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We’re Talking Sex, Surgery, and Single Life with Brandi Glanville · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

• 0:18
  Speaker 1: Hey, I do Part two.
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  Speaker 2: It's your favorite mentors, Susan Knowles and Kathy Schwartz from
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  Speaker 2: The Golden Bachelor and the podcast Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour.
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  Speaker 3: Today, we're going to catch up with a woman who
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  Speaker 3: has really been her own warrior in her chapter two.
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  Speaker 3: She's divorced, a single mom to two boys, and she's
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  Speaker 3: been fighting to find answers with the medical nightmare she's
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  Speaker 3: been trapped in for years.
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  Speaker 2: From the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. It's our one
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  Speaker 2: and only Brandy Glanville.
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  Speaker 1: Brandy, Welcome, Welcome Brandy.
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  Speaker 4: Hi, I'm Kathy.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm Susan and we finally meet. How are you.
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  Speaker 5: I'm good.
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  Speaker 6: I've been up all night with my dog, so I
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  Speaker 6: have no makeup.
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  Speaker 3: I've been up all night too, and I don't have
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  Speaker 3: a dog, so you know, we just want to get
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  Speaker 3: right into a Brandy, you have been so transparent in
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  Speaker 3: the last few years about your health struggles.
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  Speaker 4: First off, of course, is how are you doing today? Seriously?
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  Speaker 5: I'm good, Like I have.
• 1:29
  Speaker 6: What's it called tonightis or something in my ear so
• 1:32
  Speaker 6: to it's ringing constantly, so I'm almost used.
• 1:38
  Speaker 5: To hear this for me, But it's hard to hear people.
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  Speaker 5: And my friend, one of my friends, can't hear out
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  Speaker 5: of his.
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  Speaker 6: Lat deer, and I always get frustrated with him because
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  Speaker 6: I would have to like repeat everything.
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  Speaker 5: And now I'm like, I was such a bitch. I
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  Speaker 5: am so sorry. I cannot like I literally a bitch.
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  Speaker 4: Brandy Karmen is the bench is He's like I told you.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, Crandy, I have to share with you.
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  Speaker 2: My daughter went through five years of hell and had
• 2:08
  Speaker 2: no idea what was wrong with her. And she actually
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  Speaker 2: wrote a book about tatas and it was her breast implants.
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  Speaker 2: Can you share with us your journey?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, honestly, it all started. I just started
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  Speaker 6: feeling sick about three years ago, and it was all
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  Speaker 6: like all my symptoms are really in my neck and
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  Speaker 6: my head and not in my.
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  Speaker 5: Head but my face.
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  Speaker 1: So she says, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: And now it's trouble to your ears.
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  Speaker 5: Right, like the whole body's going.
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  Speaker 6: But then my joints, like I felt like I was
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  Speaker 6: one hundred years old, Like I would go to sit
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  Speaker 6: down and it would take me like five minutes to
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  Speaker 6: stand up, and it was just like I ate, I
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  Speaker 6: can't even explain it. I just felt like I had
• 3:02
  Speaker 6: brain fog.
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  Speaker 5: I still can't. It's coming back to me, so excuse me.
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  Speaker 1: It's exactly what Brittany did.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and how did you decide that the issue?
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  Speaker 3: What made you decide to have the breastplant implants taken out?
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  Speaker 5: Well, I mean they were making me sick.
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  Speaker 1: Did you know that was the cause? Though? How did
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  Speaker 1: you figure that out? Or you didn't?
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  Speaker 4: No, I mean it could have been menopause, It could
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  Speaker 4: have been anything.
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  Speaker 6: No, I had no idea, but I was go. I
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  Speaker 6: went to twenty one doctors and not so I'm telling
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  Speaker 6: you two.
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  Speaker 5: Hundred thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 6: Like I had insurance with the people at my insurance like.
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  Speaker 5: Kaiser, let's just say sucks.
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  Speaker 6: So I was like paying out of pocket to see specialists,
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  Speaker 6: infectious disease doctors, you know when we're toologists, like every
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  Speaker 6: doctor you can think of I.
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  Speaker 3: Saw, and no one suggested it was the breast implants.
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  Speaker 5: No, because I had mammograms that were fine.
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  Speaker 3: And did they anyone say menopause or just a the
• 4:00
  Speaker 3: natural process of aging or anything.
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  Speaker 4: Nothing?
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  Speaker 5: No, No, because it wasn't.
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  Speaker 6: It came on like overnight and I had like I
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  Speaker 6: had weird lumps in my neck, like hard lumps. That's
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  Speaker 6: like really really hard lumps. I still have them because
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  Speaker 6: it's going to take some time for them to go away. Yes,
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  Speaker 6: I can't explain, like the brain fog, the fatigue.
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  Speaker 5: I would get up.
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  Speaker 6: And go into the pantry and not know why I
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  Speaker 6: was in the pantry.
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  Speaker 3: But see what I'm saying, Brandy, I hear you. Obviously
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  Speaker 3: you and Susan Starter have a lot in common.
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  Speaker 1: Everything she's saying.
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  Speaker 3: Kathy, I watched, but when I went through menopause, the
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  Speaker 3: brain fog, that getting up and going to the room,
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  Speaker 3: Why the hell am I hare?
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  Speaker 4: I don't remember?
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  Speaker 1: It's different.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, no, no, no, yeah, menopause is like hot flashes and
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  Speaker 6: nice threats and.
