Cause when I was born, I just looked like this.
• 6:32
  This is what she always said.
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  Um, and like everybody knew me by this name.
• 6:37
  Like everybody I'm talking like at school, at church, on the street, like.
• 6:43
  Everybody know me.
• 6:44
  Bye Muffy.
• 6:47
  That was on, on the, um, on the Patreon.
• 6:50
  Uh, true, uh, true crime Obsessed.
• 6:53
  Was it?
• 6:53
  Yes.
• 6:54
  It, it was it Muffy and something like that.
• 6:57
  I must, I must have missed that one.
• 6:58
  So anyway, I have a, some friends who have been listening to our podcast and they were.
• 7:05
  I just need you to introduce yourself as Muffy because that's how we, like, they still call me that to this day.
• 7:11
  But you know, I got married and moved away and moved here.
• 7:13
  So I just made that transition to Meredith.
• 7:16
  So you became a grownup.
• 7:17
  I'm a great, you lost your princess and I lost Muffy.
• 7:20
  So anyway.
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  Hey, Muffy hate princess.
• 7:24
  Um, so anyway, I just thought I would share that too because they were like, was this Meredith that you speak of?
• 7:30
  And I was like, okay, for you.
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  I'll say so.
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  Anyway, I had to be, I am Stephanie and this is Muffy.
• 7:38
  I'm so not a Muffy.
• 7:39
  No, you don't mean like I'm not that.
• 7:41
  Yeah.
• 7:42
  I don't even know what they're called.
• 7:43
  Valley girl used to be the, the word.
• 7:44
  I don't know.
• 7:45
  Yes.
• 7:45
  But anyway, so what's up?
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  What have you been doing?
• 7:47
  Oh, um, lacrosse ended yesterday.
• 7:51
  They Oh yeah.
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  Undefeated.
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  And they beat undefeated team right by like eight.
• 7:56
  Yeah.
• 7:57
  Uh, nine.
• 7:58
  That's amazing.
• 7:59
  It was 10 to one.
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  That's awesome.
• 8:00
  Yes.
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  Was really.
• 8:03
  No, he's really excited cuz he's gonna go to a new school next year with a year round lacrosse program.
• 8:08
  Nice.
• 8:09
  So nice.
• 8:09
  He's like, he's really, really excited to start that nice new position.
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  Um, so yeah, we'll see.
• 8:14
  Yeah.
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  But, um, there's a couple of programs over the summer that, um, the new coach had told us about and um, I think we might do like some one-on-one instruction just to kind of sharpen up the skills.
• 8:24
  Maybe I'll see him.
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  Um, but that's good.
• 8:28
  That's exciting.
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  That's his fashion.
• 8:29
  Um, good.
• 8:31
  Well keep him busy, right?
• 8:32
  Yeah.
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  Just keep him out of trouble.
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  Keep him active.
• 8:34
  We hope so.
• 8:35
  Right?
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  That's the goal.
• 8:36
  Um, one more thing I wanted to touch on mm-hmm.
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  Is we had some people ask what podcasts will you listened to?
• 8:43
  We did.
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  Mm-hmm.
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  And I put that in my notes.
• 8:45
  Did you?
• 8:45
  I did.
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  Look at you and your noting notes got like whole thingy.
• 8:50
  Oh Lord.
• 8:51
  You're so organized.
• 8:52
  I'm over here like, just winging it, like, like looking at things and you're, you're the mastermind for sure.
• 8:56
  I am not.
• 8:58
  So what, um, uh, I mean, we've mentioned tco.
• 9:00
  Yes.
• 9:01
  We both love TCO and everything in that family.
• 9:04
  Um, I wanna be best friends with Patrick.
• 9:06
  Yeah.
• 9:06
  I like Patrick.
• 9:07
  Oh my gosh.
• 9:08
  Speaking of, okay, Alexis, have we talked about her on here before?
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  Mm-hmm.
• 9:12
  She's the team mom?
• 9:13
  Yes.
• 9:13
  She's the team mom.
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  Mm-hmm.
• 9:14
  So I was talking to her last week.
• 9:17
  She's from Boston?
• 9:19
  No, she went to school with him.
• 9:22
  Yes.
• 9:23
  Now they were grades apart.
• 9:25
  Shut off.
• 9:25
  But she was like, that name is familiar.
• 9:27
  And she looked him up and she was like, did she have a yearbook?
• 9:30
  I don't know how.
• 9:31
  I think she looked him up in Alexis.
• 9:33
  We want to see the yearbook.
• 9:34
  I think she looked him up in like a, um, what's it called when you used to go to alumni?
• 9:39
  Mm-hmm.
• 9:39
  Thing.
• 9:40
  Um, but yeah.
• 9:42
  And I know, I think he'd be fun.
• 9:45
  I like Joey too though, on late night.
• 9:47
  Yes.
• 9:48
  Um, so those are ones we both like.
• 9:50
  I also like, um, moms in Mysteries.
• 9:53
  It used to be Moms in Murder.
• 9:55
  I think we have a problem.
• 9:57
  Yes.
• 9:58
  And then there's some more that I listen to Bella you share so too.
• 10:00
  Okay.
• 10:00
  So this is not true crime related cause I just figured Good because we hit on that a lot.
• 10:04
  Yeah.
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  Um, for podcasts.
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  But it is called.
• 10:06
  Um, another bite and what it's about Okay.
• 10:10
  Is not true crime.
• 10:11
  Okay?
• 10:11
  Nobody's biting anybody, but they vampires.
• 10:15
  No, because I do so much marketing and stuff like that.
• 10:18
  So I listen to like a lot of like business podcasts too, um, which is not as fun.
• 10:22
  Yeah.
• 10:22
  But I get a lot of information and, but they, they review episodes of Shark Tank and then they dissect the pitches and they, they, ooh.
• 10:29
  They tell how they would market it.
• 10:31
  They tell if they would like buy into the business.
• 10:35
  That's pretty interesting.
• 10:36
  It is really cool.
• 10:37
  You learned a lot from that.
