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- 0:22Doris: Hello
- 0:23Doris: Heidi.
- 0:24Doris: How
- 0:24Doris: are
- 0:24Doris: you
- 0:24Doris: today?
- 0:26Doris: I
- 0:26Doris: am
- 0:26Doris: excellent.
- 0:27Doris: Thank
- 0:27Doris: you,
- 0:27Doris: Doris.
- 0:28Doris: It's
- 0:28Doris: a
- 0:28Doris: pleasure
- 0:29Doris: to
- 0:29Doris: be
- 0:29Doris: here.
- 0:30Doris: Oh,
- 0:30Doris: I
- 0:30Doris: am
- 0:30Doris: so
- 0:30Doris: glad
- 0:31Doris: that
- 0:31Doris: you're
- 0:31Doris: here.
- 0:31Doris: You
- 0:32Doris: are
- 0:32Doris: my
- 0:32Doris: very
- 0:33Doris: first
- 0:33Doris: podcast
- 0:34Doris: guest
- 0:34Doris: on
- 0:34Doris: my
- 0:35Doris: brand
- 0:35Doris: new
- 0:35Doris: podcast
- 0:36Doris: that
- 0:36Doris: I
- 0:36Doris: think
- 0:36Doris: is
- 0:36Doris: gonna
- 0:37Doris: be
- 0:37Doris: called
- 0:37Doris: Dunn
- 0:37Doris: Wise
- 0:37Doris: Perspectives,
- 0:39Doris: and
- 0:40Doris: I
- 0:40Doris: couldn't
- 0:41Doris: have
- 0:41Doris: a
- 0:41Doris: better
- 0:42Doris: guest
- 0:42Doris: as
- 0:42Doris: my
- 0:42Doris: first
- 0:43Doris: guest.
- 0:43Doris: I'm
- 0:43Doris: thrilled
- 0:44Doris: that
- 0:44Doris: you
- 0:45Doris: were
- 0:45Doris: not
- 0:46Doris: only
- 0:46Doris: on
- 0:46Doris: this
- 0:46Doris: podcast,
- 0:47Doris: but
- 0:47Doris: you
- 0:47Doris: were
- 0:48Doris: on
- 0:48Doris: my
- 0:49Doris: former
- 0:49Doris: podcast
- 0:50Doris: leader
- 0:50Doris: ish,
- 0:51Doris: and
- 0:52Doris: you
- 0:52Doris: were
- 0:52Doris: a
- 0:52Doris: wonderful
- 0:53Doris: guest
- 0:53Doris: on
- 0:53Doris: that
- 0:54Doris: podcast.
- 0:55Doris: And
- 0:55Doris: you
- 0:55Doris: have
- 0:55Doris: an
- 0:55Doris: incredible
- 0:56Doris: story,
- 0:58Doris: and
- 0:58Doris: I'd
- 0:58Doris: love
- 0:59Doris: for
- 0:59Doris: you
- 0:59Doris: to
- 0:59Doris: just
- 1:00Doris: take
- 1:00Doris: a
- 1:00Doris: few
- 1:00Doris: minutes
- 1:01Doris: to
- 1:01Doris: introduce
- 1:02Doris: yourself
- 1:02Doris: to
- 1:02Doris: our
- 1:03Doris: audience.
- 1:05Doris: Thank
- 1:05Doris: you.
- 1:06Heidi: My
- 1:06Heidi: name
- 1:06Heidi: is
- 1:07Heidi: Heidi
- 1:07Heidi: SKAs,
- 1:08Heidi: and
- 1:09Heidi: I
- 1:09Heidi: would
- 1:09Heidi: say
- 1:09Heidi: storytelling
- 1:10Heidi: is
- 1:10Heidi: in
- 1:10Heidi: my
- 1:10Heidi: DNA,
- 1:12Heidi: whether
- 1:12Heidi: that
- 1:13Heidi: is
- 1:13Heidi: my
- 1:14Heidi: four
- 1:14Heidi: published
- 1:15Heidi: books,
- 1:15Heidi: they're
- 1:16Heidi: all
- 1:16Heidi: nonfiction
- 1:16Heidi: because
- 1:17Heidi: I
- 1:17Heidi: believe
- 1:18Heidi: that,
- 1:18Heidi: life,
- 1:19Heidi: creates
- 1:19Heidi: stories
- 1:21Heidi: for
- 1:21Heidi: us
- 1:21Heidi: that
- 1:21Heidi: don't
- 1:21Heidi: need
- 1:22Heidi: any
- 1:22Heidi: fictionalization.
- 1:23Heidi: I'm
- 1:23Heidi: also
- 1:24Heidi: a
- 1:24Heidi: public
- 1:25Heidi: speaker.
- 1:25Heidi: I've
- 1:25Heidi: done
- 1:25Heidi: a
- 1:25Heidi: Ted
- 1:26Heidi: x
- 1:26Heidi: talk.
- 1:26Heidi: I'm
- 1:27Heidi: now
- 1:27Heidi: a
- 1:27Heidi: podcaster
- 1:28Heidi: of
- 1:28Heidi: the
- 1:28Heidi: lookup
- 1:29Heidi: mindset
- 1:30Heidi: and,
- 1:31Heidi: to
- 1:31Heidi: create
- 1:31Heidi: some
- 1:32Heidi: good
- 1:32Heidi: stories.
- 1:32Heidi: I'm
- 1:33Heidi: in
- 1:33Heidi: a
- 1:33Heidi: adventurer,
- 1:34Heidi: whether
- 1:34Heidi: that's
- 1:35Heidi: kayaking
- 1:35Heidi: the
- 1:35Heidi: rivers
- 1:36Heidi: here
- 1:36Heidi: in
- 1:36Heidi: Tennessee,
- 1:37Heidi: hiking
- 1:38Heidi: in
- 1:38Heidi: Hawaii,
- 1:39Heidi: or
- 1:40Heidi: who
- 1:40Heidi: knows
- 1:41Heidi: where
- 1:41Heidi: I'll
- 1:41Heidi: end
- 1:41Heidi: up
- 1:41Heidi: this
- 1:41Heidi: year,
- 1:42Heidi: maybe
- 1:42Heidi: the
- 1:42Heidi: Grand
- 1:42Heidi: Canyon.
- 1:43Doris: Oh,
- 1:44Doris: so
- 1:44Doris: exciting.
- 1:45Doris: And
- 1:45Doris: another
- 1:46Doris: great
- 1:46Doris: reason
- 1:47Doris: to
- 1:47Doris: have
- 1:47Doris: you
- 1:47Doris: on
- 1:47Doris: as
- 1:47Doris: our
- 1:47Doris: first
- 1:48Doris: guest
- 1:48Doris: is
- 1:49Doris: your
- 1:49Doris: books,
- 1:49Doris: podcasts,
- 1:50Doris: TEDx.
- 1:50Doris: Everything
- 1:51Doris: is
- 1:51Doris: about
- 1:51Doris: mindset,
- 1:52Doris: and
- 1:52Doris: this
- 1:52Doris: podcast
- 1:53Doris: is
- 1:53Doris: also
- 1:54Doris: about
- 1:54Doris: mindset.
- 1:56Doris: And
- 1:56Doris: I
- 1:57Doris: am
- 1:58Doris: looking
- 1:58Doris: for
- 1:58Doris: people
- 1:59Doris: who
- 1:59Doris: have
- 1:59Doris: overcome
- 2:00Doris: some
- 2:00Doris: incredible
- 2:00Doris: obstacles.
- 2:01Doris: I
- 2:02Doris: know
- 2:02Doris: you
- 2:02Doris: have
- 2:02Doris: a
- 2:02Doris: lot
- 2:03Doris: of
- 2:03Doris: stories
- 2:03Doris: of
- 2:03Doris: overcoming
- 2:04Doris: obstacles,
- 2:05Doris: and
- 2:05Doris: it's
- 2:05Doris: not
- 2:05Doris: just
- 2:06Doris: one,
- 2:06Doris: it
- 2:06Doris: wasn't
- 2:07Doris: like
- 2:07Doris: you
- 2:07Doris: just
- 2:07Doris: overcame
- 2:08Doris: one
- 2:08Doris: obstacle.
- 2:08Doris: It
- 2:08Doris: seemed
- 2:09Doris: like
- 2:09Doris: one
- 2:10Doris: happened,
- 2:10Doris: and
- 2:10Doris: then
- 2:11Doris: another,
- 2:11Doris: and
- 2:11Doris: then
- 2:12Doris: another.
- 2:13Doris: And
- 2:14Doris: I
- 2:14Doris: would
- 2:14Doris: love
- 2:14Doris: for
- 2:14Doris: you
- 2:14Doris: to
- 2:15Doris: share
- 2:15Doris: your
- 2:16Doris: journey
- 2:17Doris: with
- 2:17Doris: us
- 2:17Doris: just
- 2:18Doris: at
- 2:18Doris: a
- 2:18Doris: high
- 2:18Doris: level,
- 2:19Doris: what
- 2:19Doris: was
- 2:19Doris: your
- 2:19Doris: journey?
- 2:19Doris: Where
- 2:19Doris: did
- 2:20Doris: you
- 2:20Doris: start?
- 2:21Doris: And,
- 2:22Doris: why
- 2:22Doris: it's
- 2:22Doris: even
- 2:22Doris: named
- 2:23Doris: lookup.
- 2:23Doris: So
- 2:23Doris: maybe
- 2:24Doris: share
- 2:24Doris: a
- 2:24Doris: little
- 2:25Doris: bit
- 2:25Doris: about
- 2:25Doris: your
- 2:26Doris: journey
- 2:26Doris: and
- 2:26Doris: how
- 2:27Doris: lookup
- 2:27Doris: even
- 2:28Doris: began.
- 2:32Heidi: Life
- 2:32Heidi: could
- 2:33Heidi: change
- 2:33Heidi: in
- 2:33Heidi: an
- 2:34Heidi: instant.
- 2:34Heidi: We
- 2:34Heidi: all
- 2:35Heidi: know
- 2:35Heidi: this
- 2:35Heidi: and
- 2:36Heidi: I
- 2:38Heidi: found
- 2:38Heidi: out
- 2:38Heidi: not
- 2:39Heidi: once,
- 2:39Heidi: but
- 2:39Heidi: twice.
- 2:40Heidi: And
- 2:41Heidi: that's
- 2:41Heidi: the
- 2:41Heidi: thing
- 2:41Heidi: about
- 2:42Heidi: life.
- 2:42Heidi: you
- 2:43Heidi: don't
- 2:43Heidi: expect
- 2:44Heidi: it.
- 2:45Heidi: And
- 2:45Heidi: the
- 2:46Heidi: only
- 2:46Heidi: thing
- 2:46Heidi: that
- 2:46Heidi: you
- 2:47Heidi: can
- 2:47Heidi: control
- 2:48Heidi: is
- 2:49Heidi: mindset.
- 2:50Heidi: Mm-hmm.
- 2:52Heidi: And
- 2:52Heidi: what
- 2:53Heidi: prompted
- 2:53Heidi: me
- 2:53Heidi: to
- 2:54Heidi: create
- 2:54Heidi: the
- 2:55Heidi: lookup
- 2:55Heidi: mantra
- 2:57Heidi: was
- 2:58Heidi: something.
- 3:00Heidi: As
- 3:00Heidi: boring
- 3:01Heidi: as
- 3:01Heidi: taking
- 3:01Heidi: out
- 3:02Heidi: the
- 3:02Heidi: trash.
- 3:03Heidi: So
- 3:03Heidi: I
- 3:03Heidi: was
- 3:03Heidi: in
- 3:04Heidi: my
- 3:04Heidi: early
- 3:04Heidi: thirties
- 3:05Heidi: and
- 3:05Heidi: I
- 3:05Heidi: was
- 3:05Heidi: a
- 3:06Heidi: high
- 3:06Heidi: powered
- 3:07Heidi: travel
- 3:07Heidi: industry,
- 3:08Heidi: executive
- 3:09Heidi: jet
- 3:09Heidi: setting,
- 3:09Heidi: the
- 3:09Heidi: world,
- 3:10Heidi: Mexico
- 3:10Heidi: City
- 3:11Heidi: one
- 3:11Heidi: day,
- 3:12Heidi: Berlin,
- 3:12Heidi: the
- 3:12Heidi: next
- 3:13Heidi: Costa
- 3:13Heidi: Rica,
- 3:13Heidi: New
- 3:14Heidi: York.
- 3:14Heidi: The
- 3:14Heidi: next,
- 3:15Heidi: I
- 3:15Heidi: was
- 3:15Heidi: happily
- 3:16Heidi: married
- 3:16Heidi: to
- 3:16Heidi: a
- 3:16Heidi: Brazilian
- 3:16Heidi: chef.
- 3:17Heidi: we
- 3:17Heidi: owned
- 3:18Heidi: a
- 3:18Heidi: quaint
- 3:19Heidi: home
- 3:19Heidi: in
- 3:19Heidi: South
- 3:20Heidi: Florida
- 3:21Heidi: and
- 3:21Heidi: we
- 3:21Heidi: had
- 3:21Heidi: a
- 3:21Heidi: supportive
- 3:22Heidi: community
- 3:22Heidi: of
- 3:22Heidi: friends
- 3:22Heidi: and
- 3:23Heidi: family.
- 3:24Heidi: And
- 3:25Heidi: in
- 3:25Heidi: taking
- 3:26Heidi: out
- 3:26Heidi: the
- 3:26Heidi: last
- 3:26Heidi: night's
- 3:26Heidi: pizza
- 3:27Heidi: box,
- 3:29Heidi: my
- 3:29Heidi: life
- 3:29Heidi: changed
- 3:30Heidi: in
- 3:30Heidi: an
- 3:30Heidi: instant.
- 3:31Heidi: I
- 3:31Heidi: turned
- 3:31Heidi: the
- 3:31Heidi: corner
- 3:32Heidi: to
- 3:33Heidi: take
- 3:33Heidi: that
- 3:33Heidi: box
- 3:34Heidi: to
- 3:34Heidi: the
- 3:34Heidi: dumpster,
- 3:35Heidi: and
- 3:35Heidi: unbeknownst
- 3:36Heidi: to
- 3:36Heidi: me
- 3:37Heidi: a
- 3:38Heidi: tree
- 3:39Heidi: limb
- 3:39Heidi: weighing
- 3:40Heidi: a
- 3:40Heidi: thousand
- 3:40Heidi: pounds
- 3:41Heidi: from
- 3:41Heidi: 30
- 3:42Heidi: feet
- 3:42Heidi: in
- 3:42Heidi: the
- 3:42Heidi: air
- 3:43Heidi: clobbered
- 3:44Heidi: me,
- 3:45Heidi: leaving
- 3:45Heidi: me
- 3:46Heidi: there
- 3:47Heidi: unconscious.
