Latest / Earn Your Leisure / EYL #278 Keys to Marketing, Branding, & Successful Black Women's Views on Relationships with Ericka Pittman
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- 1:54Speaker 4: So in marketing, it's say colts become culture, meaning it's
- 1:58Speaker 4: more efficient to just focus on a small group of
- 2:01Speaker 4: people and have them be evangelist for you, as opposed
- 2:05Speaker 4: to it's just trying to spread yourself too things because
- 2:07Speaker 4: eventually those small group of people will grow osmosis and
- 2:11Speaker 4: will become culture, right like the Twelve Disciples, right like
- 2:15Speaker 4: eventually this becomes two billion Christians around the world.
- 2:19Speaker 2: One percent. I am always about vertical versus horizontal strategy,
- 2:24Speaker 2: So it's like zero in on who your core audience
- 2:27Speaker 2: is a hyper hyper penetrate.
- 2:30Speaker 4: Out All right, guys, welcome back, eyl back home, and
- 2:35Speaker 4: we have a special guest, Erica Pittman, a legend in
- 2:40Speaker 4: the game when it comes to strategy and marketing. Worked
- 2:44Speaker 4: with some EYO alumni that you might be familiar with,
- 2:47Speaker 4: Al Harrington and Viola and a few others. So you
- 2:52Speaker 4: have the title of being the first black female CMO
- 2:57Speaker 4: of a multi state cannabis operator. Yes, is that correct?
- 3:01Speaker 2: That is correct?
- 3:02Speaker 4: Over three decades of experience in music, fashion and cannabis,
- 3:08Speaker 4: and has worked with Aquahydrate Fiola is an author, we
- 3:14Speaker 4: have a book, and just has a lot of great
- 3:17Speaker 4: insight on business. So thank you for joining us.
- 3:22Speaker 5: Yeah, we have an expert here today.
- 3:24Speaker 4: Yeah. It's good to have experts in the field. That's important.
- 3:27Speaker 5: It's very important.
- 3:28Speaker 4: Yeah. So yeah, first and foremost, thank you for joining.
- 3:29Speaker 4: I appreciate it.
- 3:30Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 3:31Speaker 4: All right, So, how did your did well? Did I
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- 3:46Speaker 2: A few others and working with another Voka company, Yoko Vodka, Polo,
- 3:50Speaker 2: the Dawn's Company. So we've got some fun stuff.
- 3:53Speaker 5: We also forgot to mention Brooklyn and Brooklyn. You know,
- 3:55Speaker 5: the audience doesn't like when we don't mention Brooklyn's Shout
- 3:58Speaker 5: out to Brooklyn.
- 3:58Speaker 2: Shout out to Brooklyn, shout b K.
- 4:00Speaker 4: You know that's biggest New York. I saw that's our
- 4:02Speaker 4: biggest market.
- 4:03Speaker 2: Actually, there you go, so you're gonna win.
- 4:05Speaker 5: Now you got the native New York. We got the natives.
- 4:09Speaker 4: I guess East New York, East New York. One of
- 4:16Speaker 4: my favorite rappers is from East New York.
- 4:17Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 4:18Speaker 4: Yeah, well he's not from East New York.
- 4:21Speaker 2: I mean from he's from Brooklyn. Yeah, but your favorite
- 4:23Speaker 2: rapper from he's New York. Yes, the m O B guy,
- 4:27Speaker 2: what's his name?
- 4:28Speaker 3: M O P.
- 4:28Speaker 4: I think they're from browns Brownsville.
- 4:30Speaker 2: Okay, a z As he's from Brownsville.
- 4:34Speaker 4: He's from East New York.
- 4:36Speaker 5: Yeah, he would know.
- 4:38Speaker 2: It's his favorite rapp He was from Brownsville.
- 4:41Speaker 4: Look at that. Okay, Sosa, that was one of my
- 4:43Speaker 4: out there you go that era, that era, that's when
- 4:46Speaker 4: I really fell in love with rap. The firm him
- 4:49Speaker 4: nods but as he always felt was extremely underrated.
- 4:52Speaker 2: So yeah, absolutely, he's still he's still working, he's still
- 4:55Speaker 2: making really great music and great shout out to.
- 5:00Speaker 5: Yeah Ezy.
- 5:01Speaker 4: So let's get into this. So all right, how do
- 5:04Speaker 4: you start your career? Right coming from eastern New York?
- 5:09Speaker 4: What's your break into the industry and which industry do
- 5:11Speaker 4: you start first? Was it music? Fashion, liquor? Like, how
- 5:14Speaker 4: did you actually, you know, get your stride?
- 5:17Speaker 2: Yeah, it's funny. I started in media, so media is
- 5:20Speaker 2: a big, big part of my expertise as well. So
- 5:24Speaker 2: I started at a small internet company a long time ago,
- 5:28Speaker 2: like a long time ago, mid nineties, long time ago.
- 5:32Speaker 2: I've been in a game for a minute. I want
- 5:33Speaker 2: to say it's ninety six myself, which is cool. But yeah,
- 5:38Speaker 2: I worked for a company called iVillage dot com and
- 5:40Speaker 2: they were like the first lifestyle website for women, and
- 5:45Speaker 2: I was the thirty fifth employee. I literally was just
- 5:47Speaker 2: looking for a full time job. I was in college
- 5:49Speaker 2: and wanted to make some money. I was putting myself
- 5:51Speaker 2: through college and wanted to work in advertising. And they
- 5:54Speaker 2: had a job opening and they hired me. An amazing
- 5:57Speaker 2: ride four years was a part of their IPO. Friends
- 6:00Speaker 2: and family, stock did really, really well. They ultimately got
- 6:02Speaker 2: acquired by NBC. So I had experience in that space
- 6:07Speaker 2: very early on in my career, but loved advertising and marketing,
- 6:11Speaker 2: but really needed something that was speaking to me culturally.
- 6:13Speaker 2: And so I don't know if you guys know Keith Clinkscales, Yeah,
- 6:18Speaker 2: heard of them, Yeah, yeah, so he I believe he
- 6:21Speaker 2: created thirty for thirty with ESPN. He's one of the
- 6:25Speaker 2: original pioneers in the cultural so launch five magazine. Keith
- 6:29Speaker 2: started a company called Vanguard Media and they had three magazines, Honey,
- 6:33Speaker 2: Heart and Soul and Savoy and Honey magazine was like
- 6:36Speaker 2: the essence for young Black women, right. Essence at the
- 6:40Speaker 2: time was a little bit more mature and oh, your
- 6:42Speaker 2: man left you and you've got a divorce. I was like,
- 6:44Speaker 2: I'm twenty, I don't know anything about that life. But Honey,
- 6:47Speaker 2: it was fashion forward and makeup and beauty and music
- 6:50Speaker 2: and all the things I loved. And I was like,
- 6:51Speaker 2: you know what, I want to work at this magazine.
- 6:53Speaker 2: So I literally wrote old school, wrote my letters and
- 6:57Speaker 2: my resume, mailed it out, convent them to sponsor a
- 7:02Speaker 2: party at Howard University for Howard Homecoming, and they came
- 7:05Speaker 2: in as a media partner and they loved the work
- 7:07Speaker 2: that I did with my cohorts, DSM's who I'm sure
- 7:11Speaker 2: you guys have heard after you also Sean Combs alumni
- 7:14Speaker 2: and genius in her own right. She and I had
- 7:17Speaker 2: a company and we did an event with Mark Barnes
- 7:20Speaker 2: in DC and got Honey to come down. They loved
- 7:23Speaker 2: it and they were so impressed that they hired me.
- 7:27Speaker 2: And I went into sales for Honey hert AND's own
- 7:29Speaker 2: Savoy for about four or five years. Then ultimately heard
- 7:34Speaker 2: about me a time in they brought me over to
- 7:36Speaker 2: Timing to work at their publications there, and then Glamour
- 7:40Speaker 2: magazine recruited me, and then Vibe recruited me, and then
- 7:43Speaker 2: Giant recruited me. And I was finding this whole pattern
- 7:45Speaker 2: of people seeing excellence in the marketplace and calling me like, hey,
- 7:48Speaker 2: we're here doing great things in the market we'd love
- 7:50Speaker 2: for you to be a part of our team. So
- 7:52Speaker 2: that went on for about fifteen years and ultimately I
- 7:55Speaker 2: burned out, like I can't keep doing sales and teaching
- 7:57Speaker 2: people how to spend money with black people because it
- 7:59Speaker 2: was a real challenge. It was like no black people
- 8:01Speaker 2: buy shampoo, No, we buy cars. And it was constantly
- 8:05Speaker 2: educating people to allocate money to us.
- 8:08Speaker 5: Allocate money inside of the publications and outside of the publications,
- 8:11Speaker 5: what exactly we're doing in sales.
- 8:12Speaker 2: So I was selling advertising within the publication. So when
- 8:16Speaker 2: you go into a magazine and you see a print ad,
- 8:18Speaker 2: I was literally selling those ads. So I would go
- 8:20Speaker 2: to companies, you know, major companies like l'oreel and some
- 8:24Speaker 2: of the others, and they just really didn't understand the
- 8:27Speaker 2: segment of the African American audience in a way that
- 8:30Speaker 2: made sense, and so they felt like they were capturing
- 8:32Speaker 2: us if they ran a commercial on ABC or if
- 8:35Speaker 2: they ran an ad in a white magazine or a
- 8:38Speaker 2: general market magazine. And it's like, you need to be
- 8:40Speaker 2: able to speak to us specifically in order for us
- 8:43Speaker 2: to be loyal to your brands. So that went on
- 8:46Speaker 2: for over a decade of constantly teaching people about, you know,
- 8:50Speaker 2: our value. And I realized that print was a dying
- 8:53Speaker 2: industry at the time, and I was like, I need
- 8:55Speaker 2: to do something different, and I'm really good at marketing.
- 8:58Speaker 2: That's the reason why I'm selling the way that I'm
- 8:59Speaker 2: selling in advertising, And I just started taking a bunch
- 9:03Speaker 2: of informational interviews and I sat down with this woman.
- 9:06Speaker 2: Her name is Ammani Duncan and at the time she
- 9:08Speaker 2: was the CMO of bad Boy Worldwide Entertainment Group now
- 9:13Speaker 2: Comb's Enterprise, but he used to be BBWEG. Now it's
- 9:17Speaker 2: actually it's Comes Global now COMBS Global. And she asked
- 9:22Speaker 2: me what my dream job would look like, and I
- 9:24Speaker 2: just told her what it was. It was this hybrid
- 9:26Speaker 2: between you know, marketing and strategy, but still monetizing paradigm
- 9:30Speaker 2: and monetizing process. And she was like, this sounds exactly
- 9:33Speaker 2: like what we're trying to create for our internal agency,
- 9:36Speaker 2: Blue Flame.
- 9:37Speaker 4: So what does the CMO actually do. There's a chief Marketing.
- 9:40Speaker 2: Office, Chief marketing Office, so what's what's the role of
- 9:43Speaker 2: a CMO. So that's a great question because so many
- 9:46Speaker 2: people are cmos and right, So a CMO is actually
- 9:51Speaker 2: the head leadership of the strategic rollout of the actual brand.
- 10:00Speaker 2: So internally and externally, the CMO works with communications, for instance,
- 10:05Speaker 2: to understand what is our mission and purpose of the company,
- 10:10Speaker 2: and how are we executing that mission and purpose internally
- 10:14Speaker 2: and externally? So how are we educating and informing our employees,
- 10:20Speaker 2: our investors, our stakeholders. Are all of those communications in
- 10:24Speaker 2: line with what we say we stand for and what
- 10:26Speaker 2: we say we believe in. And then to that end,
- 10:29Speaker 2: we are responsible for generating x amount of revenue with
- 10:32Speaker 2: consumer base. So how are we messaging to our target
- 10:35Speaker 2: consumer in a way that speaks to our mission and
- 10:38Speaker 2: our purpose and keeping all keeping track of all of
- 10:41Speaker 2: that constantly and making sure that's a well oiled machine
- 10:44Speaker 2: for as little money as possible.
- 10:46Speaker 5: I think that was going to be my next thing.
- 10:48Speaker 5: There's a budget that you're given and so talk about
- 10:52Speaker 5: that part like you're doing the most with sometimes less
- 10:57Speaker 5: the least.