• 10:38
  I, well, and I, I, it's a such a different take.
• 10:41
  Yeah.
• 10:41
  Like a different perspective.
• 10:42
  And so it gives me a lot of insight onto different mm-hmm.
• 10:45
  Ways of thinking or marketing.
• 10:47
  Yeah.
• 10:48
  Dylan just walked in.
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  Hi Dylan.
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  He walks in dancing.
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  Would you like to say hello to the world?
• 10:56
  No.
• 10:57
  Okay.
• 10:57
  Not today?
• 10:58
  No.
• 10:59
  Um, Rex didn't even get up.
• 11:02
  Mm-hmm.
• 11:02
  He, he ate a bee today.
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  And his face isn't swollen.
• 11:07
  No.
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  So I'm just like hoping like, he'll fucking Danny.
• 11:09
  He's okay.
• 11:09
  He would've, it was fucking, he spit it out.
• 11:11
  So like, he's like, he was like this, and then the bee like just went poor little bee.
• 11:18
  Um, but it's a really cool podcast.
• 11:20
  Um, so if, like, you, like Shark Tank, which I think, I mean we've, we watched that.
• 11:24
  Yeah.
• 11:25
  From when it started.
• 11:26
  Yeah.
• 11:26
  And Dylan, um, takes a marketing class at school in the high school and they watch episodes of, um, shark Tank and kind of like reviewing Yeah.
• 11:33
  The pitches and stuff too.
• 11:34
  Okay.
• 11:35
  So that's a really cool podcast if you're into, um, shark Pink or marketing.
• 11:38
  Yeah.
• 11:39
  Um, so I also listen to one, and I forgot the name of it.
• 11:43
  I'll look it up while I'm talking.
• 11:44
  Um, but I think I mentioned this before, but I don't think we've aired it.
• 11:48
  It is about just like fashion.
• 11:50
  Yeah.
• 11:51
  And um, just like how try to dress for your, it's called Style by Mary Michelle.
• 11:56
  Oh, we didn't talk about this cuz we said we were gonna go to Paris so I could eat bread.
• 12:02
  Yeah.
• 12:02
  So she's out of Raleigh.
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  She owns a boutique and she just teaches you how to light dress for your body type and that kind of stuff.
• 12:07
  So that's a nice little escape from all of the darkness I listen to.
• 12:12
  I, yeah.
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  Um, but I do, I do listen to a.
• 12:15
  I do too.
• 12:16
  There's another couple I like, like, um, criminal profile, I think is the name of it.
• 12:20
  Like these people are, Profilers.
• 12:22
  Yeah.
• 12:22
  And they do these things, so there's a ton out there, but, and I love Rotten Mango.
• 12:26
  Yeah.
• 12:27
  I've listened to, I've been listening to that too.
• 12:29
  Yeah.
• 12:29
  That's interesting.
• 12:30
  Yeah.
• 12:30
  Um, so she does a lot of like non, like she does like a lot of like, um, Chinese, Asian, Asian.
• 12:36
  Yeah.
• 12:37
  Yeah.
• 12:37
  Um, I've noticed that, uh, stuff that I've never heard of.
• 12:39
  She told a story that I was listening to.
• 12:41
  So Rotten Mango, like you said, was the name of the podcast and I can't remember if I went like back to one of her earlier episodes, or it was a later one, but it was about these people in Asia that died in this, um, like an alleyway.
• 12:55
  Mm-hmm.
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  Cause there were so many people and they couldn't get through.
• 12:57
  People were going both ways and they were like stacked up so high on people.
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  Suffocated and died.
• 13:02
  Oh my God.
• 13:02
  That gave me like anxiety.
• 13:05
  Lots of that claustrophobia feeling of, of all that.
• 13:08
  Yeah, no, um, I know, I know.
• 13:10
  And then like the day after that, we went to a festival or something, there was a bunch of people, I started having a panic attack, but I'm okay now.
• 13:16
  You know, a lot of True Crime podcasts um, hit on a lot of the same stories and you get a lot of different perspectives so it's really cool to hear about all over the world.
• 13:24
  Uhhuh, um, well, something like that particular story.
• 13:26
  I've never heard of that before.
• 13:27
  No, no.
• 13:28
  And like, she, she had had one, it was like in Russia, I think, um, where there was like a serial killer in Russia and like, I.
• 13:34
  You know, heard of.
• 13:35
  Yeah.
• 13:35
  That, so she, she does a lot of really cool, um, different podcast or episodes Yeah.
• 13:40
  Of different crimes, things you hadn't heard of before.
• 13:42
  It's in Rock Hill.
• 13:43
  Awesome.
• 13:44
  Count me in.
• 13:44
  Okay.
• 13:44
  I mean, I'll check all my schedules, but I don't, I can't think of anything.
• 13:47
  Um, okay.
• 13:48
  So.
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  Did you read wrong place, wrong time?
• 13:52
  I did.
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  What'd you think?
• 13:53
  So I had actually listened to it before.
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  Okay.
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  And I didn't realize I had Okay.
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  We not mentioned the name of it.
• 13:59
  Yeah.
• 13:59
  So, um, I, it kind of like, it's like kind of like a groundhog day.
• 14:05
  It was like a mom's worst fear.
• 14:07
  Yeah.
• 14:07
  Pretty much.
• 14:08
  It's a very good synopsis.
• 14:09
  Yes.
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  Um, so.
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  Um, did you look up the blurb?
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  You did?
• 14:14
  I did look up completely blur.
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  Blur.
• 14:15
  Yeah.
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  So late October after midnight, you're waiting up for your 18 year old son.
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  He's past curfew.
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  As you watch from the window, he emerges and you realize he isn't alone.
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  He's walking toward a man and he's armed.
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  You can't believe it when you see him do it.
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  Your funny, happy teenage son.
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  He kills a stranger.
• 14:32
  Dylan, don't you ever do this right there on the street, outside your house.
• 14:38
  You don't know who you don't know why.
• 14:39
  You only know your son is now in custody.
• 14:42
  His future shattered that night.