- 3:49Heidi: Now
- 3:49Heidi: I
- 3:50Heidi: awoke
- 3:50Heidi: five
- 3:51Heidi: days
- 3:51Heidi: later.
- 3:53Heidi: Let
- 3:53Heidi: that
- 3:54Heidi: sink
- 3:54Heidi: in
- 3:54Heidi: a
- 3:54Heidi: little
- 3:54Heidi: bit.
- 3:55Heidi: If
- 3:55Heidi: you
- 3:55Heidi: lost
- 3:55Heidi: five
- 3:56Heidi: minutes,
- 3:57Heidi: let
- 3:57Heidi: alone
- 3:57Heidi: five
- 3:58Heidi: days,
- 3:58Heidi: you
- 3:58Heidi: would
- 3:59Heidi: be
- 3:59Heidi: scared.
- 3:59Heidi: But
- 3:59Heidi: I
- 4:00Heidi: woke
- 4:00Heidi: up
- 4:00Heidi: not
- 4:01Heidi: knowing
- 4:01Heidi: where
- 4:01Heidi: I
- 4:01Heidi: was
- 4:02Heidi: and
- 4:02Heidi: in
- 4:02Heidi: a
- 4:02Heidi: neck
- 4:03Heidi: brace.
- 4:04Heidi: So
- 4:04Heidi: the
- 4:04Heidi: doctors
- 4:05Heidi: put
- 4:05Heidi: the
- 4:05Heidi: pieces
- 4:06Heidi: of
- 4:06Heidi: my
- 4:06Heidi: puzzle
- 4:06Heidi: together
- 4:07Heidi: for
- 4:07Heidi: me.
- 4:07Heidi: That
- 4:08Heidi: good
- 4:08Heidi: Samaritan
- 4:08Heidi: called
- 4:09Heidi: the
- 4:09Heidi: paramedics.
- 4:10Heidi: I
- 4:10Heidi: got
- 4:10Heidi: to
- 4:10Heidi: the
- 4:10Heidi: trauma
- 4:11Heidi: hospital.
- 4:11Heidi: I
- 4:11Heidi: was
- 4:12Heidi: there
- 4:13Heidi: with
- 4:13Heidi: a
- 4:13Heidi: broken
- 4:13Heidi: C
- 4:14Heidi: seven
- 4:14Heidi: vertebra,
- 4:14Heidi: and
- 4:15Heidi: I
- 4:15Heidi: was
- 4:15Heidi: to
- 4:15Heidi: undergo
- 4:16Heidi: neurosurgery.
- 4:18Heidi: So
- 4:19Heidi: basically
- 4:20Heidi: neurosurgery
- 4:21Heidi: was
- 4:21Heidi: successful.
- 4:22Heidi: As
- 4:22Heidi: you
- 4:22Heidi: can
- 4:22Heidi: see,
- 4:22Heidi: the
- 4:23Heidi: C
- 4:23Heidi: seven
- 4:23Heidi: controlled
- 4:24Heidi: some
- 4:24Heidi: pretty
- 4:24Heidi: important
- 4:24Heidi: things,
- 4:25Heidi: eyes
- 4:26Heidi: and
- 4:26Heidi: hands,
- 4:27Heidi: but
- 4:27Heidi: it
- 4:27Heidi: was
- 4:27Heidi: a
- 4:27Heidi: very
- 4:28Heidi: lengthy
- 4:28Heidi: recovery,
- 4:29Heidi: a
- 4:29Heidi: year
- 4:29Heidi: long
- 4:29Heidi: recovery.
- 4:30Heidi: I
- 4:30Heidi: couldn't
- 4:30Heidi: go
- 4:30Heidi: back
- 4:30Heidi: to
- 4:31Heidi: work.
- 4:31Heidi: The
- 4:31Heidi: accident
- 4:32Heidi: actually
- 4:32Heidi: happened
- 4:33Heidi: in
- 4:33Heidi: upstate
- 4:33Heidi: New
- 4:34Heidi: York,
- 4:34Heidi: not
- 4:34Heidi: in
- 4:34Heidi: South
- 4:35Heidi: Florida
- 4:35Heidi: where
- 4:35Heidi: I
- 4:36Heidi: lived.
- 4:37Heidi: So
- 4:37Heidi: there
- 4:38Heidi: were
- 4:38Heidi: many
- 4:38Heidi: challenges
- 4:39Heidi: and
- 4:42Heidi: with
- 4:42Heidi: a
- 4:42Heidi: year
- 4:43Heidi: a.
- 4:44Heidi: Long
- 4:44Heidi: prognosis.
- 4:45Heidi: I
- 4:46Heidi: had
- 4:46Heidi: time
- 4:46Heidi: to
- 4:46Heidi: evaluate
- 4:47Heidi: every
- 4:47Heidi: aspect
- 4:48Heidi: of
- 4:48Heidi: my
- 4:48Heidi: life.
- 4:49Heidi: And
- 4:49Heidi: that
- 4:50Heidi: kind
- 4:50Heidi: of
- 4:50Heidi: picture,
- 4:50Heidi: perfect
- 4:52Heidi: summary
- 4:52Heidi: that
- 4:53Heidi: looks
- 4:53Heidi: good
- 4:53Heidi: on
- 4:53Heidi: LinkedIn
- 4:54Heidi: and
- 4:54Heidi: on
- 4:54Heidi: paper,
- 4:55Heidi: wasn't
- 4:55Heidi: necessarily
- 4:57Heidi: the
- 4:57Heidi: truth.
- 4:57Heidi: I
- 4:58Heidi: discovered
- 4:59Heidi: that
- 4:59Heidi: my
- 4:59Heidi: husband
- 5:00Heidi: had
- 5:00Heidi: been
- 5:00Heidi: unfaithful
- 5:01Heidi: for
- 5:01Heidi: a
- 5:01Heidi: very
- 5:02Heidi: long
- 5:02Heidi: time,
- 5:02Heidi: living
- 5:03Heidi: a
- 5:03Heidi: double
- 5:03Heidi: life.
- 5:04Heidi: That
- 5:04Heidi: high
- 5:04Heidi: power
- 5:04Heidi: career
- 5:06Heidi: forced
- 5:06Heidi: me
- 5:06Heidi: to
- 5:06Heidi: resign
- 5:07Heidi: because
- 5:07Heidi: of
- 5:07Heidi: my
- 5:07Heidi: lengthy
- 5:08Heidi: recovery.
- 5:08Heidi: So
- 5:09Heidi: in
- 5:09Heidi: one
- 5:09Heidi: fell
- 5:09Heidi: swoop,
- 5:10Heidi: health,
- 5:11Heidi: marriage,
- 5:11Heidi: career,
- 5:12Heidi: blah,
- 5:13Heidi: I
- 5:14Heidi: call
- 5:14Heidi: it
- 5:14Heidi: my
- 5:14Heidi: win
- 5:14Heidi: all
- 5:14Heidi: balls
- 5:15Heidi: drop
- 5:15Heidi: moment.
- 5:15Heidi: And
- 5:16Heidi: I
- 5:17Heidi: share
- 5:17Heidi: that
- 5:17Heidi: full
- 5:18Heidi: story
- 5:18Heidi: in
- 5:18Heidi: all
- 5:18Heidi: the
- 5:19Heidi: details
- 5:19Heidi: and
- 5:20Heidi: the
- 5:20Heidi: mess
- 5:21Heidi: in
- 5:21Heidi: my
- 5:22Heidi: first
- 5:22Heidi: book.
- 5:23Heidi: And
- 5:24Heidi: what
- 5:25Heidi: I
- 5:25Heidi: decided
- 5:26Heidi: was
- 5:28Heidi: I
- 5:28Heidi: had
- 5:29Heidi: a
- 5:29Heidi: really
- 5:29Heidi: important
- 5:29Heidi: decision.
- 5:30Heidi: It
- 5:30Heidi: was
- 5:31Heidi: either
- 5:31Heidi: to
- 5:31Heidi: rebuild
- 5:32Heidi: the
- 5:32Heidi: former
- 5:32Heidi: life
- 5:33Heidi: or
- 5:34Heidi: to
- 5:34Heidi: architect
- 5:34Heidi: a
- 5:34Heidi: new
- 5:34Heidi: one.
- 5:36Heidi: And
- 5:37Heidi: ta-da.
- 5:37Heidi: I
- 5:38Heidi: decided
- 5:38Heidi: to
- 5:38Heidi: architect
- 5:39Heidi: a
- 5:39Heidi: new
- 5:39Heidi: one
- 5:40Heidi: and
- 5:40Heidi: that.
- 5:41Heidi: Alongside
- 5:42Heidi: building
- 5:43Heidi: a
- 5:43Heidi: new
- 5:43Heidi: life.
- 5:44Heidi: I
- 5:44Heidi: would
- 5:45Heidi: embrace
- 5:46Heidi: that.
- 5:46Heidi: I
- 5:46Heidi: can't
- 5:46Heidi: control
- 5:48Heidi: these
- 5:48Heidi: things.
- 5:49Heidi: I
- 5:49Heidi: couldn't
- 5:49Heidi: control
- 5:49Heidi: the
- 5:50Heidi: tree
- 5:50Heidi: limb,
- 5:50Heidi: my
- 5:50Heidi: husband,
- 5:51Heidi: my
- 5:51Heidi: employer,
- 5:52Heidi: but
- 5:52Heidi: I
- 5:52Heidi: could
- 5:52Heidi: control
- 5:53Heidi: how
- 5:53Heidi: I
- 5:53Heidi: reframe
- 5:54Heidi: that
- 5:54Heidi: situation
- 5:55Heidi: and
- 5:55Heidi: the
- 5:56Heidi: mindset,
- 5:56Heidi: and
- 5:56Heidi: that's
- 5:56Heidi: where
- 5:57Heidi: Lookup
- 5:57Heidi: came
- 5:57Heidi: from.
- 5:58Heidi: So
- 5:59Heidi: that
- 5:59Heidi: is
- 6:00Heidi: reinvention
- 6:01Heidi: of
- 6:02Heidi: life
- 6:03Heidi: number
- 6:03Heidi: one.
- 6:04Doris: I
- 6:05Doris: would
- 6:05Doris: love
- 6:05Doris: to
- 6:06Doris: know
- 6:07Doris: when
- 6:07Doris: you
- 6:07Doris: woke
- 6:07Doris: up
- 6:07Doris: from
- 6:08Doris: that
- 6:08Doris: hospital
- 6:09Doris: bed
- 6:10Doris: and
- 6:11Doris: the
- 6:11Doris: emotions
- 6:12Doris: that
- 6:12Doris: you
- 6:12Doris: felt,
- 6:13Doris: and
- 6:13Doris: we'll
- 6:13Doris: let
- 6:14Doris: the
- 6:14Doris: husband
- 6:14Doris: go
- 6:14Doris: for
- 6:14Doris: just
- 6:15Doris: a
- 6:15Doris: second,
- 6:15Doris: but
- 6:15Doris: just
- 6:16Doris: your
- 6:16Doris: injuries
- 6:17Doris: and
- 6:18Doris: having
- 6:18Doris: to
- 6:19Doris: deal
- 6:19Doris: with.
- 6:21Doris: Recovery
- 6:22Doris: when
- 6:22Doris: you
- 6:22Doris: first
- 6:23Doris: woke
- 6:23Doris: up,
- 6:23Doris: I'm
- 6:23Doris: sure
- 6:24Doris: that
- 6:24Doris: your
- 6:24Doris: mindset
- 6:25Doris: wasn't,
- 6:25Doris: okay,
- 6:25Doris: we're
- 6:25Doris: gonna
- 6:26Doris: turn
- 6:26Doris: this
- 6:26Doris: into
- 6:26Doris: a
- 6:26Doris: great
- 6:27Doris: situation.
- 6:28Doris: what
- 6:29Doris: did
- 6:29Doris: you
- 6:29Doris: first
- 6:29Doris: feel
- 6:30Doris: and
- 6:30Doris: how
- 6:31Doris: long
- 6:31Doris: did
- 6:31Doris: it
- 6:32Doris: take
- 6:32Doris: you
- 6:33Doris: to
- 6:34Doris: make
- 6:34Doris: a
- 6:34Doris: conscious
- 6:35Doris: decision
- 6:36Doris: not
- 6:37Doris: to
- 6:37Doris: let
- 6:37Doris: that
- 6:38Doris: situation
- 6:40Doris: control
- 6:40Doris: your
- 6:40Doris: life?
- 6:43Heidi: So
- 6:45Heidi: I
- 6:45Heidi: knew
- 6:46Heidi: about
- 6:46Heidi: the
- 6:46Heidi: infidelity
- 6:47Heidi: before
- 6:48Heidi: the
- 6:48Heidi: tree
- 6:48Heidi: hit
- 6:48Heidi: me.
- 6:49Heidi: So
- 6:49Heidi: the
- 6:49Heidi: tree
- 6:49Heidi: almost
- 6:50Heidi: was
- 6:51Heidi: like
- 6:52Heidi: the
- 6:52Heidi: knock
- 6:52Heidi: on
- 6:53Heidi: the
- 6:53Heidi: head
- 6:53Heidi: that
- 6:53Heidi: I
- 6:53Heidi: needed
- 6:53Heidi: to
- 6:54Heidi: wake
- 6:54Heidi: up
- 6:54Heidi: and
- 6:54Heidi: actually
- 6:57Heidi: say,
- 6:57Heidi: yes,
- 6:58Heidi: this
- 6:58Heidi: is
- 6:58Heidi: what's
- 6:59Heidi: happening.
- 7:00Doris: how
- 7:00Doris: long
- 7:00Doris: before
- 7:01Doris: the
- 7:01Doris: tree
- 7:01Doris: limb
- 7:02Doris: did
- 7:02Doris: you
- 7:02Doris: know
- 7:02Doris: about
- 7:03Doris: the
- 7:03Doris: infidelity
- 7:04Heidi: the
- 7:04Heidi: night
- 7:04Heidi: before?
- 7:05Doris: Oh,
- 7:05Doris: no.
- 7:08Doris: Oh
- 7:08Doris: wow.
- 7:09Heidi: So
- 7:11Heidi: in
- 7:11Heidi: the
- 7:11Heidi: story,
- 7:12Heidi: in
- 7:12Heidi: the
- 7:12Heidi: book,
- 7:13Heidi: it
- 7:13Heidi: goes
- 7:13Heidi: into
- 7:14Heidi: details
- 7:14Heidi: as
- 7:14Heidi: to
- 7:14Heidi: how
- 7:15Heidi: I
- 7:15Heidi: found
- 7:15Heidi: out
- 7:15Heidi: and
- 7:16Heidi: whatnot.
