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Johnjay and Rich Present: BREAKING BAD NEWS · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Avery, good morning. What's going on with you? How can
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  Speaker 1: we help you?
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  Speaker 2: I have some really bad news that I need to
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  Speaker 2: break to my brand new fiance.
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  Speaker 1: Brand new fiance. Oh bad news, okay, okay, well we
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  Speaker 1: will help you deliver this news. All right, let us
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  Speaker 1: figure it out. We'll come back find out what she's
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  Speaker 1: talking about. And that is next with John Jay and
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  Speaker 1: Rich J Rich, We're gonna do breaking bad news. We
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  Speaker 1: haven't done what according to take you over two years?
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  Speaker 1: What this situation calls for? Because from what understand, this
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  Speaker 1: situation is tough, and if any one of us was
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  Speaker 1: in this situation, you would want to be in this situation.
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, this is a situation.
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  Speaker 3: What's the situation?
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  Speaker 1: Let's ask Avery? Avery, good morning, Hi, Hi, what's your situation?
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  Speaker 2: So my boyfriend, well, my fiance has no idea that
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  Speaker 2: I don't actually want to marry him.
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  Speaker 1: When did the proposal take place on Thanksgiving? In front
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  Speaker 1: of the family and everything? So you feel pressure you
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  Speaker 1: had to say yes?
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  Speaker 2: Is that what happened exactly? I mean, there's just no
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  Speaker 2: way I could have said no, Like in the moment,
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to believe me. I didn't want to tap
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  Speaker 2: to tell him yes and know that later on I
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  Speaker 2: was gonna have to break this news, but there's no
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  Speaker 2: way I could say no in front of his whole family.
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  Speaker 2: They're watching me.
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  Speaker 4: Well, how did it go down? After dinner? Before dinner?
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  Speaker 4: Give us the details?
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  Speaker 5: It was.
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  Speaker 2: It was after dinner, right before dessert. Everyone was in
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  Speaker 2: the dining room and he called my name. I was
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  Speaker 2: headed to the head to the dessert table. I turn
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  Speaker 2: around and he's on one knee.
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  Speaker 6: So why don't you want to marry?
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  Speaker 1: Did you fall?
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  Speaker 4: What kind of yes was it? Was it a crying
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  Speaker 4: I'm so happy, yes, but you faked it? Or was
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  Speaker 4: it a crying because I have to say yes and
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  Speaker 4: I can't say no?
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  Speaker 1: Like?
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  Speaker 4: What what was that part?
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't crying. I just said yes, and then everybody cheered,
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  Speaker 2: and so I started to like bah and smile along
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  Speaker 2: with everyone cheering, And honestly, it's such.
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  Speaker 5: A blur and everyone's hugging you and congratulating.
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  Speaker 1: I would guess that that this was at his house
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  Speaker 1: because it was or his family, maybe your friendly rido
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  Speaker 1: about it, because if you're at your house, your family,
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  Speaker 1: you'd be like, you'd have a better chance of saying
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  Speaker 1: whoa whoo?
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  Speaker 5: Why do you not want to marry him? Like what's
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  Speaker 5: were you going to break up with him? Or what's
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  Speaker 5: the deal with that?
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  Speaker 2: Well, the thing is, we're we've been together for three years,
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  Speaker 2: and I just have been feeling like we're not as
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  Speaker 2: close as everybody thinks that we are.
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  Speaker 1: Like obviously it feels.
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  Speaker 2: Like I mean, it feels like we're more comfortable just
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  Speaker 2: being together than we are actually connected, and we barely
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  Speaker 2: want dates anymore. We like we constantly are arguing about
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  Speaker 2: the same thing, and I just for a while, I've
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  Speaker 2: been thinking, like, I can't even remember the last time
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  Speaker 2: I felt that butterfly feeling with him that we used
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  Speaker 2: to have, and so like, seriously for him to propose
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  Speaker 2: like everything is perfect just finally was the straw that
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  Speaker 2: made me realize how far apart we've become.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, what's your fiance's name? I probably don't like that
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  Speaker 1: we call him fiance? What's your what's your fiance? For now? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so we haven't done breaking bad news in a couple
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  Speaker 1: of years, So remind me what we do. We take
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  Speaker 1: a break, right, then we get him on the phone,
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  Speaker 1: and then one of us we write the bad news
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  Speaker 1: on a letter, right oh, yeah, have the letter.
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  Speaker 5: One of us has to read it mean to Micah,
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  Speaker 5: I think, yeah, No, Avery.
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  Speaker 1: Gets to pick who gets all right, So Avery, you
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  Speaker 1: got Rich, Peyton, Kyle and me. Don't tell us who
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna pick itet, We'll take a quick break, will
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  Speaker 1: come back. We'll get the bad news written in a letter,
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  Speaker 1: and then the bad news also, I mean to say,
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  Speaker 1: whatever the words are, it's gonna be pretty brutal. All right.