• 14:44
  You fall asleep in despair.
• 14:45
  All is lost until you wake and it's yesterday.
• 14:47
  Then you wake again and it's the day before yesterday.
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  Every morning you wake up a date earlier, another day before the murder with another chance to stop it somewhere in the past.
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  Lies the answer, the trigger for this crime, and you don't have a choice but to.
• 15:00
  So I loved the character development of Jen.
• 15:07
  Yeah.
• 15:08
  The mom.
• 15:08
  Yeah.
• 15:09
  Um, because as a mom, like you don't realize the impact that you have mm-hmm.
• 15:15
  Um, on the family mm-hmm.
• 15:17
  In the moment.
• 15:18
  Mm-hmm.
• 15:18
  Mm-hmm.
• 15:18
  Um, so as she goes back in time mm-hmm.
• 15:20
  She is seeing.
• 15:22
  What she thinks is mistakes or what she perceives as Right.
• 15:24
  Um, missed opportunities.
• 15:26
  Yes.
• 15:26
  Yes.
• 15:26
  Um, or she realizes some of the things that she does that impacts her child.
• 15:31
  Mm-hmm.
• 15:31
  Um, so I like totally felt her.
• 15:34
  Yeah, I agree on that.
• 15:36
  Yeah.
• 15:36
  Um, like you don't realize, you don't realize the, the, like you said, missed opportunities or just communication that you should have done differently.
• 15:43
  The woulda, coulda should have.
• 15:44
  Right?
• 15:45
  Yeah.
• 15:45
  Like all those things.
• 15:46
  She's a working mom, so she had that mom guilt.
• 15:48
  And as she went backwards, she like really felt mm-hmm.
• 15:53
  The impact that she was having mm-hmm.
• 15:55
  With that.
• 15:55
  Mm-hmm.
• 15:55
  So I really, really felt her in this book.
• 15:59
  Mm-hmm.
• 16:00
  and I did like the twists, but Yeah.
• 16:02
  I mean, it wasn't my favorite, favorite book, but Right.
• 16:04
  I did like it, but it was interesting.
• 16:06
  Yeah.
• 16:06
  No, it was totally d.
• 16:08
  Type of book.
• 16:08
  Yeah.
• 16:09
  Um, storyline, which we kind of needed.
• 16:11
  Cause we kind of, yeah.
• 16:12
  Whatever.
• 16:12
  But yeah, so I liked it as well.
• 16:15
  Um, were you surprised by the twist at the end with the who done it kind of thing?
• 16:22
  Yes.
• 16:22
  Okay.
• 16:23
  Um, and again, try not to spoil anything.
• 16:25
  Yeah.
• 16:26
  But hold second.
• 16:27
  Dylan, can you please stop like we over there?
• 16:30
  We'll be done in like 20 minutes.
• 16:32
  Thank you.
• 16:36
  Thank you.
• 16:37
  So I thought it was gonna go a different way.
• 16:41
  Yeah.
• 16:41
  it was pleasantly surprised.
• 16:42
  Yes.
• 16:43
  That's a good way to put it.
• 16:44
  Um-huh.
• 16:45
  Because I had it in my mind too, and I, you know, we, we do this right.
• 16:48
  We're like, oh, I know who did it.
• 16:50
  I know, da, da da, da.
• 16:51
  And then it, I love it when it flips on me.
• 16:53
  Um, and that's what this one did.
• 16:55
  Like I really thought I understood the point of why this was happening.
• 16:59
  And that's the point of the book.
• 17:00
  She's trying to figure out why she's going backwards.
• 17:02
  Yes.
• 17:02
  Um, Did you feel like she was like super resourceful with trying to get to, like, okay, so this won't give it away too much, but like, so she's trying to make notes.
• 17:13
  Mm-hmm.
• 17:14
  Right.
• 17:14
  But she makes notes and she wakes up the next day and her notebook is empty.
• 17:17
  And I'm like, come on.
• 17:18
  You should have known that.
• 17:19
  Yeah.
• 17:20
  By like the third time.
• 17:21
  Yeah.
• 17:23
  She tries to send herself like the email and, right, right, right.
• 17:26
  Um, I.
• 17:30
  Without, I don't really think this is like a big, like spoiler right word.
• 17:34
  Um, what would you have done with her, with her father?
• 17:38
  Like if, if you were able, my dad passed when I was 16, so like, I was like, oh my God.
• 17:43
  Like, yeah.
• 17:44
  To be able to go back.
• 17:45
  and yeah, I mean I think I probably would have, I don't, I don't know because I'm in a little different perspective cause my dad died.
• 17:53
  Three, two or three.
• 17:55
  I really don't even know how old I was.
• 17:56
  Mm-hmm.
• 17:57
  Um, so I don't know mm-hmm.
• 17:59
  How I would have reacted in that moment.
• 18:02
  What I've tried to have done some, I mean, whatever.
• 18:05
  Um, so she was like, you know, super, like the butterfly effect, what's gonna, what will this effect?
• 18:11
  Right.
• 18:11
  Um, so I was like so conflicted with that part.
• 18:15
  Yeah.
• 18:15
  Yeah.
• 18:15
  Um, again, like I really, like, I really identified.
• 18:19
  The main character.
• 18:20
  Yeah.
• 18:21
  Um, and so I was like, God, I don't, I don't, I think if I would've been, so the premise of the book is the day she's going back to have meaning and that relate to the issue that she faces in the opening of the book.
• 18:35
  So I feel like if I would've gone back to that day and realize what day it was, I probably would.
• 18:40
  I don't know.
• 18:40
  Like, I'm just, I'm not gonna be here for this.
• 18:42
  I'm just gonna leave.
• 18:43
  Yeah.
• 18:43
  I don't know.
• 18:44
  Yeah.
• 18:46
  Yeah, it was.
• 18:47
  That was tough.
• 18:47
  That was tough.
• 18:48
  I felt like she did a good job of being resourceful though.
• 18:51
  Yes.
• 18:51
  I would've been better.
• 18:53
  You know what?