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  Speaker 1: All the fun was.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I did it. It was completely different from me.
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  Speaker 5: And by the way that was done in COVID, so
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  Speaker 5: I knew it wasn't that.
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  Speaker 2: And when you had them taken out, did you feel
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  Speaker 2: immediate something? Because my daughter felt immediately. I did a
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  Speaker 2: thousand times better, not one hundred percent, but no, no,
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  Speaker 2: a thousand times better.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: So I'm two weeks out right now. But the first
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  Speaker 6: week I was like up, I like I would sit down,
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  Speaker 6: I would jump up.
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  Speaker 5: I was going in the kitchen.
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  Speaker 6: I was actually doing too much because I was so
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  Speaker 6: excited to be moving right, and he's like, you have
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  Speaker 6: to stop. Like, I'm like, no, you know, Like for me,
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  Speaker 6: all of my symptoms were on my left side, really,
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  Speaker 6: but my right breast was ruptured and had like leaks,
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  Speaker 6: and I had silicon and both my like both under
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  Speaker 6: my arms and both my arms like silicon in my nose. However,
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  Speaker 6: like the mammograms were saying you're fine, so I like,
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  Speaker 6: literally not that long ago. Was like to my friend James,
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  Speaker 6: who's gay, because the only love I get right.
• 6:01
  Speaker 3: Now, Damn, I was gonna ask if you would fix
• 6:03
  Speaker 3: me up when I heard a man's name was fix
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  Speaker 3: me up with him?
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  Speaker 6: Never mind, you don't want him. He to tell you
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  Speaker 6: everything that's wrong with you.
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  Speaker 4: Oh and that's a long list, Brandy, you have no idea.
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  Speaker 6: Well, he would rattle it off, trust me, no, And
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  Speaker 6: I said, James, because he's obsessed with boobs. And I
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  Speaker 6: always tell him, I'm like, I don't think your mom
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  Speaker 6: breastfed you long enough.
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  Speaker 5: That's a problem. He's always wanted to take a picture.
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  Speaker 6: Where his hands are over my boobs. I'm like we
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  Speaker 6: actually did it one.
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  Speaker 5: Day, but I was just like why why? And so
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  Speaker 5: I asked him. I said, James, is my right boob
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  Speaker 5: look a little bit smaller than my left boob?
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  Speaker 6: And He's like, yes, I go and feel it, and
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  Speaker 6: I go, it's feeling a little bit harder. This is
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  Speaker 6: My boobs were fine, like nothing.
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  Speaker 1: So I.
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  Speaker 6: Got a new manager and I told her about my
• 7:00
  Speaker 6: problem and she told me that she had fifteen breasts
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  Speaker 6: and plant surgeries. She almost died from it. It took
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  Speaker 6: her like five years. She goes, you need to get
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  Speaker 6: a sonogram, like tomorrow. Yeah, And so I went to
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  Speaker 6: this new place that like, usually sonograms give you six
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  Speaker 6: thousand images, this one gives you thirty thousand images.
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  Speaker 3: You feel like I haven't asked, Wendy, do you feel
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  Speaker 3: like you sort of have earned your medical degree by now?
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  Speaker 3: You know?
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  Speaker 6: My friend told me, she's like, if you know, if
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  Speaker 6: you're on antibiotics to longly stopped working.
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  Speaker 5: I'm my girl, I'm a doctor. I'm very aware of that.
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  Speaker 6: At this point, I'm like, I kind of I've been
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  Speaker 6: down every medical rabbit hole there is.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, it's amazing. So so clearly you're beginning to feel better.
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  Speaker 3: And this podcast, as you probably know, is all about
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  Speaker 3: relationships and finding love. In chapter two, which we are
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  Speaker 3: all in our chapter two, I'm.
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  Speaker 1: On chapter three, Chapter three.
• 8:01
  Speaker 3: Well, okay, you're on Jepter three. I so we all
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  Speaker 3: have our our you know, Susan's divorced. You're divorced. We're
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  Speaker 3: going to get into that a little bit. I'm a widow,
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  Speaker 3: which is sorry, yeah, thank you, it's in fact, today
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  Speaker 3: is the seventh anniversary of his death, and he died
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  Speaker 3: by suicide seven years ago today.
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  Speaker 5: God, that's for I'm so sorry.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you, but this is about you today.
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  Speaker 5: It was about you today too.
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  Speaker 4: That's awesome day.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you. I appreciate it. But I got
• 8:28
  Speaker 3: some great news today, and that's how life is. So
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  Speaker 3: I'm doing great. I want to know, though, how I've
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  Speaker 3: had some health issues since I've been single and going
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  Speaker 3: through it by myself.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I have three grown children. You have two
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  Speaker 4: young sons.
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  Speaker 3: But I want to know how has it been going
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  Speaker 3: through this experience as a single woman with a gay
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  Speaker 3: friend who just wants to put his hands on your toe.
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  Speaker 2: And she mentioned her best friend was, you know, her
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  Speaker 2: gay friend. At least I thought she had so much. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you know, and when you go healthy, did your ex
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  Speaker 2: husband come to support you at all? Or was he?
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  Speaker 1: No? No, your sons.
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  Speaker 6: Noh yeah, my son's have been they're eighteen and twenty two,
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  Speaker 6: so they're grown.
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  Speaker 3: I mean they're they're oh trust me, trust me branding
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  Speaker 3: not grown.