- 7:17Heidi: But
- 7:17Heidi: when
- 7:18Heidi: I
- 7:18Heidi: woke
- 7:18Heidi: in
- 7:19Heidi: the
- 7:19Heidi: ICU
- 7:20Heidi: and
- 7:20Heidi: underwent
- 7:21Heidi: neurosurgery,
- 7:22Heidi: I
- 7:22Heidi: decided,
- 7:22Heidi: okay,
- 7:23Heidi: we're
- 7:23Heidi: gonna
- 7:23Heidi: take
- 7:24Heidi: my
- 7:24Heidi: life
- 7:25Heidi: and
- 7:25Heidi: treated
- 7:25Heidi: as
- 7:26Heidi: a
- 7:26Heidi: triage
- 7:27Heidi: doctor.
- 7:28Heidi: So
- 7:28Heidi: I
- 7:28Heidi: can't
- 7:29Heidi: make
- 7:29Heidi: decisions
- 7:30Heidi: about
- 7:30Heidi: my
- 7:30Heidi: marriage
- 7:31Heidi: or
- 7:31Heidi: my
- 7:31Heidi: career
- 7:31Heidi: right
- 7:31Heidi: now.
- 7:32Heidi: I
- 7:32Heidi: can
- 7:32Heidi: only
- 7:32Heidi: focus
- 7:33Heidi: on
- 7:33Heidi: my
- 7:33Heidi: health.
- 7:33Heidi: Mm-hmm.
- 7:34Heidi: And
- 7:34Heidi: so
- 7:34Heidi: that
- 7:34Heidi: was
- 7:35Heidi: getting
- 7:35Heidi: outta
- 7:35Heidi: the
- 7:35Heidi: hospital
- 7:36Heidi: first
- 7:37Heidi: and
- 7:37Heidi: foremost,
- 7:38Heidi: and
- 7:38Heidi: then
- 7:39Heidi: starting
- 7:40Heidi: to
- 7:41Heidi: do
- 7:41Heidi: whatever
- 7:41Heidi: I
- 7:41Heidi: could
- 7:42Heidi: to
- 7:43Heidi: rehabilitate.
- 7:44Heidi: And
- 7:44Heidi: basically
- 7:45Heidi: when
- 7:45Heidi: you're
- 7:45Heidi: trying
- 7:45Heidi: to
- 7:46Heidi: fuse
- 7:46Heidi: your
- 7:46Heidi: spine,
- 7:47Heidi: it's
- 7:47Heidi: basically
- 7:48Heidi: being
- 7:48Heidi: still,
- 7:48Heidi: the
- 7:49Heidi: only
- 7:49Heidi: thing
- 7:49Heidi: that
- 7:49Heidi: I
- 7:50Heidi: could
- 7:50Heidi: do
- 7:50Heidi: was
- 7:51Heidi: do
- 7:51Heidi: meditation
- 7:52Heidi: walks,
- 7:53Heidi: limited
- 7:54Heidi: into
- 7:54Heidi: what
- 7:55Heidi: is
- 7:55Heidi: called
- 7:55Heidi: a
- 7:55Heidi: Miami
- 7:55Heidi: JTO
- 7:56Heidi: brace,
- 7:57Heidi: which
- 7:57Heidi: is
- 7:57Heidi: from
- 7:58Heidi: your
- 7:58Heidi: neck
- 7:58Heidi: down
- 7:59Heidi: to
- 7:59Heidi: your
- 7:59Heidi: belly
- 7:59Heidi: button.
- 7:59Heidi: Then
- 8:00Heidi: around.
- 8:01Heidi: To
- 8:01Heidi: your
- 8:01Heidi: spine.
- 8:01Heidi: So
- 8:02Heidi: I
- 8:02Heidi: couldn't
- 8:02Heidi: move
- 8:03Heidi: like
- 8:03Heidi: this.
- 8:04Heidi: My
- 8:04Heidi: observation
- 8:05Heidi: anywhere
- 8:06Heidi: I
- 8:06Heidi: would
- 8:06Heidi: go
- 8:06Heidi: would
- 8:06Heidi: be
- 8:06Heidi: like
- 8:07Heidi: a
- 8:07Heidi: long
- 8:08Heidi: lawn
- 8:08Heidi: sprinkler,
- 8:09Heidi: Mm-hmm.
- 8:09Heidi: Because
- 8:10Heidi: I
- 8:10Heidi: had
- 8:10Heidi: to
- 8:10Heidi: move
- 8:10Heidi: my
- 8:10Heidi: entire
- 8:11Heidi: torso
- 8:12Heidi: at
- 8:12Heidi: the
- 8:12Heidi: same
- 8:12Heidi: time.
- 8:13Heidi: So
- 8:14Heidi: the
- 8:14Heidi: process
- 8:15Heidi: of
- 8:16Heidi: getting
- 8:17Heidi: out
- 8:17Heidi: of
- 8:17Heidi: that
- 8:17Heidi: brace
- 8:18Heidi: was
- 8:18Heidi: nearly
- 8:19Heidi: six
- 8:20Heidi: months
- 8:20Heidi: until
- 8:20Heidi: I
- 8:21Heidi: took
- 8:21Heidi: it
- 8:21Heidi: off
- 8:22Heidi: and
- 8:22Heidi: I
- 8:22Heidi: had
- 8:22Heidi: to
- 8:22Heidi: wean
- 8:23Heidi: myself
- 8:23Heidi: out
- 8:23Heidi: of
- 8:23Heidi: this
- 8:24Heidi: cage.
- 8:24Heidi: And
- 8:24Heidi: I
- 8:24Heidi: called
- 8:25Heidi: it
- 8:25Heidi: a
- 8:25Heidi: cage
- 8:25Heidi: because
- 8:26Heidi: one,
- 8:26Heidi: it
- 8:26Heidi: was
- 8:26Heidi: my
- 8:26Heidi: protector,
- 8:27Heidi: but
- 8:27Heidi: also
- 8:27Heidi: it
- 8:27Heidi: was
- 8:27Heidi: my
- 8:28Heidi: prison.
- 8:29Heidi: So
- 8:30Heidi: I
- 8:30Heidi: focused
- 8:30Heidi: on
- 8:30Heidi: my
- 8:31Heidi: health.
- 8:31Heidi: And
- 8:31Heidi: then
- 8:32Heidi: once
- 8:32Heidi: I
- 8:32Heidi: started
- 8:33Heidi: weaning
- 8:33Heidi: myself
- 8:34Heidi: out
- 8:34Heidi: and
- 8:34Heidi: doing
- 8:35Heidi: physical
- 8:35Heidi: therapy
- 8:36Heidi: and
- 8:37Heidi: also
- 8:37Heidi: getting
- 8:38Heidi: mental
- 8:39Heidi: health
- 8:39Heidi: support,
- 8:40Heidi: because
- 8:41Heidi: there
- 8:41Heidi: wasn't
- 8:41Heidi: just
- 8:41Heidi: one
- 8:42Heidi: facet
- 8:42Heidi: of
- 8:42Heidi: my
- 8:42Heidi: life
- 8:42Heidi: that
- 8:42Heidi: was
- 8:43Heidi: changing,
- 8:43Heidi: it
- 8:43Heidi: was
- 8:44Heidi: multiple
- 8:44Heidi: at
- 8:44Heidi: the
- 8:44Heidi: same
- 8:44Heidi: time.
- 8:45Heidi: Then
- 8:46Heidi: I
- 8:46Heidi: dealt
- 8:46Heidi: with
- 8:47Heidi: the
- 8:48Heidi: deciding.
- 8:49Heidi: Of
- 8:50Heidi: to
- 8:50Heidi: continue
- 8:50Heidi: with
- 8:50Heidi: marriage
- 8:51Heidi: or
- 8:51Heidi: to
- 8:51Heidi: divorce,
- 8:52Heidi: and
- 8:53Heidi: that
- 8:53Heidi: was
- 8:54Heidi: the
- 8:54Heidi: second
- 8:54Heidi: tier
- 8:54Heidi: of
- 8:54Heidi: my
- 8:55Heidi: triage.
- 8:55Heidi: Then
- 8:56Heidi: after
- 8:57Heidi: I
- 8:57Heidi: decided
- 8:57Heidi: to
- 8:57Heidi: divorce
- 8:58Heidi: and
- 8:58Heidi: I
- 8:58Heidi: could
- 8:58Heidi: not
- 8:59Heidi: forgive
- 8:59Heidi: and
- 8:59Heidi: forget,
- 9:00Heidi: it
- 9:00Heidi: was
- 9:01Heidi: time
- 9:01Heidi: for
- 9:01Heidi: a
- 9:01Heidi: different
- 9:01Heidi: type
- 9:02Heidi: of
- 9:02Heidi: love,
- 9:02Heidi: I
- 9:03Heidi: decided,
- 9:04Heidi: hey,
- 9:05Heidi: it's
- 9:05Heidi: now
- 9:05Heidi: time
- 9:05Heidi: to
- 9:05Heidi: work
- 9:06Heidi: on
- 9:06Heidi: that
- 9:06Heidi: W2
- 9:07Heidi: or
- 9:07Heidi: new
- 9:08Heidi: business.
- 9:09Heidi: And
- 9:09Heidi: that's
- 9:10Heidi: when
- 9:10Heidi: I
- 9:10Heidi: decided
- 9:10Heidi: I
- 9:10Heidi: was
- 9:10Heidi: gonna
- 9:11Heidi: lean
- 9:11Heidi: into
- 9:11Heidi: my
- 9:11Heidi: storytelling
- 9:12Heidi: full
- 9:13Heidi: time,
- 9:13Heidi: whether
- 9:14Heidi: that
- 9:14Heidi: was
- 9:14Heidi: for
- 9:15Heidi: a
- 9:15Heidi: corporation
- 9:16Heidi: or
- 9:16Heidi: if
- 9:16Heidi: that
- 9:16Heidi: was
- 9:17Heidi: a
- 9:17Heidi: hybrid
- 9:18Heidi: of
- 9:18Heidi: writing
- 9:18Heidi: books,
- 9:18Heidi: speaking,
- 9:19Heidi: and
- 9:20Heidi: that.
- 9:21Doris: Wow.
- 9:23Doris: Did
- 9:23Doris: you
- 9:23Doris: do
- 9:24Doris: this
- 9:24Doris: all
- 9:25Doris: yourself
- 9:25Doris: or
- 9:26Doris: who
- 9:26Doris: was
- 9:26Doris: your
- 9:26Doris: support
- 9:27Doris: system?
- 9:27Doris: Who
- 9:27Doris: was
- 9:27Doris: there
- 9:28Doris: around
- 9:28Doris: you
- 9:28Doris: giving
- 9:29Doris: you
- 9:29Doris: support
- 9:29Doris: through
- 9:30Doris: all
- 9:30Doris: of
- 9:30Doris: this
- 9:31Doris: trauma?
- 9:33Heidi: Lookup
- 9:33Heidi: has
- 9:34Heidi: two
- 9:34Heidi: tenants
- 9:34Heidi: that
- 9:35Heidi: you
- 9:35Heidi: can
- 9:35Heidi: be
- 9:35Heidi: in
- 9:35Heidi: the
- 9:35Heidi: moment
- 9:36Heidi: and
- 9:36Heidi: find
- 9:36Heidi: the
- 9:36Heidi: upside.
- 9:37Heidi: But
- 9:38Heidi: the
- 9:38Heidi: secret
- 9:38Heidi: sauce
- 9:39Heidi: to
- 9:39Heidi: making
- 9:39Heidi: it
- 9:39Heidi: work
- 9:40Heidi: is
- 9:40Heidi: that
- 9:40Heidi: you
- 9:40Heidi: don't
- 9:41Heidi: do
- 9:41Heidi: it
- 9:41Heidi: alone.
- 9:41Heidi: You
- 9:41Heidi: have
- 9:42Heidi: community.
- 9:42Heidi: And
- 9:44Heidi: I
- 9:44Heidi: did
- 9:44Heidi: not
- 9:44Heidi: do
- 9:45Heidi: my
- 9:46Heidi: first
- 9:47Heidi: reinvention
- 9:47Heidi: by
- 9:47Heidi: myself,
- 9:49Heidi: and
- 9:50Heidi: I
- 9:51Heidi: call
- 9:51Heidi: them
- 9:51Heidi: my
- 9:52Heidi: clan
- 9:53Heidi: because
- 9:54Heidi: they
- 9:54Heidi: weren't
- 9:55Heidi: all
- 9:55Heidi: DNA
- 9:56Heidi: family
- 9:56Heidi: members.
- 9:57Heidi: They
- 9:57Heidi: were
- 9:57Heidi: also
- 9:57Heidi: friends
- 9:58Heidi: that
- 9:58Heidi: have
- 9:59Heidi: become
- 9:59Heidi: family,
- 10:00Heidi: but
- 10:00Heidi: also
- 10:01Heidi: other
- 10:01Heidi: people
- 10:01Heidi: came
- 10:02Heidi: out
- 10:02Heidi: of
- 10:02Heidi: the
- 10:02Heidi: woodwork
- 10:03Heidi: that
- 10:03Heidi: I
- 10:03Heidi: had
- 10:03Heidi: no
- 10:03Heidi: idea
- 10:04Heidi: would
- 10:04Heidi: provide
- 10:05Heidi: me
- 10:05Heidi: with
- 10:05Heidi: wisdom
- 10:06Heidi: and
- 10:06Heidi: support.
- 10:07Heidi: For
- 10:07Heidi: example,
- 10:09Heidi: there's
- 10:09Heidi: not
- 10:10Heidi: many
- 10:10Heidi: people
- 10:10Heidi: that
- 10:10Heidi: have
- 10:10Heidi: said
- 10:11Heidi: that
- 10:11Heidi: they've
- 10:11Heidi: had
- 10:12Heidi: a
- 10:12Heidi: back
- 10:12Heidi: injury
- 10:13Heidi: and
- 10:13Heidi: have
- 10:13Heidi: been
- 10:13Heidi: laid
- 10:13Heidi: up
- 10:14Heidi: in
- 10:15Heidi: mid-career,
- 10:16Heidi: but.
- 10:18Heidi: Some
- 10:18Heidi: of
- 10:18Heidi: my
- 10:18Heidi: former
- 10:19Heidi: colleagues
- 10:19Heidi: had,
- 10:20Heidi: and
- 10:21Heidi: they
- 10:21Heidi: gave
- 10:21Heidi: me
- 10:21Heidi: support.