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  Speaker 1: So we're gonna tell him that you don't want to
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  Speaker 1: be married to him, and we will do that Breaking
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  Speaker 1: Bad News next with John Jane Rich. It's John jan
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  Speaker 1: and Rich. We're in the middle of a segment called
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  Speaker 1: Breaking bad News, which we haven't done in a couple
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  Speaker 1: of years. Here's the deal. Avery has been with her
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  Speaker 1: boyfriend Micah for over three years. He proposed to her
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  Speaker 1: in front of his whole family on Thanksgiving. She felt pressure,
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  Speaker 1: she said, yes. The deal is she does want to
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  Speaker 1: be married to him, and it's better to do it now,
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  Speaker 1: the sooner the better. And Avery, you felt like using
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  Speaker 1: our show to end your engagement? Correct?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, We're.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. So we're gonna get Mike on the phone everyone
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  Speaker 1: and we're gonna tell him, explain the segment to him. Right,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna tell me that bad news. I forgot it's
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  Speaker 1: been a long time.
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  Speaker 4: At first, she needs to decide who's going to break
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  Speaker 4: bad news. But I'm trying to remember how the segment goes.
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  Speaker 1: So we got to call him up on the phone,
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  Speaker 1: tell me he's on the air, and tell him we
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  Speaker 1: got bad news. And then we don't is she on
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  Speaker 1: the phone else? Okay? Can showing to make sure I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if he knows that? Does he know it?
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  Speaker 1: He knows it?
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  Speaker 5: He knows it, because remember the whole thing was research
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  Speaker 5: has showed that like you break the bad news, it
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  Speaker 5: lessens it with.
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  Speaker 2: People that care.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, okay, great, okay, all right, Avery, So
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  Speaker 1: you got Rich Peyton, Me and Kyle. Who would you
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  Speaker 1: like to read the bad news to your fiance?
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  Speaker 2: I would like Kyle because I feel like I feel
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  Speaker 2: like maybe she rejected a proposal or two.
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  Speaker 1: I've chosen wisely, got a proposal at one point, you've
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  Speaker 1: chosen wisely for you? Good point. That's a really good him.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, is this Micah?
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  Speaker 6: It is Are you okay?
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  Speaker 1: If you're not? Okay, this is the correct button.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, I'm glad.
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  Speaker 6: This is Micah. I'm painting with John, Jay and Rich.
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  Speaker 6: We just want to talk to you on the radio
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  Speaker 6: really quickly if you got time this morning.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, hey, so you're on our radio show. Are
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  Speaker 1: you driving right now? I was? Okay, if you're not driving,
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  Speaker 1: you think you can get off bluetooth or speakerphone because
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  Speaker 1: this is pretty important.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, how about now much better?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, So, Micah, we're grateful you're on our radio show
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  Speaker 1: and you're on our radio show because, first of all, congratulations,
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  Speaker 1: I know you just got engaged on Thanksgiving.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah okay you did?
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  Speaker 1: You just go back on speakerphone? No, okay, all right,
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  Speaker 1: your fiance Avery called us, so she's actually on the
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  Speaker 1: phone right now. Avery wants to hi to Micah.
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  Speaker 2: Hi Micah.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, so wow, yeah, so this is I mean, you're engaged,
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  Speaker 1: So you're probably going, where is this going? What is
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  Speaker 1: this about? Why am I on this radio show? Right?
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  Speaker 1: Am I? Right? Is that those are some of the thoughts.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think my mom has something to do
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  Speaker 3: with this.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, so I wouldn't think. So we did
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  Speaker 1: this research. We have all this research that says that
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  Speaker 1: when you get news. And if you get news, whether
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  Speaker 1: it's good or bad, if your friends are with you,
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  Speaker 1: it's easier to deliver the news, okay.
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  Speaker 6: And to receive it right.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, and Avery has some news as she wants to
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  Speaker 1: tell you, and she came to us saying, I need
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  Speaker 1: help with this situation. So as a radio show, we
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  Speaker 1: kind of want to make it a little bit of fun.
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  Speaker 1: So the bad news, if it is bad news, is
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  Speaker 1: in an envelope right now. Avery has chosen Kyle on
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  Speaker 1: our show to read you this news. So we're just
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  Speaker 1: going to rip open an envelope and just read you
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  Speaker 1: the news. Okay. She has something to tell you, but
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  Speaker 1: she wants us to tell it to you. Do you understand?
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  Speaker 2: Okay? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Are you ready? Are you listening? You got to focus
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  Speaker 1: on this. Okay. This is coming from Avery, but Kyle's
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  Speaker 1: gonna read it to you.