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  Speaker 4: They are not grown.
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  Speaker 3: Boy, My brains are not frontal lobes are not fully
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  Speaker 3: developed by the twenty four So start marking your calendar.
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  Speaker 6: No, I mean, but they're eighteen and twenty two. Was
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  Speaker 6: like my twelve and fifteen, you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 6: Like the boy, these kids too right now, they're not
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  Speaker 6: like developed.
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  Speaker 5: I can't explain it.
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  Speaker 4: Are you saying?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: But then you know what, They'll get there and then
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  Speaker 3: they'll be your biggest supporters. But I want to know
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  Speaker 3: if your ex husband, Eddie, he has not shown any
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  Speaker 3: support to you throughout this, because what you've been through
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  Speaker 3: is traumatic.
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  Speaker 4: I'm going to take that as a no, he has not.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, but you know, we are getting along and
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  Speaker 6: that's all I can ask for. We like are together
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  Speaker 6: on holidays. I missed a few because I was so
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  Speaker 6: ill and it sucked to not be with my boys
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  Speaker 6: on you know, certain holidays I just I literally would
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  Speaker 6: lay in bed like her four days straight.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, what about like Leanne went through her her wellness
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  Speaker 2: treatment thing and lost her teeth in the middle of
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  Speaker 2: a concert.
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  Speaker 1: Do you guys swap.
• 10:18
  Speaker 4: Stories or you just missed Brandy's eyes?
• 10:21
  Speaker 1: I saw.
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  Speaker 4: I just want to know.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, so I was over for Christmas and
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  Speaker 6: we were talking about I told her like I had
• 10:33
  Speaker 6: like sixteeth pol during as well, during this whole thing,
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  Speaker 6: which is great. They're so like, I feel like a
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  Speaker 6: hillbilly because there's.
• 10:40
  Speaker 1: So missing every here and waiting for your implants.
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  Speaker 5: And I kidnot exactly.
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  Speaker 4: It's a bitch getting old, Brandy. It's a bitch getting old.
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  Speaker 5: I know, well, I've had teeth that she's my whole life.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah teeth, Yeah exactly.
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  Speaker 4: Wait are you telling me that?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so brand I mean, obviously you're not going to
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  Speaker 3: be kissing with Leanne, but given what she's been through
• 11:03
  Speaker 3: and what you've been through, please tell me she has
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  Speaker 3: supported you in some way.
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  Speaker 2: I mean they have me over for the holidays, did
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  Speaker 2: they talk she talked about the plasma treatment that she
• 11:16
  Speaker 2: had and what it did for her or anything like, well,
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  Speaker 2: she I.
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  Speaker 6: Don't think she had had it yet, or no, she had,
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  Speaker 6: actually she had. I talked to her at Christmas a
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  Speaker 6: little bit, but I hadn't told anyone.
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  Speaker 5: About my breasts as yet. But luckily I have two
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  Speaker 5: boys with big mouths.
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  Speaker 6: And she's like, so, it's your breasts and plants and
• 11:37
  Speaker 6: I'm like no.
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  Speaker 5: And I looked at Mason, He's like what she said?
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  Speaker 5: Like she got it out of me.
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  Speaker 6: I'm like, oh my god, I'm never telling you anything again.
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  Speaker 1: You only tell girlfriends this. Yes, oh you're getting friends.
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  Speaker 3: I mean I want to know, like I a ten
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  Speaker 3: thousand dollars plasma exchange to clear toxin's.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I find a bottle of vodka does the
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  Speaker 4: same thing.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, unless you're on antibiotics and you're just a
• 12:07
  Speaker 6: giant walking yeast infection, which is never fund.
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  Speaker 3: I have a couple of questions, though, have you you
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  Speaker 3: know I'm I'm single, SUSI sort of single?
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  Speaker 1: What's it like?
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  Speaker 3: Have you found a tribe? How have you learned to
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  Speaker 3: love yourself again? How you know what you're going through
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  Speaker 3: is traumatic? How are you moving through this stage of
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  Speaker 3: your life?
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  Speaker 5: Honestly? Like, I haven't had sex in three years.
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  Speaker 6: The whole time I've been sick because I've I've lost
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  Speaker 6: my confidence and I felt like I lost everything at
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  Speaker 6: once in a weird way, like I lost my job,
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  Speaker 6: I lost my reputation, I lost my looks.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you also suffered from some kind of facial yeah, site,
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  Speaker 2: I think you mentioned.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, but I'm not sure that that this maybe didn't
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  Speaker 6: have something to do with it. Yeah, I mean my
• 13:06
  Speaker 6: breast implants were eighteen years old.
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  Speaker 3: So are you wait, are the breast implants? Like, I'm
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  Speaker 3: just gonna be honest. I mean, Susan and I have
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  Speaker 3: both had a little work done, We've had a little fillers,
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  Speaker 3: a little. I mean, is it possible that something else
• 13:21
  Speaker 3: caused the parasites on your face or as Yeah, I.
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  Speaker 6: Mean I went to Africa. I mean I didn't have
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  Speaker 6: like a bunch of parasites. You only need one.
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  Speaker 3: But there's there's comfort. There's comfort in more brandy, there's comfort.