- 10:22Heidi: They
- 10:23Heidi: said
- 10:23Heidi: what
- 10:23Heidi: helped
- 10:24Heidi: them
- 10:24Heidi: get
- 10:24Heidi: through
- 10:25Heidi: some
- 10:25Heidi: of
- 10:26Heidi: the
- 10:26Heidi: issues
- 10:26Heidi: of
- 10:27Heidi: needing
- 10:27Heidi: to
- 10:28Heidi: be
- 10:28Heidi: immobile,
- 10:30Heidi: some
- 10:30Heidi: meditation,
- 10:31Heidi: other
- 10:31Heidi: people
- 10:32Heidi: that
- 10:34Heidi: knew
- 10:35Heidi: how
- 10:35Heidi: to
- 10:35Heidi: find
- 10:36Heidi: a
- 10:36Heidi: good
- 10:36Heidi: lawyer
- 10:36Heidi: for
- 10:37Heidi: a
- 10:37Heidi: divorce
- 10:37Heidi: quickly,
- 10:38Heidi: that
- 10:39Heidi: not
- 10:40Heidi: all
- 10:40Heidi: your
- 10:40Heidi: friends
- 10:40Heidi: have
- 10:40Heidi: gone
- 10:41Heidi: through
- 10:41Heidi: divorce,
- 10:42Heidi: but
- 10:42Heidi: someone
- 10:43Heidi: has,
- 10:43Heidi: or
- 10:43Heidi: maybe
- 10:44Heidi: they
- 10:44Heidi: were
- 10:44Heidi: the
- 10:45Heidi: executive
- 10:45Heidi: assistant
- 10:45Heidi: of
- 10:46Heidi: someone
- 10:46Heidi: who
- 10:46Heidi: had
- 10:46Heidi: gone
- 10:47Heidi: through
- 10:47Heidi: a
- 10:47Heidi: divorce
- 10:48Heidi: and
- 10:48Heidi: did
- 10:48Heidi: it
- 10:48Heidi: quickly.
- 10:49Heidi: So
- 10:49Heidi: there
- 10:49Heidi: were
- 10:49Heidi: people
- 10:49Heidi: that
- 10:50Heidi: came
- 10:50Heidi: out
- 10:50Heidi: of
- 10:52Heidi: former
- 10:53Heidi: work
- 10:53Heidi: environments,
- 10:54Heidi: even
- 10:55Heidi: some
- 10:55Heidi: online
- 10:55Heidi: connections
- 10:56Heidi: that
- 10:56Heidi: showed
- 10:57Heidi: me
- 10:57Heidi: support
- 10:57Heidi: because
- 10:59Heidi: if
- 10:59Heidi: you
- 10:59Heidi: think
- 10:59Heidi: you
- 11:00Heidi: can
- 11:00Heidi: get
- 11:00Heidi: it
- 11:00Heidi: from
- 11:00Heidi: one
- 11:00Heidi: person,
- 11:01Heidi: you're
- 11:02Heidi: wrong.
- 11:03Heidi: No
- 11:03Heidi: one
- 11:03Heidi: person
- 11:03Heidi: has
- 11:04Heidi: all
- 11:04Heidi: the
- 11:04Heidi: information
- 11:05Heidi: to
- 11:06Heidi: help
- 11:06Heidi: you
- 11:07Heidi: through
- 11:08Heidi: a
- 11:08Heidi: multifaceted,
- 11:09Heidi: full-blown
- 11:10Heidi: life
- 11:10Heidi: catastrophe.
- 11:11Heidi: So
- 11:12Heidi: community
- 11:12Heidi: is
- 11:12Heidi: central.
- 11:13Doris: Oh
- 11:14Doris: my
- 11:14Doris: gosh.
- 11:14Doris: Community
- 11:15Doris: is
- 11:15Doris: so
- 11:16Doris: important.
- 11:16Doris: I'm
- 11:16Doris: such
- 11:17Doris: a
- 11:17Doris: believer
- 11:17Doris: in
- 11:17Doris: community
- 11:18Doris: and
- 11:18Doris: I,
- 11:18Doris: I
- 11:18Doris: know
- 11:18Doris: social
- 11:19Doris: media
- 11:20Doris: has
- 11:20Doris: its
- 11:21Doris: challenges,
- 11:22Doris: but
- 11:22Doris: at
- 11:22Doris: the
- 11:22Doris: end
- 11:22Doris: of
- 11:22Doris: the
- 11:23Doris: day,
- 11:23Doris: I
- 11:23Doris: am
- 11:23Doris: so
- 11:24Doris: grateful
- 11:24Doris: for
- 11:25Doris: social
- 11:25Doris: media
- 11:25Doris: because
- 11:26Doris: I
- 11:26Doris: think
- 11:26Doris: it
- 11:26Doris: does
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- 11:28Doris: community
- 11:30Doris: when
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- 11:33Doris: relink
- 11:34Doris: with
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- 11:34Doris: that
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- 11:35Doris: support
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- 11:36Doris: forgot
- 11:36Doris: even
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- 11:37Doris: school
- 11:38Doris: friends,
- 11:38Doris: college
- 11:38Doris: friends,
- 11:39Doris: people
- 11:39Doris: from
- 11:40Doris: former
- 11:40Doris: workplaces
- 11:42Doris: that
- 11:42Doris: you
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- 11:45Doris: social
- 11:46Doris: media
- 11:46Doris: channels.
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- 11:51Doris: your
- 11:51Doris: story,
- 11:52Doris: it's
- 11:52Doris: amazing
- 11:53Doris: how
- 11:53Doris: many
- 11:54Doris: people
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- 11:57Doris: you
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- 11:57Doris: so
- 11:58Doris: many
- 11:58Doris: different
- 11:59Doris: ways.
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- 12:00Doris: finding
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- 12:04Doris: it
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- 12:05Heidi: Absolutely.
- 12:07Heidi: Yes.
- 12:07Doris: Where
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- 12:13Doris: the
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- 12:15Doris: through
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- 12:16Doris: media,
- 12:16Doris: or
- 12:18Doris: did
- 12:18Doris: your
- 12:19Doris: close
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- 12:21Doris: other
- 12:22Doris: friends?
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- 12:23Doris: were
- 12:23Doris: some
- 12:23Doris: ways
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- 12:23Doris: you
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- 12:25Doris: community
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- 12:25Doris: developed
- 12:26Doris: it
- 12:26Doris: or
- 12:26Doris: rekindled
- 12:28Doris: community
- 12:28Doris: that
- 12:29Doris: you'd
- 12:29Doris: forgotten
- 12:29Doris: was
- 12:29Doris: even
- 12:30Doris: there?
- 12:33Heidi: I
- 12:33Heidi: think
- 12:33Heidi: it
- 12:34Heidi: was
- 12:35Heidi: primarily
- 12:36Heidi: my
- 12:36Heidi: inner
- 12:36Heidi: circle,
- 12:37Heidi: and
- 12:37Heidi: then
- 12:38Heidi: they
- 12:39Heidi: crowdsourced,
- 12:40Heidi: if
- 12:40Heidi: you
- 12:40Heidi: will.
- 12:41Heidi: Mm-hmm.
- 12:41Heidi: Other
- 12:41Heidi: people
- 12:42Heidi: in
- 12:42Heidi: their
- 12:43Heidi: circle.
- 12:43Heidi: it
- 12:43Heidi: was
- 12:44Heidi: My
- 12:44Heidi: friends
- 12:44Heidi: and
- 12:44Heidi: then
- 12:45Heidi: friends
- 12:45Heidi: of
- 12:45Heidi: their
- 12:45Heidi: friends.
- 12:46Heidi: I
- 12:47Heidi: did
- 12:47Heidi: source
- 12:48Heidi: some
- 12:48Heidi: through
- 12:49Heidi: social
- 12:49Heidi: media
- 12:50Heidi: when
- 12:50Heidi: this
- 12:50Heidi: happened.
- 12:51Heidi: It
- 12:51Heidi: was
- 12:51Heidi: in
- 12:51Heidi: 2009,
- 12:52Heidi: so
- 12:52Heidi: it
- 12:52Heidi: was
- 12:53Heidi: at
- 12:53Heidi: the
- 12:53Heidi: very
- 12:53Heidi: beginning
- 12:54Heidi: of
- 12:55Heidi: Facebook.
- 12:56Heidi: I
- 12:56Heidi: think
- 12:57Heidi: my
- 12:57Heidi: accident
- 12:58Heidi: and
- 12:58Heidi: disclosing
- 12:59Heidi: it
- 12:59Heidi: on
- 12:59Heidi: Facebook
- 13:00Heidi: forced
- 13:01Heidi: a
- 13:01Heidi: lot
- 13:01Heidi: of
- 13:01Heidi: my
- 13:01Heidi: friends,
- 13:02Heidi: because
- 13:03Heidi: some
- 13:03Heidi: weren't
- 13:04Heidi: on
- 13:04Heidi: Facebook
- 13:04Heidi: at
- 13:04Heidi: the
- 13:04Heidi: time
- 13:05Heidi: and
- 13:05Heidi: they
- 13:05Heidi: found
- 13:06Heidi: out
- 13:06Heidi: from
- 13:06Heidi: maybe
- 13:07Heidi: one
- 13:07Heidi: of
- 13:07Heidi: their
- 13:07Heidi: sisters
- 13:07Heidi: and
- 13:08Heidi: they
- 13:08Heidi: were
- 13:08Heidi: upset
- 13:08Heidi: that
- 13:08Heidi: they
- 13:09Heidi: didn't
- 13:09Heidi: know
- 13:09Heidi: about
- 13:09Heidi: my
- 13:09Heidi: accident,
- 13:10Heidi: but
- 13:10Heidi: I
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- 13:10Heidi: going
- 13:10Heidi: to
- 13:11Heidi: take
- 13:11Heidi: my
- 13:11Heidi: Rolodex
- 13:12Heidi: and
- 13:12Heidi: call
- 13:12Heidi: everybody
- 13:13Heidi: to
- 13:13Heidi: let
- 13:13Heidi: them
- 13:13Heidi: know.
- 13:13Heidi: Mm-hmm.
- 13:14Heidi: It
- 13:14Heidi: was
- 13:14Heidi: one
- 13:14Heidi: of
- 13:14Heidi: the
- 13:14Heidi: ways
- 13:15Heidi: that
- 13:15Heidi: I
- 13:15Heidi: could
- 13:16Heidi: mass
- 13:17Heidi: communicate,
- 13:17Heidi: Hey,
- 13:17Heidi: if
- 13:18Heidi: you
- 13:18Heidi: don't
- 13:18Heidi: hear
- 13:18Heidi: from
- 13:18Heidi: me,
- 13:18Heidi: this
- 13:18Heidi: is
- 13:19Heidi: what
- 13:19Heidi: happened
- 13:19Heidi: and
- 13:20Heidi: I'm
- 13:20Heidi: recovering,
- 13:21Heidi: I'll
- 13:21Heidi: be
- 13:21Heidi: laid
- 13:21Heidi: up
- 13:21Heidi: for
- 13:22Heidi: the
- 13:22Heidi: next
- 13:23Heidi: year.
- 13:23Heidi: feel
- 13:23Heidi: free
- 13:24Heidi: to
- 13:24Heidi: pick
- 13:25Heidi: up
- 13:25Heidi: the
- 13:25Heidi: phone
- 13:25Heidi: and
- 13:25Heidi: we
- 13:26Heidi: can
- 13:26Heidi: catch
- 13:26Heidi: up.
- 13:26Doris: Wow.
- 13:28Doris: What
- 13:28Doris: would
- 13:29Doris: you
- 13:29Doris: say
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- 13:30Doris: the
- 13:30Doris: most
- 13:31Doris: unexpected
- 13:32Doris: internal
- 13:33Doris: shift
- 13:34Doris: that
- 13:34Doris: happened
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- 13:35Doris: a
- 13:35Doris: result
- 13:35Doris: of.
- 13:36Doris: The,
- 13:37Doris: basically,
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- 13:38Doris: you
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- 13:38Doris: this
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- 13:38Doris: these
- 13:39Doris: three
- 13:39Doris: different
- 13:39Doris: things
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- 13:41Doris: pretty
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- 13:41Doris: same
- 13:42Doris: time,
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- 13:47Doris: started
- 13:47Doris: to
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- 13:51Doris: you?
- 13:53Heidi: I
- 13:53Heidi: would
- 13:53Heidi: say
- 13:53Heidi: that
- 13:54Heidi: I
- 13:54Heidi: was
- 13:54Heidi: a
- 13:54Heidi: type
- 13:54Heidi: A
- 13:55Heidi: superwoman,
- 13:56Heidi: one
- 13:57Heidi: woman
- 13:58Heidi: show
- 13:58Heidi: who
- 13:59Heidi: could
- 13:59Heidi: conquer
- 13:59Heidi: anything
- 14:00Heidi: if
- 14:00Heidi: I
- 14:00Heidi: put
- 14:00Heidi: my
- 14:00Heidi: mind
- 14:01Heidi: to
- 14:01Heidi: it.
- 14:01Heidi: And
- 14:03Heidi: the
- 14:03Heidi: accident
- 14:04Heidi: flipped
- 14:05Heidi: that
- 14:05Heidi: to
- 14:07Heidi: taking
- 14:07Heidi: things
- 14:08Heidi: in
- 14:08Heidi: bite-sized
- 14:09Heidi: chunks
- 14:10Heidi: and
- 14:11Heidi: maybe
- 14:11Heidi: not
- 14:11Heidi: dealing
- 14:12Heidi: with
- 14:12Heidi: what
- 14:13Heidi: I
- 14:13Heidi: thought
- 14:13Heidi: was
- 14:14Heidi: the
- 14:15Heidi: most
- 14:15Heidi: emotional
- 14:16Heidi: part
- 14:16Heidi: of
- 14:16Heidi: the
- 14:17Heidi: scenario,
- 14:18Heidi: which
- 14:18Heidi: was
- 14:19Heidi: the
- 14:19Heidi: love
- 14:19Heidi: of
- 14:19Heidi: my
- 14:19Heidi: life.
- 14:21Heidi: But
- 14:21Heidi: I
- 14:21Heidi: had
- 14:21Heidi: to
- 14:21Heidi: focus
- 14:22Heidi: on
- 14:22Heidi: the
- 14:22Heidi: health
- 14:23Heidi: and
- 14:23Heidi: so
- 14:24Heidi: I
- 14:25Heidi: just
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- 14:25Heidi: to
- 14:25Heidi: say
- 14:26Heidi: one
- 14:27Heidi: thing
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- 14:27Heidi: a
- 14:27Heidi: time
- 14:28Heidi: and
- 14:28Heidi: that
- 14:28Heidi: was
- 14:29Heidi: not
- 14:29Heidi: what
- 14:29Heidi: was
- 14:29Heidi: natural.
- 14:30Heidi: So
- 14:30Heidi: I
- 14:31Heidi: had
- 14:31Heidi: to
- 14:31Heidi: really
- 14:31Heidi: slow
- 14:32Heidi: down
- 14:33Heidi: and.
- 14:35Heidi: Not
- 14:35Heidi: be
- 14:35Heidi: a
- 14:35Heidi: superwoman.
- 14:36Heidi: Okay.