• 18:54
  She doesn't listen to all the true crime we listen to.
• 18:57
  We're educated in this.
• 19:03
  So we are way more resourceful Yes.
• 19:06
  Than she totally was in the book, but, and the other thing I was gonna say is how frustrating would that be?
• 19:11
  Like every time she, so she met this guy that was kind of helping her through her issues and every time she talked to him, she had to explain because he hadn't met her yet.
• 19:20
  And like, how frustrating would it be like.
• 19:22
  You know me from this, da, da da da da da.
• 19:24
  Here's what you told me to tell you.
• 19:26
  Right.
• 19:26
  That you believe me.
• 19:27
  Yeah.
• 19:28
  So it was, it was a pretty interesting book.
• 19:30
  Um, yeah.
• 19:31
  I, well, again, not my like one Right.
• 19:34
  My favorite, but it was a good book Sure.
• 19:35
  And definitely worth a read.
• 19:36
  Yeah.
• 19:37
  Yeah.
• 19:37
  It was different.
• 19:38
  Um, it's what we were looking for, I think with something a little bit off the path of what we had been listening to.
• 19:43
  Yeah.
• 19:44
  And, um, but still kept a little.
• 19:46
  Suspense and all that kind of stuff.
• 19:48
  Yeah.
• 19:48
  Um, now our next book, we already have it picked up, right?
• 19:51
  Yes.
• 19:51
  Tell us about it.
• 19:52
  Um, big Little Lies.
• 19:54
  Yep have you read it before?
• 19:56
  Um, I started it like a long time ago you know, with doing your pick line and like, you have nothing to do.
• 20:01
  Yeah.
• 20:02
  I would pick it up and, and put it down.
• 20:03
  And it, it was a, it was a good, it's a good book, but I just never like, sat down to read it.
• 20:08
  Read it.
• 20:09
  Okay.
• 20:09
  Um, well, you're committed now.
• 20:11
  I am.
• 20:11
  Okay.
• 20:13
  Um, I didn't realize, but they also made it into a mini-series or something on another one.
• 20:19
  Yeah.
• 20:19
  I feel like everything we're hitting on is, I know you never watched it.
• 20:23
  I will definitely watch it because, um, when I saw that, alright there, and I don't know why I never saw like the little like blurb say Nicole Kid Me does, and Reese Witherspoon.
• 20:34
  Yes.
• 20:34
  So I need to watch it.
• 20:36
  Yeah.
• 20:36
  and like as I'm like now, when I saw that and I picked it up and I'm reading it and like, so now I'm picturing like, which characters would be right, Nicole Kidman and you know, you're already doing that for me.
• 20:45
  So like, it's all in my head now and, you know, Erase that.
• 20:48
  I know, I know book, but the amount that I've gotten into so far is really good.
• 20:53
  Good, good.
• 20:54
  I haven't started it yet.
• 20:55
  Okay.
• 20:55
  But I will have it read by our next recording and it's on Libby for the book and the audio book.
• 21:00
  Awesome.
• 21:01
  So, for those of you that are using that, yeah, it is.
• 21:05
  But let me get it first so I can read it.
• 21:06
  Cause we gotta record and then we can talk about it.
• 21:08
  It goes by library.
• 21:09
  So Clover, you're safe, Clover people.
• 21:13
  Lemme get it first.
• 21:14
  Um, um, but also we had some requests for just like a list of the books that we're gonna do.
• 21:21
  So, um, you guys have asked for, and you seem to have really liked the books that we've been doing.
• 21:26
  So we are going to, I was supposed to do it two days ago and have it.
• 21:31
  But we're gonna make a list of like the next three months worth of books.
• 21:34
  Mm-hmm.
• 21:35
  And we're gonna put that in our show, not our show notes.
• 21:38
  We are not that fancy yet.
• 21:40
  Um, we do have show notes.
• 21:41
  We, we'll put'em in the show, but we'll, we'll put'em in our, our Facebook group.
• 21:44
  So if you're not in there, get in there.
• 21:45
  Yeah.
• 21:45
  Cause we're, it'll be in the files.
• 21:47
  Yes.
• 21:47
  And that way we can just go through that way.
• 21:49
  You'll know where we are, where we're going, where we've been.
• 21:51
  All that kind of, I, we thought that'd be probably be a good idea.
• 21:53
  Yeah.
• 21:54
  Um.
• 21:55
  But it's show notes.
• 21:56
  I send it.
• 21:57
  Like, that was fancy, didn't I?
• 21:58
  But we do have them.
• 21:59
  We do have them, but I don't know why I said it like, dude, that was good.
• 22:04
  Sorry.
• 22:04
  Get no like, Do it with confidence.
• 22:08
  We're gonna come in our show notes.
• 22:09
  It'll be in our show notes if you need it.
• 22:10
  And also, if you happen to join our Facebook group, it'll be in there under phone.
• 22:14
  Oh, please do, please do.
• 22:15
  It's growing.
• 22:16
  It's al, it's almost 500 people, you know?
• 22:19
  Yes.
• 22:19
  Um, those 500 people need to listen.
• 22:22
  Yeah.
• 22:23
  Yeah.
• 22:24
  So if you're listening, if you're not listening and you, well, then you won't hear this.
• 22:28
  So, blooper reel.
• 22:31
  Blooper reel Is everything.
• 22:33
  All right?
• 22:33
  Um, did you do your dumb crime?
• 22:35
  Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 22:36
  So we did Georgia this week.
• 22:37
  We did do Georgia this week, and I found a doozy.
• 22:40
  I really hope we don't have the same thing we, because we didn't do any kind of, we almost had the same one for North Carolina.
• 22:46
  So I try to not do the first story I come to, I try to go a little bit deeper, which is probably good.
• 22:52
  Probably heard us.
• 22:53
  Okay.
• 22:53
  So tell me, you wanna tell me yours first?
• 22:55
  Yeah, you, I think I went first.
• 22:56
  His last Let go first.
• 22:57
  Okay.
• 22:57
  So a man was arrested for impersonating a cop while directing traffic.