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  Speaker 6: Is there comfort in numbers? I don't not, not when
• 13:40
  Speaker 6: it comes to parasites. But I literally was like, something's
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  Speaker 6: in my faith having babies and as I'm massaga, I'm like, sorry, sorry,
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  Speaker 6: I'm killing your babies.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I mean Susan is an expert on because her
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  Speaker 3: daughter has been through Helen back and that's true. I
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  Speaker 3: will say to you, though, you know the me of
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  Speaker 3: what you just listed, you know, losing a marriage, losing
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  Speaker 3: your job, losing your reputation. I'll argue the fact losing
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  Speaker 3: your looks. But I understand what you're saying. And I'm
• 14:10
  Speaker 3: a big proponent of uh. I always say loss is loss.
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  Speaker 3: You know, it's not a it's not a it's not
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  Speaker 3: a game to see whose loss is worse.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, but it's a definition and definition I'm sure.
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  Speaker 3: And I know that I went through an incredibly hard
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  Speaker 3: time and I had grief therapy and I leaned on friends.
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  Speaker 3: Are you what are you doing? Because these can be
• 14:34
  Speaker 3: dark times.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I know they've been.
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  Speaker 6: They've been dark times because I've I've isolated myself because
• 14:42
  Speaker 6: you know, everyone would call, how are you horrible?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: I know, I got I got the letters. How are
• 14:49
  Speaker 4: you doing? How the hell do you think?
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  Speaker 6: Exactly like, and you don't want to you don't want
• 14:53
  Speaker 6: to keep saying it. Yeah, and then it's just like,
• 14:56
  Speaker 6: so I just stopped answering my phone. Yeah I was
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  Speaker 6: really I only saw my kids, really.
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: And now today you're feeling a little bit more like yourself.
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  Speaker 2: You're looking better, You're feeling healthier. How does that make
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: you feel like you're starting to love yourself again and
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: feel confident?
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  Speaker 5: You know, I'm still working on my confidence, you know.
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  Speaker 5: I think it just has to.
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  Speaker 6: Do with like my hair fell out, and yeah, you know.
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  Speaker 5: What I mean, Like it's just a lot of it
• 15:27
  Speaker 5: seems silly, but I mean, as women, we like when
• 15:30
  Speaker 5: you when you look good, you.
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  Speaker 1: Feel good, you feel good.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, But Brandy, let me say something first of all,
• 15:35
  Speaker 3: letting others judge for me every day was a struggle.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just gonna be honest. Getting through what I went
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  Speaker 3: through and so what did I got? Even though I
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: wanted to crawl in bed and put the and I did,
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  Speaker 3: but I realized that I have a lot of life
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  Speaker 3: left to live, and so do you. In my darkest days,
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: and believe me, I had them, I couldn't shower, I
• 15:55
  Speaker 3: couldn't answer the phone, I couldn't read one more uh
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  Speaker 3: no of condolence?
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  Speaker 4: Sorry, yeah I can't one more, I'm sorry? And one more?
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  Speaker 4: Can I do something for you?
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: Like I couldn't even think how to put my foot
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: so I just one day I just thought I have
• 16:11
  Speaker 3: to get up and move.
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  Speaker 4: And I got up and started walking. I journaled a
• 16:16
  Speaker 4: couple of times.
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: I started It sounds so silly now, but like, could
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: I get up and boil an egg mix scrambled eggs?
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  Speaker 4: Like do something?
• 16:25
  Speaker 3: Because I was I was frozen, and I you know,
• 16:28
  Speaker 3: I want to know if you're doing any of those things.
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: Two weeks out of surgery.
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  Speaker 4: Correct, But you can move, you can get out.
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  Speaker 6: My god, I was like sweeping during the windows. I
• 16:38
  Speaker 6: came out of surgery and I threw my hand. I
• 16:40
  Speaker 6: was a little bit loopy, and that day, like when
• 16:44
  Speaker 6: they wheeled me out, I threw My'm like, yes, I threw.
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  Speaker 5: My hands in the air.
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  Speaker 4: They're like no.
• 16:50
  Speaker 5: I'm like, They're like, yeah, let's not do that yet.
• 16:54
  Speaker 5: You're you're feeling good right now, so what are you doing?
• 16:58
  Speaker 4: What are you doing to make yourself feel better right now?
• 17:02
  Speaker 5: Well, you're being a little pushy. I'm kidding.
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: Me, Kathy Brandy.
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: Listen, I'm the girl in the Golden Bachelor who told
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: the woman who got married to zip it.
• 17:14
  Speaker 4: So you know that's why I am.
• 17:15
  Speaker 5: Well, yeah, well is she divorced now?
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 17:17
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 17:19
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm still like I had my son and his
• 17:25
  Speaker 6: girlfriend over for dinner and I made fun of him.
• 17:32
  Speaker 6: That makes me really happy, Like making fun of my children.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: The same one that has your personality can get a
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: little funny too.
• 17:39
  Speaker 6: I mean, oh gosh, they they both have my wit
• 17:44
  Speaker 6: and like, I'm like, I used to be real quick,
• 17:48
  Speaker 6: but it's coming back.
• 17:49
  Speaker 5: And he saw that. He's like, uh oh, he's like mom's.
• 17:54
  Speaker 6: Like and his girlfriend I love her to death, and
• 17:58
  Speaker 6: like I could say anything in front of her, and
• 18:00
  Speaker 6: he was saying something so stupid that I had to.
• 18:05
  Speaker 5: Call him out. I'm like, you like, and now now
• 18:08
  Speaker 5: it's a joke.
