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Abby says she knows when Scotty will propose to his GF!!!!! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is.
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  Speaker 2: Magic.
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  Speaker 1: 94.9. Welcome to a new episode of Scotty and Abby unfiltered.
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  Speaker 1: We do have to shoot our shot publicly. I think
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  Speaker 1: this would be a lot better because of what's coming
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  Speaker 1: to the Tampa Bay area.
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  Speaker 2: We put them on blast.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it just gives us protection.
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  Speaker 2: I thought you were in active conversations with us.
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  Speaker 1: I am in active conversations. And I think the way
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  Speaker 1: to close the deal would be to have the conversation
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  Speaker 1: with all of us because I needed to start it.
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  Speaker 1: I actually I got in trouble because I just assumed
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  Speaker 1: we got stuff. like recently. And I was like, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. Let me do it formally. And that's
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  Speaker 1: sending an email, having it in file. So we're going
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  Speaker 1: to call up one of our promotions directors here to
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  Speaker 1: see what we can be given access.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, we're going to call him right now.
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  Speaker 1: Well, in a second, in a second, I got to
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  Speaker 1: run something by you because I've noticed this recently. I've
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  Speaker 1: had a lot of friends comment on my hair.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. And which it's crazy how much it's grown. I
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  Speaker 2: know a memory came up from April. I'm like, that's
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  Speaker 2: not Scotty. That's you're like Scott word now.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know if that's a good, is that
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  Speaker 1: a better version?
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  Speaker 2: No, it's just like you're like, you just, you've just evolved.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like I've evolved too. Like I can now
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  Speaker 1: look in the mirror and be like, wait a second.
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  Speaker 1: I've made it through the ugly duckling phase.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 1: Well. Is it a phase? It's just a lifestyle. Well,
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  Speaker 1: what's funny is in the beginning of this journey, I
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  Speaker 1: simply asked ChatGPT to give me an idea of what
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  Speaker 1: I would look like with long hair. And it gave
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  Speaker 1: me a couple options. What I find so crazy, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to show you this, Abby, because now when
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  Speaker 1: I look at the picture, it's wild how accurate chat was.
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  Speaker 1: It just came up with this vision. I want to
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  Speaker 1: see if you actually see the same person that I
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  Speaker 1: see when I look at this picture because it's now
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  Speaker 1: doing the thing where it's like, I could slick it back.
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  Speaker 1: I could pop it up. And people in the building,
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  Speaker 1: what's so funny is now people see me and they
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  Speaker 1: admit that at first they thought it was a horrible idea. Like,
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  Speaker 1: we have one of our coworkers, JoJo, and she literally
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  Speaker 1: told me, she's like, honestly, I hated the fact that
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  Speaker 1: you were growing out your hair because I thought it
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  Speaker 1: looked so bad. Well, it did.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Guys, we knew this was going to be a phase, right? Like,
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  Speaker 1: we all knew.
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  Speaker 2: It's not a phase, Mom.
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  Speaker 1: We knew that it was going to take time to
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  Speaker 1: get to this point.
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  Speaker 2: It was the lederhosen phase around July that was the worst.
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  Speaker 1: You know what actually sucks about this before I show
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  Speaker 1: you this photo? My girlfriend, Brianna, and I, we have
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  Speaker 1: so many photos from that time period. Uh-huh. And there's
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  Speaker 1: one photo in particular where we went out to, like,
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  Speaker 1: the Sapphire.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, stop.
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  Speaker 1: And she looks gorgeous.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. She always looks good.
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  Speaker 1: I look so stupid.
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  Speaker 2: What's funny is, imagine going through your honeymoon phase while you're, like, peak.
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Peak transitional phase.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Like, I felt so ugly. And I'm like, I'm
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  Speaker 1: so glad she decided to stick with me because. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I actually had to ask her the other day because
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  Speaker 1: when she first met me, I had short hair. Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 1: That's the version that she liked. Yeah. And I was like, well,
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  Speaker 1: you still like me now because I don't look like
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  Speaker 1: that same version. Luckily, I think she does. But check
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  Speaker 1: out this photo of AI. This is what AI originally
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  Speaker 1: came up with. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So this is what.
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  Speaker 1: Tell me. Okay. Like, okay, I'm going to take off
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  Speaker 1: my headphones. How close are we to that image? You're kidding. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So I've been telling you because you're close.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: There's not an. Okay. Don't get self-conscious when I say
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  Speaker 2: unevenness because my hair does this too. It's just the
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  Speaker 2: shape of my head. You've got more fullness on this side.
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  Speaker 1: On my right side.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. And I feel like either your stylist needs to
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  Speaker 2: thin it out or give you some layers, or I
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  Speaker 2: feel like there's a little bit more of a curl
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  Speaker 2: pattern to this guy's hair to where I feel like
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  Speaker 2: a semi-perm. Would maybe kind of zhuzh it up a
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  Speaker 2: little bit. Or make it look more cohesive. But it
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  Speaker 2: looks good. Like, I'm seeing the vision.
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  Speaker 1: The vision is visioning. Yeah, like, it's actually... What I
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  Speaker 1: learned is that you have to train your hair. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: So it's getting trained to start doing this new pattern.
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  Speaker 1: That's why this other side has more. Because for freaking years,
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  Speaker 1: I just swooped it over to that side. Yeah. And
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  Speaker 1: so the hair is used to it.
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  Speaker 2: But it is crazy. Like, your hair looks... Like, you
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  Speaker 2: have a curl pattern to it now.
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  Speaker 1: Isn't it nuts? You know what's crazy is I had to...
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  Speaker 1: what was I thinking the other day of like the
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  Speaker 1: new things I've had to learn how to do. And
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  Speaker 1: one of them is my hair. It's crazy. Cause for
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  Speaker 1: so many years I'm talking like, how old am I now?
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  Speaker 1: I'm about to be 30 probably for 20 years. I've
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  Speaker 1: just put a little bit of paste in my hair
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  Speaker 1: and just popped it up. Now I'm waking up and
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing a blow dryer. I have a, for the
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  Speaker 1: first time ever, I had to buy salt spray. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what the hell that was at first, but
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  Speaker 1: I spritz my hair. I put paste in it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to get you like a moose.
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  Speaker 1: It, See, I don't even know what that is. I
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  Speaker 1: thought it was an animal. I have to step into
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  Speaker 1: these new arenas. What's so funny is like my algorithm.
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  Speaker 1: If you would have told me a year ago that
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  Speaker 1: my algorithm was going to be filled with men styling
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  Speaker 1: hair and cars, I would have called you crazy. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Two things I'm not interested at all.
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  Speaker 2: Well, it's better than boobs and what other weird, porny
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  Speaker 2: things guys have on their explore page. Which I didn't
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  Speaker 2: realize it was a thing until I started hearing my
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  Speaker 2: guy friends talk about it, like, with their girlfriends. They're like, oh, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: when I got a girlfriend, I had to retrain my
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  Speaker 2: For You page or whatever. I'm like, oh, new fear unlocked.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but here's the thing, though, and I hate this
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  Speaker 1: about social media, is because it might not even be
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  Speaker 1: something that you're, like, seeking out. It just knows that
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  Speaker 1: if you look at something for, like, two seconds longer
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  Speaker 1: than you did the rest, it's like, got it, let's
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  Speaker 1: throw it in there. And so you might look at
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  Speaker 1: a guy's feed and it's like, bro, you pervert. Is
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  Speaker 1: this all you do? And he's like, I literally, I looked,
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't help it. My monkey brain was like three
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  Speaker 1: seconds too long and now it changed my entire explore page.