- 14:36Doris: Well
- 14:36Doris: how
- 14:36Doris: did
- 14:36Doris: you
- 14:36Doris: do
- 14:37Doris: that
- 14:37Doris: without
- 14:38Doris: getting
- 14:38Doris: frustrated?
- 14:39Doris: 'cause
- 14:39Doris: I
- 14:39Doris: could
- 14:40Doris: imagine
- 14:41Doris: many
- 14:41Doris: of
- 14:41Doris: us,
- 14:42Doris: myself
- 14:42Doris: included,
- 14:43Doris: if
- 14:44Doris: all
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- 14:45Doris: sudden
- 14:45Doris: I
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- 14:45Doris: and
- 14:46Doris: I'm
- 14:46Doris: also
- 14:46Doris: go,
- 14:46Doris: go,
- 14:47Doris: go.
- 14:47Doris: I
- 14:47Doris: work
- 14:47Doris: out
- 14:48Doris: every
- 14:48Doris: day.
- 14:48Doris: I
- 14:48Doris: walk
- 14:49Doris: the
- 14:49Doris: dogs
- 14:49Doris: every
- 14:49Doris: day.
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- 14:50Doris: I
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- 14:51Doris: to
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- 14:52Doris: a,
- 14:52Doris: a
- 14:52Doris: cold
- 14:52Doris: or
- 14:52Doris: the
- 14:53Doris: flu,
- 14:53Doris: I
- 14:53Doris: can't
- 14:54Doris: stand
- 14:54Doris: it.
- 14:55Doris: I
- 14:55Doris: can't
- 14:55Doris: imagine
- 14:56Doris: being
- 14:56Doris: laid
- 14:57Doris: up
- 14:57Doris: and
- 14:57Doris: flat
- 14:58Doris: on
- 14:58Doris: my
- 14:58Doris: back
- 14:59Doris: pretty
- 14:59Doris: much
- 14:59Doris: for
- 15:00Doris: a
- 15:00Doris: year
- 15:01Doris: without
- 15:02Doris: building
- 15:02Doris: a
- 15:02Doris: lot
- 15:03Doris: of.
- 15:03Doris: Anger
- 15:04Doris: inside
- 15:05Doris: of
- 15:05Doris: me.
- 15:05Doris: And
- 15:06Doris: I'm
- 15:06Doris: curious
- 15:07Doris: how
- 15:07Doris: you
- 15:08Doris: did
- 15:08Doris: that.
- 15:08Doris: How
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- 15:08Doris: you
- 15:09Doris: make
- 15:09Doris: the
- 15:09Doris: shift
- 15:10Doris: that
- 15:10Doris: our
- 15:11Doris: listeners
- 15:11Doris: could
- 15:11Doris: even
- 15:12Doris: learn
- 15:12Doris: from
- 15:12Doris: that?
- 15:13Doris: And
- 15:13Doris: if
- 15:14Doris: they're
- 15:14Doris: suffering
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- 15:15Doris: some
- 15:16Doris: trauma
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- 15:16Doris: maybe
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- 15:17Doris: not
- 15:17Doris: laid
- 15:17Doris: flat
- 15:17Doris: on
- 15:17Doris: their
- 15:18Doris: back,
- 15:18Doris: but
- 15:18Doris: they're
- 15:19Doris: really
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- 15:20Doris: with
- 15:20Doris: how
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- 15:22Doris: the
- 15:22Doris: challenge
- 15:22Doris: that
- 15:22Doris: they're
- 15:22Doris: facing,
- 15:24Doris: what
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- 15:24Doris: some
- 15:25Doris: good
- 15:25Doris: tips
- 15:26Doris: you
- 15:26Doris: said
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- 15:26Doris: went
- 15:27Doris: from,
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- 15:27Doris: gonna
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- 15:28Doris: it
- 15:28Doris: all
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- 15:29Doris: chunks
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- 15:29Doris: change.
- 15:30Doris: What
- 15:31Doris: are
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- 15:31Doris: great
- 15:31Doris: ways
- 15:32Doris: that,
- 15:32Doris: some
- 15:32Doris: takeaways
- 15:33Doris: that
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- 15:33Doris: could
- 15:33Doris: take
- 15:33Doris: from
- 15:34Doris: what
- 15:34Doris: you
- 15:35Doris: did?
- 15:37Heidi: There
- 15:37Heidi: is
- 15:38Heidi: power
- 15:38Heidi: in
- 15:39Heidi: movement.
- 15:40Heidi: Even
- 15:40Heidi: though
- 15:41Heidi: I
- 15:41Heidi: was
- 15:41Heidi: in
- 15:41Heidi: an
- 15:42Heidi: immobilization
- 15:43Heidi: brace,
- 15:43Heidi: I
- 15:43Heidi: could
- 15:43Heidi: walk
- 15:44Heidi: and
- 15:45Heidi: so
- 15:45Heidi: I
- 15:46Heidi: got
- 15:46Heidi: myself
- 15:47Heidi: out
- 15:47Heidi: of
- 15:47Heidi: my
- 15:47Heidi: physical
- 15:48Heidi: location
- 15:49Heidi: and
- 15:49Heidi: I
- 15:50Heidi: did
- 15:50Heidi: this
- 15:50Heidi: even
- 15:50Heidi: when
- 15:51Heidi: it
- 15:51Heidi: was
- 15:51Heidi: cold
- 15:52Heidi: and
- 15:53Heidi: just
- 15:53Heidi: one
- 15:53Heidi: step
- 15:54Heidi: in
- 15:54Heidi: front
- 15:54Heidi: of
- 15:54Heidi: the
- 15:54Heidi: other
- 15:55Heidi: was
- 15:55Heidi: enough
- 15:55Heidi: to
- 15:56Heidi: escape
- 15:56Heidi: my
- 15:56Heidi: reality
- 15:57Heidi: for
- 15:57Heidi: a
- 15:57Heidi: moment.
- 15:58Heidi: Mm-hmm.
- 15:58Heidi: And
- 15:59Heidi: start
- 15:59Heidi: almost
- 16:01Heidi: meditating
- 16:02Heidi: in
- 16:02Heidi: a
- 16:02Heidi: walking
- 16:03Heidi: format.
- 16:05Heidi: And
- 16:05Heidi: it's
- 16:05Heidi: no
- 16:05Heidi: secret
- 16:06Heidi: people
- 16:06Heidi: have
- 16:06Heidi: been
- 16:07Heidi: doing
- 16:07Heidi: pilgrimages,
- 16:08Heidi: whether
- 16:08Heidi: it's
- 16:08Heidi: the
- 16:09Heidi: Camino
- 16:09Heidi: de
- 16:09Heidi: Santiago
- 16:10Heidi: or
- 16:11Heidi: the
- 16:11Heidi: Sister
- 16:11Heidi: Trail
- 16:12Heidi: in
- 16:12Heidi: Japan,
- 16:12Heidi: the
- 16:12Heidi: Kimo
- 16:13Heidi: Coto
- 16:13Heidi: to
- 16:14Heidi: do
- 16:14Heidi: the
- 16:14Heidi: same
- 16:14Heidi: thing.
- 16:15Heidi: They're
- 16:15Heidi: on
- 16:15Heidi: a
- 16:15Heidi: quest
- 16:16Heidi: to
- 16:17Heidi: find
- 16:18Heidi: meaning
- 16:19Heidi: to.
- 16:20Heidi: Their
- 16:20Heidi: life,
- 16:21Heidi: their
- 16:21Heidi: loss,
- 16:22Heidi: a
- 16:22Heidi: spark
- 16:22Heidi: for
- 16:23Heidi: a
- 16:23Heidi: creative
- 16:23Heidi: project.
- 16:24Heidi: So
- 16:24Heidi: I
- 16:25Heidi: totally
- 16:25Heidi: embrace
- 16:26Heidi: walking.
- 16:28Heidi: Now,
- 16:28Heidi: if
- 16:29Heidi: you
- 16:29Heidi: cannot
- 16:30Heidi: walk,
- 16:30Heidi: you
- 16:31Heidi: can
- 16:31Heidi: do
- 16:31Heidi: the
- 16:31Heidi: same
- 16:32Heidi: by
- 16:33Heidi: doing
- 16:33Heidi: another
- 16:34Heidi: form
- 16:34Heidi: of
- 16:34Heidi: meditation,
- 16:35Heidi: whether
- 16:35Heidi: that's
- 16:36Heidi: gardening,
- 16:37Heidi: yoga,
- 16:38Heidi: and
- 16:39Heidi: as
- 16:39Heidi: I
- 16:39Heidi: said
- 16:39Heidi: at
- 16:40Heidi: the
- 16:40Heidi: beginning,
- 16:40Heidi: adventure
- 16:41Heidi: can
- 16:41Heidi: do
- 16:41Heidi: the
- 16:41Heidi: same
- 16:41Heidi: thing.
- 16:42Heidi: When
- 16:42Heidi: you're
- 16:42Heidi: doing
- 16:42Heidi: something
- 16:43Heidi: that
- 16:43Heidi: is
- 16:43Heidi: a
- 16:43Heidi: little
- 16:43Heidi: bit
- 16:44Heidi: fearful
- 16:44Heidi: and
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- 27:36Heidi: up
- 27:36Heidi: and
- 27:36Heidi: showed
- 27:37Heidi: my
- 27:37Heidi: face
- 27:37Heidi: to
- 27:37Heidi: the
- 27:37Heidi: world,
- 27:38Heidi: and
- 27:39Heidi: it
- 27:39Heidi: took
- 27:40Heidi: nearly
- 27:41Heidi: a
- 27:41Heidi: year
- 27:42Heidi: and
- 27:42Heidi: a
- 27:42Heidi: half
- 27:42Heidi: until
- 27:43Heidi: I
- 27:43Heidi: felt
- 27:43Heidi: comfortable
- 27:44Heidi: saying,
- 27:46Heidi: look
- 27:46Heidi: up.
- 27:46Heidi: Still
- 27:47Heidi: works.
- 27:48Heidi: There
- 27:49Heidi: is
- 27:49Heidi: not
- 27:49Heidi: much
- 27:50Heidi: of
- 27:50Heidi: an
- 27:50Heidi: upside
- 27:50Heidi: of
- 27:50Heidi: losing
- 27:51Heidi: someone,
- 27:51Heidi: but
- 27:52Heidi: if
- 27:52Heidi: there's
- 27:53Heidi: an
- 27:53Heidi: epitome
- 27:53Heidi: of
- 27:54Heidi: being
- 27:54Heidi: in
- 27:54Heidi: the
- 27:54Heidi: moment,
- 27:55Heidi: Brian
- 27:55Heidi: was,
- 27:55Heidi: that
- 27:56Heidi: there's
- 27:56Heidi: not
- 27:56Heidi: a
- 27:56Heidi: squirrel
- 27:57Heidi: that
- 27:57Heidi: he
- 27:57Heidi: didn't
- 27:57Heidi: chase
- 27:58Heidi: and
- 27:58Heidi: he
- 27:59Heidi: and
- 27:59Heidi: I
- 28:00Heidi: had
- 28:00Heidi: 12
- 28:01Heidi: beautiful
- 28:01Heidi: years
- 28:02Heidi: of
- 28:02Heidi: love,
- 28:02Heidi: and
- 28:03Heidi: that's
- 28:03Heidi: the
- 28:03Heidi: upside
- 28:04Heidi: that
- 28:05Heidi: I
- 28:05Heidi: had
- 28:05Heidi: that.
- 28:06Heidi: Mm-hmm.
- 28:06Heidi: So
- 28:07Heidi: the
- 28:08Heidi: tree
- 28:08Heidi: showed
- 28:08Heidi: me
- 28:08Heidi: resilience,
- 28:09Heidi: love
- 28:10Heidi: showed
- 28:10Heidi: me
- 28:10Heidi: possibility,
- 28:12Heidi: and
- 28:12Heidi: losing
- 28:12Heidi: that
- 28:13Heidi: love,
- 28:14Heidi: showed
- 28:14Heidi: me
- 28:14Heidi: how
- 28:14Heidi: powerful
- 28:14Heidi: the
- 28:15Heidi: love
- 28:15Heidi: was.
- 28:16Heidi: So
- 28:17Heidi: with
- 28:17Heidi: kind
- 28:18Heidi: of
- 28:18Heidi: my
- 28:18Heidi: own
- 28:19Heidi: gumption
- 28:19Heidi: and
- 28:20Heidi: knowing
- 28:21Heidi: that
- 28:21Heidi: Brian
- 28:21Heidi: would
- 28:21Heidi: want
- 28:21Heidi: me
- 28:22Heidi: to
- 28:22Heidi: continue
- 28:22Heidi: the
- 28:22Heidi: project,
- 28:23Heidi: I
- 28:25Heidi: jumpstarted
- 28:26Heidi: that
- 28:26Heidi: and
- 28:27Heidi: I
- 28:27Heidi: looked
- 28:28Heidi: for
- 28:29Heidi: stories
- 28:30Heidi: with
- 28:30Heidi: more
- 28:30Heidi: fervor
- 28:31Heidi: that
- 28:31Heidi: were
- 28:32Heidi: more
- 28:33Heidi: extraordinary.
- 28:35Heidi: And
- 28:35Heidi: I
- 28:35Heidi: get
- 28:35Heidi: back
- 28:35Heidi: to
- 28:35Heidi: Maui,
- 28:36Heidi: I
- 28:37Heidi: needed
- 28:38Heidi: to
- 28:39Heidi: have
- 28:40Heidi: something
- 28:40Heidi: that
- 28:41Heidi: was
- 28:43Heidi: where
- 28:43Heidi: the
- 28:43Heidi: book
- 28:43Heidi: started.
- 28:44Heidi: Mm-hmm.
- 28:46Heidi: Most
- 28:46Heidi: people
- 28:47Heidi: know
- 28:47Heidi: that
- 28:47Heidi: the
- 28:47Heidi: Maui
- 28:48Heidi: Fire
- 28:48Heidi: of
- 28:48Heidi: Laina
- 28:49Heidi: was
- 28:50Heidi: in
- 28:51Heidi: August
- 28:51Heidi: of
- 28:52Heidi: 2023.
- 28:53Heidi: I
- 28:53Heidi: had
- 28:53Heidi: already
- 28:54Heidi: moved
- 28:54Heidi: off
- 28:54Heidi: the
- 28:54Heidi: island
- 28:54Heidi: six
- 28:55Heidi: months
- 28:55Heidi: prior,
- 28:56Heidi: so
- 28:56Heidi: I
- 28:56Heidi: was
- 28:56Heidi: not
- 28:56Heidi: there,
- 28:57Heidi: but
- 28:57Heidi: I
- 28:58Heidi: knew
- 28:58Heidi: it
- 28:58Heidi: impacted
- 29:00Heidi: thousands.