- 10:57Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, you're making magic happen. So there's there's three
- 11:02Speaker 2: types of impressions. There are owned impressions, which is earned
- 11:07Speaker 2: your leisure. You guys own your impressions, right. Uh. There
- 11:10Speaker 2: are earned impressions, which is publicity pr or as Puff
- 11:16Speaker 2: would always say, guilt by association. And then there's paid
- 11:19Speaker 2: impressions and that's where you're spending money for media dollars. Right.
- 11:23Speaker 2: So there's three ways of generating The first one is owned.
- 11:27Speaker 2: What's that Owned impressions are your own impressions. So however,
- 11:31Speaker 2: many followers you have on social media, however, many followers
- 11:34Speaker 2: you have on YouTube coming to earn your leisure to view,
- 11:37Speaker 2: you know, view your content. Those are your impressions. You
- 11:40Speaker 2: own that organic reach, organic reach, and.
- 11:43Speaker 4: Then what's the second one?
- 11:44Speaker 2: Earned?
- 11:45Speaker 4: What's that?
- 11:45Speaker 2: What's the earned media? Impressions are press If somebody writes
- 11:50Speaker 2: an article, somebody writes an article on a podcast, going
- 11:53Speaker 2: you go on someone else's podcast, So I repost your content,
- 11:56Speaker 2: or I invite you two parts to pay it in
- 12:00Speaker 2: an event or part co branded partnership, and then you
- 12:03Speaker 2: generate impressions based on that, so you go on Good
- 12:05Speaker 2: Morning America tomorrow. Those all earned media impressions, and then
- 12:09Speaker 2: one and the third ones are paid and that's all advertising.
- 12:12Speaker 2: So that's sponsorship, that's media, advertising, billboards, commercials, that's yes,
- 12:18Speaker 2: above the line advertising, So print, out of home, radio
- 12:22Speaker 2: and digital are the four out of home excuse me,
- 12:25Speaker 2: above the line pay media, and then there's below the
- 12:29Speaker 2: line paid media. So you could pay influencers, you could
- 12:33Speaker 2: pay for pot product placement, you could pay for branded
- 12:37Speaker 2: entertainment strategy. It's all sorts of below the line things
- 12:39Speaker 2: you could do to pay for awareness and connectivity.
- 12:43Speaker 5: And you've seen that shift, right because as from when
- 12:47Speaker 5: you started, print was a thing, yes, not so much
- 12:50Speaker 5: a thing anymore. More money needs to go into digital.
- 12:53Speaker 5: How have you navigated that?
- 12:54Speaker 2: You know, it's been it's been great. Because one of
- 12:57Speaker 2: the things that we did early on at Blue Flame,
- 12:59Speaker 2: and while we were so successful but it wasn't uphill
- 13:02Speaker 2: battle back then, is we were a below the line agency.
- 13:06Speaker 2: So we hyper focused on influencer connectivity. We hyper focused
- 13:12Speaker 2: on social media and digital media, which at the time
- 13:16Speaker 2: people were buying Super Bowl commercials and then that was it.
- 13:20Speaker 2: We're going to spend two million dollars on a Super
- 13:22Speaker 2: Bowl commercial, Yeah, we did it. Whereas us, we wanted
- 13:25Speaker 2: to actually take over Twitter and have you know, the
- 13:29Speaker 2: best handles for our brands and connect at a very
- 13:32Speaker 2: organic level, and people just weren't using those strategies back then.
- 13:36Speaker 2: So we had tremendous success in disrupting, disrupting in the
- 13:40Speaker 2: category and in culture, and being an expert at that
- 13:43Speaker 2: obviously fifteen years later is really interesting to see.
- 13:47Speaker 4: So okay, let's talk about these different types of strategies. So,
- 13:52Speaker 4: because I have like a unofficial doctorate degree in marketing,
- 13:56Speaker 4: I know that's right. So I have theories on this,
- 14:01Speaker 4: but I think that the organic way is probably like
- 14:05Speaker 4: ten times more effective than paid marketing, right.
- 14:08Speaker 2: Absolutely more expensive. I mean it's less expensive, it's expensive.
- 14:12Speaker 4: And it's more effective as far as I was always taught,
- 14:15Speaker 4: like you have to run like I don't know exact numbers,
- 14:19Speaker 4: but let's say like five paid ads to convert one
- 14:22Speaker 4: person with organic it might just be two. Two times
- 14:25Speaker 4: somebody actually sees you and then they'll just start to
- 14:28Speaker 4: follow you all those like that's what we've done. We've
- 14:30Speaker 4: never paid for any marketing. It's all been through word
- 14:32Speaker 4: of mouth. Yes, it moves a lot faster and it's
- 14:35Speaker 4: a lot more trustworthy than just seeing constant ads. So,
- 14:40Speaker 4: if you were advising a client, how would you advocate
- 14:46Speaker 4: for them to grow their business effectively in today's world
- 14:50Speaker 4: with dividing those three different things that you just said, Like,
- 14:54Speaker 4: what's the strategy for a small business or just any
- 14:57Speaker 4: size business that's looking to, you know, grow their marketing campaign?
- 15:01Speaker 3: You know.
- 15:01Speaker 2: So that's a really good question, and it's hard to
- 15:03Speaker 2: kind of sum it up in a nutshell because I
- 15:05Speaker 2: think it does depend on nuance. Because you're right, it
- 15:09Speaker 2: is better meaning the stickiness around your connection which your
- 15:13Speaker 2: your consumer is better organically. But if your goal is
- 15:17Speaker 2: to create awareness, right, because there's awareness and then there's affinity.
- 15:22Speaker 2: So awareness is people being familiar with your brand. If
- 15:26Speaker 2: I say earn your Leisure in Bangladesh, do they know
- 15:30Speaker 2: where Earn your Leisure is? Right? That's awareness, right, like
- 15:33Speaker 2: they know who puff Daddy is in Bangladesh, right. But
- 15:37Speaker 2: affinity means they watch the Earn your Leisure podcast, they
- 15:41Speaker 2: come to the you know, to the conferences, they know
- 15:44Speaker 2: you by name and today have that connectivity. So sometimes
- 15:47Speaker 2: organic works best because you're trying to ultimately get to affinity.
- 15:51Speaker 2: But if you're trying to quickly build awareness around your brand,
- 15:55Speaker 2: paid media can be effective. Case in point, people that
- 16:00Speaker 2: have e commerce companies nowadays buy social media ads for conversion.
- 16:06Speaker 2: Right they want to sell their product, they run ig ads.
- 16:09Speaker 2: The more ads they run, the more eyeballs they see,
- 16:12Speaker 2: the more people convert. And they can do that very
- 16:13Speaker 2: quickly because they have a transactional commodity. They're selling makeup
- 16:18Speaker 2: right or water, Whereas you guys are building an intellectual property.
- 16:24Speaker 2: So it's more important for you to build organic connection
- 16:27Speaker 2: because people need to think to understand why you're valuable.
- 16:32Speaker 2: They don't need to do, they need to think. So
- 16:34Speaker 2: it's a different there's a different modality there. So it
- 16:36Speaker 2: really does depend on what your brand is trying to achieve.
- 16:40Speaker 2: But the quick answer is you spend the biggest amount
- 16:46Speaker 2: of your time on earned media. Earned media because people
- 16:55Speaker 2: trust recommendation. So there's a trusted brand and earn your
- 17:01Speaker 2: leisure and if Ian says, go buy Apple, which is
- 17:05Speaker 2: what he always seems to say, you see, I watch your.
- 17:09Speaker 5: Podcast shut out to market mondays.
- 17:12Speaker 2: Market Mondays, Ian says, go by Apple. People are gonna
- 17:15Speaker 2: trust you, guys, and potentially at least go research Apple, right,
- 17:19Speaker 2: So there's an earned that's an earned media impression for
- 17:23Speaker 2: Apple every single time. Ian says that you see the value.
- 17:27Speaker 2: So if you go to earned first, you're gonna not
- 17:31Speaker 2: only get the association with whatever brand value that thing has,
- 17:36Speaker 2: You're going to be introduced to expanded audiences. It's going
- 17:39Speaker 2: to create all these other tentacles for your brand that
- 17:41Speaker 2: will automatically get you owned media impressions. Those are going
- 17:45Speaker 2: to come because you convert people that way, and then
- 17:48Speaker 2: you continue to connect with your owned media community and
- 17:51Speaker 2: once you start building up money, you make investment and
- 17:54Speaker 2: paid and it becomes this nice ecosystem that works for
- 17:57Speaker 2: your brand.
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- 19:21Speaker 4: With you, meaning it's more efficient to just focus on
- 19:26Speaker 4: a small group of people and have them be evangelist
- 19:31Speaker 4: for you, as opposed to just trying to spread yourself
- 19:34Speaker 4: too things because eventually those small group of people will
- 19:38Speaker 4: grow osmosis and will become culture, right like the Twelve Disciples,
- 19:43Speaker 4: right like e Mentionally, this becomes two billion Christians around
- 19:47Speaker 4: the world. What's your thoughts on that, because that's something
- 19:50Speaker 4: that a lot of people don't really do effectively. Either
- 19:53Speaker 4: they come out the gate and just try to just
- 19:55Speaker 4: be all things to our people as opposed to really
- 19:58Speaker 4: honing in and building us very small, tight knit community
- 20:02Speaker 4: and then kind of just.
- 20:03Speaker 2: Growing it like that one million percent. I am always
- 20:06Speaker 2: about vertical versus horizontal strategy, So it's like zero in
- 20:11Speaker 2: on who your core audience is and hyper hyper penetrate
- 20:15Speaker 2: that audience, so get them in every place that they
- 20:20Speaker 2: are passionate. So if your audience works nine to five,
- 20:25Speaker 2: you probably should be targeting them from six to ten,
- 20:29Speaker 2: you know what I mean. But if your audience is
- 20:33Speaker 2: of your audience as creative, you have to figure out
- 20:35Speaker 2: where those key touch points are for them and hyper
- 20:38Speaker 2: focus on those areas because you want to get them
- 20:41Speaker 2: when their mindset is in the thing that they are
- 20:43Speaker 2: passionate about. So it's not necessarily just getting them, it's
- 20:48Speaker 2: connecting with them in emotional moments that makes sense for
- 20:51Speaker 2: them so that they remember.
- 20:52Speaker 5: You when you talked about paid media and you said
- 20:57Speaker 5: you go under the line. And I'm wondering, now, if
- 21:00Speaker 5: you're doing that vertical method, how do you select the
- 21:04Speaker 5: influencers the media Because a lot of times we'll hear
- 21:07Speaker 5: black media, right, but when we think of that, we'll
- 21:10Speaker 5: stick and we'll stay in that familiarity, but we won't
- 21:13Speaker 5: get that notoriety from other brands. So how did you
- 21:16Speaker 5: or how do you navigate through that?
- 21:19Speaker 2: It's again, it's nuanced because you have to prioritize what's
- 21:23Speaker 2: most important to you first, right, So if the segment
- 21:27Speaker 2: of the population is I want eighteen to thirty four
- 21:30Speaker 2: year olds first, right, there's a certain age group that
- 21:34Speaker 2: you want to target. And then you might say, well,
- 21:37Speaker 2: out of the eighteen and thirty four, I think that
- 21:40Speaker 2: our brand skews more male, right, which is a little
- 21:43Speaker 2: unique now with gender fluidity. But you know there's do
- 21:47Speaker 2: you do you target male conversations versus women conversations? All
- 21:51Speaker 2: of those things? And then once you figure that out,
- 21:53Speaker 2: you start to say, is there a factor around race?
- 21:56Speaker 2: Is there a factor around geo targeting?
- 21:58Speaker 5: Like?
- 21:58Speaker 2: Do I target Brooklyn? Like you said, Brooklyn's your number
- 22:01Speaker 2: one audience versus we hoo Los Angeles?
- 22:05Speaker 3: Right?
- 22:06Speaker 2: So you start to zero in on where your bulls
- 22:08Speaker 2: eye is and you spend your the most of your
- 22:11Speaker 2: time in that space, but you also look at the
- 22:15Speaker 2: whole of that that segment as well. Does that make sense?
- 22:19Speaker 2: So you're not trying to get twenty five to fifty
- 22:21Speaker 2: four year olds, You're trying to get as many eighteen
- 22:23Speaker 2: to thirty four year olds as possible, and then within
- 22:26Speaker 2: that you're carving out sub segments to figure out how
- 22:30Speaker 2: to connect with them, and you do that based on
- 22:32Speaker 2: a number of things.