• 18:09
  Speaker 6: I mean I would say what it is, but he's
• 18:11
  Speaker 6: gonna look like an ass.
• 18:12
  Speaker 5: So I'm not.
• 18:13
  Speaker 4: No, no, we don't want to.
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: And wat don't your son be in love having a girlfriend.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: How does do you feel like someday you're gonna fall
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: in love again?
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: And are you open?
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: And can I have your cast offs?
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: Well?
• 18:26
  Speaker 5: You know what, I don't know if I even have.
• 18:29
  Speaker 6: Since my ex husband, I've had like relationships where I
• 18:34
  Speaker 6: love the person, but I don't know if love is
• 18:37
  Speaker 6: the same the second time.
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: I don't think it is.
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: I couldn't tell you. I didn't I've not I had butterflies.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's a good thing, that's a good feeling.
• 18:46
  Speaker 4: Butterflies turn into moss. What happened?
• 18:49
  Speaker 5: No, I haven't had butterflies.
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: Oh you haven't.
• 18:52
  Speaker 5: You're just soil a cone everywhere.
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I will say it looks different for me. It's
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: looked very I don't want to replace my husband.
• 18:59
  Speaker 4: I mean I wouldn't know.
• 19:00
  Speaker 5: Yeah, God, you might want you, I definitely I don't.
• 19:03
  Speaker 4: I don't do.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: Your sons ever say to you, mom, we want you
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: to find somebody, We want you to get married again.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't want to get married.
• 19:11
  Speaker 5: But they want me to find a boyfriend. They're like,
• 19:13
  Speaker 5: I think they're sick of like coming over and hanging out.
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: So wait do they?
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: So they don't say, I mean the guys boys. I
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: have one daughter and two sons, and my daughter trusts me.
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: If you think your boys are tough, have a daughter.
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, it'll put you'll be Yeah. Really we
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: can test to that. But I want to know, how
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: do you look at marriage? How long were you married
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: to Eddie?
• 19:35
  Speaker 6: I was married for eight years, but with him for thirteen,
• 19:38
  Speaker 6: like straight, there was no breaks.
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: There was so yeah, so how would you look at
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: I mean I was married. You don't even want to
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: know how long. How do you look at marriage now?
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: Like if you were considering it, how do you consider
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: it now?
• 19:49
  Speaker 6: Our sisters, I wouldn't I wouldn't get married again only
• 19:53
  Speaker 6: because getting unmarried was so difficult. Yes, like it was
• 19:58
  Speaker 6: the hardest, because I actually think this past three years
• 20:01
  Speaker 6: is harder than my divorce, which she's saying a lot.
• 20:05
  Speaker 6: But I would love to cohabitate. I would love to
• 20:08
  Speaker 6: have a partner. I just don't want someone to be
• 20:11
  Speaker 6: there because they have to be there.
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because what would you look like? Give me what
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: would he look like?
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Because you look for something different than what you did
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: twenty years ago? Like what kind of traits would they
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: have to have or not have that you?
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: They have to be confident and like, like I can
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: date a shorter guy. I'm a very tall girl.
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: How tall are you ten?
• 20:32
  Speaker 6: But when I put on heels, you know you're six
• 20:34
  Speaker 6: two or six one? And I've dated like some shorter men.
• 20:39
  Speaker 6: And as long as they're confident that I can wear
• 20:41
  Speaker 6: my beautiful eye heels and I spent a lot of
• 20:43
  Speaker 6: money on, then I'm cool with it.
• 20:46
  Speaker 5: But if they're like, can you put on flats?
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: We are breaking up? Yeah, because they're not comfortable in
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: their own skin. Why on earth would I have to
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: lower myself literally?
• 20:56
  Speaker 5: And I love like ridges shoes, Like, what are you
• 20:59
  Speaker 5: talking about?
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say, Brandy, I don't think in that
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: book shoes is one of the five.
• 21:07
  Speaker 5: Well it should be.
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: I mean we could, we could subtitle it under gifts
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: if you want, But I mean shoes.
• 21:14
  Speaker 6: I mean I buy like I buy myself shoes, shoes
• 21:17
  Speaker 6: and purses. I spend money on everything else.
• 21:19
  Speaker 5: I'm that target, Like.
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: What size should do you wear?
• 21:22
  Speaker 5: Well, it's so sad.
• 21:24
  Speaker 6: I went from a seven and a half when I
• 21:26
  Speaker 6: was before kids, and now I'm a nine.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: Damn I had to get.
• 21:31
  Speaker 5: Rid of all of my favorite like like I buy
• 21:35
  Speaker 5: expensive shoes, Like I don't spend money on a lot,
• 21:38
  Speaker 5: but like my shoes.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: That's your thing. That's your thing.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: You know, after all this time and being a prisoner
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: literally in your own body, not knowing what was happening
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: to you, and now that you have an answer and
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: you're moving forward, what will it take for you to
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: start loving your body again instead of being afraid of it?
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: Good sex yeah.
• 22:13
  Speaker 5: I mean if I remember how.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: Brandy, three years you need a toy that's your first Oh,
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: I have.
• 22:20
  Speaker 5: Like I have buckets full of choys.
• 22:22
  Speaker 6: I didn't have the energy and no desire right the
• 22:25
  Speaker 6: desire to even use them.
• 22:28
  Speaker 5: I mean I would go and get my hormones, like
• 22:30
  Speaker 5: you know, the P and it didn't do and it
• 22:34
  Speaker 5: gave me a little.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: Energy, but it was nothing.