- 29:01Heidi: In
- 29:01Heidi: fact,
- 29:01Heidi: the
- 29:01Heidi: entire
- 29:02Heidi: island
- 29:02Heidi: was
- 29:02Heidi: impacted,
- 29:03Heidi: whether
- 29:04Heidi: they
- 29:04Heidi: were
- 29:05Heidi: housing
- 29:05Heidi: people,
- 29:06Heidi: whether
- 29:06Heidi: they
- 29:06Heidi: lost
- 29:07Heidi: their
- 29:07Heidi: jobs,
- 29:07Heidi: whether
- 29:08Heidi: they
- 29:08Heidi: were
- 29:09Heidi: some
- 29:09Heidi: of
- 29:09Heidi: the
- 29:10Heidi: thousands
- 29:10Heidi: that
- 29:11Heidi: never
- 29:12Heidi: returned
- 29:12Heidi: to
- 29:12Heidi: Maui
- 29:12Heidi: because
- 29:13Heidi: they
- 29:14Heidi: needed
- 29:14Heidi: to
- 29:14Heidi: move
- 29:15Heidi: off
- 29:15Heidi: for
- 29:16Heidi: the
- 29:16Heidi: economic
- 29:16Heidi: impact
- 29:17Heidi: that
- 29:17Heidi: it
- 29:17Heidi: had.
- 29:18Heidi: But
- 29:19Heidi: by
- 29:19Heidi: the
- 29:19Heidi: time
- 29:20Heidi: I
- 29:20Heidi: had
- 29:20Heidi: recovered
- 29:21Heidi: mentally
- 29:22Heidi: and
- 29:22Heidi: emotionally
- 29:23Heidi: of
- 29:23Heidi: losing,
- 29:23Heidi: Brian
- 29:24Heidi: was
- 29:24Heidi: almost
- 29:25Heidi: two
- 29:25Heidi: years
- 29:26Heidi: after
- 29:26Heidi: the
- 29:26Heidi: fact.
- 29:28Heidi: A
- 29:28Heidi: year
- 29:28Heidi: and
- 29:29Heidi: a
- 29:29Heidi: half
- 29:29Heidi: after
- 29:29Heidi: the
- 29:29Heidi: fire
- 29:30Heidi: and
- 29:31Heidi: people
- 29:31Heidi: were
- 29:31Heidi: starting
- 29:32Heidi: to
- 29:32Heidi: be
- 29:32Heidi: comfortable
- 29:33Heidi: with
- 29:33Heidi: sharing
- 29:34Heidi: their
- 29:34Heidi: story.
- 29:34Heidi: Mm-hmm.
- 29:35Heidi: And
- 29:35Heidi: through
- 29:36Heidi: a
- 29:36Heidi: friend
- 29:36Heidi: of
- 29:36Heidi: a
- 29:36Heidi: friend,
- 29:37Heidi: I
- 29:37Heidi: was
- 29:37Heidi: introduced
- 29:38Heidi: to
- 29:38Heidi: Pamela
- 29:38Heidi: Reader
- 29:39Heidi: and
- 29:39Heidi: she
- 29:40Heidi: was
- 29:41Heidi: willing
- 29:41Heidi: to
- 29:41Heidi: share
- 29:42Heidi: her
- 29:42Heidi: story
- 29:43Heidi: of
- 29:43Heidi: losing
- 29:43Heidi: her
- 29:44Heidi: home
- 29:44Heidi: evacuating
- 29:45Heidi: with
- 29:45Heidi: her
- 29:46Heidi: two
- 29:46Heidi: adolescent
- 29:47Heidi: girls,
- 29:48Heidi: husband
- 29:48Heidi: and
- 29:48Heidi: cat,
- 29:49Heidi: and
- 29:50Heidi: seeing
- 29:50Heidi: the
- 29:50Heidi: apocalyptic
- 29:52Heidi: view
- 29:52Heidi: of
- 29:53Heidi: the
- 29:53Heidi: hills
- 29:53Heidi: on
- 29:53Heidi: fire
- 29:54Heidi: and
- 29:55Heidi: the
- 29:55Heidi: sun
- 29:56Heidi: setting
- 29:56Heidi: behind
- 29:56Heidi: them.
- 29:57Heidi: And
- 29:58Heidi: just
- 29:58Heidi: seeing
- 29:58Heidi: people
- 29:58Heidi: walking
- 29:59Heidi: down
- 29:59Heidi: the
- 29:59Heidi: street
- 30:00Heidi: with
- 30:00Heidi: suitcases
- 30:01Heidi: and
- 30:01Heidi: their
- 30:01Heidi: belongings
- 30:03Heidi: not
- 30:03Heidi: being
- 30:03Heidi: able
- 30:04Heidi: to
- 30:04Heidi: use
- 30:04Heidi: cell
- 30:04Heidi: phones,
- 30:06Heidi: and
- 30:06Heidi: finally
- 30:06Heidi: getting
- 30:07Heidi: to
- 30:07Heidi: the
- 30:07Heidi: other
- 30:07Heidi: side
- 30:07Heidi: of
- 30:08Heidi: Maui
- 30:08Heidi: and
- 30:08Heidi: there's
- 30:09Heidi: tourists
- 30:09Heidi: waiting
- 30:10Heidi: to
- 30:10Heidi: get
- 30:10Heidi: on
- 30:10Heidi: their
- 30:10Heidi: snorkel
- 30:11Heidi: boat.
- 30:11Heidi: it
- 30:11Heidi: was
- 30:12Heidi: some
- 30:12Heidi: version
- 30:12Heidi: of
- 30:12Heidi: hell
- 30:13Heidi: on
- 30:13Heidi: this
- 30:13Heidi: side,
- 30:14Heidi: and
- 30:14Heidi: then
- 30:14Heidi: it
- 30:14Heidi: was
- 30:15Heidi: Honeymoon
- 30:15Heidi: Central
- 30:16Heidi: and
- 30:17Heidi: Maui.
- 30:17Heidi: Epic
- 30:18Heidi: vacation
- 30:18Heidi: on
- 30:18Heidi: the
- 30:19Heidi: other.
- 30:20Heidi: Anyway,
- 30:20Heidi: by
- 30:20Heidi: the
- 30:20Heidi: time
- 30:21Heidi: I
- 30:21Heidi: was
- 30:21Heidi: talking
- 30:22Heidi: to
- 30:22Heidi: her,
- 30:22Heidi: she
- 30:22Heidi: had
- 30:22Heidi: good
- 30:23Heidi: news,
- 30:24Heidi: which
- 30:24Heidi: was
- 30:24Heidi: that
- 30:25Heidi: she
- 30:25Heidi: had
- 30:25Heidi: an
- 30:25Heidi: excellent
- 30:25Heidi: insurance
- 30:26Heidi: policy
- 30:27Heidi: and
- 30:27Heidi: that
- 30:27Heidi: she
- 30:27Heidi: had
- 30:28Heidi: permits
- 30:29Heidi: to
- 30:29Heidi: break
- 30:29Heidi: ground,
- 30:30Heidi: to
- 30:30Heidi: build
- 30:30Heidi: a
- 30:30Heidi: house
- 30:31Heidi: exactly
- 30:32Heidi: where
- 30:32Heidi: their
- 30:32Heidi: old
- 30:33Heidi: house
- 30:33Heidi: was.
- 30:35Heidi: She
- 30:35Heidi: was
- 30:35Heidi: hoping
- 30:35Heidi: to
- 30:36Heidi: get
- 30:36Heidi: into
- 30:36Heidi: that
- 30:37Heidi: home
- 30:37Heidi: before
- 30:37Heidi: this
- 30:38Heidi: Thanksgiving.
- 30:39Heidi: So
- 30:39Heidi: the
- 30:40Heidi: past
- 30:40Heidi: one,
- 30:40Heidi: late
- 30:41Heidi: 2025.
- 30:42Heidi: And
- 30:42Heidi: in
- 30:42Heidi: talking
- 30:43Heidi: to
- 30:43Heidi: her
- 30:43Heidi: for
- 30:43Heidi: the
- 30:43Heidi: podcast,
- 30:45Heidi: they
- 30:45Heidi: have
- 30:45Heidi: since
- 30:46Heidi: moved
- 30:46Heidi: into
- 30:47Heidi: the
- 30:47Heidi: home
- 30:48Heidi: and
- 30:48Heidi: they
- 30:48Heidi: were
- 30:48Heidi: the
- 30:49Heidi: first
- 30:49Heidi: home
- 30:49Heidi: constructed.
- 30:50Heidi: Now
- 30:51Heidi: around
- 30:51Heidi: them,
- 30:51Heidi: there's
- 30:51Heidi: several
- 30:52Heidi: that
- 30:52Heidi: are
- 30:52Heidi: being
- 30:52Heidi: constructed,
- 30:53Heidi: but
- 30:53Heidi: they
- 30:53Heidi: were
- 30:54Heidi: the
- 30:54Heidi: first
- 30:54Heidi: to
- 30:54Heidi: actually
- 30:55Heidi: move
- 30:55Heidi: to
- 30:55Heidi: construct,
- 30:56Heidi: move
- 30:56Heidi: in,
- 30:57Heidi: and
- 30:57Heidi: also
- 30:58Heidi: celebrate
- 30:58Heidi: the
- 30:59Heidi: holidays
- 30:59Heidi: there.
- 31:00Heidi: Mm-hmm.
- 31:01Heidi: Now
- 31:01Heidi: with
- 31:02Heidi: that
- 31:02Heidi: said,
- 31:03Heidi: homecomings
- 31:04Heidi: are
- 31:04Heidi: sometimes
- 31:04Heidi: bittersweet.
- 31:05Heidi: So
- 31:05Heidi: you
- 31:05Heidi: think
- 31:06Heidi: this
- 31:06Heidi: is
- 31:06Heidi: like
- 31:06Heidi: victorious?
- 31:07Heidi: Victorious,
- 31:08Heidi: but
- 31:08Heidi: she
- 31:08Heidi: said,
- 31:09Heidi: my
- 31:09Heidi: connection
- 31:10Heidi: to
- 31:10Heidi: look
- 31:10Heidi: up
- 31:10Heidi: is
- 31:10Heidi: I
- 31:11Heidi: thought
- 31:11Heidi: that
- 31:12Heidi: everything
- 31:13Heidi: was
- 31:13Heidi: gonna
- 31:13Heidi: be
- 31:13Heidi: positive.
- 31:16Heidi: And
- 31:17Heidi: I
- 31:18Heidi: almost
- 31:18Heidi: was
- 31:18Heidi: fearful
- 31:19Heidi: because
- 31:19Heidi: I
- 31:19Heidi: was
- 31:20Heidi: moving
- 31:20Heidi: into
- 31:20Heidi: a
- 31:20Heidi: neighborhood
- 31:21Heidi: that
- 31:21Heidi: wasn't
- 31:22Heidi: the
- 31:22Heidi: same.
- 31:22Heidi: And
- 31:22Heidi: crying
- 31:23Heidi: about
- 31:23Heidi: that,
- 31:23Heidi: that
- 31:24Heidi: it
- 31:24Heidi: wasn't
- 31:24Heidi: the
- 31:24Heidi: same
- 31:24Heidi: community
- 31:25Heidi: as
- 31:25Heidi: it
- 31:25Heidi: was.
- 31:26Heidi: But
- 31:26Heidi: then
- 31:27Heidi: she
- 31:27Heidi: said,
- 31:27Heidi: someone's
- 31:28Heidi: gotta
- 31:28Heidi: go
- 31:28Heidi: first.
- 31:29Heidi: Yeah.
- 31:29Heidi: And
- 31:30Heidi: so
- 31:30Heidi: she
- 31:30Heidi: flipped
- 31:31Heidi: that
- 31:31Heidi: switch
- 31:32Heidi: of
- 31:32Heidi: being
- 31:32Heidi: this
- 31:32Heidi: negative
- 31:33Heidi: Nelly
- 31:33Heidi: into
- 31:34Heidi: she's
- 31:34Heidi: Pioneer,
- 31:35Heidi: Pam,
- 31:36Heidi: and
- 31:36Heidi: I'm
- 31:36Heidi: gonna
- 31:36Heidi: be
- 31:36Heidi: the
- 31:36Heidi: welcoming
- 31:37Heidi: committee.
- 31:38Heidi: So
- 31:38Heidi: it
- 31:38Heidi: shows
- 31:39Heidi: how
- 31:40Heidi: powerful
- 31:41Heidi: our
- 31:42Heidi: remote
- 31:43Heidi: control
- 31:43Heidi: of
- 31:43Heidi: our
- 31:43Heidi: own
- 31:44Heidi: mind
- 31:44Heidi: is,
- 31:45Heidi: just
- 31:46Heidi: by
- 31:46Heidi: saying,
- 31:46Heidi: I
- 31:46Heidi: guess
- 31:47Heidi: it,
- 31:47Heidi: it's
- 31:47Heidi: my
- 31:47Heidi: turn.
- 31:48Doris: Wow.
- 31:49Doris: That's
- 31:50Doris: an
- 31:50Doris: incredible
- 31:50Doris: story.
- 31:51Doris: And
- 31:51Doris: I
- 31:51Doris: think
- 31:52Doris: there
- 31:52Doris: are
- 31:52Doris: similar
- 31:52Doris: stories
- 31:53Doris: with
- 31:53Doris: the
- 31:53Doris: fires
- 31:53Doris: that
- 31:54Doris: were
- 31:54Doris: in
- 31:54Doris: California
- 31:55Doris: too,
- 31:55Doris: and
- 31:55Doris: I
- 31:55Doris: know
- 31:55Doris: they've
- 31:56Doris: done
- 31:56Doris: a
- 31:56Doris: lot
- 31:56Doris: of
- 31:57Doris: recent
- 31:57Doris: stories
- 31:58Doris: on
- 31:59Doris: the
- 31:59Doris: one
- 31:59Doris: year
- 32:00Doris: anniversary
- 32:01Doris: of
- 32:01Doris: the
- 32:01Doris: fires
- 32:01Doris: in
- 32:02Doris: California,
- 32:02Doris: and
- 32:03Doris: they're
- 32:04Doris: showing
- 32:04Doris: a
- 32:04Doris: lot
- 32:05Doris: of
- 32:05Doris: resilience
- 32:05Doris: there
- 32:06Doris: as
- 32:06Doris: well.
- 32:06Doris: And
- 32:07Doris: they're
- 32:07Doris: interviewing
- 32:07Doris: the
- 32:07Doris: people
- 32:08Doris: that
- 32:08Doris: thought
- 32:08Doris: that
- 32:09Doris: maybe
- 32:09Doris: they
- 32:09Doris: would
- 32:09Doris: never
- 32:10Doris: come
- 32:10Doris: back.