- 22:34Speaker 4: So another thing that's beneficial, going back to the Sarak thing,
- 22:40Speaker 4: and even Bad Boy, it's good to have once we
- 22:44Speaker 4: get it's good to have ambassadors and evangelists. I'd like
- 22:47Speaker 4: to say evangelists better than ambassadors. So Sarak Boys, the
- 22:52Speaker 4: DJ campaign, that was extremely beneficial, thank you. And even
- 22:57Speaker 4: with you know, Bad Boy, the street team nobody really
- 22:59Speaker 4: the street team anymore but Rough Riders. They probably had
- 23:02Speaker 4: one of the best street teams I've ever seen with
- 23:04Speaker 4: all of those bikers and T shirts and you just
- 23:08Speaker 4: it just becomes so you know, energetic that you just
- 23:12Speaker 4: see everybody you know, you just want to be a
- 23:14Speaker 4: part of it. So talk about that as far as
- 23:18Speaker 4: like how important is that when it comes to marketing,
- 23:20Speaker 4: And yeah, I'm sure he was involved in some capacity
- 23:23Speaker 4: with us a rock situation, so maybe you can talk
- 23:25Speaker 4: directly to that.
- 23:25Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean absolutely the thing that's part of the
- 23:30Speaker 2: that's part of that credibility factor that I was talking about, right,
- 23:34Speaker 2: and so figuring out ways to have other people speaking
- 23:39Speaker 2: about your brand or thing on your behalf, that's all
- 23:42Speaker 2: part of it.
- 23:42Speaker 3: And you know.
- 23:45Speaker 2: Bad Boy, they were the Kings of street teaming, right,
- 23:49Speaker 2: the Kings, and I think A lot of that strategy
- 23:53Speaker 2: evolved into some of the things that we did at
- 23:55Speaker 2: Blue Flame for Below the Line. I remember we did
- 23:59Speaker 2: a campaign for I don't know if you guys remember
- 24:02Speaker 2: Puff's album Last Train in Paris with Diddy Dirty Money.
- 24:05Speaker 2: So we were trying to think of all of these
- 24:06Speaker 2: amazing things that we could do. We wanted to take
- 24:09Speaker 2: over Grand Central Station and the four train line and
- 24:12Speaker 2: have a party on the train that landed a grant
- 24:15Speaker 2: like craziness a right, And at the time, it just
- 24:17Speaker 2: wasn't wasn't feasible with the city where we were like,
- 24:20Speaker 2: what could we do that was disruptive, and so we
- 24:23Speaker 2: literally we did this last Camp Street Team campaign where
- 24:27Speaker 2: we took over the train signs, like in the middle
- 24:31Speaker 2: of the night, we posted fake train signs that said
- 24:35Speaker 2: last train to Paris all over the city and it
- 24:38Speaker 2: caused this crazy ruckus and we got all kinds of
- 24:41Speaker 2: news and noteworthiness for it, and we literally had to
- 24:44Speaker 2: take it down by a certain hour before we you know,
- 24:46Speaker 2: got penalized. But it was a real strategy. At like
- 24:49Speaker 2: two o'clock in the morning, we went out and post
- 24:51Speaker 2: no bills, plastered these you know, these campaigns all over
- 24:54Speaker 2: the city and literally by twelve they were gone, like
- 24:58Speaker 2: huh what posters? Everybody was just like what kind of
- 25:01Speaker 2: magic trick was this? And so doing really unique things
- 25:03Speaker 2: like that in the marketplace was a lot of fun,
- 25:06Speaker 2: you know, taking over Times Square, and it's just I
- 25:09Speaker 2: think the flash mob sort of comes from that Street
- 25:14Speaker 2: Team strategy. That Street Team I remember when.
- 25:17Speaker 4: They were trying to find a dude, Cody Mariam.
- 25:21Speaker 5: Yeah, it was Yeah, these postals just kept going up everywhere.
- 25:24Speaker 4: So it was it was like an African dictator. Allegedly
- 25:28Speaker 4: that was like using child soldiers. So it was so
- 25:32Speaker 4: crazy because one day I just woke up and I
- 25:35Speaker 4: just saw like Rihanna had posted like it was like,
- 25:37Speaker 4: you know, they had the Obama hope, yeah posted. They
- 25:41Speaker 4: transformed that into like find Cody twenty eighteen or something
- 25:45Speaker 4: like that. I forgot what year it was, but within
- 25:47Speaker 4: one day, almost every major celebrity had posted it on
- 25:51Speaker 4: their social media and it was just like signs randomly
- 25:55Speaker 4: all over the place.
- 25:56Speaker 2: Amazing.
- 25:57Speaker 4: It is one of the most effective campaigns ever. Nothing
- 26:01Speaker 4: really came of it, but I just still to this
- 26:04Speaker 4: day it was just amazing that so many people was
- 26:08Speaker 4: was really just they didn't even know why they were
- 26:11Speaker 4: posting it. It was just like once one person posted it,
- 26:14Speaker 4: then everybody else started to post it, and then it
- 26:16Speaker 4: just it just went super viral. Did he posted it?
- 26:18Speaker 4: It went super viral? So yeah, I just was always
- 26:22Speaker 4: intrigued with that. But the flash mob, going back to
- 26:24Speaker 4: your thing flash mob situation, I feel like that's kind
- 26:28Speaker 4: of been transitioned now because everything in social media. Yes,
- 26:31Speaker 4: so now it's it's not the same as as it
- 26:35Speaker 4: was previously. In some regards, it's better because now you
- 26:39Speaker 4: can post on social media and then you can get
- 26:42Speaker 4: people from all over the world, but it doesn't have
- 26:44Speaker 4: that same in person effect. Fact.
- 26:48Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, I mean you know, you were talking
- 26:51Speaker 2: ten years ago. So it evolves that the world.
- 26:54Speaker 4: The world changed, the world changes, Like you're not going
- 26:56Speaker 4: to see street teams anymore, yeah.
- 27:00Speaker 5: Unless somebody brings their back.
- 27:01Speaker 2: You know, it's funny. I don't think street teams are over.
- 27:04Speaker 5: I just don't see them.
- 27:05Speaker 2: You don't see it because it's like, how do you
- 27:07Speaker 2: do it differently? Right? Like what's the new edge and
- 27:10Speaker 2: the new because nothing beats face to face touch point communication,
- 27:15Speaker 2: Nothing beats me talking to you about why my brand
- 27:17Speaker 2: is great, right, but do it in a way that
- 27:19Speaker 2: makes sense for me. So I think fundamentally street teams
- 27:22Speaker 2: could still work. It's just the way that they do
- 27:24Speaker 2: them has to change.
- 27:26Speaker 5: Yeah. So even in transition and talking about you on
- 27:28Speaker 5: a professional level, you've gone through different spaces. Right, you
- 27:32Speaker 5: started media, there's a tech component, it's a cannabis component.
- 27:35Speaker 5: How has your approach changed with going through industries?
- 27:42Speaker 6: Do you know?
- 27:42Speaker 2: My approach has not really changed because fundamentally, there's just
- 27:47Speaker 2: a paradigm. Like I just broke down the three types
- 27:51Speaker 2: of media, right, It's it's not rocket science. It really
- 27:56Speaker 2: is just understanding what your brand represents, where you're trying
- 28:01Speaker 2: to take your brand, and who you're speaking to. Because
- 28:04Speaker 2: the rules don't change, the people do. So, like I said,
- 28:08Speaker 2: street teams could still work. They just need to work
- 28:11Speaker 2: differently because people don't interact in the same way they
- 28:14Speaker 2: used to interact. So the same goes for you know,
- 28:17Speaker 2: the strategies, Like I know what works and what doesn't
- 28:20Speaker 2: work in the marketplace. It's just understanding when to use
- 28:23Speaker 2: it and how to use it depending on your audience.
- 28:25Speaker 4: So at one so you were employee for bad Boy, right, yep,
- 28:29Speaker 4: so you left at some point yep, and.
- 28:32Speaker 5: After eight.
- 28:35Speaker 4: Years being promoted, Oh yes, yes, yeah, keep that part,
- 28:38Speaker 4: you become self employed.
- 28:40Speaker 2: No, yes, sort of, yeah, you can say that. I
- 28:43Speaker 2: actually was a project based consultant for a few years
- 28:46Speaker 2: and I had a lot of fun. I worked with
- 28:48Speaker 2: Scott Mills at BET for about thirteen months helping the
- 28:52Speaker 2: team strategize their experience business. So you know the awards
- 28:56Speaker 2: Every year, they have three days leading up to the
- 28:58Speaker 2: awards called the BT Experience. It's like this amazing, consumer driven,
- 29:04Speaker 2: fan based fan zone, and we were thinking about how
- 29:07Speaker 2: we could scale that opportunity and take it global and
- 29:10Speaker 2: do some really unique things pre COVID. So that was
- 29:12Speaker 2: a ton of fun. And then I got recruited by
- 29:15Speaker 2: Al Harrington to come over to Viola and I just
- 29:19Speaker 2: thought this really could be the Soraca cannabis. It was
- 29:22Speaker 2: such an amazing brand, and I'd always wanted to work
- 29:24Speaker 2: in cannabis, even from the time it became legal in Colorado.
- 29:28Speaker 2: I was like, I would love to just move to
- 29:29Speaker 2: Colorado and work on cannabis.
- 29:31Speaker 4: So how it was working in cannabis different from working.
- 29:33Speaker 2: In li You know what's funny is they're not a
- 29:36Speaker 2: ton of major differences in because it's a regulatory industry.
- 29:43Speaker 2: And you know, I always say America is a country
- 29:45Speaker 2: of precedents, right, so we used the Constitution to create
- 29:48Speaker 2: new laws and you know, amendments and all the things.
- 29:51Speaker 2: And when you think about prohibition in this country and
- 29:55Speaker 2: what went on with alcohol and the illegalization of alcohol,
- 29:58Speaker 2: the very same thing are happening in cannabis. So you know,
- 30:02Speaker 2: history is an indicator you can kind of gauge what's
- 30:05Speaker 2: going to happen in cannabis in the next few years.
- 30:07Speaker 5: When you spoke about the BT experience, it's something that
- 30:09Speaker 5: we actually we've been a part of. I wonder how
- 30:12Speaker 5: often are you going to different activations and taking in
- 30:17Speaker 5: the experiences and saying, you know what, this is something
- 30:19Speaker 5: we can add. Is that part of what you're doing
- 30:20Speaker 5: as well? Like I feel like we when we went
- 30:22Speaker 5: to the Super Bowl, it was the first time we
- 30:24Speaker 5: were there as number one, as entrepreneurs and looking at
- 30:28Speaker 5: the things that were taking place and saying this is
- 30:29Speaker 5: something that we can implement. We're going into media rooms
- 30:32Speaker 5: and we're seeing how things are set up and saying,
- 30:34Speaker 5: are these are things that we can Is that something
- 30:36Speaker 5: that you've done throughout your career.
- 30:38Speaker 2: Absolutely absolutely. You know, I have friends that have, you know,
- 30:42Speaker 2: in their wedding process getting married, they start attending other friends,
- 30:46Speaker 2: actively attending other friends' weddings just to see creative things
- 30:49Speaker 2: that other people are doing in their process and how
- 30:51Speaker 2: things flow. Same goes for us in business. You know,
- 30:53Speaker 2: you should be attending as many finance conferences as you can,
- 30:56Speaker 2: as many lifestyle conferences as you can to figure out
- 30:59Speaker 2: what hims are looking for, what's missing, and how you
- 31:02Speaker 2: could do things different and elevate it, you know, for
- 31:05Speaker 2: your own experience, absolutely, yeah.
- 31:07Speaker 4: You joy inspiration from a variety of different things. I
- 31:11Speaker 4: think it's important to join inspiration from things that have
- 31:13Speaker 4: nothing to do what you're doing either. So even you know,
- 31:16Speaker 4: talking about Nipsey Hustle and he was talking about when
- 31:19Speaker 4: he read the book and it talked about one hundred
- 31:22Speaker 4: dollar cheesesteak and Philadelphia and he was, you know, really
- 31:27Speaker 4: impressed by that, and he that's how he started his
- 31:30Speaker 4: Proud to Pay campaign and started selling his mixtape one
- 31:32Speaker 4: hundred dollars. So you would think that a culinary experience
- 31:36Speaker 4: has nothing to do with musical experience, But like I said,
- 31:40Speaker 4: you kind of you can joy inspiration from anywhere, but
- 31:42Speaker 4: it's important to just be aware and see different, you know,
- 31:45Speaker 4: tactics that's being used and to see, okay, how can
- 31:48Speaker 4: you relate it to your industry? But cannabis so Viola,
- 31:52Speaker 4: So what is some of the things that you actually
- 31:54Speaker 4: did for Viola?