• 22:38
  Speaker 5: I have the hottest doctor, but he's very married, and
• 22:42
  Speaker 5: I would just be like like that was like my
• 22:45
  Speaker 5: big outing for the month, you know, like I'm going.
• 22:48
  Speaker 4: To go into the to the doctor to get her
• 22:50
  Speaker 4: ash shop. Wait, I want to know where she's looking.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: If when you decide to start dating, tell me what
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: your procedure, what's your process going to because I'm taking
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: notes here, Okay, So.
• 23:00
  Speaker 6: I mean, honestly, i'd like on like dating websites, you
• 23:05
  Speaker 6: are on your favorite I mean, but I was before
• 23:11
  Speaker 6: it became it's like more like tender now.
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: Honestly, wait, I would think you would be nervous, Brandy,
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: because people know who you are. I would think you
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: would use a match maker. I thought that's what you
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: were going to say.
• 23:23
  Speaker 6: Actually, no, I mean, honestly, street men have no idea
• 23:26
  Speaker 6: Who I am?
• 23:27
  Speaker 5: I mean it's Gazings.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: No, that's okay.
• 23:33
  Speaker 6: That's actually wonderful for me because I have not judgment
• 23:39
  Speaker 6: that I've met on like a TV show and they
• 23:45
  Speaker 6: love the camera, and you have to you have to wonder.
• 23:47
  Speaker 6: I already have trust issues, so you have to wonder
• 23:50
  Speaker 6: are they here for me or are they here because.
• 23:52
  Speaker 5: They want to be on TV?
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: And so I mean the.
• 23:56
  Speaker 6: Past three years, I haven't moved out of my bed,
• 23:58
  Speaker 6: so that would be the problem. But I just I
• 24:02
  Speaker 6: you know, I think that I went out for Valentine's
• 24:05
  Speaker 6: Day with my girlfriend, not like girlfriend girlfriend, but like
• 24:08
  Speaker 6: just one of my friends, and that was big and
• 24:11
  Speaker 6: we were like flirting with the bartender, and like it
• 24:14
  Speaker 6: started to feel like I wanted to get dressed up
• 24:18
  Speaker 6: like I have not. I've been in my pajamas for
• 24:20
  Speaker 6: three years. You know, I'm like, I wanted to get
• 24:23
  Speaker 6: dressed up again. I want to wear my sexy clothes.
• 24:26
  Speaker 6: I want to put on lingerie. I want to I
• 24:30
  Speaker 6: just need it's been two weeks.
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you need to be patient with yourself. You need
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: to get patient, Brandy. It's it all comes in time.
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: I just hearing you talk.
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: I hope. I mean I could be your mother almost.
• 24:45
  Speaker 5: No, you couldn't.
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: Well, I'm saying, I just hope that you don't let
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: others define your beauty, your self worth, your value, because
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: that's a no win game.
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: What about TV? Would you want to go back on TV?
• 25:02
  Speaker 5: I don't know.
• 25:02
  Speaker 6: I mean, honestly, I have I'm definitely finishing my book up.
• 25:08
  Speaker 6: Like it's hard for me because I I I'm sure
• 25:11
  Speaker 6: it's hard for everyone, but I grew up modeling and
• 25:15
  Speaker 6: then I fell into television.
• 25:17
  Speaker 5: Not on purpose. It found me.
• 25:19
  Speaker 6: I didn't find it. So I've kind of always been
• 25:21
  Speaker 6: defined by my looks. So I am extremely hard on myself.
• 25:27
  Speaker 6: It's not anyone else, like my kids are.
• 25:29
  Speaker 5: Like you look back to normal, and I'm like, I.
• 25:33
  Speaker 6: Go, look at this, and like, you know those things
• 25:35
  Speaker 6: that come up on your phone from.
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: The past, Yes, the pictures, yes, yes, oh gone, look
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: how good I looked at the time.
• 25:42
  Speaker 5: At the time, I didn't think I look great.
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: We're old, not alone.
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: We're old enough now. I mean truly, we're old enough now.
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: We all do that. We look you know, ten years ago,
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: You're like, damn I was hot. Why didn't I know
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: it at the time exactly.
• 25:58
  Speaker 5: I know it's twenty twenty, but.
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: You know what you should learn from that?
• 26:02
  Speaker 5: I have I'm learning now.
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: And La is La, do you ever consider a different
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: kind of life moving out of Los Angeles and doing
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: something different?
• 26:14
  Speaker 5: Yeah? Only if my boys move. I have to be
• 26:16
  Speaker 5: near them.
• 26:17
  Speaker 6: I'm like, I mean, I'm They're the loves of my
• 26:20
  Speaker 6: life on baby, so I I will go where they
• 26:25
  Speaker 6: go if they just if I'm like, you're going to college?
• 26:28
  Speaker 5: Is nearer one another?
• 26:30
  Speaker 6: And so luckily my eldest is that Chapman, so it's
• 26:34
  Speaker 6: not far away.
• 26:36
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: Is he the one that was modeling, Yes, he's still.
• 26:39
  Speaker 5: Modeling as well. And then my my youngest is taking
• 26:44
  Speaker 5: a little time after high school.
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: He just got called a gap year. It's called a
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: gap year.
• 26:49
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, let's hope it's I mean, let's hope
• 26:52
  Speaker 5: it's one year. But he's in acting classes. Has he
• 26:55
  Speaker 5: just got a job.