- 32:11Doris: And
- 32:11Doris: they're
- 32:11Doris: starting
- 32:11Doris: to
- 32:12Doris: build,
- 32:13Doris: they're
- 32:13Doris: starting
- 32:13Doris: to
- 32:13Doris: build
- 32:13Doris: their
- 32:14Doris: homes
- 32:14Doris: and
- 32:15Doris: businesses
- 32:16Doris: and
- 32:17Doris: you
- 32:17Doris: see
- 32:17Doris: that
- 32:17Doris: in
- 32:18Doris: so
- 32:18Doris: many
- 32:18Doris: communities
- 32:19Doris: that
- 32:19Doris: have
- 32:19Doris: been
- 32:19Doris: devastated
- 32:20Doris: by
- 32:20Doris: hurricanes
- 32:21Doris: and
- 32:22Doris: fires
- 32:22Doris: and
- 32:23Doris: tornadoes
- 32:24Doris: and
- 32:24Doris: even
- 32:25Doris: riots.
- 32:26Doris: And
- 32:26Doris: we're
- 32:26Doris: it's
- 32:27Doris: the
- 32:27Doris: people
- 32:27Doris: that
- 32:27Doris: have
- 32:27Doris: done
- 32:28Doris: the
- 32:28Doris: damage
- 32:29Doris: and
- 32:29Doris: the
- 32:29Doris: overcoming.
- 32:30Doris: But
- 32:30Doris: I
- 32:30Doris: think.
- 32:31Doris: It's
- 32:31Doris: so
- 32:31Doris: important,
- 32:32Doris: like
- 32:32Doris: you
- 32:32Doris: said,
- 32:32Doris: internally,
- 32:33Doris: we
- 32:33Doris: need
- 32:34Doris: to
- 32:34Doris: flip
- 32:34Doris: that
- 32:34Doris: switch
- 32:35Doris: and
- 32:35Doris: we
- 32:36Doris: need
- 32:36Doris: to,
- 32:36Doris: and
- 32:37Doris: it's
- 32:37Doris: not
- 32:37Doris: easy.
- 32:38Doris: Sometimes
- 32:38Doris: it's,
- 32:39Doris: you
- 32:39Doris: just
- 32:40Doris: have
- 32:40Doris: to
- 32:40Doris: do
- 32:41Doris: it
- 32:41Doris: even
- 32:42Doris: though
- 32:42Doris: it's
- 32:42Doris: uncomfortable.
- 32:44Doris: And
- 32:44Doris: this
- 32:44Doris: is
- 32:44Doris: also
- 32:45Doris: where
- 32:45Doris: that
- 32:45Doris: accountability
- 32:46Doris: partner,
- 32:46Doris: that
- 32:46Doris: community
- 32:47Doris: comes
- 32:48Doris: in
- 32:48Doris: to
- 32:48Doris: support
- 32:49Doris: you.
- 32:49Doris: And
- 32:49Doris: when
- 32:49Doris: you're
- 32:50Doris: very,
- 32:50Doris: very
- 32:50Doris: scared
- 32:52Doris: to
- 32:52Doris: what,
- 32:52Doris: we'll
- 32:53Doris: use
- 32:53Doris: that,
- 32:53Doris: the
- 32:53Doris: reign
- 32:54Doris: analogy
- 32:55Doris: again,
- 32:56Doris: to
- 32:56Doris: get
- 32:56Doris: up
- 32:56Doris: on
- 32:57Doris: that
- 32:57Doris: horse
- 32:57Doris: and
- 32:57Doris: ride
- 32:58Doris: again.
- 32:58Doris: If
- 32:59Doris: you
- 32:59Doris: have
- 32:59Doris: a
- 32:59Doris: community
- 33:00Doris: around
- 33:00Doris: you,
- 33:00Doris: getting
- 33:01Doris: you
- 33:01Doris: up
- 33:01Doris: on
- 33:01Doris: that
- 33:01Doris: horse
- 33:02Doris: and
- 33:02Doris: putting
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- 38:32Heidi: based
- 38:33Heidi: on
- 38:33Heidi: that.
- 38:34Heidi: So
- 38:34Heidi: there
- 38:35Heidi: will
- 38:35Heidi: be
- 38:35Heidi: another
- 38:35Heidi: book,
- 38:36Heidi: but
- 38:36Heidi: it's
- 38:36Heidi: gonna
- 38:36Heidi: be
- 38:37Heidi: based
- 38:37Heidi: on
- 38:38Heidi: probably
- 38:39Heidi: season
- 38:39Heidi: two
- 38:39Heidi: and
- 38:40Heidi: three
- 38:40Heidi: of
- 38:41Heidi: the
- 38:41Heidi: Lookup
- 38:41Heidi: Mindset
- 38:41Heidi: Podcast
- 38:42Heidi: interviews.
- 38:43Doris: That's
- 38:44Doris: amazing.
- 38:44Doris: Okay,
- 38:45Doris: now
- 38:45Doris: I'm
- 38:45Doris: gonna,
- 38:45Doris: I'm
- 38:45Doris: gonna
- 38:45Doris: ask
- 38:46Doris: a
- 38:46Doris: selfish
- 38:46Doris: question
- 38:47Doris: because
- 38:47Doris: I
- 38:48Doris: am
- 38:48Doris: also
- 38:48Doris: in
- 38:49Doris: the
- 38:49Doris: process
- 38:49Doris: of
- 38:49Doris: writing
- 38:49Doris: a
- 38:50Doris: book,
- 38:50Doris: and
- 38:51Doris: I
- 38:51Doris: think
- 38:51Doris: I've
- 38:52Doris: done,
- 38:52Doris: I'm
- 38:52Doris: doing
- 38:52Doris: the
- 38:52Doris: reverse
- 38:53Doris: engineering,
- 38:53Doris: so
- 38:53Doris: I'm
- 38:54Doris: doing
- 38:54Doris: what
- 38:54Doris: you're
- 38:54Doris: doing
- 38:55Doris: on
- 38:55Doris: your
- 38:55Doris: second
- 38:56Doris: book
- 38:56Doris: for
- 38:57Doris: my
- 38:57Doris: first
- 38:57Doris: book
- 38:58Doris: and
- 38:59Doris: finding
- 38:59Doris: people
- 38:59Doris: with
- 39:00Doris: stories.
- 39:00Doris: And
- 39:01Doris: my
- 39:01Doris: book
- 39:01Doris: will
- 39:01Doris: also
- 39:02Doris: be
- 39:02Doris: about
- 39:02Doris: mindset.
- 39:03Doris: And
- 39:04Doris: I'm
- 39:04Doris: at
- 39:04Doris: the
- 39:04Doris: very,
- 39:05Doris: it's
- 39:05Doris: in
- 39:05Doris: its
- 39:05Doris: infancy.
- 39:06Doris: I'm
- 39:06Doris: still
- 39:07Doris: trying
- 39:07Doris: to
- 39:07Doris: figure
- 39:07Doris: out
- 39:07Doris: exactly
- 39:08Doris: what
- 39:08Doris: it's
- 39:08Doris: gonna
- 39:08Doris: look
- 39:09Doris: like,
- 39:09Doris: what
- 39:09Doris: the
- 39:09Doris: chapters
- 39:09Doris: will
- 39:10Doris: look
- 39:10Doris: like.
- 39:11Doris: But
- 39:11Doris: the
- 39:11Doris: bottom
- 39:11Doris: line
- 39:12Doris: is
- 39:12Doris: that
- 39:12Doris: I
- 39:12Doris: want
- 39:13Doris: the
- 39:13Doris: stories
- 39:13Doris: and
- 39:13Doris: the
- 39:14Doris: interviews
- 39:14Doris: that
- 39:14Doris: I
- 39:14Doris: have.
- 39:15Doris: I
- 39:15Doris: want
- 39:15Doris: people
- 39:15Doris: to
- 39:16Doris: walk
- 39:16Doris: away
- 39:16Doris: with
- 39:16Doris: some
- 39:17Doris: thoughts
- 39:17Doris: on
- 39:17Doris: how
- 39:17Doris: they
- 39:17Doris: can
- 39:18Doris: take
- 39:18Doris: that
- 39:18Doris: story
- 39:19Doris: and
- 39:19Doris: where
- 39:19Doris: they
- 39:19Doris: see
- 39:19Doris: themselves
- 39:20Doris: in
- 39:20Doris: the
- 39:20Doris: story.
- 39:21Doris: Even
- 39:21Doris: if
- 39:21Doris: a
- 39:22Doris: tree
- 39:22Doris: limb
- 39:22Doris: doesn't
- 39:22Doris: fall
- 39:22Doris: on
- 39:22Doris: their
- 39:23Doris: heads,
- 39:23Doris: they
- 39:23Doris: can
- 39:23Doris: certainly
- 39:24Doris: see
- 39:24Doris: themselves
- 39:24Doris: in
- 39:25Doris: the
- 39:25Doris: story
- 39:26Doris: of
- 39:26Doris: something
- 39:27Doris: terrible
- 39:27Doris: happened
- 39:28Doris: and
- 39:28Doris: how
- 39:28Doris: can
- 39:28Doris: I
- 39:28Doris: overcome
- 39:29Doris: that?
- 39:29Doris: How
- 39:29Doris: can
- 39:29Doris: I
- 39:30Doris: overcome
- 39:30Doris: this?
- 39:31Doris: And
- 39:32Doris: so
- 39:32Doris: selfishly,
- 39:33Doris: what
- 39:33Doris: does
- 39:33Doris: the
- 39:33Doris: writing
- 39:33Doris: process
- 39:35Doris: look
- 39:35Doris: like,
- 39:35Doris: especially
- 39:36Doris: between
- 39:36Doris: the
- 39:36Doris: first
- 39:36Doris: one
- 39:37Doris: and
- 39:37Doris: the
- 39:37Doris: second
- 39:37Doris: one?
- 39:38Doris: And
- 39:38Doris: I
- 39:38Doris: think
- 39:38Doris: you
- 39:38Doris: just
- 39:39Doris: gave
- 39:39Doris: us
- 39:39Doris: a
- 39:39Doris: little
- 39:39Doris: bit
- 39:39Doris: of
- 39:39Doris: a
- 39:39Doris: hint
- 39:40Doris: that
- 39:40Doris: you're
- 39:40Doris: gonna
- 39:40Doris: have
- 39:41Doris: AI
- 39:41Doris: transcribe
- 39:42Doris: and
- 39:42Doris: that
- 39:42Doris: you'll
- 39:43Doris: wordsmith
- 39:43Doris: and
- 39:43Doris: you'll
- 39:43Doris: put
- 39:44Doris: it
- 39:44Doris: together.
- 39:44Doris: But
- 39:45Doris: if
- 39:45Doris: you
- 39:45Doris: can
- 39:45Doris: share
- 39:46Doris: a
- 39:46Doris: little,
- 39:46Doris: a
- 39:46Doris: few
- 39:46Doris: secrets
- 39:47Doris: maybe
- 39:47Doris: to
- 39:47Doris: help
- 39:48Doris: me
- 39:48Doris: and
- 39:48Doris: other
- 39:48Doris: people
- 39:48Doris: out
- 39:49Doris: there
- 39:49Doris: that
- 39:49Doris: are
- 39:50Doris: budding
- 39:50Doris: authors
- 39:51Doris: that
- 39:51Doris: wanna
- 39:51Doris: write
- 39:52Doris: a
- 39:52Doris: nonfiction
- 39:52Doris: book,
- 39:53Doris: what
- 39:53Doris: are
- 39:53Doris: some
- 39:53Doris: thoughts
- 39:54Doris: and
- 39:54Doris: suggestions
- 39:55Doris: that
- 39:55Doris: you
- 39:55Doris: could
- 39:55Doris: give
- 39:55Doris: us
- 39:57Doris: on
- 39:57Doris: helping
- 39:57Doris: put
- 39:58Doris: together
- 39:59Doris: a
- 39:59Doris: bestseller,
- 40:00Heidi: short
- 40:01Heidi: chapters?
- 40:02Heidi: No
- 40:03Heidi: one
- 40:03Heidi: has
- 40:03Heidi: time
- 40:04Heidi: to
- 40:05Heidi: read
- 40:05Heidi: a
- 40:05Heidi: 30
- 40:05Heidi: page
- 40:06Heidi: chapter.
- 40:06Heidi: Keep
- 40:07Heidi: them
- 40:07Heidi: to
- 40:07Heidi: four
- 40:07Heidi: to
- 40:07Heidi: five
- 40:08Heidi: pages
- 40:08Heidi: so
- 40:08Heidi: that
- 40:09Heidi: they
- 40:09Heidi: can
- 40:11Heidi: jump
- 40:11Heidi: in
- 40:11Heidi: where
- 40:12Heidi: they
- 40:12Heidi: left
- 40:12Heidi: off
- 40:13Heidi: and
- 40:13Heidi: not
- 40:13Heidi: fall
- 40:14Heidi: asleep
- 40:14Heidi: in
- 40:14Heidi: the
- 40:14Heidi: middle
- 40:15Heidi: of
- 40:15Heidi: the
- 40:15Heidi: chapter.
- 40:16Doris: You
- 40:16Doris: don't
- 40:16Doris: want
- 40:16Doris: people
- 40:17Doris: to
- 40:17Doris: fall
- 40:17Doris: asleep.
- 40:18Doris: Yeah.
- 40:18Doris: you
- 40:18Doris: don't
- 40:18Doris: want
- 40:18Doris: people
- 40:18Doris: to
- 40:19Doris: use
- 40:19Doris: your
- 40:19Doris: book
- 40:19Doris: to
- 40:19Doris: help
- 40:19Doris: them
- 40:20Doris: fall
- 40:20Doris: asleep.
- 40:20Doris: That's
- 40:20Doris: not
- 40:21Doris: a
- 40:21Doris: good
- 40:21Doris: idea.
- 40:22Heidi: You
- 40:22Heidi: also
- 40:23Heidi: don't
- 40:23Heidi: need
- 40:23Heidi: to
- 40:23Heidi: write
- 40:24Heidi: a
- 40:24Heidi: book
- 40:24Heidi: in
- 40:24Heidi: a
- 40:24Heidi: chronological
- 40:25Heidi: fashion.
- 40:26Heidi: Mm-hmm.
- 40:26Heidi: You
- 40:26Heidi: don't
- 40:26Heidi: need
- 40:27Heidi: to
- 40:28Heidi: even
- 40:28Heidi: write
- 40:29Heidi: it
- 40:29Heidi: in
- 40:29Heidi: a
- 40:29Heidi: way
- 40:29Heidi: that
- 40:29Heidi: they
- 40:30Heidi: have
- 40:30Heidi: to
- 40:31Heidi: read
- 40:31Heidi: it
- 40:32Heidi: from
- 40:32Heidi: chapter
- 40:32Heidi: one
- 40:33Heidi: to
- 40:33Heidi: chapter
- 40:34Heidi: 20.