- 31:56Speaker 2: So I was the CMO for for Viola, So really
- 32:02Speaker 2: one of the biggest things that I did during my tenure. Oh,
- 32:05Speaker 2: there were a few things. So we were launching in
- 32:08Speaker 2: New States constantly right at the time, and so one
- 32:12Speaker 2: of the things we had done around the All Star
- 32:15Speaker 2: in Chicago, recreational cannabis became legal literally like weeks before
- 32:22Speaker 2: All Stars. So it was a very unique time in Chicago,
- 32:25Speaker 2: to say the least. And so figuring out how to
- 32:27Speaker 2: create brand awareness and brand equity within that market was
- 32:31Speaker 2: a lot of fun, and we had to do it
- 32:32Speaker 2: really quickly because like, cannabis changes every minute, Like there's
- 32:36Speaker 2: some new legislation somewhere in some city about cannabis, right,
- 32:40Speaker 2: So staying on top of that was really important. But
- 32:42Speaker 2: it was challenging for us because it's not federally regulated,
- 32:46Speaker 2: and so how do you create scale around a brand
- 32:50Speaker 2: that has legal nuances on a state by state basis,
- 32:54Speaker 2: So I cannot take product X in Detroit to Nevada
- 32:58Speaker 2: or to New York or to Oregon legally, So how
- 33:02Speaker 2: do I call for the Viola brand consistently no matter
- 33:04Speaker 2: where I am? And for me, I wanted to develop
- 33:09Speaker 2: a platform around what the brand stood for, and so
- 33:13Speaker 2: it was about people, purpose and plans, right, that was
- 33:17Speaker 2: what Viola's That's what Viola is about, and it's very
- 33:20Speaker 2: very purpose driven brand. And so we did a lot
- 33:22Speaker 2: of social equity work in the marketplace. So reacclimating nonviolent
- 33:27Speaker 2: offenders that were previously convicted for cannabis related crimes, re
- 33:32Speaker 2: entering them into society was a huge part of our initiative,
- 33:34Speaker 2: which is a national communication. We can talk about that
- 33:37Speaker 2: to the cows come home, right, that's not illegal. But
- 33:39Speaker 2: at the same time, we're getting people to know what
- 33:41Speaker 2: the Viola brand is, what the Viola brand stands for,
- 33:44Speaker 2: and what the Viola brand is doing to help uplift
- 33:46Speaker 2: its people. So we did a lot of campaigning and
- 33:50Speaker 2: volunteer work and community work around that, and then we
- 33:53Speaker 2: had a ton of lifestyle affinity and some fun cool
- 33:55Speaker 2: stuff that we did at a local level within each market.
- 33:57Speaker 2: So understanding the culture of Detroit, this is the culture
- 34:00Speaker 2: of la and who to align ourselves with. And we
- 34:03Speaker 2: had a lot of fun.
- 34:05Speaker 5: This sounds like you're developing like leadership teams and policies, right,
- 34:10Speaker 5: Like you're it's inside of this role as CMO, Like
- 34:14Speaker 5: you're organizing and creating policy too, right, this is what
- 34:16Speaker 5: this sounds like.
- 34:17Speaker 2: Absolutely, we're working with working with the policy legislators, definitely,
- 34:22Speaker 2: And it really is about helping people understand the audience
- 34:27Speaker 2: that we serve, the brand that we represent, and then
- 34:30Speaker 2: how we need to leverage opportunities for that audience, if
- 34:34Speaker 2: that makes sense. Right, So if I'm in Detroit, these
- 34:37Speaker 2: are the things that this community needs from Detroit to
- 34:40Speaker 2: be represented properly in the cannabis space and creating programming
- 34:44Speaker 2: that represents that.
- 34:46Speaker 4: So how do you know if you're going to return
- 34:47Speaker 4: on your investment dollars?
- 34:50Speaker 2: Point blank? Period is a number? Yeah, it's a number.
- 34:53Speaker 4: It's hard to try. So it's like, all right, if
- 34:55Speaker 4: I put a billboard in Times Square, right, and it
- 34:57Speaker 4: costs me twenty thousand dollars to put that billboard and
- 34:59Speaker 4: Time squad, I want to promote my album and my
- 35:02Speaker 4: album sells twenty thousand copies the first week. I don't
- 35:06Speaker 4: really know if that billboard helped. It's hard to track that.
- 35:09Speaker 2: You don't know if the billboard had a direct impact.
- 35:12Speaker 2: But you can do things like call to action, you
- 35:14Speaker 2: can do now, you can do QR codes, and so
- 35:17Speaker 2: you can do all sorts of things to track specifically
- 35:20Speaker 2: whether or not there was a conversion. That's called the
- 35:22Speaker 2: conversion you're talking about within that specific initiative. But ultimately,
- 35:26Speaker 2: what you're trying to do is create as many impressions
- 35:29Speaker 2: for as little dollars as possible to get the return
- 35:32Speaker 2: on the revenue. So yeah, there's a lot of tracking
- 35:37Speaker 2: that goes into that.
- 35:38Speaker 5: Yeah, because I always wonder like, if I'm putting I
- 35:41Speaker 5: mean the highest levels, I'm putting a suit bowl ad
- 35:43Speaker 5: and I'm paying five million, what is the data? What
- 35:46Speaker 5: are the analysis that's going to say, all right, this
- 35:49Speaker 5: was worth it?
- 35:49Speaker 3: Right?
- 35:49Speaker 5: Is it just the conversion of how many people come
- 35:51Speaker 5: to the site or is that how many people by
- 35:53Speaker 5: the product that these are all metrics.
- 35:55Speaker 2: Those are all metrics, and again it's what's important. Right,
- 35:58Speaker 2: So if aware, immediate awareness is the most important thing
- 36:01Speaker 2: for your brand, and you buy a Super Bowl ad,
- 36:04Speaker 2: For sure, millions of people will see your ad if
- 36:07Speaker 2: they didn't go to the bathroom, right, they'll see it.
- 36:10Speaker 2: But if you have ten million dollars and you spend
- 36:16Speaker 2: twenty percent of it on a fifteen second ad creative
- 36:19Speaker 2: and ad run, is that the best use of your funds?
- 36:23Speaker 3: Right?
- 36:23Speaker 2: So you just have to look at how much money
- 36:25Speaker 2: you have, how much time you have, and what you're
- 36:28Speaker 2: trying to get done with your audience, and then you
- 36:30Speaker 2: figure out where to spend your money. There's some people
- 36:32Speaker 2: that spend millions of dollars on a launch party. Right, Oh,
- 36:35Speaker 2: we've got a new brand, We're going to have a
- 36:37Speaker 2: launch party. We'll have our investors there, we'll get some press.
- 36:40Speaker 2: This is going to make the most sense ever. But
- 36:42Speaker 2: it's like, do you spend twenty percent of your budget
- 36:44Speaker 2: on a launch party? Because is that going to give
- 36:46Speaker 2: you the runway that you need to run your brand
- 36:48Speaker 2: for the next four years? Probably not. So, just just
- 36:52Speaker 2: being smart about how you spend your money and where
- 36:54Speaker 2: you spend it.
- 36:55Speaker 5: And as a marketing agency, you're getting the money upfront
- 36:58Speaker 5: right there, you're getting paid for your services. Is there
- 37:00Speaker 5: any a time where there is an incentive to have
- 37:03Speaker 5: a campaign push further because there's royalties or anything like that.
- 37:05Speaker 5: How does that work in the marketing world.
- 37:08Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think that depending on the opportunity,
- 37:10Speaker 2: there are tons of ways to create equity conversations. You
- 37:15Speaker 2: can you can actually get paid per acquisition depending on
- 37:22Speaker 2: the conversion that we talked about earlier. You can you know,
- 37:27Speaker 2: be a part of a participate in the like the
- 37:29Speaker 2: cap table, and if the company gets sold, you can
- 37:32Speaker 2: you know, be incentivized around that. So there are tons
- 37:34Speaker 2: of ways to leverage leverage equity through marketing.
- 37:37Speaker 4: So put a solutions what's that?
- 37:40Speaker 2: That's my personal consulting company.
- 37:42Speaker 4: So once you start that.
- 37:44Speaker 2: So I actually started that in two thousand and seven.
- 37:47Speaker 2: Believe it or not. People joke and call me Olivia
- 37:50Speaker 2: Pope in the industry because I get a lot of
- 37:52Speaker 2: back calls. Hey, so I heard you do X, Y
- 37:54Speaker 2: and Z come help me with this in a really
- 37:56Speaker 2: stealth kind of way. So I've worked with a lot
- 37:59Speaker 2: of different people, sort of ghost written for a few
- 38:03Speaker 2: folks behind the scenes to help with strategy and help
- 38:06Speaker 2: them with where they want to take their companies long term.
- 38:09Speaker 4: So what do you all right? So you just if
- 38:11Speaker 4: I want to hire you as a consultant, what does
- 38:14Speaker 4: that come with? What lay out your services?
- 38:17Speaker 2: Oh okay, well we can be here for a while.
- 38:19Speaker 2: But so I think the scope for services depends on
- 38:22Speaker 2: again on the need. But for me, I do at
- 38:25Speaker 2: the net net. I do enterprise leadership. So what that
- 38:27Speaker 2: means is I can look at a company and I
- 38:29Speaker 2: always say, are you building to sell or building to scale?
- 38:34Speaker 2: Because if you're building something to create a legacy like
- 38:38Speaker 2: Coca Cola, right or Johnny Walker one of those really
- 38:42Speaker 2: big old brands, there's a different methodology that goes into
- 38:47Speaker 2: building one hundred year brand than a brand that is
- 38:50Speaker 2: looking to launch, get big enough to sell and move on.
- 38:54Speaker 4: With some of the differences, Well, you.
- 38:57Speaker 2: Know you invent Sandy Claus. Do you know Coca Cola
- 38:59Speaker 2: cre to Santa Claus Right as we see them today,
- 39:03Speaker 2: Coca Cola designed Santa Claus. Coca Cola has only changed
- 39:06Speaker 2: just logo I think maybe three or four times in
- 39:08Speaker 2: the history of the entire company. So when you think
- 39:10Speaker 2: about the decisions you make around a brand that is
- 39:13Speaker 2: a legacy brand that's long term, you tend to move slower,
- 39:17Speaker 2: broader and be more strategic about how you're building the
- 39:20Speaker 2: brand versus a brand that needs to get big quickly
- 39:23Speaker 2: so that it can be valuable enough to sell and
- 39:25Speaker 2: move on. So I liken it too. When you buy
- 39:27Speaker 2: a house, if you're buying a house to flip, are
- 39:31Speaker 2: you going to put an eighty thousand dollar kitchen in
- 39:33Speaker 2: the house, Probably gonna put a fifteen to twenty thousand dollars,
- 39:37Speaker 2: maybe a ten thousand dollar kitchen to make it look
- 39:38Speaker 2: like a fifteen thousand dollars to get the value up,
- 39:41Speaker 2: flip the house and sell it. But if you're moving
- 39:42Speaker 2: your wife and kids in the house, you might you
- 39:45Speaker 2: might buy a eighty thousand dollar kitchen because you're gonna
- 39:47Speaker 2: be here for a while. Same thing with business. So
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- 44:03Speaker 2: Strategic and make longer term investments. So I helped. Comp
- 44:08Speaker 2: stated that they did.
- 44:10Speaker 4: Why did they create Santa Claus to sell Coca.
- 44:12Speaker 2: Cola, to sell Coca Cola for the holidays. So not
- 44:16Speaker 2: Santa Claus, the story of Santa Claus, the way that
- 44:19Speaker 2: Santa Claus looks to us. Coca Cola created that the
- 44:23Speaker 2: colors in the early nineteen hundreds and what they put
- 44:25Speaker 2: it like in commercials and they use it in an
- 44:27Speaker 2: ad campaign for the holidays.
- 44:29Speaker 4: So there was already a story of Santa Claus.
- 44:31Speaker 2: Absolutely story of Santa Claus, Norway.
- 44:33Speaker 4: Or somewhere else. Yes, and they just popularized it.