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  Speaker 1: It is funny though. If you're ever with a group
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  Speaker 1: of guys, this is, I don't do this because I
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  Speaker 1: hate this when somebody does it, but ask everyone to
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  Speaker 1: show their explore page. Make it a little fun bit.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my God. What's on your explore page?
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  Speaker 2: Should we show each other our explore pages? I actually
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  Speaker 2: don't know what would be on mine.
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  Speaker 1: Um, Let me check first.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, how about we check it, and then we both
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  Speaker 2: have to say whether or not we would be uncomfortable
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  Speaker 2: with you seeing it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because mine should be fine, because it's just like cars,
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  Speaker 1: but every now and then it's like Instagram knows I'm
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  Speaker 1: a male that's 29, so it's like, what about this? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: mine's fine. Mine's fine.
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  Speaker 2: Mine is exactly what you would expect. What are the
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  Speaker 2: first three posts?
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  Speaker 1: That would be in yours?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like what are the top three? So like here's mine.
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  Speaker 1: I'll take mine. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So my first three is a tall, hot man with
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  Speaker 2: brown hair.
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  Speaker 1: Just a random. Naturally.
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  Speaker 2: What's his name? He's a fuck. He's from London.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 2: They always find me. It's just some hot.
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  Speaker 1: It's so funny that it's a random guy.
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  Speaker 2: And then the next one is from it's a Taylor
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  Speaker 2: Swift video. Taylor Swift rehearsing. So it's like a clip
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  Speaker 2: from her documentary. And then the next one. is debut
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  Speaker 2: era Taylor singing.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that makes sense.
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  Speaker 2: This is exactly what you would expect from me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, like hot brown haired men.
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  Speaker 2: Belmont Camelli. Belmont Camelli's on here. Off campus.
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  Speaker 1: See, if you looked at mine, you would think I'm like, honestly,
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  Speaker 1: that I'm into men based off of this. So the
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  Speaker 1: first one is the cyber cab, the Tesla cyber cab. Yep,
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  Speaker 1: adds up. Because I've been looking at a ton of
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  Speaker 1: just electric cars. The second one... Every chest exercise worth doing.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, so is chest your favorite muscle group?
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  Speaker 1: It is, actually. Figured. And then the other one is
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  Speaker 1: a video of Arnold Schwarzenegger working out. And it's just
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  Speaker 1: in his heyday. Adds up. And then it's just literally
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  Speaker 1: now it's all just cars and workouts. Cars and workouts.
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  Speaker 1: But it's a lot of shirtless men. So if you
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  Speaker 1: were to just go out my... Same. We should not
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  Speaker 1: have the similarity there.
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  Speaker 2: We probably have the same for you, Paige.
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  Speaker 1: It's so funny because I'm like, if you just look
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  Speaker 1: at this without knowing, you're like, Scott, what the heck?
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  Speaker 1: I really like workout videos. I don't know why. It
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  Speaker 1: gives me ideas, but it's not like I'm not into
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  Speaker 1: these guys.
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  Speaker 2: No, but I know what you mean. Because, I mean,
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure there's girls doing workouts online, but I'm not
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  Speaker 2: watching girls and being like, oh, my God.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Look at her BBL.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just like, oh, I want her body. How do
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  Speaker 2: I get that body?
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  Speaker 1: Exactly. That's what mine is now. So it's just kind
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  Speaker 1: of funny. This would not be what it looked like
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  Speaker 1: a year ago. Tell you that. What would it look like?
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  Speaker 1: I don't need to worry about that. Definitely not that.
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  Speaker 2: How do I leave my relationship?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 2: Jokes.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Jokes on jokes on jokes.
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  Speaker 1: But now it's like a whole new life in what
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  Speaker 1: I'm experiencing. So there's my hair updates because I know
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  Speaker 1: now people are like, wait a second. It's coming together, guys.
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  Speaker 1: We've done it. We've done it.
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  Speaker 2: We did it, John.
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  Speaker 1: My buddy told me, he's like, bro, the hair is herring.
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  Speaker 2: The hair is herring.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I'm going to do anything to it
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  Speaker 1: until like one after my birthday. Okay. Because then I'll
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  Speaker 1: go and do like, I think then it's going to
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  Speaker 1: be long enough to do a perm and curl and
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  Speaker 1: all that other stuff. Yeah. I don't know what else
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  Speaker 1: to do with it.
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  Speaker 2: I just hope you're inspiring other men to grow their
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  Speaker 2: hair out.
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  Speaker 1: I hope so. I've seen more men with longer hair.
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  Speaker 1: Like I've definitely gone out and I've seen, oh, hey,
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  Speaker 1: you're growing out your hair. And you know what's funny
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  Speaker 1: is now I compliment guys on their hair. Because I'll
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  Speaker 1: be like, dude, nice flow. If you decide to grow
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  Speaker 1: it out, great flow.
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  Speaker 2: And now that I've paid attention to it more, I
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  Speaker 2: am noticing how many men are getting hair transplants.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like I can spot it in the same
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  Speaker 2: way I feel like I can spot fake boobs now.
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  Speaker 2: Where I'm like, oh, that's a turkey hairline. But I
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  Speaker 2: love that. Like, I love that men are also being
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  Speaker 2: expected to upkeep their appearances the same way women have
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  Speaker 2: been for centuries.
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  Speaker 1: As they should. And I don't think there should be
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  Speaker 1: any shame behind it. Like, if it makes you feel better,
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  Speaker 1: if you look good, do it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I told my girlfriend, I was like, I'll do it.
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  Speaker 1: And when I get to that point, I'm doing it.
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  Speaker 1: I don't have a problem with it. Hell yeah. I
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  Speaker 1: think the only problem is that it's just expensive.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: That's the only thing I'm like, ooh, do I want
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  Speaker 1: to drop that cash now or later? Later. And how
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  Speaker 1: long does it last?
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  Speaker 2: Propose to your lady. Oh, which, by the way, I
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  Speaker 2: did talk to your girlfriend about you proposing to her.
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  Speaker 1: What the fuck?
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  Speaker 2: I think I know when it's going to happen.
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  Speaker 1: What?
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  Speaker 2: Do you want to talk about it right now? Sure.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know this conversation.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't know that you guys were going to Italy
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  Speaker 2: next year.
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  Speaker 1: We are going to Italy next year.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, he's for sure proposing to
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  Speaker 2: you in Italy.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. Well, here's the problem with that. First off, wow,
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  Speaker 1: because she listens to the podcast. Second off, we're going
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  Speaker 1: for somebody else's wedding. Isn't that like rule number one?
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  Speaker 1: You can't propose at somebody else's wedding.
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  Speaker 2: You got to do it after the wedding. That's the rule.
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  Speaker 2: You can't do it before the wedding. If you do
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  Speaker 2: it before the wedding, you're an asshole.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh my God. I don't want to be that
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  Speaker 1: person that's at the wedding.