- 40:34Heidi: You
- 40:34Heidi: could
- 40:35Heidi: make
- 40:35Heidi: it
- 40:35Heidi: so
- 40:35Heidi: they
- 40:35Heidi: could
- 40:35Heidi: open
- 40:36Heidi: it
- 40:36Heidi: up
- 40:36Heidi: anywhere
- 40:37Heidi: and
- 40:38Heidi: get
- 40:38Heidi: that
- 40:39Heidi: daily
- 40:39Heidi: dose
- 40:40Heidi: of
- 40:40Heidi: mindset
- 40:41Heidi: wisdom.
- 40:42Heidi: my
- 40:43Heidi: first
- 40:43Heidi: three
- 40:43Heidi: books
- 40:43Heidi: were
- 40:44Heidi: nonfiction
- 40:45Heidi: and
- 40:45Heidi: memoir
- 40:45Heidi: based
- 40:46Heidi: off
- 40:46Heidi: of
- 40:46Heidi: my
- 40:46Heidi: life,
- 40:47Heidi: and
- 40:47Heidi: those
- 40:47Heidi: were
- 40:47Heidi: based
- 40:48Heidi: off
- 40:48Heidi: of
- 40:48Heidi: journal
- 40:48Heidi: entries.
- 40:50Heidi: The
- 40:50Heidi: fourth
- 40:51Heidi: book
- 40:51Heidi: that
- 40:51Heidi: I
- 40:51Heidi: talked
- 40:51Heidi: about,
- 40:51Heidi: I
- 40:51Heidi: interviewed
- 40:52Heidi: other
- 40:52Heidi: people's
- 40:53Heidi: stories.
- 40:53Heidi: So
- 40:53Heidi: it
- 40:53Heidi: basically
- 40:54Heidi: was
- 40:54Heidi: leveling
- 40:54Heidi: up.
- 40:55Heidi: And
- 40:55Heidi: so
- 40:55Heidi: part
- 40:56Heidi: of
- 40:56Heidi: my
- 40:56Heidi: writing
- 40:56Heidi: process
- 40:57Heidi: is
- 40:58Heidi: that
- 40:58Heidi: the
- 40:58Heidi: goal
- 40:59Heidi: is
- 41:00Heidi: that
- 41:00Heidi: one,
- 41:01Heidi: that
- 41:01Heidi: it
- 41:01Heidi: inspires
- 41:02Heidi: others,
- 41:03Heidi: but
- 41:03Heidi: that
- 41:03Heidi: the
- 41:03Heidi: owner
- 41:04Heidi: of
- 41:04Heidi: that
- 41:04Heidi: story,
- 41:05Heidi: the
- 41:05Heidi: person
- 41:05Heidi: that
- 41:05Heidi: went
- 41:05Heidi: through
- 41:06Heidi: it,
- 41:06Heidi: or
- 41:06Heidi: the
- 41:06Heidi: family
- 41:06Heidi: that
- 41:06Heidi: went
- 41:06Heidi: through
- 41:07Heidi: it,
- 41:07Heidi: that
- 41:07Heidi: they
- 41:07Heidi: also
- 41:08Heidi: feel
- 41:08Heidi: proud
- 41:09Heidi: of
- 41:09Heidi: it
- 41:09Heidi: and
- 41:09Heidi: that
- 41:09Heidi: it,
- 41:10Heidi: that
- 41:10Heidi: I
- 41:10Heidi: penned
- 41:11Heidi: it
- 41:11Heidi: and
- 41:11Heidi: did
- 41:11Heidi: it
- 41:12Heidi: justice.
- 41:12Heidi: a
- 41:12Heidi: part
- 41:13Heidi: of
- 41:13Heidi: the
- 41:13Heidi: writing
- 41:14Heidi: process
- 41:14Heidi: is
- 41:15Heidi: trying
- 41:16Heidi: to
- 41:16Heidi: get
- 41:16Heidi: that
- 41:16Heidi: essence
- 41:17Heidi: out
- 41:17Heidi: of
- 41:17Heidi: someone
- 41:17Heidi: else,
- 41:18Heidi: whether
- 41:19Heidi: that's
- 41:19Heidi: interview
- 41:19Heidi: style,
- 41:20Heidi: then
- 41:20Heidi: I
- 41:21Heidi: pen
- 41:21Heidi: it,
- 41:21Heidi: or
- 41:22Heidi: if
- 41:22Heidi: it's
- 41:22Heidi: interview
- 41:22Heidi: styled
- 41:23Heidi: and
- 41:24Heidi: AI
- 41:24Heidi: transcribes
- 41:24Heidi: it,
- 41:25Heidi: then
- 41:25Heidi: I
- 41:25Heidi: amend
- 41:26Heidi: it
- 41:26Heidi: to
- 41:27Heidi: more
- 41:27Heidi: hide
- 41:27Heidi: iss,
- 41:29Heidi: than
- 41:30Heidi: what
- 41:30Heidi: naturally
- 41:31Heidi: came.
- 41:31Heidi: And
- 41:32Heidi: then
- 41:32Heidi: the
- 41:32Heidi: last
- 41:32Heidi: part
- 41:33Heidi: is
- 41:33Heidi: the
- 41:34Heidi: approval
- 41:35Heidi: from
- 41:36Heidi: the
- 41:36Heidi: person
- 41:37Heidi: that
- 41:38Heidi: shared
- 41:38Heidi: the
- 41:38Heidi: story.
- 41:39Heidi: Sometimes
- 41:40Heidi: they,
- 41:42Heidi: once
- 41:42Heidi: they
- 41:42Heidi: see
- 41:43Heidi: it
- 41:43Heidi: in
- 41:43Heidi: writing.
- 41:44Heidi: They
- 41:44Heidi: want
- 41:45Heidi: to
- 41:45Heidi: make
- 41:46Heidi: something
- 41:46Heidi: bolder
- 41:47Heidi: or
- 41:47Heidi: maybe
- 41:47Heidi: soften
- 41:48Heidi: something
- 41:49Heidi: or
- 41:49Heidi: emphasize
- 41:50Heidi: something
- 41:50Heidi: else.
- 41:51Heidi: But
- 41:51Heidi: I
- 41:51Heidi: want
- 41:51Heidi: them
- 41:52Heidi: to
- 41:52Heidi: make
- 41:53Heidi: sure
- 41:53Heidi: that
- 41:53Heidi: they
- 41:53Heidi: feel
- 41:53Heidi: proud
- 41:54Heidi: about
- 41:54Heidi: what
- 41:54Heidi: that
- 41:55Heidi: chapter
- 41:55Heidi: was.
- 41:55Heidi: and
- 41:55Heidi: that
- 41:56Heidi: was
- 41:56Heidi: actually
- 41:56Heidi: the
- 41:56Heidi: most
- 41:57Heidi: nerve
- 41:57Heidi: wracking
- 41:57Heidi: part
- 41:58Heidi: of
- 41:58Heidi: the
- 41:58Heidi: writing
- 41:58Heidi: process
- 41:59Heidi: was
- 41:59Heidi: pressing
- 42:00Heidi: send
- 42:01Heidi: on
- 42:01Heidi: a
- 42:01Heidi: chapter
- 42:02Heidi: that
- 42:02Heidi: I
- 42:02Heidi: wrote
- 42:02Heidi: for
- 42:02Heidi: someone
- 42:03Heidi: else.
- 42:03Heidi: Mm-hmm.
- 42:03Heidi: Because
- 42:04Heidi: I
- 42:04Heidi: was
- 42:04Heidi: fearful
- 42:06Heidi: on
- 42:06Heidi: the
- 42:06Heidi: first
- 42:06Heidi: one
- 42:07Heidi: on
- 42:07Heidi: the
- 42:07Heidi: 30th,
- 42:07Heidi: one
- 42:08Heidi: the
- 42:08Heidi: same.
- 42:09Heidi: Still
- 42:09Heidi: fearful
- 42:10Heidi: that
- 42:10Heidi: person
- 42:10Heidi: was
- 42:10Heidi: gonna
- 42:11Heidi: say,
- 42:11Heidi: this
- 42:11Heidi: is
- 42:13Heidi: crud,
- 42:14Heidi: and,
- 42:16Heidi: or
- 42:16Heidi: maybe
- 42:17Heidi: this
- 42:17Heidi: is
- 42:17Heidi: not
- 42:17Heidi: what
- 42:17Heidi: I
- 42:17Heidi: said.
- 42:18Heidi: Yeah.
- 42:19Heidi: Or
- 42:20Heidi: did
- 42:20Heidi: that
- 42:21Heidi: ever
- 42:21Heidi: happen?
- 42:22Heidi: no
- 42:22Heidi: one
- 42:23Heidi: ever
- 42:23Heidi: said
- 42:23Heidi: that.
- 42:24Heidi: That's
- 42:24Heidi: what
- 42:25Heidi: I
- 42:25Heidi: was
- 42:25Heidi: fearful
- 42:25Heidi: of.
- 42:27Heidi: But
- 42:27Heidi: what
- 42:28Heidi: was
- 42:28Heidi: really
- 42:28Heidi: interesting,
- 42:29Heidi: I
- 42:29Heidi: gave
- 42:30Heidi: everyone
- 42:30Heidi: the
- 42:30Heidi: opportunity
- 42:31Heidi: to
- 42:31Heidi: use
- 42:31Heidi: their
- 42:31Heidi: real
- 42:32Heidi: name,
- 42:32Heidi: have
- 42:33Heidi: a
- 42:33Heidi: fake
- 42:33Heidi: name,
- 42:34Heidi: and
- 42:35Heidi: at
- 42:35Heidi: the
- 42:35Heidi: 11th
- 42:36Heidi: hour.
- 42:38Heidi: Just
- 42:38Heidi: like
- 42:38Heidi: when
- 42:38Heidi: I
- 42:39Heidi: launched
- 42:39Heidi: my
- 42:39Heidi: first
- 42:40Heidi: memoir,
- 42:40Heidi: I
- 42:40Heidi: said,
- 42:41Heidi: oh
- 42:41Heidi: my
- 42:41Heidi: gosh,
- 42:42Heidi: did
- 42:42Heidi: I
- 42:42Heidi: just
- 42:42Heidi: make
- 42:42Heidi: a
- 42:42Heidi: mistake?
- 42:43Heidi: I
- 42:43Heidi: just
- 42:44Heidi: am
- 42:44Heidi: about
- 42:44Heidi: to
- 42:44Heidi: get
- 42:44Heidi: naked
- 42:45Heidi: in
- 42:45Heidi: front
- 42:45Heidi: of
- 42:46Heidi: a
- 42:46Heidi: book
- 42:47Heidi: club
- 42:47Heidi: in
- 42:48Heidi: Juno,
- 42:49Heidi: Alaska.
- 42:50Heidi: I'm
- 42:50Heidi: publishing
- 42:51Heidi: this
- 42:51Heidi: about
- 42:51Heidi: my
- 42:51Heidi: life.
- 42:52Heidi: It's
- 42:52Heidi: like
- 42:52Heidi: airing
- 42:53Heidi: your
- 42:53Heidi: dirty
- 42:53Heidi: laundry.
- 42:53Heidi: Yeah.
- 42:54Heidi: But
- 42:54Heidi: now
- 42:54Heidi: I
- 42:54Heidi: have
- 42:55Heidi: to
- 42:55Heidi: put,
- 42:55Heidi: myself
- 42:56Heidi: in
- 42:56Heidi: their
- 42:56Heidi: shoes.
- 42:57Heidi: They
- 42:57Heidi: didn't
- 42:58Heidi: choose
- 42:58Heidi: necessarily
- 42:59Heidi: to
- 42:59Heidi: be
- 42:59Heidi: an
- 43:00Heidi: author,
- 43:00Heidi: but
- 43:00Heidi: they're
- 43:00Heidi: sharing
- 43:01Heidi: their
- 43:01Heidi: story.
- 43:01Heidi: Mm-hmm.
- 43:02Heidi: And
- 43:02Heidi: them,
- 43:02Heidi: that's
- 43:03Heidi: being
- 43:03Heidi: very
- 43:03Heidi: vulnerable
- 43:04Heidi: for
- 43:04Heidi: them.
- 43:04Heidi: And
- 43:05Heidi: I
- 43:05Heidi: had
- 43:05Heidi: one
- 43:05Heidi: contributor
- 43:06Heidi: that
- 43:06Heidi: said,
- 43:07Heidi: did
- 43:07Heidi: you
- 43:07Heidi: use
- 43:08Heidi: my
- 43:08Heidi: real
- 43:08Heidi: name?
- 43:08Heidi: I
- 43:08Heidi: said,
- 43:09Heidi: yes,
- 43:09Heidi: you
- 43:09Heidi: agreed
- 43:09Heidi: to
- 43:09Heidi: that.
- 43:10Heidi: And
- 43:10Heidi: I
- 43:11Heidi: said,
- 43:11Heidi: okay.
- 43:12Heidi: why
- 43:12Heidi: did
- 43:13Heidi: you
- 43:13Heidi: originally
- 43:14Heidi: want
- 43:14Heidi: to
- 43:15Heidi: share
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- 43:16Heidi: story?
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- 43:22Heidi: shocking,
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- 43:23Heidi: most
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- 43:37Heidi: others.
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- 43:38Heidi: sharing
- 43:38Heidi: that
- 43:39Heidi: story.
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- 43:44Doris: my
- 43:44Doris: weekly
- 43:45Doris: blogs
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- 45:25Doris: feedback.
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- 45:35Heidi: next?
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- 45:35Heidi: podcast
- 45:36Heidi: launches
- 45:36Heidi: in
- 45:37Heidi: February
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- 45:38Heidi: 2026
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- 45:40Heidi: called?
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- 45:41Heidi: lookup
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- 45:47Heidi: I
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- 45:50Heidi: stories.
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- 45:57Heidi: chapter,
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- 46:01Heidi: first
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- 46:03Heidi: whole
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- 46:05Heidi: their
- 46:06Heidi: guests,
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- 46:09Heidi: on
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- 46:10Heidi: them
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- 46:13Heidi: Reader,
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- 46:18Heidi: ending,
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- 46:19Heidi: Mm-hmm.
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- 46:20Heidi: example,
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- 46:22Heidi: when
- 46:23Heidi: we
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- 46:25Heidi: the
- 46:26Heidi: chapter,
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- 46:27Heidi: the
- 46:27Heidi: time
- 46:27Heidi: of
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- 46:29Heidi: had.
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- 46:35Heidi: of
- 46:35Heidi: that
- 46:36Heidi: diagnosis.
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- 46:38Heidi: next
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- 46:44Heidi: podcast.
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- 46:46Heidi: vetting
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- 46:51Heidi: pre-call
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- 46:53Heidi: actual
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- 46:54Heidi: that,
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- 47:19Heidi: heart.
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- 47:24Heidi: Or
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- 48:25Heidi: 80
- 48:25Heidi: years.
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