- 44:36Speaker 2: They popularized popularized this whole Chris krangle with the big
- 44:40Speaker 2: beer efty and the red and white and sell Coca
- 44:44Speaker 2: Cola colors. I mean not the Christmas wouldn't be but
- 44:46Speaker 2: it's all it was. It was brilliant branding was that
- 44:48Speaker 2: Edward Burnet. You know what, I don't know, I don't know.
- 44:52Speaker 2: I can't remember his name off the top of my head.
- 44:55Speaker 4: But yeah, that with bne that's a signam and Freud's
- 44:58Speaker 4: nephew if anybody doesn't know, that is credited with really
- 45:03Speaker 4: revolutionizing He created PR.
- 45:07Speaker 6: Love that you know.
- 45:08Speaker 4: He created the term PR because it came from propaganda,
- 45:13Speaker 4: but propaganda had a negative connotation from the Nazis. They
- 45:17Speaker 4: used propaganda campaign. So yes, he said, I want to
- 45:20Speaker 4: do propaganda. I wanted to help America. He's helping all
- 45:23Speaker 4: of the forward, all of these large companies, and it
- 45:26Speaker 4: was propaganda, but he couldn't name it propaganda. So he
- 45:28Speaker 4: had to come up with something that was appealing to
- 45:30Speaker 4: the public. So it was public relations, which is essentially propaganda,
- 45:34Speaker 4: but that was his twist on it. He created. He
- 45:38Speaker 4: created PR as we know it today.
- 45:40Speaker 2: And you know where propaganda comes from?
- 45:42Speaker 4: Where is propaganda come from?
- 45:43Speaker 2: Queen King Henry the eighth and Thomas Cromwell. He needed
- 45:48Speaker 2: to socialize the narrative that divorce was okay so that
- 45:52Speaker 2: he can marry.
- 45:53Speaker 4: They changed the whole country vision because of it.
- 45:57Speaker 2: Started the daily newspaper. They gave the daily updates to
- 46:00Speaker 2: the citizens, and the king told the story that he
- 46:06Speaker 2: wanted to tell so that he could justify Yeah, I
- 46:08Speaker 2: learned that.
- 46:08Speaker 4: In history when I was younger. I was crazy, right.
- 46:10Speaker 4: The whole entire country of England was Catholic, and he
- 46:14Speaker 4: wanted to get a divorce in Catholics that weren't allowed
- 46:17Speaker 4: to get divorces, So he became Protestant and as a result,
- 46:20Speaker 4: even now to this day, there's very little Catholics in
- 46:23Speaker 4: the UK. It's a mostly Protestant country, all because one
- 46:27Speaker 4: person wanted to get a divorce to get a divorce.
- 46:29Speaker 4: But then also with the Eric Brenet situation as interested
- 46:32Speaker 4: as that, they were talking about cigarettes. So at the time,
- 46:36Speaker 4: like in the early nineteen hundred, its like cigarette companies
- 46:39Speaker 4: was having a very hard time because women it was
- 46:43Speaker 4: looked at as like unlady like to smoke cigarettes. So
- 46:46Speaker 4: you got fifty percent of the population that's not smoking cigarettes.
- 46:48Speaker 4: Now you're missing out on a lot of money. So
- 46:50Speaker 4: he had to come up with a campaign to get
- 46:52Speaker 4: women to smoke cigarettes. So he used women's rights as
- 46:57Speaker 4: a way to get women. So he kind of made
- 46:59Speaker 4: it a whole women movement of empowerment, and that.
- 47:02Speaker 2: Was where you see that commercial.
- 47:04Speaker 4: Yeah, so it was like they had nothing to do
- 47:06Speaker 4: with women empowerment, but he used the women empowerment narrative
- 47:12Speaker 4: to make people women feel like, oh, this is like
- 47:15Speaker 4: revolutionary of me smoking like this is like me, you know,
- 47:19Speaker 4: breaking the norm. And in reality, they just wanted them
- 47:22Speaker 4: to smoke cigarettes. So it actually ended up probably giving
- 47:25Speaker 4: millions of people cancer. So it's just interesting how storylines
- 47:29Speaker 4: get shaped when you think you're doing it for one way,
- 47:31Speaker 4: but is really designed for nothing another way.
- 47:33Speaker 2: So what's interesting about that? Remember I said the paradigm
- 47:36Speaker 2: doesn't really shift the people do. It's the same strategies, right, Like,
- 47:41Speaker 2: you're still tapping into people's passion points to get them
- 47:44Speaker 2: to connect to whatever story you're trying to tell. The
- 47:47Speaker 2: key as responsible marketers is to figure out purpose driven
- 47:51Speaker 2: work around what you're doing, and I think gen Z
- 47:55Speaker 2: is way smarter now. They don't want to be a
- 47:57Speaker 2: part of your brand if you're not purpose driven. They
- 47:59Speaker 2: don't want to be a part of your brand. If
- 48:00Speaker 2: you're not doing something to save the planet or save
- 48:03Speaker 2: humanity or do things that matter, right, they just don't
- 48:07Speaker 2: even want to do it. So as marketers, certainly we
- 48:12Speaker 2: can use that methodology, but we got to really live
- 48:15Speaker 2: it with this new audience because they're not they want authenticity.
- 48:19Speaker 5: Have there been times, because as you're saying this, I'm thinking,
- 48:22Speaker 5: have there been times when you've been put in front
- 48:24Speaker 5: of brands? Then you're saying, morally, this doesn't even make sense.
- 48:27Speaker 5: I can't align because it doesn't match my personal moral standard.
- 48:30Speaker 2: Absolutely, and I don't do it. I've never sold anything
- 48:34Speaker 2: that I didn't believe in, or market anything that I
- 48:36Speaker 2: didn't have some sort of affinity or authentic connection to.
- 48:41Speaker 5: So what are some of the mistakes that happened? Because
- 48:43Speaker 5: from both sides, from people entrepreneurs and brands that are
- 48:47Speaker 5: coming to you, the mistakes that they make, But even
- 48:50Speaker 5: from your side, what are some mistakes that you see
- 48:53Speaker 5: marketing and marketing execs make on both ends? Like I'm
- 48:56Speaker 5: sure throughout your years you've seen plenty of things, learned
- 48:58Speaker 5: from plenty of things. What are some of thing is
- 49:00Speaker 5: that people should be looking out for.
- 49:02Speaker 2: I think businesses, we always have a saying in my
- 49:08Speaker 2: community of people like me and Dia talk about it
- 49:11Speaker 2: a lot. Marketing is not for creative it's not to Oh,
- 49:18Speaker 2: we made a pretty picture, now let's go hang it
- 49:21Speaker 2: in an art museum. Marketing is to tap into your
- 49:24Speaker 2: audience to get them to understand your brands, and when
- 49:27Speaker 2: they're making purchasing decisions, they're purchasing your brand. Ultimately, that's
- 49:30Speaker 2: what marketing is for. So oftentimes people get so caught
- 49:34Speaker 2: up in the creativity around a brand or the provocativeness
- 49:41Speaker 2: gravitas of the things that you can do with the brand.
- 49:45Speaker 2: It's not sexy. We wanted to be sexy, and it's like,
- 49:47Speaker 2: not everything needs to be sexy to convert to connect, right. So,
- 49:54Speaker 2: I think a lot of companies tend to overspend very
- 49:58Speaker 2: quickly in the wrong things and hiring the wrong people
- 50:02Speaker 2: to do the wrong jobs.
- 50:04Speaker 4: Right.
- 50:04Speaker 2: So they usually hire heavy at the top. So they've
- 50:07Speaker 2: got a CFO, a CMO or COO, but there are
- 50:10Speaker 2: no soldiers to do the work, and you spend so
- 50:13Speaker 2: much money in overhead you have no money for those
- 50:16Speaker 2: people to actively and effectively move your brand. So you've
- 50:19Speaker 2: got a million dollar CMO, but you don't have a
- 50:22Speaker 2: million dollars in a budget for the CMO to market.
- 50:26Speaker 2: Doesn't have a magic wand right, you need the money
- 50:28Speaker 2: to be able to be efficient, so I think people
- 50:30Speaker 2: do that quite often. I think people spend money in
- 50:32Speaker 2: the wrong places because they're shiny far too quickly and
- 50:36Speaker 2: far too often. And I think people don't level set
- 50:41Speaker 2: their mission and their purpose early on. If you walk
- 50:44Speaker 2: into Apple or Google and you speak to the janitor,
- 50:48Speaker 2: you speak to the CEO, I guarantee you every single
- 50:51Speaker 2: person that's employed there knows the mission of the company.
- 50:55Speaker 2: They know what the brand stands for. And oftentimes people
- 50:59Speaker 2: are not taking a step back. Earn your leisure to
- 51:02Speaker 2: be able to lock in on what your mission statement
- 51:05Speaker 2: is and your purpose and socialize that constantly with every
- 51:08Speaker 2: single person you touch. Because if everyone doesn't know where
- 51:13Speaker 2: you guys, as the leaders are going, no one's going
- 51:16Speaker 2: in the same direction. And so many companies miss that mark.
- 51:21Speaker 2: But the best brands know what their mission and purpose
- 51:23Speaker 2: is through the line.
- 51:24Speaker 5: How about from the marketing exect what mistakes are they
- 51:27Speaker 5: making or have you seen me?
- 51:29Speaker 2: I think the same thing. I think they're oftentimes. I
- 51:33Speaker 2: think with marketing executives, oftentimes we do what the easiest
- 51:40Speaker 2: turnkey thing is that we know is going to work right.
- 51:42Speaker 2: So oftentimes, like for years marketers will over spend money
- 51:46Speaker 2: in television, right, commercials, commercials, commercials, commercials by TV, by
- 51:50Speaker 2: TV by TV because they want to have the CPM story,
- 51:53Speaker 2: so the cost per thousand story. So I've only spent
- 51:56Speaker 2: five cents per eyeball. I'm a winner as a mark marketer.
- 52:00Speaker 2: And it's like, yeah, some of these other mediums may
- 52:02Speaker 2: be more expensive CPM wise, but they're converting to your point,
- 52:07Speaker 2: They're creating the connectivity, the affinity, the stickiness that you
- 52:10Speaker 2: need as a brand. And so many marketers tend to
- 52:13Speaker 2: just take the safe route and you know, do the
- 52:16Speaker 2: media math and say I'm going to run this super
- 52:18Speaker 2: commercial so I can keep my job.
- 52:21Speaker 4: I feel like the best brands never have the market.
- 52:24Speaker 4: So I've never seen a Lamborghini commercial, right, you don't
- 52:30Speaker 4: really see too many you name it. Louis Vauton has ads,
- 52:37Speaker 4: but they're not like heavy marketers like that with like
- 52:41Speaker 4: you know, Deon Sanders, I think is doing the best
- 52:44Speaker 4: job I've ever seen with social media.
- 52:48Speaker 5: You.
- 52:49Speaker 4: I think you want to get to a point where
- 52:50Speaker 4: people are marketing for you. Yes, And I use Dion
- 52:54Speaker 4: because the Louis and the luxury car thing that's obvious
- 53:00Speaker 4: but he's doing it from a really organic standpoint where
- 53:03Speaker 4: now all of these people in hip hop, everybody's reposting it,
- 53:07Speaker 4: everybody's going to the game they went. That's marketing, that's
- 53:10Speaker 4: free marketing. And he's aware of that, and he's he's
- 53:14Speaker 4: strategically targeting these people, inviting them into the fold and
- 53:18Speaker 4: making them a feel part of the team, putting them
- 53:20Speaker 4: on the sideline, and they're posting it on their social media.
- 53:23Speaker 4: And now every single person in the world is talking
- 53:25Speaker 4: about Colorado and Deon Sanders. Nobody was talking about Colorado
- 53:28Speaker 4: last year whatever. So to me, that's the ultimate point
- 53:33Speaker 4: right where you you actually don't do the marketing. Everybody
- 53:37Speaker 4: else does the marketing for you, and very influential people
- 53:41Speaker 4: do the marketing for hip hop. Is perfect example that
- 53:44Speaker 4: Crystal they did the marketing for them. They didn't have
- 53:47Speaker 4: to tell them to, they didn't get paid for that.
- 53:49Speaker 4: They did marketing for them.
- 53:50Speaker 2: But in the Deon Sanders case, I'm going to offer
- 53:53Speaker 2: you a counterpoint to that, because I think what you're
- 53:55Speaker 2: saying is absolutely correct. But he's one hundred percent marketing.