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  Speaker 2: If you guys are going to go to like Iskia afterwards,
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  Speaker 2: like yeah, and propose after the wedding.
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  Speaker 1: That's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: I know. I caught you.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like. Easy there. Wait, did you tell her that?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I told her that. That's why I feel comfortable
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  Speaker 2: talking about it because I told that to her. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I said that to her face.
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  Speaker 1: What'd she say?
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  Speaker 2: And she was like, ooh. And then I was so
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  Speaker 2: hot that I think I just like kind of started
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  Speaker 2: browning out. I was so sweaty at that tailgate.
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  Speaker 1: You're like, I'm going to give up on this conversation.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just going to gas myself up. Well, it was loud.
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  Speaker 2: There were a lot of conversations happening. And then I
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  Speaker 2: don't know what, somebody like chimed in and I think
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  Speaker 2: we pivoted.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, I'm just curious on her reaction.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I was like, just let me know if
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  Speaker 2: you need any Italy recommendations because I'm the expert now
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  Speaker 2: that I've been once.
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  Speaker 1: I will actually take your Italy recommendations for going there. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Because I get to, well, we get to plan, like,
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  Speaker 1: what we hit outside of the wedding.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I pivoted from talking about the proposal
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  Speaker 2: to think, I think I started talking about where I
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  Speaker 2: think you guys should stay. And then I can't remember,
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  Speaker 2: somebody jumped into the conversation and, like, hijacked it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, gosh.
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  Speaker 2: Not in, like, a bad way, but then, like, the
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  Speaker 2: conversation pivoted.
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  Speaker 1: It just went to a different direction. Okay, that's good.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, very interesting. Haven't even... Whatever.
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  Speaker 2: I love it.
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  Speaker 1: Thanks for asking the hard-hitting questions.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm here for. Relationship journalist Abby Murphy.
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  Speaker 1: I will take it. Let's actually, we're only, what are we,
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  Speaker 1: we're about to hit.
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  Speaker 2: 11 minutes?
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no. I'm talking about my relationship date.
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  Speaker 2: Feels like 11 minutes.
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  Speaker 1: Seven months. Just hit seven months. That's huge. It is huge.
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  Speaker 1: And that's still very early. No, it's not. It's not.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are old. It does feel like, all right,
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  Speaker 1: we're right in pocket with what we need to do.
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  Speaker 1: But what's fun is like now there's things. Do you
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  Speaker 1: ever see this on your For You page where it's
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  Speaker 1: like life with him, life without him, like life with her,
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  Speaker 1: life without her? Where people are like slowly moving their
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  Speaker 1: things into someone's house? That's what's happening to me right now.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Where it's like, oh, wait, that's a new thing on
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  Speaker 1: my shelf. Oh, wait. That's a new article of clothing
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  Speaker 1: in my closet.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, that's beautiful. It is. What was the first thing
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  Speaker 2: you noticed?
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  Speaker 1: I had dresses in my closet.
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  Speaker 2: Those haven't been there before?
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure I saw you wearing one.
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  Speaker 1: Kidding.
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  Speaker 2: He's like, wait a second, I forgot this is from 2024.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I could never, I might, but I could
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  Speaker 1: never run for politics because of the pictures that would
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  Speaker 1: be revealed. Yeah. Because there's definitely a picture out there
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  Speaker 1: of me in a dress. And not even just one time. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Does that make you ineligible for office?
• 12:15
  Speaker 1: But could you imagine the comments? this is who wants
• 12:18
  Speaker 1: to be your mayor?
• 12:19
  Speaker 2: No, because it'd be Gen Z voting. So it'd be like, oh,
• 12:21
  Speaker 2: look at him appropriating gender or something. Oh, yeah.
• 12:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah. But we did the thing in high school where,
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: what was it? Powder puff, but not powder puff. Yeah.
• 12:29
  Speaker 1: Where you like, you switch roles.
• 12:30
  Speaker 2: Gender bender.
• 12:31
  Speaker 1: Is that what they called it in Europe?
• 12:34
  Speaker 2: We weren't allowed to do it. And I can't remember why.
• 12:35
  Speaker 2: And I'm so grateful that they made that rule because
• 12:39
  Speaker 2: people had so much fun. I was excited for it.
• 12:41
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I can't wait to dress like
• 12:42
  Speaker 2: a dude at school.
• 12:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 12:43
  Speaker 2: But something happened. And I'm so glad they didn't allow
• 12:45
  Speaker 2: us to do it because I feel like now there
• 12:48
  Speaker 2: would have been some kind of angle about like Creekside
• 12:50
  Speaker 2: High School making fun of, you know.
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. We went full send. Like I
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: put in balloons in my shirt. a long wig my
• 12:59
  Speaker 1: friend dressed up as me as like just a dude
• 13:02
  Speaker 1: it was honestly so fun no it's the best like
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: nobody thought about it back then like that though not
• 13:07
  Speaker 1: back then it was like so long ago it was.
• 13:09
  Speaker 2: Like 2014 yeah I mean yeah yeah we didn't.
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: Look at that as like oh my gosh we're like
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: either making fun of something or I don't know it's
• 13:17
  Speaker 1: just like what you.
• 13:18
  Speaker 2: Did we're just looser back in the day yeah I
• 13:20
  Speaker 2: feel like we're kind of turning a corner I feel
• 13:22
  Speaker 2: like I've seen a lot of like okay, everyone take
• 13:24
  Speaker 2: a deep breath rhetoric online. Like it's not everything. Like
• 13:27
  Speaker 2: for example, I think the internet just for whatever reason
• 13:31
  Speaker 2: attracts just random ass discourse that I think maybe has
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: turned into people having to become hypervigilant about their own views.
• 13:39
  Speaker 2: Like you constantly have to think about everything from every
• 13:41
  Speaker 2: single angle. And for example, I posted what I thought
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: was the most harmless video on my TikTok and my
• 13:50
  Speaker 2: Instagram page. while I was in Italy. And it was just,
• 13:53
  Speaker 2: Hey guys, I saw this girl share this anti pickpocketing trick.
• 13:57
  Speaker 2: That's pretty inexpensive. Um, and I just wanted to share
• 14:00
  Speaker 2: it with you cause I thought it was super cute.
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: And the comment section in this video of me taking
• 14:05
  Speaker 2: a $ 10 Amazon purse and wrapping a scarf around it.
• 14:08
  Speaker 2: Like you would think I was speaking about like Anti blah, blah, blah,
• 14:14
  Speaker 2: and whatever. Like, the amount of, like, well, what about this?
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: You didn't even think about this. Oh, you spent $ 20?
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: Like, just.
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: I'm like, of all the things I thought would blow
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: up on the internet and get some kind of just.
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: Hatred rhetoric. Like, this was the last thing I thought
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: I was going to post. Like, I posted way more controversial.
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: Shit than that. Hell yeah, you have.
• 14:32
  Speaker 2: And it's been way, like, way more fine.
• 14:35
  Speaker 1: Were people thinking that you were, like, I don't know,
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: talking bad about Italians?
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: No, let's just go down the list. They find some
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: way to be like, well, what if this happens? Like, well,
• 14:43
  Speaker 2: that's not going to stop them from cutting off your
• 14:45
  Speaker 2: bag and running with it. I'm like, well, that's a
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: fucking robbery, and I didn't say this is going to
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: help you not get robbed in Italy.