• 23:02
  Okay.
• 23:03
  So this was just this March.
• 23:06
  Um, let me get to the article.
• 23:07
  Sorry.
• 23:08
  Uh, okay.
• 23:09
  You've probably seen a.
• 23:11
  Show where a cop gets fired, but he secretly returns to work because he can't just let go of that case.
• 23:17
  Well, this is an interesting spin on that.
• 23:20
  Amanda Georgia was arrested for impersonating an officer recently, and it turns out he used to be a real cop, but he was let go several weeks before.
• 23:28
  The thing is when he was caught, he was wearing his uniform casually just directing traffic.
• 23:34
  Some officers were in the area and they noticed that he wasn't wearing a patch.
• 23:38
  They asked him who he was and he said he was an officer for the TBA Police department.
• 23:43
  They called to confirm and that's when the officials told him he was no longer working for them.
• 23:47
  It is unclear why he was directing traffic.
• 23:50
  He was arrested and taken to jail for impersonating an officer.
• 23:55
  Why would you work for free?
• 23:56
  Why would you just be like, you know what?
• 23:59
  I'm gonna direct traffic today.
• 24:01
  Why don't they have to turn in their.
• 24:04
  I guess maybe just the patching, the shield.
• 24:06
  Well, you know, all the cop shows you know, they're like on law and order, they put their gun in their shield on their captain's desk.
• 24:11
  And those are like detectives, right?
• 24:12
  Like, they're not like, Like cops, I guess.
• 24:16
  So I have a police officer friend.
• 24:17
  I'm gonna ask her.
• 24:18
  Okay.
• 24:19
  Yes, she works.
• 24:19
  She's a police officer in Charlotte.
• 24:22
  I'm ask her if she has to turn in uniforms if people quit.
• 24:25
  Yeah, because I mean, when you work somewhere, you do, unless you buy'em like a nurse.
• 24:28
  So you buy your scrubs, you don't turn'em in.
• 24:30
  But I don't know.
• 24:31
  That's weird.
• 24:31
  But I was like, but you're working for free.
• 24:34
  You were, and there was no need for him to be at that.
• 24:36
  So it's not like, it's not like they said there was a traffic stall and the good Samaritan jumped out and helped.
• 24:43
  It's like he just showed up in uniform and decided to be a wreck.
• 24:47
  Grab the traffic.
• 24:48
  It just struck me as so.
• 24:49
  Just off the wall.
• 24:50
  Like he didn't really, maybe it's like the power thing.
• 24:53
  Maybe.
• 24:53
  Like he wants to be like, stop maybe.
• 24:57
  Well, we can go put that power to good use at like, be a crossing guard at school or something.
• 25:01
  Maybe he was, he was stretching traffic.
• 25:02
  Maybe it didn't, it didn't specify.
• 25:05
  It did not.
• 25:06
  Um, what's your story?
• 25:08
  All right, so this, um, came from fox news.com and this is in Athens, Georgia.
• 25:13
  Okay.
• 25:15
  So it won't go down as the most difficult crime they've had to solve.
• 25:18
  It did take police in Athens, Georgia, several days to track down the suspect in last week's armed robbery.
• 25:22
  And I, I don't know what the exact date this was, um, of a Golden Pantry convenience store, but they had one strong lead before pulling a knife authority, say 28 year olds, Demetrius Robinson filled out a job application, apparently leaving his real name.
• 25:39
  So yeah, investigators say he was trying to kill time until this store emptied of customers.
• 25:46
  Robinson managed to abate immediate capture by using his uncle's phone number and a phony address.
• 25:52
  But police say they got an anonymous tip and arrested him yesterday morning.
• 25:57
  Authorities say Robinson is also a suspect in several other armed robberies.
• 26:01
  Like what?
• 26:03
  Why?
• 26:06
  Could you not think of anything better than, first of all, your real name, your uncle's phone number?
• 26:13
  I mean like, you know, you give them the phone number and change one digit on the end, that's what you do.
• 26:18
  No, you just make up a totally random, well, that's fine too, but like, you know, sometimes it's habit to just be, start your mouth.
• 26:24
  I know.
• 26:25
  Like I am.
• 26:26
  I am smarter than that.
• 26:28
  We watch True.
• 26:30
  Listen to and I'll read.
• 26:31
  I'll be like, why?
• 26:35
  I can't believe that one.
• 26:38
  It's, I don't even know what to say.
• 26:39
  Like I know like that is like a whole nother level of dumb, right.
• 26:43
  That's just, he was not prepared to be a criminal that day.
• 26:47
  No.
• 26:47
  I think he needs to stick to his, probably he doesn't have any, he doesn't have, that's why he's trying to do, but he needs to find a day job that doesn't require, maybe he can be a crossing guard.
• 27:00
  Don't give him any ideas.
• 27:01
  He's gonna impersonate a cop.
• 27:02
  You're right.
• 27:03
  Well, he would make a badge.
• 27:04
  I always drop my water towel.
• 27:06
  You do?
• 27:07
  And I'm always worried Rex's is gonna get it, but he doesn't care.
• 27:10
  I'll get it later.
• 27:11
  Where did he go?
• 27:12
  He's probably was doing, oh, he's on my side.
• 27:14
  Oh, he's protecting us.
• 27:16
  He is, huh?
• 27:17
  Yeah.
• 27:18
  So.
• 27:19
  Um, that one took the cake for me.
• 27:20
  I, I've read a couple of them and that one was like, that was the one.
• 27:23
  Mm-hmm.
• 27:23
  Yeah.
• 27:24
  Yeah.
• 27:24
  I gotcha.
• 27:25
  I leaving your real name.
• 27:28
  You didn't even shorten it from like Meredith to Mary.
• 27:30
  Oh.
• 27:31
  Like, can you imagine like the lady that, or I mean, may, might be a man, I don't know, right?
• 27:35
  Um, at the, at the counter, right.
• 27:37
  And the police come in and, and they're like, well, do you have a description?
• 27:39
  I have something better.