- 53:58Speaker 2: You know, he's marketing, he's leveraging earned impressions.
- 54:02Speaker 4: But he's not paying for it.
- 54:04Speaker 2: That's the earned That's what I meant, I earned. Right,
- 54:06Speaker 2: So he's leveraging one strategy within marketing. But if you
- 54:10Speaker 2: look at so I'm gonna give you guys an example.
- 54:12Speaker 2: I randomly was sitting at home looking for something amazing
- 54:16Speaker 2: to watch and I saw the Coach Prime docuseries. I
- 54:20Speaker 2: was like, Oh, I want to watch this because I
- 54:21Speaker 2: love Deon Sanders. I got so hooked into this storyline
- 54:25Speaker 2: around this Coach Prime story and what he was doing
- 54:28Speaker 2: at you know, at the HBCU and the guys and
- 54:32Speaker 2: the kids. I just was sold. I drank the kool aid.
- 54:36Speaker 2: But the timing with which that Coach Prime show aired
- 54:43Speaker 2: and this Colorado season was very strategic. Right, There's no
- 54:48Speaker 2: coincidence that you have this four part docuseries completely aligned
- 54:53Speaker 2: with the new season of this Colorado moment as he
- 54:57Speaker 2: transitions off, right, that's all strategy. And when you look
- 55:00Speaker 2: at the docu saries, all the branding, right, I believe,
- 55:04Speaker 2: I believe Coach Prime, all these things, all of that
- 55:07Speaker 2: stuff was He's like, let me get some branding going
- 55:10Speaker 2: because I have these cameras here. You look at Dwayne
- 55:12Speaker 2: Johnson and the xfl dot Com leveraging XFL within the storyline,
- 55:17Speaker 2: he's leveraging XFL at Colorado. There's a bigger play there.
- 55:20Speaker 2: I'm sure I don't know what it is, but if
- 55:22Speaker 2: as a marketer, I can see it, you know. And
- 55:25Speaker 2: so he's he's marketing, he's just not doing the traditional
- 55:30Speaker 2: traditional marketing and that's the key.
- 55:32Speaker 4: And he's getting he's marketing heavily, but he's getting everybody
- 55:35Speaker 4: else to market it for him.
- 55:37Speaker 2: That's right, And it's because he's just authentically being him
- 55:40Speaker 2: and everybody's buying into the Dion sang.
- 55:43Speaker 4: So he's also like Lil Wayne coming to Colorado, him
- 55:48Speaker 4: putting a jersey on Lil Wayne, Like that's strategically done, right.
- 55:54Speaker 2: But the reason why Dwayne, excuse me, the reason why
- 55:56Speaker 2: Lil Wayne let him do.
- 55:57Speaker 4: That is because he's, yeah, well because and he believes in.
- 56:01Speaker 2: What Deon Sanders is building too, right, He's excited about
- 56:04Speaker 2: where Deon Sanders is taking his career and and and
- 56:08Speaker 2: how he's inspiring these young men too. Write like there's
- 56:11Speaker 2: a there's a deeper connection for people, and Dion is
- 56:14Speaker 2: just capitalizing on it. He's tapped in.
- 56:17Speaker 5: Yeah, this is this is a new segment of marketing. Yeah,
- 56:19Speaker 5: do you see I mean it feels like it kind
- 56:23Speaker 5: of is influencer marketing, but not really the landscape of that.
- 56:28Speaker 5: Do you see it changing, because as we've seen Instagram it,
- 56:33Speaker 5: I mean, it was at a certain point you saw
- 56:34Speaker 5: people getting paid to do ask paid to do it.
- 56:36Speaker 5: You don't see that as much. Do you see the
- 56:38Speaker 5: landscape changing? And if so, what do you think the
- 56:40Speaker 5: next form of marketing is going?
- 56:42Speaker 2: That's a great question. I think that the land influencer,
- 56:45Speaker 2: the land influencer. Excuse me, the landscape of influencer marketing
- 56:49Speaker 2: is certainly changing. I don't think that it's going to
- 56:51Speaker 2: go away. I think the same way people are still
- 56:54Speaker 2: getting endorsements, because that's what influencer marketing is, right, it's
- 56:58Speaker 2: non celebrity endorsements. I think the way that brands engage
- 57:03Speaker 2: with influencers will continue to change. So, for instance, when
- 57:06Speaker 2: influencer marketing first sort of became a huge thing, it
- 57:10Speaker 2: was all about big numbers, big numbers, big numbers or
- 57:14Speaker 2: macro influencers. Right, if you didn't have a million followers,
- 57:17Speaker 2: you didn't really get paid to participate with brands. But
- 57:20Speaker 2: what brands realize is micro influencers have more connectivity, their
- 57:26Speaker 2: followers are more engaged, they have better conversion, and so
- 57:29Speaker 2: brands are now going to micro influencers. So people that
- 57:32Speaker 2: have twenty or thirty thousand followers on Instagram spending way
- 57:36Speaker 2: less money, but figuring out ways to get inside of
- 57:39Speaker 2: these people's communities and ecosystems, if you will. So that
- 57:44Speaker 2: has evolved. Where they take that from here will probably
- 57:48Speaker 2: be even more niche, and so they're going more vertical
- 57:51Speaker 2: into the influencer marketing space. I think as a marketing
- 57:56Speaker 2: as a whole, where's the next frontier of strategy? I
- 58:00Speaker 2: would have to say it's going to be somewhere within
- 58:02Speaker 2: the AI space, right, and just the whole web three
- 58:06Speaker 2: AI community, that the way that people market and that
- 58:10Speaker 2: virtual space is going to be the next frontier.
- 58:12Speaker 4: You said influencers non celebrity. What defines of celebrity?
- 58:18Speaker 2: That is a really good question.
- 58:19Speaker 4: I would say influences are kind of our celebrities. Now
- 58:21Speaker 4: if you look at Logan Paul now and even Kim Kardashian, right,
- 58:27Speaker 4: she's like probably the first influencer.
- 58:30Speaker 2: Yes that became a celebrity celebrities right, So yeah, that's
- 58:34Speaker 2: what I was going to say to answer the question.
- 58:37Speaker 2: Immediately that came to me were these people that are
- 58:39Speaker 2: super super popular for just being themselves. That's what influencers
- 58:44Speaker 2: are versus celebrities usually have an affinity to some sort
- 58:47Speaker 2: of vocation for the most part, right right, right, that
- 58:51Speaker 2: makes sense. Athletes, musicians, writers, artists, politicians, you know, different
- 58:58Speaker 2: people that have an affinity to do something and have
- 59:01Speaker 2: become popularized because of that thing. Whereas influencers have become
- 59:05Speaker 2: popular for being themselves.
- 59:08Speaker 4: Or they've been popular for their particular So, like I
- 59:13Speaker 4: think Andrew Kyson, he's popular for streaming, kind of become
- 59:19Speaker 4: his own industry within himself, right, So now streaming has
- 59:23Speaker 4: become like much watch TV.
- 59:25Speaker 3: It's like television.
- 59:26Speaker 4: People go on and they hundreds of thousands of people
- 59:29Speaker 4: watch him play video games and talk to their favorite rappers.
- 59:32Speaker 4: So he's kind of like a new age journalist, right,
- 59:35Speaker 4: He's like our version of Walter Kronkok. He comes on streams.
- 59:41Speaker 4: Think that, Okay, I mean that's what but like, I mean,
- 59:45Speaker 4: that's his industry that he's become synonymous with.
- 59:47Speaker 5: I think the part of that is that he's still
- 59:49Speaker 5: being himself, right, Like he started as doing pranks and
- 59:52Speaker 5: now he does pranks and people are watching the stream.
- 59:54Speaker 5: I think Drewski would be another would be more of
- 59:56Speaker 5: an idea because he really is a comedian that was
- 1:00:00Speaker 5: on Instagram and became popular for that, and so his
- 1:00:04Speaker 5: influence grew. But he's still was a commedian comedian, right,
- 1:00:08Speaker 5: So that was kind of He didn't create the industry,
- 1:00:11Speaker 5: and he's just he's changed the landscape of how that
- 1:00:14Speaker 5: industry now looks.
- 1:00:15Speaker 4: Kim Kardashian's she's not. She didn't get famous for any
- 1:00:18Speaker 4: one particular affinity to an industry. She just became famous.
- 1:00:21Speaker 2: What I'm saying, she was herself probably the first first celebrity.
- 1:00:25Speaker 5: And right what I'm saying, Yeah, like mister Logan Poles
- 1:00:29Speaker 5: select Logan Pole's another one.
- 1:00:30Speaker 4: He's a celebrity and his brother one thousand percent. They
- 1:00:33Speaker 4: didn't get their YouTubers, boxers through a variety of different things.
- 1:00:38Speaker 4: They got the entrepreneurs, they got the energy drink.
- 1:00:41Speaker 5: But they themselves and they've created industry around them of
- 1:00:45Speaker 5: who they are. Industries have been created around who they
- 1:00:48Speaker 5: are as well.
- 1:00:49Speaker 2: Exactly versus I make it to the NBA. I'm Kobe
- 1:00:52Speaker 2: Bryant now I'm famous all over the world for being
- 1:00:55Speaker 2: Kobe Bryant.
- 1:00:56Speaker 5: I got drafted number one any sports league. I'm pop popular. Yeah,
- 1:01:01Speaker 5: a bit of a difference.
- 1:01:02Speaker 4: So, okay, let's talk about the book. The book. So
- 1:01:06Speaker 4: you publish a book what mommy never told you? So
- 1:01:10Speaker 4: what's the meaning behind that title and what's inside the book? Yeah?
- 1:01:16Speaker 2: So this book took twelve years to write. I wrote
- 1:01:19Speaker 2: I finished it maybe three and a half years ago,
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: But it took twelve years to write because I, for
- 1:01:24Speaker 2: a very long time, felt like my story hadn't arct
- 1:01:28Speaker 2: So I didn't have that moment where it was like, oh,
- 1:01:30Speaker 2: things got tough. And then she wrote off in the sunset,
- 1:01:32Speaker 2: here's a book to talk about it, right, And so
- 1:01:34Speaker 2: I thought that's what I needed in order to create this,
- 1:01:38Speaker 2: this body of work. But what I realized is people
- 1:01:42Speaker 2: have constantly sat down to have this conversation that we're
- 1:01:45Speaker 2: having right now, like what did you how did you
- 1:01:47Speaker 2: go from Eastern New York Brooklyn to working and doing
- 1:01:50Speaker 2: some of the things that you've done and worked in
- 1:01:53Speaker 2: And I was constantly telling the story, and I said,
- 1:01:55Speaker 2: you know what, I need to put pen to paper
- 1:01:57Speaker 2: and manuscript. You know, my journey. But one of the
- 1:02:01Speaker 2: things that came out of it, and why I titled
- 1:02:03Speaker 2: it the way that I did, is I realized that
- 1:02:05Speaker 2: I'm first generation for so many things in my life.
- 1:02:09Speaker 2: I was the first to graduate from college in my family.
- 1:02:12Speaker 2: I was the first to go to Europe in my family.
- 1:02:16Speaker 2: I was the first to buy a home in my family.
- 1:02:20Speaker 2: And what I was realizing is there's some things that
- 1:02:25Speaker 2: my parents just they cannot teach me. You know, as
- 1:02:28Speaker 2: a woman of color, I'm coming from a space of
- 1:02:35Speaker 2: I won't say lack, but I had a late start,
- 1:02:41Speaker 2: just coming from East New York and where I've come from,
- 1:02:43Speaker 2: we weren't and we didn't inherit the knowledge that some
- 1:02:47Speaker 2: of our contemporaries and counterparts perhaps are getting from their
- 1:02:51Speaker 2: families and their grandfathers and their you know, those those
- 1:02:54Speaker 2: sorts of experiences. And while my mother did teach me
- 1:02:59Speaker 2: a ton, there were just a lot of lessons that
- 1:03:02Speaker 2: I had to learn on my own. And so this
- 1:03:04Speaker 2: book takes you through the manuscript of my life and
- 1:03:07Speaker 2: the lessons that I learned along the way. So each
- 1:03:10Speaker 2: chapter has at the end the Pittman's Rules, and they're
- 1:03:12Speaker 2: like the ten to twenty things that I've learned about
- 1:03:15Speaker 2: that specific topic, and it's everything from career and finance,
- 1:03:18Speaker 2: to relationships, to self motivation.