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're going to get robbed, you're going to
• 14:52
  Speaker 1: get robbed.
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: It said, hey, here's a cheap and inexpensive... hack that'll
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: make your purse look cute and also help you not get.
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: Pickpocketed yeah just a helpful tip take it if you
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: don't like it scroll.
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: Past it's not a court order okay it's a i'm
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: you know so anyway there's 34 comments it felt like
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: a lot more what did someone say um someone commented
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: just wear a crossbody bag you're welcome and i'm just
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: like okay someone said you could even do that with
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: a bag you already own and i was like yeah
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: You could. I didn't own a bag like this though.
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: Someone said, they could also cut the bag, not just
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: open it. I'm like, yeah, that's... They could also pull
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: a gun on me. I could also be held at
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: knife point. Someone else. Wouldn't they just pull the bag
• 15:38
  Speaker 2: off your shoulder? I'm like, that's a robbery.
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: Again, it's different people. We don't have to have an
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: opinion on everything.
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: Someone said, surely you can buy both things from other
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: places too.
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: No shit.
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: Most people use Amazon.
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: That's literally it. That's what.
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: Anyway, there's just if you just go in that comment section,
• 15:57
  Speaker 2: it's like every other comment is just like, well, what
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: about this? Did you think about this? How are you?
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: Why are you supporting Jeff Bezos? I'm like, unfortunately, me
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: purchasing this ten dollar Amazon bag is not going to
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: stop him from scorching the earth.
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: And you know what's so annoying? There's so many different
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: things that are annoying with that. The first one is
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: like when somebody says something about the Jeff Bezos thing,
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: like they're ordering things off Amazon too.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: That's what I mean.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: You can't tell me you're not.
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: And listen, I hate it too. I hate that Jeff
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: Bezos is a bajillionaire. I love that his ex-wife donates
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: to a lot of great causes with all of her
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: billions and billions of dollars. But life is so exhausting.
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: And there's so many, everything, if you think about it,
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: and I kind of had to realize this working in media,
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: and I think posting a video like this online is
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: the perfect example. There's always a, there's something wrong with
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: this angle to everything. Literally to everything. And I think
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: that's been the most healing thing for me in content
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: is there is no criticism or what about this proof
• 16:55
  Speaker 2: thing in the world ever. Like think about like Mother Teresa.
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: You would think, oh, I'm sure there's no argument against
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: Mother Teresa. Go on the internet. You will find somebody
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: who has some kind of argument about why Mother Teresa...
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: was a horrible person. And that's fucking Mother Teresa. Do
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean?
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like how do you get mad at her?
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: And so I think accepting that has been so freeing
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: for me in my life in general that like no
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: matter what you do, somebody will either not like you
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: or have a problem with it or say, what about this?
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: Or just take up some kind of issue. Even if
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: it's the most unproblematic thing in the world. For example,
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: posting a video being like, hey girls, just wanted to
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: help you not get pickpocketed. Here's my inexpensive tip for you.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: And then you just get ripped apart. How dare you
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: give me a tip that can help me not get pickpocketed.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: I'm like, what? And somebody, oh, I think also on TikTok,
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: somebody said something so mean. It was like a verified
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: travel influencer. And it was so, let me find it.
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: I wonder if she deleted it because it was so mean.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: Especially if they're somebody that's known in that space.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: Well, that's why I was so shocked because it was
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: so snarky for literally no reason. I'm like, you're a
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: public figure. And I'm literally just like, Hey girl. So
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know if she was bitter that
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: she just, I think she deleted it.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: Oh, probably she deleted it. Yeah. She deleted it.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: Cause it was so rude. It was something like, um,
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: just so unnecessarily snarky. And I commented and I, it
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: started a thread underneath it, or maybe it was on
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: Instagram because it didn't pop off on Tik TOK, which
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: is interesting. Like, The things that will not pop off
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: on TikTok but will go super viral on my Instagram
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: and vice versa. Like, some things will go super bland
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: on my TikTok but go crazy viral on TikTok. Like,
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: I don't understand the difference in the algorithms.
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't either because I post the same thing. And, like,
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: TikTok gives me, like, two views thanks to my dad.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: Did I hide it? I definitely think they deleted it
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: because it was so rude. I'm like, this is bad
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: for your business.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm, like, it's crazy. We had somebody the
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: other day on Instagram kind of just, it wasn't that
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: mean of a comment, but it was like, you guys
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: have the worst Instagram. Opinions or something like that like
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: it's something about our show yeah And I went to
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: their page and they're followed by the rock and I
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: was like who is this person? That's what I thought
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: I was like who the hell are you I was
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: like first off Thanks for the comment, but also like
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: you don't have to comment like that's the thing yeah
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: You don't have to jump in but I did have
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: a moment the other day where I saw I can't
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: I wish I could remember what it was but I
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: almost became a keyboard warrior like have you ever popped
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: off or like did one of those like just a
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: one-off where you got snarky in the comments Well, you
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: got a little mean.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: In the comments. Like I saw somebody's TikTok and it
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: prompted me to say something mean.
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: Like it drove you to get in there.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: No, because I'll start typing something. And sometimes just typing
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: something makes you feel good and then you delete it.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: But the second I want to say something rude or snarky,
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: I go, this is loser behavior. Why am I saying this?
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: That's what I think too.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: I think it's just weird loser behavior.
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: I do. What's crazy though is there's so many people
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: that do it. There's so... Because you have so much
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: time to watch the video, to look at the comments,
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: to then write out your comment, and then to post
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: the comment. And then you're just thinking about what you posted.
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: And also, you commenting benefits that person.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: Correct.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: Like, there's nothing you can say in the world of content, unless, like,
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: you know, they've done something cancelable. There's nothing you can
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: say that's going to hurt them. Like it only benefits
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: that person.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: Absolutely. Like boost that algorithm. I love it. That's why
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: I love when people go after me, but I'm like,
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: it just drives it very interesting to me on where
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: people could just be like, how dare you? You suck.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: You're the worst.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: That's why. So we recently did a planning meeting where
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: we were talking about our different roles on the show.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: And one of the things I said in our list
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: of job responsibilities I did not want to do is
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: I do not want to go in the comment section.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, yeah.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: Not because I don't want to help the show, but
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: I'm like every now and then someone's just going to
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: say something that's just being an asshole for no reason.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: And it's not healthy for me to constantly ingest that.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: So I'm like, if I don't have to do that,
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: I don't want to do it. I'm fine with it existing.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: I just don't want to know it exists.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: Absolutely. Yeah. For the most part, everything's great. Everything's really nice.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: No, no.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: But, but, but then every now and then somebody will
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: just say something and you never know what day you're
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: going to get to where you're just like, that just didn't,
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: I just didn't need to see that today.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah. Like when I posted, what the heck did
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: I post? Uh, Oh, my cooking video for my girlfriend
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: and my hair was like wet and down. Oh yeah.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: And there's going to be some asshole in there being like,
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: what's wrong with your hair?