• 27:40
  Here's something, his fingerprints are probably on this.
• 27:43
  So like, what?
• 27:46
  We really need to find somebody that's been a quote victim of one of these stupid crimes.
• 27:52
  Yes.
• 27:53
  I mean, I don't mind talking to the dumb criminals of like dumb people.
• 27:57
  Yeah.
• 27:58
  But not a dumb crime.
• 27:59
  Dumb victim of dumb people.
• 28:01
  Please.
• 28:02
  We need a victim of a dumb crime.
• 28:04
  Cause we can interview them.
• 28:06
  Oh, speaking of yeah.
• 28:07
  Interviewing.
• 28:08
  We need to get some guests on.
• 28:10
  Okay.
• 28:10
  Um.
• 28:12
  Who would be your dream guest?
• 28:15
  Oh, Ali.
• 28:16
  I don't know.
• 28:16
  Like if you could like, I mean, it could be a celebrity, it could be anybody in the whole world.
• 28:19
  It doesn't have to be, oh my gosh, anybody, you know.
• 28:24
  Let's get Patrick Hines on here, wouldn't he?
• 28:27
  Because he would be fun.
• 28:28
  My gosh.
• 28:28
  Oh, there's also this comedian I really like, and I just forgot his name.
• 28:32
  Matt Rife.
• 28:33
  Do you?
• 28:35
  He is so funny.
• 28:36
  Oh my gosh.
• 28:37
  He is so funny.
• 28:38
  Yes, he roast.
• 28:38
  Everybody.
• 28:39
  I mean, he would pull us apart.
• 28:41
  I, but he's so funny.
• 28:42
  Go to a live show so bad.
• 28:44
  Yeah.
• 28:44
  Yeah.
• 28:44
  I think he's really funny.
• 28:45
  Yeah.
• 28:46
  Did you see the one where he, the dude had on a heated vest or heated hoped?
• 28:49
  Oh my gosh.
• 28:50
  It was so deep.
• 28:50
  Did you see where like the dude told it himself for being there with not girlfriend?
• 28:55
  So I somebody that would be entertaining, like there's a lot of people I'd like to meet.
• 28:59
  Mm-hmm.
• 29:00
  Um, there's a lot of people that I'd like to just experience be around them or whatever experience I know, wherever that might lead, but, um, but, but I think that they would be entered fun.
• 29:14
  I'm gonna experience whoever I want.
• 29:17
  You hear that Brian?
• 29:19
  I love you, baby.
• 29:20
  He doesn't listen.
• 29:21
  Are you kidding?
• 29:23
  Brandon doesn't either.
• 29:24
  He just makes fun of us for laughing.
• 29:27
  That's funny.
• 29:27
  Cause we, we cackle because he's right up.
• 29:30
  Oh.
• 29:30
  Cause the vet I go up to, well his office is over, like on that side of the house, but he's like, I can sleep.
• 29:36
  Of course he can.
• 29:37
  These houses aren't built all that great.
• 29:40
  No, they aren't.
• 29:41
  It's great.
• 29:41
  Um, so yeah, I think somebody like that would be fun.
• 29:44
  That would be fun.
• 29:44
  What you got?
• 29:45
  Um, well now I'm like second guess.
• 29:48
  Oh, that's my job is to always second guess myself.
• 29:51
  Who did you, who are you gonna say?
• 29:52
  Um, and I think we had talked about this like previously, but I would love to interview pink.
• 29:57
  Mm-hmm.
• 29:57
  as a mom.
• 29:59
  Yeah.
• 30:00
  And she is so, um, transparent about like her.
• 30:04
  Her relationship with her husband.
• 30:06
  Yeah.
• 30:06
  Through her music.
• 30:07
  Yeah.
• 30:08
  Um, and like the ups and downs and like, I just think she's so real and I think she'd be such a cool person to Yeah.
• 30:14
  Interview.
• 30:14
  Yeah.
• 30:15
  Um, yeah.
• 30:15
  She would be, she's like super down to earth.
• 30:17
  Yeah.
• 30:17
  She's not like, you know.
• 30:19
  Right.
• 30:19
  I also would like to, um, since she mentioned her, and I think I, when we had talked about this before, Natalie Mains from the Chicks.
• 30:26
  Yeah.
• 30:27
  I saw them in concert last year.
• 30:29
  It was a lot of fun.
• 30:31
  But I'm with you on the mat.
• 30:31
  Right?
• 30:32
  If you're, it's so funny.
• 30:35
  He is, and I don't even know if he has a script or he just goes up there and starts roasting people.
• 30:39
  I think he, it's just like all like, cuz I mean, he's not gonna know what they're gonna call out like he, so I wanna go to one of his shows, but I don't wanna be roasted new either.
• 30:48
  No, we need to sit in the non roasting section.
• 30:51
  You see the, like you're the one, like the girl was trying to.
• 30:53
  Um, hi.
• 30:54
  Her phone number?
• 30:55
  No.
• 30:56
  And he was like, okay, let me read that back to you.
• 30:58
  9 1 1.
• 30:59
  Oh, that's funny.
• 31:01
  That's funny.
• 31:01
  I got a stalker.
• 31:03
  He's so witty and quick.
• 31:04
  I mean, I know that's their job, but Yeah, I just, they're hilarious.
• 31:07
  Yeah, they're funny.
• 31:08
  So, yeah, that was a good one.
• 31:09
  I.
• 31:10
  Wasn't even on that path.
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  But I'm with you on that.
• 31:12
  I'm, no, we've done that path today.
• 31:13
  I like it.
• 31:14
  Maybe cause we were talking about our friend Patricia Hines.
• 31:18
  The experience.
• 31:19
  The experience.
• 31:20
  There's a lot of people I'd like to experience.
• 31:22
  Please take this out.
• 31:24
  No, this is gold.
• 31:27
  Okay.
• 31:28
  Um, um, what else?
• 31:30
  Um, let's see.
• 31:32
  Oh, special guests.
• 31:32
  Yes, but we need, we need some people that are attainable.