- 1:03:22Speaker 4: To like one of the things. Give us one example
- 1:03:24Speaker 4: of what's in the book that you've learned.
- 1:03:27Speaker 5: Well, I'm something that your mother never told you.
- 1:03:30Speaker 2: Some of the things that my mother never told me.
- 1:03:31Speaker 2: I mean, there are tons of examples, but really understanding that.
- 1:03:34Speaker 2: You know, as a woman, it's important to have male
- 1:03:39Speaker 2: mentorship as much as it is to have female mentorship.
- 1:03:43Speaker 2: I always I was raised by really strong women, and
- 1:03:46Speaker 2: I have a huge girl network, But when I moved
- 1:03:49Speaker 2: into my career, most of my mentors have been men.
- 1:03:52Speaker 2: So people like Keith Kling Scales, as I mentioned, steep
- 1:03:55Speaker 2: Stout early on in my career was an amazing mentor
- 1:03:58Speaker 2: that genuinely just wanted to pour into my professional talent
- 1:04:04Speaker 2: and help me grow as a professional. Sean Combe's amazing mentor.
- 1:04:08Speaker 2: You know, and being unafraid to develop professional relationships with
- 1:04:15Speaker 2: men is important for women as they continue to move
- 1:04:17Speaker 2: through business.
- 1:04:17Speaker 4: What's your advice for women navigating male dominated industry? Which
- 1:04:24Speaker 4: almost every industry is male dominated, There's difficulties that come
- 1:04:29Speaker 4: with it. You have to think about certain things that
- 1:04:31Speaker 4: men don't have to think about. How to dress right,
- 1:04:34Speaker 4: they're important, how to carry yourself in certain environments. I
- 1:04:38Speaker 4: had this conversation with a female, like, somebody invites you
- 1:04:44Speaker 4: to dinner, it's awkward, right. It could be out to drinks,
- 1:04:50Speaker 4: it can be awkward. What you wear, it could be
- 1:04:51Speaker 4: awkward flirting. The variety of different things that you have
- 1:04:55Speaker 4: to kind of navigate through the workplace that there's really
- 1:04:58Speaker 4: no set templant or blueprint for it. And like I said,
- 1:05:02Speaker 4: men don't have to worry about that, but women do.
- 1:05:04Speaker 4: And it's like you're probably just one woman or two
- 1:05:06Speaker 4: women and there's ten men, right, So that's something that
- 1:05:09Speaker 4: people don't really consider. But it's an issue. I've seen
- 1:05:12Speaker 4: it absolutely. So what's your advice for that?
- 1:05:17Speaker 2: That is a great question. There's a there's a nuance
- 1:05:19Speaker 2: to the level set that young women need to learn
- 1:05:25Speaker 2: how to initiate very early on. I think men do
- 1:05:29Speaker 2: it sometimes when when men sort of outfit in the
- 1:05:32Speaker 2: room and you set your position in a room full
- 1:05:35Speaker 2: of men. You guys know what I'm talking about. You
- 1:05:37Speaker 2: come into a room with ten dudes, You're going to
- 1:05:39Speaker 2: posture in a certain way so that your ranking is
- 1:05:43Speaker 2: governed according according right. Right, So the same thing. And
- 1:05:49Speaker 2: I know this from being trained by men.
- 1:05:52Speaker 5: Right.
- 1:05:52Speaker 2: I was blessed to be trained by men throughout my career.
- 1:05:55Speaker 2: And so there's a way of being as a woman
- 1:05:58Speaker 2: to position yourself as a person of power, a person
- 1:06:02Speaker 2: of respect, no nonsense, but still approachable. And that has
- 1:06:08Speaker 2: worked for me up until a point, until I got
- 1:06:11Speaker 2: to a sort of apex point in my career. Being
- 1:06:15Speaker 2: very dominant in that way was powerful. But at a
- 1:06:18Speaker 2: certain point it worked against me and I had to
- 1:06:21Speaker 2: start seeking out female mentorship at the executive level because
- 1:06:25Speaker 2: I had to bring back the softness, because it was
- 1:06:27Speaker 2: almost like I was competing with the men.
- 1:06:30Speaker 5: Yeah, nexteria was too rough.
- 1:06:32Speaker 2: It's too rough, And so I had to come into
- 1:06:34Speaker 2: this balance of oh no, no, no, you see me.
- 1:06:36Speaker 2: You see I'm grounded. You respect me. But this is
- 1:06:40Speaker 2: not an alpha contest.
- 1:06:41Speaker 4: Yeah, see the alpha thing. I don't agree with the
- 1:06:44Speaker 4: alpha thing. I've never I don't like to consider myself
- 1:06:46Speaker 4: an alpha male. I'm just a male. Yeah. So I
- 1:06:49Speaker 4: think there's two ways that I've witnessed like people at
- 1:06:54Speaker 4: the highest level conduct themselves. One in that manner, which
- 1:06:57Speaker 4: is like very loud and kind of obnoxious. But you
- 1:07:02Speaker 4: know that this person is a certain level of stature
- 1:07:05Speaker 4: because it's like a mob boss, right, like Johnny Gotty.
- 1:07:08Speaker 4: Like it's like when he walks in the room, like
- 1:07:09Speaker 4: everybody kind of like fears on more has some level
- 1:07:11Speaker 4: of respect for him. So he could be extremely loud
- 1:07:15Speaker 4: or you could be extremely quiet.
- 1:07:16Speaker 2: Yeah, like this guy Jay, but he's still incredibly alpha.
- 1:07:20Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm just saying, but just his demeanor, Yeah,
- 1:07:24Speaker 4: he's more of an introvert quiet. I see that a
- 1:07:27Speaker 4: lot with I see that actually more often, especially like
- 1:07:30Speaker 4: the higher higher like billionaires, Like they're usually very secluded
- 1:07:35Speaker 4: and nonchalant, garden and quiet.
- 1:07:38Speaker 2: But let's make a distinction though, because that doesn't So
- 1:07:42Speaker 2: there's a few things around alpha. I literally mean in
- 1:07:44Speaker 2: the canine sense of alpha, right, So from an animalistic standpoint,
- 1:07:48Speaker 2: when a pack of dogs come together, there's a ranking
- 1:07:52Speaker 2: order that naturally happens, right, So I didn't mean it
- 1:07:55Speaker 2: in the alpha I mean, And it's like but then also,
- 1:08:00Speaker 2: alphas are usually not loud in real life.
- 1:08:03Speaker 4: But I think the term alpha is just confusing because
- 1:08:06Speaker 4: it's like I think, like you that's really like I
- 1:08:09Speaker 4: love Dan he's actually a personal friend of mine. That's
- 1:08:12Speaker 4: his personality, but his way of being, I think people
- 1:08:17Speaker 4: try to emulate that, like you know what I mean,
- 1:08:20Speaker 4: like and they try to like be loud and stern
- 1:08:24Speaker 4: and da da da da. And I don't necessarily think
- 1:08:26Speaker 4: that's aid. That's the most beneficial way to communicate with people, absolutely,
- 1:08:29Speaker 4: But I see a lot of people that they think
- 1:08:32Speaker 4: that that way of acting, on that way of communicating
- 1:08:36Speaker 4: asserts themselves as the alpha and asserts themselves as the head.
- 1:08:41Speaker 4: But I think that that's not so. I don't know.
- 1:08:44Speaker 2: I just feel like the term alpha loudness does not
- 1:08:47Speaker 2: equal power.
- 1:08:47Speaker 4: So what does alpha equate to alpha is.
- 1:08:51Speaker 2: It's an anchoring, it's a it's a knowing, it's an
- 1:08:54Speaker 2: assuredness in your power to affect a situation. That's what
- 1:09:01Speaker 2: alpha is. It's not necessarily how loud you are. It's
- 1:09:04Speaker 2: your ability to influence at the highest level and make
- 1:09:09Speaker 2: the and make the decision that people are going to
- 1:09:12Speaker 2: adhere to. And you don't have to do that with words.
- 1:09:14Speaker 5: Yeah, a lot of nonverbal communication.
- 1:09:16Speaker 2: Tons of nonverbal communication. Like I just as a woman,
- 1:09:20Speaker 2: like I'm not looking at the loudest guy in the room.
- 1:09:23Speaker 2: I want. I want to see the guy that's, like,
- 1:09:25Speaker 2: you know, laid back and calm and poised and has
- 1:09:28Speaker 2: it put together, and he's the one, not this one
- 1:09:31Speaker 2: over here.
- 1:09:35Speaker 5: To you brought up the word apex of your career,
- 1:09:41Speaker 5: the height of your career. When I hear you speak,
- 1:09:44Speaker 5: I can feel your energy. I feel like you're still
- 1:09:47Speaker 5: in it. So I'm questioning, how are you seeing where
- 1:09:51Speaker 5: you're at presently? Are you where you want to be?
- 1:09:54Speaker 5: There's some more things that you need to check out,
- 1:09:56Speaker 5: because I feel like the apex hasn't hasn't hit yet.
- 1:09:59Speaker 2: I agree they haven't, but I am ascending, right, and
- 1:10:03Speaker 2: so I like to believe you know, you hit that peak,
- 1:10:06Speaker 2: and you try to ride that peak as long as
- 1:10:08Speaker 2: you can and maybe in my plateau a little bit,
- 1:10:10Speaker 2: and then you hope to hit another peak. So that's
- 1:10:11Speaker 2: how I think about apex, and I do. I do
- 1:10:15Speaker 2: think though, that there is a stage in your career.
- 1:10:19Speaker 2: There are stages in your finances right where you've arrived,
- 1:10:24Speaker 2: and then how do you elevate and take it to
- 1:10:26Speaker 2: the next level? Right, so you can become a millionaire,
- 1:10:28Speaker 2: that's great, but then you can become one hundred millionaire
- 1:10:31Speaker 2: and that's really great. Then you could become a billionaire
- 1:10:35Speaker 2: and now like that's something else. Right, So those are
- 1:10:38Speaker 2: all APEX moments within our lives. And so when I
- 1:10:41Speaker 2: say I hit that apex peak, it's like if I'm
- 1:10:43Speaker 2: in a C suite conversation, that's a different conversation than
- 1:10:48Speaker 2: being a manager or a director and how people receive
- 1:10:51Speaker 2: us differently.
- 1:10:51Speaker 5: So when you're saying apex, you can have a few
- 1:10:54Speaker 5: of them.
- 1:10:54Speaker 2: A few of them I hope to and I hope
- 1:10:56Speaker 2: you guys do as well.
- 1:10:57Speaker 4: So you said something about relationships. I'm interested to hear
- 1:11:01Speaker 4: this because I used to be a financial advisor before
- 1:11:03Speaker 4: I did this. When I was a financial advisor of
- 1:11:05Speaker 4: seventy percent of my clients for women black women, and
- 1:11:08Speaker 4: I learned something that there's a lot of black women
- 1:11:11Speaker 4: that make a lot of money, like five hundred thousand,
- 1:11:15Speaker 4: four hundred thousand dollar a year. They're like corporate diversity
- 1:11:17Speaker 4: officers that may SE's and different things in the nature.
- 1:11:20Speaker 4: And then in their mid thirties and they're single and
- 1:11:24Speaker 4: they've never had children. And I noticed that. I started
- 1:11:27Speaker 4: to see a pattern, and I started to realize that
- 1:11:31Speaker 4: this is my philosophy, there wasn't an equal counterpart a
- 1:11:36Speaker 4: lot right, because it's like their counterpart, their age wasn't
- 1:11:43Speaker 4: making as much money, wasn't at that level of corporate.
- 1:11:46Speaker 4: It might have been a good dude, but he's you know,
- 1:11:49Speaker 4: it's a delivery man, right or the person that is
- 1:11:52Speaker 4: at that level, is it righty going? It's a right taken.
- 1:11:54Speaker 4: He's already married and has children. So relationship standpoint, I
- 1:11:57Speaker 4: started to see that it was difficult a lot of
- 1:11:59Speaker 4: times for black women that was rising up that corporate
- 1:12:03Speaker 4: ladder to get into a relationship or to So I
- 1:12:09Speaker 4: don't know what your segment in the book about relationships is,
- 1:12:12Speaker 4: but have you seen that and what's your thoughts on that.
- 1:12:16Speaker 2: I absolutely have seen that, But I think that there's
- 1:12:19Speaker 2: so nuanced. So there's a couple of things that go
- 1:12:22Speaker 2: into that. I think top line looking at it, Yes,
- 1:12:26Speaker 2: there's not an equal counterpart at every step for a
- 1:12:29Speaker 2: lot of these women at a certain age because.