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: Like I'm doing this sweet gesture. I'm showing you the
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: process and somebody's like, your hair looks like shit. Yeah.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: I was like, Thanks. Really wasn't asking, but that's cool.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Or I remember the one, there was one that got
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: to me years ago and I was like, I was
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: shirtless for something, but somebody called me, they just mentioned
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: like my lower stomach, something along like a skinny fat thing.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: And I was like, damn it, that one got me.
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: Shit.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: All right, that hurts. I'm only thinking about that.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: But here's the thing, that only benefits you because I'm
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: sure the next week in the gym, you went ham
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: and now you look incredible, I'm sure.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: It's true. I mean, it does boost my morale. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: But not everyone's.
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: That's what I mean. And so sometimes the, it's not
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: that I want negative comments or hate comments or whatever,
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: but sometimes it just makes me, it does make you better.
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: And so they think it's going to hurt you, but ironically,
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: it always makes you better.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And like, it just makes you, I always look
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: at the person, I'm like, You must be going through
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: some hell to get on someone's comment section and try
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: to take them down. Yeah. That's crazy. Get help, y'all.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: Get help. Can't get a therapist? Talk to ChatGPT. Tell
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: Chat what you want to comment and have Chat respond.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Hey, comment in 2026 when you can just yell at Chat.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: For real. Just get it out of your system somewhere else.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: That's wild to me. You ready to try to push
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: our luck and see if we can get through? He
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: probably won't answer.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: I don't know how comfortable I am with this, if
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: I'm honest with you.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: You think it's going to go sideways?
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: Well, first of all, it's 8.55. He probably isn't even
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: in the office. And you think the first thing he
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: wants to deal with is, Abby and Scotty want tickets.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean? I sent him an email already,
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: so I don't want it to seem like I'm hounding him.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: And I really want to go to the... I can't
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: believe I didn't realize the Lightning Panthers game was tonight.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: But it's preseason though, right?
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but that doesn't matter.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, I know.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: At home, maybe if it was the Sunrise game, but
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: this is the first time Lightning and the Panthers are
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: playing each other this year. It doesn't matter if it's preseason.
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: These guys hate each other. Hate, hate, hate each other.
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: And I want to see it go down.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: What's so cool about this game is like every team,
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: and this is, I don't know, I didn't know this
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: growing up. That's why I didn't really like fighting and hockey.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: But every team needs a fighter. Someone that's just down
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: to get into it. Down to get bloody. Down to
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: lose a tooth. Tonight you get to find out.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: That's all of them. Like, I think the entire Lightning
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: and Panthers teams, they both like to fight.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: They do.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: And I think that's why it's so entertaining. So if
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: you don't follow Lightning hockey, I can't remember what the
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: stats were. Let me pull it up because we were
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: talking about it on the show today. But like the
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: last time Lightning and the Panthers played each other. they
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: had 312 penalty minutes and 13 game misconducts, which is
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: a lot. And there was at one point, like the
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: entire starting line was in the penalty box. Like both
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: of them, they're just sitting there and they have like
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: the Z team out there on the ice.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: Like that's- They're pulling players from the stands.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: Literally.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Anybody know how to skate?
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: Can anyone do it? Like they can't even play hockey
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: because there's so many, no one can play. And so
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: I find that highly entertaining. I was talking about that
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: on the show today where I'm like, football's fine, baseball's fine.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: But you never know what's going to happen in hockey.
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: And it's so personal because they're allowed to get rough
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: that I'm like, yeah, I want to see these guys
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: show their hatred.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: On the ice. Oh, my God. Because it does. It
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: switches the momentum of the game. Like you have one
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: fight today and it could mean the Lightning win or
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: the Panthers win. Yeah.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: It's the biggest rivalry, I think, in the NHL right now.
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: I would say so. I don't think there's anybody else
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: that plays that gets in as many fights. Unless it's
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: like every now and then, if you know hockey, like
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: the Bruins also used to be, might still be, but
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: big fighters up in Boston. But that's like that northern way.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: Just get down and dirty with it. But it's crazy
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: that some of the toughest and meanest teams are both
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: from Florida.
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: I know. I was thinking about this. I'm like, how
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: did so many Canadians and northerners end up here? It's
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: because they're sick of dealing with the snow. They're like,
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: I'm cold on the ice. I'm cold when I.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: Leave the ice.
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: I want to live somewhere hot.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I want to actually sweat when I go outside. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: That'll be fun. I think you'll be able to go
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: today then. You should be good.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: I think I just requested the tickets too late.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: Nah, there's probably a last pair. You think so? Yeah, 100%.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm saying this is a big game.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: No, no, I know. I know.
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: I wasn't surprised that I got tickets last week, but
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: like this game, I don't know if I'm going to
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: get them.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: I think. What I'm leaning on is I think they
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: really want us out there to start being able to
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: talk about it because of how much we cared the
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: last time we went and how much we posted and
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: got to be a part of it and how much
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: we talk about it. That part's really cool for them.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: So hopefully there's a connect there. And if you do,
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: you're definitely going to find out who the scrappier players are,
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: whether it's us or them. But that is going to
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: set the tone for the rest of the season.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: I can't wait. I'm so excited.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: You know what I was thinking the other day is
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: how much– it's crazy how much money they must make
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: in a season– because of how many games they play.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: And it made me think, I was like, I never
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: thought about it like this. That's why baseball and hockey
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: have so many games in a season. It's more opportunities
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: to make ticket sales. But football doesn't do that. Football
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: has like 16 games.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: Isn't that crazy? And I objectively don't think football is
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: that entertaining to watch.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: Damn. See, I love it. Yeah. But I actually like
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: watching it at home more than I do like watching
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: at the actual stadium.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: Why do men like sports so much?
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: That's a good question.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: I genuinely want to know because I know why I
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: specifically enjoy watching hockey. And I think it's because women
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: enjoy a story. And that's why I think hockey, for example,
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: is the premise of so many rom-coms right now, because
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: there's an interpersonal element that makes the books interesting. Like,
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: for example, an off campus, there was that whole storyline
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: about the other player on the other team and they
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: start fighting on the ice because of that. Like women
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: love that shit. And so that's why we find it entertaining.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: But take me to a baseball game and I'm like, okay,
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: unless it's a really intense game, I just, I'm so
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: bored by this.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: I think that's, well, this is going to ruffle some feathers,
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: but I think that's why it's the sport that people
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: don't like to watch the most because it doesn't have
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: that grit to it. Yeah. Like football, like I love
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: watching sports because there's a part of us in the
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: male brain that's like competitive, brutal. Like think of, I
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: saw a video yesterday of guys dressed up in armor
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: fighting like it was medieval times. Why?
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: Why?
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: For fun. Because there's a part of us that has
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: to compete, that has to win, that has to fight.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: Or is it because men are all just secretly a
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: little gay?
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: Secretly a little gay.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: Y'all just want to like grab each other and you
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: don't want to be called gay for it. I know.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: It's like, why are football pants so tight? I don't know.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: But they are.
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: I mean, it was designed by men.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: It was. Apparently it helps us be more athletic. But
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: I think there is that part of us that's like,
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: I need to win. We've done it since the beginning
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: of time. We're going to go to war and you'd
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: go to a stadium. It's literally set up like the
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: Coliseum where it's like, all right, that's where we got
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: the inspiration from. And now the battle is the same
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: thing as it was when we were, I don't know,
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: warriors in Rome.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: One team versus the other. Just the difference is hopefully
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: nobody dies before the whole team died. And then that sucks.