• 31:35
  Oh, well, you know.
• 31:38
  Okay.
• 31:38
  So our goal is for.
• 31:40
  Week or in the next couple of weeks to have a special guest.
• 31:43
  If anybody listening, first of all, back up.
• 31:46
  Is anybody listening?
• 31:48
  They are.
• 31:48
  Uh, yeah.
• 31:49
  Be confident.
• 31:50
  Meredith, any listeners?
• 31:51
  I'm struggling with my confidence today.
• 31:53
  Um, okay.
• 31:54
  So if anybody would like to be a special guest Yes.
• 31:57
  Because we rock.
• 31:59
  We're a lot of fun.
• 32:00
  Rex is adorable.
• 32:01
  Yes.
• 32:01
  Mm-hmm.
• 32:02
  And you don't have to live any, I mean, we can just do it as a zoom, like bring you on.
• 32:04
  Yes.
• 32:04
  As a zoom and record that way.
• 32:06
  So like, you don't have to be in Clover, South Carolina.
• 32:09
  Right.
• 32:10
  Even though I wouldn't even want to be in Clover.
• 32:12
  Sweet Jesus.
• 32:14
  Bless your heart.
• 32:15
  Bless my heart.
• 32:17
  Yeah.
• 32:17
  That'd be fun.
• 32:17
  So let us know.
• 32:18
  Yeah.
• 32:19
  So you can message us.
• 32:20
  You, if you're listening, you probably have our phone number so you can.
• 32:25
  Or reach out on social?
• 32:26
  Yes.
• 32:26
  If you don't have our phone number, yes, that'd be great.
• 32:28
  I'm not experienced.
• 32:30
  That's not going anywhere.
• 32:31
  Soon as it.
• 32:33
  If you want to ex I'll get over it by next episode.
• 32:36
  No, you won't.
• 32:37
  You're going, we're gonna keep bringing it up.
• 32:39
  That's okay.
• 32:40
  I'm okay with that.
• 32:41
  Okay.
• 32:41
  Um.
• 32:43
  What else?
• 32:43
  What you got going on?
• 32:44
  Um, nothing.
• 32:45
  What did you guys do for spring break?
• 32:46
  Anything?
• 32:47
  Oh, no.
• 32:48
  So I mean, yeah, but no, so our kids' spring break was last week.
• 32:51
  Yes.
• 32:51
  So Jackson went out of town with the kid that I had formally called Ban Anthony.
• 32:55
  Mm-hmm.
• 32:56
  Um, his real name was Anthony.
• 32:58
  No, I, I, I know, I just figured I should go ahead and throw that out there.
• 33:01
  That was, that was very creative.
• 33:04
  You know, I'm, I'm quick on my feet.
• 33:06
  So they went with Jackson's grandparents to Georgia.
• 33:10
  Mm-hmm.
• 33:11
  Dumb crime, Georgia.
• 33:13
  So that, but they didn't have any crimes.
• 33:15
  Hopefully they went to Six Flags, you know, that, that I know about.
• 33:18
  So they spent a couple days at Six Flags and then just hung out and did some things.
• 33:22
  But I will say that while he was gone, Brian, who works for Lowe's Home Improvement, got, um, gifted some tickets from Lowe's to the Hornets game, and the Hornets are so bad.
• 33:35
  Oh.
• 33:35
  Um, Free food and good seats and it was fun.
• 33:40
  So Well, so they emailed you like how to get to the box seats?
• 33:45
  Like it wasn't or sweet, whatever.
• 33:46
  I'm don't even know.
• 33:47
  I'm either.
• 33:48
  I'm used to going to the stadium and then you go through the metal detectors and all that kind stuff.
• 33:52
  No, they're like VIP.
• 33:54
  You were VIP.
• 33:55
  Great.
• 33:56
  They knew.
• 33:57
  Mm-hmm.
• 33:57
  They knew.
• 33:58
  So you, they're like, okay, go in the store, there's a elevator immediately on your whatever, and then go up to floor, whatever, and there's your suite.
• 34:04
  And I was like, oh.
• 34:06
  I thought I was somebody.
• 34:07
  Well, you were.
• 34:08
  I was.
• 34:09
  You were v i p.
• 34:10
  So yeah.
• 34:11
  So I was, and I am and I'll ever be V ip.
• 34:16
  So it was fun.
• 34:17
  But it was fun.
• 34:18
  I mean, like I said, they were trash, but it was good to spend some time with Brian and hang out and free food.
• 34:23
  Yeah.
• 34:23
  And you know, just being in Uptown City.
• 34:26
  Y'all look so cute.
• 34:27
  Your picture was so cute.
• 34:29
  Cute.
• 34:29
  Well, this girl sitting behind the girl, I don't know, she was in her early twenties.
• 34:33
  Sitting behind us.
• 34:34
  Cause I was trying to do the selfie, you know, she's like, here, I'll take your picture.
• 34:37
  Oh my gosh.
• 34:38
  I, she, I think she's probably like a supermodel.
• 34:39
  I don't even know who she was.
• 34:40
  Brian was probably drooling.
• 34:42
  She was like dressed to the nines at this basketball game.
• 34:45
  Like, and I don't mean like fancy, but I just mean like so put together and all the things.
• 34:50
  That hair was perfect, right?
• 34:52
  Look at this mess up here.
• 34:53
  But, um, I think your hair looks Oh, thank you.
• 34:56
  Thank you.
• 34:57
  But I mean, she was just like, here, I'll take your picture.
• 34:59
  And I'm like, Okay.
• 35:01
  Yeah.
• 35:02
  Hi.
• 35:04
  But anyway, it was, it was a lot of fun.
• 35:05
  Um, and then we spent some time over that same week doing some spring cleaning and stuff around the house.
• 35:11
  What did you do?
• 35:12
  I did nothing, but Dylan went to the beach.
• 35:14
  He did a good time.
• 35:15
  He did, he had a blast.
• 35:16
  Him.
• 35:16
  Um, uh, one of our good family friends, um, uh, the Fraileys.
• 35:22
  Yeah.