• 26:56
  Speaker 6: Because I was like, I if you look at my
• 26:59
  Speaker 6: Venmo history, it's my friend.
• 27:00
  Speaker 5: If I tard Vado with like, she's like.
• 27:04
  Speaker 6: You know your Vembo's public, I'm like, yeah, I do,
• 27:07
  Speaker 6: because I want to embarrass my children. I'm like, here's
• 27:10
  Speaker 6: one hundred dollars and it says what is this for?
• 27:12
  Speaker 5: And I'm like nothing, Lindziness and.
• 27:16
  Speaker 6: So she's like girl, She's like you need you need
• 27:19
  Speaker 6: to stop with that. I'm like, nope, because it's for nothing.
• 27:22
  Speaker 6: Like they need to get jobs, like I had a
• 27:25
  Speaker 6: job when I was twelve, Like I worked my whole life.
• 27:27
  Speaker 4: Would you be okay with your boys being on TV?
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: Would you like that or care?
• 27:33
  Speaker 5: So Mason is going to be on TV.
• 27:36
  Speaker 6: He did a reality show, but he decided it's not
• 27:39
  Speaker 6: for him. He literally shot the first episode with me,
• 27:46
  Speaker 6: and because they asked to shoot with me, and so
• 27:49
  Speaker 6: it's like the Housewives kids like Larsia Pippin's son is
• 27:54
  Speaker 6: friends with my son, and so they got all of
• 27:57
  Speaker 6: these I call rich kids of Calabasas.
• 28:00
  Speaker 5: I'm not rich there. He might be, but I'm not.
• 28:04
  Speaker 5: So he shot an episode and with me and he
• 28:08
  Speaker 5: made me cry.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: First.
• 28:10
  Speaker 6: He told me all the things I couldn't talk about.
• 28:12
  Speaker 6: I go, do you think that's gonna work with with people?
• 28:15
  Speaker 5: With your friends?
• 28:15
  Speaker 6: I go, doesn't don't say anything, because the second you
• 28:19
  Speaker 6: tell them not to say it.
• 28:20
  Speaker 5: I'm pretty gonna don't say that yes.
• 28:23
  Speaker 6: And so he made me cry. And our friend I
• 28:26
  Speaker 6: was like, what are you talking about? Like like he was,
• 28:30
  Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm not allowed to talk about your stuff,
• 28:32
  Speaker 6: but you could talk about my stuff.
• 28:34
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: That's about right, that's about what kids you like.
• 28:37
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 28:37
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but he decided he did.
• 28:40
  Speaker 6: He did like, it's not air Jet, it's gonna be
• 28:43
  Speaker 6: on Netflix, and I don't know the actual title, but
• 28:46
  Speaker 6: he was like, I'm I'm it's not for me. It
• 28:49
  Speaker 6: makes it makes him anxious, and he's already a little.
• 28:52
  Speaker 5: Bit anxious like his mama. So he was.
• 28:56
  Speaker 6: He was shaking his knee the whole time. I'm like, dude,
• 28:59
  Speaker 6: you're with me.
• 29:00
  Speaker 5: I'm not gonna right, come on. I said a few
• 29:04
  Speaker 5: things that embarrass him, but that's what I like to do.
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: So would you date How do you feel about dating
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: a guy who has children, maybe your kid's age or
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: even younger.
• 29:16
  Speaker 4: Do you feel like you'd want to start reparenting younger
• 29:18
  Speaker 4: kids again?
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: Well? No, hell no, hell no, I did it.
• 29:23
  Speaker 5: I got them out of the house.
• 29:24
  Speaker 6: They're great boys, they have jobs, they haven't been to jail,
• 29:27
  Speaker 6: they haven't been to rehab.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: We're good.
• 29:30
  Speaker 5: I'm not doing that again. No, way.
• 29:32
  Speaker 6: I mean older kids. Yes, they're great. You know, I
• 29:36
  Speaker 6: love I love family. Yes, like my family was all together?
• 29:40
  Speaker 6: Actually was it yesterday? Yesterday? Over the weekend, and like,
• 29:44
  Speaker 6: I'm still a little foggy.
• 29:46
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 29:46
  Speaker 6: Mom sent me a picture. She's like, this is what
• 29:50
  Speaker 6: retirement looks like. And it was of this guy, this
• 29:53
  Speaker 6: really handsome guy. And I like, I was like, Mom,
• 29:56
  Speaker 6: are you trying to set me up?
• 29:57
  Speaker 5: I'm really not ready.
• 30:00
  Speaker 6: Two weeks from two weeks, Like, come on, I haven't
• 30:03
  Speaker 6: even looked at them yet.
• 30:04
  Speaker 5: Come on. She's like, Brandy, that's your little brother.
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.
• 30:10
  Speaker 6: Oh he threw his hair out and he grew a
• 30:13
  Speaker 6: beard and a mustache.
• 30:15
  Speaker 5: And I haven't. I mean, last time I saw him,
• 30:17
  Speaker 5: he was like bald.
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: I'm like, wait, are you close with your family?
• 30:22
  Speaker 5: Yes?
• 30:24
  Speaker 6: Very close, I mocked ash still together. I have an
• 30:26
  Speaker 6: older sister, she's sixteen months older, and my brother is
• 30:30
  Speaker 6: two years younger. But they all live in northern California,
• 30:34
  Speaker 6: so you know, I don't go to the family barbecues.