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I love it. I have dreams still
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: where I'm still playing. You do? This is so sad
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: because I'm about to be 30, but I literally, within
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: the last week, I had a sad moment to myself.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: I was like, I'll never play tackle football again.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: That is sad, though.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: It is. I will not.
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: But I mean, that's one thing you and Tom Brady
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: have in common.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: I know, but that's why you see these players get
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: so emotional. That part of their life will never happen again.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: That brought them so much joy. That brought out a
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: side of them that It's hard to find in any
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: other place. Like, where do I get to, like, take
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: out of my aggression and, like, beat up somebody legally here? Can't.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: I can't. Unless I'm a fighter. And I honestly, truthfully,
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: I don't want to get punched in the face. I
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: don't want to get punched. But tackling somebody, it's so
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: weird to explain, such a good feeling.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: Just say you want to hook up with men. Just
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: say that.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: It's something within us. It's something deep down that we
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: have to solve for ourselves. Yeah. One of the things
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: that I've been thinking about a lot as that thought came,
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: I also thought, I was like, wow, as I'm about
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: to be 30, I wonder if there's any regrets of
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: my 20s. No. If there's anything that, hmm, I wish
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: I could have done differently or that I could change
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: in my 30s. Like, is there anything that comes to
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: mind for you of, like, things you would have done
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: this past decade? And I kind of got this thought
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: because of the tech situation with your guy the other
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: day where it's like, damn it, I should. I need
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: to F around and find out more.
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: Which, by the way, people are asking what happened afterwards. Nothing.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: I just didn't.
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: I texted my friend Tori and I was like, I
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: think it's actually low key. So it's so Samantha Jones.
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: Do you know who she is?
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: Is that the sex in the city?
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah. She's like the very like flirtatious, sexually confident. I'm like,
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: it's so Samantha Jones to just like drop a random
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: compliment like that. And then just like never.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Speak back right back into the bush.
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: And then just be like, OK, bye. Like, I can
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: just say that and I'm fine with it.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: Bye.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: It's actually kind of a power move if you think
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: about it it is it is because i know he's
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: more into me than i'm into him so it's kind
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: of like oh oh you looked good okay bye.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah i just want to let you know that i
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: still see you but i don't need you.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: It's a little toxic and men have been torturing women
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: for centuries so i feel like this is one notch
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: in the belt about you know, kind of getting back
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: at the patriarchy.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: Taking back your power. Yeah. All these men wasting your time.
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: What did I really have to lose? Like, I don't
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: want to, I'm not trying to date this man.
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: I was just feeling some type of way on Sunday.
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: I'm like, let me just stir the pot a little bit.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: I've had friends though that have gone back out with
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: people that they've tried to go out with like a
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: couple of years ago. And they're just, I don't know,
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: maybe trying to see if personalities changed. vibes change just
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: kind of yeah let me go revisit this i used
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: to not like pizza now i like let me try
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: yeah and try it again it could it be that
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: situation or.
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: No no i think um i don't know i'm i'm
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: really big on following your gut and um my gut
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: just never at any point said yeah yeah yeah yeah
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: um because i've dated people i've dated like maybe two
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: or three people to where I really liked them, but
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: there was some kind of compatibility issue, if that makes sense. Like,
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: for example, I dated a guy when I was in
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: my early 20s who I really struggled with because we
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: were so life-wise incompatible. Like, he just had nothing of
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: what I was looking for in a life partner.
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: And so here's, I guess, a good example of me
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: having regrets from my 20s is I just have always
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: taken life very seriously.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: Like, I just.
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: Um, I have a very specific idea for what I
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: want my life to look like. And because of that,
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: I feel like I've been able to accomplish things. So like,
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: that's my worldview is always do the thing that, you know,
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: is right. Like, especially on paper and don't really let
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: yourself get distracted by frivolous things like a fling that's
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: going nowhere. And so I guess maybe I wish I
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: would have relaxed a little bit more because I think
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: I could have had just like a little bit more fun. Um,
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: and maybe not self-sabotaged in areas of my life where
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: I could have just like had a dumb fling with
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: a boy that I knew was going to end. But
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: I think I just didn't want to like, I was
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: also really interested in somebody else at the time, like very,
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: very seriously. So I'm like, why am I messing around
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: with this dude when I actually really, really like that guy.
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: But the other regret I have with that guy that
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: I was seriously interested in is I held myself back
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: from fully putting myself out there with him. Because I
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: was so scared of being rejected by him. Yeah. Because
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: I cared so much that I held myself back a
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: little bit. And that backfired on me.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: So.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because our brain starts telling us all the stories of, like,
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: what if he does reject me? And, like, what if
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: he doesn't want me like this?
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: That part sucks. Like, it's crazy because I still, every
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: now and then, I catch my brain doing that now. Mm-hmm.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: Where it's like, ooh, be careful. Be careful. I'm like, brain,
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: chill out.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: Just relax.
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: Let's just, like, enjoy this moment. Like, there's literally nothing
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: here that's happening.
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: That's going wrong. You're making it up and you're giving
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: me anxiety and you're making me stress out. And old
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: me like this is, for example, like over the weekend
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: with my girlfriend, like every now and then my brain's like, oh, gosh,
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: is she happy? Is she worried about something? Are you
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: not planning? Are you not really stepping up as a man?
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: And I was like, brain, like chill the F out.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: You're trying to rewire. Like I have past situations that
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: that would have crumbled me. I would have got quiet,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: maybe even a little upset, ruin the plans. And I'm
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: so glad that I could recognize it now because now
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: I can catch that thought and be like, we're just
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: going to go with the flow. We're going to take today.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Like forget yesterday. I don't know what's happening tomorrow, but
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: I want to take today and just make that the
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: judge of the situation, which is so hard. I think
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: my regrets would be very similar. We're taking life too
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: seriously and not being just spontaneous enough with adventure. Yeah.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Like when life happens to you, almost trying to
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: control the outcome too much. It's sort of like my
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: philosophy when I watch reality TV shows, when I see
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: people trying to overly produce their storyline, which might not
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: make sense if you don't have, if you don't watch
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: like The Bachelor. Like when someone has watched The Bachelor
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: too many times and they come on and basically try
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: and play the game instead of just existing.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: Just being themselves.
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: Because the people that, because they want to either get
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: clout or have a career after this or end up
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: with the guy. And so they're producing themselves in a
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: certain way. those people are always the least entertaining people
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: to watch because you can tell they're, like, too sentient.
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: And so I almost wonder if I've done that too
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: much in my life to where I'm, like, I'm overly
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: producing myself in order to just make a certain outcome happen,
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: whereas I kind of feel like there's just forces beyond
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: our control to where, like, things are just going to
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: happen the way they're going to happen.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like, I look online, and I think one of
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: the things that I look at is, like, people that
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: live in vans. And there was a point in my
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: life I almost wanted to do that.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: I was like, no, I got to have my career. Well,
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: that's the thing. You're right. It is never too late. However...