• 35:22
  Hi Tammy.
• 35:23
  thank you for taking my child.
• 35:26
  Um, invited, Dylan and one of their other friends.
• 35:28
  Hi.
• 35:29
  And, so Tyler and Jayden were also there and they.
• 35:32
  Had a great, great week to good.
• 35:35
  I don't know how she has her sanity still because, yeah.
• 35:37
  So, but sometimes when you have more than one, they entertain each other and all you gotta do is just keep feeding'em.
• 35:43
  You gotta keep'em alive.
• 35:45
  Well, and like those four are together, um, they're all such good kids.
• 35:49
  Right.
• 35:50
  Um, um, I just don't know if, if I would have my sanity by the end of the week because like, I'm always.
• 35:58
  So, I don't know.
• 35:59
  I'm always like, you know, my a d d, I'm like all over the place.
• 36:02
  Yeah.
• 36:02
  And so I think it would be like, oh, where are the kids?
• 36:05
  You know, like, I'd be like, yeah.
• 36:07
  And not that they do anything bad, but like, I, but just, you always have, I'd be worried about the ocean and Oh yeah.
• 36:11
  Like, yeah.
• 36:12
  Um, Dylan said that one day, the waves were like 10 feet tall, cuz I, you know, yeah.
• 36:16
  This storm was coming in or whatever.
• 36:17
  And, I was like, well, you know, in school right now in Jackson science class, they're studying natural selection and survival of the fittest.
• 36:24
  So they all came home.
• 36:26
  Yes.
• 36:27
  See, they're fine.
• 36:28
  Well, I'm just kidding.
• 36:29
  I'm just kidding.
• 36:30
  I know Thank the lord.
• 36:33
  Um, yeah.
• 36:35
  Yeah.
• 36:36
  Well, they're like, I hate you.
• 36:37
  Didn't get to go.
• 36:38
  No.
• 36:38
  Um, but Dylan had a blast.
• 36:40
  Good.
• 36:40
  and you know, we sent him with the money and like, she didn't spend any of it.
• 36:43
  I think he got his girlfriend a sweatshirt.
• 36:44
  Did you get a sweatshirt?
• 36:46
  No.
• 36:47
  These kids, he, he does like, after his games, she, she goes and like, they take a picture.
• 36:52
  He doesn't, he goes to her first and I'm like, I'm here.
• 36:54
  I birthed you, like you inside of me while I read something today.
• 36:57
  That was, If there's any gentlemen or children, listen, I'm not even gonna say it.
• 37:02
  Okay.
• 37:02
  Well you can say it.
• 37:03
  It's funny though.
• 37:04
  It's funny.
• 37:05
  Just say it.
• 37:06
  I ruined my vagina for you.
• 37:08
  You know, my bottle was funny.
• 37:12
  My whole body.
• 37:13
  Yeah.
• 37:14
  Yeah.
• 37:15
  I used to be very used to back in the day.
• 37:18
  Mm.
• 37:18
  And I saw one of our pictures from our honeymoon.
• 37:20
  Oh.
• 37:20
  And it was like, you know, like the fittest of my life.
• 37:24
  I used to run a lot and you know, I'll be super tiny and now not so much, but it's all good.
• 37:29
  Beautiful.
• 37:30
  Thank you.
• 37:32
  You are.
• 37:32
  I feel it run down though.
• 37:35
  Same girl.
• 37:35
  Same.
• 37:36
  Um, okay.
• 37:38
  Anything else we need to hit on today?
• 37:39
  Oh, where do you wanna do next week for our dumb crime?
• 37:41
  You wanna do Virginia to keep their southern stuff going?
• 37:44
  Yeah.
• 37:45
  Okay.
• 37:45
  And we're gonna do big little lies.
• 37:47
  Mm-hmm.
• 37:47
  I'm gonna put not file on.
• 37:49
  Okay.
• 37:49
  Um, so I'll take ownership big on taking ownership these.
• 37:55
  Um, oh, one more thing about the hornets came, I forgot to tell you.
• 37:58
  So we were walking in and we can end after this cause this was pretty fun.
• 38:02
  We were walking in, crossing the street, whatever.
• 38:04
  I looked to my left and I thought I looked right, but I don't know if I did or not.
• 38:09
  I got hit by a scooter.
• 38:15
  I mean, it hurt.
• 38:15
  No, you fall over.
• 38:16
  No, but like what happened?
• 38:18
  So I was crossing and I was getting up on like the Oh, re wants to see him.
• 38:24
  So I was getting up on like the, um, you know, like the regular sidewalk after the road, you know, you cross the crosswalk spot.
• 38:31
  And I was getting up on the sidewalk and like I said, I, I thought I looked to my right, but I guess I didn't.
• 38:35
  And this kid hit me.
• 38:40
  Just outta note, he was flying.
• 38:41
  You know those ones, like the ones that I have that are electric?
• 38:44
  Mm-hmm.
• 38:44
  And you can rent'em downtown.
• 38:45
  And, um, he hit me and I have this bad habit of overreacting, so I don't even mean to do it, but I was like, oh.
• 38:57
  I mean, I didn't fall down or anything.
• 38:59
  And then he looked back and he is like, I'm so sorry.
• 39:01
  I was like, I'm fine.
• 39:04
  Like I knew that in my head that I was like doing too much.
• 39:08
  Like I, I mean it really, I'd been, I should've, what did Brian say?
• 39:11
  He was like, what'd you walk out in front of him for?
• 39:15
  He did not have your back.
• 39:16
  No, no.
• 39:18
  So that was, you know, it didn't even leave like a bruise or scratch or anything.
• 39:21
  And here I am like ho hobbling in.
• 39:25
  Will a little dramatic.
• 39:27
  All right.
• 39:27
  Well, I think you have to get to the school first.
• 39:29
  I do the schedule.
• 39:30
  I do, but All right.
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• 40:02
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• 40:03
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• 40:03
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• 40:06
  Oh yeah.
• 40:07
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• 40:08
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• 40:08
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• 40:09
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