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  Speaker 7: I'm ready, okay, Okay, Okay.
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  Speaker 5: Look, I'm not gonna sugarcoat this. I said yes to
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  Speaker 5: your proposal because your entire family was staring at me
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  Speaker 5: like it was a live studio audience, not because I
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  Speaker 5: actually wanted to marry you. We haven't been good for
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  Speaker 5: a long time, and you proposing out of nowhere. Didn't
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  Speaker 5: really magically fix that. It just kind of proved how
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  Speaker 5: out of touch you are with where we actually stand.
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  Speaker 5: I'm not planning a wedding, I'm not playing along, and
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  Speaker 5: I'm not wearing this ring another day. You deserve someone
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  Speaker 5: who's excited to say yes, and I deserve to stop
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  Speaker 5: pretending I'm that girl. Wow.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so that's how you really feel? Like you couldn't
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  Speaker 3: tell me this in private, Avery, like you have to
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  Speaker 3: come on the radio and embarrassed me like this.
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  Speaker 2: Micah, I did tell you multiple times and you just
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  Speaker 2: never listened. You did exactly what I said that I
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  Speaker 2: wasn't ready.
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  Speaker 3: For my god, Avery, like I proposed to you because
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  Speaker 3: I love you, like I thought, surprising you in front
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  Speaker 3: of my family, would you know, make it special like
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  Speaker 3: that comes to some kind of like hostage situation.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but Michah, you you didn't surprise me. You cornered me,
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  Speaker 2: like you know, I hate big public stuff like that,
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  Speaker 2: and but you did it anyway like that. That wasn't
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  Speaker 2: romantic for me. It was pressure.
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  Speaker 3: So that's it. Like you're just what like done like
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  Speaker 3: over one thing, but it's it's.
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  Speaker 2: Not the one thing. It's it's everything that has been
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  Speaker 2: leading up to this, and and the fact that you're
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  Speaker 2: you don't even see that is that's exactly why I
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  Speaker 2: can't marry you.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: So like I'm finding out on the radio that the
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  Speaker 3: person I wanted spend my life with basically hates me.
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  Speaker 3: That's that's just great. That's there's a really great way
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  Speaker 3: to start my day.
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  Speaker 1: Listen, let me let me show it for a second.
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  Speaker 1: Give you some advice from she You tried it on Thanksgiving?
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  Speaker 1: Why don't you? Guys? I don't know if it's over,
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  Speaker 1: if you're still going to be together, but why don't
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  Speaker 1: you refire at Christmas as to marry Christmas in front
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  Speaker 1: of her family?
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  Speaker 7: No?
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  Speaker 2: I don't hate you, Micah. I'm just tired of pretending.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so tired of pretending that we're something that we
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  Speaker 2: haven't been in years.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, Micah, if she wanted to say no, would you
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  Speaker 4: have preferred that she said no in that setting in
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  Speaker 4: front of the whole family or said yes and then
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  Speaker 4: fixed it later. Where are you on that?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 3: My god, I don't even know. I just I just
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  Speaker 3: can't believe this is happening. I don't I don't even know,
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  Speaker 3: Like that's probably better than the radio, honestly.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I get it.
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  Speaker 5: I mean the good news is is it doesn't sound
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  Speaker 5: like the relationship is irrepairable, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 5: It sounds like you guys just need to reconnect and
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  Speaker 5: see if you really are in a place where you
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  Speaker 5: want to start the rest of your lives together. Because obviously,
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  Speaker 5: you know, Avery's saying I don't feel that way. She's
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  Speaker 5: not saying like I hate you and never want to
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  Speaker 5: see you again.
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  Speaker 4: She's saying she doesn't feel connected the way that you
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  Speaker 4: need to be connected to make.
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  Speaker 7: The next step.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, at least if you two would be willing to
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  Speaker 5: work on it, I think maybe there's a chance you
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  Speaker 5: could get back there.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how you feel about that, Avery, or.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I obviously I do not hate you, Micah.
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  Speaker 2: I just don't know if I could ever show my
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  Speaker 2: face to your family again.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 6: That's where it's awkward. It's like you have to go
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  Speaker 6: break that news here to both of your families. I'm
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  Speaker 6: sure of it, but it's like, do you wait to
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  Speaker 6: tell them until after the holidays?
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  Speaker 5: But I think is that happened to my brother, I
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  Speaker 5: would be like, well, thank god, she found out. She's
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  Speaker 5: telling you this now, and you didn't go down the
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  Speaker 5: road of planning a wedding and spending money on a
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  Speaker 5: wedding and starting this life together.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So there's a pride side for this. Thank you
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  Speaker 1: both for being another radio that's breaking bad news. You
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  Speaker 1: guys breaking bad news us. Yeah,