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: I do feel like the consequences are a little bigger now.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: Like I could have done that when I was 23
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: and been able to recover by this time. But now, again,
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: maybe this is a good time to talk about it
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: because I'm like, well, in my head, what I think
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: I can control is, all right, well, like a house
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: probably soon, a family probably soon. Like I don't have
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: the freedom in my head. I don't have the freedom
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: to just bleep it, get in a van, spend some
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: money and just travel for a year. But I almost
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: did that. When I was 24, I was like, I'm
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: going to get in a van and just leave. I
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: have the money. I'm going to go.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: But why not? Just in a hypothetical world.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: Hypothetical.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: Let's say you went into Jenna's office and said, I
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: want to end this contract tomorrow. Which I don't even
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: know if legally you can do, but whatever.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: I get sued. I mean, I think, well, money would
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: be an issue. But some of us, this is what
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: I've learned a lot in myself and in psychology. We
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: all have different needs. Some of us have a bigger
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: need for certainty. And some people have a bigger need
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: for uncertainty where it's like my certainty is stronger than
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: my uncertainty. I need to know I have enough money
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: in order to survive, thrive and continue to build to
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: make sure that I could support a family one day
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: where it's like other people are like, I'll make it.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: I'll be all right. I'll go with what I have.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: And I know I'll make money eventually. If I just
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: go into the office and I say, you know what?
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: I think I'm just going to travel the world. The
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: side of me that's like you are going to run
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: out of money. You've done so much in this career
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: to get to where you are. You're now finally like
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: doing decent. You want to sabotage that? But the evidence
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: and what I would tell somebody else is like you've
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: built it once. You can build it again. Yeah. So
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: why not? But now I don't really desire that as much.
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: Now it's not the desire to go travel out to
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: the desert and climb a mountain and live in a van.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: I'm good. I like where I'm at now. I like
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: the idea of having a house. Like, staying inside actually
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: sounds a lot more fun to me. Like, so I'm
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: not having those same regrets as I'm going into my 30s. Yeah.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: But I definitely could recognize when people used to say,
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: you should F up more in your 20s. I wish
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: I would have listened. Because I don't think... It's very
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: similar to yours. Like, I don't think I F'd up
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: enough and just go in for crazy ideas or crazy risks.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: I mean, going for this, kind of, because it definitely
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: didn't do anything in the beginning. But it was pretty calculated.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: I knew what I was trying to do.
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: It's also easier to say that when you're on the
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: other side, too. Like, I... I also understand that if
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: you're somebody in your early 20s listening and being like
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: okay because we feel so much pressure now that I'm
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: sure that there's a 40 year old version of us
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: looking back and going 100% why did we give why
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: were we thinking about kids we didn't even have yet.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean yes like.
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: You're not you not I'm not saying it's gonna happen
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: but you and Brianna could break up tomorrow and then
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: are you making decisions for a future that's not even
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: really certain.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: That's do you know what I mean But then how
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: do you make sure you're ready for that future?
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: No, I know.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: That's what's tough.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: But I think that's totally valid. But also, I think
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: it's important. And I wonder if that's why sometimes people
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: go through like a midlife crisis in the same way
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: that maybe we're going through a quarter life crisis is
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: your quarter life crisis is sort of like panicking that
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: you're not ready for the future that you want to build.
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: And then once you get to the place that you
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: want to build, you wonder if you didn't do all
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: the things you're supposed to do in your 20s. And
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: it's sort of like a reverse, you know, crisis. So,
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's important to be as selfish
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: as you can for as long as you can. Because
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: at some point, just knowing you, you will take on
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: the responsibility of getting married to someone and having kids.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: And I think it's important that you don't deny yourself
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: the things you want to do. Even if you just
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: go in a van for, like, two weeks.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: That's true.
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: Like, what if Scotty just went on the road and
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: did the radio for two weeks in a van?
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: That's true. And just lived that life so I could
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: get a taste of it. Yeah.
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: Because I've thought about that, too. I'm like. Because one
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: of my goals is I would love to spend at
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: least two weeks, but ideally a month. I just want
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: to live in the UK for a month. I'm like,
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: what could I do? Can you get your show to
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: a point where it would be interesting for the audience
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: to hear you broadcast from London?
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: Now, that's a good goal.
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: Because that way you're still doing something in your life,
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: but not letting the other part of your life hold
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: it back.
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: That's what I mean.
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: Oh, I like... Actually, that makes a lot of sense.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: I think there's a way, especially... And that's why I
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: got into this field, is... I grew up privileged enough
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: to where I felt like I could be selfish. Like,
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: I think being a woman and also growing up in
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: a very heteronormative environment, I didn't think, and I kind
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: of regret this now, I'm like, I didn't think, like,
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: what job should I get in order to make a
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: certain amount of money? And I think some of that's
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: my parents' fault, and I have a little bit of
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: resentment about that. Like, they don't tell you how much
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: money they make or how much money other jobs make,
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: they're just kind of like, well, I'm not telling you
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: what I make. And it makes you so vulnerable and
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: ignorant in the world to where I'm like, when I
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: tell you when I applied for broadcast journalism, I had
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: no idea what kind of salary that would give me
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: and what that even meant in the context of the world. Like,
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: for example, an entry level salary as a as a journalist,
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: it's like around 30 or thirty five thousand dollars, which
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: to me felt like so much money when I was 22. Yeah.
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: When you're first getting paid, which to be fair in
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: 2019 was a little bit different now. But like nobody
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: told me, hey, if you want to live a certain lifestyle,
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: you need to make one hundred and fifty thousand dollars.
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: And these are the careers that will do that for you.
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: I just thought, well, I'm going to get married and
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: have kids one day. So I just want to go
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: down to breakfast. So in a way, it kind of
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: worked out in my favor because I got to do
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: the things that I like. But also, you know, you know,
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: kind of left me ignorant to shit.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: Oh, my God. Yeah. When you realize the bigger picture
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: of like that's like what I'm facing right now, it's like, OK.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: if I'm just future casting a house, a new car
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: like these are big ass payments. Yeah. And, you know,
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: it's I don't even know how I would have survived
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: like any other. I don't know. My other careers were
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: going to be actually getting me paid more than what
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: I get paid now.
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: What was your number two? Like, if you weren't doing this,
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: what would you have done?
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: Well, I was going to go for physical therapy. Okay.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: And then if that didn't work out, the next thing
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: I was trying to go through is physical education. Be
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: like a coach.
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: Like a P.E. teacher?
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: I see. I don't think a P.E. teacher, but maybe
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: let's say around there. I think I would thrive as
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: like a personal trainer. Or like a strength coach.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: I actually think you'd be a great personal trainer.
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: I still might. Because there's. That's a part of like.
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: There's an itch. That I want to have scratched. Yeah.
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: Like I do it for free already. I might as
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: well get paid for it.
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: No honestly.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: But I also know that profession. I guess statistically. Doesn't
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: get paid that much.
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: Well it depends on who your clientele is.
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: That's exactly right. That's exactly right. Like don't get pigeonholed from.
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: I guess that's why. I didn't do good on statistics.
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: Because I don't really like statistics. Like there's always. Outliers.
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: You know. Like. I feel like there's. That's why this
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: industry is weird, because there's outliers. I remember coming in,
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: my first contract was like, oh, my God, I guess
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: I'm going to Uber and DJ every weekend because I
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: can't pay rent. Versus there's other people that are like, oh,
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: my God, I've never seen a bigger house. And we're
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: in the same industry?