- 1:12:34Speaker 4: Men can go down to right like men, you can
- 1:12:36Speaker 4: be forty years old and date the twenty eight year
- 1:12:38Speaker 4: old and nobody says anything. That's another thing that kind
- 1:12:41Speaker 4: of it's hard for a forty year old woman to
- 1:12:43Speaker 4: find a twenty eight year old man that she wants.
- 1:12:46Speaker 5: To be with.
- 1:12:46Speaker 2: Right that because women like to be able to learn
- 1:12:51Speaker 2: from their men and have leadership within their relationship. Traditionally,
- 1:12:55Speaker 2: not all women and so oftentimes men that are younger
- 1:12:59Speaker 2: don't necessarily have those experiences. Some women do, and they
- 1:13:02Speaker 2: do well in that space, but not not most. But
- 1:13:05Speaker 2: I think it's it's a combination of things. I think
- 1:13:07Speaker 2: it's and you know, so many people with me. For instance,
- 1:13:10Speaker 2: I'm single, I don't have children, and people ask me
- 1:13:13Speaker 2: like what happened? And I'm a heterosexual woman, right, and
- 1:13:16Speaker 2: so it's like, well, a couple of things happened, you know.
- 1:13:18Speaker 2: I think, first and foremost, I always say I spent
- 1:13:21Speaker 2: too much time on the wrong relationships. That is, I
- 1:13:24Speaker 2: tell any young woman get in and get out.
- 1:13:26Speaker 4: It's the whole classic.
- 1:13:27Speaker 2: That's what jay Z said. That's get out. If it
- 1:13:34Speaker 2: works great, if it doesn't, move on as quickly as possible, right,
- 1:13:37Speaker 2: learn the lesson, forgive and move on. So I didn't
- 1:13:40Speaker 2: necessarily do that as often as perhaps I should have.
- 1:13:43Speaker 2: But I also think, you know, being creating a space
- 1:13:52Speaker 2: to date and explore women that are driven in their
- 1:13:57Speaker 2: careers tend to forget about how intentional you need to
- 1:14:01Speaker 2: be about.
- 1:14:02Speaker 3: Just a thing.
- 1:14:03Speaker 4: I'm glad you said that they don't have time.
- 1:14:04Speaker 2: You don't have time. They don't make time.
- 1:14:05Speaker 5: They don't make the time.
- 1:14:06Speaker 2: It don't make the time.
- 1:14:07Speaker 5: They they don't.
- 1:14:08Speaker 2: Make it, because it gets exhausting right when you're when
- 1:14:11Speaker 2: you're constantly coming up against the men that may not
- 1:14:15Speaker 2: be equally yoked.
- 1:14:16Speaker 5: There's a list of priority. Is that how we we're
- 1:14:18Speaker 5: prioritizing these things, like this is more important than this
- 1:14:21Speaker 5: at this present time.
- 1:14:22Speaker 2: Yeah, I had a friend that said to me, very
- 1:14:24Speaker 2: very very good friend. She said, you need to approach
- 1:14:29Speaker 2: getting married like finding your dream job, in the same
- 1:14:33Speaker 2: way and the same way you would go and find
- 1:14:35Speaker 2: interviews and have conversations. You need to find friends that
- 1:14:39Speaker 2: have single friends. You need to be in spaces where
- 1:14:41Speaker 2: there are single men because of the type of man
- 1:14:44Speaker 2: that you want to marry is very unique. So you're
- 1:14:47Speaker 2: not going to just bump into him at a supermarket.
- 1:14:49Speaker 2: You've got to be intentional. And I thought it was
- 1:14:51Speaker 2: brilliant when she said it to me, way too late,
- 1:14:54Speaker 2: but she, you know, obviously expressed it, and I think
- 1:14:56Speaker 2: the same thing happens in some of the situations that
- 1:14:58Speaker 2: you mentioned going f.
- 1:15:00Speaker 4: Angel advised days. Remember this guy was telling me, he
- 1:15:02Speaker 4: told his daughter that and he was like, what are
- 1:15:05Speaker 4: you doing to find a husband?
- 1:15:07Speaker 5: Like?
- 1:15:07Speaker 4: You can't just wing it. You got to actually treat
- 1:15:11Speaker 4: this thing like you are, like you said, like you're
- 1:15:12Speaker 4: trying to get a job, like you got to actually
- 1:15:15Speaker 4: have a set, planned, blueprint events that I'm going to
- 1:15:18Speaker 4: go to everything.
- 1:15:19Speaker 5: Because the places you're going to run into are so
- 1:15:21Speaker 5: limited at this point this There are days where I'm
- 1:15:23Speaker 5: going to go to the library, or i might go
- 1:15:25Speaker 5: to the theater and I'm going to the art gallery
- 1:15:28Speaker 5: like it's like I'm in the club.
- 1:15:31Speaker 4: Is this why we potentially see a lot of interracial
- 1:15:34Speaker 4: couples at higher like the vice president and different things
- 1:15:37Speaker 4: in that agent?
- 1:15:38Speaker 2: I think so. I think so, you know, people tend
- 1:15:41Speaker 2: to date within their industry or dat and what they're
- 1:15:43Speaker 2: most familiar with and around, and you know, unfortunately, I
- 1:15:47Speaker 2: think that is the case. And I think that there's
- 1:15:50Speaker 2: a I'm gonna say something a little contra controversial, but
- 1:15:54Speaker 2: I think that fundamentally back youth is not as conditioned
- 1:16:04Speaker 2: to marry automatically the way some other cultures are right.
- 1:16:07Speaker 4: That's not other cultures.
- 1:16:10Speaker 2: That's a fact, right. They know they have to get married.
- 1:16:13Speaker 4: You don't really have a choice.
- 1:16:14Speaker 2: There's no choice. You're going to get married. It may
- 1:16:16Speaker 2: not be today, you get this owned that's a fact.
- 1:16:19Speaker 2: Or it's going to be arranged, or it's going to
- 1:16:20Speaker 2: be arranged for you, and it may not be today,
- 1:16:22Speaker 2: it may not be in five years, but you're going
- 1:16:24Speaker 2: to get married. They also know to be successful, particularly
- 1:16:27Speaker 2: the men in those those cultures cultures, thank you know
- 1:16:32Speaker 2: that having a wife represents something way broader. It represents responsibility,
- 1:16:39Speaker 2: it represents anchoring. Like you think about have we ever
- 1:16:42Speaker 2: had a single president. We've had a widowed president, but
- 1:16:47Speaker 2: we've never had a single president ever. Right, So there's
- 1:16:50Speaker 2: there's little things that go into societal norms, societal norms
- 1:16:55Speaker 2: around being married that don't necessarily exist automatically within our culture.
- 1:16:59Speaker 2: So our young people don't know that we have to
- 1:17:02Speaker 2: get married now, not that we have to, but that
- 1:17:04Speaker 2: it would be beneficial for us to partner up and
- 1:17:06Speaker 2: do some stuff together in that way.
- 1:17:10Speaker 5: I agree.
- 1:17:10Speaker 2: So there's a t we're at a disadvantage initially with
- 1:17:13Speaker 2: the with the mindset, but then we're so busy trying
- 1:17:16Speaker 2: to do it by ourselves, we forget to reconnect with
- 1:17:19Speaker 2: each other and do it together and find someone to
- 1:17:22Speaker 2: do it together with.
- 1:17:23Speaker 5: So and while we're thinking about that at the time,
- 1:17:26Speaker 5: it's passing every day.
- 1:17:27Speaker 2: Every day, and you're more set in your ways and
- 1:17:30Speaker 2: your your requirements get a little more intricate, And then
- 1:17:34Speaker 2: you get.
- 1:17:34Speaker 4: More comfortable being by yourself, yes, which makes it harder
- 1:17:37Speaker 4: for you to be a relationship.
- 1:17:38Speaker 5: And then there's always helcial media that can comfort you
- 1:17:40Speaker 5: when you're by yourself.
- 1:17:42Speaker 2: Four things.
- 1:17:44Speaker 5: Oh God, swipe less. We have the book, but I
- 1:17:49Speaker 5: can't let you leave because you stepped into a new space,
- 1:17:53Speaker 5: space that we have some familiarity in. Let's talk about here.
- 1:17:56Speaker 5: I stand. Yeah, let's talk about that. And of course
- 1:18:01Speaker 5: let's talk about that. How's that coming up? How'd that
- 1:18:04Speaker 5: come about? What's the goal of it? What submission?
- 1:18:06Speaker 2: Thank you? Thank you for that?
- 1:18:09Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:18:09Speaker 2: So Tamika Raymond and I I don't know if you
- 1:18:11Speaker 2: guys are familiar to you. Yah, brilliant, brilliant woman. Tamika
- 1:18:17Speaker 2: had been talking to me about doing a podcast literally
- 1:18:21Speaker 2: for three years, just before COVID, and she's like, you know,
- 1:18:24Speaker 2: we have a lot to say, and we have a
- 1:18:27Speaker 2: lot of experiences, and I just think that it would
- 1:18:30Speaker 2: be really great if we could get this on camera,
- 1:18:32Speaker 2: and she's like, and share, you know, share some some
- 1:18:34Speaker 2: nuggets with the world that I think are a little
- 1:18:37Speaker 2: more traditional but at the same time much needed. I
- 1:18:40Speaker 2: think with all of the noise and the way that
- 1:18:43Speaker 2: people are socializing these days, it's like, what is happening
- 1:18:46Speaker 2: to the world. There are women rapping about yeah, some really.
- 1:18:55Speaker 5: Awfuller stuff, and it's just word color.
- 1:18:59Speaker 2: The color right, and the color of things that we
- 1:19:01Speaker 2: should not be discussing and common vernacular. Like it's just
- 1:19:05Speaker 2: some things that don't need to be said sometimes, right.
- 1:19:08Speaker 2: And so in the spirit of freedom of speech and
- 1:19:11Speaker 2: people having, you know, the ability to express ourselves, we thought,
- 1:19:14Speaker 2: why don't we reset the conversation and start having some
- 1:19:17Speaker 2: really fun conversation around life and the things that happen
- 1:19:21Speaker 2: in life for everyday women that may not necessarily want
- 1:19:26Speaker 2: to be celebrities want to be all these other things
- 1:19:29Speaker 2: on social media, but that our experience in life and
- 1:19:32Speaker 2: as we continue to grow and mature, what that looks
- 1:19:35Speaker 2: like for us. And so here I stand, it's just
- 1:19:37Speaker 2: us having a really really serious opinion about some not
- 1:19:40Speaker 2: so serious stuff sometimes.
- 1:19:42Speaker 4: Congratulations, thank you, thank you for joining us. And quick correction,
- 1:19:46Speaker 4: it's actually Memphis Bleak that said that line, get in,
- 1:19:49Speaker 4: get out.
- 1:19:49Speaker 2: That's a OG classic. It was Memphis Pleeg.
- 1:19:52Speaker 4: Shout out to Memphis Bleach.
- 1:19:53Speaker 2: Shout out to miss Memphis.
- 1:19:54Speaker 5: Plee making easy money piping and style.
- 1:19:57Speaker 4: Yeah, Memphis. We ran into him at the OH. I
- 1:20:00Speaker 4: love that good guy he is. I think his wife
- 1:20:03Speaker 4: is actually a real estate agent, so he's tapped in. Well,
- 1:20:07Speaker 4: thank you for joining us. How can the people follow
- 1:20:10Speaker 4: you social media and everything?
- 1:20:11Speaker 2: Social media? Erica M. Pittman. Shaun Colmes told me no
- 1:20:16Speaker 2: one would ever follow me with that name. He's like,
- 1:20:19Speaker 2: that name is way too long. No one's ever going
- 1:20:21Speaker 2: to follow you, but people do so. Erica M. Pittman
- 1:20:24Speaker 2: is my ig, Facebook, Twitter thread and this is my book. Well,
- 1:20:28Speaker 2: mommy never told you. There you have it getting on Amazon,
- 1:20:32Speaker 2: Kendall Audio and print.
- 1:20:34Speaker 4: Well, mommy never told you. There you have it. Ladies
- 1:20:39Speaker 4: and gentlemen, Thank you guys for rocking with us. We'll
- 1:20:41Speaker 4: see you next week.
- 1:20:41Speaker 5: Peace Peace.
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