• 30:37
  Speaker 5: I'm like, why are you even up?
• 30:39
  Speaker 6: It's ten My mom goes throughout at like nine and
• 30:41
  Speaker 6: like it's ten thirty.
• 30:42
  Speaker 5: She's like the Olympics. Brandy, I'm like, oh my gosh.
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: Brandy, you keep in touch with any of the other housewives.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: Did any of them come to support you during this time?
• 30:52
  Speaker 5: Absolutely?
• 30:54
  Speaker 6: The girls from Girls Trip were I've been my biggest supporters,
• 30:57
  Speaker 6: Vickiy and Fedra and Eba, like those three, and Gretchen
• 31:00
  Speaker 6: as well, but like really Vicky, Fedra. Even Yolanda has
• 31:05
  Speaker 6: been very helpful because she was like, get your She
• 31:08
  Speaker 6: was like one of the first people to.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: Take take them out, take them out.
• 31:11
  Speaker 5: I said, no, you know what she did.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: And how do you feel moving forward about plastic surgery?
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: Would you get it?
• 31:21
  Speaker 5: I'm I'm not I'm not anti surgery, let's be clearer.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: I mean I should have.
• 31:28
  Speaker 5: Had them like they should have not passed mammograms. Let's speak.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: That's another thing. No, I know my daughters did as well.
• 31:36
  Speaker 6: Yeah, because also mammograms can cause a rupture. But you know,
• 31:41
  Speaker 6: I should have been more responsible. They were older, but
• 31:46
  Speaker 6: they looked.
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: I'm going to give you some more advice that you
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: don't want. Stop getting yourself up. I'm hearing this self flagellation.
• 31:53
  Speaker 4: Stop. You know you've got a lot of life left
• 31:56
  Speaker 4: to live.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: You're young, you trade to ages.
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you're you're young, You've got two fabulous kids, you
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: have a lifetime of dating ahead of you. You're going
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: to hand off your the guys you don't want to
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: Susan and me. I mean, this is this is a
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: match speaking of matchmakers, this is one made in heaven.
• 32:14
  Speaker 4: But I want to know what your advice.
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: Would be because you have truly I am sympathetic to
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: everything you've been through. You know, and again, your life
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: has played out publicly and that's a whole that's a
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: whole other dimension to what you've been through. But anyone
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: who's listening, what would you want them to take away?
• 32:35
  Speaker 3: And I'm I'm interested in myself from your own lived experiences,
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: what would you want them to know?
• 32:44
  Speaker 5: I mean, like, I feel it's soon.
• 32:46
  Speaker 6: I mean, I'm as soon as I'm like feeling like
• 32:50
  Speaker 6: confident with myself.
• 32:52
  Speaker 5: I just like this ring my ear needs to stop.
• 32:55
  Speaker 6: I don't want to be like, huh, well out. Every
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  Speaker 6: time I put my is on to read a menu,
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  Speaker 6: I feel old. Like I'm like, this is let me
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  Speaker 6: tell you, we all do that.
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  Speaker 1: Don't worry about that.
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  Speaker 6: You were my light and I'm like, because my vision
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  Speaker 6: is super was perfect, and now it went it was
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  Speaker 6: like super blurry. It's getting better, but you like you
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  Speaker 6: don't even I'm like, I'm growing blind, you know, like
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  Speaker 6: it was it was no I mean just through these
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  Speaker 6: three years, like like I really couldn't like see that
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  Speaker 6: well and it was hard. I had no energy at all.
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  Speaker 6: I would like go up and the stairs and be like, oh,
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  Speaker 6: that's my workout.
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  Speaker 2: Can you say it's in behind you now? Stop dwelling
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  Speaker 2: on everything that happened to you and start moving forward.
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  Speaker 2: Think about what's the first exercise routine or what you're
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  Speaker 2: going to take and start repairing your mind.
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  Speaker 6: I'm not ready to say it's behind me now because
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  Speaker 6: I'm still in the thick of it.
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  Speaker 5: Honestly, I have a doctor still. Yeah, yeah, I have
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  Speaker 5: doctors trying me today.
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  Speaker 1: Three I'll give you grace.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you. I appreciate that because I'm not gonna lie
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  Speaker 5: to you yet. I would like to get a tooth in.
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  Speaker 1: Before before your first.
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  Speaker 5: Date, right, But of course I have to have a
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  Speaker 5: sinus lift. I'm like, can I get a facelift and not.
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  Speaker 4: A what the hell is a sinus lift?
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  Speaker 6: So my sinuses are very to my gums, and so
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  Speaker 6: when they pulled the tooth, which is it dropped my
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  Speaker 6: sinus stupure. I have to get a sinus lip first
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  Speaker 6: and then an implant.
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  Speaker 3: Because you see the three of us out together, we
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  Speaker 3: got I could be your wing woman. I'm good at it.
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  Speaker 5: I'm really good at it too. And like my girlfriend
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  Speaker 5: Ha Nana, like on Valentine's Day, she was, she was,
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  Speaker 5: I'm like, are you going to go out with the bartender?
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  Speaker 5: I think I might.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, oh good, Brandy, we have had We've had
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  Speaker 3: the chance to dig into so much with you, but
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: there was so much tomorrow we want to talk about.
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  Speaker 3: So we're going to come back and join us all
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  Speaker 3: again for Part two with Brandy Glanville h