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: Wow. Are you talking about, like, the big hitters here?
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: Well, they also got into the industry at a different time.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: Different time. But it does give you the opportunity to
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: do other things. Like, just because of what you're in,
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: you now have access to... to do other things with
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: the title that you're given. I'm speaking for myself with
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: like hosting and speaking.
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: Gotcha.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah. It does help. And I wouldn't have been able
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: to get that in other careers. So I think those
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: would have been the other two that I, I'm happy
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: with where I ended up and there might be more,
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: there might be more in store.
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know where that future.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: Lies, but personal trainer, Scotty, I dare to lift a weight.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: Dare to, dare to crunch, dare to lift. Yeah. Maybe.
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: Are you okay? Like, future cast for yourself. Is there another, like,
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: cause you're already doing the, Oh, not too big, but
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: like you could take your travel business and make it
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: even bigger.
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: I could, I think, yeah, I'm struggling with trying to
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: even figure out what I want to do. Cause I'm like,
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: I just didn't really think past 30, which sounds, that's
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: where I'm at too, which is so dumb. Like I
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: thought I'd just be married and like somebody's mom by now,
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: which I'm, I'm glad that my life didn't take that term,
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: which I'm not saying like being a wife and mother
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: would have been any problem. I'm glad that I'm like, I,
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: I'm glad that I just get to live my life.
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: And the only really goal I have for myself right
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: now is more financial independence.
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: Like I didn't realize how important that would be to me.
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: Just like having like it's your life insurance policy. Like
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: nobody can tell you what to do, where to go
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: if you make a certain amount of money. And I'm like,
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: I feel a little bit of resentment that I didn't
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: that I went into life so ignorant. I'm just like, whatever.
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: I'll just make marry some dude.
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I wish I was taught Better financial skills at
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: a younger age.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, financial literacy.
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like, that would have helped a lot in, like,
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: the early 20s of really getting locked in with that.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: But learning it now, and some people, it takes even longer.
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: What do you want that money to go towards, though?
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: Because if you want to build that financial, like, independence,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: what is, like, your thought of what you would want
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: to do with it?
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I would like to have, I would
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: like to buy my own place one day. Like, that's
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: something I never thought I'd be able to do, and
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: I got so close last year. And so that was
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: incredibly disappointing to not be able to get to do that.
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: So for me, that looks like just getting to do
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: what I want, when I want, how I want.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like giving you the freedom of like, let's just
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: say hypothetically, you're like, you know what? I'm going to
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: just travel for a year. You have the freedom to
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: do it.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't have the money to do that.
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: Okay, well, yeah, that's a few.
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: And I feel incredibly grateful that I have the money
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: just to travel internationally now. Like I'm planning all my
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: trips for 2027 now and I'm in a big text
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: group thread with all the girls and I'm thinking- you know,
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: because I have this travel business to set up, set
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: up the way that it is. Like I, I can't
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: like if, you know, people come on a trip with me,
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: I can go. So seeing, you know, I almost feel
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: bad when people are like, Oh, I can probably only
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: do one trip. I'm like, wow, I'm really taking this
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: for granted. The fact that like, I'm like, how many
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: trips do we want to go on guys? Um, so
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: for me, like I love traveling, but I don't know
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: that I'd want to do it full time. The only
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: other thing I wanted to do growing up that I
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: would consider a dream job is I used to love
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: this girl named, or not this girl, this woman, who
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: hosted a show on Discovery or the Travel Channel called
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: Great Hotels, named Samantha Brown.
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: There's Samantha Brown. She'd just go to different hotels around
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: the world and be like, this is a great hotel.
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like it's literally, you're hosting a show that's just
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: showing off very nice places. I love those kind of shows.
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: I would love to do that. And I considered like
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: taking weekend trips while living here, just like going to
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: different hotels, but hotels are so expensive.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: That's, yeah. You get paid to do it.
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: And there's so many people that want to do that,
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: that it's such a competitive industry that I'm like, I
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: don't even know how you... get started in that.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: I feel like most people get started just by posting it. Yeah.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: Like they're like, I'm going to do it for a
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: little bit and hopefully it takes off.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: I was watching yesterday, last night. Again, as I'm in
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: this car buying process, it's so hard because I'm like,
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: what is going to be something that I'm going to
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: really like three years down the line? Like, yeah, I
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: can buy it for a week and it's going to
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: be awesome. Like three years. Is it going to have
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: enough room? Is it going to.
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: You got to stop thinking that far in advance. I know.
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: When that happens, you can figure it out.
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: That's what I've reminded myself. Like maybe the car that
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: I go for now, yeah, just have fun with it.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: Enjoy it. And you'll figure it out when the next
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: chapter of life begins.
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, don't think about the next, next chapter. You're not
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: even in the next chapter.
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: That's true.
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: You're currently in chapter one.
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: It's a big book.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a big book.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: But I was watching these videos last night of this
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: thing called Edmunds. Have you ever heard of Edmunds? They
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: do car reviews. Never knew about it until now.
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: Oh, I used to love car reviews. I love them.
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: Consumer Report?
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: That was my shit.
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: I never cared about it until now, but I'm watching
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: last night. I'm watching, like, 30-minute videos of just, like, SUVs. Yeah.
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: They're talking about the specs and all these things, and
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I wonder how they got started with them.
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: And now they're so credible, but I'm sure it was, like,
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: a couple people that were like, we really need to
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: get deeper into this subject because, what, are you just
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: going to listen to the dealership? Of course they want
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: you to buy their car. And so they have all
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: these videos online. Mm-hmm. And eventually, I'm sure they're now
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: making a ton of money. But at first, it was
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: probably like, all right, guys, we're just going to talk
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: about these cars really in depth. And hopefully somebody does
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: something with it.
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: And you've got to really believe in it.
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: You've got to really believe in it.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: You've got to fight for it. I saw a sad video.
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: Not sad. It wasn't that sad, guys. But it was
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: a guy online. He was like, I guess I'm going
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: to finally get a real job. And he's like a
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: pursuing artist. He's like a musician. He's like, this is
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: the first time ever. Like, I have to go and
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: get a job instead of pursuing my dream. And of course,
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: everybody in the comments is like, you could do both.
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: No.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: It's hard. It's hard when you have that realization of like,
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: all right, well, we have to pivot. And it might
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: look different than it did originally. And that's always happening.
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: But it's fun to think of what are going to
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: be the things that change in this next chapter. What
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: are the things I'm changing for my 20s that I'm
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: looking forward to more in my 30s? And I'm sure
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: if you're in your 40s or 50s and you have
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: something to say about it, leave the comments or DM
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: because I'm very interested on how you hear that of
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: us being 29 and being like, I don't have time
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: to do this anymore. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: I think it's funny, like, you hit 30 and you
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: realize how young you are.
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: Instead of feeling like 30 is so old, I'm like, oh,
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: my God, I have so much time to figure out
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: something new.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: That's why I think I'm so excited about it. It's like,
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: now I have a little bit of experience, my brain
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: works a little differently, and I have a little bit
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: of money to back me up. Mm-hmm. All right. Is
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: this where life really begins? I don't know.
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: Maybe.
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: Let's find out.